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The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS2 Ep22: The SKILL of building transformative VALUEEvery time you try to “do it right,” for a system, you have to abandon what you know in your body. The SKILL I talk about in this episode is the skill of building SELF-DETERMINED value. This is the skill of being able to discern in your body what is actually right for you and your work and your people. There are cultural hybridities vantage points insights and ideas strengths uncommon or marginal knowledges that are calling you to SEE them as value. This...2025-08-0627 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS2 Ep21: The Cost of Contortion V Capacity Gains of Coherence If you are someone who has learned that you have to manage your energy, your protective vigilance around your energy will be high. This relationship with your energy treats it like a finite resource that gets emptied. And needs a lot of space and time to drip back up into adequacy. It's the relationship of: managing the cost of contortion. Creating more energy, more capacity is the work of aligning your life structures with your actual truth and value. _______________ Transcript: https://www.solasystems.xyz/s/021 2025-07-3031 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS2 Ep20: Low Belief to High Conviction The ability to exercise CHOICE in what reality you operate in, and how you respond, is a kind of freedom. Not freedom from accountability. But freedom to be in integrity with what you *actually* most value. In the first of four 'bridge' episodes (from this podcast to the next!), I speak to how starting with low belief is just part of the work. And what the experience is like, when a practiced belief gathers enough evidence to reach a crescendo of conviction; A "leap of faith" becomes available! _______________ T...2025-07-2223 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS2 Ep19: PART TWO: The next level of SELF CONNECTION + my new coaching focus Part Two of my big announcement is the NEW DIRECTION and focus of my coaching: which is YOUR WORK IN THE WORLD I share the core insight that underpins my new offer, and what the offer is: it's called FLAREHOUSE HERE IS ALL THE INFO: https://www.solasystems.xyz/FLAREHOUSE _______________ Transcript: https://www.solasystems.xyz/s/019 2024-12-0423 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS2 Ep18: Neuroqueering Love, with Laurie Green This week on the Unmasking Unschool Podcast, I invited previous podcast guest Laurie Green back onto the podcast, this time to talk about the culmination of what was once a vague dream, now realised as a tangible reality in the form of a BOOK. The BOOK: Deliquescent Beings: A Neuroqueering Book of Love https://www.neuroqueering.network/product/deliquescentbeings/ Neuroqueering Love: A Gathering: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/neuroqueering-love-a-gathering-tickets-1042904935737 Laurie's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/neuroqueeringhumans/ Artists in the book: Axe Raulet Georgia...2024-10-2941 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS2 Ep17: Big announcement PART ONEIt turns out I'm in a SEASON of change... Listen to PART ONE of my big announcement and why I closed doors to UNMASKING UNSCHOOL early!! ___________ TRANSCRIPT ___________ The Unmasking Unschool Podcast is for autistic visionaries, creatives and change-makers. Who are seeking to exit the burnout cycles, pathology paradigms, masks and self-negations of the past that keep you stuck, and want to realise the self-reinventions, life pivots and culture-shifting projects to become your boldest most authentic self. Hosted by Louisa Shaeri, artist, coach, cultural activator, founder of SOLA Systems.2024-10-2320 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS2 Ep16: Deciding to be BIGGER Unmasking Unschool is open for enrolment! ENROL HERE: https://www.solasystems.xyz/unun This is the online group coaching, support system, and social context for #autistic/audhd visionaries, creatives, change-makers who are not here to fit in, to enact the life pivots, self re-inventions involved in becoming your boldest self, and realising your most impactful work in the world. ___________ TRANSCRIPT Episode Notes Self belief that you can create a new thing in the world, or in your life that you can be in new ways starts...2024-10-1331 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS2 Ep15: Being in transition, with Rebekah UbuntuIn this week’s episode of The Unmasking Unschool Podcast, I am joined by Rebekah Ubuntu (they/them, she/her) who generously shares their unique perspective on what it means to be in transition; Refusing to be a finished product; a destination, a known self, and being open to the mystery of being in process. Rebekah articulates felt truths that have emerged inside the experience of not knowing, and not needing to know, who they are becoming next; "refusal as an act of love" “in honouring refusal, I am a...2024-09-1846 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS2 Ep14: Over-identifying with current self problems - becoming a CHANGE MAKER insteadI'm doing something I've never done before. I'm taking NEW ACTION I'm inviting all my clients, my podcast listeners, and my subscribers into ONE space; To coach with me, LIVE FREE NOW and you are invited. I'm