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Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Trading Careers for Time With My Kid | Joel Costigan on Fatherhood, Adventure, Summer BondingDoes the idea of a whole summer one on one with your kid sound idyllic... or intimidating? If you’ve ever been the primary parent for a whole season, you've likely experienced both of those extremes. In this episode, we’re joined by Joel Costigan, a longtime educator, soccer coach, and dad to a 7-year-old daughter named Ruby. Joel recently made a major career move, trading a lucrative healthcare job for an Ed Tech position, which brought him back to his roots and awarded him an entire summer to spend with Ruby. Joel shares what he learned navigating a busy...
2025-08-2248 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)A Father's Fight to Reunite | Picasso Cognizance on Child Support + CustodyNavigating the legal maze of child support and custody can feel impossible... especially when the system seems stacked against you. Picasso Cognizance learned this the hard way when his partner's family took his son away from him at the age of two. Picasso spent the next nearly two decades paying child support, immersing himself in the world of parental rights, and being ping-ponged between agencies who made no effort to help him. Picasso opens up about the emotional and legal challenges he faced when trying to regain access to his son, and shares why he started Resolute Fathers, an...
2025-08-0142 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Father's Day 2025 | Father/Son Reflections on Being a DadDoes it get more "meta" than interviewing your own parent about parenting? For our Father’s Day 2025 Special, Adam Flaherty goes deep with a truly special and personal guest: his own father. Tom Flaherty isn’t just Adam’s dad; he's a father of four (spanning 20 years in age!), an Air Force veteran, a retired police officer, and an inspiration and beacon of hope to many people recovering from alcohol addiction. In a first for the show, Adam and his dad get real about raising kids across two generations, building resilience through tough times, and the evolving role of father...
2025-06-1333 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Rewind Episode | Sesame Street's Emilio Delgado on Fatherhood, Legacy, FamilyThink back to your childhood... Did you have a TV neighbor, friend, or mentor who you trusted? For millions of young people, that person was Luis from Sesame Street, played for over four decades by the legendary Emilio Delgado. In this Rewind episode which originally aired in July of 2020, Emilio discusses becoming a positive role model and even a father figure to kids around the world, even as he was navigating the joys and learning curves of fatherhood himself.Episode 123 of Modern Dadhood explores the powerful impact that television father figures and role models can have...
2025-05-2328 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Building Trust Around Screens + Social Media | Soren Poulsen on Raising Digital CitizensDo you feel uneasy about handing your kid an internet-enabled device? Or feel like you know very little about what they're doing online? It can be really tough to broach conversations about this stuff without instantly putting our kids on the defense. We're joined by Soren Poulsen, co-founder of Raising Digital Citizens and father of two, who, alongside his wife, created the Essential Conversation Cards for Life Online. After puzzling over how to prepare their own daughter for her first phone, they developed a new approach to help families talk about digital safety, consent, bullying, and online privacy in...
2025-04-2534 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Rewind Episode | Thyge Trimble on Preparing For FatherhoodFeeling unprepared for the challenges of fatherhood? You’re certainly not alone. In this Rewind episode, Editor-In-Chief Tyghe Trimble, formerly of Fatherly, joins us to navigate the roadmap to modern dadhood. When we chatted with Tyghe in November of 2021, he and his team at Fatherly had just released the insightful book Fatherhood: A Comprehensive Guide to Birth Budgeting, Finding Flow, and Becoming a Happy Parent. Tyghe joined us to discuss the book, as well as actionable strategies for effective communication with your partner, maintaining your social life amid the craziness of parenthood, and the art of roughhousing with your ki...
2025-04-1127 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Making Mealtime a Family Affair | Chef David Nayfeld on Picky Eaters + Family Friendly RecipesStruggling with kids who are picky eaters? Want to involve your kids in meal preparation but don't know where to start? This episode is for you. We welcome esteemed professional chef (and professional dad) David Nayfeld, who brings fresh ideas to your family kitchen. With his upcoming cookbook, Dad, What's for Dinner?, David shares recipes and strategies for engaging your kids in cooking—transforming mealtime from a chore into an adventure. And for parents of kids who only like mac and cheese with a side of pre-packaged preservatives, David offers insights into making meals and snacks that are fun, he...
2025-03-2855 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Breaking The Cycle, Filling The Void | Chris Robbins on Self Development + Empty NestingDads, ever feel like you're on autopilot, where each day is just running through the same motions? You're not alone. Dad of three Chris Robbins joins us to discuss how Soul Degree seeks to help men interrupt the flow, get outside, and take some well-deserved time to focus on bettering ourselves. Chris also shares candidly about being a new "empty nester" along with his wife, legendary podcaster, author, and self-help thought leader, Mel Robbins. Listen to the end to learn about Marc's "bloody good" weekend! Episode 119 of Modern Dadhood opens with Adam & Marc discussing a few e...
2025-03-1459 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Modern Dadhood Podcast Trailer | Parenting Podcast for Dads (and Moms!)🎥 Watch the video trailer here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LKuKFz1u3_QAdam Flaherty and Marc Checket are two dads from suburban New England. And while they might think they’re pretty funny and cool, the world clearly does NOT need another white dude ramble-cast. That’s why Modern Dadhood explores what it really means to be a "dad" through candid, authentic, and often hilarious conversations with diverse dads of all walks of life… including famous dads, NOT famous dads, dads-to-be, step dads, grand dads, trans dads, and more.By celebrating present, e...
2025-02-2803 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Mic Drop Moments: 2024's Most Surprising Dad StoriesJoin hosts Adam Flaherty and Marc Checket in this special compilation episode as they highlight the most eye-opening moments of 2024, sharing insightful and unexpected clips from a year of remarkable guest interviews. Clips include:↳ Actor George Basil (HBO's Crashing, Barbie) on how single parenthood awards him a unique relationship with his teenage daughter.↳ Timothy Gant, Jr. AKA Teddy The Doula on what it means to be a “full spectrum” doula, and the benefits of being a male in a predominately female-led field.↳ Margaret Ables of the podcast What Fresh Hell – Laughing in t...
2025-01-1031 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Inspiring a World of Imagination | Chris Van Dusen on Writing + Illustrating Kids' BooksHave you ever read a book to your kids and been so disappointed by how uninspired the story is? Or how half-baked the visuals are? Or how poor the grammar is? Same. That's why when you come across the truly great ones, you elevate them and celebrate them. Maine author and illustrator (and father of two) Chris Van Dusen joins us to share about all that goes into creating purposeful, high quality children's literature.Episode 115 of Modern Dadhood is our holiday episode. The guys open with a discussion about The Clement Moore classic "'Twas The Night Before...
2024-12-1348 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Fostering Confidence and Gratitude in Teenagers | Ed Gerety on Present Parenting, Communication StrategiesAny parents of teenagers? (...Or have kids who will be teenagers before you know it?) The seismic shifts that take place during the teenage years can make parenting feel impossible. Inspirational speaker Ed Gerety joins the conversation to impart some wisdom on how to raise curious, grateful, resilient, and self-sufficient teenagers in today's fast-paced world. Hand around after the interview to hear Adam share a recent Instant Regret.Episode 114 of Modern Dadhood opens with a quick chat between Marc and Adam about gratitude. Adam shares a story about his 7 year old daughter receiving a gratitude award at...
