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Kate Mason
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Parenting and Personalities
Let Them Fail - Raising Resilient Kids
Is protecting our kids from failure actually making them weaker? Kate Mason welcomes resilience expert and former SAS officer Tim Curtis to explore the roots of rising anxiety in children and young adults. They dive into how societal changes, overprotective parenting, and lack of free play are quietly eroding resilience—and what we can do about it. Tim and Kate unpack how modeling emotional regulation, allowing safe failure, and encouraging responsibility can help children (and even adult kids) grow stronger, more adaptable, and better prepared for life’s challenges.Li...
2025-08-05
39 min
Parenting and Personalities
Are You Losing YOURSELF in Motherhood?
Ever feel like motherhood is breaking you instead of building you? Kate Mason sits down with Irin Rubin, the inspiring creator of the MamaZen app and author of The MamaZen Parenting Method, for a powerful conversation on the emotional and mental toll of early motherhood. Irin shares her deeply personal journey through the fog of postpartum struggles—not depression or anxiety, but a gnawing sense of not being herself anymore. Irin explains how the MamaZen app helps mothers rewire their reactions, regulate emotions, and truly enjoy parenting again. Listen For...
2025-07-29
37 min
Parenting and Personalities
Five Ways You Sabotage Your Relationship
Are you really arguing over the dishes — or is it something deeper? Kate Mason dives into the hidden personality clashes that sabotage relationships, from the introvert-extrovert tug-of-war to the planner-vs-spontaneous showdown. Using real-life examples (including her own 34-year marriage), Kate unpacks how the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) reveals why we misunderstand, frustrate, and sometimes hilariously annoy our partners — and most importantly, how to turn these differences into connection, empathy, and fun. Listen For4:02 Extrovert vs. Introvert Showdown9:12 Dreamers Meet the Grounded12:34 Logic vs. Feeling...
2025-07-22
25 min
Parenting and Personalities
What's Your TRUE Enneagram Type?
What’s the metaphorical hill you’d die on — and is it helping or hurting your relationships? Kate Mason reunites with Enneagram expert Jackie Contessa to unpack the “nine Enneagram hills” we fiercely defend in life, love, and parenting. They explore how understanding these deep-seated motivations can help us break patterns, improve communication, and parent more consciously. Whether you’re a perfectionist, a helper, a challenger, or somewhere in between, you’ll find insights that spark both laughter and reflection.Listen For4:06 Eat the Fish, Spit Out the Bones: Take W...
2025-07-15
42 min
Parenting and Personalities
Why Anxiety Isn’t a Disorder—It’s Just Energy
Could anxiety just be energy misinterpreted? Kate Mason sits down with clinical hypnotherapist and bestselling author Jake Yanitz Rubin to explore a radically new understanding of anxiety—not as a mental illness, but as a misunderstood part of the human experience. They dive deep into how reframing anxiety as energy can unlock personal growth, self-awareness, and even spiritual awakening. Jake shares powerful insights from his book From Anxiety to Awakening, practical mindset shifts, and life-changing tools rooted in psychology, ancient philosophy, and consciousness work. Listen For05:02 Panic, Purpose, and the P...
2025-07-08
40 min
Parenting and Personalities
Building Resilient Children
Is your child really resilient—or just avoiding discomfort? Kate Mason is joined by former SAS commander, crisis leadership expert, and co-author of The Resilient Shield, Tim Curtis. Together, they unpack what true resilience looks like in both kids and adults—beyond the buzzword. With compelling stories from Tim’s military background and personal parenting journey, they explore how stress, failure, adaptability, and connection are essential to building long-term mental strength. You’ll hear why resilience is a skill, not a trait—and what practical steps parents can take today to build it, star...
2025-07-01
42 min
Parenting and Personalities
Parenting Styles Through Enneagrams
Ever wonder why parenting feels like a personal rollercoaster—and what your Enneagram type might have to do with it? Kate Mason sits down with dynamic Enneagram expert Jackie Contessa to explore how each of the nine Enneagram types plays out in parenting. Jackie—known for her no-fluff, deeply compassionate coaching—dives into the “big fat why” behind each personality type and how understanding these motivations can change how we parent, connect, and even relate to ourselves. Whether you’re a perfectionist One, a peace-seeking Nine, or an enthusiastic Seven, this episode offers invaluable insi...
2025-06-24
43 min
Parenting and Personalities
What's Behind Your Kid's Behaviour?
Why is your child calm one minute and melting down the next—especially in the cereal aisle? Kate Mason, pediatric occupational therapist and parent coach Ivan Hardcastle peels back the layers of children's sensory processing challenges. From explaining why a child might seek comfort in a cat’s litter box to revealing the surprising power of parent-led therapy at home, Ivan helps decode the sensory triggers behind behavior. Kate and Ivan explore practical, compassionate tools that empower parents—not just professionals—to create real behavioral change. It’s not just about managing kids, but understan...
2025-06-17
38 min
Parenting and Personalities
Parenting with Sensory Smarts
Ever wondered why your child throws bread at bedtime or melts down in a grocery store? Kate Mason sits down with pediatric occupational therapist and parent coach Ivan Hardcastle to unravel the hidden world of sensory processing and how it deeply impacts children's behavior. Ivan shares his powerful journey from therapist to coach, emphasizing that true progress often comes when parents—not just children—are empowered with knowledge and tools. He breaks down sensory processing into understandable parts, provides real-life examples (including why a child might find solace in a cat’s litter box!), an...
2025-06-10
33 min
Parenting and Personalities
What Is Your Daughter Really Learning From You?
What if your daughter’s biggest obstacle is the message she gets from you?Kate Mason welcomes back Dr. Jo-Ann Finkelstein—clinical psychologist and author of Sexism and Sensibility—for a rich and thought-provoking conversation about how subtle gender biases shape our daughters’ self-worth, voice, and potential. They dig into the unconscious ways parents reinforce appearance-based validation, the lifelong impact of being interrupted, and how sports, education, and even praise style shape a girl’s sense of entitlement and ambition. They challenge us to unlearn generational scripts and replace them with empowering tools that foster...
2025-06-03
42 min
Parenting and Personalities
EQUAL Parenting Starts with YOU: Confronting Gender Biases
Are you raising your kids with invisible gender biases you don’t even realize you have? Kate Mason sits down with clinical psychologist and author Dr. Jo-Ann Finkelstein to explore the subtle and systemic ways sexism creeps into parenting—even from the most well-meaning caregivers. Drawing from her book Sexism and Sensibility, Finkelstein shares personal stories, clinical insights, and research that uncover how micro-messages shape our children's beliefs about gender from birth. This conversation unpacks everything from pink hockey sticks to unconscious praise patterns and offers practical advice for raising empowered daughters (and emotion...
2025-05-27
38 min
Parenting and Personalities
Ditching the DESK for Your DREAM Life at SEA
Could the boldest move of your life be the key to your dream career? Kate Mason chats with Erin Carey, the adventurous founder of Roam Generation, who left behind her 17-year government job for a life of sailing and entrepreneurial discovery. From cruising Caribbean waters with her family to launching a thriving global PR agency—without a degree in the field—Erin shares how intuition, courage, and a chance encounter with sailing YouTube stars transformed her life. This conversation is all about rethinking what’s possible when you break free from the conve...
