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Truly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantDating; Is age nothing but a number?The age-old question; is age nothing but a number? This week Marcus and Jessica discuss that timeless question. Is it ok to date someone half your age? Should it be normalized? Or is someone older and wiser taking advantage of someone young and naive? Marcus and Jessica answer all those questions on this episode of Truly Unruly.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2025-05-0629 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantFalling in love with someone else while in a relationship.Can you fall in love with someone else while in a good relationship? Surprisingly enough this is a very common question! Marcus and Jessica dive deep into this topic and give their perspective. Marcus believes this is a real thing while Jess on the other hand thinks it’s nonsense. Tune in now!Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2025-02-2634 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantMarcus and Jessica Trufant Discuss the WILDEST Internet StoriesWhat would you do if you thought the house you were renting was owned and paid off by your boyfriend, but you have been paying rent the entire time? A mother confronts her son’s girlfriend’s dad for putting his hands on her son. Guess what the dad caught the son in bed with his daughter! Check out this latest episode of Truly Unruly.Follow on all things social @trulyunruly_podcastFollow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-11-2023 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantWhy Won’t My Baby Dad Show Me The Same Respect He Shows His GirlfriendIn this episode, Marcus and Jessica answer a listener’s question about dealing with her kids' father. She says she wishes he showed her the same respect he shows his girlfriend. Tune in now for the whole conversation!Follow on all things social @trulyunruly_podcastFollow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-11-1227 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantCan Our Relationship Survive After We Both Cheated?In this episode, Marcus and Jessica respond to a messy email from a listener. She caught her man cheating and in an act of anger, she went out and cheated on him. Now she wants to know if their relationship can survive. This is a wild conversation you don’t want to miss out on!Follow on all things social @trulyunruly_podcastFollow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-11-0725 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantFinding Mr. Right: Why It's So Hard to Meet a Good Man in Today's Dating WorldIn this episode, a 30-year-old woman shares her dating experiences and thoughts. Marcus and Jessica explore why many women struggle to meet the right person. Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship, this episode has something for you. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-10-2432 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant50% of married women have a "backup man" if marriage fails, study saysA new study says that 50% of women have a "backup man" if their marriage fails.Marcus believes the study is very eye-opening. While on the other hand, Jessica thinks the study is a reach and far from the truth. Dive into this new episode of Truly Unruly. Follow on all things social @trulyunruly_podcastFollow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-10-0324 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantHow important is it to choose the right parent for your children?In this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss the importance of choosing the right partner to have kids with. But it’s not as easy as it sounds. Tune in now for this interesting discussion. Follow on all things social @trulyunruly_podcast Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-08-2941 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantMy boyfriend is hiding something on his phoneMarcus and Jessica receive an email from a listener who is suspicious about her boyfriend and his cell phone. She says he keeps his phone face down and when she asked to use it once he awkwardly stood next to her while she used it. Do you think she should be concerned? Follow on all things social @trulyunruly_podcastFollow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-08-0724 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantI think he’s cheating while traveling for workMarcus and Jessica receive an email from a listener who believes her man is cheating on her, while he plays sports overseas. She looks to Jessica for advice since she is the wife of a former NFL player. Follow on all things social @trulyunruly_podcastFollow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-07-3032 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantWork Spouses: Fun and Playful or Emotional CheatingIn this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss a wild situation where a woman discovers her husband's work wife at a company barbecue. The work wife makes inappropriate comments and gestures towards the husband, upsetting the wife.Follow on all things social @trulyunruly_podcastFollow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-07-0137 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantDealing with a rude Mother-in-LawMarcus and Jessica celebrate their daughter Karmen's high school graduation in this episode. They reflect on their journey as a family, from the early days to this significant milestone. The couple also discuss an email from a listener struggling with her rude mother-in-law.Follow on all things Social @trulyunruly_podcastFollow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-06-2531 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantAwkward Moments: Dealing with Kids Walking In During Adult TimeIn this episode, Marcus and Jessica Trufant discuss a listener's dilemma of their 13-year-old daughter walking in on them during intimacy. They share their thoughts on the situation, debating whether embarrassment is justified and offering advice on how to approach the awkward encounter.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast on all things Social Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-06-1130 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantAm I wrong for calling my wife a POS for eating our kids food?In this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss a hilarious viral story about a husband calling his wife a POS for eating their 8-year-old's dinner. They debate whether the husband was wrong or not in his reaction. Follow on all things social @trulyunruly_podcastFollow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-06-0432 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantVacation Drama: When Casual Conversations Cause ConflictIn this episode of Truly Unruly, Marcus and Jessica discuss a viral story about a family on vacation in Miami, where a woman in a bikini interrupted a father and son building a sandcastle, and the wife is upset about it. She thinks the woman was being too flirty. Tune in for the whole story it's a good one!Follow @trulyunruly_podcast on all things social!Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-05-2338 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantWhen Cheating Hits Home: STDs, Lies, and Relationship DecisionsIn this episode, Marcus and Jessica Trufant discuss an email from a woman who discovered she had an STI despite being married and faithful. The woman's husband had been cheating on her with a side chick who didn't show symptoms, leading to a shocking revelation. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast on all things socialFollow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-05-0830 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantWhen Boundaries Blur: The Open Relationship QuestionIn this episode Marcus and Jessica discuss an email from a listener whose Fiancé has developed feelings for a friend and proposed an open relationship, causing tension.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast on all things social!Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-05-0139 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantCheating on Vacation: Are girls and guys trips ok?On this episode of Truly Unruly, Marcus and Jessica discuss an email from a woman concerned about her boyfriend traveling on vacation to the city where his ex lives. She noticed a few red flags lately and wants to know if she’s overthinking.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-04-0334 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantMeeting Her Family: A White Man's Journey to the CookoutIn this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss a listener email from a white guy dating a black woman who is nervous about meeting her family for the first time. He’s afraid her family may not accept their relationship. Marcus and Jessica offer tips on how to prepare for the big introduction.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast on IG & TikTokFollow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-03-2034 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantWhen Your Mind Wanders: Staying Present During SexIn this episode, Marcus and Jessica dive into an email from a listener struggling with distractions during intimacy with his wife. Despite a healthy sex life, he finds himself mentally drifting off during intimate moments, causing concern for both himself and his wife.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-03-1337 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantHe Broke Off Our Engagement and Won’t Tell Me WhyIn this episode, a listener opens up about a rough start to her year after her ex-fiancé of five years called off their wedding and left her for someone she claims is “younger and prettier.” Marcus and Jessica then dive into self-worth and starting over after heartbreak. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-03-0635 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantWhy is having certain interests considered acting "white"?In this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss the reasons why some black individuals may not pursue certain interests or activities that are perceived as traditionally "white." They explore the idea of certain hobbies associated with specific racial groups and how societal perceptions can impact a person's choices.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-02-2039 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantWho Should Pay for Childcare When Dating a Single Parent?In this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss the question that has been circulating online: Should a man who is dating a single mother be responsible for paying for childcare when going out with her? Follow on IG and TikTok @trulyunruly_podcastFollow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-02-1436 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantPreferences or Prejudice? Unpacking Racial Choices in RomanceIn this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss the topic of black men with money dating outside of their race. They share an Instagram clip from a podcast that sparked the conversation and discuss potential reasons behind this, including geographical factors and social circles.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-02-0744 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantThe Controversial Parenting Style: Forcing Kids vs. Giving Them a VoiceMarcus and Jessica discuss a viral video about a dad's parenting style in this episode. The dad believes in forcing his child to do things he doesn't want to do in order to develop discipline and healthy habits. Marcus and Jessica share their thoughts on this approach and delve into their own experiences with being forced to do things as children.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-01-2435 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantLove and Logic: Navigating Male Emotions in RelationshipsIn this episode, Marcus and Jessica dive into the topic of emotions, specifically focusing on male emotions. They explore why women want to see some level of emotion from men, even if it may not be as intense as their own.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-01-1240 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantJellyfish Attacks, and Relationship BombshellsMarcus and Jessica share their holiday vacation experience, including family bonding and an unexpected encounter with jellyfish in Jamaica. A friend reaches out to Kel for advice with a shocking story that sounds straight out of a drama film.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2024-01-0525 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantMy Boyfriend of 24 Years Wants To End Our Domestic PartnershipIn this episode, Marcus and Jessica Trufant address a listener's email about her boyfriend ending their 24-year relationship. The listener suspects that her boyfriend is going through a midlife crisis. They discuss the impact on their children, ages 8 to 20, and the financial implications of selling their recently built house.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2023-12-2237 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantNavigating Finances in Relationships with FinaciALLI Focused Founder Alli WilliamsIn this episode, Marcus and Jessica are joined by special guest Alli Williams, founder and CEO of FinanciALLI Focus. They discuss relationships and money, particularly during the holiday when people spend a lot. Allie, who has helped many individuals with their finances, shares insights on creating a flexible financial plan and feeling confident in managing money.Follow Alli Williams @financiallifocusedFollow @trulyunruly_podcast
2023-12-1550 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantDon't Yuck My Yum: Sex Therapist Nikquan Lewis on Relationships and SexualityIn this episode, Marcus and Jessica welcome Sex Therapist Nikquan Lewis. She is the founder of Intimate Connections in Katy, Texas. Nikquan is a licensed marriage and family therapist, licensed professional counselor, and relationship and sex therapist. They dive into questions about relationships, marriage, and the importance of intimacy in maintaining a strong connection. Listen now for a candid conversation about love, relationships, and everything in between.Check out Nikquan’s transformational products so you can do the work at home; go to:https://intimateconnectionspllc.com/Follow @tr...
