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Adaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedLearn to Give the Most Generous Assumption for a More Peaceful LifeWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how to learn to give the most generous assumption—a powerful mindset shift that leads to more peace, less conflict, and deeper connection in everyday relationships. By choosing to believe others are doing the best they can with what they know, we open the door to empathy, reduce emotional reactivity, and foster healing communication. Let's explore how this simple but profound approach can transform the way we relate to ourselves and others. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, an...2025-05-3011 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedLearn to Give the Most Generous Assumption for a More Peaceful LifeWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how to learn to give the most generous assumption—a powerful mindset shift that leads to more peace, less conflict, and deeper connection in everyday relationships. By choosing to believe others are doing the best they can with what they know, we open the door to empathy, reduce emotional reactivity, and foster healing communication. Let's explore how this simple but profound approach can transform the way we relate to ourselves and others. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mo...2025-05-3011 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior Explained5 Strategies for Effective CommunicationWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over 5 strategies for effective communication—practical tools to help you connect with clarity, reduce conflict, and build stronger relationships. Whether you're navigating tough conversations or looking to deepen everyday interactions, these strategies will support healthier, more connected dialogue. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we...2025-05-2308 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior Explained5 Strategies for Effective CommunicationWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over 5 strategies for effective communication—practical tools to help you connect with clarity, reduce conflict, and build stronger relationships. Whether you're navigating tough conversations or looking to deepen everyday interactions, these strategies will support healthier, more connected dialogue. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we...2025-05-2308 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedDiscover The Benefits of Ketamine Assisted PsychotherapyWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over the benefits of Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy, featuring a conversation with Kelly Ohoro and Dr. Eddie Shahnaz. We explore how ketamine, when used in a therapeutic setting, can support breakthroughs in treatment-resistant depression, PTSD, and anxiety. Learn how this innovative approach can enhance emotional processing, reduce mental health symptoms, and open the door to deeper healing. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they...2025-05-1619 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedDiscover The Benefits of Ketamine Assisted PsychotherapyWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over the benefits of Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy, featuring a conversation with Kelly Ohoro and Dr. Eddie Shahnaz. We explore how ketamine, when used in a therapeutic setting, can support breakthroughs in treatment-resistant depression, PTSD, and anxiety. Learn how this innovative approach can enhance emotional processing, reduce mental health symptoms, and open the door to deeper healing. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking...2025-05-1619 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedProjection and Blame and How to Slow Yourself Down from Season 2 of AdaptableWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how to get un-stuck from blame and projection. We explore how these defense mechanisms can keep us from taking responsibility and block personal growth. By understanding where blame and projection come from and how they protect us. We can begin to shift inward, reclaim our power, and create healthier patterns in our relationships. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side...2025-05-0924 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedProjection and Blame and How to Slow Yourself Down from Season 2 of AdaptableWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how to get un-stuck from blame and projection. We explore how these defense mechanisms can keep us from taking responsibility and block personal growth. By understanding where blame and projection come from and how they protect us. We can begin to shift inward, reclaim our power, and create healthier patterns in our relationships. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their...2025-05-0924 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedMaybe It's Not Bad Enough to Change? from Season 2 of AdaptableWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over why people stay stuck, featuring the Region Beta Paradox with Patrick O’Horo. We explore how sometimes being “just okay” can actually prevent growth and change. The Region Beta Paradox explains why mild discomfort can keep us in place longer than intense pain—and how recognizing this can motivate real transformation. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they bra...2025-05-0325 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedMaybe It's Not Bad Enough to Change? from Season 2 of AdaptableWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over why people stay stuck, featuring the Region Beta Paradox with Patrick O’Horo. We explore how sometimes being “just okay” can actually prevent growth and change. The Region Beta Paradox explains why mild discomfort can keep us in place longer than intense pain—and how recognizing this can motivate real transformation. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to...2025-05-0325 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedHow to Respond Rather than React, 5 Habits to Adopt from Season 2 of AdaptableWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how to respond rather than react, highlighting 5 key habits that support emotional regulation and intentional behavior. We explore why reactive patterns often stem from survival instincts and how simple, consistent practices like pausing, breathing, and observing can create space between stimulus and response. These habits empower us to navigate challenges with clarity, reduce conflict, and strengthen relationships. Learn how to shift from automatic reactions to thoughtful responses that reflect your values and goals. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm...2025-05-0217 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedHow to Respond Rather than React, 5 Habits to Adopt from Season 2 of AdaptableWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how to respond rather than react, highlighting 5 key habits that support emotional regulation and intentional behavior. We explore why reactive patterns often stem from survival instincts and how simple, consistent practices like pausing, breathing, and observing can create space between stimulus and response. These habits empower us to navigate challenges with clarity, reduce conflict, and strengthen relationships. Learn how to shift from automatic reactions to thoughtful responses that reflect your values and goals. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5...2025-05-0217 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedMel Robbin's Let Them Theory Reviewed from Season 2 of AdaptableWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over Mel Robbins’ Let Them Theory from a therapist’s perspective. We explore the psychological insights behind this mindset shift and how it can improve relationships, reduce stress, and foster emotional resilience. Learn how embracing the Let Them approach can help you set healthier boundaries and focus on personal growth.   Thank you for being part of the Adaptable | Behavior Explained community. Your support has made this season unforgettable. 🙌 Let us know in the comments which lessons resonated with you most or how the podcast has inspired you. ...2025-04-1723 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedMel Robbin's Let Them Theory Reviewed from Season 2 of AdaptableWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over Mel Robbins’ Let Them Theory from a therapist’s perspective. We explore the psychological insights behind this mindset shift and how it can improve relationships, reduce stress, and foster emotional resilience. Learn how embracing the Let Them approach can help you set healthier boundaries and focus on personal growth.   