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SPLITUPSplitup: Your Guide Through Family CourtLauni and Robert, experts in family law and psychology, introduce Split Up—an innovative app designed to guide people through the legal and emotional aspects of divorce and family court proceedings.• 85% of people in family court are unrepresented, primarily due to the high cost of legal representation• Split Up provides structured guidance through videos and resources for all types of family court cases• The app addresses both legal procedures and emotional challenges of divorce and separation• Users receive step-by-step guidance on preparing documents, court appearances, and navigating the legal system• Psychological support is provided for...
2025-09-0523 minSPLITUPDivorce in the Spotlight: Justin and Haley BieberWe dive into the rumors about Justin and Haley Bieber's divorce, examining what it might look like from legal and psychological perspectives when ultra-wealthy celebrities with a young child separate.• Justin and Haley have a postnuptial agreement (not a prenup) to handle their considerable wealth• Justin reportedly earns $5-10 million monthly while Haley earns $500K-1M monthly• California has no cap on child support, potentially resulting in payments of $40K-100K monthly• Touring schedules create unique custody challenges requiring creative parenting plans• Virtual parenting effectiveness varies dramatically based on child age and parent skills
2025-09-0531 minSPLITUPBeyond the Recording: When Evidence BackfiresParents recording their children to gather evidence for family court cases can be problematic, potentially backfiring legally and causing psychological harm to children caught in the middle of custody battles. The hosts examine when documentation helps versus when it makes a parent look unreasonable to judges who regularly see severe cases of abuse and neglect.• Photos of minor injuries like bruises from normal childhood activities often appear trivial to judges• Children may sense parental reactions and say what they think parents want to hear• Recording without a child's knowledge can breach trust and damage your relati...
2025-09-0539 minSPLITUPWhen Sports Spark ConflictWe tackle the thorny issue of extracurricular activities in high-conflict co-parenting situations, navigating the clashing perspectives of legal rights versus psychological wellbeing of children. This candid conversation reveals how activities meant to enrich children's lives often become battlegrounds between divorced parents.• Understanding that high-conflict dynamics don't require mental health issues—context and circumstances create conflict between any two people• Recognizing that children don't calculate parenting time—they just want to participate in activities they love• Extracurricular activities offer numerous benefits: physical health, improved self-esteem, reduced anxiety, enhanced social skills• The "parent-coach" dynamic creates unique challenges w...
2025-09-0546 minSPLITUPPolitics, Parents, and Protecting ChildrenPolitical differences between divorced parents can create emotional battlegrounds where children feel caught in the middle and pressured to choose sides.• Children around age 12 are developing abstract thinking and exploring concepts like fairness and justice• Instead of forcing viewpoints, parents should teach critical thinking skills through open-ended questions• Cognitive dissonance from conflicting parental narratives can cause anxiety and stress for children• "Adultification" occurs when parents burden children with age-inappropriate political content• Parenting plans should include specific language about political discussions and activities• Documentation is crucial when addressing concerning behaviors from the co-parent• Focus...
2025-09-0546 minSPLITUPBeyond the Couch: When Parents Disagree on Child CounselingWe explore the emotional and complex conflict that arises when one parent feels their child needs therapy after divorce while the other parent opposes it, examining both legal pathways and psychological perspectives to help families prioritize children's mental health needs.• The scenario of Emily – one parent wants counseling for anxiety, possible self-harm; other parent refuses• Legal decision-making requires joint agreement for counseling in most cases• Many counselors require both parents' consent even with sole legal decision-making• Steps to resolve disagreements: attempt mediation before court intervention• Building a court case with school reports, doctor recommendati...
2025-09-0545 minSPLITUPBeyond Divorce: Dating with KidsMoving on after divorce isn't just about you—it's about your kids and how they adapt to seeing their parents with new partners.• Children need time to adjust to the major life change of divorce before meeting new partners• Experts recommend waiting at least six months before introducing kids to a new romantic partner• Introducing partners too soon can trigger anxiety, attachment issues, and co-parenting conflicts• Courts don't prohibit dating but may question judgment if multiple partners are introduced quickly• Parents should be honest but age-appropriate when discussing dating with their children• Social media p...