inviting you too, to take NEW ACTION To become someone who can CREATE CHANGE on purpose. Who can shift the culture, the structure, the fabric of your life experience into higher integrity: CHANGE MAKER, CULTURE CREATOR Info & Enrol: HERE or: https://www...2024-09-1129 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS2 Ep13: Confidence, access and 'Art School', with Mia + Eric "The art world is so opaque and it really doesn't provide a lot of feedback or clear communication. So many processes are difficult to navigate, I think, probably for most people. And then for someone like me, who really needs to understand the whole process, why things are happening, it's just so difficult to access. and because there was a sense of scarcity and precarity, we didn't really feel stable. Like we just had to keep working and overworking to prove ourselves..." This week on the Unmasking Unschool podcast, I speak with artists Mia Rushton and...2024-08-1448 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS2 Ep12: Vocational visibility, with Andrea Cox "I don't think I need some tweaks. I think I need to burn it down." This week on the Unmasking Unschool podcast, I'm joined by the wonderful Andrea Cox (she/her). Andrea joined Unmasking Unschool in 2023 after a burnout that coincided with realising her neurodivergence, and led to the decision to review every aspect of her life, from the inside out. I talk with Andrea about taking the huge leap of going from full time employment to starting her own business as an Occupational Therapist working exclusively with hypermobile and neurodivergent clients. A decision that was part...2024-08-0735 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS2 Ep11: Over-identifying with your ACTIONSToday's Unmasking Unschool podcast episode is about a common form of static that can mess with your sense of self corrupt the flow of energy corral your actions into contortions. That static in your sense of self is: Over-identifying with your habitual ACTIONS. Because over-identifying with your actions, when your actions are learned protective and reactive patterns, to past conditions means you can't SEE yourself clearly nor whats possible for you. SO we clean them up. And because ACTIONS are a primary source of...2024-07-2434 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS2 Ep10: Over-identifying with your environment Your level of self-belief that YOU can • create the creative / rebellious / outstanding / impactful / world-changing / unique visions, projects, services that you dream of • BE YOURSELF and make life work at the same time • experience your FULL self as lovable, seen, enough... that belief level is directly correlated to what your environment (your social, economic, physical context) reflects about WHO you currently are and how much that aligns with inner self. How much the IDENTITY you crafted in response to that environment, actually supports you BEING who you are. 2024-07-1627 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS2 Ep9: Strengthening a porous sense of selfIn this week's Unmasking Unschool PODCAST episode I speak to my experiences of having a porous sense of self. The artistic sensibilities and energetic sensitivities that this gifted me but also, how much my journey has been about CREATING and building an ego; developing an individuated, distinct, felt experience of my own boundaried limits so that I'm not LOST in other people. In their gaze, and their energy, and their agenda. WHAT I represent to others (autistic / adhd / etc) matters less than: I experience that I exist. 2024-06-1833 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS2 Ep8: Learning Publicly: the unfolding of self-clarity, after late-identifying as autistic / AuDHD Tightly attuned for survival teaches you: to be oriented to how other people see you. Then comes: a late-diagnosis/self-identifying as autistic, or AuDHD opening a door, unfolding a second adolescence, that doesn't match your age, and the "supposed to have done X by now"s: supposed to know what I like supposed to know how to do life supposed to have a job, kids, partner(s), purpose, blah blah by now, supposed to know what I really feel and what I really want by now supposed to be living...2024-06-1130 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS2 Ep7: Imposter syndrome, and the need for explicit feedback Imposter syndrome feels be like: You're not supposed to be here! That's not yours! Who do you think you are? Who asked you? You're not good enough! You don't know enough yet! But is it true? Sometimes, its just a product of industry bias; narrow paths to a position of recognised expertise; ~isms presented as meritocracy. And sometimes its a LACK of feedback, or feedback you can't perceive or receive, that has you doubting if you can really call yourself that Other times, it's a signal...2024-06-0520 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS2 Ep6: Make your dreams real by Skills Stacking for monotropism + distinction depthLike many late-identified autistic / AuDHD / ADHD folks, a foggy, porous, unstructured sense of self; illusions, fantasies, pipe dreams... was my predominant experience of myself, until I learned to take EFFECTIVE, STRUCTURED ACTION. That action has to be structured a certain way for it to be effective. I couldn't do things the way other people did them nor follow their ideals, without losing