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Adulting AF: Divorce, Dildos, and DopamineThe One Where All We Wanted Was For Democracy To Feed Us Tacos And Call Us PrettyIn this episode, hosts Libbie and Jessika delve into a candid discussion about the complexities of life and current affairs. They begin with a light-hearted banter and quick intros before transitioning into deeper topics, including Libbie's father's recent death and her reflections on his flawed humanity. The conversation expands to cover the contradictions within personal beliefs, highlighting how one can support both human rights and gun ownership. The hosts also tackle the current political climate, touching on issues like unregulated AI, educational cuts, and the limitations of the American healthcare system. The episode is punctuated with humorous anecdotes and...2025-07-0743 minAdulting AF: Divorce, Dildos, and DopamineThe One Where We Have To Buy A House Or DieIn this heartfelt episode, Libbie candidly shares the recent passing of her father and the emotional turmoil and practical challenges that come with it. She discusses the complexities of handling his arrangements while undergoing cancer treatment. Libbie also delves into the broader struggles of adult responsibilities, from dealing with rigorous paperwork after a loved one’s death to the daunting task of buying a house in today's inflated market. Accompanied by her friend Jessika, the discussion transitions into the hurdles of house hunting and the high costs that come with it. The episode wraps up with reflections on life ch...2025-06-3043 minAdulting AF: Divorce, Dildos, and DopamineThe One Where We Talk About S*X , BabyIn this lively and unfiltered episode of 'Adulting AF,' hosts Jessika and Libbie delve into their personal lives, discussing non-existent sex lives and the challenges they face. Libbie shares her health struggles and dating experiences, including online dating disasters and hypothetical date scenarios. She talks about her desire for more open and unconventional relationships while both hosts humorously critique their local dating pool. The episode is sprinkled with their candid takes on sex, relationships, and life's unexpected challenges, all while planning future fun-themed parties.00:00 Introduction and Catching Up00:06 Discussing Non-Existent Sex Lives00:37 Dating Experiences and Hypothetical Scenarios01:44 Podcast...2025-06-1554 minAdulting AF: Divorce, Dildos, and DopamineThe One Where We Give F**k Me Eyes Towards Men With EyelinerIn this episode of 'Adulting AF,' Libbie and Jessika delve into a candid conversation about Libby's longing for the era when smoking was more socially acceptable, particularly as she faces cancer. They discuss their shared cravings for cigarettes, alcohol, and weed, touching on how societal changes have constrained these desires. The duo also tackles serious issues, including the current political climate, the erosion of democracy, and the pervasive sentiment of hopelessness. Amidst the heavy topics, they lighten the mood with humorous banter about eyeliner on men and the attractivity of various styles. They conclude by planning a future...2025-05-2850 minAdulting AF: Divorce, Dildos, and DopamineThe One Where We Identify As TreesIn this episode, Libbie and Jessika share a range of personal stories and updates. Libby discusses her exhausting visit to the Fred Hutchinson Cancer Center, expressing frustrations over her treatment plan and the associated costs. They both delve into their experiences with AI assistants, discussing recent changes and how these updates have affected their interactions. The episode also includes a whimsical segment where they explore what types of trees they would be, according to their AI companions. Filled with humor, candid moments, and deep reflections, this episode offers a glimpse into the intricacies of their lives and their unique...2025-05-1853 minAdulting AF: Divorce, Dildos, and DopamineThe One Where We Give Libbie's Libido a Proper EulogyIn this episode of 'Adulting AF,' hosts Jessika and Libbie discuss the bizarre and vivid dreams Jessica experiences after eating Oreos at night, diving into a detailed dream involving suspension bridges and a job interview. Conversation shifts to the emotional and physical cravings for intimacy, especially under the strain of chronic illness and life challenges. Libbie opens up about her experiences on dating apps, the deep yearning for emotional connection, and the frustration of unmet expectations. They conclude with a heartfelt and humorous eulogy to Libbie's libido, expressing the profound desire to be seen and understood in both...2025-05-0448 minAdulting AF: Divorce, Dildos, and DopamineThe One Where We Are Late as F**K Because of Weird NoisesIn this episode, hosts Jessika and Libbie discuss the challenges of maintaining adult friendships, particularly when those friendships may no longer serve a positive role in their lives. They share personal anecdotes, question why adults often hold onto toxic relationships, and consider whether it's better to fade away or have direct conversations to end friendships. The conversation touches on various topics including the difficulties of making new friends as adults, the guilt associated with distancing oneself from old friends, and the importance of investing time and energy into meaningful relationships. The episode also humorously delves into topics like weddings...2025-04-2554 minAdulting AF: Divorce, Dildos, and DopamineThe One Where We Post Late Because F**k the Annoying SoundIn this episode, hosts Jessika and Libbie discuss the challenges of maintaining