2025-09-0545 minSPLITUPDesigning Smarter Parenting PlansFamily law experts Annette Burns and Nicole Segueiro-Stoutner introduce SPARK—an innovative method for crafting parenting plans that work better for families during divorce or separation. They share practical advice for creating agreements that stand the test of time while remaining focused on children's best interests.• SPARK stands for Sustainable, Precise, Attainable, Reduces conflict, and Kid-focused• Sustainability means planning for how children's needs change over time, not just current circumstances• Precision requires specific language about times, dates, and responsibilities instead of vague terms like "reasonable"• Attainable provisions recognize real-world constraints like parents' work schedules and geogra...
2025-09-051h 04SPLITUPCelebrity SplitUp: Jessica SimpsonJessica Simpson's recent divorce from Eric Johnson highlights crucial issues facing families with children of different ages, examining how kids from preschool to pre-teen process separation differently and what parents can do to support healthy adjustment.• Children at different developmental stages experience divorce distinctively – 4-year-olds may believe it's their fault while 10-11-year-olds often assign blame• Preschoolers show signs through regression, separation anxiety, and behavioral changes while older children may externalize with anger or internalize with anxiety• Parents should never tell children "they left us" as this incorrectly suggests abandonment rather than ending a marital relation...
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Learn Law For AllMastering the Art of Active Listening in Legal Practice with Dr. Ellie IzzoUnlock the secrets of active listening with Dr. Ellie Izzo, our esteemed guest on the Learn Law for All podcast. As a leading expert in vicarious trauma and co-founder of two esteemed institutes, Dr. Izzo enlightens us on the transformative power of effectively managing emotions to achieve clear, rational communication. Our conversation reveals how legal professionals can excel in their practices by deploying practical strategies to navigate anger and set boundaries, even in the most high-conflict situations. I share my own reflections on the journey to becoming a more attentive listener, confident that Dr. Izzo's insights will resonate deeply...
2024-05-1816 minLearn Law For AllNavigating Legal Intersections: Family Law Meets Immigration, Bankruptcy, Military Matters with Daryl WeinmanDiscover the often-unsuspected connections between family law and other legal disciplines as we join forces with distinguished attorney Daryl Weinman. In our riveting discussion, we peel back the layers of complexity surrounding divorce proceedings, child custody, and financial support when immigration statuses like H-1B and H-4 visas come into play. Imagine navigating a legal maze where a K-1 visa affidavit could tether you financially to an ex-spouse for a decade post-divorce. This episode unveils these truths and explores the consequences of criminal allegations on family dynamics, driving home the pivotal role that knowledge across legal intersections plays in...
2024-05-1721 minLearn Law For AllInsider Secrets for Appealing Court DecisionsDiscover the intricate layers of the legal appeal process as we sit down with Arizona's finest legal minds, Michael Dinn and Randi Burggraff. This episode strips away the complexity, revealing the essentials of filing an appeal, the pivotal 30-day post-judgment period, and the impact of jurisdiction. We'll dissect the importance of crafting a strong trial court record, ensuring all your arguments and evidence are perfectly positioned to support a successful appeal. It's not just about the law; it's about strategy, timing, and the art of preservation during trial - knowledge that every legal enthusiast and practitioner should arm themselves...
2024-03-2114 minLearn Law For AllExpert Insights Into Modifying Family Law OrdersEver found yourself entangled in the web of legal modifications for parenting time or child support? Fear not, because Randi Burggraff and Michael Dinn are here to illuminate the path forward. This episode is a goldmine for anyone facing the turbulent waters of altering family law arrangements. With expertise and clarity, our guests unravel the complexities behind the conditions that may lead to adjustments in parenting plans, including the critical one-year benchmark and exceptions that arise from circumstances like endangerment. If you're a legal professional or someone personally navigating these challenges, our discussion offers a wealth of knowledge on...
