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Home and MarriageHelp Your Kids Grow UpHelping Your Kids Grow Up: Faith, Character, Responsibility, and AutonomyOn the Home and Marriage Podcast, Lennon and Christal Noland discuss helping kids grow up and how parents can unintentionally hold children back by constantly entertaining them, intervening in every conflict, and rescuing them from responsibility and consequences. They encourage parents to let kids experience boredom and practice conversation, coach them through normal peer conflicts without overstepping, and teach real-life responsibility with clear consequences. They outline four growth areas to cultivate: faith (church involvement, prayer, and parental example), character (praising who they’re becoming), responsibility (chores and fo...
2026-03-1036 minHome and MarriageDon't Stop Dating: Why Date Nights Are Essential for a Strong, Healthy MarriageDo we really still need a date night when we are married?Yes we do! And in this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, we talk about why date night is a vital commitment that keeps romance alive so marriage doesn’t drift into feeling like roommates. We share how our own experiences with date nights and we explain that the effort matters more than a perfect plan. Couples who still date are more likely to report very happy marriages, lower perceived divorce risk, and higher sexual satisfaction. We encourage putting date night on the...
2026-03-0326 minHome and MarriageWhy Family Dinner Still Matters: The Importance Of Gathering Around The TableThe Power of Family Meals: Building Connection Around the TableIn this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, we talk about why eating together as a family matters and how it strengthens connection at home. We share a bittersweet parenting season—our oldest is preparing for college visits and our son’s basketball season is nearing the state playoffs—which reminds us how valuable regular family rhythms like shared meals can be. We describe family dinner as a cornerstone habit that impacts many other areas of life, and we reflect on our different upbringings with mealtimes.
2026-02-2427 minHome and MarriageLittle Things That Strengthen Marriage And Bring You CloserIt's the little things that make a BIG difference in marriage.In this Valentine’s-season episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, we talk about how we’re celebrating Valentine’s Day late and how, almost 20 years into marriage, we’ve learned to value simple choices that keep us connected.From a viral reel by Arthur C. Brooks, we share four small practices that can help even a hurting marriage and we add our own practical little habits that have made a huge difference for our marriage and how we feel connected. We hope by...
2026-02-1724 minHome and MarriageThe Power of Giving Each Other A Break In MarriageWhy is it important to give our spouse a break?In this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, we discuss the importance of giving each other space in a marriage and a couple of great ways to do this is through pursuing personal interests (or hobbies) and friendships. We share personal stories, like Lennon's recent bonding time with our son during his basketball season and Christal's goal to double the number of books she reads this year. We emphasize how hobbies and friendships can boost individual well-being and strengthen our relationship. We also talk about the...
2026-02-1031 minHome and MarriageWhen Your Kids Struggle With Faith: Helping Them With Doubts and QuestionsDo your kids or teens as you hard questions about God or may have doubts about Him?In this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, we discuss how parents can handle their children's questions and doubts about God and faith. We share personal stories about our own moments of BIG questions. We emphasize the importance of patience, prayer, and creating an open dialogue about faith in the home. We also highlight that faith struggles are natural and can occur even in the most devout families. Additionally, we offer practical advice for encouraging a thinking and...
2026-02-0329 minHome and MarriageNavigating Stress: When You And Your Spouse React Differently To StressWe all handle stress differently, and marriage brings those differences face to face!In this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, we discuss the challenges and strategies for managing stress within a marriage. Emphasizing the importance of being supportive as scripture shows us, we highlight various stress responses such as anger, withdrawal, and unleashing emotions. We share personal anecdotes about dealing with stressful situations, encourage offering grace and patience, and suggest practical steps like praying, taking breaks, and maintaining self-care to better handle stress. Join us as we explore how stress doesn't have to di...
2026-01-2723 minHome and MarriageThe Power of Words In ParentingEvery home has a tone, and your words are one of the greatest tools God has given you to shape it.Hey we've all been there and said the wrong things while parenting! But there's hope as always so in this episode we want to encourage you that your words and the tone matters. We share personal stories of how words from our parents shaped us and how we hope to make our words count with our children.We break down four essential types of communication every parent needs: words of affection and e...
2026-01-2025 minHome and MarriageDecluttering Your Home, Mind, And Heart For The New YearNew Year, New Home?In this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, Lennon and Christal discuss the importance of decluttering not just your home but also your mind and heart. They begin by identifying signs of mental clutter and emphasize the impact of that. They share their experience of cleaning up clutter and reflect on the benefits of a fresh start in the New Year.They also explore mental decluttering and highlight the significance of organizing and prioritizing tasks, as well as seeking spiritual renewal. Lastly, they address the importance of decluttering the heart...
