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The Magnetic LeaderWhy Successful Leaders Micromanage Under Pressure (And How to Stop)Send a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!As a leader, have you ever found yourself tightening your grip when the pressure goes up? You start second-guessing decisions, jumping into details you should have delegated, and demanding to be copied on every email. On the surface, it feels like being responsible. But internally, it feels heavy, exhausting, and like you're the bottleneck.This isn't a sign of bad leadership; it's a sign that the stakes have become personal. It's a symptom of a deeper, hidden fear: the fear of being...
2026-01-2424 min
The Survivors PodcastLife Inside the FLDS: Growing Up in the Polygamy Cult When Your Uncle is Warren Jeffs*WARNING: This podcast mentions suicide, sexual abuse & trauma and may be triggering.
Episode Summary
In this conversation, Lisa Sugarman and Natasha J Layton delve into Natasha's experiences growing up in the FLDS, a polygamous cult. They discuss the unique dynamics of her family life, the influence of Warren Jeffs, and the emotional climate of the community. Natasha shares personal anecdotes that highlight the challenges and complexities of her upbringing, setting the stage for deeper discussions in future episodes. In this conversation, Natasha J Layton shares her experiences growing up in a polygamous community u...
2025-12-1736 minThe Magnetic LeaderHow To Gain Respect As A Leader (Without Losing Your Likability)Send a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!We unpack how respect emerges from inner alignment, clear standards, and consistent follow-through. We share simple scripts and presence practices to set boundaried warmth without posturing or people pleasing.• why respect mirrors self-respect and standards• competence plus warmth as the charisma mix• how over-explaining erodes credibility• simple scripts to say no with care• posture, tone and first-impression signals• practicing calm presence in low-stakes spaces• regulated leadership as the new edge• authenticity without oversharing across contexts• alignment...
2025-11-2728 minThe Magnetic LeaderWhy Sabotage May Spike In Midlife And How To Stop ItSend a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!We explore why midlife often triggers self-sabotage and how it can actually be a signal to realign with your values. We reframe “crisis” as a remembering, map the safety line, and share practical steps to build congruence, safety, and courageous action.• midlife as remembering rather than crisis• outgrowing survival-built identities• inner saboteur and the safety line• misalignment versus apathy or burnout• shame reduction by depersonalizing sabotage• practical signs of subtle self-sabotage• values-first vision and congruence• fear versus faith as...
2025-11-1829 minThe Magnetic LeaderThe Most Dangerous Leadership Mistake Empaths Make With Narcissistic LeadersSend a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!Ever feel like you’re pouring energy into a black hole—rewriting emails, softening your tone, apologizing for their reactions—yet nothing improves? We dig into why empathic, high-achieving leaders lose footing around manipulative or narcissistic personalities and pinpoint the core mistake: trying to earn fairness, respect, and accountability from someone who thrives on confusion and control. Instead of clarity, over-explaining becomes emotional labor that signals power to the other side while draining yours.We unpack the two-worlds mismatch: you explain to connec...
2025-11-1329 minThe Magnetic LeaderEmpaths vs Narcissistic Leaders: How to Stay Powerful and UnmanipulatedSend a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!We explore how empathic, high-achieving leaders can stay in their power around manipulative or narcissistic-leaning bosses by trusting the body’s signals, naming patterns, and using clear boundaries. We introduce the SAFE method to move from confusion to clarity and regulation.• redefining leadership as stewardship and service• trusting somatic cues over analysis• why empaths get targeted for emotional regulation• seeing manipulation patterns without diagnosing• the SAFE method: see, anchor, fortify, exit• scripts for boundaries and documentation• ending the overe...
2025-11-0542 minThe Magnetic LeaderWhy High Achievers Overwork And How To Ease The ClimbSend a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!We unpack why high achievers turn success into struggle and how to lead with ease without losing ambition. We share a personal story, name control as fear, and map a path from worthiness work to somatic safety and real support.• achievements used as proof of worth• childhood praise shaping identity and drive• the empty high of stacking wins• control reframed as fear and how to release it• receiving help and the joy of shared achievement• getting out of survival...
2025-10-2112 minThe Magnetic LeaderHow To Stop Getting Interrupted In Meetings & Be AuthoritativeSend a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!We share a simple three-part framework to stop getting interrupted and start leading with grounded authority. Inner work shapes belief, outer work sharpens presence, and people work gives you clean language to acknowledge and redirect without drama.• the inner narrative that fuels authority • a one-week exercise to build belief • voice, volume, and pacing that hold space • posture and body cues that reduce interruptions • clean scripts to acknowledge and redirect • pre-framing the room to protect your point • handling patterns pr...
2025-10-0913 minThe Magnetic LeaderHow To Stop Caring What People Think (3 Confidence Hacks)Send a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!We explore three powerful strategies to build confidence and overcome the fear of judgment that holds many leaders back. Fear of judgment is the number one obstacle I've observed in 12 years of coaching leaders, entrepreneurs, and visionaries – but there are practical ways to move forward despite this fear.• The goal isn't to eliminate all fear but to prevent fear from stopping you from sharing your gifts• Being concerned about criticism is natural, but allowing it to silence you completely isn't acceptable•...