2024-03-1711 minLearn Law For AllPreserving the Record: Expert Strategies for Securing Your Right to Appeal with Michael Den and Randi BurggraffDiscover the keys to ensuring your legal battles are fought with a safety net, as Launi Sheldon teams up with legal virtuosos Michael Dinn and Randi Burggraff to guide you through the critical process of preserving the record in litigation. Your right to appeal could hinge on the meticulous documentation of your courtroom saga, and our experts are here to share their wealth of knowledge. With Michael's seasoned background in family case appeals and Randi's unique blend of legal acumen and psychological insight into individual and children's rights, you're in for an eye-opening discussion on one of the most...
2024-03-1610 minLearn Law For AllUCCJEA - Navigating the Judicial Nuances in Child Custody CasesEmbark on a journey to mastery over the legal labyrinth of child custody with Arizona's own Dan Riley, a family law specialist with a knack for clarifying the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Enforcement Act (UCCJEA). This episode promises to guide you through the maze of jurisdictional issues, spotlighting how a child's six-month residency can tip the scales in initial custody battles. As Dan shares his insights, you'll gain a deeper understanding of the strategic moves and counter-moves played out in family courtrooms across the country. Whether you're a seasoned attorney or a curious newcomer, our conversation with Dan will...
2024-03-1613 minLearn Law For AllThe Art Of ListeningDr. Ellie Izzo talks with host, Launi Sheldon, about the art and the science of listening. Ellie presented a full 60 minute course which qualifies as a CLE for attorneys on this subject which can be found at www.LearnLawForAll.comContact Ellie Izzo at:www.EllieIzzo.comEllieIzzoPHD@Gmail.comContact Launi Sheldon at:www.LearnLawForAll.comLauni@LearnLawForAll.com
2024-03-1516 minLearn Law For AllBasic Debt CollectionsAttorney Brad Thies talks to host, Launi Sheldon, about collecting child support, spousal support, and attorney fees by garnishing wages and or bank accounts. Brad provides tips on collecting and the pros and cons of both types of garnishments. Brad teaches a 60 min legal educational course (CLE) and explains the ins and outs of collections, and garnishing wages and bank accounts. You can find that class at www.LearnLawForAll.comYou can contact Brad Thies at:Direct 602-281-4997 Web www.thiescook.com Email...
2024-03-1524 minLearn Law For AllSubstance Abuse In Family Law CasesArizona Attorney Greg Davis talks with host, Attorney Launi Sheldon, about issues that arise in family law cases when one parent has a substance abuse issue. In this podcast Greg shares what he would tell his client if his client had the substance abuse issue, he talks about what he would tell the client who does not have the substance abuse issue, and also talks about drug and alcohol testing. You can check out the full 60 minute educational course on how to handle these types of cases at www.LearnLawForAll.comYou can reach Greg at...
2024-03-1516 minLearn Law For AllCross Examination Of Parties and Lay Witnesses Certified Family Law Expert, Angie Hallier, talks with host, Launi Sheldon, and shares her wealth of knowledge and expert litigation strategies to help attorneys sharpen their litigation skills. In every case, if there is a direct examination, there is usually a cross examination. Make sure you are prepared Angie teaches a 60 minute course about cross examining witnesses at http://www.LearnLawForAll.comYou can reach Angie Hallier at:www.HallierLaw.comPhone: 602.285.5500You can check out Angies book, The Wiser Divorce at: The Wiser DivorceYou can reac...
2024-03-1514 minLearn Law For AllImmigration Removal ProceedingsCalifornia Attorney, Jose Hernandez, talks with host, Launi Sheldon, about what to expect during removal proceedings. Jose presented a 60 legal educational course (CLE for lawyers) at http://www.learnlawforall.com José Alfredo Hernández is the founder of The Law Office of José Alfredo Hernández, APC, established in 2006. He earned his Juris Doctor from Whittier Law School in 2000 and distinguished himself as a member of the Whittier Law School Trial Advocacy Honors Board and a Fellow at the Center for Children's Rights during his time there. Hernández clerked at various law firms and public entities, includi...
2024-03-1509 minLearn Law For AllCyber Stalking In Family Law - Help I've Been HackedAttorney and Forensic IT Expert Brian talks with host, Launi Sheldon, about how to determine if you've been hacked or if your ex is finding out information via apps on your phone. It's astonishing how much information can be accessed just from apps on your phone. Even apps that you don't use or might have forgotten about. Brian talks about these apps and how to ensure you ex can't get access. From ring doorbell to Google apps, so much information is available about you to anyone who might know your passwords. Brian takes us on a 60min e...
