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The Married Therapists: A Relationship PodcastS1: E20 | Hot Takes on Modern RelationshipsIn our season finale, we get real about the messy, beautiful, and complicated sides of relationships, marriage, intimacy, trust, and communication. From long-distance marriages and friendships with exes to the realities of porn, honesty, and boundaries, we’re unpacking the conversations every couple should be having.Some hot takes we cover:💬 Long-distance marriages can work if you’ve got strong communication.💬 Porn isn’t all bad, but it can create unrealistic expectations.💬 Sharing passwords = safety, not snooping.💬 Friendships with exes? Sometimes okay, but boundaries matter.💬 Proposals should be mutual, not just tradition.💬 Hall pass cultur...
2025-08-2156 minThe Married Therapists: A Relationship PodcastS1: E19 | Wives Submitting to Husbands?Luis and Amber take a thoughtful look at the themes of submission and power dynamics in relationships, sparked by the documentary Shiny Happy People and the belief system of the Duggars. They explore how gender norms, biblical submission, and cultural influences can shape (and sometimes distort) our understanding of healthy love.The conversation moves into the importance of accountability in relationships, why mutual submission often works better than hierarchy, and how biblical submission can be misinterpreted in modern times. They also share insights on a viral TikTok story involving Kendra and her psychiatrist, unpacking the roles of...
2025-08-1337 minThe Married Therapists: A Relationship PodcastS1: E18 | Marriage Myths We Can't StandAre common marriage myths hurting your relationship? In this episode, Luis and Amber Semidey break down the most popular misconceptions about love and marriage like Happy wife, happy life and Love is enough. They share real relationship advice for thriving partnerships.They explore how communication, independence, intimacy, and conflict resolution can strengthen your marriage while balancing the challenges of parenting. If you want a healthier, happier relationship, this episode is for you.
2025-08-0641 minThe Married Therapists: A Relationship PodcastS1: E17 | Is Marriage Supposed to Last Forever?Is marriage supposed to last forever, or have we been sold an outdated idea?In this powerful episode, Luis and Amber get real about the complexities of marriage, divorce, and what it means to be in a truly healthy relationship. They explore how family, children, and mental health are impacted by staying in an unhealthy marriage, and why it’s so important to question whether your relationship is genuinely serving you or simply serving tradition.They also talk about the influence of cultural and religious beliefs on staying married, how modern dating has changed drastically (he...
2025-07-2346 minThe Married Therapists: A Relationship PodcastS1: E16 | Our Fertility JourneyIn this raw and honest episode, Luis and Amber Semidey explore their personal experiences with fertility, pregnancy, and the emotional ups and downs of trying to conceive (TTC). From childhood perceptions and cultural messages to the very real challenges of infertility and family planning, they unpack what it’s really like to navigate the world of reproductive health as a coupleThey also discuss how fertility education is often incomplete or fear-based, especially around teen pregnancy and STDs, leaving many adults unprepared for the realities of conception and fertility struggles later in life....
2025-07-1655 minThe Married Therapists: A Relationship PodcastS1: E15 | Honeymoon Phase or Healthy Relationship?In this episode, Luis and Amber Semidey dive deep into the honeymoon phase of relationships, breaking down what it really means, how long it lasts, and why it's often misunderstood. They explore how authenticity, communication, and intentionality are essential to sustaining healthy love well beyond the initial butterflies. Through a mix of personal insights and a thought-provoking Reddit story, they highlight real-life dating dynamics, the pressures of societal expectations, and how social media often skews our views of what love "should" look like. They emphasize the importance of intimacy, conflict resolution, and not being afraid to seek help when...
2025-07-0947 minThe Married Therapists: A Relationship PodcastS1: E14 | Mental Health & RelationshipsIn this episode of The Married Therapists: A Relationship Podcast, we dive deep into the complex intersection of mental health and relationships. From anxiety and depression to communication and therapy, we share our own personal experiences and break down the stigma that often surrounds mental health in romantic partnerships.We explore the ways mental illness can affect connection, intimacy, and trust, and why hiding severe mental health challenges can be deeply damaging to both partners. Using a wild Reddit story, we highlight the emotional toll of untreated mental health struggles and the importance of clear communication, mutual...
