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Date, Affirm, The RealCan you move a Refrigerator? defining your gender roleAre traditional gender roles still relevant when dating with the intention of finding your life partner? In this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real, Marcus Goodwin and Don (Jr. Lily) go into the evolving dynamics of gender roles in dating and relationships. They discuss shifting expectations, personalexperiences, and what truly matters when building a lasting partnership. Tune in for real talk, fresh perspectives, and unfiltered conversation! 2025-03-071h 05

Date, Affirm, The Realstick with the devil you know or patience for the right one?We’ve all heard the phrase, "Stick with the devil you know rather than the devil you don’t." But when it comes to relationships, is settling for the familiar—despite its flaws—really better than waiting for the right partner?In this episode, we dive deep into the mindset of staying in unfulfilling relationships out of fear, comfort, or history versus having the patience and faith to wait for a love that aligns with your values and needs. Are you holding on to something because it’s convenient, or are you making space for someth...2025-02-271h 06

Date, Affirm, The Reallove, loneliness, or companionship?"Ever wonder why we chase relationships? Is it love, companionship, or something else? On this episode of *Date, Affirm, the Real*, hosts Marcus Goodwin and Don aka Jr. Lily get real about what drives us to seek connection. They dive into the messy, beautiful reasons behind our search for love—whether it’s to fill a void, find a partner, or just feel less alone. Tune in for a raw, relatable conversation you won’t want to miss. ❤️2025-02-261h 11

Date, Affirm, The RealMen Don’t Like WomenIn this raw and unfiltered episode, we’re diving deep into a harsh reality—the ways men’s actions reveal they don’t actually like women. From lying and shaming to cheating and withholding love, we’re unpacking the behaviors that scream disdain, not devotion.How does a man claim to love a woman yet publicly humiliate her? Why do some men speak so negatively about women—even their own wives—for the world to hear? And why are so many women now saying they’d rather take their chances with a bear than a man?We’ll break down...2025-02-121h 07

Date, Affirm, The RealHow will Love be different in 2025?Join hosts Keya McClain the Poet and Shimeka the DAR Therapist as they discuss how love and relationships are evolving in 2025. In this episode, we explore the shift towards authentic connections, the end of love bombing, embracing what you truly want, and navigating changing social norms. Don’t miss this delightful conversation on building lasting, genuine relationships in the modern age!#AuthenticLove #Relationships2025 #ModernDating 2025-01-151h 02

Date, Affirm, The RealListening vs. Fixing: Understanding What Women Need During Tough ConversationsJoin Marcus Goodwin and Don (Jr. Lily) as they dive into the dynamics of communication in relationships. In this episode of "Date, Affirm, the Real Podcast," we explore the difference between listening and fixing, and what women truly need during tough conversations. Learn how to foster deeper connections and improve your communication skills. Don’t miss this insightful discussion! 2025-01-0857 min

Date, Affirm, The RealI got 99 problems, but is my relationship one?In this episode of *Date, Affirm, the Real Podcast*, Marcus Goodwin and Don (Jr. Lily) explore the typical challenges and deeper issues that men encounter in relationships. From the fear of being vulnerable to uncertainties about commitment and dealing with personal insecurities, they discuss what prevents men from forming meaningful connections. Tune in for an honest discussion about the obstacles that can turn love into just another challenge to tackle. 2024-11-141h 12

Date, Affirm, The RealThe Right Support System after a Breakup.Breakup is never easy, and having the right person by your side makes all the difference in your healing. What if you choose the wrong person to lean on? In this episode, Keya McClain the Poet and Shimeka the DAR Therapist go through the proper choice of support after a breakup, as well as the likely effects of choosing the wrong one. They are going to talk about everything from deeper emotional pain, setbacks in healing, and what to look for in a support system that is going to move you forward. Join us for some real gems on...2024-11-121h 07

Date, Affirm, The RealIs Love Worth the Sacrifice Is it a requirement for loveIs sacrifice a requirement for love, or is there a healthier way to create balance in relationships? Join hosts Marcus Goodwin and Don (Jr. Lily) as they explore what it really means to give and receive in love. They’ll get real about how much compromise is too much and whether love should always come with a sacrifice 2024-10-311h 11

Date, Affirm, The RealFinding Forever How to Ask the Right Questions for Long Term LoveIn this episode, hosts Keya McClain the Poet and Shimeka the DAR Therapist tackle one of the biggest challenges in relationships—asking the right questions to build and sustain long-term love. We’ll talk about how certain conversations can reveal true compatibility and strengthen your connection for the future. Drawing from real-life experiences and popular TV relationship scenarios, we’ll guide you through the key questions that help foster healthy, lasting relationships. Whether you’re dating or already in a committed relationship, this episode will give you the insight you need to navigate love with purpose and intention 2024-10-241h 14

Date, Affirm, The RealMasculinity vs Vulnerability Does Embracing a Softer Role Affect his position in a RelationshipIn this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real Podcast, Marcus and Don (Jr. Lily) are getting real about the balance between masculinity and vulnerability in relationships. What does it mean to be a “soft man” versus a “masculine man”? Is vulnerability a strength or a weakness in today’s world? We’ll be diving into the perceptions around each, how they impact relationships, and whether embracing a softer side changes your role as a man. Join the conversation as we break down the stereotypes and get into what truly defines a man in a relationship. This episode is for anyone who’s...2024-10-181h 18

