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Don't IEP Alone.ChatGPT, Privacy, and the High Stakes of IEP DecisionsIn this episode of Don’t IEP Alone, Lisa Lightner clears up what she means when she criticizes generative AI and ChatGPT. She explains why concerns about privacy, content theft, environmental costs, and inaccurate information matter to families navigating IEPs.Lisa Lightner also challenges the idea that ChatGPT can replace an advocate. AI can only respond to the information you provide, it may miss what’s actually absent from an IEP, and it can be confidently wrong. When your child has only a limited number of school years, Lisa Lightner argues, there’s no roo...
2026-10-2119 minDon't IEP Alone.Why I Don’t Ask for FBAs Anymore.When a child’s behavior increases, the usual response is often to revisit the FBA or behavior plan. But Lisa Lightner argues that teams should first step back and examine the IEP itself. Are all of the child’s needs being met? Are evaluations missing something? Is the IEP being implemented with fidelity?Special Education Advocate Lisa Lightner explains why she now approaches behavior concerns differently. Many behaviors, she says, reflect lagging skills or unmet needs, and an FBA takes significant time and resources to complete. The focus should be on building and following a robu...
2026-10-0712 minDon't IEP Alone.When Advocacy Isn’t Changing Your Child’s IEPTraining ObjectionsIn this episode, Lisa Lightner tackles the objections parents often have about advocacy training: “I already speak up,” “I can find information online,” and “I don’t have time.”Her point is direct: knowing your child’s rights isn’t enough. Parents also need to know how to apply those rights, use documentation and data, and move an IEP team toward yes. At 03:25, Lisa Lightner explains why her four-step advocacy strategy focuses on applying the law, not simply learning it. She also addresses the difference between being assertive and being confrontational, and why speaking up...
2026-09-0911 minDon't IEP Alone.Responding to No at IEP Meetings: Questions Every Parent Should AskWelcome to "Don't IEP Alone." I’m your host, Lisa Lightner, special education advocate. Get on the waitlist for my advocacy training.In today’s episode, we’re tackling one of the toughest parts of advocating for your child in IEP meetings: how to respond when the team tells you "no." Lisa Lightner opens up about her early fears of rejection and how hearing "no" has become just another data point in her advocacy journey. She shares concrete strategies for handling those automatic refusals from school teams, including exactly what questions to ask...
2026-08-2608 minDon't IEP Alone.Breaking the Myth: IEP Meetings Aren’t Where Success HappensWelcome to "Don't IEP Alone" with Lisa Lightner, your go-to source for special education advocacy and support. In this episode, Lisa Lightner challenges a common belief among parents and advocates: the idea that IEP meetings are the most important part of the special education process. Drawing from her years of experience, Lisa Lightner explains why the real work—and true advocacy power—happens before and around the IEP meeting itself. With practical tips, honest insights, and a fresh perspective, she reveals how advance preparation, clear communication, and data-driven groundwork are what truly shape successful outcomes for your child...
2026-08-1909 minDon't IEP Alone.A Parent’s Guide to Back to School IEP ReadinessWelcome back to the Don't IEP Alone podcast! In this episode, Lisa Lightner dives into the realities of back-to-school season for parents navigating IEPs. She shares strategies to help you get organized before classes begin, including a game-changing new approach to reading and understanding your child’s IEP. Whether your summer break is winding down or you’re already prepping backpacks, Lisa Lightner offers practical advice to help ease your worries, focus on what you can control, and move into the new school year feeling confident and empowered. Plus, she tackles common concerns about...
2026-08-1311 minDon't IEP Alone.Avoiding the February IEP Freakout: Proactive Tips for ParentsIn this episode of Don't IEP Alone, Lisa Lightner shares why February can be a stressful month for IEP parents, what causes the annual "February freakout," and proactive steps you can take now to better advocate for your child. Get essential advice on IEP renewals, kindergarten and transition webinars, progress monitoring, and how to avoid last-minute panic as spring approaches. All the tools and resources you need are in the show notes!🔴 Is Your Child's IEP Working?: 👉https://dontiepalone.com/iep-progress/ℹ️ IEP Present Levels for Teachers: https://dontiepalone.com/sale-iep-present-levels/🧰 IEP Mee...
2026-01-1314 minDon't IEP Alone.Navigating Family Boundaries: Grief, Politics, and AdvocacyIn this special episode of "Don't IEP Alone," Lisa Lightner shares her personal journey of setting boundaries with family amid political and social divides, especially as a special needs parent and advocate. She discusses the grief of lost relationships, the importance of protecting your energy, and how the disability community can find support and understanding—even when it means creating your own village. An honest conversation about family, advocacy, and staying strong when facing adversity.🔴 Is Your Child's IEP Working?: 👉https://dontiepalone.com/iep-progress/ℹ️ IEP Present Levels for Teachers: https://dontiepalone.com/sale-iep...
2026-01-0728 minDon't IEP Alone.New Year, Fresh IEP Data: How to Track Progress and Advocate EffectivelyIn this episode of Don't IEP Alone, host Lisa Lightner shares actionable tips for parents on IEP data collection after the holiday break. Learn how to track skills at home, compare school reports, and use documentation to advocate for your child’s needs. Plus, discover new IEP toolkits and resources to start your year empowered!🔴 Is Your Child's IEP Working?: 👉https://dontiepalone.com/iep-progress/ℹ️ IEP Present Levels for Teachers: https://dontiepalone.com/sale-iep-present-levels/🧰 IEP Meeting Toolkit: https://dontiepalone.com/iep-meeting-preparation-toolkit/🚀 Sign Up for Special Education Advocacy Training: https://access.dont...
2026-01-0614 minDon't IEP Alone.12 Tips for Special Education Parent-Teacher ConferencesWelcome to "Don't IEP Alone," the podcast that provides support and guidance for parents navigating the world of Individualized Education Programs. In today's episode, we'll be sharing 12 valuable tips for special education parent-teacher conferences during IEP season. Whether you're a seasoned veteran or new to this journey, these insights will help you approach these important meetings with confidence and clarity. From setting expectations and communication strategies to addressing concerns and understanding your rights, we've got you covered. So grab a pen and paper, and let's dive into these essential tips to ensure you make the most of y...
2025-10-2839 minDon't IEP Alone.ADHD Month means Executive Functioning ChatsExecutive functioning-- always a popular topic.🔴 Is Your Child's IEP Working?: 👉https://dontiepalone.com/iep-progress/🚀 Sign Up for Special Education Advocacy Training: 👉 https://dontiepalone.com/online-special-education-advocacy-training/⚠️More on FAPE: https://adayinourshoes.com/fape/🎯 Free IEP Binder for Parents: https://adayinourshoes.com/free-iep-binder/https://Facebook.com/ADayInOurShoesIEPhttps://Instagram.com/DontIEPalone 🧑🏼🤝🧑🏼 Every question is answered by an advocate--Join A Community of Parents and Advocates who "get it": https://village.adayinourshoes.com 🧑🏼🤝🧑🏼Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate Thank you for l...
2025-10-1513 minDon't IEP Alone.OSEP and OSERS Staff EliminationMentioned in Episode:OSERS Has Been Dismantled: What This Means for Disabled Adults and Their Families.OSEP Is Gone: What It Means for Your Child’s IEP and What Parents Must Do Now.🔴 Is Your Child's IEP Working?: 👉https://dontiepalone.com/iep-progress/🚀 Sign Up for Special Education Advocacy Training: 👉 https://dontiepalone.com/online-special-education-advocacy-training/⚠️More on FAPE: https://adayinourshoes.com/fape/🎯 Free IEP Binder for Parents: https://adayinourshoes.com/free-iep-binder/https://Facebook.com/ADayInOurShoesIEPhttps://Instagram.com/DontIEPalone 🧑🏼🤝🧑🏼 Every question is answered by an advocate...
