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Decoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleSelf-Directed LearningGretchen Wegner, a former classroom teacher, is the founder of The Anti-Boring Learning Lab. This is a wonderful resource for all educators to check out, including home educators! In this second conversation, Gretchen will share her knowledge of Self-Directed Learning, which we discuss calling “Collaborative Learning”!  You’ll learn what it is, how to implement it in any learning situation, and why it’s worth taking the time to implement well! Video version available at DecodingLearningDifferences.com Be sure to check out Gretchen's FREE resources!  These are shared during the conversation and I found th...2025-04-0344 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleNeuromyths with Gretchen Wegner Video version available at DecodingLearningDifferences.com Gretchen Wegner, a former classroom teacher, is the founder of The Anti-Boring Learning Lab. This is a wonderful resource for all educators to check out, including home educators! In this conversation, Gretchen will share her knowledge of neuromyths, why they are not accurate, and why we need to bust them! Check out Gretchen's blog article about Neuromyths here! This article is what led me to invite Gretchen on the podcast! Also be sure to check out Gretchen's FREE resources! 2025-03-2035 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleNeurons that Fire Together, Wire TogetherI do hope that I am not the only neuro-nerd out there, but even if you’re not particularly fascinated by neuroscience, stick with me!   In this week’s episode, I take an old-ish quote and apply it to how your kids learn, leaving you with action you can take to make learning more successful for your kids!   This is extremely helpful in working with kids with dyslexia, dyscalculia, dysgraphia, and so many other specific learning disabilities! It also benefits those with ADHD or any learning struggles! 2025-03-0710 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleEnglish Language RulesThis week’s podcast episode might be a first of its kind (for me).  It started out as wanting to explain that English is actually relatively logical and follows a lot of patterns, but it turned into a book recommendation because Uncovering the Logic of English by Denise Eide goes into better detail than I ever could in a podcast episode! Listen in to hear about why I like this book, why I recommend this book regularly, and some examples of how we were just never taught enough to know that English is a much more predictable and...2025-02-2006 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleSecret Codes and Dyslexia with Dr. HurfordI am delighted to announce that our first guest interview for the 2025 season of Decoding Learning Differences is Dr. Hurford.  Dr. Hurford is doing great things in the world, studying dyslexia and teaching kids with dyslexia as part of his non-profit organization! You can hear all about that as well as some books he’s published (that I just had to get my own copies of, so expect to see another episode on those in the future!) in this week’s podcast episode! To learn more about his organization and his b...2025-02-061h 07Decoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn Lavelle2025 Season 5 IntroTimes are challenging, and I’m dedicated to focusing on getting everyone the info they need to be successful in the area in which I have expertise in. There will be a few changes to the podcast for the 2025 season.  I will now be emailing and publishing the podcast episodes on THURSDAYS instead of Mondays!     So watch for emails from me on Thursdays at 12:34pm.  As much as I’d like to get back to weekly emails and episodes, I think bi-weekly is the most attainable for me at this time.  I am dedicated...2025-01-3004 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleThe Pace and Progress of LearningParents assume that their kids have learned something and will still know it next week.   They won’t, unless they’ve been practicing.     This is probably obvious to you when you stop to think about it, but it’s just so common for parents to also be surprised when our kids have forgotten something they TOTALLY knew!   And this learning-requires-practice truth is exponentially more true for kids with learning disabilities! Listen to this week’s episode and get some ideas for how to go about helping...2024-11-1808 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleProgress Check!If you have a “great”, “good”, or even “okay” IEP in place for your kiddo, don’t assume all is going well and you don’t need to check in until the next annual IEP.   Check NOW!  We’re approximately ⅓ of the way through the school year (depending on your school’s calendar).     We need to be sure that everything in place still makes sense and is benefiting your kiddo.     We need to be sure the goals are appropriate and progress is being made.   And we need to be sure progre...2024-11-0414 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleVoting for EducationUnfortunately, education has become increasingly political lately and I feel like I’m not doing anyone any favors by keeping quiet about it.   I will not tell you who or what to vote for, but I would love the opportunity to let you know about a few things that can impact your child’s education.   I’m intentionally releasing this episode well ahead of Election Day because I want everyone to have time to research fully, and never to act out of fear. 2024-10-2806 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleIEP ChecklistToday is Christmas in September!  I’ve got a gift for you!   I’ve just created an IEP checklist to help you do what I do for my clients!  When working with clients, I go through every part of an IEP to ensure it is well-written, accurate, and is working toward reasonably ambitious goals.   With this PDF, you can now do the same thing!  The PDF links to videos that go deeper into some of these topics to help you better determine how to support your kiddo and how to best evaluate...2024-09-0919 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleLetters to the SchoolClick here to see the video and get the letters!   https://decodinglearningdifferences.com/Letters Or email me at Kimberlynn@DecodingLearningDifferences.com 2024-09-0220 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleStarting the School Year StrongSee the video at: https://decodinglearningdifferences.com/StartingtheSchoolYear  The school year has already begun in schools near me, and won’t start for another month in some other schools around the country.  Whenever you are starting school, I want you to keep in mind a few things toward the start of the year.  These are some ways to help ensure this is a year of success and progress for your child, and not another lost year.   Stay in frequent contact with all general education and special education teachers working with your kiddo, as well as any...2024-08-2617 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleIEP Accommodations: Evaluating a Real IEPVideo version available at: decodinglearningdifferences.com/IEPAccommodations This week’s podcast episode is long overdue!  