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Ask a MatchmakerWe Were Never Meant to Date AloneMatchmaker Maria dives deep into why modern dating feels harder than ever, and why it's not your fault! Maria explores how convenience culture has stripped away connection and offers practical, no-nonsense ways to rebuild your "dating muscles." From reclaiming third places to embracing real-world friction, Maria shares how to create opportunities for love instead of waiting for them. If you're ready to date with intention and confidence, this episode is your blueprint for finding genuine connection in a disconnected world! Here's a script you can literally copy and paste into a text📲 "Hi friends! I'm hos...
2025-11-0416 minAsk a MatchmakerI'm Having a Baby Without a Partner ft Jenny ZigrinoComedian and writer Jenny Zigrino returns to Ask a Matchmaker to talk with Maria about grief, growth, and her decision to have a baby without a partner. Jenny opens up about freezing her eggs, navigating identity changes after weight loss, and finding humor in the hardest parts of life. They discuss her one-woman show Afterbirth and how loss inspired her to rebuild on her own terms. It's an honest, funny, and deeply human conversation about rebirth, resilience, and redefining family. ☀️ https://agapeescapes.com/ use ESCAPES150 for an early bird discount! ☀️ Be sure to use the promo code...
2025-10-2840 minAsk a MatchmakerDated the Far Right. They Didn't Believe Her ft. Vera PapisovaAward-winning journalist Vera Papisova returns to Ask a Matchmaker to continue the conversation about her viral undercover investigation, dating men on the far right in New York City. In this episode, Maria and Vera unpack how politics, media, and morality are shaping modern dating culture and the values we bring to relationships. They explore how misinformation spreads through "independent media," why so many people lack basic media literacy, and what that means for who we trust and how we love. From online outrage to real-world consequences, this is a must-listen for anyone navigating love in a divided world.
2025-10-2145 minAsk a MatchmakerHow to Start Dating When You Never Have ! with Allora DannonAt 32, writer and self-proclaimed late bloomer Allora Dannon had never been kissed, never been asked out, and had never been on a date. Then one cuffing season changed everything 💛 This week on Ask a Matchmaker, Matchmaker Maria sits down with Allora, author of the new memoir Who Is She: A Late Bloomer's Survival Guide, to unpack what it means to start dating later in life. They talk about growing up as the oldest of ten, learning to prioritize yourself after years of caretaking, breaking through embarrassment, and finding confidence (and community) as an adult beginner in love! Whether you're nav...
2025-10-1437 minAsk a MatchmakerWhen No Means NothingIn dating, rejection is part of the process, but when 'no' isn't acknowledged, it can lead to heartbreak, harm, and even tragedy. In this solo episode, Matchmaker Maria addresses two recent cases in New Jersey that underscore the real-world consequences of ignoring boundaries and consent. She outlines the stories of Maria Notis, Isabella Salas, Dr. Lauren Semanchik, and Tyler Webb to highlight patterns of stalking, harassment, and institutional inaction. The episode examines how systems and communities fail to respond when warnings are raised. Maria shares practical steps individuals and policymakers can take to improve safety and accountability. This episode...
2025-10-0713 minAsk a MatchmakerDoes Success Hurt Your Dating Life? Off with Dr. Mel | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaMatchmaker Maria is joined by clinical psychologist Dr. Melissa Robinson Brown to tackle the myth that women are "too successful" to find love. Together, they unpack how flawed studies and outdated media narratives have fueled this idea while sharing what modern research actually tells us about love, marriage, and divorce. Dr. Mel also opens up about how our parents influence who we choose as partners and why it's crucial to find someone who can walk with us through life's hardest moments. The conversation highlights how success can strengthen relationships, why financial stability matters, and how to rethink the "shoulds" w...
2025-09-3040 minAsk a MatchmakerGen Z Divide on Marriage Children and the Meaning of Success with Rachel Janfaza | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaThis week Matchmaker Maria is joined by Rachel Janfaza, founder of The Up and Up, to explore the growing divide between Gen Z men and women. They discuss how social media, algorithms, and traditional expectations shape attitudes toward marriage, children, and career success. The conversation also dives into the impact of the #MeToo movement, gender dynamics, and the pressures young adults face in dating and relationships. Rachel shares insights from her research and writing on Gen Z, including her theory of The Two Gen Zs and what young people really want from connection and conversation. Listeners will gain a...
2025-09-2351 minAsk a MatchmakerThe Truth Behind Indian Matchmaking with Matchmaker Radha Patel | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaThis week on Ask a Matchmaker, Maria sits down with fellow Matchmaker Radha Patel to explore the world of South Asian matchmaking. They dive into how cultural traditions, family expectations, and modern dating values intersect for singles from Indian, Pakistani, Bangladeshi, Sri Lankan, and West Indian backgrounds. Radha shares how her work balances heritage with today's dating challenges, from navigating parental involvement to helping clients define compatibility beyond caste or astrology. Together, Maria and Radha unpack what makes South Asian love unique while also tackling listener questions about sparks, expectations, and dating within friend groups. This insightful episode shines...
2025-09-1643 minAsk a MatchmakerHow Young Love Lasts | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaOn this episode of Ask a Matchmaker, Maria reflects on wrapping up her summer solo series and challenges listeners to reconnect with three people they haven't spoken to in a while. She dives into the male loneliness epidemic and the ways modern dating apps can fuel disconnection, expanding on ideas from her recently viral Substack article. Maria also shares insights from her time in Greece, where she compared experiences of loneliness and community with those in the U.S. Later, she sits down with her brother-in-law, Yanni, who opens up about meeting and marrying Maria's sister at a young...
2025-09-0226 minAsk a MatchmakerThe Secret to Love : Shared Reality | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaThis week on Ask A Matchmaker, Matchmaker Maria is joined by her sister and fellow matchmaker Chrisoula for a special anniversary episode recorded in Crete. Chrisoula shares the story of her 12-year marriage and what it takes to grow with a partner you met at 19. The sisters talk about communication, setting boundaries, and how generational trauma impacts conflict resolution. They reflect on growing up with unresolved fights at home and how they now model healthier habits by showing their kids what conflict resolution really looks like. Listener questions include how to handle a breakup over text, when to swipe...
2025-08-2652 minAsk a MatchmakerIs This Catfishing… or Hoodfishing? | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaThis week's Ask a Matchmaker Hotline has everything from dating app burnout to inspiring relationship updates. One caller, 40, tried a bold Hinge strategy but got no results, so Maria advises her to take a break from swiping and start meeting people IRL, even suggesting a Star Trek convention. Another caller, 41, struggles with being sexualized online despite having a thoughtful profile, and Maria gives her the ultimate solution: block, swipe, and move on. The episode also dives into "hood fishing," where people fake their location to get more matches, and why honesty is always the better play. To close, a...
2025-08-1923 minAsk a MatchmakerNew Found Female Empowerment & Red Pill Dating w/ Weezy WTF, Vera Papisova, Kaneez Surka & More| Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaThis week on Ask a Matchmaker, Maria celebrates 5 powerful years of conversations that have redefined how we talk about dating, relationships, and emotional growth. To mark the anniversary, she's sharing five unforgettable episodes that showcase the heart and range of the show. Hear from Weezy WTF about sex, power, and dating after the pandemic in NYC. Go undercover with journalist Vera Papisova as she explores the rise of red pill culture and far-right dating apps. Climate policy leader Lolita Jackson opens up about balancing a high-stakes global career with love and partnership. Author Chris Rackliffe returns to break down...
2025-08-121h 04Ask a MatchmakerWhat Is the Gen Z Stare? | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker Maria On this week's Solo Summer Session, Matchmaker Maria dives into the rise of the Gen Z stare and how it reflects shifting norms in dating and communication. From emotionless customer service to silent babysitters, she shares real-life encounters that left her questioning today's social cues. Maria explores how Gen Z's unique upbringing, including remote schooling, may impact their ability to build intimacy and express vulnerability. She also breaks down a hilarious dating trend in New York City where women swipe Sweetgreen lunches to spark romantic connections. Plus, she unpacks the latest Singles in America study, revealing why 30 percent of...
