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I Wish You Knew The CEO and COO Model | Tom & Lisa Bilyeu and Adam Lane SmithMost couples you see online are either performing for the camera or fighting for the clicks. This conversation is nothing like that. Adam Lane Smith sits down with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu, co-founders of Quest Nutrition and hosts of Impact Theory and Women of Impact, for one of the most honest conversations about marriage you'll find anywhere on the internet. No highlight reel. No performance. Just two people who have been building a life together for 25 years, and are willing to show you exactly what that has looked like, the hard parts included. What you'll...

2026-03-271h 27

I Wish You Knew Is He a Narcissist or Just Avoidant? | Dr. Leslie Dobson & Adam Lane SmithMost people online will tell you your partner is a narcissist because he didn't text back fast enough. This conversation is nothing like that. Adam Lane Smith sits down with Dr. Leslie Dobson, forensic psychologist and court-appointed expert who has spent her career inside prisons, jails, and psych hospitals assessing the most dangerous individuals in the system, to give you a reality-based answer to the question so many people are afraid to ask: am I actually in danger? What you'll learn in this conversation: 1- Why true narcissistic personality disorder is rare and why...

2026-03-201h 17

I Wish You Knew The Forgotten Attachment Psychology of Biblical Marriage | Jonathan Pageau & Adam Lane SmithMost people have been sold a version of marriage that's either a power grab or a slow sacrifice into nothing. This conversation dismantles both. Adam Lane Smith sits down with Jonathan Pageau, symbolic artist, Orthodox Christian thinker, and author, to go deep on what Biblical marriage actually asks of a man, what it gives a woman, and why the model most people are running has nothing to do with Christianity. What you'll learn in this conversation: → Why hierarchy in a Christian marriage looks nothing like the Roman model most people are reacting against

2026-03-0646 min

I Wish You Knew Attachment Styles at Work: Why Avoidant Leaders Destroy Companies80% of management strategies create addiction and fear. Your best employees aren’t burning out because they’re weak. They’re burning out because you’re running their nervous system on the wrong chemical. You keep giving them dopamine: bonuses, titles, corner offices. And every single hit requires a bigger one tomorrow just to feel the same. Meanwhile, their cortisol climbs higher with every promotion, every new responsibility, every quarter where the targets get bigger and the recognition gets emptier. This is the episode where Adam Lane Smith and Andrey Korikov break down the Secure Loyalty Formula...

2026-03-041h 04

I Wish You Knew Why Modern Parenting Is Creating a Mental Health Crisis (ft. Erica Komisar)🚨 LOVE FOR LIFE: VALENTINE’S 2026 — SALE 🚨 Are you working on yourself or building love together as a couple? This is for anyone ready to break unhealthy attachment patterns, build emotional security, and create a foundation for love that feels safe, connected, and built to last. 👉 https://bundle.adamlanesmith.com/vale... Children are born neurologically and emotionally fragile. They're born feeling frightened and unsafe. And somewhere along the way, we decided that was someone else's problem to solve. Erica Komisar joins Adam Lane Smith for a conversation about what we've lost: the understanding that the first...

2026-02-141h 03

I Wish You Knew How to Stop Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men (ft. Danica Patrick)She's won races most people can't finish. Built businesses. Commanded stages. But relationships? That's where the pattern kept breaking. Danica Patrick joins Adam Lane Smith and Andrey Korikov for a raw conversation about why high-achieving women keep attracting emotionally unavailable men: and what actually has to change. In this video: → The "quiet disorganized" attachment pattern most successful women don't know they have → Why making life easy for men destroys the bond you're trying to build → The four levels of safety men must provide: and where most fail → Adam's three-date method for filtering ou...

2026-02-071h 31

I Wish You Knew Why Dating Is A Failed ConceptWhy is dating broken? Why are young men flooding back to church? In this conversation, I sit down with Patrick Coffin: Catholic broadcaster, close-up magician, and host of The Patrick Coffin Show. We go deep on the real reasons relationships are falling apart: and it goes back further than you think. We cover: → Why dating is a failed concept (and what humans actually need) → The 3 "divorces" that broke Western civilization → How your image of God shapes your attachment style → Why empaths and narcissists can't stop finding each other → The difference be...

2026-01-301h 20

I Wish You Knew Schedule Your Feelings. Here's Why.Dr. Chris Lee opens with the truth most people avoid: men are dying from loneliness. In this conversation, Adam Lane Smith and Dr. Chris Lee break down the science of emotional regulation, why your amygdala hallucinates up to 340% more threats if you have insecure attachment, and why scheduling your feelings might be the most counterintuitive (and effective) thing you ever do. About Dr. Chris Lee: Neuroscience researcher, consultant, father, homeschool parent. Lost his father to suicide at 22, had his daughter two weeks later. Built his career understanding why men suffer in silence and how to b...

2026-01-231h 12

I Wish You Knew The Science of Why Men Cheat (And How to Stop)New Year's Sale. Up to 40% Off All Programs https://bundle.adamlanesmith.com/nynm?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=nyny RELATIONSHIP MASTERY INTENSIVE 2026 April 23 to 26 | San Diego, California https://adamlanesmith.com/retreat/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=retreat 🔗 Attachment Assessment: Dr. Orion Taraban returns to break down what most relationship advice gets completely wrong. We dive into the neurochemistry behind attraction and commitment: dopamine, oxytocin, vasopressin, cortisol; and why chasing "good feelings" is destroying modern relationships. Adam reveals the Secure Loyalty Equation he and Andrey developed, explaining why purpose and shared cha...

2026-01-161h 38

I Wish You Knew Your Partner Can't Fix Your LonelinessYou're lonely. Not because you're broken. Not because something's wrong with you. Because you're trying to get all your connection from one person. Krista Williams built her business with her best friend Lindsay. Stayed married for years. Got divorced. And discovered something that changed everything: her deepest sense of security didn't come from her husband. It came from her friendships. 66% of millennials feel lonely every single day. Not because they're alone: many have partners. They're lonely because they've made one person responsible for all their emotional needs. That's not a...

2026-01-091h 06

I Wish You Knew She's Mothering Him (And He'll Leave Her For It)She's giving him everything. Reducing friction. Avoiding hard questions. Making him comfortable. Hoping he'll finally step up. He won't. Not because he's broken. Because you've told him everything is fine. Kelsey Wonderlin coaches women out of the patterns that keep them stuck: attaching too fast, ignoring red flags, and failing to have the conversations that actually build relationships. In this episode, Adam Lane Smith and Kelsey break down the three mistakes women make in dating: bonding before vetting, compatibility testing too late, and waiting for men to l...

2026-01-011h 17

I Wish You Knew The Single Most Important Decision a Man Will MakeWhat if choosing the right partner is the most important decision a man makes? Schafer explains how leadership, respect, and healthy dynamics create attraction, loyalty, and lasting partnership. Topics Covered: 👉 Why choosing a wife is the most important decision in a man’s life 👉 The hidden damage caused by “mothering” and nagging dynamics 👉 How positive reinforcement builds loyalty and emotional safety 👉 The Executive Partner model and how to challenge without conflict 👉 Treating marriage like a team instead of a battleground 👉 Why becoming a high-value man matters more than “finding” the right woman 👉 How vision...

2025-12-291h 15

I Wish You Knew Why 50/50 Marriages Always FailWhy do so many marriages fail even when both partners try to keep things 50/50? This episode breaks down why that model creates tension and what actually makes a marriage strong. Topics Covered: 👉 Why 50/50 marriages create resentment for both men and women 👉 The difference between leading your wife vs. leading the marriage 👉 Why most men want to lead but were never taught how in marriage 👉 How responsibility—not feelings—is the foundation of masculine love 👉 The CEO model of marriage and why it outperforms equality-based roles 👉 How lack of leadership drains intimacy, connection, and desire...

