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Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 95 Hidden Rage Women Were Never Allowed to ExpressJoin our Exclusive Community: https://narcissisticabuserecovery.supercast.com/In 1998, Alanis Morissette released "Sympathetic Character" - a raw, unflinching song that exposed truths most women knew but were never allowed to say out loud. Twenty-six years later, her words hit harder than ever: "I have as much rage as you have... and I've kept mine bubbling under for you."This isn't just about one song. It's about the hidden rage millions of women carry - the anger they've been taught to swallow, the emotions they manage for everyone else while ignoring their own, and the exhausting reality of making men...
2025-07-1115 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 93 Was Emotional and Financial Illiteracy the Patriarchy’s Perfect Trap?Join our Exclusive Community: https://narcissisticabuserecovery.supercast.com/Have you ever felt like the system was rigged against you—like no matter how hard you tried, something invisible kept you stuck?In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we unpack how patriarchy created a devastating two-part trap: emotional illiteracy in men and financial illiteracy in women. These weren’t accidents—they were engineered to keep people disconnected, disempowered, and dependent.We explore:How boys are taught to suppress emotion, disconnect from vulnerability, and equate masculinity with numbnessHow girls are conditioned to avoid money, mistrust their instincts, and depend...
2025-07-0218 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 92 Why Patriarchy Indirectly Teaches Silence, Isolation and Your ComplianceJoin our Exclusive Community: https://narcissisticabuserecovery.supercast.com/What if the rules you’ve been living by were never truly yours? What if they were designed to keep you silent, compliant, and doubting your own worth?In this powerful episode of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, Lynn unpacks how patriarchal scripts condition us to stay small and why unlearning these patterns is key to real freedom and healing.🔹 See how isolation isn’t random but a strategy designed to keep you disconnected, ashamed, and convinced your pain is a personal failure...
2025-06-2916 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 92 Why Patriarchy Indirectly Teaches Silence, Isolation and Your ComplianceJoin our Exclusive Community: https://narcissisticabuserecovery.supercast.com/What if the rules you’ve been living by were never truly yours? What if they were designed to keep you silent, compliant, and doubting your own worth?In this powerful episode of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, Lynn unpacks how patriarchal scripts condition us to stay small and why unlearning these patterns is key to real freedom and healing.🔹 See how isolation isn’t random but a strategy designed to keep you disconnected, ashamed, and convinced your pain is a personal failure.🔹 Explore how subtle side-eye glances, laws, religion, and culture ta...
2025-06-2918 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 90 The Real Reason Some Men Resist Independent WomenJoin our Exclusive Community: https://narcissisticabuserecovery.supercast.com/The Real Reason Some Men Resist Independent Women Uncovering the Roots of Resistance Why does a woman’s financial freedom still trigger discomfort in some men? In this episode, Lynn digs beneath surface-level stereotypes to expose the cultural machinery that equates “being a good man” with being needed. You’ll hear how centuries-old laws—like banks refusing women their own credit until 1974—still echo in today’s wage gaps, caregiving penalties, and financial abuse. We trace five main fault lines of resistance: loss of control, identity crises, caregiving myths, gender-role whiplash, and the sheer...
2025-06-2417 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 89 The Silent Brotherhood: What Women Don’t Know About Male Loyalty And Why It MattersJoin our Exclusive Community: https://narcissisticabuserecovery.supercast.com/🎧 This is an exclusive episode. To hear the full episode, click the link in the description or go to waketheelephant.gumroad.com/l/hiddenloyaltyWhat happens when a man’s deepest loyalty isn’t to you, but to his male peers? In this powerful episode of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, Lynn pulls back the curtain on the hidden emotional alliance between men that often goes unnoticed in relationships: the Silent Brotherhood.This isn’t about overt betrayal. It’s about the subtle ways men prioritize male approval, protect male comfort, and stay quiet...
2025-06-1104 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 87 The Pick Me Culture: The Cost of Being PickableJoin our Exclusive Community: In this powerful follow-up episode of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, Lynn dives deeper into the devastating cost of the Pick Me mindset—and how it continues to shape women’s lives in ways we often don’t realize until much later.We’re not just talking about relationships anymore. We’re talking about ambition. Burnout. Sisterhood. Identity. And money.Because the Pick Me culture doesn’t just ask women to be agreeable—it asks them to be invisible. It teaches them to shrink in boardrooms, overextend in relationships, compete in silence, and base their worth on being chose...
2025-05-3012 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 87 The Pick Me Culture: The Cost of Being PickableJoin our Exclusive Community: In this powerful follow-up episode of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, Lynn dives deeper into the devastating cost of the Pick Me mindset—and how it continues to shape women’s lives in ways we often don’t realize until much later.We’re not just talking about relationships anymore. We’re talking about ambition. Burnout. Sisterhood. Identity. And money.Because the Pick Me culture doesn’t just ask women to be agreeable—it asks them to be invisible. It teaches them to shrink in boardrooms, overextend in relationships, compete in sil...
2025-05-3011 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 86 The Pick Me Culture: Why Women Are Still Expected to Be ChosenJoin our Exclusive Community!Why are women still expected to be chosen—and not the ones doing the choosing? In this powerful episode of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, host Lynn breaks down the cultural conditioning, historical oppression, and emotional grooming that built what we now recognize as the Pick Me Culture.This isn’t just a meme or a trend. It’s a deeply ingrained belief system passed down through generations, subtly shaping how women view their worth, their relationships, and their role in the world. From patriarchal programming to narcissistic abuse dynamics, we unpack how the Pick Me mindse...
2025-05-2312 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 85 The Patriarchy Isn’t Just Upheld by Men: How Women Are Trained to Enforce It TooJoin our Exclusive Community on Supercast!What if the patriarchy isn’t just upheld by men? What if the voices enforcing it are sometimes women’s—your friends, your coworkers, your mother, or even...your own?In this powerful episode of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, Lynn dives deep into the uncomfortable truth that many women, often unknowingly, support the very systems designed to hold them back. From internalized misogyny to the relentless pursuit of male approval, we break down how women are conditioned to uphold the patriarchy—and how we can begin to break free.You’ll hear raw reflection...
2025-05-1608 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 84 How Misogyny is the Rite of Passage for MasculinityWhat if misogyny isn’t just a belief—but a cultural initiation? In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we explore how boys are conditioned into manhood through subtle and overt acts of emotional suppression, peer loyalty, and disdain for the feminine. From “don’t cry” to “don’t throw like a girl,” these messages aren’t harmless—they’re foundational.We examine:How masculinity is shaped by rejecting empathy, softness, and anything coded as feminineWhy men often bond over shared misogyny—and how that loyalty can override love, partnership, and even fatherhoodThe hidden ways men withhold resources, silence women, and maint...
2024-12-1112 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 83 Trapped Energy in the Body after Enduring Narcissistic TraumaJoin our Exclusive Community on Supercast!You’ve been doing the work—therapy, reflection, boundaries, all the things recovery demands. And yet… something still feels stuck.If you’ve been on the healing path after narcissistic abuse but can’t seem to break through, this episode may offer the missing piece: trapped emotional energy in the body.In today’s episode of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, Lynn explores the mind-body connection and how trauma isn’t just psychological—it’s also physical. From fatigue and tension to emotional numbness, trauma can lodge itself in the body in ways we often don’t see un...