2025-07-0249 minThe Married Therapists: A Relationship PodcastS1: E13 | Finances in MarriageIn this conversation, Luis and Amber dive into how much finances impact relationships, often more than people realize. They open up about their own experiences with money growing up and how those early lessons (or lack of them) shaped their beliefs around budgeting, debt, and financial responsibility as adults. One big point they touch on is how financial literacy isn’t really taught much in school, which leaves a lot of people figuring it out the hard way.They also talk about how tricky things can get when partners come from different financial backgrounds. Conflicts can pop up...
2025-06-2547 minThe Married Therapists: A Relationship PodcastS1: E12 | How ADHD Impacts Our MarriageIn this episode, Luis opens up about his personal experience living with ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder), offering a candid look at how the condition shaped his life from childhood through adulthood. He describes the early signs of inattentive ADHD, a type that is often misunderstood, and the significant challenges it brought, including procrastination, burnout, and struggles with motivation—often tied to dopamine regulation.Luis discusses the emotional toll of living undiagnosed, and how receiving the diagnoses of ADHD, anxiety, and depression became a validating and transformative moment in his mental health journey. He ex...
2025-06-1845 minThe Married Therapists: A Relationship PodcastS1: E11 | An Evening without NetflixIn this episode, Luis and Amber dive deep into their relationship by answering thought-provoking prompts from the Skin Deep card deck. Through a series of intimate questions, they explore how their individual experiences, including trauma, skin issues, and ADHD, influence the way they connect and support each other. Their candid conversation highlights the role of open communication, emotional support, and self-awareness in navigating challenges and strengthening their bond. They reflect on the healing they've experienced together, the power of affirmations, and how love and intentionality sustain their intimacy. Throughout, they emphasize the importance of mutual understanding and the ongoing...
2025-06-1142 minThe Married Therapists: A Relationship PodcastS1: E10 | Reddit Relationship DilemmasIn this episode, Luis and Amber offer insightful relationship advice as they explore two relationship dilemmas submitted on Reddit. The first involves a woman grappling with emotional cheating after discovering her husband's close connection with a coworker (AKA his "work wife") which sparking a discussion about trust issues and personal boundaries. The second centers on a woman whose fiancé admits to lingering feelings for his ex, right in the middle of their engagement party! This highlights the emotional complexity of engagement dilemmas. Throughout the episode, Luis and Amber stress the importance of communication in relationships, emphasizing open dialogue, empathy, a...
2025-06-0442 minThe Married Therapists: A Relationship PodcastS1: E9 | Thoughts on Gender RolesIn this conversation, the Amber Semidey, LCSW and Luis Semidey, LPC discuss their thoughts on gender roles in a marriage. They explore their childhood experiences and cultural perspectives, examining how these early influences shape expectations in marriage and household responsibilities like cooking and cleaning. They emphasize the importance of clear communication and adaptability in navigating relationship dynamics, highlighting how personal backgrounds can lead to differing views on domestic roles. Drawing from their own experiences, they reflect on how their understanding of gender roles has evolved, ultimately encouraging open dialogue to build mutual understanding and balance in partnerships....
2025-05-2840 minThe Married Therapists: A Relationship PodcastS1: E8 | Do You Guys Ever Fight?!In this episode, therapists Luis Semidey, LPC, and Amber Semidey, LCSW, offer valuable relationship advice as they explore the intricacies of conflict resolution and conflict management. Drawing from both their personal experiences and therapist insights, they examine how early life experiences influence our approach to relationship dynamics and conflict. The discussion highlights the impact of attachment styles, the power of healthy communication, and the importance of implementing effective communication strategies. Emphasizing emotional safety and mutual understanding, the Semideys stress the need to create a secure environment where open dialogue can thrive, thus paving the way for healthier, more resilient...
