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Untethering ShameUntethering ShameSummer Replay: Shame & the Inner Child with Cassandra FloraSummer Re-Release SeriesWe’re taking a pause to rest and reflect—and sharing some of your favorite episodes in the meantime. These powerful conversations are worth revisiting, whether it’s your first time listening or a timely return. New episodes resume September 7th._________________In this conversation, Kyira Wackett and Cassandra Johnson discuss the importance of acknowledging and healing the inner child as a part of trauma recovery. They explore the concept of using fantasy and imagination as a tool for healing, and how creating a physical space that reflects childhood interests and comforts can pr...2025-08-0358 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame, Wasted Money, and the Myth of Perfect UseHave you ever felt guilty for throwing out food you forgot about, buying clothes you never wore, or needing to replace something you thought should have lasted longer? You’re not alone.In this episode, Kyira shares her own story of holding onto worn-out underwear (yes, really) and explores why so many of us feel shame about “wasting” money. Together, we’ll look at how these feelings come from scarcity beliefs, how they keep us stuck in avoidance and self-criticism, and how to start practicing radical acceptance when life doesn’t go as planned.2025-07-3108 minYou Me and MoneyYou Me and MoneyWorking through Financial Shame & Resentment to find Freedom in Marriage with Kyira Wackett In Today's Episode... Jordan Pendleton and Kyira Wackett explore the complex relationship between money, shame, and self-worth, particularly in marriage and parenting. Kyira shares her personal journey of overcoming the shame associated with financial independence and the pressures of being the "breadwinner". They discuss the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships with money and the importance of fostering a healthy environment for their children. The conversation emphasizes the need to navigate fear and anxiety, the significance of co-creating a life design, and the detrimental effects of social comparison. Ultimately, they highlight the transformative potential of acknowledging...2025-07-2948 minUntethering ShameUntethering Shame🎙️Ask Me Anything – E12: Too Tired for SexIn this episode, I respond to a question from an anonymous listener who writes:“Hey Kyira, I could really use some perspective on something that’s been weighing on me. Lately, I’ve been feeling like I’m always disappointing my partner because I’m hardly ever in the mood for sex.It’s not that I don’t care about them or that I’m not attracted to them — I do. But it feels like no matter how much I try to psych myself up or convince myself it’ll be fine, I just can’t get there. By...2025-07-2806 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameSummer Replay: Shame & People Pleasing with Abby PayneSummer Re-Release SeriesWe’re taking a pause to rest and reflect—and sharing some of your favorite episodes in the meantime. These powerful conversations are worth revisiting, whether it’s your first time listening or a timely return. New episodes resume September 7th.___________________In this conversation, Kyira Wackett and Abby Payne explore the themes of self-worth, people pleasing, and the journey towards self-acceptance. They discuss the importance of recognizing one's own needs and emotions, the impact of societal expectations, and the roots of people pleasing behavior often stemming from childhood experiences. The dialogue emphas...2025-07-2759 minUntethering ShameUntethering Shame🎙️Ask Me Anything – E11: Getting Stuck in the Same ArgumentsIn this episode, I respond to a question from an anonymous listener who writes:“Hi Kyira, my partner and I keep getting stuck in the same arguments over and over. It’s usually about small things — like how plans get communicated or whether someone followed through on something they said they’d do — but somehow it escalates every time into this big fight about feeling disrespected or not cared for.I know on some level these things aren’t worth all the energy we spend on them, but in the moment, it feels impossible to let it go. I...2025-07-2104 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameSummer Replay: Shame & Narcissism with Stacey SandersonSummer Re-Release SeriesWe’re taking a pause to rest and reflect—and sharing some of your favorite episodes in the meantime. These powerful conversations are worth revisiting, whether it’s your first time listening or a timely return. New episodes resume September 7th._______In this conversation, Kyira and Stacey discuss the topic of narcissism. They explore the definition of narcissism and how it is often misunderstood. They also discuss the development of narcissism and its relationship to trauma. Stacey explains that narcissism is a spectrum and that everyone has the capacity for narcissistic traits...2025-07-2052 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameWhen You’re Triggered: How to Recognize and Calm Your Inner Alarm SystemEver snapped at someone you love or shut down completely, only to wonder later, “Why did I react like that?”In this episode, Kyira unpacks what it really means to be triggered, why these intense reactions happen, and how you can learn to recognize and respond to them with more compassion.Using insights from Internal Family Systems (IFS), Kyira guides you through five common signs you’re triggered and offers practical steps to help you pause, reconnect with your body, and soothe the protective parts of you that are working so hard to keep you safe—eve...2025-07-1709 minUntethering ShameUntethering Shame🎙️Ask Me Anything – E10: Learning to Care Less About What Others ThinkIn this episode, I respond to a question from Mark, who writes:“Hi Kyira, my name’s Mark, and I’m in my early 40s. For as long as I can remember, I’ve been obsessed with how people see me — whether they respect me, whether I’m coming across as competent or put together. On the outside, I think most people would describe me as confident, but inside I’m constantly worrying that I’m not enough or that I’m going to be exposed somehow.I feel like I’ve spent my whole life trying to live...2025-07-1405 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameSummer Replay: Shame & Co-Dependency with Jessica ParenteSummer Re-Release SeriesWe’re taking a pause to rest and reflect—and sharing some of your favorite episodes in the meantime. These powerful conversations are worth revisiting, whether it’s your first time listening or a timely return. New episodes resume September 7th.________In this episode, Jessica Parente joins us to discuss the topic of codependency and its connection to shame. Codependency is a psychological condition that intertwines a person's self-worth and identity with the needs and behaviors of others. The conversation explores the roots of codependency, its effects on our lives, and how br...2025-07-1351 minUntethering ShameUntethering Shame🎙️Ask Me Anything – E9: Managing Grief and Judgment in SobrietyIn this episode, I respond to a question from an anonymous listener who writes:“Hi Kyira, I’m about six months into sobriety, and while I’m proud of myself, I’m also really struggling. I’ve lost a lot of friends because they don’t understand my decision, and some family members have made shaming comments like ‘You’re no fun anymore’ or ‘You think you’re better than everyone.’ It feels like I’m grieving an entire part of my life and community, and I’m so lonely sometimes I wonder if it’s worth it. How can I cope with this g...2025-07-0704 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameSummer Replay: Shame & Core Beliefs with Sabrina TrobekSummer Re-Release SeriesWe’re taking a pause to rest and reflect—and sharing some of your favorite episodes in the meantime. These powerful conversations are worth revisiting, whether it’s your first time listening or a timely return. New episodes resume September 7th._____________In this episode of the Untethering Shame podcast, Kyira and Sabrina Trobek delve into the intricate relationship between core beliefs, shame, and anxiety. They explore how core beliefs shape our self-perception and influence our behaviors, often leading to feelings of inadequacy. Sabrina explains the development of these beliefs, emphasizing the impact...2025-07-0653 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameIt’s Not Because I Couldn’t Do It: Shame and the Incomplete GoalWhat if letting go of a goal wasn’t a sign of weakness—but of growth? In this solo episode, Kyira challenges the shame narratives around quitting, shifting focus, and unfinished business. Whether you’ve outgrown a dream, changed your mind, or realized a goal was never truly yours, this conversation invites you to meet yourself with radical