2023-12-0651 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantDealing with Kids' with Constant DemandsMarcus and Jessica tackle a listener's question about how to handle kids who are always asking for things, even after being told no. They share their own experience with their children's constant asking and suggest giving the kids tasks or chores to do in order to teach them the value of earning what they want. They also hilariously admit that they often feel overwhelmed and "walked on" by their own children.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2023-11-2931 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantThe Viral List of First Date No-GosIn this episode, Marcus and Jessica Trufant discuss a viral list of places where women refuse to go on a first date. They question the pressure on men to take women to expensive places and argue that it's unnecessary and unfair.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2023-11-1643 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantTogether for 10 Years But He Won’t Marry HerIn this episode, Marcus and Jessica get an email from a woman who is pregnant and feeling unworthy of marriage because her partner of 10 years has not proposed to her. They discuss the possible reasons behind her man's hesitation, including any traumas he may have experienced in the past.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2023-11-0147 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantHow to Recognize if You're an Eggshell ParentIn this episode, @marcus_trufant and @jessica_trufant discuss "eggshell parenting" and share their thoughts on what it means to be one. They question the validity of a trending TikTok term and argue that parenting is hard for everyone.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2023-10-1932 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantThe Fear of Raising Entitled KidsIn this episode, @marcus_trufant and @jessica_trufant discuss a listener's concern about her children growing up privileged and potentially becoming ungrateful. They emphasize the importance of communication, sharing stories of hardship, and teaching gratitude to help children understand and appreciate their privileged upbringing.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2023-10-1134 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantDealing with Overprotective DadsIn this episode, Marcus and Jessica receive an email from a listener seeking advice regarding her 16-year-old daughter's relationship with her boyfriend and the father's overprotective and aggressive behavior. While the father may be trying to protect his daughter, his actions are damaging their relationship.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2023-10-0448 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantThe Importance of Open Communication with KidsIn this podcast episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss the issue of privacy boundaries with their kids. They believe in giving their kids some freedom and trust rather than tightly monitoring their online activities. They emphasize the importance of open communication and instilling values and self-love in their children to navigate the challenges of social media and the internet.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2023-09-0733 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantMy wife tells her friends I’m unattractive behind my backIn this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss a listener's question about his wife calling them unattractive behind his back. And he wonders if his marriage is fake. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2023-08-2446 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantCelebrating 100 Episodes and Jessica's BirthdayMarcus and Jessica celebrate Jessica's birthday in this special 100th episode. They also discuss a listener's email about his girlfriend having slept with some of his friends before they started dating. He wonders if he should tell his girlfriend about his discomfort.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2023-08-1736 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantBeing Bossy vs. Being DisrespectfulIn this episode, Marcus and Jessica receive an email from a man who believes his wife has lost all respect for him after 16 years of marriage. They discuss the issues of imbalance in the relationship, lack of intimacy, and the potential impact on the man's self-esteem. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2023-08-0335 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantDiscussing a Controversial Comment on Single MomsMarcus and Jessica address a complaint from a listener regarding a comment made about single moms in a previous episode. The listener believes that the comment reinforces negative stereotypes about single moms being desperate. They discuss the dating experiences of single moms and the challenges they face in finding partners willing to accept their children.00:01:22 Single moms face dating challenges.00:11:05 Preference for dating single mothers.00:12:43 Dating single moms requires maturity.00:20:22 Dating someone with kids is preferredFollow @trulyunruly_podcast
2023-07-2729 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantCan a Struggling Marriage Be Saved?Marcus and Jessica receive an email from a wife who is worried about her marriage. They have been together for 11 years and have two small kids. Both work full-time and receive no help from family. The wife is exhausted and doesn't feel like actively working on the marriage. Meanwhile, the husband wants more intimacy and feels unappreciated. The wife feels forced and is less attracted to him. She wonders if she should force herself and if their marriage can be saved.00:01:47 Intimacy issues in long-term marriages.00:09:04 Marriage requires effort and communication.00:11:10 Possible postpartum mental...
2023-07-2034 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantShould Ethnic Personal Preference Override Love?Marcus and Jessica share their thoughts on a listener's email about a relationship issue. The listener, a black man, is facing a dilemma as his fiancée, who is not black, wants to set a wedding date. He's hesitant because he had always imagined marrying a black woman.00:02:10 Love is not defined by race.00:08:48 Interracial dating requires understanding and patience.00:12:03 Racial preferences in relationships matter.00:19:08 Consider honesty in relationships.00:24:19 Importance of cultural understanding.F...