2025-08-0517 minAsk a MatchmakerIs He Cheating or Just Hacked? | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaIn this week's Ask a Matchmaker, Matchmaker Maria answers hotline calls from women navigating trust, loss, and new beginnings in dating. One caller suspects her boyfriend may be using a dating app, prompting a deep dive into digital infidelity, gut instincts, and whether to stay or go after two years together. Maria shares clear next steps for rebuilding trust or walking away when your goals do not align. Another caller, a widow with three kids, struggles with men losing interest once they learn about her past. Maria offers guidance on dating as a single parent, emotional availability, and staying...
2025-07-2918 minAsk a MatchmakerDating Older? Here's What Actually Matters | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaIn this episode of Ask a Matchmaker, Maria shares highlights from her recent women's retreat in Greece, reflecting on the creation of Agape Escapes and the meaningful experiences the group had together. She opens up about the surreal feeling of being off the grid during global events and reveals how one special location inspired the cover of her upcoming book. Maria also teases upcoming retreats, including a new coed escape to a picturesque island. Later, she dives into the trending "banksying" breakup theory and questions whether it truly captures the complexities of ending a relationship. Finally, she answers a...
2025-07-2226 minAsk a MatchmakerEx-CIA, Current Husband w Allison Raskin & John Blakeslee | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaOn this episode of Ask a Matchmaker, Maria is joined by writer Allison Raskin and her husband, former CIA agent turned screenwriter John Blakeslee. They talk about their new podcast Starter Marriage, diving into the realities of modern relationships, communication, and therapy. From Allison's book I Do to John's past in the CIA, the couple shares how their backgrounds shape their approach to marriage, and what it's like to share it all publicly. Expect honest insights, behind-the-scenes dynamics, and a conversation about love beyond the Hollywood version! ✨ Don't forget to order Maria's book, follow us on social, and l...
2025-07-1534 minAsk a MatchmakerAre You Being Real or Just Being Liked? Matchmaker Maria LIVE in NYC with Chrissy Rutherford | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaIn this special live episode recorded at the legendary 92nd Street Y in New York City, Matchmaker Maria is joined by her dear friend and style expert Chrissy Rutherford for a fun, honest, and wide-ranging conversation about modern love. The two dive into Maria's new book, Ask A Matchmaker, and how it blends human behavior, communication theory, and decades of matchmaking experience to cut through the noise of online dating advice. Maria shares personal stories and surprising lessons from writing the book, including what truly makes relationships last. They also explore how social media, societal expectations, and emotional context...
2025-07-081h 04Ask a MatchmakerMovie Tea on The Materialist & Maria Spills Book Tour Details | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaThis week, Maria shares the highs, surprises, and deep conversations from her Ask a Matchmaker book tour. From readers finding clarity in their relationships to full-blown divorces sparked by missing pillars (yes, really), the impact has been powerful—and personal. Even her husband had thoughts after reading it! Plus, Maria gives her full (spoiler-filled!) recap of The Materialists movie. Buckle up for book revelations, real talk, and cinematic hot takes! ✨ Don't forget to order Maria's book, follow us on social, and leave a review if you're feeling lovable and likable. 💕 🤩 Check out My Websites and...
2025-07-0130 minAsk a MatchmakerSingle at 40: How to Date Smarter, Not Harder! with Joyelle Nicole Johnson | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaOn this week's episode of Ask a Matchmaker, Matchmaker Maria is joined by co-host Joyelle Nicole Johnson are on a hotline ep, answering your toughest dating dilemmas. First, a 42-year-old single woman from Jersey City is looking for love, but struggles to find men who match her lifestyle and ambition. Maria offers advice on expanding her dating pool beyond NYC, embracing men with kids, and not letting success limit her options. Next, a listener shares a CRINGE-worthy story about dating a man with shockingly poor hygiene, think no soap and dirty forks! Maria urges her to walk away fast and...
2025-06-2448 minAsk a MatchmakerIs Polyamory Right for You? Let's Talk About It! with Joyelle Nicole Johnson & Melissa Fulgieri| Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaHow do you open the conversation about polyamory with your partner, without blowing things up? On this week's episode of Ask a Matchmaker, Matchmaker Maria is joined by co-host Joyelle Nicole Johnson and NYC-based relationship therapist and professor Melissa Fulgieri to explore the nuances of ethical non-monogamy. From setting ground rules to navigating emotional triggers, Melissa shares expert insights on how to communicate openly, define boundaries, and check in regularly in polyamorous relationships. The trio also dives into how attachment styles can impact relationship dynamics and how to approach these conversations with empathy and honesty, especially early on. Whether y...
2025-06-1854 minAsk a MatchmakerFrom Sugar Baby to Stock Savvy with Weezy W.T.F | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaOn this week's Ask a Matchmaker, Matchmaker Maria sits down with the fearless and unfiltered Weezy WTF co-host of the Decisions Decisions podcast and co-author of the brand-new book No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto of Sexual Exploration and Power. From sugar baby adventures to navigating the emotional rollercoaster of dating in NYC, Weezy shares jaw-dropping stories that are equal parts hilarious and eye-opening. The two dive deep into the realities of sex, money, power, and the lessons behind it all, including why building a stock portfolio beats collecting purses! They also unpack what it means to date post-pandemic...
2025-06-1038 minAsk a MatchmakerTherapy Is the New 'I Love You' with Joyelle Nicole Johnson | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaThis week, Matchmaker Maria is joined by her hilarious and heartfelt co-host for the month, comedian Joyelle Nicole Johnson! They dive deep into what it really means to love someone, and how therapy, timelines, and choosing your own adventure can all be ways to say "I love you." Joyelle shares the origin story of her relationship, from getting set up by none other than Ilana Glazer (yes, that Ilana!) to navigating early pandemic dating, moving in together, and discussing major life decisions like marriage and kids. Along the way, she and Maria get candid about why therapy...
2025-06-0329 minAsk a MatchmakerHe's Still Friends with His Ex! Is That a Red Flag? with Matchmaker Chrisoula | Ask a Matchmaker with Matchmaker MariaThis week, Maria is joined by her sister, Matchmaker Chrisoula! before we get into it, Maria's new book, Matchmaker Maria's No-Nonsense Guide to Finding Love, is out! Go buy it! Now tune in for a special Hotline Episode of the podcast! The two take calls from listeners looking for real-time dating advice, from situationships to second date confusion. Also we dive into a callers life sharing about how she is a caretaker and struggling with her parner and trust. Maria and Chrisoula don't hold back as they offer tough love, tactical tips, and a few laughs along the way. W...
2025-05-2722 minAsk a MatchmakerAsk a Matchmaker: How I Wrote My Book! | Ask a Matchmaker with Matchmaker MariaIn Matchmaker Maria's No-Nonsense Guide to Finding Love, celebrity matchmaker Maria Avgitidis blends heartfelt storytelling with decades of experience to offer a refreshingly honest guide to modern dating. Written as a "prescriptive memoir," this isn't just a dating manual it's a candid, deeply personal conversation over coffee with a trusted friend. From her upbringing straddling Greek and American cultures to her revelations on how pop culture shaped our romantic expectations, Maria explores how our environments, past relationships, and cultural conditioning influence the way we love. She weaves in moments of vulnerability, like holding onto heartbreak for years or struggling...
2025-05-2036 minAsk a MatchmakerIs He Into You or Just Into Texting? | Ask a Matchmaker w Matchmaker MariaMatchmaker Maria is just one week away from the release of her new book Ask a Matchmaker, and she's calling on all her listeners to support it! Whether you're a page-turner or an audiobook addict, now's the time to preorder and get ready to transform your dating life. Then it's time to open the hotline! Maria is joined by her sister and fellow matchmaker, Ursula, as they dive into listener questions, starting with Brianna, who's navigating the tricky post-hookup headspace after a sudden change of plans led her to her date's house. Is he being consistent… or wa...
