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2023-05-3012 min2023-02-2029 min2022-12-2921 minThe Parenting DareThe Power of Reflecting on our Lives (First Quarter Reflections)I have learned a lot from being back in the classroom. I hope these reflections on the first quarter of school will resonate with you! More at: www.theparentingdare.com
2022-11-1720 minThe Parenting DareBig Changes Are HappeningI have been a work from home mother for 25 years. I never expected to go back into the classroom. In this episode, I not only share that story with you, I share how I am handling the overwhelm that always comes with big life changes. More at: www.theparentingdare.com
2022-07-2526 minThe Parenting DareWhat are Your Top Five Categories?As busy moms, it’s easy to lose sight of what’s most important. In this episode, Lori will help you focus on what is most important in your life. Links for Mother Retreats Retreats for Women
2022-06-3029 minThe Parenting DareThree Things I Would do Differently if I Had to Start My Mothering Journey All Over AgainIf you are an older mom and if you could go back to when your first child was a newborn and do it all over again, WHAT WOULD YOU CHANGE? If you are like me, you have a list. A very long list. More at: www.theparentingdare.com
2022-06-1519 minThe Parenting DareYou Were Created to LoveYou and I were created to love. So how come it has been so very easy to get off the track and go ballistic with the ones that we love the most? In today’s post, we’ll explore how to get back to you. Here’s a link to the free online mother retreat. https://courses.theparentingdare.com/courses That will take you to our product page. Simply click on “Mother Retreat” and you will be able to enroll for free.
2022-06-0809 min2022-05-0549 minThe Parenting DareThe Best Gift You Can Give Your ChildrenWe give our children many different gifts. However, there is one thing that will really make a big difference in how they live their lives… More at: www.theparentingdare.com
2022-03-2515 min2022-03-1616 minThe Parenting DareWhen Your Child is Stuck in SinIn my last several podcasts we’ve been looking at parenting our children even when they hide things from us. In today’s podcast, I take a look at how to respond/react when our children get stuck in sin. More at: www.theparentingdare.com
2022-03-1121 minThe Parenting DareGetting Practical with my own LentWe’ve been discussing what it means to Parent Below the Line. In today’s podcast I get practical and a bit personal: what is keeping ME from letting Jesus into my inner life? More at: www.theparentingdare.com
2022-03-0118 minThe Parenting DareMore Practical Applications of Parenting Below the LineIn the last two podcasts, I went over the concept of "parenting below the line." In this episode, I share more practical applications. enjoy. More at: www.theparentingdare.com
2022-02-2625 minThe Parenting DareWhat it Looks Like to Parent Below the LineIn my last podcast, I went over the idea of “Parenting Below the Line.” In this episode, I go into what that really looks like within a family. More at: www.theparentingdare.com
2022-02-1721 minThe Parenting DareWhat it Means to Parent Below the LineAs we begin the new year, I’d like to take a moment and share a bit more about my own parenting journey and why we use the phrase “Parenting Below the Line.” It’s a game changer! Please put in show notes: Here are the links I mentioned: Our Adoption Story Eric's Wedding Story Our Proactive Parenting Course Here is a link to this post: "What It Means to Parent Below the Line" (please share with those young moms and dads in your life!)
2022-01-1926 minThe Parenting DareThe Power of Your GazeAs a mother, you are the heart of the home. And as such, you have incredible influence over your children. I love thinking about that….and learning how to gaze more purposefully on my children. Link for the MOTHER RETREAT More at: www.theparentingdare.com
2021-12-0817 minThe Parenting DareDoing Some Tender Self CareFriends, this last weekend I went to an amazing wedding in Texas with my daughter Rachel and the whole experience reset me in a major way. I’ve been walking around my home, happy, rested and full. More at: www.theparentingdare.com
2021-10-2833 minThe Parenting DareThe two things that helped me when I was a young mom...of crazy little peopleI have a question. If you are a young mom of little people, were you prepared for all of the crazy? I sure wasn’t. In this podcast, I shared two things that gave me a deeper, clearer perspective. Enjoy. More at: www.theparentingdare.com
2021-08-1818 min2021-06-3040 minThe Parenting DareA Beautiful, Frazzled Mother (of Many) Shares Her Heart With Me. (You gotta read this!)I wanted to know what my idealistic thoughts about creating a domestic church within our homes would mean to a mom that had a lot of little kids. You’re going to love this. More at: www.theparentingdare.com
2021-06-3018 minThe Parenting DareMore Love and Marriage (The Story of Eric and Jessica Doerneman!)Every relationship has a story. This is the story of how my son met and eventually married his wonderful wife, Jessica Ragas. More at: www.theparentingdare.com
