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The SmartSex PodcastThe SmartSex PodcastSexplanation... What YOU Want To Know About SexIt’s Doug’s turn to put Leslie in the hot seat and interviews Leslie.  Doug asks the daring questions that YOU want to know the answers to: Does size really matter? Do clients take their clothes off in sex therapy? What exactly is a sex therapist and what do you do? Who comes to sex therapy and why? What is great sex anyway? How are men and women different when it comes to sex? Or are they? How does one become a sex therapist? Are some people just not sexual at all? He also prese...2025-07-3053 minThe SmartSex PodcastThe SmartSex PodcastMen and Sex - Lovers and LeadersLeslie has the joy of interviewing Doug in the second episode of Men and Sex. The conversation is deep and rich. We uncover what healthy sexuality is for men and what is underneath men's desires. "Most men want to be better men" but don't necessarily know the path in the intimate, sexual, interpersonal and relational arenas. Men are lovers and leaders but need to unearth and explore identity, emotions, the heart of a man, the role of porn and becoming whole as a man. Doug emphasizes the critical importance of men understanding their...2025-06-1334 minThe SmartSex PodcastThe SmartSex PodcastMen and Sex - What Men Really WantLeslie and Doug discuss male sexuality in a date-like set-up over a nice glass of red wine. They have a very real and at times raw conversation about men, sex, and what it's all about and cover topics including:              male sexual development,               the importance of sex,               what is addiction,               out-of-control sexual behavior,               men's feelings and desires,               pornography and much more THIS is a must listen to podcast! Insights, stories, wisdom about men, and at times contrary opinions gained from the real-life work and experience of joining personally with men as their mentor, coach, therapist are shared. This conversation is full...2025-05-1546 minThe SmartSex PodcastThe SmartSex PodcastPlay in the Bedroom In this playful episode, I'm excited to have a special guest, who is also my partner, my lover, and my best friend in life, Doug Gustafson. We talk about a timely topic - "Play" in and out of the bedroom.    Play is critical to our well-being, relationships, and our marriages. Doug and I discuss play in general, play individually, and as a couple. We want to inspire you to create a playful lifestyle with your partner!   Join us as we talk about all this and more, and encourage you to become smarter, healthier, and sexier!   PLEASE Subscribe, Enjoy...2025-04-1051 minThe SmartSex PodcastThe SmartSex PodcastImagination & Fantasy in the Bedroom My husband, Doug Gustafson, interviews me as we dip into the fascinating world of fantasy and imagination in the bedroom.   There are many nuances and layers to this topic, but I want you to know that you are a creative and imaginative person in and out of the bedroom! Let yourself ponder that.   Considering yourself and what you want to do with your inner life enhances you personally and could potentially improve your experience as a sexual person and a sexual partner.   What’s fantasy all about, and what different kinds of fantasy are there? Why would we need fantasy to en...2025-03-1340 minThe SmartSex PodcastThe SmartSex PodcastSex & Dating- A Discussion with Dating Experts (Part 1)What does it take to have a successful dating life?  Do you need confidence? Do you need game? How has dating changed since the pandemic? Where is dating headed - online, in real life, both?  I was delighted to have three incredible, knowledgeable dating coaches to talk about what single people are up against, how to navigate dating, and what the sexual culture is like today in this first part of Sex and Dating Today.  About my Guests:With over 10,000 hours of one-on-one coaching and training experience, Nate Hockstra is an...2025-02-1042 minMy Aligned Purpose Podcast (MAP Podcast)My Aligned Purpose Podcast (MAP Podcast)Ep. 430 -Bonus: Leslie Gustafson on Se.x, Therapy and Living an Exquisite Life💰CASH FLOW- Feb 20th: Four Week Sales Mastermind💰 Leslie Gustafson is a 30+ year psychotherapist and sex therapist turned Master Transformation Coach & Mentor for SavvyWomen.A 7 Figure CEO, Leslie founded Amazing YOU! Lifestyle &Success Co. to guide women into Exquisite Lives, Love & Stand Out Businesses with her deep knowledge, spiritual inspiration, authentic identity empowerment and FUN! Leslie is offering $100.00 off to all listeners using code AlignedPurpose Stay connected with Leslie here: www.Instagram.com/LeslieGustafson1 www.LeslieGustafson.com/shop To join us at SHE...2025-02-0751 minCoffee TableCoffee TableMeet the new executive director at South Peninsula Haven HouseKBBI News Director Jamie Diep spoke with Haven House leadership, including Executive Director Lindsey Collins, CAC manager Meghan Pollack, shelter manager Leslie Scroggin, prevention coordinator Marcee Gray and board chair Britt Huffman.2025-01-1553 minThe SmartSex PodcastThe SmartSex PodcastCultivating Sensuality and Erotic Energy with Cindy ScharkeySexuality, Sensuality, Erotic… all words that women tend to shy away from. BUT… Cindy Scharkey and I are here to empower women to put aside their fear and embrace cultivating sensuality and erotic energy in one’s life and relationships.   This episode hits on what’s blocking women's expression of sensuality and ways to overcome it. To have the freedom to voice what they need and to seek pleasure. Put the work of YOURSELF on the forefront. Let yourself have what you long for: in yourself, in your life, in your sexuality, and in your r...2025-01-0755 minThe SmartSex PodcastThe SmartSex PodcastSex and Money with Cassie HowardIn this episode, Leslie is joined by guest, Cassie Howard. In a rich, fun conversation, they discuss the connection between sex, money, and personal growth.  