myself. "falling into holes" In finding what has worked for me, I've adapted a concept that makes a strength out of my need to go...2024-05-2818 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS2 Ep5: Autistic affordances: 'Distinction Depth' and related strengthsIn this episode, I speak to the importance of knowing and centring in your strengths, to create more energy. And offering a new term as a way to think about some of those strengths, called 'Distinction Depth'. When an environment or activity affords and rewards distinction depth: you excel! Subscribe to the mailing list HERE ___________ TRANSCRIPT ___________ The Unmasking Unschool Podcast is for autistic visionaries, creatives and change-makers. Who are seeking to exit the burnout cycles, pathology paradigms, masks and self-negations of the past that keep you stuck, and want to...2024-05-2138 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS2 Ep4: The Seven 'C's of Change: Riding the WavesIn this episode I talk through seven 'C' words; CHOICE CLARITY COMPETENCE CAPACITY CADENCE COACHING and I also reference The Social Change Ecosystem Map: https://buildingmovement.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Ecosystem-Guide-April-2022.pdf and invite you to consider what 'C' or 'season' are you in? I also mention that I am sharing some behind the scenes of the creation of the 'final evolved form' of The SOLA System on my mailing list Subscribe HERE ___________ TRANSCRIPT ___________ The Unmasking Unschool Podcast...2024-05-1453 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS2 Ep3: Beyond performance, with Jem DobieThis episode is an interview with Jem Dobie (they/them). Jem is a 'sensory sibling' who has been through the Unmasking Unschool journey, and you're going to hear them talk in generous and vulnerable detail about what it's been like to transform their experience of their life, their sense of self, their relationships and the work they're doing in the world. More about Jem: The Feel Good Circus: Jem Dobie & Rowan Berry thefeelgoodcircus@gmail.com On instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.feel.good.circus/ On facebook: https://www.facebook.com...2024-03-1351 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS2 Ep2: Metaskills: Autistic information saturation, and what comes nextIn this episode I talk about what comes after the deep dives into all things autistic stop being satisfying; when information stops being transformative, and you need actual change. I introduce another frame for this series: the 'metaskills' of becoming yourself . TRANSCRIPT ___________ The Unmasking Unschool Podcast is for autistic visionaries, creatives and change-makers. Who are seeking to exit the burnout cycles, pathology paradigms, masks and self-negations of the past that keep you stuck, and want to realise the self-reinventions, life pivots and culture-shifting projects to become your boldest most authentic self. Hosted by...2024-02-2728 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS2 Ep1: Autistic Affordances: design thinking for self-emergenceThis episode introduces the concepts of 'affordances', 'disaffordances', and 'dysaffordances'; concepts from design thinking that have a lot to offer the project of reframing the value and importance of recognising and embracing what our bodyminds afford us to do, experience, understand. TRANSCRIPT This episode mentions: A designer's approach: how can autistic adults with learning disabilities be involved in the design process?, By Katie Gaudion https://core.ac.uk/download/pdf/43099267.pdf Activist Affordances: how disabled people improvise more habitable worlds By Arseli Dokumaci Design Justice: commuity-led practices to...2024-02-1634 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep38: PART TWO: My interview with Opal Turner for Rebel with a CauseIn this week's episode, I'm sharing with you an interview I did with the gorgeous, generous, visionary soul that is Opal Turner. I featured on their podcast Rebel with a Cause. This was my first time being a guest on someone else's podcast and it's going to be hard to beat! Opal asked some really juicy questions. We cried. We laughed, and I felt truly held and seen. And I believe it was mutual. And my hope is that you also feel seen as you listen in enjoy. This is PART TWO. The Original podcast was...2023-08-1142 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep37: 37. PART ONE: My interview with Opal Turner on Rebel with a CauseIn this week's episode, I'm sharing with you an interview I did with the gorgeous, generous, visionary soul that is Opal Turner. I featured on their podcast Rebel with a Cause. This was my first time being a guest on someone else's podcast and it's going to be hard to beat! Opal asked some really juicy questions. We cried. We laughed, and I felt truly held and seen. And I believe it was mutual. And my hope is that you also feel seen as you listen in enjoy. This is PART ONE of two. The Original...2023-08-0533 min