2023-07-0728 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantHow to Handle a Spouse Who Constantly Complains to FamilyIn this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss an email from a husband who is struggling with his wife venting to her family about every disagreement. It’s made his relationship with her family awkward, and he wants advice on how to handle the situation.00:03:18 Lack of respect breeds negativity.00:09:14 Lack of communication breeds insecurity.00:17:51 Lack of communication breeds mistrust.00:19:57 Accountability in relationships is crucial.00:27:31 Communication and therapy are important.00:29:34 Importance of hearing both sides.00:35:30 Toxic relationships are unhealthy.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2023-06-3037 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant3 Guys Answer Women's 'Burning Questions' and It's Hilarious (with Comedian Nate Jackson)Since Jessica is out this week, we brought on special guest Nate Jackson, a comedian, and actor to have some guy talk and the ladies in our life (and in our past.) Nate, Marcus, and Kel answer questions from women that were submitted anonymously on social media. These are the questions that every lady has but is too afraid to ask the guys in their life. Well, these guys are answering that kind of question - unfiltered and raw. Remember to follow, rate, and review the podcast - appreciate it, fam! Fo...
2023-06-0931 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantLeaving a Toxic Relationship...In this episode, Jessica finally got some alone time with her son while Marcus took the girls on a father/daughter date. Kash wasn't feelin' it! Later, the Trufants respond to a listener question from a woman who is thinking of leaving her toxic husband who is emotionally controlling and negative. The woman wonders if she should leave or take another approach before making such a permanent decision for herself and her child.>> Have a question for The Trufants? Send us a DM on Instagram @trulyunruly_podcast or email trulyunrulypodcast@gmail.com...
2023-03-0240 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantHow To Talk To Your Teen About Dating | ep. #69One day you wake up and your kid is not so kid-like anymore and they're wanting to start dating. You knew this day would come. Maybe you've prepared for it. Chances are, you're not. The Trufants have 5 kids, a few of them are teenagers and their preteens are quickly reaching that age. In this episode, Marcus and Jessica share how they approach dating and relationships with their kids and how to talk to your teen about those complicated years. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2022-09-1736 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant10 Days in The DR For Jess' 40th Birthday Was WILD! | ep. #6726 of the Trufant's closest friends met up in the Dominican Republic for Jessica's 40th birthday party. It was a wild, kid-free vacation! Hear all the tea in this episode. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2022-08-2641 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantThe Father's Day Debate | ep #63Is Father's Day less important? Dads Marcus and Kel say that sometimes Father's Day feels less important. While Jessica debates the reasons why such a huge emphasis is placed on Mother's Day. And, is it OK for single mothers to hijack Father's Day? Do dads deserve better gifts? Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2022-06-1734 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantWe Survived Disneyland With 5 Kids | ep. #55Disney with kids is supposed to be a magical experience! LOL! Disneyland is the happiest place on earth, but let's be real it can get overwhelming fast. Hear all about The Trufant's trip to Disneyland with 5 kids and two grandmas. Will they ever make that trip again? Listen to find out. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2022-03-3041 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant8 Spicy Questions To Check in With Your Spouse | ep. #50Welcome to episode 50! If you're looking for a way to reconnect, laugh, and get to know your significant other even deeper here are 8 questions you must ask - tonight! Take notes, because Marcus and Jessica get real deep and funny with these questions. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2022-02-2340 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantAre Opposite-Sex Friends OK? | ep. #46Do you get mad that your significant other has friends of the opposite sex? Or, is it no-big-deal? What’s appropriate and what’s inappropriate when you have friends of the opposite sex and are married or in a committed relationship? When could these relationships be seen as a threat to your marriage? What are some things you should NEVER do with a friend of the opposite sex? In this episode, we talk about what relationship experts say and how Marcus and Jessica feel about these relationships.Follow on Instagram @trulyunruly_podcastFollow @trulyunruly_podc...