acceptance and release the pressure to prove your worth through completion.In this episode, Kyira dives into:Why we stay in misaligned goals out of fear, not fulfillmentThe role of shame in per...2025-07-0306 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameThe Problem Isn’t Your Standards—It’s the ContextIf you’ve ever been told your standards are “too high” or felt like backing off meant giving up, this episode is for you. In today’s conversation, Kyira unpacks the real issue behind perfectionism and burnout—not the ambition itself, but the context in which our standards are created. We’ll explore how shame, external validation, and scarcity shape our goals, and how radical acceptance can help you rewrite the script to live more aligned, sustainable, and whole.In this episode, Kyira explores:Why high standards aren't inherently badThe hidden cost of overfunct...2025-06-1905 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameThe Unshaming Way with David BedrickJoin Kyira Wackett and David Bedrick as they explore the intricate relationship between shame and healing. Their conversation covers mental health, emotional processing, and the concept of 'unshaming' - particularly in relation to addiction and eating disorders. They discuss how shame affects relationships, parenting, and power dynamics, while emphasizing the importance of compassion, curiosity, and authentic connections in the healing journey. The dialogue concludes by examining codependency, self-discovery, and the process of understanding personal needs in relationships.We covered:Understanding and accepting shame is crucial for healingEmotions need understanding rather than pathologizingSomatic experiences and self-expression aid...2025-06-151h 16Untethering ShameUntethering ShameShame as a TeacherIn this conversation, Kyira Wackett and Elizabeth Kipp explore the complex relationship between shame, recovery, and self-compassion. They discuss the impact of shame on addiction, the importance of breathwork in healing, and the role of inner child work in understanding our emotional responses. The dialogue emphasizes the need for radical acceptance and the power of self-discovery in overcoming shame and fostering resilience. Elizabeth shares personal experiences and insights from her journey in recovery, highlighting the significance of compassion and the innate healing capabilities within each individual.Takeaways:Shame is a significant barrier in addiction recovery.Turning...2025-06-0848 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameHow a Small Change in Self-Talk Leads to Big HealingEver catch yourself thinking, “I’m such a failure” or “I’m so fat”? These thoughts might seem harmless—or even true—but they’re often rooted in shame and distorted beliefs. And here’s the truth: the way we talk to ourselves matters.In this solo episode, host Kyira Wackett unpacks the transformational power of shifting from “I am” to “I feel.” This simple change can help us stop identifying with our shame and start practicing compassion and curiosity instead.If you’re ready to break the cycle of harsh inner dialogue and reconnect with your true worth, this episo...2025-06-0505 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame, ADHD & NeurodivergenceIn this episode, Kyira Wackett and Shane Thrapp discuss neurodiversity, exploring misconceptions, diagnosis impacts, and parenting challenges. Shane shares personal insights about navigating neurodivergent parenting, dealing with imposter syndrome, and processing trauma. The conversation emphasizes support, acceptance, and celebrating individual strengths while promoting a compassionate approach to neurodiversity and personal growth.We covered:Neurodiversity includes all brain types and ways of functioningCommon misconceptions lead to stigma and unhelpful "normal" standardsADHD and autism diagnoses don't mean children are "broken"Education systems need better neurodivergent accommodationParents struggle with shame and need permission to parent differentlyLate-life...2025-06-0147 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Coming Out: From Suppression to Self-AcceptanceIn this episode of the Untethering Shame podcast, host Kyira Wackett engages in a profound conversation with Juliana Allen, a queer breath and somatic coach. They explore themes of self-discovery, authenticity, and the courage it takes to live unapologetically. Juliana shares her journey of coming out as a lesbian in her mid-thirties while navigating motherhood and societal expectations. The discussion delves into the impact of trauma, eating disorders, and the healing power of somatic practices. Together, they unpack the complexities of identity, shame, and the path to self-acceptance. In this conversation, Juliana Allen and Kyira Wackett explore the themes...2025-05-2553 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameWhy Burnout Keeps Coming Back (And What to Do Instead)Feeling completely drained no matter how much rest you get? You might be experiencing burnout—but it’s not just about being overworked or overwhelmed. In this solo episode, host Kyira Wackett dives deep into the truth about burnout and reveals the hidden force driving it: shame.We explore how shame-based expectations push us beyond our limits, tricking us into believing we need to “do it all” to be worthy. But real recovery doesn’t come from crossing another task off your list—it comes from changing how you respond to stress and stepping out of shame-driven cycles.2025-05-2205 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & The Loss of Self in ParenthoodIn this episode of the Untethering Shame podcast, host Kyira Wackett and guest Markella Kaplani delve into the complexities of parenthood, particularly the loss of self that many caregivers experience. They discuss the overwhelming emotions that come with parenting, the societal pressures to be perfect, and the clash between masculine and feminine energies. The conversation emphasizes the importance of acknowledging grief in the transition to parenthood and the need for self-compassion and acceptance. In this conversation, Kyira Wackett and Markella Kaplani explore the complexities of parenthood, identity, and the emotional challenges that arise during this transformative journey. They discuss...2025-05-181h 12Transforming The Toddler Years-A Conscious Parenting Podcast Turning Tantrums into Teachable MomentsTransforming The Toddler Years-A Conscious Parenting Podcast Turning Tantrums into Teachable MomentsHow NOT to Judge Your Child Even When They Behave Badly with Therapist Kyira WackettEver judge your child for their "bad" behavior? Kyira Wackett joins me to talk about allowing your toddler to have hard experiences in the world and leaning into how it supports their identity and emotional development. She shares a personal story about her daughter navigating tough situations and succeeding. Kyira Wackett is a licensed mental health therapist, facilitator and creator and has been speaking on topics related to mental health for over 10 years. She is the owner of Adversity Rising where she equips people with the confidence and skills...2025-05-1543 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & The Law of Attraction with Veronica WeedonIn this expansive and thought-provoking episode, Kyira Wackett and Veronica Weedon dive deep into the intersection of mindset, healing, and personal responsibility. The conversation begins with an exploration of the law of attraction, energy, and vibration—unpacking how our internal state shapes the people and experiences we draw into our lives. Veronica shares personal insights and tools for raising our vibration, including mindfulness and slowing down negative thought patterns.As the dialogue unfolds, Kyira and Veronica challenge common misconceptions about the law of attraction, emphasizing that it’s not about bypassing life’s hardships but about taking owners...2025-05-111h 03Untethering ShameUntethering ShameFeeling Your FeelingsEmotions don’t disappear — no matter how hard we try to ignore or suppress them. In this episode of Untethering Shame, Kyira talks about the importance of emotional intelligence and how understanding our feelings can transform our well-being. She breaks down the layers of our emotions, explains why they often show up in complex ways, and offers actionable steps to navigate them with compassion. If you're ready to build a healthier relationship with your emotions, this episode is for you.Ready to take the next step?Download the FREE handout, "5 Things Shame Resilient Peopl...2025-05-0806 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Complicated Grief: Moving With, Not OnIn this conversation, Kyira Wackett and Reese explore the complexities of grief, emphasizing its individual nature and the misconceptions surrounding it. They discuss the emotional journey of