Heal for RealEHS Foundations PanelWow - this conversation with three of the clients who have gone through Embodied Healing Systems Foundations - the short, primer program for Embodied Healing Systems was BEYOND enriching. Each of these women bring an intensely intelligent, unique and powerful perspective to their lives and work and you can hear how switched on they are. Here’s a little summary of what we talked about in this episode: The paradigm of pathology (Louisa) Habitual Emotional Patterns that become Health Patterns (Sae) How ADD symptoms resolve simply through nervous system work (Natalie) The body’s inna...2023-07-2055 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep36: 36. When the fear of being "too much" is stopping youDoors to The SOLA System + Siblings are OPEN for enrolment: https://www.solasystems.xyz/summer This is the 6 month, online, group program for kind-hearted, ambitious, visionary folks who happen to also be autistic, and are seeking the support system and social context to create culture shifting projects. __________________________ Episode Summary: When what you want to CREATE or BECOME isn’t just new or unknown, but ALSO involves being more of the parts of you that have in the past been actively discouraged, the fear of being “too much/not good enou...2023-07-1730 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep35: 35. Prospering as a deviantConnect with Louisa on Instagram HERE Episode Summary: In the legacy of Eurocentric forms of knowledge, that are about having a self appointed god-like gaze over others and naming and labelling and defining meanings into splits separations and hierarchies, there is an obsession with being right. With doing the right thing in the right way; fitting in with the status quo being a good cog not rocking the boat. This can complicate the path to identifying, expressing and contributing your...2023-07-0722 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep34: Created Value versus Inherent WorthConnect with Louisa on Instagram HERE Episode Summary: Money does not have to equal extraction and exploitation. But when we witness corruption that leads to lives being valued below profit, AND also hear phrases like "charge your worth", it can lead to thinking that our worthiness has something to do with our ability to be productive or fit into pre-existing agendas, values and flow structures. In this episode, I make the case that your inherent worth is infinite - and separating the value of what you create from...2023-06-2630 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep33: REFUSAL: Stage One of Burnout RecoveryConnect with Louisa on Instagram HERE Episode Summary: 'Autistic burnout'? Afraid of reaching and aspiring because of the inevitable crash and burn? Overly familiar with over-adapting and recovery cycles? This episode is for you... and it's about step one: The REFUSAL; the "NO"; the de-consenting; This is how healing can begin. The decision to put your own needs above the demands to push past your own limits, is the first step to increasing those limits. Carving out extreme boundaries so you can...2023-06-2324 min

The Unmasking Unschool Podcast33. Emergent and potent; your insights have value.Connect with Louisa on Instagram HERE Episode Summary: In this episode Louisa talks about a period of reinvention in their life and business; reflections on experiences in coaching, healing, art; the importance of acting with belief in yourself and your unique vision, rather than adhering to societal norms or expectations, and how the realisation of a paradigm shift requires a willingness to be okay with taking action without ideal conditions or external permission. Transcript: www.solasystems.xyz/blog/033 The next cohort of The SOLA System + Siblings will open in July.2023-06-1634 min

MediaCat Magazine PodcastRebel With A Cause — with Louisa ShaeriIn a special episode for the Rebel With A Cause series Opal Turner talked to artist-turned-coach, Louisa Shaeri. Louisa used her own experiences as an autistic creative, her artwork and then neuroscientific research to form The SOLA System, a coaching method for neurodivergent creatives. If this interview was printed you’d find half of it highlighted. We hope it will be as useful for some of you (as it was for Opal, tears included). Louisa guides us through so much: from that sweet over-indexing of neurodivergent folk in the creative industries to pretending that ‘good science’ equals objectiv...2023-06-1530 min

MediaCat UK PodcastRebel With A Cause — with Louisa ShaeriIn a special episode for the Rebel With A Cause series Opal Turner talked to artist-turned-coach, Louisa Shaeri. Louisa used her own experiences as an autistic creative, her artwork and then neuroscientific research to form The SOLA System, a coaching method for neurodivergent creatives. If this interview was printed, you’d find half of it highlighted. We hope it will be as useful for some of you as it was for Opal, tears included. Louisa guides us through so much: from that sweet over-indexing of neurodivergent folk in the creative industries to pretending that ‘good science’ equals objectivity, psychological safety a...2023-06-1530 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep32: Self Sabotage & Energetic UpgradesConnect with Louisa on Instagram HERE Episode Summary: Are you in a pattern of self sabotage? Do you recognise yourself taking steps forward, and then 102,782,629 steps back? Sibling, I've got you with this week's podcast episode, which is all about what exactly is underlying self sabotage, and also - the details on my recent breakthrough! Transcript: www.solasystems.xyz/blog/032 The next cohort of The SOLA System + Siblings will open in July. Get on the mailing list here: solasystems.xyz _____________________2023-06-0834 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep31: Creating Safety to Take Up Space Are you on my mailing list, sibling? Join here solasystems.xyz for email broadcasts from The SOLA System to help you work to cultivate the self-clarity, self-acceptance and pride to BE who you are. The SOLA System + Siblings, the 6 month online 'unmasking unschool' guiding you on a journey through The SOLA System, alongside a community of siblings to share the journey with. Learn more: solasystems.xyz/siblings Transcript: www.solasystems.xyz/blog/031 _____________________ This episode is all about creating safety to take up space; to expand our agency and influence; in...2023-05-1239 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep30: 30. This is not a peer support group Transcript: www.solasystems.xyz/blog/030 _____________________ Episode summary: If you've been fearful of having a repeat experience of mutual support and peer groups; of negotiating the unclear rules and expectations of a semi-social space, of not knowing whether it's your turn, or how much space to take up, running the same scripts of tending to others needs instead of your own, I want to invite you to something different: Connection without obligation Feeling SEEN without having to think about anyone else's comfort.2023-04-2149 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep29: 29. 9 Reasons why you might be rushing past your own boundariesDoors are OPEN to The SOLA System + Siblings: https://www.solasystems.xyz/spring The unmasking unschool for the creative #autistic in you to finally feel SEEN, SUPPORTED, and SELF EXPRESSED - Unlearn false selves - Immerse in resonant community - Invent a life that works Create the self-acceptance, worthiness, and energy-supporting structures around your autistic differences to realise a felt possibility into a material reality and to turn the resilience you've already built over-adapting to what doesn't work, into the future you want. INFO HERE: https://www...2023-04-1133 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep28: 28. From stuck to self expressedDoors are OPEN to The SOLA System + Siblings: https://www.solasystems.xyz/spring The unmasking unschool  for the creative #autistic in you to finally feel  SEEN, SUPPORTED, and SELF EXPRESSED   - Unlearn false selves  - Immerse in resonant community  - Invent a life that works Create the self-acceptance, worthiness, and energy-supporting structures around your autistic differences, to realise a felt possibility into a material reality and to turn the resilience you've already built over-adapting to what doesn't work, into the future you want. INFO HERE: https://www.solasystems.xyz/spring ...2023-04-0440 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep27: How to get unstuckJoin me for the free online seminar: How to get unstuck and unmask, when masking is a systemic issue 22 March 2023, 1pm GMT Register: https://www.solasystems.xyz/workshop _____________________ Are you on my mailing list, sibling? Join here solasystems.xyz for email broadcasts from The SOLA System to help you work to cultivate the self-clarity, self-acceptance and pride to BE who you are. The SOLA System + Siblings, the 6 month online 'unmasking unschool' guiding you on a journey through The SOLA System, alongside a community of siblings to share the journey with...2023-03-0732 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep26: FROM THE ARCHIVES: Are you caught up in trying to be right? Are you on my mailing list, sibling? Join here solasystems.xyz for email broadcasts from The SOLA System to help you work to cultivate the self-clarity, self-acceptance and pride to BE who you are. The SOLA System + Siblings, the 6 month online 'unmasking unschool' guiding you on a journey through The SOLA System, alongside a community of siblings to share the journey with. Learn more: solasystems.xyz/siblings Transcript: www.solasystems.xyz/blog/026 _____________________ Episode summary: After realising you are autistic there is a needs must to deep dive "...2023-02-2824 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep25: Explaining yourself - things can be both true, and unhelpful Are you on my mailing list, sibling? Join here solasystems.xyz for email broadcasts from The SOLA System to help you work to cultivate the self-clarity, self-acceptance and pride to BE who you are. The SOLA System + Siblings, the 6 month online 'unmasking unschool' guiding you on a journey through The SOLA System, alongside a community of siblings to share the journey with. Learn more: solasystems.xyz/siblings Transcript: www.solasystems.xyz/blog/025 _____________________ Episode summary: Autistic folks, have to EXPLAIN themselves too much. The gap between...2023-02-2136 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep24: 24. Am I becoming "more autistic"? + Claiming the right to be inconsistent Are you on my mailing list, sibling? Join here solasystems.xyz for email broadcasts from The SOLA System to help you work to cultivate the self-clarity, self-acceptance and pride to BE who you are. The SOLA System + Siblings, the 6 month online 'unmasking unschool' guiding you on a journey through The SOLA System, alongside a community of siblings to share the journey with. Learn more: solasystems.xyz/siblings Transcript: www.solasystems.xyz/blog/024 _____________________ Episode