Thank you for being part of the Adaptable | Behavior Explained community. Your support has made this season unforgettable. 🙌 Let us know in the comments which lessons resonated with you most or how the podcast has inspired you. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR The...2025-04-1723 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedImprove your Relationships by understanding Gottman's 4 Horseman of the Apocalypse from Season 2 of AdaptableWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over Gottman’s Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse and how they impact relationships. These four behaviors—Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling—can erode trust and connection over time. Understanding them helps identify destructive patterns and replace them with healthier communication strategies. Learn how to recognize and counter these behaviors to strengthen your relationships. Thank you for being part of the Adaptable | Behavior Explained community. Your support has made this season unforgettable. 🙌 Let us know in the comments which lessons resonated with you most or how the podcast has inspi...2025-04-1012 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedImprove your Relationships by Understanding Karpman's Drama Triangle from Season 2 of AdaptableWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over Karpman’s Drama Triangle and how it affects relationships. The model identifies three roles—Victim, Rescuer, and Persecutor—that create unhealthy interaction patterns. Understanding these dynamics can help break negative cycles, improve communication, and build healthier connections. Recognizing when you or others fall into these roles allows for more constructive and empowering relationships. Thank you for being part of the Adaptable | Behavior Explained community. Your support has made this season unforgettable. 🙌 Let us know in the comments which lessons resonated with you most or how the podcast h...2025-04-0315 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedLessons and Growth from Season 1 of AdaptableWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Join us as we reflect on the incredible journey of Season 1 of Adaptable | Behavior Explained! From thought-provoking conversations to personal growth insights, this season has been a transformative experience for everyone involved. In this video, we dive into: ✅ Key takeaways from our most impactful episodes. ✅ The lessons that shaped the journey. ✅ How challenges turned into opportunities for growth. Thank you for being part of the Adaptable | Behavior Explained community. Your support has made this season unforgettable. 🙌 Let us know in the comments which lessons resonated...2025-01-0319 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedRapid Fire Questions with Kelly from Season 1 of AdaptableWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Get ready to learn more about Kelly as we put her in the hot seat with a fun round of rapid-fire questions! All questions from viewers and comments from Season 1. Like, comment, and let us know what other questions you'd like answered! 🔥 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the bes...2025-01-0225 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedRapid Fire Questions with Kelly from Season 1 of AdaptableWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Get ready to learn more about Kelly as we put her in the hot seat with a fun round of rapid-fire questions! All questions from viewers and comments from Season 1. Like, comment, and let us know what other questions you'd like answered! 🔥 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all...2025-01-0225 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedThe Impact of Sexual Abuse on Survivor's LivesWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Sexual abuse leaves deep and lasting scars that affect survivors' lives in profound ways. In this video, we explore the emotional, psychological, and social challenges survivors often face, including trauma, trust issues, and self-esteem struggles. We also discuss the journey toward healing, the importance of support systems, therapy and available resources for survivors. Our goal is to shed light on this sensitive topic, create awareness, and foster empathy and understanding. Whether you’re a survivor, a supporter, or simply seeking to learn more, this video is a step toward building a compassionate and informed co...2024-12-1322 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedWhy People Cheat: Understanding InfidelityWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Why do people cheat? Is it about love, attraction, or something deeper? In this video you get to here from a licensed therapist, break down the common reasons behind infidelity, exploring emotional, psychological, and situational factors. Whether you're looking to heal from betrayal or understand human behavior better, this conversation sheds light on the complexities of relationships and trust. 💡 Topics Covered: - Emotional disconnect and unmet needs - Thrill-seeking and impulsivity - Statistics - Relationship patterns and past trauma - How to nav...2024-12-1022 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedHoliday Gone Wrong: Lessons LearnedWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, I share a true story about how a seemingly perfect holiday turned into a stressful, chaotic experience—and the valuable lessons we can all take from it. Whether it’s family drama, unmet expectations, or the pressure to create "the perfect day," the holidays can be a challenging time for many of us. 👉 Have you had a holiday go off the rails? Share your story in the comments! Let’s support each other in creating more meaningful celebrations. 🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe for more tips on navigating lif...2024-12-0328 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedBridging the Gap: Mental Health and Support for Public Safety Heroes part 1Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, we delve into the mental health challenges that public safety heroes – including police officers, firefighters, EMTs, and other first responders – face daily in their line of duty. These brave individuals confront high-stress situations, trauma, and pressure, which can deeply impact their mental well-being. We’ll discuss the importance of mental health awareness, available support resources, and practical strategies for coping with the unique demands of public safety professions. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer...2024-11-1530 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedParenting Tips for Raising TeensWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Raising teens can be challenging, especially when they’re going through tough or rebellious phases. In this video, we’re sharing practical strategies to help you better connect with your teenager, set healthy boundaries, and navigate the ups and downs of adolescence with more confidence and calm. We’ll discuss proven techniques for managing conflicts, fostering open communication, and understanding the underlying emotions that might be driving their behavior. Whether your teen is struggling with mood swings, school issues, or communication breakdowns, these tips are designed to make parenting a little easier and help you bu...2024-11-1221 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedWelcome to the Shit Show: The Truth about Being a Single Parent - Part 2Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Being a single parent is a journey full of highs and lows, and in this video, we’re uncovering the raw and real truth about what it’s really like. This episode dives deep into the challenges and rewards of single parenthood. Whether you're a single mom, dad, or just curious about the reality of parenting alone, this honest discussion is for you. It’s not always easy, but it’s always worth it. Part 2 of 2 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mo...2024-11-0532 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedWelcome to the Shit Show: The Truth about Being a Single Parent Part 1Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Being a single parent is a journey