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Spiritual Life and Leadership299. What if Leading Alone was the Greatest Leadership Myth? A Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonDiscover why real leadership is never a solo journey—and how embracing your own vulnerability can unlock the supportive relationships you need to thrive through change.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss Tod's own quote in Ep. 283, Disorientation and Spiritual Leadership:“The vulnerability of leadership needs the security of many relationships.” THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:Leaders thrive when they work alongside partners, mentors, and friends.Effective change leadership requires collaboration, not isolation.Leaders experience growth by acknowledging and praying through their personal needs.Mentoring relationships and supportive community strengthen a leade...
2025-12-1606 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership298. Building Stronger Churches Through Collaborative Leadership, with E.K. Strawser, author of You Were Never Meant to Lead AloneDo you ever feel like you’re alone in your leadership? Why is that? Why do so many church leaders feel isolated—and how did we come to believe that ministry is something we’re supposed to do alone?In this episode, E.K. Strawser, author of You Were Never Meant to Lead Alone, unpacks what it means to move from solo leadership to a model shaped by shared responsibility and the APEST framework—apostle, prophet, evangelist, shepherd, and teacher—so that not only our churches, but our communities, can flourish.THIS EPISODE'S H...
2025-12-0953 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership297. The Secret to Calm Leadership Under Pressure, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonLearn how mastering your anxiety with simple, God-given tools like deep breathing can transform your leadership in the moments that matter most.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Audrey Davidheiser in Ep. 284, How to Respond Thoughtfully Instead of Reacting:"If you feel anxious or rushed or concerned or fearful, deep breaths. Because taking deep breaths from the belly is just a natural way that God has instilled in our brain, that it just kind of resets the nervous system and it allows ourselves to come back up online."
2025-12-0206 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership295. How to Energize Leadership by Seeking New Voices, a Quick Converstion with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonLearn how breaking out of your comfort zone and embracing new perspectives can transform your leadership and help dismantle bias in your church.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Erin Devers in Ep. 282, The Cost of Bias in the Church:“One of the strategies for reducing bias is to go bigger, to widen your perspective.”THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:People tend to hold onto their biases because they find comfort and safety in the familiar.Leaders confuse discomfort with genuine danger, which prevents them from widening thei...
2025-11-1807 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership293. Why Does Mission Grow From Humble Listening? A Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonExplore how real transformation in spiritual leadership begins with listening deeply to your community and letting curiosity—not certainty—shape your mission.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Shannon Kiser in Ep. 280, Empowering Leaders for Creative Mission:“Fresh expressions always start with listening and being attentive to who God is putting on your heart.”THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:Leaders cultivate fresh expressions of church by listening deeply to their communities.Adaptive leadership emerges when leaders prioritize curiosity about people over quick solutions.Experiments in ministry prompt learning...
2025-11-0406 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership291. The Complex Truth About Modern Churchgoers, a Quick conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonDiscover why leading in today’s church means listening deeply to people’s questions, griefs, and dreams—before ever stepping into the pulpit.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Mark Glanville in Ep. 278, Preaching in Today's Post-Christian World:"People are walking to church now, not with the Bible under their arm, but with complex and genuine questions, with hopes, with dreams, with griefs on their heart, sometimes with a complex relationship with the Bible itself.”THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:Church leaders face the complexity of guiding people w...
2025-10-2105 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership289. Exegeting Neighborhoods and Churches, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonLearn how transformational leaders can unlock real change by listening deeply to their neighborhoods—before making big plans for the future.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Josh Hayden in Ep. 272, Beyond Church Revitalization."Remissioning leaders have to do the steady work of exegeting the neighborhood, and doing the exegesis work of the church before they make big plans about what success or flourishing looks like for our church or our neighbors."THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:Remissioning leaders exegete both their neighborhoods and their churches before ma...
2025-10-0708 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership287. Leadership and Lament, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonDiscover why real transformation happens when leaders have the courage to journey with people into their sorrow and bring the hope of Christ to the places of deepest pain.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Andrew Root in Ep. 270, Evangelism as Consolation:"What we really need, what people yearn for, is someone who will journey with them into their sorrow and to proclaim and witness to a Jesus Christ who is present in sorrow."THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:Leaders embody the gospel by journeying with people...
2025-09-2306 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership285. Embracing the Unfamiliar, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonDiscover how stepping into discomfort and crossing borders—literal and metaphorical—can transform you and your leadership in ways you never imagined.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Seth Clark in Ep. 268, Borderless Faith:“Somehow there is this thing happening at the border that I get to participate in, that is making a difference and reminding people of God's love and hopefully drawing them into God's love in a new way.”THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:Leaders grow when they lean into uncomfortable situations outside their comfort zones.Pe...
2025-09-0907 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership284. How to Respond Thoughtfully Instead of Reacting, with Audrey Davidheiser, author of Grieving WholeheartedlyMinistry can stir up all kinds of feelings, especially when we’re dealing with conflict, with grief, with change. And the better we understand what’s happening beneath the surface, the better we can lead ourselves—and our people—more thoughtfully and more effectively.In this episode, I’m speaking with Dr. Audrey Davidheiser, a licensed psychologist and the author of Grieving Wholeheartedly. Audrey helps us understand something called Internal Family Systems—IFS—a powerful way of thinking about our inner world and all those “parts” of us that can get in the way of effective leadership.T...
2025-09-0247 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership283. Stay on Target! A Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonLearn how keeping “the main thing the main thing” can transform your church’s mission, focus your decisions, and unite your community as one body in Christ.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Terry A. Smith in Ep. 266, The Church as Shalom Maker:"I work so hard to make sure that we keep the main thing the main thing, that we don't get caught up in things that keep us from who we are supposed to be as one body in Christ."THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:Leader...
2025-08-2606 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership281. Learning Our Way Forward, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonLearn how small, daring experiments from the edges can spark meaningful change in your church—without sending everyone into panic mode.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Raymond Chang in Ep. 164, Building a Future-Focused Church."We recommend that people consider additional, and smaller experiments from the edges that are likely to move the congregation in the direction that it needs to go without being too disruptive."THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:Leaders move congregations forward by initiating small experiments rather than launching large, disruptive initiatives.Congregations learn an...
2025-08-1206 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership280. Empowering Leaders for Creative Mission, with Shannon Kiser, author of Opening SpaceWhat do you do when the tried-and-true ways of doing church just aren’t working anymore? When everything you once relied on—Sunday services, eye-catching signage, the best coffee in the foyer—still leaves your church feeling disconnected from your community?In this episode, Shannon Kiser, author of Opening Space: A Vision for Fresh Expressions of Church and Creative Mission, shares about what “fresh expressions” of church means, why the old attractional models are no longer enough, and how ministry leaders can begin to reimagine church for a spiritually curious but institutionally wary world.THIS...