Cassie is an online business mentor for women that is known for her savvy sexy sales skills and her ability to make business simple, fun, AND sustainable. Cassie shares that succeeding in her business has given her an inner confidence and a feeling of power, similar to the transformative experience of an orgasm!  The conversation moves on to careers and passion! If something isn't enjoyable, it won't get do...2024-12-1443 minThe SmartSex PodcastThe SmartSex PodcastPleasing A Lady - Oh! Oh! Orgasm Part 2In this episode, Leslie continues the orgasm talk with her girlfriends Lori, Laurel, Jamie and Kristen about how women work sexually amongst laughter and even singing. How we as women and men have been oversold a masculine model of sexuality with it’s performance orientation and outcome focus, and the impact that has had on everyone’s understanding of sexuality. The negative effects of this on both men and women are brought to attention. We move into talking about the differences between and myths we hold about men’s and women’s orgasms. Central...2024-11-0739 minThe SmartSex PodcastThe SmartSex PodcastOh! Oh! OrgasmIn this episode, Leslie is joined by real women Jamie Miller, Laurel Avrin, Kristen Wheeler, and Lori Makkai as they all discuss the HOT topic of Orgasm for women… What orgasm is, how it happens mand what gets in the way is explored. Through moments of much laughter, this episode digs deep on the intricacies of orgasm and the personal and relational issues that surround them. The role of pressure and expectations, stress, caregiving, and over-thinking on orgasm and sexual pleasure in general is discussed. How to activate our own sex...2024-10-0435 minThe SmartSex PodcastThe SmartSex PodcastGetting Real about Women and SexIn this first episode of The Smart Sex Podcast 2.0 that explores the benefits of sex at both the beginning and end of the conversation,   Leslie and her former producer Kristen Wheeler talk real about women, sex and their experience in partnerships and marriage.   Old myths about male and female sexual and emotional connection dynamics and how they develop are explored. In addition, what are the common needs, wants and  attitudes of women and men around sex and connection and how they can be bridged.    ...2024-09-0633 minNaperville Covenant\'s PodcastsNaperville Covenant's PodcastsNaperCov Conversations - Shirley Gustafson - June 20232023-06-1409 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastBehind the Scenes with a Contemporary Spicy Romance Writer_Episode 41I've got a hot episode for you today.Caterina Passarelli is a former TV News Producer turned romance author and entrepreneur from Michigan, close to Detroit. She writes in the contemporary, billionaire, and soon-to-be mafia romance genres. When she worked for the news, she was the morning Producer, so she went from writing about murders to writing about love!. Caterina gives us a behind-the-scenes look at her process of writing romance, and she talks about the complications of putting a spicy book into the world. Caterina also shares some personal thoughts about what she wants women to...2021-10-081h 01The Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastMen's Self Esteem and Sex Esteem_Episode 40You've heard of self-esteem, but have you heard of sex esteem? What do self-esteem and sex esteem mean for men in particular? What is intrinsic and extrinsic about both concepts? How does it help or hurt us in the bedroom and in our relationship with our partner?Today I have a guest you know if you're a regular listener of The Smart Sex Podcast. Doug is not just my love, my sweet darling husband of 24 years. He is also a personal development, leadership, relationship, and emotional IQ coach, and a therapist of over 40 years.We're excited...2021-09-2455 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastIt's the Second Anniversary! Episode_39The show is BACK! I took a break over the summer, I am thrilled to bring you season 3 of The Smart Sex Podcast. Before we dive into the upcoming season, I want to take today to celebrate where we've been and highlight the connections we've made in the last year.We're looking back at guests who have brought expertise to subjects involving having fun, being intentional and mindful, and some difficult discussions about sexual trauma.Despite adversity and living in the middle of a world that feels so disconnected, I hope that you have...2021-09-1036 minShit We Don\'t Talk AboutShit We Don't Talk AboutEP 034 - Sex & Intimacy For All! w/ Leslie GustafsonOn the latest episode of  Sh!t We Don’t Talk About we talk about “sex baby”!  Who doesn't love a good Salt n' Pepa lyric right? And what better guest to chat with than master coach, sex therapist, and licensed therapist Leslie Gustafson.  Leslie discusses sex and intimacy, and how to take charge of your experience. This episode is for all, no matter how you present, and we'll be serving up some great insider tips!For full show notes on this episode: https://miavoss.live/34----Find Mia online here or here.MUSI...2021-06-1146 minThe Chelsea Peitz PodcastThe Chelsea Peitz PodcastEp 90: Overcoming Imposter Syndrome in Social Media with Leslie Gustafson LMFT, CSTIn this episode, I get vulnerable with expert therapist, Leslie Gustafson, LMT, CST as we discuss Imposter Syndrome and the fear of putting yourself out there on social media and how to overcome and thrive!Master Therapist. Sex & Relationship Coach. Host- “The SmartSex Podcast.”