2024-11-2249 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Becoming the "Grown Up Dad" You’re Meant to Be | Joe Gidjunis on His PBS DocuseriesEvery new parent stumbles and bumbles their way through learning the responsibilities of their new job, and adapting to their new lifestyle. Most of the "what to expect" books for dads seem to focus on swaddling and potty training, when what we really need is resources for loneliness or advice on how to keep your cool when you're totally overwhelmed. Today's guest, Joe Gidjunis, spent so much time contemplating fatherhood, that he decided to produce a documentary series about it... and PBS loved it so much, they made it available to millions of people. A father of one and...
2024-11-0840 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)What Will Our Kids Be Saying About Us? | Pete Holmes on Fatherhood, Vulnerability, ComedyWhat do happiness hacks, magic mushrooms at Bonnaroo, and suburban dadding have in common? Comedian Pete Holmes, that's what. Pete (You Made It Weird podcast, HBO's Crashing) has been a "pie in the sky" guest for since the wee beginnings of Modern Dadhood, and the conversation didn't disappoint. Pete opens up about being a vulnerable dad, the importance of emotional transparency, working six-year-old Lila into his jokes, and more. Listen to the end for an Instant Regret which left Marc feeling like a dink.Episode 112 of Modern Dadhood opens with the fastest catch-up in the history...
2024-10-1154 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Dismantling Birth Care Stereotypes | Teddy The Doula on Empowering New Moms AND DadsHave you ever wondered about the true value that a doula brings to pregnancy, childbirth, and beyond? We're joined by Timothy Gant Jr., also known as "Teddy The Doula," a trailblazing male doula from Houston, Texas. Timothy shares his journey into the traditionally female-dominated field, the unique challenges and joys of his practice, and the vital role of educating and empowering dads-to-be.Episode 108 of Modern Dadhood opens with the guys swapping stories about their evenings, with Marc venting about being emotionally beaten down by his kids, and Adam enjoying some beach time and booking a dream guest...
2024-07-1237 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)U Mad Bro? | Men's Coach Sean Hotchkiss on Anger, Trauma, and HealingAccording to Men's Coach and Somatic Practitioner Sean Hotchkiss, everyone carries traumatic experiences with them from when they were young. These can be major emotional traumas like the divorce of your parents, or they can be micro traumas... but when they are left unresolved, they can shape who we are as adults (and parents), how we navigate life, and how we relate to others. In this episode honoring Mental Health Awareness Month, Sean Hotchkiss joins the conversation to discuss the real value of expressing anger and the benefits of unpacking our traumas of the past, all the way down...
2024-05-3149 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Many Ways To Say I Love You | Dr. Francois Clemmons on Cosmic Fatherhood + Fred RogersFor those of us who grew up watching Mister Rogers' Neighborhood, Fred Rogers taught us many lessons via his cast of characters in the Neighborhood of Make-Believe; the most prominent of which is that there are many ways to express your love and appreciation for someone. One member of that cast in particular, Dr. Francois Clemmons ("Officer Clemmons" on the show), carries forth that message even today. Dr. Clemmons joins us to discuss his "cosmic father, cosmic son" relationship with Fred Rogers, spreading love and kindness through music, and how paternal love can flourish even in the absence of...
2024-03-2244 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)What Is a "Lead Dad" ...And Could I Be One? | Paul Sullivan on FatherhoodWhen you hear the phrase "Lead Dad," what does it make you think? A "stay at home" dad? A dad who prides himself on being the more involved parent? To Paul Sullivan, Founder of The Company of Dads, being a "Lead Dad" is much different... and many of us naturally fall into the category. Hear Paul discuss The Company of Dads' mission to inspire more men to be Lead Dads, and inspire families to experience their full potential. At the end, Marc shares a curious installment of "Did I Just Say That Out Loud?" Modern Dadhood E...
2024-02-1643 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Parenting Podcast Collab | Margaret Ables + Amy Wilson of What Fresh HellWhat fresh hell is this episode all about? Well, it's a collaboration with our new friends Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables, hosts of the popular momhood podcast What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood. The four parenting podcasters waste no time digging into why there are so many more motherhood podcasts than fatherhood podcasts, the value of gaining new perspectives, and how the role of the father has dramatically shifted over the decades... and could stand to continue evolving!Episode 97 of Modern Dadhood kicks off with Adam ribbing Marc for neglecting to call or...
2024-02-0259 min
What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood | Parenting Tips From Funny MomsFresh Take: Adam Flaherty and Marc Checket of "Modern Dadhood"What's the difference between being a father and being a dad? What does it mean for a man to become intentional about fatherhood as an integral part of his identity? Adam Flaherty and Marc Checket, co-hosts of the "Modern Dadhood" podcast, discuss how fatherhood has and hasn't changed in the last few decades.Amy, Margaret, Adam, and Marc discuss;
Why women identify (and are identified) as moms more readily than men do as dads
The difference between "dadhood" and "fatherhood"
How to make parenting partnerships more equitable
Here's where you can find...
2024-02-0237 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)The Best of 2023 | Adam & Marc's Top 3 Clips2023 has come to and end and Adam & Marc reflect on the guests, topics, and great conversations from the past year. The guys each present their Top 3 clips from the various episodes, and Marc closes out the episode with an utterly explicit edition of "So That's a Thing Now." The guys open Episode 95 of Modern Dadhood by catching up briefly on health, fatherhood, and Christmas before jumping right into their "Top 3" lists of their favorite soundbytes from 2023 episodes. The episodes referenced in the top 3 lists are:Ep 081 - Interabled Parents-To-Be | Shane BurcawEp 083 - T...
2024-01-0553 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Saint Nick Sets The Record Straight | A Chat With Santa ClausIn our holiday 2023 episode, we landed an interview with Father Christmas himself, Santa Claus. This episode is designed for parents and kids to enjoy together, as we ask Santa some hard-hitting questions which are on the minds of children around the world... and Santa delivers! Happy Holidays from our families to yours. We are grateful for you!Episode 94 of Modern Dadhood is a unique one-- it's meant to be enjoyed by both parents and kids, as the guys got VERY lucky and booked an interview with Father Christmas himself, Santa Claus. Adam asks Santa a number of...
2023-12-1531 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Encouraging Independence and Personal Responsibility in Our Kids | Bunthol Kim on Teenage FatherhoodIs there a "right" way to reach our children to be independent and self-reliant? If we always do everything for them, they may never learn to own their responsibilities. But it can be emotionally trying (and short-term inconvenient) to allow them to fail and learn from their mistakes. B Kim joins us to discuss his family's approach to instilling a sense of personal responsibility in their two teenage kids, allowing them to fail safely, and preparing them for adulthood. Don't miss a "squeaky" new installment of So That's a Thing Now! at the end of the episode....
2023-10-2038 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)The Art of Explaining Farewells | Mortician Victor M. Sweeney on Fatherhood, Death, BalanceThere are a million idioms about death: It's "the only certainty in life." It's "the end of the road." It's "the great equalizer." But even as adults, death can be impossibly difficult to understand and process, let alone to know the best way to explain death to our kids. Mortician Victor M. Sweeney joins the conversation to share his wisdom on how to answer our kids' questions, and why it's important to include them and be honest with them rather than try to shield them or protect them from grief. Stick to the end for a segment on good...
2023-09-2948 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)The Unattainable Myth of Work-Life Balance | Young Han on Fatherhood, Business, Happiness"Work-Life Balance" is a buzzworthy phrase that has taken on new meaning since 2020. And it's a funny one, because it essentially divides your time into two camps: Work... and everything else. As parents, we all strive to set boundaries such that when we're NOT working, we can be present with our family or rediscover our sense of self... but it's rarely as simple as it sounds. In fact, Young Han, an entrepreneur, business consultant, and father who has ownership in over a dozen companies, would argue that human beings aren't even programmed to segment our lives in that way...