summary: Am I becoming "more autistic"? There is an ableist tint to this...2023-02-1429 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep23: 23. From the archives: 'Aspergers' was cancelled, but is 'autism' neutral? Are you on my mailing list, sibling? Join here solasystems.xyz for bonus beams from The SOLA System, plus you'll get the link to join the FREE 'siblings' community of other creative neurodivergents also working to cultivate the self-clarity, self-acceptance and pride to BE who you are. The SOLA System + Siblings, the 6 month online 'unmasking unschool' guiding you on a journey through The SOLA System, alongside a community of siblings to share the journey with. Learn more: solasystems.xyz/siblings Episode summary: The first of several bonus episode from the archives, of my first...2023-02-0734 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep22: 22. Executive Function and Making it Real Are you on my mailing list, sibling? Join here solasystems.xyz for email broadcasts from The SOLA System to help you work to cultivate the self-clarity, self-acceptance and pride to BE who you are. The SOLA System + Siblings, the 6 month online 'unmasking unschool' guiding you on a journey through The SOLA System, alongside a community of siblings to share the journey with. Learn more: solasystems.xyz/siblings Episode summary: The skills for the DOING part is sometimes known as ‘executive function’ skills. Such as: task switching, organising, prioritising, flexible thinking, working memory, multi-tasking, impu...2023-01-3138 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep21: Set Intentions for 2023 Download the accompanying .pdf of questions HERE For a version with added 'brown noise' to aid concentration, email Louisa HERE Are you on my mailing list, sibling? Join here solasystems.xyz for email broadcasts from The SOLA System to help you work to cultivate the self-clarity, self-acceptance and pride to BE who you are. The SOLA System + Siblings, the 6 month online 'unmasking unschool' guiding you on a journey through The SOLA System, alongside a community of siblings to share the journey with. Learn more: solasystems.xyz/siblings Episode summary: This...2023-01-2458 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep20: 20. Reframing Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria Are you on my mailing list, sibling? Join here solasystems.xyz for bonus beams from The SOLA System, plus you'll get the link to join the FREE 'siblings' community of other creative neurodivergents also working to cultivate the self-clarity, self-acceptance and pride to BE who you are. Episode summary: Labels can be helpful. To help you name an experience. To have a way to refer to where you are at. And accept that this is where you are at. But they can also become your identity, locate a problem entirely...2023-01-1740 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep19: 19. Autistic scripting and why you experience higher levels of rejectionAutistic scripting and why you experience higher levels of rejection than others, and how to evolve your experience of yourself beyond the exhaustion of trying to replicate the ideals of normative culture... Papers mentioned in this episode: https://www.nature.com/articles/srep40700 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33192918/ _____________________ The sensory siblings podcast is hosted by Louisa Shaeri, and beaming to you from the The SOLA System + Siblings, the liberatory framework and unmasking unschool for creative, late identified autistic folks who are seeking another way to see, know and be...2023-01-1040 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep18: 18. Are you waiting for permission? Are you on my mailing list, sibling? Join here solasystems.xyz for email broadcasts from The SOLA System to help you work to cultivate the self-clarity, self-acceptance and pride to BE who you are. The SOLA System + Siblings, the 6 month online 'unmasking unschool' guiding you on a journey through The SOLA System, alongside a community of siblings to share the journey with. Learn more: solasystems.xyz/siblings Episode summary: This episode kicks off a series of podcasts on this topic of belonging to ourselves more fully, and in every new arena we enter...2022-11-2339 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep17: 17. Committing to possibility: the courage to live boldly in your truth Are you on my mailing list, sibling? Join here solasystems.xyz for email broadcasts from The SOLA System to help you work to cultivate the self-clarity, self-acceptance and pride to BE who you are. The SOLA System + Siblings, the 6 month online 'unmasking unschool' guiding you on a journey through The SOLA System, alongside a community of siblings to share the journey with. Learn more: solasystems.xyz/siblings Episode summary: Is there an internal reality that you know about, but you haven’t enacted the decisions to make it real on the outside?2022-11-0339 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep16: 16. Thinking in Possibility: how to know what you want Are you on my mailing list, sibling? Join here solasystems.xyz for email broadcasts from The SOLA System to help you work to cultivate the self-clarity, self-acceptance and pride to BE who you are. The SOLA System + Siblings, the 6 month online 'unmasking unschool' guiding you on a journey through The SOLA