2025-05-2146 minThe Married Therapists: A Relationship PodcastS1: E7 | Life on the Dating AppsIn this conversation, Luis and Amber explore their experiences with dating and relationships, both before and after marriage. They speak through how expectations, communication, and compatibility shape meaningful connections, while also emphasizing the role of personal growth and emotional health in building lasting partnerships. The discussion covers the challenges posed by dating apps, the lingering effects of past relationships, and ends with a new segment called "Let's Unpack This". In this segment, they discuss a recent show they watched and their thoughts about it. In this episode, they discuss Temptation Island and how they feel reality TV influences modern...
2025-05-1453 minThe Married Therapists: A Relationship PodcastS1: E6 | Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?In this conversation, Amber Semidey, LCSW and Luis Semidey, LPC dive into the complexities of cheating in relationships, challenging the notion that "once a cheater, always a cheater." They explore how infidelity can stem from deeper issues and emphasize the potential for reformed cheaters to grow through emotional growth, self-disclosure, and accountability. The discussion highlights the role of communication and therapy in healing and rebuilding trust. They also examine the consequences of cheating, the dynamics of monogamy versus polyamory, and the importance of understanding individual needs and values within relationships.Follow us on Instagram: @themarriedtherapists
2025-05-0735 minThe Married Therapists: A Relationship PodcastS1: E5 | Can Men and Women Truly Be Friends?In this episode, Amber Semidey, LCSW and Luis Semidey, LPC delve into the dynamics of friendship between men and women, unpacking the layers of emotional intimacy, vulnerability, and the fine line where communication and boundaries play a crucial role in maintaining trust and avoiding cheating. They also debut a new segment called Mood of the Moment, where they open up about their current emotional states and reflect on their personal growth journeys. Throughout the discussion, they highlight how health—both emotional and relational—is foundational to building strong, supportive relationships.Be sure to follow them...
2025-04-3032 minThe Married Therapists: A Relationship PodcastS1: E4 | Our Evolution of Marriage ExpectationsIn this conversation, Luis and Amber delve into their personal backgrounds and reflect on how their childhood influences shaped their marriage expectations. They explore how their relationship dynamics have shifted over time, revealing their evolving perspectives on both marriage and dating. Through candid discussion, they emphasize the role of communication in marriage and how open dialogue supports both emotional connection and mental health. Their exchange underscores the complexity of personal growth and the value of adulthood insights and self-reflection in building strong, healthy relationships.
2025-04-2341 minThe Married Therapists: A Relationship PodcastS1: E3 | Luis's Abusive MarriageIn this conversation, Luis opens up about his experience in an abusive marriage, sharing the emotional journey from the early excitement of love to the painful realization of red flags and harmful relationship dynamics. He reflects on the complexities of emotional abuse, the toll it took on his mental health, and the internal battles he faced throughout the engagement and marriage. Luis candidly discusses the moment he reached his breaking point and made the difficult decision to pursue divorce. Through his story, he highlights the importance of recognizing signs of domestic violence, reclaiming self-worth, and the ongoing process of...
2025-04-161h 07The Married Therapists: A Relationship PodcastS1: E2 | Amber's Abusive MarriageIn this episode, Amber shares her deeply personal journey through an abusive relationship, shedding light on the emotional abuse she endured and the red flags she overlooked. She opens up about the emotional turmoil, the control and isolation she experienced, and the eventual realization that change was necessary. The conversation explores the complexities of family dynamics, the long-lasting effects of domestic violence, and the vital role of therapy in healing. Amber’s story is one of personal growth, resilience, and empowerment, illustrating the importance of recognizing abuse and seeking help. Her path to healing serves as an inspiring testament to...
2025-04-0958 minThe Married Therapists: A Relationship PodcastS1: E1 | The BeginningIn this inaugural episode of The Married Therapist: A Relationship Podcast, hosts Luis Semidey, LPC and Amber Semidey, LCSW dive into their personal love story and their journey of trauma recovery from past abusive relationships. As therapists, they share insights on how their dating experiences shaped their approach to building healthy relationships. They open up about meeting on dating apps, their first dates, and the deep conversations that led to their love confessions. Through their therapist insights, they explore the role of communication skills, emotional healing, and personal growth in fostering a strong partnership. Listeners can expect future episodes...
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