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The Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #245: The Final EpisodeAfter almost 5 years and nearly 250 episodes, The Next Man Up podcast is drawing to a close. In this final episode, Mark is joined by current co-host, John Gregory, and previous co-hosts Josh Wilson and Alen Auguste, as the 4 discuss their “why” for doing the podcast, favorite memories, and the impact they hope to leave on the men and fathers listening in.
2023-02-1054 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #242: Raising Boys to Be Men with Monica SwansonGuys, this is an episode for you and your wife. Author, podcast host and mom of 4 boys, Monica Swanson joins the show today to share some of her story and how she’s helping moms (and dads) become better parents and raise boys and girls to become Jesus following character trained men and women. Monica’s mom perspective is a great addition to the voices on this show and the resources she’s developed will help you and your wife continue to grow as parents. Connect with Monica: Website: https://monicaswanson.com/ IG: https://www.inst...
2023-01-2051 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #241: Leading the Education of Your Son with Matt BarnesWho is the child you want to give to the world? That one question changed the life of today’s guest, both as a dad and as a professional. Matt Barnes is a Learning Coach who helps parents grow Self-Governing, Self-Driven Learners. He’s also a father of three kids, all of whom he describes as self-governing beasts. Matt is disrupting the way we think about education and inviting dads to take a strategic approach to the future men they are raising. Connect with Matt: Matt Barnes on Linked In theeducationgame.com Extend...
2023-01-131h 16The Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #240: A Word For the YearHave you ever chosen a word for the year? Something to help guide you and provide focus as you navigate the next 12 months? Maybe you’ve never heard of this idea before. In this first episode of the new year, Mark and John get into their experience with this process, what it’s meant to them, and how you can adopt it for yourself, for your marriage and with your kids as well. A resource to use: https://www.fillingthejars.com/word-for-the-year/ Extended Notes: A word to help focus the next 1...
2023-01-0637 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #239: REWIND Confronting Cancel Culture with Alon AugusteCancel culture is a topic that is current and deserves to be addressed. Bringing back a familiar voice is a good way to do it. Alon Auguste joins us again to do what he always does—speak into current culture with a timely and timeless message. It’s almost a guarantee that you haven’t engaged with this topic in the way Alon does in this episode. Which is why no matter your understanding of this cultural issue, this episode is a must listen. (Originally aired as episodes 170 & 171)
2022-12-301h 03The Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #238: REWIND Joyful Mindset with Craig FullenCraig Fullen, champion of the Joyful Mindset, joins the show today to talk about who he is, what he does, and his passion to become the best version of himself and help others do the same. For him, it is best encompassed in the idea of a Joyful Mindset. Join us for this great discussion with Craig. (Originally aired as episodes 98 & 99) Follow Craig on Twitter @craigfullen
2022-12-231h 04The Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #237: REWIND Having the Race Talk with Rich JohnsonOur guest today is Rich Johnson. He’s a husband, father of 4, pastor, yoga instructor, and you will soon see why he’s someone who is easy to respect and admire. And he’s a black man. Which makes him uniquely qualified to talk about race, both as a man, and also as a father guiding his kids through society today. Let Rich be your guide as we navigate through this big topic of race and racism. (Originally aired as episodes 115 & 116) Instagram @richjohnsononline
2022-12-161h 08The Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #236: REWIND Healthy Manhood & Identity with Twyla StaniferCoach, pastor, and former counselor Twyla Stanifer joins the show today to talk about healthy manhood and identity. How to think about what healthy manhood is and how to engage women, at work and at home, from a place of health and security are just a few of the topics we get into in the first half of this conversation. In the second half, we get deeper into the work she is doing today around understanding how our beliefs — about God, ourselves, others — impact our actions and the results we get in life. We also get into how important it i...
2022-12-091h 03The Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #235: REWIND Becoming with Morgan SnyderStrategist, entrepreneur, teacher, author, and speaker Morgan Snyder joins us for one of the best conversations we’ve had on the show. It starts and ends with this idea of becoming, and 2 central questions: Who have I become? Who am I becoming. This episode is a must listen! (Originally aired as episode 132) NMU Dads Group Signup: https://thenextmanup.com/dadgroup/ Website: becomingaking.com Expanded Notes: - Becoming is a central theme for men - 2 key questions: Who have I become? Who am I becomin...
2022-12-0253 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #234: Gratitude In the Midst of AdversityLife will bring you storms. It’s not if but when. But whether you’re in the storm or in pleasant circumstances, gratitude is part of establishing a firm foundation. Blending the real storm of hurricane Ian and this season of giving thanks, John and Mark explore the importance and benefits gratitude on being grounded and strong no matter your circumstances. NMU Dads Group Signup: https://thenextmanup.com/dadgroup/
2022-11-2538 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #233: Living Transformed, Inspired and On Mission with Domingo GuytonMusic producer, award winning filmmaker, and man of God, Domingo Guyton, joins the show to share his story. Transformed from a troubled Boston teen to the husband, father, and follower of Jesus he is today, Domingo talks about how his creative gifts are being put to use, on mission, building relationship bridges across various communities and persevering with the vision God has given him. NMU Dads Group Signup: https://thenextmanup.com/dadgroup/ Contact Info: IG: @thedomingoguyton FB: @domingoguyton Website: domingoguyton.com
2022-11-181h 07The Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #232: What Is A Man (Part 2)When your son asks you what it means to be a man, what will you say? It is imperative that you have a standard against which you can measure how you’re doing as a man and toward which you can guide your son. In part 2 of this conversation, Mark and John offer a definition to help you develop one for yourself or to advance your thinking on this topic toward a better one. NMU Dads Group Signup: https://thenextmanup.com/dadgroup/ Expanded Notes: Courage — The ability to face fear and adversity and n...
