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ReWired Experience PodcastThe Trap of Victimhood — When Labels Become Your CageWhat if the greatest obstacle keeping you stuck… is the belief that it’s not your fault?In this episode of The Hot Wash series from Rewired Experience Podcast, combat veteran and retired SWAT sergeant Kyle Stoy dismantles one of the most seductive traps of all: Victimhood. Through personal stories, political analysis, and psychological insight, Kyle exposes how the identity of a victim is manufactured, monetized, and weaponized—to keep people dependent, disempowered, and disconnected from real transformation.🧠 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:• How victimhood gives you someone to blame, so you never tak...2025-07-1636 minReWired Experience PodcastIsolation: The Hidden Enemy of High Performers🎙️ Rewired Experience Podcast – The Hot Wash Series“You think you’re protecting yourself by pulling away—but you’re actually cutting yourself off from the lifeline.”In this episode of The Hot Wash, Kyle Stoy, a retired SWAT team member, combat veteran, and 7-figure entrepreneur, opens up about the insidious trap of isolation—how it nearly derailed his life after a devastating injury, and how it continued to echo through his law enforcement career and entrepreneurial journey.Kyle shares the real cost of trying to “handle it alone,”...2025-07-0928 minReWired Experience PodcastShame Is a Liar: The Addiction, the Silence, and the Story That Almost Took Me OutWhat if the story you’re most ashamed of… is the one that could set someone else free?In this deeply personal episode of The Hot Wash, host Kyle Stoy—a combat veteran, former SWAT operator, and mitochondrial health coach—opens up about a chapter of his life he’s never shared publicly in this much depth: his quiet battle with addiction, shame, and the inherited weight of generational trauma.After surviving an IED blast in Afghanistan and nearly losing his leg, Kyle was prescribed heavy pain medications—including a Dilaudid d...2025-07-0227 minReWired Experience PodcastThe Perfection Trap: Why “Almost Ready” Is the Most Dangerous Place to BeThe Perfection Trap: Why “Almost Ready” Is the Most Dangerous Place to BeThe Hot Wash | Rewired Experience Podcast – Episode 5Are you constantly refining, polishing, and preparing—but never actually launching?This episode exposes Obstacle #5: Perfectionism, and how it traps high performers in a loop of productivity that looks impressive—but leads nowhere.Host Kyle Stoy unpacks the truth behind perfectionism:✅ It’s not excellence. It’s fear in disguise.✅ It manifests in “preparation loops”—where you’re always getting ready, but never going.✅ It creates polished...2025-06-2524 minReWired Experience PodcastNavigating the Noise: How to Stay Focused and Win the Battle over DistractionThe Hot Wash | Rewired Experience Podcast – Obstacle #4What if your biggest obstacle wasn’t fear, laziness, or failure…What if it was distraction—and you didn’t even realize it?This episode is part of The Hot Wash, a tactical debrief series inside the Rewired Experience Podcast, where we break down the 15 obstacles that are keeping people stuck—spiritually, physically, and mentally.I asked ChatGPT a question that changed everything:“If you were the devil, what obstacles would you use to keep people...2025-06-2127 minReWired Experience PodcastChasing vs. Choosing: The Mindset Shift That Saved Me from BurnoutWhat happens when the thing you’re best at suddenly breaks under pressure?In this raw and powerful episode of the Rewired Experience Podcast, Kyle shares his personal journey from being the top marksman in his police academy to experiencing performance anxiety during a real-world active shooter incident—and how it nearly broke him. But it wasn’t just about firearms training. It was about chasing validation versus choosing purpose.Kyle reveals how this mindset shift—from chasing outcomes to choosing the process—helped him recover, rebuild, and reclaim the joy in...2025-06-1325 minReWired Experience PodcastThe Laziest Generation: Fact or Myth?You’ve heard it a thousand times—“Nobody wants to work anymore.” But what if that phrase isn’t just recycled criticism… what if it’s true?In this thought-provoking episode of the Rewired Experience Podcast, host Kyle Stoy reacts to two powerful videos:🔹 A timeline of politicians, business owners, and media from the early 1900s to today all claiming “the next generation is lazy.”