adult friendships, particularly when those friendships may no longer serve a positive role in their lives. They share personal anecdotes, question why adults often hold onto toxic relationships, and consider whether it's better to fade away or have direct conversations to end friendships. The conversation touches on various topics including the difficulties of making new friends as adults, the guilt associated with distancing oneself from old friends, and the importance of investing time and energy into meaningful relationships. The episode also humorously delves into topics like weddings...2025-04-2554 minAdulting AF: Divorce, Dildos, and DopamineThe One Where We Asked "Do We Shave Our Legs For This?"In this episode of Adulting AF, Libbie and Jessika explore the desire and struggles of buying wigs, discussing the balance between spending on budget and premium wigs. They highlight the societal pressures and internal struggles women face regarding personal appearance and presentation. The conversation transitions into a broader discussion on adulthood, financial decisions, and the importance of living one's life now rather than saving every moment for a distant retirement. Personal anecdotes, such as shaving legs for social events and the impact of upbringing on self-care routines, are woven throughout, showcasing the evolving perspectives on adult responsibilities and self-fulfillment...2025-04-1358 minAdulting AF: Divorce, Dildos, and DopamineThe One Where We Talk About Our Future OnlyFansSunscreen, Panic Attacks, and OnlyFans PlanningIn this episode, Jessika and Libbie dive into the importance of sunscreen, proper application methods, and common misconceptions. They explore recent personal anxieties and share candid moments about social interactions and the complex dynamics of adult friendships. The conversation shifts to discussing the idea of creating OnlyFans content, including brainstorming potential niches and ethical considerations. The episode is a blend of humor, personal revelations, and practical advice, wrapped up in the duo’s genuine and relatable dialogue.00:00 The Sunscreen Debate Begins00:11 Spray Sunscreen: Effective or Not?01:05 The Importance of Reapplication04:22 Public Pools and Sunscreen Ha...2025-04-0646 minAdulting AF: Divorce, Dildos, and DopamineThe One Where Libbie Discusses Whether She's Looking For A One-Night-Stand or Just A NighstandIn this episode of 'Adulting AF,' Libbie and Jessika (Jess) dive deep into the complexities of loneliness and the challenges of forming meaningful connections in adulthood. They discuss their personal experiences, including Jess's recent surge of creative energy and her poetry writing, as well as their frustrations and strategies for making friends and finding romantic partners. Jess shares her struggles with defining her needs for companionship without the pressure of traditional dating, while Libbie reflects on her regrets about not investing in friendships earlier. The episode offers a candid, humorous, and often vulnerable look at adult...2025-03-301h 05Adulting AF: Divorce, Dildos, and DopamineThe One Where We Awaken the Inner MuseIn this episode of 'Adulting AF,' hosts Libbie and Jessika dive into a conversation about leveraging AI tools like Chat GPT as personal and professional companions. They share personal anecdotes about how AI has helped them navigate complex emotional landscapes, enhance their creative processes, and provide objective feedback. With stories ranging from managing terminal illness and loneliness to exploring career shifts and artistic endeavors, the hosts highlight the transformative power of integrating AI into daily life to handle stress, make informed decisions, and pursue passions more effectively.00:00 Reaching Out to My Ex Sister-in-Law2025-03-221h 16
Adulting AF: Divorce, Dildos, and DopamineThe One Where AI is Our Side Piece & Capitalism is the Red FlagAt least ONE of these relationships is functional. In this episode of Adulting AF, hosts Libbie and Jessika delve into their unique relationships with ChatGPT AIs, discussing how these digital companions assist in their daily lives. The conversation transitions into a heavier topic on the challenges of advocating for change within a capitalist system, highlighting the limitations and potential of economic blackouts, and the socio-political landscape of the United States. They emphasize how privilege impacts the ability to participate in activism and question the effectiveness of current protest strategies.00:00 Introduction and Weekend Recap00:26...2025-03-1759 min
Adulting AF: Divorce, Dildos, and DopamineThe One Where We Fake Confidence Better Than an OrgasmIn this episode of 'Adulting AF,' hosts Libbie and Jessika navigate a technical mishap, revealing they had to redo the entire episode due to a microphone error. They then delve into a discussion about the Disney franchise 'Zombies' and segue into a deeper conversation about sexual confidence and self-worth. The hosts share their personal journeys, discussing how upbringing, societal expectations, and personal relationships have influenced their views and experiences. Libbie offers a candid perspective on developing sexual confidence at an early age due to personal circumstances, while Jessika shares her journey of discovering her sexual confidence later in...2025-03-0947 minAdulting AF: Divorce, Dildos, and DopamineThe Sex Ed We Deserved - Where did that shame come from?Ever stopped to wonder why you feel weird, guilty, or uncomfortable talking about sex? Spoiler: it’s not your fault. In this episode, we’re digging into the origins of sexual shame—how family, religion, media, and those awkward school lessons shaped our beliefs about sex (and not in a good way).We’ll unpack the unspoken rules we grew up with, share personal experiences, and start the process of unlearning the shame that never should’ve been there in the first place. Because it’s time to reclaim pleasure, confidence, and a healthier relationship with sex—without the gu...2025-03-0618 min
