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The Lily Podmy christmas wishlist: platonic intimacy, reciprocal friendships with men, + collective healing from patriarchyfrom exploring the ambiguities of platonic intimacies, to unpacking the depths of mistrust stemming from circumstances of boundary-breaking in the name of male desire, this episode is here to make space for all the feelings around what it means to be in friendship with men. to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2023-12-1241 minThe Lily Podcurating coziness, easing into winter, + remembering the magic of collectivitytime to grab a warm cup of tea, put on your favourite socks, and tend to your heart by slowing down for a minute.to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2023-11-2733 minThe Lily Pod"i'm just a girl!" ~ unpacking girl dinner, gender performance, and our collective desire to be seengirl dinner: normalized self-neglect or a liberated expression of feminine chaos? girl math: a reproduction of sexist stereotypes or an assertation of desire for youth and irresponsibility? find out in this week's episode that explores the entangled depths of meaning surrounding the online discourse that is 'girl theory'. to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2023-10-0238 minThe Lily Podseasonal rituals, queer femmes, + crush confessionals: scatter-brain special!this week i'm here to chat with you about all the hot topics, including but not limited to: my favourite autumn rituals, femininity and armpit hair, how to cope with burnout, and brainstorming love confessions. to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2023-09-1131 minThe Lily Podgrowing existentialism, sam levinson, and girlhood: scatter-brain special!this week's ep is a jumble of thoughts ranging from existential oversharing over coffee with friends, the manic-pixie-dream-girl (but make her mentally unstable) characters of the 2010s, and mermaid erotica book recommendations. to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2023-08-2929 minThe Lily Podmaiden, mother, crone: exploring the feminine archetypes under patriarchythis week we're taking a look at the construction of feminine archetypes as patriarchal measurements of womanhood; exploring their empowering potential; and how this gets complicated when gender essentialism comes into the mix.to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2023-08-0821 minThe Lily Pod"come on barbie let's go [cry our eyes out in the movie theatre]!"this episode is just 25 minutes of me gushing over greta gerwig. come hang out!!to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2023-08-0224 minThe Lily Podis she your "girl crush" or are you just queer?this episode tackles the worldwide phenomenon of the "girl crush" -- exploring her connection to the fetishization of queer women, the wide world of queerbaiting, and responding to the age-old sapphic question: do I want to BE her or be WITH her?to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2023-07-0423 minThe Lily Podconfronting patriarchal storytelling and our instinct to hate women: enter the feminist killjoythis episode pulls its inspiration from Erin Wunker's 2016 book Notes from a Feminist Killjoy: Essays on Everyday Life - a literary portal through which we may all enter for the next 30 minutes in an honest discussion about the nuances of female friendship under patriarchy, the limitations of hetero-relational messaging, and our collective obligation to confront internalised misogyny.to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2023-06-2932 minThe Lily Podonly respecting women ur attracted to isn't respecting women: unpacking femmephobia, anti-femininity, + gender policingthis week's episode is centered around the cultural devaluation of femininity, with a splash of commentary on modern vigilantism, the nuances of reclaiming the 'slut' phase, and the politics of being un/desirable. to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2023-06-1226 minThe Lily Podtrusting ur friends, spiritual shifts, + the power of pink hair dye: scatter-brain special!welcome back for another little mix n match convo of this week's most potent reflections - from dyeing my hair pink to bringing sacred intention to each passing moment... happy to be here with you.to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2023-06-0522 minThe Lily Podit's a bird... it's a plane... it's a lesbian vampire!this episode explores the cinematic history of the queer monster, centering the figure of the lesbian vampire in an analysis the trope of the 'monstrous other' fundamental to the horror genre. particularly focusing on the 1971 film Daughters of Darkness, this episode shares a queer interpretation of cinematic tropes while highlighting the critical role of camp as a subversive tool of reclamation. to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2023-05-1527 minThe Lily Podfriendship, AI, and letting people love you: scatter-brain