System, alongside a community of siblings to share the journey with. Learn more: solasystems.xyz/siblings Episode summary: It can be hard to know what you want, when you don't believe that you get to create what you want. T...2022-10-2729 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep15: 15. From the margins to centre stage: Making Decisions Are you on my mailing list, sibling? Join here solasystems.xyz for email broadcasts from The SOLA System to help you work to cultivate the self-clarity, self-acceptance and pride to BE who you are. The SOLA System + Siblings, the 6 month online 'unmasking unschool' guiding you on a journey through The SOLA System, alongside a community of siblings to share the journey with. Learn more: solasystems.xyz/siblings Episode sumary: Do you know what uses up an overwhelming amount of cognitive bandwidth? Unmade decisions. Unmade decisions like: What shall I...2022-10-2043 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep14: 14. BEING who "I am ___" The sensory siblings podcast is hosted by Louisa Shaeri, and beaming to you from the The SOLA System + Siblings, the liberatory framework and unmasking unschool for creative, late identified autistic folks who are seeking another way to see, know and be yourself. This is a radical reimagining of what is possible when we redefine ourselves from within; by unlearning who we are not, making self connection our goal, activating the languages of our sensory oriented perception, and creating the culture shifts to activate futures + selves. It all starts within. TRANSCRIPT _____________________ Are you on my mailing...2022-09-2337 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep13: 13. Sensory congruencyThe sensory siblings podcast is hosted by Louisa Shaeri, and beaming to you from the The SOLA System + Siblings, the liberatory framework and unmasking unschool for creative, late identified autistic folks who are seeking another way to see, know and be yourself. This is a radical reimagining of what is possible when we redefine ourselves from within; by unlearning who we are not, making self connection our goal, activating the languages of our sensory oriented perception, and creating the culture shifts to activate futures + selves. It all starts within. TRANSCRIPT _____________________ Are you on my mailing...2022-09-141h 00

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep12: 12. When goals become demands (the body as an instrument)The sensory siblings podcast is hosted by Louisa Shaeri, and beaming to you from the The SOLA System + Siblings, the liberatory framework and unmasking unschool for creative, late identified autistic folks who are seeking another way to see, know and be yourself. This is a radical reimagining of what is possible when we redefine ourselves from within. By unlearning who we are not, making self connection our goal, activating the languages of our sensory oriented perception, and creating the culture shifts to activate futures + selves. It all starts within. TRANSCRIPT _____________________ Are you on my mailing list...2022-08-1053 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep11: 11. Going for goals, without contextThe sensory siblings podcast is hosted by Louisa Shaeri, and beaming to you from the The SOLA System + Siblings, the liberatory framework and unmasking unschool for creative, late identified autistic folks who are seeking another way to see, know and be yourself. This is a radical reimagining of what is possible when we redefine ourselves from within. By unlearning who we are not, making self connection our goal, activating the languages of our sensory oriented perception, and creating the culture shifts to activate futures + selves. It all starts within. TRANSCRIPT _____________________ Are you on my mailing...2022-06-2327 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep10: 10. Making Sense of your goal: the need for more contextThe sensory siblings podcast is hosted by Louisa Shaeri, and is beaming to you from the The SOLA System + Siblings, the liberatory framework and unmasking unschool for creative, late identified autistic folks who are seeking another way to see, know and be yourself. This is a radical reimagining of what is possible when we redefine ourselves from within. By unlearning who we are not, making self connection our goal, activating the languages of our sensory oriented perception, and creating the culture shifts to activate futures + selves. It all starts within. TRANSCRIPT _____________________ Are you on my mailing...2022-06-1639 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep9: 9. Believe Your Body, with Laurie GreenI have a treat for you today that I am really excited to share. This is the first interview on the Sensory Siblings podcast, and it's with our very own sibling Laurie Green. Laurie's pronouns are they/them. Laurie is an artist. And has been a long time traveller in The SOLA System, and in this interview we dive into their ideas on art as a relational co-creation of consciousness, what neuro-queering means to them, permission to be in your body, and where they were at the start of their SOLA System journey. You can find the full...2022-06-0257 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep8: 8. Your Own Thoughts (Identifying Disbelief)The sensory siblings podcast is hosted by Louisa Shaeri, and is beaming to you from the