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All Things Black & WhiteGone Too LongOn this episode, my wife and I discuss:
Is it easy for you to forgive? What does forgiveness look like?
Are you going to hold past mistakes against someone? Allow people to grow....
What does that say about the person harboring that resentment vs. the person who made a mistake, corrected it and living their life...
Do you think people fall in love or grow in love?
2021-07-2936 minAll Things Black & WhiteStrong WomenOn this episode:
We discuss how important is motherhood? Do mothers get the credit they deserve? What is your favorite thing about being a mother? Is it fair to compare fathers and mothers? Because there are "dead beat" moms out there and fathers doing both roles...
What is a quality you think you got from your mother or grandmother? What quality would you want Alanna to get from you as a mother? Whose a woman you look up to that isn’t your mother?
My wife and I are joined by Jada Brown. A l...
2021-05-2848 minAll Things Black & WhiteLet's Get Right To ItOn this episode:
My wife and I discuss TV shows and Documentaries we have been watching and how they pertain to our life and what's going on around us. Starting off with the Netflix Documentary, Seaspiracy. Then going into the HBO Max Documentary, Exterminate All the Brutes, which leads into our daughter informing me she recited the pledge of allegiance and how that does not sit well with me in particular.
Another show we have been watching that goes hand in hand with politics and the corrupt government is FX's Snowfall. Which just wrapped up Se...
2021-05-2030 min
All Things Black & WhiteFor Better or WorseOn this episode, my wife and I discuss...
Does lack of sex ruin a relationship/marriage? If that man or woman were to go elsewhere for that, is that considered cheating? Would they be judged for that? Sticking with marriage, should married couples only have friends that are married? Or are they allowed to have single friends? Maybe, not allowed, but there are some single friends with bad intentions and try to force that onto someone who is married or in a relationship. We all heard the saying male friends say to each other, "Your life is...
2021-05-1344 minAll Things Black & WhiteFeelin' GoodOn episode sixteen of All Things Black and White Podcast, my wife Emily and I discuss relationship/marriage advice for people newly married or in a new relationship. We are approaching our second wedding anniversary and just wanted to offer some advice and share what has worked for us so far. We also offer advice and share our experiences to new parents. Does marriage and parenting relate?
What surprised us most about parenting? I think we both agreed on how quick they adapt to the things they see you do. They start to mock and mimic any a...
2021-05-0437 minAll Things Black & WhiteStuck With Each Other
Book recommendations about informing about racism (Uncomfortable Conversations with a black Man, How To Be Anti Racist, White Fragility, Stamped From the Beginning)
What is one thing from your past that you would change? Or that you wish you could have did better?
Why go straight to mental health issues when the person is white?
What is something that’s off limits when it comes to our marriage? (Threesome, open marriage, etc.)
Do you believe your dreams? Good or bad...what do you make of them?
How has parenting been through the pandemic?
Physical abuse in a marriage/relationship? Worst or...
2021-04-0252 minAll Things Black & WhiteWhites & Racism
Do you think white people have a hard time talking about racism?
We discuss our trip to the National Underground Freedom Center
If you had a super power, what would it be?
Who would play you in a movie about your life?
I ask my wife is she aware of her white privilege?
What is your favorite way to spend a day if you don’t have any responsibilities?
Consider your list of goals that you have already, are there any new goals you want to accomplish?
A short tangent about streaming apps and we briefly touch on the interview wi...
2021-03-1235 minAll Things Black & WhiteManifest ItOn this episode my wife and I discuss:
What do you see in our future? Moving to another city? More kids? Etc….
The way parents speak to their kids becomes their inner voice. Are we raising our kids to be intrinsically motivated or motivated to please others?
What are our goals for this podcast?
Talk a little bit about makeup, cosmetics, Farmasi…
What are your favorite phone apps?
What are your thoughts on Black History Month?
Reflecting on my 29 years of life
2021-02-2334 min
All Things Black & WhiteA Family AffairOn this episode of All Things Black and White Podcast, we are joined by our amazing children, Alanna & Rion! With Alanna being the oldest, we asked her ALL the questions!
Hope you all enjoy!
2021-02-1617 min
All Things Black & WhiteMake TimeOn this episode:
Why are our kids picky when it comes to food? Or are they going through this “stage” people say all kids go through?
Mom guilt-is dad guilt a thing too?
Can you be your kids’ friend and authority figure? Or is it strictly one or the other?
Alanna suggested getting an allowance for cleaning around the house. Do you agree?
What led you to singing?