™️ Founder of "Get Your Dream Life". TV Expert.Specialties include marital counseling and sex therapy, treatment for depression, loss and grief, anxiety (including Obsessive-Compulsive disorder), eating disorders and food issues, addictive behaviors, and divorce recovery.Connect with Leslie: https://www.authenticandtruecoaching.com/TikTok: @LeslieNewbyGustafIG: @Lesl...2021-05-1730 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex Podcast"Play" in the Bedroom_Episode 38Today I'm excited to have a special guest, who is also my partner, my lover, and my best friend in life.We're talking about such a timely topic. "Play" is so critical to our well-being and relationships, and it has been compromised in the pandemic.Doug and I go into play in general, play individually, as a couple, and play in the bedroom. We want to inspire you to create a playful lifestyle with your partner!JOIN OUR AMAZING INTIMACY FACEBOOK TRIBE FOR COUPLES: www.thesmartsexpodcast.com/AITribeVISIT GOLOVECBD.COM/LESLIE...2021-05-1452 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastSex Education from Birth to Launch and Beyond_Episode 37If there's an episode of The Smart Sex Podcast to listen to more than once, it's this one.Dr. Lea Lis takes us through the journey of sex education, from birth to adulthood in a way that will rock your world. She gives advice about age-appropriate conversations and behavior to model for our kids that will challenge us toward a healthy view of sex and sexuality.Lea pushes the envelope and even goes against what we view as cultural norms. Buckle up, listen closely, and no matter what stage of parenting you're in, take notes!2021-04-2358 minPermission for PleasurePermission for PleasurePartner Sexual Desire DiscrepanciesIf you experience conflict in your relationship over sexual desire, you’re not alone. According to my guest expert, every couple has a difference in sexual desire! Do men and women experience desire differently? Are we really supposed to just feel sexual desire? How can couples work through this issue in a healthy way? This conversation answers these questions and more. Leslie Gustafson, LMFT, and AASECT CST is a Sex, Women’s & Marriage Master Coach who’s heart and mission is to “Unleash Women & Couples into Empowered Lives, Lasting Love and Amazing Intimacy.” She provides personal coaching through her...2021-04-0735 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastMindfulness in the Bedroom, with Kim Boda_Episode 36Kim Boda, today's guest, is passionate about helping entrepreneurs and Realtors to level up and reach their highest potential through high-performance coaching, mindfulness, and neuroscience programs. She is a real estate expert at eXp Realty, a certified High-Performance Coach, Neurochangesolutions Corporate Trainer, and teaches "Mindfulness At Work" to organizations.Kim creates the real, strong, and legitimate link between mindfulness, sex, and intimacy.With her simple and practical tactics, she teaches us how to be connected with our mind and body. There is so much that we hold in our body, and without a doubt, we take...2021-04-0237 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastChronic Pain Resilience and Relationships with Amberly Lago_Episode 35Today's guest has a truly remarkable story of finding grit within and rising strong. After being in a terrible motorcycle accident, Amberly Lago went into a medically induced coma. She went through a painful process of 34 surgeries and a lot of physical therapy. For years she needed the assistance of a wheelchair.Today, Amberly is a health and wellness coach, TEDx speaker, podcaster, and a leading expert in the field of resilience and transformation. I'm eager for you to hear Amberly's solid advice for actually putting ourSELVES on our "to-do" list. She talks about...2021-03-1953 minSoundcloud RSS Act OneSoundcloud RSS Act OneErik Satie | Gnossienne No. 3 (Change Request ReVision)Erik Satie | Gnossienne No. 3 (Change Request ReVision) Official Video: https://bit.ly/3clpSSj For this ReVision, I reimagined one of the more poignant pieces in his Trois Gnossiennes piano works from 1890, “Gnossienne No. 3”, the final “Lent” free-time piece, following the “Gnossienne No. 2 - Avec Étonnement”. An abstract French Impressionist and influential artist of the early 20th-century Parisian avant-garde, Éric Alfred Leslie Satie aka Erik Satie (1866–1925), broke ground with his work for future artistic movements such as minimalism, repetitive music, and ambient music with his innovative “Musique D’Ameublement” works, dating from 1917. An accomplished art and cultural journalist, publishing works for outlets as wide-rangin...2021-03-0810 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastGirl Talk with Special Guest Kathy J_Episode 34The Smart Sex Podcast is all about REAL TALK, and today's guest brings that with a side of laughter and fun. It is my honor, joy and delight to have my good friend Kathie J. join me. Kathie J. is a real life Wonder Woman. She's an Emmy award winning television host, a working mom of two beautiful girls, a wife, a daughter, a dog mom and advocate, and a #1 Morning Radio Show host of almost 20 years. She received her Best Lifestyle Host Emmy when she was co-host of Fox31's, "Colorado's Everyday Show." Kathie stays...2021-03-0549 minThe Laughing CoupleThe Laughing CoupleS1 E44 - SEX w Leslie GustafsonWith this being V-Day week and all, we thought it proper to talk about the thing that we all desire in our relationship... you'd think it would be laughter (TLC) but no, its SEX.Today we sit down with Leslie Gustafson, Master Therapist of 30 years, a Certified Sex Therapist. Leslie has been featured on FOX TV, NBC, Access Hollywood and The Laughing Couple Podcast (small plug). Leslie is also the host of The Smart Sex PodcastWe talk about: Why is Sex such an issue for Couples When...2021-02-1643 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastBody Image Diet Culture and You_Episode 33In the identity development stage of my 20’s, many know, I struggled with body preoccupation, anorexia and bulimia which was my way of dealing with