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Extra Shot of LeadershipThe 1 Thing No One Can Take Away From YouWhat can you accomplish with a continuous learning mindset? The answers to this question are absolutely endless! Anyone with an ongoing and self-driven pursuit of knowledge can build, create, or attain just about anything they set their mind to. Apply this thinking to leadership and leaders can soar to a level of leadership where the sky is the limit for what they can accomplish both personally and with their teams.
Cue the confetti cannons! This week Kim and Pepper celebrate their 100th episode of Extra Shot of Leadership. They reminisce about their early episodes and the things...
2023-09-1127 min
Extra Shot of Leadership#1 Reason Why Feedback is PainfulGreat leaders rarely exist just by natural ability. Many great leaders have built their skills and reputation by way of feedback. Not the fluffy feedback but the tough stuff. The kind of feedback that can be painful to hear and can often leave a person feeling angry, confused, or frustrated. Just because they are a leader doesn’t mean they won’t struggle with the news or have to dig deep to listen, learn and take action.
This week Kim and Pepper discuss the tough stuff. Pepper shares a personal story of tough feedback she received, how she...
2023-08-0719 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipWhat Success Isn’tLeaders with a continuous improvement mindset can drive their teams to accomplish great things. But what happens to leaders and teams when the leader is always striving for more? As they encourage their teams to do more and be more, what other message are they sending, and what are they giving up by chasing more?
This week Kim and Pepper reflect on their definition of success and discuss their thoughts and challenges with a life focused on more, more, more. They each share some ’aha’ moments then tie the conversation to leadership and the potential issues leaders and...
2023-07-2125 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipMost Impactful Development ToolExcellence in leadership can be reached with time and a conscious effort spent on skill improvement. This improvement requires an understanding of leadership skills, identification of personal strengths and opportunities, and a willingness to continue to grow. Let’s just assume for a minute that you know or have googled top leadership skills, and you are willing to continuously grow. Now, what’s the best way to assess your strengths and opportunities?
This week Kim and Pepper discuss the assessment tools that have helped them grow through their years of leadership. They share insight on the one tool...
2023-07-1621 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipMaking the Most of Failure: Creating an Environment Where Employees Learn from FailureGood employees make mistakes and great leaders allow them to. If this statement is true, then how do leaders allow these learning opportunities without putting their organization’s and personal reputation in jeopardy?
This week Kim and Pepper discuss their thoughts on the value of failures. They share how they set boundaries around failures, manage them when they happen, use them as learning opportunities, and most importantly. recover from them quickly.
What are your tips for managing failures? Share them with us at
HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com
2023-05-2530 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipBuilding Leadership Skills Early: Engaging Children in a Leadership DiscussionWhen do you begin the discussion of leadership with your kids? Is there a specific age that you begin discussing topics like influence, leadership presence, and decision making? Kids of all ages have many opportunities through school, extracurricular activities, and sports to begin thinking about the type of leader they want to be. If you don’t engage them in a leadership discussion, who will?
This week Kim and Pepper share their thoughts on leadership and kids, when to start engaging your kids on being a leader and discussing what type of leader do they want to be...
2023-04-2024 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipInclusive Leadership: Is This the Style for You?Learning new words is good for the brain and a larger vocabulary. They can enhance a conversation or a book, or even a great podcast, but do we really need to create new words for leadership terms that already exist? What’s the added value of the new word if it has the same meaning as a leadership term that already exists?
This week Kim and Pepper discuss the term inclusive leadership. They break down the definition, the meaning, and their thoughts on the value of this leadership style.
Are their new words that are ad...
2023-04-0623 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipLeadership Presence: What is it and Why You Should Think About ItAre your shoes right for this meeting? Should you even be in this meeting? How much thought have you put into why you are showing up and how you are showing up? These are some things to consider if you want your leadership presence to work for you rather than against you. As busy leaders, it is important to maximize the opportunities we have with our teams to ensure our message is what is needed and is well received.
This week Kim and Pepper discuss their different points of view on leadership presence. They each provide a...
2023-03-2331 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipWho is Defining Your Skill Sets?Quick, tell us 5 things you are really good at. What is taking so long? Many of us can be quick to point out our list of personal flaws, but then stutter a bit when it comes to verbalizing the things we do really well. If this sounds like you, tune in to this episode!
This week Kim and Pepper discuss a skills inventory and who they may have allowed to identify their unique personal strengths. They each share their thoughts on the benefits of creating a skills inventory for yourself and the value this could bring to...
2023-03-1624 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipFoggy Brain? Hard to Focus? Struggling to Make a Decision? Try This 1 ThingHealth and leadership go hand in hand. Would you agree with this statement? While good health may or may not make (or break) a good leader, it does contribute to their ability to think clearly, make sound decisions, multitask, and connect with others for a sustained period of time. While these are critical attributes for leaders, the more personal behaviors that enhance these qualities are often ignored.
This week Kim and Pepper take on a new topic of leadership heath. They each share their current experiences with health and nutrition and how this is impacting their work...
2023-02-2324 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipTwo Important Actions to Setting Team PrioritiesAre your team members scrambling to get their work done at the last minute? Are they unable to complete their assignments on time? If your answer is yes, it may be time to do a temperature check on priorities and alignment. Without clear priorities, a team can struggle to spend their time effectively because everything seems equally important.
This week Kim and Pepper share their strategies for determining priority work as well as the key communications that get their leadership, teams, and customers aligned. They also discuss the nuances of negotiating with customers and the added benefits...
2023-02-0928 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipClarifying PrioritiesHey Leaders, it’s 2023! How you doing? Are you up for it? Feeling good about it? If you are not feeling it, how can you get yourself in a better place to engage in areas that really matter?