2025-12-2045 min

I Wish You Knew How Stress from Relationships Destroys Your Body | Adam Lane SmithCan relationship stress literally make someone sick? From cortisol spikes to blood sugar dysregulation, this discussion reveals how emotional conflict is processed by the body as a survival threat. Topics Covered: 👉 How chronic relationship stress creates a cortisol association with a partner 👉 Why psychological stress alone can spike blood sugar 👉 Acute vs chronic stress and its impact on metabolism 👉 The long-term health risks linked to insecure attachment 👉 How oxytocin buffers anxiety and suppresses cortisol 👉 Why stress drives rigid habits and poor coping behaviors 👉 The communication gap between problem-solving and emotional regulation 👉 Why v...

2025-12-1359 min

I Wish You Knew What a 45-Year Marriage Taught Her About Masculine LeadershipWhat does a truly masculine role look like in a healthy marriage? Daniele explains how masculine presence, emotional safety, and respect create trust, connection, and long-term stability Topics Covered: 👉 emotional safety as a core masculine responsibility in marriage 👉 why women need security to bring their best selves 👉 masculine listening and how it strengthens connection 👉 why men retreat from emotion and how it harms the marriage 👉 commitments required from both partners 👉 what a man provides: safety, provision, character 👉 what a woman provides: respect, peace, support 👉 how to handle mistakes and vulnerability in a healt...

2025-12-0550 min

I Wish You Knew Why Anxious Guys Struggle in Love (And How to Fix It)Are anxious men unknowingly sabotaging their love life? This video breaks down how anxious attachment affects dating, relationships, and self-worth and how to shift toward secure, confident patterns. Topics Covered: 👉 Anxious Attachment & Perceived Lack of Leverage 👉 Using Humor in Attachment Work 👉 Dating Struggles: Lack of Safety Cues 👉 Anxious Dating Behaviors 👉 Biological Basis of Anxiety in Dating 👉 Importance of Value & Boundaries 👉 Shifting from Victim to Hero Mindset 👉 The Cycle of Seeking Oxytocin & Dopamine 👉 Why Therapy Often Fails 👉 Timeline & Definition of Secure Attachment Transform anxious patterns by building value, setting bounda...

2025-11-281h 13

I Wish You Knew The Real Reason Wives Stop Wanting Sex | Adam Lane SmithWondering why your wife stopped wanting sex? Discover the real reasons sexual desire fades in marriage and how emotional connection, hormones, and communication play a role. Topics Covered: 👉 How emotional connection impacts sexual desire 👉 The role of hormones in reigniting libido 👉 Oxytocin and the bonding process in marriage 👉 Repairing conflicts to restore intimacy 👉 Collaborative experiments to improve connection 👉 Daily practices to build emotional closeness 👉 Defining roles and shared vision for long-term intimacy Transform your relationship by understanding the key drivers of intimacy. Learn how communication, connection, and hormones can reignite desire...

2025-11-2143 min

I Wish You Knew What Porn Really Does to Your Brain (Neurologist Explains) | Adam Lane SmithEver wonder what Porn really does to your brain? Dr. Trish Leigh explains how it hijacks dopamine, damages intimacy, and undermines trust and emotional safety in relationships. Topics Covered: 👉 Porn as a dopamine-driven addiction 👉 How Porn disconnects men from real partners during intimacy 👉 Why betrayal trauma becomes a nervous system crisis 👉 Why healthy relationships require zero exposure to Porn or explicit digital content 👉 Escalation patterns and how the brain bonds to fantasy 👉 Objectification and “tool-use” brain activation after Porn exposure 👉 QEEG brain mapping and how it validates real addiction patterns 👉 Sexual Arousal Dysf...

2025-11-141h 07

I Wish You Knew High-Performing Moms and the Pain No One Sees | Adam Lane SmithWhat happens when high-performing moms carry hidden pain no one sees? This episode exposes the emotional cost of perfection, attachment wounds, and the struggle to feel safe in love and motherhood. Topics Covered 👉 The unseen emotional pain behind high-performing motherhood 👉 How childhood instability shapes attachment and coping 👉 The “quiet disorganized” attachment style explained 👉 Emotional detachment as a stress survival mechanism 👉 Healing and self-awareness after divorce 👉 Nervous-system regulation and the need for safety 👉 The guilt around self-care for high-achieving women 👉 Reconnecting with emotions and authentic love Behind every high-performing mom is often...

2025-11-071h 15

I Wish You Knew She Couldn’t Feel Love Unless She Was Performing | Adam Lane SmithWhat happens when attachment makes love something you have to earn? Adam and Annie uncover how childhood trauma and disorganized attachment make people perform for love instead of feeling safe being real. TOPICS COVERED: 👉 The hidden pain of growing up unseen and emotionally neglected 👉 How childhood trauma leads to disorganized attachment 👉 The difference between loud and quiet disorganized attachment 👉 Why many people equate love with performance and compliance 👉 The psychological cost of people-pleasing and self-abandonment 👉 Why traditional therapy sometimes misses attachment wounds 👉 How coaching and brain rewiring can help restore authentic lov...

2025-10-311h 22

I Wish You Knew She Spent 11 Years Rescuing an Addicted Man | Adam Lane SmithWhat happens when toxic attachment feels like love? Maggie opens up about an 11-year relationship marked by addiction and emotional chaos, uncovering how her father’s betrayal shaped her patterns and need to rescue others. ✨ Topics Covered ✨ 👉 The link between childhood trauma and adult relationship patterns 👉 The invisible caretaker role and how it develops 👉 Addiction’s hidden impact on intimacy and integrity 👉 Why women often ignore red flags or avoid hard questions 👉 Understanding “micro-cheating” and emotional leakage 👉 How disorganized attachment fuels people-pleasing 👉 The connection between parental infidelity and fear of abandonment 👉 Building awaren...

2025-10-251h 21

I Wish You Knew Why Quiet Disorganized Attachment Is So Devastating | Adam Lane SmithWhat happens when Quiet Disorganized Attachment makes love feel unsafe but loneliness unbearable? Adam reveals how this hidden attachment style forms, why it’s so misunderstood, and how healing begins. Topics Covered: 👉 What Quiet Disorganized Attachment looks like in relationships 👉 The childhood roots of this attachment style (unsafe and demanding parents) 👉 How trauma creates emotional shutdown and perfectionism 👉 Why psychology often overlooks or misdiagnoses this attachment pattern 👉 The key differences between “loud” and “quiet” disorganized attachment 👉 How fear, shame, and survival instincts shape adult behaviors 👉 Steps toward recognizing and healing Quiet Disorganized Attachment

2025-10-181h 04

I Wish You Knew 9 Brutal Truths From Her... Can This Avoidant Man Handle It?What happens when an avoidant man is confronted with the emotional truths his partner has been holding back? In this episode, Adam invites a couple to face nine brutally honest relationship challenges. The conversation dives into emotional shutdowns, loyalty issues, and the impact of childhood wounds — revealing what avoidance looks like when love and vulnerability collide. ✨Topics Covered: 👉 The avoidant partner’s emotional response to jealousy and control 👉 Why loyalty is the most important value for avoidant men 👉 How childhood trauma shapes attachment and defensiveness 👉 The fiancée’s honest feedback and hopes for their re...