2022-11-1137 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #231: What Is A Man (Part 1)What does it mean to be a man? How do you describe manhood? Is your definition one of a healthy and godly man? And, why does it matter? These are the questions Mark and John engage in part 1 of this conversation, to put a stake in the ground about how we define manhood and why it is such important work to do for ourselves and the men-to-be we are raising. NMU Dads Group Signup: https://thenextmanup.com/dadgroup/
2022-11-0433 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #230: Building Noblemen with Bryce BouchardOften, God uses your own story and experience to shape the impact He wants to make through you. Such is the case with Bryce Bouchard. After a childhood in a broken home and a faulty understanding of manhood, he began a quest to discover what it means to be a man which shaped the course of his life. Now, decades later, he’s guiding males of all ages on their own quest to become Noblemen. NMU Dads Group Signup: https://thenextmanup.com/dadgroup/ Noblemen Ministries: https://noblemenministries.com/ Email: bryce...
2022-10-281h 07The Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #229: When Guys Get Submission WrongMark goes off! A Facebook post on the topic of wives submitting to husbands is all that was needed to turn on the mics and address this head on. It’s time to change the way we talk about this topic. NMU Dads Group Signup: https://thenextmanup.com/dadgroup/ References: Tim Mackie on Ephesians 5 Ephesians 5 The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill podcast 1 Corinthians 13 Land of Color, Show Me What It Means To Love Expanded Notes: Shift the conversation from authority to love The growth moment for yo...
2022-10-2145 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #228: What It Means To Be A GentlemanA gentleman used to mean certain things, like the way you dress or talk or how you carry yourself. Although we’re familiar with the word today it doesn’t hold the same meaning as it once did. It may not even be a consideration for dads when raising their sons. But perhaps it should. And an old manual from the 1880’s might have more to say about the subject than we at first realize. NMU Dads Group Signup: https://thenextmanup.com/dadgroup/ References: Epoch Times article: https://www.theepochtimes.com/a-gen...
2022-10-1443 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #227: Jesus and Baseball with Dukes KnutsonTampa Bay Rays Press Box Supervisor, Dukes Knutson, joins the show to talk about his love for both Jesus and Baseball and how his path has lead to an integration of both. Dukes’ brings his veteran experience and presence to our TNMU Clubhouse and has much to offer us younger men who are also wanting to follow Jesus and pursue dreams.
2022-10-071h 09The Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #226: What’s In A NameThe names you use to refer to others, including your son, have tremendous power in the message they communicate. But when we’re not aware of that impact or not acting intentionally for the good of the other person opportunities are missed. John and Mark explore what this looks like in practice and in helping your son become a man. References: The Bible Project Expanded Notes: Changing of a name can represent a line of demarkation, a transition from what was to what is or what can be; A before and...
2022-09-3039 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #225: The Standard with Josh KhachadourianWhat is your image of Jesus? Not Jesus the divine. Rather Jesus the man. Where did that image come from? Does it inspire you or does it leave you wanting more? What if your view of Jesus the man isn’t at all like he really was? Today’s guest, author, leader and student of Jesus, Josh Khachadourian, is here to set the record straight about who Jesus really was. And, to help us see that he is the standard for manhood that we need, that we’ve been looking for. Contact Info: Website...
2022-09-2353 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #224: Fighting Drugs with Bobby NewmanToday’s guest is on the frontlines battling the effects of drug and alcohol abuse. After going from a strong, moral upbringing in Southern Oklahoma to a drug-related downfall that had him facing federal prison, Bobby Newman now works as an interventionist helping turn situations from tragic to hopeful. Bobby speaks as a former addict, a professional who helps other addicts, and as a father guiding his sons on how to navigate away from the pain of substance abuse. Contact Info: Website: newmaninterventions.com Phone: 866.989.4499 Email: bobbyn@newmaninterventions.com...
2022-09-161h 05The Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #223: Angry White Males On CampusA University of Kansas class prompts Mark and John to dig into the topic of angry white males. There’s much that could be said here, with much of that likely to stir up additional anger or become too political. Ultimately the discussion distills down to and hinges on one key question, a question posed to John during a counseling session a few years ago. References in the show: Article: https://www.foxnews.com/us/university-kansas-offers-angry-white-male-studies-class Book: Angry White Men Book: Them Dog Video: Funny Dog Clip Expanded Notes: Men’s strugg...
2022-09-0941 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #222: Raising Husbands, Raising FathersYou are not only raising your son, you’re raising a future husband to someone else and a future father to your grandchildren. How does that influence your fathering? Are you in those fathering moments today with an eye toward the end goal, who your sons are becoming? With John’s probing, Mark shares some more from his story and what he’s looking forward to down the road as his kids become spouses and parents to the next generation. Linked In Post: https://www.linkedin.com/feed/update/urn:li:activity:6941919286512816128/ Blog referen...
2022-09-0233 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #221: The Voices In My HeadWhat do Charles Barkley, golf, toothpaste and Amy Grant have in common? They all make their way into this episode about sorting through and cleaning up the voices in your head. What are the voices in your head? Are they helping you or hurting you? Once you figure that out, then what can you do about it. That’s where Mark and John go in this episode. Video References: Charles Barkley Interview: https://youtu.be/VkDq_6xlZhY?t=91 Charles Barkley Commercial: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cMe6Lp4Ekbo
2022-08-2640 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #220: Nurturing Creativity with Jeff FajansHow do you define creative? Where does creativity fit within how you live as a man and how you father? What if there’s more to creativity than you first realized? These are questions that Jeff Fajans helps us explore. Jeff is a husband, father and a passionate creative. From a Phd in Positive Organizational Psychology, to his work with entrepreneurs and leaders, to his music alter-ego of MrBoodaddy, Jeff consistently nurtures creativity in himself and those he impacts, including his son. Listen in to discover how you can too and why it matters. MrBoodaddy on Spotify...