🔹 A clip from 1923 where pioneers resist the first electric appliances because they knew convenience could cost them their freedom.Kyle doesn’t just react—he refram...2025-05-3033 minReWired Experience PodcastThe Gift of Pain: Unlocking Emotional IntelligenceIn this episode of the Rewired Experience Podcast, host Kyle Stoy explores the concept of core memories and emotional beliefs through the lens of the animated film 'Inside Out' and his personal recovery story from being wounded in Afghanistan. He discusses the importance of allowing oneself and others to experience pain and discomfort, rather than shielding from it, as it fosters growth and emotional intelligence. Stoy recounts a poignant moment when he tried to protect his fiancée from pain by pushing her away, only to realize later that such protection hinders emotional development. The episode invites listeners to r...2025-05-2125 minReWired Experience PodcastThe On-Call Project: Empowering First Responders With Jeff MorefieldIn this episode of Rewired Experience Podcast, host Kyle Stoy reconnects with returning guest Jeff Morefield—former SWAT officer, Army National Guard commander, and founder of On-Call Project, a nonprofit built to serve first responders in their transition out of uniformed service.Unlike his first appearance, where Jeff shared his powerful backstory, this conversation focuses on the mission and momentum of On-Call Project after 15 months of growth. Kyle and Jeff unpack the real challenges first responders face when stepping into civilian life, the lack of structured offboarding systems compared to the military, and the cr...2025-05-061h 53ReWired Experience PodcastYou're Not Anxious - You’re Unprepared: How to Flip Fear Into FuelWhat if your anxiety isn’t a flaw—but a signal? In this episode, Kyle shares raw, personal stories from the battlefield to the front seat of a patrol car—revealing the powerful mindset shift that separates fear from preparedness. You’ll learn how to flip fear into fuel, why goal-setting feels terrifying for some, and what to do when success leaves you feeling lost.This isn’t just about survival—it’s about stepping into your next evolution.Inside this episode:Why Kyle visualized a g...2025-04-2139 minReWired Experience PodcastTipping Culture Exposed: The Real Cost of Minimum EffortTipping Culture Exposed: The Real Cost of Minimum EffortWhat if the real issue isn’t tipping—it’s entitlement?In this episode, I break down a trending video claiming, “If you can’t afford a 30% tip, don’t go out to eat.” But is that really about fairness… or have we lost the plot on what it means to earn your way?From my early days bussing tables to leading teams today, I’ve seen both sides of the service industry—and I’m sounding the alarm on how performance-based oppo...2025-04-0729 minReWired Experience PodcastYou’re Not Lazy. You’re Just Afraid to Grow.You’re not lazy—you’re just done with what no longer serves you.In this raw and honest episode of Rewired Experience Podcast – Kyle challenges the way we define laziness.He shares how burnout, emotional exhaustion, and misalignment often get mislabeled as apathy—and how real laziness is refusing to grow, learn, or evolve.You’ll discover: Why high performers can still look lazy How redirected energy is often mistaken for disengagement The true danger of staying “comfortable”If you’re in a season of transition, this episode...2025-03-3124 minReWired Experience PodcastTribes, Trauma, and Truth: Rethinking How We See Each OtherIn this episode of The Rewired Experience Podcast, I take you into the heart of Afghanistan—where I learned that perspective and perception aren’t the same thing.From my interpreter’s shocking statement—“I hate these people”—to a one-legged Bedouin elder who refused to recognize the Afghan president, this episode uncovers how trauma, tribal identity, and worldview collide in ways most people never see.You’ll hear the raw stories that shaped how I now understand judgment, leadership, and what it means to truly see someone else....2025-03-2425 minReWired Experience PodcastThe Silent Guardians: A Dispatcher PerspectiveBehind the Dispatcher Desk: An Insightful and Inspirational Journey with Gabby aka @911itsGabyIn this episode of the Rewired Experience, we sit down with Gaby, best known as @911itsGaby on Instagram (100k+ Followers), to uncover the life behind the radio as a police dispatcher. With a background in concrete dispatching, Gaby transitioned to police dispatching and has since garnered a large following on social media for her insightful and entertaining content about her job. We discuss her journey, the challenges she faced, especially a recent investigation triggered by a...2025-03-101h 06ReWired Experience PodcastObstacle 3 of 15 - "Fear" - The Obstacle That’s Keeping You Stuck (And How to Break Free)🚨 FEAR is the most paralyzing obstacle—and it’s keeping you stuck. 