2024-12-0910 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 82 Ambition is Not a Dirty Word: Encouraging Women to Dream BigJoin our Exclusive Community on Supercast!Somewhere along the way, ambition became a dirty word for women—packaged as selfish, aggressive, or unfeminine. But let’s be clear: ambition isn’t selfish. It’s survival. It’s sovereignty. It’s your birthright.In this unapologetic episode of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, Lynn dismantles the outdated myth that women should shrink themselves for the comfort of others. From glass ceilings to the subtle side-eyes women get for wanting “too much,” we explore why ambition has been demonized—and why now is the time to reclaim it.We dive into:The origins of ant...
2024-12-0711 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 81 Women Must Forge Their Own Path: Hope Without ExpectationJoin our Exclusive Community on Supercast!In a world where women have been taught to hope for change—hope for help, hope for fairness, hope that men will one day "step up"—this episode is your wake-up call. Hope without strategy is a trap. And women are done waiting.In this blisteringly honest episode of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, Lynn confronts the reality so many women now recognize: even in marriage, many women are still on their own. From performative partnerships to systemic betrayals, we explore what it means to stop pleading for inclusion and instead build a life inde...
2024-12-0612 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 80 How Men Respond When We Highlight and Call Out Their TacticsJoin our Exclusive Community on Supercast!You’ve seen it. Maybe you’ve lived it.Raise a concern about patriarchy or gender inequality and watch the familiar sequence unfold: Dismiss. Deflect. Deny. Blame. The script is so consistent, it might as well be copied and pasted.In this episode of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, Lynn dives deep into the most predictable, rehearsed responses some men use when systemic sexism or harmful dynamics are brought to light. These reactions aren’t just random or emotionally immature—they’re often part of a broader effort to uphold dominance, redirect blame, and silence th...
2024-12-0413 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 79 Deconstructing Masculinity and the Patriarchy - Where Do We Go From Here?Join our Exclusive Community on Supercast!What if patriarchy didn’t just harm women—but robbed men of their emotional lives too?In this episode of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we deconstruct patriarchy through the lens of bell hooks’ powerful book The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love. Written 20 years ago, it remains shockingly relevant today. This isn’t just a feminist manifesto—it’s a cultural autopsy. Hooks examines how patriarchal conditioning stifles men’s emotional development, perpetuates domination, and fractures authentic love in the name of control. And yes, she names it all plainly—without hate, without hysteria...
2024-12-0318 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 78 Women are Learning the Nature of Men and It's Rendering Them UnattractiveJoin our Exclusive Community on Supercast!There’s a quiet shift happening—and it’s gaining momentum. In this episode of the Moving Forward with Hope – Narcissistic Abuse Recovery podcast, we explore a cultural awakening: women are beginning to see male behavior through a clearer lens, and it’s reshaping how they view relationships, attraction, and emotional safety.This isn’t about bitterness. It’s about clarity.We examine:Why emotional unavailability, entitlement, and lack of self-awareness are no longer being overlookedHow women are choosing solitude, peace, and self-respect over partnerships that drain themThe growing disinterest in “fixing” men who refuse to growWhat...
2024-12-0116 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 77 The Marriage Mindset Gap: How Men and Women Enter Marriage With Different BeliefsWant ad-free content? Join our exclusive community.Marriage is often seen as the ultimate partnership between two people in love, but is that the reality for most? In this episode of Moving Forward with Hope - Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, host Lynn takes a closer look at the strikingly different expectations men and women bring into marriage.Are men viewing marriage as the end of the chase, while women see it as the start of a collaborative journey? From societal norms and gendered expectations to the lingering effects of patriarchal dynamics, Lynn dives into the unspoken challenges that shape marital...
2024-11-3014 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 75 Dating Post Election: How to Avoid 4B in the Current Evolved Dating LandscapeThe dating landscape has completely changed, and many men are still using outdated playbooks from decades past. In this no-holds-barred episode, host Lynn Nichols breaks down why traditional dating approaches are failing and what's really happening in modern relationships.The wake-up call: Women are no longer willing to settle for surface-level charm, chivalry performances, or men who avoid real conversations. The 4B Movement is here, women can block faster than you can say "I haven't heard from you," and we're done entertaining mediocrity.In this game-changing episode, you'll discover:Why talking about your fishing trips and golf game isn't impressing...
2024-11-2816 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 75 Dating Post Election: How to Avoid 4B in the Current Evolved Dating LandscapeThe dating landscape has completely changed, and many men are still using outdated playbooks from decades past. In this no-holds-barred episode, host Lynn Nichols breaks down why traditional dating approaches are failing and what's really happening in modern relationships.The wake-up call: Women are no longer willing to settle for surface-level charm, chivalry performances, or men who avoid real conversations. The 4B Movement is here, women can block faster than you can say "I haven't heard from you," and we're done entertaining mediocrity.In this game-changing episode, you'll discover:Why talking about your fishing...
2024-11-2814 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 74 When A Man Says He Wants Respect, This is What He MeansThink you know what men mean when they say they want respect? Think again. In this provocative episode, host Lynn Nichols pulls back the curtain on what men are actually asking for when they demand "respect" from women—and it's not what the dictionary defines as respect.The uncomfortable truth: When men say they want respect, they're not asking for mutual admiration based on abilities or achievements. They're asking for something far more problematic—subservience, silence, and unquestioning support that keeps women in assigned roles while men maintain power and control.In this bold episode, you'll discover:The four things men...
2024-11-2312 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 74 When A Man Says He Wants Respect, This is What He MeansThink you know what men mean when they say they want respect? Think again. In this provocative episode, host Lynn Nichols pulls back the curtain on what men are actually asking for when they demand "respect" from women—and it's not what the dictionary defines as respect.The uncomfortable truth: When men say they want respect, they're not asking for mutual admiration based on abilities or achievements. They're asking for something far more problematic—subservience, silence, and unquestioning support that keeps women in assigned roles while men maintain power and control.In this bold episode, you...
2024-11-2310 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 73 The Patriarchy Has Hindered and Silenced WomenFor generations, women have been taught to stay quiet, stay small, and stay in line. In this episode of the Moving Forward with Hope – Narcissistic Abuse Recovery podcast, we examine how patriarchal systems have historically rewarded female conformity while punishing individuality, dissent, and self-expression.From childhood grooming to cultural conditioning, we explore how women have been shaped to internalize silence as virtue. Whether through praise for being “easygoing,” pressure to prioritize others, or fear of social rejection, the message has been clear: don’t speak too loudly, don’t take up too much space, and don’t question the rules.This episode...
2024-11-2012 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 72 The Intersection of Narcissism and PatriarchyHave you noticed how the word "patriarchy" seems to be everywhere lately, but you're wondering how it actually connects to narcissistic abuse? In this groundbreaking episode, host Lynn Nichols explores the shocking parallels between narcissistic behavior and patriarchal systems that will completely change how you see both.The eye-opening truth: Patriarchy operates like a narcissistic abuser on a grand societal scale. It's not just background noise we've learned to ignore—it's a system of power that mirrors the exact same tactics used by individual narcissists to maintain control and dominance.In this revelatory episode, you'll discover:How narcissistic traits have be...
2024-11-1610 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 72 The Intersection of Narcissism and PatriarchyHave you noticed how the word "patriarchy" seems to be everywhere lately, but you're wondering how it actually connects to narcissistic abuse? In this groundbreaking episode, host Lynn Nichols explores the shocking parallels between narcissistic behavior and patriarchal systems that will completely change how you see both.The eye-opening truth: Patriarchy operates like a narcissistic abuser on a grand societal scale. It's not just background noise we've learned to ignore—it's a system of power that mirrors the exact same tactics used by individual narcissists to maintain control and dominance.In this revelatory episode, you'll di...
