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The DOM Life
93: BDSM-The Obscure & Unusual Part 1
Send us a textMaster Nick & Lady Dee express their condolences to those impacted by the UPS tragedy which occurred in their community. Lady Dee provides a quick update on her health and healing. Then they remind listeners to come to Kinktasia and visit their vendor booth where there will be some Dom Life products as well as podcast equipment on Friday (11/14). Listen in as they discuss obscure and unusual fetishes and practices related to BDSM activities. A few like trampling, macrophilia and crushing fetishes came up in a recent conversation; while others like figging and sounding...
2025-11-10
41 min
The DOM Life
92: Why Submissives Submit Part 2
Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee continue their discussion on why submissive submit. Part II focuses on structure, tasks and rejecting tasks from a submissives perspective. Then looks at topping from the bottom, why it may be necessary, how Master Nick appreciated this at the beginning of their relationship and why as a Dom sometimes paying attention to this will allow you to be a better dominant to that submissive. As always, in a D/s dynamic, open lines of communication is a requirement for a healthy interaction. Support the show
2025-11-02
33 min
The DOM Life
91: Why Submissives Submit Part 1
Send us a textIn this episode Lady Dee and Master Nick explore the reasons submissives submit or, in some cases, choose not to submit. What both situations can tell you about the submissive and why Dom’s should pay attention when a task is not completed as it could have a greater implication than just forgetfulness. Master Nick questions why submissives might choose to not use a safe word even when justified or expected. Lady Dee then asks question everyone has been wondering about – did you do it Master Nick??? And finally, we hope you enjoy the b...
2025-10-27
33 min
The DOM Life
90: The DOM Life Attends Indiana Kink & Leather
Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee discuss their attendance at the Indiana Leather and Kink weekend in Indianapolis. Covering information on what Leather Clubs are, what classes and education they attended during the weekend, the vendors and products available at the event, as well as the dungeon play. Lady Dee and Master Nick explain how the class on clothespins and clamps led to an eye-opening purchase and experience for Lady Dee. They were both so thankful for the opportunity to meet new and interesting people who are part of the Lifestyle. Support the...
2025-10-20
59 min
The DOM Life
89: When Outside Forces Impacts D/s Dynamics
Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee had a very traumatic three weeks following an automobile wreck that injured Lady Dee with a variety of fractured bones (ribs, knee, pelvis, and vertebrae). Taking this opportunity, they recorded an episode on when outside forces impact your D/s Dynamic. Lady Dee is back in her chair for The DOM Life podcast where she talks about what happened during the wreck as well as the aftermath including details about her injuries and recovery. Master Nick and Lady Dee provide insight on the loss of their dynamic and h...
2025-10-13
1h 00
The DOM Life
88: Get Ready for Kinktasia 2025
Send us a textGet Ready for Kinktasia 2025 - Master Nick takes complete control over The DOM Life as Lady Dee was in time out due to health issues during the time sensitive interview with Sparkle Moonbeam, aka Shannon, from LiNK, Inc. discussing Kinktasia 2025. Shannon tells all, okay almost all, to The DOM Life on the plans in the works for Kinktasia in Louisville, KY and how it expanded to a 2-day event located at 2 different venues. She details out the Carnival night on Friday at Art Sanctury and gives listeners details on some of the vendors, f...
2025-10-05
38 min
The DOM Life
87: Surprise Guest Erratic Eros Part 2
Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee take the final part of the interview with Sir Dancealot and Erratic Eros to a new level, digging deep into their kinky lives which include Shibari, open and poly relationships, performances, exhibitionism, voyeurism, birthday spankings, trust, sub-space, D/s relationships, outdoor kink and, of course, they circle back around to where it all began and where it will go for the upcoming 2025 Kinktasia scheduled cabaret performances. Join The DOM Life as laughter rings out about Pumpkin Spice, Eros performing for the ladies, and his cooking skills. S...
2025-09-28
33 min
The DOM Life
86: Surprise Guest Erratic Eros Part 1
Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee are so excited to have the second performer from the Kinktasia 2024 Burlesque performance, Erratic Eros on the show. We take a step back in time to episode 16 where Master Nick and Lady Dee talk about the amazing performance from Sir Dancealot and Erratic Eros. The only thing about that episode, we didn't know them!!! After meeting Dan at a comedy event, he made sure to invite Eros to the interview so we could get to know him better. To our surprise, there was a whole kinky side to...
2025-09-21
32 min
The DOM Life
85: The Long-Awaited Sir Dancealot
Send us a textMaster Nick is excited for this long-awaited episode where he and Lady Dee get to introduce Sir Dancealot, Dan, who performed at Kinktasia 2024. Lady Dee selected his burlesque performance as her favorite. In this episode of The Dom Life, Dan will fill you in on how and where to learn Burlesque dancing in the Louisville area. He discusses that in his mind he is at the French Vanilla level of kink and acknowledges that voyeurism and exhibitionism are areas that appeal to him. While attending local Sloshes and Munches and even an LiNK D...
2025-09-15
51 min
The DOM Life
84: Introduction to Spankos with KentuckyGirl Part 2
Send us a textIn Part 2, Master Nick and Lady Dee hear details on some of the national Spankos events including educational classes which have included soaping, strapping 101, negotiations, role playing and even rope. KentuckyGirl talks about an event called Court where there is a “Judge” and how to bring court cases against each other – fun cases. There is a schoolgirl social event for middles which is exactly as it sounds with attitude in a fun way, then there is Detention which was one of the best stories Lady Dee has ever heard during their time recording The DO...
2025-09-08
44 min
The DOM Life
83: Introduction to Spankos with KentuckyGirl Part 1
Send us a textIn this Episode Master Nick and Lady Dee receive an education on Spankos. KentuckyGirl tells The DOM Life about some of the standard tools used as a Spanker to include hair brushes, spoons, belts, paddles, and don’t forget the ever-favorite - hands. She provides insight to the Spankos mentality and how it differs from BDSM. Lady Dee was surprised to hear that penetration was not necessary after a good spanking, in fact, it takes away from the experience for KentuckyGirl. While Master Nick decided that he can show a very sexy way to...