2021-06-0936 minThe Parenting DareLove, Marriage, and a Great Toast To Mothers EverywhereWhen you think about life, do you want to be important and noticed? I think that's pretty common, don't You? Well, in today's post, I introduce you to someone who understands the importance of being little. More at: www.theparentingdare.com
2021-05-2520 minThe Parenting DareA Skill I Hope You Learn-An Open Letter to My ChildrenI want my children to know certain things. So today I decided to take the time and speak directly to my kids about a skill that I’ve learned that has absolutely changed my life, knowing that if they understand this, it will change their life and the lives of those around them, too. More at: www.theparentingdare.com
2021-04-2819 min2021-04-2217 min2021-04-2219 min2021-04-2211 minThe Parenting DareGiving Your Child What They Really WantIn this last podcast in our new series, “Raising Strong Children in Today’s World,” we look at the one thing that can truly make a difference in your parenting. I also share how I screwed that up with one of my children! More at: www.theparentingdare.com/io
2021-04-0615 minThe Parenting DareHow Our Beliefs Can Blind UsThis is the fourth podcast from our series, “Raising Strong Children in Today’s World.” In order to understand how mothers are blinded to the threat of pornography, you have to understand how we form beliefs. And how those beliefs can blind us. More at: www.theparentingdare.com/io
2021-03-2317 minThe Parenting DareParenting with Love instead of FearIn this sixth podcast in our “Raising Strong Children in Today’s World” series, we dive deep into what fear does in our lives...and how living from a place of love changes all. More at: www.theparentingdare.com/io
2021-03-1218 minThe Parenting DareA new way of THINKINGThis is the fifth installment from our “Raising Strong Children in Today’s World” series. You will gain a better understanding of a way of thinking in the parenting realm. It’s powerful. More at: www.theparentingdare.com/io
2021-03-1209 minThe Parenting DareHow This Threat Gets Past Mama BearIn this third post of our “Raising Strong Children in Today’s World” Series, we look at how this problem of pornography can infiltrate into the home. After all, the mother is fierce and protective. So how does it even gain entrance? More at: www.theparentingdare.com/io
2021-03-1208 minThe Parenting DareThe Essence of MothersIn this second post of our “Raising Strong Children in Today’s World” series, we look at a massively strong trait that you have as a mother. And how it has and will serve your family in amazing ways. Find more at: www.theparentingdare.com/io
2021-03-1213 minThe Parenting DareIntro to Blog SeriesThis is part one of our new series on “Raising Strong Children in Today’s World.” The purpose of this series is to help Christian mothers understand how to parent more intentionally in the area of porn prevention. Find more at www.theparentingdare.com/io
2021-03-1217 minThe Parenting DareMore Thoughts on LentWhen I was a little girl I used to wear my Lenten sacrifices sort of like jewels, hoping others would notice. In today’s podcast, we take a little deeper look into fasting and sacrificing and how to help our children gain a better understanding that we may have had! Learn more at: www.theparentingdare.com/io
2021-02-1922 minThe Parenting DareThoughts on LentLent starts on Wednesday, Feb. 17, 2021. I know that you are just as busy as I am, but let’s use this time and make these 40 days a way to unify our family and get closer to our Jesus. Learn more at: www.theparentingdare.com/io
2021-02-1514 minThe Parenting DareThe Most Powerful Force on EarthI don’t know about you, but I am busy. There are MANY forces pulling us away from our center. Now imagine a world where we actually make the time to get quiet and find that center. Here’s what I know to be true: when we live from an understanding of our true dignity, we have the potential to light up the world around us. Learn more here: www.theparentingdare.com/io
2021-02-1223 minThe Parenting DareFood, Mood and Being a MomWhen I was a young mom, I had the best time making the best food. And when I use the word “best” I mean that we ate A LOT of highly processed “food.” I eventually realized that my food intake was not playing nice with my moods and emotions and decided to change how I ate. I researched nutrition. I learned a lot. But guess what? Learning the facts didn’t change my behavior. What finally DID change? Everything. But it came about in a totally unexpected way. Learn more at www.thepar...
2021-02-0916 minThe Parenting DareTransforming You: The Heart of the HomeWELCOME to 2021! Yeah! We are going back to podcasting! AND: Eric and I have big plans for this year in regards to delving deep with parents in the realm of raising strong kids in our culture. Before we go in that direction, we felt it would be prudent to take a couple of weeks and attend to our inner hearts. Much has happened in the last eleven months and it is probably necessary to just step back and recalibrate for a moment. We need to be aligned, inside and out.