2025-05-20
33 min
Parenting and Personalities
Is Your Inner Child Choosing Your Dates?
Is your past secretly picking your partners for you? In this eye-opening episode of Parenting and Personalities, Kate Mason sits down with relationship coach and podcast host Nicole Colantoni to explore the hidden influences shaping our dating lives. Nicole shares how her own journey—from a turbulent childhood to a thriving coaching career—led her to uncover how our childhood wounds affect who we date and how we love. They dive deep into modern dating challenges, the art of building authentic connections, communication pitfalls, conflict repair, and how real self-awareness is the foundation for las...
2025-05-06
36 min
Parenting and Personalities
Eight Love Links to a STRONGER Relationship
Can an app really save your relationship? Kate Mason reunites with couple’s therapists and authors Helen Robertson and Shahn Sorekli to unpack their groundbreaking relationship toolkit — a dynamic duo of a book, The Eight Love Links, and an innovative app designed to bring couples closer. With humor, warmth, and depth, they delve into the “why” and “how” behind their five-year journey of development, explore the psychology and practicality of their methods, and highlight how small changes can lead to meaningful, lasting improvements in love and connection. Whether you’re deep in love or just trying to...
2025-04-29
32 min
Parenting and Personalities
What's REAL Love Beyond the Honeymoon Phase?
Ever feel like your relationship is more “meh” than magic? Kate dives deep into the real, raw, and relatable side of love with clinical psychologists and couple therapists Helen Robertson and Shahn Baker Sorekli. Kate chats with the duo—who just so happen to be partners in both business and life—about the myths of the perfect relationship, what happens after the honeymoon phase fades, and why kindness beats grand gestures every time. With over 34 years of combined experience, Helen and Shahn unpack the power of empathy, how to rebuild trust, and what to do when...
2025-04-22
31 min
Parenting and Personalities
SINGLE Mum's SECRET to Raising STRONG KIDS!
What if rock bottom was actually the start of something incredible? Kate Mason sits down with Justina Tomkinson—a fierce, resilient single mum who turned hardship into an unlikely recipe for raising kind, capable, and fiercely independent kids. From losing her home and marriage to rebuilding a life with nothing but grit and determination, Justina shares how she raised three thriving children through emotional, financial, and personal adversity. Her story is raw, real, and packed with wisdom on how to raise kids who can handle life—without sugarcoating the struggle. Whether you’re a...
2025-04-01
39 min
Parenting and Personalities
BREAK FREE From Your Past and Parent Your Inner Child!
Ever wonder why certain behaviors of your child can trigger an emotional response that feels more about you than them?Family therapist Lisa Taylor joins Kate Mason to discuss how unresolved childhood experiences shape our responses to parenting. They explore the impact of the "child within" on how we react to our own children’s big emotions and provide practical tips to better understand ourselves in the heat of parenting challenges. Lisa’s three C parenting model—Courage, Connection, and Curiosity—offers a transformative way to respond more consciously to both our children and oursel...
2025-03-25
35 min
Parenting and Personalities
Does YOUR Personality Dictate Home Renovation Success?
Renovating a home isn't just about knocking down walls and picking out paint colours—it’s a crash course in personality dynamics! Kate Mason takes us inside her family’s renovation adventures, where each temperament plays a unique role in the chaos and creativity of home improvements. From her own spontaneous enthusiasm as a Sanguine to her husband Paul’s take-charge Choleric energy, and her children’s mix of meticulous Melancholic planning and easygoing Phlegmatic patience, Kate explores how our natural tendencies shape the way we approach big projects. Listen For:05:21 –...
2025-03-18
21 min
Parenting and Personalities
Setting Boundaries With Your GROWN-UP Kids Without Losing Their Love
Ever feel like every conversation with a certain someone turns into a debate? Or wonder how to navigate the tricky shift from parenting young kids to respecting your adult child’s independence? Kate Mason dives into two major family dynamics: the clash between thinkers and feelers in communication and the importance of setting boundaries when kids grow up and move out. She explores why thinkers crave logic and facts while feelers prioritize emotional connection—and how these differences can make conversations feel frustrating or dismissive. She tackles the dos and don’ts of parental...
2025-03-11
24 min
Parenting and Personalities
The Weight Loss Plan that Works WITH your Body, Not AGAINST it
Is Dieting a Waste of Time?Kate Mason welcomes back Dr. Nick Fuller from the Charles Perkins Centre at the University of Sydney to debunk diet myths and explore a smarter, science-backed approach to weight loss. Instead of restrictive diets that ultimately backfire, Dr. Fuller introduces his Interval Weight Loss method—a structured yet flexible program that works with your body’s natural rhythms, rather than against them. He shares practical strategies for sustainable weight loss, including the importance of eating bigger meals earlier in the day, incorporating movement into daily life, and breaki...
2025-03-04
31 min
Parenting and Personalities
Escaping the Yo-Yo Diet Trap with Dr. Nick Fuller
Have you ever felt like diets just don’t work—no matter how hard you try? You’re not alone.Kate Mason welcomes back Dr. Nick Fuller from the University of Sydney’s Charles Perkins Centre to discuss why dieting often fails us and how our biology is actually working against rapid weight loss.Dr. Fuller shares groundbreaking insights on why restrictive diets lead to long-term weight gain, how our bodies protect a "set point" weight, and why interval weight loss—losing weight in small, controlled phases—is the key to sustainable success.If you’re ti...
2025-02-25
26 min
Parenting and Personalities
Are You Okay? The Power (and Fear) of Asking the Hard Question
Have you ever hesitated to ask, “Are you okay?” because you weren’t sure how to handle the answer?Kate Mason sits down with mediator and conflict resolution expert Kate Russell to explore emotional intelligence, the complexities of meaningful check-ins, and how to support someone who might be struggling. They discuss whether emotional intelligence is innate or learned, the challenges of Australia’s Are You Okay? Day, and practical strategies for navigating tough conversations with empathy and confidence. Kate Russell shares powerful insights on how even a simple act of kindness can interrupt negative t...
2025-02-18
33 min
Parenting and Personalities
Healing Through Laughter: Can Joy Help Process Trauma?
Is Laughter the Secret to a Happier, Healthier Life?Kate Mason welcomes motivational speaker, mindfulness coach, and laughter yoga practitioner Annie Harvey to explore the surprising power of laughter.They dive into the science behind why laughter—real or fake—can reduce stress, boost emotional resilience, and even help process grief.Annie shares her personal journey of using mindfulness and laughter to navigate the challenges of caring for parents with dementia and how these tools have transformed her work with children, corporate teams, and even trauma survivors in Rwanda. Leave a rati...
2025-02-04
36 min
Parenting and Personalities
REPLAY - Turning Conflict into Connection: A New Perspective
Conflict isn't just chaos; it's a catalyst for growth. Kate explores the art of conflict resolution with expert Kate Russell, peeling back the layers of why conflict scares us and how it can actually forge stronger connections. They explore the roots of conflict in personal experiences, the critical role of empathy, and the transformative power of reframing confrontations as opportunities. Russell, with years of expertise in mediation, unveils practical strategies for addressing workplace disputes and the larger implications for family dynamics. They underscore the importance of curiosity, questioning assumptions, and the profound impact of active lis...