2022-08-191h 08The Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #219: Advice For the Co-Parenting Dad with Amy AmbrozichParenting and Stepfamily coach and expert, Amy Ambrozich, rejoins the show to talk about the challenges dads face in a co-parenting situation. From role disorientation to grieving the loss of what was to navigating a brand new environment, Amy gets at that struggles men and dads face and offers advice on what you can do. Whether this is your situation, or your buddy’s situation, or you just want to learn, there is something here for you. Save Our Sanity Group: https://bit.ly/dtplinks Website: https://www.daretoparent.com Email: amy...
2022-08-121h 07The Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #218: Romans 12 MenA phone call from a friend who needed to unload about the circumstances life was bringing him led John to recognize that this friend was living out Romans 12. What does that mean? What is Romans 12 living? This is the ground Mark and John cover in today’s episode. Expanded Notes: Romans 12:1-2 3 key principles Consider yourself a living sacrifice Be transformed by the renewing of your mind Discern what the Father wants What if sacrificing for God is really in the innumerable little and mundane efforts to love and serve others? Being faithful in the...
2022-08-0538 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #217: Parenting When Your Marriage SucksParenting well is a big job. It’s made even harder when your marriage isn’t in a good place. What do you do if you find yourself as a dad in a marriage that sucks? How do you stay strong as a dad and deal with the difficulty of a strained relationship? That’s what Mark and John get into with this episode. Expanded Notes: Suggestions from a professional counselor Order — be clear on the roles of the family; help order the chaos Love — maintain connection; don’t abuse the connection Value — ensure your kids’ sens...
2022-07-2937 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #216: Blowing Up Rocks with Joseph WarrenJoseph Warren is an elite men’s coach, a top-rated podcast host, a husband and father, and most of all a precious son of God. Today he joins the show to share his story and the recipe he’s found for helping men go from angry & stressed to peace and purpose. This is a fast paced conversation with a dude who pulls no punches -- on his own failures and what it takes, and who it takes, to turn things around. To blow up some rocks. Joseph’s book available for free: freepurposebook.com 1:1 30 min coachin...
2022-07-221h 08The Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #215: Why We Need Ceremony with Eric BrowningCeremony is not part of our society in the way it used to be, especially when it comes to the passage of a boy into manhood. Our guest today is tying to change that. Returning to the show for a deep dive into why we need ceremony is Eric Browning. Along with being a father and a husband, he’s the founder of Sand 2 Stone which helps fathers guide their sons on their journey to becoming the men they were created to be. Website: http://sand2stone.us Email: info@sand2stone.us...
2022-07-151h 02The Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #214: Fix-aholics AnonymousGuys have a knack for fixing. Or at least a tendency to try. This is a great gift when used with wisdom. But not every situation needs a fixer. And even when a fixer is needed, maturity invites us to see it doesn’t always have to be us. This is what Mark and John — a self proclaimed recovering fixer — dig into in this week's conversation. Expanded Notes: The desire to fix is a gift that guys bring to the world The growth moment is being aware that not every situation requires a fixer Going straight to fix...
2022-07-0831 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #213: Change Your Money Beliefs with Bob LotichMoney can sometimes be that awkward or intimidating topic to address, both with your kids and your wife. And some of that may be because of the beliefs you have about money. To dive deeper into this issue Bob Lotich joins the show today. Bob is an author, podcast host, and founder of the award winning blog SeedTime. He’s also a father and husband and knows first hand what it means to break unhealthy beliefs and form new ones. And today he’s enjoying the work of helping others do the same. Website: https://seedtime.com ...
2022-07-011h 04The Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #212: When Your Son Encounters EvilEvil is in the world. Recent headlines are evidence. So is what happens in daily life that never makes the news. As a dad, what is your role in navigating the topic and the reality? How are you helping your son to prepare for when he encounters evil? What are things you can do to be more engaged and proactive in guiding your son? This is what unfolds in today’s conversation. Expanded Notes: Exposure to evil is going to happen. What will you do when it does? Are you willing to engage with top...
2022-06-2436 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #211: What Is It With Guys and Hair?Happy Fathers Day! Guys have a thing about hair. You know it’s true. And as a dad, you may have had a dust up with your son about his hair. Why? What is it about guys and hair? Whether it’s your hair or your son’s, what does it mean when it comes to who we are? Here’s a fun conversation about the topic, with some wisdom sprinkled in too.
2022-06-1719 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #210: Choosing Visibility with Stewart RobertsMy guest today had all the things many men would point to as success: business executive, angel investor, wealth and status. Yet what really matters to him today is the man he has become and how that helps him be a better husband and father. Stewart Roberts joins us to talk about his story, his recent book, and the work he’s doing today to help men avoid the inevitable regrets from a life lived only for professional and financial gain. Website: https://stewartroberts.com Book: Visibility: Playing to Win the Game of Life...
2022-06-101h 02The Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #209: Grounded In Your IdentityWho are you? What do you use to define your identity? For many guys, we use what we do or the things we own or even the people we’re associated with. Yet what happens if or when those things are no longer there? If we’re not grounded in something more, something deeper and core to our being, then we risk not fully knowing who we are. Join us this week on a journey of discovering you are more than what you do. Expanded Notes: What do we mean by Identity? We are more...
2022-06-0339 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #208: Coaching Your SonCoaching in athletics has been around for centuries. Coaching for personal development, on the other hand, is only a few decades old. Though they share the same word, they are significantly different. And the skill of coaching for development can significantly improve the way you father your son. If you want to understand what good coaching is and gather some tips to help you be a better father, this episode is for you. Expanded Notes: What is coaching? Listening vs talking Asking vs telling Releasing vs fixing Use questions to empower your son to t...
