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We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tGetting to Know Each Other: The Real Story Starting with Door-to-Door Art SalesGetting to know someone sounds simple — until you’re actually doing it while planning a wedding, moving between states, and figuring out who’s walking the dog at 2 a.m. In this week’s episode, Nancy and Matthew revisit their early days: the unexpected way they met, the two-year break, the long-distance phone calls, and the decision that brought them back together. They share the challenges of blending two very different upbringings, negotiating household chores, cooking experiments gone wrong, and raising a puppy in the city. Plus, why they believe communication, patience (even when you’re not a patient person), a...2025-08-1232 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tThe Secret to a Long-Lasting Marriage (No, It’s Not Just Love)After 37 years married, Nancy and Matthew finally unpack what keeps their relationship thriving. Spoiler: It’s not just loyalty. It’s laughter, communication, respect, shared goals, and a strict $500 spending rule. Expect raw real talk, stories about dog walks in Manhattan, unplanned computer purchases, and still finding ways to appreciate each other’s different styles. Honest, hilarious, and surprisingly meaningful.Takeaways: A successful marriage necessitates mutual respect, which includes refraining from derogatory language during disagreements. Shared goals and values form the foundation of a lasting relationship, guiding both partners through challenges. Humor plays a vital role in mai...2025-08-0531 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tNot My Monkey, But Definitely Health, Hope, and HonorIn this episode, Nancy and Matthew recap their GrowthDay Ultra event in Napa, where the focus was on health and wellness. They share their key takeaways from Brendon Burchard and other speakers, including the “Four E’s” of High Performance: Energize, Engage, Excellence, and Expand.Highlights include:Why energizing your mornings matters (even when you’re cold and underdressed)How documentaries and biographies fuel deeper engagementThe importance of holding yourself—and your team—to a higher standardWhat it really means to “expand” your sense of selfDeep reflections on faith, overthinking, and why “the moment you’re in is the good old d...2025-07-2933 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tBucket Lists & Big Dreams: What We Really WantThis week on We Should Probably Edit This – But We Won’t, Nancy and Matthew dive deep (and occasionally off the rails) into their ultimate bucket list dreams. From solo trips with each of their kids to epic adventures with their grandkids, a month in Europe, building a backyard guest house, and the eternal dream of finally owning a convertible—no goal is too big, too small, or too ridiculous.They explore what really matters in life: connection, impact, joy, and the freedom to laugh until you can’t breathe—preferably in beautiful places, and possibly with a dog....2025-07-0138 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tDad Jokes, Deep Roots & The Things We InheritFrom hot dogs on the streets of NYC to clamming in Bodega Bay, today’s Father's Day special is packed with stories, laughter, and the unexpected lessons we carry forward. Matthew and Nancy open up about their dads—flawed, funny, and formative—and reflect on the legacy of parenting, from tool tips to horse misadventures to the power of being present. Whether you’re a dad, had a dad, miss a dad, or are raising one, this episode is for you. It’s heartfelt, hilarious, and full of real talk.Takeaways: The episode poignantly explores the imperfecti...2025-06-1730 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tCommunication Breakdown: 21 Signs and Still LostWhat do 21 signs, a tag sale, and two “big guys” at Rockefeller Center have in common? Miscommunication. In this hilarious and totally relatable episode, Nancy and Matthew dive into the small misunderstandings that turn into big stories—from botched meeting spots to tag sale logistics gone sideways. They explore the humor in “he said, she heard,” and why clarity in communication might be the most underrated relationship skill of all.Takeaways: Effective communication is paramount in relationships, as misunderstandings can lead to significant issues. Miscommunication can stem from assumptions about what the other person understands or hears. Wh...2025-06-1026 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tOther People’s Crazy Isn’t YoursTakeaways: Parenting often brings about significant challenges, particularly regarding stress and emotional overwhelm. Absorbing the stress of others can detract from one's own peace and well-being. It is crucial to recognize that one cannot control external circumstances, only one's reactions to them. Mindset shifts are essential when navigating financial pressures and familial responsibilities. Surrounding oneself with supportive friends and family can alleviate feelings of isolation during stressful times. Understanding that perfection is unattainable allows for a healthier approach to parenting and personal expectations. Companies/People mentioned in this episode: Business Helper Dave Ramsey Mel Robbins...2025-06-0325 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tAging, Gracefully (Mostly)In this episode of We Should Probably Edit This, But We Won't, Nancy and Matthew take a