special!cozy up for a hodge-podge of this week's reflections!to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2023-05-0135 minThe Lily Podare u in love with ur friends or are u in LOVE with ur friends? ~ platonic soulmates, queer love, + friendship heartbreakthis episode can be summed up in a single quote:"did you ever have an intense homoerotic years-long friendship in your early to mid teens that culminated in a dramatic friend breakup or are you straight?" (quoted from @permutedgravity on twitter)to join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram 2023-04-0336 minThe Lily Podchoose ur fighter: sunday scaries or sunday sexies (......psst.. there's room for both!)this week's episode is answering all your questions around familiarizing ourselves with intimacy, the importance of context, navigating nerves around queer sex, and locating our desires outside of compulsory sexuality. to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2023-02-1936 minThe Lily Podwhen does self-care become self-isolation?hey! let's curl up and chat about the clarity of aloneness, winter embodiment practices, and nurturing self intimacy :) to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2023-02-1226 minThe Lily Podnew year, recycled ideas: defining home, being introspective, + coining the small-town gazethis ep is a little farewell to 2022, hello to 2023, and an ode to understanding home, self, reflection, and love. to join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram 2023-01-0326 minThe Lily Podcome at me winter blues!!!! ~ seasonal transitions + romancing routinehave you taken a deep belly breath yet today? .........take this as ur sign. 2022-12-1223 minThe Lily Podan interrogation of rape culture & re-defining consent***This episode is released as part of a university project for SSDB 425: Ethics in Community Engagement at Concordia University***This week's episode centers around an interrogation of the principal elements of rape culture, drawing from the work of scholars who aim to understand the structure, functioning, and reinforcement of a culture of sexual violence. In it, we will explore the nuances of understanding consent, relations, and agency within spaces, structures, and dynamics of coercion, all in attempts to re-work understandings of consent within a culture of naturalized violence. Sexual Violence Resources N...2022-11-2821 minThe Lily Poda cozy november chat ~ uni tips, falling in love, + understanding self-imagehere's a soft little episode to welcome in november 2022-11-0736 minThe Lily Podclassic horror tropes: tag urself i'm the queer coded villainall in the festive spirit of spooktober, this ep is dedicated to unravelling the relationship between queerness, feminine sexuality, and the horror genre. if you didn't see Carrie as a closeted lesbian on your first viewing, you will now :-)to join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram 2022-10-1125 minThe Lily Podself-soothe to self-sabotage pipeline: the nuanced effects of gilmore girls + pesto pastatoday's ep is brought to you by nostalgia™ ~ here to have a cozy chat about comfort zones, alone time, and how easily we can get in the way of our own peace.to join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram 2022-09-1235 minThe Lily Podpreviously on looooooveeeee island: reality tv, misogyny, + escapismis it enjoyment, or just escapism? find out in today's ep on love island, normalised misogyny, and the slippery slope of reality tv viewing.to join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram 2022-08-1623 minThe Lily Poddo u need a reset routine or just a hug?hello flowers! 2022-08-0217 minThe Lily Pod"but you don't LOOK gay!" ".........ok?"in honour of the last few hours of pride month.... this one goes out to all my kehlani listening femmes out there..... i see u! ;) & i'm here to ramble for 30 mins on behalf of those of us who are all still carrying around a little invisible backpack of internalized heteronormativity, queer imposter syndrome, and feminine shame (despite thinking we may have escaped it once we left high school!). cozy up and get ready to feel gay. to join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram! 2022-07-0131 minThe Lily Podfree unlicensed relationship therapy... what could go wrong? (a q&a with Hannah Thiessen)this week's ep is a collaborative convo with a dear friend and recurring Lily Pod guest, Hannah Thiessen 2022-06-1358 minThe Lily Pod'cool girl' side effects may include (but are not limited to): isolation, obsessive comparison, + low self-esteemthink of this episode as an unofficial former-not-like-other-girls group therapy session - the one we all know we need.to join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram 2022-05-3129 minThe Lily Podhow to stop saying 'no worries' when it's rly 'yes worries'this one goes out to all my fellow people pleasers....... i'm calling us all out in this one xoxoxoxto join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram! 