2025-01-28
29 min
Parenting and Personalities
Back-to-School Anxiety? Not on Our Watch!
What’s the secret to making the back-to-school transition smooth and stress-free for your child and yourself? Kate Mason is joined by Dr. Victoria Waller, an educator and expert in learning differences with over 40 years of experience. Together, they share creative strategies for keeping kids engaged during school holidays (without screens!), easing back-to-school anxiety, and creating positive routines weeks in advance. From bedtime adjustments to fostering open communication with your child, this episode is packed with practical advice, fun activities, and even a few laughs to help families navigate one of the most st...
2025-01-24
29 min
Parenting and Personalities
Back-to-School Anxiety? Not on Our Watch!
What’s the secret to making the back-to-school transition smooth and stress-free for your child and yourself? Kate Mason is joined by Dr. Victoria Waller, an educator and expert in learning differences with over 40 years of experience. Together, they share creative strategies for keeping kids engaged during school holidays (without screens!), easing back-to-school anxiety, and creating positive routines weeks in advance. From bedtime adjustments to fostering open communication with your child, this episode is packed with practical advice, fun activities, and even a few laughs to help families navigate one of the most st...
2025-01-21
29 min
Parenting and Personalities
REPLAY - A Cuppa With Kate n Tray – Travel… and Personality Types
When traveling do you prefer to be highly organized and structured? Loose and available for what catches your whim? Or somewhere in between. It’s all good when it’s just you traveling. It gets complicated when you have traveling companions, particularly if they don’t share your preferences. Guest: Stephanie Noon Website | Instagram | LinkedIn Contact Kate: Email | Website | Kate’s Book on Amazon | LinkedIn | Facebook | XSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
2024-12-31
29 min
Parenting and Personalities
What’s Your Holiday Personality? Discover How Your MBTI Shapes Christmas
Is your Christmas full of festive chaos, quiet introspection, or heartfelt traditions? Kate explores how our MBTI personality types shape the way we celebrate the holidays. From extroverted party planners to introverted peace-seekers, and from intuitive gift givers to sensing traditionalists, Kate offers thoughtful advice to create balance and joy for everyone. Featuring heartwarming stories of Christmas traditions from special guests, this episode is a festive blend of personality insights and family nostalgia. Listen For: 06:42 – Steph Noon: Generations united by “The Night Before Christmas” 09:22 – Intuitives vs. Sensing: Gift-giv...
2024-12-18
27 min
Parenting and Personalities
Who's Better at Raising Kids, PARENTS or GRANDPARENTS?
How do modern parenting ideals and evolving grandparent roles intertwine in today’s world? Kate links up with a mother and her daughter to look at the challenges and joys of parenting and grandparenting. They explore balancing old-school values with contemporary techniques, managing emotional moments with children, and the delicate art of maintaining strong family communication. From screen time debates to how grandparents and parents collaborate on childcare, this episode highlights the importance of flexibility, empathy, and mutual respect. Listen For: 02:30 - Modern vs. Traditional Parenting: Striking the Balance...
2024-12-03
30 min
Parenting and Personalities
What Did Our Parents Teach Us About Modern Parenting?
From discipline to communication. Have you ever stopped to think about how your childhood shapes the way you parent today? Steph Noon, an experienced life coach and trauma specialist, and her daughter Kate Thorn, a busy mom join Kate. Together, they discuss the evolution of parenting styles across generations, the challenges of modern-day information overload, and the wisdom gained from blending tradition with cutting-edge psychological insights. Listen For: 09:22 - The Impact of Being Seen and Loved as a Child 16:06 - Parenting in the Age of Apps and Overwhelm
2024-11-26
31 min
Parenting and Personalities
Are You SECRETLY Superstitious? Unravelling our superstitions
Are you a little superstitious, or maybe just a little "stitious?" Kate Mason dives deep into the world of superstitions, from quirky wedding traditions and curious rituals to their psychological roots and cultural origins. With stories from her daughter's recent wedding, Kate explores how superstitions shape our lives, whether it's crossing fingers, tossing salt, or athletes' game-day routines. She even relates these habits to Myers-Briggs personality types, showing how our natural inclinations might make us more or less likely to believe in lucky charms and avoid black cat...
2024-11-12
28 min
Parenting and Personalities
Managing Big Events Without Burning Out
Are you energized by lively conversations or do big social events drain your batteries? Kate examines the intriguing dynamics between extroverts and introverts, exploring how each personality type navigates big gatherings. Whether you thrive in social settings or need solitude to recharge, Kate discusses the impact of these preferences on relationships, mental well-being, and self-awareness. Through relatable stories—including how she balanced her own extroverted excitement with her husband’s introverted need for calm—this episode offers practical tips for managing energy levels at large events while maintaining balance. Listen For: ...
2024-10-28
18 min
Parenting and Personalities
Puberty 2.0: Understanding Perimenopause’s Impacts
Is perimenopause just the “second puberty” we never saw coming? In this episode of, host Kate Mason and guest Unna Goldsworthy dive deep into perimenopause, breaking down what it really is, how it impacts women’s physical and emotional health, and how understanding it can improve relationships at home and at work. From managing symptoms to societal shifts like corporate policies supporting menopausal women, this conversation sheds light on navigating this transition with self-awareness, lifestyle adjustments, and, if necessary, hormone replacement therapy (HRT). They also explore the stigma surrounding menopause and the importance of hav...
2024-10-22
41 min
Parenting and Personalities
Weddings: Magic or Family Madness?
Weddings: magical, stressful, and full of surprises—would you relive your big day? In this episode, Kate dives into all things wedding-related as her daughter Cassie prepares to walk down the aisle. From the curveballs that can throw off wedding plans to how personality types like MBTI shape the process, Kate shares personal anecdotes and explores wedding traditions around the globe. Whether you’ve had your own perfect or not-so-perfect day, this episode will resonate with anyone who has navigated the emotional and often humorous rollercoaster of wedding planning. Liste...
2024-10-15
16 min
Parenting and Personalities
From Arguments to Understanding: Using Personality Insights to Improve Relationships
Do you feel like you're arguing more than connecting with your partner lately? In this episode, Kate dives into listener questions about relationships and communication, focusing on how understanding personality types can help couples reconnect. Whether it's the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), temperament theories, or love languages, Kate shares actionable insights to strengthen bonds and reduce conflict. She also explores how understanding these frameworks can assist in parenting challenges, like helping teenagers with their studies. Listen For: 01:04 - Navigating Relationship Conflicts: Julia’s Question 06:30 - Ext...
2024-09-24
21 min
Parenting and Personalities
Navigating Arguments: A Personality-Based Approach to Parenting
Why do we argue, and how can understanding our personalities help us navigate conflicts? In this episode, Kate looks at the root causes of arguments, exploring how personality types, emotional triggers, and even hormonal fluctuations play a crucial role in our disagreements. With a mix of humour and practical advice, Kate offers strategies to defuse tensions and maintain harmony in relationships, especially within families. Whether you're a peacekeeper or a debater, this episode provides valuable tips to keep arguments from spiraling out of control. Listen For: 03:01 Personality types and...