2025-10-1420 minDon't IEP Alone.Buzzword: Trust RecessionGoing off topic for a moment... but trust matters!🔴 Is Your Child's IEP Working?: 👉https://dontiepalone.com/iep-progress/🚀 Sign Up for Special Education Advocacy Training: 👉 https://dontiepalone.com/online-special-education-advocacy-training/⚠️More on FAPE: https://adayinourshoes.com/fape/🎯 Free IEP Binder for Parents: https://adayinourshoes.com/free-iep-binder/https://Facebook.com/ADayInOurShoesIEPhttps://Instagram.com/DontIEPalone 🧑🏼🤝🧑🏼 Every question is answered by an advocate--Join A Community of Parents and Advocates who "get it": https://village.adayinourshoes.com 🧑🏼🤝🧑🏼Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate
2025-10-0719 minDon't IEP Alone.What is Explicit Instruction?Mentioned in Episode:What is Explicit Instruction?What is Specially Designed Instruction in Special Education?50 Practical Instructional Strategies for Specially Designed Instruction in IEPs (examples)Special Education Advocacy TrainingDon't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!Support the showOther ways I can help you with IEPs: 📚 Order Your IEP Playbook (my book)Schedule a Consult or I...
2025-09-1712 minDon't IEP Alone.Is This Podcast Working? Reflections on Content, Format, and Listener FeedbackWelcome back to "Don't IEP Alone" with Lisa Lightner! In this candid episode, Lisa gets real about the behind-the-scenes struggles of podcasting, from wrestling with ADHD and perfectionism, to navigating technical hiccups and the pressure of social media. She shares her recent attempts to revamp the show, including her "5 Minutes to FAPE" experiment (and why it ended up in the digital trash bin), and reflects on the art of finding engaging content without falling into the trap of endless, one-sided rambling. Lisa also drops timely advice for the new school year, including tips on getting organized and m...
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Don't IEP Alone.Accommodations vs Modifications on an IEPAccommodations vs. Modifications: Don’t Confuse ThemMixing up accommodations and modifications can cost your child progress.Online Advocacy Training: https://dontiepalone.com/special-education-advocacy-training/Mentioned in Video: https://adayinourshoes.com/iep-accommodations-modifications/Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!Support the show📣Preorder my book 📣 Amazon Books-A-Million Bookshop.org Barnes & Noble! More IEP help for you--at home or at sc...
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Don't IEP Alone.Most important part of an IEP.If your Present Levels are wrong, everything else in the IEP will fall like dominoes.Article mentioned in video: https://adayinourshoes.com/present-levels-iep/IEP Toolkit for Parents: https://dontiepalone.com/my-parent-iep-toolkit/Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!Support the showOther ways I can help you with IEPs: 📚 Order Your IEP Playbook (my book)Schedule a Consult or IEP Record ReviewGe...
2025-09-0406 min
Don't IEP Alone.Have you been asked to come pick up your child at school?The Secret Suspension Problem: a MUST WATCH if the school is constantly calling you to come get your kid at school.Resources mentioned in video: Behavior Info for Families: https://adayinourshoes.com/tag/behavior/Behavior mini course: https://www.dontiepalone.academy/courses/all-things-behavior-and-your-iep/previewDon't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!Support the showOther ways I can help you with IEPs: 📚 Order Your IEP P...
2025-09-0308 min
Don't IEP Alone.Can you show me where it says.....IDEA is surprisingly non-specific about a lot of special education. Here's how to advocate when you're pretty sure you've been told something incorrect....but struggle to find proof. Get your free FAPE guide here: https://birdsend.page/forms/1628/IrX2XebqwQDon't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!Support the showOther ways I can help you with IEPs: 📚 Order Your IEP Playbook (my book)Schedule a Con...
2025-09-0205 minDon't IEP Alone.Good news, bad news.I'm getting a facelift! Ha, no, not me. The podcast. Details in this episode.Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!Support the showOther ways I can help you with IEPs: 📚 Order Your IEP Playbook (my book)Schedule a Consult or IEP Record ReviewGet on the Waitlist for Training
2025-08-1310 minDon't IEP Alone.Don’t IEP Alone: Essential Advocacy Tips for Today’s Unstable Education LandscapeParents, get your free IEP binder: https://adayinourshoes.com/free-iep-binder/Get your free IEP goal tracker: https://adayinourshoes.com/iep-goal-tracker/Welcome back to Don't IEP Alone with your host, Lisa Lightner. In this episode, Lisa dives into the rapidly changing landscape of special education and the overwhelming wave of recent changes in the Department of Education. She unpacks the intentional chaos designed to wear families thin, from high-profile firings—especially in the Office for Civil Rights—to the ongoing debate about "returning education to the states." Lisa shares practical advice for navigating this...
2025-08-1214 minDon't IEP Alone.Good News and Bad News: Navigating What to Request at Your IEP MeetingParents, get your free IEP binder: https://adayinourshoes.com/free-iep-binder/Get your free IEP goal tracker: https://adayinourshoes.com/iep-goal-tracker/Welcome back to Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner! In today's episode, Lisa tackles one of the most common questions she gets from parents: "What can I ask for on my IEP?" Drawing from over 15 years of advocacy experience, Lisa breaks down the good news—and the bad news—about IEP requests. She explains why there's no one-size-fits-all list of options, and instead emphasizes the importance of becoming an expert in your chil...
2025-08-0510 minDon't IEP Alone.Sustained Advocacy: The Real Secret Behind IEP ProgressLisa Lightner is a dedicated advocate for parents navigating the IEP process. With her trusty mini desk fan by her side—an essential comfort for women of a certain age—Lisa brings warmth, humor, and understanding to her work. Through her podcast and social media reels, stories, and videos, she shares practical advice and encouragement for families working through IEP meetings and advocacy efforts. Lisa’s mission is to help parents feel supported, reminding them they are not failures if results take time and that their persistence truly matters.Don't IEP Alone with Li...
2025-07-2910 minDon't IEP Alone.From Phone Calls to Handwritten Letters: Tips to Make Legislators Listen on IssuesWelcome back to the Don't IEP Alone podcast with Lisa Lightner! In today’s episode, Lisa dives into the importance of contacting your representatives—even if you sometimes feel like your voice won’t make a difference. Drawing from her own advocacy experiences and conversations with legislators, Lisa explains why it’s crucial for constituents to reach out, share their stories, and hold elected officials accountable, even in districts where the odds seem stacked against you. She also shares actionable tips on how to increase the impact of your outreach—whether through heartfelt phone calls, orig...
2025-07-1609 minDon't IEP Alone.Reviving Parent Groups: The Old and New of Special Ed AdvocacyWelcome back to Don't IEP Alone! In this episode, host Lisa Lightner shares a heartfelt update from the thick of summer, reminding parents to communicate their children's special health needs—like temperature regulation—to their IEP teams. Lisa dives into some unique Pennsylvania special education history, spotlighting the origins of IEPs and the creation of "intermediate units" and local task forces that advocate for families. She reflects on her experiences leading one of these groups, the ongoing challenges in keeping parents engaged, and the vital role these task forces play in supporting special education.This week, Lisa also...