managing a loss, and feelings, particularly shame and anxiety, I felt I had no control of. It took a lot of hard therapeutic work for me to get well and ultimately shaped who I have become today.I discovered this episode’s guest on social media several years ago, and was so impressed by her knowledge and wisdom about issues that mean much so to me.Leslie Schilling, MA, RDN, CSCS, CEDR...2021-02-1247 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastSex Marriage and Laughter with the Ostofes Episode 32I have a delightful couple on this episode, and we’re going to be talking about sex, marriage, and laughter.Brittany and Ryan Ostofe cohost the podcast “The Laughing Couple,” which is #1 in Canada for Parenting and Relationships.They love to discuss the rawness of parenthood and how to create a healthy relationship through laughter and effective communication, and they did not disappoint in this conversation!By day, Brittany is the Curriculum Director for an Art company. She also runs her Instagram and Tiktok platforms with over 350,000 combined followers to empower her community of women...2021-02-0550 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastImagination and Fantasy in the Bedroom_Episode 31My husband Doug joins me to dip into the fascinating world of fantasy and imagination in the bedroom. There are many nuances and layers to this topic, but I want you to know that you are a creative and imaginative person in and out of the bedroom! Let yourself ponder that. Considering yourself and what you want to do with your inner life enhances you personally and could potentially improve your experience as a sexual person and a sexual partner.What’s fantasy all about, and what different kinds of fantasy are there? Why would we ne...2021-01-2240 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastCultivating Your Sensuality & Erotic Energy_Episode 30In this episode, our good friend Cindy Scharkey and I talk about cultivating our sensuality as women, but guys shouldn’t be in a hurry to skip this one: there’s some good stuff in there for you too!We cover the definition of sexuality and erotic energy, how to put that into practice in one’s life and relationships, the history of what gets in our way, the need for emotional expression, mindfulness, and how to cultivate sexuality.We want to empower women and give them the freedom and encouragement to have their voice and use it...2020-12-1853 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastAutism, Sexuality, and Finding Love_Episode 29I'm bringing you a very important topic today that is very near and dear to my heart. I'm talking with an expert on love, sexuality, and dating, as it relates to Autism. Many of you may know that I have a 21-year-old son who is Autistic: high-functioning, smart, brilliant, musical, but challenged. I have wanted to do this talk, not only because it's the life stage my son is in, but there is so much to be said about this very important topic.Today's distinguished guest is my friend and colleague, Jeremy Hamburgh. Jeremy is the founder of...2020-11-2700 minConfessions of a SuperMom WannabeConfessions of a SuperMom WannabeCultivating Your Marriage, with Doug and Leslie Gustafson2020-11-161h 04The Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastSex & Dating Today - A Discussion with Dating Experts (Part 2)_Episode 28This is part 2 of my talk with three dating experts: Connell Barrett, Anwar White, and Nate Hockstra.We’re picking where we left off, with Anwar talking about rejection and how dating is a numbers game, and then we tackle hookup culture from women’s perspective, being real and vulnerable in dating relationships, developing a blueprint for what you want sexually, the fears and hesitations women and men have around sex and dating, and some pretty cool client success stories.With over 10,000 hours of one-on-one coaching and training experience, Nate Hockstra is an expert in helping men...2020-11-1300 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastSex & Dating Today - A Discussion with Dating Experts (Part 1)_Episode 27I was delighted to have three handsome, incredible, knowledgeable dating coaches to talk about what single people are up against, how to navigate dating, and what the sexual culture is like today. This panel of experts is going to give you the inside scoop on what to do.With over 10,000 hours of one-on-one coaching and training experience, Nate Hockstra is an expert in helping men find meaningful relationships without the use of any “pick up” or game playing. You can connect with him at Ditchthegame.comConnell Barrett is the founder of Dating Transformation and a dati...2020-11-0600 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastXXcavating the truth about Pornography and Erotica_Episode 26The subject of porn is not one that many people talk about openly. As a Sex Therapist, I have talked with so many couples about this issue. We dig deep around the topic: not just for men, but also for women and couples together.Is it okay for couples to watch porn together as a way of enhancing their relationship? What about women and erotica? Does it have some of the same effects as pornography and the compulsivity that men can form around it?Together with my husband Doug, and my producer Kristen, who will be...2020-10-2300 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Reality of Sex Trafficking - A Porn Star's Story_Episode 25There is an epidemic in our world and nation today that is of great concern to all of us. While the conversation can be hard and uncomfortable at times, there is much that needs to be known and understood about sex trafficking which is currently happening at astounding rates. I sat down with Madyson Marquette, who was trafficked for almost a decade as a porn star. Madyson has bravely spoken out about her time in the porn industry