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Super SexQuickie: So You Fantasise About An Open Relationship. Now What?Send us a textEver thought about what it might be like to open up your relationship? You're not alone. This eye-opening episode dives into the surprisingly common world of consensual non-monogamy fantasies that exist within committed monogamous relationships.The research reveals something fascinating: while countless people fantasize about open relationships, swinging, or threesomes, only about 10% ever act on these desires. What holds the other 90% back? Mostly fear—fear of judgment, fear of rocking the boat, fear of the unknown. Yet the couples who do share these fantasies often report stronger, more trusting relationships as a...2025-07-0109 min
Super SexEpisode 50: Inside Mormon Sex with Nikki KellySend us a textNikki Kelly stands at a fascinating crossroads – a devout Latter-day Saint who works as a sex educator and sex toy expert. Her very existence challenges assumptions about religious people and sexuality, making for a conversation that will have you rethinking everything you thought you knew about faith, desire, and how they intersect.Stepping into the world of Mormon sexuality reveals surprising complexities. From the ubiquitous Utah soda shops (a creative workaround for the coffee ban) to the hushed struggles of religious newlyweds attempting to navigate intimacy without education, Nikki shares insights wi...2025-06-291h 06
Super SexSexplained: Why You Stopped Wanting Sex—And How to Get It BackSend us a textRemember when you couldn't keep your hands off each other? That magical time when desire flowed effortlessly between you both? If those days feel distant and you're wondering if that spark is gone forever, this episode delivers hope and practical strategies backed by cutting-edge relationship science.Passion naturally ebbs when life gets busy. Between work deadlines, household responsibilities, and the mental load of adulting, desire often takes a backseat. But relationship psychologists like Dr. Emily Nagoski and Esther Perel have discovered that rekindling intimacy doesn't require grand gestures or awkward scheduled...2025-06-2605 min
Super SexQuickie: Is Kink the New Therapy? What BDSM Can Teach Us About HealingSend us a textForget everything you thought you knew about kink and BDSM. This episode shatters misconceptions, unveiling how practices often misunderstood as deviant actually create spaces for transformation, healing, and profound personal growth.Drawing from groundbreaking research by Richard Sprott and insights from contributors to "Reimagining Kink: Transformation, Growth and Healing through BDSM," we explore why BDSM is far from fringe—with nearly half of participants in Belgian studies having tried it at least once, and over 520,000 Australians regularly engaging in kink practices. These aren't just titillating statistics; they reveal a widespread human de...2025-06-2410 min
Super SexEpisode 49: She Grabbed WHAT?! Axel Addams on Untold Truth About Male StrippingSend us a textEver wondered what really happens when the spotlights hit the stage and the music starts pounding? This eye-opening conversation with male entertainer and OnlyFans creator Axl Adams peels back the curtain on the glamorized yet often misunderstood world of professional stripping—and it's nothing like the movies would have you believe.From heart-pounding first-time performances to learning the art of maintaining boundaries with handsy clients, Axl shares his journey from curious outsider to confident performer. We explore the surprising reality that female audiences can sometimes cross far more lines than men, th...2025-06-221h 03
Super SexSexplained: Rebuilding After Cheating: The Brutal Truth No One Tells YouSend us a textBetrayal cuts deep. Whether you're the one who strayed or the one left reeling from a partner's infidelity, that moment fractures everything you thought you knew about your relationship. But here's the truth many don't want to acknowledge: recovery isn't just possible—it happens more often than you might think.This episode dives straight into the messy, painful process of rebuilding trust after infidelity. We explore why it's typically not the cheating itself that destroys relationships, but the dishonesty that follows. Research consistently shows that post-betrayal healing hinges on radical transparency fr...2025-06-1907 min