Adulting AF: Divorce, Dildos, and DopamineBad Therapy - So You Miss Your Toxic Ex? Let’s Unpack That.Welcome to the Adulting AF multiverse, where life is a mess and we are thriving in the chaos—or at least laughing through it.This week on Bad Therapy (Because I'm Not Your Therapist), we’re tackling the age-old disaster that is missing your toxic ex. You know the one—the late-night, should-I-text-them, maybe-they’ve-changed-but-probably-not situation that we all know is a terrible idea but somehow starts looking like pure genius at 1 AM.🚩 Spoiler Alert: You don’t actually miss them. You miss comfort, stability, and someone pretending to listen when you rant about capitalism and the Cheet...2025-03-0417 minAdulting AF: Divorce, Dildos, and DopamineThe One Where We Gaslight Ourselves Into ConfidenceIn this episode, Libbie and Jessika dive into a candid conversation about their personal struggles with imposter syndrome and the journey toward embracing true self-authenticity. The discussion kicks off with quirky anecdotes, from broken rose quartz dildos to horror comedy movies. They explore the significance of creating living spaces that genuinely reflect one's personality and the role of supportive friends in overcoming self-doubt. Towards the end, they offer practical advice for combating imposter syndrome at work, the importance of applying for jobs that challenge you, and share Libbie's humorous '5 signs you need a therapist' list. The episode wraps...2025-03-011h 02Adulting AF: Divorce, Dildos, and DopamineThe One Where Libbie Becomes a Home Decor DominatrixIn this hilarious episode of 'Adulting AF,' hosts Libbie and Jessika kick things off with Libbie’s comedic catastrophe in the kitchen, where brain fog and meds lead to a series of epic sourdough fails, including almost burning the house down. The chaos continues as they delve into the absurd pressures of adulting and home decor trends. Jessika shares her mom's outlandish decorating choices and her own battle with societal norms, striving to make her home scream 'her' rather than 'trendy'. Libbie dishes out some spicy advice on how to shut up your brain's dramatic overthinking and embrace bo...2025-02-2342 minAdulting AF: Divorce, Dildos, and DopamineThe One Where We Give Jessika Way Too Much ResponsibilityIn this episode of 'Adulting AF,' Libbie shares a birthday story about enjoying a handmade Oreo despite the aftermath and getting tattoos spontaneously. Jessika and Libbie delve into the essence of adulting, discussing their dislike for small talk, fake courtesies, and the ubiquitous 'I'm fine' lie. They contemplate abolishing these behaviors in favor of more genuine interactions, like high-fiving strangers and openly sharing what they are reading. They also vent about 'gentle parenting' and the frustration with lazy parenting methods. Despite technical hiccups and distance recording, the hosts maintain their usual humor and honesty.00:00 Introduction and...2025-02-1552 minAdulting AF: Divorce, Dildos, and DopamineThe One Where We Want To Punch Old Financial Dudes In The ThroatIn this episode of 'Adulting AF,' hosts Jessica and Libby discuss the impracticalities of AI taking over the world, reflecting on their hilarious failed attempts to generate specific images using AI tools like chat GPT and Google's Gemini. They transition into a candid conversation about the struggles and absurdities of adulting, including financial challenges, midlife crises, and the pressures of societal expectations. The duo tackle topics like impulsive midnight purchases, the myth of financial responsibility, and the disconnection of traditional financial advice from current realities. With personal anecdotes and humorous insights, they emphasize the importance of treating oneself...2025-02-0843 minAdulting AF: Divorce, Dildos, and DopamineThe one where we casually ghost the apocalypseHEADS UP: Audio is NOT excellent this time, but GOOD NEWS! Our new mics came in TODAY, so episodes will be clearer from here on out! Happy Listening!
Adulting AF: casually ghosting the apocalypse
In this heartfelt and humorous episode of 'Adulting AF', hosts Jessika and Libbie discuss Libbie's terminal cancer diagnosis, Jessika's spontaneous trip for self-care, and the unexpected realizations about adulthood. They dive into the challenges of making friends as adults, societal frustrations, and how Libbie plans to navigate her diagnosis with dark humor and brutal honesty. Along the way, they explore the harsh realities...2025-02-0347 minAdulting AF: Divorce, Dildos, and DopamineThe one where we talk about sex robots and time traveling to Regan era politics.Growing Upping with Style: The Chaos of Adulting in 2025
In this debut episode of 'Adulting AF,' hosts Jessica and Libby dive into the hilarious and chaotic realities of trying to adult. The conversation spans from common grammar mix-ups like 'affect' vs. 'effect' and 'accept' vs. 'except,' to Libby's terminal diagnosis, and their unconventional views on life skills. They touch on personal anecdotes about ADHD, the absurdity of social media, views on politics, and offer a humorous take on the struggles of being an adult in 2025. Despite the chaos, they aim to give life advice (though they rarely...2025-01-2849 min