and how it altered her life and how she gained her voice and took her freedom back. Madyson was beaten...2020-10-0900 minMakers Mean Business® with Damon Oates and Parker Stelly of DecoExchange®Makers Mean Business® with Damon Oates and Parker Stelly of DecoExchange®Episode 032: Let's RECAP the Makers Mean Business Podcast | A Check-In with Parker StellyCan you believe this is already EPISODE 32?! Y'all, time flies when you're having fun. Parker sat down to recap all the amazing content that has been covered so far in the podcast. Here's a quick reference in case there's an episode you want to go back and check out (or listen again!): Episode 001 - 6 Tips to Battle Impostor Syndrome Episode 002 - Getting Started, Failure, and the BIGGEST Myth about Business that NEEDS to be Busted! Episode 003 - Introduction to Subscription Boxes (Sarah Williams) Episode 004 - Story of a Maker...2020-10-0528 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastAnniversary Special: The BEST of the Podcast _ Episode 24Happy, happy birthday, to The Smart Sex Podcast! Despite the complexities and sometimes the taboo of sex, and even in the midst of a pandemic, it has been a full, rich year of discussing intimacy and hot topics with you. I am so thrilled that you have been on this journey with me, and that you are so eager to learn more about sex, sexuality, and relationships.We’ve had some extraordinary moments on the show, and I want to highlight some that you may have missed, or that just need to be repeated. We have taken a fe...2020-09-2549 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastGetting Real About Women and Sex_Episode 23On today’s episode, you’ll be hearing me interviewed by my good friend, Kristen Wheeler, producer of this show.The podcast today is for women and the guys who love them and could easily serve as a nice prompt for a mother-daughter or parent-daughter conversation about sex. We get real about sex and our sexuality as women, and WHY sex is so important for women, even when it doesn’t always feel like it. I talk about the benefits of sex, and some practical tips about how sex can actually be fun, enjoyable, and not a chore or som...2020-09-1137 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastSex When the Kids Are Home?_Episode 22“The Girlfriends” and I talk about the impact of having kids at home 24/7 has had on their sex lives.They talk about getting creative in the bedroom when the kids are always, ALWAYS home. How can it be done? Is walking in on your parents having sex a traumatic experience or a rite of passage? We answer these questions and more, as we talk about how gaming headsets, iPads, suckers, and “prayer” all have to do with having sex.2020-08-2851 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastNavigating Intimacy in Quarantine _Episode 21According to an NBC news poll, 24% of couples say that the extra time at home has positively affected their sex life, and a whopping 47% said it has negatively affected their sex life. According to eHarmony, 14% of couples have realized that their relationship is over, while 4% of people uncovered a virtual affair, and 3% have uncovered an affair in real life. Where do you and your significant other stand when it comes to these statistics? “The Girlfriends,” Jamie, Lori, Kristen and Laurel, talk with me about how the pandemic has positively and negatively affected intimacy with their spouses, their rela...2020-07-2451 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastEmpowering Our Teens - Relationships, Sex & Boundaries. _ Episode 20Dr. Lea Lis, double board certified Adult and Child Psychiatrist and Author of the book, "No Shame - Real Talk with Your Kids About Sex, Self Confidence and Healthy Relationships" * joins Leslie to talk about all things teens, sexuality, relationship development, parenting and how to help teens navigate their boundaries confidently.Dr. Lis is a true expert in child psychology and sexuality and is changing the way we talk to our kids about sex which lends itself beautifully to this deep and open dialogue about what healthy teenand parent relationships need to look and sound like.2020-07-0340 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastSexually Curious... What Men Want to Ask A Sex Therapist._ Episode 19Men are curious and want to know many things about sexuality and how sex works for their partner. In this episode, Doug Gustafson, Men's Coach asks Leslie the many questions men wonder about including: "Why does sex have to be so hard and complicated?" "Why does my wife never seem to initiate sex?' "What can I do about my anger and frustration around being sexually rejected?" "I have a huge sex drive and my wife doesn't, now what?" "How come I can't always tell if my wife has had an orgasm and what...2020-06-1944 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastSexplanation... What YOU Want To Know About Sex. _ Episode 18Through many years educating and answering questions on TV and social media, Leslie has heard from 1000's of people about what they most want to know about sex and relationships. So, in this episode the table is turned and Leslie is on the "hot seat". Her Coach/Therapist husband Doug Gustafson takes on the role of interviewer and asks questions YOU want to know - none of which Leslie was aware of before the interview.In this episode you will hear the real truth about these questions and more: "Does size really matter?'"Do...2020-06-0551 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastBehind The Scenes of Boudoir Photography._ Epsiode17Ross and Jessica Costanza* join Leslie for an inside look at Boudoir Photography.What actually happens when a woman chooses to shed her clothes and be photographed? What does she experience ? What is it like for a husband and wife team to be in the business of photographing women? Why would