2022-05-1633 minThe Lily Podhot and extremely bothered girl summer: ur fav sundress vs. the male gazewelcome back to another chat where we're busy figuring out how to enjoy a good summer frolic without the company of the internalized male gaze; what it means to name compulsory (sexual/gender) performances; and how to escape the trap of personating desirability.to join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram! 2022-05-0224 minThe Lily Podhidden talents include: perfectionism, self-sabotage, + the ability to overthink even the best of situationswelcome back to another week 2022-04-1129 minThe Lily Podit me! ~ a q&a with your problematic favy'all ready to get up close n personal??? this week i'm answering all your questions about the gal on the other end of your screen ~ am i a fruit or a veggie? an introvert or extrovert? someone who knows wtf she's doing or the complete opposite? cozy up and come listen to me talk about myself for (way) too long 2022-03-2846 minThe Lily Podr u on the verge of insanity or just a woman?feeling unhinged?? GOOD. this episode is all about unhinged female characters ~ and we why we're completely obsessed with them. whether you see Amy Dunne as a feminist icon or a psychopathic villain (or both???), we're here to unpack what it is about characters like her that makes us so captivated. *hint: your level of captivation may coincide with the amount of female rage stored in your body*. to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2022-03-1421 minThe Lily Podexploring the ever-unfolding of our essence ~ age, development, memory, + connectionin this episode, I'm joined by my most special guest yet, my darling mum and registered psychotherapist, Jeffi Farquharson. in perfect alignment with our iconic conversational style we've coined as "snack night", we're jumping all over the place in this one! join us as we explore the reality of generation gaps in learning, the gender playfulness of dress-up boxes, backyard bra-burning, informing our intuition, and the magic of naps. to join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram! 2022-02-281h 39The Lily Pod"wyd tn?" ~ wondering if i like what i like bc i like it, or bc society TELLS me i like it.....welcome back to another week of The Lily Pod! 2022-02-0727 minThe Lily Podgetting dressed 101: unpacking the politics of fashioni'm joined this week with El (@fey.fatale on ig), a queer Pākehā Tangata Tiriti activist from Aotearoa (New Zealand) who's here to talk with me about the personal and political components of fashion. we're covering topics such as how to liberate ourselves through style expression, the interconnectedness of fashion and queer identity, & the history of gendered fashion as a colonial tool for reinforcing hierarchy. to join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram 2022-01-241h 09The Lily Podunlearning femininity: our inner pick-me's just wanting to be validatedwelcome back to The Lily Pod! 2022-01-1024 minThe Lily Podbiggest lessons of 2021 ~ boundaries, validation, + self-lurvhere to bring you hot takes about the nuances of boundaries, what it really means to ~protect ur energy~, understanding accountability, and why we need to stop labelling things as 'valid', this ep's wrapping it up for the year with a mixed bag of opinions ready to rock the boat. to join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram! 2021-12-1325 minThe Lily Podi always feel like somebody's watching me ~ the panopticon, internalized male gaze, + body surveillancethis episode is revisiting everyone's fav topic of discussion ~the male gaze~ ! we'll be chatting about the internalized male gaze in the context of the panopticon; how they operate as similar systems of power, why they're so effective, and how we might(?) be able to escape them(????). to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2021-11-2924 minThe Lily Poddo u actually like him, or is it comphet? ~ introducing compulsory heterosexualitythis episode is an introduction to the concept of compulsory heterosexuality as defined by Adrienne Rich (1980). we'll be diving into the deep end of heteropatriarchy, exploring how it shapes our relationships, our decisions, our sex lives, and our understandings of queerness. from chatting about childhood crushes, to internalized homophobia, to the infamous 'Am I a Lesbian' masterdoc, this ep is here to guide you in questioning whether your choices are intentional or compulsory. to join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram! 2021-11-1537 minThe Lily Podwhy u need to be prioritizing giggles: embracing childishness, boogying, + friendship!!joining me on the pod this week is my dearest friend Rose!! come n hang out with our chaotic giggly energy as we chat about everything from friendship, to boogying, to queerness, to reimaginations of romance. to join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram! 2021-11-0246 minThe Lily Podjealous much? that's ok! :Dthis episode is a