2025-08-0651 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership279. The First Change Is You, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonLearn how real transformation in leadership begins when we shift our focus from what’s happening to us to what’s happening within us.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Chuck DeGroat in Ep. 262, Fro Fired to Flourishing.“I had to turn my attention from what happened to me to what was happening within me."THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:Change leaders cultivate self-awareness by focusing on their internal responses rather than solely external circumstances.Transformative leadership requires individuals to process their own emotional reactions before leading others...
2025-07-2906 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership277. From People Pleaser to Courageous Leader, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonDiscover why true leadership means having the courage to make tough decisions—even when it means disappointing the people you care about most.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Rich Stearns in Ep. 105, Courageous Leadership."Leaders have to make difficult decisions. And difficult decisions require courage."THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:Leaders cultivate courage by making difficult decisions that may disappoint their own people.Adaptive leaders accept that faithfully living out the mission often requires sacrificing personal approval.Great leaders guide people through uncomfortable transformation, not just tow...
2025-07-1507 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership276. The Light and Dark Sides of Power, with Nicole Massie Martin, author of Nailing ItIn a world that celebrates rapid growth, platform-building, and constant success, it’s easy to take on leadership strategies that promise bigger, better, and faster results. But when these approaches clash with the invitation of Jesus to embrace the cross, where does true, lasting influence come from?In this episode, Nicole Massie Martin, author of Nailing It, unpacks the spiritual paradox at the heart of healthy leadership—how surrender, humility, and even seasons of struggle can form us as leaders and empower the people we serve.THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCUDE:Christian lead...
2025-07-0836 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership273. Beyond Fake It Till You Make It, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonDrawing on the challenges of feeling marginalized and the importance of resting in God’s love, this episode explores the vital role that self-compassion plays in leadership. Tod Bolsinger shares wisdom on facing anxiety and insecurity, especially when leaders are stepping into the unknown and leaving behind their expertise. Instead of "faking it till you make it," Tod encourages authenticity, resilience, and building trust within a community.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Jenai Auman in Ep. 252: Navigating the Pain of Being “Othered”:"Sometimes I need to experience self-compassion and quell the insecu...
2025-06-1706 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership271. The Precarious Power of Prayer, a Quick conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonMarkus Watson and Tod Bolsinger unpack the fascinating connection between the Latin roots of “prayer” and “precarious”—suggesting that it’s often in our most uncertain moments that we’re drawn into deeper dependence on God. Together, they explore how precarious situations not only shape our leadership but also form and mature our prayer lives. You’ll also hear practical wisdom on leading others in prayer through times of change and how discernment, rather than just asking God to bless our plans, is central to a healthy approach to leadership.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Jeff...
2025-06-0306 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership269. Balancing Mission and Consensus in Leadership, a Quick Conversation with Tod BolsingerIn this episode, Markus Watson and Tod Bolsinger explore what it really means to lead with care—especially when consensus isn’t possible and someone might get hurt. Tod brings his insight on adaptive leadership, highlighting the tension between seeking unity and making tough, missional choices that can disappoint or cause pain. Together, Markus and Tod reflect on how Jesus modeled mission-centered leadership, caring for people while staying true to his calling—even when it meant letting others down.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Marc Schelske in Ep. 258: Walking the Path of Other-Centered Leader...
2025-05-2006 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership267. Moving Past Plateaus, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonThis conversation reflects on the urgent need for genuine transformation in the church, rather than simply tweaking what isn’t working. Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson explore the signs that point to deeper issues—like plateauing membership, aging congregations, and stagnating giving—and why now is the time for a true “hero’s journey” of change, not just rearranging the chairs on the Titanic.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Rex Miller in Ep. 254: Digital Disruption and the Future of the Church:"There are some telltale signs that it's time to go on a hero's...
2025-05-0607 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership265. Awareness and Adjustment in Leadership, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonThis episode explores the critical role awareness plays in avoiding burnout and fostering healthy leadership practices. Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss personal anecdotes and practical strategies to cultivate awareness, so we can better navigate the challenges that come our way. Whether you're leading a team or just trying to lead a more intentional life, this conversation is packed with insights to help you break free from autopilot mode and make mindful adjustments for a more effective and fulfilling leadership journey.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Jonathan Hoover in Ep. 254: Endless Expectations and...
2025-04-2207 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership263. Why Leaders Need to Listen Before They Lead, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss insights on the importance of developing leaders who are skilled in curious listening and creating a collaborative environment where ideas are shared and valued. The conversation uncovers how shifting from monologue to dialogue can not only empower communities but also lead to more meaningful adaptive leadership in times of change.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Scot McKnight in Ep 250, The Prophetic Challenge of Deconstruction:“The evangelical world does not have a culture of conversation.”THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:Leaders impr...
2025-04-0806 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership261. Pressing Against the Darkness, a Quick conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonMarkus Watson and Tod Bolsinger explore Mandy Smith's powerful words on combating darkness and feelings of futility in leadership. Tod reflects on his own struggles with imposter syndrome and insecurity, highlighting the need for honesty and spiritual practices to overcome these challenges.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Mandy Smith in Ep 244, Finding Strength in Desperation:“Every week I have to stand up there and press against this darkness that wants us to be quiet. And wants to come against us and disrupt our sleep; and disrupt our sense of well-being; and tel...
2025-03-2507 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership259. Trusting Jesus in Uncertainty, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson explore how leadership often feels like moving through a dense fog where vision is limited. Tod shares his thoughts on the importance of valuing enduring principles over having a clear vision in times of rapid change. He emphasizes that being anchored in unchangeable values and the mission of our faith can guide us through uncertain landscapes. The conversation also unpacks the role of Jesus and the Spirit in adaptive leadership, highlighting the need to align our actions with what Jesus is doing in the world.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this...
2025-03-1106 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership257. Slowing Down When the World Speeds Up, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss the importance of acknowledging when leaders feel overwhelmed and how critical it is to slow down and reflect rather than react impulsively. Through engaging metaphors and practical advice, they share strategies for adaptive leadership, highlighting practices such as pausing, getting perspective, and silent prayer to navigate chaos and uncertainty effectively.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from David Quel in Ep 242, Life and Leadership in the Fog:"The world is moving fast. Change is speeding up and human brains haven't necessarily changed in order to be able...