2022-05-2740 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #207: When God Doesn’t Answer with Mike SchreursThe story that unfolds on this episode is one that is timely and timeless. Mike Schreurs, an elder in business, in faith, and in life, shares his story of love and loss and what happens when God doesn’t answer our prayers. It is a story that will draw you in, move you to emotion, and (hopefully) inspire you to live differently as a man, husband, and father. Stay up to date with us through our mail list (sign up here) or our FB page @NMUJourney. You can connect with Mike on Li...
2022-05-2043 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #206: Pursuing His Heart More Than ObedienceParenting from a place of fear is a way to gain your son’s obedience. It’s also likely to result in strained or severed relationship in the end. There is a better way to have a strong relationship and his obedience—parenting from a place of love. In this episode, Mark talks about the two acts of his fathering journey and the intermission between that made all the difference. Stay up to date with us through our mail list (sign up here) or our FB page @NMUJourney. Expanded Notes: Our defa...
2022-05-1335 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #205: Drilling Into FearWhether you realize it or not, you have a problem with the F-Word. Not the one you’re thinking of. The F-Word we’re talking about is Fear. Men don’t want to admit it but fear is a nemesis that can keep you from becoming all that God wants you to be. But overcoming fear requires a few things. Join Mark and John as they drill into the layers of fear and discuss ways you can overcome this enemy. Stay up to date with us through our mail list (sign up here) or our FB page...
2022-05-0633 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #204: Your Porn Problem Is Not So Secret, with Dr. Eddie CapparucciHelping men overcome pornography and sex addiction is not a popular professional path, but it is a calling that our guest, Dr. Eddie Capparucci, takes very seriously. He specializes in treating what he calls problematic sexual behavior and has developed his own recovery model based on his personal and client experience. Join us as we navigate again into the waters or porn, for your sake and the sake of your son. Stay up to date with us through our mail list (sign up here) or our FB page @NMUJourney. Connect with Ed...
2022-04-291h 03The Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #203: How Your Stuff Affects ThemYour stuff as a husband and a father affects your wife and kids. It may be your bad habits or addictions or wounds from the past. Or it may be your turn around and the growth you experience. Either way, your stuff affects them, negatively or positively. Want to know what we mean and what to do about it? Join Mark and John for the discussion. Stay up to date with us through our mail list (sign up here) or our FB page @NMUJourney. Expanded Notes: What you ignore or av...
2022-04-2233 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #202: Love You ManIf you’re like many guys, saying “love you man” to another dude, even a close-friend-dude can be difficult. Where does that come from? Why does it matter? Those are just a few of the questions that Mark and John get into on this topic. John’s singing voice makes a surprise appearance. Plus, there are some great resources offered to help you along in this journey. Stay up to date with us through our mail list (sign up here) or our FB page @NMUJourney. Expanded Notes: Your intent in how you exp...
2022-04-1537 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #201: We’re Back With A New VoiceThe podcast returns with a new look, and new sound, and a new voice. John Gregory is joining the show as a co-host. So today, we get to know John a bit and set the stage for what’s coming up in future episodes. Stay up to date with us through our mail list (sign up here) or our FB page @NMUJourney. To learn more about John, you can find and follow him here: https://www.facebook.com/john.gregory.965 https://johngregoryjr.com
2022-04-0839 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #200: Essentials of Manhood — FaithWith this episode, #200, the podcast is wrapping up the Essentials of Manhood series and taking a short break for some retooling and remodeling. Join Mark for a look at this last quality of manhood to highlight — Faith — and then take a break for a few weeks with us while we prepare for you a new season. Stay up to date with us through our mail list (sign up here) or our FB page @NMUJourney. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Episode 200 means it’s time for a sho...
2022-03-1121 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #199: Essentials of Manhood — LoveThere is much that society and pop culture have to say about love. But most of it falls well short of what love really means. Helping your son to understand love in a bigger and broader light is part of helping him become a healthy and godly man. In this latest installment of essential qualities of manhood, we tackle what love is and what it really looks like. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Love is more than feelings, it is an act of the will to car...
2022-03-0415 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #198.2: Bonus — The Rite of Passage CeremonyThis episode is a bonus 3rd segment of the conversation with Andrew Boscaljon in which he describes the rite of passage ceremony he orchestrated for his son. May it inspire you to build one for your son too. For assistance on how, check out thenextmanup.com/forgingmen Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Preparing your son involves self preparation as well Intuition and creative work brought forth a choreography to work with Key elements of the rite of passage Tokens or artifacts to refe...
2022-02-2520 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #198: Death and Rebirth as a Man (Part 2)Vision quest, transitional space, death and rebirth, these words seem foreign, mystical even. They are certainly not the everyday vocabulary of a man. In sharing his own story, today’s guest, Andrew Boscaljon, is inviting men to reconsider and rediscover these themes. Join us for part two as we explore these ideas and connect them directly to the process of becoming a healthy and godly man. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Transition meaning thoughts: I and Thou (book by Martin Buber) Stepping outside of self for a ti...
2022-02-2539 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #197: Death and Rebirth as a Man (Part 1)Vision quest, transitional space, death and rebirth, these words seem foreign, mystical even. They are certainly not the everyday vocabulary of a man. In sharing his own story, today’s guest, Andrew Boscaljon, is inviting men to reconsider and rediscover these themes. Join us as we explore these ideas together and connect them directly to the process of becoming a healthy and godly man. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: The path to the Vision Quest started 5-6 years earlier Thru studying Native American rites and rituals, a de...
2022-02-1833 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #196: Rejecting Passivity“Passivity has no place in the lexicon of true masculinity. None.” Do those words of John Eldredge reflect your life as a man? The way you’re raising your son? If not, then this episode is for you. Listen in as Mark looks at where passivity comes from, what it looks like, what’s at stake and how to overcome it. Email us at: feedback@thenextmanup.com Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: 4 Big Questions to Unravel: Where does passivity come from? Forge...