2026-01-1328 minHome and MarriageNew Year Marriage Reset: What Worked, What Didn't, And Where We Can GrowNew Year Marriage Reset: Reflect, Improve, and ConnectIn this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, we discuss the importance of growth in marriage and introduce a 'New Year Marriage Reset.' We talk about reflecting on what worked well in the past year, identifying areas for improvement, and setting actionable steps to achieve these improvements. We emphasize the importance of effective communication, scheduling quality time together, and leaning on spiritual practices like prayer. This episode also features insights into managing change and maintaining a healthy relationship dynamic. 00:00 Introduction and New Year Greetings00:40 R...
2026-01-0620 minHome and MarriageThe Priority Of Family: The Order That Holds A Family TogetherThe Priority of FamilyIn this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, hosts Lennon and Christal Noland take a break from their usual format to share a special message from Pastor Lennon's recent sermon. Pastor Lennon discusses the importance of family as a God-given institution and the challenges and blessings it brings. He emphasizes the significance of prioritizing family, understanding God's design for marriage and family dynamics, and the impact of spiritual warfare in homes. He also offers practical advice on seeking God's kingdom first and loving family members with the love of God. The episode...
2025-12-3039 minHome and MarriageTips for Marriage During Christmas and New Years: Mini EpisodeHoliday Relationship Tips: Enhancing Your Marriage During Christmas and New YearIn this special holiday episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, Lennon and Christal Noland share practical tips to help couples strengthen their marriage during the Christmas and New Year season. They discuss the importance of scheduling alone time, helping each other with holiday tasks, giving thoughtful gifts, and understanding each other's love languages. They also reflect on their own holiday traditions and experiences, and encourage listeners to appreciate their relationships as they head into the new year.00:00 Welcome to the Home and Marriage...
2025-12-2314 minHome and MarriageConnecting With Your Kids During Christmas: The Best Gift You Can GiveThe True Gifts of ChristmasIn this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, Lennon and Christal Noland discuss the importance of spending quality time with family, especially during the holidays. They reflect on past Christmas memories and the shift from shopping for toys to more meaningful family moments. The Nolands emphasize three key non-material gifts you can give your children: quality time, sharing your faith, and maintaining a peaceful and joyful demeanor as parents. They also touch on the significance of keeping Christ at the center of Christmas celebrations. The episode concludes with a reminder that...
2025-12-1625 minHome and MarriageThe Power of Praying With Your Spouse (Even When It's Awkward)In this episode of the Home and Marriage podcast, Lennon and Christal focus on the importance and benefits of couples praying together. They underscore the vulnerability and intimacy that praying together brings, advocating for prayer as a means to exchange anxiety for peace and to seek God's guidance in decision-making. They share practical tips for couples to integrate prayer into their daily lives, emphasizing its role in fostering closeness to each other and to God. They also mention their 'Six Habits of Happy Couples' course and encourage listeners to make prayer a consistent part of their marriages to strengthen...
2025-12-0928 minHome and MarriageReal-Life Christmas: Marriage, Kids, and Navigating the Holiday SeasonIn this heartfelt episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, Lennon and Christal Noland open up about their own family rhythms during the holidays and the joyful anticipation of Christmas. They share the traditions that anchor their home, like baking cranberry bread and celebrating “Christmas Eve Eve,” and how these simple rituals strengthen connection and create lasting memories.Together, they offer practical wisdom for navigating the holiday season with peace—managing expectations, setting realistic budgets, and keeping family relationships healthy when things get busy. Most importantly, Lennon and Christal point listeners back to the true meaning of the se...
2025-12-0226 minHome and MarriageHaving Fun In Marriage: It Matters More Than You ThinkThe Importance of Having Fun Together in MarriageIn this episode of the Home and Marriage podcast, Lennon and Christal Noland share their experiences and lessons learned from a recent garage sale and highlight the importance of having fun with your spouse. They discuss creative date ideas, the significance of laughter and play in a relationship, and how to keep the spark alive through various stages of marriage. The Nolands also provide practical suggestions for date activities that don't require a big budget, and conclude with reflections on how their relationship has evolved over the years. They...
