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Mary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 70 What does it take to become a skilled rider?Send us your feedback!I tell the story of a rider with phenomenal talent in another area of life, and ask, how did this affect her riding, and how would it be if we taught riding as if it were a martial art? I discuss what it means for riding that ‘form follows function’, and how this relates to the challenges inherent in riding well, and also to the ‘chicken and egg’ nature of the ways that riders and horses affect each other. A lot of answers are to be found in the geometry (whether sacred or...2024-09-1320 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 69 C curves, S shapes, and uneven seat bonesSend us your feedback!The rider with rebars that connect diagonally through her can use these to pattern her horse in shoulder in, suggesting to him how he could transmit force through his body from his inside hind leg to his outside foreleg. This can make riders feel much more effective! I continue with an exercise that involves resting your back against the back of a chair, whilst moving your skin, muscles and fascia sideways over the underlying bones. This develops the idea of two ‘long narrow triangles’ in your back. Becoming able to find, clari...2024-09-0620 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 68 Reinforcing bars!Send us your feedback!‘Rebars’ are the dull red metal uprights you see sticking up within the frames used on building sites when pouring concrete pillars. Rebars also have smaller horizontal pieces of metal wrapping around them. Our seated exercise helps you find ‘rebars’ in your own torso-box, defining its corners. They make a huge difference to your stability, and with practice they become really tangible, helping to give you clearer body boundaries. You can connect the rebars on diagonals inside your torso-box, thinking particularly of your underneath, your diaphgram, and the diagonal connecting your back and...2024-08-3019 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 67 Top down or bottom up?Send us your feedback!Most riders can organize their body much better from the top down, or from the pelvis out, than they can from the bottom up. Thinking of your core like the core of an apple means that it goes from top to toe, (and toe to top). We do an exercise whilst standing, that ‘centres’ you, and talks about the connection between your various diaphragms. (You have more of these than you realise!) We gradually build the connection from the soles of your feet, through your calves and inner thighs, to you...2024-08-2321 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 66 How I misdiagnosed two riders, and learnt the folly of my ways from a set of toe separators!Send us your feedback!I did the ‘boards as blades’ exercise with a young rider I know well, and discovered that it was difficult for her to get her right board to go down. Later, when the group did a dismounted exercise, she realised that she curled her toes under her foot on that side, which in turn led to her knee coming up, and also her board coming up. This is a very unusual pattern - usually the knee that comes up goes with a seat bone that goes down - and I had misdi...2024-08-1617 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 65 Breakfast buffets, bananas, flying buttresses and amoebas - an unlikely set of ideas?Send us your feedback!I contrast the story of a very unassuming rider, who has been a long term and dedicated learner within the RYWM system, with a more naturally talented rider who does not have to think about so many ‘pieces’.The first rider had not really appreciated that, whereas the early stages of her learning required her to grapple with doing many ‘pieces’ at once, she could now pick and choose the most appropriate ones to address the issues her horse was presenting. I then use several exercises to help firm up the La...2024-08-0920 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 64 Shoring up your structure in all dimensions - clarifying the boards from back to front, and top to bottom.Send us your feedback!Most people are, in effect, falling off one side of the horse, whilst pushing their torso towards his midline on the other side. My most dramatic story about this concerns a Grand Prix rider, whose horse’s apparent problem with piaffe turned out to be her problem. There are 3 particularly important points on the boards, and thinking about these can help you transmit force more effectively from your back to your front, as you link them together with an imaginary series of bolts. These also change how your arms conn...2024-08-0222 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 63 Is your body a soggy distorted bundle, or can you transmit force?Send us your feedback!The idea of ‘positive tension’ is very new in the horse world, but I am no longer the lone voice crying in the wilderness! As well as force absorption, we need force transmission, which enables the most important ‘myofascial lines’ in the body to ‘play a