2025-02-2507 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership255. Mission-Centered Decision Making, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonBased on their experiences as pastors, Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson explore the delicate balance between seeking consensus through voting and the necessity of leading with focus and clarity. They delve into the unique challenges and responsibilities that come with adaptive leadership, emphasizing the importance of mission-driven decisions.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Uli Chi in Ep. 240. Leading with Wisdom from Above, with Uli Chi:“There are times when leaders lead by providing focus and clarity, rather than simply taking a vote on everything.”THIS EPISODES HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:Le...
2025-02-1106 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership253. Leading from a Place of Inner Abundance, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson explore the essential question: "What thirsts of my soul am I bringing to my congregation?" They discuss the importance of leaders acknowledging their own needs and the dangers of seeking fulfillment from their congregations instead of God. Learn how aligning personal needs with God's guidance can help leaders bring true abundance to their communities.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Alan Fadling in Ep 238, Lead with Less Anxiety:"What thirsts of my soul am I bringing to my congregation in hopes they'll meet me there rather than...
2025-01-2806 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership251. How Church Leaders Can Overcome Fear and Build Trust, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson reflect on how fear influences our congregations and the importance of addressing it directly. They discuss the role of technical expertise in building trust and how leaders can compassionately accompany people through their fears, especially in times of change and perceived loss. Tod shares strategies for normalizing fear, creating communities of empathy, and tackling resistance by engaging with those who are most fearful.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from David Quel in Ep 236, Supporting Families with Autism in Your Church:“People have a tendency to be fearful of...
2025-01-1406 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership250. The Prophetic Challenge of Deconstruction, with Scot McKnight, author of Invisible JesusIn this episode, we’re taking a deep-dive into the complex and, at times, nerve-wracking experience of deconstruction. Leaders often worry about its impact on their roles, their authority, and on the harmony or unity of their church communities. But what if deconstruction is less about tearing down faith and more about stripping away what's non-essential, centering instead on Jesus?In this epidsode, Scot McKnight, author of Invisible Jesus, sheds light on how deconstruction can be a path to a more Christ-focused faith, emphasizing the importance of creating supportive spaces for exploring and asking questions. This conversation is...
2025-01-0738 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership249. Balancing Tradition and Innovation in Church Leadership, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson engage in a meaningful conversation about the delicate balance of honoring the "inherited church" while experimenting on the edges to drive adaptive change. Drawing from a quote by Shannon Kiser, who is deeply involved in adaptive leadership and fresh expressions of church, Tod explains how churches can innovate without discarding valuable traditions.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Shannon Kiser in Ep 177, Exploring New Forms of Church:“We don’t have to give up what we love and cherish about the inherited church to also experiment on the...
2024-12-3107 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership248. Ministry's Heavy Burdens and the Christmas Promise of RestIn this special Christmas Eve episode of Spiritual Life and Leadership, Markus Watson takes a moment to share some heartfelt encouragement for those feeling the weight of ministry's demands. Reflecting on both personal and professional burdens, Markus reminds us of the importance of leaning on Jesus to find true rest and relief. By exploring the story of the shepherds, magi, and even King Herod, Markus illustrates how Jesus invites each of us to let go of our exhaustion and allow Him to help carry our burdens.THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:Pastors face a lot of...
2024-12-2408 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership247. The Kingdom of God as Present Reality, a Quick conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonMarkus Watson and Tod Bolsinger discuss the concept of the kingdom of God as a way of life, rather than a distant place. Inspired by a powerful quote from Yolanda Solomon, they discuss the profound implications this understanding has for ministry leadership and personal discipleship. Discover how embracing God's will in the present moment can transform your leadership and community, and what it means to live out the reality of God's reign right here, right now.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Yolanda Solomon in Ep 232, Learning from Jesus:"The kingdom that...
2024-12-1708 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership246. Have We Forgotten to Pray? with Jeff HoffmeyerWhat if prayer wasn’t just a box to check off your to-do list, but a lifeline deeply integrated into every moment of your life and your leadership? Imagine navigating every challenge, every conflict, and every transition with an ongoing sense that God is with you.Jeff Hoffmeyer is Vice President for Advancement and Resident Theologian for the Denver Institute for Faith and Work, and a teacher in the Doctor of Ministry program at Fuller Theological Seminary. In this episode, Jeff shares his insights on the significance of prayer in leadership, how to keep prayer practices fresh an...
2024-12-1042 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership245. Standing in the Gap, a Quck Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonMarkus Watson and Tod Bolsinger discuss the essential role of pastors and spiritual leaders in "standing in the gap," inspired by a profound quote from Amy Peeler. They explore how leaders can support their communities by being present in times of crisis, offering intercessory prayer, and providing emotional and spiritual accompaniment. Through personal stories and leadership insights, they highlight the importance of not letting others face challenges alone and the powerful impact of embodying a pastoral presence during tough decisions and anxious moments.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Amy Peeler in Ep 224, Leadership...
2024-12-0307 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership243. Including Young Voices in Leadership, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonMarkus Watson and Tod Bolsinger engage in an enlightening conversation exploring a profound quote by Efrem Smith on the evolving narrative of church communities. They discuss the critical role of the emerging generation in not just being part of the church's story, but actively shaping its future. The episode explores the importance of diverse perspectives, adaptive leadership, and the humility required to foster a truly inclusive and vibrant faith community.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Efrem Smith in Ep 222, Building a Multi-Inlusive Church:“As the story of your church unfolds, is it...
2024-11-1906 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership241. Leadership and Emotional Presence, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonMarkus Watson chats with Tod Bolsinger about a profound quote from Gayle Beebe, President of Westmont College. They explore the significance of staying emotionally present with your organization, its people, and its mission, especially during crises. The conversation highlights the balance between gaining perspective ('balcony' view) and staying connected (‘dance floor’ engagement), essential for fostering trust and effective leadership. Perfect for those navigating the complexities of ministry leadership.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Gayle Beebe in Ep 220, Leading Through Tragedy, Adversity, and Crisis:"You have to stay emotionally present to the orga...
2024-11-0507 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership239. When Politics Enter the Pew, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss the immense pressures faced by pastors today, as articulated by Tim Alberta. Tim highlighted how congregants increasingly expect pastors to function beyond their traditional roles, turning them into part-time pundits and cultural commentators on a myriad of contentious issues ranging from masking and vaccines to abortion and trans rights. Markus and Tod examine the challenges this poses, especially during heightened political seasons, and explore strategies for pastors to manage these pressures healthily, emphasizing the importance of honesty, mission focus, and relational support.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from...
