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Ask a MatchmakerTherapy Is the New ‘I Love You’ with Joyelle Nicole Johnson | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaThis week, Matchmaker Maria is joined by her hilarious and heartfelt co-host for the month, comedian Joyelle Nicole Johnson! They dive deep into what it really means to love someone, and how therapy, timelines, and choosing your own adventure can all be ways to say “I love you.” Joyelle shares the origin story of her relationship, from getting set up by none other than Ilana Glazer (yes, that Ilana!) to navigating early pandemic dating, moving in together, and discussing major life decisions like marriage and kids. Along the way, she and Maria get candid about why therapy isn...2025-06-0329 min
Marias Hjørne#51 - Maria Lykke Bentsen siger farvel til Jesus efter en abort, men Gud tager hende med til himlen, hvor hun har et frisættende synTre måneder før Maria bliver født, starter hendes forældre behandlingshjemmet Kildegaarden op på Midtfyn. Det betyder, at Maria vokser op i et miljø, hvor fundamentet er Guds Ord.Maria oplever utallige gange gennem sin opvækst, hvordan Gud griber ind og hjælper mennesker, hvis liv er kørt af sporet.Maria ved hvad der er rigtigt og forkert, men den bevidsthed skaber en konflikt inde i hende, hvor hun har en følelse af at have en dæmon på den ene skulder og en engel på den anden.2025-05-271h 04Ask a MatchmakerHe’s Still Friends with His Ex! Is That a Red Flag? with Matchmaker Chrisoula | Ask a Matchmaker with Matchmaker MariaThis week, Maria is joined by her sister, Matchmaker Chrisoula! before we get into it, Maria's new book, Matchmaker Maria’s No-Nonsense Guide to Finding Love, is out! Go buy it! Now tune in for a special Hotline Episode of the podcast! The two take calls from listeners looking for real-time dating advice, from situationships to second date confusion. Also we dive into a callers life sharing about how she is a caretaker and struggling with her parner and trust. Maria and Chrisoula don’t hold back as they offer tough love, tactical tips, and a few laughs along the w...2025-05-2722 minAsk a MatchmakerAsk a Matchmaker: How I Wrote My Book! | Ask a Matchmaker with Matchmaker MariaIn Matchmaker Maria’s No-Nonsense Guide to Finding Love, celebrity matchmaker Maria Avgitidis blends heartfelt storytelling with decades of experience to offer a refreshingly honest guide to modern dating. Written as a “prescriptive memoir,” this isn’t just a dating manual it’s a candid, deeply personal conversation over coffee with a trusted friend. From her upbringing straddling Greek and American cultures to her revelations on how pop culture shaped our romantic expectations, Maria explores how our environments, past relationships, and cultural conditioning influence the way we love. She weaves in moments of vulnerability, like holding onto heartbreak for years or s...2025-05-2036 minAsk a MatchmakerIs He Into You or Just Into Texting? | Ask a Matchmaker w Matchmaker MariaMatchmaker Maria is just one week away from the release of her new book Ask a Matchmaker, and she's calling on all her listeners to support it! Whether you're a page-turner or an audiobook addict, now's the time to preorder and get ready to transform your dating life. Then it’s time to open the hotline! Maria is joined by her sister and fellow matchmaker, Ursula, as they dive into listener questions, starting with Brianna, who’s navigating the tricky post-hookup headspace after a sudden change of plans led her to her date’s house. Is he being...2025-05-1332 minAsk a MatchmakerHe Ghosted Me After 2 Months of Dating, Now What?! with Jessie Lee | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaThis week on Ask a Matchmaker, Maria is joined by the wildly entertaining Jesse, who brings her playful energy and real talk to your biggest dating dilemmas! 💌 First up, Brianna is overthinking a recent date with a man she felt went too well. Maria breaks it down with practical advice about pacing new relationships and managing expectations. 💥 Then, we hear from a listener whose recent first dates were filled with crossed boundaries and red flags. Maria delivers empowering advice on boundary-setting! 