note’ in the same way that only a well-tensioned guitar string can play a note. This puts more ‘ping’ into each step, taking away the trudging heaviness of a 'soggy' net. I offer some images to help you discover how to firm up your soggy places...2024-07-2620 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 62 Geometry - whether sacred or notSend us your feedback!One of the biggest over-views of the work I do would be to consider it the re-discovery and re-creation of the ideal shapes our bodies would make. We can think of both human and horse torsos as rectangles that have become distorted into’C’ curves, or parallelograms, and that have, in addition, become twisted. I compare the learning process to making a quilt, where different pieces get sown together, progressively making a larger whole in which various patterns become clear. This leads me to talk about our ‘inner qui...2024-07-1918 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 61 I'm back!Send us your feedback!I'm back after a long break from podcasts! I'm sharing the stories of three riders who were all very different types of learners, using strategies that worked more or less well for creating change. One of the stories introduces the idea of 'un-believing' things you have previously been told and have taken for granted - simply assuming that you must be doing the right thing because you are attempting to embody words you’ve been told. Each of the stories has a moral, and I’ll let you dec...2024-07-1218 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 60 The last and final one!Send us your feedback!We do two more exercises, as I encourage you to realise the immense value of the off-horse exercises that are part of my approach to learning and coaching. We then revisit some more of the common traps in learning, before focussing in on ‘flow’. This experience/brain state more than doubles your rate of learning, and makes it so much more fun. That fun is based on brain chemistry of small wins, and that in turn is based on noticing. I finish by quoting T. S. Eliot: ‘We shall not cease from exploration, and th...2021-06-2220 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 59 Back to basics - as we begin to wrap this up!Send us your feedback!I was right all of those years ago when I thought there was something my teachers weren’t telling me! But this is innate in the human condition, where we pass through conscious competence before we become unconscious of our incompetence, and no longer have words to describe our skill. My aim is to stay conscious enough to remember feelings and words, and to leave a trail for others to follow. This podcast contains my main tips for enhancing your learning, beginning with ‘seek out good information’…2021-06-1422 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 58 - Rotation or shear? And from ‘bus’ to ‘bend’.Send us your feedback!We have talked about asymmetry patterns being rotational, but it can be more helpful - and with some riders more accurate - to think of one third of the body being sheared forward, whilst the other is sheared back. This distinction suggests some new pushes and pulls on the saddle (or furniture) which help to mitigate it. It also leads us to think about how we transition from ‘turning like a bus’ to ‘bend’. A lot is presupposed in the concept of ‘bend’, which is so often misrepresented like a simple skill rather, than the sop...2021-06-0122 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 57 The story of SarahSend us your feedback!One of my pupils broke her upper arm in a fall, and damaged her wrist and elbow. After surgery and recuperation she returned to riding, and found herself with a total reversal in her asymmetry! This very rarely happens, and the story of how we worked with it is illuminating. It also provides a good review of the basic principles of how an asymmetrical human interacts (for good or ill) with an asymmetrical horse!2021-05-2524 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 56 ‘One side on/one side off’ is the existential state of humans on horses…Send us your feedback!Many riders spend their life stuck in ‘one side on/one side off’. Others ‘ping-pong’ between right on/left off and left on/right off. Few people discover how to get ‘both sides on’ consistently. Once they have this, they can learn how to make a wider, higher, more supportive long back muscle on the side where the horse would only have a ‘sloping roof’. We do an exercises to show you how this profound level of influence works, and another to get you clearer about the anatomy of your underneath, and the part of it that...2021-05-1924 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 55 Good sides and bad sidesSend us your feedback!Most people have a strength differential between their two boards, and don’t address this well - so as the weaker one becomes stronger, the stronger one gets in on the act and also gets stronger! But ‘bad sides’ do eventually become ‘good sides’, leaving the rider very confused. Ideally any asymmetry fix would involve both sides of the body, but the