2024-10-2209 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership237. Biblical Frameworks for a Polarized World, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonMarkus Watson and Tod Bolsinger discuss the importance of framing for church leaders, particularly in the context of political polarization. Drawing on a quote from Andrew Hanauer, they explore how providing a Biblical framework to congregants can shape their understanding of the world and mitigate the influence of external, often divisive, narratives. Through practical advice and insightful examples, they illustrate how asking the right questions can lead to transformative perspectives grounded in faith.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Andrew Hanauer in Ep 226, Tackling Toxic Polarization in Your Church:"If you don't...
2024-10-0807 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership235. Exercising Power with Integrity, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonMarkus Watson and Tod Bolsinger explore the concept of power within the framework of discipleship and adaptive leadership, inspired by a quote from Michael Rhodes. They discuss how power, when used responsibly, can prevent harm and support the vulnerable, such as orphans, immigrants, and widows. The conversation delves into the transformative potential of Jesus' use of power, emphasizing that true leadership requires the release and sharing of power to foster justice and love. They conclude with reflections on the societal challenges of redefining power in ways that uplift and protect the most vulnerable in the community.Tod...
2024-09-2407 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership233. Aligning with God's Work in the World, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonMarkus Watson and Tod Bolsinger explore how to discern and join in what God is doing in the world. They discuss the importance of humility, recognizing God's ongoing work beyond the church, and adopting practical spiritual disciplines. Tod shares personal practices, like evening prayers of gratitude and a mindset that sees God's activity through the night, to better align with God’s work. They emphasize listening to both God and others to understand the broader context of God's presence and action.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Tim Soerens in Ep 204, How to Cultivate Pr...
2024-09-1008 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership232. Learning from Jesus, with Yolanda Solomon, author of Discipleship as Holy CollaborationHow does Jesus go about transforming individual lives and entire societies? And what role do we play in that work of transformation?Yolanda Solomon, author of Discipleship as Holy Collaboration, helps us get clarity on these questions as she shares her insights on how to build a nurturing community in the Church, the challenges of modern discipleship, and the importance of addressing marginalized groups through a radically inclusive kingdom perspective.THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:Yolanda Solomon discusses the importance of collaboration and companionship in the Christian faith.Hebrews 10 underlines the importance of being k...
2024-09-0342 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership231. Navigating Grief and Life Transitions, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonMarkus Watson and Tod Bolsinger unpack a poignant quote from Adam McHugh, discussing the often-overlooked grief experienced during life transitions such as career changes and identity shifts. They reflect on Adam's personal journey from pastoral ministry to becoming a wine sommelier, emphasizing how letting go of deeply ingrained identities can be a difficult yet necessary process for embracing new seasons of life. The conversation underscores the importance of grief in these transitions and challenges the notion that Christians should always be joyful, highlighting that genuine grief prepares the way for new beginnings and deeper hope.Tod Bolsinger...
2024-08-2707 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership229. The Fear-Driven Church, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss a quote from episode 216 with guests Brad Strawn and Warren Brown. The quote highlights the perception that contemporary Christianity in the United States is more known for what it opposes than for what it supports. Tod Bolsinger explores this phenomenon, attributing it to the psychological tendency to focus on fears rather than potential gains. The discussion delves into how this fear-based mindset influences church leadership and community actions, emphasizing the need for churches to rally around positive and constructive goals rather than being driven by anxiety and opposition.Tod Bolsinger and...
2024-08-1307 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership227. Effective Team Management, a Quick Conversation withTod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss a quote from Mike Bonem, which underscores the importance of empowering team members to fulfill their roles. They explore the necessity of recruiting the right people and then giving them the freedom to execute their tasks effectively. Tod emphasizes the value of clarity in mission and supportive leadership, allowing team members to excel in their areas of expertise without micromanagement. He also introduces the concept of "the commander's intent" to highlight the balance between freedom and direction in team management.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Mike Bonem...
2024-07-3006 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership225. God's Work in the In-Between, a Quick Conversation withTod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss the importance of transitions in both individual and organizational life, as highlighted by a quote from Terry Walling. They explore the concept of the "in between," likening it to the liminal space where significant transformation occurs. Bolsinger emphasizes that these periods of uncertainty are essential for faith and growth, encouraging leaders to embrace learning and personal journey as they guide their communities through times of change. The episode explores the challenges of these transitions and provides insights on how leaders can navigate them effectively.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this...
2024-07-1607 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership223. Discovering Where God is Already at Work, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonMarkus Watson and Tod Bolsinger engage in a discerning conversation about the leadership and mission implications of the idea that God is already pesent in every culture. They consider the respect and humility required when entering new cultures and relationships, especially with the understanding that God's presence and work precede us. Through personal stories and theological insights, they explore the posture of listening and joining in what God is already doing, rather than imposing our preconceptions.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Justin Bailey in Episode 173, The Art of Interpreting Culture:“You ne...
2024-07-0207 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership221. Miroslav Volf's Take on Moving Forward, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to this conversation, challenging us to resist nostalgia and the allure of a past era—like the 1960s, when the church thrived in a very different context. Reflecting on a quote from Miroslav Volf, Bolsinger, together with Markus Watson, contemplates the dangers of yearning for what no longer exists and the pressing need to adapt to a future we can't fully see yet.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from MIroslav Volf in Episode 169, TThe Materiality of God’s Mission:“We can’t orient ourselve...
2024-06-1808 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership219. The Role of Joy in Effective Church Leadership, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonThis episode explores the critical role of joy in fostering deep connections within our communities. As Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson consider how an atmosphere of joy can be crafted and communicated through our actions, they discuss how this translates to effective ministry and church leadership.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Jim Wilder in Episode 179, The Neuroscience of Spiritual Formation:"In order to get people to attach to each other you have to create an environment of joy where people are glad to be together."THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS...
2024-06-0407 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership218. Trust, Teams, and Transformational Leadership, with Mike Bonem, author of The Art of Leading ChangeStrong sermons, pastoral care and counseling, leading Bible studies. These are all really important for effective ministry leadership. But leading a church or organization is more than just that, isn’t it?In this episode, Mike Bonem--consultant, coach, and author of The Art of Leading Change--offers invaluable insights into how trust, effective team-building, and adept communication can transform your leadership and help you navigate the complexities of ministry.THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:Mike Bonem highlights the importance of trust in leadership, emphasizing that people are unlikely to give 110% if they don't trust their lead...