2023-07-2146 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Understanding Our Digital Footprint | Marc Groman on Online Privacy for KidsOne of the most important things we must drive home to our children before putting a device in their hand, according to Privacy Professional Marc Groman, is that what they share on the internet should be treated as public and permanent... even if they only intend for one person to see it. Groman, who served in the Obama administration as chair of the Federal Privacy Council and Senior Advisor for Privacy in the White House, joins us to discuss kids and online privacy. This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. Episode 88 of Modern Dadhood opens with t...
2023-07-0746 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Raising Privacy-Conscious Kids in the Digital Age | Marc Groman on Fatherhood and PrivacyWe've all heard (or experienced) the horror stories around cyber bullying, the consequences of sexting, or kids accidentally blowing through thousands of dollars on a popular video game. And as dads, contemplating how (and when) to grant our kids access to certain types of technology can be overwhelming. But even beyond which social media accounts or how much screen time we allow, it's imperative that they understand privacy. It's a big, loaded word, and thankfully there are experts like Marc Groman who can help us understand the important benefits of protecting one's privacy... and the very real threats when...
2023-06-2350 min
Keeping Up With Chaos From the Booth & BeyondThe Art of Creative Dad Chaos | Adam Flaherty & Marc ChecketS4, EP 130 - Jozlyn, Gaby & Angela chat with hosts of Modern Dadhood podcast - Adam Flaherty & Marc Checket. Jozlyn met Adam at Podfest and immediately thought him and his co-host, Marc, would be great guests to have on our podcast. They started their podcast, Modern Dadhood, a bit before the pandemic. Adam and Marc celebrate dads as they navigate the joys, challenges, and general insanity (CHAOS) that comes along with being a father. They explore the fatherhood experience through authentic, not often had, conversations along with a healthy dose of laughter, sincerity, vulnerability, and 80s/90s nostalgia. They...
2023-06-0155 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Mother's Day 2023 | Revisiting The Mom TakeoverWe love and respect all the mothers all year 'round... and can't think of a better day than Mother's Day to turn the show over to our wives to let them catch up about "modern momhood." This episode features the "Mom Takeover" by Sarah Flaherty and Jamie Checket, originally shared in June of 2021.With little instruction and a batch of questions and prompts to address at their will, Sarah and Jamie jumped right into conversation about motherhood. They covered topics such as:• How they learned about (and didn't learn about) the "Mom Takeover" concept
2023-05-1952 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Being Cool With Not Being Cool Anymore | Chris Gethard on Fatherhood, Being Lame[This is part 2 of a 2 part conversation] In "The Lonely Dad Conversations," comedian Chris Gethard interviews a dozen dads to explore commonalities between their fatherhood journeys. What he finds, is that, plain and simple, when we become dads, we turn pretty lame. That's not to say that becoming a parent isn't an amazing, powerful, and positive life change, but think about it... are you as cool as you used to be before you had kids? Me neither. Chris joins us to laugh, ponder, and dissect some of the recurring themes in "The Lonely Dad Conversations."In Episode 84 o...
2023-04-1439 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Raising Digital Natives | Tom Adjemian on Screen Time, Privacy, FatherhoodRemember AOL Instant Messenger? ICQ? Friendster? Do you recall the excitement and curiosity of exploring these platforms and connecting with new people? The internet was new, and our parents were either learning it alongside us... or maybe not interested in it at all. Either way, for many of us, our parents were not closely monitoring our exploration of the internet, or even aware of the inherent risks. Our kids are growing up in a very (very) different world, and as parents, it's our job to ensure they develop a healthy and safe relationship with the technology which will only...
2023-03-1740 min
The Blissful Parenting PodcastModern Dadhood with Adam Flaherty and Marc ChecketThere’s a sea of mom’s podcasts out there, but just a handful for dads. Our dads also need support. They need a place where they can celebrate the exciting and rewarding things about having kids and about being dads. They also need a place where they can vent out their struggles and express their vulnerability.Adam Flaherty and Marc Checket started The Modern Dadhood podcast, to set up a community where dads can have a conversation about their joy, their hardships and those insanities of being a dad in this time. Adam and Marc share with...
2023-01-0239 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Normalizing Autism One Kid at a Time | Joe Mandravelis on Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), FatherhoodJoe Mandravelis was about to become a dad to twins when he and his wife learned their two year old daughter had Autism Spectrum Disorder. What they also learned, was having one child with autism means any other children you have are 20 times more likely to be on the spectrum. Joe joins Modern Dadhood to discuss the joys, challenges, and general insanity of raising three amazing and powerful kids who each need support in unique ways as they navigate through school, therapies, and social situations.Episode 78 of Modern Dadhood releases the day before Christmas Eve eve, 2022. The...
2022-12-2341 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Diversity, Equity, & Inclusion | Jermaine Moore on Fatherhood, Raising Empathetic KidsEveryone wants to belong. According to Jermaine Moore, to feel welcome, respected, seen, and heard, comes second only to our human desire to be loved. That's why Jermaine, a father of four, has devoted his career to teaching and training business leaders on the vital importance (and proven benefits) of prioritizing Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion in the workplace, while also teaching young people, including his own children, the true value of empathy. Jermaine joins the Modern Dadhood conversation to share some wisdom about DEI, raising empathetic children, and why he's so encouraged by today's youth. Ep...
2022-12-0936 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Breaking Down The Mystery of Money | Chris Miles on Financial Freedom + FatherhoodAs if there isn’t enough we parents have to keep straight between juggling work, kids’ schedules, meal prep, endless laundry, and maybe the occasional workout sesh… And on top of it all, we’re expected to manage our finances and plan for the future. When money is abundant, this can be a fun and exciting challenge. But when money is scarce, it can be a colossal source of stress. Self-proclaimed “Anti-Financial Advisor” Chris Miles, father of 8 and host of Money Ripples, joins Adam and Marc to dispel some money myths, share advice directly from his personal experiences, and educate us o...
2022-08-2638 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Superpower: Unlocked | Jeff Fajans on the Benefits of Creative ThinkingAnnouncement: Modern Dadhood is featured in the August 2022 issue of Podcast Magazine! Subscribe at http://podcastmagazine.com or follow Modern Dadhood on Facebook or LinkedIn to view the article.Part of being a parent is helping to teach our kids to have—and utilize—a creative mindset. And even though sometimes it can be a struggle to bring a creative idea to life, there are plenty of lessons to be learned from the process itself. Jeff Fajans, a Creative Performance & Executive Coach, joins Adam and Marc to chat about the potential benefits of carving out time in our l...
2022-08-0539 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Creating A Safe Place To Fail | Pete Murray on Boy Scouts, Leadership, FatherhoodThere’s no argument that we, as humans, learn from our mistakes. As we grow, we apply learnings from our negative or challenging experiences in order to be happier, more comfortable, or more prepared in the future. As parents though, it can be a challenge to give our children the opportunity to fail at something—especially when we have the foresight to see it coming and the ability to prevent it. But is it doing our kids justice if we always shield them from the often valuable lessons that come from failing? Our guest Pete Murray, a father of two...
