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We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tSnow Days, Perspective & Letting the World Slow DownAn epic snowstorm forces an unexpected pause—and we finally take it.From house showings and Airbnb escapes to IKEA overload, grocery-store chaos, and the strange calm that only a snow day brings, this episode is about perspective. We talk about slowing down, controlling what you can control, respecting different viewpoints, and why personal growth matters more than arguing about the world.It’s reflective, cozy, honest, and a reminder that sometimes the best thing you can do is exhale.Takeaways:The unexpected pause brought about by the snowstorm serves as a valu...
2026-01-2625 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tPutting Life in Perspective: Boundaries, Change & One Step at a TimeIn this episode, we talk about perspective — how it changes as you get older, how life forces you to set boundaries, and why the things that once felt overwhelming don’t always carry the same weight anymore.We reflect on faith, setbacks, and the reality that challenges don’t disappear — but your ability to handle them evolves. From selling our home and navigating unexpected obstacles, to learning when to pivot instead of panic, this conversation is about maturity, perseverance, and doing hard things one step at a time.If you’re in a season of change, qu...
2026-01-2032 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tLetting Go to Move Forward: A New Year, A New ChapterIt’s our first episode of 2026—and instead of resolutions, we’re talking about release.From clearing decades of clutter to making fast, emotional decisions about what stays and what goes, this episode is about more than downsizing. It’s about energy, freedom, and forward momentum. We share what it’s really like to prepare for a major move, the weight of “someday,” and why letting go of stuff can unlock clarity in life, finances, and purpose.A new year. A clean slate. A chapter that finally feels intentional.Takeaways:In the pursuit of emo...
2026-01-0631 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tThe Christmas Shift: Grandkids, Gratitude & Letting GoChristmas used to mean sleepless nights, toy assembly, and mall chaos. Now it looks quieter — and surprisingly clearer.In Episode 29, Matthew and Nancy reflect on how the holidays have changed as parents become grandparents, kids grow up, and priorities shift. They talk about selling a home, purging decades of belongings, digitizing memories, and confronting the dangerous comfort of “someday.”This episode is a thoughtful, honest holiday conversation about gratitude, faith, family, and why simplifying your life can sometimes feel like gaining more — not less.Takeaways:The holiday season evolves as families transition into new...
2025-12-2331 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tSnow Shovels, Downsize Piles & Everyone’s OpinionsMatthew and Nancy are back from “sunny Florida” to a not-so-sunny welcome home: snow glare, shovel workouts, and the reality of getting their house ready to list. After sharing their decision to sell, they’re met with reactions ranging from supportive to wildly dramatic—like selling your house means you’re broke, confused, or about to become a roaming circus act.They unpack what’s really happening: a strategic lifestyle change, a path to becoming 100% debt-free, and a full-on purge of everything they’ve accumulated (including tools, wood scraps, mementos, and enough printed photos to wallpaper a small town). T...
2025-12-1631 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tWhen the Holidays Get Messy: Chaos, Kids & Christmas ExpectationsChaos, coffee, barking dogs, grandkids, paint fumes, and Christmas expectations—this episode has it all.Fresh off Thanksgiving, Nancy and Matthew dive into holiday stress, big decisions, emotional overload, and what happens when life gets messy and loud.From managing expectations to navigating kids, dogs, decorating (or NOT decorating), and everything that hits at once in December… this one’s real, relatable, and unfiltered.If you've ever tried to hold it together during the holiday season, welcome home.Takeaways: The holiday season invariably brings an array of chaotic experiences, from managin...
2025-12-0230 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tThankful, Tired & Navigating Life’s Feelings and Big DecisionsIt’s Thanksgiving week, and Matthew & Nancy get real about gratitude, exhaustion, big life decisions, downsizing, money mistakes, emotional overwhelm, and navigating it all together. From parenting reflections to Facebook Marketplace chaos to processing selling their home, this episode is honest, messy, and full of heart.Takeaways: Embracing vulnerability is essential when addressing significant life transitions, as demonstrated by our discussions on gratitude and family updates. Navigating the complexities of financial decisions can often lead to feelings of overwhelm and uncertainty, particularly when selling a cherished family home. Our differing approaches to processing emotions highlight the im...