rider’s limited ‘brain space’ might make this impossible for a long time. The horse has two boards and three thirds just like the rider. If he were symmetrical, sitting on him would be l...2021-05-1022 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 54 Both boards on!Send us your feedback!I love the analogy of ‘both boards on’ being like two people both fighting to sit on the same bar stool, but neither one must push the other one off!The top, middle or bottom of both or either board can be weak, and we have exercises to help with each possibility. But you can expect to be discovering more and more about your boards, and refining how they work, as the years go by. My discovery and understanding of the ‘narrow/wide paradox’ took a while, but it shows us so much abo...2021-05-0322 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp.53 What do Ice skaters and clock faces show us about how to turn horses?Send us your feedback!On a circle, an ice skater pushes off one foot and glides on the other as her body makes a dancer’s arabesque. She faces her torso to the outside, and if she were to allow it to rotate in, she would spiral out on the turn and fall over. In a fencing lunge, the fencer is in a similar position, and with both feet on the ground she is perhaps more like the rider. ‘Fencing lung position’ puts the rider’s outside seat bone back, though conventional theory just talks about the outside...2021-04-2623 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 52 Slingshot!Send us your feedback!2021-04-1922 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 51 - Spiralling muscles, rotating pelvises, and ‘seat feet’.Send us your feedback!Hopefully the stretch from last time leaves you feeling that you can fill out your concave side and rotate it forward, making it more sturdy. We add to this effect, and explore wether one side of your pelvis rotates back more easily than the other, and wether one point of hip aims more in towards your midline. These explorations can lead to discoveries that suggest viable solutions to the asymmetry and steering issues that all riders face. The golden rule, as ever, is ‘get to know your starting point’!2021-04-1421 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 50 - Snug thighs, stirrup leathers, and a profoundly effective stretch for your concave side.Send us your feedback!It is a challenge to create an equally snug and symmetrical ‘A frame’ with your thighs, and it’s important to ride with your stirrups level. The only exception is if you have a difference in leg length that is structural (eg. a break that was badly set) rather than functional. Horses’s can have an uneven bulge to their rib cage, and this means that you have to have a fool-proof way of measuring your stirrup length. Hopefully suggesting an unusual and profound stretch that you can easily do in a stable (using th...2021-04-0422 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 49 Seat bones, feet, and compass points.Send us your feedback!Some experiments with seat bones - how they do and don’t move - helps to get the clarity about your underneath that then makes it easier to diagnose and find answers for your steering issues.2021-03-3024 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp 48. Pulling on the inside rein…Send us your feedback!Riders pull on the inside rein again and again, even though they know they shouldn’t, and often they feel helpless about doing anything else. Left to themselves, horses tend to fall in - think of horse A going at speed towards his mate horse B in a field, and it is us humans who make them fall out. In rider/horse steering issues, one can well ask, ‘Who is the chick and who is the egg?’ Horses can change their asymmetry within minutes of a new rider getting on. Experimenting with how your b...2021-03-2222 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 47 The turnings aids - a rampant example of deletion, distortion and generalisation.Send us your feedback!Whilst some people seem to be blissfully ignorant of the difference between riding in each direction, others are tortured by their experience of the ‘difficult rein’. When I ask people what they have been taught bout how to turn I get a variety of ‘interesting’ answers. You could well argue that straightness should have come before collection in these podcasts, as it does in the scales of training. But any attempt to make a non-linear subject linear will have flaws, and the elite riders I studied in my degree dissertation actually addressed straightn...2021-03-1523 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 46 The shape of the horse’s neck, and the ‘footprints in the sand’.Send us your feedback!Some horses have long flat necks, some have much sorter and more upright (lama) necks, but in all horses the neck vertebrae make the shape, like the spout of a teapot. The curves in the spout unfold become one single curve when the horse is grazing. In these recent podcasts, have I been saying ‘Do X?’ If so, know that there are now ‘footprints in the sand’ for you to follow. The schema I have introduced in these podcasts draws on geometry, anatomy, and the ability to ‘think your way into’ the horse’s body...2021-03-0821 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 45 Can the hind legs of the horse push the front third up?Send us your feedback! ‘Kick the front of the horse up’ is a traditional idea that I have rarely seen work well in practice. Following the work of Tom Myers, I compare both the human and the horse’s core to the core of an apple, which is more than just a bulge in its middle, and it helps us understand how a horse can ‘coil its loins’. A good first introduction to accessing your horse’s core is the idea of a treadmill inside him, joining his seat bones to his lower neck. It can have glitches, and...2021-03-0124 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 44 And now that you have your black belt…Send us your feedback!I recently enjoyed working with a small woman who was a relatively inexperienced rider with a black belt in karate. The parallels between riding skills, and her skill as a martial artist, delighted both of us. This podcast reviews the relationship between the lines of muscle and connective tissue along the front of people (the underneath of horses) and the back of the body. It adds the novel and life-changing idea of the horse’s ‘chest plate’, which I dreamed up after doing an enlightening exercise in a class with Tom Myers. This create...2021-02-2225 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 43 - The Half Halt & CollectionSend us your feedback!2021-02-1523 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 42 - The learning processSend us your feedback!The learning process, which progressively builds a pyramid out of lots of (initially) disconnected body parts and corrections dots, is like walking in hills, where you might think you are about to reach a summit with a fabulous view - only to discover that there’s another hill! As well as half- halts that slow the tempo we have half-halts that rebalance the horse.2021-02-0724 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 41 The 3 thirds of the horseSend us your feedback!The biomechanics term ‘hydraulic amplification’ describes how the muscles get ‘pumped up’ in collection. WE want a half-halt to ‘go through’, but In effect, there can be disconnects between the horse’s back third, middle third and front third. The front third, for instance can (in effect) run away from the middle third. Or the back third might not connect to the middle third. The disconnects can happen in the top part of the horse, and/or in the bottom part of the horse (his abs). These issues are all ‘feelable’ and fixable in time - but the...2021-02-0124 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 40 What the half halt isn’t.Send us your feedback!It isn’t riding in ‘mistake prevention mode’ and keeping the horse’s head down by whatever means. But it is the ‘human trump card’ in the ‘got it/lost it’ game that each rider learns (we hope) to play with her horse. This concept suggests a viable ‘it’ that the rider wants to get back to - but this is not a foregone conclusion. This involves water going through the horse’s hoses (from his hind legs over his top line) without being dissipated, deadened or deviated, and a rider who does not fall into the trap...2021-01-2422 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 39 Half-halts: the riding enigmaSend us your feedback!Half halts are an emergent property of good biomechanics. The rider. needs firstly to realise that she needs to intervene to ‘lead the dance’ and not just get carried away on the horse’s ‘magical mystery tour’. This won’t happen until she has a ‘reference feeling’ and makes comparisons between that and the feeling she’s actually getting. This involves the TOTE model - Test, Operation, Test, Exit. With more skills, she makes smaller interventions more often. Also, it helps to have a horse with high ‘ridability’ who agrees that his rider can influence and, effe...2021-01-1823 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 38 The tennis ball game.Send us your feedback!Let’s imagine that you and I stand opposite each other and play a game of catch with a tennis ball, allowing it to bounce once in each throw. We are doing this in a rhythm, and not trying to catch each other out. But if I (sneakily) substitute a bean bag, that would be the end of the game. Or I might (sneakily) substitute a boingy ball, and the game would speed up. This is a metaphor for rising trot, which we want to be a ‘tennis ball game’ with the rider ‘calling th...2021-01-1024 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 37 Rising Trot - The ‘gold dust’ skillSend us your feedback!I have been accused of terminal rising trot - but time invested here is so worthwhile - it’s the ‘gold dust’ skill. I offer some strategies to help your hollow back or round back, in both the rise and sit, keeping your knee in the same place and your foot back under you. Recent research has shown that it does indeed help your horse to sit with the inside hind leg, and that it’s actually his