2022-07-2235 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Workaholics Anonymous | Matt Fox on Balance, Fulfillment, FatherhoodThough the phrase “work/life balance” has taken on new meaning in recent years, the concept is one that many parents struggle to achieve. Balance is a very individual thing, but at its core, it’s about identifying what’s important to us and consciously making time for those things. Matt Fox coaches men to live happy and fulfilled lives as dads and working professionals. Matt joins Modern Dadhood to share some wisdom. Afterward, Marc shares a blasphemous So That's a Thing Now.Episode 69 of Modern Dadhood opens with the guys catching up on Marc's 4 year old fraterna...
2022-07-0842 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Setting The Fatherhood Foundation | Kendall Smith on First Time FatherhoodFirst time dads-to-be might receive a satiric book from a friend or relative on "how not to screw up" as they experience the first year of fatherhood. And sure, there's value in step-by-step instructions on executing the perfect swaddle... but what about remembering to communicate respectfully with your partner when you both are at the end of your rope? And what about being a role model to your child when you might not have had a dad who was a role model for you? Author (and dad) Kendall Smith addresses this and more in his new playbook for first-time...
2022-06-1740 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Looking at Problems With Perspective | Ben Feller on Fatherhood, Empathy, Problem SolvingIt's easy to get frustrated when your kid loses their mind over something that you know is inconsequential. The old adage "don't sweat the small stuff" doesn't really apply when they don't have enough life experience to know what the "small stuff" even is. As parents, with decades of life experience under our belts, it's our job to help them examine the actual magnitude of their problems. (And if we're lucky, maybe the next problem they encounter will involve less theatrics.) Ben Feller, former Chief White House Correspondent and father to 10-year-old Sam, joins us to shed some light...
2022-06-0337 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Searching For Answers on Masculinity | Michael Ian Black on Manhood, Strength, VulnerabilityThe concept of masculinity is straight-up intimidating to even begin to comprehend. There’s no real cut-and-dry definition. Like so many big concepts, it’s far easier to throw your hands up and say, “it’s too complicated!” rather than commit to understanding the topic more deeply. Luckily for us, comedian Michael Ian Black has spent countless hours exploring masculinity. In his book A Better Man, he approaches what it means to be masculine through an open letter to his teenage son. His musings pave a clear path for any father, son, mother, daughter (or, incidentally, saber-tooth tiger) to approach th...
2022-05-2035 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)She / Her / DAD | Tessa White on Trans FatherhoodWhat does it mean to be a dad? Does it require a certain degree of commitment to loving, protecting, and raising your offspring to bestow the title of dad? Or at its most basic, are you a dad if you've used your penis to procreate with a woman? In episode 64, Tessa White, a transgender woman and parent of 5, joins the Modern Dadhood conversation to declare proudly that you don't even have to be a MAN to be a DAD. Have a different opinion? Go pound sand. Episode 64 of Modern Dadhood opens with an ASMR exercise from M...
2022-04-1544 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Dad on Pills (Part 2) | Chris Gethard on Parenting and Mental IllnessHow do you prepare for the day when your toddler is old enough to uncover a part of you that they didn't know existed? Comedian, writer, podcaster, and dad Chris Gethard opens up candidly about his fear of this inevitable day in this second half of our our interview. Be sure to listen for a heart warming surprise during the conversation. After, Adam ruminates on a recent Instant Regret involving a beloved doll we'll call "Baby Baby." This interview with Chris Gethard is part two of two. [Listen to part one here.] Use this link for a f...
2022-04-0145 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Dad on Pills (Part 1) | Chris Gethard on Mental Health, Fatherhood, VulnerabilityThere’s no definitive guidebook to parenthood. (It would sure be a lot easier if there were though, huh?) In episode 62, Adam and Marc wax lyrical with comedian, actor, writer, fellow podcaster, and dad Chris Gethard about toddler poop, fatherhood fears, vulnerability, and destigmatizing mental illness. With Chris’ essay Dad On Pills serving as a guidepost, the conversation explores Chris’ determination to normalize the conversation around mental health. After, Marc shares a mildly macabre incident in the segment "Did I Just Say That Out Loud?" This interview with Chris Gethard is part one of two.Use this link f...
2022-03-1841 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Nurturing Healthy Food Habits For Our Kids | Joel Feren on Fatherhood, Diet, NutritionDoes this sound familiar: You painstakingly prepare a delicious, balanced dinner. Next, you curate the food on plates in a way that definitely highlights your attention to detail. Then, finally, you set the culinary masterpiece in front of your kids to a chorus of moans and gags. Instead of a “looks delicious!” you get an “ew gross!"... Heartbreaking, right? Thankfully, there are dads like Joel Feren, accredited Nutritionist and Dietician, who are willing to drop some mealtime wisdom while commiserating right along with us. Joel—known as “The Nutrition Guy”—talks with Adam and Marc about encouraging healthy food choices and wh...
2022-03-0450 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Being You, Unapologetically | Owen Janes on Acceptance, Self Confidence, Influencing Young PeopleEver find yourself scrolling, and suddenly you’re thumb to face with someone so striking it stops you in your tracks? You click through and find that even though their content may not directly apply to you, the creator has a magnetic energy that draws you in? That’s Owen Janes, a sales professional-turned-influencer whose social media presence shares an important message of love, acceptance, and self-confidence through quirky lip-syncing and beard care tutorials. Owen joins the Modern Dadhood conversation to chat about his magnificent ginger hair, Viking-inspired beard, and positive influence on young people. Don’t duck out before...
2022-02-1840 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Finding Balance as a New Dad | Matt Gourley on Fatherhood, Establishing Personal PrioritiesBecoming a new parent can be a special kind of mayhem. Add a global pandemic into the mix, and the chaos of the first few months are elevated to a new level. But depending on your situation, those challenges may be coupled with opportunity. In Episode 59, podcaster, producer, actor, and all around creative human, Matt Gourley, joins the conversation to discuss the joys, challenges, and insanity of new fatherhood—and how this shift has helped him discover some new perspective on what’s truly important. Episode 59 of Modern Dadhood kicks off with a short discussion about the p...
2022-02-0436 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Fatherhood, Art, and Intergalactic Portals | "Louie and Bear" Author Brady SmithWhen Brady Smith takes something on, he goes all in on it. Whether it’s raising his two children, being a devoted husband, designing and painting a 12 foot wide mural, or keeping an illustrated journal EVERY DAY for 20 years, Brady gives it 100%. Adam and Marc talk with Brady—an artist, actor, and author—about his latest endeavor: creating a fun-filled action-adventure graphic novel series complete with secret portals and a bear-sized hamster. After the interview, stick around to hear Marc’s latest Instant Regret. Episode 58, the final Modern Dadhood episode of 2021, opens with some reflection by Marc and...
2021-12-1739 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Adam's Top 5Through the last 50 plus episodes, the conversations on Modern Dadhood have ranged from silly to serious, covered topics from dealing with big emotions to what it’s like raising children when you live on a boat. The guys have been joined by an assemblage of old friends, new friends, and, on occasion, notable celebs. Two episodes ago (Ep 55), Marc ushered a trip down memory lane sharing 5 of his favorite selections from our conversations. Now it's Adam's turn!Episode 57 of Modern Dadhood opens with a brief conversation about Thanksgiving, and the guys commiserate about the picky eating ha...