Date, Affirm, The RealDe-Centering Your Partner.” “The Key to Embracing Your Soft Life EraIn this special live episode, all four hosts—Marcus, Don (Jr. Lily), Keya McClain the Poet, and Shimeka the DAR Therapist—come together in person for the first time to dive into the concept of "De-Centering Your Partner" and how it connects to embracing the soft life era. Tune in as they explore what it means to shift the focus from constantly prioritizing your partner to embracing your own peace, self-care, and personal growth. Each host brings a unique perspective, covering the topic from all sides: the emotional, relational, and self-care aspects. Plus, we’ll be answering questions from a smal...2024-10-171h 19

Date, Affirm, The RealDecentering Men and Women Deciding on SingleIn this episode of *Date, Affirm, the Real*, hosts Keya McClain the Poet and Shimeka the DAR Therapist get deep into the topic of “Decentering Men and Women Deciding on Single.” Together, they unpack what it means to embrace the power and beauty of choosing yourself—whether that's through self-love, focusing on personal growth, or deciding to live a full, thriving life without centering your existence around romantic partnerships. Keya and Shimeka create a space for authentic conversation about the strength in choosing your own path. They explore how society often pushes us toward relationship norms, but the truth is, th...2024-10-151h 05

Date, Affirm, The RealSoft Wife Life: A Lifestyle of Privilege or Entitlement?In this episode, we explore the growing trend of the "Soft Wife Life." Is it a lifestyle built on privilege, or does it reflect entitlement? Marcus and Don share their thoughts on how this concept impacts modern relationships and what it means for women today. Tune in to hear their perspectives and join the conversation. Don’t forget to like, comment, and share your views! 2024-09-261h 03

Date, Affirm, The RealCouples Goals or Couples Fool's GoldIn this episode of *Date, Affirm, the Real Podcast*, hosts Marcus Goodwin and Don (Jr.Lily) take on the concept of "Relationship Goals or Relationship Fool's Gold." Are those picture-perfect relationships we admire truly golden, or just a shiny façade? We unpack the differences between the appearance and reality of relationships, and discuss the dangers of using money and material tactics to buy love. Tune in for a real, unfiltered conversation about what truly makes or breaks a relationship. 2024-09-061h 14

Date, Affirm, The RealThe Community that Heals Together- Part 1In Part 1 of our four-part series, "The Community that Heals Together," we focus on the journey of rebuilding relationships and strengthening communities through healing and open communication. Join Shimeka, the DAR Therapist, and Keya McClain, the Poet, as they share valuable insights on nurturing genuine connections, resolving past conflicts, and fostering a supportive environment for growth. Whether you're aiming to improve personal bonds or contribute to a more united community, this episode provides practical steps for creating lasting change. Let’s come together and embark on this path of healing and renewal. We are each others Yin and Yang. It...2024-09-041h 05

Date, Affirm, The RealWho Rides in the Front Seat? Our Boundaries Implied with in-lawsEver had that awkward moment of deciding who rides in the front seat—your partner or your in-law? In this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real Podcast, Don(Jr. Lily) and Marcus get real about the mixed signals and unspoken rules that can cause tension in relationships. We’re breaking down the messy dynamics, societal norms, and how to handle these situations with care. Join us as we talk about setting boundaries that keep the peace and respect everyone involved. 2024-09-041h 10

Date, Affirm, The RealMasculine & Feminine Energy or PartnershipIn this episode of "Date, Affirm, the Real Podcast," Keya McClain the Poet and Shimeka the DAR Therapist talk about the roles men and women play in today’s society—whether they’re imposed or assumed—and how these roles shape our relationships. They’ll break down the concepts of masculine and feminine energy and what it all means for finding balance in a partnership. Don’t miss out on this real and relatable conversation!2024-08-151h 03

Date, Affirm, The RealMy dad is single! The Journey of Single FathersJoin "Date, Affirm, the Real Podcast" with Marcus Goodwin, Don (Jr.Lily), and special guest Yuel (Chevalier) as we discuss the dynamics of dating single fathers. In this episode, we explore: - The willingness to date a single dad. - Insights on dating a single father with primary custody. - Perspectives from both men and women on the unique challenges and joys of these relationships. 2024-08-091h 37

Date, Affirm, The RealTo Be or Not To Be, That is the MarriageWelcome to "Date, Affirm, the Real Podcast!" In this episode, hosts Marcus Goodwin and Don (Jr.Lily) explore the complexities of modern marriage. Should you be married or not? We'll take a positive look at both choices, delving into the history and cultural significance of marriage. Join us as we discuss the evolving landscape of relationships, the pressures of societal norms, and the true essence of commitment. Tune in for thoughtful insights and engaging conversations on the joys and challenges of marriage today.2024-07-271h 17

Date, Affirm, The RealHigh Tolerance of Pain and your Relationships!High Tolerance of Pain! In this episode, Shimeka, the DAR Therapist, and Keya McClain the Poet, explore the burdens of carrying emotional pain and its impact on relationships. Learn how enduring hidden hurts can affect your connections and discover ways to heal and strengthen your emotional well-being. Join us for an insightful discussion on the path to healthier relationships. 2024-07-181h 05

Date, Affirm, The RealMind Manipulation for the sake of LOVEDiscover the hidden truths behind "Mind Manipulation for the Sake of Control." 🧠💔 In this eye-opening episode, we explore how mind manipulation impacts love and relationships, delving into the ethical implications of controlling behavior. Join the DAR hosts, as they shed light on this complex issue and offer insights into recognizing and overcoming manipulation. Don't miss this crucial conversation on protecting your mental and emotional well-being 2024-07-121h 13