2024-11-1609 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 71 Do Not Engage with a NarcissistAre you emotionally exhausted from trying to communicate with someone who never seems to truly hear you? If you've been in a relationship with a narcissist, you've likely discovered it's one of the most frustrating and confusing dynamics you'll ever experience. In this hard-hitting episode, host Lynn Nichols delivers some essential truths that could save your sanity and your life.The brutal reality: Narcissists are emotional vampires who extract your life force to fuel their own existence. They don't just dismiss what you have to say—they literally cannot process it due to their complete lack of em...
2024-10-2712 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 71 Do Not Engage with a NarcissistAre you emotionally exhausted from trying to communicate with someone who never seems to truly hear you? If you've been in a relationship with a narcissist, you've likely discovered it's one of the most frustrating and confusing dynamics you'll ever experience. In this hard-hitting episode, host Lynn Nichols delivers some essential truths that could save your sanity and your life.The brutal reality: Narcissists are emotional vampires who extract your life force to fuel their own existence. They don't just dismiss what you have to say—they literally cannot process it due to their complete lack of empathy. This isn't ab...
2024-10-2713 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 70 Gaslighting is a Subtle Tactic, and Its Objective is to Stop Independent ThoughtGaslighting is at an all-time high and happening everywhere around us—but it's so subtle that it often goes completely undetected unless you know exactly what to look for. In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the insidious world of psychological manipulation that's designed to make you question your own reality, memory, and sanity.Host Lynn Nichols reveals why gaslighters desperately want you to stop thinking independently and how they use verbal tactics to break down your critical thinking skills. You'll discover the real reasons behind gaslighting—what they want from you and why your independent thought threatens their agen...
2024-10-2510 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 70 Gaslighting is a Subtle Tactic, and Its Objective is to Stop Independent ThoughtGaslighting is at an all-time high and happening everywhere around us—but it's so subtle that it often goes completely undetected unless you know exactly what to look for. In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the insidious world of psychological manipulation that's designed to make you question your own reality, memory, and sanity.Host Lynn Nichols reveals why gaslighters desperately want you to stop thinking independently and how they use verbal tactics to break down your critical thinking skills. You'll discover the real reasons behind gaslighting—what they want from you and why your independent thou...
2024-10-2509 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 69 The Great Divorce is Coming: Women Have Had Enough and Want To Be FreeMore women are quietly rethinking the roles they’ve been told to play. They’re stepping back from unbalanced relationships, opting out of emotional labor that’s never reciprocated, and choosing independence when the partnership no longer feels like a partnership.This isn’t about leaving all at once. It’s about a slow, deliberate reckoning. One built on lived experience, reflection, and a growing refusal to carry the emotional weight alone.In this episode, Lynn unpacks the patterns many women are now naming: the exhaustion of managing everything, the disappointment of one-sided support, and the deep pull to live more fully...
2024-10-1913 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 68 Why Standing Up for Yourself Can Feel Wrong in Toxic RelationshipsIn Moving Forward with Hope - Narcissistic Abuse Recovery, Lynn guides you through the complexities of healing from toxic relationships, with a focus on reclaiming your voice and rebuilding your self-worth. In this episode, we explore why standing up for yourself can feel so wrong in toxic environments—delving into the emotional manipulation, guilt, and self-doubt that often arise when advocating for your own needs. We also take a closer look at how broader societal factors, including gender roles and patriarchal conditioning, make self-advocacy especially challenging for women.Through thoughtful discussion, this episode helps listeners recognize that self-advocacy is not se...
2024-10-1213 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 68 Why Standing Up for Yourself Can Feel Wrong in Toxic RelationshipsIn Moving Forward with Hope - Narcissistic Abuse Recovery, Lynn guides you through the complexities of healing from toxic relationships, with a focus on reclaiming your voice and rebuilding your self-worth. In this episode, we explore why standing up for yourself can feel so wrong in toxic environments—delving into the emotional manipulation, guilt, and self-doubt that often arise when advocating for your own needs. We also take a closer look at how broader societal factors, including gender roles and patriarchal conditioning, make self-advocacy especially challenging for women.Through thoughtful discussion, this episode helps listeners recognize that se...
2024-10-1211 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 67 17 Signs You May Be in a Toxic Dating RelationshipIn this episode of Moving Forward with Hope, join host Lynn as she unpacks the toxic behaviors that can infiltrate our relationships, often disguised as love or concern. From emotional manipulation to blame-shifting and passive-aggressive communication, Lynn highlights these subtle yet damaging patterns that erode trust and self-worth.Lynn explores why recognizing these behaviors early is crucial for protecting your emotional well-being and preventing long-term harm. She also delves into the complex reasons individuals often stay in toxic relationships including touching on the societal pressures to be in a relationship.In addition to these insights, Lynn shares her personal experiences...
2024-10-0522 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 67 17 Signs You May Be in a Toxic Dating RelationshipIn this episode of Moving Forward with Hope, join host Lynn as she unpacks the toxic behaviors that can infiltrate our relationships, often disguised as love or concern. From emotional manipulation to blame-shifting and passive-aggressive communication, Lynn highlights these subtle yet damaging patterns that erode trust and self-worth.Lynn explores why recognizing these behaviors early is crucial for protecting your emotional well-being and preventing long-term harm. She also delves into the complex reasons individuals often stay in toxic relationships including touching on the societal pressures to be in a relationship.In addition to these insights...
2024-10-0520 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 66 The Subtle Tactics of Emotional ManipulationEmotional manipulation often hides in plain sight—disguised as concern, humor, or even affection. In this episode of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we explore how subtle patterns of behavior can make you feel drained, guilty, or unsure of your own instincts—without realizing you’re being manipulated.We take a closer look at how:Gaslighting leaves you questioning your memory or perceptionGuilt-tripping subtly shifts blame onto you for someone else’s actions or emotionsWithholding affection or silent treatment can control through emotional withdrawalPassive-aggressive comments chip away at confidence while maintaining surface-level calmTriangulation introduces outsiders to create confusion and self-doubtThese patterns...
2024-09-2810 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 65 Tactics to Wreck Your Sanity: Unmasking Narcissistic ManipulationNarcissistic abuse doesn’t always look like yelling or overt control. Sometimes, it’s the quiet erosion of your confidence, the subtle dismissal of your feelings, or the way you’re made to feel like the problem—no matter what you say or do.In this episode of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery podcast, we examine five covert tactics narcissists use to destabilize your sense of self and gain control in relationships. These behaviors often go unnoticed at first, but over time, they can leave you feeling confused, silenced, and emotionally depleted.We explore:False apologies that sound sincere but deflect responsi...
2024-09-2114 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 64 How Solitude and Deep Concentration is Underrated in Your Healing Journey: 3 Introspective Thoughts to Stir Your Path ForwardWe’ve been conditioned to believe that rest is laziness, that silence is suspicious, and that solitude is something to avoid. But what if solitude is exactly what your soul has been crying out for?This isn’t about turning off the TV for an hour or driving to work without music. The article describes pure, unadulterated solitude—a place so quiet even the birds stop chirping. A space where your shoulders drop, your breath deepens, and your soul finally has room to speak.Society’s conditioning keeps us in overdrive, tying our worth to productivity. But solitude invites us to slow...
2023-08-2517 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 63 Anger By Betrayal: Sources of Anger after Enduring Narcissistic Abuse TraumaIt usually begins with confusion. A sudden shift in tone. A look. A silence that cuts deeper than any word ever could.Then comes the betrayal—sharp, deliberate, and entirely unexpected.Or was it?In this episode, Lynn invites you into the disorienting terrain many survivors know too well: the moment when the narcissist turns. When the flattery evaporates. When the charm gives way to cold calculation. When the anger arrives—not as a moment, but as a message.Why does narcissistic rage hit so hard? Why does the betrayal feel so intimate and so strategic? And what’s really happen...