2024-09-17
25 min
Parenting and Personalities
Traveling with the Three F's: Fear, Frustration, Fun
How do you handle the big three F-words of travel: fear, frustration, and fun? In this episode, Kate Mason delves into her personal experiences of traveling as an ESFP, from the anxieties of flying and taking taxis to the challenges of planning trips with family. Despite the stress and unpredictability, she highlights the importance of embracing the chaos and finding joy in every moment. Whether you're the organized planner or the spontaneous go-with-the-flow type, Kate’s stories remind us that travel is about making unforgettable memories, even when things don't go as planned....
2024-09-03
23 min
Parenting and Personalities
The Personality Behind the Mess: How MBTI Shapes Your Clutter
How does your personality shape the way you deal with clutter? This episode explores the fascinating intersection of personality types, love languages, and our relationship with the stuff we accumulate. Kate Mason chats with Bridget Johns, founder of Be Simply Free, about how understanding ourselves and our loved ones can transform the often-overwhelming task of decluttering into a meaningful, even harmonious process. They explore everything from MBTI types to love languages, offering insights and practical tips on how to manage clutter in a way that feels true to...
2024-08-27
41 min
The Huddle Leadership Podcast with Kate Russell
Ep 15 - Why understanding personality types can 10x your leadership effectiveness with Kate Mason
Have you ever considered that knowing and understanding the different personality styles in your team or workplace can give you an added advantage? In this episode of The Huddle Leadership Podcast we chat to The Personality Coach, Kate Mason about how considering personality styles when implementing changes and providing support tailored to different preferences can create more harmony and better communication within workplaces.You'll also hear:the role personality style plays in communication challenges and workplace dynamicswhy identifying strengths and weaknesses is usefulhow to recognise and overcome biases in workplace interactionshow personality types...
2024-08-19
32 min
Parenting and Personalities
The Resilience Revolution: Raising Strong Kids
Are you raising resilient children? In this episode, Kate Mason and Tania Johnson dive into the importance of building resilience and emotional strength in both parents and children. From the benefits of play to the power of independent problem-solving, they explore how cultural differences impact our approach to parenting. Discover practical strategies for fostering resilience and learn why it's crucial to let kids experience failure and take risks. Listen For: 05:03 - Teaching Conflict Resolution 09:22 - Overprotection and Online Dangers 16:56 - The Im...
2024-08-13
39 min
Parenting and Personalities
Traveling with Personalities: A Guide to Harmonious Group Trips
Ever wondered how to keep the peace while traveling with a diverse group of personalities? In this episode, Kate shares her experiences and insights from a recent family trip to the USA and Canada. She discusses the importance of understanding and respecting different personality types to ensure a harmonious travel experience. From pre-trip planning and balancing activities to maintaining open communication and embracing individual differences, Kate provides practical tips for making group travel enjoyable for everyone. By recognizing and accommodating each traveler's unique preferences, you can create memorable and stress-free adventures...
2024-07-30
17 min
Parenting and Personalities
REPLAY - ME/CFS – The Forgotten Disease
This is a REPLAY of episode 51 from April 2023. Myalgic Encephalomyelitis/Chronic Fatigue Syndrome ME/CFS as it’s known. The World Health Organisation classified ME/CFS as a disease, not a psychological issue, back in the 1960’s but we still know so little about it. It’s a complex disabling disease affecting the brain, the muscles, and digestive, immune and cardiac systems. About 60,000 people in Australia are housebound or bed bound from ME/CFS. It’s become the forgotten disease, costing the health system in the country $15.5 Billion annually. The health system ha...
2024-07-02
35 min
Parenting and Personalities
Who Am I? Understanding Identity Activation
Who are you really? What an intriguing and thought-provoking question. In this episode, Kate speaks with Michelle Scheibner, a TEDx speaker and author of the memoir "Hush." Michelle shares her journey from a secondary school teacher to a renowned identity activator, emphasizing the profound impact of personal branding. She explains how her exploration of narrative coaching, conversational IQ, and inherited family trauma shaped her unique approach to helping clients discover and leverage their true identities. Listen For: 4:34 - What is an Identity Activator? 11:20 - From Teacher to...
2024-06-18
34 min
Parenting and Personalities
A Strength-Based Approach to Introversion
Being quietly confident is powerful. In this episode, host Kate and guest Kate James explore the strength-based approach to introversion, emphasizing the importance of leveraging natural strengths over fixing weaknesses. They discuss the significance of growth mindset, highlighting how adopting this perspective can lead to continuous improvement and resilience. The conversation also delves into the concept of Highly Sensitive Persons (HSP) and their connection to introversion, offering insights on how understanding these traits can improve personal and professional relationships. Listen For: 10:04 - Wh...
2024-06-11
30 min
Parenting and Personalities
The Silent Strength: Confidence for Introverts
Shhh. In this episode of Parenting and Personalities, Kate Mason explores the world of introversion with guest Kate James. They explore the unique strengths and challenges of introverts, debunking common myths and highlighting the importance of self-awareness and confidence. Kate James shares her journey of embracing her introverted nature and offers practical advice for introverts to thrive in an extroverted world. Listen For: 7:58 - Introverts in Social Settings 15:55 - The Role of Confidence in Introversion 21:03 - Parenting Intr...
2024-06-04
31 min
Parenting and Personalities
How Your Personality Impacts Your Exercise Routine
Ready to transform your fitness routine? It starts with understanding your unique personality. In this episode, Kate delves into the unique ways introverts and extroverts, intuitives and sensors, thinkers and feelers, and judgers and perceivers approach exercise. Whether you thrive on the camaraderie of group classes or find peace in solitary runs, understanding these tendencies can unlock a more enjoyable and effective fitness routine. With anecdotes, research, and practical tips, this episode emphasizes the great impact of exercise on both physical and mental health, inspiring listeners to find their perfect workout match.
2024-05-21
25 min
Parenting and Personalities
Laughing Matters: How Humour is Wired in Us
Laughter truly is the best medicine! In this episode, Kate dives into the fascinating world of humour and its effects on our mental and physical health. She explores various types of humour—from slapstick to satire—and how they resonate differently depending on our personality types, as described by the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. Kate illustrates how humour not only enhances our personal well-being and social bonds but also boosts our immune system and pain tolerance. Listen For: 3:02 - Humour as a Mental Exercise and Immunity Booster 09:14 - Humo...
2024-05-14
19 min
Parenting and Personalities
Beyond the Brain: Personality Insights in Neurodivergent Lives
What happens when neurodiversity intersects with the MBTI? In this episode, Kate and guest Sam Young explore the relationship between MBTI personality types and neurodiversity. They explore how understanding traits like extroversion and introversion can impact the interactions and development of neurodiverse individuals, particularly children. Kate and Sam highlight the importance of acknowledging and respecting unique brain functions, as they unpack the challenges and opportunities presented by neurodiversity in both educational settings and daily life, offering insights for parents, educators, and caregivers of neurodivergent individuals. Listen For:...
