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Matilde Crocini
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The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
1. Our First Chat About Getting Everything You Both Want in Marriage
In this episode Mark and Matilde discuss their intense marriage breakdown or breakthrough conversation that led to this podcast coming to life.TakeawaysVulnerability is the key to crossing the bridge of intimacy.Intense conversations and deep inner work are transformative. Devotional dependency and surrender are essential for a fulfilling marriage.Reclaiming libido for life and radical hope are key to a successful and joyful married life.Chapters00:00 The Bridge of Intimacy10:26 Metaphor of the Bridge17:24 Intense Conversations and Vulnerability24:14 Deep Inner Work and Self-Mastery29:44 Letting Go of Resentment37:12 Deserving...
2026-01-15
1h 06
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
My final episode for you - The importance of authenticity when healing from maternal narcissism
#narcissisticparent #narcissisticmanipulation #maternalnarcissism How may times have you felt suffocated? How many times have you felt your life did not belong to you? How many times did the trauma you carry dictate your life? In this episode you will get to understand what it means to be your authentic self and reflect on what parts of you might be blocking you and holding you back. Listen to the end to hear why this is my last episode and how you can keep connected with me in this time. š Sign up to the Newsletter her...
2025-10-14
35 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
What does not work when healing from maternal narcissism & the 3 steps that will make the real difference - Healing mother wounds
#narcissisticparent #narcissisticmanipulation #maternalnarcissism Have you become an expert in maternal narcissism only to still feel the pain it caused you every day? Have you set a million boundaries only to keep falling back into the old loop of pain?Ā Have you talked and talked about it, rationalised it in every possible way, only for all the copying patterns to still be showing up?Ā I get it. I've been doing what doesn't work for a long time, until I found what works and that has changed everything for me, and for my clients too! This is what I...
2025-10-07
42 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Have you been told you are too sensitive? How to process emotions when emotionality has been unsafe for you - A personal experience
#narcissisticparent #narcissisticmanipulation #maternalnarcissism Has your narcissistic mother labelled you too sensitive? Has she made it impossible for you to express your emotions growing up? You are not alone in this. My mother did that with me too. Do you now cry at movies what seems like too much? Do you feel weird about how much a book, or music will move you? In this episode I explain what happens when you are unsafe to process emotions in childhood with a narcissistic mother, how your system finds a safer way to let emotions surface and...
2025-09-30
36 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
What happens when a narcissistic mother grieves and 5 things you can do to protect yourself
#narcissisticparent #narcissisticmanipulation #maternalnarcissism What happens when a narcissistic mother grieves? Have you experience your mother grieving or going through other strong emotions? Are you struggling to find space for your own grief, as your mother takes it all up? Has she turned into a whole new monster in her grief? Iāve been through this with my mother several times, and it always ended up the same way: with her taking up all the space and sucking the life right out of every room she was in. The toxic behaviour of a narcissistic mother is...
2025-09-23
29 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
3 key factors impacting not just fertility but your vitality too - Special episode with Dr Aumatma Simmons
#narcissisticparent #narcissisticmanipulation #maternalnarcissism Have you been struggling with vitality? Have you been having difficulties conceiving? Trauma from maternal narcissism can be one of the causes that may be holding you back on your journey to motherhood, alongside some other very important factors. In this special episode Dr Aumatma Simmons offers great insights and easy to implement tips to support your body to unlock not only your fertility but your vitality too. š„Download your FREE Roadmap to Boundary Setting here⬠https://mailchi.mp/f3467d0d0009/your-boundary-roadmap Related episodes: Episode 56 How Trauma & Undea...
2025-09-18
52 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
2 steps to deal with fear of meeting your narcissistic mother and hypervigilance after going no contact ā What if I meet her?
#narcissisticparent #narcissisticmanipulation #maternalnarcissism Have you gone no contact and now you are living in constant fear of meeting your mother?Ā Do you feel anxious before going out in case youāll bump into her?Ā Or maybe you are worried she will do it on purpose and even come to your house unexpected?Ā I get it. Iāve personally been through that experience in different ways. And this fear can lead to crippling anxiety and hypervigilance. In this episode you will gain a deeper understanding of where the fear of meeting your mother after going n...
2025-09-16
27 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Is it true apology or manipulation with a narcissistic mother? How to tell the difference
#narcissisticparent #narcissisticmanipulation #maternalnarcissism Unsure if your mother is narcissistic because she occasionally says sorry? Do her apologies leave you confuse and feeling guilty? How do you know if it is a real apology or just another manipulation? In this episode you will learn the 5 factors that determine an apology and how to tell the difference between a real apology or another manipulation by your narcissistic mother. š„Download your FREE Roadmap to Boundary Setting here⬠https://mailchi.mp/f3467d0d0009/your-boundary-roadmap Related episodes: Episode 128 12 signs of enmeshed mother daughter relat...
2025-09-09
28 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Breaking free from victim energy for daughters of narcissistic mothers ā victim energy will hold you back unless you take these 2 steps
#narcissisticparent #narcissisticmanipulation #maternalnarcissism Do you feel alone against the world? Do you often feel like the struggle follows you? Do you feel stuck in a hopeless cycle of pain? I get it, I've been there for a long time in my life, until I learnt what kept me stuck there, and I'm sharing it in this episode with you. In this episode you will get: - to understand the difference between victimhood and victim energy, - why victim energy may be holding you back, - to learn the signs to recognise...
2025-09-02
33 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
20 things your narcissistic mother can say to invalidate your feelings ā the impact it has on adult daughters of narcissistic mothers & 3 steps to heal
#narcissisticparent #narcissisticmanipulation #maternalnarcissism Do you feel alone and crazy in how you feel most of the time, especially in relation to your narcissistic mother? If asked how you are feeling, do you struggle to respond? Or feel under pressure and scrutiny, maybe even unsafe to answer? In this episode you will get to recognise the most common phrases your narcissistic mother uses to invalidate your feelings. You will learn the impact that such toxic behaviour has on your adult life, and 3 steps to turn it around. What are the most common things a narcissistic mother...
2025-08-26
23 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
What happens when a narcissistic mother dies ā what to expect when a narcissistic parent dies
#narcissisticparent #narcissisticmanipulation #maternalnarcissism In this episode you will learn what to expect when your narcissistic mother dies, the 7 main emotional states you may experience when your narcissistic parent dies, and by listening till the end you will get 6 essential tips to help you navigate this time. š¤Apply to the 1:1 Inner Transformation Healing Mother Wounds 10 Weeks Programme here: https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/10-weeks-programme/ Are you wondering wondered what will happen when your elderly narcissistic mother passes away? Has your narcissistic mother passed away and you are wondering if what you are feeling is normal? Hav...