2023-08-1321 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 62 The Narcissist Hates You In SecretIt’s a question that lingers long after the relationship ends—why did they seem to hate me so much, especially when I started to stand up for myself?You were never cruel. You didn’t lie. You only wanted clarity, honesty, connection. But suddenly, the smiles vanished. The warmth turned cold. And the person who once seemed so drawn to you began to treat you with disdain, contempt, even rage.In this episode, Lynn unpacks what few people say out loud: the narcissist’s hatred may not be random. It may not even be about you. But it always reveals...
2023-08-0412 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 61 10 Key Signs of Manipulative Relationships: Detecting Toxic NarcissismIt often starts subtly—a dismissive comment, a lingering feeling of unease, a moment where you question your own perception. Over time, these instances can accumulate, leaving you feeling drained, uncertain, and disconnected from your sense of self.In this episode, we delve into the nuanced indicators that may suggest you're in a toxic relationship. We'll explore the behaviors that, while seemingly minor in isolation, can signal deeper issues when viewed collectively.This conversation isn't about assigning blame or labeling individuals. It's about empowering you to recognize patterns that may be detrimental to your well-being and providing insights to help yo...
2023-07-2820 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 60 Breaking Free: Understanding the Exhaustion of Being in a Narcissistic RelationshipIn this re-released podcast episode, Lynn discusses the mental and physical exhaustion experienced by individuals who have been in a relationship with a narcissist. The exhaustion stems from a cyclical pattern that the narcissist employs to manipulate and control their partner.The cycle starts with the "love bomb" stage, where the narcissist showers the individual with compliments and false flattery to gain control over them as a source of supply. This phase is followed by the "devalue" stage, during which the narcissist becomes highly critical of the individual's actions and appearance, undermining their self-worth and confidence.The narcissist then subtly...
2023-07-2112 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 59 Stonewalling: Is it One of the Fastest Ways to Dismantle a Relationship? Why Does Stonewalling Occur?In this re-released episode of the podcast, host Lynn delves into the topic of stonewalling and explores why narcissists employ this manipulative tactic. Stonewalling is a means for narcissists to halt or diminish the flow of information during conversations, and it manifests in various ways.The episode identifies six forms of stonewalling, including abruptly walking away from a conversation, feigning busyness to avoid engagement, ignoring or giving the silent treatment, minimizing or discrediting, and preventing the conversation from being about the other person. These behaviors are not isolated incidents but rather chronic patterns of behavior....
2023-07-1409 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 59 Stonewalling: Is it One of the Fastest Ways to Dismantle a Relationship? Why Does Stonewalling Occur?In this re-released episode of the podcast, host Lynn delves into the topic of stonewalling and explores why narcissists employ this manipulative tactic. Stonewalling is a means for narcissists to halt or diminish the flow of information during conversations, and it manifests in various ways.The episode identifies six forms of stonewalling, including abruptly walking away from a conversation, feigning busyness to avoid engagement, ignoring or giving the silent treatment, minimizing or discrediting, and preventing the conversation from being about the other person. These behaviors are not isolated incidents but rather chronic patterns of behavior.Lynn explains that narcissists reject...
2023-07-1411 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 58 What are the TOP 7 Gaslighting Phrases Manipulators or Narcissists UseGaslighting doesn’t always sound cruel—it often sounds like “I’m just trying to help.” In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we break down seven of the most common gaslighting phrases used to distort your perception, erode your confidence, and make you question your own reality.We explore:Why phrases like “You’re overreacting” or “I’m doing this for your own good” are anything but harmlessHow gaslighting is often disguised as care, concern, or even loveThe emotional toll of being told you’re “too sensitive,” “crazy,” or “lucky to have me”How these tactics are used to justify control, avoid accou...
2023-07-0706 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 57 Is Your Narcissist Making You Depressed? Find Out Why And What is Really Happening!Why Do You Feel So Depressed After Narcissistic Abuse? Is depression just sadness—or something deeper when you've survived a relationship with a narcissist?In this episode, we explore the emotional aftermath so many survivors silently carry: the weight of depression that surfaces after the trauma ends. But this isn’t just about feeling down—it’s about everything that was taken, silenced, or distorted in the process.Why does your mind feel foggy? Why does everything feel harder than it should be? Why does healing sometimes feel lonelier than the abuse itself?Lynn guides you through the layered reasons behind p...
2023-06-3013 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp.56 Breaking Through: 7 Clear Ways to Break Through Cognitive DissonanceLeaving a toxic relationship isn't just about walking away—it's about untangling the mental knots that kept you there. Even when the red flags are clear, emotional confusion can blur your path forward.In this episode, Lynn explores the subtle yet powerful force of cognitive dissonance—the internal conflict that arises when your instincts and emotions are at odds. This psychological tension often keeps survivors stuck in cycles of self-doubt, guilt, and longing, even after recognizing the harm they've endured.Discover how to:Identify the signs of cognitive dissonance in your healing journeyBreak free from the mental loops that keep you...
2023-06-2308 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 55 Golden Children: Challenges Faced As Adults - Is it All About Chocolate Cake and Roses?Being labeled the "golden child" in a narcissistic family might seem advantageous, but the reality is far more complex. This episode delves into the often-overlooked challenges that golden children face as adults, shedding light on the emotional burdens and identity struggles that accompany this role.Explore how the golden child's experience can lead to:Internalized pressure to meet unrealistic expectationsDifficulty establishing authentic self-worthStrained relationships with siblings and peersChallenges in recognizing and setting healthy boundariesA tendency to replicate dysfunctional patterns in adulthoodThis conversation aims to validate the golden child's experience and provide insights into the path toward healing and self-discovery.🔗 Exp...
2023-06-1611 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 54 Does the Golden Child Become a Narcissist? Did You Grow up in a Narcissistic Family?Golden Child: Will they become narcissistic? Being the "golden child" in a narcissistic family often comes with unspoken expectations and pressures. While this role may seem favorable, it can lead to significant emotional and psychological challenges in adulthood.In this episode, we delve into the complexities of the golden child role, exploring how it fosters a sense of entitlement and impacts relationships, self-perception, and personal growth. We'll discuss:The origins of the golden child role in narcissistic family systemsHow constant praise and unrealistic expectations shape self-worthThe struggle with empathy and authentic connectionsThe journey toward self-awareness and healingThis conversation aims to s...
2023-06-0916 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 53 Hyper-Vigilance: Is it Connected to Narcissistic Trauma? Let's Explore...Why can’t you relax—even when you're safe? Why does your body feel wired, your thoughts racing, your sleep disrupted? If you’ve survived narcissistic abuse, hyper-vigilance may have become your default mode—but few people understand what that really means.In this episode, Lynn unpacks the lived experience of hyper-vigilance after narcissistic trauma. We don’t just talk about what it is—we ask what it’s trying to protect you from.Do you find yourself constantly scanning for danger, even in quiet rooms?Do small changes in someone’s tone, behavior, or silence feel threatening...