2025-11-2532 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tI Love You… But I Need My SpaceWhether it’s a fishing trip, a facial, or just locking the bathroom door for five uninterrupted minutes—this episode is all about the vital (and often funny) truth that healthy relationships need personal space. Nancy and Matthew reflect on their early parenting years, share their current routines for alone time, and talk openly about guilt, boundaries, and self-care. They also dive into the importance of balance, mutual respect, and why doing things apart can actually bring couples closer. It’s relatable, real, and surprisingly rejuvenating.🧑🤝🧑 People Mentioned:Donny (Matthew's friend)Tanya (Ultra event)Megan & Vinny (couple friends)
2025-11-1130 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tRetirement Redefined: Freedom, Purpose, and the 9-Year PlanIn this candid conversation, Matt and Nancy Greger unpack what retirement really means after 37 years of marriage, raising kids, and now grandparenting. They challenge the traditional idea of retirement as “doing nothing” and instead explore how freedom, purpose, and planning shape their vision for the next chapter. From financial goals to staying active in community and service, they share their honest struggles, hopes, and the mindset shifts that keep them moving forward. If you’re thinking about your own retirement or life’s next phase, this episode will inspire you to create a meaningful, joyful future on your own terms.
2025-11-0430 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tWrinkles, Wisdom & Why We Still Laugh About Getting OlderIn Episode 23 of We Should Probably Edit This – But We Won’t, Nancy and Matthew dive deep into the realities (and ridiculousness) of getting older. They cover:Wrinkles, naps, and the mysterious disappearance of metabolismWhy laughter really is the best faceliftThe balance between aging parents and grown kidsFinancial lessons, personal growth, and letting go of “shoulds”Travel dreams, staying active, and refusing to slow downIt’s equal parts reflection, comedy, and truth — because if you can’t laugh about getting older, you’re missing the best part.From sagging jowls and forgotten glasses to retirement dr...
2025-10-2832 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tThe Joys of Grandparenting: Reflections from G-Ma and G-PaIn Episode 22 of We Should Probably Edit This – But We Won’t, Nancy and Matthew get real about grandparenting—from the silly to the sacred. As G-Ma and G-Pa to four grandkids, they reflect on:The hilarious moments (gingerbread mayhem, mismatched socks, basketball drills)Their unique grandparent names and how they came to beThe differences in each grandchild’s personality and how it shapes their bondThe beauty of multi-generational living (and how boundaries still matter)What it’s like to watch your own children become parentsWhy the grandparent phase is funnier, freer, and full of heartWhether yo...
2025-10-2131 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tGrand Canyon Wisdom & Why Laughing MattersIn Episode 21 of We Should Probably Edit This – But We Won’t, Nancy and Matthew record from the rim of the Grand Canyon and dive into a wide-ranging, often hilarious conversation about marriage, memories, and making fun a priority. They talk about:Why humor is essential in relationshipsInside jokes that keep families connectedThe surprising lessons of off-grid livingRV dreams and solo trips with their grown kidsEmbracing discomfort (like memory-foam rocks) for real connectionWhy adventure is better when sharedThey even reflect on the shortness of life in the face of 500 million years of erosion. It's deep, funn...
2025-10-1419 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tFrom Toddlers to Tuition: The Parenting RollercoasterParenting isn’t just a phase—it’s a full-blown adventure. In Episode 20, Nancy and Matthew open up about what it was really like to raise three kids: from newborns in strollers to sweaty teens dodging showers, from stacking firewood to crashing college budgets.They talk through the parenting stages—infants, toddlers, middle school, teenage rebellion, and finally, the bittersweet reality of launching adult children into the world. You’ll hear how they navigated sibling drama, computer time limits (and how their kids outsmarted them), college life, money mistakes, and the all-important family dinner rule.Whether yo...