2025-09-01
43 min
The DOM Life
82: What is a Slosh???
Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee discuss a common meeting set up by local kink and BDSM communities which are called a slosh or munch. Slosh is when alcohol is involved and it is typically at a bar, while a munch is at restaurants. This is an opportunity to meet other like-minded individuals at a safe, public space. In this episode, they discuss attending an LNK (Louisville Network of Kink) slosh called Cocktails and Conversations where they provide a breakdown of the event. They also announce their attendance at the Indianapolis IN Leather and K...
2025-08-25
36 min
The DOM Life
81: AFK 3 Day Self-Tying Summit Part 2
Send us a textAs a result of the joke regarding Master Nick napping, he retaliates in this episode by leaving in Lady Dee’s moment of forgetfulness to show all listeners what it’s really like living with her. Still discussing Day 1 from the A Frayed Knot 3-day Self-Tying Summit, the final two classes with RedHoneyRopes and Dirt Queen were detailed out. RedHoneyRopes instructed the class on a chest harness as well as the Futomomo leg tie. Dirt Queen then provided the fundamentals of lower body harnesses, by having participants tie single columns on all areas of th...
2025-08-18
32 min
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
From Chaos To Clarity: Building Discipline One Step At A Time With Nick McGowan
“Go directly to your subconscious and say: this is the thing I’m looking for” In this episode, Nick explores the concepts of self-mastery, discipline, and personal growth. He emphasizes that self-mastery is not a destination but a continuous journey, highlighting the importance of understanding that goals, habits, and disciplines can vary greatly from person to person. What to listen for: Self-mastery is a continuous journey, not a destination Goals and habits are unique to each individual Understanding the principles behind habits is crucial Finding what works for you is more important than following trends...
2025-08-14
17 min
The DOM Life
80: AFK 3 Day Self-Tying Summit Part 1
Send us a textMaster Nick wakes up from his nap and engages with Lilith, Mika and Lady Dee who finish the introduction of the Share Bears including how daddy issues, family issues and other trauma brought them into the kink world before moving onto the topic of the day – AFK 3-day Self-tying Summit. Together they walk through some of the classes from the first day before running out of time (again). Master Nick expresses his gratitude for the breakfast provided during the event. The first class discussed was led by Snapped Ginger getting everyone warmed up for...
2025-08-11
46 min
The DOM Life
79: Meet Lilith & Mika-The Share Bears
Send us a textThis episode of The Dom Life is almost a Lady Dee take over with Mika & Lilith as guests, while Master Nick is caught sleeping on the job. Lilith & Mika are queer platonic partners, who live life strongly in the kink and BDSM world. Lilith & Mika are both submissives, but Lilith is exploring her switch side. Lilith, a sadomasochist, can take a ton of pain and says she feels giddy at others pain; while Mika identifies as a little and a good girl with an affinity for rope. They attended the AFK Self-tying summit a...
2025-08-03
41 min
The DOM Life
78: Dominant Discussions with Master Nick & Sir Dante Part 2
Send us a textAfter leaving you hanging last week from Master Nick's question, Sir Dante explains his reasoning for not using his dominance to end a relationship disagreement. Together they discuss what they feel are the best ways to solve miscommunication and misunderstanding while still being in a Dom/submissive relationship. Master Nick and Sir Dante discuss their past experiences with Dom Space but are still eager to learn more from others who can describe the feelings of it. They also talk about their perspective of Primal/prey play, and surprisingly they both have different ways...
2025-07-28
36 min
The DOM Life
77: Dominant Discussions with Master Nick & Sir Dante Part 1
Send us a textDo you ever wonder what Dom’s discuss when they get together? It’s usually a wide range of topics with the hopes of expanding personal knowledge and understand different perspectives. A good Dom should always ask questions, gathering as much information as possible. Today, Master Nick and Sir Dante kick of the first episode of Dom Discussions. The discussion covers what makes a good Dom, what does a good Dom do in a BDSM scene which includes the prep, the buildup and immersing yourself in the mind of a submissive. Once it begi...
2025-07-21
36 min
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
Embracing Creativity In Everyday Life With Nick McGowan
“Everything that we do has some sort of creative flair to it no matter what—because it’s really our flair to it.” In this episode, Nick delves into the concept of creativity, exploring its presence in everyday life beyond traditional artistic expressions. He shares personal anecdotes about his journey with music and the creative process, emphasizing that creativity can manifest in problem-solving and interactions with others. Nick encourages listeners to embrace their creativity, trust themselves, and find innovative solutions in various aspects of life, even when faced with challenges. What to listen for: Creativi...
2025-07-17
12 min
The DOM Life
76: Attending Performances at AFK Self-Tying 3-Day Summit
Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee take a moment to discuss their new Social Media/Marketing Manager Jess, and improvements to The DOM Life podcast which include finding content, camera upgrades, and event attendance. They discuss the A Frayed Knot (AFK) 3-day self-tying summit’s five amazing rope performances which were split with 3 on Friday and 2 on Saturday night. While not a play-by-play, they discuss their thoughts, feeling and try to describe the performances by SnappedGinger, SubtextSadie, Air, RedHoneyRopes, and DirtQueen. Watch for future episodes which provide the breakdown of the education and classes dur...
2025-07-14
53 min
The DOM Life
73: Navigating Kink as a Single With Ashley Part 2
Send us a textThe DOM Life continues to interview Ashley. Master Nick and Lady Dee question Ashley about her experience navigating kink/BDSM as a single. Where does she find her dates? When does she tell her partner that she is looking for a Dom? How does she explain about the swinger’s lifestyle and BDSM? Check out www.thedomlife.com to see additional info including pictures.Support the show
2025-06-23
57 min
The DOM Life
72: Navigating Kink as a Single-Meet Ashley
Send us a textFirst off, Happy Father's Day!!! Master Nick and Lady Dee sit down with Ashley, who we have talked about throughout several episodes, to discuss navigating kink as a single female. In this episode they spend a little time letting you get to know Ashley and her personality through shared experiences and stories with mutual friends.Check out www.thedomlife.com to see additional info including pictures.Support the show
2025-06-16
41 min
The DOM Life
71: Here Comes Season 2!!!