2021-12-0338 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)The Roadmap To Dadhood | Fatherly's Tyghe Trimble on Communication, Social Life, RoughhousingTry to transport yourself back to the months before you became a dad. What did the word "fatherhood" mean to you? Prior to kids, your definition may have been colored by your relationship with your own father. Would your current definition of "fatherhood" be different? Modern Dadhood welcomes Thyge Trimble, father of two, and Editor in Chief of Fatherly, to chat about his team's new book, aptly titled "Fatherhood." The book has something for everyone—whether you're a dad-to-be or a seasoned professional. Also, things get dark in a new installment of "Confessions."Modern Dadhood Episode 56 op...
2021-11-1935 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Marc's Top 5Through the last 50 plus episodes, the conversations on Modern Dadhood have ranged from silly to serious, covered topics from dealing with big emotions to what it’s like raising children when you live on a boat. The guys have been joined by an assemblage of old friends, new friends, and, on occasion, notable celebs. In episode 55, Adam and Marc take a slight detour from the usual banter/interview/recurring segment format and take a trip down memory lane. In the first of a two-part series, Marc recounts moments from five interviews that he found particularly insightful. We’ll hear Adam...
2021-11-0538 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Sometimes Good Things Take Time | Ryan Murphy's IVF Journey Part 2Previously, with guest Ryan Murphy, things got downright honest when he recounted his and his wife’s long and, at times challenging journey through IUI and now with IVF. In part two of the conversation, Adam and Marc get a real-time progress report. Also, the guys unveil a new Mike-Birbiglia-inspired segment: Instant Regret. [This is part two of a two-part interview.][Click here to listen to Part One of Modern Dadhood's conversation with Ryan Murphy]The guys open episode 54 by continuing their conversation about some challenges with one of Marc's twins before returning to...
2021-10-2236 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)An Arduous Path Toward Parenthood | Ryan Murphy's IVF Journey Part 1Natural conception, in vitro fertilization, intrauterine insemination, adoption... Heck, even accidental pregnancy. The path to parenthood can take many forms. For some, it’s more arduous than others. Long-time friend of Marc, fellow podcaster, and all-around great guy, Ryan Murphy joins the show to share his and his wife’s journey with IVF. Things even get a little... personal here and there. At the top of the show, Adam obliges a much-need therapy session for Marc. [This is part one of a two-part interview.]In Episode 53 of Modern Dadhood, the guys open with a discussion around a stre...
2021-10-0832 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Work From Home Dadding | Pete Morse on Entrepreneurship, Fatherhood, WFHFor the last year and a half, many parents have been forced to adjust their work schedules to accommodate online learning, changes to child care, and more. For some of us, working from home has become second nature. For others of us, it's a chosen lifestyle. Today's guest is Pete Morse, a name you hear in the credits of each episode. Pete is a sound engineer, mixer, musician, and composer who constructed his state-of-the-art studio "Red Vault Audio" off the side of his house, awarding him the flexibility to work non-traditional hours and be more present with his wife...
2021-09-2434 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Fatherhood Lessons From The Bedside | "Nurse Papa" David Metzger on Love, Life, and LossOne might expect that a career spent in a hospital caring for sick children and grieving families would be a terribly depressing way to spend your life… but it’s all about perspective. Pediatric Oncology Nurse, David Metzger, uses words like "laughter" and "joy" when describing a typical day caring for children battling cancer. And at the end of his shift, he carries new lessons home to his wife and his two healthy kids, with an enlightened perspective on fatherhood and life. David joins us to share stories of love, life, and loss, and to chat about his book (and...
2021-09-1033 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)How To Be A Feminist Dad | Jordan Shapiro on Feminism, Toxic Masculinity, MisconceptionsWhat is "feminism"? What does it mean to be a feminist? Is it for women only? Do feminists hate men? As it turns out, there are many misconceptions about what it means to be a feminist. We invited professor, author, thought leader, and dad, Jordan Shapiro, to discuss what feminism REALLY means... and how as dads, we can actively work to be better parents and better people.Episode 50 finds Marc and Adam returning from a short Summer hiatus, and after a brief catch-up, they dive head first into a topic which they both are painfully unqualified t...
2021-08-2739 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Learning to be a Son and a Father | Craig Melvin on his book "Pops"Have you ever sat down to interview one of your parents? It’s not always an easy task—even for someone who interviews influential people for a living! Adam and Marc welcome guest Craig Melvin, father of two and acclaimed news anchor/personality on Dateline NBC and The Today Show, to discuss his new book “Pops: Learning To Be A Son And A Father.” Listen to the end of the episode for a round of “Confessions.”Episode 49 opens with a brief reflection on the show; specifically, how our collective experiences as dads can share so many similarities...
2021-07-3036 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)The Dad I Never Knew | Hypnotist Paul Ramsay Redefines "Family"What does the word "family" mean to you? Is it your immediate blood relatives with whom you share DNA? Or can "family" be chosen based on interpersonal relationships, regardless of ancestry? And who gets to decide the official definition, if not each one of us individually? Today, Adam and Marc welcome guest Paul Ramsay, a certified hypnotist, to share a compelling story about the dad he never knew, and how his experience as a son redefined the word "family" for him. Also, Marc's boys go a bit wild with some new rubber drinking straws! Episode 48 f...
2021-07-1637 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Everything is Everything’s Everything | Ben Lee on Dadhood and LifeIn part two of the conversation, Adam and Marc jump back into things with Ben Lee after pausing while he fields a phone call from a child in distress. The. Dadding. Never. Stops. From there, the guys explore a willingness to discuss heavy topics, leading by example, the importance of balancing skill with intuition, and speaking to the kid inside the grown-up... really, a little bit of everything. Finally, stick around to the end to hear about Marc’s new musical side project: Stuffed Animal.Episode 47 is the second half of a two part conversation with songwriter, act...
2021-07-0230 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)The Science of Living | Ben Lee on Fatherhood, Culture, Lifelong LearningParents are teachers. Even those of us without degree in education. Our children are constantly observing us and learning from our behaviors, personalities, and how we navigate adventures, crises, relationships, and life in general. Musician, activist, and rockstar dad Ben Lee joins the conversation for a deep dive on fatherhood, leading by example, and promoting a love for lifelong learning to our children. Plus, Marc recalls a time he got the flop sweats, and Adam's children drive him to literally question his very sanity!Episode is Part 1 of a 2 Part conversation with the multi-talented artist Ben Lee.
2021-06-1838 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Mom Takeover! | Sarah Flaherty and Jamie Checket on Modern MomhoodEpisode 45 of the podcast takes a slight detour from the usual format. The guys turn their mics over to their wives and hand over a bowl full of questions for the podcast’s first-ever Mom Takeover. Sarah Flaherty and Jamie Checket chat about everything from dad tropes and mom myths to “aha!” moments and moody kids. Finally, some real talk from the moms behind the dads behind Modern Dadhood. Perhaps this is the beginning of an annual event.A concept originally teased in Episode 43, hosts Adam and Marc turn the show over to their wives, Sarah and Ja...
2021-06-0449 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)When Life Throws You a Curve Ball | Adam & Marc Talk Moms and LifeEpisode 44 of Modern Dadhood is a bit different than what you’ve grown accustomed to. Adam had a significant and deeply personal event in his life recently, spurring an impromptu recording session. The guys take a little time to catch up about family, life, and playing the role of dad—even if, at times, it’s hard to think about playing any other role besides son.Stay tuned for the Mother's Day "takeover" episode which will be our next release.Links:Red Vault AudioCaspar BabypantsSpencer AlbeeStuffed Animal
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2021-05-2133 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Hearing Beyond the Words | Richard Capriola on Adolescent Substance AbuseAt the end of the COVID tunnel, the thought of light is very appealing — 2020 was a whopper. The pandemic has affected us all differently. We’ve developed our own ways of navigating hurdles and managing emotional stress. Middle and high school kids faced unique challenges as they missed iconic milestones and were robbed of social lives. While drugs and alcohol have always been a concern for parents, 2020 saw a rise in addiction among adolescents looking for a coping mechanism. Author Richard Capriola brings decades of experience to the conversation and shares ideas on how parents can best support their kids...