2025-05-1332 minAsk a MatchmakerHe Ghosted Me After 2 Months of Dating, Now What?! with Jessie Lee | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaThis week on Ask a Matchmaker, Maria is joined by the wildly entertaining Jesse, who brings her playful energy and real talk to your biggest dating dilemmas! 💌 First up, Brianna is overthinking a recent date with a man she felt went too well. Maria breaks it down with practical advice about pacing new relationships and managing expectations. 💥 Then, we hear from a listener whose recent first dates were filled with crossed boundaries and red flags. Maria delivers empowering advice on boundary-setting! 👻 Finally, Katie from Florida wants revenge on a man who ghosted her after two...
2025-04-2932 minAsk a MatchmakerDating Bans and Kittenfishing?! with Jessie Lee | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaThis week, Matchmaker Maria is joined by the insightful and hilarious Jessie to break down what's happening in the wild world of dating right now. From the rise of kittenfishing—yes, that sneaky cousin of catfishing where people add just a little too much sparkle to their online personas to the U.S. government literally banning romantic relationships with Chinese nationals (wait...doesn't banning it make it even hotter?!), no topic is off-limits. Tune in for the hot takes, dating tips, and a little spy drama with your swipe sesh. 📚Maria has some big news—she's got a book c...
2025-04-2224 minAsk a MatchmakerGoing Undercover: Dating The Far Right with Vera Papisova PART 2 | Ask a Matchmaker Matchmaker MariaThis is part 2 of a powerful two-part episode of Ask a Matchmaker. This week, Matchmaker Maria sits down with journalist Vera Papisova, who went undercover on conservative dating apps during the 2024 election cycle. Her goal? To investigate the rise of red pill culture, Christian nationalism, and the growing appeal of traditional gender roles among men in far-right dating spaces. From secret neo-Nazi meetings in New York to profiles proudly declaring "pureblood" status and requests for "biblical wives," Vera reveals how misogyny, extremism, and identity politics are shaping romantic expectations and emotional behavior. What began as a journalistic...
2025-04-1541 minAsk a MatchmakerLove Across the Lines with Vera Papisova | Ask a Matchmaker Matchmaker MariaWhat happens when modern dating meets far-right ideology? This week, Matchmaker Maria sits down with journalist and award-winning editor Vera Papisova, who went undercover on conservative dating apps during the 2024 election cycle. Her mission? To understand the rise of red pill culture, Christian nationalism, and the growing appeal of traditional gender roles in far-right dating spaces. From profiles proudly declaring "pureblood" status to men seeking "biblical wives," Vera shares what she uncovered while dating undercover and the dangerous ways misogyny is showing up in romantic relationships. The conversation also touches on the backlash Maria and her co-host...
2025-04-0836 minAsk a MatchmakerHow To Flirt with Jessie Lee | Ask a Matchmaker Matchmaker MariaThis week, Matchmaker Maria is joined by comedian Jessie Lee, known for her hilarious character comedy and spot-on impressions of emotionally unavailable men. Jessie shares why she's taking a break from dating—after one too many weird encounters, including a post-hookup serenade from a naked guy with a guitar (yes, really). Maria and Jessie also dive into Jessie's viral Instagram and TikTok sketches, where she hilariously roasts men who refuse to commit or introduce you to their friends. Then, the conversation takes a turn into flirting—or, more specifically, the serious decline of flirting in Gen Z. With...
2025-04-0134 minAsk a MatchmakerLove Hotline: Avoiding Time-Wasters & Finding Love with Kaneez Surka | Ask a Matchmaker with Matchmaker MariaThis week, Matchmaker Maria is back with her March cohost, comedian Kaneez, for a special live hotline episode! 📞💘 They're taking real-time calls from listeners looking for love advice, covering everything from dating while on weight-loss medication to when to disclose a vasectomy and how to navigate romance when you're constantly on the move. Maria also shares a personal weight loss journey and the importance of tracking milestones with photoshoots 📸✨. Plus, is Mercury in retrograde, or is everyone just extra confused about dating right now? Tune in to find out! But that's not all—this episode dives deep in...
2025-03-2535 minAsk a MatchmakerOrigins of Anxious Attachment w Chris Rackliffe & Kaneez Surka | Ask a Matchmaker w Matchmaker MariaAttachment coach and author Chris Rackliffe returns to the podcast to discuss his new book, Needy No More: The Journey from Anxious to Secure Attachment. In this insightful conversation, Chris breaks down the six origins of anxious attachment, the connection between attachment and addiction, and how trauma influences our relationships. Plus, cohost Kaneez shares her personal experiences with attachment styles and dating patterns. If you've ever struggled with feeling "too needy" in relationships or want practical strategies to build security and confidence, this episode is a must-listen! 📖 Needy No More is available now on Amazon! 🔗 Subscribe and follow...
2025-03-1839 minAsk a MatchmakerRed Pill Content, Forced Marriages & Pointless Sports Bets with Kaneez Surka | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaIn this week's episode of Ask a Matchmaker, Maria and her March co-host Kaneez dive into some wild and thought-provoking headlines that are shaking up conversations about love and relationships. Maria kicks things off with a jaw-dropping New York Times article about a Chinese company pressuring employees to marry and start families by September 30th — or face termination. The discussion unpacks the company's drastic approach to boosting birth rates, cultural expectations around marriage, and how governments might better support people seeking meaningful connections. Next, they tackle a viral TikTok where a woman shares how her bo...
2025-03-1135 minAsk a MatchmakerDecentering Men with Kaneez Surka | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaThis March, Matchmaker Maria is joined by comedian Kaneez Surka as her cohost! Kaneez, originally from South Africa and having lived in India, opens up about her journey through marriage, divorce, and self-discovery. She shares how realizing she and her ex-husband were too young and had different values led to their split — and how reading Calling in The One helped her break free from patterns of dating the wrong people. Now in her "decentering men era," Kaneez and Maria dive into the idea that life isn't about settling down but finding your true teammate. They explore the po...
2025-03-0437 minAsk a MatchmakerShare Now or Later? Hotline Calls with Erika Ettin | Ask a Matchmaker pod with Matchmaker MariaIt's hotline time! In this episode of Ask A Matchmaker, Maria and Erika take live calls and dive into your dating dilemmas. One caller wonders if she should disclose her ADHD to new dates — is honesty the best policy, or should she wait? Another caller grapples with dating in today's political climate: she prefers liberals, but should she open her heart to people with different views? We also hear from a thoughtful male listener who adores Maria and Erika, but his habit of letting women choose the date spot might be holding him back (Erika says: take ch...
2025-02-2540 minAsk a MatchmakerHow To Slide into DMs w Jared Freid & Erika Ettin | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaThis week on Ask a Matchmaker, comedian Jared Freid joins dating expert Erika Ettin for a deep dive into modern dating strategies! From the art of sliding into DMs to structuring an online dating profile that actually gets responses, they're breaking it all down. Plus, Erika shares tips on how to confidently approach men in DMs without the cringe. If you're ready to level up your dating game, this episode is a must-listen! 💙✨ Maria has a book coming out! click here to preorder!! 👉 https://static.macmillan.com/static/smp/ask-a-matchmaker-9781250342355/?utm_source=meta&utm_medium=display&utm...
2025-02-1852 minAsk a MatchmakerValentine's Day Important To Celebrate? w Erika Ettin | Ask a Matchmaker pod with Matchmaker MariaIs Valentine's Day worth the hype? This week, Matchmaker Maria is joined by dating coach and relationship expert Erika Ettin to dive into the origins and modern-day debates surrounding this love-it-or-leave-it holiday. 💘 Highlights: The ancient Roman festival of Lupercalia and its connection to modern Valentine's Day How a martyred Saint Valentine became the symbol of love The influence of Hallmark and commercialization on Valentine's traditions Maria and Erika share hot takes on the holiday, debating whether it should be cherished as a meaningful celebration of love or dismissed as an overrated marketing ploy. From grand ges...
2025-02-1124 minAsk a MatchmakerDating Trends of 2025 with Erika Ettin | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaThis week on Ask a Matchmaker, Matchmaker Maria is joined by Erika Ettin, a renowned dating coach who specializes in navigating the world of online dating. Together, they break down essential advice for making meaningful connections in 2025. Erika shares creative tips on rethinking your dating profile title—why calling yourself an "RN" or "hospitality professional" might spark more interest than the traditional job title approach. They also dive into the emerging trend of value-driven dating. But what does "values" actually mean in dating, and how does it stack up against chemistry? Erika and Maria explain why both ar...