2024-05-07
31 min
Parenting and Personalities
Understanding Neurodiversity
Neurodiversity reshapes our world. In this episode, Kate explores the world of neurodiversity with guest Sam Young, a growth-minded educator and advocate for twice-exceptional learners. They unravel the challenges and gifts that come with being neurodivergent—such as ADHD, autism, and dyslexia—shedding light on the importance of understanding, embracing, and supporting diverse minds. Sam’s own journey as a neurodivergent individual and his work with Young Scholars Academy brings insights into fostering environments where children can explore their strengths, develop self-regulation, and ultimately, thrive in a society t...
2024-04-30
43 min
Parenting and Personalities
How Your Personality Type Impacts Your Cooking
Nothing stirs the pot in the kitchen like different personalities. Kate dives into the kitchen with an insightful look at how our Myers-Briggs personality types shape our culinary styles. From her own spontaneous and often haphazard adventures in cooking as an ESFP, contrasted with her daughter's similar ESTP approach, to the meticulous ISTJ and innovative ENTJ methods of her friends, Kate explores the joys and mishaps of cooking through the lens of personality. She shares anecdotes that reveal each type's unique approach to recipes, improvisation, and kitchen disasters, ultimately celebrating the diversity of cooking experiences...
2024-04-23
24 min
Parenting and Personalities
The Psychology of Spending: Why Your Personality Type Matters
Money talks, but what does it say to you? Kate Mason delves into the complex relationship between personality and finances, exploring how the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) sheds light on our financial behaviors. She suggests that our upbringing shapes our approach to money, but it's our personality that often dictates our saving and spending patterns. By examining the habits of different MBTI types, from the spontaneous spenders to the meticulous savers, Mason offers tailored strategies for managing finances that resonate with our innate preferences. Listen For...
2024-04-16
23 min
Parenting and Personalities
The Perfect Melancholic: The Perfectionist in an Imperfect World
Dive into the world of the perfect melancholic! This episode of Parenting and Personalities is a compelling exploration of the meticulous and thoughtful melancholic temperament. Kate breaks down how these detail-oriented individuals operate, illuminating their potential for both profound strength and unnecessary stress. Whether it's their penchant for pessimism that surprisingly leads to frequent positive experiences, or their struggle with imperfection that can spiral into frustration, this episode offers invaluable insights. This episode is not just an analysis; it's a guide to better appreciate the melancholics in our lives and to harmonize with...
2024-04-09
21 min
Parenting and Personalities
DISC Dynamics: Empowering Leaders and Teams
Unlock the power of personality in the workplace with DISC. Kate and guest Kate Russell dives deep into how understanding DISC profiles—Dominance, Influence, Steadiness, and Compliance—can significantly enhance team collaboration and conflict resolution. Exploring the nuances of each personality type, offering insights on how leaders and teams can foster a more harmonious and efficient work environment. They reveal how adapting communication styles and acknowledging individual strengths can lead to improved workplace relationships and productivity. Whether you're a leader aiming for success or a team member seeking better interactions, this episode is a tr...
2024-04-02
33 min
Parenting and Personalities
Turning Conflict into Connection: A New Perspective
Conflict isn't just chaos; it's a catalyst for growth. Kate explores the art of conflict resolution with expert Kate Russell, peeling back the layers of why conflict scares us and how it can actually forge stronger connections. They explore the roots of conflict in personal experiences, the critical role of empathy, and the transformative power of reframing confrontations as opportunities. Russell, with years of expertise in mediation, unveils practical strategies for addressing workplace disputes and the larger implications for family dynamics. They underscore the importance of curiosity, questioning assumptions, and the pr...
2024-03-26
30 min
Parenting and Personalities
The Quiet Strength: Embracing the Phlegmatic in the Workplace
Unlock the secret to a harmonious workplace with phlegmatic personalities. Kate dives into the phlegmatic temperament, revealing how this steady and reliable personality type can be a bedrock of stability in a professional setting. She explores how their desire for peace and consistent environment makes them excellent in roles that require diplomacy and patient customer service. Yet, the tranquility of the phlegmatic can be a double-edged sword; their aversion to conflict and change may lead to procrastination and avoidance. By understanding and embracing their natural tendencies, we can harness their strengths...
2024-03-19
14 min
Parenting and Personalities
Planning Playtime for Kids
Play is important. It helps in a child’s development and can strengthen bonds between children and caregivers. In this episode Kate and Amy Nielson of Planning Playtime talk about play. Amy shares her unique upbringing in a family of 12 children, where she was homeschooled and often had to teach herself. She talks about her work in creating resources for parents and teachers to make learning fun for young children. Amy emphasizes the importance of both structured and free play, and how her programs aim to prepare children for school while also...
2024-02-20
31 min
Parenting and Personalities
The Challenges and Realities of First-Time Parenthood
Rob Mason has a PhD in education and makes his living working with professional sports coaches on how to communicate better. Communication is his thing… it’s how he makes his living. Then along came Ned, his newborn. And Rob had to learn a whole new style of communication. In this episode Rob shares his experiences of applying his communication knowledge to his family life. Kate and Rob discuss the importance of open communication and support between partners during the transition to parenthood, the pressure of trying to be the "perfect" parent, and the importance of u...
2024-01-23
26 min
Parenting and Personalities
Decoding Feedback: How Personalities Shape Our Responses
There’s been lots of study on how to give feedback effectively but very little on how people receive it. That’s a pretty important piece of that puzzle. In this episode Kate chats Sports Rob Mason who is a coaching development manager with the Port Adelaide Football Club. He coaches the coaches. How people respond to feedback (and how they absorb it) varies according to personality type. From extroverts who thrive in group discussions to introverts who favour one-on-one interactions, and from sensing personalities who need practic...
2024-01-16
28 min
Parenting and Personalities
FEED DROP – A Look at the Personality Traits of Some in History Who Had Influence
This week we’re highlighting an episode in which Kate was the guest in the form of a Feed Drop. It’s an episode by the podcast Stories and Strategies first published in May of 2022. The podcast is hosted by Doug Downs and Kate is the special guest looking at historical influencers and analyzing their personalities using the MBTI. People such as Abraham Lincoln, Princess Diana, Mother Teresa, Henry VIII, and even Adolf Hitler. What were the unique traits and aspects of their personalities that made us love, or hate them? Check...
2024-01-02
29 min
Parenting and Personalities
Health Risks Associated with Common Household Fragrances and Chemicals
Tracey Fry and Joanne Ling are sisters. In this episode they share with Kate their personal experiences of health issues, such as migraines and skin reactions, triggered by exposure to strong scents and chemicals in cleaning products, perfumes, and even new clothes. They also discuss the potential link between these chemicals and more serious health conditions, such as thyroid issues and fertility problems. They recommend a more natural, additive-free lifestyle is needed beginning with people swapping out their cleaning products and gradually moving toward an additive-free diet. Leave a rating/review fo...
2023-12-26
27 min
Parenting and Personalities
Helping Parents Unpack the Effects of Food Additives
Food additives have an enormous impact on us. Preservatives, and colourings affect our health and behaviour. In this episode Kate shares her personal experience of eliminating these from her family's diet and seeing immediate improvements in their health. Guests Tracey Fry and Joanne Ling, creators of Additive Free Lifestyle, also share their experiences and discuss the importance of understanding what is in our food. They highlight the significant profits made by the food additive industry and the lack of regulation around labelling, particularly with 'natural' flavours and colours. Leave a rating/re...