2023-06-0209 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 53 Hyper-Vigilance: Is it Connected to Narcissistic Trauma? Let's Explore...Why can’t you relax—even when you're safe? Why does your body feel wired, your thoughts racing, your sleep disrupted? If you’ve survived narcissistic abuse, hyper-vigilance may have become your default mode—but few people understand what that really means.In this episode, Lynn unpacks the lived experience of hyper-vigilance after narcissistic trauma. We don’t just talk about what it is—we ask what it’s trying to protect you from.Do you find yourself constantly scanning for danger, even in quiet rooms?Do small changes in someone’s tone, behavior, or silence feel threatening?Do you feel physically...
2023-06-0210 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 52 Gaslighting: Understanding Why Narcissists Use This TacticIn this episode, we delve into the insidious tactic of gaslighting—a form of psychological manipulation where abusers distort facts, deny events, and twist narratives to make victims question their own reality. By systematically undermining a person's confidence in their perceptions and memories, gaslighters gain control and create a dependency that can be difficult to escape.We'll explore the common signs of gaslighting, including:Blatant denial of facts, even when presented with evidenceMinimization of the victim's feelings and experiencesProjection of blame onto the victimIsolation from support systemsUnderstanding these tactics is the first step toward recognizing and breaking free from the cy...
2023-05-2808 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 51 Why the Golden Child Disrespects the ScapegoatThis episode continues to be one of our top-listened-to episodes. In families marked by covert narcissism and emotional dysfunction, sibling dynamics can take on a dangerous complexity. In this episode of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, host Lynn peels back the layers of family favoritism, exposing how roles like the “golden child” and the “scapegoat” are not just labels—they are emotional survival mechanisms conditioned in childhood and reinforced through manipulation, projection, and trauma bonding.Lynn explains how the golden child is often groomed to adopt the narcissistic parent’s perspective—rewarded for compliance, silence, and allegiance. Meanwhile, the scapegoat beco...
2023-05-2112 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 51 Why the Golden Child Disrespects the ScapegoatThis episode continues to be one of our top-listened-to episodes. In families marked by covert narcissism and emotional dysfunction, sibling dynamics can take on a dangerous complexity. In this episode of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, host Lynn peels back the layers of family favoritism, exposing how roles like the “golden child” and the “scapegoat” are not just labels—they are emotional survival mechanisms conditioned in childhood and reinforced through manipulation, projection, and trauma bonding.Lynn explains how the golden child is often groomed to adopt the narcissistic parent’s perspective—rewarded for compliance, silence, and a...
2023-05-2111 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 50 Are you the Family Scapegoat? Unpacking the Wounding to Start the Healing JourneyBeing the scapegoat in a narcissistic family isn’t just painful—it’s disorienting. In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we explore the emotional toll of being unfairly blamed, chronically criticized, and cast aside by the very people who were supposed to protect you.We examine:The emotional weight of being the family’s dumping ground for shame and dysfunctionHow isolation and exclusion reinforce feelings of unworthiness and self-doubtThe danger of internalizing the family’s narrative—and how to begin rewriting your ownWhy healing from scapegoating is nonlinear, deeply personal, and often misunderstoodWhat it means to reclaim your identit...
2023-05-1120 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 49 Why Narcissists are Drawn to a Career in Sales | Is My Sales Representative a Narcissist?Ever felt like a narcissist was trying to “sell” you something—even if it wasn’t a product? In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we explore the striking similarities between narcissistic behavior and high-pressure sales tactics. From charm to boundary-pushing, narcissists often operate like seasoned sales reps—because the goal is the same: to win, to persuade, and to extract something of value.We examine:Why narcissists are drawn to sales roles that reward charm, persistence, and persuasionHow they mirror your interests, flatter strategically, and resell from different angles—just like a salespersonThe way they ignore boundaries, refuse to ta...
2023-03-0114 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 48 Ostracized: How Your Narcissistic Family's Love Turns into Hate after Going No ContactOne of our most popular episodes is this one. What happens when you finally say “enough”—and your entire family turns on you? In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we explore the painful aftermath of going no contact with a narcissistic family system. For many scapegoats, the moment they step away from dysfunction is the moment they become the enemy.We examine:Why “family love” often turns to hatred when the scapegoat refuses to play their roleHow narcissistic families use ostracism, gossip, and silence as tools of punishment and controlThe covert tactics that keep other family members compliant—...
2023-01-0317 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 47 When is it Time to Leave the Narcissist?Leaving a narcissist isn’t just a decision—it’s a declaration of freedom. In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we walk through seven practical, trauma-informed steps to help you prepare for one of the most courageous moves of your life. Whether you’re planning your exit or already on the other side, this conversation offers clarity, validation, and strategy.We explore:How to create a personalized exit plan that considers your safety, finances, and emotional well-beingWhy a stealth move may be necessary—and how to protect yourself from narcissistic rageThe importance of gathering resources and building a support...
2022-09-3012 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 46 Energy Vampires: Is it All About Narcissistic SupplyEver walked away from a conversation with a narcissist feeling confused, exhausted, or like you lost a piece of yourself? That’s not accidental—it’s energetic extraction. In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we explore how narcissists feed off your attention, emotions, and reactions to maintain their fragile sense of self.We examine:What “narcissistic supply” really means—and why it’s never enoughHow narcissists use charm, chaos, and control to extract your energyWhy they leave you feeling deflated, confused, or “not enough” after every interactionThe disturbing truth: they don’t care how you’re left, as long as they’re fil...
2022-09-2308 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 44 Is Everything a Transactional Encounter? Are we being Exploited? #widespreadnarcissismHave you ever shown up to a “free” event only to realize it came with strings attached? In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we explore how even community gatherings have become transactional—and what that says about the culture we’re living in.We examine:Why “free” events often come with hidden agendas—and how that mirrors narcissistic manipulationHow the ideology of “everything is a transaction” has crept into relationships, friendships, and even acts of serviceThe emotional toll of being seen as a resource instead of a human beingHow narcissism has become so embedded in our culture that exploitation...
2022-05-2107 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 43 Seeing the World Differently after the Wake Up Moment“You can never go back.” That’s what Meredith Miller said—and once you’ve seen narcissism for what it is, you know exactly what she meant. In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, Lynn shares her personal journey of awakening: from recognizing narcissism in her marriage, to uncovering it in her family of origin, to seeing its fingerprints in corporate culture, organized religion, and even national identity.We explore:How narcissistic abuse hides in plain sight—relational, polished, and perfectly disguisedThe moment you realize your family role (like scapegoat) was never about you—it was about controlWhy corporate syst...
2022-05-1608 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 42 Overcoming Narcissistic Abuse: Inner Resolve, Is it the Birthplace for Change?There comes a moment when something shifts. You’re no longer confused, no longer negotiating, no longer willing to pretend. That moment is called resolve—and it changes everything.In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we explore what resolve really is, how it shows up in the healing journey, and why it often marks the beginning of true transformation. Whether you’re still in the relationship or already out, this conversation will help you recognize the moment your soul says, “I’m done.”We examine:What resolve feels like in the body—and why it’s often born from exhaus...
2022-04-2912 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 41 What is the Gray Rock Technique? Is there Risk with it?When going no contact isn’t an option, what can you do to protect your peace? In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we explore the Grey Rock Technique—a short-term strategy designed to make you uninteresting to a narcissist and reduce their emotional grip on you.We examine:What the Grey Rock Technique is—and why it works to deter narcissistic supplyHow to respond with boring, flat, and unemotional communication to shut down manipulationWhy this method is often a last resort after years of trying to fix or explain the relationshipThe risks involved, including potential escalation and narcis...