This week Pepper and Kim have an open conversation about how they are feeling about 2023 and what they are doing to get their priorities straight, gain clarity and motivation, and get their brains engaged at work. Get ready to get pumped!
What is motivating you this year? Share your story with us at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com
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2023-01-2622 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipLeadership + Influence = PowerMuch like the ripples created by tossing a pebble into a pond, influence energizes an organization. The good news is you don’t need a C-suite office to get the job done. With a certain level of understanding and skill, influence that inspires others to change their thoughts, behaviors and actions can come from any level of an organization.
This week Kim and Pepper start a discussion on influence. They each provide their thoughts on the elements of influence that can positively impact change as well as problems that can arise when specific elements are disconnected from th...
2022-12-1626 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipFirst Comes Trust, Then Comes Team CamaraderieDo we really need an extravagant experience like a ropes course to build cohesion and the comradery within a team? The purpose of a team building event is to get team members away from their work and provide an opportunity to foster personal relationships. Leaders with heavy workloads, tight budgets, and demands for work-life balance may find themselves searching for ways to accomplish the same goal but keep it fast, cheap, and easy.
This week Kim and Pepper break down the mechanics of a recent team event that was super simple but big on impact. They each...
2022-12-0327 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipWanna be Cool? Stop Taking CreditTrust. It’s a big deal. And it why we just can’t let this topic go without one last trustbuster that can get a leader and their team in the ditch. Taking credit for the work of others may seem like a no-brainer buster but there is an art to helping your team members to stand in the spotlight.
This week Kim and Pepper share their thoughts on how to let others take center stage as well as some things to consider to increase trust with individual team members. Tune in for an extra shot on trus...
2022-11-1809 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipMore on Busting TrustWith trust being a huge component of leadership and team success, it is just too early to stop the conversation.
In the last episode Kim and Pepper discussed how indecision and unpredictability experienced over time can erode the trust between leaders and their teams. While these actions made the list for obvious trust busters, this week they are digging into two actions that are a little less obvious, micromanaging and favoritism. They discuss what this may look like in a team setting and provide helpful guidance to leaders needing turn the ship around.
Have you...
2022-11-1026 minExtra Shot of LeadershipAre You Building or Busting Trust?Trust. It’s one of the most critical elements of success for a leader and the team they manage. If you can build an environment of trust you will experience a team that is more energetic, more engaged, and more productive, but bust it one too many times and you will experience the reverse.
This week Kim and Pepper discuss two big trust busters for leaders. They share the impact of the busters as well as tips to self-manage this potential issue.
What’s on your list of trust busters? Share with us at HeyThere@Extr...
2022-10-2126 min
Extra Shot of Leadership5 Tips for Kick Ass PresentationsIf people delivered better presentations, we wouldn’t be bored in meetings. Do you agree with that statement? It’s hard not to, and there have actually been a few studies that align with this thought. According to Poll Anywhere, a whopping 91% of working professionals admit to daydreaming during presentations, and 39% of them confess to actually falling asleep. With that in mind, creating a dynamic presentation that can grab and hold the attention of the audience is essential.
This week Kim and Pepper discuss the topic of dynamic presentations. They each provide their top tips for presenters to e...
2022-10-0722 min
Extra Shot of Leadership4 Considerations for Adjusting Your Communication StyleGreat communication can have a profound effect on the success of a leader as well as the success of their team and their organization. But great communication requires flexibility. Leaders need not only understand communication styles, but they must also adjust their own communication style to the preferences of their boss, their teams, their colleagues and customers. Leaders who learn to adjust their communication style will increase their ability to convey ideas, motivate, persuade, and gain alignment which will also maximize their impact in their organization.
This week Kim and Pepper discuss the various aspects of communications...
2022-09-2327 min
Extra Shot of Leadership#1 Issue Leading to ResignationHave you heard of the great resignation? Have you seen it? If you are paying attention to business news, you will see numerous articles about the high numbers of people leaving their current jobs. But why? What is causing all this movement? According to a recent study by McKinsey and Company, the reason the majority of people (41%) are making their exit is lack of career development/advancement. Ouch!
This week Kim and Pepper discuss the issue of lack of career development. They share their thoughts on where leaders may be missing the mark on developing members of...
2022-09-0827 min
Extra Shot of Leadership4 Elements to Improve Feedback ReceptionIf you are truly interested in becoming a good leader, you’ll want to consider your feedback skills and strategy. Providing regular feedback is one of the most powerful leadership tools for boosting employee performance, learning, and growth. Master the art of feedback, and there is a good chance that many other things will fall into place. Things like employee engagement, job satisfaction, moral, and stronger relationships.
This week Kim and Pepper discuss their perspectives and experiences with feedback. They share how they use it, when they give it and when they don’t, as well as seve...
2022-08-2628 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipAn Uncommon Approach to Solving Team ConflictConflict doesn’t need to be negative. It can be productive and create solutions to unresolved problems. To engage in productive conflict, teams must get better at having uncomfortable conversations rather than avoiding the tension.
This week, Kim and Pepper share an uncommon approach to solving unresolved team problems – by creating the “Problem Meeting.” They discuss the issues leading up to the new meeting format, benefits of the meeting, and a few unexpected benefits.
What is your approach when managing team issues? Share with us at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com
2022-08-1825 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipThe Danger Zone for First Time SupervisorsWarning… potential hazards ahead! You have just been promoted into your first supervisory role of managing people…and quite possibly people who were once your former peers or friends. What could possibly go wrong?
This week Kim and Pepper discuss the danger zone for newly promoted supervisors. They each share their number 1 tip of what NOT to do as well as the impact these mistakes can have on the newly acquired team.