2025-10-101h 32

I Wish You Knew Why Avoidant Men Struggle to Love (and How to Fix It)Why do avoidant men struggle so much with love, vulnerability, and connection? In this video, we break down how avoidant attachment forms, why it creates barriers in relationships, and what can actually be done to move forward. Topics Covered: 👉 What is attachment? 👉The difference between secure and insecure attachment 👉 How avoidant attachment shows up in men’s behavior and language 👉 The hidden stress avoidant men experience (despite appearing calm) 👉 Disorganized attachment and its two subtypes: loud vs quiet 👉 Variations within avoidant men: ethical vs manipulative avoidant 👉 Practical steps to shift avoidant pattern...

2025-10-0350 min

I Wish You Knew Why Avoidant Men Struggle to Love (and How to Fix It)Why does avoidant attachment make it so hard to feel close, even in loving relationships? For many men, emotional distance isn’t a lack of love—it’s a stress-driven response that blocks connection. This video unpacks the psychology and biology behind avoidant patterns and offers tools to create healthier intimacy. Topics Covered 👉 Emotional shutdown and chronic unavailability in avoidant men 👉 The “cone of death” metaphor for limited tolerance of closeness under stress 👉 How stress blocks oxytocin receptors and hinders bonding 👉 Practical tools like breathing and nervous system regulation 👉 The difficulty avoidant men have with receiving p...

2025-09-301h 13

I Wish You Knew Why Avoidant Men Struggle to Love (and How to Fix It)Why does avoidant attachment make it so hard to feel close, even in loving relationships? For many men, emotional distance isn’t a lack of love—it’s a stress-driven response that blocks connection. This video unpacks the psychology and biology behind avoidant patterns and offers tools to create healthier intimacy. Topics Covered 👉 Emotional shutdown and chronic unavailability in avoidant men 👉 The “cone of death” metaphor for limited tolerance of closeness under stress 👉 How stress blocks oxytocin receptors and hinders bonding 👉 Practical tools like breathing and nervous system regulation 👉 The difficulty avoidant men have with receiving p...

2025-09-271h 15

I Wish You Knew From Avoidant To Engaged — Her 8-Week Shift | Adam Lane SmithWhat does it take to shift from avoidant attachment to secure, engaged connection in just eight weeks? In this episode, Adam talks with a client who shares her powerful story of breaking free from lifelong avoidance and building safety in love. Topics Covered: 👉 How early childhood trauma and lack of safety shaped avoidant attachment 👉 The role of unhealthy relationships in reinforcing avoidance patterns 👉 The process of building safety through healthy masculine presence 👉 Practical tools for regulating the nervous system and creating trust 👉 Learning to co-regulate and receive love without fear 👉 Moving fr...

2025-09-191h 30

I Wish You Knew She Felt Invisible for 23 Years — This Is What He Didn’t SeeWhat happens when a wife feels invisible for 23 years? In this episode, Adam uncovers the truth behind their broken marriage. From gambling addiction and emotional neglect to the deep longing for intimacy and trust, this raw coaching session reveals what it really takes to heal wounds that have been buried for decades. Topics Covered: 👉 How gambling addiction led to separation and divorce 👉 Emotional neglect and the feeling of being “not enough” 👉 Why emotional intimacy is essential—especially for women 👉 The avoidant brain and fear of emotional sharing 👉 Modeling accountability and apologizing to childre...

2025-09-051h 38

I Wish You Knew 63 Days to Rewire Your Brain & Relationships (Dr. Caroline Leaf)In this episode, Dr. Caroline Leaf joins to discuss how the mind, not the brain, holds the power to reshape thoughts, relationships, and mental health. She shares groundbreaking insights on neuroplasticity, attachment styles, and her proven 63-day cycle for rewiring toxic patterns into healthier ones. ✨ Topics Covered ✨ 👉 Why the brain doesn’t think and how the mind drives change 👉 The truth about neuroplasticity and breaking free from outdated mental health myths 👉 How trauma and attachment wounds are first processed in the mind, then stored in the brain 👉 Understanding the nonscious, subconscious, and conscious mind 👉 The pro...

2025-08-2952 min

I Wish You Knew What Disorganized Attachment Really Feels LikeWhat does it really feel like to live with disorganized attachment? In this episode, Adam welcomes Amy Moore, who shares her story of navigating survival mode, struggling with both avoidance and anxiety, and learning how to begin her healing journey. Topics Covered: 👉 Amy’s experience with disorganized attachment and “survival mode” 👉 How attachment styles shift between avoidance (single) and anxiety (in relationships) 👉 The role of parenting and how her daughter perceives her healing journey 👉 Why emotional safety and oxytocin bonding are critical in relationships 👉 How trauma from infancy and childhood affects adult attachment patterns

2025-08-211h 05

I Wish You Knew Can MEN Really Find FREEDOM from Emotional Numbness and DisconnectionCan men really find freedom from emotional numbness and disconnection? This episode takes a deep look at the roots of emotional intimacy struggles and the path toward genuine healing and connection. Topics Covered: 👉 The hidden pain men carry across generations 👉 Why men need purpose to step up and grow 👉 Emotional intimacy gaps in relationships 👉 Emotions as a language: mirroring, validation, empathy 👉 The CEO & COO model for leading family life 👉 How resentment and contempt destroy connection 👉 The role of women in sparking masculine growth 👉 Feminine energy as healing and grounding 👉 The hero’s journey...

2025-08-151h 13

I Wish You Knew Dr. Orion Taraban: Why Modern Men Are Failing at IntimacyNot everyone, especially modern men, should be in a relationship and Dr. Orion Taraban returns to explore exactly why. In this video, Dr. Orion Taraban and Adam dive deep into the emotional wounds, subconscious needs, and hidden motivations that shape modern relationships. Topics Covered 👉 Why healing must come before entering a relationship 👉 The evolving nature of needs and desires in long-term relationships 👉 How relationships mirror addiction and recovery cycles 👉 The psychology behind trauma bonding and emotional dependency 👉 Why many people stay in bad relationships out of fear or familiarity 👉 Transactional intima...

2025-08-081h 24

I Wish You Knew Why He Can’t Say “I Love You” (Even If He Feels It)This episode explores why some men struggle to say “I love you” even when they truly feel it. It is not always about a lack of love. It is often about emotional wiring, past experiences, and how they process vulnerability. By understanding these deeper reasons, you can navigate the silence with more clarity and compassion. Topics Covered: 👉 Emotional barriers that block verbal expressions of love 👉 How upbringing and past relationships shape communication patterns 👉 The role of attachment styles in expressing affection 👉 Why actions sometimes speak louder than words for certain men 👉 Healthy ways...

2025-08-011h 11

I Wish You Knew Modern Dating Is Exhausting For Women - Learn How To Finally Feel LovedQuiet disorganized attachment can make modern women feel invisible—shutting down out of fear of being “too much,” even when all they want is to be seen and loved. In this episode, Dawn Dubelbeis opens up about the impact of childhood trauma and how her attachment style shaped her adult relationships. Alongside Adam, they unpack the path of how to build connection from a place of safety, not survival. Topics Covered 👉 How quiet disorganized attachment shows up in adult relationships 👉 Why women with this attachment style often feel invisible or “too much” 👉 The biological role...

2025-07-291h 30

I Wish You Knew The Attachment Style That’s Been Ignored for 80 YearsAttachment style plays a bigger role in your relationships than you think, especially when it’s the one no one talks about. In this episode, Adam explore the long-ignored freeze attachment style, rooted in fearful-avoidant patterns. After surviving childhood trauma, narcissistic abuse, and three failed marriages, Corina shares how this attachment style shaped her life and how she’s learning to heal. Topics Covered: 👉 What the freeze attachment style looks like in real life 👉 How fearful-avoidant attachment develops through trauma 👉 Why some attachment styles cause emotional shutdown or mutism 👉 How attachment style impacts co...