2022-02-1119 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #195: Winning the Fatherhood Game (Part 2)What if you thought of fatherhood like a game, one which had scores, one which you could learn to play, and play well? Back to finish our conversation about his life, his book and the work he’s doing to help men is Shannon Eads. Shannon is a husband, father, pastor, and now author who is working with men and fathers to help them grow in the fathering game and make a positive impact on the lives around them. www.ministryformen.com Winning the Fatherhood Game book Music Credit: "Funk...
2022-02-0446 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #194: Winning the Fatherhood Game (Part 1)What if you thought of fatherhood like a game, one which had scores, one which you could learn to play, and play well? That’s the idea behind the work of today’s guest, Shannon Eads. Shannon is a husband, father, pastor, and now author who is working with men and fathers to help them grow in the fathering game and make a positive impact on the lives around them. And it all came together in the most unlikely season of his life. www.ministryformen.com Winning the Fatherhood Game book Music...
2022-01-2835 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #193: Essentials of Manhood — HonorBack for more on what it means to be a man, this time Mark turns his attention to honor. One small word with significant meaning and application for being a man. What is honor? Why does it matter? Why is Mark so taken with this word? The answers to those questions and a few more are what’s in store for this episode. The whole Essentials of Manhood series to date: https://thenextmanup.com/?s=essentials+of+manhood Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Why Honor? Big idea...
2022-01-2117 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #192: Born to Be Brave with Bob Gresh (Part 2)To be brave means to endure unpleasant or painful circumstances and not succumb to the fear they can produce. Today’s guest knows about living bravely because of the life events he’s experienced. Bob Gresh is an entrepreneur, author and co-founder of Born to Be Brave, a ministry offering live events and at-home resources which help fathers to engage with the brave life and invite their sons to follow. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Dads get it right by entering into life where their boy is Dads...
2022-01-1431 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #191: Born to Be Brave with Bob Gresh (Part 1)To be brave means to endure unpleasant or painful circumstances and not succumb to the fear they can produce. Today’s guest knows about living bravely because of the life events he’s experienced. Bob Gresh is an entrepreneur, author and co-founder of Born to Be Brave, a ministry offering live events and at-home resources which help fathers to engage with the brave life and invite their sons to follow. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Born to Be Brave grew out of the True Girls ministry Engagin...
2022-01-0740 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #190: Remembering Emmanuel This ChristmasA special and unique message for you as 2021 comes to a close. A very Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and yours. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Christmas With The Chosen: https://youtu.be/UOTkTBxTxEA The Darkest Midnight: https://youtu.be/GTYN03lCC1M
2021-12-2408 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #189: Humorous and Healthy with Dave Ebert (Part 2)For most of his life, Dave Ebert, comedian and improv artist, masked his deep depression and suicidal thoughts behind his gift of making people laugh. Humor was the way to hide how he truly felt inside. Until he saw his life as a moment of choice and that’s when everything changed. Now he uses comedy as a way to reveal the source of his gift and his transformed life. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Jesus, as a man, gives us clues into how men can embr...
2021-12-1731 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #188: Humorous and Healthy with Dave Ebert (Part 1)Laughter is a gift and a joy. But sometimes it can also be a mask to hide the pain. Today’s guest knows that all too well. For most of his life, Dave Ebert covered his depression with humor. He used it to make others feel better while disguising how he truly felt inside. All that changed with a choice. Now he uses comedy as a way to reveal the source of his gift and his transformed life. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: For Dave, making peop...
2021-12-1032 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #187: Essentials of Manhood — LeadershipWhether you see yourself as a leader or not, part of being a healthy and godly man is to be a leader. But what does that look like? How do you do lead well? In this latest installment of the Essentials of Manhood series, we explore the quality of leadership, good leadership, to help you lead yourself well so that you can lead your son (and others) well too. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Leadership can be learned (it isn't just genetically pre-wired to some) 4 Qualities: A...
2021-12-0314 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #186: Practicing GratefulnessYou know what gratefulness is. But how well do you practice it? And why does it even matter? Leaning on the words from other thought leaders and from his own journey of practicing this discipline, Mark looks at this idea in today’s episode. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Why does it matter Perspective -- keeps your focus away from just getting/using/consuming Contentment -- you are more than your circumstances; God's blessing is not measured by what you have or don't have Bigger vision -- Go...
2021-11-2616 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #185: Man Up with Jody Burkeen (Part 2)The phrase “Man Up” has not always been used in a beneficial way, but not when it comes to today’s guest. Jody Burkeen is a lot of things — husband, father, paster, business owner, author — but one thing he is not is unclear on his message, men need to man up God’s way. He’s back for part two of our conversation telling it like it is and calling men to, what else, man up. website: manupgodsway.org Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Talking to men l...
2021-11-1933 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #184: Man Up with Jody Burkeen (Part 1)Often, the phrase “Man Up” is misused or poorly defined, but not when it comes to today’s guest. Jody Burkeen occupies a number of different roles — husband, father, paster, business owner, author — but across all of them he is consistently clear in his message, men need to man up God’s way. He joins the show to talk about his story, the ministry work he’s doing, and what it means to talk to men as men. Website: manupgodsway.org Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: As an atheist, Jody f...
2021-11-1239 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #183: A Father’s Story with Kirt Eldredge“The glory of God is man fully alive.” That quote, by Saint Irenaeus, is an appropriate definition of our guest for this episode, Kirt Eldredge. Kirt is a husband, a father of two, and a warrior in the kingdom, and he joins us to share his story. But as you’ll see, what unfolds is more than just his father story. It’s actually a story about three different fathers. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
2021-11-0546 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #182: Essentials of Manhood — StrengthManhood is about being strong, but not in the way most guys think. It’s actually much bigger and harder. In this episode, Mark examines another essential quality of manhood — strength. And in typical fashion, he takes a different angle. Give us 15 minutes and we’ll give you a new way to look at what it means to be strong as a man. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: 4 Areas of Strength Beyond Just Physical: Mental Strength — Strength of Mind Emotional Strength — Strength of Heart Identity Strength — Strength of Be...