🚨In Episode 3 of The Hot Wash series on the Rewired Experience Podcast, we’re breaking down the two biggest ways fear holds you back:❌ Fear of Failure – You haven’t failed enough to succeed. Every successful person has a long track record of failures behind them. If you’re afraid to start, it’s because you haven’t built the muscle of resilience yet.❌ Fear of Success – The most realistic fear. If you stay in action long enough, success...2025-03-0310 minReWired Experience PodcastObstacle 2 of 15: The Denial Trap – Why Job Security Is an Illusion & How to Break FreeObstacle 2 of 15: The Denial Trap – Why Job Security Is an Illusion & How to Break FreeThis is Obstacle 2 of 15 in The Hot Wash—a series exposing the mental, emotional, and financial traps designed to keep you stuck.Right now, thousands of government employees are facing layoffs, and many are in denial about what’s happening. They believe job security is real. But the hard truth? Security doesn’t come from a paycheck—it comes from the value you create.In this episode of The Rewired Experience Podcast, K...2025-02-1807 minReWired Experience PodcastObstacle 1 of 15: How The Devil Plans to Keep you ComfortableObstacle 1 of 15: How the Devil Plans to Keep You Comfortable, and How to Break FreeDescription:Most people don’t even realize they’re trapped. Not because they’re lazy. Not because they lack motivation.But because they’re caught in the Comfort Trap—a slow, silent killer that robs you of your drive, discipline, and future.If you were the enemy, how would you keep people stuck in the suck? You’d make them comfortable—just enough so they never feel the urgency to push forward.In this f...2025-02-1116 minReWired Experience PodcastThe Truth About Work, Money & Opportunity (You’ve Been Lied To)The Truth About Work, Money & Opportunity (You’ve Been Lied To)
Most people are stuck in the paycheck trap—trading time for money and wondering why they never get ahead. But the world has changed. Bureaucracies are shrinking, corporate layoffs are increasing, and automation is replacing jobs faster than ever.
If you’re waiting for a raise, hoping for more job security, or expecting the old system to take care of you, you’re already behind.
In this episode of Rewired Experience podcast, we break do...2025-02-0306 minReWired Experience PodcastTurn Fear Into Fuel: Transforming Obstacles Into Opportunities | Motivation MondayWelcome to Season 2 of The Rewired Experience! In this high-energy Motivation Monday episode, host Kyle Stoy takes you through a powerful perspective shift on overcoming life’s toughest challenges. Whether you’re stuck in the suck, battling fear, or looking for a way to reignite your purpose, this episode delivers six minutes of straight fire to reset your mindset and kickstart your week.
Kyle dives into how to turn scars into superpowers, fear into fuel, and obstacles into opportunities. It’s time to stop carrying the weight of post-traumatic stress and start using it as the to...2025-01-2708 minReWired Experience PodcastWhen Enough Is Enough: Moving Beyond Trauma and Reclaiming Your Purpose"When Enough is Enough: Moving Beyond Trauma and Reclaiming Your Purpose”
In this powerful episode of Rewired Experience, host Kyle Stoy—combat veteran, first responder, and trauma survivor—dives deep into the realities of post-traumatic stress (PTS) faced by veterans, law enforcement officers, firefighters, paramedics, and other front-line heroes. Kyle shares personal stories of traumatic incidents, from responding to the Oklahoma City bombing to holding a child who simply needed peace. These moments aren’t the loud, headline-grabbing events but the quiet, emotional turning points that signal it’s time to move forward.