2021-05-0735 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Do Twin Dads Do It Better? | Shaw Flick on the Joys and Challenges of Raising TwinsDoes being a parent to twins simply mean two of everything? There are certainly twice as many diapers to change, two bladders to potty train, and double the tears during teething. But to twin parents, the emotional impact and physical toll often feels more than double… it feels exponential. In this episode, Adam and Marc welcome Shaw Flick, a fellow dad of twins, to examine the unique challenges that twin parents endure. Also, Marc and his wife try not to bust a gut when their three-year-old son puts them in their place, in an installment of So That’s a Th...
2021-04-2335 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Behind The Dad Mask | Brian Manor on Anxiety, Mental Illness, FatherhoodAccording to the National Institute of Mental Health, nearly one in five adults in the U.S. lives with a mental illness. If anything, that statistic tells us that those who are struggling are not alone in their struggle. Still, reaching out for help can sometimes feel insurmountable. In this episode, guest Brian Manor, a dad to two, shares his personal story and talks openly about his challenges with clinical depression, social anxiety disorder, and seasonal affective disorder. Stick around to the end for another round of the infamous recurring segment, Confessions. Episode 41 opens with hosts Ad...
2021-04-0936 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)The Gang’s All Here | Sean Carrillo on Beck, Channing, and Step-FatherhoodSometimes, two people fall in love and choose to get married, one or both of those people have young children from a previous relationship, and a wonderful new blended family is formed. But it’s not always so clear cut. Enter Sean Carrillo, a media maker, technical director, writer, former-famous-coffee-shop-owner, and family man. Sean also happens to be the stepfather of accomplished musician Beck and artistic polymath Channing Hansen. Sean joins the Modern Dadhood conversation to discuss his family of artists, and how his parenting experience has felt a lot like hanging out with a group of friends. Also, fi...
2021-03-2636 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Stepdad? Nah... Bonus Dad | Rafael Torres on Step Parenting, Stigma, FatherhoodParenthood is a challenging adventure. And in a blended family, step parenting comes with its own set of unique obstacles. From custody arrangements to personal conflicts to social stigma, step-fatherhood, in particular, has developed a curious reputation over the decades. Rafael Torres, a father to two young daughters, (one biological and one step), shares perspective and advice that all dads could benefit from hearing—and why he prefers the term “Bonus Dad" to step dad all day long. Stick around to the end for the special subsegment of "So That’s A Thing Now:" So Those Are Things Now.
2021-03-1234 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Shared Values Make Tough Conversations Easier | Journalist Patrick Coleman on Questions, Opinions, Not Having All The AnswersHow do we maintain a positive dialogue with our kids when examples of adversity seem ever-present in daily life? Journalist and Parenting Editor at Fatherly, Patrick Coleman, joins Adam and Marc to discuss how a set of family values can provide a foundation for engaging in challenging conversations. And how complex, real-world examples, if framed the right way, can be valuable in helping our kids become resilient. Also, the guys each take a deep breath and leap into another installment of the fan-favorite segment, Confessions. [This is part one of a two-part interview.]Episode 38 is Part 2 of a...
2021-02-2634 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Heavy Topics, Young Minds | Patrick Coleman of Fatherly on Tragedy, Honesty, FatherhoodOur world is full of big, heavy topics: War, politics, racial injustice, poverty... The list goes on. What’s the best way for dads and moms to approach these topics with our kids? Do we let them come to us? Avoid them at all costs? Hope that through some combination of teachers, YouTubers, and headlines, our kids will draw their own conclusion? Adam and Marc sit down with Patrick Coleman, father of two and Parenting Editor at Fatherly, to discuss his work exploring big topics, and sometimes big feelings, with our children. Plus, Adam’s kids learn a new phra...
2021-02-1235 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)The Ailing Dad And The Urgent Donation | John Dorlean on Fatherhood, COVID, GratitudeAt a rare moment of peak polarization in American history, John Dorlean, a hospitalized father of three, receives an anonymous, crucial donation of convalescent plasma to combat his intensifying case of COVID-19. An article shared thousands of times over 24 hours, along with a bit of good timing, just may have saved John’s life. Episode 36 opens with an examination of "viral" content and some of the key factors that result in content being shared widely. The guys declare that beyond inimitable fail videos captured by accident, outrageous unicorns pooping rainbow sherbet, or tug-at-the-heartstrings branded content, there is a...
2021-01-2935 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)From Green Slime To Story Time | Danny Tamberelli on Nickelodeon, Nostalgia, FatherhoodA Day-Glo orange splatter of paint. A geyser of green slime. A seductive forearm tattoo named Petunia. If this doesn't conjure up some serious nostalgia, you either weren't a kid in the 90s, or your mom banned you from watching Nickelodeon. We invited Nick veteran and new dad Danny Tamberelli to the podcast to chat about growing up in the spotlight and how fatherhood is treating him 19 months into his journey. Tune in to find out whether Danny and Adam have actually been cosmically linked ever since one fateful day in 1997 at Universal Studios. Also, Marc exclaims profanities as...
2021-01-1535 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)A Father Facing Mortality | Robert Bailey on Building a LegacyDo you ponder your own death? Is it something you worry about? Wonder when it will happen? Did your perspective on death change when you became a father? Death is inevitable, and it can be uncomfortable, even stressful to talk about, especially when children are in the picture. For Robert Bailey, this is a familiar conversation. Robert has stage 4 cancer which started in his bladder and has taken over his body in just over two years’ time, leaving him no option but to prepare for the inevitable much sooner than anyone should. Robert joins us to share about his fa...
2020-12-1837 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Astronaut Dad | Captain Winston Scott on STEM, Fatherhood, and Outer SpaceReal talk: What’s more remarkable than being an astronaut? Being an astronaut dad, that’s what. Adam and Marc are joined by former astronaut Winston E. Scott, who shares stories of his NASA space missions, his tenure as a US Navy Captain, the crucial importance of STEM education, and his own unique perspective on raising children to be bold, confident adults. Also, learn the answer to the burning question on everyone’s minds… what the hell is Adam’s middle name? Modern Dadhood episode 32 opens with Marc and Adam playing a halfhearted game of “guess each others’...
2020-12-0434 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)It Takes A Village To Raise A Child | Seth Romano on Divorce and Single FatherhoodSingle parenthood is a common phenomenon and it occurs for a number of reasons, the most common of which is divorce. In the United States alone, an estimated 2.4 million divorces take place each year, many of them involving children. Seth Romano, a Los Angeles-based musician and single father of one joins the Modern Dadhood conversation to share his personal story of realization that he wasn't happy as a married person, and how he and his daughter's mother, and their families have worked together to create a positive situation where their seven-year-old can thrive. Also, Adam and Marc own up...
2020-11-1935 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Daredevil Dad | Peter Shankman on ADHD, Skydiving, and FatherhoodRemember life before kids? We did things a certain way, we went places, we stayed up late, had hobbies, and some of us were even thrill seekers. Did that change when kids came into the picture? Or were you able to strike a balance between caring for kids and doing things for you? Peter Shankman, a best-selling author, entrepreneur, Ironman triathlete, and single dad, joins the show to talk about his experiences with balancing things in his “Faster Than Normal” life. Plus, in a new installment of So That’s a Thing Now we learn about the latest questionable thing...