Send us a textJoin Master Nick and Lady Dee as they discuss what they want to cover in Season 2. While Season 1 was full of a variety of topics, there is still so much more to discover. Maybe one of you can help with their research and be a guest on the show. They also have prepared a few questions for each other to find out some of their own fantasies. Support the show
2025-06-08
46 min
The DOM Life
70: A Year In Review
Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee have been recording the podcast for one year. They use this episode to review their podcast including the top 5 episodes, the growth over the past year with the podcast, themselves, and their community. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode.Support the show
2025-06-02
40 min
The DOM Life
69: Lifestyle Etiquette
Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee discuss etiquette in the lifestyle as well as BDSM. They touch upon topics such as communication, ghosting, posting images, dungeons, touching others and even the right and wrong way to DM. Their bottom line is to be respectful of others and take the high road. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode.Support the show
2025-05-26
51 min
The DOM Life
68: Demos @ Swingers Society May Club Takeover
Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee give a breakdown of their demonstrations for the Swingers Society Club Takeover. Friday night they had a shockingly fun night using the electric wand, while Saturday night it was the Kinkiest Show on Earth - Three Ring Demo. The three performances on Saturday were a blindfolded, self-tie with rope suspension by Snapped Ginger (monitored by Apollo); a wax play performance from Ex Libris, Sir Dante and Zorra; and, of course, an impact performance with Master Nick and Lady Dee. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more inf...
2025-05-19
37 min
The DOM Life
67: Community
Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee discuss community and what it means to them. With their upcoming demonstrations of the electric wand and then the kinkiest show on earth the 3-ring demo, they wanted to explain how each and every demonstration required their community of friends to make it happen.Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode.Support the show
2025-05-12
35 min
The DOM Life
66: CNC
Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee discuss a topic which is very controversial where opinions are widely split and highly divisive. They try to provide information on the concerns, safety issues, triggers as well as way to mitigate them. This episode is not to agree or disagree with it, but to provide some education on CNC.Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode.Support the show
2025-05-05
43 min
The DOM Life
65: Interview with Grey & Evie Part 3
Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee had a number of laughs with Grey and Evie in the third and final installment of their interview. Discussions delved into how Grey and Evie include BDSM into other aspects of the lifestyle as they tell various stories about recent experiences, how mistakes have happened and been addressed, and how they handle emotions through open and honest communication.Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode.Support the show
2025-04-27
38 min
The DOM Life
64: Interview with Grey & Evie Part 2
Send us a textJoin Master Nick and Lady Dee as they explore the Lifestyle with Grey and Evie. There is in depth discussions on where they started and how far they have come. They talk about their levels of trust and how they developed from what they might do, to what they have done and even some hints to things they want to do in the future. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode.Support the show
2025-04-20
38 min
The DOM Life
62: Interview with BDSM/Boudoir Photographer
Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee interview Shaun from Eye of the Steiger Photography. They discuss their first meeting at the opening of Ex Libris. Shaun has a way of putting others at ease, using his humor which is on full display during this interview. Listen in to hear Lady Dee get schooled on the proper (or I guess improper) way to transition segments. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode.Support the show
2025-04-07
42 min
The DOM Life
61: Contract Renegotiation, Part 2
Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee complete the final negotiations and discussions on their updated BDSM contract. During the episode, they openly air concerns and come to agreement with each of the change requests. Some areas requiring Indepth explanations for why changes might be needed and what, in fact, they hope to achieve. This is the final episode on their BDSM contract renegotiation.Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode.Support the show
2025-03-30
38 min
The DOM Life
60: Contract Renegotiation, Part 1
Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee discuss and negotiate their updated contract, adding where things may have been missing and adjusting and removing things not needed in their current relationship. They discuss all the changes on what will be incorporated and reasons for the changes. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode.Support the show
2025-03-24
39 min
The DOM Life
59: What's in a Contract???
Send us a textAs Master Nick and Lady Dee renegotiate their contract, this is the perfect time to discuss contracts what they are, what belongs in it and ways to create it. While they are subjective and very personal, there are some general guidelines that you can follow when creating your first contract or, as we are actively doing, negotiating as part of an update to an existing contract.Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode.Support the show
2025-03-16
50 min
The DOM Life
58: Initial Contract Review
Send us a textAs Master Nick and Lady Dee renegotiate their contract, the first important step is to review their existing contract which they do in this episode. Their discussions include an overall contract discussion as well as an in depth look at sections and wording. This lets you see what was important in the beginning and what has become important as their relationship developed. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode.Support the show
2025-03-09
38 min
The DOM Life
56: Negotiation in BDSM
Send us a textIn preparation of their contract negotiation, Master Nick and Lady Dee will be discussing negotiation in BDSM in this episode. Negotiation is a theme within BDSM since you need to set expectations and boundaries in order to successfully navigate meetings or meet ups, dungeon or private scenes, expected dynamics in a possible relationship, as well as long term contracts in existing relationships.Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode.Support the show
2025-03-02
42 min
The DOM Life
55: Real Talk-Remember Who You Came With
Send us a textIt can be very easy to get distracted with all the sexiness that is around. In this episode, Master Nick and Lady Dee remind you to remember who you came with when attending BDSM events or lifestyle clubs. With strong communication, discussing rules and boundaries you will find it much easier for both of you to enjoy your night outs at these events. This is part of our Back-to-Basics mini-series discussing bite size topics done after its dark outside. This episode is available on all the normal streaming services as well as video.