2025-07-1514 minDon't IEP Alone.Is ESY starting this week? And, yeah, the Medicaid thing.Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!Support the showOther ways I can help you with IEPs: 📚 Order Your IEP Playbook (my book)Schedule a Consult or IEP Record ReviewGet on the Waitlist for Training
2025-07-0909 minDon't IEP Alone.Our advocacy is not enough.And hey, my book is on sale today at Barnes & Noble!Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!Support the showOther ways I can help you with IEPs: 📚 Order Your IEP Playbook (my book)Schedule a Consult or IEP Record ReviewGet on the Waitlist for Training
2025-07-0810 minDon't IEP Alone.🚨 Medicaid Cuts, Advocacy, and Why We Can’t Stay Silent 🚨A bill just passed in the House that could mean big cuts to Medicaid—even though the word Medicaid isn’t in it. Sound sneaky? That’s because it is.In this episode, I’m breaking down:✅ What this bill actually does✅ The myths about Medicaid fraud that keep getting repeated (and why they’re bogus)✅ Why we must take action—today, not tomorrow✅ How to call, email, and visit your senator to make your voice heardOur kids need us to fight for them. No one is coming to save us...
2025-06-2417 minDon't IEP Alone.Do this now. Thank me later.Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!Support the showOther ways I can help you with IEPs: 📚 Order Your IEP Playbook (my book)Schedule a Consult or IEP Record ReviewGet on the Waitlist for Training
2025-06-1006 minDon't IEP Alone.From Entitlement to Eligibility: The Wake-Up Call Special Needs Parents Usually Aren't Expecting.From Entitlement to Eligibility: The Wake-Up Call Special Needs Parents Usually Aren't Expecting.It's important for parents, especially if your child has a lot of needs, that you understand this concept as you move to adult services.Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!Support the showOther ways I can help you with IEPs: 📚 Order Your IEP Playbook (my book)Schedule a Cons...
2025-06-0415 minDon't IEP Alone.One last bit of ESY advice before summer startsDon't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!Support the showOther ways I can help you with IEPs: 📚 Order Your IEP Playbook (my book)Schedule a Consult or IEP Record ReviewGet on the Waitlist for Training
2025-06-0306 minDon't IEP Alone.Congress Meets at 1 AM--what are they hiding?The budget to cut Medicaid was discussed last night at 1 am. Details, thoughts, and action items. Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!Support the showOther ways I can help you with IEPs: 📚 Order Your IEP Playbook (my book)Schedule a Consult or IEP Record ReviewGet on the Waitlist for Training
2025-05-2111 minDon't IEP Alone.Atlantic City Observations: Why Early Support for Kids With IEPs MattersWelcome to another episode of Don't IEP Alone with your host, Lisa Lightner. In today’s deeply personal and thought-provoking episode, Lisa reflects on a recent visit to Atlantic City and uses her experience walking its streets as a lens to examine larger issues surrounding disability, mental health, addiction, and the consequences of societal neglect. Drawing from her years of advocacy and firsthand stories from clients, Lisa explores the troubling connections between learning disabilities, lack of support, and the increased risks of addiction and incarceration. She poses a heartfelt question—"Who failed you?"—as she considers the people society often...
2025-05-2021 minDon't IEP Alone.From ESY Struggles to Graduation Emotions: Holding Space for Special Needs ParentsGet the book: https://adayinourshoes.com/book/Welcome back to Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner! As we approach the end of the school year, Lisa dives into the home stretch with timely advice for families navigating IEPs, particularly around Extended School Year (ESY) services. In this candid and heartfelt episode, Lisa shares her personal experiences as a special needs parent, reflecting on making choices about ESY programs, the emotional nuances of milestones like graduation, and the unique challenges faced by families with disabled or neurodiverse children.Lisa also addresses some of the current divisions...
2025-05-1317 minDon't IEP Alone.Breaking Down RFK, Dr. Oz, Executive Orders, and the Supreme Court: Big IEP Headlines ExplainedDon't miss: https://adayinourshoes.com/book/Welcome back to “Don’t IEP Alone” with Lisa Lightner, your go-to podcast for all things IEPs and special education advocacy. In today’s episode, Lisa dives into a whirlwind week packed with high-profile statements, policy updates, and a Supreme Court case that could have far-reaching implications for families of children with disabilities.Lisa breaks down the controversial comments made by RFK Jr. about autistic individuals, reacts to Dr. Oz’s take on public health, and explains what a new executive order on school discipline could mean for your child. She...
2025-05-0622 minDon't IEP Alone.Challenging Stigma: Autism, Family Life, and Confronting Harmful NarrativesWelcome back to Don’t IEP Alone, your go-to podcast for real talk about IEPs, advocacy, and navigating the world of special education. I’m your host, Lisa Lightner, and in today’s episode, I’m catching you up on some big updates—like the release of my very first book coming out this October (and yes, you can already pre-order it!). I dig into what it’s really like working as an advocate, juggling income streams, and balancing all the “have-tos” that come with parenting and supporting kids with disabilities.This week, I’m sharing my thoughts on the he...
2025-04-3017 minDon't IEP Alone.Adapting to Change: IEP and 504 Plans in a Shifting LandscapeContent mentioned in episode: IEP vs 504: What’s the Same? And Which is Better to Have?In this episode, Lisa addresses significant changes within the US Department of Education and the impact these could have on IDEA and Section 504, including legal battles and personnel changes at the Office of Civil Rights. She explores the pros and cons of IEPs versus 504 plans, highlighting the importance of these legally binding documents in ensuring children with disabilities receive the education they deserve. Lisa also discusses the importance of community and resistance movements in protecting rights under atta...
2025-04-1522 minDon't IEP Alone.Navigating Social Skills and IEP Challenges in Special EducationLinks: 15 Evidence-Based Social Skills Interventions That Actually Work in IEPs101 Social Skills IEP Goals for all Ages, including Objectives (free PDF)Join host Lisa Lightner as she navigates the evolving landscape of podcasts and embraces the simplicity of an unedited, heartfelt conversation. In this episode, Lisa emphasizes the importance of returning to IEP-focused content amidst the current distractions in the world. She delves deep into the pressing concerns about social skills that many parents and educators face today, particularly in the aftermath of the pandemic and the current socio-political climate.
2025-04-0818 minDon't IEP Alone.It's April-ACL, flash sale and moreThanks so much for tuning into my simple little podcast about IEPs. I promise to get it cleaned up and a regular content schedule--starting next week.Links to flash sale: https://adayinourshoes.org/advocacy-training-flash-sale/Link to advocacy action items: https://adayinourshoes.com/administration-for-community-living-acl/Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!Support the showOther ways I can help you with IEPs: 📚 Order Your...
2025-04-0215 minDon't IEP Alone.Let's Rethink Autism Advocacy: Beyond the Puzzle Piece DebateSorry, this episode cuts off abruptly for some reason, and I don't have time to re record it today.Links to flash sale: https://adayinourshoes.org/advocacy-training-flash-sale/Welcome back to "Don't IEP Alone" with your host, Lisa Lightner. It's April 1st, and we've got a jam-packed episode for you, beginning with an exciting announcement. In honor of April Fool's Day, Lisa is offering a special 50% discount on her "Don't IEP Alone" Academy. With the theme "advocacy is no joke," listeners can take advantage of this offer using the coupon code "no joke."...