they choose to do this kind on work? How does it effect their marriage?You will likely be quite surprised by the truth of what really happens and can happen.Enjoy this episode full of relationship insights, myth busting, insider stories...2020-05-2245 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex Podcast"Wait. It Can Do What!?" - An Exploration in SexTech._ Episode 16Welcome to the fascinating world of Sex Technology - fast developing, cutting edge and at times jaw-dropping!In this episode, Leslie is joined by the smart, clinically savvy, sextech expert somatic psychologist and sex therapist Dr. Holly Richmond to talk about what is available to men and women in the current age where sexual devices, remotes and robotics are now at our finger tips.Sex technology is here to stay and Holly has immersed herself in the understanding of it and how it can enhance our relationships, intimacy, sexual experience and sexual pleasure. We...2020-05-0839 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastMen & Sex - Lovers & Leaders _ Episode 15In this Part 2 of Men & Sex with Doug Gustafson*, what healthy sexuality is for men and what is underneath men's desires is the central focus of this episode 15."Most men want to be better men" but don't necessarily know the path in the intimate, sexual, interpersonal and relational arenas.Men are lovers and leaders but need to unearth the "huge needs that have been put away in exile".Identity, emotions, the heart of a man, the role of porn and becoming whole as a man and better lovers and leaders are all discussed.2020-04-2435 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastMen & Sex - What Men REALLY Want._ Episode 14In this episode, Leslie's husband and coach/therapist of 40+ years Doug Gustafson joins her for a thorough look at male sexuality. In a date-like set up over a nice glass of red wine, Doug and Leslie have a very real and at times raw conversation about men, sex and what it's all about.From male sexual development, the importance of sex, addiction, out of control sexual behavior, men's feelings and desires, pornography and much more - THIS is a must listen to podcast!Doug has worked with 1000's of men and knows their hearts and minds...2020-04-1046 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastLet's Expand Foreplay and Increase Arousal._ Episode 13In this episode foreplay is forefront as is sexual arousal as guest *Cindy Scharkey, BSN, RN and Sex Educator joins Leslie.Cindy and Leslie do a deep dive into what foreplay really is and what it can be dispelling the myththat foreplay is simply "pre-gaming". Foreplay in and out of the bedroom is explored and new ways of creating satisfying foreplay are discussed.Sexual Arousal is not just a part of the sexual response cycle that happens in the bedroom, and Leslie and Cindy broaden the definition and offer many ways to increase arousal...2020-03-2752 minCASB ConnectionsCASB ConnectionsThe School Board Budget ProcessLearn what it takes to work on the school board budget, where it comes from and how to navigate incorporating the vision for placing students first in the process. School board budget experts, Glenn Gustafson and Barb Clementi share insights and tips into making the budget work for your district. Host: Leslie Bogar, CASB Director of Professional Learning Music: El Tajo by Cholate2020-03-271h 02The Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastAnxiety, Intimacy & Overcoming - One Man's Story. _ Episode 12Drew Linsalata* joins Leslie to talk about his compelling journey ofovercoming Anxiety, Panic Disorder and Agoraphobia and the impact those had on his relationaland intimate life.Much ground is covered about the reality of what disabling anxiety is and the impact it can have on one's whole life. However, the gold in this episode is HOW Drew overcame and the paththat is helping many, many others do the same.This episode travels through Drew's history from his first devastating panic attack at age 20 to the painful depth of a profound...2020-03-1346 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastCouples in Love - Tips, Turn Ons, Best Sex & Laughter. _ Episode 11I this lively episode 11, 4 couples talk together about all things committed relationship. From talking about best and funniest sex experiences, why hotel sex is so hot, to what they most adore about each other, and what turns each other on - this episode dips into the heart of real life intimacy.Many questions are asked that would benefit any couple to answer. Except perhaps the question, "What most annoys you about your partner?" lol.Enjoy being a part of this couple round table and getting to know Laurel and Dave, Jamie and Jason...2020-02-2843 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastGame Night & Real Talk - A Valentine's Day Special._ Episode 10Welcome & thank you for joining this Valentine's Day Party with 4 real couples (married 1- 23 years) as they play a Question & Answer game about sex , love and their relationships. Through much laughter, wine sipping, silly banter, real stories and at times tears, you are invited into honest conversation and to peer into the intimate workings of 4 thriving marriages that are alive and growing.Play along and have your own Valentine's Day (or any day) couple experience by answering the questions too. While not promoting drinking, some extra fun can be had by taking a sip every time you hear...2020-02-1439 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastIs Your Relationship PC?