Thoughts on Kamala Harris being our Vice President?
What’s one area in our marriage you would like for us to improve on?
How do you think people look at us given...
2021-02-1239 minAll Things Black & WhiteSunday Night VibesOn this episode:
In our relationship, whose the dominate one, whose the submissive one? Is there a balance? Can one be okay with being one or the other?
If you could have someone narrate your life story, who would it be?
When did you know you wanted to marry me?
Should spouses care about each other more than the children?
Why aren’t white criminals held to the same standards as black criminals?
Were you raised with any beliefs that you now reject?
Do you hear phantom noises in the shower or see things out of the corner of...
2021-01-2744 min
All Things Black & WhiteThe Best One YetOn this episode:
Wifey and I probably produced our best episode yet!
What makes the best relationship?
Why don’t marriages last today as opposed to our grandparents era?
If you could travel to another country and learn about that culture, where would you go?
If money was no object- of all the places we have visited, where would you choose to live?
How do you deal with rejection?
What were your thoughts about the movie Soul?
Have we become a generation or culture obsessed with having/finding purpose for life that we aren’t present in the...
2021-01-171h 00All Things Black & WhiteWhy Can't We All Just Get AlongOn this episode: My wife and I discuss
As a white women, do you see and understand the “struggles” black women often talk about and face almost everyday? Are you an ally to black women?
What is it about black people that make white people feel so threatened by us?
Have you ever felt uncomfortable around a black person? If so, why?
Being married to a black man, do you fear for my life and our kids life when we leave the house? Or have interactions with the police?
What do you think the difference is between a whit...
2021-01-1338 min
All Things Black & WhiteIt's A Love ThingOn this episode: My wife and I discuss goals for 2021 and what's your one word for the new year that you hope will encompass your goals moving forward and keep you focused? Can a marriage last if one person is trying to change the other?
Everyone has their own perspective of trust and commitment, usually based on their childhood and family background. How did your parents show their commitment to each other? How did they show a lack of commitment? Do those affect our marriage and family? Who do you think was your greatest influence on how y...
2021-01-0738 min
All Things Black & WhiteNew Year, Same UsOn this episode: My wife and I discuss a handful of topics!
First things first, COVID still being around and how did we feel about it taking up the whole year of 2020 and possibly this year! Do you see racism going away when our kids get older? Why? Amongst the black community, there is a joke about having or losing your "black card", so I ask my wife did I lose my "black card" because I am married to a white woman and have interracial children? Funny and ridiculous, but definitely exist.
Transitioning into a mo...
2021-01-0552 min
All Things Black & White365 DaysOn this episode: My wife and I discuss how 2020 has either helped or hurt our mental health? With my wife working from home, how is she enjoying it? Due to the pandemic, most people have made that transition to work from home, are you still able to take care of yourself and work from home? We also talk about the importance of prioritizing our marriage after the kids? My wife and I did not do anything traditional or "by the book". What helps you feel connected to your spouse or significant other? Do you thinking intimacy is emotional, physical...
2020-11-1856 min
All Things Black & WhiteWhat If?On this episode: My wife and I discuss the possibilities of what if? What if you could be famous, but poor forever, would you do it? What if you could say a sentence that the whole world could hear, what would you say? What if you could only keep one memory of us together? Which would it be? What if we never met? What if racism didn’t exist? Plus more...
We hope you enjoy this episode and thanks again for the support!
2020-09-2438 min
All Things Black & WhiteGoals, Goals, GoalsOn this episode: My wife and I discuss the goals we set individually and together at the top of the year. We also talk about how the pandemic may or may not have altered the goals we set. My wife introduced me to this challenge called "next 90 days", that she got from Dave and Rachel Hollis. A challenge that I think everyone should try and something that helped us transform ourselves in a positive way during the pandemic.
What is one thing that life has taught you recently? If you could spend the next year of your l...
2020-08-311h 15
All Things Black & WhiteSister & SonOn this episode: My wife and I discuss how white people age vs. black people, but mainly within our families. Her grandmother is 20 years older than my grandmother! Crazy, I know...
We also talk about divorce and how that is not an option for us, but my mother was once married and so was my mother in law. We talk about what we remember from those times and how both our mothers made a decision that was best for them and their kids and how they should be applauded for that!
It may seem like we...
2020-08-1353 minAll Things Black & WhitePilotOn this episode: My wife and I set the tone to our podcast by sharing our experiences, thoughts, and opinions on dating outside our race, marriage, and parenting styles.
2020-08-1343 min