2025-02-26
18 min
The DOM Life
54: Jade's Interview Sub-Space, Sub-Drop & Aftercare
Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee continue the interview with Jade and after getting to know her last episode, we immediately begin discussing the topics of sub-space, sub-drop and aftercare. Her experiences are with tops who do not live with her providing insight from a completely different perspective. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode.Support the show
2025-02-23
32 min
The DOM Life
53: Interview with Jade, Let's Get to Know Her
Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee interview Jade who is a submissive in order to discuss the topics of sub-space, sub-drop and aftercare from a perspective different than Lady Dee. Of course, we want to know more about how she started out in the kink world and what she enjoys. We are so happy that she opens up about her experiences. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode.Support the show
2025-02-17
34 min
The DOM Life
52: Valentine's Day Sensual Demo at Club Tempted
Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee discuss their upcoming Valentine’s Day romantic evening plans with a few of their closest friends at Club Tempted. It’s a night of sensations with a sensory play demonstration. Valentine’s day is a Dom’s playground. Join us for all the fun. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode.Support the show
2025-02-09
31 min
The DOM Life
51: Real Talk-Being a Good Submissive Part 2
Send us a textIn this episode, Master Nick and Lady Dee talk about submitting even when it’s hard. He gives her a couple of scenarios which she explains what may be going on in her mind as she submits. Listen all the way to the end where Master Nick throws an educational curve ball to Lady Dee. This is part of our Back-to-Basics mini-series discussing bite size topics done after its dark outside. This episode is available on all the normal streaming services as well as video.Check out www.th...
2025-02-08
22 min
The DOM Life
50: Recap of the D/S Lifestyle Deeper Dive into Domination Series
Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee recap their deeper dive into Domination series. We discuss the differences between the dominants, their relationships and style. While listening to our episodes will give you some information, finding your community is key so we delve a little into online community versus real life community. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode.Support the show
2025-02-02
39 min
The DOM Life
49: Real Talk-Being a Good Submissive
Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Dee discusses how to be a good submissive in less-than-ideal times and situations. Master Nick is in the supporting role this week. This is part of our Back-to-Basics mini-series discussing bite size topics done after its dark outside. This episode is available on all the normal streaming services as well as video.Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode and to find out where to watch the full video episode.Support the show
2025-01-31
19 min
The DOM Life
48: Dom/sub Lifestyle-Deeper Dive into Domination with Bear Part 3
Send us a textJoin Master Nick and Lady Dee as they finish the third and final part of their interview with Bear, a Dominant, who actively lives the D/s Lifestyle. In this episode he delves deeper into BDSM with his partners. He explains more about his views and style as a dominant. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode.Support the show
2025-01-27
51 min
The DOM Life
47: Dom/sub Lifestyle-Deeper Dive into Domination with Bear Part 2
Send us a textJoin Master Nick and Lady Dee as they continue their interview with Bear, a Dominant, who actively lives the D/s Lifestyle. In this episode he discusses how he developed into the Dominant he is today. He explains a little about his Poly relationship and provides some details. We also finally start delving into his business. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode.Support the show
2025-01-19
43 min
The DOM Life
46: Real Talk-Kinky When Apart
Send us a textIn this episode, Master Nick and Lady Dee discuss how to start adding kinky times when apart. Things you might want to consider having your submissive do or things to do as a Dominant to make it steamy. This is part of our Back-to-Basics mini-series discussing bite size topics done after its dark outside. This episode is available on all the normal streaming services as well as video.Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode and where to watch the full episode.Support the show
2025-01-18
20 min
The DOM Life
45: Dom/sub Lifestyle-Deeper Dive into Domination with Bear
Send us a textJoin Master Nick and Lady Dee as they interview another Dominant, Bear, who actively lives the D/s Lifestyle. In this episode he discusses how he began exploring the lifestyle, some experiences he had as a bottom, and how he realized he was a Dominant. He does a great job explaining the general steps needed to set up a good scene with another individual. In this case, it was with our friend Jade and a scene we witnessed early on at the club. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information reg...
2025-01-12
47 min
The DOM Life
44: Real Talk-Introducing Dominance into your Relationship
Send us a textIn this episode, Master Nick and Lady Dee discuss ways to introduce dominance in your existing relationship. Join us as we discuss . This is part of our Back-to-Basics mini-series discussing bite size topics done after its dark outside. This episode is available on all the normal streaming services as well as video.Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode and to find out where to watch the full video episode.Support the show
2025-01-11
21 min
The DOM Life
42: Real Talk - How to be a Good Dominant Part 2
Send us a textLady Dee is back to normal as we finish the discussion on what it takes to be a good or bad Dominant. Master Nick covers some red flags to watch when meeting for the first time either online or in person. There is a lot of back and forth, as both Master Nick and Lady Dee give great points about Dominants and submissives.Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode and to find out where to watch the full video episode.Support the show
2025-01-03
20 min
The DOM Life
41: Dom/sub Lifestyle-Deeper Dive into Domination with MiLady Kay Part 2
Send us a textMaster Nick & Lady Dee continues their interview with MiLady Kay. She discusses a bit more in depth her style of dominance and what she enjoys in the various dynamics of BDSM. She loves bringing others pleasure mixed with a little bit of pain.Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode.Support the show
2024-12-29
37 min
The DOM Life
40: Dom/sub Lifestyle-Deeper Dive into Domination with MiLady Kay
Send us a textMaster Nick & Lady Dee interview MiLady Kay. She provides a different perspective on Dominance and submission as she is a switch which means she can switch between both roles depending upon the situation. She discusses and explains a little about her poly relationship and poly relationships in general. Support the show
2024-12-22
34 min
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39: Real Talk - How to be a Good Dominant
Send us a textIn tonight's episode, Lady Dee is feeling a little under the weather with a sinus infection. Master Nick decides it would be a great opportunity to discuss what it takes to be a good Dom. While researching and taking notes, Master Nick realizes it is time to take a step back and do some self-reflection so he can become even better. Although his list is not very long, yet, he discusses what he feels are very important traits any Dominant should have. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding t...