If you’ve ever felt...2025-01-2026 minReWired Experience PodcastTransitioning Law Enforcement to Civilian Life With Jeff Morefield🚨 From SWAT to Service: Transitioning Law Enforcement to Civilian Life 🚨
Join us in this compelling conversation with Jeff Morefield, a retired police sergeant, SWAT operator, and National Guard artillery officer, as he shares his incredible journey through law enforcement, military service, and his transition to civilian life. Jeff offers heartfelt insights on resilience, leadership, health, and his groundbreaking nonprofit, On Call Project, which supports first responders and law enforcement officers in navigating post-retirement life.
🌟 Key Topics Covered in This Episode:
• Experiences in law enforcement and military service.
• The challenges of transitioning to civilian careers.
• The importance of mental and physical wellne...2025-01-132h 08ReWired Experience PodcastThe Top 5 Reasons You're Stuck in The Suck and How To Break FreeFeeling stuck? Like no matter what you do, you’re spinning your wheels and getting nowhere? In this episode, we’re breaking down the top 5 reasons you’re stuck in the suck—and, more importantly, how to climb out and start stacking wins. From reclaiming your time to reframing your mindset around money, I’ll walk you through actionable strategies to help you take control and build momentum.
Ready to take the first step? Download the free Take a Knee PDF at rewiredexperience.com and start rewiring your mindset today.
🚨 Big Announc...2025-01-0724 minReWired Experience PodcastFear Vs. Awareness: The Mindset for Overcoming Life's BattlesThis episode of the Rewired Experience Podcast, Host Kyle Stoy, explores the contrast between fear and awareness, emphasizing how preparedness can turn chaotic situations into moments of clarity. The host shares two personal experiences: an active shooter engagement as a police officer, and a firefight in Afghanistan. These intense stories illustrate how awareness and preparation determine the difference between panic and purpose. He highlights the Rewired Experience Framework's steps—'Take a Knee,' 'Drink Water,' 'Reshoot Your Azimuth,' and 'Charlie Mike'—as crucial tools for navigating stress in both life and combat scenarios. The episode encourages listeners to a...2024-12-3023 minReWired Experience PodcastThe Story Changes Everything: Bearing The Cross in Your JourneyIn this episode of the Rewired Experience podcast, the host shares a deeply personal story that emphasizes the importance of resilience, transformation, and owning one's journey. The narrative revolves around the host's traumatic experience in Afghanistan, detailing the injury sustained from an IED explosion and the subsequent challenges. The story highlights not only the physical and emotional trauma but also the silent struggles faced by loved ones. The host reflects on the significance of allowing others to partake in their journey, pushing through pain, and ultimately letting the story define the outcome. The episode encapsulates key themes such as...2024-12-2323 minReWired Experience PodcastThe Power of Discomfort: Choosing Growth Over ComfortKyle discusses the ongoing battle between seeking comfort and embracing discomfort. He shares a personal story from his time as a night shift cop to illustrate how persistence and refusing to give up led to a significant win. Kyle emphasizes that real success in life, business, and personal development comes from enduring and overcoming hardships rather than taking the easy path. He calls for discipline, perseverance, and rejecting shortcuts to avoid stagnation and achieve meaningful progress, concluding with encouragement to push through challenges to become the best version of oneself.2024-12-1618 minReWired Experience PodcastA Patrol Car, Taco Bell and Lessons in Following SystemsIn this episode of Rewired Experience Podcast, host Kyle Stoy recounts a personal story from his days as a patrol officer that emphasizes the importance of following systems and procedures. Kyle narrates an incident after he failed to follow proper safety protocols, leading to a chain of events that included a pursuit and the eventual apprehension of the suspect at a Taco Bell drive-thru. He underscores how deviations from established procedures can have serious consequences and draws lessons about humility, discipline, and learning from failures. The story illustrates how systems and structures are vital for personal and professional success...2024-12-1021 minReWired Experience PodcastThe 10th of a Second: Competing Against YourselfIn this episode of Rewired Experience, host Kyle Stoy recounts a transformative lesson from his 12 years on the SWAT team. The story centers around a physical fitness obstacle course where Kyle aimed to achieve the fastest time and win the team’s