2021-10-2913 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #181: A Higher Trek with Christian Postel (Part 2)Today’s guest knows full well the impact a father can have on a son. Part 1 captured his story and the road to Higher Trek. In part 2, Christian Postel outlines the need for disciplining young men and how and why Higher Trek has been so successful in helping them become disciples of Jesus and fully engage in the mission. This is not another Sunday School program. It is something that changed his life and it’s one way he’s helping to change the lives of others. https://highertrek.com Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin M...
2021-10-2238 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #180: A Higher Trek with Christian Postel (Part 1)Today’s guest knows full well the impact a father can have on a son. Though his story is full of difficulty and misdirection today he is living a life of mission and impact due to the faithful efforts of a father figure and a discipleship program that changed his life. Christian Postel, former director of Higher Trek, joins us today to share his story and the work he’s doing to help young men become disciples of Jesus and fully engage in the mission. https://highertrek.com Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
2021-10-1536 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #179: Essentials of Manhood — IntegrityYou’ve heard the term and the command before, be men of integrity. But what does that really mean? What if it means more than just the do’s and don’ts you’ve associated with it? On this latest episode in the series of manhood essentials, we explore this quality and get into an advanced application to help you better understand it, live it, and raise your boy to do the same. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Integrity has often been defined by the do’s and don’ts...
2021-10-0819 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #178: The Freedom Fight with Ted Shimer (Part 2)Back again to finish the conversation about the pervasive and destructive problem of pornography is Ted Shimer. Ted is the founder of The Freedom Fight, an online pornography addiction recovery program. He is a long time mentor of young adults and is trained as a Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional-Supervisor. His background and training give him a unique and grounded approach to a holistic addiction recovery from porn. https://thefreedomfight.org Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Best way to disclose to your wife is...
2021-10-0143 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #177: The Freedom Fight with Ted Shimer (Part 1)Joining us to talk about the huge and pervasive issue of pornography is Ted Shimer. Ted is the founder of The Freedom Fight, an online pornography addiction recovery program. He is a long time mentor of young adults and is trained as a Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional-Supervisor. His background and training give him a unique and grounded approach to a holistic addiction recovery from porn. https://thefreedomfight.org Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Sobering stats on pornography: 2019 report: Pornhub has had more than 42 billion total visits, 115 million daily...
2021-09-2432 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #176: Comfort Is An idolComfort is an idol. That’s a statement I’ve been wresting with for a few months now and decided to explore on the podcast today. We were made to grow and growth requires discomfort. And yet comfort is a tempting alternative that invites us to settle for something less than we’re capable of or what we’ve been called to. Wondering if this might be describing you? Then listen in and find out. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: What comfort has become an idol fo...
2021-09-1717 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #175: Recovering Douchebag Joey DumontToday’s guest introduces himself this way: My name is Joey, and I am a recovering douchebag. After living the quintessential American man life (sort of), marriage and then starting a family prompted Joey Dumont to begin a 10 year journey of recovery. And then he decided to write a book about it. Joey joins us to talk about his journey, his book, and the life he’s living and loving now. Joey Dumont: https://www.joeydumont.com Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: The book: Joey Somebody - Life and...
2021-09-1038 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #174: Encouragement For YouBe encouraged! That’s the message for you in this episode. There are enough things happening in your life, in your community, and in the world around us that are discouraging. Today, find some encouragement to keep going and growing on the journey of being and raising healthy and godly men. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Things to do when you feel discouraged: Remember, you are not alone Engage with other men Engage more deeply with Father A blessing for you: May Father bless you and keep you; Ma...
2021-09-0315 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #173: Divorce Proofing Your Marriage with Eric Terry (Part 2)Communication Coach, Eric Terry returns to finish our discussion about how to divorce proof your marriage and prepare your son for his marriage. Eric’s candor about his own failures and the wisdom he gained in the process will help you become a better husband and father. Setting the bar higher, a thriving marriage free of arguing and fighting, is the goal and Eric is here to help you get there. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Changing your own behavior is key to improving the marriage; this...
2021-08-2733 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #172: Divorce Proofing Your Marriage with Eric Terry (Part 1)Want to know the secret to divorce proofing your marriage? Want to help your son be better prepared for marriage down the road? Communication Coach Eric Terry joins the show today to specifically answer those questions and many more. With candor about his failed marriage, as well as what's different with his second one, Eric will help you become a better husband and a better father as he shares his personal journey and the wisdom he’s gained in the process. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Dad...
2021-08-2039 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #171: Confronting Cancel Culture with Alon Auguste (Part 2)Cancel culture is a topic that is front and center for us today. It deserves to be addressed but not necessarily in the way you would expect. A familiar voice and good friend of TNMU, Alon Auguste, joins us again to do what he always does—speak into current culture with a timely and timeless message. It’s almost a guarantee that you haven’t engaged with this topic in the way Alon does. Which is why the rest of this conversation should be required listening. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Can...
2021-08-1330 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #170: Confronting Cancel Culture with Alon Auguste (Part 1)Cancel culture is a topic that is current and deserves to be addressed. Bringing back a familiar voice is a good way to do it. Alon Auguste joins us again to do what he always does—speak into current culture with a timely and timeless message. It’s almost a guarantee that you haven’t engaged with this topic in the way Alon does in this episode. Which is why no matter your understanding of this cultural issue, this episode is a must listen. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Cancel culture...