2025-09-2916 minThe Magnetic Leader5 Super Simple Ways To Improve Your Conversations: Lead To Inspire Not ManageSend a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!True leadership means inspiring rather than micromanaging, creating an environment where people feel trusted and empowered to bring their best. This episode explores five powerful ways to transform your conversations from controlling to inspiring, helping you become a more magnetic and effective leader.• Give people your full attention - make eye contact, lean in, and create a distraction-free space when communicating• Listen to understand, not just respond - use phrases like "what I'm hearing is..." to confirm understanding• Find common ground...
2025-09-2325 minThe Magnetic LeaderRewiring Your Brain: From Employee to LeaderSend a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!Leadership transformation begins with inner work, not external validation. The journey from employee mindset to authentic leadership requires honest self-assessment, developing self-trust, and embracing responsibility rather than fearing it.• Looking at your inner leadership first—assessing where you may not be taking care of yourself• Moving away from hustle culture to strategic, energetically-aligned action• Learning to trust yourself instead of becoming dependent on advisors• Tuning into your body's wisdom—"the body never lies"• Viewing responsibilities as opportunities to build competen...
2025-09-1716 minThe Magnetic LeaderHow TOP Networkers Land Dream Clients EVERY TIMESend a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!We explore how leaders can build meaningful relationships in an increasingly digital world where technology often encourages lazy, transactional interactions. Technology should enhance our work rather than replace the human elements that make business relationships meaningful.• The pandemic and rise of AI have made relationship-building even more challenging• Many leaders take a purely transactional approach that fails to connect with people• Mass emails, generic outreach, and AI-generated content are ineffective relationship strategies• Effective relationship building starts with giving value before m...
2025-08-2623 minThe Magnetic LeaderThe Art of Telling Your Inner Critic to Shut Up (Nicely)Send a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!Have you ever noticed that the moment you're about to take a big leap—whether launching something new, making an important investment, or stepping onto a stage—your inner critic suddenly becomes deafeningly loud? That voice questioning your abilities, bringing up every possible worst-case scenario, and making you wonder if you should retreat to safety instead.This critical inner dialogue is particularly potent for ambitious, driven individuals. The bigger your goals, the louder this protective mechanism becomes. What's fascinating is that this voic...
2025-08-1215 minThe Magnetic LeaderBreak Free from Toxic Niceness & ThriveSend a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!Discover the radical truth that's holding back your leadership potential: niceness is merely fear dressed up in lipstick. In this provocative deep dive, we explore why your pattern of people-pleasing, though well-intended, is secretly sabotaging your growth.Ever wondered why you're exhausted, resentful, or hitting a ceiling in your business growth? The answer may lie in your inability to disappoint others. Through powerful distinctions between being "nice" versus being "kind," this episode unpacks how overgiving and excessive agreeableness are draining your energy...
2025-08-0518 minThe Magnetic LeaderHow to Cultivate Authentic Magnetism for Purpose-Driven LeadersSend a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!Feeling drained, dull, and disconnected? Your magnetic presence is suffering—and with it, your ability to effortlessly attract opportunities as a leader. This revealing episode uncovers the hidden energy thieves that are stealing your natural charisma and leadership impact.I share my personal wake-up call: the moment I saw my own reflection and noticed the lackluster quality in my skin and eyes. This visible evidence of energetic depletion forced me to examine what was truly draining my vital force. For high-achieving entrepreneurs, ex...
2025-07-2921 minThe Magnetic LeaderThe Secret to Being Taken Seriously (Without Trying So Hard)Send a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!Have you ever wondered why some people naturally command respect while others struggle to be taken seriously? The secret lies not in demanding respect from others, but in how deeply you respect yourself.Respect isn't something we can force others to give us—it's a reflection of our internal relationship with ourselves. When we don't feel our time, ideas, or very existence is being honored, the first place to look isn't outward at others' behavior, but inward at our own patterns and be...
2025-07-2212 minThe Magnetic LeaderBecome a Magnetic Communicator in 30 DaysSend a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!Transform how people perceive you with three powerful confidence practices that deliver results in 30 days or less. I share the crucial difference between fluid confidence and foundational self-esteem, revealing why confidence fluctuates while self-esteem requires deeper personal work. • Conviction trumps confidence - being fully committed to your ideas makes others see them as important• When conviction is lacking, journal 100 reasons why your ideas matter and read them daily• Record yourself speaking to identify and eliminate confidence-draining filler words• Speaking with a lo...
2025-07-1216 minThe Magnetic LeaderBefore you think about quitting, listen to this!Send a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!Founder Burnout Fix: Reignite Purpose When Success Feels Empty: Success without fulfillment is a common experience for many high-achieving leaders and entrepreneurs who've reached their goals but feel something is missing. We explore three critical factors that might be causing this disconnect and how you can address them without completely starting over.• Understanding when your core values are no longer aligned with your work or environment• Recognizing when important psychological and emotional needs aren't being met• Identifying what season...