grieving, including anticipatory grief, sudden loss, and the struggle to feel a range of emotions, including joy and shame. The dialogue highlights the importance of vulnerability and the need to embrace one's feelings as part of the healing process. In this conversation, Reese and Kyira explore the complexities of grief, particularly complicated grief, and the journey towards healing through art and writing. They discuss the importance of connection and vulnerability in sharing...2025-05-0449 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Human Trafficking: A Survivor's JourneyIn this episode of Untethering Shame, host Kyira Wackett engages in a profound conversation with Taylor Owens, a human trafficking survivor and advocate. They explore the intricate relationship between shame, trauma, and the societal perceptions surrounding human trafficking. Taylor shares her personal journey, highlighting the complexities of grooming, the impact of silence and shame, and the importance of advocacy and healing. The discussion emphasizes the need for open conversations about human trafficking to foster understanding and support for survivors. In this conversation, Taylor Owens shares her profound journey through trauma, human trafficking, and the path to healing. She discusses...2025-04-2748 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameJealousy: The Ego, Comparison & ShameIn this episode of Untethering Shame, Kyira dives into the tricky world of ego, comparison, and shame. She explores how the ego tries to protect us by pushing us into comparison mode, making us feel either inferior or superior. Kyira shares how to recognize these patterns, shift from judgment to curiosity, and build resilience through self-awareness. Tune in for practical tips on how to break free from the comparison trap and reclaim your sense of self-worth.Ready to take the next step?Download the FREE handout, "5 Things Shame Resilient People Do Every Day" a...2025-04-2406 minUntethering ShameUntethering Shame🚨 NEW PODCAST SEGMENT ALERT! 🚨You asked, I listened. Starting in May, I’ll be diving into YOUR questions every Monday — unfiltered, raw, and real. Whether you're navigating shame, battling self-doubt, struggling with boundaries, or just wondering "How do I even start?"—this is your space to ask.Nothing is off-limits (well, almost nothing). If you’ve ever thought “I wish I could ask Kyira this…”—now’s your chance.💡 Here’s How It Works:✔ Submit your anonymous (or named) question using the link below.✔ Each week, I’ll pick one (or more!) to answer on t...2025-04-2101 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & The "Self": Inner Child HealingIn this conversation, Kyira Wackett and Bronwyn Schweigerdt explore the themes of authenticity, healing, and the importance of connecting with one's core self. They discuss the challenges of modern life that distract individuals from their true selves, the significance of inner child work, and the impact of shame on emotional well-being. The dialogue emphasizes the necessity of self-approval and the journey towards reclaiming emotions to foster a more fulfilling life. In this conversation, Bronwyn Schweigerdt and Kyira Wackett explore the complexities of trauma, shame, and the healing process. They discuss how neglect can lead to feelings of shame, the...2025-04-2053 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Money: Healing Our Financial WoundsIn this episode of Untethering Shame, host Kyira Wackett and guest Kyley Caldwell explore the deep emotional ties between money and shame. They discuss how societal structures like capitalism, racism, and patriarchy shape our financial perceptions, often intertwining with personal traumas and self-worth. Kyley shares her journey of transforming money from a source of fear to one of empowerment, highlighting the role of internal healing and compassion. The conversation delves into the cyclical nature of financial struggles, the impact of childhood experiences, and cultural pressures on women and marginalized identities. Ultimately, they encourage listeners to reframe their relationship with m...2025-04-1358 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameConditional vs. Unconditional LoveIn this episode of Untethering Shame, Kyira Wackett explores the impact of conditional versus unconditional love and how many of us have been conditioned to believe that love must be earned. Drawing on the work of Bell Hooks and personal reflection, she unpacks how these beliefs shape our relationships, fuel shame, and keep us stuck in a cycle of proving our worth. Through awareness, self-compassion, and intentional boundary-setting, Kyira offers actionable steps to break free from this cycle and reclaim the truth that we are worthy of love—just as we are.Ready to take...2025-04-1007 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Brainspotting: The WHAT, WHY & HOWIn this conversation, Kyira Wackett and Jess Parente explore Brainspotting. The conversation delves into Brainspotting's effectiveness in addressing generational trauma, the importance of therapeutic safe spaces, and how childhood memories and attachment patterns influence personal growth. They examine the complexities of deep emotional work and discuss how underlying issues manifest in daily life, emphasizing the transformative potential for both personal relationships and self-discovery.Throughout their discussion, Wackett and Parente share insights about the therapeutic journey, exploring how moments of connection and isolation emerge during treatment. They emphasize the vital roles of self-compassion and shame resilience, while acknowledging...2025-04-061h 12Untethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & The Shadow SelfIn this episode, Kyira Wackett and Lena explore the shadow self - those parts of ourselves we suppress due to shame and societal pressure. Through their discussion of personal and collective experiences, they examine how this suppression affects identity formation, emotional responses, and broader social dynamics. The conversation covers the importance of compassion in shadow work, the impact of cultural narratives and historical trauma, and the journey toward authentic self-expression and collective healing.We covered:The shadow self represents hidden parts of our identity.Shame plays a crucial role in shaping our self-concept...2025-03-3049 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameCognitive RehearsalIn this episode, Kyira Wackett explores cognitive rehearsal, a powerful mental tool that helps you navigate fear, self-doubt, and tough situations before they happen. By mentally rehearsing conversations and decisions, you can break free from worst-case-scenario thinking, build confidence, and create a plan for success. Tune in to learn how this practice can help you shift from feeling stuck in uncertainty to taking intentional action in your life.Ready to take the next step? Download the FREE handout, "5 Things Shame Resilient People Do Every Day" and start making those daily shifts to break t...2025-03-2705 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Self-ExpressionIn this engaging conversation, Kyira Wackett and Emily explore the themes of self-expression and authenticity. They discuss the importance of letting go of self-censorship, the role of community in fostering self-discovery, and the challenges of navigating fear and shame. The dialogue emphasizes that self-expression is unique to each individual and that true connections arise from vulnerability and authenticity. The conversation serves as a guide for listeners to embrace their true selves and cultivate deeper relationships. In this conversation, Kyira Wackett and Emily Rose Utter explore the themes of shame, authenticity, and emotional depth. They discuss the importance of releasing...2025-03-2346 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Kids "Falling Behind" in SchoolIn this conversation, Kyira and Amy discuss the pressing issue of children feeling like they are falling behind in education, particularly in the wake of the COVID-19 pandemic. They explore the origins of this fear, the impact of systemic issues in education, and the importance of understanding children's behavior as a form of communication. The discussion emphasizes the need for individualized learning approaches, the detrimental effects of labeling children, and the importance of changing mindsets around education and parenting. They advocate for a more supportive and understanding educational environment that recognizes each child's unique needs and experiences. In this...2025-03-1650 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameWhose Story Are You Living In?Have you ever walked into a room, and it suddenly felt silent? Or caught someone’s gaze and wondered what they were thinking? Maybe you texted someone and didn’t hear