2025-08-19
33 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Unpacking the wound of feeling like a failure for adult children of narcissistic mothers ā where it comes from and 6 steps to turn it around from now
#narcissisticparent #narcissisticmanipulation #maternalnarcissism In this episode you will get to understand why you grew up feeling like a failure, the reasons behind this wound when your parent is narcissistic, and 6 steps to stop feeling like a failure in life. š¤ Sign up to RYF Online Community Waiting List here https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/ryf-online-community/ Are you feeling like a failure? Do you feel like you are feeling in life? It is time to stop feeling like a failure, and here are 6 steps to help you with that. It is common to feel like a f...
2025-08-12
30 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Golden child with narcissistic mother: the biggest pain of the golden child and how to recover
#goldenchild #narcissisticparent #narcissisticmanipulation #maternalnarcissism If you are the golden child in the family this episode is for you. In this episode you will get to understand what the deepest pain of the golden child is. Listen till the end to know how to recover from the life of the golden child. š¤ Sign up to RYF Online Community Waiting List here https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/ryf-online-community/ Listening to this episode you will learn the 8 signs you were the golden child in the family, the impact that the role of the golden child has on your life as...
2025-08-05
26 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Perfectionism holds you back: 10 signs to recognise it and 2 steps to help. A quick test for you to know if perfectionism is holding you back.
#narcissisticparent #narcissisticmanipulation #maternalnarcissism In this episode you will learn the 10 signs to recognise the kind of perfectionism that holds you back in life and where it comes from. Listen to the end to get the 2 steps you can take from now to start overcoming this pattern. Answer the questions to know if perfectionism is holding you back.Ā š¤ Sign up to RYF Online Community Waiting List here https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/ryf-online-community/ Listening to this episode you will learn not only to recognise the signs of perfectionism, the difference between healthy perfectionism and the unhealthy one, but...
2025-07-29
30 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
A Real Life Example of the Impact of Mother Wounds from Maternal Narcissism & How to Navigate it
What is the impact of maternal narcissism in your everyday life?Ā How does it affect you? Does it ever get to a point where we are done with all this work?? Today's episode is a little different. I am sharing with you a real life example of how we can navigate an event when mother wounds get triggered and activated.Ā Related episodes: https://audioboom.com/posts/8497948-the-number-1-antidote-to-self-doubt-from-maternal-narcissism https://audioboom.com/posts/8448900-understanding-the-impact-of-mother-wounds-from-maternal-narcissism ā Check out the links below⬠Access the FREE Self Love Guided Practice here: https://womenr...
2024-09-03
56 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
The Number 1 Solution to Guilt & Anxiety from Maternal Narcissism in Giving/Receiving Dynamics
Do you feel threatened or uncomfortable when someone is kind with you? Do you barely enjoy a gift before you race to find a way to give something in return? Do you hate to receive a favour because then you feel obliged to return it? Do you feel a wave of guilt when someone does something for you? All of the guilt and anxiety you are feeling around giving and receiving can very well be traced back to the conditioning youāve received growing up with a narcissistic mother. How do you feel towards your mo...
2024-08-27
30 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
How Healing From Maternal Narcissism Impacts Your Romantic Relationships
Has the way you relate with your partner changed since you started on this journey of healing mother wounds? Have you found yourself wondering if you are with the right person after all? Have you found you are less tolerant to some of your partnerās behaviours? Are you feeling confused and conflicted about it all? One of the most common questions I get is: Does this mean my marriage will fall apart?Ā Will I inevitably need to break up with them? In this episode I'm sharing how healing from maternal narcissism can...
2024-08-20
45 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
11 Signs You Are Experiencing Spiritual Abuse by your Narcissistic Mother & 5 Steps to Help you with it
Do you feel you may have experienced spiritual abuse by your narcissistic mother, but you are not sure? Are you still experiencing it now in your present-day life? If you have, and maybe still are, you are not alone in this! Spiritual abuse is a real thing! Today we are going to go through the signs to identify and recognise this kind of manipulation and how to deal with it.Ā This type of manipulation is cross cultural and not tied to one particular culture or tradition. In this episode Iām not ref...
2024-08-13
35 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Going deeper on the topic of Narcissistic Mothers-in-law & Mother/Son Relationship Dynamics with Mark Usher
In this Special Episode with Mark Usher - Relationship Coach for husbands and host of "Be the husband she brags about" Podcast - we go deeper into the topic of narcissistic mothers-in-law, exploring the dynamics of mother/son relationship. The purpose of this episode is to offer clarity and a safe healing space for both husbands and wives involved in this complex triangle, made even more intense when narcissistic traits in the mother-in-law are involved. Get in touch with Mark here⬠Podcast: https://audioboom.com/channels/5043839-be-the-husband-she-brags-about Men's Groups: https://www.kingsoffreedom.me/heroic-husbands-mens-circles/ U...
2024-08-08
1h 21
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Does Healing from Maternal Narcissism Mean Becoming More Tolerant to Abuse?
Do you measure your healing progress in terms how able you are to manage your motherās abusive behaviour? Do you feel you should be able to be functioning and adjusted to an abusive and dysfunctional relationship? In this episode I share the 4 phases of the journey of healing from maternal narcissism and what "Managing" truly means. Here are all the links⬠Access the FREE Self Love Guided Practice here: https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/ Apply for Reclaim Your Fullness Women Circles here: https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/women-circles/ Apply for the...
2024-08-06
31 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
How to Deal with the Challenges of Having a Narcissistic Stepmother
Have you ever wondered if your stepmother can be as damaging as a narcissistic mother? Do you feel like youāve lost your father or your other parent since this person came into their life? In this episode I offer an overview of the impact a narcissistic stepmother can have and how to deal with this challenge. All the link you need are here⬠Apply for Reclaim Your Fullness Women Circles here: https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/women-circles/ Apply for the 1:1 Inner Transformation Healing Mother Wounds Programme here: https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/10-weeks-programme/ ...
2024-07-30
29 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Why a Narcissistic Mother Wants You to Feel Alone & 4 Steps to Deal with it
How often do you feel completely alone? How often do you wonder if you are the only one experiencing something regarding your narcissistic mother? Are you the only one feeling constantly guilty and anxious, or ashamed, or angry? I want you to know that you are not alone! Yet most daughters of narcissistic mothers feel alone most of the time. I did too! Why? In this episode I cover why a narcissistic mother wants you to feel alone and I also share 4 steps to start healing this wound. Here are all the...