2021-08-0639 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #169: Essentials of Manhood — ResponsibilityResponsibility was given to man in the very story of creation. In so doing, God communicated that being responsible is part of being a man. But what does that look like? What does responsibility mean and how do we live it out. Spend the next 15 minutes with us and we’ll help you answer those questions, both for you and for your son. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Responsibility is essential to being a man; but it’s more than simply following rules Responsibility, in part, means...
2021-07-3016 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #168: Essentials of Manhood — CourageWhat does it mean to be courageous? What does courage look like in your life? If we’re not careful, we can miss the importance of courage to being a man or we can misunderstand what real courage looks like. Give us 15 minutes and we’ll help you reconnect with what true courage is and why it is so important for you to foster and embrace. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Courage is an essential quality of manhood Courage is also misunderstood; it is not synonymous with f...
2021-07-2314 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #167: Real Manhood Is This with Eric Browning (Part 2)What is real manhood? Today’s guest has an answer. Eric Browning is a man, father, leader, and legacy bearer. In 2014 he forged the father-son ministry Sand to Stone as a way to provide fathers the environment and tools to communicate biblical manhood, and sons, a clear pathway to embrace and mark their journey. Browning uses a combination of father led outdoor adventure, competition, contemplation, and ceremony to set the stage for men to raise up future men, for Gods kingdom. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Iden...
2021-07-1637 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #166: Real Manhood Is This with Eric Browning (Part 1)What is real manhood? Today’s guest has an answer. Eric Browning is a man, father, leader, and legacy bearer. In 2014 he forged the father-son ministry Sand to Stone as a way to provide fathers the environment and tools to communicate biblical manhood, and sons, a clear pathway to embrace and mark their journey. Browning uses a combination of father led outdoor adventure, competition, contemplation, and ceremony to set the stage for men to raise up future men, for Gods kingdom. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Our...
2021-07-0942 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #165: Giving What You Never GotWhether your father was a great example or a lousy one, you will have a moment where your son will need something from you that you never received from your dad. How do you do that? How do you give to your son something you never received from your father? That question, from one of our listeners, is what Mark addresses in this latest episode. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Grieve what wasn't or will never be, so that you can let it go an...
2021-07-0219 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #164: From Rags to Riches to Ruined to Redeemed with Dr. Joe Martin (Part 2)This episode continues the incredible story of Dr. Joe Martin. Joe’s life can be summarized in one simple sentence: “He went from rags to riches to ruined to redemption.” Having it all by age 30, losing it all by age 40, and gaining it all back by age 50. He now hosts a top rated podcast for Christian Men and helps men write their own life comeback stories of redemption. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: realmenconnect.com / rmcfree.com Dr. Joe Martin: from Rags to Riches to Ruined to Redempti...
2021-06-2553 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #163: From Rags to Riches to Ruined to Redeemed with Dr. Joe Martin (Part 1)The story you are about to hear is almost impossible to believe. And yet it happened and it’s told by the one who experienced it all, Dr. Joe Martin. Joe’s life can be summarized in one simple sentence: “He went from rags to riches to ruined to redemption.” Having it all by age 30, losing it all by age 40, and gaining it all back by age 50. He now hosts a top rated podcast for Christian Men and helps men write their own life comeback stories. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: realm...
2021-06-1845 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #162: A Better Way To Parent?When someone suggests there’s a better way to parent, we’re intrigued and pay attention. Sometimes there’s wisdom there and sometimes it’s nonsense. And, of course, sometimes there’s both. A recent article from The Atlantic is just such an example. Based on research about parenting from other very different cultures, there are a few things we can learn and some things we should challenge. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Source article: https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2021/03/hunt-gather-parent-timeless-advice-for-modern-parents/618172/ Based on a book by Michaeleen Doucleff: Hunt, Gather, Pa...
2021-06-1136 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #161: I Wish I Knew That ThenIn this latest installment of Mark’s Musings, Mark talks about a recent conversation with his kids in which they shared about some of their experience growing up. From that conversation emerged 4 things that, upon reflection, he wish he would have known back then. Maybe, by sharing them with you today, you can benefit from this learning and incorporate it into how you’re raising your son. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: 4 Things I Wish I Knew Back Then Let them fail more Failure isn’t so fatal...
2021-06-0417 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #160: Forging Extraordinary Men With ALERT (Part 2)“Without a guide to show us the way, we end up off, to some degree or another.” That’s one insight that came from part 2 of the conversation about forging extraordinary men with Phillip Vanderford, Battalion Commanding Officer with ALERT Academy. His passion and the work that he’s doing for ALERT is making a difference in the lives of hundreds of young men. Join us in this episode as we get deeper in to how they make it happen and why this might be a good fit for your son. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod...
2021-05-2835 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #159: Forging Extraordinary Men With ALERT (Part 1)“I’m not a man because I can prove myself as a big, tough, macho guy. It’s more about what’s happening inside of me.” That’s just one of the insights that comes from this conversation with Phillip Vanderford, Battalion Commanding Officer with ALERT Academy. His passion for helping young men pursue Christ and His kingdom comes through in an inspiring way, both in his own story and the work he’s doing to help forge extraordinary men. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: ALERT Academy (Air, La...
2021-05-2136 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #158: Promoting Boys On Their JourneyCan an expanding family become an opportunity for promotion? It can when you approach it with an initiation mindset. When seen through this lens, brotherhood becomes much more than just competition for resources once wholly owned. It is now a promotion into a bigger and more meaningful role. And this can serve as a template for future promotion opportunities all along his journey to manhood. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: A new sibling allows opportunity to promote a boy into the responsibility of brotherhood Initiation can be...