Date, Affirm, The RealIs your broken heart affecting your chance at true loveJoin Shimeka, the DAR Therapist, and Keya McClain, the Poet, as they dive deep into the emotions stemming from past relationships and how they can impact your future love life. Discover healing strategies, heartfelt advice, and poetic insights to help you move forward and open your heart to new possibilities. Tune in for an honest and transformative conversation! 2024-07-031h 07

Date, Affirm, The RealLove & Business: Being in a Relationship with an EntrepreneurIn this episode of "Date, Affirm, the Real Podcast," we dive deep into the unique dynamics of being in a relationship with an entrepreneur. Marcus and Don are joined by special guests: the CEO of She Smokes LLC Danielle Benjamin and Felicia Neal, the successful wife of a fellow entrepreneur. Together, they explore both perspectives on maintaining a healthy and supportive relationship while navigating the challenges and rewards of entrepreneurial life. Tune in for insightful discussions, practical advice, and real-life experiences on balancing love and business. Don't miss out! **Broadcast Schedule:** We...2024-06-271h 29

Date, Affirm, The RealSeeking Relationship Partners and not Relationship Projects: The misunderstanding of potentialWelcome to "Date, Affirm, the Real Podcast!" In this episode, hosts Marcus and Don(Jr.Lily) dive deep into the often misunderstood concept of 'potential' in relationships. Are you choosing a partner based on who they are or who they could be? Join us as we explore the pitfalls and heights of understanding what potential truly means when selecting a partner. Tune in for insightful discussions, practical advice, and real talk about the journey of finding a relationship partner versus a relationship project. Don't miss out on this enlightening conversation! 2024-06-131h 17

Date, Affirm, The RealNavigating Local but Long Distance RelationshipsIn this episode, Keya and her special guest Toni (The Relevant Roundtable podcast) dive into the complexities of maintaining a strong relationship when one partner has to travel frequently for work. Discover practical tips and heartfelt advice on how to stay connected, build trust, and keep the relationship alive despite the physical distance. 2024-06-051h 11

Date, Affirm, The RealGivers versus takers the give and take in relationshipsAre you a giver or a taker in your relationships? In this episode of DAR (Date, Affirm, the Real), Marcus and Don explore the intricate dynamics between givers and takers and how to achieve a balanced and healthy relationship 2024-06-031h 02

Date, Affirm, The RealWhat’s Love Got To Do With It?"Love and Responsibility are often intertwined in relationships, shaping our actions and decisions. In this video, hosts Marcus and Don delve into the complex dynamics between love and duty. They explore scenarios where actions are motivated by either love or a sense of responsibility, challenging viewers to reflect on their own relationships. Join us as we navigate the intricate balance between love and duty, seeking to understand if certain things are done 'because of Love or because of Responsibility'." 2024-05-221h 28

Date, Affirm, The RealHow’s that List Working out for you - has he or she showed up yet?In this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real, Keya and Shi dive into the world of checklists. Are your requirements for a life partner realistic, or are they keeping you from finding true love? Join us as we discuss setting attainable expectations, the importance of flexibility, and how to balance standards with an open heart. Tune in to see if your dream partner is just a list item away! 2024-05-221h 03

Date, Affirm, The RealDoes your energy and words match?Join our DAR hosts Keya and Shimeka as they delve into the profound connection between your energy, words and your actions. In this enlightening discussion, discover the transformative power of positive energy and its impact on yourself and those around you. Learn how aligning your words with your energy can lead to a more fulfilling life and healthier relationships. Tune in for insights on walking in a positive space and speaking good energy into existence! 2024-05-221h 02

Date, Affirm, The RealWhat Defines a Relationship"Join hosts Marcus and Jr Lilly as they dive into the heart of what defines a romantic relationship. From trust and communication to shared values and emotional connection, they explore the key elements that make relationships meaningful and lasting. Gain insights, perspectives, and maybe even a few surprises in this thought-provoking discussion!" 2024-05-221h 08

Date, Affirm, The RealCritical mistakes that can ruin relationships.In this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real hosts Keya and Shimeka dive into the critical mistakes that can ruin relationships. From communication breakdowns to neglecting personal growth, they explore the common missteps that lead to the downfall of many connections. Tune in for insightful discussions and valuable tips on how to avoid these pitfalls in your own relationships. 2024-05-211h 08

Date, Affirm, The RealWaking up to the same person after 30yrsJoin hosts Marcus and Keya as they explore the ways and positives of being with the same romantic partner. In this video, Marcus and Keya share their thoughts and experiences on the topic, offering valuable insights and perspectives. Whether you're curious about long-term relationships or looking to deepen your connection with your partner, this discussion is sure to inspire and enlighten! 2024-05-2046 min

Date, Affirm, The RealTraits of Healed version vs unhealed versionDiscover the traits of a healed vs unhealed version of yourself with hosts Keya and Shimeka. Learn how to grow and heal in relationships and your personal connections! 2024-05-201h 06

Date, Affirm, The RealDefining your challengesIn this episode, we explore the importance of recognizing and defining personal emotional challenges within the context of relationships. We discuss practical techniques to help you identify and address these challenges, ultimately strengthening your relationship with yourself and others. Join us as we discover how to navigate emotional hurdles and foster healthier, more fulfilling connections. 2024-05-181h 02

Date, Affirm, The RealLove Across Miles: part 2A couple returns to shares their secrets to a successful long-distance relationship. Discovering the challenges, triumphs, and valuable lessons that have strengthened her bond with a partner miles away 2024-05-161h 05

Date, Affirm, The RealGenerational love CursesIn this episode, we delve into the impact of intergenerational patterns on our relationships and explore effective strategies for breaking free from these unhealthy cycles. From communication patterns to attachment styles, we'll examine how these ingrained habits can affect our romantic lives and provide practical tips for fostering healthier, more fulfilling connections. Join us as we unravel the complexities of inherited love habits and empower ourselves to build the love lives we deserve." 2024-05-141h 12