2024-05-2444 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership217. Holding on or Venturing Forth, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonMarkus Watson and Tod Bolsinger reflect on their passion for exploration as an essential element of leadership, discussing the current crisis where the church often resists change and clings to the past rather than venturing into the unknown. Together, they explore the challenges in embracing exploration within the church, examine the role faith plays in embarking on new journeys, and contemplate how our structures often dissuade us from the very essence of adventure that following Jesus entails.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Dwight Gibson in Episode 25, Organizational Change and the Way of Exploration:
2024-05-2106 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership215. The Contagion of Anxiety in Spiritual Leadership, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonThis episode unpacks the concept of differentiation—how it allows us to recognize when someone else's anxiety affects us and vice versa, and the significance of maintaining our personal identity while staying connected in relationships. With vivid examples and relatable scenarios, we'll explore strategies to navigate crises and anxiety within our congregations and leadership teams without succumbing to the contagious nature of anxiety.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Steve Cuss in Episode 47, Leadership, Anxiety, and Family Systems:“[Differentiation] is your ability to notice when you’re getting infected by someone else’s anxiet...
2024-05-0708 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership214. Leading with Purpose and Authenticity, with Tommy Nixon, CEO of Urban Youth Workers InitiativeHealthy leadership is about paying attention to what God is up to in the people we’re leading. Our job, then, is not to force people to be something they’re not so they can support our own initiatives. Our job is to take note of how our people are wired and then help them live that out for the sake of God’s mission.This is true, by the way, not only for the people we lead; it's true for the leader, too. In this episode, Tommy Nixon, the CEO of Urban Youth Workers Initiative, does an amazin...
2024-04-3038 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership213. Embracing Limitations as a Ministry Resource, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonIn this episode, Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson explore the powerful reminder that as pastors and leaders, we are not God and that recognizing our human limitations can prevent dysfunction within our ministries. This conversation will shed light on the protective nature of limitations for both leaders and those entrusted to their care.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Mandy Smith in Episode 36, The Vulnerable Pastor:“Limitation is a ministry resource.”THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:Limitation serves as a vital ministry resource, protecting both pastors and their communities.Ackn...
2024-04-2306 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership211. Fire and Suffering, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonIn this episode, Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson unpack a powerful quote from Steve Carter, "You only learn resilience through the fire and through the suffering." This quote emerged from Steve Carter's experience of letting go of everything he had known and worked towards when he offered his resignation from a church leadership position in the wake of abuse allegations against the senior pastor, Bill Hybels. From this, the conversation explores the concept of resilience and how leaders are formed in the crucible of change and suffering. Tod Bolsinger draws from his work in Tempered Resilience to discuss the...
2024-04-0907 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership209. Abdication and Abuse, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonIn this episode, Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson explore a powerful quote from Lisa Lamb: "An abdication of leadership is also an abuse of leadership." Lisa's perspective as a preaching professor adds a unique angle to the discussion, highlighting the responsibility of leaders to recognize and respond to the needs they see in the world. Tod shares insights from his experience, emphasizing the collaborative nature of leadership in calling for change and transformation.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Lisa Lamb in Episode 161: Preaching for Deep Connection:“An abdication of leadership is als...
2024-03-2606 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership208. Letting Go in Leadership to Move Forward in Life, with Adam McHugh, author of Blood From a StoneIn this conversation, Adam McHugh, the author of Blood From a Stone, opens up about his transition from ministry as a hospice chaplain to the world of wine, becoming a wine tour guide and sommelier. Adam shares about the emotional rollercoaster that goes along with redefining one's identity and faith outside of traditionally established ministry roles.For pastors and ministry leaders struggling with letting go of their church-centered identities, or struggling with transitioning in the way they are called to lead in a constantly changing world, this conversation will encourage you to lean into the patience and t...
2024-03-1936 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership207. The Vital Role of Vocation, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonIn this episode, Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson explore the transformative power of vocation as they discuss a poignant quote by Steven Garber. Join them as they unpack how each person's calling is woven into the very meaning of God's work in the world. They shed light on the profound implications of vocation for spiritual formation, the vitality of the church, and the overarching mission of God. With engaging anecdotes and thought-provoking insights, this discussion promises to spark a deeper understanding of vocation's profound impact on individual lives and the collective mission of the church.Tod Bolsinger a...
2024-03-1207 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership205. How Can Disequilibrium Strengthen Your Church? A Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonIn this episode, Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson explore the concept of disequilibrium and its impact on systems, leadership, and organizational health. They discuss how prolonged equilibrium can be detrimental to a system's ability to adapt and innovate, and how crises and moments of disequilibrium can actually reveal underlying problems and present opportunities for growth and change. Drawing from experiences and examples, they highlight the potential for systems and individuals to become stronger, more resilient, and healthier due to the experience of disequilibrium.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Markus Watson in Episode 139...
2024-02-2707 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership203. Hybrid Worship and Long-Term Adaptation, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson explore the technological challenges faced by congregations during the pandemic. They discuss a quote from Scott Thumma about the hybrid and customizable nature of the world and its implications for congregations. Tod shares insights on the importance of aligning values with technological adaptations, the decreasing willingness to change post-pandemic, and the need for enduring long-term adaptation. Together, they discuss practical strategies for pastors to navigate these challenges and ensure congregations reflect the ever-changing world.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Scott Thumma in Episode 198: Clergy, Congregations, and Hope After t...
2024-02-1307 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership201. Understanding Change and Transition, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson explore the distinction between change and transition. Quoting D. Michael Lindsay, they discuss how change happens in an instant, whereas transition unfolds over weeks, months, and sometimes years. Bolstering this idea with personal anecdotes, they delve into the importance of giving oneself the time and space to adapt to change, acknowledging the losses involved, and ultimately finding comfort and growth in the new realities.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Sarah Bereza in Episode 142: Navigating the 7 Stages of Transition:"Change happens to us in an instant. Transition h...
2024-01-3007 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership199. Being Your Authentic Self in Professional Ministry, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonIn this episode, Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson explore the challenge of being fully authentic as a ministry leader. The conversation centers around a quote from Sara Bereza, highlighting the difficulty people in professional ministry face when trying to be their true selves. Through an exploration of the biblical story of Moses, Paul's writings in 2nd Corinthians, and personal anecdotes, Markus and Tod discuss the weight of wearing a facade and the importance of cultivating vulnerability, authenticity, and resilience in the ministry space. They emphasize the need for secure relationships and intentional efforts to be one's genuine self amidst...