What’s your number 1 tip to keep a newly promoted supervisor out of the ditch? Share with us at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com
2022-08-0421 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipThe Consequences of Not DelegatingDo you find your schedule crammed with meetings? Are you often the last one at the office? Are you feeling swamped in your leadership role? If so, you may want to check your delegation skills. Perfecting the art of delegation won’t create more hours in a day, but it should free up some time for leaders to focus on the big picture of the business and while also developing a well-rounded team.
This week Kim and Pepper discuss their thoughts on delegation. They share their experiences, their processes, and the implications to the leader and the te...
2022-07-2827 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipYou Coached Your Employee and They Don’t Follow Up. Now What?To follow up or not to follow up…that is the question. There are many times when leaders have what they consider to be a successful development conversation with an employee, only to find out the employee never took action on their recommendations. So now what? Do you chase them down for a follow-up conversation or let it go?
This week Kim and Pepper discuss their different approaches to follow-up coaching conversations. They each share their typical approach to these conversations, who should own the responsibility for action, and the reasoning behind their decisions.
What is...
2022-07-2123 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipCan You Coach in 7 Minutes?The role of a coach has a high value with winning sports teams, but it is a valuable skill that is often overlooked in the workplace. Many leaders can get bogged down with overseeing day to day tasks and project work and lose sight of their responsibility to coach and mentor. When leaders learn to coach effectively, they can maximize employee potential and put their teams in a position to grow and help their organization succeed. But how do we keep this coaching thing simple?
This week Kim and Pepper role play a coaching moment and share...
2022-06-0627 min
Extra Shot of Leadership5 Ideas to Refresh and RechargeLeadership roles can be rewarding and draining at the same time. We can feel the highs when we are winning, but the lows can creep in with daily grind of overwhelming demands, conflict, or lack of support. These lows can diminish our sense of well-being and capacity to care for ourselves, our teams, and others. Remembering that our mind is our most powerful and unique leadership resource, it is important to find simple ways to keep it revived and refreshed so that we can continue to lead with gusto!
This week Kim and Pepper discuss the brain...
2022-05-2531 min
Extra Shot of Leadership3 Essential Elements of Your Leadership MessageAnd just like that, the first quarter of the year has passed. Has your team made progress on your vison and goals for the year? If not, you may want to check your messaging. A strong and consistent message is key for moving the needle forward. It can help a team stay focused and find ways to incorporate the leader’s vision into their daily work tasks.
This week Kim and Pepper discuss their thoughts on leadership messaging. They share the importance of the message, a practical tool for crafting it, and how to incorporate it into no...
2022-04-0816 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipWear Uniforms? This One’s for YouI’ve worn the same pants every day for a week. Is that ok? What if I wear a uniform? What if I don’t have a big clothing budget? With so many questions, the show must go on.
This week Kim and Pepper continue their discussion about dressing for work. They provide some things to consider when wearing informs as well as tips for building a wardrobe when you are working within a budget.
What are your top wardrobe tips? Share with us at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com
2022-03-2227 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipDoes What I Wear Matter?Are you looking to increase your leadership presence? There are many attributes of a leader that can take years to hone and master, however there are a few things you can actually change in a much shorter time frame. Clothing, grooming, and personal appearance won’t improve the strength of a leader, but they can help with how you are perceived. If you look like a strong leader in your dress and physical appearance even before you are one, people will perceive you as such sooner.
This week Kim and Pepper discuss the importance of how leaders sh...
2022-03-0330 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipWhat’s on Your Reading List?Reading. It’s a great way for leaders to gain insight into other people’s experiences, stay up to date on business trends, and get new ideas for honing specific leadership skills.
This week Kim and Pepper share what’s on their reading list. The books span a wide range of genres from the obvious…leadership, to the not so obvious…books for kids. They discuss what they are enjoying about each book and the impact it is having on their lives.
What is at the top of your reading list. Share with us at HeyThere@E...
2022-02-2030 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipWhat’s Your Focus in 2022?When leaders have the ability to focus their own attention, they can lead their teams to achieve new heights. Their ability to filter out distractions and zero in on specific aspects of their business and personal leadership, can help them align and focus a team to improve efficiency, productivity, skill sets, and team moral.
This week Kim and Pepper share what they are focused on in 2022. They discuss an inward focus on their leadership as well as their outward focus on their teams and their business.
Where is your leadership focus and how will it...
2022-02-0825 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipHave You Hit the Reset Button?Reset buttons, sometimes they are the only option for getting our electronics back to working properly. The same is true for our work and personal lives. Taking time to do a reset can get our bodies and brains back to optimal performance.
This week Kim and Pepper discuss their hiatus from the podcast and what they did with their time off. They share their stories of how a reset has impacted their personal life, their feelings about work, and their leadership.
Books mentioned in this episode:
40 Day Sugar Fast
https://www.wendyspeake.com...
2022-01-2121 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipMaking Christmas SpecialIt’s not the gifts that we will remember most, but the traditions and time spent with special people that make the biggest impressions. As we begin to prepare for Christmas day, remember why we celebrate and hold on tight to the memories made with family, friends, and colleagues.
This week Kim and Pepper take a trip down memory lane as they recall their most cherished holiday memories and let us in on a few of their favorites at home and at work.
Amid the hustle and bustle, the eats and the treats, take time to...
2021-12-2320 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipYour Favorite Employee: Everyone Sees ItBuilding deep relationships is top leadership skill. While many leaders work hard to create personal bonds with their team members it is natural for some relationships to become deeper than others. So how do you navigate the relationships to ensure that these relationships don’t lead to an unhealthy team environment?
This week Kim and Pepper share their thoughts on employee relationships. They discuss how they build the relationships, the pitfalls of favorites, and tips for ensuring boss/friend relationships don’t have negative effects on team members.