2025-09-2334 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tRoad Trips, Chaos, and Disney Hacks: Our Family Vacation PlaybookWhen you’re raising kids, vacations are less about perfection and more about presence. We talk through our most memorable trips—from 22-hour drives to Florida (hello, Disney employee pass) to Maine island cottages with pets in tow—and the systems that helped us survive: packing snacks, bringing backup water/towels, rigging a portable TV/VCR, and budgeting with creativity. We also share a hard-earned lesson: if you’re lucky enough to go, disconnect and actually be with your people. Now as empty nesters, we’re relearning how to choose a destination, set a budget, and just…book it.You’ll...
2025-09-0935 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tBuzz Cuts & Facials: The Truth About Marriage MaintenanceMaintenance means very different things depending on who you ask. For Matthew, it’s shaving his head, trimming a beard, and avoiding anything that involves flip-flops or pedicures. For Nancy, it’s a lifelong relationship with her hairdresser, regular manicures, facials, and even eyebrow tattoos. Together, they reveal the realities of self-care in marriage, from routines to surprises, and how Covid even changed their approach. Funny, raw, and relatable—this episode shows that behind every couple is a very different definition of “maintenance.”Takeaways: The concept of maintenance varies significantly between individuals, illustrating personal preferences and routines...
2025-09-0232 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tMorning Routines: Why Small Habits Shape Big DaysIn this episode, Matthew and Nancy get real about morning routines—the good, the messy, and the downright funny. From making the bed and tackling workouts to green smoothies, ironing, and finding ways to avoid morning chaos, they share how little habits set the tone for the whole day. Along the way, they unpack how Covid changed their rhythms, why prep the night before matters, and how even coffee has its own “zone.”Takeaways: Morning routines are essential as they establish the framework for a productive day ahead. Preparation for the morning begins the night before, signif...
2025-08-2632 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tScheduling vs. Spontaneity: How We Actually Make DecisionsMaking decisions as a couple isn’t always easy—especially when one’s a planner and the other’s spontaneous. This episode dives into how Matthew and Nancy navigate choices in marriage: from dinner disasters to travel plans, cleaning styles, and date nights at Home Depot. Relatable, funny, and filled with real talk about compromise, communication, and balance.Takeaways: Navigating decisions as a couple requires a balance between planning and spontaneity, which can lead to unique experiences, such as dinner outings gone awry. Compromise is essential in a relationship, especially when one partner prefers structure and the othe...
2025-08-1928 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tGetting to Know Each Other: The Real Story Starting with Door-to-Door Art SalesGetting to know someone sounds simple — until you’re actually doing it while planning a wedding, moving between states, and figuring out who’s walking the dog at 2 a.m. In this week’s episode, Nancy and Matthew revisit their early days: the unexpected way they met, the two-year break, the long-distance phone calls, and the decision that brought them back together. They share the challenges of blending two very different upbringings, negotiating household chores, cooking experiments gone wrong, and raising a puppy in the city. Plus, why they believe communication, patience (even when you’re not a patient person), a...
2025-08-1232 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tThe Secret to a Long-Lasting Marriage (No, It’s Not Just Love)After 37 years married, Nancy and Matthew finally unpack what keeps their relationship thriving. Spoiler: It’s not just loyalty. It’s laughter, communication, respect, shared goals, and a strict $500 spending rule. Expect raw real talk, stories about dog walks in Manhattan, unplanned computer purchases, and still finding ways to appreciate each other’s different styles. Honest, hilarious, and surprisingly meaningful.Takeaways: A successful marriage necessitates mutual respect, which includes refraining from derogatory language during disagreements. Shared goals and values form the foundation of a lasting relationship, guiding both partners through challenges. Humor plays a vital role in mai...