👻 Finally, Katie from Florida wants revenge on a man who ghosted her after two...2025-04-2932 minAsk a MatchmakerDating Bans and Kittenfishing?! with Jessie Lee | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaThis week, Matchmaker Maria is joined by the insightful and hilarious Jessie to break down what's happening in the wild world of dating right now. From the rise of kittenfishing—yes, that sneaky cousin of catfishing where people add just a little too much sparkle to their online personas to the U.S. government literally banning romantic relationships with Chinese nationals (wait...doesn't banning it make it even hotter?!), no topic is off-limits. Tune in for the hot takes, dating tips, and a little spy drama with your swipe sesh. 📚Maria has some big news—she's got a book c...2025-04-2224 minAsk a MatchmakerGoing Undercover: Dating The Far Right with Vera Papisova PART 2 | Ask a Matchmaker Matchmaker MariaThis is part 2 of a powerful two-part episode of Ask a Matchmaker. This week, Matchmaker Maria sits down with journalist Vera Papisova, who went undercover on conservative dating apps during the 2024 election cycle. Her goal? To investigate the rise of red pill culture, Christian nationalism, and the growing appeal of traditional gender roles among men in far-right dating spaces. From secret neo-Nazi meetings in New York to profiles proudly declaring “pureblood” status and requests for “biblical wives,” Vera reveals how misogyny, extremism, and identity politics are shaping romantic expectations and emotional behavior. What began as a journalistic experime...2025-04-1541 minAsk a MatchmakerLove Across the Lines with Vera Papisova | Ask a Matchmaker Matchmaker MariaWhat happens when modern dating meets far-right ideology? This week, Matchmaker Maria sits down with journalist and award-winning editor Vera Papisova, who went undercover on conservative dating apps during the 2024 election cycle. Her mission? To understand the rise of red pill culture, Christian nationalism, and the growing appeal of traditional gender roles in far-right dating spaces. From profiles proudly declaring “pureblood” status to men seeking “biblical wives,” Vera shares what she uncovered while dating undercover and the dangerous ways misogyny is showing up in romantic relationships. The conversation also touches on the backlash Maria and her co-host faced aft...2025-04-0836 minAsk a MatchmakerHow To Flirt with Jessie Lee | Ask a Matchmaker Matchmaker MariaThis week, Matchmaker Maria is joined by comedian Jessie Lee, known for her hilarious character comedy and spot-on impressions of emotionally unavailable men. Jessie shares why she’s taking a break from dating—after one too many weird encounters, including a post-hookup serenade from a naked guy with a guitar (yes, really). Maria and Jessie also dive into Jessie’s viral Instagram and TikTok sketches, where she hilariously roasts men who refuse to commit or introduce you to their friends. Then, the conversation takes a turn into flirting—or, more specifically, the serious decline of flirting in Gen Z. W...2025-04-0134 min
Dos Bloody Mary's por favor1x19 - ESPECIAL Invitados - Jose María Jarabo¡Bienvenidos a un nuevo episodio de Dos Bloody Marys, por favor! En este décimonoveno episodio presentamos nuestro segundo ESPECIAL, donde traemos a un invitado que nos contará un caso a su elección y nosotras aportaremos nuestras ideas.En este episodio os traemos a Ana, amiga y compañera de Pole Dance y, por supuesto, amante del True Crime como nosotras y vosotros, y nos trae un caso español y para, al menos nosotras, muy poco conocido. Y es que vamos a conocer...2025-03-261h 37Ask a MatchmakerLove Hotline: Avoiding Time-Wasters & Finding Love with Kaneez Surka | Ask a Matchmaker with Matchmaker MariaThis week, Matchmaker Maria is back with her March cohost, comedian Kaneez, for a special live hotline episode! 📞💘 They're taking real-time calls from listeners looking for love advice, covering everything from dating while on weight-loss medication to when to disclose a vasectomy and how to navigate romance when you’re constantly on the move. Maria also shares a personal weight loss journey and the importance of tracking milestones with photoshoots 📸✨. Plus, is Mercury in retrograde, or is everyone just extra confused about dating right now? Tune in to find out! But that’s not all—this episode dive...2025-03-2535 min
Radio Maria ArgentinaDía 7: Fiesta La Visitación de La Santa Virgen María
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14/03/2025 – Transitamos juntos el séptimo día de los ejercicios ignacianos, este camino que nos lleva a buscar y hallar la voluntad de Dios. Hoy la ejercitación nos invita a poner la mirada en María saliendo presurosa hacia la casa de su prima Isabel. El texto elegido para pedir gracia profunda de conocimiento interno de Jesús para más amarlo y servirlo es es Lucas 1, 39-56.