Do you have a special bond with one...
2021-12-1523 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipA Time to be ThankfulThanksgiving. It is that time of year where we purposely push the pause button to take a little extra time to reflect on what we are grateful for, the things that bring us joy, and how we will spend the extra time away from work. Finding a way to express the things you are most thankful for is an important part of the celebration.
This week Kim and Pepper skip the leadership conversations and take time to reflect on the things they are most thankful for, and what they are looking forward to during this special holiday.
2021-11-2021 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipReasons Your Team Doesn’t Like YouIt is nearly impossible to have everyone like you but as a leader it is a bit concerning when it is someone on your team. Sometimes it is just a personality clash between you and a specific employee, but as the numbers grow it may be time to reflect on the root of the issue.
This week Kim and Pepper discuss the reasons someone on the team may not like you, as well as their personal experiences in navigating this situation.
Have you been there? How did you work through it? Share your experiences with...
2021-11-1124 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipCareer Changing FeedbackFeedback, here are the stats: Nearly 60% of us want it, more than 75% of us believe that it is valuable, yet less than 30% are receiving it on a regular basis. Say what??
A few well-spoken words coming from the right person at the right time can truly change the trajectory of your career.
This week Kim and Pepper discuss the best feedback they have ever received, how it helped their performance, and how they have used it to help others.
What is the best feedback you’ve been given and how did it help yo...
2021-10-2819 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipAre You Getting Fired?“Surprise, you’re fired!”
Is it really a surprise? Or are there a few signs that you’re heading down the bumpy road of getting fired?
These warning signs can be subtle and build over time. The signs can also be very clear that you need to make a hard left with your current performance.
This week Kim and Pepper discuss the signs that will help you determine whether you’re overthinking and worrying needlessly or are truly on a path to getting fired.
We also share our tips for rebounding, if you rea...
2021-10-2129 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipYour Boss Doesn’t Like You, Now What?A great relationship with your boss can make the most stressful workdays easier, while on the flipside, having a boss that doesn’t like you can make even the best days miserable. So what can you do about the latter? Should you stay and fight for a better relationship or pull the rip cord and eject?
This week Kim and Pepper share their experiences and ideas for what to do when you have boss doesn’t like you.
Have you ever been there? What did you do? Share your story with us at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com
2021-10-1519 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipSeniority Based Promotions: The Good & The BadMany eager employees have their sights set on a promotion. The question is how do they get there? Organizations will typically choose one of two strategies for promoting their employees: seniority or performance. Which of these is best? And why?
This week Kim and Pepper discuss the pros, cons, and tips for choosing and communicating a promotion strategy.
What is your measuring stick promoting team members? Share with us at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com
2021-10-0715 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipTips for Building Informal LeadersNo title? No problem! Informal leaders have the ability to influence and impact the bottom line of an organization without a leadership title on the org chart. While they don’t control who reports to them, informal leaders can still influence those around them and prepare themselves for a smooth transition into leadership when the promotion opportunity arrives.
This week Kim and Pepper discuss the importance of informal leaders and provide practical tips for employees and supervisors to hone the skills necessary for informal leadership.
How do you develop informal leaders on your team? Share yo...
2021-09-3021 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipThe Only Time it’s Acceptable to Cry at WorkCrying, it is a natural result of various emotions. We spend nearly one third of our lifetime at work so it shouldn’t really come as a surprise that nearly half of us have (or will) at some point shed a few tears while on the job. The question is, is it appropriate?
This week Kim and Pepper discuss their thoughts on letting the tears flow at work. If it is ok, when it can be overlooked, and a few tips for recovery.
What are your thoughts on waterworks in the workplace? Share them with us...
2021-09-2428 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipHow Your Leadership is Impacted When you Crumble Under PressureWhat separates good leaders from extraordinary leaders is often their ability to perform in high pressure situations. Two leaders with very similar skills can perform drastically different when faced with high-pressure situations. The key difference between those who succeed and those who don’t is often between the ears.
This week Kim and Pepper continue their discussion about mental toughness and why it’s important and how leadership is impacted when leaders crumble under pressure. Missed part 1 of the discussion? Check out our August 18 episode: Simple Strategies to Stay Strong When the Hits Keep Coming.
What...
2021-09-1712 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipLooking Forward To The FutureReflection and reminiscing can be great for growth but lingering too long can cause you to lose the momentum of forward progress.
This week Kim and Pepper take one last look at their year end review then get on with the discussion of plans and ideas for growing XSOL in year #2.
What things are you looking forward to for your future? Share with us at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com
2021-09-0914 minExtra Shot of LeadershipYou’re Invited! Join the XSOL Anniversary PartyGet your party hats on and get ready for the smash cake. XSOL is turning 1.
This week Kim and Pepper celebrate their 1 year anniversary with the XSOL podcast. They will take a trip down memory lane to reflect on their most and least favorite episodes, their best musical moments, and their biggest takeaway from the journey. Stay tuned to the end to hear a cut from a lost episode that never made it to production.
What has been your favorite XSOL episode? Share it with us at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com
2021-09-0126 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipQuickly Getting Back on Track After a Major Screw UpDid you miss a major meeting with an executive, accidentally hit “Reply All” on an email rant, or cost the company a significant financial loss? Are you wondering if it’s time to dust off the resume and prepare for your next career move?
This week Kim and Pepper discuss the road to recovery after a major screw up at work. They share their thoughts on when a recovery is possible and tips for getting back on track quickly.
What’s your best recovery tip? Share with us at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com
2021-08-2624 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipSimple Strategies to Stay Strong When the Hits Keep ComingMany people start their road to success with the great intention and ambition, yet over time, the daily grind, setbacks, and opposition can take a toll on their mental strength. So why do some people continue to push toward their personal goals year after year while others throw in the towel? Recent studies show that mental toughness is a critical key for success.