This is an analysis of a real IEP accommodations page sent to me by a parent concerned about their child’s IEP and wanting some free feedback. I love parents who care and who ask great questions to understand how to help their kiddo. In this episode, I take a look at this IEP for the first time and give feedback on what I’m seeing and noticing and what I would write differently, if anything. 2024-04-2225 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavellePositive Mindset with Sherrika MyersI was watching a sweet video the other day of a toddler trying to figure out a puzzle and looking frustrated but determined.  Finally, the child figured it out and their face lit up!  So sweet! I love these kinds of stories of kids, adults, and even animals overcoming difficulties.  They can be such an inspiration! And even better: when someone overcomes a difficulty and then turns around and helps others to overcome that same difficulty! That’s this week’s guest on the podcast: Sherrika Myers! You will hear her tell he...2024-04-1525 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleIEP Goals: Let's Fix One!Hi, *|FNAME|*! Happy Monday! When I first became a special education teacher, I had received NO instruction on how to write an IEP.  I asked another special education teacher how to write it and was told to mostly just copy what the previous year’s IEP said, just making the goals more advanced. I was so clueless going into that first IEP meeting. I cared DEEPLY about my students, and I wanted to do right by them.     I wanted to provide every student with a really great education that w...2024-03-2545 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleLeading Change with Caroline DigmanI so often hear from parents frustrated by the school system and specifically the school they are fighting with to get their child what they need. What I also hear from on occasion is fellow educators who are passionate about changing the schools from the inside! One such educator is Caroline Digman!  She is a dedicated teacher working hard to make real change in her school and in her school district.  She’s also spreading the word on what she’s doing locally to spread change in more districts! I love what she’s doing...2024-03-2551 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleMotivational BeliefContinuing with ideas for motivating our kids, we're discussing the motivational impact of genuine belief in your child.  Belief in who they are and what they are capable of. Check out the video version, more free resources, and support at www.DecodingLearningDifferences.com Send IEP documents you want free feedback on to: Kimberlynn@DecodingLearningDifferences.com 2024-03-0406 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleMotivational ResponsibilityContinuing with ideas for motivating our kids, we're discussing the motivational impact of giving kids genuine responsibility. See the video version and resources at: www.DecodingLearningDifferences.com Send IEP documents you want free feedback on to: Kimberlynn@DecodingLearningDifferences.com 2024-02-2606 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleMotivational GratitudeContinuing with ideas for motivating our kids, we're discussing the motivational impact of  genuine gratitude. Send IEP documents you want free feedback on to: Kimberlynn@DecodingLearningDifferences.com 2024-02-1203 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleMotivational AffirmationsAffirmations expressing all the awesome qualities of your kid can be very motivating for them! Be sure to send IEP documents you want free feedback on to: Kimberlynn@DecodingLearningDifferences.com 2024-02-0505 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecodable Fun with Sue MarasciuloAs a former special education teacher in the public schools, and as someone who still is paying attention to what kids are drawn to reading, I can tell you that anecdotally, graphic novels seem to be the most exciting type of book for kids to own! They love the pictures and our dyslexic kiddos often thrive off of fewer words on the page.  However, many graphic novels contain words that are WAY too challenging for struggling readers. Enter Sue Marasciulo.     If you don’t know about her books, you’ll probably want to...2024-02-0524 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleMotivation Killers (REPLAY)This episode goes into three “Motivation Killers”: Punishments, Rewards, and Praise.  (Although praise is actually a type of reward).   Punishment Now that corporal punishment (physical abuse/hitting) is very rare and illegal in most states, punishment is usually about taking something away from a child (called a negative punishment).  Punishments you may have seen in schools: “You didn't do your work, you don't get to go out to recess.”  “You didn't do well enough, you get an F.”  “You get a zero.”  “You have a missing notice that has...2024-01-2926 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn Lavelle2024! WooHoo!This year, in the fourth podcast season, you can expect more about motivation, more interviews, and more IEP guidance!   Be sure to send IEP documents you want free feedback on to: Kimberlynn@DecodingLearningDifferences.com 2024-01-2204 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleFun and Effective Reading Instruction with Developing Readers AcademyVideo version available at: https://decodinglearningdifferences.com/podcast/DevelopingReadersAcademy/  Last week we dove deep into the Science of Reading.  This week, we’re moving into how to make that reading instruction FUN! Laura and Megan of the Developing Readers Academy are this week’s podcast guests and they are full of wisdom and inspiration! Join our conversation and gain some ideas for how best to help your “growing reader”. Learn more about what they're doing at: https://www.developingreadersacademy.com/  2023-11-2033 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleThe Science of Reading with Nate HansfordVideo version available at: https://decodinglearningdifferences.com/podcast/NHansford How much do you know about “The Science of Reading”? Do you feel clueless?  Do you feel like you are an expert?  Somewhere in-between? This week’s episode is for you if you land ANYWHERE in that range!  I completely geek out over Science of Reading stuff and this conversation was a super fun one for me!  I got to ask an expert on the topic some questions and along the way, he gave a good overview of what good reading instruction requires a...2023-11-141h 09Decoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleMotivation Killers (REPLAY)Video Version available at: https://decodinglearningdifferences.com/podcast/MotivationKillers/  This powerful replay episode goes into three “Motivation Killers”: Punishments, Rewards, and Praise.  (Although praise is actually a type of reward).   Punishment Now that corporal punishment (physical abuse/hitting) is very rare and illegal in most states, punishment is usually about taking something away from a child (called a negative punishment).  Punishments you may have seen in schools: “You didn't do your work, you don't get to go out to recess.”  “You didn't do well enough, you get an F.”  2023-10-3026 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleBetter Births, Better Education with Jemilla WhiteWhat is your birth story? Did you experience a traumatic birth?  Do you suspect it may have impacted your child? I don’t want this to scare you, worry you, or bring any kind of burden! I’ve just seen an anecdotal connection between birth difficulties and an increased likelihood of learning disabilities.  I’ve seen some research to support this, but more certainly needs to be done. As I talked with my doula friend Jemilla White about this, we decided to take this conversation to the podcast so that the wisdom c...2023-10-2344 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleSwim the Lake with Deb CanjaSome people just have SO much to offer the world! Today’s podcast wisdom comes from a sweet friend who wrote a truly inspiring book: Swim the Lake Before You Row the Boat- that gives so much wisdom about how to raise children in a purposeful, meaningful way.  AND- Deb is a lawyer and has experience with special education and shared a lot of wonderful wisdom around the IEP process. Video version is at: https://www.decodinglearningdifferences.com/swimthelake  2023-10-1654 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleMove and Learn with Dr. Julian ReedThis week I was excited to chat with Dr. Julian Reed, founder of Walkabouts.  He talks about a program that he developed to bring movement into the classroom as well as a lot of other ways that movement can be incorporated into the classroom, and I mentioned some examples I had seen in a school I used to work in. Learn more about the program at: https://www.walkabouts.com/ 2023-10-0919 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleBreak Through Challenges Using Neurofeedback with Dianne KostoIf I'm understanding Neurofeedback correctly- without adding another mentally exhausting task to their day, you can retrain the brain to change the brain waves to make learning easier for them.   Click here to watch this fascinating and hope-filled conversation! If you have tried or wind up trying neurofeedback, I would LOVE to hear about your experience! Find out more about Dianne Kosto's work here: https://symmetryneuropt.com/  2023-10-0251 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleMaximize Life- No Degree Required! with Jen Doidge“When I grow up, I want to be Jen Doidge.”- something I’ve said multiple times in my life.   Today’s podcast episode is super special to me.  I have a good friend who exudes positivity and adventure and friendliness.     She’s someone I want everyone to know.  She’s not an education expert.  She’s not a parenting expert.     She’s simply an amazing human that I want to share with even more of the world.   I finally got her on a call and couldn’t wait to...2023-09-2526 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleREPLAY: 3 Learning Principles You NEED to Know!Listen to this previously-released episode and check out more episodes that you may have missed here: https://decodinglearningdifferences.com/  2023-08-0706 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleReading Simplified with Marnie GinsbergDr. Marnie Ginsberg is the founder of Reading Simplified. Hear her story and get inspired to help your own learner master reading! Video version at: https://decodinglearningdifferences.com/podcast/readingsimplified/  Check out: https://readingsimplified.com/ Some links discussed in this episode: Readingsimplified.com/switch-it ReadingSimplified.com/reading-tests ReadingSimplified.com/one-and-done-nearly ReadingSimplified.com/power-up-phonics-activities readingsimplified.com/academy 2023-08-0235 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleRewire the Brain with Barbara Arrowsmith-YoungTake the Cognitive Questionnaire here: https://questionnaire.arrowsmithprogram.com/    Barbara Arrowsmith-Young is the founder of the Arrowsmith Program, an assessment process and suite of cognitive exercises designed to stimulate and strengthen areas of cognitive functioning that underlie a range of learning difficulties.   Her work is recognized as one of the first examples of the practical application of neuroplasticity to address learning difficulties and its application has expanded to address those dealing with traumatic brain injury, addiction, cognitive decline with aging and those who want to enhance performance. She is the recipient of...2023-07-2455 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleCalm the Chaos with Dayna AbrahamWe are joined this week by Dayna Abraham, educator, author, mother, and so much more!  Dayna's newest book, Calm the Chaos (about to be released very soon) is "a revolutionary guide for parents of kids that struggle with big emotions, power struggles, or challenging behaviors".  Having had the opportunity to read a sneak preview of this book, I can tell you that it is for every parent I've ever met and ever heard of.  Unless your home is always sunshine and you never are left feeling uneasy, upset, or ashamed of an interaction with your child, this book is for...2023-07-1752 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleEducating the Different Learner: DyscalculiaLast week we dove into the latest research on the best educational methodologies for children with dyslexia (including some methodologies that the latest research supports but have been around for over a hundred years!). This week we’re diving into a topic that is a bit more complicated, because there is WAY less research.  This week we’re talking about the best methods for educating a child with dyscalculia. There may not be as much research, but there are things we do know to do and things we know NOT to do. 2023-06-1927 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleEducating the Different Learner: DyslexiaIn this week’s episode, I am giving some clear guidelines on the best methodologies for educating children with dyslexia, based on the most current research. Click here to watch, listen, and learn!  While you’re here, be sure to subscribe, rate, and write a review to help others discover all that you have found so helpful! 2023-06-1233 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleUnshakeable Parenting Confidence with Andrea PollackAfter that long IEP Tips series, I’m excited to offer you an interview today!  Today’s episode is an interview with Andrea Pollack of Autism Parent Solutions. Whether or not you have a child with autism, be sure to listen because you WILL gain insight! One of the biggest things that is explored in this episode is Unshakeable Parenting Confidence! Learn a bit about Unshakeable Parenting Confidence from Andrea Pollack of Autism Parent Solutions.  Find more about her at: AutismParentSolutions.com!   While you're here, be sure to subscri...2023-06-0528 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleIEP Tips: IEP v 504This week’s final episode stems from the position many families find themselves in of being offered a Section 504 plan when what they really wanted for their child was an IEP.  We go into the differences and similarities of these two educational supports to hopefully allow families to make the decision that is best for their child! Watch the video or download the audio for this week’s episode where we discuss your options and my recommendations. 