2025-07-0814 minThe Magnetic LeaderUnlock Rapid Growth by Shifting This One Thing About YourselfSend a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!Your current results reflect your current identity, not your potential. To achieve next-level success, you must upgrade how you see yourself and your worth rather than just improving your strategies.• Most high achievers are stuck in identity loops, not action loops• Your past self built your current reality, but cannot create your future• Begin by recognizing your outdated identity labels and self-concepts• Define who you need to become to create next-level results• True transformation requires daily embodiment, not just affir...
2025-06-2919 minThe Magnetic LeaderStop Doing It Alone: The High Achiever's Guide to Receiving HelpSend a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!Accountability is critical for high achievers who want to reach their potential and accomplish more than the status quo, particularly when they've been stuck trying to do everything on their own.• Financial investment creates powerful accountability through having skin in the game• True change requires uncomfortable investments rather than small, budget-friendly commitments• Elite coaches hold you accountable through their integrity and respect, not by constantly checking in• High performers often struggle with asking for help and learning to receive• Th...
2025-06-2318 minThe Magnetic LeaderShift Your Reality in an Instant by Changing Your Internal WorldSend a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!Feeling stuck or like you're backtracking after previous success? This transformative episode reveals how to rapidly shift your internal state to create external change, regardless of your current circumstances.The root of stagnation often lies in the meaning we assign to challenging situations. When business slows or career momentum stalls, we enter survival mode, telling ourselves stories rooted in old wounds and patterns. I share my own journey through the feast-and-famine cycle, revealing how taking action from fear only creates more fear...
2025-06-1724 minThe Magnetic LeaderHow To Have Charisma: Your Secret Weapon For SuccessSend a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!Have you ever wondered what makes certain people so magnetically captivating? That special quality that draws others in and makes people want to follow them? In this powerful episode, we unpack the science of charisma and reveal how you can develop this essential leadership skill.Charisma isn't some mystical quality bestowed upon the lucky few. As we discover, it's actually a learnable skill that combines the perfect balance of warmth and competence. When you master this balance, you become someone others both...
2025-06-0925 minThe Magnetic LeaderThe Five Phrases Blocking Your Potential (And Why I Never Say Them)Send a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!Our external reality mirrors our internal landscape, revealing the limitations and beliefs we hold within ourselves. By becoming aware of the language that signals our unconscious boundaries, we can challenge these inherited beliefs and open ourselves to greater possibilities.• Everything externally is mirroring what's happening internally• Our limitations are revealed through our language patterns• Most limitations come from collective consciousness beliefs we've never questioned• Awakening happens when we realize these limitations aren't absolute truths• Five phrases to eliminate: "I can't af...
2025-05-3121 minThe Magnetic LeaderHealing Leadership Wounds: How to Recover from Confidence SetbacksSend a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!Confidence crises happen to even the most successful leaders, but they're actually opportunities for healing deeper wounds that have always limited our potential.• Confidence challenges often amplify insecurities that were already present beneath the surface• High-achieving leaders tend to compartmentalize their insecurities to reach their current positions• External achievements can only take you so far before inner work becomes necessary• Current triggers usually mirror unresolved wounds from our past experiences• Confidence is our natural state—we don't need to build it...
2025-05-2524 minThe Magnetic LeaderYour Power Is Not In The Push, It's In Your PresenceSend a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!Ever caught yourself rushing through life, driving aggressively through traffic, gulping down coffee between tasks, or working until exhaustion—only to wonder why success still feels elusive? This powerful exploration of gentleness reveals why high-intensity living might actually be sabotaging your results.Gentleness is widely misunderstood, especially among high achievers. Far from being weak or passive, it's an energy that creates precision and presence—allowing us to co-create with life rather than fighting against it. Think of spring's natural growth process: seeds don...
2025-05-1720 minThe Magnetic LeaderWhat Happens When You Replace Autopilot with Appreciation?Send a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!Ever wondered why you keep getting stuck in the same mental patterns despite all your personal growth work? Your brain's hardwiring might be the culprit.In this powerful episode, I share the deceptively simple practice that radically transformed my life when I was trapped in frustrating thought loops. After experiencing a spiritual awakening in my teens, followed by a period of disconnection from my authentic self, I discovered a method that not only broke my mental patterns but completely revolutionized my energy...
2025-05-1019 minThe Magnetic LeaderStop Waiting for Approval and Start Leading Your LifeSend a text with a question you want answered on a podcast episode!!Self-permission is the real key to confidence and leadership growth, not the other way around. Most of us hold back from taking action because we're unconsciously seeking external validation rather than trusting ourselves to move forward despite uncertainty.• Most people mistakenly think they need confidence first when they really need to give themselves permission• We're conditioned from childhood to seek validation from authority figures before taking action• Be careful who you share your dreams with - many people will discourage you wi...
2025-05-0417 min