“En aquellos días, María partió y fue sin demora a un pueblo de la montaña de Judá. Entró en la casa de Zacar...2025-03-1414 minRadio Maria ArgentinaDía 6: La Anunciación a María
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13/03/2025– Hoy contemplamos la Anunciación de María. Como dijo Juan Pablo II “nadie conoció a Jesús como lo conoció María”, por eso a Ella le pedimos que nos ayude a conocerlo mejor, para amarlo mejor y servirlo mejor.
El relato de Lucas (1, 26-38) tiene un contexto literario: el estrecho paralelismo entre la anunciación de Gabriel a Zacarías y la del mismo Gabriel a María; paralelismo que no ha sido utilizado por Lucas por simple placer estético, sino que tiene un sentido: la primera anunciación prepara la segu...2025-03-1324 minAsk a MatchmakerRed Pill Content, Forced Marriages & Pointless Sports Bets with Kaneez Surka | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaIn this week’s episode of Ask a Matchmaker, Maria and her March co-host Kaneez dive into some wild and thought-provoking headlines that are shaking up conversations about love and relationships. Maria kicks things off with a jaw-dropping New York Times article about a Chinese company pressuring employees to marry and start families by September 30th — or face termination. The discussion unpacks the company’s drastic approach to boosting birth rates, cultural expectations around marriage, and how governments might better support people seeking meaningful connections. Next, they tackle a viral TikTok where a woman shares how he...2025-03-1135 minAsk a MatchmakerDecentering Men with Kaneez Surka | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaThis March, Matchmaker Maria is joined by comedian Kaneez Surka as her cohost! Kaneez, originally from South Africa and having lived in India, opens up about her journey through marriage, divorce, and self-discovery. She shares how realizing she and her ex-husband were too young and had different values led to their split — and how reading Calling in The One helped her break free from patterns of dating the wrong people. Now in her "decentering men era," Kaneez and Maria dive into the idea that life isn’t about settling down but finding your true teammate. They explore the...2025-03-0437 minAsk a MatchmakerShare Now or Later? Hotline Calls with Erika Ettin | Ask a Matchmaker pod with Matchmaker MariaIt’s hotline time! In this episode of Ask A Matchmaker, Maria and Erika take live calls and dive into your dating dilemmas. One caller wonders if she should disclose her ADHD to new dates — is honesty the best policy, or should she wait? Another caller grapples with dating in today’s political climate: she prefers liberals, but should she open her heart to people with different views? We also hear from a thoughtful male listener who adores Maria and Erika, but his habit of letting women choose the date spot might be holding him back (Erika says...2025-02-2540 minAsk a MatchmakerValentine's Day Important To Celebrate? w Erika Ettin | Ask a Matchmaker pod with Matchmaker MariaIs Valentine's Day worth the hype? This week, Matchmaker Maria is joined by dating coach and relationship expert Erika Ettin to dive into the origins and modern-day debates surrounding this love-it-or-leave-it holiday. 💘 Highlights: The ancient Roman festival of Lupercalia and its connection to modern Valentine’s Day How a martyred Saint Valentine became the symbol of love The influence of Hallmark and commercialization on Valentine's traditions Maria and Erika share hot takes on the holiday, debating whether it should be cherished as a meaningful celebration of love or dismissed as an overrated marketing ploy. From grand...2025-02-1124 minAsk a MatchmakerDating Trends of 2025 with Erika Ettin | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaThis week on Ask a Matchmaker, Matchmaker Maria is joined by Erika Ettin, a renowned dating coach who specializes in navigating the world of online dating. Together, they break down essential advice for making meaningful connections in 2025. Erika shares creative tips on rethinking your dating profile title—why calling yourself an "RN" or "hospitality professional" might spark more interest than the traditional job title approach. They also dive into the emerging trend of value-driven dating. But what does "values" actually mean in dating, and how does it stack up against chemistry? Erika and Maria explain why both ar...2025-02-0446 minAsk a MatchmakerNo More Situationships with Tara Jokes | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast w Matchmaker MariaIt’s a bittersweet episode as Matchmaker Maria is joined one last time by her favorite guest co-host, comedian @tarajokes ! Together, they dive into one of Maria’s signature hotline episodes, packed with laughs, wisdom, and a little tough love❤️ This week, Maria and Tara tackle a Matchmaker Mail 💌 from someone struggling to voice her wants in a relationship. How do you express your needs without fear of coming across as too demanding—or worse, scaring someone off? Maria and Tara break it down step-by-step, offering practical tips on how to communicate clearly and confidently. “It’s not about being ‘to...2025-01-2831 minAsk a MatchmakerFreeze For Your Future w Monica Matta & Tara Jokes | Ask a Matchmaker pod w Matchmaker MariaThis week, Matchmaker Maria and comedian Tara Cannistraci , @tarajokes , are joined by special guest Monica, a founder of Conceivable Reproductive, a concierge service helping women navigate fertility options abroad In this heartfelt episode, Tara shares her personal story of freezing her eggs at 33—a decision she made during a time of uncertainty about wanting kids and focusing on dating. Monica sheds light on why more women are turning to international fertility treatments and how Conceivable Reproductive is empowering them to take control of their reproductive journeys. From navigating modern dating to making big life decisions, this episode dives...2025-01-2142 minAsk a MatchmakerMarathon Dates vs. Coffee Dates w Ricky Liorti & Tara Cannistraci | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast Matchmaker MariaThis week, Matchmaker Maria and comedian Tara Cannistraci, AKA Tara Jokes are joined by Ricky Liorti, the man behind the viral "boyfriend application" that took the internet by storm! Despite receiving thousands of DMs from potential matches, Ricky never went on a single date—but now he’s here to talk all things dating in 2025. In this episode, Ricky shares his love for marathon first dates, insisting they should be extravagant, unforgettable, and last 7–8 hours. Matchmaker Maria fiercely disagrees, advocating for short and simple coffee dates (no more than 2 hours!) as the perfect way to build a connecti...2025-01-1441 minAsk a MatchmakerYear of Yes with Tara Cannistraci AKA TaraJokes | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast Matchmaker MariaKick off 2025 with Matchmaker Maria as she sits down with comedian Tara Cannistraci, host of the Coffee Talk podcast, for an inspiring conversation about love, dating, and embracing new opportunities. Tara shares her journey of singlehood, celebrating her Bronx roots, and finding love in her late 30s during her transformative "Year of Yes." Maria and Tara explore the ups and downs of dating, the importance of shared cultural values, and how changing your mindset can lead to meaningful relationships. They also open up about stepping outside their comfort zones in dating and the unexpected paths that led...2025-01-0735 minAsk a MatchmakerHow To Be Dateable Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast Matchmaker MariaHappy New Year! On this special episode of Ask a Matchmaker, Matchmaker Maria is joined by the dynamic duo behind the Dateable podcast, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu! They're here to talk about their brand-new book, How to Be Dateable, and officially hitting shelves on January 28th 🎉 In this fun and insightful conversation, Maria dives into the origins of Julie and Yue’s decade-long podcasting journey, their mission to uncover the mysteries of modern dating, and what makes someone truly dateable. The authors share personal stories, defining moments in their friendship, and their thoughtful definition of what it mea...2024-12-3147 minAsk a MatchmakerChristmas Calls w Edson Montenegro & Chris Welles | Ask a Matchmaker Pod Matchmaker Maria Happy Holidays!! Matchmaker Maria is joined by returning co-host Edson,and special guest Chris for a festive and heartfelt Christmas Eve hotline episode! The trio spreads holiday cheer with hilarious banter about relationships, family traditions, and even personal Santa sightings! While the holiday spirit is in full swing, the episode dives into some of the more serious listener dilemmas, including how to handle a surprising number of questions about divorce—whether it’s processing your own, supporting a friend, or navigating awkward announcements at networking events. From debating if Die Hard is a Christmas movie (spoiler: it is) t...2024-12-2430 minAsk a MatchmakerNon-Binary & Pronouns 