2022-01-1933 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant5 Questions To Ask Your Spouse at The End of The Year | ep.#43As 2021 closes out, it's important to reflect on your relationship together and ask some important questions to make the next year, the best year. In this episode, the Trufants open up about 2021 and share answers to some questions - like, Jessica buying a puppy (without Marcus). Follow on Instagram @trulyunruly_podcast Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2021-12-2944 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantWhen The Woman is The Breadwinner | ep. #41Times have changed - in the past, men have usually been the breadwinners while in today's marriages more wives are out-earning husbands. Women are doing it all - raising careers and babies! And, we're HERE FOR IT. But, does this shift in dynamics affect a marriage? What does science say? And, more importantly, what do Marcus and Jessica have to say about it? Find out in this episode. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2021-11-1735 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantThe Perfect Child-Free Getaway | ep. #36Marcus and Jessica finally get a well-deserved child-free vacation! The Trufants embark on a trip to New Orleans and enjoy great food, hospitality, and of course family. They get a first-hand Superdome experience and try a local favorite beverage called “The Bow Wow”. This episode is packed with laughter and a few food recommendations for the next time you’re in the Big Easy. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2021-10-1335 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant5 Surprising (and funny) Truths About The Trufants | ep. #35The Trufant's play a game of "tell your truth." Kel asks them questions and they HAVE to tell the absolute truth. Get the popcorn ready because they're spilling all the tea. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2021-10-0638 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantHAPPY BIRTHDAY, JESSICA! Can you guess her age? | ep. #32After taking a few weeks off, the Trufant's are back and Jessica is 1 year older! Plus, the kids are back in school. Listen in as we get caught up on everything going on in the Trufant household. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2021-09-0943 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantHOW TO DISCIPLINE CHILDREN WITHOUT SPANKING: why we don't hit our kids, ever. | ep. #28Corporal punishment reinforces racist stereotypes in the Black community and has no place in the Trufant household. They don't hit their kids, ever. In this episode, Marcus and Jessica reveal the most effective and emotionally mature ways to punish their kids that don't include spanking, whooping, beat-downs, or whatever you call it these days. Spanking might feel like an effective punishment for unruly kids. But, if you stop and think about the long-term consequences - it's just not worth it. They also talk about how they were disciplined growing up and the differences in disciplining girls vs. boys.
2021-06-2337 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant5 REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS TO HAVE IN MARRIAGE: how to accept changes in your relationship as life evolves | ep. #27If you've been together a long time, you know that relationships change and evolve. From the honeymoon phase to a long-term relationship, engagement, newlywed, marriage, pregnancy, children, and all the conflicts, challenges, and joys in between. One thing is for certain - as life evolves so do expectations within the marriage. For a marriage to survive all these changes it's important to accept the fact that changes in marriage are imminent. In this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss how they learn to accept reasonable expectations and continue to build a healthy marriage through all their life changes.
2021-06-0834 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantHOW TO CONNECT ON A DEEPER LEVEL: 5 meaningful questions to ask your partner | ep. #25Getting to know your spouse on the deepest level takes a life-long commitment. In all honesty, how well do we really know our spouses, especially when you're a newlywed? Like, really really really know them. From their deepest regrets, major traumas, ultimate passions, to greatest desires? If you're hoping to strengthen your bond or feel like you're drifting apart, this episode is for you. Jessica and Marcus reveal the top 5 best questions you should ask your partner. These questions can get heavy but they are also a lot of fun and will bring you together on a much deeper...
2021-05-2539 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant5 MOST ANNOYING THINGS ALL PARENTS CAN RELATE TO - and why we wouldn't change a thing about our kids *Mother's Day Special Pt. 1* | ep. #23Nothing can prepare you for the millions of annoying things kids do DAY IN and DAY OUT. Do kids ever stop being annoying? (if you're asking that question you must not have a teenager yet!) As parents of 5 kids the Trufants have been through every stage of parenthood - from infancy to toddlerhood, adolescence, preteen, and now teenagehood. Kids are annoying at EVERY stage. If you know, you know! And while they love their children, they are not afraid to admit that parenthood is hard. Join Marcus and Jessica in a hilarious and REAL discussion on kids being annoying...
2021-05-0921 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant5 ANNOYING THINGS OUR PARENTS DO - the Trufant kids spill tea about Mom and Dad *Mother's Day Special Pt. 2* | ep. #23Marcus and Jessica annoy their kids in a million ways - from what they say to what they do, these kids are fed up with mom and dad. In this hilarious episode, the Trufant kids join their parents to tell us about all the things their parents do that annoy them. So, if you're a parent - and you irritate your kids - know that you're not alone. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2021-05-0922 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantHOW TO RAISE MENTALLY STRONG KIDS: our best advice for uplifting your little ones | ep. #22Truth is, there's no set way to raise kids. But, helping their kids to be MENTALLY STRONG has been a foundation of Marcus and Jessica's family. In this episode, they discuss what science says about helping kids mentally to grow into the most successful versions of their adult self. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2021-05-0440 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantWays To Have a Better Relationship (it's not sex or love) | ep. #21Spoiler, it's not SEX or love. Let's keep in one-hundred here, it doesn't matter how funny, sweet or perfect your partner is...sometimes, they might just drive you crazy. Great relationships aren't born out of thin air - they take work. YEARS of work. Relationships are always evolving. Marcus and Jessica's relationship is no different. In this episode, they explore advice from the experts on the 5 most important things in a relationship and how to make it even better. Find out what the Trufants think are the most important things in a relationship and if they are doing those...