2024-07-23
31 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Dealing with Truth-telling with a Narcissistic Mother
How many times while growing up has your mother told you she knows best? How many times does she still use sentences like: āAnd thatās the truth.ā āI know exactly how these things work.ā āIāve been here longer than you, donāt pretend to know more than me.ā?? If you have been brought up by a narcissistic mother, chances are you have experienced some form of truth-telling by her. In this episode we talk about what truth-telling looks like, the impact that this has and how to heal. All the links you need...
2024-07-16
32 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
4 Steps to Break the Pattern of Calling your Narcissistic Mother for Validation
Do you ever feel the need to call your mother to tell her your good news, only to be disappointed with her reaction? Do you feel the need to share with her whatās going on in your life even knowing she will respond in a way thatās hurtful for you? If you do, I get it. I've spent hours on the phone to my mother hoping to get from her what was never going to come, like support and validation. The result was always hurt and disappointment. In this episode I share 4 steps to b...
2024-07-09
25 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
No Contact - 4 Most Frequently Asked Questions & the Answers
In this episode I'm answering the 4 questions I get asked the most about no contact. If you are no contact or if you are thinking about going no contact, you need to listen to this. All the useful links are here⬠Access the FREE Self Love Guided Practice here https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/ Apply for he 1:1 10 Weeks Inner Transformation Healing Mother Wounds Programme here https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/10-weeks-programme/ Apply for Reclaim Your Fullness Women Circles here https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/women-circles/ And your question and share your experience by...
2024-07-02
31 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
3 Steps to Reclaim Yourself as a Daughter of a Narcissistic Mother
Do you ever feel like you have no idea who you are? Is this happening more and more since you learnt about maternal narcissism and started your healing journey? Does this feel confusing and uncomfortable? If you are nodding right now, thinking, "Yes, this is exactly how I feel!" I get it. Iāve been there, and still am. And you are so not alone in this!Ā Being brought up by a narcissistic mother stifles the natural development of your identity. As a child you had to learn very soon how to maintain your attachment nee...
2024-06-25
27 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
The 1 Thing You've Yet to Try when Dealing with Your Narcissistic Mother
Do you feel like youāve tried everything with your narcissistic mother, and nothing has worked? Have you collected enough techniques to fill a book and still no results? Do you feel frustrated, defeated and on the verge of giving up? I get it, as this has been my experience too. But don't get discouraged, as there may be 1 thing you've yet to try, and I share it in this episode! Access the FREE Self Love Guided Practice here⬠https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/ Apply for the 1:1 10 Weeks Inner Transformation Healing Mother Wound Prog...
2024-06-18
20 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
17 Signs you are dealing with a Narcissistic Mother-in-law & 7 Tips to Make Your Life Easier
Have you been feeling your mother-in-law's behaviour has a negative impact on you and your family life, but can't quite put the finger on it? Does she intrude in your life constantly disregarding the boundaries you set? Does everyone tell you how lucky you are with such a m0ther-in-law and you feel like the only one to see her true face? If your answer is yes, you might be dealing with a narcissistic mother-in-law, or one with strong narcissistic traits. She here are 17 signs to recognise a narcissistic mother-in-law and 7 tips to make your life a...
2024-06-11
31 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
The Number 1 Reason Why No Contact Fails & What To Do
Are you no contact with your narcissistic mother and finding it challenging to maintain it? Are you constantly getting sucked back in? Are you battling with wanting to know how your mother is reacting to your decision but not wanting to break the no contact? And if you are thinking of going no contact, then you need to hear this now. In this episode I share the number 1 reason why no contact fails and what to do to about it. Access the FREE Self Love Guided Practice here⬠https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/ Ap...
2024-06-04
32 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Attention seeking or real need with a narcissistic mother's demands? How to tell the difference & protect yourself
Does your mother ever ring you at crazy times to ask for things you know she could easily get done without you? Does she require you to do errands with her you know she could easily do by herself? Does she ever require you to sort and fix things for her, when you have no idea how to, and calling a professional was the only thing to do from the start? Is this constant stream of demands leaving you feeling: šø frustrated because her demands are getting more absurd,Ā šø confused about her behaviour,Ā šø bad about feeling she...
2024-05-28
40 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Wedding Planning with a Narcissistic Mother - What can happen & How to deal with
āAre you in the middle of planning your wedding and your mother is driving you crazy? āAre you in a committed relationship but afraid to take the next step as you donāt know how you could possibly handle a wedding with your mother being involved? āWas planning your wedding with your mother such a nightmare that you are terrified about planning anything else? āOr are you wishing more than anything that your mother would get involved, but she is dismissing your wedding as if it was just another day? There are so many expectations and social...
2024-05-21
44 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Infantilization with a narcissistic mother - How to spot it & protect from it
Does your mother still treat you like a child? Does she regularly interfere with your life because she knows better? Has she resisted any signs that you were growing up, like moving out, going to college, going out with your friends, getting married etc? Do you ever have to tell her āIām an adult now, I know what Iām doing!ā only to be met with incredulity? If your answer is yes, you may have experienced a manipulation tactic called infantilization. In this episode you'll get clarity: - on what this is, - why a...
2024-05-14
36 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
5 Steps to Survive Mother's Day with a Narcissistic Mother
Motherās day is coming up and it is a challenging time for daughters of narcissistic mothers, so I decided to do a special episode to address this topic before the date. At this time... Demands are going to be at unusual high. Expectations are going to be loaded. Guilt tripping will reach a new level. Social pressure is going to be as intense as ever. Bottom line is, this one day of the year has the potential of being the worst ever and the days approaching it can be a true nightmare. So...
2024-05-08
25 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Can a Narcissistic Mother Have Empathy??
Have you ever been confused by the fact that your mother fits in with a narcissistic mother description and yet she seems to have empathy? Ā Have you ever felt her empathy manifests somewhat out of place when directed at you?Ā If you felt that way, I get it! I've been confused over this for a while once finding out my mother was a narcissist, as she seemed to have some empathy at times.Ā In this episode we get to dive into what empathy is and, most of all, answer the question, can a narcissistic mother have empathy? Is...
2024-05-07
31 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
How Trauma & Undealt Wounds Impact Your Menstrual Cycle with Antoinette Mc Weeney
Is your cycle painful and difficult each month? Did your mother tell you not to talk about your cycle, and to just get on with it? Do you feel overwhelmed by emotions during your cycle? If your answer is yes, I truly feel you.Ā And I want you to know that it doesn't have to be that way! Reason why I invited our special guest, Antoinette Mc Weeney to share her expertise on the topic, and to explain how Homeopathy can help with so much when it comes to our menstrual cycle, the trauma that c...