2023-05-2209 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleIEP Tips: Keeping an IEPLast week we went through all the steps of GETTING an IEP for your kiddo, but another common question is around how to keep the school from taking that IEP away.   Every three years, the school district must determine if your child is still “eligible” for an IEP and while this brings updated information, it can also mean that the school may recommend “exiting” your child from special education/ an IEP.   And that’s amazing news!  Your child is doing so well that the school thinks your kiddo will be just fine without...2023-05-1514 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleIEP Tips: Getting an IEPMany families assume that a school will recognize if their child is struggling and will assess them and put them on an IEP if that is needed, all without the parents saying anything.  And, honestly, that’s how it’s supposed to work.  For many children, that is exactly how it does work.   However, for many other kids, their needs get brushed aside and they are never assessed, and never put onto an IEP unless a parent or guardian steps in and advocates for them.   So how do you get your child an...2023-05-0819 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleIEP Tips: IEESometimes, we need a second opinion.     If you’re feeling that the school’s report didn’t find give you the answers you needed regarding why your child is struggling, you might need a second opinion. And the beauty of the system is that you can request an IEE that is free of charge to you. I don’t encourage the use of this option for most people, as it is a big expense to school districts and we’d probably have them use that money to actually educate our children and their tea...2023-05-0114 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleIEP Tips: AccommodationsAre Accommodations the most important part of an IEP? Last week we dove into the importance of well-written IEP goals and this week we’re going to another section of the IEP. The Accommodations section of an IEP is, for many kids, the single most important section of their IEP! For kids who are able to understand and participate in grade level content, accommodations may be the thing keeping them in a general education class all day long, feeling successful and knowing that they are rocking it! For kids who struggle a...2023-04-2416 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleIEP Tips: GoalsWhen we’re looking at IEP goals, we don’t want just an emotional impression of what we think the IEP is supposed to guide.  We need it to be crystal clear so that there is no confusion as to whether or not a child met that IEP goal.   Those goals need to leave no room for interpretation.  If 2 different teachers both read that goal, will they use entirely different methods of measurement?  If so, the results will likely be vastly different. Unfortunately, many special education teachers are never taught how to write really g...2023-04-1725 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleIEP Tips: Parts of an IEPWhen it comes to IEPs, knowing how to read them helps us know where to look to find the important stuff within them.     An IEP document 30 years ago was 2 pages long.  Now IEPs are often more than 30 pages long.  They can be so large and overwhelming that many parents need help looking them over, understanding them, and knowing if the IEP is providing what their child needs.   While I actually love analyzing IEPs and doing consultations with families, I also want to help everyone understand IEPs better so that everyone can make a...2023-04-1132 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleIEP Tips: Communication before and afterCommunication is really important to ANY relationship.  Most conflict seems to stem from miscommunication, misunderstanding, or lack of communication.   And when there is conflict around your child’s IEP, your child is not benefiting.  Communicate regularly with the entire IEP team!   Listen for more details on how and when and where and why and what to communicate with who!   You can watch the video here! 2023-04-0318 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleIEP Tips: What to Bringknowing what to bring to a particular event/trip is critically important to the trip’s success (and some things are out of our control).   When it comes to attending an IEP meeting, don’t show up empty-handed and clueless!  There are specific items you can and should bring with you for an optimally successful IEP meeting.   Click here to watch or listen to this week’s podcast episode and get all the details! 2023-03-2720 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleIEP Tips: Should I hire an advocate or a lawyer?Ultimately, the answer to this question is personal and depends greatly on your particular situation.   Listen or Watch the video to find out what you should consider when trying to decide if it's time to hire an advocate or a lawyer, and what to look for if you do decide to hire one.   Learn more at www.DecodingLearningDifferences.com! 2023-03-2017 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDream It, Do It with Dr. Vicki WallerThis week’s episode is the first interview of the season!  And to kick us off, we’re bringing back Dr. Victoria Waller!   Last week we discussed how to set your child up for optimal learning and one of the key pieces to that is to make learning pleasant or even fun, and this week Dr. Vicki will give us plenty of ideas to get us started engaging our kids’ love of learning and creative spirit. Click on over to get the free PDF: “If You Can Dream It, You Can Do It”, full of fun...2023-03-1353 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleBack to Basics: How We LearnIn this episode, we go “Back to Basics” to remind everyone of the principles of what sets kids up for learning success.  This episode lays the foundation for understanding how to set your kids up for true learning success!     Watch the video at: https://decodinglearningdifferences.com/home/basics/  2023-03-0619 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleReadying Your Child for College with Kim Duckworthwatch video version at: www.YourParentHelp.com/podcast_0218   Around this time of year, a lot of High School seniors are considering colleges, applying to colleges, and taking SATs or ACTs. Younger kids are beginning to think about their future careers and the colleges they may be interested in attending.   And even if your child is quite young, the path to college might be something you either have thought about, or feel that you should start considering.   This conversation is for you!   Find Kim Duck...2022-12-1238 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleAct Now! Early Intervention Makes a Huge Difference!video version at: www.YourParentHelp.com/podcast_0246   In a recent episode, Dr. Vicki Waller discussed the importance of not waiting to get your kid help.  There is a myth that if we wait, kids will just catch up and outgrow their difficulties.     And while some kids DO need more time to mature or more access to direct instruction to then “catch up” to peers, when a parent feels certain that their child needs some extra help, that parent is usually accurate!   