Date, Affirm, The RealLong term relationship with no ring. Is that their business?In this enlightening DAR episode, we delve into the concept of defacto union and discuss how living together without getting married is truly a personal choice. Join us as we explore the dynamics of relationships, societal norms, and individual autonomy in this thought-provoking discussion. Whether you're curious about defacto relationships or contemplating your own choices, this episode offers valuable insights and perspectives that will leave you pondering the significance of love and commitment in today's world. 2024-05-1355 min

Date, Affirm, The RealEveryone’s Relationship GoalIn this episode, we delve into the universal relationship goal of healing and personal growth. We discuss the importance of healing from past experiences and how defining clear goals can lead to healthier future relationships. Join us as we explore practical strategies to enhance your self-awareness and cultivate fulfilling connections in all aspects of your life. 2024-05-041h 10

Date, Affirm, The RealHeart Aligned: Black Men standing with their Black WomenA thought-provoking exploration of the vital support systems within the Black community. A delve into the significance of Black men standing shoulder to shoulder with their Black women in the pursuit of success. Join us as we discuss and celebrate the various forms of support that contribute to the success of Black individuals and relationships in today's society. 2024-04-301h 15

The Relevant RoundtableThe Courage To Create & Share w/ Healing Pen Coach, Keya McClainJoin us for a powerful conversation with Keya McClain, the healing pen coach, as she shares her journey from a private writer to a beacon of empowerment. Discover how writing served as Keya's therapy, guiding her from the challenges of St. Louis to Los Angeles' vibrancy. Learn about the courage required to share personal talents and the transformative impact of doing so.We explore the healing process and personal growth, emphasizing that healing is gradual and requires patience, self-forgiveness, and letting go of grudges. Kia offers insights into overcoming the fear of sharing one's gifts and moving a...2024-03-0142 min

Date, Affirm, The RealLove Through the Ages: A Comparison of Gen X and Gen Z Perspectives on DatingExplore the evolution of love and dating in "Love Through the Ages: A Comparison of Gen X and Gen Z Perspectives on Dating"! Join Date, Affirm, the Real as we dive into the contrasting views of these two generations with special guests Dallas (Successful Gen Z) and Floyd Boykin Jr. (The Exchange podcast and Gen X). Discover how attitudes towards dating have shifted over the years and gain insights into the unique perspectives of each generation. Do not miss this intriguing discussion! 2024-02-221h 53

Date, Affirm, The RealWhat if Doesn't Work, Healthy ways to recover from break upsWe will delve into effective strategies for healing after a breakup. Breakups can leave us feeling lost and heartbroken, but there are healthy ways to navigate this difficult time. We explore the power of introspection and self-reflection, allowing ourselves to process the emotions and thoughts that arise. We also discuss the importance of setting boundaries and taking time for oneself, allowing the healing process to unfold naturally. Join us as we discover how to heal from a breakup with mindfulness and self-compassion. #breakup #gettingoverit #relationshipadvice 2024-02-151h 07

Date, Affirm, The RealMind over Matter towards RelationshipsWe explore the powerful concept of "mind over matter" and its profound impact on fostering positive relationships. From reframing negative thoughts to embracing gratitude, we delve into practical strategies for cultivating a more optimistic outlook in your interactions with others. Join us as we uncover how harnessing the power of positive thinking can lead to deeper empathy, stronger emotional connections, and ultimately, greater fulfillment in your relationships. Don't miss out on valuable insights and tips to enhance the quality of your personal connections. Hit subscribe and let's embark on a journey toward healthier, more fulfilling relationships together! 2024-02-081h 02

Date, Affirm, The RealThe Healing Journey of Forgiveness for self and othersWelcome to Date, Affirm, the Real. In this edition Keya and Shimeka will delve into the profound and liberating realm of forgiveness – both for ourselves and others. In this empowering segment, we explore the healing power that comes with letting go of resentment, guilt, and anger, paving the way for a brighter and more peaceful future. 2024-02-0158 min

Date, Affirm, The RealSocial Media and your Relationship PotentialWelcome to Date, Affirm, the Real! In this insightful episode, our dynamic hosts dive deep into the fascinating realm of social media and its profound impact on romantic relationships and potential connections. Join us as we explore the positives and navigate the challenges that arise when technology meets matters of the heart. Whether you're in a relationship or navigating the world of dating, this episode is packed with insights to help you navigate the digital love landscape. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell to stay tuned for more thought-provoking discussions. #LoveInDigitalAge #Relationships #socialmediaimpact 2024-01-261h 15

Date, Affirm, The Real3 Ways to Raise Awareness and Rise Up!As we step into the New Year, it's the perfect time to elevate your awareness and embrace the opportunity for personal growth. In this episode, we'll explore three powerful ways to raise your awareness, break through barriers, and become the best version of yourself. 2024-01-051h 02

Date, Affirm, The RealAssessing Your Life: Addition through SubtractionJoin special guest author and poet Don Jr Lily and myself as we explore the powerful principles of Lean Six Sigma in a whole new light. As we delve into the philosophy of "Addition through Subtraction" and apply it to your personal relationships! In this eye-opening episode, we'll break down the core concepts of Lean Six Sigma and how they can be seamlessly integrated into your interpersonal connections. Learn how the philosophy of "Addition through Subtraction" can lead to greater clarity, improved communication, and stronger, more meaningful relationships. 🤔 Ever wondered how simplifying certain aspects of your life can actually enh...2023-12-2053 min