2025-04-0107 minDon't IEP Alone.Responding to RFK Jr's Plan to Eliminate the Administration for Community LivingLinks to flash sale: https://adayinourshoes.org/advocacy-training-flash-sale/Link to advocacy action items: https://adayinourshoes.com/administration-for-community-living-acl/Welcome to a special Monday edition of the "Don't IEP Alone" podcast with your host, Lisa Lightner. On this episode, Lisa dives into pressing issues in the advocacy world, starting with an urgent flash sale on her Don't IEP Alone Academy, designed to make advocacy training more accessible amid increasing demand for advocates. Lisa then turns her attention to a critical development regarding the Administration for Community Living (ACL). Robert F. Kennedy Jr.'s recent...
2025-03-3115 minDon't IEP Alone.How to Advocate for IEPs Amid Political ShiftsDiscussed in episode: The End of the Department of Education? What Parents and Teachers Need to Know NowThat link includes action items for parents and teachers.Welcome to another episode of "Don't IEP Alone" with your host Lisa Lightner. In today's episode, Lisa addresses the widespread concerns of parents navigating the potential impacts of recent political changes on special education and related services. As a mother of a child with disabilities and an advocate, Lisa shares personal insights and historical perspectives, calming nerves while rallying listeners to prepare and act. With discussions a...
2025-03-2522 minDon't IEP Alone.Why Dismantling the Department of Education Actually Weakens State RightsIn today's episode of "Don't IEP Alone," host and special education advocate Lisa Lightner dives into a critical topic she's been passionate about for months—the truth behind the role of the United States Department of Education and the misleading narratives around state control over public education. Lisa sheds light on the General Education Provisions Act (GEPA) of 1974, which restricts the federal government from dictating curriculum in public schools, emphasizing that education has always been a state-controlled affair. She also discusses the potential consequences of dismantling the Department of Education, such as fewer protections for states and loc...
2025-03-1917 minDon't IEP Alone.Understanding GEPA: How Federal Overreach in Education Funding Violates a 50-Year-Old LawWelcome to a brand new episode of "Don't IEP Alone" with your host, Lisa Lightner. Today, we're diving into a significant court case involving the General Education Provisions Act (GEPA) from 1974 that the new administration recently lost. This case underscores the vital role states play in determining educational curriculum and the longstanding prohibition on federal overreach. Lisa explores why local and state elections matter more than ever, especially as groups like "Moms for Liberty" make waves by influencing school board decisions. We also take a closer look at the implications of the GEPA on federal funding decisions, t...
2025-03-1110 minDon't IEP Alone.Why Public Education Isn't a Customer Service Model ExplainedIn this episode of Don't IEP Alone, host Lisa Lightner delves into the intricacies of IDEA (Individuals with Disabilities Education Act) and the implications of public versus private education for children with special needs. Lisa provides a historical overview of IDEA's origins, linking it to a significant Pennsylvania court case that laid the groundwork for the legislation. She explores the ongoing challenges public schools face in providing a Free Appropriate Public Education (FAPE) due to financial constraints and the political push towards privatization. With a critical lens, Lisa discusses the concept of vouchers a...
2025-02-1820 minDon't IEP Alone.Super Bowl Joy and Political Turmoil: A Balancing ActWelcome to a special edition of Don't IEP Alone with your host, Lisa Lightner. In this episode, Lisa shares her insights and reflections ahead of the weekend's big event – the Super Bowl. As Philadelphia Eagles fans gear up for an exciting game, Lisa discusses how current events and social dynamics are creating a whirlwind of emotions. She touches upon the fast-paced changes happening in the world politically and socially, and encourages listeners to focus on what truly matters by selecting key areas to engage in advocacy and change. Above all, she emphasizes the importance of maintaining joy and finding he...
2025-02-0718 minDon't IEP Alone.Understanding the Impact of Potential Changes to Department of Education on Special NeedsIn this episode of "Don't IEP Alone," host Lisa Lightner welcomes back attorney Laura Hennigan to discuss the complex and ever-evolving landscape of special education and disability rights in the United States. They delve into the looming concerns surrounding the potential weakening of the IDEA and the US Department of Education's role amidst current political tumult. Laura, a Connecticut-based parent attorney with personal ties to special education, offers valuable insights into navigating the potential changes and challenges parents and advocates may face. They emphasize the importance of meaningful advocacy, staying informed, and focusing on what can be c...
2025-02-0545 minDon't IEP Alone.Breaking Down Barriers: Janice Lloyd Discusses Remediation and Support for Dyslexic StudentsJanice Lloyd is an experienced teacher trainer, private school administrator, and small group instructor at The Highlands School in Bel Air, Maryland. She has extensive experience with Orton-Gillingham methodologies, structured literacy, and learning differences such as dyslexia, dyscalculia, dysgraphia and ADHD/executive function weaknesses. The Highlands School educates students with learning differences and achievement gaps. We instill hope and confidence in our students by fostering a positive and nurturing environment. We focus on teaching our students methods to help them realize their strengths, overcome frustrations, and achieve academic and social success.
2025-02-0425 minDon't IEP Alone.Standing Up for Special Education Amidst Political ChangesLisa Lightner is the insightful host of "Don't IEP Alone," a podcast offering support and guidance for navigating the complexities of Individualized Education Programs (IEPs). Known for her engaging storytelling and timely discussions, Lisa tackles current events and timeless wisdom with equal dexterity. In an episode recorded just two weeks after the 2025 inauguration, she reflects on societal behaviors through the lens of Dale Carnegie's enduring advice from 1937: that people resist admitting they're wrong, even when faced with evidence. This philosophy shapes her understanding of the world and is particularly relevant with today's political climate. Exceptionally dedicated to her audience...
2025-02-0318 minDon't IEP Alone.How Federal Spending Freeze Affects Disabled Kids' Health CareIn today's episode of "Don't IEP Alone," host Lisa Lightner candidly addresses the urgent issues arising from the recent federal spending freeze initiated by the new administration and its impact on Medicaid. As Lisa navigates the complex intersection of politics and disability advocacy, she sheds light on how unconstitutional executive orders are affecting millions of Americans, including her own family. Lisa discusses the broader implications of these political decisions, from healthcare access to infrastructure, emphasizing the need for informed and critical evaluation of government actions. She invites listeners to engage with her political action group, "
2025-01-2918 minDon't IEP Alone.Bonus Episode: IEP Goal Banks and Parent-Teacher Conferences with an IEPI'm talking about two things today--IEP Goal Banks and Parent Teacher Conferences when you have an IEP.Get the IEP Toolkit.-------------------------------Hello, and welcome to another episode of "Don't IEP Alone." I'm your host, Lisa Lightner. Today, we have some exciting topics to discuss, including the highly requested IEP goal bank and navigating parent-teacher conferences. So, whether you're seeking guidance on IEP goal setting or advice for upcoming parent-teacher conferences, this episode has something for you. Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Li...
2025-01-2321 minDon't IEP Alone.Speaking Up for My Son's Needs Amid Controversial Autism NarrativesWelcome to another episode of Don't IEP Alone with your host, Lisa Lightner. In this thought-provoking installment, Lisa shares her personal journey navigating autism advocacy as the parent of a disabled child. With candor and determination, Lisa challenges the prevailing narratives in the autism advocacy community, emphasizing the importance of genuine conversations over performative advocacy. She reflects on the evolution of her views on autism, informed by personal experience and online discourse, and discusses the broader implications these narratives have on funding, programming, and support for individuals with severe autism. Tune in as Lisa passionately advocates for those, like...