The thing is, the sooner kids get help...2022-12-0508 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleMisnamed, Misdiagnosed, Misunderstood with Linda KaranzalisVideo version available at: www.YourParentHelp.com/podcast_0245    In this week’s podcast episode, we have a fascinating conversation with Linda Karanzalis.  Linda is an ADHD and NVLD expert.  And if you’ve never heard of NVLD, you are not alone!  NVLD stands for NonVerbal Learning Disorder, and can be mistaken for ADHD or autism, but is entirely different, and those with NVLD are definitely NOT nonverbal!   This episode is a fascinating first look at what NVLD is, and what to do if you suspect that you or your child has NVLD. ...2022-11-2840 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleYes! Your Child Can with Dr. Vicki WallerWebsite for this episode: www.YourParentHelp.com/podcast_0244    If you have ever felt that worry, “Will my child ever….?” listen to today’s podcast with Dr. Victoria (Vicki) Waller.    From Dr. Vicki Waller’s materials: “Every child can succeed in school and life, but some children need more help than others. For over 40 years, internationally acclaimed reading specialist and student advocate Dr. Victoria E. Waller has helped children who have trouble reading, who can’t sit still in class, who don’t feel like they can participate—children whom teachers have all but...2022-11-1444 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleSpelling Lists We Can Do BetterVideo available at: www.YourParentHelp.com/podcast_0243   I can not count how many times I’ve heard parents worried about their child’s weekly spelling lists.   Parents want to know what they should do as far as accommodations, or if the list is reasonable, or if it’s just cruel to mark a kid wrong for letter reversals when they otherwise would have gotten 100% (finally).  Ouch!  Yeah, for the record, I do think that is cruel!   But I also just loathe spelling lists in the way that they are ty...2022-11-0736 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDiagnosing DyslexiaNow WITH sound!   see video version:  https://www.yourparenthelp.com/podcast_0239    “Specific Learning Disability” versus “Dyslexia” I’ve heard so many parents question the school’s report of a “Specific Learning Disability” and ask how they can get their child diagnosed with dyslexia.  In some states, a school can actually give a diagnosis, but this is outside of the scope of schools in many states.     A diagnosis is a medical function, while determining eligibility for an IEP or 504 is a school function.   Assessing for an IEP or...2022-11-0114 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleMotivating Dyslexic KidsEpisode video: https://www.yourparenthelp.com/podcast_0242   Motivating Dyslexic Kids is much like motivating any child!   Before watching or listening to this episode, be sure you have seen/heard the previous episodes:   Motivation Killers   Motivation: Focus on the Relationship   Motivational Autonomy   Motivational Reading   Motivational Writing   Motivational Outings: Zoo   Motivational Modeling   Motivational Problem Solving   If you want to mot...2022-10-3112 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleGetting Your Kid Help in Public SchoolSee video at: https://www.yourparenthelp.com/podcast_0241   In a recent episode, Diagnosing Dyslexia, we discussed whose role it is to diagnose dyslexia and whose role it is to educate those with dyslexia.     This week, we’re talking about how to get the process of getting your kid help in public school started!   Request an evaluation Write out a request for an evaluation.  I recommend emailing your request to as many relevant people as you can, as well as walking the letter into the office and aski...2022-10-2419 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleEffective Dyslexia InterventionsVideo version available at: www.YourParentHelp.com/podcast_0240   Effective Dyslexia Interventions   The “Gold Standard” in dyslexia interventions is Orton-Gillingham, often called “OG”.  There are many programs that are Orton-Gillingham-based.   The effectiveness of each OG-based program is highly dependent on the knowledge base of the person implementing the program.  If they are not actually trained in the program and/or dyslexia in general, the program will be far less effective.     There are a lot of great programs available, but when someone can take those and individualiz...2022-10-1719 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDiagnosing DyslexiaNow WITH sound!    See video version: www.YourParentHelp.com/podcast_0239    “Specific Learning Disability” versus “Dyslexia” I’ve heard so many parents question the school’s report of a “Specific Learning Disability” and ask how they can get their child diagnosed with dyslexia.  In some states, a school can actually give a diagnosis, but this is outside of the scope of schools in many states.     A diagnosis is a medical function, while determining eligibility for an IEP or 504 is a school function.   Assessing for an IEP or 5...2022-10-1014 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleThe Right to Read with Dr. Kathryn GarforthHappy October, also known as both Dyslexia Awareness Month and ADHD Awareness Month.   Personally, I love that these two share a month because there is a high rate of co-morbidity, meaning they often show up together!   And to kick off this amazing month, today’s podcast is an interview with Dr. Kathryn Garfoth of Garforth Education and the Right to Read Initiative Podcast.  From her website: “Dr. Garforth has professional expertise in Educational Psychology and a personal understanding of the frustrations children and adults with learning difficulties experience at home, school, work, a...2022-10-031h 09Decoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDifficult Parents: My Take Parents often wonder whether it is worthwhile to write to their child's teacher.  The issue is complicated and nuanced, but overall, I almost always say: Yes!   Listen to the podcast and then be sure to read more of the details, ideas, and nuances at: www.YourParentHelp.com/podcast_0237  2022-09-2614 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleMotivational Problem Solving Kids who struggle with ADHD, dyslexia, dysgraphia, dyscalculia, and other learning disabilities are motivated by the same things all kids are motivated by: solving complex problems in a meaningful way!   In a continuing effort to find ways to motivate our child’s academic/educational progress, this month’s Motivational Monday is on Problem-Solving.     While doing a worksheet full of “word problems” can be boring and unmotivating, solving genuine problems can be very motivating!   Consider some of these problems and all that your kids would learn in helping to genuinely s...2022-09-1915 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn Lavelle3 Learning Principles You NEED to Know!More at: www.YourParentHelp.com/podcast_0235    When you’re teaching your child, or supporting them academically in any way, even just in thinking about how to get outside help for them, you NEED to understand a few principles of how kids learn to easily avoid conflict and increase actual learning!   