2025-02-0446 minAsk a MatchmakerNo More Situationships with Tara Jokes | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast w Matchmaker MariaIt's a bittersweet episode as Matchmaker Maria is joined one last time by her favorite guest co-host, comedian @tarajokes ! Together, they dive into one of Maria's signature hotline episodes, packed with laughs, wisdom, and a little tough love❤️ This week, Maria and Tara tackle a Matchmaker Mail 💌 from someone struggling to voice her wants in a relationship. How do you express your needs without fear of coming across as too demanding—or worse, scaring someone off? Maria and Tara break it down step-by-step, offering practical tips on how to communicate clearly and confidently. "It's not about being 'too much...
2025-01-2831 minAsk a MatchmakerFreeze For Your Future w Monica Matta & Tara Jokes | Ask a Matchmaker pod w Matchmaker MariaThis week, Matchmaker Maria and comedian Tara Cannistraci , @tarajokes , are joined by special guest Monica, a founder of Conceivable Reproductive, a concierge service helping women navigate fertility options abroad In this heartfelt episode, Tara shares her personal story of freezing her eggs at 33—a decision she made during a time of uncertainty about wanting kids and focusing on dating. Monica sheds light on why more women are turning to international fertility treatments and how Conceivable Reproductive is empowering them to take control of their reproductive journeys. From navigating modern dating to making big life decisions, this episode dives...
2025-01-2142 minAsk a MatchmakerMarathon Dates vs. Coffee Dates w Ricky Liorti & Tara Cannistraci | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast Matchmaker MariaThis week, Matchmaker Maria and comedian Tara Cannistraci, AKA Tara Jokes are joined by Ricky Liorti, the man behind the viral "boyfriend application" that took the internet by storm! Despite receiving thousands of DMs from potential matches, Ricky never went on a single date—but now he's here to talk all things dating in 2025. In this episode, Ricky shares his love for marathon first dates, insisting they should be extravagant, unforgettable, and last 7–8 hours. Matchmaker Maria fiercely disagrees, advocating for short and simple coffee dates (no more than 2 hours!) as the perfect way to build a connection withou...
2025-01-1441 minAsk a MatchmakerYear of Yes with Tara Cannistraci AKA TaraJokes | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast Matchmaker MariaKick off 2025 with Matchmaker Maria as she sits down with comedian Tara Cannistraci, host of the Coffee Talk podcast, for an inspiring conversation about love, dating, and embracing new opportunities. Tara shares her journey of singlehood, celebrating her Bronx roots, and finding love in her late 30s during her transformative "Year of Yes." Maria and Tara explore the ups and downs of dating, the importance of shared cultural values, and how changing your mindset can lead to meaningful relationships. They also open up about stepping outside their comfort zones in dating and the unexpected paths that led...
2025-01-0735 minAsk a MatchmakerHow To Be Dateable Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast Matchmaker MariaHappy New Year! On this special episode of Ask a Matchmaker, Matchmaker Maria is joined by the dynamic duo behind the Dateable podcast, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu! They're here to talk about their brand-new book, How to Be Dateable, and officially hitting shelves on January 28th 🎉 In this fun and insightful conversation, Maria dives into the origins of Julie and Yue's decade-long podcasting journey, their mission to uncover the mysteries of modern dating, and what makes someone truly dateable. The authors share personal stories, defining moments in their friendship, and their thoughtful definition of what it mea...
2024-12-3147 minAsk a MatchmakerChristmas Calls w Edson Montenegro & Chris Welles | Ask a Matchmaker Pod Matchmaker Maria Happy Holidays!! Matchmaker Maria is joined by returning co-host Edson,and special guest Chris for a festive and heartfelt Christmas Eve hotline episode! The trio spreads holiday cheer with hilarious banter about relationships, family traditions, and even personal Santa sightings! While the holiday spirit is in full swing, the episode dives into some of the more serious listener dilemmas, including how to handle a surprising number of questions about divorce—whether it's processing your own, supporting a friend, or navigating awkward announcements at networking events. From debating if Die Hard is a Christmas movie (spoiler: it is) to...
2024-12-2430 minAsk a MatchmakerNon-Binary & Pronouns 101 w Edson Montenegro & Chris Welles | Ask a Matchmaker Pod Matchmaker MariaLet's 👏 learn👏 This week, Maria is joined by comedian and guest co-host Edson, who brought along their best friend, Chris. Both Edson and Chris are non-binary, gay individuals who use they/them pronouns, and they're here to share their personal experiences, perspectives, and humor on what it means to exist outside the gender binary. From lighthearted anecdotes about childhood moments to navigating conversations around pronouns, Maria asks the questions we all want to better understand. Edson and Chris break down the fluidity of gender identity, discuss finding authenticity, and explore how evolving language creates safer, more inclusive spaces...
2024-12-1738 minAsk a MatchmakerHow To Make a Friend w Aaron Karo & Edson Montenegro | Ask a Matchmaker Pod Matchmaker MariaMatchmaker Maria is joined by her cohost Edson and special guest Aaron Karo to explore the fascinating world of friendships—what they mean, how they evolve, and why they matter. Aaron shares the story of his viral college newsletter Ruminations, how it shaped his early career, and how he and Maria turned a parasocial connection into a real-life friendship. They also dive into Aaron's annual "Man of the Year" tradition with his childhood friends, which has kept their bond strong for decades. The conversation takes a deeper turn as they discuss the "friendship recession," a tr...
2024-12-1028 minAsk a MatchmakerWhat's an Open Relationship? w Edson Montenegro | Ask a Matchmaker Pod Matchmaker MariaIt's a special episode as Matchmaker Maria celebrates her milestone 40th birthday with this month's new co-host, comedian Edson! Between birthday hats, balloons, and confetti-free festivities, Maria and Edson dive into a lively conversation about love, connection, and the dynamics of open relationships. Edson shares his personal journey of being in an open relationship with his long-term partner, discussing how they set boundaries, explore new experiences, and maintain trust while navigating both emotional and physical connections. Along the way, Maria provides her signature no-nonsense insights into how open relationships work, how to have honest conversations about intimacy...
2024-12-0335 minAsk a MatchmakerThanksgiving Hotline Gravy Grace & Getting Real w Sam Santos | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast w Matchmaker MariaHappy Thanksgiving! What are you thankful for this year? This week Maria is joined by special guest co-host Sam Santos for a heartfelt and hilarious Thanksgiving-themed hotline episode! Together, they tackle your burning relationship questions with Maria's signature wisdom and Sam's delightful humor, offering compassionate advice to help you navigate tricky situations during the holiday season! From creative ways to welcome your boyfriend's mom for Thanksgiving to supporting friends through marital challenges, Maria and Sam dive deep into the complexities of love, family, and dating. They explore sensitive topics like how to disclose personal challenges, such as...
2024-11-2636 minAsk a MatchmakerMoving in & Money Parties with Sam Santos & Fiscal Femme | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast w Matchmaker MariaIn this week's episode, Matchmaker Maria is joined by co-host Sam Santos and returning guest Ashley Feinstein Gerstley, a financial expert known as the Fiscal Femme, to discuss the crucial topic of finances in relationships Sam shares her personal experience of moving in with her boyfriend—how they navigate shared expenses, their approach to financial planning, and what it's like transitioning from her own space to his family home. Ashley provides insightful tips on how to discuss money with your partner, align financial goals, and ensure both partners feel secure in their contributions. Maria also di...
2024-11-1932 minAsk a MatchmakerPina Coladas & Political Clashes: Finding Love in a Polarized World with Louie Felix | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast w Matchmaker MariaMatchmaker Maria hosts from Mexico! where she's attending the 12th Annual Matchmakers Alliance Conference. Joining her is guest co-host Louis Felix, a seasoned matchmaker with over 20 years in the industry. Together, they reminisce about the early days of the conference and its mission to bring matchmakers together in a collaborative, supportive community—something Maria co-founded with fellow matchmakers Michelle Jacoby and Laurie Berzack. Beyond the industry insights, Maria and Louis dive into the shifting landscape of dating in a politically charged era. With the recent election still fresh, they share candid thoughts on how political divides are af...