2021-02-0415 minThe Parenting DareHeart to HeartIt's been a hot minute since I podcasted last. But lately I've had something on my momma's heart I'd really like to share to your momma heart. I'll try to keep the tears at bay for this... * puts on ninja mom headband *
2020-10-0149 minThe Parenting DareCreating a Beautiful Family CultureHappy New Year! I absolutely love the first of the year. It’s a time for us moms to sit down and take a moment. What worked last year? Where did we drift? What areas can we improve? No matter where you’ve been, no matter where you are now, you can Create a Beautiful Family Culture. It's going to be a great year. I feel it in my nuggets.
2020-02-1307 minThe Parenting DareThe Low Down on Low ThyroidHave you ever been diagnosed with a low-functioning thyroid? If so, you are not alone. Hypothyroidism is an incredibly common condition. You might want to go grab a nice cup of tea because what I have to share with you in this post will most likely shock and/or surprise you. www.theparentingdare.com/blog
2020-02-1218 minThe Parenting DareThe Greatest Truth About Your BeautyWhen my son Eric pushed me to share my "most shameful food moment" with you, I balked at first. I mean, come on, kid. Why share that? But as I prayed (and maybe ranted out loud) about it, I felt almost compelled to share not only the crap with you, but also HOW I was healed and HOW I realized the TRUTH about my BEAUTY! Even though this post is long, I didn't spend a lot of time writing it today; I simply took segments from Lesson 9 of my online course, Inside Out. (That lesson is called "...
2020-02-0427 minThe Parenting DareParenting Hack #2: How to Avoid the PanicHere's another Parenting Hack! I love the sort of twist mom puts on these 'hacks'. They're deeper than I originally intended when asking her to come up with some hacks for parents. Wouldn't have it any other way. Just good ol' genuine Lori, coming in hot with another MEGA PIECE'O'MOMMY advice. Peace out, E
2019-06-1017 minThe Parenting DareLet's take back our turf, Mamas!The enemy is in a turf war with you. He wants to claim your home and more than that, he wants to overcome and claim every person in your home. What Satan doesn’t understand is that God Himself fashioned our mother hearts. They are soft, yes. But we are also fiercely protective. In this post I will show you the war and then I will give you a workable solution in the form of a challenge. (I love challenges!) It’s time. Let’s take back our turf!
2019-05-1924 minThe Parenting DareOur Adoption StoryI know it’s super easy to just live life. Easter is coming up. We have to buy new dresses and ties, or find the old ones that will still work. We have to plan the Easter dinner; should we go to Mom’s this year or stay home and fly kites in our own backyard? There are graduations looming. Life. It’s easy to just live there. HOWEVER, today I invite you to go deeper. Go into Divine Mercy. We have received so many gifts through the Novena of Chaplets to The...
2019-04-1432 minThe Parenting DareWhat 87% of Americans want to doSo, I am part of the majority! And, spoiler alert! I want to write a book. In fact, I AM writing a book. The only issue I am having is that ALL I want to do is write my book. I don’t want to write blogs. I don’t want to create presentations. I just.want.to.write.my.book. It’s become a slight obsession.
2019-03-2427 minThe Parenting DareThe Top 7 Reasons Why I Love My MotherLast weekend I was supposed to be in Nebraska, having a nice brunch with my seven sisters and three sisters-in-law, celebrating our mother, Bonnie Kreshel, and her 77 years on this earth. However, a massive snow storm blew through Nebraska, effectively shutting down our plans. I woke up this morning, full of deep appreciation and love for my mother...
2019-03-1028 minThe Parenting DareHave YOU Ever Wanted to Start a Blog?Hello!! In this episode I talk about why you should start a blog. No matter what stage of life you are in, you have a message to share. When I first started I was overwhelmed to say the least. I needed help. ALL THE HELP. I just knew I wanted to share my message and beyond that I was lost. After trying to YouTube search for help, I joined Elite Blog Academy and it changed everything for me!! It was like walking into a five-star hotel. Click Here: Elite Blog Academy
2019-02-1817 minThe Parenting DareParenting Hack #1: How to Truly Enjoy Your BabiesA couple of weeks ago my son Eric asked me to do a podcast on “Parenting Hacks.” I laughed because for a mom of many, it has been about survival, not about creating clever ways of living. Yet as I thought more deeply about it, I realized that I had developed a way of thinking about life which had HELPED me survive the hard years of motherhood. I guess you could say this is an emotional mommy hack!