2024-01-1608 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership197. Meaningful Risk, A Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson unpack a quote by Andy Crouch emphasizes the importance of finding the right meaningful risk in unlocking flourishing for both oneself and those entrusted to their care. Tod and Markus discuss the concept of meaningful risk as distinct from mere risk-taking, emphasizing the role of discernment in pursuing risks that are truly worth taking. They delve into the idea that meaningful vulnerability, willingly embraced for the sake of others' flourishing, is an essential aspect of leadership. Drawing on theological insights, they reflect on the example of God's meaningful risk in incarnating into the world...
2024-01-0207 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership195. Cultivating Vision through Listening, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonIn this quick conversation Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson explore a thought-provoking quote from Alexia Salvatierra, a professor at Centro Latino at Fuller Theological Seminary. The quote, "If you don't listen, you can't see what God is doing," sparks a deep discussion on the importance of listening and discerning God's work in the world. Tod shares insights on the implications of this quote for leadership, the significance of listening to others, and the challenges of opening ourselves up to different perspectives.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Alexia Salvatierra in Episode 101: Gratitude, Grief, and...
2023-12-1907 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership194. Saudade, Leadership, and Nurturing the Inner Life, with Jeff Crosby, author of The Language of the SoulJeff Crosby is President and CEO of ECPA, the trade association of Christian pulishers, and the author of The Language of the Soul: Meeting God in the Longings of Our Hearts.In this episode, I’m speaking with Jeff Crosby about our longings. We discuss a Portuguese word—saudade—which, according to Jeff, is an untranslatable word that refers to a kind of deep, inner longing that every human feels.As leaders, it’s so important to recognize our longings. And it’s even more important to meet God in the midst of our longings.
2023-12-1240 minSpiritual Life and Leadership193. The Power of Healthy Anger in Ministry, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss the role of anger in leadership. They emphasize the importance of acknowledging and addressing anger in a healthy way, shifting the focus from retaliation to addressing the systems that need to be changed. They highlight the significance of understanding and navigating the anger of others, especially in the context of leading change in churches and organizations. Through their conversation, they underscore the value of naming anger as a legitimate feeling and taking responsibility for creating healthier systems that promote flourishing and minimize harm.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote...
2023-12-0507 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership190. Harnessing Conflict for Positive Change, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonMarkus Watson and Tod Bolsinger discuss a quote from Jeff Crosby. The quote, "The absence of conflict is not always possible nor always good," sparks a conversation about the importance of healthy conflict in leadership and personal growth. They share their experiences as an Enneagram 9 and an Enneagram 8, respectively, and offer insights on staying engaged, asking questions, and navigating conflict in a way that fosters understanding and moves organizations forward. They give an example of a church grappling with change and the tension between staying true to their existing community and reaching out to their changing neighborhood. Overall, the...
2023-11-1407 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership188. Leading People While Following Jesus, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss a quote from Scot McKnight. The quote challenges the notion that leaders ought to control and asserts, instead, that leaders, particularly pastors, are actually followers of Jesus. Bolsinger emphasizes the importance of biblical leadership, rooted in self-sacrifice, care, and a focus on mission. He highlights the need to move away from dysfunctional patterns of leadership and instead raise up models of leadership that honor Jesus and reflect God's desire for the world. Ultimately, leadership is seen as a function, not a title, with leaders taking personal responsibility and inviting others to join in...
2023-10-3106 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership186. How Relationship Nourishes and Sustains Leaders in Times of Change, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson talk about the importance of relationship in ministry leadership. They discuss how leaders can fall into the trap of narcissism when they lack deep relationships, leading to a sense of loneliness that they try to fill with success or power. They also explore how relationship is at the heart of adaptive leadership, as leaders must accompany people through change and transformation. The conversation emphasizes the need for healthy relationships both on an individual level and within larger systems, as they are crucial for healing brokenness and nourishing community.Tod Bolsinger and Markus...
2023-10-1707 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership184. Reimagining Discipleship in a Post-COVID World, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson1In this episode Markus Watson and Tod Bolsinger discuss the challenges faced by ministry leaders in times of change. They discuss a quote from Kurt Fredrickson that highlights how churches were previously overprogrammed and under-discipled. Tod Bolsinger emphasizes the need for adaptive thinking and creative approaches to discipleship, moving away from traditional programming and towards a mission-focused, community-centered approach. They explore the purpose of discipleship as formation for the sake of mission and the need to reframe our understanding of discipleship in light of these changing times.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Kurt...
2023-10-0306 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership182. Engaging with Diverse Voices for a More Faithful Discipleship, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonIn this episode, Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss the influence of the Enlightenment and individualism on middle-class white individuals, and how this impacts their understanding of faith and community. They emphasize the importance of engaging with different perspectives and reading the Bible in community with people who are not like us in order to break free from these cultural norms and develop a more holistic understanding of spirituality and leadership.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Tom Sine in Episode 118: Forecasting and Innovation.“I think a lot of us in Western cu...
2023-09-1907 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership180. The Key Relationships Every Leader Needs, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonIn this episode, Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss the vital role of relationships in ministry leadership. Tod emphasizes the importance of cultivating partnerships, friendships, and mentorships as essential sources of support and vulnerability. They explore the connection between relationships and self-reflection, particularly in navigating challenging leadership situations. With practical insights and personal anecdotes, this episode offers guidance on building a strong support network for leaders seeking to grow both their outer ministry and inner discipleship. Don't miss this enlightening conversation on the transformative power of relationships in leadership.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote...
2023-09-0507 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership178. Embracing the Future, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonIn this episode, Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss a quote by Nicholas Pierce that highlights the challenge of letting go of the past to embrace the future. They explore the work of the Church Leadership Institute in helping leaders navigate the changing world while remaining faithful to their core values. They delve into the concept of adaptive leadership, the difficulty of embracing the unfamiliar, and the importance of relying on God while having hope for the future. They also emphasize the significance of the Lord's Supper as a reminder of Jesus' sacrifice and a foretaste of the future...
2023-08-2207 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership176. Building Bridges in a Polarized World, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonIn this episode, Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson delve into the importance of understanding and empathizing with others' beliefs, especially in times of political and cultural polarization. They discuss the role of churches in bridging divisions and striving for unity, highlighting the need to move away from comfortable spaces and embrace discomfort as an opportunity for growth. With insights from leaders such as Jim Harrington and Allen Hilton, this episode offers valuable perspectives on creating a sense of shalom across diverse backgrounds.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Allen Hilton in Episode 135: Leading Your...
2023-08-0807 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership175. From Burnout to Resilience, with Jason Young, co-author of Don't Burn Out, Burn BrightHow can we avoid burnout in ministry?Jason Young is a keynote speaker, coach, and consultant who helps churches and businesses thrive, and the co-author of Don’t Burn Out, Burn Bright.In this episode, Jason Young and Markus Watson get real specific about what can lead to burnout in ministry and what we can to do prevent it.THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:Jason Young is a keynote speaker, coach, and consultant who helps churches and businesses thrive, and the co-author of Don’t Burn Out, Burn Bright.Jason wants to help...