2024-03-1513 minLearn Law For AllLearn Legal Writing from ProsAttorneys Randi Burggraff and Michael Dinn talk with host, Launi Sheldon about how to get the most out of legal writing. Writing is so important in legal cases. You need more than the facts, you need a story. Michael an Randi taught a full class on this subject on at http://www.learnlawforall.comYou can reach Michael and Randi at:Ph#: 480-307-6800michael@btlfamilylaw.com randi@btlfamilylaw.comYou can reach Launi Sheldon at:Launi@LearnLawForAll.com
2024-03-1520 minLearn Law For AllThe Importance of the Initial Client InterviewAttorneys Randi Burggraff and Michael Dinn talk with host, Launi Sheldon, about the importance of the initial interview for an attorney and client. This initial interview is important for both the attorney and the client. This is a time for a client to find the right fit.Attorneys Burggraff and Dinn teach a 60 minute legal educational course (CLE) for Learn Law For All - at http://www.learnlawforall.comYou can reach Randi and Michael at:Ph#: 480-307-6800michael@btlfamilylaw.com randi@btlfamilylaw.comYou can reach Launi S...
2024-03-1526 minLearn Law For AllWeaving Through Georgia's Contested DivorceGeorgia Attorney, Robert Harker, answers questions about getting through a contested divorce in Georgia. Robert walks new attorneys and litigants through the process and things to consider when going through the divorce. Attorney Harker teaches a full 60 minute class at http://www.LearnLawForAll.com You can reach Robert Harker at: Phone: 678-664-4638Bob@RobertHarkerLaw.comYou can reach Launi at:Launi@LearnLawForAll.com
2024-03-1524 minLearn Law For AllYour Home Is Spying On YouLearning the ins and outs of your home spying on you can be important not only for legal reasons, but also safety reasons. As attorneys, we often have litigants who believe they are being stalked - why? Because their ex seems to know where they are all the time. Also, as attorneys, we often have to prove aliblies for our clients. Know what apps you have in your home that are spying, how to find that information, and how to use that information can be so immensely helpful. By the way, side note . . . some of this is really easy.
2024-03-1512 minLearn Law For AllOBJECTION! How to handle the submission of evidence.Certified Family Law Specialist, Daniel Riley, talks about handling the submission of evidence. We have all watched TV shows where someone yells objection. Daniel will talk about how to handle objections. Daniel taught a full 60 minute class on objections. To watch the full class, go to http://www.LearnLawForAll.comYou can contact Daniel at:Daniel S. Riley, Esq., CQPRiley Law Firm, PLC112 N. Central Ave. Suite M07Phoenix, AZ 85004(602) 640-0719daniel@rileyplc.comhttps://rileyplc.comYou can contact Launi Shel...
2024-03-1520 minLearn Law For AllIntercultural Competence - You don't know what you don't know, until you do.Author, Darlene Taylor, talks with Learn Law For All host, Launi Sheldon, about intercultural competence and the effects it can have on attorneys .Darlene teaches a 60 minute legal ethics course for Learn Law For All for can be found at http://LearnLawForAll.comDarlene has written an amazing book called IT'S NOT ABOUT US. You can purchase by clicking the following link: https://amzn.to/3uQ60DS Darlene is a seasoned professional with over 20 years of experience in guiding individuals through self-discovery, growth, and education. She holds an MSW from the University of C...
2024-03-1514 minLearn Law For AllTexas Protective Orders vs Restraining OrdersTexas Certified Family Law Specialist and author, Daryl Weinman, talks about asking the court for Protective Orders and Restraining Orders. She explains which type of order to request, including the benefits and difficulties of each order.Daryl teaches a 60 minute course on this subject to help litigants and attorneys understand what the differences are and the importance of making the appropriate request. Daryl also talks about when and why it is necessary to request dismissal of the orders. You can find this class at www.LearnLawForAll.com . You can reach Daryl at:www.WeinmanFamilyLaw.c...