2025-11-1838 minHome and MarriageFear and Parenting With Dr. Ken WilgusParental Fear and Faith: Insights from Dr. Ken WilgusIn this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, Lennon and Christal Noland discuss how parental fear impacts parenting decisions and how to balance that fear with faith in God's plan. Special guest Dr. Ken Wilgus, a professional psychologist and licensed counselor, shares insights on how fear can drive parenting styles and discusses effective ways to empower teenagers. The episode also highlights the importance of recognizing the stages of child development and giving children the gift of independence. Dr. Wilgus emphasizes the significance of trusting God in...
2025-11-1138 minHome and MarriageCheck The Gauges Of Your Marriage: Warning Lights and Wake-Up CallsCheck the Gauges: How to Notice the Little Things Before They Become Big ThingsIn this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, hosts Lennon and Christal Noland discuss practical ways to help couples strengthen their relationships. They share personal stories, including their recent car-buying experience, which transitions into a broader conversation about the importance of not putting your marriage on 'cruise control.' They introduce the concept of 'gauges' in marriage, covering topics like romantic affection, sexual connection, parenting perspectives, and simmering conflict. The Nolands emphasize the importance of regular check-ins and provide a valuable resource...
2025-11-0425 minHome and MarriageWhy Do We Parent SO Differently?: Finding Unity When You ParentParenting on the Same Page: Strategies for Unified ParentingIn this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, Lennon and Christal Noland discuss the importance of unified parenting and the impact it has on the family. They explore the differences between how moms and dads parent, shaped by their own upbringing and personalities. They highlight the necessity of presenting a united front to children to avoid conflict and tension and share personal anecdotes about their own parenting experiences, from setting disciplinary standards to preparing for their children's departure from home. Essential advice includes talking to your spouse...
2025-10-2828 minHome and MarriageFrom This Day Forward: How To Keep Living The Promise You MadeFrom This Day Forward: Embracing Your VowsLennon and Christal Noland, hosts of the Home and Marriage Podcast, discuss the significance and depth of traditional marriage vows. They reflect on their personal experiences, such as financial struggles, health challenges, and the importance of cherishing and loving one another. By revisiting the vows: to have and to hold, for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, and until parted by death, they provide guidance on navigating the complexities of married life with God's help. The episode also includes a reminder about their Six...
2025-10-2128 minHome and MarriageMarriage Surprises: What We Didn’t See ComingSurprising Truths About Marriage and How to Navigate ThemIn the Home and Marriage Podcast's eighth episode, Lennon and Christal celebrate their 19th wedding anniversary by discussing unexpected lessons they've learned throughout their marriage. They share personal stories about managing crises like car troubles on special occasions, the evolution of intimacy over time, the challenge of understanding and adapting to each other's communication styles, and the importance of everyday gestures in maintaining a romantic relationship. The episode also touches on the complexities of managing relationships with in-laws and the continuous journey of discovering new facets of each...
2025-10-1430 minHome and MarriageFrom Chaos To Calm: How To Have a Peaceful HomeCreating a Peaceful Home: From Chaos to CalmIn this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, Lennon and Christal Noland delve into creating a peaceful home environment. They discuss the importance of rhythm and routines, shared responsibilities, individual peace and joy, and expressing affection. Practical tips such as maintaining organization, having a family prayer life, and setting a spiritual atmosphere in your home. The couple also offers insights from their own experiences, emphasizing the value of family connection and the presence of God in the home. Listeners are encouraged to implement these approaches to foster a...
2025-10-0730 minHome and MarriageMarriage and Friendship: Why Your Spouse Can't Be Your Only FriendWhy is it important to have friends outside of marriage?Lennon and Christal Noland discuss the vital role of friendships outside of marriage on the Home and Marriage Podcast. They explore personal anecdotes and popular book and TV friendships, emphasizing the need for these relationships in enhancing marital and personal well-being. The Nolands highlight challenges and stages of friendships during different life phases, and offer practical advice on maintaining and prioritizing friendships. They also address the importance of supporting your spouse's friendships and how to actively seek new connections. Listeners are encouraged to take risks, put friendships...
2025-09-3026 minHome and MarriageConflict in Marriage: Attack Issues, Not Each OtherNavigating Conflict in Marriage: Techniques and InsightsIn this episode of the Home and Marriage Podcast, Lennon and Christal Noland discuss effective ways for couples to manage and resolve conflicts. They share personal anecdotes about their own disagreements and elaborate on the importance of addressing issues rather than attacking each other. Key strategies include staying focused on the issue, listening fully before responding, avoiding the use of always and never, and offering sincere apologies. They emphasize the importance of maintaining connection and trust during conflicts, underpinned by Philippians 2:1-4. The Nolands encourage couples to see conflicts as...
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