Date, Affirm, The RealCreating Healthy Habits for the upcoming yearLooking to have a healthier year ahead? Join us as we dive into the topic of creating healthy habits for the upcoming year. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or married, these tips will help you make positive changes in your life. Don't miss out on this valuable discussion - hit that subscribe button for more insightful content! 2023-12-131h 06

Date, Affirm, The RealEmpowering Masculinity: Finding Your Role in a RelationshipIn this thought-provoking edition, we explore the concept of masculinity in relationships and how men can assume their positions in a healthy and fulfilling way. We'll discuss the importance of mutual respect in creating a strong partnership. Join us as we provide practical tips and insights to help men confidently embrace their role while nurturing a loving and supportive connection with their partner. Whether you're a seasoned pro or just starting out in the world of relationships, this is packed with valuable advice. Hit that like button, share your thoughts in the comments, and subscribe for more empowering content.2023-11-0852 min

Date, Affirm, The RealBreak Free from Insecurities: Embrace a Confident You!Welcome to Date, Affirm, the Real! In this enlightening episode, we embark on a profound journey, delving into the intricate landscape of personal insecurities and the uplifting process of nurturing self-esteem. It's a journey we all undertake at some juncture in our lives, a shared experience that binds us together. Today, with genuine care and a wealth of knowledge, we're here to extend a helping hand, offering practical advice and heartfelt insights to illuminate your path towards self-discovery and the unwavering embrace of unshakeable confidence. 2023-10-271h 10

Date, Affirm, The RealMoving On from Your Ex: Embracing New LoveAre you struggling to let go of your past and move forward in your love life? In this episode, we dive deep into the importance of not letting your ex hold you back from finding happiness in a new relationship. Breakups can be tough, but they don't have to define your future. We'll share valuable insights, tips, and personal stories to help you navigate the journey of moving on and embracing the potential of a new and fulfilling relationship. Don't let your past dictate your future – join us and learn how to open your heart to love again! Subscribe fo...2023-10-2054 min

Date, Affirm, The RealSoul Ties Explored: Pros, Cons, and How to Break FreeIn this episode, we're going to explore the concept of soul ties and how they can affect your life. We'll look at the pros, cons, and ways to break free from them. If you're curious about soul ties and how they can impact your life, this episode is for you! We'll talk about the different types of soul ties and how to identify and deal with them. Whether you're looking for advice on breaking free from a negative soul tie or seeking clarification about a positive soul tie, this episode is for you! 2023-10-1135 min

Date, Affirm, The RealTransforming Relationships: The Art of Being a Better HusbandIn this episode, we explore the daily challenges, triumphs, and lessons that come with being the best partner we can be. From effective communication tips to nurturing emotional connections, we delve into the essential skills and qualities that make a loving marriage flourish. Join us as we candidly share our experiences and insights, providing a supportive space for husbands everywhere to learn, grow, and thrive in their relationships. 2023-09-2250 min

Date, Affirm, The RealGoing from pause to play: Don't let your anger mature into bitterness !In this episode, we discuss how to deal with anger and bitterness in your life, so that you don't get stuck in a cycle of bad relationships and anger. Many of us have experienced anger in our lives – sometimes it feels like it's always there, and other times it seems to take over completely. In this episode, we're going to talk about how anger can develop into bitterness, and how to break out of the cycle. Join us and learn how to deal with anger and bitterness in your life, so that you don't get stuck in a cycle of...2023-09-151h 01

Date, Affirm, The RealWhy staying in an unhappy relationship is more expensive than you thinkIn this episode, we're going to discuss the financial cost of being in an unhappy relationship. By examining the costs of both staying in an unhappy relationship and breaking up with an unhappy partner, we'll learn how important it is to find a relationship that's right for you. We'll explore the various costs associated with being in an unhealthy relationship, including financial costs, health costs, and emotional costs. By understanding the cost of staying in an unhappy relationship, you'll be better equipped to make informed decisions about your relationship! 2023-09-1440 min

Date, Affirm, The RealDemystifying Life Insurance: Everything You Need to KnowIn this episode, we're going to take a closer look at life insurance. We're going to discuss the important things to know, the why behind the need for life insurance, and the different options available to you. If you're curious about life insurance or want to know more about the importance of life insurance, then this episode is for you! We'll cover everything you need to know in simple, easy-to-understand terms so you can make the best decision for you and your family. 2023-09-1446 min

Date, Affirm, The RealRebuilding Your Heart: 3 Ways to Heal and Prepare for a New Relationship In this episode, we'll be discussing the topic of rebuilding your heart. We'll be covering the topics of healing and preparing for a new relationship, as well as giving you some thought on how to navigate the single season. If you're feeling broken inside after a failed relationship, this segment is for you. We'll discuss the steps you need to take to heal and prepare for a new relationship, and give you some advice on how to navigate a new single season. By the end of this video, you'll know what you need to do to rebuild your heart...2023-09-041h 06

Date, Affirm, The RealIts Okay, I am not your person!In this episode, I'm sharing a way of thinking that can help you when it comes to breaking up and releasing someone who you are not meant for. This way of thinking is called "It’s okay, I am not your person." and it can help you be happier in the end. Breaking up is never easy, but by adopting this way of thinking, you can release the person without feeling negative or sad. Staying friends is important, and by accepting that this person is not meant for you, you can be happy for their happiness and move on. Th...2023-08-3031 min