2025-08-0531 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tNot My Monkey, But Definitely Health, Hope, and HonorIn this episode, Nancy and Matthew recap their GrowthDay Ultra event in Napa, where the focus was on health and wellness. They share their key takeaways from Brendon Burchard and other speakers, including the “Four E’s” of High Performance: Energize, Engage, Excellence, and Expand.Highlights include:Why energizing your mornings matters (even when you’re cold and underdressed)How documentaries and biographies fuel deeper engagementThe importance of holding yourself—and your team—to a higher standardWhat it really means to “expand” your sense of selfDeep reflections on faith, overthinking, and why “the moment you’re in is the good old d...
2025-07-2933 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tBucket Lists & Big Dreams: What We Really WantThis week on We Should Probably Edit This – But We Won’t, Nancy and Matthew dive deep (and occasionally off the rails) into their ultimate bucket list dreams. From solo trips with each of their kids to epic adventures with their grandkids, a month in Europe, building a backyard guest house, and the eternal dream of finally owning a convertible—no goal is too big, too small, or too ridiculous.They explore what really matters in life: connection, impact, joy, and the freedom to laugh until you can’t breathe—preferably in beautiful places, and possibly with a dog....
2025-07-0138 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tDad Jokes, Deep Roots & The Things We InheritFrom hot dogs on the streets of NYC to clamming in Bodega Bay, today’s Father's Day special is packed with stories, laughter, and the unexpected lessons we carry forward. Matthew and Nancy open up about their dads—flawed, funny, and formative—and reflect on the legacy of parenting, from tool tips to horse misadventures to the power of being present. Whether you’re a dad, had a dad, miss a dad, or are raising one, this episode is for you. It’s heartfelt, hilarious, and full of real talk.Takeaways: The episode poignantly explores the imperfecti...
2025-06-1730 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tCommunication Breakdown: 21 Signs and Still LostWhat do 21 signs, a tag sale, and two “big guys” at Rockefeller Center have in common? Miscommunication. In this hilarious and totally relatable episode, Nancy and Matthew dive into the small misunderstandings that turn into big stories—from botched meeting spots to tag sale logistics gone sideways. They explore the humor in “he said, she heard,” and why clarity in communication might be the most underrated relationship skill of all.Takeaways: Effective communication is paramount in relationships, as misunderstandings can lead to significant issues. Miscommunication can stem from assumptions about what the other person understands or hears. Wh...
2025-06-1026 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tOther People’s Crazy Isn’t YoursIn Episode 9 of We Should Probably Edit This – But We Won’t, Nancy and Matthew open up about the pressures of parenting, finances, emotional overwhelm, and that sneaky habit of absorbing other people’s stress. From budgeting breakthroughs to mindset shifts, they unpack the real-life challenges we all face—and how to keep your peace when the world feels chaotic.You’ll hear stories about raising kids, managing stress in relationships, navigating social pressure, and why sometimes the best advice is simply: “Other people’s crazy isn’t yours.” It’s candid, funny, and deeply relatable.Takeaways: Par...
2025-06-0325 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tAging, Gracefully (Mostly)In this episode of We Should Probably Edit This, But We Won't, Nancy and Matthew take a heartfelt and humorous look at aging—the milestones, the reflections, and the realities of turning 60. From aging and friendships to faith, volunteering, and the “Let Them Theory” from Mel Robbins, it’s a candid take on embracing life’s next chapter with purpose and humor.They talk about what they’ve learned from their younger selves, the value of resilience, the importance of friendships in this new phase of life, and why growing older doesn’t mean slowing down. They share a weeken...