2025-01-2227 min
Don't IEP Alone.Three Essential IEP Tasks for Parents Right NowMentioned in episode:Link to take training: https://adayinourshoes.org/iep-special-education-advocacy/Link to purchase toolkit: https://adayinourshoes.org/download-the-iep-toolkit/On this special Tuesday edition of Don't IEP Alone, host Lisa Lightner covers the essential things parents need to do right now for their child's Individualized Education Program. As the February frenzy approaches and IEP meetings loom, Lisa encourages parents to reclaim their understanding of their child's IEP by revisiting the document and identifying necessary changes. Additionally, she shares insights about the importance of addressing Extended School Year (ESY) services and u...
2025-01-2125 minDon't IEP Alone.Tough Love and IEPs: Why Change Starts with YouNavigating the Journey of IEPs: Ownership, Change, and AccountabilityWelcome to another episode of Don't IEP Alone with your host, Lisa Lightner. In today's candid discussion, Lisa addresses the challenges faced by IEP (Individualized Education Program) parents and the importance of taking active ownership of the IEP journey. She shares her personal experiences and frustrations with parents seeking quick fixes rather than engaging in the ongoing process of advocacy. Lisa emphasizes the need for parents to be the driving force in improving their IEPs, as no one else is more motivated to do so. Tune i...
2025-01-1520 minDon't IEP Alone.Welcome to 2025!Very brief episode, a little of this and that....and what to do right now for your IEP advocacy.Mentioned in podcast: Stepping Up for Disabled KidsOnline Advocacy TrainingFree Webinar: What can I ask for on my IEP?Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!Support the showOther ways I can help you with IEPs: 📚 Order Your IEP Play...
2025-01-0814 minDon't IEP Alone.What Lies Ahead for IDEA and ACA in 2025: A Conversation with Michael Gamel-McCormickWelcome back to another episode of "Don't IEP Alone"! I'm your host, Lisa Lightner, and today we're diving into a topic that's been on the minds of many special needs parents: the potential dismantling of the Department of Education and the future of IDEA and health policies affecting our children. Joining us for this discussion is Michael Gamel-McCormick, the disability policy director for Senator Bob Casey. Michael brings a wealth of experience as a former special education teacher and an advocate in the realm of disability policy. In this insightful conversation, we explore the implications of possible c...
2024-12-1128 min
Don't IEP Alone.Stepping Up for Disabled Kids: Announcing Our 2025 Action Plan1. **New Weekly Episodes**: Lisa Lightner plans to release a new podcast episode every week starting in 2025.2. **Political Action Group**: Lisa has launched a new political action group called "Stepping Up for Disabled Kids."3. **Upcoming Book**: Lisa is writing a book scheduled to be released around back-to-school time in 2025 through Jossey-Bass Publishers.Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!Support the showOther ways I can help you with IEPs:
2024-12-1021 minDon't IEP Alone.The Importance of Being Proactive in Your Child's IEP Process This SummerIn this episode of "Don't IEP Alone," host Lisa Lightner shares her insights on navigating the end of the school year and the importance of parental engagement in the IEP process. Lisa emphasizes the benefits of her online advocacy training and encourages parents to plan their summer proactively to address any unresolved issues from the previous school year. She urges listeners to prioritize their efforts and focus on the key aspects of the IEP, while also reminding them to avoid getting bogged down by trivial matters. Tune in for valuable advice and practical tips on advocating for your child's...
2024-05-0714 minDon't IEP Alone.IEP Process Flowchart: Understanding Timelines and Effective Advocacy StrategiesIn this episode of "Don't IEP Alone," host Lisa Lightner delves into the intricacies of the Individualized Education Program (IEP) process. She discusses the importance of understanding the timelines and procedures outlined in the IEP flowchart that she created. Lisa emphasizes the significance of investigating state-specific information and maintaining focus on the bigger picture of advocating for a child's educational needs. With her wealth of experience and insights, Lisa offers valuable guidance for parents navigating the complexities of the IEP process. Join us as we explore how to effectively advocate for your child's educational needs within the f...
2024-04-3021 minDon't IEP Alone.Red Flags in IEP and 504 PlansIn this episode of "Don't IEP Alone," special education advocate Lisa Lightner dives into the intricacies of IEPs and 504 plans, highlighting key red flags to watch out for in the process. From the misuse of 504 plans as an "IEP light" to language manipulation in accommodations and the crucial importance of a robust present level section, Lisa provides valuable insights for parents navigating the special education system. Tune in as she uncovers common pitfalls and offers practical advice for advocating for your child's educational needs.Visit https://adayinourshoes.com/Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special...
2024-04-2317 minDon't IEP Alone.Autism Awareness: A Parent's Journey and Advocacy Efforts for Their Child's NeedsIn this episode of "Don't IEP Alone," Lisa Lightner delves into the complexities and personal challenges of navigating autism awareness and advocacy. As a dedicated advocate and parent to a child with autism, Lisa shares her journey of supporting her son, Kevin, from early diagnosis to adulthood. She passionately explores the impact of self-advocacy on the options available for individuals with autism, candidly discussing how certain advocacy efforts have influenced government policies and support systems. Tune in as Lisa shines a light on the nuances of autism awareness and the profound impact it has on families, offering a...
2024-04-1828 minDon't IEP Alone.Managing Challenging Behaviors in Kids: Tips for Parents and EducatorsIn this episode of "Don't IEP Alone," Lisa Lightner addresses the challenges of navigating behavior issues and suspensions in the school setting, particularly as the end of the school year approaches. She highlights the need to address the core issues behind a child's behavior and emphasizes the importance of engaging the child in finding solutions. Lisa acknowledges the complexities faced by parents and teachers, especially in the current climate, and offers practical advice on advocating for your child within the IEP process. She encourages listeners to educate themselves on their rights and discusses the significance of documentation i...
2024-04-1617 minDon't IEP Alone.BehaviorIn this episode of Don't IEP Alone, Lisa Lightner dives into the complex and often misunderstood topic of behavior in the school setting. She discusses the evolution of functional behavior assessments and behavior improvement plans over the years, shedding light on the flaws and misconceptions surrounding these processes. Lisa shares real-life examples of children struggling with behaviors in school and provides valuable insights into the root causes of such behaviors. She emphasizes the importance of thoroughly examining the implementation of Individualized Education Programs (IEPs) and addressing unmet needs before resorting to an FBA. Listeners are in for a...
2024-04-0920 minDon't IEP Alone.Things to Know About FAPEWelcome to "Don't IEP Alone," the podcast that provides support and guidance for parents navigating the world of Individualized Education Programs (IEPs) and special education. In today's episode titled, we dive into the essential concept of Free and Appropriate Public Education (FAPE) and its significance in the IEP process. Host Lisa Lightner, a seasoned advocate and parent, sheds light on the intricacies of FAPE, its legal implications, and the critical role it plays in shaping the educational journey of children with disabilities. Join us as we explore what FAPE truly means, how parents can advocate for their c...
2024-04-0213 minDon't IEP Alone.What is an IEP?Welcome to "Don't IEP Alone," the podcast that provides empowering and informative content for parents navigating the complex world of Individualized Education Programs (IEPs). In this episode, Lisa dives into the fundamental question, "What is an IEP?" Expert advocate Lisa breaks down the intricacies of IEPs, shedding light on their significance, the legal framework, and the crucial role they play in the educational journey of children with disabilities. From understanding the federal definition to unraveling the acronyms and guiding parents through the evaluation process, this episode is a comprehensive guide for those seeking clarity and support in t...