2024-05-02
56 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
The Number 1 Antidote to Self Doubt from Maternal Narcissism
Do you constantly second guess yourself? Do you go back and forth on your decisions, unsure if you are making the right ones? Is there a voice in your head constantly telling you how not good enough you are? Do you often feel like the least interesting person in the room, needing to work the hardest to be accepted? If your answer is yes, then you know how big an impact self doubt has on your life. And I get it!Ā It used to control my life completely, and I still deal with self doubt e...
2024-04-30
30 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
8 Steps to Survive a Visit from your Vulnerable Narcissistic Mother
Has your mother told you she is coming to visit and you don't know how you are going to handle it? Does your mother visit often leaving you feeling drained and miserable each time? Does she demand your complete attention, making you feeling guilty if you don't give it to her? Here are 8 steps to navigate a visit from your vulnerable narcissistic mother. Step number 8 is especially important!! To join Reclaim Your Fullness Women Circle apply here⬠https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/women-circles/ Apply here for the 10 Weeks 1:1 Inner Transformation healing Mother Wounds Programme⬠...
2024-04-23
53 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Dealing with Intense Emotions as a Result of Maternal Narcissism
Do your emotions feel too strong and intense to deal with? Do you feel crushed by waves of anxiety, anger, jealousy, sadness...? If yes... Have you ever wondered if there's something wrong with you? If you are broken and unfixable?? I've been there and I truly get it! And as daughters of narcissistic mothers, many of us feel this way often if not all the time! Let me start with the most important part: you are not broken! And you don't need fixing! And your beautiful and sensitive heart has been through a lot...
2024-04-16
42 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Dealing with Love-bombing from a Narcissistic Mother
Does your narcissistic mother ever use love-bombing to make you feel guilty or to get you to do what she needs of you?Ā What is love-bombing in the context of maternal narcissism?Ā How does it look like and how can you tell the difference between love-bombing and true motherly love?Ā When a narcissistic mother uses love-bombing, this can leave you feeling confused, crushed by guilt, alone, frustrated because you fell for it again, anxious because you don't know when the put-downs will come next... In this episode we get to have a closer look to...
2024-04-09
50 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
14 Signs of a Narcissistic Grandmother and How to Deal with her
How is your narcissistic mother behaving when around your children? Have you noticed her toxic behaviour now being projected at her grandchildren?Ā Do you feel conflicted between bringing your children to their grandmother and protecting them from her narcissism?Ā How can you even tell if your mother has become a narcissistic grandmother?Ā In this episode I share 14 signs to identify a narcissistic grandmother and some clarity as to how to deal with her. If you had a narcissistic grandmother and would like to share your experience or have questions about that email Matilde at...
2024-04-02
1h 16
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Dealing with Birthdays when IN Contact with your Narcissistic Mother
As promised, here is the birthday episode for those still In Contact. In this episode we go through all the main challenges that come up when it is your mother's birthday approaching and also when it's your birthday coming up, and also offer some clarity as to how to deal with it all while still being in contact with your mother. Share any questions or your experience with Matilde by emailing at matilde@womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me Apply to join Reclaim Your Fullness Women Circles here⬠https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/women-circles/ Access the FREE Self Lo...
2024-03-26
46 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
How a Second Mother Figure Helps You Survive Your Narcissistic Mother
How does mother energy feel? How can you recognise it if you've never been modelled it by your mother? How can you be a second mother figure for someone else?Ā Ā A very important part in the journey of healing from mother wounds is to learn to mother yourself, accessing the mother energy that is indeed within you. But not ever having received this energy from our mothers, that's easier said than done. In this episode I offer clarity as to what mother energy is, how you can find examples of it in your life and also ho...
2024-03-19
42 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Birthdays When No Contact with your Narcissistic Mother
Whether it's your mother's birthday coming up, or your own, both these situation can be extremely challenging when you are no contact.Ā Strong intense emotions can be triggered, like guilt, anxiety, grief, sadness, loneliness, all causing you pain and to run into the risk of breaking the no contact.Ā Birthdays are also a time when flying monkeys can come to the attack, and use your moment of vulnerability to get you back in the loop of narcissistic manipulation.Ā How can you deal with all this? How can you protect yourself while navigating the emotions emerging?Ā In this...
2024-03-12
42 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
The ABC of Maternal Narcissistic Manipulation
Have you ever asked yourself: "Why is my mother nice at times and abusive other times?" "Why is she always nicer around others and then gets abusive behind closed doors?" "Why some visits/phone calls go ok and others feel terrible?" You may have noticed ups and downs and inconsistency in your mother's behaviour towards you, causing you confusion, conflicting emotions, guilt, feeling like the crazy one for seeing things... But why is she like that??? The key word in the narcissistic game is manipulation. In this episode we go in depth on this...
2024-03-05
48 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
5 Steps to Overcome the Impulse of Ringing Your Narcissistic Mother
Do you need days to recover after every call with your mother and yet you still feel the impulse to call? Do you feel the need to contact your mother when something challenging happens to you? Do you need to consult her every time you have a decision to make? Do you feel guilty if you decide something about your life, without talking to her first? If you answered yes to any of the above, I totally get it! I've been no contact for over 2 years and sometimes that impulse to call gets in strong...
2024-02-27
31 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
The Myth of Normal With a Narcissistic Mother
Have you ever asked yourself: "Why am I not normal??" "Why do I not fit in??" "Why do I have to go through all of this when other seem so normal??" If you have, I get it. I've been there many times and I've cried a lot over the feeling of not fitting in. I truly feel you. And my mother was no help with that... All she said to me has made it worse. But what is "normal"? Is there such a thing? In this episode I want to share with you...
2024-02-20
20 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Unpacking What's Holding You Back Healing From Maternal Narcissism
Have you ever made arrangements to get help, to then pull back? If you were to book a call with me, would you feel nervous, anxious or even in a panic right before? Does a lot come up in your life that feel outside of your control and hold you back? If you answered yes, and if you have noticed this kind of a pattern in your life, this could be a sign of an avoidance pattern being active, coming from a protective strategies to keep you from feeling the same pain you felt growing up...
2024-02-13
45 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
People-Pleasing as a Result of Maternal Narcissism-Recognising it & How to stop
Do you try your best to meet everyone elseās needs before yours? Do you get very upset if you think someone doesnāt like you or has a problem with you? Do you find it very difficult to say no to people around you? Do you get exhausted by having to interact with others? The pattern of People-Pleasing is one we can easily fall into as daughters of narcissistic mothers, as we carry wounds such as "I am unlovable" or "I am not enough". Constantly seeking validation and approval, seeking to be love...