101 w Edson Montenegro & Chris Welles | Ask a Matchmaker Pod Matchmaker MariaLet's 👏 learn👏 This week, Maria is joined by comedian and guest co-host Edson, who brought along their best friend, Chris. Both Edson and Chris are non-binary, gay individuals who use they/them pronouns, and they’re here to share their personal experiences, perspectives, and humor on what it means to exist outside the gender binary. From lighthearted anecdotes about childhood moments to navigating conversations around pronouns, Maria asks the questions we all want to better understand. Edson and Chris break down the fluidity of gender identity, discuss finding authenticity, and explore how evolving language creates safer, more inclusiv...2024-12-1738 minAsk a MatchmakerHow To Make a Friend w Aaron Karo & Edson Montenegro | Ask a Matchmaker Pod Matchmaker MariaMatchmaker Maria is joined by her cohost Edson and special guest Aaron Karo to explore the fascinating world of friendships—what they mean, how they evolve, and why they matter. Aaron shares the story of his viral college newsletter Ruminations, how it shaped his early career, and how he and Maria turned a parasocial connection into a real-life friendship. They also dive into Aaron's annual "Man of the Year" tradition with his childhood friends, which has kept their bond strong for decades. The conversation takes a deeper turn as they discuss the "friendship recession," a trou...2024-12-1028 minAsk a MatchmakerWhat's an Open Relationship? w Edson Montenegro | Ask a Matchmaker Pod Matchmaker MariaIt’s a special episode as Matchmaker Maria celebrates her milestone 40th birthday with this month's new co-host, comedian Edson! Between birthday hats, balloons, and confetti-free festivities, Maria and Edson dive into a lively conversation about love, connection, and the dynamics of open relationships. Edson shares his personal journey of being in an open relationship with his long-term partner, discussing how they set boundaries, explore new experiences, and maintain trust while navigating both emotional and physical connections. Along the way, Maria provides her signature no-nonsense insights into how open relationships work, how to have honest conversations about int...2024-12-0335 minAsk a MatchmakerThanksgiving Hotline Gravy Grace & Getting Real w Sam Santos | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast w Matchmaker MariaHappy Thanksgiving! What are you thankful for this year? This week Maria is joined by special guest co-host Sam Santos for a heartfelt and hilarious Thanksgiving-themed hotline episode! Together, they tackle your burning relationship questions with Maria’s signature wisdom and Sam’s delightful humor, offering compassionate advice to help you navigate tricky situations during the holiday season! From creative ways to welcome your boyfriend’s mom for Thanksgiving to supporting friends through marital challenges, Maria and Sam dive deep into the complexities of love, family, and dating. They explore sensitive topics like how to disclose personal challe...2024-11-2636 min
A medida de tu Corazón. Sor María de Jesús de ÁgredaA medida de tu corazón. Sor María de Jesús de Ágreda 19/11/24Embarazo de María. María al comenzar su embarazo recibe la visita de los ángeles y siente al Niño dentro de ella. Todo esto nos ayuda a crecer en nuestra unión con Dios.2024-11-1922 minAsk a MatchmakerPina Coladas & Political Clashes: Finding Love in a Polarized World with Louie Felix | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast w Matchmaker MariaMatchmaker Maria hosts from Mexico! where she’s attending the 12th Annual Matchmakers Alliance Conference. Joining her is guest co-host Louis Felix, a seasoned matchmaker with over 20 years in the industry. Together, they reminisce about the early days of the conference and its mission to bring matchmakers together in a collaborative, supportive community—something Maria co-founded with fellow matchmakers Michelle Jacoby and Laurie Berzack. Beyond the industry insights, Maria and Louis dive into the shifting landscape of dating in a politically charged era. With the recent election still fresh, they share candid thoughts on how political divides are...2024-11-1228 minAsk a MatchmakerVoting & Values: Navigating Relationships in a Politically Charged World | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast w Matchmaker MariaIn this timely episode, Matchmaker Maria welcomes back co-host Samantha Santos for a candid discussion on how politics shape our closest relationships and dating choices. EARLY EPISODE DROP ALERT! 