2023-12-19
36 min
Parenting and Personalities
Parenting Mistakes
Mistakes are normal, even unavoidable when it comes to parenting. In this episode Kate connects with several friends whose kids have all grown up now to share personal stories of their parenting mistakes, such as being overprotective, solving problems for their children, and being too harsh. They also discuss the lessons they've learned from these mistakes, such as the importance of self-reflection, empathy, flexibility, and resilience. Mistakes are a natural part of parenting and can be used as stepping stones for personal and parental development. Leave a rating/review for this podcast with one click
2023-12-05
18 min
Parenting and Personalities
Speaking Your Child’s Love Language
In this episode Kate discusses the concept of love languages and how they can be used to strengthen relationships, particularly within families. She explains that love languages, as introduced by Gary Chapman, are the ways in which individuals express and receive love. The five love languages are affirmations, gifts, acts of service, quality time, and physical touch. It’s important to understand and respect each family member's love language, as it can greatly impact their feelings of being loved and appreciated. Kate also shares personal anecdotes about her own family's love lang...
2023-11-28
22 min
Parenting and Personalities
The Four Personality Temperaments
Kate discusses the four personality temperaments of children: choleric, sanguine, melancholic, and phlegmatic. She explains these temperaments are innate and can greatly influence a child's behaviour. Understanding these temperaments can help parents tailor their approach to their child's unique needs and strengths, fostering a more positive and effective parenting experience. Leave a rating/review for this podcast with one click Listen For 4:38 The Choleric Temperament 8:17 The Sanguine Temperament 10:35 The Melancholic Temperament 12:48 The Phlegmatic Temperament Contact Kate: Email | Web...
2023-11-14
22 min
Parenting and Personalities
Sweet Dreams: The Myths and Realities of Sleep for Busy Moms
Dr Chris Winter is a board-certified sleep medicine specialist and neurologist. In this episode Kate and Chris discussion common sleep issues including insomnia and sleep apnea, and the importance of sleep hygiene. Chris explains the stages of sleep and how they affect your health and wellbeing. And he explains some very common misconceptions such as “I didn’t sleep at all last night.” Yes, you did. Guest: Dr Chris Winter Website | Email | Check out Chris’ podcast Sleep Unplugged @drchriswinter on X, IG, & TikTok Contact Kat...
2023-10-24
30 min
Parenting and Personalities
Unlocking Effective Communication Between Teens and Parents
It’s so important for parents to have effective communication with their teenagers and using the Myers Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) can help. Kate and guest Jeanine Mouchawar discuss how understanding your own and your teen's personality type can improve communication and reduce conflict. Jeanine shares a five-step process for effective communication: calming oneself before a conversation, stating observations without judgement, getting curious about the teen's feelings, validating their feelings, and asking for their ideas to make better choices. Jeanine emphasizes the importance of removing the word "why" from conversations as it often puts the oth...
2023-10-17
41 min
Parenting and Personalities
Unlocking Deeper Connections With Your Child Using the MBTI
Understanding personality types can help improve parent-child relationships. Kate Mason uses the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) to explain how different personality types communicate and solve problems. She answers two common questions from parents: one about a child who is always questioning and angry, and another about a child who is always late with homework. Kate explains understanding the child's personality type can help parents adjust their approach to these issues. She also provides examples of how different personality types might interact and misunderstand each other, and offers advice on how to br...
2023-10-10
23 min
Parenting and Personalities
A Cuppa With Kate n Tray – MBTI Procrastination Tendencies
Procrastination. From a lack of motivation to perfectionist tendencies, poor time management skills, and the allure of more enjoyable activities. In this episode we uncover why we often putt off tasks. With guest Tracy Noon we also discuss how feeling overwhelmed and the presence of distractions can further fuel our procrastination. What to Listen For 3:10 – Procrastination and personality types 16:34 – The perceiving child and procrastination 20:05 – Finding joy in organizing Guest: Tracy Noon Contact Kate: Email | Website | Kate’s Boo...
2023-10-03
28 min
Parenting and Personalities
A Cuppa With Kate n Tray – How Myers Briggs Personality Types Handle Stress
With cuppa firmly in hand, Kate and Tracy explore how different personality types, as defined by the MBTI preferences, react to and manage stress. They dive into the stressors and coping mechanisms for extroverts and introverts, thinkers and feelers, as well as judges and perceivers, with a focus on understanding your personality type and its impact on how you deal with stress. Guest: Tracy Noon Contact Kate: Email | Website | Kate’s Book on Amazon | LinkedIn | Facebook | XSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy infor...
2023-09-26
23 min
Parenting and Personalities
What’s Your Preferred Style of Motivation?
Motivation. It’s crucial staying motivated as a parent and motivating our kids. But each person is different. In this episode, Kate and Lori Oberbroeckling explore distinctions between intrinsic and extrinsic motivation, shedding light on the internal and external factors that influence our actions. Additionally, we explore five key motivation styles unique to your personality: The leader The achiever The team member The learner, and The winner Guest: Lori Oberbroeckling Lori is a wife and mom of four, all while working as a leader in corporate America, an...
2023-09-19
30 min
Parenting and Personalities
Using the Enneagram to Find Your Parenting Superpower
Time for an episode with a unique twist. We all have weaknesses. But what if we found out those weaknesses were actually our superpowers when it comes to parenting? This episode navigates through the enneagram types, offering you a fresh perspective on your unique parenting style. From the introspective Type 4 discovering their exceptional ability to nurture a child’s creativity, to the determined Type 8 channeling their strength into fostering independence. You have hidden talent that can help your child. Guest: Jackie Coban
2023-09-05
24 min
Parenting and Personalities
Enneagram – From the Inside Out
There was a moment in her life when Jackie Coban realized she was “showing up empty.” There was something missing in her social life, at work, in love, in friendships… and it was missing from within her. She felt stuck in reaction mode. Then one day someone introduced her to the Enneagram tool. She checked it out and thought little of it. But the idea popped up again and began to stick. Now it’s a key part of her life. In this episode Jackie shares a little about each of the nine t...
2023-08-29
34 min
Parenting and Personalities
Nurturing Independence: Raising a Strong-Willed Child
Parenting strong-willed children is all about understanding their unique traits and needs. Children who are strong-willed possess determined and independent natures with high self-confidence, persistence and a strong sense of their own preferences and opinions. This episode explores why parenting these children can be challenging, particularly when parents themselves were strong-willed children. Guest Sonali Vongchusiri is an expert in parenting strong-willed children. She emphasizes the importance of finding a balance between allowing kids to express their autonomy while setting boundaries and providing guidance. Guest: Sonali Vongchusiri, Founder of...
2023-08-22
41 min
Parenting and Personalities
Already Toast – Coping with Caregiver Stress
It’s a universal reality that at some point in our lives, we all assume the role of caregivers. It’s a responsibility that can range from intermittent to intensely demanding. Kate Washington shares her personal story of caring for her seriously ill husband who was diagnosed with a rate form of lymphoma. Their once normal existence was disrupted and Kate’s role as a mother and freelance writer transformed into that of a full-time caregiver. Guest: Kate Washington Website https://www.kawashington.com/already-toast.html Contact Kate htt...