2024-03-1515 minLearn Law For AllHOW TO FIND AND USE LOCATION DATAAnother MUST LISTEN TO from attorney and forensic expert Brian Chase. Brian talks with host, Launi Sheldon, about how to find location data to use for evidence in your case. Interestingly, this course also shows how other people can find and use your location data. This is so important for every area of law. Most of us understand that we give up some privacy for convenience. However, do you really know how much privacy you give up? From your refrigerator to Alexa, from your keyless home entry to your car, you should know what information each device is collecting and...
2024-03-1515 minLearn Law For AllKnow when to Shut Up! Knowing Your 5th Amendment Rights.Criminal Attorney Howard Dworman talks with host Launi Sheldon about your right to remain silent. Attorney Dworman almost always tells clients to stay quiet and call an attorney. Attorney Dworman presented a comprehensive CLE on 5th Amendment Rights for Learn Law For All. You can check out the entire CLE at www.LearnLawForAll.comTo reach Howard, you can email him at:Howard.Dworman@Gmail.Com
2024-03-1527 minLearn Law For AllMust Know Cell Phone ForensicsBrian Chase talks with host Launi Sheldon about Cell Phone Forensics, including how to safeguard your cell phone forensics to preserve evidence. Brian also talks about the unreliability of evidence, and finding evidence in other places. You can reach Brian at:BChase@ArcherHall.com855.839.9084You can reach Launi at:Launi@LearnLawForAll.com
2024-03-1514 minLearn Law For AllHow to Qualify For A Mortgage After DivorceThe Loan Coach, Ellen Cooper, is the founder of "The Loan Coach, Inc." a non-profit company created to help people create mortgages. In this podcast Ellen provides tips on how to fix up your credit so you can qualify for a loan after a divorce. Credit scores can plummet during a divorce. Let's face it, many families go from 2 income households to one. And often one party has never worked and feels like they will be unable to purchase a new home. Credit expert Ellen Cooper will talk about ways to work around that. Contact Ellen and see...
2024-03-1527 minLearn Law For AllPreparing Your Client For Outcomes of TrialCertified Family Law Specialist and Author, Angie Hallier talks about the importance of preparing clients for possible outcomes of trials and how she prepares them to move through the trial experience. Attorney Hallier is the owner and found of Hallier Stearns Law Firm and is licensed in Arizona.Angie is the author of The Wiser Divorce which is available on Amazon https://amzn.to/49ezRF4 Contact Information:Hallier Stearns PLC5090 North 40th Street, Suite 210Phoenix, AZ 85018Phone: 602.285.5500Fax: 602.285.1077https://hallierlaw.com/
2024-03-1511 minLearn Law For AllPrenuptial Marital AgreementsArizona Attorney and Former Judicial Officer, Nicole Stoutner, talks with host and law partner, Launi Sheldon, about prenuptial agreements. Nicole is one of my favorite people to talk about prenuptial agreements, she has great tips for both attorneys and non-attorneys. Nicole taught a legal educational course (CLE) for both lawyers and non-lawyers for Learn Law For All. If you have a client who is contemplating marriage and/or one that needs help with a prenuptial agreement/marital agreement, check out the full video at www.LearnLawForAll.comYou can reach out to Nicole at:www.SheldonStoutner.co...
2024-03-1514 minLearn Law For AllFinding Hidden Assets 2 - Pulling Back The CurtainForensic Accountant and Expert Witness , David Cantor, talks with host, Launi Sheldon, about how to find hidden money when you are going through a divorce. At a time when soon to be exes don't trust each other, David teaches you how to find the money that you believe your spouse. David presented a full 1 hour, legal education class (CLE) for Learn Law For All that can be found at www.LearnLawForAll.comYou can reach David at:480-448-9904David@dscfac.comwww.dscfac.comYou can reach...
2024-03-1512 minLearn Law For AllBringing Order To The Disposition of Real Property in DivorceArizona Attorney, Realtor, and Real Estate Special Master Beth Jo Zeitzer talks with host, Launi Sheldon, about how to dispose of property in a high conflict divorce. Beth Jo has years of experience helping attorneys, families, and courts by acting as a Special Real Estate Commissioner to dispose of marital real estate. Beth Jo was kind enough to present a legal education course (CLE) on this issue, which can be found at www.LearnLawForAll.comYou can reach Beth Jo at: 602-319-1326www.ROIProperties.comYou can reach Launi at:L...