Teachers learn the most. When we teach something, we retain 90% of the content.  Compare that to just 15% retention when something is presented both auditorily and visually!    Prioritize creating opportunities for your child to take on the role of teach...2022-09-1206 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleRoots of Behavior with Michele Shilvock, part 2Have you heard of Oppositional Defiant Disorder?  How about Pathological Demand Avoidance?   Ever wonder (or know) if your child has one of these and what to do about it?   Listen to this week’s podcast, where we dive deep into what these disorders are, and how to approach behavioral challenges with these kids. Learn more about Michele’s work at: https://micheleshilvock.com/  Follow her on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Micheleshilvockconsulting  And Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/micheleshilvockconsulting/ 2022-09-0545 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleThe Roots of Behavior Difficulties with Michele ShilvockIn this week’s podcast, I geeked out a bit with Michele Shilvock, where we talked about behavior difficulties in children and what really works in a respectful and long-term way.  Michele speaks from experience, not merely from theory.   Michele starts off walking us through her behavior visual, then explains lagging skills, ODD, and PDA.  We definitely didn’t have time to go as deep as I wanted on everything so watch for Part 2 coming soon! 2022-08-291h 07Decoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleBoosting Reading ComprehensionImproving Reading Comprehension can feel daunting, but there are many simple, easy, and fun strategies that you can start using TODAY to improve your child's reading comprehension, despite any learning disabilities or challenges.  These work for kids with autism, ADHD, dyslexia, auditory processing disability, visual processing disability, and more!   Download the Guide at: https://www.yourparenthelp.com/readingcomprehension  2022-08-2223 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleMotivational ModelingAs a kid, I remember being scared to go down this set of 3 tall, dark tunnel slides at the local water park (Raging Waters) called The Bermuda Triangle.  But I kept watching all of these other kids going down it and laughing and smiling and enjoying it!   Eventually, I climbed the stairs, took a breath and went for it.  And I was so glad that I had found that courage.  That motivation.   I’m sure you’ve had similar experiences, but have you ever taken the time to consider how this might app...2022-08-1510 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleThe Real Pace of LearningChildren are expected to learn at a steady pace, starting fourth grade at a 4.0, and ending at a 4.9 or 5.0, with steady consistent growth of .1 each month along the way.   I have never met that child.   Every child I have ever worked with has had periods of explosive growth and periods of stagnation and even regression. We expect that steady straight line, but the spikes and dips and plateaus is closer to the reality that I see.  I also want to point out that some kid...2022-08-1023 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleIs Unschooling an Option for YOUR Family??Sue Patterson of Unschooling Mom2Mom defines unschooling as bringing a full, rich life to your kids and trusting that they learn naturally.   Listen to Sue’s answers to these questions (and more):   What led you to choose unschooling? What is your take on unschooling children with learning disabilities such as ADHD or dyslexia? Is unschooling ‘right’ for everyone?  If not, describe who it is best for and who it is questionable for.   And then let me know if you’re currently unschooling or considering it, or if you just think i...2022-08-0140 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleBenefits to Home Education and InterventionKids with autism, dyslexia, ADHD, dysgraphia, dyscalculia, and other learning disabilities (including auditory, visual, attention, and cognitive processing disorders) benefit greatly from being carefully educated by those who know them best and spend the most time with them!   Teaching our children at home has so many benefits!  Even if your child attends a traditional school, you can support their learning difficulties at home.  Here are the benefits that I see: (Watch or listen for more details on each!)   Relationship Building 1:1 Instruction Instruction/Intervention throughout the day Individualized ABCs:At your chil...2022-07-2520 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleAnalyzing Motivation: Interview with Alfie KohnFrom www.AlfieKohn.org: Alfie Kohn writes and speaks widely on human behavior, education, and parenting. The author of fourteen books and hundreds of articles, he lectures at education conferences and universities as well as to parent groups and corporations. Kohn’s criticisms of competition and rewards have been widely discussed and debated, and he has been described in Time magazine as “perhaps the country’s most outspoken critic of education’s fixation on grades [and] test scores.”   Listen as I ask Alfie about some of our previous episodes on motivation and my suggestions...2022-07-1827 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleMoney Money MoneyOne of my favorite mathematical tools is in your wallet, or maybe in your junk drawer, or one of those 5 gallon water jugs.   Coins!   Coins can be used to teach so many math concepts!  And yet, money is barely mentioned in the common core standards.  I understand that coins aren’t necessarily critical, but I do think it’s important as a life skill AND it’s a great mathematical tool for tons of other concepts!   First, we need to work on teaching our kids to identify coins- thei...2022-06-2708 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleVocabulary and Learning DisabilitiesWhen we understand why our children are struggling with reading comprehension, we can be far more effective in helping them to overcome their struggles.   Vocabulary as a skill is essentially about understanding the meaning of the words being read.  A strong vocabulary allows children to understand the meanings of higher level texts.   Some learning disabilities will hinder a child’s vocabulary development or retention, causing them to struggle to understand what they are reading.   When we help them overcome this difficulty, we help them to find more readin...2022-06-2016 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleMotivational Outings: ZooMotivation fascinates me and is something I’m constantly researching, contemplating, and re-educating myself about.  The funny thing is, what I’ve always known to be true, is what clearly is.  And yet, it’s not what society teaches us.  We’re taught to use “the carrot and the stick” when finding intrinsic motivation is far superior to any extrinsic motivator.    This week, I want to offer some inspiration in one way to inspire and motivate your children academically.  And that is with the use of outings, specifically zoos.   