Super SexQuickie: The Art of Vaginal StretchingSend us a textForget everything you think you know about vaginal stretching. This practice isn't about shock value or pornographic stunts – it's a profound journey into bodily autonomy, psychological surrender, and reclaiming sexual power on your own terms.We dive deep into the misunderstood world of stretching, revealing how this practice connects to something primal yet deeply personal. For many practitioners, stretching represents an embodied rebellion against shame, allowing them to literally and figuratively expand beyond societal constraints. There's a special kind of empowerment in saying "I can open and stay open because I wa...2025-06-1716 min
Super SexEpisode 48: Polyamory Explained: Can You Really Love More Than One Person?Send us a textHave you ever questioned why we limit romantic love to just one person when we don't apply the same restrictions to friendships, family relationships, or parental love? This thought-provoking episode with sexologist Kate Campbell challenges everything you thought you knew about relationship structures.We dive deep into what polyamory actually means—and what it doesn't. Forget the stereotypes of commitment-phobic people or hypersexual escapades. Polyamory (poly = many, amory = love) is about creating multiple committed, loving relationships with consent and communication at the core. Kate shares her journey from skepticism to embracing po...2025-06-151h 00
Super SexSexplained: Why So Many People Secretly Crave Submission in BedSend us a textFeeling curious about surrendering control in the bedroom? You're far from alone. That quiet desire to be sexually submissive isn't just common—it's backed by science as one of our most natural human urges.The research speaks volumes: over 60% of women and 50% of men fantasize about being dominated, making submission more popular than roleplay, group encounters, or even exhibitionism. But why does giving up control feel so appealing? When we submit consensually, something remarkable happens in our brains—cortisol levels drop, endorphins surge, and many experience a flow state similar to what...2025-06-1208 min
Super SexQuickie: Adventures in FistingSend us a textDive into the profound world of fisting – a practice that goes far beyond what many consider "extreme" or "fringe." This episode challenges us to rethink our assumptions about intimacy, pleasure, and connection through the lens of a practice that demands extraordinary trust and communication.Drawing from Chris Barcelos' groundbreaking 2023 academic paper, we explore how fisting represents not just a sexual act but an entire epistemology – a way of knowing and being with others that defies conventional sexual scripts. When we look deeper, fisting emerges as a radical form of pedagogy, where know...2025-06-1008 min
Super SexEpisode 47: Sex Store Secrets with Nikki KellySend us a textImagine walking into a sex store and finding not just toys, but a whole education on pleasure waiting for you. That's the world Nikki Kelly invites us into in this eye-opening conversation about what really happens behind the counter at adult stores.Nikki isn't your typical sex educator—she's a spreadsheet-wielding analyst who approaches pleasure with both passion and precision. Her detailed breakdowns of product categories, from bullet vibrators to air pulse technology, transform how we understand these tools. We learn why some toys work better than others, how marketing language of...2025-06-081h 10
Super SexSexplained: Why New Parents Stop Having Sex (and How to Fix It)Send us a textThe journey of reconnecting intimately after welcoming a child is a struggle so many couples face in silence. When desire fades and bodies feel unfamiliar, both partners can find themselves adrift in frustration and confusion, unsure how to rebuild what once came naturally.Through one listener's painfully honest question, we explore the science behind postpartum desire and why intimacy often takes a backseat after baby. The reality? Your diminished sex life isn't personal rejection—it's biology at work. With 83% of new mothers reporting little to no desire months after birth, these ch...2025-06-0511 min
Super SexQuickie: Exploring Extreme Size Play: Safety, Pleasure, and Breaking TaboosSend us a textCurious about going big? This candid exploration of extreme size play delivers everything you need to know about venturing beyond typical bedroom toys. Whether you're intrigued by supersized dildos, fisting, or just something a bit more substantial than average, we break down the facts without judgment or unnecessary alarm.Let's address what everyone worries about first: yes, there are legitimate risks to consider. The delicate tissues of both vagina and anus can experience microtears, muscle strain, or even infection when play becomes too intense or hygiene practices lapse. We candidly discuss...2025-06-0313 min