This week Kim and Pepper share their personal stories and strategies for staying mentally tough, as well as some insight on where their tough game started.
What’s your mental toughness story? Sh...
2021-08-1923 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipThe Unexpected Promotion EmotionWoohoo!! You’ve just promoted a high performing team member and it’s time for a celebration. But wait, uh-oh, someone else on the team is unhappy about this big decision. What now? Will they get over it? Does the celebration continue?
This week Kim and Pepper answer a listener email with this very question. They share their thoughts on how to deal with the unhappy team member and provide ideas for leaders who want to avoid this “uh-oh” in the future.
What advice would you give? Share thoughts and leadership questions with us at HeyThere...
2021-08-1121 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipIs Good Enough Ever Good Enough?Have you ever struggled to let go of something until it’s perfect, spending far too long laboring over every little detail at the expense time, productivity, and the sanity of those around you? It’s takes experience for leaders to understand that there are many times when good enough is, well, good enough. But how do you know when you have hit the good enough mark?
This week Kim and Pepper provide their criteria for answering this question as well as a few tips for helping teams understand the difference between personal preference, perfection, and efficiency.
2021-08-0616 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipAdjusting Leadership Styles in the MomentLeadership styles aren’t just for managers and directors. Whether you’re leading project, a meeting, or an entire department, you might want to consider identifying your leadership style. But how do you decide which style will be the most effective for your situation?
This week Kim and Pepper continue their conversation from July 7, 2021, and discuss some pro tips for selecting, adjusting, and evaluating the effectiveness of leadership styles.
What is your tip for reading the room and adjusting your style in the moment? Share you story with us at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com
2021-07-2821 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipClosed Door PerceptionsOf course, there are specific conversations that require privacy and should not be shared with all employees. But have you ever stopped to consider the perception others may have when you close the door to your office? What is going through the minds of those both inside and outside of the room?
This week Kim and Pepper discuss their thoughts on closed door meetings. Are they appropriate in the workplace, what things should be considered, and what are some other options to a closed-door meeting in your office?
What do you think about closed door...
2021-07-2206 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipBosshole: Symptoms and RecoveryYou may or may not be familiar with the term bosshole, but chances are you’ve probably come across one. Hopefully, it is just a casual acquaintance and not the person staring you in the mirror while you brush your teeth.
This week Kim and Pepper discuss the symptoms of a bosshole, the recovery potential for those that have been managing teams with bosshole tactics, and suggestions to overcome the dreaded behaviors.
Share your experiences and suggestions for recovery from bosshole syndrome with us at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com
2021-07-1425 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipIs Your Leadership Style Out of Style?Big hair, the side ponytail, and mullets. Those style trends made their debut in the 80’s, but you won’t find the fashion influencers wearing them today. They have simply gone out of style.
Have you ever thought about the trend of your leadership style? Is it still effective with today’s diverse workforce? Or is it time for a makeover?
This week Kim and Pepper continue their conversation about leadership styles. They share their thoughts on what approach has gone out of style, possible reasons for the shift, and things to consider when trying a new...
2021-07-0817 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipChoosing Your Leadership StyleLeadership style…it’s not a one size fits all. Different teams require different leadership styles. A method that was successful for a leader on one team, may not work for them on another because of the needs, work style, and history of the new team.
This week Kim and Pepper continue their conversation about leadership styles and discuss the importance of leaders adapting their style to match the team. That’s right…we believe the leader makes the adjustment.
Who do you think should make the adjustment? Share your thoughts with us at HeyThere@ExtraSho...
2021-07-0121 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipLeadership Style: Adjusting to the Seasons of the BusinessThe surf is up, the sun is out, and the workforce is primed for a much-needed break. So, what does that have to do with leadership?
Maturing as a leader means being able to diagnose what type of leadership is needed when the seasons of the business change. This week Kim and Pepper discuss the current season of their business and how they adjust their leadership style to meet the needs of their teams.
What are the seasons of your business and what adjustments do you make to help your teams adapt? Share your experiences...
2021-06-2528 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipLeading in the GreyWhen it comes to leadership advice, there isn’t a one size fits all. It can be challenging to determine how to apply the information based on your unique circumstances.
This week Kim and Pepper elaborate on an earlier episode about Leadership Transitions from April 22, 2021. They dive into those unanswered questions like when to forgo collaboration, what information could be kept private, and how to request feedback from a next level supervisor.
Have you ever received some leadership coaching that didn’t quite work for you? Share your experiences with us at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com
2021-06-1014 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipTeam Development: More Fun Than Status QuoHave you ever heard the phrase “learning can be fun?” As leaders, shouldn’t we be excited to unleash superpowers within our teams? If that’s the case, then why did our Team Development episode seem sooo heavy?
This week Kim and Pepper build on their earlier discussion on team development and share their ideas for making growth curve a more enjoyable experience for the team and the leader. If you missed the initial episode, check out Team Development: Expectations and Challenges from February 10, 2021.
How do you keep your team members engaged and excited about their personal and professional developm...
2021-06-0213 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipAre You Burning Out?If you have ever experienced burnout, you are not alone. Recent studies show that nearly 70% of employees have experienced the emotional and physical feelings that cause some of the most dedicated employees to disengage from jobs they love.
This week Kim and Pepper share their experiences with burnout. Kim shares some of the warning signs, how it felt, and how she got past it. Pepper shares tips on how she avoids it.