physical fitness award. However, by pacing himself to merely beat his teammates rather than giving his all, Kyle loses to a fellow officer by a tenth of a second. This experience teaches Kyle a critical lesson about competing for personal betterment rather than external validation. He ties the lesson into the Rewired Experience framework, emphasizing the importance of...2024-12-0219 minReWired Experience PodcastMindset Magic: Overcoming Obstacles and FearThe episode of the 'Rewired Experience' podcast focuses on overcoming feelings of being 'stuck in the suck.' The host discusses how self-sabotage, excuses, and resistance to change can prevent progress. Key strategies include recognizing when you're stuck, taking a knee to acknowledge the situation, drinking water as a metaphor for replenishing oneself, and 'reshooting your azimuth' to re-align goals. The host shares personal experiences with imposter syndrome and the importance of mimicking successful behaviors. Practical advice is given on shifting focus from problems to possibilities and eliminating unproductive habits. Listeners are encouraged to take actionable steps and seek...2024-11-2320 minReWired Experience PodcastFriendly Fire - Why Every Step MattersIn Episode 7 of The Rewired Experience, Kyle shares a gripping story from a mission in Afghanistan where overlooking a single step in the process had life-threatening consequences. He connects this experience to the ways we often sabotage our personal goals by skipping steps or rushing toward an outcome. Kyle discusses the value of committing fully to the process, tracking progress through journaling, and learning from each step along the way. This episode is a powerful reminder that success lies in the details and that every step, no matter how small, plays a crucial role in the mission—whether in lif...2024-11-1820 minReWired Experience PodcastThe Valley of Perspective: Finding Common Ground in Divided WorldsIn this special Veterans Day episode of The Rewired Experience, Kyle shares a deeply personal story from his time in Afghanistan, exploring how a surprising moment in a remote valley taught him about the universal struggles of marginalized communities, the power of perspective, and the importance of empathy. Recorded at a time when the nation is processing the recent election, this episode invites listeners to find grace for one another, respect individual freedoms, and recognize the resilience that unites us all.
We’re also excited to announce the upcoming enrollment for our Body Balance Pr...2024-11-1123 minReWired Experience PodcastFrom Rock Bottom to Resilience: A Take a Knee MomentEpisode Description:
In this powerful and deeply personal episode, we’re taking you on a journey through one of the toughest chapters of my life—a time when everything seemed to be falling apart, both on the job and at home. From the chaos of an active shooter situation that left me questioning my own abilities, to a debilitating injury that sidelined me just as I reached my goal of joining the SWAT team, this was a moment that brought me to my knees. Add to that a marriage on the rocks and the stru...2024-11-0622 minReWired Experience PodcastPhase Line Charlie - Continue MissionEpisode 4: Phase Line Charlie – Continue Mission
In the final episode of our four-part series, we’re diving into the ultimate phase: Charlie Mike, or in plain English, Continue Mission. You’ve tackled the tough stuff, reshot your azimuth, and hydrated your body and soul – now it’s time to carry on with renewed purpose. In this episode, we’ll talk about pushing past the limits, embracing the unknown, and why staying on course is the key to hitting your next breakthrough. Packed with stories, insights, and a bit of fire, this episode is all about diggin...2024-10-2822 minReWired Experience PodcastPhase Line Bravo - Reshoot Your AzimuthEpisode 3: Phase Line Bravo – Reshoot Your AzimuthIn this powerful episode, we dive into the concept of “Reshooting Your Azimuth” – the process of recalibrating your path when life throws you off course. Drawing from Kyle’s personal story of survival after hitting an IED in Afghanistan, we explore the critical moments where you must redefine your goals and reconnect with your why. Kyle shares how, despite facing limb salvage and doctors predicting an amputation, he defied the odds through a relentless commitment to his mission.This episode is perfect for anyone...2024-10-2223 minReWired Experience PodcastPhase Line Alpha - Drink WaterEpisode 2: Drink Water – The Power of Nourishment for Body, Mind, and Spirit
In this episode of the Rewired Experience Podcast, we dive deep into the second part of the system: Drink Water. 💧 But this isn’t just about staying hydrated—it’s about nourishing every part of who you are: physically, mentally, and spiritually.