2024-12-20
18 min
The DOM Life
38: Demos at Swingers Society December Club Takeover
Send us a textMaster Nick & Lady Dee discuss the demonstrations they did in collaboration with Sir Dante and Zorra from Ex Libris at Club Tempted for the Swinger Society takeover. We discuss the Temperature Play demonstration which was amazing with a constant stream of volunteers who wanted to feel the hot/cold implements. Then we talk about our performance on the dance floor which was heavy impact using lighted and UV reactive implements. Support the show
2024-12-16
45 min
The DOM Life
37: Real Talk-Date Night
Send us a textIn this episode, Master Nick walks us through a date night in a vanilla venue where you still participate in BDSM power exchange. While it may not be a traditional date night, his ideas are eye opening. Join us in a discussion of edging, orgasm control and sexy dancing. This is part of our Back-to-Basics mini-series discussing bite size topics done after its dark outside. This episode is available on all the normal streaming services as well as video. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode and to f...
2024-12-13
19 min
The DOM Life
36: Temperature Play
Send us a textMaster Nick & Lady Dee dip their feet into Temperature Play. With the upcoming demonstration at the Swinger’s Society Club Takeover at Club Tempted, we thought it was a great opportunity to discuss Temperature play which is a form of BDSM, sensual play that involves using a variety of items and substances that are hot and or cold upon and within the body to help stimulate the senses. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode.Support the show
2024-12-09
38 min
The DOM Life
35: Real Talk - Scene Creation, Punishment
Send us a textIn this episode, we invite you into the world of punishments. We discuss a scene on the cross where all the tender, sensual play is gone and it is the stark reality of being in trouble. Master Nick and Lady Dee discuss multiple scenarios and how it may play out. This episode is part of our Back to Basics mini-series discussing bite size topics done after its dark outside. This episode is available on all the normal streaming services as well as video. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information rega...
2024-12-06
20 min
The DOM Life
33: Real Talk - Scene Creation Sensual with Light to Medium Impact
Send us a textJoin us in a one-on-one discussion where Master Nick thrills Lady Dee drawing a picture of BDSM scene on the St. Andrews Cross. This episode is part of our Back to Basics mini-series discussing bite size topics done after its dark outside.Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode and to find out where to watch the full video episode.Support the show
2024-11-29
19 min
The DOM Life
33: Real Talk – Scene Creation Sensual with Light to Medium Impact
Send us a textJoin us in a one-on-one discussion where Master Nick thrills Lady Dee drawing a picture of BDSM scene on the St. Andrews Cross. This episode is part of our Back-to-Basics mini-series discussing bite size topics done after its dark outside. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more informatin regarding this episode and to find out where to watch the full video episode.
2024-11-29
20 min
The DOM Life
32: Interview with Snapped Ginger, an Experienced Rigger Part 1
Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee interview Snapped Ginger an experienced rigger. She explains her path to becoming a rigger and gives details about her kinky side. Then she dives deeper into the history of rope and discusses the difference between eastern and western style. Interested in attending her classes or seminars, check out www.thedomlife.com, under Podcast Episodes for all the links, pictures and additional information.Support the show
2024-11-24
46 min
The DOM Life
31: Introducing Real Talk BDSM Back to Basics Mini-Series
Send us a textThis episode is to introduce The DOM Life’s new mini-series - Real Talk BDSM Back to Basics. Master Nick and Lady Dee are using these episodes to discuss BDSM in smaller bite size portions. This episode lays out the general format along with a few of the upcoming topics that will be discussed. As mentioned within the podcast, this will be the first episode that will be available to watch as well as listen. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information regarding this episode and to find out where to...
2024-11-22
15 min
The DOM Life
27: The DOM Life Attends Boo Bash at Club Tempted
Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee finally focus on Club Tempted and their Epic Halloween Event - Boo Bash. Come one & come all, step right up to the Psycho Circus. Buy your tickets, enjoy your stay because there is a chance you may not make it out alive. We did but it was a close call. Listen to the episode to hear about the fantastic event that Club Tempted put on for its members. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information and pictures regarding this episode. The decorations were off the chart...
2024-10-28
40 min
The DOM Life
25: Interview with Shannon from LiNK, Inc. Part 2
Send us a textAfter Master Nick requests assistance from Shannon and her company Love Leather and Lace to create some UV reactive and light up implements, we continued the discussion on LNK – Louisville Network of Kink and what will be coming up in the near term as well as getting some insight into Kinktasia 2025.Support the show
2024-10-14
39 min
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
Why You’re Really Overwhelmed (And How to Fix It) With Nick McGowan
“When something happens, and we feel overwhelmed, what do we do?” In this episode, Nick discusses overwhelm and how it relates to trauma. By understanding that overwhelm can occur when multiple things happen all at once, and our nervous system perceives it as a threat. Self-awareness in recognizing and managing overwhelm is highly important, and taking a step back, breathing, and reflecting on the situation to prioritize tasks can help you move forward with clarity. What to listen for: Overwhelm can occur when multiple things happen all at once, and our nervous system sees it as a threat. Self-awareness is cruc...
2024-10-03
25 min
The DOM Life
23: Electric Wand (It's SHOCKING....)
Send us a textThis episode is all about the electric wand. Master Nick uses this implement often and describes it in detail. During the episode you will hear the wand being used on Lady Dee with a couple of electrodes and she decides that a full dungeon date is necessary, until then enjoy this introduction to the electric wand.Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information and pictures regarding this episode.Support the show
2024-09-30
37 min
The DOM Life
21: Dungeon Voting Poll Closes-What Is the Best Episode???