2020-11-0633 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Discovering The Hidden Gems | Jon Klassen on Publishing Picture Books for KidsWe all have them: Those kids’ books we were gifted or we picked up on a whim because the title was intriguing or the characters were familiar. But then we crack them open, and BAM— total schlock. With the sheer amount of content for children out there, it's increasingly difficult to find the good stuff; the content that inspires wonder. The types of shows, movies, and books we remember loving as kids. Jon Klassen, father of two and celebrated author and illustrator of I Want My Hat Back, joins us to talk about his thoughts on creating books that kids...
2020-10-2335 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Deconstructing The Dad Bod | PappaStrong's Courtney Wyckoff On Fatherhood PhysiqueThe Dad Bod: Is it a myth? A legend? A joke? Does it happen to all dads? How can we avoid it? Or better yet, how can we effectively combat if we choose to? Modern Dadhood welcomes its first female guest, Courtney Wyckoff, to the conversation. Courtney’s success as a Certified Personal Trainer and the creator of MommaStrong/PappaStrong gives her unique insight into some of the real underlying issues that spawn postpartum changes in dads’ bodies. Spoiler alert: it’s more than just having a “beer gut.” Plus, we survey our favorite fatherhood Facebook group to hear first hand...
2020-10-0935 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Regression, Rewards, and Puddles on Floors | Evan Ozimek-Maier on Potty TrainingEvery parent hopes to cruise through potty training so they can be rewarded with the sweet liberty of a diaper-free lifestyle. But sometimes the toilet training journey is less of a cruise and more of a crawl… or worse yet, a series of fits and starts. Marc and his wife Jamie know this journey all too well as they’re currently navigating the harsh (and sometimes messy) terrain with their twin boys. Guest Evan Ozimek-Maier, along with his wife and two-year-old daughter, on the other hand, are just buckling in. Will they discover the perfect technique? Will they encounter regr...
2020-09-2534 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Rethinking Back to School | High School Teacher Jon L’Ecuyer on The Contentious Return To LearningEntering into a new school year is anxiety-inducing as it is. This year, for many parents it feels like teetering on a precipice— each way down lined with more questions than answers. We sit down with Jon L’Ecuyer, a high school Government teacher and dad to a second grade daughter, to discuss the choices that his family is contemplating. We talk navigating hybrid learning models, juggling homeschooling with working from home, getting creative with hands-on assignments, and the myriad other back to school considerations. Also, find out whether Marc’s kids share his preferred method of eating an ice cr...
2020-08-2831 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Father Figure, On Camera And Off | Sesame Street’s Emilio Delgado on Being a Role Model and DadImagine, if you will, you’re a young Latino man in your late twenties living in Los Angeles. You’ve just had your first child and you’re pounding the pavement, working your ass off to land any acting gig you can get. And then one day the telephone rings, and the opportunity of a lifetime presents itself… three thousand miles away. That’s the beginning of Emilio Delgado’s journey as both a father and an esteemed actor best known for portraying the beloved Luis Rodriguez on Sesame Street. Emilio joins us on Modern Dadhood to discuss being a father to...
2020-07-3134 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)The Father My Father Never Was | Andre Jalil on Absentee Dads and Black Fatherhood in AmericaHow often does your kid do something so funny, cute, smart, or outrageous that you wish you could capture it and share it with the world? (And how often do you follow through on that?) Multi-talented content creator and father of one, Andre Jalil, is a master of documenting life with his-two year-old daughter Lyric Sanaa on video. The result is a treasure trove of hilarious and heart melting content that leaves no doubt that Andre, who grew up without his own father, embraces and adores his role as Lyric’s dad.Most episodes of Modern Da...
2020-07-1732 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Bedtime Stories I Tell My Kids, But Maybe Shouldn't | Author Michael Addis on Honesty and FatherhoodTake a moment to think back across your life. Do you have certain experiences that have always resonated with you, whether significant or unremarkable? Commercial director, editor, show runner, and author Michael Addis has spent years documenting his favorite life stories, and he joins the Modern Dadhood conversation to share about his new book Who’s Your Daddy?: Bedtime Stories I Tell My Kids, But Maybe Shouldn’t. Mike shares some wisdom about honesty and the value of being open and direct with our kids about complex issues, dealing with life’s pitfalls, and questioning the narrative. Also, the the lo...
2020-07-0333 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Putting Your Soul Into Dadhood | Martin Sexton on Fatherhood, Following Your BlissWhether it's singing your heart out on stage or spending an afternoon smashing rocks into a lake with a Wiffle ball bat, our kids learn valuable lessons when they see their dad immersed in something he loves. To kick off Father's Day weekend, the guys share the qualities of a solid Father's Day, and Marc waxes philosophical about the values he took away from his own father's woodworking hobby. They welcome legendary musician, dad, and all-around soulful human being, Martin Sexton onto the show and have a marvelous conversation about passion, soul, heartbreak, and fatherhood. And we learn to...
2020-06-1935 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Finding Adventure In Active Duty | US ARMY Officer Kevin White on Military FatherhoodThe military lifestyle can be hard. Uncertainty and risk are ever-present, and that stress can affect family members just as much as the active duty soldier... Perhaps even more. US Army Officer and dad of one daughter, Kevin White, shares openly about his family's experience navigating a challenging, rewarding, and often nomadic military lifestyle. Plus, Marc shares about a recent trip to the ER. And, in a new segment called "Confessions," Adam reveals a deep dark secret that might just make his kids lose their very minds.Marc begins another remote recording session by recounting a...
2020-06-0532 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Expanding The Definition of Creativity | Chris Ballew on Fatherhood, Raising Creative KidsHow do you define creativity? If we encourage our kids to be creative, will they be more successful in life? Adam and Marc explore the topic of creativity with Chris Ballew, lead singer of Presidents of the United States of America, creator of Caspar Babypants, and, dare we say, friend of the show. Also, the trials of talking to our kids about how to say no when something feels off. And what was Marc's childhood buffoonery that should have cursed him with gingivitis for life? Episode 17 opens with a discussion on... you guessed it: creativity. Why i...
2020-05-2233 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Raising Our Boys To Be Respectful Men | Ted Bunch on Gender, Consent, FatherhoodGender inequality. Vulnerability. Consent. No doubt, these can be tough subjects to broach with our sons. But if we hope to raise our boys to be respectful, emotionally healthy men, then these are conversations which must be had. Adam explores these themes and more with father of six and Chief Development Officer of A CALL TO MEN, Ted Bunch. Plus, Marc has yet another awkward, dairy-themed encounter with his kids. As life in quarantine continues, Adam and Marc dig in on the topic of talking to boys about valuing women as equals. This sparks a deeper ex...
2020-05-0835 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Comedy In The Time Of Covid | THE DAD's Matt Fisher on Humor, Dad Jokes, and QuarantineHumor can be a welcomed distraction for the writer, reader, performer, and audience alike. And in times of despair, it can be hard to make heads or tails of what’s funny. Matt Fisher, comedian, writer, and on-screen talent with The Dad, joins the podcast to wax about why the role of dad is so ripe for comedy. Things get a wee bit deep as we discuss how a shift from sarcastic and cynical comedy to sincerity and empathy has the potential to bring people together and encourage escapism. Plus, Adam discovers breathing, and Marc gets his punchline stolen.