2024-03-2611 minDon't IEP Alone.School Field Trips: Advocacy Tips for Challenging Exclusions Based on DisabilityRead it instead: Can Students be Excluded from Field Trips for Behavior?Sale I mention in episode: https://adayinourshoes.org/dont-iep-alone-academy/Welcome to another episode of "Don't IEP Alone," where we discuss all things related to Individualized Education Plans. Today, our host Lisa Lightner delves into the controversial topic of excluding disabled students from field trips. She touches on the legal aspects, provides practical advice for parents facing this issue, and shares her insights on how to advocate for your child's rights. With field trip season around the corner, this is an episode you won't...
2024-02-2825 minDon't IEP Alone.How to Organize your IEP WorkIn this episode of "Don't IEP Alone," we're diving into the essential topic of organizing your child's Individualized Education Program (IEP) paperwork. Host Lisa Lightner shares her firsthand experience and expertise, having worked on developing her own IEP organizer for over a decade. From useful tips on creating a thorough IEP planner to the benefits of quarterly updates and goal tracking, this episode offers practical advice to help parents become more effective advocates for their children. Stay tuned to learn how taking control of your IEP paperwork can make a significant difference in navigating the education system f...
2024-02-2214 minDon't IEP Alone.The Power of Words: Dyslexia Writing Solutions with Russell Van BrocklenWelcome to "Don't IEP Alone," the podcast that provides support and resources for parents navigating the world of Individualized Education Programs. In today's episode, "The Power of Words: Dyslexia Writing Solutions with Russell Van Brocklen," we delve into the challenges faced by dyslexic students and explore innovative methods for improving their writing skills. Our special guest, Russell Van Brocklen, shares his personal experience with dyslexia and his journey to develop a groundbreaking process for enhancing dyslexic students' writing abilities. From advocating for dyslexic students to implementing effective teaching approaches, this episode offers valuable insights and practical strategies f...
2024-02-2036 minDon't IEP Alone.Supporting Your Child's Education: Navigating Regression in Challenging TimesWelcome to "Don't IEP Alone." In this episode, we delve into the topic of regression, a concern many parents face when it comes to their child's education. Our expert speakers, Lisa Lightner and Monica McHale from the @Learning Disabilities Association of America, offer valuable insights and practical advice for parents navigating the challenges of regression, especially amidst the current pandemic. From discussing ways to gather data at home to understanding the impact of COVID-19 on IEP meetings, to addressing the importance of documenting home-based interventions, this episode provides a comprehensive guide for parents supporting their child's educational jo...
2024-02-1559 minDon't IEP Alone.Understanding & Supporting Kids with ADHD: A Pediatric Neurologist's Insights w/ Dr. Sarah CheyetteWelcome to the "Don't IEP Alone" podcast. In today's episode, we delve into the fascinating and often misunderstood world of ADHD. Our host engages in a dynamic conversation with a renowned pediatric neurologist Dr. Sarah Cheyette, specializing in ADHD, who shares invaluable expertise and practical guidance. From the impact of medication to non-medication strategies, the necessity of understanding a child's unique perspective, and the challenges of parenting amid a pandemic, this episode offers a wealth of valuable information. Join us as we explore non-medication strategies, the influence of responsibilities and independence, as well as the impact of e...
2024-02-1352 minDon't IEP Alone.The Role of Executive Functioning in Learning: Unveiling Strategies with Tera Sumpter, SLPWelcome to the "Don't IEP Alone" podcast with Lisa Lightner, where we bring you expert insights and strategies to support your child's educational journey. In today's episode, "The Role of Executive Functioning in Learning Unveiling Strategies with Tera Sumpter, SLP," we delve into the crucial role of executive functioning in learning and unveil practical strategies to support children with executive function challenges. Our guest, Tera Sumpter, a speech-language pathologist specializing in executive function, shares her expertise and insights, offering valuable tools for parents, educators, and professionals working with children facing executive function difficulties. From understanding the foundational s...
2024-02-081h 01Don't IEP Alone.Supporting Families with Disabilities with Julie WaltersIn this episode of Don't IEP Alone, host Lisa Lightner interviews Julie Walters from The Connected Parent. Julie shares her journey as a neurodivergent parent raising two children with IEPs and how her experiences led her to create The Connected Parent, a national online platform that connects families with disability-related services and resources. Julie offers insight into the challenges of finding specialized services and the importance of creating a supportive community for individuals with disabilities and their families. She also discusses the innovative features of The Connected Parent and how it aims to support businesses that serve t...
2024-02-0613 minDon't IEP Alone.Empowering Young Entrepreneurs: Rachel Solomon's Success StoryIn this episode of "Don't IEP Alone," host Lisa Lightner speaks with Rachel Solomon, a young entrepreneur from Massachusetts with cerebral palsy. Rachel shares her inspiring journey of independence and her winning idea for a business called Quick Change. Her idea addresses the challenges of obtaining and maintaining medical equipment, like walkers, through a subscription-based service. Rachel discusses her experience with the NFFTY entrepreneur contest, her plans for the future of Quick Change, and her aspirations to study child life psychology in college. Rachel's passion for making a positive impact shines through as she encourages other aspiring...
2024-01-3019 minDon't IEP Alone.Empowering Parents: Understanding IEPs and Securing Support for Disabled Children with Kelley Coleman Part 2Welcome back to "Don't IEP Alone," with Lisa Lightner where we provide support and guidance for parents navigating the complex world of Individualized Education Program (IEP) meetings and special needs advocacy. In today's episode, we hear from Kelley Coleman, a parent, advocate, and author who shares her personal experiences and expertise in parenting a disabled child. Kelley's insights shed light on the challenges of obtaining support and services for disabled children, and she emphasizes the importance of not navigating these challenges alone. Alongside another knowledgeable speaker, we delve into the intricacies of IEPs, the necessity for parental i...
2024-01-2528 min
Don't IEP Alone.Don't Panic: February IEP Survival GuideOn this special Tuesday edition of "Don't IEP Alone," host Lisa Lightner speaks candidly about the looming February IEP Freakout. With no script or editing, she delves into the reasons why February tends to be a stressful time for IEP parents. From parent-teacher conferences to ESY decisions, this impromptu episode sheds light on the challenges that families face during this time of the year. Referenced in the episode:Link to take training: https://adayinourshoes.org/iep-special-education-advocacy/Link to purchase toolkit: https://adayinourshoes.org/download-the-iep-toolkit/...
2024-01-2328 minDon't IEP Alone.Empowering Parents: Understanding IEPs and Securing Support for Disabled Children with Kelley Coleman Part 1Welcome back to "Don't IEP Alone," with Lisa Lightner where we provide support and guidance for parents navigating the complex world of Individualized Education Program (IEP) meetings and special needs advocacy. In today's episode, we hear from Kelley Coleman, a parent, advocate, and author who shares her personal experiences and expertise in parenting a disabled child. Kelley's insights shed light on the challenges of obtaining support and services for disabled children, and she emphasizes the importance of not navigating these challenges alone. Alongside another knowledgeable speaker, we delve into the intricacies of IEPs, the necessity for parental i...