What has been your experience with burnout? Share your thoughts with us at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com
2021-05-2629 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipAre You Burning Out? (Preview)Lookout it's a burnout ahead. Coming up on this week's Extra Shot of Leadership, Kim and Pepper discuss burnout. The warning signs, the impact, and approaches to minimizing your risk for burnout.
2021-05-2501 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipWill You Be My Mentor?Imagine this: Someone you trust and admire takes time out of their day to share their experience, ask thought provoking questions, and provide feedback and advice that helps you grow. Now that’s a mentor!
Spending time with a mentor can be a powerful tool for career growth, personal development, promotion, and knowledge sharing.
This week Kim and Pepper discuss their experience with mentors; why having one important for leaders, things to consider when choosing the right one, and whether there needs to be a formal request.
Join us for the conversation then sh...
2021-05-1224 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipManaging Passive Aggressive BehaviorFrom whispering gossip to avoiding personal contact, passive-aggressive behaviors can be tricky to recognize, and even harder to manage. Employees with this behavior can throw you a curve ball when they give you the impression that they are “all in” …when they are really not.
This week Kim and Pepper discuss passive-aggressive behaviors, how it affects them personally, and how they manage employees exhibiting the behaviors.
What is your go-to leadership tool for passive-aggressive behavior? Confront it? Put the sail up and stay the course? Let us know at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com
2021-05-0525 minExtra Shot of LeadershipManaging Passive Aggressive Behavior (Preview)Coming up on this week's episode of Extra Shot of Leadership, Kim and Pepper discuss how they identify and manage passive aggressive behavior.
They both share how passive aggressive behaviors impact them personally and discuss methods for managing the behavior.
2021-05-0401 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipGoals Goals Goals (Preview)It's progress report time.
On this week's episode of Extra Shot of Leadership, Kim and Pepper review their progress on goals they set in January. They both reflect on what they accomplished, how they celebrated, and what they learned.
2021-04-2701 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipThe Fundamentals: Setting Clear ExpectationsSetting expectations…it sounds pretty basic, but it is one of the most important things that leaders at any level can do to set themselves and their team up for success. Communicating your expectations can provide clarity for work standards, get everyone on the same page, and provide a measuring stick for future performance. Skipping this leadership task and you may end up with a team that is confused, contentious, and lacking accountability.
This week we share our thoughts about expectations, what to set them on, how to communicate them, and ideas for where to start if the expectations co...
2021-04-1528 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipYou’re a New Manager… What’s Your Plan?Research indicates that 60% of new managers fail in the first 24 months of their new position (CEB). There is much to celebrate with your recent promotion. Make time to celebrate all the work that has led you to this point, however, keep the celebrating to a minimum and get your plan in place to avoid being in that 60 percent.
There are many things contributing to the 60% failure rate. Maybe it was too soon for a promotion. Perhaps the transition from the previous manager was poorly executed. Lack of training has been identified as a cause. Or there was...
2021-04-0729 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipBuilding Relationships 101Many people find building relationships as easy as a walk in the park (Group A), yet there are many others who find it as challenging as mountain climbing (Group B).
If you are in group B, raise your hand and push play.
This week we discuss some of the basics of building relationships…why it matters for leaders and for teams. We pack a lot into this discussion including how strong relationships help to get the work done as well as some dos and don’ts for those who want to build stronger relationships.
Do...
2021-03-3127 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipLeading With EmpathyWhat is all the buzz about empathy? It’s all over the internet, social media, and leadership literature. Is it something you are born with, something you can build upon, or a little of both?
This week we discuss empathy, what it is, why it is important, and how we can hone this skill as part of our leadership toolkit.
Have you thought about the role that empathy plays in your leadership style? Share your thoughts with us at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com
2021-03-2428 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipManaging in the WeedsThe change from working as a teammate to doing the work of a supervisor can be a tough. Many new supervisors get stuck in the weeds, continuing to do the work of their team members. The new work can be unfamiliar, challenging, and stressful. The good news is…there is a podcast for that.
This week we share our definition of managing in the weeds, how to recognize if you are in the weeds, and ideas for climbing out of the weeds to get a bigger and broader picture of team’s work, potential issues, and possible solutions.
Ou...
2021-03-1730 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipVision to ActionLet’s get that vision into action. Goals are powerful. With them, we feel unstoppable. We share how we transition our vision into results. Expect a fun discussion where we share our tips for reaching our goals and overcoming our retailers.
Our #1 recommendation when it comes to goals - know your why. Why is the goal important to you?
Connect with us at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com
2021-03-1041 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipManaging With a Lack of ConfidenceConfidence. It’s an important attribute for effective leadership.
We believe that self-confidence is a foundational attribute for a successful leader. Leaders that have it, have a greater ability to make sound decisions, drive commitment, build trust, and positively influence their teams. This week we share the strategies we implement when we need to mask a temporary issue with a lack of confidence.
Have you ever had a lack of confidence in your leadership? What is your strategy for disguising the issue and getting through the moment? Share your ideas with us at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.co...
2021-03-0331 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipEstablishing a Team CultureLet’s face it, change is inevitable. Some changes can be small and simple but bigger changes can require a complete shift in culture. Establishing a team culture that is aligned with the broader organization is sometimes easier said than done. Team members are often deeply rooted in traditional mindsets, trusted instincts, and possibly even old bad habits.
We believe that establishing a team culture begins with a solid understanding of the organization’s culture and the current sub-culture of the team. This understanding will help leaders prepare a plan for the transition and forward movement.
Th...
2021-02-2424 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipKeys to Driving Organizational Change2020 brought about many challenges that required organizations to review their current business models, processes, and technology and find innovative ways to quickly adapt. These changes have increased the need for leaders to be able to drive organizational change.