back for days. What was your immediate reaction—was it personal? In today’s solo episode, host Kyira Wackett explores how our brains often make us the central hub of every story, assuming that everything is about us. We’ll dive into how this thinking distances us from our authentic selves and how to shift focus back to living in our own stories. Key Takeaways: The Brai...2025-03-1304 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & The College-Or-Bust MentalityKyira Wackett and Karin Klein discuss the societal pressures surrounding college education, examining its historical context and the evolving job market. They explore how parental expectations, school systems, and counselors influence students' choices, often reinforcing the notion that college is the only path to success. The conversation emphasizes the need for a cultural shift toward valuing diverse educational and career pathways, recognizing the significance of all professions, including those that do not require a degree. Klein highlights the importance of fostering curiosity, experiential learning, and practical skills, while Wackett underscores the value of process over output in personal growth...2025-03-021h 00Untethering ShameUntethering ShameThe Productivity Trap: How to Stop Feeding a Broken SystemIn this episode, Kyira Wackett challenges the cultural obsession with productivity and the shame-driven pressure to do it all. She explores how to shift from a mindset of doing to one of being by prioritizing intention and connection over perfection. Listen in to learn how to protect your time, energy, and well-being by investing in yourself thoughtfully and with purpose. Ready to take the next step? Download the FREE handout, "5 Things Shame Resilient People Do Every Day" and start making those daily shifts to break that shame cycle that's keeping you stuck in...2025-02-2806 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & The Mirrors Kids Hold UpIn this episode of Untethering Shame, host Kyira Wackett and parenting expert Suzie Forbes explore how childhood trauma impacts parenting styles and emotional regulation. Through practical strategies and personal insights, they discuss breaking free from shame cycles, building self-awareness, and creating deeper parent-child connections. Learn evidence-based approaches for emotional regulation, setting healthy boundaries, and fostering resilience in both parents and children.We covered: Unresolved trauma impacts parenting decisions Shame and inadequacy affect parenting confidence Community support and seeking help are vital Values guide intentional parenting choices Self-care and emotional regulation matter Connection and validation foster healing...2025-02-2353 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & The Breastfeeding DilemmaIn this episode, Kyira Wackett and Angel Wilburn discuss the shame and judgment surrounding breastfeeding. They explore the pressure faced by new mothers to breastfeed and the feelings of failure that can arise when breastfeeding is not possible. They also discuss the challenges of C-sections and the impact of medication on breastfeeding. The conversation highlights the need for support, education, and open dialogue to address the shame and stigma associated with breastfeeding. This conversation explores the challenges and pressures of the breastfeeding journey, particularly in the face of medical complications and societal expectations. Angel shares her personal experience of...2025-02-1650 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Psychedelic Assisted PsychotherapyIn this conversation, Kyira Wackett and Paige Bond explore the nuances of psychedelic assisted psychotherapy, discussing its potential benefits, the importance of intention, and the roles of medical and therapeutic teams. They address common misconceptions, the significance of dosage, and the therapeutic journey's impact on clients, particularly those labeled as treatment resistant. The discussion also delves into the emotional aspects of therapy, including shame and hope, and how these factors influence the healing process. In this conversation, Kyira Wackett and Paige Bond delve into the complexities of mental health treatment, particularly focusing on psychedelic-assisted therapy. They discuss the importance...2025-02-1050 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Binge EatingIn this episode of the Untethering Shame podcast, Kyira Wackett and Jane Pilger delve into the intricate relationship between shame and binge eating. They explore how binge eating is often misunderstood as a failure or self-sabotage, when in fact it can be a form of self-protection. Jane outlines the eight common reasons for binge eating, emphasizing the importance of compassion and understanding in addressing the root causes. The conversation also touches on the societal normalization of binge eating, the difference between subjective and objective experiences of bingeing, and the significance of community support in recovery. In this conversation, Kyira...2025-02-0255 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & A 20-Year Old Identity CrisisThe conversation explores the pressure and expectations placed on individuals to have their lives figured out, particularly in the context of career and personal development. It delves into the challenges of navigating uncertainty, external validation, and the cultural norms that dictate success and fulfillment. The discussion highlights the struggle to balance personal exploration with societal expectations and the impact of privilege on the ability to explore and make choices. The conversation explores the pressure to conform to societal expectations and the struggle to find meaning and fulfillment in a culture that values individual success over collective well-being. It delves...2025-01-2651 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & BinariesIn this conversation, Don Mamone and Kyira Wackett explore how societal binaries and expectations shape our identities and choices. Through personal stories, they discuss embracing authenticity, navigating family dynamics, and the transformative power of self-acceptance. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of creating safe spaces for self-expression and highlights how embracing our differences can become a source of strength. Key Takeaways Binaries limit our perspectives while authenticity expands them Fear and judgment protect outdated systems that no longer serve us Self-discovery is nonlinear and requires embracing vulnerability Family dynamics and beliefs shape our identity journey Living authentically...2025-01-191h 04Untethering ShameUntethering ShameShame, Religion and PerformanceIn this episode of Untethering Shame, host Kyira Wackett and guest Carl King delve into the complex relationship between shame and religion. They explore how religious expectations can create a performance-based identity, leading to feelings of shame and disconnection from one's true self. Carl shares his personal journey of navigating these challenges, highlighting the impact of childhood experiences and the struggle for authenticity in a rigid religious environment. The conversation emphasizes the importance of questioning authority and seeking personal truth in the face of societal and religious pressures. In this conversation, Carl King shares his journey from being deeply...2025-01-1254 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & The Compliant Child: The Illusion of Control in ParenthoodIn this engaging conversation, Kyira Wackett and Aly Pain explore the complexities of parenting, emotional healing, and the societal pressures surrounding perfectionism. They discuss the importance of acknowledging and processing emotions, the impact of generational trauma, and the need for unconditional love in parenting. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of embracing imperfection and the messiness of life, ultimately advocating for a more compassionate and understanding approach to raising children. In this conversation, Kyira Wackett and Aly Pain explore the complexities of parenting, particularly the importance of allowing children to experience failure as a means of growth. They discuss the...2025-01-0555 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & People PleasingIn this conversation, Kyira Wackett and Abby Payne explore the themes of self-worth, people pleasing, and the journey towards self-acceptance. They discuss the importance of recognizing one's own needs and emotions, the impact of societal expectations, and the roots of people pleasing behavior often stemming from childhood experiences. The dialogue emphasizes the need for balance in life, the distinction between kindness and people pleasing, and the significance of unconditional love in fostering a healthy sense of self. In this conversation, Abby Payne, RN, discusses the profound effects of chronic stress on the body and the importance of reconnecting with...2024-12-2958 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Core BeliefsIn this episode of the Untethering Shame podcast, Kyira and Sabrina Trobek delve into the intricate relationship between core beliefs, shame, and anxiety. They explore how core beliefs shape our self-perception and influence our behaviors, often leading to feelings of inadequacy. Sabrina explains the development of these beliefs, emphasizing the impact of childhood experiences and cultural norms. The conversation highlights the significance of setting boundaries, taking responsibility for our emotions, and navigating relationships that reinforce our core beliefs. Sabrina shares her four pillars of change and emphasizes the need for self-compassion and gradual growth in the journey towards emotional...2024-12-2252 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Unpacking Marital Conflict: The Hidden TruthsIn this conversation, Kyira Wackett and David Lea explore the complexities of marital conflict, emphasizing that the root of many issues lies not in the partner but in unprocessed childhood trauma. They discuss the concept of trauma bonds, the cycle of need and resentment, and the importance of parts work in healing. The dialogue highlights the necessity of personal responsibility and the process of rupture and repair in relationships, ultimately advocating for a deeper understanding of oneself and one's partner. In this conversation, David Lea and Kyira Wackett explore the concept of 'parts work' in relationships, emphasizing the importance...2024-12-1551 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Losing A ChildIn this episode of Untethering Shame, host Kyira Wackett engages in a heartfelt conversation with Lisa Boehm, a certified grief educator and author, about the profound and isolating experience of child loss. Lisa shares her personal journey of navigating grief after the sudden death of her daughter, Katie, and discusses the societal misconceptions surrounding grief. The conversation explores the complexities of living with grief, the importance of community support, and the possibility of finding joy amidst sorrow. Lisa emphasizes that grief is not a linear process and that it is possible to honor a loved one while also embracing...2024-12-0849 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Creativity: A Space to Be SeenIn this conversation, Kyira Wackett and Tracy Piper explore themes of authenticity, mental health, and the power of art as a means of self-expression and healing. Tracy shares her journey from feeling unseen and unworthy to embracing her identity as an artist and community builder. They discuss the importance of vulnerability, the impact of personal struggles on creativity, and the significance of finding support and connection in a world that often feels isolating. The conversation emphasizes the beauty of imperfection and the necessity of self-love and acceptance. Takeaways Authenticity is crucial in both art and life. ...2024-12-0153 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Teaching: An Emotional Roller CoasterIn this episode of Untethering Shame, host Kyira Wackett and guest Diane Manser delve into the emotional complexities of teaching. They discuss the often-overlooked emotional load that teachers carry, the challenges they face in the classroom, and the importance of self-awareness and emotional regulation. Diane shares her personal experiences and insights from her 19 years in education, emphasizing the need for support and understanding within the teaching community. The conversation highlights the impact of expectations, the role of self-care, and the importance of creating a supportive environment for both teachers and students. Key Takeaways: ...2024-11-2454 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & AmbitionIn this conversation, Kyira Wackett and Andrea Barr discuss the topic of ambition. They explore their personal definitions of ambition and how it has evolved over time. They also delve into the challenges and fears associated with pursuing ambitious goals, including the fear of failure and the fear of judgment from others. They touch on the concept of premature identity foreclosure, where individuals feel pressured to choose one path and stick to it, potentially leading to unhappiness and a lack of exploration. They also discuss the importance of informing others about their ambitions and not seeking permission or approval...2024-11-1757 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Blame: Breaking the CycleIn this episode of Untethering Shame, Kyira Wackett and Margie Breault delve into the intricate dynamics of shame and blame, exploring how these emotions intertwine and affect our lives. They discuss the importance of accountability in healing and the necessity of breaking free from the cycles of shame that can trap individuals in a narrative of suffering. Margie shares her personal journey of healing from a childhood filled with emotional abuse and the lessons learned through energy medicine. The conversation emphasizes the power of choice in reshaping our narratives and the importance of recognizing the dualities in life, such...2024-11-1058 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Self-LoveIn this episode of Untethering Shame, host Kyira Wackett and guest Jennifer Walter delve into the intricate relationship between shame and self-love. They explore the societal misconceptions surrounding self-love, emphasizing that it is not merely about positive affirmations but involves deep emotional healing and confronting past traumas. The conversation highlights the challenges of self-love, particularly in the context of relationships and parenting, and the importance of setting boundaries. They discuss the impact of generational patterns on emotional regulation and the necessity of breaking free from toxic dynamics to foster genuine self-acceptance. Takeaways Self-love...2024-11-031h 04You, Me & MoneyYou, Me & Money20. Working through Financial Shame & Resentment to find Freedom within Marriage with Kyira Wackett In Today's Episode... Jordan Pendleton and Kyira Wackett explore the complex relationship between money, shame, and self-worth, particularly in marriage and parenting. Kyira shares her personal journey of overcoming the shame associated with financial independence and the pressures of being the "breadwinner". They discuss the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships with money and the importance of fostering a healthy environment for their children. The conversation emphasizes the need to navigate fear and anxiety, the significance of co-creating a life design, and the detrimental effects of social comparison. Ultimately, they highlight the transformative potential of acknowledging...2024-10-3048 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Rewiring the BrainIn this conversation, Kyira Wackett and Lyndsey Getty discuss the importance of thoughts and how they impact our lives. They explore the concept of overthinking and how it can be unproductive. They also discuss the role of core beliefs and how they shape our thoughts and behaviors. The conversation highlights the need for self-awareness and self-compassion in managing our thoughts. They emphasize the importance of focusing on thoughts and having conversations about them to improve mental well-being. Overall, the conversation provides insights into the power of thoughts and the impact they have on our lives. In this conversation, Lyndsey...2024-10-2854 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & The Scale: Our Atrocious Relationship with Weight & Body ImageIn this episode, host Kyira Wackett and guest Bri Wilkerson discuss shame in relation to body image and weight. They share their personal experiences and explore the societal pressures and messages that contribute to body shame. They also discuss the importance of self-acceptance and the ongoing work of shame resilience. The conversation touches on topics such as control, achievement, and the impact of motherhood on body image. Overall, the episode highlights the need to challenge societal norms and cultivate a positive relationship with our bodies. In this conversation, Brianna and Kyira discuss their struggles with body image and the...2024-10-2056 minBulimia Sucks | Kate Hudson HallBulimia Sucks | Kate Hudson HallBulimia Sucks! | Episode 214 | Setback and Successes | Kyira WackettJoin Kate as she chats around the toasty fireplace with Kyira Wackett. In episode 95, Kyira shared her journey through her eating disorder. In this episode, Kyira talks with us about recovery and how we can shed the layers. Kyira is a licensed mental health therapist and entrepreneur. She is the owner of , Adversity Rising where she equips people