2024-02-06
40 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Understanding The Impact Of Mother Wounds From Maternal Narcissism
ā” Have you ever felt you needed to perform in order to be loved or accepted by others? ā” Do you lose your cool when things donāt feel in control? Like when something unexpected happens, or when someone surprises you, or you need to access a new environment?Ā ā” Do you go back and forth in your mind when you need to make a decision, feeling the need for permission or validation?Ā ā” When strong emotions come in, do you feel the need to distract or to soothe with coping methods, like a glass of wine for example, or getting busy, or get...
2024-01-30
42 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Unpacking The Role Of The Enabling Father With A Narcissistic Mother
I'm finally getting a window of electricity to upload this episode!! Thank you for your patience!! Do you ever ask yourself why your father never stopped what was happening between you and your mother? Or why did he stay with a woman like your mother? Or maybe why he left you with her?? Did he ever dismissed or minimised what you tried to tell him about how your mother hurt you? Or maybe he listened and acknowledge it, but in the end didnāt do a thing⦠Or perhaps you never met your father... ...
2024-01-24
41 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Breaking Free From The Pain Of Working For Your Narcissistic Mother
Does your job involve being in close contact with your narcissistic mother? Maybe you work for her, or maybe you work for the family business and she is also involved, or maybe you were meant to work for her and you decided not to but the guilt from your decision still haunts you...Ā Maybe you really want something to change but you feel stuck and don't know where to start... In this episode you get clarity on what are the main challenges of being in a work relationship with your narcissistic mother, or narcissistic family, and what a...
2024-01-16
51 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
4 Steps To Reclaim Your Identity When Your Mother Is A Narcissist
Do you feel confused about who you are? Do you feel so emmeshed with your mother that you don't know where to start separating what is you and what isn't? Do you find it hard to set boundaries? Growing up with a narcissistic mother has stifled the natural development of your own identity, which has led you to live a life where you are not truly yourself, and when you don't know who you are it's a lot harder to set boundaries and be independent from your mother. In this episode you get to...
2024-01-09
49 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
How To Overcome Guilt With A Narcissistic Mother
How many times do you feel guilty where your mother is concerned? How often do you feel responsible for her situation? How often do you feel whatever she is throwing at you is your fault? As daughter of narcissistic mothers we were conditions from a very young age to suppress our needs and to feel responsible for our mother emotional state, activating the guilt pattern. In this episode I share with you my personal experience with guilt and 7 steps to overcome it. Access the Free Self Love Guided Practice here⬠https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/
2024-01-02
51 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
How To Unblock Your Creativity After Suffering From Maternal Narcissism With Val Young
Do you feel an impulse to be creative (doing art, in your work, while cooking...) but feel blocked? Do you feel judged and not capable every time you do something creative? Does you Inner Critic put you down when you think about being creative? The trauma that comes from having a narcissistic mother can leave you feeling all that and more, blocking your creativity right out.Ā In this special episode, renowned artist and illustrator Val Young offers her in depth knowledge on how to bring back creativity in your every day life. Together in this p...
2023-12-28
1h 03
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Why New Year's Resolutions Don't Work For Daughters Of Narcissistic Mothers
Do you feel a rising sense of dread and anxiety as you come to the beginning of a new year? Do you look back on the year gone by and feel more like a failure than ever before? Do you compare what you've accomplished with others' achievements and feel like you come up short? Is your mother's voice loud in your head? Telling you how not good enough you are, how you should have done better?? I get it!! At this time of the year there's lots of information being promoted on New Year's resolutions...
2023-12-26
49 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
The Importance Of Embodiment When Healing Mother Wounds with Meghan Mahealani
In this Special Episode with Meghan we spoke to: šøAccessing Divine Mother energy within, šøHow to deal with intense emotions in an embodied way, šøBreath and movement as essential tools on your healing journey, šøThe process of reclaiming your identity, disentangling from your mother And more! Access the Free Self-Love Guided Practice here⬠https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/ For any questions or to share your experience email Matilde at matilde@womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me Check out Meghan's work here⬠https://ambamethod.com/ https://www.instagram.com/meghanmahealani/ https://ambamethod.com/f...
2023-12-21
58 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
15 Signs Your Mother Is A Covert Narcissist
Do you ever feel like you are the only one that sees your mother's behaviour for what it is? Are you told by others that you are too sensitive or that you see too much in her behaviour? Do you feel isolated and not understood when it comes to speaking to the toxic patterns that seem clear only to you? A mother that is a covert, or more correctly, a vulnerable narcissist, can leave you feeling miserable, drained, depresses, anxious and guilty after every interaction and she can do that in really subtle ways, that can be...
2023-12-19
54 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
5 Keys To Get Your Partner Understand You With Mark Usher
Do you find it hard to communicate with your husband/partner about the challenges you are experiencing because of maternal narcissism? Do you feel like you are the only "broken one" in the relationship? The only one with trauma to deal with? Does your husband/partner dismiss your pain or tries to fix you?? In this episode, our special guest Mark Usher, Relationship Coach for husbands, host of "Be the husband she brags about" Podcast and my husband, offers us 5 keys to improve communication and bring a new level of understanding within your relationship. In...
2023-12-14
1h 38
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
"Decoding The Fantasy Of What Women Want" with Matilde Crocini
Join Mark and his Queen on a unique journey to decoding what women most want in their life partners by recognising the secret signs that lie in all successful romantic fantasy books written for female audiences. The male characters in the love relationships in these books embody with total clarity how the ideal masculine partner shows up in intimate relating. This provocatively challenging episode is only appropriate for husbands with the spiritual balls to get humble, and prepare the ground of their being to raise their inner world and relationship standards like never before. ...
2023-12-08
1h 51
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
8 Keys To Break The Cycle Of Maternal Narcissism When Becoming A Mother
"How do I know I'm not repeating the same patterns as my mother with my own child?" "How can I even become a mum when my mother didn't model anything good for me?" "Am I going to be the same as my mother??" These are the questions that can naturally come up when you realise your mother is a narcissist and you start recognising some of the patterns in your own relationship with your child... But what is the key difference between you and your mother? Listen to the full episode to hear the...
2023-12-05
42 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
4 Tools You Need if Your Mother Is A Narcissist
Are you ever feeling crushed and overwhelmed by intense emotions? Do you ever feel like you've done so much work and yet you still get so much anxiety, sadness, loneliness, frustration and so on? Do you ever feel like it's too much and there's no way out?? I get it! I felt that way for a long time, and I get days like that still. None of what you feel is your fault, none of what happened to you s your fault! And you have the power to turn it all around!Ā In this e...