2021-04-2741 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant5 Signs Your Relationship is Emotionally Draining | ep. #20Relationships are full of emotions and even the best relationships can feel exhausting at times. The good news is that you can make it through those challenges. But, how do you know if you're in an emotionally draining relationship? What do you do if you feel drained in your relationship? Or, maybe you feel that you ARE the one emotionally draining your partner. We tapped into advice from clinical psychologists to dive deep into this issue. Marcus and Jessica talk about times in their relationship when they have faced similar feelings and how they made it through to build...
2021-04-2037 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant10 Questions that all married couples should ask each other regularly | ep. #19Marcus and Jessica have learned that communication is the foundation to a happy marriage. In this episode, they ask each other 10 questions that all married couples should ask each other on a regular basis... just to check in, reconnect and open-up more to each other. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2021-04-0635 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantHow Much Sex Is Enough in a Relationship? And, Are We Having Enough? | ep. #18We’ve had a lot of sex in our 16 years together and sex has definitely changed over the years. Intimacy is about a lot more than sex and it’s natural for the frequency of sex to ebb and flow. In this episode, we dive deep into our sex life, how we make sex a priority even with 5 kids, and our best advice to keep it sexy in long-term relationships. Here are some questions you’ll hear us talk about in this episode, How much sex is enough in a healthy relationship? How does...
2021-03-2936 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantJess' Breast Augmentation Journey | ep. #17Jess never thought that her breast implants were the cause of her mysterious pain. She had been suffering from chronic pain and other symptoms for a long time and after 10 years with the same implants, Jess was worried that she might have breast implant illness. Once she saw a doctor she had some major decisions to make about the future of her breast implants - she considered full removal, fat transfer to the breast, and replacement. She discusses her reasons for getting implants after breastfeeding 3 children, why she chose to have a second surgery, and what that was like...
2021-03-2239 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantThe Pandemic Fatigue is Real | ep. #16From homeschooling to mental health struggles, Marcus and Jessica open up about how the lock downs and pandemic are affecting their family a year into it. Later, we answer some spicy questions from our listeners. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2021-03-0941 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantEp. 15: The Top 5 Questions From Listeners AnsweredOur listeners want all the tea! In this episode, Marcus and Jessica answer some of the most frequently asked questions from their listeners. Whose idea was it to do the podcast? Is it hard opening up on a public forum like a podcast? What has it been like around Jessica's mom since the sex episode? Later on, we try drinks from San Juan Seltzer and Elysian Brewing. Special thanks to Black Coffee NW, the first black-owned coffee house in Shoreline Wa for sending us goodies! Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2021-03-0239 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantEp. 14: Kids Grow Up Too Fast and Peloton Is Keeping Us YoungThe Trufants oldest daughter just turned 15, and as she gets older, Jessica is starting to get nervous. In this episode, they get real about how they're preparing for the day that she will leave the nest. Or, maybe she won't (if Jessica has her way). Later, the Trufant's gave it to the Peloton craze - is it worth it? Does it live up to the hype? Find out in episode 14. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2021-01-3157 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantEp. 12: Hawaii for the Holidays, in a PandemicThe Trufant family swapped the Seattle rain for sunshine in Hawaii for the holidays. Turns out, even paradise is weird in the middle of a pandemic - add 5 kids and 44 people on top of that and they were in for quite the experience. From meeting all the requirements to travel, getting the kids COVID tested and even the hassle of eating at a resort, this was not your typical vacation. Later on, the Trufants share some of their plans for 2021Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2021-01-081h 04Truly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantEp. 11: Happy 40th Birthday Marcus!Marcus turned the big 4-0 and Jessica threw him a surprise birthday party! We revisit the sex talk - from favorite positions to PDA to birthday nookie. Things get a little awkward with Jessica's mom in the live audience of their closest friends and family (who have all been COVID-tested.)Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2020-12-2240 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantEp. 10: Let's Talk About SEXThe Trufants talk about S-E-X. Jessica (a self-proclaimed reformed Catholic) breaks out of her comfort zone and Marcus goes all-in about sex after 12 years of marriage (and 5 kids later.) Jess shares advice about talking to kids about sex. And, the couple answers some really personal questions about their sex life. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2020-12-1653 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantEp. 