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Senior To SeniorsSenior To Seniors Podcast With MARK OELZEMARK OELZE has been a marriage and family counselor for over 30 years, helping couples process conflict in a manner that is governed by love. Mark is also an author…and he is not just an author; he’s a visionary whose latest book, *Pledge*, is making waves in the literary world. In this gripping narrative, Mark explores themes of commitment, resilience, and the transformative power of promises kept. With a background that bridges diverse fields Mark brings a unique perspective to his writing that resonates with readers from all walks of life. His ability to weave compell...2025-02-0540 minSenior To SeniorsSenior To Seniors Podcast With Author MARK OELZEMARK OELZE has been a marriage and family counselor for over 30 years, helping couples process conflict in a manner that is governed by love. Mark is also an author…and he is not just an author; he’s a visionary whose latest book, *Pledge*, is making waves in the literary world. In this gripping narrative, Mark explores themes of commitment, resilience, and the transformative power of promises kept. With a background that bridges diverse fields Mark brings a unique perspective to his writing that resonates with readers from all walks of life. His ability to weave compellin...2025-02-0540 min
Making Disciples NaturallyEp. 242 What is the relationship between listening and loving well? How do I love my neighbor? Part 4 of 4 Mark Oelze (re-release)Send us a textIn this popular episode we revisit the wisdom of Mark Oelze. Mark is an experienced counselor, teacher and author of PLEDGETalk (c). In these four podcasts, he helps us learn to love well through better listening and speaking with those to whom we minister. PLEDGEtalk websiteKansas NavigatorsKansas State Fair Navigator Booth Sign up2024-08-3105 minMaking Disciples NaturallyEp. 241 How do I truly love my spouse, children and others well? Part 3 of 4 Mark Oelze (re-release)Send us a textIn this popular episode we revisit the wisdom of Mark Oelze. Mark is an experienced counselor, teacher and author of PLEDGETalk (c). In these four podcasts, he helps us learn to love well through better listening and speaking with those to whom we minister. PLEDGEtalk websiteKansas NavigatorsKansas State Fair Navigator Booth Sign-up2024-08-2414 minMaking Disciples NaturallyEp. 240 How can a believer radiate the love of Christ? Part 2 of 4 Mark Oelze (re-release)Send us a textIn this popular episode we revisit the wisdom of Mark Oelze. Mark is an experienced counselor, teacher and author of PLEDGETalk (c). In these four podcasts, he helps us learn to love well through better listening and speaking with those to whom we minister. PLEDGEtalk websiteKansas NavigatorsKansas State Fair Navigator Booth Sign-up2024-08-1705 minMaking Disciples NaturallyEp. 239 How do I love my neighbor? Part 1 of 4 Mark Oelze (re-release)Send us a textIn this popular episode we revisit the wisdom of Mark Oelze. Mark is an experienced counselor, teacher and author of PLEDGETalk (c). In these four podcasts, he helps us learn to love well through better listening and speaking with those to whom we minister. PLEDGEtalk websiteKansas NavigatorsKansas State Fair Navigator Booth Sign-up2024-08-1014 min
ConversationsConversations with Mark Oelze: Resolving Conflict and Finding PeaceIn this episode of Conversations, Trent Lambert sits down with Mark Oelze, author of The PLEDGE of a Lifetime, to discuss the process of dealing with and resolving relational conflict. Mark Oelze has a Master’s in Biblical Counseling. He has been a marriage and family counselor and communicator in Wichita for more than 30 years. Mark is the author of The PLEDGE of a Lifetime—Her Hope for Connection and His Guide Through Conflict. He is also the creator of PLEDGEtalk, a model for healthy communication and step-by-step guide to process conflict. The family has also cre...2023-11-2737 minConversationsConversations with Mark Oelze: Resolving Conflict and Finding PeaceIn this episode of Conversations, Trent Lambert sits down with Mark Oelze, author of The PLEDGE of a Lifetime, to discuss the process of dealing with and resolving relational conflict. Mark Oelze has a Master’s in Biblical Counseling. He has been a marriage and family counselor and communicator in Wichita for more than 30 years. Mark is the author of The PLEDGE of a Lifetime—Her Hope for Connection and His Guide Through Conflict. He is also the creator of PLEDGEtalk, a model for healthy communication and step-by-step guide to process conflict. The family has also cre...2023-11-2737 min
It doesn't take a genius.A marriage counselor’s secret for conflict at work (or home), part2Part 2! Mark interviews Mark Oelze, founder and director of PLEDGEtalk. Through more than 30 years as a marriage and family counselor, he developed the PLEDGE tool to help clients walk through the steps of healthy conflict. Mark says, "There is an ORDER to follow if one is to resolve conflict and restore healthy communication."
Clients are asking him to share PLEDGE in the workplace. That's what It Doesn't Take a Genius does best! Mark's material dovetails nicely with our Crucial Conversations resources found here.
Mark's book for marriage: "The PLEDGE of a Lifetime."
Questions? C...2023-08-0138 minIt doesn't take a genius.A marriage counselor’s secret for conflict at work (or home), part 1Mark interviews Mark Oelze, founder and director of PLEDGEtalk. Through more than 30 years as a marriage and family counselor, he developed the PLEDGE tool to help clients walk through the steps of healthy conflict. Mark says, "There is an ORDER to follow if one is to resolve conflict and restore healthy communication."
Clients are asking him to share PLEDGE in the workplace. That's what It Doesn't Take a Genius does best! Mark's material dovetails nicely with our Crucial Conversations resources found here.
Mark's book for marriage: "The PLEDGE of a Lifetime."