2025-05-2035 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tWhat Our Moms Taught Us: The Values That Shaped UsWhat do you value—really value—as you grow older? Nancy and Matthew tackle that question by looking back on what their moms taught them, what they learned raising three kids, and how their outlook has changed now that the house is (mostly) quiet. Expect stories about Italian grandmas, car seats on school buses, parenting wins (and fails), and how growth never stops—whether you're 37 years married or just figuring out dinner plans. This one’s full of laughs, lessons, and love.Takeaways: As we progress through life, our fundamental values evolve, reflecting our growth and experien...
2025-05-1330 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tThings That Drive Us Crazy (And Why We Should Just Let It Go, Or Not)After 37 years of marriage, you learn to let some things go… and passive-aggressively bring up the rest on a podcast. In this episode, Nancy and Matthew take a hilarious tour through the land of pet peeves, exploring everyday irritations with humor, love, and just the right amount of sarcasm. Whether it’s red lights that refuse to sync, the mysterious male/female plumbing parts aisle, or the eternal “what’s for dinner?” standoff, they find a way to laugh through it—and maybe even learn something in the process. We all just need to let go of what really doesn’t matt...
2025-05-0636 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tWeight Loss, Health Fads, and Why It's Not a DietIn this unfiltered episode, Nancy and Matthew dive deep into their messy, funny, and sometimes frustrating journey to better health. They share lessons from blood tests, body scans, fad diets, and functional medicine—and reveal what actually worked (and what absolutely didn’t).Along the way, they talk about the emotional side of health, how to stay motivated when nothing seems to work, and why it’s essential to craft a sustainable lifestyle rather than chase another diet. Expect real talk about resistance bands, bread cravings, marriage teamwork, metabolism madness, and the occasional desperate experiment with apple cider...
2025-04-2937 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tIn-Laws: Love, Tension, and Too Many OpinionsIn this unfiltered episode, Nancy and Matthew dive into the complex world of in-laws—where respect meets resentment, and personal choices collide with family expectations. They unpack decades of family dynamics, cultural differences, and advice passed down from parents (“Don’t complain to the in-laws!”). With personal stories, generational truths, and a few awkward laughs, this episode explores how marriage isn’t just between two people—it’s between two family systems.Whether you’re navigating a tricky relationship with your child’s partner or wondering what to say (or not say) at the next family gathering, this one’s for you...
2025-04-2234 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tFinding Your People — Friendship, Furballs & Getting SocialNancy and Matthew return from GrowthDay in Austin with fresh insights on connection, personal development, and the power of finding your "growth friends." Between deep talk about adult friendships and a wildly untrained puppy named Celia, they explore how our circles evolve, why making friends later in life is harder (but worth it), and how the messy stuff often makes for the best stories. It's heartfelt, chaotic, and 100% unfiltered—just the way we like it.
2025-04-1330 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tIs Marriage Really 50/50? The Truth About Roles, Resentment, and SandwichesNancy and Matthew are back—hot flashes, party-crashing, church-hopping and all. In this unfiltered episode, they unpack one of the most misunderstood myths in relationships: that marriage is supposed to be 50/50. From raising kids and managing a home to who really scrubs the bathroom and how to survive grocery shopping together, they dive into the real dynamics behind long-term love. Along the way, they tackle resentment, communication (or the lack of it), and why it’s totally okay to make a sandwich like a damn artist.Oh, and what happens when you suddenly realize you actually like your...
2025-04-0131 min
We Should Probably Edit This — But We Won'tWho’s Right, When Family Asks for Money and the Fine Art of DisagreeingMatthew thinks he’s got it all figured out, but Nancy has a different take. In this unfiltered debut, we tackle family, finances, and the fine art of disagreeing—because sometimes, the right answer isn’t so clear.Takeaways:Our podcast is entitled 'We Should Probably Edit This', reflecting our unfiltered discussions. In relationships, effective communication plays a critical role in navigating misunderstandings. Financial discussions within families are often avoided, yet they are vital for education. We emphasize the importance of saving for the future, starting from an early age in life. Listening to experienced voices can pr...
2025-03-3116 min