2025-07-181h 15

I Wish You Knew What Makes an Avoidant Man Feel Safe Enough to StayWhat does it take for an Avoidant Man to finally feel safe enough to stay in love? In this episode, Kimmi returns to share his journey from emotional shutdown to engagement. Once known as “Kimmi the Avoidant,” he opens up about what helped him finally connect, feel secure, and build lasting love. Topics Covered: 👉 How avoidant attachment distorts emotional connection 👉 Why emotional safety—not pressure—creates commitment 👉 The surprising impact of oxytocin, magnesium, and sleep 👉 How routines and rituals help avoidant men feel secure 👉 The “emotional baby” stage and how to move through it 👉 Avoid...

2025-07-111h 06

I Wish You Knew Why Avoidant Men Can’t Love You (Until This Happens)Avoidant men aren’t emotionally distant by choice. Their detachment is often a survival response wired deep into the brain. In this episode, Adam breaks down how avoidant men develop this style of relating, why avoidant men often carry it into adulthood, and most importantly how to help avoidant men heal for good. Topics covered: 👉 The brain science behind avoidant men and emotional shutdown 👉 Why avoidant men experience burnout, disconnection, and chronic stress 👉 The role of vasopressin bonding in helping avoidant men build trust 👉 Why securely attached partners often trigger avoidant men 👉 How...

2025-07-041h 15

I Wish You Knew Her Unbelievable Plan to Make an Avoidant Man Say ‘I Do’!In this episode, Andrey shares how he went from emotionally avoidant to fully committed in marriage. He breaks down the exact values, mindset shifts, and moments that made him stay. Adam and Andrey explore how real love forms not through perfection, but through shared vision and integrity. This is a blueprint for building lasting connection with an avoidant man. Topics Covered: 👉 What makes an avoidant man choose commitment 👉 How to build lasting love with an avoidant man 👉 The values that made her “the one” 👉 Why a woman’s boundaries increase attraction 👉 How she helpe...

2025-06-2748 min

I Wish You Knew Why Do I Feel Unlovable No Matter How Hard I Try?In this episode, guest Emily Humpert returns to explore what it means to build emotional intimacy while carrying avoidant or disorganized attachment wounds. Alongside host Adam Lane Smith, they unpack how emotional intimacy, vulnerability, and acceptance are the keys to real connection. If you've ever struggled to believe in love or feared that being truly seen would lead to rejection, this conversation offers insight, hope, and a practical path toward healing. Topics Covered: 👉 The emotional cost of perfectionism and fear of not being enough 👉 How avoidant and quiet disorganized attachment styles affect relationships 👉 W...

2025-06-201h 11

I Wish You Knew Why She Doesn’t Want You (Even If She Loves You) | Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment SpecialistIn this episode of I Wish You Knew, Adam Lane Smith sits down with Chad and Brittany to explore why love alone isn’t enough to sustain a relationship. Whether you’re in a struggling relationship or trying to understand your partner better, this conversation will challenge the way you see emotional safety, communication, and connection. Topics Covered: 👉 What led to the breakup: stress, avoidance, and nervous system overload 👉 How attachment theory began to shift their mindset 👉 Adam’s weekly check-in method for emotionally healthy relationships 👉 The rule of not withholding known feelings or...

2025-06-141h 00

I Wish You Knew STOP Doing These 3 Things If You Want Him to Commit | Margarita Nazarenko & Adam Lane SmithIn this conversation, Adam welcomes Margarita Nazarenko, a viral voice of tough love on relationships, for a deep, honest dialogue about anxious attachment, emotional patterns, and why so many women end up chasing emotionally unavailable men. Margarita offers clarity, accountability, and practical wisdom to break the cycle of toxic relationships and build something truly healthy. Topics Covered: 👉 Why women with anxious attachment chase emotionally unavailable men 👉 The damage of mothering men and the false thrill of romantic pursuit 👉 How childhood wounds and abandonment issues shape relationship patterns 👉 The long term impact of emotionally absent fathe...

2025-06-0655 min

I Wish You Knew Jessica Baum & Adam Lane Smith: Why Emotional Safety Is the Key to Real LoveIn this powerful episode, attachment expert Jessica Baum joins Adam Lane Smith to unpack one of the most essential yet misunderstood pillars of a healthy relationship: emotional safety. Together, they explore why safety isn’t just a “nice to have” in love, but a biological and psychological necessity that shapes the way we connect, heal, and grow. Whether you’ve struggled with abandonment wounds, anxious or avoidant patterns, or felt unseen in your relationships, this conversation offers deep clarity and actionable insights. Topics Covered: 👉 Why many women unconsciously expect men to be a source of total safety and...

2025-05-291h 19

I Wish You Knew Negotiation is The Secret To Healthy Relationships | Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment SpecialistIn this episode, Andrey and Adam dive deep into the foundations of trust-based communication in both professional and personal relationships. They unpack the dangers of transactional thinking, explore how poor communication sabotages connection, and offer practical insight into building relationships rooted in mutual respect rather than leverage. Topics Covered: 👉 The danger of giving power based solely on talent 👉 Why standardization and Six Sigma don't inspire Gen Z workers 👉 The shift from performance-based to trust-based leadership 👉 How fear and unmet expectations destroy relationships 👉 The role of masculine relationships and loyalty in high-performing teams 👉 Lov...

2025-05-231h 27

I Wish You Knew Kelly Chase & Adam Lane Smith: Why I Said No at the AltarIn this episode, Kelly Chase from Love Is Blind (Season 1) opens up about her journey from heartbreak and self-abandonment to healing, boundaries, and self-love. She shares what led her to go on the show, what she learned from the experience, and what she's looking for now in love, life, and relationships. ✨ Topics Covered: 👉 Why Kelly went on Love Is Blind and what she hoped to find 👉 The hidden reasons people stay in unhealthy relationships 👉 Her “aha” moment after the show ended 👉 What healthy ambition and partnership mean to her 👉 Dating challenges in today’s world—ghostin...

2025-05-161h 23

I Wish You Knew Aurora Culpo & Adam Lane Smith: Breaking the Cycle of Toxic LoveIn this episode, Aurora Culpo returns with a candid and emotionally honest update about her personal life. She opens up about the complexity of dating after heartbreak, the internal battles of self-worth, and how she’s navigating a new relationship under the scrutiny of public attention. From emotional triggers and attachment patterns to navigating jealousy and miscommunication, Aurora invites listeners into the real, often messy, human experience of love and healing. Whether you're single, dating, or rebuilding after pain, her vulnerability offers comfort, wisdom, and perspective. ✨ Key Topics Covered: 👉 Dealing with recurring disappointment in dating 👉 The power...

2025-05-091h 33

I Wish You Knew Childhood Trauma: How Abandonment Shaped Me | Adam Lane Smith| Anxious Attachment StyleIn this deep and vulnerable conversation, Kyle Cease opens up about his personal journey—from using comedy as a defense mechanism to confronting childhood trauma and stepping into authentic healing. He explores how false identities are formed through pain and how real transformation happens when we face the hidden parts of ourselves. With insights on attachment, inner work, spirituality, and the power of humor, this episode is both heart-opening and thought-provoking. Topics Covered: 👉 Using comedy as a survival tool in childhood 👉 How childhood trauma shapes false identities 👉 Secure vs. anxious attachment styles 👉 The role of inner w...