2023-08-0145 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership174. Addressing Unresolved Pain in Ministry Leadership, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss the transformative power of acknowledging and addressing our own pain as leaders. If our pain isn't transformed, it will be transmitted to others, potentially leading to harmful behaviors and dynamics within our ministries and organizations. By developing self-awareness, emotional health, and adaptive capacity, leaders can prioritize their mission over personal needs and avoid unconsciously inflicting pain on those they serve. This insightful conversation offers valuable insights and practical guidance for cultivating a healthy inner life of faithful discipleship and a healthy outer life of ministry leadership.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson...
2023-07-2507 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership172. The Courage to Disappoint, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson reflect on a quote from Rich Stearns focusing on courageious leadership, which often means disappointing your own people at a rate they can absorb. The conversation highlights the importance of leaders calling people to their better selves and standing up for what is right, even if it means facing challenges from within their own tribe. Tod Bolsinger also shares his insights on how to develop courage through healthy relationships with partners, friends, and mentors.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Rich Stearns in Episode 105: Courageous Leadership."Leaders...
2023-07-1107 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership170. The Overlooked Leadership Skill of Listening, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss the idea that listening is often overlooked in leadership, and provide insights on how genuine, deep listening can help leaders become more effective. It's important to listen to different groups of people, including those being served and those within the congregation, and to listen to God through prayer, worship, and scripture. This form of listening allows leaders to discern the needs of people and, in turn, respond to genuine needs in the world.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson focus on this quote from Jeff Crosby in Episode 96: Crossing Leadership...
2023-06-2706 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership168. Recalibrating Leadership Greatness, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonThis episode revolves around Ken Blanchard's words from ep. 86, which states that "Great leaders are great because people trust and respect them, not because they have power."Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson explore the idea that true greatness is achieved through earning trust and respect, rather than relying on authority or position of power. They also discuss the importance of adaptive leadership, the need for transformation, and the role of trust in leadership.Overall, the conversation reflects on the idea of servant leadership modeled by Jesus, where true greatness is measured by the impact one...
2023-06-1306 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership166. The Church's Love Affair with Power, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonOn this episode of Spiritual Life and Leadership, Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson explore the issue of power and the church's love affair with it, which is exceedingly harmful, especially considering our faith's cornerstone, the Suffering Servant. Tod and Markus emphasize the importance of adopting a leadership model that is reflective of Jesus and prioritizes shared leadership. They also highlight the struggle for power and control that often comes with leadership, but Jesus's life and teachings resist the idea of lording over others in a leadership position.Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote...
2023-05-3007 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership164. Failure Moves Us Deeper, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Michael MacKenzie in Episode 122: Burned Out and Broken.“Success is more dangerous for the human soul than failure.”Ep. 122 is a conversation about Michael MacKenzie's book, Don't Blow Up Your Ministry.Send me a text! I’d love to know what you're thinking!Click HERE to get my FREE online course, BECOMING LEADERS OF SHALOM.
2023-05-1607 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership162. Transform Your Church Through Story, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Ian Morgan Cron in Episode 121: The Story of You."All transformation begins with story transformation."Ep. 121 is a conversation about Ian Morgan Cron's book, The Story of You.Send me a text! I’d love to know what you're thinking!Click HERE to get my FREE online course, BECOMING LEADERS OF SHALOM.
2023-05-0207 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership160. A Church That Demonstrates God's Goodness, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Scot Mcknight in Episode 92: Against a Culture of Abuse."A tov pastor, tov leaders, a tov church does not abuse power, does not sexually abuse women, does not sexually abuse children.... Tov people don't do these things."Ep. 92 is a conversation with Scot McKnight and Laura Barringer about their book, A Church Called Tov.Send me a text! I’d love to know what you're thinking!Click HERE to get my FREE online course, BECOMING LEADERS OF SHALOM.
2023-04-1808 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership158. Looking Over the Church's Fence, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Tom Sine in Episode 118: Forecasting and Innovation.“I ache because churches rarely even look over the fence in their own communities to the new innovation going on.”Send me a text! I’d love to know what you're thinking!Click HERE to get my FREE online course, BECOMING LEADERS OF SHALOM.
2023-04-0407 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership156. The Power of Being on Mission Together, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Make Work Matter, by Michaela O'Donnell."I am not on a solo mission from God. I am part of a larger collective of people who get to join in on God’s big mission of redemption creatively working in anticipation of all that God is doing to make us new."Send me a text! I’d love to know what you're thinking!Click HERE to get my FREE online course, BECOMING LEADERS OF SHALOM.
2023-03-2109 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership154. What Does Flourishing Leadership Require? A Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Strong and Weak, by Andy Crouch.“Flourishing requires us to embrace both authority and vulnerability, both capacity and frailty--even, at least in this broken world, both life and death.”Send me a text! I’d love to know what you're thinking!Click HERE to get my FREE online course, BECOMING LEADERS OF SHALOM.
2023-03-0708 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership152. When the Leader is a Peacemonger, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from A Failure of Nerve, by Edwin Friedman.“In any type of institution whatsoever, when a self-directed, imaginative, energetic, or creative member is being consistently frustrated and sabotaged rather than encouraged and supported, what will turn out to be true one hundred percent of the time, regardless of whether the disrupters are supervisors, subordinates, or peers, is that the person at the very top of that institution is a peace-monger.”Send me a text! I’d love to know what you're thinking!Click HERE to get my...
2023-02-2108 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership150. The New Normal of Church Attendance, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonHow does your church attendance compare? Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss an article by Thom Rainer titled "The New Very Large Church."Send me a text! I’d love to know what you're thinking!Click HERE to get my FREE online course, BECOMING LEADERS OF SHALOM.
2023-02-0708 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership148. Discerning What's Essential, with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Essentialism, by Greg McKeown:“Many capable people are kept from getting to the next level of contribution because they can’t let go of the belief that everything is important. An Essentialist has learned to tell the difference between what is truly important and everything else.”Send me a text! I’d love to know what you're thinking!Click HERE to get my FREE online course, BECOMING LEADERS OF SHALOM.