2024-11-1228 minAsk a MatchmakerVoting & Values: Navigating Relationships in a Politically Charged World | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast w Matchmaker MariaIn this timely episode, Matchmaker Maria welcomes back co-host Samantha Santos for a candid discussion on how politics shape our closest relationships and dating choices. EARLY EPISODE DROP ALERT! 🚨 🗳 As Election Day approaches, Matchmaker Maria and Sam delve into how political beliefs influence compatibility, friendships, and even the matchmaking process, bringing to light the personal stakes involved in voting and civic engagement. Drawing from her matchmaking experience, Maria highlights key issues—such as women's healthcare—that have become major deal-breakers in dating. Sam, meanwhile, shares stories of friendships that have shifted due to political differences, emphasizing the emotional...
2024-11-0329 minAsk a MatchmakerHeartbreak to Healing: Rebuilding Trust with Samantha Santos | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast w Matchmaker MariaTrusting after heartbreak! In this episode of Ask a Matchmaker, host Maria invites comedian and podcast host Samantha Santos to share her raw, heartfelt journey of rediscovering trust after a deeply painful betrayal. Together, they dive into Sam's shocking story of catching her ex-fiancé cheating and how that revelation shattered her perception of love and commitment. Maria and Samantha unpack the emotional toll of such heartbreak, shedding light on the struggles many people face when trying to trust again after being deceived. This episode isn't just for singles; it's for anyone invested in improving their relationship dynamics. M...
2024-10-2939 minAsk a MatchmakerHealing Hearts: Dating Through Grief w Jenny Zigrino & Gina Moffa | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast w Matchmaker MariaWe're delving into a poignant topic that touches many hearts—dating after loss. They're joined by grief and trauma therapist, Gina Martha, who brings over 20 years of expertise in helping individuals navigate life transitions, including breakups, divorce, and the devastating impact of death. Today's discussion takes a more sensitive turn as they talk about the challenges of finding love after losing a loved one. Jenny, still navigating the loss of her sister, opens up about her personal struggles, asking Gina for advice on how to handle grief while trying to maintain connections with others. Jenny also talks ab...
2024-10-2241 minAsk a MatchmakerDating FOMO & Awkward Moments w Jenny Zigrino | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast w Matchmaker MariaNew episode with Matchmaker Maria and comedian @jennyzigrino ! Maria has some big news—she's got a book coming out, and the cover reveal is happening right on air! Check it out out on YouTube! Maria and Jenny chat about the book, manifesting success, and the importance of preorders. Jenny's been busy with her comedy tour, sharing funny stories from Alaska. The conversation shifts to Jenny's online dating life, and Maria checks in on the changes Jenny made to her profiles after some advice. They explore what it means to be an "alpha" or "beta" in dating, poking fu...
2024-10-1532 minAsk a MatchmakerCore Desires w Jenny Zigrino & Intimacy with Leandra | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast w Matchmaker MariaNew episode with Matchmaker Maria and comedian @jennyzigrino who have the amazing Intimacy with Leandra on! Jenny adds her signature humor, while Leandra offers expert guidance on s3x, intimacy, and relationships. Leandra explains her role as a somatic s3x and relationship coach, helping people and couples explore and improve their intimate connections without crossing physical boundaries. She shares her experience working with individuals on everything from building secure attachment to understanding physical touch. Leandra delves into the importance of identifying your "core desires" during s3x and how understanding them can empower you in your...
2024-10-0840 minAsk a MatchmakerUpdate that Dating App ! w Jenny Zigrino | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaIn this episode of Ask a Matchmaker, Matchmaker Maria teams up with comedian Jenny Zigrino to talk all things dating apps and relationship deal breakers. They explore how to navigate the world of dating apps, why it's sometimes better to swap swipes for real-life experiences like pottery classes, and what it's really like to date… a puppeteer. Next, Maria dives into Jenny's Hinge profile, uncovering stunning photos but advising some key updates to her first few picks. From refreshing profile prompts to optimizing her photos, Maria is on a mission to help Jenny put her best foot for...
2024-10-0143 minAsk a MatchmakerSurviving the Unthinkable: Lolita Jackson's Journey Through 9/11Ask A Matchmaker is Coming Back! In this gripping and deeply emotional episode, Matchmaker Maria brings you the extraordinary story of Lolita Jackson, a woman who not only witnessed history but survived its darkest days. Lolita's journey is not just one of survival; it's a testament to the strength of the human spirit, the power of resilience, and the courage it takes to rebuild a life after unimaginable loss. Lolita Jackson was a high-achieving chemical engineer turned Wall Street professional, working at Dean Witter, which later merged with Morgan Stanley, in the World...
2024-09-101h 07Ask a MatchmakerFinding Your People: The Importance of Community in New ExperiencesIn this heartfelt and inspiring episode of the "Ask a Matchmaker" podcast, Matchmaker Maria sits down with Amalia Kalogridakis, the newly appointed CEO of Agape Escapes, to delve into the profound impact of finding and connecting with like-minded individuals. Broadcasting from a cozy setting in Greece, they explore Amalia's personal journey of navigating major life transitions, including her separation and divorce after a 14-year relationship, and how finding new purpose and hope through travel helped her reset and rediscover herself. Amalia shares how her involvement with Agape Escapes, a travel company born from Maria's match-making company, provided...
2024-07-1157 minAsk a MatchmakerStress, Strategies, and Summer in GreeceJoin Matchmaker Maria in this engaging episode of the "Ask the Matchmaker Hotline," recorded from the comfort of her home. Maria shares the whirlwind of her current life, from finalizing her book manuscript to preparing for an extended stay in Greece. Alongside special guest and fellow matchmaker, Louie Felix, they dive into the intricacies of dating assessments and the art of matchmaking. Louie, the Chief Operating Officer at Agape Match, brings his extensive experience to the table, discussing the evolution and significance of dating assessment calls. The episode explores the impact of personalized advice on dating success...
2024-06-1959 minAsk a MatchmakerPatio Season and Finding Emotionally Secure Partners with Lily WombleIn this episode of the "Ask a Matchmaker" podcast, Matchmaker Maria is joined by dating coach and author Lily Womble to celebrate the release of her new book, "Thank You, More Please." They dive into the core principles of feminist dating, discussing how traditional dating advice often fails women by perpetuating patriarchal norms. Lily shares insights on her 12-Date Rule method, designed to shift focus from physical to emotional compatibility, and offers practical steps for a dating detox to help reset your approach to finding love. They also explore the importance of agency and self-compassion in dating, and discuss...
2024-06-1142 minAsk a MatchmakerCaregiving Challenges and Dating Realities: A Deep Dive with Katie BrandtIn this heartfelt episode of the Ask a Matchmaker podcast, host Matchmaker Maria sits down with Katie Brandt, a dedicated caregiving advocate. Katie shares her deeply personal journey of balancing marriage, motherhood, and the immense responsibilities of caregiving for her husband diagnosed with frontotemporal dementia at 29 and later her father with Alzheimer's. Together, they discuss the emotional, physical, and financial challenges caregivers face, the impact on dating and relationships, and the importance of finding community support. Whether you're a caregiver or someone navigating the dating world while caring for a loved one, this episode offers valuable insights and hope...
2024-06-0459 minAsk a MatchmakerBills, Bridesmaids, and Banter: Hotline Edition with Chrissy RutherfordIn this week's episode, I'm thrilled to welcome my good friend Chrissy Rutherford to the show! Together, we dive deep into the ever-evolving world of dating and relationships. We'll kick things off with a lively debate on a classic dating dilemma: who should foot the bill on a date? From there, we'll unpack the dos and don'ts of bridesmaid etiquette, offering our insights on how to handle the common challenges and expectations that come with the role. Plus, we're spicing things up with some hilariously entertaining questions submitted by our listeners through our hotline. Don't miss this fun, candid...