9: Opening Up About Our Relationship ChallengesJessica and Marcus get real about the struggles they've faced and how they have persevered for over 16 years. From dealing with jealousy and haters to breakups, to how they feel about prenuptial agreements and how having 5 kids changed things. They really open up about it all while dropping some truth bombs and heartfelt advice for making relationships last - struggles and all. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2020-12-101h 09Truly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantEp. 8: The Trufant's Wedding Story - "Is this real life?!"The Trufants spill the tea about their big wedding day. Talk about drama - Marcus was hammered, Jessica was pregnant (and maybe a little bit of a bridezilla) and their wedding was bat shit crazy in the most off-the-hook way! Jessica reveals her biggest wedding planning regrets. The DREAM Trufant wedding might have turned into pure comedy gold but, in the end, "it's all love and light," says Marcus.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2020-12-0350 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantEp. 7: How He Asked, Who Said "I Love You" First, How Well Do You Know Your SpouseMarcus reveals how he proposed to Jessica 12 years ago. Speaking to the fellas, Marcus talks about the time leading up to the proposal, how he knew what ring to pick out and her ring size. Jessica shares her hilarious viewpoint on the proposal and her feelings about the ring. Can you guess who said "I love you first," you'll have to listen to find out! And, we played a game of "how well do you know your spouse" - get ready to laugh! Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2020-11-1855 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantEp. 6: This Is How We're Coping With Covid-19 As A FamilyMarcus and Jessica keep it one-hundred about the ways COVID has changed their family dynamic and how they've adapted to the "new normal." From homeschooling 5 kids who are involved in lots of extracurricular activities, to finding time for intimacy with a house full of other people, to the news of a new COVID vaccine and if they would give it to their kids. Get ready to laugh when Marcus talks about his "drink of choice" at a fancy restaurant and Jessica talks about the lock on their bedroom door. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2020-11-1344 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantEp. 5: What it's like to be an NFL Wife. When Marcus "made it". Dealing with fans.The Trufants open up about their normal life as a not-so-normal NFL family. They talk about how they are treated different when people realize that Marcus is an NFL player. Jessica shares about real friends vs fake friends. And, how their kids handle being the children of an NFL player. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2020-11-0254 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantEp. 4: From Dating to Our First Year of MarriageThe Trufants get real about the early years of their relationship. Together, they discuss their circumstance of having a baby early in their relationship, but not getting married until several years later. Marcus talks about when he knew it was the right time to propose. Jessica shares advice for single women who are dealing with “thirsty” guys while looking for the “perfect” man. As with most newlyweds, the first year of marriage was a challenge. In this episode, Marcus and Jessica share unfiltered advice for couples in long term relationships and newlyweds. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2020-10-2647 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantEp. 3: Social Media - the Good, the Bad, and the ToxicJessica took a detox from social media and the reason why might surprise you.Social media can be a powerful tool for business and networking but, it also has it's toxic side - in this episode Marcus and Jessica talk about the their own experiences with social media from blogging to business to parenting. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2020-10-1929 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantEp. 2: Why We Had 5 Kids and Our Unfiltered Advice For New ParentsIn this episode, the Trufants reveal some harsh truths and share hilarious (and real) advice for new parents. They talk about the early days of their relationship from pregnancy to having a new baby all while juggling Marcus’ new NFL career. Spoiler alert: 5 kids were not in “the plan.” Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2020-10-1235 minTruly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica TrufantEp. 1: Meet The Trufants - How We Met and Our Love StoryIn episode 1, Marcus and Jessica reveal how they met when Marcus was still a Rookie in the NFL. They also discuss some of the challenges they overcame in the beginning of their relationship. And, they speak about some of the trials that come along with being young parents while sharing uplifting advice for new relationships, new parents and newlyweds. Follow @trulyunruly_podcast
2020-10-0235 min
The Barbershop Show *NEW*I'm So Bored!It's the last full week before NFL players report to fall camp. There's no college football, no NBA or college hoops, or really anything fun for us to watch and we are SO bored! So what do we do? We find OTHER cool things to talk about! 10 year NFL vet Marcus Trufant tells us what it was like getting physically AND mentally prepared to report to camp every year. Plus his brother and current Atlanta Falcon cornerback Desmond Trufant hosted his 5th annual youth football camp in Tacoma, WA this past week and the Barbershop boys were there! Area 51...