The SOLA System + Siblings, the liberatory framework and unmasking unschool for creative, late identified autistic folks who are seeking another way to see, know and be yourself. This is a radical reimagining of what is possible when we redefine ourselves from within. By unlearning who we are not, making self connection our goal, activating the languages of our sensory oriented perception, and creating the culture shifts to activate futures + selves. It all starts within. TRANSCRIPT: https://www.solasystems.xyz/blog/008 _____________________ 2022-05-2543 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep7: 7. Other People's ThoughtsThe sensory siblings podcast is hosted by Louisa Shaeri, and is beaming to you from the The SOLA System + Siblings, the liberatory framework and unmasking unschool for creative, late identified autistic folks who are seeking another way to see, know and be yourself. This is a radical reimagining of what is possible when we redefine ourselves from within. By unlearning who we are not, making self connection our goal, activating the languages of our sensory oriented perception, and creating the culture shifts to activate futures + selves. It all starts within. TRANSCRIPT: https://www.solasystems.xyz/blog/007 _____________________ ...2022-05-1847 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep6: 6. Self approval, and other shame anti-dotesThe sensory siblings podcast is hosted by Louisa Shaeri, and is beaming to you from the The SOLA System + Siblings, the liberatory framework and unmasking unschool for creative, late identified autistic folks who are seeking another way to see, know and be yourself. This is a radical reimagining of what is possible when we redefine ourselves from within. By unlearning who we are not, making self connection our goal, activating the languages of our sensory oriented perception, and creating the culture shifts to activate futures + selves. It all starts within. TRANSCRIPT: https://www.solasystems.xyz/blog/006 _____________________ 2022-04-2629 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep5: 5. The three stages of self-world evolutionThe sensory siblings podcast is hosted by Louisa Shaeri, and is beaming to you from the The SOLA System + Siblings, the liberatory framework and unmasking unschool for creative, late identified autistic folks who are seeking another way to see, know and be yourself. This is a radical reimagining of what is possible when we redefine ourselves from within. By unlearning who we are not, making self connection our goal, activating the languages of our sensory oriented perception, and creating the culture shifts to activate futures + selves. It all starts within. For full transcripts, go to: https://www.solasystems...2022-04-1431 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep4: Identity crisisThe sensory siblings podcast is beaming to you from the The SOLA System + Siblings, the liberatory framework and unmasking unschool for creative, late identified autistic folks who are seeking another way to see, know and be yourself. This is a radical reimagining of what is possible when we redefine ourselves from within. By unlearning who we are not, making self connection our goal, activating the languages of our sensory oriented perception, and creating the culture shifts to activate futures + selves. For full transcripts, go to: https://www.solasystems.xyz/podcast Are you on...2022-04-0236 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep3: 3. Telling PeopleTranscript: https://www.solasystems.xyz/blog/003 The sensory siblings podcast is hosted by Louisa Shaeri, and is beaming to you from the The SOLA System + Siblings, the liberatory framework and unmasking unschool for creative, late identified autistic folks who are seeking another way to see, know and be yourself. Are you on my mailing list, sibling? Join here solasystems.xyz for email broadcasts from The SOLA System to help you work to cultivate the self-clarity, self-acceptance and pride to BE who you are. The SOLA System + Siblings, the 6 month online 'unmasking unschool' guiding...2022-03-1718 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep2: How to unmask; defining autistic unmaskingFor full transcripts, go to: https://www.solasystems.xyz/podcast The sensory siblings podcast is hosted by Louisa Shaeri, and is beaming to you from the The SOLA System + Siblings, the liberatory framework and unmasking unschool for creative, late identified autistic folks who are seeking another way to see, know and be yourself. Are you on my mailing list, sibling? Join here solasystems.xyz for email broadcasts from The SOLA System to help you work to cultivate the self-clarity, self-acceptance and pride to BE who you are. The SOLA System + Siblings, the 6 month...2022-03-0325 min

The Unmasking Unschool PodcastS1 Ep1: Welcome to the Sensory Siblings podcast!For full transcripts, go to: https://www.solasystems.xyz/podcast _____________________ Are you on my mailing list, sibling? Join here solasystems.xyz for email broadcasts from The SOLA System to help you work to cultivate the self-clarity, self-acceptance and pride to BE who you are. The SOLA System + Siblings, the 6 month online 'unmasking unschool' guiding you on a journey through The SOLA System, alongside a community of siblings to share the journey with. Learn more: solasystems.xyz/siblings 2022-02-2114 min