Send us a textThis is a mini episode to thank everyone for voting on which dungeon play was the best. Master Nick was all about Episode 9 where he and Sir Dante dominate Lady Dee and Zorra, while Lady Dee cannot believe he doesn’t think Episode 13 is the best where she and Mandi tag teamed Chris. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information and pictures regarding this episode.Support the show
2024-09-19
13 min
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
How To Find Alternative Solutions To Overcome Challenges With Nick McGowan
“If an obstacle pops up, you can either get really upset, pissed off about it, or you can look around it, get around it, and figure out what else is there.” In this episode, Nick discusses the importance of patience and overcoming obstacles. He emphasizes the power of storytelling and practical examples in understanding how to overcome challenges and shares a personal story about dealing with the heat in their tiny house and how they found alternative solutions. What to listen for: Explore anecdotal and practical examples from my life that may help you navigate overcoming obstacles. When faced with chal...
2024-08-29
37 min
The DOM Life
17: Demos at Swingers Society Club Takeover
Send us a textThis episode we discuss the Demonstrations that we were contracted to do at the Swinger’s Society Club Takeover of Club Tempted. These were our planned events from start to finish… except Lady Dee was unable to finish. You will just have to listen to Master Nick do all the explaining. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information and pictures regarding this episode.Support the show
2024-08-25
41 min
The DOM Life
14: Dungeon Voting Poll – what is the best episode???
Send us a textThis is a mini episode to get the listeners opinion on which dungeon play was the best. Master Nick believes Episode 9 where he and Sir Dante dominate Lady Dee and Zorra is the best, while Lady Dee cannot believe he doesn’t think Episode 13 is the best where she and Mandi tag teamed Chris. 3 WAYS TO VOTE:(1) Spotify(2) The DOM Life Facebook Page(3) Visit www.thedomlife.com and send message through our "Contact Us" buttonCheck out www.thedomlife.com for more information and pictures regarding this epis...
2024-08-07
07 min
The DOM Life
13: Dungeon Play Date with Mandi and Chris
Send us a textA dungeon play date with Chris on the cross where Mandi and Lady Dee get to tag team him with a variety of implements. This episode was so much fun for Lady Dee and Mandi with Master Nick sidelined for the entire play time. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information and pictures regarding this episode.Support the show
2024-08-04
40 min
The DOM Life
9: Dungeon Play Date with Sir Dante Marcellus and Zorra
Send us a textWow! Let’s just take a moment and enjoy the glow that Lady Dee is feeling. This is an episode involving impact and sensation play in our own private dungeon. Master Nick and Sir Dante chained their submissives Lady Dee and Zorra side by side in order to educate the listeners on the use of various implements for both impact and sensation. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information and pictures regarding this episode.Support the show
2024-07-07
39 min
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
Uncovering The Simple Meaning Of Purpose With Nick McGowan
“Follow what lights you up, no matter how crazy, how wild-haired any of it may seem.” In this episode, Nick explores the concept of purpose and its significance in our lives. He discusses the dictionary definition of purpose, the meaning of purpose in our lives, and the fact that we each have our own unique purpose on this planet. Listen in as he unpacks the importance of contribution and how it is intertwined with purpose but how we’ve been taught, or shamed, into thinking our purpose is too small if it’s not this massive humanity changing effort. Purpose is about...
2024-06-13
35 min
The DOM Life
2: BDSM-Not Just Pain
Send us a textEpisode 2 is an introduction to BDSM based upon an event hosted by The DOM life at Club Tempted, Louisville KY. There is a discussion of needs, wants, and desires tied in with Master Nick’s addiction to the bakery aisle of the grocery store. BDSM stands for bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadomasochism and it’s so much more than pain. Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information and pictures regarding this episode.Support the show
2024-06-03
27 min
The DOM Life
1: Introduction
Send us a text This is the first episode of a new podcast, The Dom Life, and an introduction to the hosts Master Nick and Lady Dee. This episode discusses The Dom Life, BDSM, their separate kinky pasts, some of their experiences since meeting and a dive into their current Dominant/submissive relationship.Check out www.thedomlife.com for more information and pictures regarding this episode.Support the show
2024-06-02
29 min
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
Easily Reduce Anxiety By Going Calm, Present And Connected With Nick McGowan
“I think a lot of us don’t realize that we’re pretty much anxious often.” In this episode, Nick dives into the topic of anxiety and shares a three-step process that has helped him manage his own anxiety. Most people experience anxiety, and some experience it very frequently each day but may not always recognize it. Nick reflects on his own lifelong experience with anxiety and emphasizes the importance of self-awareness in identifying and addressing it. What to listen for: Where you often land on the anxiety scale each day Where anxiety comes from A realization I’ve had about my a...
2024-04-18
25 min
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
Telling An Emotional Person To Think Doesn’t Typically Help With Nick McGowan
“I had been afraid to really feel my feelings for a long time because I was told everything short of they were not welcome here and that I shouldn’t have them.” In this episode, Nick delves into the differences between emotional and logical individuals. Drawing from personal experiences, Nick reflects on how he was encouraged to prioritize logical thinking growing up despite being naturally inclined towards feelings and emotions. What to listen for: Exploring what resonates more with us, the emotional or logical side. The difference between emotional individuals who tend to feel things deeply before rationalizing, while logical indivi...
2024-04-04
21 min
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
How To Manage Our Trauma, Triggers, And Interpretations With Nick McGowan
“If we get to the core of it and figure out what happened with that trauma and process through that trauma, then you’ll start to see that the trigger will either have a lot less weight to it because you’re not giving it as many interpretations if any at all.” In this episode, Nick dives into the concepts of traumas, triggers, and interpretations, exploring their impact on our lives, and emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and processing traumas to gain a deeper understanding of triggers and interpretations. What to listen for: Nick challenges common misconceptions about trauma, explaining that it...
2024-03-07
20 min
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
How To Break Your Mental Barriers And Master Yourself
“Vulnerability means that I am strong enough to show you where I am uncertain.” Episode summary: In this episode, Paul Rivera reflects on a life filled with diverse experiences (one of his highest values), including rescuing others, navigating the challenges of different professions, and learning the value of genuine authenticity. You’ll find inspiration in the deep-rooted thread of his purpose that stretches back through the years and learn the importance of giving yourself grace during moments of feeling lost. Paul highlights the significance of community support, setting boundaries, and understanding that we are never truly...