2023-01-2407 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership146. Leadership for the Long Haul, a Quick Conversation with Tod Bolsinger and Markus WatsonTod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss this quote from Leadership Without Easy Answers, by Ronald Heifetz:"In a crisis we tend to look for the wrong kind of leadership...in short, someone who can make hard problems simple. But problems like (we have been facing) are not simple.... Making progress on these problems demands not just someone who provides answers from on high but changes in our attitudes, behavior, and values. To meet challenges such as these, we need a different idea of leadership...."Send me a text! I’d love to know what you're th...
2023-01-1008 min
Wednesdays With Watson: Faith & Trauma Amy Watson- PTSD Patient-Trauma SurvivorForgiving Slander with Pastor Markus WatsonSend us a textContact AmyContact MarkusMarkus' piece on his Camino de Santiago experienceMarkus Watson is a pastor, father, husband, podcaster, author, and friend. He faced a dark night of his soul at the hands of people who set out to destroy him and his reputation. Here is how Markus describes that event:"My time at that church was a wonderful experience for most of my time there. Unfortunately, my last year was very painful. Betrayal, false accusations, and eventually being voted out of that ch...
2022-11-3053 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership138. Ministry Leadership in a Time of Immense Change, with Markus WatsonIn a time of immense change, how should churches do ministry? How should pastors and leaders lead their churches and organizations? Should we set a BHAG--a Big Hairy Audacious Goal? Should we set one-year, five-year, and ten-year goals?Or is there another way? Could it be that what we need are not big, enormous goals, but simple to take small steps and achieve short-term wins?THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDES:Markus Watson questions whether or not churches today should set BHAGs--Big Hairy Audacious Goals.“Small steps and short-term wins are the best approach, rather than b...
2022-09-2725 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership117. Leading with Courage and Integrity in Times of Discontinuous ChangeIt is really hard to be a church leader these days, isn’t it? The world we live in today is not the world we prepared for as ministry leaders—especially in light of everything we’ve been through over the last couple of years.So, what do you do when you find yourself essentially thrust into a world for which you weren’t prepared? What do you do when all the rules have changed? What do you do in a time of what some call discontinuous change?In this episode, Markus Watson unpacks the meaning of...
2021-12-0731 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership109. Leadership as Learning, Part 2: Coaches and Cohorts, with Tod BolsingerLeadership, at its core, always has to do with navigating change. In a world like ours, change leadership is more critical than ever. But change leadership, or adaptive leadership, is impossible if the leader isn’t willing or able to take a learning posture.In this episode, Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson talk about how best to learn for the sake of leadership. Learning is always more effective in community. Learning happens best, in other words, with the support of a cohort of others who are on the same leadership journey, and the guidance of a coach who ca...
2021-08-1735 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership108. Leadership as Learning, Part 1: Context and Creativity, with Tod BolsingerEach church, each ministry organization, is situated in a unique context—a particular place and time and culture. And that context, if we’re paying attention and engaging with a posture of learning, will call forth creative new ways of serving and loving and blessing our neighbors.In this conversation, Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson discuss both the importance of knowing one's context and responding with creativity when discerning a church's ministry calling.THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:Tod Bolsinger is the Executive Director of Fuller Seminary’s Church Leadership Institute, as well as the aut...
2021-08-0336 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership106. Confronting Modernity's Wager, with Mark Lau Branson, co-author of Leadership, God's Agency, and DisruptionsMark Lau Branson is the co-author of Leadership, God's Agency, and Disruptions. In this episode, Mark discusses the question raised by "Modernity's Wager." That question is, "Can life be lived well without God?" While most of us would say, "No," the sad truth is that we often live and lead as though God is neither active nor present. THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:Mark Lau Branson is the Homer L. Goddard Professor of the Ministry of the Laity at Fuller Theological Seminary, as well as the co-author (together with Alan Roxburgh) of Leadership, God’s Agency, and Disrup...
2021-07-0639 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership100. The Spiritual Life of a Leader, with Tod Bolsinger, Executive Director of the Church Leadership InstituteThe Church Leadership Institute is a new initiative of Fuller Theological Seminary intended to "form church leaders to lead faithful change in a rapidly changing and disruptive world." In this inaugural episode of Spiritual Life and Leadership's partnership with the Church Leadership Institute, Tod Bolsinger and Markus Watson have a conversation about leadership and formation for the sake of God’s mission in a rapidly changing world.THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:This is the inaugural episode of Spiritual Life and Leadership in partnership with Fuller Theological Seminary’s Church Leadership Institute.Most church leaders were...
2021-04-1338 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership97. Not a Throw-away Kid, with Amy Watson, host of Wednesdays with WatsonAmy Watson, host of Wednesdays with Watson, shares her story of trauma and healing, and shows leaders how to care for those who have experienced deep trauma.I'm also joined by guest co-hosts Shea and Michelle Watson from The Pantry Podcast. Yes, all four of us have the same last name and none of us are related to each other! This podcast is part of what we are affectionately calling "The Watson Takeover"!We're all interviewing each other this week. Please check out all our shows!THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:Amy Wat...
2021-03-1041 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership75. A Box with Feelings, with Macy WatsonTo celebrate the 75th episode of Spiritual Life and Leadership, I'm bringing a short conversation with my twelve-year-old daughter, Macy Watson. We talk about her thoughts on God and we talk about leadership.Oh, and what the heck is "a box with feelings"? Well, you'll just have to listen to find out!THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:Markus interviews his daughter, Macy, about her thoughts on 1) God and the spiritual life and 2) leadership.Macy thinks of God as the most understanding Person ever.Macy sometimes thinks of herself as “a box with feelings”.Macy shares...
2020-06-3017 min
Spiritual Life and Leadership66. The Improbable Growth of the Early ChurchIn this episode, we consider the growth of the early church in the pre-Christendom era, a time when Christianity had very little cultural influence. Much like the church in today's world! And yet, the early church grew. What was their secret? And is there anything we can learn and perhaps implement in our world today?THIS EPISODE'S HIGHLIGHTS INCLUDE:Christendom is defined as the “centuries in which Western civilization considered itself formally and officially Christian.”During the first 300 years after Jesus, the church had very little power at all in the culture, which at that time was...
2020-03-0351 minSpiritual Life and Leadership43. Introduction to "Beyond Thingification: Helping Your Church Engage in God's Mission"Understanding God's mission is critical.The world today is nothing like the world as it was fifty years ago. Because of this, a lot of churches are really struggling with how to be the church in the 21st century. People used to go to church because, well, that’s just what you did. But not anymore. Today, even a lot of Christians don’t go to church—at least not the typical Sunday morning kind of church.My new book, Beyond Thingification: Helping Your Church Engage in God’s Mission, is meant to help churches discern h...
2019-07-1515 min