I’ll break down the importance of taking care of your body, how what you consume—whether it’s food, media, or music—impacts your mindset and behaviors, and why proper self-care is the foundation of leadership. Whet...2024-10-2020 minReWired Experience PodcastPhase Zero - Take A KneeEpisode 1: Take a Knee | ReWired ExperienceIn this episode, I break down what it means to “take a knee”—a powerful mindset shift I learned during my military training. When life gets overwhelming and you feel like you’re losing perspective, sometimes the best thing you can do is pause, reset, and look at things from a different angle.Ready to stop making excuses and start moving forward with clarity? Tune in and learn how taking a knee can help you overcome any obstacle.#MindsetS...2024-10-1120 min
The Autoweek PodcastFamily Road Trips, Ryan Newman Update and a C8 Corvette ReviewOn this episode of the “Autoweek Podcast,” Natalie Neff returns to talk with Andrew Stoy, Jake Lingeman and Wesley Wren about the longest-running engine families currently in production. The team discuss the possibilities of new engines developed today running as long as these beloved powerplants. The group then talks about its most memorable road trips.
Later in the show, Mike Pryson and Wren join Matt Weaver to talk about recent updates with Ryan Newman. The gang also hashes out the bounty on Kyle Busch.
Closing the show, Lingeman and Wren talk with Mark Vaughn about his time in the new C8 C...2020-02-281h 22The Autoweek PodcastFamily Road Trips, Ryan Newman Update and a C8 Corvette ReviewOn this episode of the “Autoweek Podcast,” Natalie Neff returns to talk with Andrew Stoy, Jake Lingeman and Wesley Wren about the longest-running engine families currently in production. The team discuss the possibilities of new engines developed today running as long as these beloved powerplants. The group then talks about its most memorable road trips.
Later in the show, Mike Pryson and Wren join Matt Weaver to talk about recent updates with Ryan Newman. The gang also hashes out the bounty on Kyle Busch.
Closing the show, Lingeman and Wren talk with Mark Vaughn about his time in the new C8 C...2020-02-281h 22
The Autoweek PodcastKyle Busch wins NASCAR title, Adam Carolla interviewed and the LA Auto Show wrappedOn this episode of the “Autoweek Podcast,” Matt Weaver calls in to talk with Mike Pryson and Wesley Wren about the end of the NASCAR season, Kyle Busch’s championship and the goof that probably cost Martin Truex Jr. a second title. The team also touches on the NASCAR Trucks season ending and the future of a few Xfinity drivers. The guys also dive into the NHRA season finale and the fight that is causing a stir among drivers.
After the motorsport section, Jake Lingeman and Andrew Stoy replace Weaver and Pryson to talk about the 2019 Los Angeles Auto Show. The te...2019-11-221h 44The Autoweek PodcastKyle Busch wins NASCAR title, Adam Carolla interviewed and the LA Auto Show wrappedOn this episode of the “Autoweek Podcast,” Matt Weaver calls in to talk with Mike Pryson and Wesley Wren about the end of the NASCAR season, Kyle Busch’s championship and the goof that probably cost Martin Truex Jr. a second title. The team also touches on the NASCAR Trucks season ending and the future of a few Xfinity drivers. The guys also dive into the NHRA season finale and the fight that is causing a stir among drivers.
After the motorsport section, Jake Lingeman and Andrew Stoy replace Weaver and Pryson to talk about the 2019 Los Angeles Auto Show. The te...2019-11-221h 44