Questions? Comments? I...2023-07-2538 min
Studio 2501: Conversations About Mental Health and WellnessLoving Well Through Conflict with Mark & Zerrin Oelze, Part 2On Studio 2501 Episode 49, HopeNet's Jo Lynn Bright interviews Wichita Marriage and Family Therapist, Mark Oelze and his wife, Zerrin, an award-winning science educator in Wichita Public Schools. This episode deep-dives into Mark's PLEDGEtalk method and discusses how one can love well through conflict in both personal and professional relationships.
To learn more about Mark Oelze and the PLEDGEtalk method visit: https://pledgetalk.com/
Mark grew up in Chicago area and went to Grace College and Seminary in Northern Indiana, where he found his wife and earned an MA degree in Biblical Counseling. He says he i...2023-02-2831 minStudio 2501: Conversations About Mental Health and WellnessLoving Well Through Conflict with Mark & Zerrin Oelze, Part 1On Studio 2501 Episode 49, HopeNet's Jo Lynn Bright interviews Wichita Marriage and Family Therapist, Mark Oelze and his wife, Zerrin, an award-winning science educator in Wichita Public Schools. This episode deep-dives into Mark's PLEDGEtalk method and discusses how one can love well through conflict in both personal and professional relationships.
To learn more about Mark Oelze and the PLEDGEtalk method visit: https://pledgetalk.com/
Mark grew up in Chicago area and went to Grace College and Seminary in Northern Indiana, where he found his wife and earned an MA degree in Biblical Counseling. He says he is...2023-02-1425 minMaking Disciples NaturallyEp. 105 How do we best "love well" in a mentoring relationship? Interview with Mark OelzeSend us a textWe all desire to be heard and to be taken seriously. What does "loving well" look like today? In our mentoring relationships, it speaks volumes to just be quiet and listen well to the other person. It affirms them as someone who has value and who is made in the image of God. Counselor Mark Oelze shares some insights into how to love well in our mentoring relationships. You can hear more about Mark's ministry on podcast episodes 15-20 on our website kansasnavs.org. Click the following link for...2022-01-2235 min
Midweek Rewind038 | How to Deal with a World on EdgeWe're facing unprecedented days where anger, anxiety, and challenging relationships are something we're all having to deal with, and it can be extra challenging to know how to handle our emotions in such a crazy time. Today we're joined by Pastor John Oelze and his brother Mark who is a local marriage and family counselor. We dissect the season we're in and aim to offer some hope and encouragement for us all.2020-06-1136 minMaking Disciples NaturallyEp. 20 How can I learn more about listening and loving well? Part 6 of 6: Interview with Mark OelzeSend us a textIn this last episode with Mark Oelze, we learn about some outstanding resources available for implementing the PLEDGE concepts in all areas of our lives. Contact information for Mark's ministry:PledgetalkBook: The Pledge of a LifetimeNote: The opinions expressed on this podcast are those of the speakers and do not necessarily represent the views of The Navigators (c) or the Kansas Communities Ministry.2020-05-3005 minMaking Disciples NaturallyEp. 19 How can I love well by listening well to those to whom I am ministering? Part 5 of 6: Interview with Mark OelzeSend us a textMr. Mark Oelze shares with us how the PLEDGE approach is very applicable (and critical) as we minister to others. We must love well if we are to be used in evangelism and discipleship. Contact information for Mark's ministry:PledgetalkBook: The Pledge of a LifetimeNote: The opinions expressed on this podcast are those of the speakers and do not necessarily represent the views of The Navigators (c) or the Kansas Communities Ministry.2020-05-2312 minMaking Disciples NaturallyEp. 18 How do I show my love for my coworkers, my neighbors and others? Part 4 of 6: Interview with Mark OelzeSend us a textMr. Mark Oelze helps us understand how to expand the use of PLEDGE (Pause, Listen, Echo back, Disarm, Give and Engage) in other areas of life. Useful in marriages, it is also extremely important to make this a way of life as we love others in our spheres of influence . Contact information for Mark's ministry:PledgetalkBook: The Pledge of a LifetimeNote: The opinions expressed on this podcast are those of the speakers and do not necessarily represent the views of The Navigators (c...2020-05-1608 minMaking Disciples NaturallyEp. 17 How do I truly love my spouse, my children and others well? Part 3 of 6: Interview with Mark OelzeSend us a textMr. Mark Oelze shares his insights into loving well by helping us learn to communicate using "PLEDGE" -- Pause, Listen, Echo back, Disarm, Give (the other person an opportunity to contribute to the story) and Engage the process again and again. This dynamic can become a way of life as we allow the Spirit of God to live in us, helping us to focus not on me and what I want to say next but rather to focus on the other person. Contact information for Mark's ministry:Pledgetalk...2020-05-0914 minMaking Disciples NaturallyEp. 16 How can a believer radiate the light of Christ? Part 2 of 6: Interview with Mark OelzeSend us a textThis is episode two of six where we learn from Mr. Mark Oelze, marriage counselor, author of the book "The Pledge of a Lifetime" and founder of Pledgetalk. He starts by telling us an interesting anecdote about carrying his New Testament with his cell phone and how he committed to reading his Bible as often (or more) as he referred to his cell phone. Amazing results occurred as the Lord taught him through Scripture about how Jesus is the Light of the World and how He is the Life. In this way we...2020-05-0205 minMaking Disciples NaturallyEp. 15 How do I love my neighbor? Part 1 of 6: Interview with Mark OelzeSend us a textMarriage counselor and author Mark Oelze shares with us some practical ways to implement the second part of the Great Commandment -- to love our neighbor. It doesn't have to be complex nor challenging but it does take intentionality. We start by listening to others, focusing on their needs first before our own. Contact information for Mark's ministry:PledgetalkBook: The Pledge of a LifetimeNote: The opinions expressed on this podcast are those of the speakers and do not necessarily represent the views of...2020-04-2514 min