2023-08-15
37 min
Parenting and Personalities
The Path to a Clutter-Free Life
They are common struggles. The challenges that come with decluttering and organizing your home effectively. Feeling overwhelmed by the idea of transforming your space? Kirsty Farrugia and her team at Curious Freedom are here to help. Kirsty’s team are dedicated declutter coaches guiding people through the process of decluttering, organizing, and creating unique systems and habits that align with people’s desired lifestyles. Making time for this episode will help you create space in your life. Guest: Kirsty Farrugia, Decluttering Coach Web site htt...
2023-08-08
45 min
Parenting and Personalities
Unlocking the Parent-Child Personality Puzzle
It’s a common concern for parents feeling like their child doesn’t fit in or is just too different. There could be a problem. But when we dig deeper into that idea the disconnect is often more about a clash of personalities between the child and the parents, rather than an inherent issue. In this episode, Kate, a skilled personality coach, sheds light into understanding and bridging the gap between parents and their unique children. Contact: thepersonalitycoach@gmail.com Kate’s website Kate’s book on Ama...
2023-08-01
23 min
Parenting and Personalities
The 6,570 Days That Define Your Child’s Future
There are 6,570 days in the first 18 years of our children’s lives. When you think about it, this is how many days we have with our kids when we can call them “kids.” In this episode we explore the significance of these days to ponder how best to utilize them to lay a strong foundation for your child’s future and beyond the next. We discuss essential elements that will empower them for life after they leave home and identify the ONE THING they need as a crucial prerequisite for success in our ever-changing and complex w...
2023-07-25
32 min
Parenting and Personalities
The Secret to Successful Decision-Making: A Blend of Logic and Emotion
Have you ever struggled to communicate effectively with your coworkers, partner, or children, particularly on sensitive topics? Achieving group agreement and harmony can be challenging when dealing with diverse personalities. In this episode Kate and her guest Robin Parsons explore the crucial aspects of open and respectful communication, encouraging individuals to express their ideas and concerns without fear of judgement. Active listening and empathy are essential tools to ensure everyone feels heard and understood. Learn all about the ORID method for facilitating important discussions in your personal and professional life. ...
2023-07-18
35 min
Parenting and Personalities
Time… Out! Finding Time and Balance in Parenthood
This episode explores the universal struggle of never feeling like you have enough time as a parent. In a world where time seems to slip through our fingers, we delve into the profound impact of parenting our perception of time. We use the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) to look at how the feeling dimension plays a significant role in the parental time dilemma. Grab a cup of tea, take a deep breath, and let’s discover how to reclaim your time and nurture yourself on this parenting journey. Guest: Jacqlin Richards, The Freedom Fin...
2023-07-11
32 min
Parenting and Personalities
Why Labeling Things as Either “Good” or “Bad” is Bad
On the one hand teaching our kids right from wrong is a key element of parenting. But if you accept there is another tier of behavioural decision-making that can be classified as Good and Bad, making that distinction for our kids is potentially harmful. In many cases what is good and what is bad is subjective. Is a quiet baby a “Good baby” with a “Good Parent”? Is speaking up in a socially awkward way “bad?” Defining Good and Bad for our kids can set parameters for what is or isn’t acceptable a...
2023-07-04
30 min
Parenting and Personalities
Perfectionism… How to Overcome it and Help Your Children do the Same
Perfectionism is a personality trait characterized by setting extremely high standards for oneself. Sometimes there’s nothing wrong with that, it can encourage us to go further, work harder, do more. But it can also cause us to be critical of our own performance, trigger fear and anxiety, and be a hinderance to our true potential. Overcoming your own damaging perfectionist mindset is one thing, helping your children overcome theirs is another. In this episode, specific tips to help us reach for the top and still respect that we’re only human...
2023-06-27
31 min
Parenting and Personalities
A Cuppa With Kate n Tray – How to Recognize Introverted and Extroverted Children
Recognizing introverted and extroverted tendencies in children is crucial for understanding their needs and adapting our parenting styles accordingly. Extroverted children derive their energy and relaxation from social interaction, finding solace in the company of others. Introverted children are more likely to cherish time alone… time away from people including parents. As outgoing parents, it’s important to recognize that our plans and activities might overwhelm the introverted child. At the same time, our child may need more stimulation than us just because we’re more on the introverted side. Kate n Tray g...
2023-06-20
31 min
Parenting and Personalities
Teaching Families About Personality Types
Personality types affect your family dynamics. The ISTJ is typically the dutiful parent offering their kids consistency, routine, and organization. But the ESTP parent is usually more adaptable and able to go with the flow. Understanding not just your own personality type but your partner’s and those of your children is important to keeping the home harmonious. Guest: Sandra Etherington On Instagram Website https://familypersonalities.com/ Contact: thepersonalitycoach@gmail.com Kate’s website Kate’s book on Amazon...
2023-06-13
27 min
Parenting and Personalities
How to Manage Conflicts Between Your Children
Hey that mine. I saw it first. Too bad. Finders keepers. Losers weepers. No need to even ask if this sounds familiar. It does. But there are ways to manage sibling rivalries. Actually understanding your children’s personality types and preferences can go a long way to keeping the peace. Guest: Sandra Etherington On Instagram Website https://familypersonalities.com/ Read Sandra’s article "Navigating Sibling Conflict" Contact: thepersonalitycoach@gmail.com Kate’s website
2023-06-06
32 min
Parenting and Personalities
A Cuppa With Kate n Tray – Travel… and Personality Types
When traveling do you prefer to be highly organized and structured? Loose and available for what catches your whim? Or somewhere in between. It’s all good when it’s just you traveling. It gets complicated when you have traveling companions, particularly if they don’t share your preferences. Guest Co Host: Tracy Noon Contact: thepersonalitycoach@gmail.com Kate’s website Kate’s book on Amazon Kate on LinkedInKate on FacebookKate on TwitterSee omnystudio...
2023-05-30
28 min
Parenting and Personalities
Attachment Theory and the Importance of Early Brain Development
The most important tenet of Attachment theory is that young children need to develop a relationship with at least one primary caregiver for normal social and emotional development. But in a world where parents, not just teenagers, are constantly distracted by mobile apps, social media, email and text messages, how do we ensure our kids are ok? Guest: Megan Gallagher (PG Dip Teaching, M.Ed.) Ignite Your Spark Email: meg@meggallagher.nz https://www.meggallagher.nz/ Follow on FB: https://www.facebook.com/MegGallagher.IgniteYourSpark
2023-05-23
30 min
Parenting and Personalities
Is it Time Australia Banned Smacking Children?
More than 40 counties and territories around the world have banned the physical punishment of children. New Zealand is on the list, but not Australia. Less than 10% of children under the age of five are living in countries where corporal punishment at home is fully prohibited. For years, different studies have indicated smacking or spanking is linked with an increased risk of negative outcomes for children such as aggression, adult mental health problems, and does little to change undesirable behaviours. A new study published in Australia in May 2023, recommends law reform to make corporal punishment illegal...