get-to-know-me intro of the guy we all know as the green-eyed monster (+ maybe get into how we misjudged him???) - there'll be chats about how jealousy manifests, how it's romanticized, what behaviours it perpetuates, and how to confront it with the radical act of ~self-compassion~! let's get into it babes!!!!to join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram! 2021-10-1828 minThe Lily Podr u the main character, or just self-centered? ~ romanticizing ur life, main character syndrome + performativitythis episode is unpacking all the baggage that comes with the over-romanticization of life --- somewhere we've all probably been, but might not even be aware of. we'll be talking about everything from main character syndrome, to the dangers of seeing your life as a movie, to the insidious nature of social media trends (~that girl~ morning routine, anyone???). can we come to a conclusion on how to distinguish authenticity from performance? let's find out. to join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram! 2021-10-0519 minThe Lily Podlet's talk about sex, baby: education, consent, + empowermentin this episode, we'll be talking about all the ways in which sex ed curriculums set us up for failure, with particular focus to their perpetuation of sexual shame, exclusions of queerness, and biiiig lack of understanding consent. with a bite-sized consent education introduction, some discussion around heteronormative-centered sex ed, and answering some of your sex-related questions, this one's got a lot going on! to join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram! 2021-09-2732 minThe Lily Podthe female gaze, queer desire, + male gaze subversionsthis episode is a little exploration of the female gaze in film -- what it is, how it appears, and how it differs from the male gaze. we'll also be digging into some critiques of how these two gazes reinforce binaries of identity, gender, and personal experience, all while taking into consideration the subversive role of queer desire!to join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram! 2021-09-1324 minThe Lily Podr u scared of commitment, or just real emotion? ~ relationships, vulnerability, + lovethis episode is a fun little collab with my partner of (almost) 4 years, Marco! come hang out with us as we chat about all things ~lurv~! from handling conflict/resolution with opposing communication styles, prioritizing playfulness, exploring love languages, dealing with relationship FOMO, and navigating queer identity in a straight passing relationship, we're digging it allll up baby. join in! xoxoxoto join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram! 2021-09-0150 minThe Lily Podwhitewashing, appropriation, + the Kardashiansthis week's episode is a collaboration with the wonderful Lori (connect on Twitter @doingthemost__ !), who is here to talk about the role of whitewashing in celebrity and pop culture, with particular consideration to the infamous Kardashian family as the new faces of modern white feminism. from discussions of appropriation, aesthetics, racial ambiguities, and accountability, Lori guides us in a conversation that allows us to question our position in the idolization of celebrities.to join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram! 2021-08-2345 minThe Lily Podthere's an imposter among us!!! .....ps, it's u ~ perfectionism, self-doubt, + dealing with imposter syndromefeelin' like a fraud? you're not alone, baby. coming back full swing with an episode on dealing with imposter syndrome, negative internal dialogue, and perfectionistic overthinking, we'll be exploring three different types of imposters: The Perfectionist, The Natural Genius, and The Soloist. how do they show up? and how do you get them to f off??? settle on in as we do a little dive into understanding the power of insecurity combined with symptoms of systemic bias. to join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram! 2021-08-1528 minThe Lily Pod“bUt hE’s a gENiUs”: the myth of the male genius, separating the art from the artist, + the #metoo movementI'm joined this week by my dear friend and Art History major, Liv Deresti-Robinson, who's here to talk with me all about the myth of the male genius within the artistic industry; how this myth preserves rape culture, sustains hierarchy, and consistently excuses toxicity. from talking about god complexes, to the ever-debated question of whether or not we can (or should!) separate the art from the artist, this episode's all about unpacking the hierarchical nature of the artistic industry in which the "male genius" is worshipped, celebrated, and immortalized. read the article that inspired this episode! > https...2021-07-1949 minThe Lily Podthe universe owes u nothing: manifestation, new age spirituality, + egocentrismthis episode is dedicated to unpacking the often egocentric world of manifestation, including its ties to consumerism, capitalism, privilege, and entitlement. we'll be exploring factors