2024-03-1520 minLearn Law For AllPaving The Way To Conflict Resolution When Selling The Marital HomeArizona Real Estate Special Master, Chris Carter Kent, talks with host, Launi Sheldon, about how to dispose of marital property during a divorce. Chris is one of our "go-to" realtors with tons of experience in getting this done. Chris is comfortable not only getting the house sold, but she is also comfortable going to court for any necessary intervention. Chris presented a full legal education class (CLE) on this subject for both attorneys and non-attorney. You can find that full class at www.LearnLawForAll.com You can reach Chris at:480-388-0662https://www.azhomes.com...
2024-03-1525 minLearn Law For AllChoosing the Right Family Law Attorney: Strategies for a Strong Attorney-Client RelationshipStruggling to pick the right family law attorney for your divorce? Look no further. In our latest episode, Launi Sheldon talks with Angie Hallier, a family law attorney with thirty years under her belt, who shares her invaluable perspectives on building a strong attorney-client relationship. Angie lays down the law on what you should be asking prospective legal representatives, ensuring you find someone whose expertise and approach align with your needs, be it navigating the complexities of child custody or managing the costs of long-term litigation. We exchange war stories and wisdom, offering a behind-the-bench look at handling vengeful...
2024-03-1517 minLearn Law For AllLawyers' Invisible Burden Understanding and Managing Secondary TraumaExplore the hidden toll of empathy with Dr. Kolette Butler as she tackles the profound effects of vicarious trauma on legal professionals, with host Launi Sheldon. Witness first-hand the conversation that sheds light on how the distressing experiences of others can imprint on us, leaving behind nightmares, flashbacks, and an invasive sense of dread. Delve into the duality of our empathetic nature – our greatest asset and potential risk factor – and learn why a dedicated self-care routine isn't just beneficial, it's critical for survival in our field.Prepare to be moved as we traverse the challenging landscape of Adve...
2024-03-1520 minLearn Law For AllMastering International Child Custody: Navigating Hague Convention and UCCJEA Challenges with Expert Daryl WeinmanLauni Sheldon helps to unlock the secrets to navigating the treacherous waters of international child custody with family law specialist Daryl Weinman. This episode promises a comprehensive guide through the labyrinth of legal challenges that emerge when a child is wrongfully taken across international borders. With Daryl's expertise, we examine the Hague Convention and UCCJEA's roles in such disputes and highlight how her background in economics and her prowess in the courtroom play a pivotal role in resolving these complex cases. Whether you're a parent facing this nightmarish scenario or a legal professional seeking to broaden your knowledge, this...
2024-03-1523 minLearn Law For AllGuiding Families Through the Custody Evaluation ProcessUnlock the mysteries of custody evaluations with me, Launi Sheldon, as we join forces with Dr. Kolette Butler, a renowned expert in family law and psychology. This episode promises an enlightening journey through the intricacies of Arizona's family court system, where we dissect the different types of evaluations - from comprehensive family assessments to independent psychological evaluations. Peer behind the judicial curtain to understand how these crucial tools shape the fate of children embroiled in custody disputes, as Dr. Butler imparts her wisdom on their implementation and the pivotal role they play in legal outcomes.Dive into...
2024-03-1541 minLearn Law For AllThe Role of Receivers in Asset Management and Legal ProceedingsUnlock the secrets of receiverships with the guidance of Beth Jo Zeitzer, our distinguished guest with an impressive repertoire as both a licensed attorney and real estate broker. Together, we'll navigate the nuanced responsibilities of a receiver and demystify the vital role they play as a court-appointed fiduciary in asset management. Focusing on real estate and income-producing properties, Beth Jo brings clarity to the process, emphasizing the importance of thorough court reporting and steadfast transparency. Prepare to delve into the unique intersection of legal acumen and property expertise, as we dissect the significant impact of receivership in divorce proceedings...
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