Super SexMajor Podcast AnnouncementSend us a textHey lovers—big news from the Supersex universe. Our beloved co-host Sherman is stepping away from the mic indefinitely (we love you, Sherm 💔). But don’t panic—we’re not slowing down. We’re doubling the fun.In this special update, Jordan introduces two new voices joining the Supersex crew: psychologist and sexologist Kate Campbell, and female health nurse and sexologist Tarsh Wilson. Kate brings sharp insight and heart-opening perspectives. Tarsh brings fearless realness (and vulva shoes). Together, they’ll help take Supersex to new, wild, wonderful places.Same sexy spirit. Ne...2025-06-0201 min
Super SexEpisode 46: Your Guide to Sex Parties with Dream KittySend us a textStep behind the velvet curtain of Perth's exclusive sensuous world with Dream Kitty, the female powerhouse revolutionising the city's swingers party scene. In what might be the most eye-opening conversation we've had on Super Sex, Dream Kitty shatters stereotypes about lifestyle parties while revealing how her coaching background creates uniquely safe spaces for sexual exploration."Most people going to these parties for the first time have never been seen naked by more than one person," she explains, detailing how she personally guides nervous newcomers through their fears. Unlike the seedy male-dominated...2025-06-011h 15
Super SexSexplained: How to Explore Hotwifing Without Wrecking Your RelationshipSend us a textEver had a fantasy that feels both thrilling and terrifying to share? The desire to watch your partner with someone else is far more common than you might think. This deeply honest exploration of cuckolding, hot-wifing, and consensual non-monogamy breaks down the psychology behind why so many of us (58% of men and 33% of women, according to research) harbor these desires.We unpack the science behind the arousal—from the joy of witnessing your partner's pleasure (erotic compersion) to the dopamine rush of breaking cultural taboos. But beyond understanding why these fantasies em...2025-05-2914 min
Super SexQuickie: Sex Ed Isn't Making Kids Queer, Here's What It's Actually DoingSend us a textReady for a refreshingly honest take on sex education myths? Strap in as we take a sledgehammer to the biggest, most bizarre misconceptions swirling around teaching gender and sexuality in schools.The myth that teaching LGBTQ+ topics somehow "turns kids gay" falls apart under scrutiny. Research consistently shows that queer identities remain stable across cultures and time periods regardless of visibility or acceptance. What inclusive education actually does? It creates safer environments where bullying decreases, empathy flourishes, and suicide rates among LGBTQ+ youth dramatically drop. The science is clear: we're not...2025-05-2712 min
Super SexEpisode 45: Tarsh Wilson on Raising GirlsSend us a textWhat happens when we're too uncomfortable to talk with girls about their bodies? Women's health nurse and sexologist Tarsh Wilson joins the podcast with a wake-up call for parents and anyone who loves a young girl growing up in today's hypersexual world.The statistics are alarming - girls are experiencing their sexual debut as young as 13-14, yet many parents still believe these conversations can wait. Tarsh and Jordan explore why this approach leaves girls vulnerable to everything from preventable health conditions to dangerous sexual encounters. Through candid stories from Tarsh's...2025-05-251h 14
Super SexSexplained: What It Really Means to Be Super Sensitive During SexSend us a textEver felt like your body was rushing to the finish line while everyone else was still warming up? You're not alone. Welcome to the premiere episode of Sexplained, where we're tackling a question that many think but few dare to ask: "Why do I cum so quickly and why am I so sensitive after orgasming?"Sex educator Jordan Walker dives into the science of sexual sensitivity with honesty, expertise, and zero judgment. Drawing from years of experience and current sexology studies, Jordan unpacks why some bodies (particularly those with vulvas) respond...2025-05-2209 min
Super SexQuickie: Why More Couples Are Choosing Swinging (And Loving It)Send us a textReady to rethink everything you thought you knew about commitment? Forget the 1970s key parties and shag carpet stereotypes—modern swinging has evolved into something far more nuanced and relationship-centered than pop culture would have you believe.We're diving deep into the world of consensual non-monogamy, where couples trade partners but still prioritise their primary emotional connection. It's not about escaping commitment; it's about expanding it. Research suggests that swingers often report equal or higher relationship satisfaction compared to monogamous couples, and it's not just about the sexual variety. The lifestyle de...2025-05-2011 min