2025-05-021h 46

I Wish You Knew Is It Ever the Same After an Affair? Dr. Alexandra Solomon & Adam Lane SmithIn this insightful episode, Dr. Alexandra Solomon, a renowned psychologist and expert on relationships and intimacy, joins attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith to answer one of the hardest questions couples face: Can a relationship ever truly recover after an affair? Whether you’ve experienced betrayal or fear it might happen, this episode offers honest answers and real hope. Topics Covered 👉 The psychological impact of infidelity, including PTSD symptoms in betrayed partners 👉 Whether love and trust can truly be rebuilt after someone cheats 👉 Who cheats more—men or women? Exploring modern trends and cultural shifts 👉 What mo...

2025-04-2552 min

I Wish You Knew When Attachment Becomes a Disorder: Can Personality Disorders Be Fixed? | Adam Lane SmithIn this episode, Andrey and Adam unpack the deep connection between attachment styles and personality disorders. Together, they explore how childhood trauma, neurological stress, and emotional dysregulation contribute to avoidant, anxious, and disorganized attachment—and how these patterns can evolve into more severe conditions like borderline personality disorder, bipolar disorder, and even schizophrenia. Adam challenges the medical model, offering hopeful insights on healing, brain health, and the possibility of recovery without relying solely on medication. ✨ Topics Covered ✨ 👉 The difference between attachment styles and personality disorders 👉 How avoidant behaviors can be self-protective—or damaging 👉 The impact of early c...

2025-04-181h 41

I Wish You Knew Evan Marc Katz & Adam Lane Smith Heated Debate | Can We Truly Change Our Partner?In this episode, Evan Marc Katz joins Adam Lane Smith for a fiery and thought-provoking debate on one of the most challenging questions in relationships: Can we truly change our partner—or is it all about accepting them as they are? From practical dating strategies to deeper emotional dynamics, this conversation dives into the complexities of modern love and long-term compatibility. ✨ Key Topics Covered: 👉 Can good relationships be effortless—or do they always require "hard work"? 👉 Why trying to filter a future husband through dating profiles might be sabotaging your chances 👉 The hidden danger of rushing rela...

2025-04-111h 21

I Wish You Knew He Broke Her Heart But Won Her Back | Brandon DoerkseBrandon Doerkse opens up about how he nearly lost his marriage due to emotional numbness, distraction, and addiction. For years, he struggled with avoidance, failing to recognize how his actions were eroding the trust and intimacy in his relationship. It wasn’t until he hit rock bottom that he realized the painful truth—his marriage was falling apart, and he was the one responsible. Topics Covered: 👉 The impact of emotional disconnection in marriage 👉 How avoidance and addiction sabotage relationships 👉 Why men must take the first step in healing a broken relationship 👉 Understanding attachment styles and their...

2025-04-041h 21

I Wish You Knew Attachment Specialist Fixes Toxic Marriage | Adam Lane Smith The Attachment SpecialistIn this episode, Adam Lane Smith, the Attachment Specialist, navigates the challenges of a toxic marriage. Through raw and honest conversations, Adam uncovers the root causes of their struggles and offers practical guidance to rebuild trust, communication, and emotional connection. Whether you’re facing similar issues or just want to strengthen your relationship, this episode is packed with insights and advice that can make a real difference. Topics Covered: 👉 The impact of unresolved trauma on marriage and relationships 👉 How pressure and past experiences shape relationship dynamics 👉 Addressing touch aversion and intimacy issues 👉 The importance of...

2025-03-281h 40

I Wish You Knew Adam Lane Smith & Shallon Lester: Avoidant Attachment Red Flags – “Never Trust Words Alone”In this episode, Adam Lane Smith and Shallon Lester expose the hidden red flags of avoidant attachment and why trusting words alone can lead to heartbreak. They break down the toxic dating patterns that leave women feeling unworthy, discuss why men rarely change without consequences, and share practical strategies to build secure, lasting relationships. Topics Covered: 👉 Why many women settle in relationships out of fear of abandonment 👉 The rise of emotionally unavailable men and the impact on dating 👉 Shallon’s no-nonsense approach to breakups and setting boundaries 👉 Why men rarely change without external consequences

2025-03-211h 16

I Wish You Knew Female Entitlement or Male Weakness? @HoemathIn this episode, we dive into the growing divide between men and women in modern society. Our guest, HTH, joins the conversation to explore the cultural and psychological shifts affecting relationships, attachment dynamics, and societal structures. Topics Covered: 👉 The messaging that paints men as villains and its long-term impact 👉 Why men are walking away from relationships and societal expectations 👉 The rise of cultural and gender conflicts across the world 👉 How attachment styles influence modern relationships 👉 The effects of societal collapse on human behavior and survival instincts 👉 The growing divide between entitlement and re...

2025-03-141h 44

I Wish You Knew The Dark Truth Behind My Secure Attachment: Attachment Specialist Adam Lane Smith Tells AllAlyssa shares how growing up in an environment that discouraged emotional expression led to survival-mode thinking. She describes the intense stress it placed on her nervous system and the difficulty of accessing emotional regulation. ✨ Main Topics Covered ✨ 👉 The long-term effects of survivalist attachment and avoidant behaviors 👉 The struggle of balancing masculine and feminine energy in childhood and adulthood 👉 The role of meditation as both a coping mechanism and a trap for avoidant individuals 👉 The journey of healing from disorganized attachment through therapy, mentorship, and faith 👉 The importance of self-reflection and ongoing personal development in...

2025-03-0754 min

I Wish You Knew Why Women Settle (and How to Finally Put Yourself First)Many women find themselves in relationships that look perfect on paper but leave them feeling unfulfilled. In this episode, dating expert Julia Mazur shares her personal journey of settling in relationships and how she finally broke free. She discusses societal expectations, personal struggles, and the key mindset shifts needed to prioritize yourself in love and life. ✨ Main Topics Covered ✨ 👉 The dating challenges many women face and why they often settle. 👉 The influence of cultural and family expectations on relationships. 👉 The emotional toll of being in a relationship with the “ideal” partner. 👉 How loneliness and lack...

2025-03-0150 min

I Wish You Knew Avoidant Woman Trapped in Survival Mode | Adam Lane Smith | Avoidant AttachmentAlyssa shares how growing up in an environment that discouraged emotional expression led to survival-mode thinking. She describes the intense stress it placed on her nervous system and the difficulty of accessing emotional regulation. ✨ Main Topics Covered ✨ 👉 The long-term effects of survivalist attachment and avoidant behaviors 👉 The struggle of balancing masculine and feminine energy in childhood and adulthood 👉 The role of meditation as both a coping mechanism and a trap for avoidant individuals 👉 The journey of healing from disorganized attachment through therapy, mentorship, and faith 👉 The importance of self-reflection and ongoing personal development in...

2025-02-2856 min

I Wish You Knew Adam Lane Smith Coaches an Avoidant Woman LIVE🎙️ Welcome to this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew" with hosts Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. Emily Humpert opens up about her struggles with relationships, attachment challenges, and emotional intimacy. Adam Lane Smith helps her uncover the roots of her avoidance and how it impacts her connections with others. Topics Covered: 👉 Struggles with relationships and repeated failures 👉 Avoidant attachment and emotional barriers 👉 Fear of sacrifice in relationships 👉 The myth of a ‘perfect match’ ...

2025-02-211h 31

I Wish You Knew Aurora Culpo: ‘I Only Date Avoidant Men…’ Here’s Why🎙️ Welcome to this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew" with hosts Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. In this episode, Aurora Culp opens up about her experiences with relationships, attachment styles, and why she tends to be drawn to avoidant men. Through personal stories and deep reflections, she explores the patterns that have shaped her love life and what she’s doing to break free from unhealthy cycles. ✨ Main Topics Covered: 👉 Aurora’s struggles with dating and attraction to avoidant men 👉 The role of attach...