A trip to the zoo can be i...2022-06-1318 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleWhere I’m at: Educating My LittlesMy kids are only 2 and 4 years old,  but what am I doing to guide their education right now?   First of all, books!  We read a lot of books!  Those books drive discussions and some other discussions drive us to refer to books.  We read a lot of books and we have a lot of discussions and those two things are a huge part of their education.   We go to the park almost daily, meeting kids and playing with old and new friends constantly.   I set up play dates w...2022-06-0622 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleSafety Impacts EducationThis week, I want to take some time to speak about safety and its impact on education.   If we think about the Hierarchy of Needs (I learned Maslow’s originally, but then found out that Indigenous people have taught very similar hierarchies long before Maslow), the concept is simple:  we have to have some basic needs met in order to have space in our lives to access the best of ourselves.   If our children are not fed, rested, and feeling safe, they can not learn.  Schools in California (and I’m sure not...2022-05-3024 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleWriting: Generating Ideas “I don’t know what to write!”   Sound familiar?   If so, I’ve got you!   Some kids can stare at a blank page and have no clue how to begin to write something.    Conversations Before beginning to write, kids benefit from discussing what they might write about.  They need to toss around some ideas with someone.  I can’t remember who said it, but I’ve been told, “If you can speak, you can write!”   Research/Inspiration Depending on what t...2022-05-2307 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleMotivational Writing“How do I get my kid to write?!”   I’ve heard this same question countless times.  And with this year’s focus on motivation, I wanted to answer it!   There are so many strategies that can be helpful, but all require that you let go of any particular expectation of what the writing might look like.   Modeling One of the most motivating ways to get your child interested in writing is to not pressure them into it, but to model it to them.  As you read the belo...2022-05-1621 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleWriter’s Block Wesley: A Case StudyBackground Wesley was brilliant in so many ways.  He could read and comprehend grade-level texts.  He understood math.  And he was reluctant to write ANYTHING!   He would sit for an hour staring at a blank page.  If anyone asked if he needed help, he’d say no, “I’m thinking.”   Spelling was difficult for him and he had fine motor difficulty as well.  I know this was PART of his writing reluctance.  It wasn’t the whole story though.   Wesley just couldn’t figure out how to put his though...2022-05-0908 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleReading Comprehension and DisabilitiesReading Comprehension is often impacted by learning disabilities.     Some learning disabilities impact a child’s ability to comprehend anything, such as with a language processing disorder.     Some learning disabilities impact a child’s ability to just read the words, which then brings down their reading comprehension score.  If you can’t read a text, you’re not going to be able to comprehend it without it being read aloud to you.   And that’s how you can tell the difference, most of the time.  Typically, if a child can understan...2022-04-2522 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleMotivational ReadingWanting to motivate your child to read?   So many of us parents are avid readers and want to instill a love of reading into our children.  However, it’s not something that can be achieved through force.  In fact, any coercion is likely to have the opposite effect!   However, we can inspire our children to want to read.  But to do so, we may have to think outside of the box.   First, we have to meet our kids where they’re at.  We have to take into considerati...2022-04-1815 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleUncomprehending ClarissaClarissa started speaking at the expected time, she was very social, she had no articulation errors (her speech sounds were correct), and she could read books that were close to her grade-level.  However, she could not understand what she read.  The level that she could comprehend was far below the level at which she could read.  And she could not understand any directions that were more than a single, simple step.   So what did we do for dear Clarissa?   We started with an additional assessment by a speech and language pathologist (SLP...2022-04-1107 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleInterview with Aditya of Elephant LearningI was hesitant to hold this interview, but went forward with it.  I was then hesitant to publish this interview, but have decided to do so.   I am not endorsing the product, Elephant Learning.  I’m also not saying that you shouldn’t use it!   I was not given access to Elephant Learning to trial so I can’t speak to it from any personal experience/ first-hand knowledge.   Before you listen to the interview, I want to share my thoughts. First, the pros: Data- allows for...2022-04-0452 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleAddition Strategies Across Grade LevelsAddition is such a common math skill and yet, you may have found yourself wondering HOW to teach it!   To begin with, kids need a few “pre-adding skills”, skills that they must be comfortable with before they can successfully learn to add.  They must be able to count, they must recognize numbers and the plus and equals symbols, and they must have 1:1 correspondence.   All math skills should be taught first with concrete exploration, then pictorial representation, and finally with abstract practice (such as standard algorithms).    Early Addition (K - 1st)2022-03-2827 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleMotivational AutonomyYour spouse/partner comes to you and says, “Hey, I need you to organize the shelves in the garage this weekend.” -OR- “Hey, I’d love to get the garage organized this weekend!  Would you be willing to handle the shelves?  Or would you rather tackle the pile of tools?”   Which would most get you on board with their project?   I am certainly MUCH more motivated when I’m not being told what to do, but being given choice.   As promised, I’m back with more idea...2022-03-2115 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleFinger-Counting FreddyWhen asked to add two numbers, what is your child’s strategy?   Kids like “Freddy” add by always starting at 1, instead of “counting on” from one of the two numbers.   For kid’s like Freddy, there is a lack of number sense that is slowing them down and can cause bigger problems later, so it’s worth fixing now!   What worked- Asking Questions “How many fingers are on that hand?”    “What comes after 5?”   For a lot of kids, these questions aren’t...2022-03-1407 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleWork Completion is NOT the Goal!“When you finish that math worksheet, you have the reading comprehension one from yesterday to finish.”   Does that sound reasonable?   To most of us, it does.  