Date, Affirm, The RealUnlocking Single Season Success: 5 Game-Changing TechniquesIn this episode, The Therapist and The Poet are going to share with you 5 ways to maximize your single season. Whether you're looking for fun things to do or milestones to reach, these tips will help you reach your goals! Whether you're new to being single or you're a seasoned pro, these 5 ways will help you reach your goals and maximize your single season. Whether you're looking to find new friends or to heal from past relationships, these tips will help you achieve your goals! Thanks for joining us! 2023-08-181h 01

Date, Affirm, The Real"Rekindling the Flame: Reuniting after Drifting Apart" In this episode, we will talk about the struggles we face when we drift apart, how to come back after a drift, and how to reignite the spark in our relationship. Whether you're married, dating, or just friends, it's important to know how to deal with the struggles that arise when we drift apart. In this episode, we will share with you our tips on how to reignite the spark in your relationship, and how to prepare for the challenges that come with drifting apart. Join us and learn about our story and maybe help you reignite...2023-08-081h 01

Date, Affirm, The RealGrieving Together: Navigating Loss with Your PartnerIn this heartfelt episode, we delve into the difficult topic of grieving with your life partner. Join us as we explore the profound impact of loss and provide valuable insights on navigating this challenging journey together. Loss is a deeply personal experience, but when shared with your other person, it can present unique dynamics. "Grieving Together: Navigating Loss with Your Partner" sheds light on the power of unity during times of grief and offers practical tips on how to strengthen your relationship while facing adversity. throughout this episode, we share personal stories, advice, and thoughtful perspectives to provide you...2023-07-241h 08

Date, Affirm, The RealEscape the happiness trap: Change your relationship expectationsIn this episode, we're going to discuss how to escape the trap. This trap can have a negative impact on us seeking a relationship, as we end up setting unrealistic expectations. We'll discuss ways to change our expectations and set ourselves up for success in future relationships. If you're finding it hard to find lasting happiness in your journey, then this episode is for you. We'll discuss how to change our expectations and escape the happiness trap, so that we can find lasting happiness in our relationships. 2023-07-201h 01

Date, Affirm, The RealDiscovering the Key to Lasting Love: Compromise or Sacrifice?In this episode, we'll explore the concept of compromise, and ask the question: is it better to sacrifice our wants in order to have a good relationship? Or is it better to compromise and find a way to get what we want without sacrificing our hard-won relationships? We'll explore this question by looking at examples of compromise in different relationships, and ask the question: is it better to sacrifice our wants in order to have a good relationship? We'll look at the pros and cons of compromising, and ask the question: is it better to sacrifice our wants in...2023-07-1254 min

Date, Affirm, The RealWhat did I hear? ABC's of Finding Love: Affirm, Bond, & Communicate!In this episode, I'm sharing my interpretation of what ABC's of Finding Love means. Affirm, Bond, and Communicate! Affirm your goals, bonds with those who are good for you, and communicate your desires and thoughts to ensure healthy relationships. These three principles form the foundation of love, and they're essential for anyone looking to find love. In this episode, I'm sharing my interpretation of what ABC's of Finding Love means and how you can apply these principles to your love life! 2023-07-0645 min

Date, Affirm, The RealPee-Pee in the pool: Black Men's Impact on the Dating World.In this episode, I'm breaking down the Dr. Umar Johnson video clip and discussing why black men have unknowingly contributed to such a hard time in the dating pool. As a black male, it's important for me to talk about the Dr. Umar Johnson video clip and what it means for us. This video has triggered a lot of emotions and I wanted to share my thoughts on it with you. It's an important topic and one that needs to be talked about. We need to come together and talk about the challenges that black people face in the...2023-07-0445 min

Date, Affirm, The RealUncover the ABC's of Finding Love: Affirm, Bond, & Communicate!If you're looking for ways to improve your dating life, then look no further! In this episode, we'll be discussing the ABC's of Finding Love: Affirm, Bond, and Communicate! Affirmations are a great way to build self-confidence, self-esteem, and manifest. Healthy bonding is what creates strong relationships, and communicating is essential for maintaining healthy communication channels. By learning and practicing the ABC's of Finding Love, you'll be able to uncover your love potential and experience deeper and longer-term relationships! 2023-07-031h 01

Date, Affirm, The RealHonoring you: Discovering the Six Self Care Categories for a Happier lifeIn this episode, we explore the powerful connection between self-care practices and healthy relationships. By prioritizing our own well-being, we can strengthen the bonds we share with our loved ones, whether they are romantic partners, family members, or friends. 2023-07-011h 07

Date, Affirm, The RealBreaking the Cycle: The Impact of Upbringing on Healthy ArgumentsIn this episode, we're going to discuss the impact of upbringing on healthy arguments. We'll talk about how to break the cycle of arguing and how to have healthy arguments. One of the keys to resolving conflicts peacefully is to understand the impact of our upbringing on our arguments. This video will help you learn how to have healthy arguments and resolve conflicts peacefully! 2023-06-301h 00

Date, Affirm, The RealIs This Person Mistaking Generosity for Love? Find Out Now!How often have we met a kind and generous person and created relationships that didn't exist or become an affection for someone else with no reciprocity? Marcus and Keya discuss our personal experiences in the past, where we either mistook someone's kindness for something more or we were the ones on the receiving end. Healing and self love raises our self-awareness to identify these things. Kindness doesn't always equate to your soulmate. 2023-06-0153 min

Date, Affirm, The Real"Why Do Women Attract Specific PART 3. I Forgive Myself!In part 3, we're continuing our discussion on why women attract specific types of men. In this part, we'll be talking about how to use tools to forgive yourself and move on. In part 2, we talked about why women attract men who aren't healthy for them. In this part, we'll be talking about how to use tools to forgive yourself and move on. By forgiving yourself, you can start to heal and let go of the negative feelings that have held you back in the past. By using these tools, you can start to attract men who are healing and...2023-05-121h 01