2025-02-141h 29

I Wish You Knew "I Lost My Fiance in a Plane Crash… Then I Learned the Truth" Stephanie Quayle's Heartbreaking Story🎙️ This week’s episode features Stephanie Quayle who lost her fiancé in a tragic plane crash. She was consumed by grief—until she uncovered a shocking truth that turned her world upside down. What followed was a painful battle with betrayal, self-destruction, and the struggle to rebuild her sense of self. ✨ In this episode: 👉 The devastating loss that changed everything 👉 Discovering painful truths after her fiancé’s death 👉 How grief led to self-destruction and emotional rehab 👉 Overcoming attachment wounds and learning to trust again 👉 Finding love and building a healthy relationship after betrayal This is not yo...

2025-02-071h 23

I Wish You Knew Inside the Mind of Avoidant Women | Avoidant AttachmentThis week’s episode features Jessica Preston who dives into the complexities of avoidant attachment in women, exploring personal experiences, emotional patterns, and the impact of past relationships. 🎙️ Welcome to this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew" with hosts Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. The discussion highlights the struggles of avoidant individuals in forming deep connections, the role of masculine and feminine dynamics, and the journey toward self-awareness and healing. ✨ Key Moments ✨ 👉 Personal realization of avoidant attachment after multiple di...

2025-01-311h 34

I Wish You Knew The #1 Reason Most Relationships Fail (And How to Avoid It)🎙️In this powerful episode of I Wish You Knew Podcast, Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, sits down with Axel and Chelby, a couple who faced the emotional turmoil of a breakup, only to come back together stronger than ever. With the help of the attachment specialist they explore the hidden dynamics of breakups, how attachment issues played a role in their separation, and how they navigated living together after calling it quits. This episode uncovers the importance of space, communication, and understanding attachment patterns in relationships—especially after a breakup. We dive deep into the psychological impact...

2025-01-241h 15

I Wish You Knew Danielle Silverstein on Why Women Initiate 70% of Divorces🎙️ Welcome to this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew" with hosts Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week’s eye-opening episode features Danielle Silverstein who dives deep with the hosts into the real challenges of marriage—beyond the perfect Instagram photos and couple goals. From hidden struggles to painful secrets, we’re revealing what actually happens behind closed doors in relationships. Danielle, Adam, and Andrey share their personal journey through hardship, loss, and the strain of balancing kids, careers, and a relationship. It’s raw, real, a...

2025-01-171h 17

I Wish You Knew Avoidant Husband & Anxious Wife Coached by Attachment Specialist🎙️ Welcome to this transformative episode of "I Wish You Knew" featuring Adam Lane Smith, attachment specialist, as he LIVE coaches a married couple on the path to a blissful marriage. Join us as we watch a married couple navigate their relationship struggles with Adam's coaching—an intimate, raw look at attachment styles, communication breakdowns, and how to heal emotional wounds that have festered for years. In this episode, Adam helps a couple tackle their core issues—his avoidant behavior and her anxious attachment. Through real, on-the-spot coaching, they uncover powerful strategies to break the cycle of emotional disconnec...

2025-01-101h 16

I Wish You Knew #1 Advice From Men’s Dating Coach: Modern Women Want THIS🎙️ In this insightful episode, Jamie, a men’s dating coach who specializes in helping men build authentic connections and attract emotionally secure women, joins Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and cofounder of Veritas Creative Media, to break down the hidden dynamics of modern dating and why so many men are struggling to find lasting relationships. Jamie shares her expertise on what healthy women truly want, why most men fail in dating, and actionable strategies to stand out in a crowded, confusing dating world. This episode is perfect for men who want to...

2025-01-031h 12

I Wish You Knew Sathiya Sam UNVEILS The ONLY Way To End An Addiction🎙️ In this powerful episode, addiction recovery coach Sathiya Sam, an addiction recovery coach who guides men to overcome addictive behaviors by connecting with their faith, healing childhood trauma, building authentic identity, and mastering emotional regulation, joins Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and cofounder of Veritas Creative Media, to uncover the hidden emotional roots of addiction and its profound impact on our lives. Addiction isn't just about substances—it’s a reflection of deeper emotional wounds, trauma, and unmet needs. Sathiya shares his expertise on how addiction manifests in different ways and why emo...

2024-12-271h 26

I Wish You Knew Larry Hagner Reveals The Digital Dangers Your Kids Face DAILY🎙️ Welcome to this eye-opening episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we’re joined by Larry Hagner, founder of "The Dad Edge," for a powerful conversation about the realities of fatherhood in the digital age, the dangers your children face online, and the truth about modern fatherhood that most men are missing. Larry, Adam, and Andrey discuss why being a dad is more than just providing financially, how real connection matters more than ever, and why your presence is your...

2024-12-201h 16

I Wish You Knew Homeschool Mom WARNS About Public Schools’ Dark Secrets🎙️ In this eye-opening episode of I Wish You Knew, Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Claire Denault, a 2nd-generation homeschool mom, dive into the controversial topic of public schooling vs. homeschooling. From the emotional toll of standardized education to the psychological impact of traditional schooling, Claire and Adam reveal why homeschooling might just be the solution to a broken system. They discuss the trauma children face from being forced into one-size-fits-all education models, and why many kids are leaving school with damaged self-esteem, unmet needs, and a lack of emotional security. Wheth...

2024-12-131h 12

I Wish You Knew LMFT Exposes Dysfunctional Families & Toxic Positivity🎙️ In this raw and honest episode, Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, team up with renowned radically honest psychotherapist Whitney Goodman to explore the complex world of dysfunctional families. They delve deep into the heart of toxic positivity, generational trauma, and the impact of permissive and authoritarian parenting styles. Whitney shares her unique perspective on how these dynamics can shape our relationships, careers, and overall well-being. ✨ Key Highlights You Can’t Miss ✨: 👉 How toxic positivity can mask deeper issues and hinder emotional growth...

2024-12-0659 min

I Wish You Knew Fixing The Avoidant Man Part 2🎙️ In this emotionally charged episode of "I Wish You Knew," Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, a high-achieving CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, dive deeper into the journey of overcoming avoidant attachment and breaking free from past traumas. Andrey opens up like never before, reflecting on the ghosts of his past, the challenges of building trust, and the small but significant steps he's taking to reclaim connection and intimacy in his relationships. From confronting the pain of childhood in post-Soviet Russia to navigating the complexities of trust with loved ones, this r...

2024-11-291h 42

I Wish You Knew Fixing The Avoidant Man Part 1🎙️ In this revealing episode of "I Wish You Knew," Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, a high-achieving CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, dive deep into the hidden struggles of avoidant attachment, guilt, and self-worth among high performers. Adam guides Andrey through the deep, uncomfortable realities of living with avoidant attachment as a leader and the hidden emotional costs that come with high achievement. Andrey bravely opens up about the relentless guilt and inability to feel proud of his accomplishments, a common struggle among avoidant high-achievers. This episode...

2024-11-221h 38

I Wish You Knew Inside the Minds of CEOs Who See Emotions as Threats🎙️ Are emotions a liability for leaders? In this eye-opening episode, Brian Goldstein, Andrey Korikov, and Adam Lane Smith unpack the surprising truth about why avoidant attachment styles just might be a leader’s secret weapon. If you've ever wondered how top CEOs manage to stay cool under pressure, build high-performing teams, and still get results, this conversation is for you. Brian, Adam, and Andrey keep it real with stories from the field, so you’ll walk away with fresh insights on managing people, tackling burnout, and making the tough calls that drive results. Whether you're an executi...