2024-01-2326 minDon't IEP Alone.The Power of Connection: Supporting Children with Social and Emotional Needs with Maria Slavin Part 2Welcome back to Don't IEP Alone! In today's episode, we have Maria Slavin, the Founder of In-Sync and Social, LLC, and Exceptional Moms Coaching, with over 20 years of experience in occupational therapy. As a trusted clinical and educational consultant in the Philadelphia area, Maria specializes in social-emotional learning and self-regulation, offering a combined sensory and behavioral approach through her private practice. A certified life and executive coach, Maria is dedicated to helping individuals of all ages and abilities develop emotional intelligence and thrive in meaningful relationships at home, work, and in the community.We delve into the...
2024-01-1817 minDon't IEP Alone.The Power of Connection: Supporting Children with Social and Emotional Needs with Maria Slavin Part 1Welcome back to Don't IEP Alone! In today's episode, we have Maria Slavin, the Founder of In-Sync and Social, LLC, and Exceptional Moms Coaching, with over 20 years of experience in occupational therapy. As a trusted clinical and educational consultant in the Philadelphia area, Maria specializes in social-emotional learning and self-regulation, offering a combined sensory and behavioral approach through her private practice. A certified life and executive coach, Maria is dedicated to helping individuals of all ages and abilities develop emotional intelligence and thrive in meaningful relationships at home, work, and in the community.We delve into the...
2024-01-1626 minDon't IEP Alone.Chasing the Intact Mind with Dr. Amy S.F. LutzIn this episode of "Don't IEP Alone," host Lisa Lightner and special guest Dr. Amy S.F. Lutz delve into the complexities of advocating for individuals with severe autism and other disabilities. They share personal experiences, discuss challenges with terminology and language, and highlight the difficulties faced by families in navigating service models and regulations. The conversation also addresses the need for policymakers to understand and address the unique challenges of profoundly affected individuals and their families. Join us as we explore the intersection of advocacy, language, and navigating the systems to provide the best support for...
2024-01-0953 minDon't IEP Alone.Women's Relationship with Alcohol: Uncovering the Truth and Seeking SupportIn this episode of "Don't IEP Alone," host Lisa Lightner shares a personal and insightful exploration of women and alcohol consumption. She discusses the effects of alcohol on women's bodies and minds, the prevalent culture of alcohol acceptance, and how alcohol impacts anxiety. Drawing from her own experiences and research, Lisa offers valuable insights and resources for those who may be rethinking their relationship with alcohol. Tune in as she encourages listeners to examine the role of alcohol in their lives and offers support and guidance on this important topic.Links to resources mentioned in p...
2023-12-1422 minDon't IEP Alone.Women and Alcohol: Navigating the Myths and Realities of Drinking CultureWelcome to a special episode of Don't IEP Alone. In this episode, host Lisa Lightner opens up about her personal connection to the topic of alcohol consumption among women. As she shares her own family history with alcoholism and the impact it has had on her life, she delves into the societal attitudes towards alcohol, the risks associated with it, and the myths surrounding its consumption. Through a candid and insightful discussion, she addresses the normalization of alcohol use and its potential impact on women's health. Join us as we explore this important topic and co...
2023-12-1325 minDon't IEP Alone.Raising Awareness: Women, Alcohol, and the Path to Healing and EmpowermentWelcome to a special series on "Don't IEP Alone", where we delve into the important and often overlooked topic of women and alcohol. In this powerful three-part series, we will explore personal stories, challenges, and resources related to this issue. In the first episode, our host Lisa Lightner shares a deeply personal story about her own experiences with alcoholism in her family and her journey to understanding the impact it has had on her life. Through this raw and honest narrative, she brings to light the stigma surrounding addiction and the reality many women face. Join us a...
2023-12-1223 minDon't IEP Alone.Chatting with Nicole Santiago from Family ADDventuresWelcome to another empowering episode of the "Don't IEP Alone" podcast! I'm your host, Lisa Lightner, and today, I am thrilled to have a special guest, Nicole Santiago, from Family Adventures. Nicole shares her incredible journey, transitioning from a dedicated Spanish teacher to becoming an advocate for children with diverse learning needs, driven by personal experiences with her own three children, each facing unique challenges.In this episode, we delve into Nicole's inspiring advocacy work, from her experiences in the education system to her unexpected role in training the San Antonio Police Department on understanding and responding...
2023-12-0726 minDon't IEP Alone.GotchaWelcome, everyone! I'm Lisa Lightner, and I'm thrilled to bring you another episode of "Don't IEP Alone." Whether you're tuning in on YouTube or on different podcast platforms, or catching up with me on LinkedIn, Pinterest, and Instagram, I'm glad you're here. Don't forget to hit that subscribe button so you never miss an episode.I want to delve into the concept of "gotcha." Four specific situations have recently come up where parents felt they had the upper hand, armed with what they believed were game-changing pieces of information. But does a gotcha moment really work in...
2023-12-0518 minDon't IEP Alone.Parents are the IEP PoliceWelcome to "Don't IEP Alone" with your host, Lisa Lightner. If you're navigating the world of Individualized Education Programs (IEPs) and special education, this podcast is your go-to resource. In this episode, Lisa delves into the intriguing concept of parents as the IEP police. Drawing from her own experiences as a former special education compliance monitor in Pennsylvania, she unveils the inner workings of the compliance monitoring process and sheds light on the limitations it presents.As Lisa passionately shares her insights, she reveals the disconnect between the administrative checkboxes of compliance monitoring and the a...
2023-11-3016 minDon't IEP Alone.Social SkillsWelcome back to another episode of "Don't IEP Alone." I'm your host, Lisa Lightner, a special education advocate based near Philadelphia. In today's episode, we're diving into the world of social skills, just in time for the upcoming Thanksgiving festivities. As we gear up for the holiday season, it's essential to recognize that our children, especially those with ADHD, intellectual disabilities, or autism, may not always exhibit traditional social skills.Join me as we navigate through the changing landscape of social expectations. In a world that's constantly evolving, our approach to social skills also needs t...
2023-11-2817 minDon't IEP Alone.No Meet AddendumWelcome back to another episode of Don't IEP Alone. I'm Lisa Lightner, your host, and in today's episode, we dive into the important topic "No-Meet Addendum". In this episode, I encourage parents to consider the no-meet addendum for manageable changes, emphasizing its efficiency and time-saving benefits. I recently used it for a transportation tweak and even when my son was temporarily without a nurse.So, as we approach the holiday rush, remember, that a no-meet addendum can be your ally for streamlining the IEP process. Check out my blog post on the topic for more details. A...
2023-11-2113 minDon't IEP Alone.Let's Talk About Behavior (Part 2)Welcome to another episode of Don't IEP Alone podcast! This episode is the Part 2 of "Let's Talk About Behavior". Children with autism and other learning disabilities often struggle with negative behaviors. These behaviors are often a result of the child's lack of skills or sensory experiences. Behavior plans are often used to address these behaviors. However, behavior plans should not be used to punish or reward a child for a skill set or a sensory experience. Instead, behavior plans should be focused on addressing the underlying cause of the behavior.Parents should learn their rights i...
2023-11-1615 minDon't IEP Alone.Let's Talk About Behavior (Part 1)Welcome to another episode of Don't IEP Alone podcast! In this episode, we will talk about BEHAVIOR!Lisa Lightner, host of the Don't IEP Alone Podcast, discusses the flaws and trends she's seeing with problematic FBAs. She argues that anyone can do an FBA, but not everyone has the necessary training to do so effectively. She also points out that FBAs often don't go deep enough to identify the root cause of a child's behavior. Finally, she suggests that parents should make sure that their child's IEP is being implemented with fidelity before requesting an F...