full of highs and lows, and in this video, we’re uncovering the raw and real truth about what it’s really like. This episode dives deep into the challenges and rewards of single parenthood. Whether you're a single mom, dad, or just curious about the reality of parenting alone, this honest discussion is for you. It’s not always easy, but it’s always worth it. Part 1 of 2 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mo...2024-10-2521 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedThe Future of Healthcare - Part 2Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode we bring in Chris Desmarchais with RISE Health. The current medical system is broken. Rise is setting a new standard for wellness, aimed at keeping you healthy and thriving for as long as possible. By embracing the latest medical innovations, we develop tailored strategies to maximize your quality of life and lower your risks for diseases. Part 2 of 2 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my...2024-10-1825 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedThe Future of Healthcare - Part 1Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode we bring in Chris Desmarchais with RISE Health. The current medical system is broken. Rise is setting a new standard for wellness, aimed at keeping you healthy and thriving for as long as possible. By embracing the latest medical innovations, we develop tailored strategies to maximize your quality of life and lower your risks for diseases. Part 1 of 1 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my...2024-10-1821 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedInsights from a Therapist - Inside Out 2 (2024 Film)Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, a licensed therapist shares professional insights on Pixar's Inside Out 2, exploring the film's portrayal of emotions and mental health. Through the characters Joy, Sadness, Anger, Fear, Disgust, and newly introduced Anxiety, Embarrassment, and Envy. The movie presents a thoughtful depiction of how we manage emotions in real life. Learn how the film reflects key concepts in psychology, emotional intelligence, and child development, and discover practical takeaways about understanding and validating your own feelings. Whether you're a fan of the movie or interested in mental health, this discussion offers a fresh, therapeutic...2024-10-0426 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedInsights from a Therapist - Inside Out (2015 Film)Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, a licensed therapist shares professional insights on Pixar's Inside Out, exploring the film's portrayal of emotions and mental health. Through the characters Joy, Sadness, Anger, Fear, and Disgust, the movie presents a thoughtful depiction of how we manage emotions in real life. Learn how the film reflects key concepts in psychology, emotional intelligence, and child development, and discover practical takeaways about understanding and validating your own feelings. Whether you're a fan of the movie or interested in mental health, this discussion offers a fresh, therapeutic perspective on the emotional journey we...2024-09-2725 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedHow to Parent During Divorce: Ways to Minimize DamageWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode is a must-watch for anyone going through or considering a divorce. Special guest Dianne Sullivan, a trauma-informed lawyer breaks down the legal process while also addressing the emotional challenges that come with it. Whether you're just starting out or deep in the process, this video offers compassionate, expert advice to help you navigate divorce with your mental and emotional well-being in mind. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending...2024-09-2033 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedIntersection of Faith and Therapy - Important ConsiderationsWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, we tackle the complex question: Is incorporating faith into therapy good or bad for mental health? For some, faith is a source of comfort, hope, and healing, while others may find that certain religious beliefs create barriers to emotional and psychological well-being. We’ll explore both the potential benefits and drawbacks of using faith in therapy, examining how spiritual practices can either support or hinder mental health treatment. Can faith-based therapy be a positive tool for growth, or does it sometimes conflict with professional psychological care? Join us as we...2024-09-1645 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedFostering and Adoption: What You Should KnowWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Thinking about fostering or adopting a child? This video breaks down everything you need to know! From the differences between fostering and adoption to the emotional and practical aspects involved, we’ll guide you through each step of the process. Whether you’re looking to provide a temporary safe haven or a permanent home, this video will help you understand the responsibilities, challenges, and joys that come with welcoming a child into your life. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife...2024-09-0639 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedWhat You Should Know about Divorce from a Trauma Informed LawyerWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Going through a divorce can be one of the most challenging experiences in life. In this video, a trauma informed lawyer shares essential advice to help you navigate the process smoothly and protect your rights. From understanding the legal steps involved to managing emotional and financial challenges, you'll gain valuable insights on how to handle divorce with confidence. Whether you're just starting the process or are in the midst of it, this guide will provide the clarity and support you need. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced...2024-08-3027 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedHow to Use Your Voice to Regulate Your EmotionsWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Discover the power of your voice as a tool for emotional regulation! In this video, we'll explore how the way you speak, tone, pitch, and rhythm can influence your mood and overall emotional state. Whether you're feeling anxious, stressed, or overwhelmed, learning to harness your vocal expression can bring about a sense of calm and control. Join us as we dive into practical techniques that you can use anytime, anywhere, to transform your emotions through the simple yet profound act of using your voice. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more tips...2024-08-2333 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedTelehealth Vs. In Person Therapy: How Do I Choose?Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, we are going to explore the pros and cons of telehealth versus in-person therapy. As mental health services become more accessible online, many are wondering which option is best for their needs. I'll dive into the benefits and challenges of both approaches, covering aspects like convenience, effectiveness, personal connection, and privacy. Whether you're considering starting therapy or just curious about the differences, this video will help you make an informed decision. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5...2024-08-1614 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedEMDR and Pain ManagementWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, we explore the powerful and transformative technique of Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy and its application in pain management. EMDR is a psychotherapy approach originally designed to alleviate the distress associated with traumatic memories. However, recent research has shown its effectiveness in treating chronic pain conditions, providing relief and improving the quality of life for many individuals. Whether you're dealing with chronic pain, emotional trauma, or simply curious about new therapeutic techniques, this video offers valuable insights and practical information. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist...2024-08-1218 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedMental Health | First Responders & VeteransWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, we explore the critical topic of mental health among first responders. Firefighters, police officers, paramedics, and other emergency personnel face unique challenges and stressors in their line of duty. The nature of their work often involves high-pressure situations, trauma exposure, and the responsibility of saving lives. These experiences can take a toll on their mental well-being. Join us as we delve into the importance of mental health support for these everyday heroes. We'll discuss common mental health issues faced by first responders, such as PTSD, anxiety, depression, and burnout...2024-08-1236 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior Explained10 Steps To Repair after conflict in RelationshipsWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this video, I explore practical steps to repair and strengthen your relationship after a conflict. Whether it's a disagreement with a partner, friend, or family member, conflicts can strain relationships, but they also offer an opportunity for growth and deeper connection. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're...2024-08-1224 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedBreaking Gender StereotypesWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Join us in this powerful exploration of breaking gender stereotypes! In this video, we challenge societal norms and celebrate individuality, showcasing inspiring stories and perspectives that defy traditional gender roles. Let’s embrace diversity and promote a world where everyone can express themselves freely. Together, we can create a more inclusive future! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spen...2024-07-1914 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedHealth Anxiety: The Path to SerenityWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! A little bit of concern about your health is normal, and even healthy! If you have health anxiety, worries about your health can take over your life and cause you a lot of distress. It is thought that between 1 and 10 people out of every 100 will experience health anxiety every year. Fortunately, EMDR therapy is a great tool to use for such cases. Let's dive in with Taylor O'Horo and talk more about it. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer...2024-07-1720 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedHealth Anxiety: The Path to SerenityWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! A little bit of concern about your health is normal, and even healthy! If you have health anxiety, worries about your health can take over your life and cause you a lot of distress. It is thought that between 1 and 10 people out of every 100 will experience health anxiety every year. Fortunately, EMDR therapy is a great tool to use for such cases. Let's dive in with Taylor O'Horo and talk more about it. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife...2024-07-1720 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedCaretaking for Aging ParentsWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! The population of older adults (65 and older) in the U.S. is growing rapidly, according to the U.S. Census Bureau. By 2030, the number of older Americans is expected to reach 73 million, making up more than 20% of the total population. As individuals age, they may require varying levels of care, which their adult children often provide. Adult children commonly experience uncertainty when confronted with the prospect of caring for their parents. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a...2024-07-0422 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedExploring Sexuality, Identity, & PronounsWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Your sexuality, identity, and pronouns are yours to define. They’re the core of who you are. Choosing pronouns that fit you is about being seen as your true self. It’s direct: You are who you say you are, and that’s enough. No one else’s timeline or expectations matter. It’s your story, your script, your stage. Stand tall in your identity, and know that being you is enough. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer...2024-07-0429 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedMindset Matters Cultivating Growth and Resilience Part 2Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Adopting the right mindset might just change the way you experience life, and make it easier and more enjoyable to learn new things. The narratives we create and the mindsets we adopt change the way we experience the world. They can also have powerful impacts on the body and the mind. Today we bring in Jayden Micah, the author of “My Reading Journal”. Join us as we discuss the importance of mindset in everything from life to business. This is Part 2 of 2 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Cons...2024-06-1811 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedMindset Matters: Cultivating Growth and Resilience Part 1Mindset Matters: Cultivating Growth and Resilience Part 1Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Adopting the right mindset might just change the way you experience life, and make it easier and more enjoyable to learn new things. The narratives we create and the mindsets we adopt change the way we experience the world. They can also have powerful impacts on the body and the mind. Today we bring in Jayden Micah, the author of “My Reading Journal”. Join us as we discuss the importance of mindset in everything from life to business. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom...2024-06-0928 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedThe Power of Saying NOWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Have you ever found yourself agreeing to something you didn't want to do, simply because you couldn't muster the courage to say "no"? If so, you're not alone. Many of us struggle with the idea of rejecting requests, often at the expense of our own well-being. But what if I told you that saying "no" could actually be one of the most empowering things you could do for yourself? Yes, you heard it right! Learning to say "no" is not just about being assertive, it's about respecting your own time, energy, and personal limits...2024-05-3115 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedNavigating the Journey of Identity in your Early 20s - Part 2Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! The world has become increasingly complex over the past 50 years. Until the mid-20th century, the transition to adulthood was relatively well-structured for most people. One of the defining developmental processes that occur during the unique stage of emerging adulthood is the emergence of adult identity, or the subjective sense of adulthood. So today we talk to Collin, to bring a sense of perspective of someone in their early 20's and what they experience in todays world and that story of their own identity. This is Part 2 of 2 I'm Kelly...2024-05-2416 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedNavigating the Journey of Indentity in your Early 20s - Part 1Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! The world has become increasingly complex over the past 50 years. Until the mid-20th century, the transition to adulthood was relatively well-structured for most people. One of the defining developmental processes that occur during the unique stage of emerging adulthood is the emergence of adult identity, or the subjective sense of adulthood. So today we talk to Collin, to bring a sense of perspective of someone in their early 20's and what they experience in todays world and that story of their own identity. This is Part 1 of 2 I'm Kelly...2024-05-1733 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedKetamine Chronicles: Mindscapes & MiraclesWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) is an emerging approach to mental health treatment that offers valuable solutions for those struggling with various challenging issues. By combining the administration of ketamine, a medication with unique properties, and psychotherapy techniques, KAP enables therapists and clients to address deeply-rooted mental health concerns more effectively. KAP has demonstrated promising results for individuals grappling with treatment-resistant depression, anxiety disorders, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), paving the way for its integration into modern clinical practice. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer...2024-05-1013 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedFocus Frequency: Navigating ADD/ADHDWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Individuals with ADD or ADHD have a difficult time paying attention and focusing, especially if they’re uninterested, are easily distracted, and can also be impulsive or disruptive. ADHD also includes the physical symptoms of hyperactivity or excessive restlessness. While the symptoms seen to be fairly straight forward, diagnosing ADD/ADHD can be complex. A person must exhibit a large number of symptoms that prove to cause significant problems with daily life, throughout their life, and in multiple settings. Let's talk about how to navigate ADD/ADHD! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EM...2024-05-0313 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedTame your Anxiety with EMDR TherapyWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! By understanding the stress and anxiety habit loops present in our lives, we can eventually ease ourselves into different behaviors around these difficult emotions. Join me as we talk about what you can do, to tame your anxiety with EMDR Therapy. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all...2024-04-2610 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedPsychePioneers: The KAP DialoguesWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) is an emerging approach to mental health treatment that offers valuable solutions for those struggling with various challenging issues. By combining the administration of ketamine, a medication with unique properties, and psychotherapy techniques, KAP enables therapists and clients to address deeply-rooted mental health concerns more effectively. KAP has demonstrated promising results for individuals grappling with treatment-resistant depression, anxiety disorders, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), paving the way for its integration into modern clinical practice. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer...2024-04-2333 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedEnneagram: Understanding Your Number and Personality TypeWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! The Enneagram is a personality system with 9 types that each have their own core drives, fears, and motivations. Your type is determined by your innate traits and shaped by your life experiences. Finding your Enneagram type can help you understand why you make the choices that you do. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live...2024-04-1432 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior Explained5 Key Concepts to Build a Strong Foundation for a Lasting RelationshipWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! “Hindsight,” “grass is greener,” “love is all you need” and other adages aside, you might be curious what makes a relationship strong and long? What can you do to help ensure your relationship stays strong and happy — even through the rough stuff? Here's 5 Key Concepts to help build a strong foundation for a lasting relationship. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing...2024-04-0732 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedHow to Heal from TraumaWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Healing from such a profound change often takes a long time, and trauma recovery isn’t always pretty, or linear. Your journey may involve obstacles, detours, and delays, along with setbacks and lost ground. You may have no idea where you’re going or how to get there — but that’s OK. Just as trauma can take many different forms, trauma recovery take a multitude of paths. There’s no official roadmap, but keeping these tips in considerations in mind may prove helpful along your way. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist...2024-03-2919 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior Explained4 Styles of CommunicationWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Understanding different communication styles can radically improve the quality of your relationships. Our communication styles have the power to build meaningful connections, a crucial aspect of success in any area of life. Whether your goals relate to your job, health, family, or finances, you’ll never get what you want without learning to communicate. So let's go over the 4 different styles in todays episode! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my...2024-03-2324 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedCoping Skills to Deal with Trauma SymptomsWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Everyone deals with varying degrees of stress and sometimes trauma, both big and small. Many different events in life can contribute to trauma, including ongoing chronic stress, medical issues, natural disasters, job loss, divorce, and other challenges. After a trauma, people experience feelings of shock and denial. Long-term effects of trauma may include intense emotions, physical symptoms, flashbacks, and problems with relationships. Fortunately, there are healthy ways to cope with trauma and get to the other side. I'm here to talk about some of those ways. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR...2024-03-2319 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedParenting Adult Children-Parents are Humans TooWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Parenting doesn’t stop once children reach adulthood, but it certainly changes. One of the big questions parents wrestle with is — how much should I be involved in my adult child’s life….when they are in college, starting their careers, finding romantic partners, and needing financial support? We go over all this and more! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their he...2024-03-0837 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior Explained15 Characteristics of C-PTSDWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Complex post-traumatic stress disorder, C-PTSD, is a devastating condition that affects some people who have lived through long-term trauma, such as months or years of abuse. It causes symptoms similar to PTSD but also other symptoms that lead to significant impairment in relationships and quality of life. C-PTSD can be difficult to diagnose but here are 15 characteristics to help identify C-PTSD. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking...2024-03-0312 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedWhy is our Attachment Style so Important in Relationships?Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode we bring in the amazing Barry Litt, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and EMDRIA Approved Consultant with 40 years of experience. Join us as we dive into the different attachment styles and how they may be affecting your relationships today! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDRTherapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're...2024-02-2638 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedHow Can Naturopathic Medicine Address Our Mental Health?Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Today we bring in Dr. Mykayla Werner, a licensed naturopathic doctor. Naturopathy, also referred to as naturopathic healing, offers a different approach that focuses on fostering the body's natural healing processes, rather than relying solely on external interventions. Through the implementation of various lifestyle modifications, targeted nutrient support, and other encompassing methods, naturopathy paves a path toward not only alleviating symptoms but also nurturing an enduring sense of vitality, especially in the realm of mental health. In embracing naturopathic principles, one embarks on a transformative journey towards holistic health and a renewed sense of...2024-02-1927 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedSurviving Complex PTSD, Life in Post Traumatic Growth Part 2Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Patrick O'Horo's raw and direct account of his mental health journey. From tackling complex PTSD to embracing EMDR therapy as a client to now being an EMDR clinician, Patrick shares the highs and lows, dismantling blame, and finding transformative support. Patrick also touches on the significance of men's mental health, offering a poignant perspective on breaking stigmas and fostering understanding. This episode is a direct and personal dive into vulnerability, resilience, and triumph over mental health challenges. This is Part 2 of 2! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant...2024-02-0914 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedSurviving Complex PTSD, Life in Post Traumatic Growth Part 2Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Patrick O'Horo's raw and direct account of his mental health journey. From tackling complex PTSD to embracing EMDR therapy as a client to now being an EMDR clinician, Patrick shares the highs and lows, dismantling blame, and finding transformative support. Patrick also touches on the significance of men's mental health, offering a poignant perspective on breaking stigmas and fostering understanding. This episode is a direct and personal dive into vulnerability, resilience, and triumph over mental health challenges. This is Part 2 of 2! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR...2024-02-0914 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedSurviving Complex PTSD, Life in Post Traumatic Growth Part 1Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Patrick O'Horo's raw and direct account of his mental health journey. From tackling complex PTSD to embracing EMDR therapy as a client to now being an EMDR clinician, Patrick shares the highs and lows, dismantling blame, and finding transformative support. Patrick also touches on the significance of men's mental health, offering a poignant perspective on breaking stigmas and fostering understanding. This episode is a direct and personal dive into vulnerability, resilience, and triumph over mental health challenges. Stay tuned for Part 2! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR...2024-02-0239 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedSurviving Complex PTSD, Life in Post Traumatic Growth Part 1Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, we explore Patrick O'Horo's raw and direct account of his mental health journey. From tackling complex PTSD to embracing EMDR therapy as a client to now being an EMDR clinician, Patrick shares the highs and lows, dismantling blame, and finding transformative support. Patrick also touches on the significance of men's mental health, offering a poignant perspective on breaking stigmas and fostering understanding. This episode is a direct and personal dive into vulnerability, resilience, and triumph over mental health challenges. Stay tuned for Part 2! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant...2024-02-0239 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedWhy We Lie and How to Become Radically HonestWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Today we're going to talk about lying as a trauma response, why we lie, how it works, and how we can incorporate radical honesty to live a more fulfilled life. Lying is a pervasive human behavior. Honesty isn't always our default setting - sometimes we may find ourselves bending the truth. When little ones start telling their own versions of events, it can stir a mix of parental worry and amusement (given how easily their tales unravel). Surprisingly, in those early years, these fibs indicate a cognitive milestone. Let's explore the effects of lying...2024-01-2715 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedTips & Tricks for Parenting Your TeenWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this conversation, Kelly and Victoria discuss the intricacies of parenting, tackling the fine line between being the cool, laid-back parent and the strict enforcer. The examples they share, like expecting an 8-year-old to be independent or coddling a 15-year-old, hit home for anyone navigating the unpredictable terrain of parenting. Victoria expresses the struggle with parents either pushing their kids to grow up too soon or holding onto the reins for too long, creating a delicate dance of independence. There's also a nod to breaking free from traditional gender roles in parenting – because, yes, da...2024-01-2024 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedTips & Tricks for Parenting Your TeenWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this conversation, Kelly and Victoria discuss the intricacies of parenting, tackling the fine line between being the cool, laid-back parent and the strict enforcer. The examples they share, like expecting an 8-year-old to be independent or coddling a 15-year-old, hit home for anyone navigating the unpredictable terrain of parenting. Victoria expresses the struggle with parents either pushing their kids to grow up too soon or holding onto the reins for too long, creating a delicate dance of independence. There's also a nod to breaking free from traditional gender roles in parenting – because, yes, dads ca...2024-01-2024 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedNon Specific Trauma: Big T’s Little T’sWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Have you ever been guilty of saying, “What happened to me is no big deal. Other people have had it much worse.”? If so, you are not alone. Most people struggle to acknowledge that what they went through can be defined as a trauma. It is as if you somehow do not have the right to heal from your situation. All because it doesn’t seem as bad as what someone else went through. As a trauma therapist, I’m here to validate your experience. I help my clients learn how to give themselves space an...2024-01-1212 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedThe 4 Attachment Styles: An OverviewWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Early interactions with your caregivers can influence the health of your future relationships. We’re all born as helpless little creatures who depend on our caregivers for everything. Human infants are vulnerable beings who rely on others to keep them fed, safe, comforted … everything really. There is a long list of scientific literature that categorizes how we form emotional attachments to our primary caregivers in order to ensure our safety and survival. These studies categorized them in 4 attachment styles, let's talk about them. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and...2024-01-0619 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedWhat Happened to Make You Anxious?Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly interviews Jamie Castillo, owner of Finder Shine Therapy in Tempe, AZ, and author of "What Happened to Make You Anxious?" They delve into the journey of therapists, discussing the importance of self-awareness and personal exploration. Jamie shares her own experience with anxiety, highlighting the subtle signs and deeper roots that led her to write her book. Discover how anxiety, often seen as a negative force, can be a helpful messenger, urging us to address underlying issues and embrace personal growth. Tune in for insightful conversations on mental health and the...2023-12-3022 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedWhat Happened to Make You Anxious?Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly interviews Jamie Castillo, owner of Finder Shine Therapy in Tempe, AZ, and author of "What Happened to Make You Anxious?" They delve into the journey of therapists, discussing the importance of self-awareness and personal exploration. Jamie shares her own experience with anxiety, highlighting the subtle signs and deeper roots that led her to write her book. Discover how anxiety, often seen as a negative force, can be a helpful messenger, urging us to address underlying issues and embrace personal growth. Tune in for insightful conversations on mental health and the nuanced...2023-12-3022 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedThe Social Media Paradox: The Illusion of Connection vs. The Reality of JudgmentWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over the impact of excessive smartphone and social media use on mental health and relationships. Kelly emphasizes mindfulness in behavior and highlights negative consequences of excessive social media use, such as disconnection, compromised safety, and mental health challenges. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all...2023-12-2223 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedThe Social Media Paradox: The Illusion of Connection vs. The Reality of JudgmentWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over the impact of excessive smartphone and social media use on mental health and relationships. Kelly emphasizes mindfulness in behavior and highlights negative consequences of excessive social media use, such as disconnection, compromised safety, and mental health challenges. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best...2023-12-2224 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedMBSR: Meditation Changes Your BrainWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly O'Horo, and Julie demystify MBSR, covering essential topics that reshape our understanding. Explore the comprehensive MBSR training process, including the 8-week course and impactful full-day retreat. Hear about Julie's personal evolution, discovering her path as an MBSR teacher. Gain profound insights from silent retreats, emphasizing intentional communication and self-regulation. Uncover the groundbreaking work of John Kabat Zinn, unraveling the history and influence of MBSR in Western culture. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have...2023-12-1521 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedMBSR: Meditation Changes Your BrainWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly O'Horo, and Julie demystify MBSR, covering essential topics that reshape our understanding. Explore the comprehensive MBSR training process, including the 8-week course and impactful full-day retreat. Hear about Julie's personal evolution, discovering her path as an MBSR teacher. Gain profound insights from silent retreats, emphasizing intentional communication and self-regulation. Uncover the groundbreaking work of John Kabat Zinn, unraveling the history and influence of MBSR in Western culture. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a...2023-12-1521 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedBoundaries 101Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Boundaries play a crucial role in maintaining healthy and balanced relationships. Boundaries help us define the limits and expectations within a relationship and help individuals understand their own needs and protect their personal well-being. There are many different levels to boundaries that effect all different aspects to our life. This episode will help you understand these boundaries and more! I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side...2023-12-0719 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedThe Holiday Season: Survival is InsufficientWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! For so many people, Christmas and the overall holiday season is one of the happiest times of the year. Some people spend all year preparing for this time of year. But for many people, Christmas is the least favorite time of the year. So when you're sitting at the dinner table eating turkey dinner for the tenth time or struggling to find room for all those new presents, family around you, consider yourself grateful. Please don't take anything you have for granted. What you consider such a normal part of the holidays...2023-11-2616 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedMotherhood Exposed - Part 3Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode features a conversation about the broader experiences of new motherhood. The dialogue covers themes such as hormonal shifts, mood changes, and postpartum experiences. Kelly and Ratna delve into the challenges faced by new mothers, including the overwhelming feelings of love towards the newborn and the complexities surrounding the choice of breastfeeding. The conversation offers a general exploration of the various emotional and practical aspects associated with becoming a new mother. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I...2023-11-1827 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedMotherhood Exposed - Part 3Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode features a conversation about the broader experiences of new motherhood. The dialogue covers themes such as hormonal shifts, mood changes, and postpartum experiences. Kelly and Ratna delve into the challenges faced by new mothers, including the overwhelming feelings of love towards the newborn and the complexities surrounding the choice of breastfeeding. The conversation offers a general exploration of the various emotional and practical aspects associated with becoming a new mother. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and...2023-11-1827 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedMotherhood Exposed - Part 2Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly O’Horo is joined by Ratna Gunnala and Jaime Castillo, both of whom are new moms and therapists. They discuss the challenges of being a new mom and how to prepare for having a baby. Kelly mentions that no matter how much one reads or prepares, it is impossible to be fully ready for the experience of being a new mom. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays wa...2023-11-0921 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedMotherhood Exposed - Part 2Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly O’Horo is joined by Ratna Gunnala and Jaime Castillo, both of whom are new moms and therapists. They discuss the challenges of being a new mom and how to prepare for having a baby. Kelly mentions that no matter how much one reads or prepares, it is impossible to be fully ready for the experience of being a new mom. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of sp...2023-11-0921 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedMotherhood Exposed - Part 1Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Bringing a child into the world is a deeply personal and transformative experience. Many people dream of becoming parents, while others face unexpected surprises on their path to parenthood. In this thought-provoking podcast, we invite you to join us on a heartwarming and enlightening journey into the diverse and complex world of motherhood. Motherhood Exposed delves into the experiences of women from various walks of life who have embarked on the incredible voyage of motherhood. In this emotionally charged podcast, you'll hear firsthand accounts from mothers who share the raw...2023-11-0521 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedMotherhood Exposed - Part 1Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Bringing a child into the world is a deeply personal and transformative experience. Many people dream of becoming parents, while others face unexpected surprises on their path to parenthood. In this thought-provoking podcast, we invite you to join us on a heartwarming and enlightening journey into the diverse and complex world of motherhood. Motherhood Exposed delves into the experiences of women from various walks of life who have embarked on the incredible voyage of motherhood. In this emotionally charged podcast, you'll hear firsthand accounts from mothers who share the raw, unfiltered, and unapologetic truths about...2023-11-0521 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedThe Truth About Codependency and How to Break FreeWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly delves into the intricate world of codependency traits, offering valuable insights and guidance. Codependency, often referred to as "relationship addiction," is a complex emotional and behavioral condition that can affect anyone. Kelly provides a comprehensive exploration of codependency, its origins, and its impact on individuals and their relationships. In this discussion, you'll discover how codependency traits are learned behaviors, often rooted in family dynamics and generational influences. Kelly emphasizes that, while these behaviors are challenging, they can be unlearned. She shares practical advice on how to recognize codependent...2023-10-2722 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedThe Truth About Codependency and How to Break FreeWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this episode, Kelly delves into the intricate world of codependency traits, offering valuable insights and guidance. Codependency, often referred to as "relationship addiction," is a complex emotional and behavioral condition that can affect anyone. Kelly provides a comprehensive exploration of codependency, its origins, and its impact on individuals and their relationships. In this discussion, you'll discover how codependency traits are learned behaviors, often rooted in family dynamics and generational influences. Kelly emphasizes that, while these behaviors are challenging, they can be unlearned. She shares practical advice on how to recognize codependent traits in yourself...2023-10-2722 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedOn the Spectrum: A Parent’s Journey with AutismWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this conversation, Kelly O'Horo and Taylor O'Horo discuss Taylor's experience as a parent of a child with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). She shares her journey, her son's initial diagnosis, the challenges and emotions that followed, and the support network she built. Taylor also talks about advocating for her child, finding the right resources, and the importance of trusting one's instincts. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people...2023-10-1824 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedOn the Spectrum: A Parent’s Journey with AutismWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! In this conversation, Kelly O'Horo and Taylor O'Horo discuss Taylor's experience as a parent of a child with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). She shares her journey, her son's initial diagnosis, the challenges and emotions that followed, and the support network she built. Taylor also talks about advocating for her child, finding the right resources, and the importance of trusting one's instincts. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking...2023-10-1824 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedWhat is EMDR (Part 2)Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This is part 2 of What is EMDR Therapy. Kelly discusses EMDR Therapy, focusing on how it is believed to work and the wide range of presenting issues it can address. She explains that EMDR therapy integrates principles from cognitive-behavioral, psychodynamic, and somatic therapies, addressing past, present, and future anxieties. Kelly also mentions the importance of finding a licensed, trained therapist for EMDR treatment and offers resources to help viewers find one in their area. Overall, she emphasizes the transformative and healing potential of EMDR therapy. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist...2023-10-1518 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedWhat is EMDR (Part 2)Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This is part 2 of What is EMDR Therapy. Kelly discusses EMDR Therapy, focusing on how it is believed to work and the wide range of presenting issues it can address. She explains that EMDR therapy integrates principles from cognitive-behavioral, psychodynamic, and somatic therapies, addressing past, present, and future anxieties. Kelly also mentions the importance of finding a licensed, trained therapist for EMDR treatment and offers resources to help viewers find one in their area. Overall, she emphasizes the transformative and healing potential of EMDR therapy. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and...2023-10-1518 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedWhat is EMDR? (Part 1)Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Join us as we explore the transformative world of Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy. This guide is perfect for those interested in understanding EMDR's power, whether you're a potential client or simply curious. Learn how to find a qualified EMDR therapist and uncover the captivating history of EMDR, discovered accidentally by its founder, Francine Shapiro, in a park. www.emdria.org Explore EMDR's core, the Adaptive Information Processing (AIP) model, addressing past traumas, present triggers, and future anxieties. Discover why EMDR therapy stands out for facilitating profound physiological...2023-10-1522 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedChronic Stress and the Impact to the BodyWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! "The Ripple Effects of Stress on Our Health: A Comprehensive Exploration," delves into the intricate relationship between stress and overall health. It discusses how stress, when accumulated due to adverse childhood experiences or prolonged exposure, can significantly impact our body systems. The article explores the body's response to stress, including its effects on the cardiovascular, nervous, immune, digestive, and endocrine systems. It emphasizes the importance of addressing stress for holistic well-being, highlighting the interconnectedness of mental and physical health. Collaborative efforts between mental health professionals and medical providers are recommended to address unresolved stress...2023-10-1515 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedNavigating Relationships with EFT TherapyWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Unlock the power of emotional connection with EFT Couples Therapy. Join us in this transformative journey to deeper love and understanding. Explore how this evidence-based approach can rekindle your relationship's flame. 🔥 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are...2023-09-2028 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedBig Feelings: Understanding EmotionsWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! Understanding emotions is crucial because they are the intricate language of our inner world, profoundly shaping our thoughts, actions, and interactions. Emotions serve as powerful signals that guide us through life's complexities, helping us adapt and thrive. Firstly, comprehending emotions enables effective self-awareness. When we recognize and name our emotions, we gain insight into our desires, needs, and motivations. This self-awareness empowers us to make informed decisions, manage stress, and cultivate resilience. Secondly, emotions play a pivotal role in our relationships. Recognizing and empathizing with others' emotions fosters deeper connections...2023-09-1921 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedBreaking the Cycle: Understanding Adverse Childhood ExperiencesWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over "fill in" I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a mom of 5, Nonna of 5, wife, and a healer. I have the honor of spending my workdays walking along side people while they brave their healing journeys. I try to live with the generous assumption that we're all doing the best we can with what we know. Therapists are teachers for the "life stuff" and "emotional vocabulary" that may not have been learned due to gaps in our care givers capabilities. In the...2023-09-0712 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedHow We Work (Pt.2)Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how we work. The time gap between stimuli and our response is crucial for us to tap into our most adaptable adult selves. When triggered, our prefrontal cortex temporarily shuts down, allowing only instinctive reactions, which can lead to feelings of disappointment, anger, or shame. We often wonder why we struggle to "act better" despite knowing better. In this episode, we'll delve into the reasons behind this and explore ways to unlearn unhelpful adaptations. This is Part 2 of 2 I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and...2023-09-0122 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedHow We Work (Pt. 1)Welcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes over how we work. The time gap between stimuli and our response is crucial for us to tap into our most adaptable adult selves. When triggered, our prefrontal cortex temporarily shuts down, allowing only instinctive reactions, which can lead to feelings of disappointment, anger, or shame. We often wonder why we struggle to "act better" despite knowing better. In this episode, we'll delve into the reasons behind this and explore ways to unlearn unhelpful adaptations. I'm Kelly O'Horo, Attachment based EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA Consultant, and Advanced Trainer. I'm a...2023-08-2520 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedGet to Know Kelly O’HoroWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes opens up to who I am as a person, professional, and why I'm starting this podcast. Stay tuned for many more episodes to come and thank you for tuning in! I’m Kelly O’Horo, MC, NCC, and am the founder of Infinite Healing & Wellness. I’ve been a counselor since 2008 and bring objectivity, perspective, and compassion to assist with this journey. I have 5 children, 3 of whom have military backgrounds, that being said, I know a thing or two about trauma personally speaking. In addition, I'm on the Fa...2023-08-0619 minAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedAdaptable | Behavior ExplainedGet to Know Kelly O’HoroWelcome to Adaptable | Behavior Explained! This episode goes opens up to who I am as a person, professional, and why I'm starting this podcast. Stay tuned for many more episodes to come and thank you for tuning in! I’m Kelly O’Horo, MC, NCC, and am the founder of Infinite Healing & Wellness. I’ve been a counselor since 2008 and bring objectivity, perspective, and compassion to assist with this journey. I have 5 children, 3 of whom have military backgrounds, that being said, I know a thing or two about trauma personally speaking. In addition, I'm on the Faculty for The Center for Ex...2023-08-0619 min