outside hind leg that works harder on a circle, not his inside one. I also offer str...2021-01-0324 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 36 Rising trot in depth.Send us your feedback!We use a full length mirror to get really forensic about rising trot mechanism, showing you how to differentiate movement in your hip joint from movement in your mid back. This allows you to mimic the movements rising trot and gives you clarity about the movements you need to avoid. Type A and type B horses respond very differently to the rider who does the ’itsy bitsy rise’, but all horses respond the same way to the rider who elongates her front in the rise. There’s a quick fix for this problem if you...2020-12-2022 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 35 Some strategies for ‘What if’s?’, difficult emotions, and rising trot mechanism.Send us your feedback!I suggest some metaphorical MRs to reduce the ‘sting’ of your less-than-stellar rides. Realise too that thinking ‘What if?…’ is a mental rehearsal, and if the rehearsal ends with you in a ‘black hole’ you are probably more scared of the difficult emotions it generates than you are of hitting the ground. Realise that you can take sensible precautions before you get on - perhaps by doing some ground work. This doesn’t mean that you’re scared, it simply means that you’re sensible - it’s like looking both ways before crossing a road. We re...2020-12-1822 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 34 The deep dive - let’s do it! DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS PODCAST WHILST DRIVING YOUR CAR OR OPERATING MACHINERYSend us your feedback!How neurons that fire together wire together, in both real and imagined practice. We do mental rehearsals of personal bests, asking ‘What’s the difference that made the difference?’. We also rehearse fixing a pattern when it goes wrong, since that’s the skill you need to speed up the phase of ‘conscious competence’. I suggest some more creative uses of MR to find ways around the blocks to your progress.2020-12-0725 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 33 On mental rehearsal experiments, and how MR is best led by passion, but can become torture.Send us your feedback!Research on mental rehearsal has encompassed dart throwing, piano playing, and many other skills, often reporting improvements in skill that surpass actual practice. Focussing in the effect of a movement works better than focussing on the movement itself, and the level of detail you can produce in your rehearsal says a lot about your actual skill level. There are a few ‘health warnings’ about ways of (perhaps inadvertantly) doing rehearsals that are not helpful.2020-11-3024 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 32 On mental rehearsal experiments, and how MR is best led by passion, but can become torture.Send us your feedback!Research on mental rehearsal has encompassed dart throwing, piano playing, and many other skills, often reporting improvements in skill that surpass actual practice. Focussing in the effect of a movement works better than focussing on the movement itself, and the level of detail you can produce in your rehearsal says a lot about your actual skill level. There are a few ‘health warnings’ about ways of (perhaps inadvertantly) doing rehearsals that are not helpful.2020-11-2425 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 31 On how to get the best from your teacher, and mental rehearsalSend us your feedback!When pupils are ‘going through the motions’ of getting the horse to go, teachers tend to ‘go through the motions’ as well - or to get really impatient. Staying patient requires the coach to maintain and identity/behaviour separation for the rider, realising that she might have good skills in other fields. Ideally, the coach ‘tunes’ herself, getting centred and present, to help her tune the rider who then tunes the horse. The coach is a role model for the rider. The story of the day I heard myself say ‘Don’t panic!”, and realised that...2020-11-1324 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 30 On the challenges of teaching authority, boundaries, and self belief.Send us your feedback!In riding, negative expectations so often become the reality (as in ‘I hope we don’t stop at the ditch!…’). When things are going well you have to ‘make it again, make it again’ - not stop doing it - and you can’t even afford to take time out and congratulate yourself! Hoping something good will happen is very different to expecting it to happen, and when it comes to impulsion, many riders set themselves up to ensure that it won’t happen. Naive teachers feed this rider lots of energy, and end up exhausted...2020-11-0421 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 29 On stuffing, intention, and giving leg aids consciously.Send us your feedback!Most riders give repeated leg aids that actually train the horse to be dead to their leg. If you have to kick to get each step of walk, how are you ever going to ride a canter pirouette? To be an effective rider, you have to believe that