2022-03-2008 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 40 When Does Cognitive Dissonance Clear? What Happens After No Contact with a Narcissist?Why is it so hard to leave a toxic relationship—even when you know it’s hurting you? The answer often lies in cognitive dissonance—the mental tug-of-war between what you know and what you feel. In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we explore how this psychological tension keeps survivors stuck—and how to break through it with clarity and courage.We examine:What cognitive dissonance really is—and why it’s so common in narcissistic abuseHow confusion, anxiety, and self-doubt are signs your mind is trying to reconcile two opposing truths7 practical, trauma-informed steps to break free from th...
2022-02-1807 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 38 Was I Conditioned by Family of Origin to Have a Relationship with a NarcissistWhat if your relationship with a narcissist wasn’t just bad luck—but the result of early conditioning you didn’t even know was happening? In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we explore how growing up in a narcissistic family system can prime you to tolerate, normalize, and even be drawn to narcissistic partners later in life.We examine:How communication breakdowns, emotional neglect, and chronic invalidation shape your sense of selfWhy being the scapegoat or “black sheep” often leads to people-pleasing and self-doubt in adulthoodHow control, shame, and gaslighting in childhood create a blueprint for future manipulati...
2022-01-1610 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 37 Why the Narcissistic Parent Calls You 'Disrespectful' and What is Really TranspiringHave you ever been called “disrespectful” just for speaking your truth? In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we unpack how narcissistic parents and family systems weaponize the word “disrespect” to silence, shame, and control those who dare to question the narrative.We explore:Why narcissists use “disrespect” as a conversation ender, not a dialogue starterHow this tactic is designed to shut down critical thinking, feedback, and emotional honestyWhat’s really being protected when they accuse you of being out of lineHow this dynamic plays out in scapegoat roles, family hierarchies, and cultural conditioningWhat your options are when you’re labeled...
2022-01-0710 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 36 My Story - It's About to Get Real and It's Time to ShareSome stories don’t begin with clarity—they begin with confusion, survival, and a slow unraveling of everything you thought was true. In this episode of the Moving Forward with Hope – Narcissistic Abuse Recovery podcast, we share a deeply personal account of what it’s like to live through—and begin to heal from—narcissistic abuse.This isn’t a list of red flags. It’s a lived experience.We explore:The emotional and physical toll of prolonged narcissistic relationshipsHow chronic stress and survival mode can manifest in the bodyThe shame and silence that often follow trauma—and why breaking that silence matte...
2022-01-0216 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 35 The Undisclosed Reasons Why the Narcissist StonewallsEver tried to have a real conversation with a narcissist—only to be met with silence, dismissal, or a sudden exit? That’s not miscommunication. That’s stonewalling—and it’s one of the narcissist’s most calculated tactics.In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we explore the six core reasons narcissists shut down conversations, walk away mid-sentence, or give you the silent treatment. It’s not just avoidance—it’s control.We examine:Why narcissists are repelled by closeness and shut down when intimacy threatens their false selfHow stonewalling protects their fragile ego from perceived criticism or accountabilityW...
2021-12-3110 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp 34 Why It's Exhausting to be with a NarcissistIf you’ve ever felt completely drained—mentally, emotionally, even physically—after dealing with a narcissist, you’re not imagining it. In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we unpack the seven core reasons why being in a relationship with a narcissist is so profoundly exhausting.We explore:The repetitive cycle of love-bombing, devaluation, and criticism that keeps you off balanceHow narcissists use simultaneous tactics—gaslighting, belittling, ignoring—to wear you downWhy you feel like you’re constantly performing, yet never “enough”How your energy becomes their fuel—and why their tank is never fullThe emotional toll of being unheard, inval...
2021-12-2512 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 32 Love bombing: The Subtle Insult and What is Really OccurringLove bombing may sound sweet—but it’s anything but sincere. In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we expose the hidden insult behind the narcissist’s most seductive tactic. From the outside, it looks like affection. But underneath? It’s manipulation, grooming, and emotional sabotage.We explore:Why love bombing is the first phase in the cycle of abuse—and why it’s so hard to detect at firstHow insincere praise is used to gain control, create dependency, and erode your self-trustThe emotional confusion that sets in when compliments are given, then withheld, then weaponizedHow love bombing trains you t...
2021-12-1710 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 31 Why the Narcissist Studies You, The Motivation, Plus Ramifications for RemainingFrom the onset of the relationship with a narcissist, the game has begun. Their antics are ready to go, and you will be the target for a while. They will study you, learn your behaviors—because they have ulterior motives at bay.In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we explore why the narcissist studies you, what their motivation is behind the scenes, and—as an added bonus—the ramifications of being in a relationship with this type of creepy individual. It’s not curiosity. It’s a calculation.We examine:How narcissists observe your reactions to both praise and...
2021-12-1009 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 30 It Begins with Charisma | The Acting Skills of the NarcissistHave you ever met someone who was funny, charismatic, and swept you off your feet in record time?Maybe they listened intently, seemed knowledgeable, and carried a hint of mystery. You were curious—and they knew it. When a narcissist meets new supply, they often lead with charisma. In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we explore the acting skills narcissists use to lure, confuse, and control.We examine:How narcissists use charisma as a mask to generate interest and desirabilityWhy love bombing isn’t affection—it’s investment with strings attachedHow they deploy premature vulnerability to fast-track emotiona...
2021-12-0308 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 29 The Strained Golden Child and Scapegoat RelationshipBy design, one or more narcissistic parent(s) have created a disturbing and unhealthy relational connection between the family-assigned roles of scapegoat and golden child. Neither role is desirable, and both suffer consequences—not only in how they relate to the narcissistic parent, but with each other.In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, we discuss the harrowing relational dynamics between these two roles, which often continue well into adulthood.We examine:How narcissistic parents assign roles early—and why they rarely changeWhy the golden child is rewarded for loyalty, while the scapegoat is punished for truthHow triangulation and...
2021-11-2712 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 28 Distraction: Does it Occur Outside of a Narcissistic Relationship?If you've just checked your Twitter feed, Instagram DM's, email, text, and your new TikTok blast in the last 15 minutes, while driving and eating your lunch, you may agree that our current reality encapsulates a life of ongoing distractions. In a world already saturated with noise, narcissists add another layer—one that’s calculated, deliberate, and designed to keep you distracted. Distraction isn’t always digital. It can be emotional, psychological, and deeply personal.This episode explores how narcissists use distraction to avoid accountability, derail conversations, and keep you emotionally disoriented. From gaslighting to circular conversations, deception to blame-shifting, these t...
2021-11-2210 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 27 Why Online Dating is a Cesspool for Narcissists - 6 Reasons Plus TipsIn this episode, we are going to touch on the current estimated number of users (profiles), projected growth of the platforms, success percentages, as well as get to the heart of the issue, which is why online dating draws so many narcissists. We will end with some handy tips to keep in mind if you are communicating online, so you can try to avoid. What better place to practice manipulation and acting skills than a space designed for curated charm and fast connection? In this episode, we explore how narcissists use online dating not to find love—but to perfect the...
2021-11-1713 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 26 7 Powerful Ways to Reconnect with Intuition After Narcissistic AbuseEver felt like your gut instinct went silent after enduring narcissistic abuse? In this episode, we unpack the practical steps survivors can take to rebuild trust with themselves and reconnect with their intuition, straight from our latest article on MovingForwardAfterAbuse.com.What You’ll Learn:Why narcissistic abuse cuts you off from intuitionHow trauma hijacks self-trust and decision-makingConcrete actions to start hearing your inner voice againWays to distinguish intuition from anxiety or fearWhy self-compassion is the foundation for healingDirect Article: https://www.movingforwardafterabuse.com/intuition/Watch the Episode on YouTube: SunWarriorSunWarrior is a plant-based protein and su...