2019-07-1657 min
The Barbershop Show *NEW*The Russell Wilson CountdownSeattle Seahawk's super star QB Russell Wilson has thrown down the gauntlet! He told the franchise to have a new contract for him before midnight on April 15th or he's done talking. Will the team meet his demands? Should they? We discuss it on this episode of The BARBERSHOP! Plus...D.Wade's NBA Farewell TourThe Tiger Woods comeback.And Marcus Trufant's....leg?Tune in to find out! Only in The Barbershop!@thebarbershop_show
2019-04-1626 min
The Barbershop Show *NEW*The Barbershop is BACK - The Mo' Money EpisodeT-Holla & Tru aka Terry Hollimon and Marcus Trufant are BACK! On this episode the theme is MONEY. Who's money? Well Russell Wilson's money, Ciara's money, Mike Trout's money and all the people spending money to scam their kid's way into college! Plus the boy's discuss black people (i.e - Marcus and Terry) participating in winter sports!It's The Barbershop!@thebarbershop_show
2019-04-0459 min
The Barbershop Show *NEW*The Barbershop - Getting Hyphy with BeastmodeTerry Hollimon and Marcus Trufant are in the Barbershop talking about the Seattle Seahawks messy week 2 win against the 49ers , a little bit about the Cougs and Dawgs and enjoying Marshawn Lynch having alot of fun in Oakland.@thebarbershop_show
2017-09-211h 49
The Barbershop Show *NEW*The Barbershop - Live from Snoqualmie/Seahawks Recap/Seattle Mist players interviewTerry Hollimon and Marcus Trufant are in the Barbershop talking about the Seattle Seahawks week 1 opener, a little bit about the Cougs and Huskies and interviewing a few players from the Seattle Mist LFL team@thebarbershop_show
2017-09-141h 00
The Barbershop Show *NEW*The Barbershop - Terry got Hurt playing flag football/Fantasy football talkTerry Hollimon and Marcus Trufant are in the Barbershop talking about how Terry got hurt playing flag football this weekend, The fight of the century and a little bit of fantasy football.@thebarbershop_show
2017-08-311h 06
The Barbershop Show *NEW*The Barbershop - #blameitontheeclipse/ Huskies and Cougars previewTerry Hollimon and Marcus Trufant are in the Barbershop talking about why we should blame our problems on the eclipse, Talking a little basketball trade news with Don Watts and previewing the Huskies and Cougars seasons.@thebarbershop_show
2017-08-241h 04
The Barbershop Show *NEW*The Barbershop- Seahawks Preseason opener/Marshawn Lynch and Micheal Bennett anthem protestTerry Hollimon and Marcus Trufant are in the Barbershop talking the Seattle Seahawks preseason opener, Marshawn Lynch and Micheal Bennett's anthem protests and the atrocities in Charlottesville this weekend.@thebarbershop_show
2017-08-171h 05
The Barbershop Show *NEW*The Barbershop - Seahawks Training Camp/ Colin Kaepernick still not signed/ and CTE in the NFLTerry Hollimon and Marcus Trufant are back in the Barbershop with special guest Hamza Abdullah talking Seahawks Training Camp, Colin Kaepernick, CTE in the NFL and more.@thebarbershop_show
2017-08-031h 08
The Barbershop Show *NEW*The Barbershop - How crazy is LaVar Ball?/ What's wrong with the Mariners now?/ and "Holla Holla"Marcus Trufant and Terry Hollimon are in the Barbershop talking about LaVar Ball, the Mariners, and Marshawn Lynch in Oakland.@thebarbershop_show
2017-06-2956 min
The Barbershop Show *NEW*Barbershop Show with Marcus Trufant and Terry Holliman6-21: The guys are back in The Barbershop for their weekly fun and entertainment segments.@thebarbershop_show
2017-06-221h 03
The Barbershop Show *NEW*Barbershop Show with Marcus Trufant and Terry Holliman6-14: In a special Fathers Day show Terry and Marcus discuss the NBA Finals, their thoughts on Richard Sherman finally addressing the media and more.@thebarbershop_show
2017-06-151h 05
The Barbershop Show *NEW*Barbershop Show with Marcus Trufant and Terry Hollimon5-31: Terry Hollimon and Marcus Trufant are joined in-studio by special guest John Howie discussing his up-coming charity event. Also, Seahawks OTA's are underway, Blank Stare News, and more.@thebarbershop_show
2017-06-011h 06
The Barbershop Show *NEW*The Barbershop with Marcus Trufant and Terry Hollimon 5-24Marcus Trufant and Terry Hollimon remember the life and career of Cortez Kennedy with former Seahawk Sam Adams, talk about Lavar Ball with Slick and Donald Watts, a Colin Kaepernick debate, and more.@thebarbershop_show
2017-05-251h 02
The Barbershop Show *NEW*The Barbershop with Marcus Trufant and Terry Hollimon.5-10 Marcus Trufant and Terry Hollimon discuss the Mariners heating up and the best BBQ recipes of the summer. Plus, who is the best player of all-time, Michael Jordan or Lebron James@thebarbershop_show
2017-05-111h 03
The Barbershop Show *NEW*Barbershop Show with Marcus Trufant and Terry HollimanTrufant and Hollimon@thebarbershop_show
2017-05-041h 00
The Barbershop Show *NEW*Desmond Trufant, Isiah Trufant, Xavier Cooper, Walter JonesThe Barbershop is back open for business and Terry and Marcus are joined by Desmond Trufant, Isiah Trufant, Xavier Cooper and Hall of Famer Walter Jones.@thebarbershop_show
2017-04-2757 min