2019-02-1030 minThe Parenting DareBMT: Air Force Reserves - A Mommy's Point of ViewThis is the story of my middle child, Matthew, going into Basic Military Training with the Air Force Reserves. How it came to be, visiting him this past weekend, and my thoughts through it all. Well... so far.
2019-01-2719 minThe Parenting DareRachel's Journey: January 2019 Update!!In episode seven I interviewed my adult daughter, Rachel, about her thoughts on being a FOCUS Missionary. In this episode, I asked her to recap for us her first semester. I love this child. She has a good sense of humor. Oh, yeah, we forget to tell her that we were going to VIDEO the interview, too. :)
2019-01-1942 minThe Parenting DareWhy Eric doesn't like the phrase "PUT FILTERS ON EVERYTHING"Lori and Eric get into a good discussion today. See, Lori is often in momma-bear freakout mode and says radical things. Exhibit A - "PUT FILTERS ON EVERYTHING!!" Eric, handsome posh millennial, cringes every time his mother utters those words. In today's episode we finally find out why.
2018-12-2225 minThe Parenting DareSo Jesus derailed my Advent Challenge... 3rd Week 2018Have you ever had an idea to improve yourself? Well, that’s what this Advent has been about: self improvement. Then Jesus issued an invitation to me, a totally unexpected invitation.
2018-12-1612 minThe Parenting DareAdvent Challenge 2018 - Week TWOJust wanted you to know that I love you! Thanks for listening :)
2018-12-0910 minThe Parenting DareAdvent Challenge 2018 - Week ONEWelcome to Week One of the Advent Challenge, a simple way to get closer to Jesus this season. As I sat with this topic, I thought I would just write a little bit and be done with it and go onto something else. Um, that’s not what happened. As I prepared for this podcast I was reminded of some bigger truths, which I am excited to share with you!
2018-12-0421 minThe Parenting DareDo You Need an Advent Challenge?Hi hi! The Christmas season is upon us. If you are like me, you are busy. Very busy. Or at least that's what I tell myself. Have you ever had Christmas Eve arrive and realize that you had not really ENTERED into the true reason for the holiday season? That has happened to me, more than once. Too often. This year I am issuing an Advent Challenge to myself, and you! Please join in, engage this season, and share the message! Love you, Lori
2018-11-2517 minThe Parenting DareSugar. Do you ever eat too much?Most of my life has been spent wrestling with cookies and cakes and ice cream and chips and dips. It is like I have been in a love/hate relationship with “bad foods” but I couldn’t seem to break up with them. They always looked so GOOD, even though I knew they made me feel like crap. What kind of a hold did they have on me? In today’s episode, I take a deeper look at the WHY. What is going on within this ol’ body that makes it almost impo...
2018-11-1820 minThe Parenting DareIs Sugar Addiction A Real Thing?Hi Hi! My entire focus of my life is freedom in Christ. I believe that’s why you and I were created: so we could fulfill HIS mission for us. In today’s show I will bring you inside my very private thought life. As you listen, I invite you to think about your own relationship with certain foods and how addiction keeps us from our best self. Hope you love it, Lori
2018-11-1125 minThe Parenting Dare"Why are you going after the low hanging fruit?"Oh my stars. So, a child of mine made me a bit crazy the other day. If she would just follow my way I knew she would have a perfect life. God used that situation to teach this mama a lesson.
2018-11-0407 minThe Parenting DareMy Victorian HomeHave you ever wondered how to love and give your heart to others without getting drained? I struggled to find that balance for years. Then I sought counsel and was able to structure my inner world in a way that gave me clear boundaries. I am not exaggerating when I say this changed my life. Let me know your thoughts!! Love, Lori Doerneman PS if you really love this, share it with those in your inner home :)
2018-10-2018 minThe Parenting DareWill the Catholic Church Survive? ft. Russ!Please share this episode with a priest friend or seminarian!! Here’s the deal. Take authority, in the name of Jesus, over Satan. “I write to you, young men, because you are strong and the word of God remains in you, and you have conquered the evil one.” 1 John 2:14c Stand firm. Use His Power. Be who you were called to be. “For God did not give us a spirit of cowardice but rather of power and love and self-control.” 2 Timothy 1:7 Be honest with any struggles...
2018-10-1430 minThe Parenting DareThe Prodigal GodThe other day I asked my son Matthew if I could share the story of The Prodigal God with him. He said yes... It was more like... 'surrre mom' I think he yawned, too. After I got done telling him this story, he looked at me and said, “Wow, that was not at all what I expected. Mom, tell your listeners that this story is worth their time.” Listeners, this story is worth your time! If you love it please share it with TWO friends (or like 200 if you're into...