Date, Affirm, The RealSolo to Soulmates Join us as we follow the heartwarming story of a once-single people who decided to change their ways and embark on a journey to find true love. In this inspiring interview , we'll hear about transformation, commitment, self-improvement, and genuine connection. Listen as they navigates the ups and downs of dating, discovers the importance of vulnerability, and ultimately find the perfect match. Get ready to be moved by this tale of personal growth, love, and the power of taking a leap of faith towards a lifetime of happiness. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more inspiring stories like...2023-05-1154 min

Date, Affirm, The RealDoes being insecure hurt your relationships?!Learn about the different types of insecurities that can come up in dating and relationships. We'll discuss what to do if you're struggling with insecurity in your dating life, and how to work through those obstacles. If you're looking to improve your dating life, then this video is for you. We'll cover topics like understanding your insecurities, how to deal with dating challenges, and how to build better relationships. By the end of this episode, you'll have everything you need to get started on a healthier dating journey! 2023-05-041h 03

Date, Affirm, The RealHow Couples are Transforming Lives By Merging Households!In this episode, we're talking about couples merging households. We'll discuss the benefits and drawbacks of merging households, and help you decide if merging is the right decision for you and your partner. If you're thinking about merging your households, then this episode is for you! We'll discuss the benefits and drawbacks of merging, and help you decide if it's the right decision for you and your partner. We'll also answer some of the most common questions about merging households. So make sure to listen to this segment and learn everything you need to know about merging households! Marcus...2023-05-021h 13

Date, Affirm, The Real"Why Do Women Attract Specific Types of Men? PART 2! In part 2, Keya and our DAR therapist Shimeka go further into answering the question: "Why do women attract specific types of men?" explain how the dating process works, and why women usually end up with the wrong men. They will also offer some advice on how to change the way you attract men, so you can find the man of your dreams. So, if you're wondering why you're always the one going home with the wrong guy, or why you only seem to attract the guys who are bad for you, listen and find out! 2023-04-2857 min

Date, Affirm, The RealSelf Sabotage: Some traits of self sabotaging that could prevent a healthy relationshipAre you sabotaging your relationship? In this episode, we're going to talk about some of the traits of self sabotaging that could prevent a healthy relationship. If you're struggling to find the right words to say, or you're always putting your partner off, you may be sabotaging your relationship. In this episode, we'll discuss some of the common traits of self sabotaging that can prevent a healthy relationship. From negative thinking to hesitation to perfectionism, we'll look at some of the ways that you're sabotaging your relationship. Listen to this segment to learn how to start recovering and rebuilding...2023-04-2757 min

Date, Affirm, The RealUncovering the Unexpected: Old School vs New School Dating - Which is Better? In this episode, we're gonna explore the pros and cons of old school and new school dating. Which is better for your dating goals? We all want to find a healthy, sustainable relationship, and sometimes it can be tough to figure out which type of dating is best for you. In this episode, we'll explore the pros and cons of old school and new school dating and help you decide which is right for you. We'll discuss the benefits and drawbacks of each style of dating, and help you make the best decision for your dating goals. Old school...2023-04-2555 min

Date, Affirm, The RealUnpacking the Risks and Rewards of Relationships: A Man's PerspectiveIn this episode, I'm talking about the challenges and rewards of relationships – from the male perspective! I'll share with you my thoughts on dating, men in relationships, and healthy relationships, and explain what I think are the key things to keep in mind when it comes to relationships. Relationships are a challenge and a reward – and I want to share my insights and experiences with you in this segment. I hope you find it helpful, and that it encourages you to pursue healthy relationships! Marcus discusses his thoughts and ideas about how he views the rewards and challenges in a re...2023-04-1857 min

Date, Affirm, The RealWhy Do Women Attract Specific Types of Men? In this segment, We are going to address the question: "Why do women attract specific types of men?" explain how the dating process works, and why women usually end up with the wrong men. They will also offer some advice on how to change the way you attract men, so you can find the man of your dreams. So, if you're wondering why you're always the one going home with the wrong guy, or why you only seem to attract the guys who are bad for you, Listen to this episode and find out! 2023-04-1459 min

Date, Affirm, The RealWho's Really in Charge? Unveiling Surprising Secrets of the Head of the Household! In this episode, we're going to talk about what head of household actually means and how it can benefit your relationships. We'll also discuss some of the household decisions that need to be made and who ultimately has the final word. If you're looking to strengthen your relationships or make decisions in your household, be sure to watch this video! We'll discuss everything you need to know about head of household and how it can benefit your family! 2023-04-1356 min

Date, Affirm, The RealWhat about bitter women? Angry, Bitter, Attitudes and EnergyKeya and her guest discuss the bitter and angry woman. There is some truth to this and although we are not attacking we are bringing to light the obstacles men face as it relates to the women who possibly made bad choices, accepted bad behavior from men and held animosity which emerged into the bitter woman. 2023-04-111h 00

Date, Affirm, The RealUncovering the Family Tie That Could Change Your Relationship ForeverIn this episode , we're going to explore the surprising link between your childhood and love life! By understanding what led to your current relationship status, you can take steps to improve your chances of success in the future. Whether you're single or in a relationship, this segment will teach you some important insights about your past and how it impacts your present. By learning about your childhood, you can start to make changes that will lead to a better future relationship. So be sure to listen and gain some valuable insight into your love life! 2023-04-0759 min