2021-05-1429 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #157: How The Boy Becomes A ManAlthough boys don’t automatically become men, there are stages that they pass through in their growth and development. Borrowing language and references from learning to be a master craftsman, we talk about 4 distinct stages boys progress through in their journey of becoming the men they were created to be. And when you understand and cooperate with those stages it makes you an even more effective father. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: 4 Keys Stages of Manhood: Novice (0-12) Experiencing life as a boy, becoming more and more curious ab...
2021-05-0714 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #156: The Dark Side of Pornography and Trafficking with Ray EllisRay Ellis is a man on a mission, to bring awareness to the dark side of pornography and what’s really behind this multi-billion industry. And he’s also quite clear on what’s at stake. His story has led him here and now he’s working to make a difference. Ray has the heart of a pastor and the experience of a cop which makes him uniquely qualified to address this elephant in the room. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Uncovering the connection between pornography and sex re...
2021-04-3038 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #155.5: Bonus Episode: The Blessing CeremonyThis episode is a bonus 3rd segment from the conversation with Ray Ellis, in which he describes The Blessing, an initiation process he guided his kids through. May it encourage and inspire you to guide your children on their journey as well. Book: The Blessing by Gary Smalley and John Trent Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
2021-04-2417 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #155: Adversity, Diversity & Manhood with Ray EllisWhen Ray Ellis was 16 he vowed he would never do 3 specific things. Little did he know they would all happen and become important parts of the man he is today. Ray is an ordained pastor, retired police officer, an author, and an advocate for healthy manhood. He’s also a husband, father, and now grandfather. In this conversation, we discover who Ray is, how he got to what he’s doing today and why that work is so important to him. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: The si...
2021-04-2332 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #154: Stories of Initiation In NatureThe need for males to be initiated into adulthood seems to be written into the laws of how our universe operates. This is both in the human kingdom and in the animal kingdom. A sampling of stories from various animal species supports this idea. In this episode Mark and Josh share some of their favorite initiation examples from the animal kingdom. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Initiation of males into adulthood is part of the fabric of creation The more complex the social structure, the more necessary initiation is Elephants...
2021-04-1623 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #153: Working Hard Is More Than ProvidingYou are already working hard to provide for your family. But working hard is more than providing financially. It’s a whole lot more. In this latest Mark’s Musings, Mark offers 3 ways to get a bigger vision for what it means and to help you better fulfill your role as a man, husband, and father. Also, check out our new home at the NRT Podcast Network: https://www.newreleasetoday.com/podcasts.php Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Working hard for your family is more than making money for t...
2021-04-0911 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #152: Rules to Teach Your SonWhat rules are important to teach your son? What are the things you want him to know before he launches? Do you have a list? Are you looking for some more ideas to add to your list? Someone on Facebook provided a list of 32 rules which is an interesting compilation to debate and discuss, so Mark and Josh decided to do just that in today’s episode. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) NEW Forging Men Video Course: https://thenextmanup.com/forgingmen NRT Podcast Network: https://www.newreleasetoday.com...
2021-04-0225 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #151: Relearning What It Means To Be AlphaThe examples of Alpha Males today are almost always biased to aggressive, macho, harsh, uncaring. While that may be what’s on display, it’s not consistent with the example found in nature, specifically with wolves. The Alpha of the wolf pack is so much more and worthy of studying further for a more complete picture of what it means to be a pack leader. Mark and Josh examine this idea courtesy of the Sawtooth Wolf Pack. NEW Forging Men Video Course: https://thenextmanup.com/forgingmen Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expan...
2021-03-2636 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #150: Breaking Down Travel Sports (Part 2)How do you know when your kid is ready for travel sports? How do you know when you’re ready, as a family, for the commitment? How do you find the right team? These are the questions guests Jon Couser and Craig Fullen will take on in part 2 of our chat about the world of travel sports. Once again, they’re full of wisdom and personal stories and will guide you through a decision making process that is spot on. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) NEW Forging Men Video Course: https://thenextmanup.com/forg...
2021-03-1940 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #149: Breaking Down Travel Sports (Part 1)Opportunities for competitive kids activities beyond school and rec teams (aka travel sports) have never been greater. Yet so many families don’t understand what they’re getting into, or more importantly why they join a team. Two of our most popular guests, Craig Fullen and Jon Couser, return to the show to breakdown this topic and help you think through the process of knowing whether travel sports are right for your child and your family. NEW Forging Men Video Course: https://thenextmanup.com/forgingmen Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Note...
2021-03-1238 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #148: A Book, A Show, & A RantBack for another Mark’s Musings, Mark turns his attention this time to the story, The Letter For The King. While the book elicits one reaction, the Netflix show prompts the complete opposite. In fact, the show stands in sharp contrast to so much of what we promote and encourage at The Next Man Up. Want to know why? Take a listen and find out. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: New Video Course: https://thenextmanup.com/forgingmen Book: The Letter For The King, by Tonke Dragt Excellent book, disappointing TV sh...
2021-03-0514 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #147: The Path of Becoming with Chris McAlister (Part 2)Back to finish the conversation on becoming an unobstructed version of who you are is Chris McAlister. Chris is an author, speaker, husband and father, and he’s the founder of Sightshift, a company helping ambitious people be courageous and kind. Chris covers a lot of ground in this episode so buckle up and let’s go. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: More often than not, men build identity around doing while women build identity around relationships Big goal: the unobstructed version of who you are Over a...
2021-02-2625 minThe Next Man Up | Equipping Fathers | Raising MenTNMU #146: The Path of Becoming with Chris McAlister (Part 1)Chris McAlister joins the show today in a frank and fast paced conversation. Chris is an author, speaker, husband and father, and he’s the founder of Sightshift, a company helping ambitious people be courageous and kind. In part one we go back into Chris’ story of becoming and retrace the painful and courageous path he’s followed to get to where he is today. Music Credit: "Funkorama" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Expanded Notes: Chris begins his story describing the impact his father had on him Calling to support leaders evident...
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