you have the right to be up there, being the brains of the rider/horse partnership, and being the leader your horse really needs. This requires self believe, good technique for giving a leg aid, a lot of conscious attention, and the ‘kick, don’t, don’...2020-10-2622 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 28 - On toolkits, tantrums and leg aidsSend us your feedback!Trainers will always be prejudiced against the toolkits they don’t understand, can’t be bothered with, or do so brilliantly (and easily) that they fail to recognise their brilliance. This complicates the ‘map battles’ between the proponents of the various toolkits. It pays to ‘outframe’ the zero toolkit to include saddlery, farriery, bodywork etc. - the supporting arts that help your horse to not be one of the ‘walking wounded’ who doesn’t limp, but is not physically robust. If he throws tantrums, suspect a physical problem as you ask yourself if the issue rooted i...2020-10-1822 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 27 More on the Zero toolkit, overshadowing, and the transition from ground work to riding.Send us your feedback!How proponents of the 3 toolkits interact like the proverbial 3 blind men with the elephant. More on the Zero toolkit, overshadowing, and the transition from ground work to riding.Being strong in one of the ‘maps’ of riding and training makes up for weaknesses in the other ‘maps’ - and also allows trainers to negate the other maps. Trainers often attribute their skill to one of the toolkits, not realising that they are also strong in a different one. Incongruent riding happens where there are conflicts between two toolkits eg the reins say ‘stop’, but...2020-10-0422 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 26 On ‘the map is not the territory’Send us your feedback!On ‘the map is not the territory’, even though riders and trainers the world over act as if it is - and go so far as to ‘eat the menu’!If a rider, vet, physio, saddler and farrier were all looking at a tricky horse, each would see a different problem within their area of expertise. We all see what we are looking for, informed by the ‘maps’ or internal representations that we have developed over years, and we tend to think that the problem we perceive is the one and only problem...2020-09-3020 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 25 - The pitfalls of buying a new horseSend us your feedback!So much of riding is a self-fulfilling prophecy. You get run away with from the moment you decide you’re being run away with… so we review how rider ‘lose it’ through the model of polyvagal theory. All of your insecurities are likely to be triggered when you buy a new horse, who may offer challenges that are on the limit of your skills (do you remember the flow channel, where these stay in balance over time?). The pitfalls are many, and when you buy a schoolmaster, a lot depends on how well he was ‘...2020-09-2022 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 24 Why do some people learn and improve much faster than others?Send us your feedback!The patterns in the pupil’s body are part of this, and we have both the ‘foetal crouch’ and the much more common ‘Landau response’, where the rider pushes down into the stirrups, hollows her back, stretches up and stops breathing (like a horse in ‘arrest’). But in addition, is the rider’s mental/emotional state more ‘fight or flight-ish’ or ‘freeze and fold-ish’?. The latter riders, who are disengaged, and a bit floppy, are lacking authority and boundaries. Teaching authority is the hardest task: The rider has to believe that she has the right to be up there...2020-09-0421 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 23 - On risk and reward, and resilience as a rider.Send us your feedback!Imagine yourself as a mouse in a house where there is cheese available on the opposite side of the room to your mouse hole. But there is also a cat. Which is more real to you, the reward, or the risk? Your perception of one might far out way your perception of the other. Or you might not care about either, or you might be aware of both. This is the most stressful situation, and it mirrors wanting to ride, but also being nervous.Skilled, resilient riders can both generate a lot...2020-08-1122 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 22 On the comfort zone, stretch zone, panic zone and play zoneSend us your feedback!I learnt many years ago that my observations just before a lesson were a more accurate risk assessment than some riders made before mounting. But my words of caution did not stop them getting on - and then remaining on for a very short time! The hypervigilant horse paired with a hypervigilant rider can really wind each other up, and keeping the horse’s attention can be vital. We all know about ‘rest and digest’ and ‘fight or flight’, but research has shown that there is actually a third system. This is evolutionarily the oldest...2020-07-2723 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 21 On struggle, behaviour, identity, and nerves.Send us your feedback!Many riders, epecially those with a fixed mindset struggle on alone, thinking they’re the only one who doesn’t ‘get it’, but this is not true. Dressage as ‘the passionate pursuit of perfection by the obsessively imperfect’. Many riders confuse their behaviour with their identity, so ‘I rode a bad transition’ soon becomes, ‘I’m a bad rider’ which has the implication of ‘I’m a bad person.’ This can become an emotional roller coaster, and fear compounds it, wether it’s fear of falling or fear of being judged.2020-07-2020 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 20 On the ‘wordscape’, the ‘brainscape’, and the ‘culturescape'Send us your feedback!Elite riders have different ways of dealing with the disconnect between the knowledge they have in language, and the skills they have as ‘feelages’. Their chosen tactic has a huge bearing on how they teach! Also, there is a massive difference between a fixed mindset (‘You’ve either got it or you haven’t) and a growth mindset (‘The harder I work the smarter I get’). The latter creates a much more supportive learning environment. A ‘culturescape’ will not change until a lot of individuals share their experience of struggle - making this mutual rather than...2020-07-1422 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 19 The Wordscape and The BrainscapeSend us your feedback!How we get language and feelings to connect.2020-07-0721 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 18 On the story of being told to do ‘nothing-something!’, and how to think about the relationship between simplicity and accuracySend us your feedback!The debate between ‘thighs on’ and ‘thighs off’. The coach as a tour guide who needs to be able to describe the journey her pupil is taking. My made up story about how ‘take your thighs off the saddle’ took over from ‘grip with your knees’, and became the new doctrine. How each school of thought has one half of the truth expressed very poorly in language. What really happens is so paradoxical that it’s hard to wrap your brain around it…. but it’s something your muscles can potentially do.2020-06-2820 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 17 - Deconstructing the halt to walk transitionSend us your feedback!We deconstruct the halt to walk transition, considering the horse who really wants to hollow his back. When the rider keeps her front vertical and short, she can influence the length of the horse’s underneath.The key to this is an image: if the rider imagines a carousel pole running from her head vertically down to the horse’s belly, and refuses to let it deform and/or lean back, she can prevent the equivalent line of muscle in the horse from elongating. She then needs to maintain this in the...2020-06-2119 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 16 So how exactly does the rider/horse interaction work?Send us your feedback!Skilled riders appear to do so little whilst having a huge effect on the horse’s posture and movement. We add the idea of ‘suction’ to bearing down and ‘kneeling’, and describe how the rider effectively moulds the horse’s body into a form. But what she’s really moulding is his energy, and her relationship to this is a big key.2020-06-1422 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 15 Action Goal ThinkingSend us your feedback!2020-06-0721 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 14 On how you might have to give up what you think is control in order to find real control.Send us your feedback!Your instincts can easily lead you astray when riding, wether that’s pushing hard into the stirrups, ‘popping up’, or growing too tall. These are all symptoms of the ‘Landau Response’, which defines many rider’s instinctive reaction to a ‘Yikes!’ moment, and also to downward transitions. This podcast offers more distinctions about feeling and controlling the movement of your seat bones, and riding walk to halt transitions without falling prey to the ‘waterski/motorboat’ syndrome.2020-05-3121 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 13 On noticing more about your seat bones and the underneath of the torso-box.Send us your feedback!Newton’s third law of motion (every action has an equal and opposite reaction) affects the relationship between your feet and seat bones. How to find ‘just right’ for the tone in the underneath of the box, and the appropriate clarity for your seat bones, so you neither ‘pop them up’ nor have a pair of ‘stiletto heels’. Once you find ‘just right’ you can control the speed of their movement - and this controls the speed of your horse’s legs.2020-05-2421 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 12 In the flowSend us your feedback!What is flow and what difference does it make to elite performance.2020-05-1721 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 11 On the voice inside your head!Send us your feedback!How to get rid of the tyranny of the voice inside your head and create for yourself the best internal coach!2020-05-1422 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 10 On the thrills and spills of putting words on