2020-04-2430 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)(LIVE) Nostalgia And Ninja Turtles | TMNT Artist Steve Lavigne on Comics, Kids, DadhoodNostalgia, man. It can be brought on by an errant lego or a beloved movie. A longing affection for days gone by can be nearly overwhelming, especially when we catch our own children staring, transfixed at a Matchbox car. For Adam and Marc, the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles are a catalyst for a nostalgic trip. In this special, partly live episode, our hosts meet with Steve Lavigne, one of the original TMNT artists, to talk about his experiences and, of course, nostalgia.Episode 14 finds Adam and Marc on stage at 3S Artspace in Portsmouth, NH after...
2020-04-1032 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Protecting My Kid During A Crisis | Kevin Sturtevant on Fear and FatherhoodFor most dads, when our first child is born, a switch flips inside our brains which alerts us that we're now responsible for protecting another human... and we'll go to extremes to fulfill that responsibility. But how do we protect our kids from an intangible, invisible threat that upends our daily routines and challenges our stability? Kevin Sturtevant shares the story of his six-year-old son Sam's high risk infancy and dangerous vulnerability to viruses like Covid-19, and what his family is doing to stay safe during an uncertain time.Episode 13 finds Adam in self-isolation, recording at...
2020-03-2731 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)The Unlearning Process | Stephen Stratton on Transgender ParentingThe mission of Modern Dadhood is to meet and learn from dads whose fatherhood experiences are different than our own. In this episode, guest Stephen Stratton gives us some new perspective and helps us realize the transgender taboo we grew up with doesn't exist in the same way for our kids. If we can bypass the stubborn notion that we might offend someone by asking the wrong question, we might find there’s a ton we have in common simply by being present, engaged dads.Adam begins Episode 12 by recalling the recent “sweetheart dance” he attended with h...
2020-03-1335 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Making Presence A Priority | Musician Tyler Ramsey on Focused FatherhoodThis world is full of distractions. And those nagging distractions often pull us away from the people we care about the most. Tyler Ramsey, solo artist and former songwriter and lead guitarist for Band Of Horses, has actively worked to create a life for his family that reduces distraction and promotes living in the moment. In this episode, he shares that when he’s not touring the world on a bus, a slower-paced, self-sufficient lifestyle leads to a deeper connection with nature and his family. To kick off the 11th episode of Modern Dadhood, Adam and Mar...
2020-02-2830 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Spose: The Full ConversationThis conversation with rapper Spose is an extended version of the conversation on the topic of music that demands our kids' attention, featured in Modern Dadhood Episode 5. We understand that with the short-form nature of our show (30 minute episodes), sometimes the conversations with our guests leave our listeners wanting more. Our conversation about Spose was a particularly fun one, which we feel warrants its own episode. Laugh along as we discuss fatherhood, music, and topics such like:• The pros (and cons) of Alexa• The days of requesting a song on the radio• The dea...
2020-02-2141 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)The Fun Dad Dilemma | Greg Kretschmar on Dad Pranks, RespectAre you a dad who loves pulling pranks? Are you unable to stop goofing around with your kids, even when it's past their bedtime? Would your spouse say that you're the "fun dad"? If so, this episode is for you. We rap with legendary radio personality Greg Kretschmar about how to maintain authority as the dad, when you also seek the mischief and companionship of a friend.Episode 9 finds Adam and Marc discussing the thrill of playing a good prank, and the joys and challenges of being a playful parent. Guest Greg Kretschmar shares his own "...
2020-02-1429 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Balancing Fame With Fatherhood | Actor Terry O'Quinn on Parenting, LOST, Getting RecognizedYou might be known as “sir” to your subordinates, “doc” to your patients, or “officer” to the person you're handcuffing. But to your kids, you're just plain old "dad"... even when you're on the big screen opposite Luke Wilson or expertly throwing knives on The Island. In Episode 7, we chat with veteran actor Terry O’Quinn about his on screen roles, as well as the role he didn't have to audition for: Hunter and Oliver's dad.In Episode 7, Marc and Adam commiserate about heartbreaking daycare drop offs and the importance of consistency and routine. They introduce guest Terry O...
2020-01-3129 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Carpe Diem, Kids! | Peter Jude Ricciardi on Fatherhood and Following Your DreamsMaking your own way, seizing the day, putting yourself out there. Describe it however you like, but Peter Jude Ricciardi is here to tell you that if you put in the effort, step out of your comfort zone, and don't be afraid to "fake it 'til you make it," you can achieve great things. The best part? Your kids are observing and learning from your work ethic!In episode 6, we discuss the merits of talking to our kids about pursuing their passions. Adam confesses his dream of once wanting to become a game show host (despite his...
2020-01-2329 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Songs, And The Kids Who Demand to Hear Them | Rapper Spose on Fatherhood and MusicHave you had it up to your ears with “Into The Unknown”? Or is your kid more of the “Shake it Off” type? Music can create memories, influence decisions, drive creativity, and can even become the lens through which you view the world around you. We thought someone who writes, performs, and produces awesome songs might possess unique insight into why certain music captivates our kids. Rapper (and dad of 4) Spose proved us right, and dropped some science. In Episode 5, Adam shares a story of a close call involving his kindergarten-aged daughter's tongue and an icy cold meta...
2020-01-1629 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)Making Memories and Building Self Reliance | Justin Kelcourse on Boat LifeSome parents take their kids to Disney. Some visit Grandma in Boise every July. And some move their family into a small boat for most of the year. Justin Kelcourse, a real estate agent and father of two, shares with us how he and his partner manage to raise their family on a boat. In Episode 4, Marc shares the top three most useful travel tips that he put to use on a recent family vacation with his wife and twin toddlers. Marc and Adam discuss vacation-planning strategies, what types of experiences may leave a lasting impression o...
2020-01-0929 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)I'm Not Crying, You're Crying | Christian Hayes on VulnerabilityDads have emotions too, and sometimes those emotions make your eyes leak all over your face. It's nothing to be ashamed of, but it is something that makes you wonder: Are other dads out there letting their emotions all hang out? We chat with Christian Hayes, father of two, ex-rock star and current restauranteur star about emotional vulnerability.In this episode of Modern Dadhood, Marc and Adam catch up about the stinkiest smells from their kids, and the things that make them emotionally vulnerable dads.Guest Christian Hayes shares of his own vulnerabilities as the...
2020-01-0129 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)When Our Schedules Don't Align | Josh Cecot on ParentingPeople have to work, no mystery there. What is a mystery, though, is how best to make sense out of busy schedules when kids are in the picture. Do you want to know who holds the key to that mystery? Us too! That's why we talked with Josh Cecot, someone who juggles an irregular schedule as the General Manager of a restaurant with being a husband and a dad of two.In this episode of Modern Dadhood, Marc and Adam commiserate about the aches and pains that come with getting older, and about graduating from a...
2019-12-3129 min
Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)The SetupWelcome to Modern Dadhood, an ongoing conversation about the joys, challenges, and general insanity of being a dad in this moment. Meet the hosts Adam Flaherty and Marc Checket, and enjoy the first installment of "So, That's a Thing Now!"In our introductory episode, Adam Flaherty and Marc introduce themselves, reveal the inspiration behind starting Modern Dadhood, and set the stage for what you can expect from the podcast moving forward. Links:Anchor LineCalypso AgencyCaspar BabypantsSpencer AlbeeSpencer Explores the Universe
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2019-12-2916 min