2023-11-28
53 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
The Key To Successful No Contact During Holiday Season
Are you finding it challenging to maintain no contact during the holiday season? Does your mother use holidays and special events as an excuse to contact you and you have enough of it? Maybe you are thinking of going no contact but don't know how to go about it, especially with the upcoming holidays... In this episode I answer questions I received from some of you amazing women about how to keep a successful active no contact during the holiday season. Here is the link to download the "Quick Guide to create your Sacred...
2023-11-21
46 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
How To Survive The Holiday Season With A narcissistic Mother/Family
Are you dreading the approaching holiday season, with all the family gatherings, obligations, and so on? Do you feel a lot of anxiety around it? Or perhaps this feels like an unhappy time because of your mother? Maybe the sense of loneliness and isolation is stronger for you at this time of the year? I get that! In this episode we explore the ways a narcissistic mother can weaponize the holidays, and a few tips to turn this time of the year around. š„SPECIAL OFFER: Sign up now for the next wave of the...
2023-11-14
42 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
The Number One Wound From Maternal Narcissism & How It Impacts Your Life
Over my 15 years working with women, and indeed in my own personal experience, Iāve observed how despite all that we go through, despite the pain we feel daily, despite life not going our way at all, despite all the suffering and unhappiness, we still hesitate when it comes to do something for ourselves.Ā Do you feel that way? Does that ever happen to you? To know something would truly benefit you and be there anxious and worried itās not the right decision and so on?? Why do we do that? Thereās a deep...
2023-10-31
49 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
The Impact Of Maternal Narcissism In Relating With Others
Do you feel comfortable among people? Or does interacting with others leave you drained and exhausted?? Would you describe yourself as introverted, shy, not a people person?? Or are you the soul of the party, yet somehow still feeling lonely on the inside?? Growing up with a narcissistic mother truly impacts the way we relate to others, leaving us with the biggest pain yet... The pain of trying to be someone we are not! In this episode you get to understand what is behind all that pain, and how to shift it...
2023-10-24
47 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
10 Ways A Narcissistic Mother Controls Your Beliefs
A narcissistic mother imposes her own truths and beliefs, and not empowering ones of course, on her children, as a very effective way to keep them in her control and fill her tank.Ā By controlling your beliefs, a narcissistic mother controls you.Ā My mother didnāt miss a chance to box me and define me, so I could be more manageable for her, and manageable means easier to control. Let's look at how that happens and what you can do to break free of those limiting beliefs! Important! Registration for the 1:1 10 week...
2023-10-17
43 min
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
3 Steps To Stopping Resentment Kill Your Marriage
Resentment is the ultimate corrosive acid in love, which if ignored, relentlessly gnaws away at the foundations of your marriage. This episode will help you recognise signs of resentment and most importantly, provide a systematic conversational platform to reveal and heal this deadly enemy of loving connection. Ā Ā Ā Letās beginā¦.Ā Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDonāt...
2023-10-11
57 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
No Contact With A Narcissistic Mother: The Challenges & How To Do It
Have you tried everything to keep a relationship with your narcissistic mother but the pain is too much? Are you thinking about going no contact but you don't know where to start? Are you no contact already and finding it truly challenging? In this episode I speak to my experience being no contact with my mother for the past 2 years, all the challenges of this decision and how to go about it in the most effective way. IMPORTANT: New spaces opening to join 1:1 10 Weeks Inner Transformation Healing Mother Wounds Programme...
2023-10-10
57 min
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
"Stop Parenting And Start Leading" with Thomas Pfanner
We welcome in the inspiring Thomas Pfanner and his heroic story of learning leadership in parenting under extreme circumstances. Having to seek legal aid to just hold his son in his arms two weeks after his birth to learning to deal with years of persistent resistance and kickback to his leadership as a father, Thomas would face an uphill battle to overcome all the odds and successfully be a great father. Itās a story every family man needs to hear. Letās beginā¦. To connect with Thomas: Website: Dads Who Lead
2023-10-05
1h 14
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
3 Ways To Stop Screwing Up Communication In Marriage
What kills marriages is poor communication. 99.99% of poor communication involves three classic steps that create nothing but disconnection and mistrust. Conscious communication involves doing these three steps in exactly the opposite order! This episode gives you the complete Heroic Husbands conscious communication approach that husbands inside Heroic Husbands Menās Circles are using to totally transform their marriages. If you are serious about transforming your marriage, this is one episode you cannot miss! Letās beginā¦. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Person...
2023-10-04
1h 22
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
8 Steps To Overcome Procrastination As A Result Of Maternal Narcissism
Do you find yourself procrastinating? Ā Ā Do you find yourself avoiding those actions that you know would be good for you or important to achieve your dreams? Ā Ā Do you severely judge yourself for that? Ā Ā In this episode you gain clarity on what procrastination means, how it can be linked to maternal narcissism, and most importantly 8 steps you can implement form now to support you. Ā Ā To know more about Reclaim Your Fullness Women Circle Ā https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/women-circles/ To access the FREE Self Love Guided Practice https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/ Ā ...
2023-10-03
53 min
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
This One Mindset Change Guarantees You Will Win In Marriage
A positive mentality is essential to creating success in any arena. In the Octagon of marriage, mentality is crucial. Most husbands mentality in marriage unwittingly sets them up for inevitable and severe loss of love and connection. In this episode Mark reveals the single most effective mentality with which to approach your marriageā¦..but only if you truly want to become the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship!!! Letās beginā¦. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW
2023-09-28
31 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
The Effects Of Maternal Narcissism Through Generations & How To Break The Cycle With Debra Kilby
Have you heard the say "It didn't start with you"? So when did it all start?? In this special episode with Debra you get to gain clarity on how far in the past the patterns started, on how to break the cycle of family trauma and wounding,Ā and what is necessary when you decide to give birth to a child or a project that is close to your heart. You will also gain some wonderful insights on how to reconnect with the sweet, nourishing mother energy that is indeed inside of you. So l...
2023-09-28
1h 05
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
The One Essential Move To Win Her Heart Back Forever
Ignore whatās presented in this episode and your marriage is doomed to long-term struggle or ultimate failure. Integrate this episodeās wisdom and sheās guaranteed to open her heart forever more with you. Letās beginā¦. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDonāt Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and...