2024-11-151h 46

I Wish You Knew What Happens When an Avoidant Man Falls in Love🎙️ In this revealing episode of "I Wish You Knew," Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, reconnects with a returning guest with an avoidant attachment style. This time, he opens up about his relationship. Adam and his client dive deep into the intense struggles avoidant men face when it comes to trust, vulnerability, and building genuine connections. Kimmi shares the breakthrough moments that led him to realize he isn’t a “bad person” for being guarded, and how opening up has become both a terrifying and rewarding journey. This isn’t just another talk ab...

2024-11-081h 19

I Wish You Knew Gen Z’s Outlook on Gender Roles, Dating, and Marriage With Kenzie CarterIn this heartfelt and insightful interview, Kenzie Carter shares her journey from dating to engagement, revealing the secrets to building a deep, fulfilling relationship that stands the test of time. From early conversations about values to navigating conflicts with love and respect, Kenzie discusses what truly matters in a partnership. She offers her perspective on why so many relationships struggle, the importance of open communication, and how she and her fiancé foster mutual trust, respect, and affection. Throughout, Kenzie opens up about how she knew her fiancé was "the one," the crucial role of a sha...

2024-11-011h 08

I Wish You Knew Why Quitting Therapy Was Necessary for The Attachment Specialist 🎙️ In this bold episode of "I Wish You Knew," Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, tackle the broken therapy system and why Adam walked away from it. Adam and Andrey explore the uncomfortable truths about traditional therapy practices, how they often leave people stuck without real solutions, and the importance of having a purpose in relationships and life. They discuss why Adam felt compelled to shift away from a system that prolongs suffering and how he's now on a mission to help people build s...

2024-10-251h 40

I Wish You Knew Avoidant Man EXPOSES What Avoidant Men Really Think Of You🚨 FLASH SALE! 🚨 ➡️ Head to https://adamlanesmith.com/october-flash-sale to grab these deals before they’re gone! First, a HUGE thank you for your support. To give back, Adam is running a FLASH SALE for THIS WEEK ONLY on everything you need to fix those frustrating relationship patterns. 🔥 35% OFF How to Love an Avoidant Man or The Attachment Bootcamp 💥 50% OFF both courses—buy one, get one FREE! 👥 15% OFF private coaching with Adam's coaches and 10% OFF Adam's private coaching services. ----------------------------------------- 🎙️ In this eye-opening episode of...

2024-10-181h 30

I Wish You Knew Teal Swan Brutally Dissects Modern Therapy & Toxic Relationships🎙️ In this episode of "I Wish You Knew," Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, sits down with Teal Swan, a renowned spiritual teacher and trauma expert, to brutally dissect the flaws of modern therapy and its impact on relationships. The conversation dives deep into why the current therapy system keeps people stuck in emotional cycles, how unresolved trauma is sabotaging your relationships, and the hidden reasons therapy often fails to bring true healing. Together, they explore the harsh realities of navigating relationships while dealing with trauma and offer powerful insights on how to break free from t...

2024-10-111h 03

I Wish You Knew Attachment Specialist Helps Avoidant Man Face Trust Issues LIVE🎙️ Welcome to this episode of "I Wish You Knew" where Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist works with an avoidant man in a powerful LIVE coaching session. Adam coaches him through his struggles with trust issues, emotional openness, and relationship patterns that sabotage love. This week, Adam helps his client unpack deep-rooted fears, guiding him to understand how avoidant attachment impacts his ability to build lasting relationships. It’s a raw and transformative conversation you won’t want to miss. If you’ve ever struggled with avoidant attachment in your own relationships...

2024-10-041h 12

I Wish You Knew Dr. Amanda Hanson Exposes Toxic Femininity, Self-Sacrifice, & The Patriarchy 🎙️ In this episode of "I Wish You Knew," Dr. Amanda Hanson, a leading clinical psychologist, joins Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, to confront the hidden dangers shaping modern relationships. Dr. Amanda Hanson exposes the toxic influences of femininity, self-sacrifice, and the patriarchy, unmasking how these forces impact every woman’s life and relationships. Together, they dive deep into the roots of these issues, exploring how societal expectations and outdated gender roles can create destructive dynamics in love and life. Tune in t...

2024-09-271h 11

I Wish You Knew Naftali Moses Reveals Why Modern Marriages Struggle Without Traditional Values 🎙️ Welcome to this powerful and thought-provoking episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we're diving deep into the complexities of modern masculinity, the importance of authenticity, and the consequences of rejecting our roots. Joined by special guest Naftali Moses, this conversation explores why some men struggle to connect with the women they love, the dangers of straying from traditional values, and the impact of societal norms on our ability to form real, meaningful relationships. ...

2024-09-201h 27

I Wish You Knew Havva Ramadan on Grief, Loss, Love and Creativity🎙️ Welcome to this deeply emotional episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we’re joined by the incredibly talented artist and poet, Havva Ramadan, for a raw and heartfelt conversation about the profound grief that comes from unspoken words, the pain of losing a loved one, and the regret of not saying "I love you" when it mattered most. In this episode, we confront the pain of unspoken love, the weight of regret, and the silent burden of grief...

2024-09-131h 30

I Wish You Knew Spiritual Coach Explains Psychedelics and Male Spirituality🎙️ Welcome to this powerful episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we’re joined by Adeyemi Adeyosoye, a renowned spiritual leader and coach, for an eye-opening conversation about the deep emotional challenges that high-performing men face and how psychedelics can be a transformative tool in breaking free from the chains of hypermasculinity. In this episode, we dive into the heart of what it means to be a man trapped by societal expectations—exploring the disconnect that many high-drive...

2024-09-061h 01

I Wish You Knew Why Are Modern Men So Miserable? Andrew Shaw Reveals the Shocking Truth🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we’re thrilled to feature Andrew Shaw, a psychologist and mental resilience coach. Get ready for an engaging deep dive into the modern challenges of masculinity and the limiting beliefs holding men back. In this episode, Andrew Shaw unpacks the profound impact of social media on men's mental health and navigates the confusion surrounding masculinity in today's world. Tune in for a thought-pro...

2024-08-3035 min

I Wish You Knew Sabastian Enges Explains Why 40% of Americans Fear Civil War🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith and Sebastian Angus, a motivational coach and consultant with extensive experience in building successful sales teams and analyzing market dynamics. This week, we’re diving into a compelling discussion on the current societal shifts and the crucial role of conflict in personal and professional growth. In this episode, we explore the ongoing societal changes and how conflict, whether internal or external, plays a vital role in shaping our lives. Sebastian Angus shares his insights on why understanding and navigating conflict is essentia...

2024-08-231h 09

I Wish You Knew Dr. Orion Taban Unveils the Future of Marriage🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we're excited to welcome Dr. Orion Taraban, an expert on transactional relationships and high-value dynamics, for a provocative discussion on the hidden aspects of relationships and marriage. In this episode, we dive deep into the nature of transactional relationships and the impact of perceived value in romantic connections. Dr. Taraban, who specializes in analyzing the economic models of relationships, offers eye-opening insights into why relationships can feel t...

2024-08-161h 25

I Wish You Knew Men, Listen Up! Dr. Alyssa Marie on Female Brain & Emotional Struggles🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we’re thrilled to have Alyssa Marie from Alyssa Marie Wellness, a dedicated advocate for mental health and wellness, to discuss the unseen stress women face, the real meaning behind "I'm fine," and the crucial role of therapy in relationships. In this episode, Alyssa Marie sheds light on the dynamics of anxious and avoidant attachment styles, offering strategies for navigating these challenges. We also discuss how therapy...