Date, Affirm, The RealWhat Is Emotional Cheating? Is He or She is Doing ThisEmotional cheating can be as dangerous as physical cheating. We discuss the signs, how it happens and what can be done positively to change the outcome. Emotional cheating can start in a subtle way, so it's important to maintain communication with your partner, be honest and respectful.2023-03-271h 00

Date, Affirm, The Real“Is there a desired dress code around friends mates?”In this video, Marcus and Keya will be discussing proper attire around your friend's husband, wife, or mate. Dressing appropriately in different social situations can be tricky, but it's especially important to be mindful of your clothing choices when you're around your friend's significant other. We'll be sharing our thoughts and different mindsets on dressing respectfully and appropriately, including considering the occasion, and being aware of cultural norms, and asking your friend for guidance.2023-03-1056 min

Date, Affirm, The RealHealthy Relationships interact with other Healthy Relationship Friendships (Single or Coupled)Being in a healthy relationship means also having healthy relationships around you. Friends who are positive and healthy are the types of friends you want around you. Toxic, negative and unhealthy relationships can spill over and you don't want your healthy relationships affected adversely. 2023-02-2352 min

Date, Affirm, The RealClarity in a relationshipClarity will avoid assumptions, arguments and attitude. By gaining clarity you are focusing on healthy communication and dialogue. We discuss how we have different communication styles, but clarity is the main objective. 2023-02-091h 00

Date, Affirm, The RealCommunication Barriers to Work throughCommunication is vital to the success of any relationship. Having the ability to listen for clarity and maneuver through healthy dialogue is essential to understanding. Transparency about how our communication affects relationships helps with the emergence of healthier love. 2023-02-0641 min

Date, Affirm, The RealPlatonic Friendships with Opposite SexHow do you feel about platonic friendships with opposite sex while in a relationship? We discuss this very dynamic and would love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Many do not feel this is possible, yet many do. Friends that become family.2023-01-021h 08

Date, Affirm, The RealAre Relationship Goals BS?Do you believe that relationship goals are b.s? Are you basing your ideas and beliefs about relationships by watching others or are you creating the relationship that is best for you and your partner? 2023-01-0154 min

Date, Affirm, The RealWhy Do Men CheatThis is not the answer for all men, but two men discuss their reasons for cheating. They discuss the various things that caused them to cheat and they are open, honest and sincere. Join in by listening to this conversation between two men sharing their journey.2023-01-0154 min

Date, Affirm, The RealHealthy vs. Toxic RelationshipsHealthy relationships are obvious? Are they really that obvious? It is time to heal so we can identify healthy people to develop healthy relationships and gain a healthy partner. Toxic relationships are obvious? Not all that obvious if you are used to that and have been in unhealthy relationships. Doing the work is not always easy, but so necessary. This conversation brings awareness and clarity for some.2023-01-011h 25

Date, Affirm, The RealShould a man be Financially Stable and DateHow do you feel about a man dating has he is financially struggling or enduring some hardships? Everyone hits some hard times right? Are you willing to sacrifice in a relationship based on his "potential" or do you pass? This conversation will have you considering the options and the opportunities that could come of this. Let us know your thoughts.2023-01-011h 08

Date, Affirm, The RealHappiness is Not Predicated on Relationship StatusYour happiness doesn't rely on relationship status. You create the happiness you deserve and desire. You get to choose every moment of every day. Relationships are great, but better when your relationship with self is the greatest, healthiest and healed relationship.2023-01-011h 04

Date, Affirm, The RealWomen discuss cheatingTwo women speak candidly about cheating. Join Felicia and Keya as they openly discuss their reasoning for cheating and how emotional and mental health is essential to recognizing patterns. 2023-01-011h 00

Date, Affirm, The RealBaggage in RelationshipsDo you carry baggage in new relationships? Do you understand how baggage can be detrimental to relationships? Are you clear on what baggage is and how you can change that? Is there an opportunity to heal and recover from the baggage. Do you need to call it something else? Whatever you need to do just release and heal going forward.2023-01-011h 05

Date, Affirm, The RealSex vs. IntimacyDo you and your partner share the same ideals as it relates to sex vs. intimacy? Have you discussed what is important to you and how to create a closer relationship with your partner? Sex is important in a relationship, however intimacy is equally important. We delve into this and the difference between the two.2023-01-011h 04

The Vision Lab PodcastEp. 123: Keya McClain - Cigar ChroniclesCuff and Mo make a trip over to The Astute Gentleman in Farmer’s Branch to sit down with the talented poet, Keya McClain. Now an author of seven books, the St. Louis native explains where her passion for writing comes from and gives us a look behind the curtain to see how her creative process works. McClain opens up how she took a leap of faith by moving to Dallas and how she got introduced to the cigar community in DFW. Keya talks about some of the hardships she’s overcome throughout her life while building her audience and her...2021-08-241h 05

The ExchangeEpisode 3: Interview with poet/author Keya McClainOne on One conversation with poet, author and visionary Keya McClain. Check out her poetic journey.2020-11-1324 min

Success ChampionsEP: 164 Keya McClain - Self-Publishing Coach, Author, StorytellerKeya McClain’s journey into adulthood after graduation didn’t begin at college like many of her peers. She had a baby boy at 18 and turned 19 the day after having him. She was a single mother who went on to get her Associates in Applied Science for Paralegal Studies, a Bachelor is Arts in Legal Studies and a Master of Arts in legal analysis. She worked at some of the largest law firms in St. Louis Missouri as a data entry clerk, legal secretary, legal assistant/paralegal and for the U.S. District Cour...2019-01-1738 min