2024-05-2845 minAsk a MatchmakerHouse Hunting vs. Spouse Hunting: Surprising Similarities!🎙️ In this week's episode of Ask A Matchmaker, join me and my sister, Matchmaker Chrisoula, as we dive into some thrilling personal news—I've just bought my first home! 🏡 We're excited to share all the details about the journey and what this new chapter means for me. Plus, we're taking your Hotline questions live! Don't miss out on this heartfelt and celebratory episode! *******Stay Connected!******** @matchmakermaria (Follow!) @askamatchmaker (Follow the pod!) Make sure to subscribe and sign up for notifications for fantastic dating and relationship advice brought to you by Maria Avgit...
2024-05-211h 17Ask a MatchmakerHotline Edition: Your Wedding, Marriage, and Relationship Questions Answered!On this Hotline episode, we are joined by comedian, Caitlin Peluffo where we answer your questions about the world of weddings, marriage, and relationships! 🎉💍❤️ Join us as we take your live calls, offering personal advice, sharing experiences, and discussing everything from the magic of wedding planning to the complexities of long-term relationships. Originally hailing from San Francisco, Caitlin Peluffo is a stand-up comedian living in New York City. This lovable loose cannon made her network television debut on The Late Show with Stephen Colbert, was featured on the Late Late Show with James Corden, and has been seen on CBS...
2024-05-141h 09Ask a MatchmakerSingle Saturdays: Bringing Your Best Self to Singles Events In this enlightening episode of Ask a Matchmaker, Maria is joined by dynamic duo Nick Rosen and Natalie Cramer, the brains behind the popular singles dating event, Single Saturdays, hosted on Eventbrite. Dive into the behind-the-scenes of organizing these vibrant gatherings and discover the secrets to making meaningful connections. Whether you're looking to meet someone special or just want to expand your social circle, this discussion is packed with practical advice on approaching group events with confidence, positivity, and the right energy. Learn how to overcome shyness and bring your best self to every social opportunity. Tune in to...
2024-05-0736 minAsk a MatchmakerThe Most Difficult Conversations That Can Ruin Your Relationship with Dr. Heather BrowneJoin us for an enlightening episode as we welcome esteemed psychotherapist Dr. Heather Browne. This week, we delve into the art of conscious communication and explore three crucial conversations that can either strengthen or jeopardize your relationship. Tune in to gain expert insights and practical advice on navigating these pivotal discussions for a healthier, more connected partnership. For 25 years, Dr Heather Browne has gracefully balanced the roles of psychotherapist and mother, finding deep fulfillment in both. Renowned for her adeptness in guiding individuals through tangled thought patterns and illuminating alternative perspectives, she's earned the affectionate moniker the "...
2024-04-2854 minAsk a MatchmakerAre You Still Single? Dating Profile Top 5 Mistakes On this week's episode, I am joined by Kirsy Lovett. We improve her online dating profile and we take some hotline questions together! New York native, first-generation Dominican-American, content creator and model Kirsy Lovett translates her love of fitness, beauty and fashion into compelling content for her followers on Instagram, Tiktok and her website, kirsylovett.com. She has been tapped for campaigns for brands including H&M, Meta, Kiehl's, Reformation, Free People and Grey Goose, to name a few. As well as working on her own brand LVTT which carries swimsuits made in the Dominican Republic and...
2024-04-241h 08Ask a MatchmakerAnxious Attachment and How To Overcome Codependency Revealed!On this week's episode, we are joined by Chris Rackliffe to discuss anxious attachment styles, signs of codependency, and tools for getting over the fear of abandonment. Chris Rackliffe, also known as @crackliffe, is a trauma healer, mental health advocate, anxious attachment style coach, and author of the self-help book, It's Good to See Me Again: How to Find Your Way When You Feel Lost—an illuminating guidebook on the journey to find emotional healing. Chris has worked with hundreds of people around the world to help them heal their anxious attachment style and grow more secure, sharing everything he's lea...
2024-04-1654 minAsk a MatchmakerI'm Happy I Don't Want Kids - Alison LeibyAlison Leiby is a writer and comedian in New York. She has written for The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, Life & Beth, The President Show, and many others. Her stand up has appeared on Comedy Central and her solo hour, "Oh God, A Show About Abortion" ran off-Broadway at the Cherry Lane theater with multiple extensions and had a run at the Kennedy Center. She's the cohost of the podcast Ruined with Halle Kiefer, who runs a different horror movie for Alison each week. @ruinedpodcast on socials! Follow Alison at @Alison Leiby. Follow Maria at @MatchmakerMaria and th...
2024-04-091h 10Ask a MatchmakerUnbelievable! How Women Pay More for EVERYTHING! with Janine RoganThis week's guest is Janine Rogan, author of The Pink Tax and founder of the Wealth Building Academy. Janine's mission is to educate and empower women to grow their wealth confidently and profitably through financial feminism—financial equality for all. Janine has been featured internationally in a number of publications and has delivered keynotes to thousands of individuals and companies around the world. She currently sits on the CPA Alberta Education Foundation board, the board of FESA, and the planning committee of the AICPA Global Women's Leadership Summit. Janine is a University of Alberta alumni, born and ra...
2024-03-191h 09Ask a MatchmakerSisters Spill Secrets: The Unfiltered Truth About Modern DatingIt's a family affair! Matchmaker Maria brings on Matchmaker Chrisoula and they discuss their childhood memories, 90s movies, YentaCon, and what they're doing in NYC together. They also take your hotline questions!! You can work with Maria and Chrisoula by either joining the matchmaking database at agapematch.com or enrolling in an upcoming Agape Intensive. https://agapematch.com/agape-group-coaching-intensive/ (https://agapematch.com/agape-group-coaching-intensive/) Follow the podcast ***** Work with Matchmaker Maria and her team! Book a personalized strategy call with our expert matchmaker to gain valuable insights and tailored advice. https://calendly.co...
2024-03-121h 14Ask a MatchmakerMoney Party with the Fiscal Femme, Ashley FeinsteinMoney parties? Amazon 30? Budgeting while dating? We've got the answer this week with personal finance expert Ashley Feinstein Gerstley! Ashley is a CFP®, speaker, and the author of Financial Adulting and The 30-Day Money Cleanse. She founded The Fiscal Femme, a feminist money platform and has helped thousands of people feel financially confident, achieve major financial goals, and destress their relationships with money. Follow Ashley! Instagram: @thefiscalfemme TikTok: @thefiscalfemme LinkedIn: knowingyourworth Buy her books: The 30-Day Money Cleanse https://amzn.to/3V3cdqI Financial Adulting - https://amzn.to/3V23RzG...
2024-03-0553 minAsk a MatchmakerWho TF Did I Marry w/ Joyelle Nicole JohnsonReesa Teesa captivated millions of TikTokers with her 50-part series, "Who TF Did I Marry" and two of those people included Matchmaker Maria and incredibly talented stand up comedian Joyelle Nicole Johnson. On this week's episode of "Ask a Matchmaker," we talked about pathological liars and our listeners called in to tell us the biggest lie they were told by someone they were dating! Joyelle is an everywhere-based stand-up comedian, writer, and actress, renowned for her ability to heal through laughter. With appearances on major platforms like After Midnight, The Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon...
2024-02-2756 min
Ask a MatchmakerThe Best Greek Kok feat. Gus Constantellis & Christina MavronasWelcome to another exciting episode of Ask a Matchmaker! This week, Maria sits down with two remarkable individuals who bring humor, culture, and a whole lot of heart to the table. Joining her are Gus Constantellis and Christina Mavronas, the dynamic duo behind the @welcometotheneighborhoodpod. Gus, a Greek-American comedian known for his viral immigrant culture observations, and Christina, a Brooklynite with Greek roots and a knack for blending humor with the human experience, bring their unique perspectives to the table. From Gus's rise from Brooklyn to national headlining tours to Christina's journey through dance to filmmaking, their stories are as...
2024-02-2054 minAsk a MatchmakerEvery Guy Wants To Seggs You - Hotline EpisodeHappy Valentines Day from your favorite matchmaker! Solo hotline! Wowee! ******** Want a Valentine for next year? Let's make it happen! Enroll in an upcoming Agape Intensive and receive a complete dating mindset shift. Enroll in virtual: https://agapematch.com/agape-group-coaching-intensive/ Enroll in person: https://www.wetravel.com/trips/agape-intensive-in-real-life-nyc-2024-agape-escapes-llc-new-york-62720558 You can also join Maria's database or become a matchmaking client! Visit https://agapematch.com Maria also hosts women's retreats to Greece each summer. Join an Escape, enjoy the culin...