We believe that driving change requires a solid plan with clear and frequent communication. This week we discuss ideas that help leaders adapt to and adopt a needed change. Pepper shares a 30/30/30 approach for managing the early and slow adopters as well as the worst thing leaders can do when driving change.
What is your strategy for driving an organizational change...
2021-02-1727 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipTeam Development: Expectations and ChallengesAre you ready for the growth zone? And how do you get your team there? This week we discuss employee development: for long term employees, short team employees unwilling to grow, and the team member that lacks the skillset for the job.
We believe that growth begins with a philosophy and a strategy. Development is so much more than attending a training class, it is not the responsibility of the training department. As leaders, development happens everyday by creating the environment and constantly scanning for opportunities. We share our approach and specific strategies for continuous development of...
2021-02-1024 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipStaying MotivatedWe’ve hit a rough patch and needed another dose of positivity. This lockdown can definitely drag down your spirits. As leaders, we believe it’s important to keep your positivity infectious. We need it. Our teams need it. Everybody can handle a little bit of positive energy.
This week, we talk about informal leaders that can have a negative impact on the team. We share what the conversation sounds like and the potential outcome. Stay focused and do your best to tamp down any rising negativity. It comes down to what energy is contagious across your team...
2021-02-0330 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipThe Impact of OpennessHow do you create an open environment that invites and encourages new ideas and change…and why in the world does it matter?
This week we define openness then dive into the details of the impacts and challenges often faced by leaders and teams. And we don’t forget to chat about how to handle those moments when openness brings up an idea that will never fly.
Is your business open or is it just open for business? Open up and share your thoughts and comments with us at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com.
2021-01-2731 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipChange My LifeWe finally get down to the nitty gritty of vision boards and the best place to start if you are planning to create one for 2021. It’s not magic, it’s a process! The hardest part of the process is being patient and honest with yourself. Patience, because this can take some time. It’s not a quick, check the box activity. Honest, because it can take some time to get to what really rings your bell.
Gaining clarity in your personal life can have positively impact how you lead your team. Clearing the fog can contribute to the...
2021-01-2030 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipKeep it GoingSo you have made some resolutions, set some new goals, and possibly even have some momentum going for January. How will you keep it going for the rest of 2021?
This week we discuss our methods to “keep it going” throughout the rest of the year. Hang on tight because Kim decides to make a swift u-turn to go back and talk about our podcast goals. We are sharing the conversation with you to add yet another layer of accountability.
We always love new ideas and want to hear your tips and tricks for staying focused on your goals. Share them...
2021-01-1326 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipGoal GetterWe had a good time last week reflecting on our accomplishments for the year, but we can’t live in the past forever. New year…new goals! That’s right, it’s time to talk about 2021 goals.
We believe that growth begins at the end of your comfort zone. This week we discuss our personal leadership goals that will put us outside of our comfort zones and why they are important for our current roles. Ready for some openness and vulnerability? This one gets real!
Are you ready for 2021? Willing to get out of your comfort...
2021-01-0628 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipWe Did ItWith the beginning of a new year fast approaching, we spend a few minutes reflecting on our personal leadership accomplishments and how they were important areas of growth.
We highlight our work/team accomplishments and also share our approach when communicating our team accomplishments through our organization.
We want to know, what team accomplishments were you most proud of this year? Share with us at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com.
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2020-12-3030 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipFamily TraditionsIt’s the holiday season! We are taking a break from our leadership discussions—we all need a break every once and a while. First and foremost, we are celebrating our download goal for 2020! Thank you for listening, commenting, and supporting our podcast! We have had a tremendous 4 months and appreciate each and every one of you.
We thought it was a perfect time to share a little bit more about who we are and how we spend Christmas. From dinner to opening presents, we share our holiday traditions and what we look forward to during this time...
2020-12-2325 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipTo Give or Not to Give?In this episode, we discuss gift giving for our teams and whether we feel obligated to give gifts? Is it an obligation you must fulfill, do you want to give gifts to your team, or do you play the Grinch during Christmas?
We spend time talking about why we give the same gift to all team members and how it’s connected to the work environment we are creating. We share some of our favorite gifts we’ve given and provide alternatives to purchased items.
Connect with us at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com and let us know if you’ll be giv...
2020-12-1628 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipDo You See What I See?Are you ready for end of the year performance reviews? Who gets scheduled first?
This week we chat about how we prepare for performance discussions, how to make them a dialogue, and who starts the conversation. We’ll discuss two go-to questions for any unexpected situation, as well as our preference on scheduling the performance discussion meetings.
As a bonus we’ll share the experiences of our worst performance discussions to date.
Connect with us at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com and let us know how you get prepared, or what has been your best / wors...
2020-12-0931 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipThe Pit StopHave you had a pit stop lately?
In this episode, we share our thoughts on the first draft of this discussion, why it stunk, and why we decided to take another crack at it. Now that we’re in the zone, we discuss:
What a pit stop is. Is it vacation?
How leaders recharge.
How leaders help their teams take a pit stop.
As you listen in, we want to know, what was your last pit stop? Does your business allow for a pit stop? Connect with us at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com.
2020-12-0431 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipGobble GobbleIt’s the Thanksgiving episode. As we prepare the table, we also get our hearts ready. We share our family Thanksgiving traditions along with the things we are most thankful this year. We tell the story of how we got started with this podcast. Lastly, we reflect on that ONE dish that must be on the table for it to be Thanksgiving. What’s your dish? Drop us a line at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com.
2020-11-2524 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipIt’s All About the PeopleThis episode is all about gratitude, we reflect on significant opportunities and people that have influenced our careers and our paths to leadership.
Listen in as we take a few minutes to discuss how these experiences have challenged us to grow and develop. We also discuss the strong connection between gratitude and leadership. We believe gratitude drives employee engagement, builds positive teams, and helps you to focus on your successes.