2023-09-27
1h 10
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
The Big Trap We Fall Into As Daughters Of Narcissistic Mothers
If all that has happened to you is not your fault, then who's fault is it?? Being a podcast about maternal narcissism, it is easy to assume that the fault falls on our mothers.Ā Who here has not blamed their mother for something or another?! And yet, this can lead us into a trap... Right into a very disempowering place, where we keep the cycle of pain going on and on... Today we look into Blame, and how not to fall into this trap, coming instead to a place within where we feel grounded, e...
2023-09-26
46 min
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
"How Your Phone Is Wrecking Your Relationships" with Joey Odom
Get ready to enjoy a truly passionate conversation with the legendary Joey Odom from Aro on todayās episode. Ā Ā Joey tells his heart-breaking stories of missed family memories because of getting stuck scrolling through meaningless stuff on his social media feed. Sound familiar? Ā This is a much-needed no-BS conversation between family men on what is truly at stake if we donāt wake up to the damage of uncontrolled phone usage on our family and marital dynamics. Ā Ā Joey gifts us the #1 highest leverage and simple to implement strategy to transform your marriage starting from today. Itās simp...
2023-09-21
1h 13
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
10 Hacks To Unlock Your Sexual Peak Performance Tonight
Part of a 2-part special series, this episode introduces you to ten epic techniques and strategies to get you out of your head and deeply into your animal body ready for wild sex with your Queen.Ā Ā Most men struggle to switch their heads off during sex resulting in women being the first to lose interest in sex in long-term relationships most of the time. Stuck in your head, the sex for her is dead! Armed with these super-simple ideas you are set up for the best sex yet to happen the next time you and your Qu...
2023-09-20
1h 02
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
How To Navigate The Impact Of Maternal Narcissism On Friendship
Do you find friendship with women to be challenging? Is it easier for you to make friends with men? As daughters of narcissistic mothers there are a few factors at play when it comes to opening up and be truly safe in trusting women, and it is important to be aware of all that before jumping to judgement both of yourself and others.Ā In this episode we explore all that in depth offering a different way to approach the entire topic, allowing you to navigate this challenge with a new perspective.Ā If you ar...
2023-09-19
50 min
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
1 Bedtime Secret To Never Go Soft Or Explode Too Soon!
Tons of men around the planet often have the sexual experience of either being frustratingly too soft or prematurely ejaculating too soon. Unnecessary sexual shame with our inner critic beating the shit out of ourselves ensues, with us forming a love/hate relationship with having sex with our Queens. This episode shares one simple breathwork awareness and practice that will support you mastering your sexual performance when it counts the most. Letās beginā¦. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min...
2023-09-14
31 min
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
8 Reasons You Should Never Do Marriage Therapy
Mark reveals his eight personal reasons why marriage therapy is the last thing he would ever advise a man or couple to start doing in the hopes to save their marriage. Blunt, no-BS straight talking on what could be one of the most important potential decisions of your adult life.Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDonāt Miss The Up...
2023-09-13
1h 05
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Don't You Have Enough Of Proving Your Narcissistic Mother Right?!
A provocative title for a provocative episode today! Don't you have enough of proving you narcissistic mother right?! I certainly do!! To know more about what I mean by proving her right, listen to the full episode! To know more or to apply for Reclaim Your Fullness Women Circle here is the link: https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/women-circles/ To know more about the offer of a 10 weeks Inner Transformation 1:1 Programme Healing from maternal narcissism contact me at matilde@womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me Please note: Only 4 spaces available for the 1:1 programme, registration closes...
2023-09-12
27 min
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
"Loving Your Queen Who's Been Sexually Abused" with Matilde Crocini
The #MeToo movement awakened global awareness of the extraordinary number of women who have experienced sexual abuse.Yet very little is spoken of the immense struggle this widespread wounding creates in the private lives of married couples around the planet. Husbands doing their best to love but feeling like their best is never enough, while their Queens often never feel seen, heard or safe in the relationship living with the secret cross of shame and alienation. Ā Ā In this special episode, Mark and his Queen Matilde, pull back the curtains on their journey of healing al...
2023-09-08
1h 41
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
Masculine Archetypes: The 4 Secret Superpowers of Heroic Husbands
Four untapped super powers lay dormant within you. Lying dormant, marriage will always be an unending struggle.Reactivated, these four super powers will have you rise to becoming the marriage transforming hero of your relationship.These are your 4 Masculine Archetypes: King, Warrior, Magician, Lover.Do you have the spiritual curiosity to activate them and reveal your greatest expressed power as the Heroic Husband you were born to be?(I know your Queen would be passionately curious to see what this man would look and feel like!!!!)Let's begin..... Will you do...
2023-09-06
1h 16
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
The 1 Thing To Avoid If Your Mother Is A Narcissist
When you hear a woman speaking about her mother like she is her best friend, how do you feel? When you scroll on social media and see women that made it, that healed everything, that have the perfect everything, how do you feel? Do you feel truly inspired, or maybe happy for them?? Or do you use their success as a measure for your failures? When the result of meeting a woman that is doing very good at something is that we feel a bitter taste in the mouth, it means we...
2023-09-05
1h 01
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
Conscious Parenting From Six Years in San Quentin Prison with Wayne Boatwright
Enjoy this riveting conversation with Wayne Boatwright detailing his profound journey of rehabilitation and healing before, during and after his six-year sentence in the notoriously brutal San Quentin prison.Ā Ā Ā From the depths of his hellish situation, Wayne tells his heroic tale of finding extraordinary ways to show up and father his children despite the obvious obstacle of being stuck in prison.Ā Ā This is epic healing medicine for the masculine soul. Letās beginā¦.Ā Ā To connect with Wayne:Ā About Me ā Wayne A. Boatwright. To create in any form takes courage, I⦠| by Wayne Boatwright...
2023-09-01
1h 38
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
Marriage Hell To Masculine Heaven Through Mind Mastery
The outer hell of a failing marriage invites us men to attain our freedom looking elsewhere.Ā Some men will look outwardly gazing at all the potential freedom they could enjoy if they just got to fu!k away from their wives; some acting on this impulse, others leaving it in the unspoken fantasy realms. Ā Others look inside into the true source of all their suffering: their mind.Ā Ā Great masculine spiritual practice in marriage involves looking inside to rediscover your greatest freedom and then sharing this embodied freedom as devotional love with your Queen. Ā Ā Mark d...
2023-08-31
54 min
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
My Purpose-Driven Career Change in Full Family Life with Michael Hegarty
In this episode we welcome in Michael Hegarty. After a successful 20-year banking career, Michael went from career and income ending uncertainty, to find his purpose building his bespoke leadership coaching business around his unique gift to āsee the greatness in others.āĀ The challenge of pursuing this massive career change was met whilst leading his family including four kids of school-going age. Enjoy a beautifully open and vulnerable conversation where Michael invites us into his masculine spiritual journey to embodying radical liberated authenticity, while using his family life as an inspiration not a limitation. To co...