2024-02-1353 minAsk a MatchmakerHow Your Friends Can Find You A HusbandJulia is a brand strategist, social media consultant, and content creator! Over the past few years she has coached hundreds of clients to help them land their dream jobs, partnered with students to craft essays that have landed them admission into top institutions and worked with brands to help them amplify their social media presence and increase revenue. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/smarterinasec/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@smarterinasec Website: https://smarterinasec.com/ Substack: https://substack.com/@smarterinasec Make sure to subscribe and sign u...
2024-02-061h 02Ask a MatchmakerHard Launch My Husband with Iris SmylesIn this week's episode Iris finds love and marriage. In a whirlwind romance when two people are ready to have serious conversations so they can begin the rest of their lives together, Iris's story is one of hope and opportunity. Iris Smyles is the author of the novels Iris Has Free Time (which Forbes called "an instant classic… a smart, funny, wise, and sometimes heartbreaking book about a slowly fizzling love affair with youth,"), Dating Tips for the Unemployed (a semi-finalist for the Thurber Prize for American Humor), and, most recently, Droll Tales ("Delightfully weird" - Sp...
2024-01-301h 03Ask a MatchmakerGen Z Secrets For Dating with Carrie BerkCarrie Berk shares her dating adventures in her latest book My Real-Life Rom Com. It's a truthful exploration of Gen Z life and love and the book is packed with humor and advice that takes the edge off uncomfortable parent/teen conversations. Her book: https://amzn.to/41ZwVta Follow on IG & TikTok: @CarrieBerkk Join Maria's database or become a matchmaking client! Visit https://agapematch.com Register for Maria's next Agape Intensive IRL in NYC - https://www.wetravel.com/trips/agape-intensive-in-real-life-nyc-2024-agape-escapes-llc-new-york-62720558 Or join an upcoming Virtual Agape Intensive - https://agapematch.com...
2024-01-2354 minAsk a MatchmakerFrozen Eggs, Tunnels and Gypsy Rose with Gianmarco SoresiComedian Gianmarco Soresi has his Netflix comedy premiere out now, in Verified Stand-Up. He's currently on the "Leaning In Tour" with shows all over the U.S. and Canada, after his European leg sold out completely. He's also the host of "The Downside" podcast where complaining is encouraged and silver linings debunked. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gianmarcosoresi/ Website: http://www.gianmarcosoresi.com/ ---- New Year! New Dating Strategy! Join Maria's database or become a matchmaking client! Visit https://agapematch.com Register for Maria's next Agape Intensive IRL in NYC - https://www.wetravel.com/trips/agape-intensive-in-real-life-nyc-2024-agape-escapes-llc-new-york-62720558 Or join an...
2024-01-1652 minAsk a MatchmakerLive Hotline Episode with Dating Coach Erika EttinNew Year! New Dating Strategy! Work with Erika and Maria and re-vamp your dating in 2024! Schedule an upcoming dating strategy call for more information: https://calendly.com/felix-louie OR work with Maria and her matchmaking team. Visit AgapeMatch.com! Erika Ettin is a dating coach, helping people navigate the world of online dating, from first click to first date. Erika studied economics at Cornell University and received her MBA from Georgetown. She started date coaching in 2011 (after a seven-year career as an economist). She is responsible for many relationships, marriages, and the confidence some people simply need to "get out there." F...
2024-01-0952 minAsk a MatchmakerF the Fairy Tale with Damona HoffmanHappy New Year! Does your dating mindset need a total reset? Join or gift and upcoming Agape Intensive agapeintensive.com Or schedule an upcoming dating assessment for yourself or a friend: https://calendly.com/felix-louie And, of course, work with Maria and her matchmaking team. Visit AgapeMatch.com. Damona Hoffman is a Relationship Coach as well as a TV host, Podcaster, and Speaker. She is a regular cast member of The Drew Barrymore Show and a frequent contributor to NPR, The Washington Post, The LA Times, and Access Hollywood. Also, Damona hosted the FreshBooks entrepreneurship podcast, I Make a Living, as well...
2024-01-0236 minAsk a MatchmakerLive Hotline Episode with MichalWant to travel to Greece with Maria? Check out the itinerary for her next #Escape2Paros: https://www.agapeescapes.com/paros-2024 Does your dating mindset need a total reset? Join or gift an upcoming Agape Intensive agapeintensive.com Or schedule an upcoming dating assessment for yourself or a friend: https://calendly.com/felix-louie And, of course, work with Maria and her matchmaking team. Visit AgapeMatch.com. Michal has passion for connecting people, fostering healthy relationships, and educating on human sexuality. She's more than just a matchmaker; she's a super-connector. Michal earned her Bachelor's degree in Jewish Studies from Penn St...
2023-12-261h 12Ask a MatchmakerDon't Do This On Dating Apps With Talia Lichtstein & Jake CornellOn this week's episode we talk about the best Jewish dating apps, generational differences in life, Do's and Don't with dating apps, and we take your live questions. Indulge! Want to travel to Greece with Maria? Check out the itinerary for her next #Escape2Paros: https://www.agapeescapes.com/paros-2024 Does your dating mindset need a total reset? Join or gift and upcoming Agape Intensive agapeintensive.com Or schedule an upcoming dating assessment for yourself or a friend: https://calendly.com/felix-louie And, of course, work with Maria and her matchmaking team. Visit AgapeMatch.com. Follow this week's guests! @Talialichtstein and @jakewc...
2023-12-1953 minAsk a MatchmakerDo I buy my situationship a gift this Christmas? Hotline with Jordyn WoodruffToday we discuss the type of gift to get your situationship vs relationship. We also answer your live hotline questions! Indulge :) Jordyn, 28, is a content creator, based in NYC where she shares her life on Instagram, TikTok and YouTube. Besides being a full time content creator, Jordyn is the co-host of Mean Girl Podcast and also helped found and is COO of, Just Media, which is a media network created for creators by creators. Follow her! TikTok: @jordynwoodruff Instagram: @jordynwoodruff Podcast IG: @meangirlpod Make sure to subscribe and sign up for notifications for fantastic dating and relationship advice brought to yo...
2023-12-1250 minAsk a MatchmakerLive Hotline with Paris CampbellParis Campbell is a Comedian and Actor from NYC. Paris has been featured in numerous publications, including The NY Times, NY Post, Fortune, and Unilad. Paris' jokes are inspired by her own life and experiences, she often crafts material about her unusual family, being on the spectrum, and being a single parent. In addition to performing all over the country, Paris has had the opportunity to appear on shows at The Stand, Broadway Comedy Club, Helium, Jimmy Kimmel's Comedy Club and Don't Tell Comedy. Paris also creates short-form video content online and has a large following on TikTok, with over 580,000...
2023-12-061h 03Ask a MatchmakerI Survived 9/11 featuring Lolita Jackson, MBELolita Jackson MBE is the Executive Director of Sustainable Cities at Sustainable Development Capital LLP, a multibillion-pound climate investment firm. She is the link to governments around the world, also working on business development and origination. Lolita previously worked for the NYC Mayor's Office for 15 years in a variety of roles. She last served as the Special Advisor for Climate Policy & Programs, where she was the climate diplomat for NYC and lead for the administration regarding global work on divestment and climate finance. Prior to her tenure in the NYC Mayor's Office, Lolita worked for Morgan Stanley Investment Management...
2023-11-281h 04Ask a MatchmakerLive Hotline Episode with Dr. Celeste Holbrook Dr. Celeste Holbrook is a sex educator and speaker who has dedicated her life to helping people achieve pleasurable, connective sex through mental and behavioral changes. She speaks to audiences of all ages, diffusing the sensitive topic of sex through humor and a knack for making the awkward approachable. Celeste believes that everyone deserves to define their own pleasure and uses the lens of sexuality to teach us how. Erotic Sandbox Free download https://drcelesteholbrook.myflodesk.com/273eb443-bddf-4a8a-be91-47acf3daef41 www.drcelesteholbrook.com Follow her on...