heartfelt and humorous look at aging—the milestones, the reflections, and the realities of turning 60. From aging and friendships to faith, volunteering, and the “Let Them Theory” from Mel Robbins, it’s a candid take on embracing life’s next chapter with purpose and humor.They talk about what they’ve learned from their younger selves, the value of resilience, the importance of friendships in this new phase of life, and why growing older doesn’t mean slowing down. They share a weeken...2025-05-2035 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tWhat Our Moms Taught Us: The Values That Shaped UsWhat do you value—really value—as you grow older? Nancy and Matthew tackle that question by looking back on what their moms taught them, what they learned raising three kids, and how their outlook has changed now that the house is (mostly) quiet. Expect stories about Italian grandmas, car seats on school buses, parenting wins (and fails), and how growth never stops—whether you're 37 years married or just figuring out dinner plans. This one’s full of laughs, lessons, and love.Takeaways: As we progress through life, our fundamental values evolve, reflecting our growth and experien...2025-05-1330 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tEpisode 6 - Things That Drive Us Crazy (And Why We Should Just Let It Go, Or Not)After 37 years of marriage, you learn to let some things go… and passive-aggressively bring up the rest on a podcast. In this episode, Nancy and Matthew take a hilarious tour through the land of pet peeves, exploring everyday irritations with humor, love, and just the right amount of sarcasm. Whether it’s red lights that refuse to sync, the mysterious male/female plumbing parts aisle, or the eternal “what’s for dinner?” standoff, they find a way to laugh through it—and maybe even learn something in the process. We all just need to let go of what really doesn’t matt...2025-05-0636 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tWeight Loss, Health Fads, and Why It's Not a DietIn this unfiltered episode, Nancy and Matthew dive deep into their messy, funny, and sometimes frustrating journey to better health. They share lessons from blood tests, body scans, fad diets, and functional medicine—and reveal what actually worked (and what absolutely didn’t).Along the way, they talk about the emotional side of health, how to stay motivated when nothing seems to work, and why it’s essential to craft a sustainable lifestyle rather than chase another diet. Expect real talk about resistance bands, bread cravings, marriage teamwork, metabolism madness, and the occasional desperate experiment with apple cider...2025-04-2937 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tIn-Laws: Love, Tension, and Too Many OpinionsIn this unfiltered episode, Nancy and Matthew dive into the complex world of in-laws—where respect meets resentment, and personal choices collide with family expectations. They unpack decades of family dynamics, cultural differences, and advice passed down from parents (“Don’t complain to the in-laws!”). With personal stories, generational truths, and a few awkward laughs, this episode explores how marriage isn’t just between two people—it’s between two family systems.Whether you’re navigating a tricky relationship with your child’s partner or wondering what to say (or not say) at the next family gathering, this one’s for you...2025-04-2234 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tFinding Your People — Friendship, Furballs & Getting SocialNancy and Matthew return from GrowthDay in Austin with fresh insights on connection, personal development, and the power of finding your "growth friends." Between deep talk about adult friendships and a wildly untrained puppy named Celia, they explore how our circles evolve, why making friends later in life is harder (but worth it), and how the messy stuff often makes for the best stories. It's heartfelt, chaotic, and 100% unfiltered—just the way we like it.2025-04-1330 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tIs Marriage Really 50/50? The Truth About Roles, Resentment, and SandwichesNancy and Matthew are back—hot flashes, party-crashing, church-hopping and all. In this unfiltered episode, they unpack one of the most misunderstood myths in relationships: that marriage is supposed to be 50/50. From raising kids and managing a home to who really scrubs the bathroom and how to survive grocery shopping together, they dive into the real dynamics behind long-term love. Along the way, they tackle resentment, communication (or the lack of it), and why it’s totally okay to make a sandwich like a damn artist.Oh, and what happens when you suddenly realize you actually like your...2025-04-0131 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tWho’s Right, When Family Asks for Money and the Fine Art of DisagreeingMatthew thinks he’s got it all figured out, but Nancy has a different take. In this unfiltered debut, we tackle family, finances, and the fine art of disagreeing—because sometimes, the right answer isn’t so clear.Takeaways:Our podcast is entitled 'We Should Probably Edit This', reflecting our unfiltered discussions. In relationships, effective communication plays a critical role in navigating misunderstandings. Financial discussions within families are often avoided, yet they are vital for education. We emphasize the importance of saving for the future, starting from an early age in life. Listening to experienced voices can pr...2025-03-3116 min