2023-11-1517 minDon't IEP Alone.Understanding IEEs: Part 4-What You Need to Know About Requesting an Independent Education EvaluationWelcome to another episode of Don't IEP Alone podcast! In this episode, titled "IEE: Understanding Your Options," we dive into the important topic of Independent Education Evaluations (IEEs). Relevant Article: https://adayinourshoes.com/iee-independent-education-evaluation/Host Lisa Leitner opens up about a recent somber experience and reminds us to cherish our loved ones. She then delves into the world of IEEs, debunking common myths and shedding light on the different types available. Lisa shares personal stories, as well as valuable insights and tips for parents navigating the process. Plus, she reveals a little-known fact th...
2023-11-0823 minDon't IEP Alone.The Wait Time: What to Expect During IEP Evaluations - Part 3Welcome back to another episode of Don't IEP Alone. I'm Lisa Lightner, your host, and in today's episode, we continue our discussion on IEP evaluations. Relevant Links: https://adayinourshoes.com/iep-re-evaluations-what-parents-need-to-know-timelines/https://adayinourshoes.com/iep-evaluations-iee-timeline/This is part three of the series, where we dive into the quiet waiting period after requesting evaluations. As parents, we often find ourselves eagerly awaiting the results, and I'll share some insights on how to make the most of this time. We'll also explore the importance of parent participation during evaluations and why it's crucial to set as...
2023-11-0123 minDon't IEP Alone.Navigating the IEP Evaluation Process: Part 2 - Permission to Evaluate Form Explained Navigating the IEP Evaluation Process: Part 2 - Permission to Evaluate Form ExplainedRelevant Links: https://adayinourshoes.com/iep-evaluations-iee-timeline/https://adayinourshoes.com/iep-re-evaluations-what-parents-need-to-know-timelines/Welcome back to another episode of Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Leitner! In today's episode, we are diving into part two of our series on IEP evaluations. Last time, we discussed the importance of requesting evaluations in writing and providing concrete examples of your concerns. Today, we will be exploring the permission to evaluate form and when a school may legally refuse to evaluate your child. Lisa will guide us...
2023-10-2521 minDon't IEP Alone.Understanding the IEP Evaluation Process: Part 1Welcome back to another episode of "Don't IEP Alone." I'm your host, Lisa Lightner, a special education advocate based near Philadelphia. In this episode, we delve into a topic that many parents encounter when navigating the world of IEPs: evaluations. We often find that parents reach out to advocates when things aren't going well with their child's IEP, and sometimes this can go on for months or even years before seeking help. It got us thinking: what if advocates were involved from the beginning? Join us as we explore the comprehensive and robust IEP evaluation pr...
2023-10-1825 minDon't IEP Alone.Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA): A Closer Look with Dr. Jessica MyszakDr. Jessica Myszak is a Chicago-area psychologist who specializes in autism assessment. Doing both in-person and telehealth evaluations in many states across the US, she has developed a niche in less-typical presentations of autism--autism in AFAB children and adults, high-masking children and adults, and pathological demand avoidance (PDA).Website—https://helpandhealingcenter.com/Tik Tok-- https://www.tiktok.com/@drjessicamyszak Autistic Support Network-- https://autisticsupportnetwork.com/Don't IEP Alone with Lisa Lightner, Special Education Advocate Thank you for listening to this episode of Don't IEP Alone. See you next time!Su...
2023-10-1119 minDon't IEP Alone.Finding Practical Solutions for Disabled Professionals: A Discussion with Ariadne WolfAriadne Wolf is a dedicated advocate for disabled and neurodivergent women writers who have faced trauma. Having worked closely with this community, Ariadne discovered their struggle to share their pain stories and connect with audiences in a meaningful and authentic way. This realization led her to establish an editorial consulting business, focusing on empowering and supporting her disabled community. Alongside her career, Ariadne pursued her master's in conflict resolution at the University of Oregon, using her experiences to enhance her skills in communication and relationship-building. Throughout her journey, she encountered the Amber Heard trial, drawing parallels between her own...
2023-10-1128 minDon't IEP Alone.Uncovering the Hidden Link: How Speech and Language Disorders Connect to Juvenile Confinement with Dr. Shameka Stewart, Juvenile Forensic SLP00:02:30 Youth facing adult charges, reviewing records and assessing language and cognition to align with charges. Discussing impact of disorder on ability to meet elements.00:05:19 Parents should familiarize themselves with special education laws and their rights to ensure their child receives appropriate services and not agree to anything they feel is wrong.00:07:34 The term "school to prison" refers to the transition of youth from schools to the criminal justice system. It emphasizes the need for intervention at various points before reaching prison and acknowledges the significance of confinement in juvenile detention.00:10:26 Carve is an acronym for setting...
2023-10-0422 minDon't IEP Alone.Nurturing Executive Functioning Skills: A Deep Dive with Tera Sumpter, SLPWelcome back to another episode of "Don't IEP Alone"! In today's episode, we dive into the fascinating topic of executive functioning with the incredibly knowledgeable Tera Sumpter, SLP. Tera, who likes to think of things in terms of growth and planting, shares her insights and strategies for developing and supporting executive functioning skills in children. She categorizes these skills into roots, stems, and flowers, highlighting the importance of prioritizing and organizing skills as the "flowers" that bloom when there is a strong foundation of roots and stems. One of the key themes discussed in this ep...
2023-09-281h 05Don't IEP Alone.Conversations with Child Psychologist Elliott Jaffa: Navigating Teen Behavior and Building People SkillsElliott JaffaDr. Elliott B. Jaffa AssociatesArlington, VAejaffa316@gmail.com703-931-004000:02:15 The goal is to catch kids being good. Ask what they learned instead of "how was school?" Praise observable behaviors, not physical appearance. Parents struggle with the language of positivity.00:06:18 The speaker asks an easy question, but with language restrictions. They then ask if the listener's hand is bleeding, questioning the validity of the question.00:09:34 Cows drink water, not milk. The focus should be on positive communication and listening with children.00:12:42 A therapist challenges children to q...
2023-09-2729 min
Don't IEP Alone.The Impact of Socialization in the Digital Age: FaceTime vs. In-Person Interaction, Dr. Stephanie FieldsThe Impact of Socialization in the Digital Age: FaceTime vs. In-Person Interaction00:02:07 Growing concern over children's socialization and anxiety.00:03:50 Video games can count as socialization, but face-to-face interaction is also important.00:07:33 Families need to focus on mental health.00:13:18 Parents must be vigilant with IEPs. Specialty design instruction must match child's needs. Collaboration needed for effective changes.00:16:49 Technical reports meant to be explained to parents.00:21:09 ADHD becoming mainstream, making connections for kids.00:25:01 Prioritize Mental Health 101 during crises.00:25:58 Challenging, but prioritize healthy food choices.Dr. Stephanie Fields is a highly...
2023-09-1328 minDon't IEP Alone.We're back with Back to School Tips for 2023Welcome back to the Don't IEP Alone podcast with your host, Lisa Lightner! After a long hiatus, we are thrilled to be back and ready to provide you with valuable content. In this episode titled "Back to School 2023, is your IEP ready?", Lisa dives into the current state of education, particularly in the aftermath of the pandemic. She discusses the challenges parents and educators are facing, such as staffing shortages and limited resources, and how it is impacting our children's IEPs. Lisa provides practical advice on how to navigate these difficulties and advocate for your...
2023-09-0621 min