2023-11-211h 03Ask a MatchmakerHow To Use Your Awkwardness As A Superpower w/ Henna Pryor | Matchmaker MariaIn this week's episode, we talk about the WORST episode of The Office, who should pay on a first date, using awkwardness as your superpower, and much more. Indulge! Make sure to subscribe and sign up for notifications for fantastic dating and relationship advice brought to you by Maria Avgitidis! Buy Henna's book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1646871456 Henna Pryor, PCC is a highly sought after Workplace Performance Expert and an award-winning 2x TEDx and global keynote speaker, executive facilitator, and coach. Her clients call her their "secret weapon for impossible change," an honor she wears proudly. She's kn...
2023-11-1441 minAsk a MatchmakerHotline Edition: Bumble Blocking Ghosters with Louie Felix | Matchmaker MariaI had to get my work husband and fellow matchmaker, Louie Felix to take your hotline questions, discuss why Bumble is blocking ghosters, how to ask for a second date, and more! INDULGE! Want to book a sess with Louie? https://calendly.com/felix-louie and follow him on IG @louiefelix Make sure to subscribe and sign up for notifications for fantastic dating and relationship advice brought to you by Maria Avgitidis! 🤩 Check out My Websites and Socials! 🙃 💖Podcast Website: https://www.askamatchmaker.com/ 💖Agape Match Website: https://agapematch.com/ 💖Matchmaker Maria TikTok: realmat...
2023-11-0733 minAsk a MatchmakerJordan Peterson and the Ideal Form of Masculinity with Christine Emba | Matchmaker MariaChristine Emba is an opinion columnist and editor at The Washington Post, where she focuses on ideas, society, and culture. Her first book, Rethinking Sex: A Provocation is about the failures and potential of the sexual revolution in a post-#MeToo world. She was named one of the World's Top 50 Thinkers by Prospect Magazine in 2022. "Men are Lost" essay (gift link): https://wapo.st/46mFZJo Rethinking Sex, book: https://www.amazon.com/Rethinking-Sex-Provocation-Christine-Emba/dp/0593087569 Substack https://christineemba.substack.com/about Washington Post follow page: https://www.washingtonpost.com/people/christine-emba/ Instagram, Twitter, Threads, etc: @christineemba Make sure to subscribe an...
2023-10-2456 minAsk a MatchmakerSmoking is Better For Your Health Than Loneliness with Mark Greene | Matchmaker MariaOur guest this week is Mark Greene. Mark writes, speaks, coaches and consults on the challenges we face as men, women and non-binary people impacted by our dominance-based Man Box culture of masculinity. He is the author of the groundbreaking The Little #MeToo Book for Men, Remaking Manhood, the Battle Against Dominance-Based Masculinity and co-author with Dr. Saliha Bava of the Relational Book for Parenting. The Little #MeToo Book for Men- In just 75 pages, a roadmap for understanding and breaking out of Man Box culture. https://a.co/d/iCZCpCH Remaking Manhood website: http://remakingmanhood.com Follow Mark on IG at...
2023-10-1756 minAsk a MatchmakerHotline Edition: Maria & Louie Are Back Discussing Dating Advice & Answering Your QuestionsNEW STUDIO!!! Of course, I had to get my work husband and fellow matchmaker, Louie Felix to kick off my first episode in studio. We take your hotline questions, discuss why men are constantly thinking about the Roman Empire, chat GPT, dating advice, and more! INDULGE! Want to book a sess with Louie? https://calendly.com/felix-louie and follow him on IG @louiefelix Make sure to subscribe and sign up for notifications for fantastic dating and relationship advice brought to you by Maria Avgitidis! Check out My Websites and Socials! Ask a Question HERE: https://www.askamatchmaker.com...
2023-10-0342 minAsk a MatchmakerMaria Shares the Five Fives Challenge with her Husband, GeorgeIt's the end of the season and Maria wraps it up with a chat with her husband, George! They talk about the latest Agape Retreat in Greece and the future of upcoming events as well as the importance of dating each other even when you're married. Plus, Maria has some homework for you before the final season... it's the Five Fives Challenge! -Contact five friends — not your core friend group, but in your periphery or acquaintances, and ask them to set you up once before Labor Day. -D...
2023-07-1855 minAsk a Matchmaker#108 - Hotline Edition: Maria Goes On a Rant About Women's Preferences in Height in MenWe're answering YOUR questions again this week! If you have a question you'd like to personally ask Maria, be sure to follow her on Insta to know when the hotline will open up next! @MatchmakerMaria This week, we talk about… How do I find confidence in my body and myself when going out on a date? Should I move to a new city to find men that meet my criteria? Maria goes on a rant about women's preference in height in men. (She is 5'11''. Do what you will with that information.) (this episode orig...
2022-07-1334 minAsk a Matchmaker#107 - Maria Chats With Two Agape Intensive Grads about How They Found Their Loves You've heard Maria talk about the Agape Intensive program. But what is it like? What happens? This week, Maria speaks with Elena and Amanda, two graduates from the program to tell you their experience being in the program and about how they ended up meeting their person after the program!It's more than just a way to help you meet your person. It's a community of people going through the same thing that become friends that support each other. Also, be sure to check out Elena's awesome podcast, Blind Date with a Book, which Maria was a guest on!Fol...
2022-07-0652 min
Ask a Matchmaker#63 - BEST OF: That Episode on Long Distance Relationships with Maria's Husband, George While Maria takes a few weeks off, we're revisiting some of her favorite episodes! The new season of the podcast starts in September! Long distance relationships are brought up every week on Ask a Matchmaker on Instagram. This week, we dig deep into the topic with The King and Queen of Long Distance, Maria and her husband, George! They met in Boston while George was living up there and Maria was still in New York City. For the next SIX YEARS (!!), they dated, got married and had a kid while li...
2021-09-0157 min
Ask a Matchmaker#44 - That Episode on Long Distance Relationships with Maria's Husband, George Long distance relationships are brought up every week on Ask a Matchmaker on Instagram. This week, we dig deep into the topic with The King and Queen of Long Distance, Maria and her husband, George! They met in Boston while George was living up there and Maria was still in New York City. For the next SIX YEARS (!!), they dated, got married and had a kid while living hundreds of miles apart! Don't worry, they're finally together in New Jersey! But how did the two of them do...
2021-04-2155 min
Ask a Matchmaker#28 - That Episode Where Maria and Her Husband Talk About 2020 It's the end of the year, and you're in for a special treat. This week, Maria welcomes her husband, George. The two of them talk about what 2020 has been like for them as a couple and as a family. Plus, they share some books and shows they've enjoyed through the pandemic that you might use to relax this week. To learn how Maria can help you find love in 2021, go to: https://linktr.ee/agapematch Follow Maria on Instagram Follow Maria on TikTok Have a question for Maria? Visit http://a...
2020-12-3029 min
Ask a Matchmaker#17 - That Episode with Maria's Work Husband, Matchmaker Louie Felix This week, you're getting not one, but TWO matchmakers! Joining Maria on this week's episode is her work husband, the Chief Operating Officer and Matchmaker at Agape Match, Louie Felix! Louie Felix is matchmaking industry leader. His corporate startup and acquisition background brought him to the forefront of the relationship industry when he was contracted for the acquisition for a high end Beverly Hills-based matchmaking company. From there, he went on to serve as the CEO of two of the country's largest matchmaking companies, as well as simultaneously acquiring and running the la...
2020-10-1443 min
Ask a MatchmakerWelcome to Ask a Matchmaker!Hosted by four generation matchmaker and founder of Agape Match, Maria Avgitidis, Ask a Matchmaker gives you no-nonse insight into dating, relationships, compatibility, and love. Maria and her weekly special guest answer questions to help you venture through the jungle that is modern love. Whether you're looking for someone or you're happily taken, Maria will keep you inspired to keep going down the path of love every week, and hopefully gain a great tip or two to ignite the spark or keep the sparks flying! Find Maria on Instagram at instagram.com/matchmakermaria
2020-07-0101 min