2024-02-22
49 min
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
How To Break Your Mental Barriers And Master Yourself With Paul Rivera
“Vulnerability means that I am strong enough to show you where I am uncertain.” In this episode, Nick speaks with Paul Rivera, who reflects on a life filled with diverse experiences (one of his highest values), including rescuing others, navigating the challenges of different professions, and learning the value of genuine authenticity. You’ll find inspiration in the deep-rooted thread of his purpose that stretches back through the years and learn the importance of giving yourself grace during moments of feeling lost. Paul highlights the significance of community support, setting boundaries, and understanding that we are never truly alone in our st...
2024-02-22
49 min
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
Behind The Mic: A Beautiful Journey To Episode 100 With Nick McGowan
“If there’s pain that’s in there, you can get help. You can get through it. You can actually live that life that you secretly dream about. And if you’re in the middle of it right now, just keep going. There’s a lot more that can be done, and there’s hope within all of this.” In this episode, we hit a major milestone in the 100th episode of the show. Wow, has it been a hell of a ride so far?! To celebrate how far we’ve come, Nick shares some clips and reflects on topics such as the impo...
2023-12-07
1h 09
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
Cultivating Self Control: A Beautiful Journey Of Mindfulness And Discipline With Nick McGowan
“You can either take that emotion that wells up and put it into a box and push it away, or you can take that emotion and do something with it. And that’s where self-control comes into play.” In this episode, Nick talks about cultivating self-control and what your mindset has to do with that. And there’s just no other way around it. You have to be able to actually think through what’s going on, but you have to also couple it with what you’re feeling in a moment. What to listen for: How do we be in control i...
2023-11-23
32 min
Black Belt Interviews
Interview with Master Nick Symonds VIII
Master Symonds has practiced Taekwon-Do since 1989 and gained 1st degree in 1993 under the instruction of Master Nardizzi. He was then selected by Master John Taylor to represent Great Britain at the 1995 European Championships and since then he has gone on to attend 13 European Championships, 2 European Cups and 2 World Championships. Master Symonds has won numerous National championships and over 20 World, European and International medals while representing and Captaining the ITF National Team from 1995 to 2010 under Master Gary Miller, Master Andrew Whitley and Master Thomas Denis. The highlights of his competition career are: 1995 European 1st degree Patterns bronze medalist (Germany)1996 European...
2023-11-08
1h 06
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
How To Embrace Our Feelings And Not Shove Them Deep Inside With Nick McGowan
“When we embrace those feelings, we can then start to move through them instead of just taking those feelings and boxing them away for good.” Episode summary: In this episode, Nick gets into the emotions that we go through and how sometimes we can stop them from actually coming out into the world. Sometimes, it’s a good thing to do; sometimes, it’s really not. And really, when we embrace our feelings, and we don’t shove them deep inside of us, we can actually do something with them. What to listen for: The protocol I’ve figured out that works b...
2023-11-02
27 min
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
How Sobriety Helped Me See My Alcohol Addiction In A New Light With Nick McGowan
“It took me a long time to actually realize that there was a problem with my drinking, but that my problems were actually deeper than my drinking.” In this episode, Nick shares about his struggles with alcoholism and how he told himself for years, “I don’t have a problem,” only to realize that there's BEEN a problem. A problem much deeper and darker than just alcoholism. What to listen for: Alcohol and other substances, as well as hobbies and most things, can become an addiction and/or a crutch if we’re not careful How understanding our triggers can help us see...
2023-10-05
39 min
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
It’s Time We Start Talking About Our Mental Health With Nick McGowan
“No matter what you’re going through, no matter where you’ve been at in life, no matter what situations happen to you, for you, around you, through you, etc., how we handle our mental health can really affect everything else that we go through.” In this episode, Nick talks about how imperative it is for us to actually start talking about our mental health. Not just with other people but, first and foremost, with ourselves. What to listen for: How we can get lost in our own head How managing our mental health isn’t just a bunch of buzzwords...
2023-08-31
12 min
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
Do You Fear Failure? With Nick McGowan
“Even when you fear failure, you’re not broken. You’re just blocked.” In this episode, Nick talks about an F word… Failure. Leaning into failure can help us but most people don’t get to the point where failure can be a beneficial thing, they let the fear of failure hold them back before they even begin. Do you fear failure? What to listen for: Stories about how my fear of failure held me back for YEARS What makes us fear failure The perception people have of “fear” and how leaning in is more than just a nice idea, it’s critical to...
2023-08-24
11 min
Smashing Game Time
#089 – The Master’s Pupil: Interview with Dev. Pat Naoum
This week, Nick sat down with Pat Naoum, the solo indie developer of The Master’s Pupil to talk about the game’s release, it’s seven year development, and going viral ahead of release.The Master’s Pupil is a hand-drawn puzzle-adventure game where players explore the eye and life of master artist, Claude Monet. Players complete puzzles based upon physics, space, and color and assist one of the fathers of impressionism as he perseveres through personal hardship, loss, and health difficulties.You can read more about The Master’s Pupil at https://www.themasters...
2023-08-21
58 min
Smashing Game Time
#089 – The Master’s Pupil: Interview with Dev. Pat Naoum
This week, Nick sat down with Pat Naoum, the solo indie developer of The Master’s Pupil to talk about the game’s release, it’s seven year development, and going viral ahead of release.The Master’s Pupil is a hand-drawn puzzle-adventure game where players explore the eye and life of master artist, Claude Monet. Players complete puzzles based upon physics, space, and color and assist one of the fathers of impressionism as he perseveres through personal hardship, loss, and health difficulties.You can read more about The Master’s Pupil at https://www.themasters...