2023-08-24
1h 27
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
The One Thing That Saved My Marriage Last Weekend
In this episode Mark shares on how a super intense conversation with his Queen would have classically ended in a marriage-ending style face-off if not for the practice of one key strategy: segment intending. This episode letās you in on how to use this marriage transforming strategy to rejuvenate even the most subdued connection into an inferno of felt love and connection together. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Ma...
2023-08-23
51 min
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
Becoming A Confident and Trusted Husband with Four Arrows
We welcome back in the amazing Four Arrows, guest speaker at the United Nations General Assembly 2023, to gift us sacred elder wisdom on how to show up more confidently as a man in marriage and life. Ā Deep wisdom on harnessing the power of your mind to reach levels of performance and courage you never thought were accessible for you before. Ā His ending story detailing his experience undergoing an appendicectomy surgery without medicinal anaesthesia is worth the entry ticket alone! Letās beginā¦..Ā To connect with Four Arrows: Four Arrows Wild Horse Hypnotist - YouTube...
2023-08-17
1h 15
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
3 Steps To Deep Intimacy Any Dude Can Nail
One of the greatest struggles in marriage for nearly every husband on the planet is trying to figure out how to create deep intimacy. This is especially true when, the further into marriage you go, the more disconnection and stagnation there is in most marriage experiences. So how is the well-intentioned regular guy in marriage meant to suddenly figure this challenge of creating deep intimacy in the moment? Hereās how, of course! Letās beginā¦.. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW
2023-08-16
47 min
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
The 7 Deadly Sins of Narcissistic Mother-In-Laws
Special return guest, Matilde Crocini (my beautiful Queen!), rocks the socks off us all in her in-depth surgical analysis of narcissistic mother-in-laws. Unchecked, narcissistic mother-in-laws can create havoc and destruction in your marriage.Enjoy Mark and Matilde's ring-side-seat experiences of overcoming the destructive narcissistic traits and behaviours demonstrated in Matilde's mother.Get ready to enter an uncensored revelatory ride of awakening awareness on this essential topic!!!Ā To connect with Matilde:Women Reclaiming Their Fullness ā Women reclaiming Their FullnessDaughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcastWill you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Sel...
2023-08-10
1h 34
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
Today My Queen Ripped Through My Mediocrity Justifying BS!
Raw, real and delivered fresh from the octagon of my marriage today! Enjoy!Ā Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDonāt Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice mes...
2023-08-09
34 min
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
Why Every Husband Listening Should Get Remarried Soon!
It's a fun title that speaks to one of the most transformative healing perspectives any husband can bring into his marriage transformation journey. This little known trick establishes a way of communicating that can burn up years of resentment in a surprisingly playful way leaving you the path of least resistance to creating the marriage of your dreams.Let's begin....Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming...
2023-08-03
38 min
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
How To Upgrade Your Commitment and Enter Hero Husband Status
Most husbands subconsciously think that exchanging marriage vows was the biggest commitment, yet that moment in the nervous system of our Queens doesn't count for sh1t compared with moment to moment embodied commitment.Deriving deep inspiration from a mountaineer's perspective on the miraculous powers of commitment, welcome to a direct challenge to up-level your commitment levels to a standard your Queen is irrefutably inspired by.Let's begin......Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the...
2023-08-02
40 min
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
Be Like A Monk Who Loves To F!ck
The cultural shaming of desire has created one of the most destructive unspoken forces poisoning marriages in the modern era. Ā Our primal body loves the radically alive feeling that desire in itās broadest sense affords us, including but not limited to itās expression in sexual intimacy.Ā Yet, the culturally conditioned collective mindset of humanity has been indoctrinated into believing desire is somehow wrong.Ā It's time to open our minds up to a spiritually centred perspective on desire that allows us show up as the love liberating beings we were born to be. Letā...
2023-07-27
1h 04
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
Marriage Is a Lonely Dogfight Without Brotherly Love and Support
A sad tragedy of modern living is that 99% of husbands are feeling lonely in marriage and life.Ā We men are missing the spiritual nourishment of genuine deep connection with other men and often our marriages are unwittingly taking a destructive hit because of this.Ā The subconscious boy energy patterns of neediness see our wives as the only source of love. This breeds the common catchphrase, ācanāt live with her, canāt live without herā.Ā Almost all men suffer feelings of resentment and rejection when their wives donāt meet their attachment needs in the moment.Ā
2023-07-26
42 min
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
Masculine Words Of Safety For Marriage First Aid Moments
The great feminine emotional wound is fearing abandonment in love. Unwittingly most husbands trigger this wound in deeply emotional moments with their wives by trying to suggest a fix or solution to the problem. The counter-intuitive trick to fixing a shitty feeling emotional moment your wife is experiencing is by meeting her there fully in that moment. In this episode I share a list of high leverage words to say that will be medicine for your Queenās soul to relax into knowing her Conscious King is on duty. Letās beginā¦. Wi...
2023-07-20
39 min
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers Podcast Trailer
Hello and Welcome to Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers Podcast My name is Matilde and I am your host. The aim of this podcast is to support daughters of narcissistic mothers in regaining control of their life and breaking the cycle of pain caused by mother wounds.Ā In this podcast we talk all things to support you understanding and dealing with your mother wounds, unlocking your potential and supporting you in thriving in your life! Iām looking forward to going on this journey with you. If any of this resonates wit...
2023-06-05
02 min
The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
My Queen's View on How I Screwed Up and Unscrewed My Marriage
This is exciting!!! In a brand new expansion of our podcast, we invite my beautiful Queen and Goddess Matilde in to be our sacred guest today! Matilde will intermittently guest and give us her high flame ideas and perspectives from a divine feminine point of view on diverse relationship topics.Ā Ā In todayās episode, we speak about the process of saving our marriage from a serious cliff edge risk of losing everything a few years back. The focus will be speaking to what my role as husband was in co-creating the progressive disconnection between us from Matildeās view p...
2023-03-02
1h 29
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
How to Flow With Your Feelings and Still Get Stuff Done
Are you finding it challenging to find the balance between feeling into your emotions and taking action? Are very intense emotions showing up for you? And because you have learnt to feel them rather than suppress them, now they seem to get in the way of you getting through the things that you truly want to do � I truly want to celebrate you for feeling into your emotions!! Awareness is key, as suppressed emotions create destructive unconscious patterns that block your creative flow. Feeling is a wonderful way to unlock creative flow and insp...
2021-05-07
38 min