Super SexEpisode 44: NoFap, Fake Facts & the Masturbation PanicSend us a textAcross our culture, few topics trigger as much unnecessary guilt as masturbation – especially with the rise of online communities claiming that giving up self-pleasure will magically transform you into a more masculine, focused, and attractive version of yourself.In this myth-busting episode, we dive into the pseudoscience behind the NoFap movement and semen retention practices that have captivated millions online. We examine the actual research on masturbation's effects on testosterone levels (that 7-day spike everyone talks about? It's temporary), athletic performance (professional sports teams don't restrict it), and mental health (regular ma...2025-05-181h 03
Super SexQuickie: Sexual Attitude ReassessmentSend us a textEver wondered why your healthcare experiences around sexual topics can feel so vastly different depending on who you're talking to? The answer might surprise you—it's not just about what your doctor, therapist or educator knows, but about their attitudes toward sexuality.Sexual Attitude Reassessment (SAR) workshops are transforming how professionals approach sexual healthcare, and it matters to everyone. Through this structured process, healthcare providers confront their personal beliefs, emotional reactions, and subconscious biases about sexuality. Why? Because those hidden attitudes directly affect the quality of care you receive.Th...2025-05-1409 min
Super SexEpisode 43: Living with Herpes: Breaking the Stigma with Kate CampbellSend us a textWhen was the last time someone had an honest conversation with you about herpes? Not the exaggerated horror stories from sex ed class or anxious Google searches at 2 AM, but a genuine, stigma-free discussion about something that affects roughly 12% of the population?Psychologist and sexologist Kate Campbell joins us to share her decade-plus experience living with genital herpes, dismantling harmful myths along the way. What makes this episode revolutionary is the revelation that herpes isn't even considered serious enough to be a "notifiable STI" by health departments. The medical system doesn't...2025-05-111h 05
Super SexQuickie: The Hard Truth About Erectile Dysfunction with Dr ZSend us a textErectile dysfunction isn't just your grandfather's problem anymore. Dr. Stephanie Zwonitzer joins us for a frank, science-based conversation about why more young men are struggling with erections and what can actually be done about it.The most startling revelation? Your penis might be trying to warn you about your heart. "Erectile dysfunction is a precursor to cardiovascular events," explains Dr. Zwonitzer, describing how ED can signal serious underlying health issues years before they become life-threatening. This connection transforms ED from merely a sexual frustration to a potentially life-saving early...2025-05-0750 min
Super SexEpisode 42: Sex Tips For GuysSend us a textEver wondered what your partner is actually thinking but isn't saying? This raw, unfiltered conversation with Jordan's wife, Viktoriya, pulls back the curtain on what makes sex truly satisfying beyond the physical mechanics.We dive straight into the uncomfortable truth that most sexual dissatisfaction stems from poor communication. Viktoriya and Sherman share their perspectives on how assumptions about what partners want can lead to years of mediocre experiences. They reveal how both straight and gay relationships suffer from similar communication barriers but for different reasons – one from societal pressure to conform, th...2025-05-041h 19
Super SexQuickie: Fantasy vs Reality: When Kinks Come to LifeSend us a textWhat makes you act on your deepest fantasies—or keep them locked safely in your imagination? Brace yourself as we dive headfirst into the psychological cocktail that determines whether your kinks remain delicious daydreams or become your lived reality.Based on fascinating research by Melissa DeRues and colleagues with the tantalizing title "When Kinks Come to Life," we explore the science behind our most intimate decisions. The truth is wonderfully complex: a unique mixture of arousal intensity, personality traits, gender, sexuality and impulsivity determines who crosses the line from fantasy to ac...2025-04-3009 min