2018-09-3027 minThe Parenting DareTogether We Are StrongerHi Hi, This year has been... oh how should I say this... It's been amazing. My relationship with my God has been completely and utterly reinvigorated! My eyes are 51 years old and I need reading glasses to see my phone screen but I have a received new vision in HIM. I share today about Satan and the US vs THEM mentality of Christianity. Oh. My. Stars. Love you, Lori
2018-09-2316 minThe Parenting DareMy New ConversionHello there! I've been Catholic for... ever. But earlier this year I realized that I had a lot of mistrust of God the Father. That troubled me and so I prayed to Jesus, asking Him to show me the Love of His Father. My prayer was answered BIG-TIME and I am grateful, so very grateful. I have a hunch that I might not be the only one out there who struggled with this. Please let me know your thoughts! In CHRIST, Lori
2018-09-1742 minThe Parenting DareThe Transforming Power of Radical LoveHello Dearest Listener, I have been ABSOLUTELY LOVING getting to know this world of podcasting. I hope you are enjoying this as much as I am. Today's episode is split it into two parts. In the first part I really wanted to sort of clear the water in respect to my PREVIOUS episode a.k.a. that amazing one with Rachel. In the second half I share the beautiful story of Larry Malone and his intense life transformation through a single act of pure love. You can find all of my b...
2018-09-0923 minThe Parenting DareRachel's Spiritual JourneyI love love love my daughter Rachel. She is an incredible force for good in this world. There were many ups and downs that went into our journey, mom and daughter. Hope you love this podcast! Please share with your mommy friends!! Check out The Daughter Dare. You'll LOVE it. It can be found under the RESOURCES tab at www.theparentingdare.com
2018-08-2657 minThe Parenting DareIntroducing... The Daughter Dare (2018)“So, what’s easier, raising girls or boys?” That question always makes me chuckle. As a mother of five sons and three daughters, I can say with total confidence that females and males handle LIFE differently. I created a shorter video course called The Daughter Dare for all mothers out there who have daughters that roll their eyes or constantly stomp off to their room. Please find more information at www.theparentingdare.com under the FREE RESOURCES tab.
2018-08-2216 minThe Parenting DareYour Daughter Deserves the BEST Version of YouI am alone on this episode! Usually I have Eric sitting in the background yelling things every now and then but he is gone... for a little bit. This episode is all about doing those things that you need so that you can be your best self. I want to tackle a major issue I keep hearing from mothers: I don't even have time to think, let alone do something for myself! As a woman, we get this misunderstanding of motherhood. We think it’s martyrdom. We feel like it’s a competition to get the m...
2018-08-1220 minThe Parenting DareThe Whole Story - Eric's SideToday, Lori and Eric switch roles after Episode 3! It's Lori's turn to grill (interview) her 25 year old son on his path that lead towards creating The Parenting Dare. Never once did Lori think she would be business partners with her son, she was only ever concerned with one role: mother. Yes, Lori and Eric are the co-creators but they each have a unique journey that lead them The Parenting Dare. It's been so fun thinking back on what lead up to initial release last September! Looking for more info? Go check out www.theparentingdare.com...
2018-08-051h 07The Parenting DareThe Whole Story - Lori's SideToday, Eric interviews Lori on what lead her down the path of life to create The Parenting Dare. Hmmm... interview is a strong word. Let's say he just guides the conversation. Yes. Lori and Eric are the co-creators but they each have a unique journey that lead them to The Parenting Dare. It's been so fun thinking back on what lead up to initial release last September! Looking for more info? Please check out www.theparentingdare.com/trailer
2018-07-291h 04The Parenting DareMy People (Summer 2018)If we're going to get to know each other, I must introduce you to my people! They often take center stage in most of my writing. My Russell, Eric Scott, Rachel Nicole, Mitchell Paul, Matthew Edward, Malaysia Marie, Bridget Therese, Thomas Joseph, and David Anthony. I posted LOTS of pictures on my blog so go check them out: www.theparentingdare.com/blog I love my people!!! This is really just a moment in time, I think of this episode like I just took a picture! This is what my family looks li...
2018-07-2627 minThe Parenting Dare"Mom, You Should Start a Podcast"Here we go! Episode 1. Eric is always pushing me and challenging me in new ways but this.... starting an actual podcast.... has been one of my most uncomfortable ones. He never stopped poking and prodding, similar to when he wanted me to start a blog. And I LOVE my blog. So I guess this is one small step for- who am I kidding. No. This is straight up just ONE GIANT LEAP for this mommy-of-8. Cannot wait to see where this goes! Don't forget to check out the blog side of thi...
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