2023-08-21
58 min
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
How Trauma Affects Our Mindset With Nick McGowan
“It’s not just about managing your mindset. It’s not just about positive thinking your way through it. That’s not how it all works. It’s a piece of it. But it’s not the entirety of the pie. It’s about being able to understand the context, what you’ve been through trauma-wise, and how your brain affects all of that going forward.“ Episode summary: In this episode, Nick talks about how trauma affects our mindset as well as how managing our mindset is ONLY a piece of the equation. If we only try to manage our mindset and don’t...
2023-08-17
21 min
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
Taking A Look At Our Shoulds And Should Nots With Nick McGowan
“For the most part, a lot of people, I think have an external “should”. Like, well, my parents told me that I should go to college. My parents told me that I should get a great job, or that I should be a doctor, or I should be a lawyer, or I should be this, I should be that. What the fuck do you wanna do, though? Like, what is it? What is it that you feel you should do? Are there times where you feel like, I’m doing this, let’s just say, job, and I don’t really feel...
2023-08-03
19 min
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
How Your First Reaction Helps You Conquer A Mountain Or Slide Down The Side Of It With Nick McGowan
“What you do in that specific second where you could react a negative way is going to impact the way that you continue for that climb or that you start the descent downward on the side of the mountain, literally free falling or just going down on your ass and sliding down and having to figure out how to climb your way back up with a lot of extra baggage. And if this is something that you struggle with, understand that you’re not alone.” Episode summary: In this episode, Nick talks about reactions, specifically our first reaction, and how we can...
2023-07-27
28 min
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
Saying Goodbye To Social Media With Nick McGowan
“I remember taking a step back and thinking, yeah, this needs to be different. This needs to be changed. And that was a piece that I changed. So I guess in some ways this episode is more of a, oh, hey, by the fucking way, I’m no longer on social media, I’ve stepped out of the noise and out of the machine, and I suggest you do the same thing.” Today on the show, Nick shares about how he recently left social media and how it took years to get to this point. It took that long because of the s...
2023-07-20
23 min
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
Feeling The Trauma That Lives In Our Cells With Nick McGowan
“With traumas, for the most part, I think a lot of our stuff that we work through and really the tough shit that we as adult.” In this episode, Nick talks about feeling trauma in ourselves and what to do with it. When we think about trauma, most people think about the kind of crazy traumas like head traumas or something major like a car accident or even a tragedy where somebody died. There’s also the trauma that a lot of us don’t often talk about, but we all actually have… which are the traumas we experienced at a young ag...
2023-07-06
32 min
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
Having Grace With Ourselves During Our Growth Stages And Our Off Seasons With Nick McGowan
“Sometimes having grace with ourselves is really difficult. Sometimes even just understanding that we’re going through shit and not that just we’ve been perpetually off for weeks or months or even years. But having grace with ourselves is where things actually help us to be able to grow.” In this episode, Nick talks about the importance of showing ourselves grace during our growth stages as well as our off-season from growth. What to listen for: How I repealed away from who I was and went a bit too far What “showing ourselves grace” looks and feels like Practical steps to bei...
2023-06-29
29 min
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
Making Major Life Decisions By Trusting Your Intuition With Nick McGowan
“Being able to understand what’s actually happening, removing the interpretation and the stories that you can tell about what you think is actually happening. is a key component to being able to separate yourself from any of the bullshit that could flood your system. Once you’re able to do that, you can then actually get to your intuition.” In this episode, Nick discusses a recent experience of making major life decisions and changes by trusting his intuition and insight as to how you can make decisions through your intuition. Sometimes, life seems to throw curveballs at us, while other ti...
2023-06-22
29 min
The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show
Times, They Are A Changin’ With Nick McGowan
“The purpose of this show, the mindset and self-mastery show is for us to be able to heal and be able to better manage our mindset and to be able to find our own sense and purpose within our self-mastery. Self-mastery is basically just discipline and being disciplined in different ways and not being restrictive. However, things have changed a bit.” In this episode, Nick talks about how sometimes we, as podcasts, people, organizations, etc.… need to change, and that change is not only inevitable, but it’s totally ok. Over almost two years of the show’s existence, most of the epis...
2023-06-15
15 min
The Nick Elston Show
The Nick Elston Show - Ewan Mochrie
Hey everyone and welcome to The Nick Elston Show in partnership with Forging People & sponsored by the wonderful ProfileMe!Nick Elston (www.nickelston.com) is a leading Inspirational Speaker, Transformational Speaking Coach & Founder of Forging People ‘Transformation Through Speaking’ (www.forgingpeople.com) - empowering, inspiring and educating people to step up, find their voice & truly be heard in life, in education, in leadership, in influencing & in business.The Nick Elston Show brings you the people who inspire, motivate, educate & engage in all walks of life - sharing their insights & experiences honestly, unfiltered & off script!Thi...
2023-05-15
53 min
Press 1 For Nick
Effort is the Master Switch - Alex Hutchinson, author of Endure: Mind, Body, and the Curiously Elastic Limits of Human Performance [Running Experience]
Effort is the Master Switch - Alex Hutchinson, author of Endure: Mind, Body, and the Curiously Elastic Limits of Human Performance [Running Experience]This episode will be talking about his latest book ENDURE: Mind, Body, and the Curiously Elastic Limits of Human Performance.In what role does the brain play in a race?Does your cognitive development correlate to your physical development?Fatigue: Inability to continue vs sense of effortWhat about refocus or concentration? Explain the last lap kick? What is b...
2023-03-27
40 min
The Nick Elston Show
The Nick Elston Show - 5.0 - Episode 3 - Sarah Tait
Hey everyone and welcome to The Nick Elston Show!Nick Elston (www.nickelston.com) is a leading Inspirational Speaker, Transformational Speaking Coach & Founder of Forging People ‘Transformation Through Speaking’ (www.forgingpeople.com) - empowering, inspiring and educating people to step up, find their voice & truly be heard in life, in education, in leadership, in influencing & in business.The Nick Elston Show brings you the people who inspire, motivate, educate & engage in all walks of life - sharing their insights & experiences honestly, unfiltered & off script!This week, in the 3rd episode of Season 5, Nick speaks to t...
2022-08-08
57 min