We have likely heard and maybe said something very similar ourselves.   In a society focused on how “productive” a person is, we expect kids to finish worksheets like it is their job.   We even talk about school being a child’s job, and some parents pay kids for how well they do at their job! (Please see the episode “Mo...2022-03-0703 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavellePhonics and DyslexiaPhonics is all about the relationship between sounds and letters and using that letter-sound knowledge to read and spell words!   With a strong phonics knowledge, your child will be able to read and spell unfamiliar words.   But phonics can also be confusing!  In English, there are 44 sounds, 26 letters, and 75 basic phonograms (single or multi-letter representations of sounds).   And kids with dyslexia REALLY struggle with phonics!   If you show your child a nonsense word (like fisp), can they read it?  If you ask them to spe...2022-02-2816 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleMotivation and RelationshipsStop with the sticker charts, cookies, threats, and bribes! Put down the gold star!  Don’t say, “if you ….” ever again!   There’s a better way!    To be completely transparent, this better way is not likely to be faster… at first.   But as I talked about in the episode “Motivation Killers”, all of those bribes don’t work very well in the long term.  You have to keep upping your game, promising more and more.   However, there is something that doesn’t require any upping of the ante, or...2022-02-2118 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleRhyme-less RitaI want to tell you about Rita.   Rita was a student I worked with MANY years ago (more than I can believe!).     I was a new teacher and knew almost nothing about dyslexia.  I had heard of it, but got no training on it in my credentialing classes to become a special education teacher (education specialist).  Can you believe that?!   Poor Rita.  She couldn’t rhyme, blend, or segment in kindergarten.  And I didn’t really know what to do about it except to practice MORE rhyming, blending, and...2022-02-1406 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleIs My Child Dyslexic? An Interview with YOU!In the quiz “Is My Child Dyslexic” there are ten questions.  Knowing the purpose of each of these questions can help you to best determine what your best next steps are.   And if you want to work with me directly, check out Word Warriors! 2022-02-0719 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavellePhonemic Awareness and DyslexiaKids with dyslexia struggle with Phonemic Awareness.  But what does that mean?   Phonemic Awareness Skills Kids who are strong in Phonemic Awareness are kids that are able to  segment, blend, delete, and rhyme!   Segmenting means taking a word and breaking into individual sounds. Example: you tell your kid, “Cat” and they are able to tell you: “/k/ /a/ /t/”.  This is all by sound!  No looking at words, using letter tiles, or writing anything down!   Blending means taking individual sounds and turning them into a smooth word.  N...2022-01-3127 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleMotivation KillersEach month on the Decoding Learning Differences podcast, I’ll be digging into motivation.  And to kick off the year, I’m starting with what NOT to do, so that we can spend the rest of the year diving into what TO DO!   This episode goes into three “Motivation Killers”: Punishments, Rewards, and Praise.  (Although praise is actually a type of reward).   Punishment Now that corporal punishment (physical abuse/hitting) is very rare and illegal in most states, punishment is usually about taking something away from a child (called a negative p...2022-01-2426 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDe-Motivated DennisDe-Motivated Dennis is a pseudonym for a particular student that I worked with for several years.  I wanted to share a bit about Dennis’s story because Dennis’s story is so similar to so many other stories of so many children who were once motivated and now “won’t do anything related to school work!”   When I first met Dennis, parents and teachers complained that he wouldn’t do anything.  They had tried rewards and punishments and things would work for a while, but then things would become worse than ever!   First things...2022-01-1713 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleInterview with Vibha AroraYou’re a parent of a struggling learner.  You are constantly worried that your child isn’t making enough progress, is struggling too much, and may ultimately wind up homeless in the gutter. (Maybe your brain doesn’t go that far consciously, but on some level, it probably does!)   Meanwhile, your struggling learner is feeling frustrated and overwhelmed.  They assume they must be “dumb” because reading feels so much harder for them that it does for other kids.   In this moment, you find yourself at the kitchen table.  Yelling.  (again)  “You hav...2022-01-1020 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleBeginner’s MindsetBeginners Mindset is a term that I either first heard in yoga or from Hunter Clark Fields, Mama Mindful Mentor (host of an excellent podcast, author of a great book, and founder of an wonderful parenting membership!)   If you’re not familiar with the term, it is about seeing something as if you’ve never seen it before.  It’s about doing things as if you’ve never done them before.  Looking to see what wonder and knew things you can see and learn.     Today, I’m encouraging you to apply a Beginner’s Min...2022-01-0313 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleReflection The end of the year is the perfect time to reflect on what went right, what could be better, and so much more!  This episode digs into some powerful reflection around your child’s education that you can use for improving their education moving forward.   Watch the video and read the transcript at: www.YourParentHelp.com/podcast_0148  2021-12-1308 minDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleDecoding Learning Differences with Kimberlynn LavelleBalanceHow do you find balance in life?  How do you balance accepting your child for who they are and supporting a movement toward academic progress? Listen to get answers! Watch the video, read the transcript, and download the pdf notes at: www.YourParentHelp.com/podcast_0147 2021-12-0617 minMindful Mama: Raising Kind, Confident Kids Without Losing Your Cool | Parenting Strategies For Big Emotions & MoreMindful Mama: Raising Kind, Confident Kids Without Losing Your Cool | Parenting Strategies For Big Emotions & MoreThe Complete Home Learning Guide - Lauren Spigelmyer & Kimberlynn LavelleWe are moving into a school year that looks very different from every year before, with many kids learning completely virtually or even homeschooling. So what’s the best way to learn at home? What do we need to pay attention to and what can we let go? In this episode, I bring together two education experts, Lauren Spigelmeyer & Kimberlynn Lavelle, who will walk us through this new learning-at-home land.  Takeaways:  Mental and emotional health is the number one priority Moving their bodies and getting outside are essential to learning and...2020-09-151h 19