Your texts, comments, and emails are great. Keep them coming. We would love to hear about the experiences you are grateful for and how they...
2020-11-1822 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipUgh…is it Fear?Come out, come out wherever you are? Is fear ever an option? An answer to the question? We dig deeper into fear by recognizing, analyzing, and dealing with fear. We don’t allow fear to hold us back and want to share our approach so that you don’t allow fear to keep you from moving forward.
We also talk about how leading with fear can impact a team and different responses you may see. We briefly talk about internal versus external fear and what is the difference.
In the end, can fear be a leadership tool? Is a litt...
2020-11-1128 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipPunch Fear in the FaceLock the doors and grab your wubby because this episode is all about fear. We will reflect on some fears we have experienced in our leadership and how we got past them.
Pepper walks through the 2 questions that have helped her punch through some fearful moments; what is the unknown and what is the why? Kim talks about how fear can sneak up on her but a shift in focus on her values can dull the negative emotion enough to press on.
What has been a fear in your career? How did you get past...
2020-11-0429 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipRefill PleaseGet yourself a PSL refill cause we’re still talking goals: we are digging deeper into our process of how we determine our goals, when we review them, and how we communicate them.
Kim covers the importance of categorizing her work goals into three buckets and how she determines the categories that work for her.
Pepper shares her approach for getting to the details when creating goals. She provides several questions to consider.
No need to grab a notepad, this episode comes with a free downloadable worksheet to help you plan your 2021 goals. What did you think about it? Di...
2020-10-2821 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipIt’s All About the PSLGrab your cozy slippers and hot toddy cause we’re talking goals: long term, short term, personal and professional. It’s time to set yourself up for a strong finish in 2020 and begin establishing a solid plan for 2021. We will cover when we typically set our work and personal goals, along with the importance of writing down your goals. We also talk about how seasons impact our goal setting.
Drop us a line anytime at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com with your top goal for 2021. We wanna hear what’s at the top of your list.
2020-10-2128 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipRose Colored GlassesIn this episode, we answer three questions:
Can leaders be too positive?
Can positive leaders be perceived as weak?
Can you switch sides, from negative to positive?
Kim shares two questions to ask yourself depending on your leadership lens. To wrap up, we share our top three things going well right now.
…and just for fun, we added a few bloopers at the end.
2020-10-1427 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipYou’re Killing Me SmallsIn this episode, Kim and Pepper share 5 practical ideas for improving a negative mindset. Listen in to hear how appreciation, sincere compliments, a humble brag, an accountability partner, and being helpful can set positivity in a forward motion. We talk about baloney and want to hear what you think about it. Drop us a line with your thoughts and leadership questions at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com.
2020-10-0724 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipNegative VibrationsIn this episode, we have a high energy discussion on negative leadership and it’s impact on a team. We provide our top characteristics of negative leaders as well as the ripple effect of silos, clicks, drama, and other issues that can vibrate through a team. We enjoy hearing from our listeners and want to know what your leadership challenges or questions you have. Drop us a line at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com.
2020-09-3028 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipPushing for Positivity – Part 2In this episode, Kim shares her top 5 ideas for spreading positive vibes though teams by minding the message, simple recognition, providing support and just moving on. Each of these ideas are short on time and big on gains. We also enjoy hearing your ideas for positive vibes, be sure to drop us a line at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com.
2020-09-2328 minExtra Shot of LeadershipPushing for Positivity – Part 1In this episode, Pepper shares her ideas for helping teams stay positive including messaging to a larger group, asking a specific question, and team building with a twist. You will walk away with 3 solid ideas for injecting energy and positivity into your team. We also enjoy hearing your ideas for positive vibes, be sure to drop us a line at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com.
2020-09-1626 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipChallenge: 7 Days of PositivityWe want get your thoughts on how you stay positive and are kicking off a 7 day positivity challenge. It's not your typical 7 day challenge where you do the same thing every day, it's different each day. Check out our social media posts on Facebook and LinkedIn. Each day, for the next week we will ask you to share your positive ideas with others. Our goal is to share ideas and help others shake off the slump. This is all about helping spread positivity to others and who doesn't need an extra shot of positivity of right now?
2020-09-1001 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipShake off the SlumpIn this episode, we discuss our methods for staying positive. Why it’s important to us and how it impacts our leadership. We want to hear about how you stay positive. Don’t forget, we love hearing from you and want to know what your leadership challenges or questions are. Drop us a line at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com.
2020-09-0941 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipWhat Makes a Great Leader?In this first episode, Kim and Pepper answer the question, “what makes a great leader?” There are distinct differences between good and great leaders. Pepper discusses great leaders have a high level of self awareness, they focus on building other leaders and that great leaders make health a priority. Kim believes the importance of great leaders knowing who they are and their ability to situationally adjust drives their success. They want to hear about your leadership challenges and what’s on your mind.
Connect with them at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com.
2020-09-0121 min
Extra Shot of LeadershipLaunch DayExtra Shot of Leadership is a new podcast hitting the scene.
Kim and Pepper have a passion for leadership development and coaching others. They are taking their interest to podcasting and each week they discuss specific leadership questions provided by listeners. With over 30 years combined people development experience, they will share their blunders and realizations from their leadership journey. They are looking for some challenging leadership questions as they kick off this podcast.
Connect with them at HeyThere@ExtraShotOfLeadership.com.
2020-09-0110 min
Extra Shot of Leadership3, 2, 1… Here We Go!Kim and Pepper share their excitement in launching a brand new podcast dedicated to helping leaders grow. They discuss the podcast format, which includes leadership questions from listeners and they finalize their go live date.
2020-08-2803 min