of trendiness, self-manipulation, victim-blaming, and discrediting reality. cozy up and get ready!!!! she's a zinger. to join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram! 2021-07-0530 minThe Lily Podexploring gender in isolation: playfulness, fluidity, + embodimentjoining me on the pod this week for a conversation about gender, fluidity, and personal expression is the lovely Lou (connect on Instagram at @thetransacademic), who recently spoke at a subversions conference about the effects prolonged isolation has had on gender expression during the pandemic. Lou shares with us the intricacies of navigating gender identity, expression, and presentation within the context of extensive isolation through a unique lens of lived transgender experience. to join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram! 2021-06-2831 minThe Lily Podqueering the heteronormative narrative: queer coding, queer baiting, + ~shipping~in this week's episode, we're delving into the world of queering heteronormative narratives and characters in cinema + TV! with explanation of the history of queer coding, the role of censorship in stereotyping queerness in cinema, and Hollywood's love for queer baiting, this episode's got it alllll. to join the conversation, follow @thelily.pod on Instagram! 2021-06-2124 minThe Lily Podhow capitalism ruins pride month: rainbow washing, commodifying awareness, + brandinglink to Tech Colonialism Today by Sareeta Amrute: https://points.datasociety.net/tech-colonialism-today-9633a9cb00adthis week's ep is about the surface-level bullsh*t that comes along with pride month, all thanks to capitalism, commercialization, and branding 2021-06-1421 minThe Lily Podusing creativity as a tool for social change: a conversation with Josh Ritchielink to Digital Colonialism: The evolution of US empire by Michael Kwet -- https://longreads.tni.org/digital-colonialism-the-evolution-of-us-empire#:~:text=Digital%20colonialism%20is%20the%20use,of%20another%20nation%20or%20territory.this week's episode is a conversation with my good friend and singer-songwriter Josh Ritchie, who's sharing with us the creative process behind his latest EP inspired by the Black Lives Matter movement. Josh shares with us his experience of writing, recording, and producing the songs for this EP (available June 13th, 2021!), along with his involvement in leading the Black Lives Matter march...2021-05-2447 minThe Lily Podr u a scorpio, or just an a**hole? ~ searching for identity, naval gazing, + external validationlink to Decolonizing Technology: a reading list - Beatrice Martini: https://beatricemartini.it/blog/decolonizing-technology-reading-list/ in this episode, i'll be chatting about the never-ending search for identity, the different ways we seek external validation, and how identity trends encourage us to become overly self-involved. psa: if ur an astrology peep, u may want to sit down for this one 2021-05-1728 minThe Lily Poddo ur friends know u love them? ~ platonic intimacy, valuing friendship, and rejecting the romance narrativeTechnology Colonialism by Anjuan Simmons - https://modelviewculture.com/pieces/technology-colonialism joining me this week is my wonderful friend Antea Zivanovic, who is here with me to guide a conversation on platonic intimacy! we'll be chatting about everything from the representation of platonic vs. romantic relationships, the importance of intentional language, understanding the nuances of friendship, trauma dumping, and the beauty of saying 'I love you'. cuddle up with a cup o' tea and join in....... and don't forget to tell ur friends u love them.to join the conversation, follow @th...2021-05-1053 minThe Lily Podidentity chats with Armaan: bisexuality, being mixed race, and questioning basically everythingCitizenship in a Connected Canada: A Research and Policy Agenda -- access the free pdf here: https://cdn.fbsbx.com/v/t59.2708-21/174806879_279912320434985_6679072594694315411_n.pdf/Citizenship-in-a-Connected-Canada.pdf?_nc_cat=102&ccb=1-3&_nc_sid=0cab14&_nc_ohc=tfSFIG81-7sAX9nfCbu&_nc_ht=cdn.fbsbx.com&oh=a8d3586ad94648e13c42a1323e8f1ea4&oe=60920A68&dl=1this week's episode is a fun little collab with the oh so lovely Armaan Hashemi-Webb, who's joining me in (a slightly chaotic) conversation about bisexuality, mixed race identity, gender segregation, taking ownership of your identity, and saying a big...2021-05-0354 minThe Lily Podpolitics, the body, and identity regulation: introducing biopowerthis episode is a lil mini introduction to the Foucauldian concept of biopower -- lots of chats about institutionalized power (how it operates, how it's maintained, + how it appears), the interconnectedness of medicine and politics, and how the state regulates identity. a bit of a heavier one!! but we're still havin fun 2021-04-2625 minThe Lily Pod'i always have to be the hottest b*tch in the grocery store': performativity, identity, + the imaginary audiencedo you always have to be the hottest b*tch in the grocery