2024-08-091h 23

I Wish You Knew Attachment Experts Expose The MIND GAMES of Anxious-Avoidant Couples🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we're thrilled to have Rikki Cloos, a guide to anxious hearts, join us for an enlightening discussion on attachment styles, relationships, and gender roles. In this episode, we delve into the intricacies of attachment styles and the keys to forming more connected and satisfying relationships through the lens of attachment theory. Rikki Cloos, who helps anxiously attached people through her extensive research in attachment theor...

2024-08-021h 04

I Wish You Knew Greg Witz on the Real Reason Leaders Struggle with Team Dynamics🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we're excited to have Greg Witz, emotional intelligence expert and president and CEO of Witz Education, join us to explore the world of emotional intelligence in leadership. In this episode, we dive into the importance of emotional intelligence for effective leadership. Learn how self-awareness and emotional regulation can transform team dynamics and enhance business relationships. Greg Witz shares insights on how understanding and managing emotions are key to...

2024-07-261h 05

I Wish You Knew Mark Groves on Why We Stay in Toxic Relationships and How to Break Free🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we're joined by special guest Mark Groves to delve into the complexities of relationships, trust, and authenticity. In this episode, we explore why trust is essential in relationships, how empathy can transform even the most hardened individuals, and what really goes on in the mind of a criminal. We discuss the profound impact of understanding and caring about others' pain, and why these elements are crucial for per...

2024-07-191h 10

I Wish You Knew Dr. John Delony “ The secret to Happy Marriages is Arguments “🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, and special guest John Delony, featuring insightful discussions on marriage, manhood, relationship dynamics, and personal growth. This week, we dive deep into the transformative journey of reviving marital passion, understanding the importance of regular physical presence, and addressing modern emotional challenges. Join us as we explore the critical role of non-verbal communication in relationships, the importance of consistent family time, and the impact of unresolved childho...

2024-07-121h 19

I Wish You Knew How Men and Women Deal with Breakups (And Maybe Forgive) |E36 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, and special guest Cole Zesiger, relationship advisor and coach. Join us as we discuss the evolutionary reasons behind breakup pain, the necessity of behavioral changes for reconciliation, and the importance of accountability. We also delve into the differences in how men and women process breakups, the impact of infidelity, and the steps to rebuild trust and move on. Don't miss this insightful episode filled with expert a...

2024-07-051h 33

I Wish You Knew Will We Even Recognize Society & Relationships in 20 Years? |E35 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, and special guest Markku Wilenius, renowned futurist, award-winning author, professor, and speaker with more than 25 years of experience in future studies. This episode features insightful discussions on the future of relationships, marriage, and society. This week, we explore the concept of marriage as a commitment in a world that values pure freedom and self-pleasure, and how to balance these ideals to avoid chaos. ✨ Key Highlights ✨: 👉 The re...

2024-06-281h 19

I Wish You Knew Who Are You Afraid To Be? (& Why You Will Become Him) |E33 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, and special guest Connor Beaton, featuring insightful discussions on men's psychological development and self-improvement. This week, we dive deep into the transformative journey of integrating the shadow, building emotional connections, and understanding the deeper concepts of masculinity and self-awareness. Join us as we explore the critical role of addressing and integrating one's psychological shadow, the importance of vulnerability, and the impact of unmet needs and traumas...

2024-06-211h 07

I Wish You Knew This is What Kids REALLY Need From Their Dads |E32 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with the attachment specialist, Adam Lane Smith and Andrey Korov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we dive deep into the transformative journey of mastering fatherhood, building emotional connections, and understanding the deeper concepts of courage and responsibility. Adam and Andrey explore the critical role of present fathers in child development, the importance of teaching courage, and the impact of a father's absence on mental health. They discuss how to navigate the challenges of modern fatherhood, turn obstacles into growth opportunities, and achiev...

2024-06-141h 10

I Wish You Knew The Shocking Reason Your Relationships Are Falling Apart | Josh Trent |E31 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with the attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith, Andrey Korikov, and special guest Josh Trent. This week, we dive deep into the transformative journey of mastering financial intelligence, building emotional resilience, and understanding the deeper concepts of freedom and responsibility. Josh, Adam, and Andrey explore the critical role of financial health in relationships, the importance of overcoming fear, and the impact of epigenetics on behavior and attachment. They discuss how to navigate life's challenges, turn obstacles into growth opportunities, and achieve true liberation. Wheth...

2024-06-071h 16

I Wish You Knew Ex-Adult Star Reveals What NO ONE Tells You About the Industry | E30 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ Welcome to the 30th episode of "I Wish You Knew" with the attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media, and special guest Candice Horbacz. This week, we delve into the fascinating journey of Candice, who transitioned from the adult industry to motherhood and a monogamous marriage, bringing you profound insights into personal growth and resilience. Candice, Adam, and Andrey explore the challenges of overcoming public scrutiny and criticism while staying true to oneself. They discuss the impact of online negativity, the complexities of modern relationships, and the importance of rehumanizing indivi...

2024-05-311h 09

I Wish You Knew Are You Unknowingly Hurting Your Marriage? | E29 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ Welcome to the 29th episode of "I Wish You Knew" with attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith and renowned therapist and author Elizabeth Earnshaw. This week, we dive deep into the complexities of modern relationships and therapy, bringing you expert insights that can transform your understanding of family dynamics. Elizabeth and Adam reveal the shifting stressors in today's families, from financial strains to identity conflicts, and provide practical strategies for navigating these challenges. Learn why high-performing women face unique pressures in balancing career and family life and how couples can better support each other through these change...

2024-05-2438 min

I Wish You Knew The Real Reason Why ‘Nice Guys’ Finish Last | E28 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ Catch the latest episode of "I Wish You Knew" with our very own attachment specialist, Adam Lane Smith, and the always insightful Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we’re super excited to have Dr. Robert Glover join the conversation! We're diving deep into some heavy, intriguing topics: Is monogamy really natural for humans? How have our tribal pasts shaped today's relationship norms? We're questioning everything from the pressures of lifelong monogamy to how modern relationships fit (or don’t fit) with our ancient wiring. Whether you're curi...

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I Wish You Knew Why Men Avoid Vulnerability (and What Happens When They Do) | E27 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ Tune in to a new episode of "I Wish You Knew" with Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative Media. This week, we are thrilled to have AJ Ellison as our special guest. This episode delves into the often overlooked aspects of pain and resilience, contrasting societal expectations of toughness with the real benefits of facing hardships. We explore the dual nature of pain—distinguishing between what hurts and what actually harms—and discuss how embracing the former can lead to profound personal growth and self-awareness. W...

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I Wish You Knew Can Society Survive Without God? | E26 | I Wish You Knew Podcast🎙️ Dive into a compelling exploration of faith and its profound impact on modern life in this episode of "I Wish You Knew." Join host Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist, and co-host Andrey Korikov, CEO and co-founder of Veritas Creative, as they dissect the controversial and often misunderstood role of religion today. This discussion challenges the conventional views on religion and its relevance in an era dominated by technology and secular values. The hosts explore thought-provoking perspectives on why humans seek higher powers, the psychological significance of biblical stories, and the vital role of structured faith...

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The Blueprint

The Blueprint Ep. 74 Unraveling Attachment: Adam Lane Smith on Healing Relationships and Societal BondsSensitive Content Warning: This episode contains discussions on sensitive topics including mental health, historical events, and personal and societal challenges related to attachment theory. Some content may be emotionally impactful as it addresses complex issues such as relationship dynamics, mental health struggles, and societal changes. Listener discretion is advised, especially for those who may find topics of mental health distressing. The views expressed by the guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of The Blueprint Podcast or its hosts. In this insightful episode of The Blueprint Podcast, host Jason Smith engages in a d...

2024-05-0148 min