with the confidence and skills to write their own stories. Kyira is a trauma survivor, as well as lives in recovery from an eating disorder and generalized anxiety. She believes that all of us...2024-10-1434 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & NarcissismIn this conversation, Kyira and Stacey discuss the topic of narcissism. They explore the definition of narcissism and how it is often misunderstood. They also discuss the development of narcissism and its relationship to trauma. Stacey explains that narcissism is a spectrum and that everyone has the capacity for narcissistic traits at times. They also talk about the challenges of working with individuals with narcissistic personality disorder in therapy and the importance of focusing on patterns and self-awareness in healing from narcissistic relationships. In this conversation, Stacey and Kyira discuss the importance of setting boundaries and taking care of...2024-10-0651 minToday\'s Balanced Leader with Caroline BairdToday's Balanced Leader with Caroline BairdStrategies for Confidence, Resilience, and Burnout with Kyira WackettIn this episode, I am joined by Kyira Wackett, a licensed mental health therapist specializing in shame resilience and radical acceptance through her platform 'Adversity Rising.' Kyira shares her personal journey of overcoming childhood challenges, the importance of recognizing and managing shame, and strategies for cultivating resilience. We’ll discuss the significance of establishing healthy boundaries, the impact of negative self-talk, and methods for promoting a balanced, non-hustle workplace culture. And, dear friend, you are encouraged to reflect on your own experiences and consider practical steps to lead a more balanced and fulfilling life. 02:08 Ky...2024-09-251h 04Untethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Emotional EatingIn this episode, host Kyira Wackett and guest Lisa Goldberg discuss the connection between shame, emotional eating, and our bodies. They explore the roots of shame, the impact of emotional eating, and practical strategies to break free from its grip. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding emotional eating as a coping mechanism that often stems from childhood experiences and learned behaviors. They also address the dieter's mindset and the false beliefs around weight loss that contribute to the shame cycle. Ultimately, they emphasize the need to go deeper and uncover the root causes of emotional eating to create...2024-09-2248 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Performing: Our Hidden RealitiesIn this episode, Kyira Wackett and Janice Holland explore the theme of hiding and the pressure to perform in society. They discuss the origins of this pressure and how it perpetuates shame and inauthenticity. They also delve into the hidden realities we often keep to ourselves and the toll it takes on our well-being. The conversation highlights the importance of breaking free from oppressive expectations and embracing authenticity and self-acceptance. The episode emphasizes the need to untangle ourselves from shame and live our truth. In this conversation, Kyira Wackett and Janice Holland discuss the challenges of breaking free from...2024-09-1554 minMommy Me Time PodcastMommy Me Time Podcast#2: Becoming a Shame Resilient Mom and Parent w/ Kyira WackettDo you find yourself wrestling with whether you are a good enough mom or parent or with thoughts of shame/or guilt around parenting? If so, you definitely don’t want to miss my conversation with Kyira Wackett on my podcast launch for busy mommas! In our interview, we talk about what shame is, how to not run from it but work through it, and how it can show up in our motherhood and parenting journey.  About Kyira Wackett: Kyira Wackett is a licensed mental health therapist specializing in shame and anxiety. She is the own...2024-09-0930 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & TraumaIn this episode, host Kyira Wackett and guest Stacey Urig explore the intricate world of shame and trauma. They discuss the different types of trauma, how it manifests, and the profound impact it has on individuals and society. Stacey shares her journey with trauma and how she found healing through therapy and hypnosis. They emphasize the importance of changing the narrative around trauma and reframing the interpretation of past experiences. The conversation offers hope and guidance for individuals seeking healing and liberation from trauma. In this conversation, Kyira Wackett and Stacey Uhrig discuss the work of healing and the...2024-09-0855 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Healing from a CultIn this conversation, Kyira Wackett interviews Sandra Huitt, who grew up in a cult. They discuss the challenges of leaving a cult and the process of healing and finding oneself after leaving. Sandra shares her experience of feeling othered and struggling to fit in after leaving the cult. She also talks about the difficulties of opening up to her parents about her struggles and the anger she developed towards them later on. Sandra found solace and a sense of belonging in underground raves and electronic music events. Sandra Huitt shares her experience growing up in a cult and her...2024-09-0147 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Finding Fulfillment: Exploring AuthenticityIn this episode, Kyira Wackett and guest Amy Holder discuss the pressure to conform to societal expectations and the pursuit of external validation. They explore the idea that checking off boxes and achieving milestones does not necessarily lead to fulfillment and happiness. They share their personal experiences and observations from working with clients who have also felt the disconnect between societal expectations and their own desires. The conversation highlights the need for self-discovery and the courage to question and redefine one's identity and purpose. In this conversation, Kyira Wackett and Amy Holder discuss the importance of exploring one's identity...2024-08-2552 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & The Perfect Parenting MythSummary In this episode, host Kyira Wackett and guest Emily Hardy delve into the 'good child' concept and its unrealistic expectations of mothers. They discuss how societal narratives lead mothers to strive for perfection, impacting their self-worth and parenting. The conversation highlights the challenges of meeting societal standards, external validation's role, and self-compassion's importance. They advocate for shifting from shame-driven to values-driven parenting and the power of modeling imperfection. Emily shares insights on mom guilt, reframing thoughts, and unlearning societal conditioning, emphasizing open conversations and seeking support for positive change in future generations. 2024-08-1853 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Death: Finding ClosureIn this episode, host Kyira Wackett and guest Cait Pearson discuss the profound impact of loss and the expectations and pressures society imposes on the grieving process. They explore the loneliness and fear that often accompany grief, as well as the need for a safe space to process emotions. They also touch on the challenges of holding space for others while dealing with their own grief, and the importance of setting boundaries and honoring one's own needs. The conversation highlights needing a more authentic and individualized approach to grief and loss. In this conversation, Cait and Kyira discuss the...2024-08-111h 04Untethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Intuitive Eating: Why Don't We Trust Our Body?In this episode, Kyira Wackett and Lara Days discuss intuitive eating and body image. They explore the challenges of shame surrounding food and the journey towards intuitive eating. They also delve into the pitfalls of diet culture and the importance of challenging fat phobia. The conversation highlights the physiological and psychological reasons why we struggle with intuitive eating and offers insights into shifting internal beliefs about body size. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance, self-compassion, and body liberation. In this conversation, Lara and Kyira discuss body trust and intuitive eating. They explore the factors that impact body size...2024-08-0453 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Work-Life RhythmsThe conversation covers relationships, career flexibility, and personal growth. It examines relationship evolution, communication, and the impact of children. Career flexibility, the courage to explore new paths, and the significance of choosing one's own adventure are discussed, along with upbringing's influence on career choices and the value of personal growth. The conversation addresses balancing career aspirations with personal responsibilities, societal expectations, and the desire to be present in both work and family life. It also explores self-preservation, intentional time away from loved ones, authenticity, external approval, and balancing striving with being. Topics include charging for services, struggles with money...2024-07-281h 07Bulimia Sucks | Kate Hudson HallBulimia Sucks | Kate Hudson HallBulimia Sucks! | Episode 202 | Setback and Successes | Kyira WackettKate is a therapist, author and podcaster offering online therapy for those in need.Join Kate as she chats around the toasty fireplace with Kyira Wackett.Kyira is a licensed mental health therapist and entrepreneur. She is the owner of Adversity Rising where she equips people with the confidence and skills to write their own stories. Kyira is a trauma survivor, as well as lives in recovery from an eating disorder and generalized anxiety. She believes that all of us have the capacity to author our own stories and relinquish t...2024-07-2235 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & "The Work"In this episode, Alicia Jacobson and Kyira Wackett discuss the relentless impact of shame and the challenges of navigating daily life while contending with shame and trauma. They explore the compounding effect of shame and the importance of finding respite in music. They also delve into the universality of shame and the process of unpacking and recognizing personal shame. The conversation highlights the need to reevaluate success and worthiness and emphasizes the continuous journey of healing and shame resilience. The conversation explores the process of starting and not being afraid, practicing gratitude and balancing the good and the bad...2024-07-1448 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & The Inner ChildIn this conversation, Kyira Wackett and Cassandra Johnson discuss the importance of acknowledging and healing the inner child as a part of trauma recovery. They explore the concept of using fantasy and imagination as a tool for healing, and how creating a physical space that reflects childhood interests and comforts can provide a sense of safety and control. They emphasize the need for radical acceptance and validation of past experiences, and the importance of reparenting oneself in order to heal and break patterns. They also address the shame and stigma that can be associated with trauma and the fear...2024-07-0758 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Co-DependencyIn this episode, Jessica Parente joins us to discuss the topic of codependency and its connection to shame. Codependency is a psychological condition that intertwines a person's self-worth and identity with the needs and behaviors of others. The conversation explores the roots of codependency, its effects on our lives, and how breaking free from these patterns can help us reclaim our sense of self and reduce the burden of shame. The guests share personal experiences and insights, highlighting the importance of understanding and healing codependency. In this conversation, Kyira and Jess discuss the challenges of setting boundaries and the...2024-06-3052 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & FatnessIn this episode, Kyira Wackett and Jennifer Walter discuss body image and fatness. They explore society's obsession with narrow beauty standards and the shame and self-criticism that can result. They emphasize the importance of creating safe spaces for open dialogue and living authentically rather than performing for approval. The influence of media and cultural standards on body image is also examined. The conversation highlights the challenges of facilitating discussions on body image and the need to address perceptions and biases in these conversations. This conversation explores the complexities of body image, health, and medical discrimination. It highlights the nuances...2024-06-2355 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Eating DisordersIn this conversation, Kyira Wackett and Erika Malm discuss the barriers to embracing eating disorders and why they are not talked about enough. They explore the misconceptions and myths surrounding eating disorders and the need for validation and empathy. They also discuss the role of control and the underlying pain that drives disordered eating behaviors. The conversation highlights the importance of addressing the emotional needs underlying eating disorders and the need for a compassionate and understanding approach. In this conversation, Kyira Wackett and Erika Malm discuss the deep emotional and psychological aspects of eating disorders. They explore the importance...2024-06-1658 minAll Figured Out with Andrea BarrAll Figured Out with Andrea BarrCoping with shame and guilt as a parent with Kyira WackettEp. 57: We're figuring out how to work WITH versus against our mom (parent) guilt. I “should” be doing this. Was I weird at that dinner? Do my friends like me? What more should I be doing to support my kids? Omg they watch too much TV… And the shame goes on. But Kyira Wackett is on the podcast this week to help us break down this shame spiral and figure out how to work through these very normal ways of thinking. In this episode, we talk about:  + What shame r...2024-04-241h 12Untethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & VeganismWhat a powerful and open dialogue with my dear friend, Austin Kayser on what is often a very polarizing and difficult topic to explore - Veganism. We covered so much in this episode. Here are some of my favorite points: How Austin became introduced with veganism The number one thing that closes us off to new ideas How to figure out when and how gray areas can exist How perfection becomes the enemy of the good The ways we use a wrongdoing as an excuse to not uphold other moral obligations How to use binaries in supportive ways...2024-03-3158 minWorthy Mother PodcastWorthy Mother PodcastHow to Address Shame In Motherhood with Kyira WackettShame is a complex feeling that shows up often for so many mothers - and yet it's not something we can just do away with. This week, I'm joined by licensed mental health therapist Kyira Wackett to explore the link between shame and motherhood and how we can work to develop shame resilience to live a more values-driven life.In the episode, Kyira and I discuss:The function of shame, and why the goal is not to eliminate shame all togetherExploring where our shame comes fromHow shame shows up specifically in motherhoodShifting from shame-driven to values-driven...2024-03-1955 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame & Identity Burnout: The Problem with Role Over-IdentificationWhew I loved everything about getting to talk with Nic Scholtysik about her work in identity burnout and really diving deep into the connect most important to a full life. Some of my favorite takeaways included: What makes hard conversations difficult and why they are important What is identity related burnout? The loneliness and overwhelm that can come with the “expat” experience The impact of over identification — both when chosen and when transposed onto you How Nic’s skillset ultimately put her out of business How your home design tells us everything about our sense of joy and fulfillm...2024-02-181h 04Flip Your MindsetFlip Your MindsetEp 57: Unlocking Intergenerational Trauma: Kyira Wackett's JourneySend us a textIn this video, Kyira Wackett delves deep into her personal journey, sharing her childhood experiences with her mother, her struggles with PTSD and C-PTSD, and how intergenerational trauma profoundly affects relationships, personality disorders, and brain development. Kyira, as an only child, was raised by a single mother who battled complex trauma and mental health issues, including substance abuse. Her raw and candid account includes her mother's struggle with forging prescriptions for Vicodin, which ultimately led to her imprisonment during Kyira's high school years. This video explores the impact of trauma on K...2023-11-0632 minUntethering ShameUntethering ShameShame 101: An OverviewIn this inaugural episode of "Untethering Shame," we lay the groundwork for our podcast journey by exploring the multifaceted world of shame. Host Kyira Wackett guides us through a comprehensive overview, helping us grasp the essence of shame and its far-reaching impact on our lives. With insights drawn from psychology, personal anecdotes, and expert interviews, we shed light on the complexities of this universal yet often hidden emotion. Understanding shame is the first step towards untangling its grip on our lives. Join us as we embark on a mission to uncover the layers of shame, challenge its...2023-09-1709 minJust Between CoachesJust Between CoachesNavigating Shame (Kyira Wackett)Kyira Wackett is a licensed mental health therapist specializing in shame and anxiety and the owner of Adversity Rising.In this episode, Melinda and Kyira discuss:Kyira’s distinction between therapist, counselor, and coachHer definition of shameThe different layers of shameAssessing shame as a narrative in your coaching clientsDetermining when you need to pause coaching and refer out to a counselor or therapistStriking a balance between validating emotions and helping clients regulate themShame resilience“Shame is a triggered threat — a real or perceived threat to connection and belonging. So when we fee...2023-09-1334 minThe Resilient Self with Chris NealThe Resilient Self with Chris NealOvercoming Shame, Deconstructing Ted Lasso, and more with Kyira WackettThis week’s guest is Kyira Wackett. Kyira is a licensed mental health therapist, coach, YouTube creator, and consultant who specializes in working with shame and anxiety.  