2023-05-17
28 min
Parenting and Personalities
Ode to Mother’s Day
In many ways the role of “Mother” has changed in the last couple decades. Since Mother’s Day was first conceived in the 1800’s, the role of mother can now be filled stepmothers, same sex couples, transgender mothers, gender neutral mothers, and fathers. But in other ways “Mother” hasn’t changed at all. It is the person who, typically, bears the ultimate responsibility for the health and wellbeing of a child, and forges the child’s earliest and most powerful emotional bond. In this episode Kate shares what “Mother” means to her, and collects viewpoints f...
2023-05-09
15 min
Parenting and Personalities
Haircut? I’d Rather Eat Brussels Sprouts
Think about the haircut from a young child’s perspective. They’re brought to a new place, sat in a tall chair and told to sit still. There’s a strange adult standing above them, holding a pair of scissors. They’ve probably already learned at home scissors are dangerous. They hurt if they get cut. How does the child know getting their haircut is actually painless? On top of this some kids genuinely have sensory issues. In this episode Kate talks with the hair stylist she’s known for 30 years, the one who knows...
2023-05-02
29 min
Parenting and Personalities
A Cuppa With Kate n Tra – Why Opposites Attract
You don’t need to be opposites to attract. Sometimes two very like-minded people with like-personalities people find mutual attraction. But it does seem odd that it’s often two people are not the same in many, many ways who find attraction. For example, why does the introvert find attraction in the extravert? Do they help them learn to speak up more and join the party? And why does the extravert fall for the introvert? Do they help them learn to listen and reflect? Kate and Tracy are coming at this from experience. Grab...
2023-04-25
29 min
Parenting and Personalities
ME/CFS – The Forgotten Disease
Myalgic Encephalomyelitis/Chronic Fatigue Syndrome ME/CFS as it’s known. The World Health Organisation classified ME/CFS as a disease, not a psychological issue, back in the 1960’s but we still know so little about it. It’s a complex disabling disease affecting the brain, the muscles, and digestive, immune and cardiac systems. About 60,000 people in Australia are housebound or bed bound from ME/CFS. It’s become the forgotten disease, costing the health system in the country $15.5 Billion annually. The health system has failed those who suffer from ME/CFS but one of th...
2023-04-18
35 min
Parenting and Personalities
The Joys (and Minefields) of Grandparenting
Grandparents teach young children. They bring a special enthusiasm that helps a child grow. They teach them by sharing stories, traditions, conversation, reading… and time together. Many families rely on grandparents for trusted childcare, but many surveys also show many grandparents feel some level of disagreement or tension about approaches to childcare. And many also say the job of caregiving is tiring. In this episode Kate talks with several grandparents about what they love about the role, how they go about it, and the potential mine fields they manage to avoid. Contact: ...
2023-04-10
19 min
Parenting and Personalities
When Your Child is Suicidal – One Family’s Story
Cindy and Brian in their 30’s when they became parents so they thought they were ready to handle pretty much anything it brought them. They weren’t. In High School their son was honest with them, he was having suicidal feelings… constantly. Local professionals didn’t seem able to help. Frantic, Cindy took to sleeping at the foot of her son’s bed in case he got up in the night “and wanted to make a bad decision.” Finally, they found a residential treatment centre that specialized in Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT). It was on the oth...
2023-04-04
40 min
Parenting and Personalities
Easter Traditions – Old & New
What does Easter mean to you? For some it’s a devout and important part of the Christian faith. For others it’s a tradition that developed in the northern hemisphere to mark the coming of Spring. And for others, it’s about chocolate! In this episode Kate roams the neighbourhood talking with friends about how they grew up marking Easter, and what they do now. Note - maybe not the best episode for little bunny ears Contact: thepersonalitycoach@gmail.com Kate’s website Kate’s book on Amazon Ka...
2023-03-28
18 min
Parenting and Personalities
A Cuppa With Kate and Tra – Of Intraverts and Extroverts
Growing up and understanding your place and your voice in this world isn’t easy. A personality trait tool that can help people understand and codify themselves is the Myers Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI).For example, Tracy Noon was an introverted child in a family mixed with introverts and extroverts. She always found it was tough to get her voice heard. By the time she’d though through what she wanted to say, the conversation had moved on.Kate was an extroverted child in an introverted family. Both parents were librarians. She was alwa...
2023-03-21
26 min
Parenting and Personalities
Setting Healthy Boundaries
Children need boundaries. Well we all need boundaries. Boundaries, essentially, are a form of self care. They create clear guidelines/rules/limits of how people should be treated. Boundaries honour our needs and wants so we feel respected and safe. They build self-esteem, help bring focus, enhance mental health, and develop independence.In this episode – the benefits of boundaries with our children.Guest: Kari Sutton, Author, Researcher, Parent EducatorKari has helped over 25,000 parents, educators, and others who care for kids to develop the skills and confidence to promote positive men...
2023-03-14
27 min
Parenting and Personalities
Teaching Our Kids to Fail Successfully
No one likes to fail and no one wants to see their kids fail. But failure plays an important role in life. It helps us learn, grow, and develop resilience. It allows us to develop a growth mindset and build confidence.In this episode Kate talks with Kari Sutton who has worked with thousands of parents and educators to plant the seeds of resilience and emotional wellbeing in kids.Guest: Kari Sutton, Author, Researcher, Parent EducatorKari has helped over 25,000 parents, educators, and others who care for kids to develop the skills...
2023-03-07
36 min
Parenting and Personalities
Tuning In To Our Kids (and Getting Help Doing That)
Tuning in to Kids® (TIK) is a suite of parenting programs that focus on the emotional connection between parents/carers and their children, from pre-schoolers to teens. The evidence-based programs have proven success in improving parenting, parent-child relationships and children’s emotional competence and behaviour. They began in 1999 as group sessions but with the pandemic have successfully made the shift to online training which means the programs are available to everyone.To date, more than 100,000 parents have attended TIK programs in AustraliaGuest: Sophie Havigshurst, (BA Hons, Dip Clin Psych, Ph.D.)
2023-02-28
24 min
Parenting and Personalities
Collaborative & Proactive Solutions for Problem Solving
Imagine you live downstream from a factory that makes widgets. You keep seeing widgets in the river near where you live. Your natural solution to this problem would be to go upstream to the factory, make them aware of the problem, and insist or help them fix it.We don’t do that with our children. Instead, to solve behavioural issues we often resort to spankings, detentions, timeouts, suspensions, even restraint.Collaborative & Proactive Solutions is an evidence-based model of psychosocial treatment that doesn’t focus on kids’ challenging behaviours but on the problems causing those behavi...
2023-02-21
30 min
Parenting and Personalities
Learning Real Communication With Your Kids
Imagine your child still hasn’t cleaned their room although you’ve asked them to numerous times. You probably don’t need to imagine. You remind them again, this time in a stronger tone, perhaps even demanding. And they either don’t or they do but the communication between you is strained.Another approach to this might be the “Curiosity Approach.” Your child doesn’t care about a clean room, they care that it’s THEIR room. They care about the ownership of it. So imagine interacting with your child on the possibilities they could do with THEIR room. Poss...
2023-02-14
32 min