2021-11-1112 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 25 Narcissist Kryptonite: What They Don't Want You To KnowA narcissist thrives in certain environments when their needs are met. When things go awry, and their needs are not met, or they have been ousted, they will not be happy campers. In this episode, we are going to explore the biggest fears of a narcissist, which are the very things they don’t want you to ever do or act on or heaven forbid, even have knowledge of.A narcissist thrives in environments where their needs are met, their image is protected, and their control goes unchallenged. But what happens when that illusion starts to crack?In this epi...
2021-11-0515 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastSelf-Blame and Shame - 2 Introspective Matters of the Heart in the Healing Process - Recovering from a NarcissistIn this video we are going to talk about Self-Blame and Shame – as we dive into these introspective matters of the heart to aid in the healing and recovery process from a relationship with a narcissist.Main Site: https://movingforwardafterabuse.com/ Article: https://www.movingforwardafterabuse.com/self-blame-and-shame/To serve as a resource of hope, encouragement and validation to victims of narcissistic abuse so lives can be rebuilt by facilitating a revolutionary change to pursue dreams, visions, and living intentionally.https://linktr.ee/lynnnicholsWatch the Video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/dC1...
2021-10-2909 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastProfessions that Attract Narcissists and Why It DrawsIf you have been a victim of narcissistic abuse, you may go through a stage questioning everyone around you, that is, if they are a narcissist, or not. In this video, we are going to take a look at professions that commonly have narcissists - and why a narcissist is attracted to that particular profession. Main Site: https://movingforwardafterabuse.com/ Article: https://www.movingforwardafterabuse.com/top-professions/To serve as a resource of hope, encouragement and validation to victims of narcissistic abuse so lives can be rebuilt by facilitating a revolutionary change to pursue dreams, visions, and...
2021-10-1908 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast6 Character Traits that Attract Narcissists + BONUSA narcissist will look for prey, as if it is their source of survival. They are looking for individuals to “feed them” and go along with their planned agenda. Learn the Character traits they look for....To serve as a resource of hope, encouragement and validation to victims of narcissistic abuse so lives can be rebuilt by facilitating a revolutionary change to pursue dreams, visions, and living intentionally.Validation. Rebuild. Revolutionize. Narcissistic Abuse Recoveryhttps://linktr.ee/lynnnicholsWatch the Video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/YfO86brHgacLynn Nichols is a...
2021-10-1412 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastHow to Rebuild Confidence after a Relationship with a NarcissistOur confidence is one of the biggest attributes attacked by narcissistic abusers. They wanted to destroy our ability to perform and lose our sense of identity and follow them. I would love to hear your stories of rebuilding your confidence. What did you learn new about yourself? What new goals have you set? What new hobbies have you started? Drop a note in the comment below!Main Site: https://movingforwardafterabuse.com/ Watch the Video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/0d2DSOARJA8To serve as a resource of hope, encouragement and validation to victims of nar...
2021-10-0816 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastShould I Confront the Narcissist | Moving Forward with Hope - LynnTo serve as a resource of hope, encouragement and validation to victims of narcissistic abuse so lives can be rebuilt by facilitating a revolutionary change to pursue dreams, visions, and living intentionally.Validation. Rebuild. Revolutionize. Narcissistic Abuse RecoveryLynn Nichols is a narcissistic abuse life coach, author and personal survivor or narcissistic abuse. https://linktr.ee/lynnnichols Today, we are going to talk about confronting someone in your life who you deem to be a narcissist. We are going to talk about why it is not recommended nor beneficial to let them know...
2021-10-0213 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastIs Narcissistic Abuse a Hate Crime? Moving Forward with Hope - LynnNarcissistic Abuse. It’s an insidious crime. Should it be classified it in its own category of a hate-crime? To serve as a resource of hope, encouragement and validation to victims of narcissistic abuse so lives can be rebuilt by facilitating a revolutionary change to pursue dreams, visions, and living intentionally.Main Site: https://movingforwardafterabuse.com/ https://www.movingforwardafterabuse.com/hate-crime/Validation. Rebuild. Revolutionize. Narcissistic Abuse Recoveryhttps://linktr.ee/lynnnicholsLynn Nichols is a narcissistic abuse life coach, author and personal survivor or narcissistic abuse...
2021-09-2614 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastLeaving the Narcissist | 6 Practical Steps to Freedom6 Practical Steps to Freedom | Leaving the N a r c i s s i s t*Trigger WarningPointless and deliberate targeted arguments that were intentionally designed to degrade the mind surface again. These arguments are crazy-making and manufactured to get you to go over the edge and lose it, of course then, it would be all your fault, right?Main Site: https://movingforwardafterabuse.com/ https://www.movingforwardafterabuse.com/freedom/To serve as a resource of hope, encouragement and validation to victims of narcissistic abuse so lives can be rebuilt by facilitating a re...
2021-09-2318 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast3 Uncommon Benefits of Being the Family Scapegoat | Moving Forward with Hope - LynnMain Site: https://movingforwardafterabuse.com/ Article: https://www.movingforwardafterabuse.com/scapegoat/To serve as a resource of hope, encouragement and validation to victims of narcissistic abuse so lives can be rebuilt by facilitating a revolutionary change to pursue dreams, visions, and living intentionally.Validation. Rebuild. Revolutionize. Narcissistic Abuse Recoveryhttps://linktr.ee/lynnnicholsLynn Nichols is a narcissistic abuse life coach, author and personal survivor or narcissistic abuse. You may also like: 3 Changes after I went No Contact: https://youtu.be/Qb6zR5Ak98IMoving from More to...
2021-09-1314 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 16 3 Uncommon Benefits of Being the Family Scapegoat | Moving Forward with Hope - LynnIn a narcissistic family cult (ah, I mean unit), there are characters just like in a movie set. Yes, actors that play a certain role for the duration of the movie. And in this family structure, one role stands out: the family scapegoat.You're the black sheep. The one who takes the blame for any negative issues undeservedly. You carry the heap of family abuse, often growing up under this duress thinking it's normal until you observe other family structures or have a wake up moment. You're meant to feel responsible for family affairs, carry guilt, bear...
2021-09-1311 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast3 Tips to Manage Empathy | Narcissist and Empath Connection3 Tips to Manage Empathy | Narcissist and Empath ConnectionEmpaths: If you have found your way to this page, perhaps you have been in a relationship with a narcissist, and have been told, or heard it through the grapevine, that you may be what is called an Empath. But what exactly is an empath?What is the empath and narcissist connection?Are there any tips to manage empathy for Empaths?Absolutely, let's address these great questions!To serve as a resource of hope, encouragement and validation to victims of narcissistic abuse so lives can be rebuilt by f...
2021-05-2713 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastOne Powerful Benefit of Silence after Narcissistic AbuseOne of the tactics a narcissist will use in the beginning (or really, at any time of a relationship), is the tactic to keep you silent. Abusers groom their target with the purpose to manipulate for their benefit. This is Lynn, host of the Moving Forward with Hope Podcast and today we are going to talk about it the power of silence. To serve as a resource of hope, encouragement and validation to victims of narcissistic abuse so lives can be rebuilt by facilitating a revolutionary change to pursue dreams, visions, and living intentionally.https://linktr.ee/ly...