store??? are you really the ~cool girl~, or are you just playing a part? tune in for a convo about performing identity, confidence, and the male gaze-y world of the imaginary audience. to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2021-04-1928 minThe Lily Podthe revolution of "Instagram healing": commercialism, mental health, and self-healingin this episode, we'll be exploring the mental wellness world of Instagram in all its commercialized glory. lots of talk about mental health, the idea of "self-healing", our desire for a "quick fix", and the nuances of introspection in relation to Instagram content. to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2021-04-1234 minThe Lily Podwhat is love?? ~ polyamory, toxic monogamy, + relationship standardsjoining me in this week's episode are my two lovely friends and brilliant people, Katherine Forsyth and Hannah Thiessen! we'll be talking all about the structure of relationships, the enforced standard of monogamy, exploring polyamory, confronting jealousy, and navigating the nuances of partnerships. to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2021-04-0554 minThe Lily Podthe "glow-up": the makeover scene, beauty standards, and before + after picsnot us idolizing the makeover scene in every childhood movie ever!!!!! this week's ep is all about the "glow-up": why it's there, why we love it, and why we need to throw it out the window. to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2021-03-2226 minThe Lily Poda response to "not all men"]this episode's all in the title. today we're unpacking the "not all men" argument in allllllll its magnificently ignorant glory, with some conversation about male entitlement, the impact of derailing conversations, and why you should stop prioritizing men's feelings today!!!to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2021-03-1526 minThe Lily Podfeminism: what does it really mean??? pt. 2happy international women's day!!!! this week is a continuation of last week's episode on feminism! in this one, we're talking about everything from implications that come with the word feminist, to palatable feminism, to the difference between so-called "good" and "bad" feminists, to ranting about the ever-present internalized male gaze. stay 'til the end for some book recommendations written by different feminist authors!to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2021-03-0831 minThe Lily Podfeminism: what does it really mean??? pt. 1in this episode, we're talking allllll about feminism - the different types, some histories, and answering some of your questions about feminist issues. from chatting about the "#feminazi", the shaming of body hair, womanism, and the process of learning, this episode's a busy one!!to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2021-03-0138 minThe Lily Podthe myth of the "cool girl"we're debunking the myth of the cool girl!!!! this episode is inspired by Gillian Flynn's Gone Girl monologue that sparked a mini revolution in understanding the male fantasy archetype that socializes us into constantly chasing an unattainable standard built to pin women against each other. to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2021-02-2228 minThe Lily Podwtf is gender????the title of this episode baaaasically sums it up BUT to give you a quick run-down: in this episode we're exploring the biiiiig wide confusing world of gender in ALL its nuanced glory. we'll talk about different gender models, gender components, categorization, and some ideas of how to start unravelling the layers of (sort of?) understanding gender as a concept. to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2021-02-1526 minThe Lily Podthe male gaze: internalized, ingrained, inescapable?let's talk about the male gaze!!! -- what it looks like, how it shows up, who it serves, & why we internalize it.to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2021-02-0833 minThe Lily Podthe institutionalization of marriage: heteronormativity + capitalism as the ultimate bff duodo you actually want to get married or are you just so used to complying with heteronormative rights of passage and being spoonfed capitalist values that you forgot to ask yourself if marriage is even your thing??? 2021-02-0124 minThe Lily Podbisexuality!!! - queer imposter syndrome, biphobia, + fetishizationin this episode, we're diving into what it means to be bisexual in a world of binary thinking -- dealing with heteronormativity, queer imposter syndrome, internalized biphobia, and the forever haunting male spectatorship. to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2021-01-2526 minThe Lily Pod'i'M nOt liKE oThEr giRLs': internalized misogyny n all that jazztune in and listen to a former 'not like other girls' gal ramble on about the projection of internalized misogyny, unrealistic patriarchal standards, and holding yourself accountable for upholding toxicity.to connect, reach out to @thelily.pod on Instagram 2021-01-1824 min