🚨 🗳 As Election Day approaches, Matchmaker Maria and Sam delve into how political beliefs influence compatibility, friendships, and even the matchmaking process, bringing to light the personal stakes involved in voting and civic engagement. Drawing from her matchmaking experience, Maria highlights key issues—such as women’s healthcare—that have become major deal-breakers in dating. Sam, meanwhile, shares stories of friendships that have shifted due to political differences, emphasizing the emotional...2024-11-0329 minAsk a MatchmakerHeartbreak to Healing: Rebuilding Trust with Samantha Santos | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast w Matchmaker MariaTrusting after heartbreak! In this episode of Ask a Matchmaker, host Maria invites comedian and podcast host Samantha Santos to share her raw, heartfelt journey of rediscovering trust after a deeply painful betrayal. Together, they dive into Sam's shocking story of catching her ex-fiancé cheating and how that revelation shattered her perception of love and commitment. Maria and Samantha unpack the emotional toll of such heartbreak, shedding light on the struggles many people face when trying to trust again after being deceived. This episode isn’t just for singles; it's for anyone invested in improving their relationship dyn...2024-10-2939 minAsk a MatchmakerDating FOMO & Awkward Moments w Jenny Zigrino | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast w Matchmaker MariaNew episode with Matchmaker Maria and comedian @jennyzigrino ! Maria has some big news—she's got a book coming out, and the cover reveal is happening right on air! Check it out out on YouTube! Maria and Jenny chat about the book, manifesting success, and the importance of preorders. Jenny’s been busy with her comedy tour, sharing funny stories from Alaska. The conversation shifts to Jenny’s online dating life, and Maria checks in on the changes Jenny made to her profiles after some advice. They explore what it means to be an “alpha” or “beta” in dating, poking fun...2024-10-1532 minA medida de tu Corazón. Sor María de Jesús de ÁgredaA medida de tu corazón. Sor María de Jesús de Ágreda 15/10/24Preparación a la Encarnación (VIII) La Virgen María arde en amor de Dios, los ángeles gozan con gran alegría al ver llegar el gran momento de la Encarnación del Hijo en el seno de María. María lo pide y Dios escucha diciendo que se hará como ella vive y pide.2024-10-1520 minRadio Maria ArgentinaCon María avanzamos en la fe y en el servicio
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07/10/2024 – ¡Feliz día de la Virgen del Rosario! Hoy es su fiesta y la celebramos desde el texto del Evangelio de San Lucas 1, 26-38, en este relato el Ángel Gabriel se le aparece a María invitándola a la alegría.
En medio de las dudas y las noches oscuras, María nos enseña a vivir con alegría, a dejarnos sorprender por Dios y a conservar la esperanza. Como nos recuerdan el Padre Javier y el Padre Matías en el Evangelio de hoy (Lc 1,26-38), María no se detuvo ant...2024-10-0752 minAsk a MatchmakerUpdate that Dating App ! w Jenny Zigrino | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast with Matchmaker MariaIn this episode of Ask a Matchmaker, Matchmaker Maria teams up with comedian Jenny Zigrino to talk all things dating apps and relationship deal breakers. They explore how to navigate the world of dating apps, why it's sometimes better to swap swipes for real-life experiences like pottery classes, and what it’s really like to date… a puppeteer. Next, Maria dives into Jenny’s Hinge profile, uncovering stunning photos but advising some key updates to her first few picks. From refreshing profile prompts to optimizing her photos, Maria is on a mission to help Jenny put her best fo...2024-10-0143 min
The Motherhood MentorLetting Go of Perfectionism: Embracing Authentic Creativity with Maria BowlerSend us a textWhat if releasing the grip of perfectionism could open the door to a more authentic and fulfilling life? Join us for an enlightening conversation with Maria Bowler, an esteemed author, coach, and retreat leader, as she uncovers the transformative power of embracing imperfections. Maria shares her personal journey of navigating motherhood during the early days of the COVID pandemic, revealing how challenges and unpredictability shaped her understanding of presence, creativity, and authenticity. Discover how aligning internal values with external expressions can help bridge the gap between our inner desires and outward ac...2024-09-241h 06