feelings.Send us your feedback!How easy do you find this, and how much have you been encouraged to do this during your training sessions? As you’ll hear, it’s the best answer to confusion and miscommunication! Our traditional language that has been handed down through generations has been subject to deletion, distortion and generalisation, but the potential for misrepresentation and misunderstanding gets even worse than this. It’s those As and Xs again!2020-05-1021 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 9 On how you cannot not influence, and maps.Send us your feedback!The best ever story about stirrup length, and how in other sports, it’s all about angles. You cannot not influence your horse - he is constantly reading your ability to support your own body weight (or not), your asymmetry, how wibbly-wobbly you are, how ‘shovey’ you are, wether you can match the forces of his movement etc. He knows more about you than you know about yourself! The possible effects of being given the wrong map, and how communication in riding arenas goes awry.2020-05-0721 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 8 On stirrup length and posture stoolsSend us your feedback!How is your weight distributed on your horse’s back? If it is concentrated into the area where he would hollow his back, you create or perpetuate that hollow. Your weight needs to be spread down the inside of your thigh, with your thigh bone at 45 degrees. This mirrors sitting on a ‘kneeling stool’ - which is very different to treating your horse like a mobile arm chair! The paradox of how your stirrups might look longer when they are actually shorter…2020-05-0322 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 7 On noticing mode, trying mode and tune out.Send us your feedback!The brain is like a manual camera lens, and all of us have to learn how to ‘tune’ our brain into a state of clear focus. As skill develops it’s as if you’re given a more powerful miscoscope lens, becoming able to observe detail that you could not have previously imagined. But all learning requires the willingness to feel weird - and here is an exercise in weirdness that I invite you to take to your riding.2020-04-3023 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 6 On Unconscious IncompetenceSend us your feedback!New students commonly begin by telling me what’s wrong with them, and what they know they SHOULD be doing. Their problem really is ‘premature automation’ - when they first learned their up/downs, they automated a pattern that was far from biomechanically correct. So now they face the challenge of ‘rewiring’ themselves, and they have to become ‘consciously competent’. Will elite riders talk to you about the ABC’s of riding, or its XYZ’s? An analogy to icebergs explains the answer!2020-04-2619 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 5 On finding ‘weird’…Send us your feedback!Did the lessons you’ve taken, the lecture/demos you’ve attended, and the DVDs and webinars you’ve watched actually make a difference to your skills? They are mostly addressing the language brain, and intellectual information does not help you to ‘groove’ a new habit. This requires you to feel weird: so welcome to some of my favourite off-horse exercises!2020-04-2320 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 4 On "More!", and the question "More what?"Send us your feedback!'More!', and muscle tone (alias 'stuffing') which men have 35% more of than women. The 80/20 of how much of your attention should ideally be where, and the biggest task that probably faces you in learning. Being a rider who wants to be picked up vs. being a 'sack of potatoes'.2020-04-1922 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 3 On noseblowing, and core strengthSend us your feedback! On noseblowing, spacehoppers (hippity-hops), and forces that act either from the back to the front or from the front to the back. The physics of 'an independent seat', and how stability, not relaxation, is the key to skilled riding. 2020-04-1622 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 2 What does waterskiing have to do with riding?Send us your feedback!What does waterskiing have to do with riding? Much more than it ought to! How Mary stopped that horse from jogging but took many months to work out how she was doing it. Multifinality, equifinality, and the 'how to' of accessing your core, and 'leading the dance' that you share with your horse. 2020-04-1121 minMary Wanless - Ride With Your MindEp. 1 How it all beganSend us your feedback! Mary's background story, from begging for riding lessons as a child, to riding schools and riding whilst at university studying Physics. The 'blinding flash of light' moment that led to becoming a full-time professional instructor, and ultimately to giving up riding in despair. It was the act of giving up, coupled with returning to riding and schooling a horse who jogged a lot, that sparked the beginning of the 40-year Ride With Your Mind empirical research project. If you want to know 'how to get to Paris' (with Paris as a metaphor for y...2020-04-1121 min