_ Episode 09Is Your Relationship PC?In this episode I am joined by my husband Doug as we talk to one of our favorite couples, Brian and Chelsea Peitz* about... "Power Coupling."Is Power Coupling even a thing? What does it mean to be a power couple in this day and age?Is it something to aspire to in a relationship?Doug and I have been told before we are a "power couple", but we had not thought of ourselves in that light or even knew what it meant so it opened up a pondering...2020-01-3155 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastOh, Oh, Orgasm! (Part 2) - Pleasing A Lady. _ Episode 08(This episode is brought to you by The Amazing Intimacy Box. It's more than a Date Night that delivers Amazing Love, Sex & Fun to Your Doorstep. Get yours at www.AmazingIntimacyBox.com)In this episode, Leslie continues the orgasm talk with her girlfriends Lori, Laurel, Jamie and Kristen about how women work sexually amongst laughter and even singing.How we as women and men have been oversold a masculine model of sexuality with it’s performance orientation and outcome focus, and the impact that has had on everyone’s understanding of sexuality. The negative effects of this...2020-01-1739 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastOh, Oh, Orgasm!_Episode 07 (Part 1)Please SUBSCRIBE!Leslie is joined once again by her smart girlfriend clan- Jamie Miller, Laurel Avrin, Kristen Wheeler and Lori Makkai as they all discuss the HOT topic of Orgasm for women.What orgasm is, how it happens and what gets in the way is explored.Through moments of much laughter, this episode digs deep on the intricacies of orgasm and thepersonal and relational issues that surround them.Lori talks about how "sex proofing" the bedroom helps and Laurel tells us how to make Alexa in the bedroom useful.2020-01-0336 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastSex. What Sex? - Keeping Sexy Alive After Twins_Episode 06Special guest Barbara (Babi) Pessanha* joins Leslie to talk about what it really looks like to keep married passion and sex alive after having twins. Babi brings practical wisdom and strategies on how she pulled herself out of the "post partum pit" and empowered herself through speaking up, asserting herself and setting clear boundaries with her husband to recapture the sex life she needed and wanted. Many women experience a dramatic shift in mood, sexual desire and identity after having a baby and Babi allows us to join her in her journey to rising up again as an...2019-12-0623 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastSex Then, Sex Now - Our Sexual Histories & The Education of Our Kids Today _ Episode 05In this 5th Episode, Leslie is joined by 5 smart, accomplished guys (also heard in Episode 4) all parents of children from age 4 to 37. With great candor and willingness to talk about their own sexual histories and understanding, it is clear all want to be solid sex educators and great parents to their children. The idea from David that the age before technology was a "more innocent time", all mendiscuss how they are trying to navigate and even counter the sexual culture and the sexual messages and information kids are receiving early on today. The real...2019-11-2239 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastIn Pursuit of Sex: 5 Guy’s Journeys in Discovering Their Sexuality_ Episode 04In this episode Leslie talks to 5 men ages 39-67 (many husbands of the women in Episodes 1 and 2) about how they learned about, discovered and explored their sexuality in their childhoods, on into their young adult years and how it has shaped them as men and parents. In American culture, only approximately 25% of men report having any formal sex education. Nevertheless, you will hear about the pursuit and active attempts, these guys, like many, have lived through to become sexual and sexually smart. Real, intimate, honest and at times humorous conversation. Listen, enjoy, relate, consider your own...2019-11-0837 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastHer Body, Her Pleasure_Episode 03Put your sex geek on & let's get "cliterate"! Leslie is joined in this episode by her colleague and peer Cindy Scharkey, BSN, RN, Speaker and passionate Educator to talk about women's sexuality, and in depth about the clitoris- the primary sexual pleasure center for women.Dispelling myths and miseducation about a woman's genital anatomy and function, Leslie and Cindy have a shared focus in helping women and their partners become knowledgable, well acquainted with their bodies, freed up and empowered in their sexuality. Listen, learn, expand and try out new things to become more comfortable, confident...2019-10-2533 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastLet's Talk Sex (part 2) - What Turtles, Rockets & Men's Underwear Have to Do With It_Episode 02In this episode, Leslie and The Girlfriends continue the talk about sex education and their experiences with it.* Leslie talks about how sex education needs to unfold from birth on, the critical role of relationships and how sex education is a process over a lifetime. She broadens the definition of sex education and everyone offers real examples of how to talk about sex with each other, our partner’s and our kids. “Sex education is not one talk.” Touch, affection, creating a safe place for our children and showing them what love looks like is explored by all the gi...2019-10-1125 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastLet's Talk Sex - What Nasal Flares, Potato Chips & Hiding Behind Chairs Have to Do With It _Episode 01In this first episode, Leslie Gustafson is joined by 5 of her closest, courageous, smart girlfriends willing to talk openly about their own sexual education and sexual experiences. Through much laughter (brace yourself, it can be loud for those wearing headphones) and deep moments, you will hear the truth of what many women live through to learn about sex and become sexual in our Western culture. Talking about sex openly and becoming sexually knowledgeable creates power, protection, prevention and opens the door to pleasure and empowerment while releasing hindering shame and fear.In the United States, only 12...2019-09-2641 minThe