2021-05-1709 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 12 7 Stages of Grief after Narcissistic AbuseDoes grief and loss occur after narcissistic abuse?Grieving after narcissistic abuse isn’t linear—and it doesn’t follow the traditional five stages. In this episode, we walk through the seven distinct stages survivors often experience after going no contact or waking up to the truth of what they’ve endured.We explore:The shock of absolute devastation when the truth finally clicksHow denial and self-doubt creep in, even after the wake-up callWhy the education phase is both empowering and overwhelmingThe role of anger—and why it’s not only justified, but necessaryHow depression shows up as your nervous syst...
2021-04-2616 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastWhat Does a Narcissist Need?A narcissist seeks supply, attention in any way, shape or form for sustenance to live. It’s like the air they breathe. Learning what a narcissist needs and how they obtain it is essential to detecting a narcissist in our life. Once we can detect, we can take steps to heal and make decisions on how to move forward after the abuse. So, what does a narcissist need? Today, we are going to talk about it. Moving Forward with HopeMore Info: www.movingforwardafterabuse.comhttps://linktr.ee/lynnnicholsTo serve as a resour...
2021-04-0308 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast3 CHANGES After Going No Contact3 Changes After I Went No ContactMain Site: https://movingforwardafterabuse.com/ To serve as a resource of hope, encouragement and validation to victims of narcissistic abuse so lives can be rebuilt by facilitating a revolutionary change to pursue dreams, visions, and living intentionally.Validation. Rebuild. Revolutionize. Narcissistic Abuse Recoveryhttps://linktr.ee/lynnnicholsJoin Us:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCj_u7tlSj2GKX-RxOuipB6gLynn Nichols is a narcissistic abuse life coach, author and personal survivor or narcissistic abuse. Support the showThank you for listening! Stay conn...
2021-04-0209 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 9 From Doing More to Being More After Narcissistic AbuseWhen you’re in a relationship with a narcissistic abuser, you’re often taught—subtly and systematically—that you’re never enough. No matter how hard you try or how well you perform, the bar keeps moving. The goalposts shift. And you’re left running harder, faster, and emptier.In this episode, we explore the exhausting cycle of performance that narcissistic abuse creates—and how to shift from constantly doing more to finally being more.We unpack:How narcissists condition you to believe your worth is tied to performanceWhy the love-bombing stage sets the trap for a lifetime of over-functioningThe emotional and...
2021-04-0108 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 8 5 Positive Gains after Surviving Narcissistic AbuseWhen we begin the healing journey after narcissistic abuse, we may not realize it—but everything is about to shift. While the losses are real and painful, there’s also something else waiting: gains. In this episode, we explore five powerful changes that begin to emerge once the chaos is removed and the fog begins to lift.We unpack:Freedom from toxic relationships—and how clarity returns when the drama endsA decrease in anxiety levels as your nervous system exits survival mode and begins to resetA new concept of relationships, where love is no longer confused with controlThe moment you begin...
2021-03-2113 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 7 I've Gone No Contact, Now What? No Contact after Narcissistic AbuseGoing no contact is one of the bravest decisions you can make—but what comes next can feel overwhelming. In this episode, we walk through eight essential steps to help you stabilize, reflect, and begin rebuilding after cutting ties with a narcissistic abuser.We explore:Why rest isn’t optional—it’s the first act of reclaiming your nervous systemThe importance of congratulating yourself for surviving what you’ve enduredHow to anticipate fallout and prepare for smear campaigns or emotional backlashWhat to do when remorse and second-guessing creep in—and how to stay groundedThis episode is for anyone who’s just g...
2021-03-1809 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 5 How to Detect Red Flags in a Relationship - Part 1How to Detect Red Flags in a Relationship - Part 1It is estimated 158 million people in the U.S. are affected by narcissistic abuse, and an estimated 6 percent have narcissistic personality disorder. The numbers are staggering, and it’s likely either you know someone who has the characteristics of NPD, and may be suffering from the implications of the disorder.One day it becomes clear. We can see through it all like we never were able to before. We see the manipulation, the lies, the triangulation, gas-lighting and the deliberate ways the narcissist will twist conve...
2021-03-1810 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 5 How to Detect Red Flags in a Relationship - Part 1How to Detect Red Flags in a Relationship - Part 1It is estimated 158 million people in the U.S. are affected by narcissistic abuse, and an estimated 6 percent have narcissistic personality disorder. The numbers are staggering, and it’s likely either you know someone who has the characteristics of NPD, and may be suffering from the implications of the disorder.One day it becomes clear. We can see through it all like we never were able to before. We see the manipulation, the lies, the triangulation, gas-lighting and the deliberate ways the narcissist will twist conversations, events, stories to suit their...
2021-03-1812 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 6 How to Detect Red Flags in a Relationship - Part 2How to Detect Red Flags in a RelationshipIt is estimated 158 million people in the U.S. are affected by narcissistic abuse, and an estimated 6 percent have narcissistic personality disorder. The numbers are staggering, and it’s likely either you know someone who has the characteristics of NPD, and may be suffering from the implications of the disorder.One day it becomes clear. We can see through it all like we never were able to before. We see the manipulation, the lies, the triangulation, gas-lighting and the deliberate ways the narcissist will twist conversations, events, stories to suit their need...
2021-03-1814 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 4 4 Reasons Why Narcissists Ignore YouWhen a narcissist ignores you, it’s never random. In this episode of the Moving Forward with Hope – Narcissistic Abuse Recovery podcast, we look at how narcissists deliberately use silence as a manipulation tactic to provoke a reaction and regain control.We examine:How they ignore you to provoke a response, not because they’re unaware of your needsWhy they use withdrawal to create confusion and chaos, keeping you emotionally unstableThe way this silence is meant to make you feel "needy" or "clingy", shifting blame onto youHow ignoring is used to test loyalty, escalate manipulation, or avoid accountabilityWhen a narcissist refuse...
2021-03-1813 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 1 5 Ways to Retrain the Brain After Narcissistic AbuseAfter a relationship with a narcissist, the damage isn’t just emotional—it’s neurological. In this episode of the Moving Forward with Hope – Narcissistic Abuse Recovery podcast, we explore how narcissistic abuse rewires the brain to expect chaos, walk on eggshells, and doubt its own instincts—and what it takes to begin reversing that damage.This episode outlines five foundational steps to help survivors gently retrain their minds after prolonged emotional manipulation. These aren’t quick fixes—they’re intentional shifts that support healing from the inside out.We explore:How to recognize the mental loops created by trauma and begin interr...
2021-03-1816 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 3 7 Ways Narcissists Receive SupplyNarcissistic supply isn’t just about attention—it’s about control. In this episode of the Moving Forward with Hope – Narcissistic Abuse Recovery podcast, we explore seven covert tactics narcissists use to extract emotional energy from others, often without detection. These behaviors are designed to wear you down, gain your trust, and ultimately keep you in a cycle of confusion and dependence.We examine:Love-bombing and false vulnerability—how narcissists win you over with charm and exaggerated praiseGaslighting—the slow erosion of your reality through denial, distortion, and manipulationBoundary testing and overriding—why “no” is never respected and how your limits are systema...
2021-03-1810 min
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery PodcastEp. 2 Why Self Doubt is the Narcissists' Greatest WeaponSelf-doubt doesn’t arrive all at once—it creeps in slowly. A tone of voice, a dismissive glance, a subtle accusation. Over time, it becomes a habit: second-guessing your instincts, minimizing your goals, and explaining yourself when no explanation is needed.In this episode of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery podcast, we explore how narcissists deliberately create an atmosphere of self-doubt to maintain control. When you begin to question your own worth, your decisions, and your potential, it becomes easier for them to manipulate, diminish, and keep you emotionally dependent.We examine:How narcissists use subtle cues to chip away at your...
2021-03-1808 min