We talk about Kyira’s work and she helps us think about shame in new and important ways. We also spend a little time deconstructing the latest Ted Lasso plot twists, which was a lot of fun too. __________________________________Kyira Wackett is a licensed mental health therapist specializing in shame and anxiety. She is the owner of Adversity Rising, a company who equips people with the confidence and skills to wri...2023-05-161h 04This Messy, Beautiful LifeThis Messy, Beautiful LifeWhen Shame Shows Up with Kyira WackettThe topic of shame has been coming up for me a lot lately. It’s often such a deeply ingrained, insidious and in my opinion, largely unhelpful emotion because of the way it tends to run on a loop and feed on itself…unless of course we have the ability to recognise it and learn to build, what my guest this week, calls shame resilience. Kyira Wackett is a licensed mental health therapist who specialises in shame and anxiety, eating disorders and trauma. Kyira is also the survivor of complex childhood trauma, in recovery from PTSD and a se...2023-05-0549 minSelf Love Ignited with Katie AllenSelf Love Ignited with Katie Allen134. Overcoming Shame and Rewriting the Stories that Define our Lives with Kyira WackettSpeaking about shame, about vulnerability, eating disorders, childhood trauma, and the "shoulds" many people live by makes for a juicy and eye opening conversation. Chatting with Kyira Wackett was all that and more! Kyira came on to share her own story of finding love for herself through discovery, acceptance, vulnerability, and more. _____ Kyira Wackett is a licensed mental health therapist specializing in shame and anxiety. She is the owner of Adversity Rising, a company who equips people with the confidence and skills to write their own stories.  Her work ranges from o...2023-02-2757 minMoney Mindset with Gull KhanMoney Mindset with Gull KhanMoney Mindset with Gull Khan | Episode 402 | Money Talkies with Kyira Wackett | Five Steps to Shame ResilienceIn this episode of Money Talkies, once again we speak to Kyira Wackett. Kyira is a therapist, public speaker and community advocate. She holds a Masters Degree in Counseling Psychology and is a licensed therapist specializing in eating disorders, anxiety disorders and trauma. She has been speaking on topics related to mental health and well-being for over ten years, and focuses on balancing inside and action to create meaningful and sustainable change. And today Kyira is talking to us about five steps to shame resilience. Let's find out! Connect...2023-02-2240 minMoney Mindset with Gull KhanMoney Mindset with Gull KhanMoney Mindset with Gull Khan | Episode 400 | Friday Feature: Kyira WackettToday we’re on another episode of our Friday Feature where we talk with astounding entrepreneurs and their success stories. In today's episode we're speaking to Kyira Wackett. Kyira is a therapist, public speaker and community advocate. She holds a Masters Degree in Counseling Psychology and is a licensed therapist specializing in eating disorders, anxiety disorders and trauma. She has been speaking on topics related to mental health and well-being for over ten years, and focuses on balancing inside and action to create meaningful and sustainable change. Her specialties lie in co...2023-02-1746 minStubborn LoveStubborn LoveHow to feel more connected to your partner and overcome shame | With Kyira Wackett, LMHCKyira Wackett is a licensed mental health therapist specializing in shame and anxiety. She is the owner of Adversity Rising, a company that equips people with the confidence and skills to write their own stories. The highlight of her work is her signature program, That Life AR, where she walks people through her 5-step therapeutic process she believes can combat any pain point that comes our way because we all deserve to live a life in which we can thrive. Main points from the show: Kyira explained what shame is and why...2023-01-2550 minLove, with Elise PeckLove, with Elise Peck51) Kyira Wackett-Shame Specialist & Mental Health Therapist, on LoveJoin your host Elise Peck as she speaks with Kyira Wackett, a licensed mental health therapist specialising in shame and anxiety, boundary setting and connection. Kyira has been working on her own shame recovery for over 10 years and is interested in exploring the impact shame has on how all of us lead and love in our lives. Kyira has been with her husband for 12 years and put in the work to create a relationship in which they can both thrive, explore and be seen. This is a fantastic, insightful discussion covering so many topics including: choosing love from fear and...2022-11-151h 20Beyond Sugar Freedom PodcastBeyond Sugar Freedom PodcastHow to overcome shame & disordered eating with Kyira Wackett [Ep. 43]Are you ashamed of your body?Are you ashamed of yourself and your eating habits?You’re not alone my love. Shame lays at the core of our health challenges and is something that every woman struggles with.Understanding shame and learning to heal from these old patterns is the key to a healthy and happy relationship with food (and yourself) for life.Join me this week with a very special guest, Kyira Wackett, as we dive deep into the sometimes painful yet important topics of shame, eating disorders an...2022-11-081h 12Bulimia Sucks | Kate Hudson HallBulimia Sucks | Kate Hudson HallBulimia Sucks! | Episode 108 | Setback and Successes | Kyira WackettJoin Kate as she chats around the toasty fireplace with Kyira Wackett. Kyira joined us in episode 95 and shared with us her journey through her eating disorder. In this episode Kyira talks with us about recovery and how we can shed the layers. Kyira is a licensed mental health therapist and entrepreneur. She is the owner of , Adversity Rising where she equips people with the confidence and skills to write their own stories. Kyira is a trauma survivor, as well as lives in recovery from an eating disorder and generalized anxiety. She be...2022-10-0334 minBulimia Sucks | Kate Hudson HallBulimia Sucks | Kate Hudson HallBulimia Sucks! | Episode 95 | Setback and Successes | Kyira WackettJoin Kate as she chats around the toasty fireplace with Kyira Wackett.Kyira is a licensed mental health therapist and entrepreneur. She is the owner of Adversity Rising where she equips people with the confidence and skills to write their own stories. Kyira is a trauma survivor, as well as lives in recovery from an eating disorder and generalized anxiety. She believes that all of us have the capacity to author our own stories and relinquish the holds of shame, fear and anxiety with the right support and skills.2022-07-0435 minMoving through Midlife | Helping Midlife Women Move Better and Feel BetterMoving through Midlife | Helping Midlife Women Move Better and Feel BetterEp 42: Finding ways to love yourself and honor your body with Kyira WackettSend us a textToday I am speaking with Kyira Wackett, a Mental Health Therapist who works with people in regard to-shame, negative self-talk and anxiety who is here to help us navigate loving ourselves and ensuring we raise children who love themselves as well.  Her company is called Adversity Rising where she helps to Empower You to Live on PurposeOutlineWhat is adversity rising and why is it useful?1:56Love your body for everything that it is.8:00How beauty is ever changing.11:08E...2022-02-1454 minThe Holistic Marketing PodcastThe Holistic Marketing PodcastEpisode #32: When to Quit with Kyira WackettIn this episode, host Charlotte Chipperfield welcomes Kyira Wackett to discuss the challenges and neurology of change. Kyira Wackett is the founder of Adversity Rising and holds a Masters Degree in Counseling Psychology and is a licensed therapist specializing in eating disorders, anxiety disorders and trauma.Kyira is also an artist and speaker who speaks on topics related to mental health, authenticity and personal & professional development for over 10 years with a focus on assertive communication, shame and fear, and moving from a life of "busy" to "fulfilled.” Here are highlights of the discussion points in th...2022-01-041h 02