Smart Sex PodcastThe Smart Sex PodcastSmart Sex Podcast Teaser.Welcome to The Smart Sex Podcast – Real talk about Sex, Relationships and HOT Topics. This is your host Leslie Gustafson, Certified Sex Therapist , Marriage & Relationship Coach & Licensed Master Psychotherapist of 30 years ( I say that humbly and for credibility so you know you are in knowledgeable, experienced hands.) I have had the privilege of being FOX TV’s Sex & Relationship Expert for 5 1/2 years as well as being a guest on Access Hollywood, and all the major networks and many radio channels. It was time to start my own show and dig in more deeply and expressively.In the coming epis...2019-09-2203 minConfessions of a SuperMom WannabeConfessions of a SuperMom WannabeLet's Talk About Sex: Chatting with a Marriage and Sex TherapistToday I’m talking with Marriage and Sex Therapist, Leslie Gustafson. Leslie is a licensed marriage and family therapist, certified sex therapist and coach and television expert. In addition to her 30 year private practice, she is Cofounder of the online Marriage Transformation Program - Get Your Dream Marriage and CEO of The Amazing Intimacy Subscription Box Co. She and her husband Doug wrote the book “Amazing Intimacy - Create A Spectacular Marriage In & Out of the Bedroom”.    Leslie and I get real about sex and our sexuality as women. We talk about WHY sex is important beyond just making babies or just b...2019-07-0100 minAround The RimAround The RimAnd The Winner Is...In this very special episode, LaChina Robinson is in Tampa for the Final Four and sits down with the WBCA and Naismith Hall of Fame position award winners Asia Durr (Louisville), Megan Gustafson (Iowa), and Bridget Carleton (Iowa State). Plus, after talking with the winners, she sits down with the Naismith Hall of Famers themselves: Cheryl Miller, Katrina McClain, Teresa Edwards, Lisa Leslie, Ann Meyers Drysdale and Nancy Lieberman. 2019-04-051h 04The Anxious Truth - A Panic, Anxiety, and Mental Health PodcastThe Anxious Truth - A Panic, Anxiety, and Mental Health PodcastEP 0059 - Anxiety, Sex and Relationship Issues (With Leslie Gustafson)Send in a question or comment via text.A discussion of how anxiety disorders can impact sex, intimacy and relationships in general with licensed therapist and certified sex therapist Leslie Gustafson.  Leslie and I talk about the general approach to this problem, some of the nuances, and  – surprise – we talk about how action oriented behavioral therapies are so effective in addressing not only the sex problem, but the anxiety disorders themselves. Thanks to Leslie for taking the time to help out!My Linkshttps://theanxioustruth.com/linksFind Leslie online here:h...2019-01-0423 minWhine Down with Jana KramerWhine Down with Jana KramerEp. 26 Sunscreen LessonsJana and Mike sit down with Dr. Leslie Gustafson, an intimacy expert and marriage and family therapist. She helps uncover some truths about their relationship, and Mike is left in tears after hearing it.  Then Dr. Sonia Batra, a dermatologist from The Doctors, checks in, to help Jana and Mike understand the importance of taking care of their skin.  And we find out a crazy secret that Jana only does when she’s totally alone.   Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.2018-11-051h 15Whine Down with Jana Kramer and Michael CaussinWhine Down with Jana Kramer and Michael CaussinEp. 26 Sunscreen LessonsJana and Mike sit down with Dr. Leslie Gustafson, an intimacy expert and marriage and family therapist. She helps uncover some truths about their relationship, and Mike is left in tears after hearing it.  Then Dr. Sonia Batra, a dermatologist from The Doctors, checks in, to help Jana and Mike understand the importance of taking care of their skin.  And we find out a crazy secret that Jana only does when she’s totally alone.   Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers2018-11-051h 15Whine Down with Jana KramerWhine Down with Jana KramerEp. 11 What's the Sex?Jana and Mike have a huge announcement to make: the gender of their new baby!   Then, sex therapist Leslie Gustafson calls in with some crucial advice on what to do if your partner has a different love language than you.    And Jana shares some tips on how to manage anxiety, and we hear her honest thoughts on “mom guilt” Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.2018-07-231h 15Whine Down with Jana Kramer and Michael CaussinWhine Down with Jana Kramer and Michael CaussinEp. 11 What's the Sex?Jana and Mike have a huge announcement to make: the gender of their new baby!   Then, sex therapist Leslie Gustafson calls in with some crucial advice on what to do if your partner has a different love language than you.    And Jana shares some tips on how to manage anxiety, and we hear her honest thoughts on “mom guilt” Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers2018-07-231h 15The Leslie Marshall ShowThe Leslie Marshall ShowMinnesota Teamsters From O'Reilly Auto Parts About To StrikeLeslie is joined by Troy Gustafson, a Teamster representative (business agent) for Teamsters Local 120 in Minnesota.Leslie and Troy discuss O’Reilly Auto Parts drivers, represented by Teamsters Local 120, voting to overwhelmingly reject the company’s contract offer. Workers say management’s demands will create safety risks for drivers on the road, undermine their living standards and introduce inefficiencies in the company’s distribution system.2017-02-0216 minBrave WriterBrave Writer17. (S1E17) Healthy Homeschooling & Happy MarriageI’m excited to introduce you to my good friend (and sorority sister, ha!) Leslie Gustafson! Leslie’s worked as a marriage and family therapist for over 25 years and is a homeschooling mother of a teenage son. She regularly appears on the Fox Morning show in Denver Colorado sharing relationship advice for couples. Because so many […]2016-07-211h 03