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Partners of Commercial FishermenPt. 1: The Truth About Coast Guard Inspections with Coast Guard Safety Examiner, Steven KeeIf you’ve ever felt helpless watching your fisherman head offshore, this episode will empower you to know how boats are regulated to stay safe. In the first half of a two-part series, you’ll learn:
Common myths about Coast Guard examinations.
What happens during a safety inspection, and how to prepare.
Have questions about your life raft? Steven is offering direct support to POCFs and fishermen. You can text him a photo of your life raft at 503-957-4794 to check if it’s properly secured.
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📸 Need help with your life raft? Tex...2025-07-2337 minPartners of Commercial FishermenHow POCF Aubrey McNeil Navigates the Alaska Fishing SeasonIn this special encore episode, we revisit our conversation with POCF Aubrey McNeil — just in time for the Bristol Bay, Alaska, salmon season.
If you’re in the thick of saying goodbye, dropped phone calls, or settling into the solo stretch, this episode is your reminder that you’re not alone — and that strength and support go hand in hand.
In this episode:
Aubrey shares what it was like to choose a long-distance relationship with a commercial fisherman, how she navigates his time away, and the tools that help her stay grounded when the season r...2025-07-1638 minPartners of Commercial FishermenHow One POCF is Navigating Her First Season ApartIn this heartfelt episode, we go behind the curtain of our Private Group Chat and hear from a Partner of a Commercial Fisherman (POCF) in Washington state who’s navigating her very first fishing season apart from her Alaskan boyfriend.
She opens up about the emotional rollercoaster of being apart during the Bristol Bay salmon season — from daily tears to deep love, short, spotty video calls, and the intense loneliness many of us know all too well.
You’ll hear my response of empathy, encouragement, and the honest truth: this is the kind of support you re...2025-07-0914 minPartners of Commercial FishermenPart 2: From Loneliness to Fulfillment (even when you’re alone) with Brenda WinkleThis episode is Part 2: From Loneliness to Fulfillment (even when you’re alone) with Brenda Winkle. I invite you to catch Part 1 on Brenda’s podcast called Your Yes-Filled Life!
In this raw and heartfelt episode, Brenda and I share personal stories of loneliness and anxiety and what it means to build a life of connection and meaning.
From my cross-country drive toward a sober life in California to Brenda’s empty-nest revelation that shook her to the core, we explore how loneliness can hit us even when we're surrounded by people — and how healing begins whe...2025-07-0251 minPartners of Commercial FishermenTrue Funny Story about Perimenopause & Couples (How to Communicate Your Needs When You Don't Know What To Say)Today, we dive into a true (and truly funny) story about navigating the emotional rollercoaster of perimenopause while trying to keep communication open—and your relationship intact. (If you've ever snapped at your partner for breathing too loudly, this one's for you.)
In this episode, you'll hear:
A real-life/tense perimenopausal moment between Chris and me.
Why it’s so hard to explain what you need when you don’t even understand what’s happening yourself.
How to start conversations with your partner without making it a blame game.
Whether you’re in the throes of...2025-06-2516 minPartners of Commercial FishermenYes! You Can Recycle Fishing Gear (and here's how to do it!) with Nicole Baker of Net Your ProblemNicole Baker is a marine biologist and founder of Net Your Problem, an organization helping commercial fishing communities recycle their old gear and reduce plastic, without sacrificing their livelihoods.
In this episode, Nicole explains firsthand how discarded gear gets sent to landfills and how she decided to do something about it.
From the logistics of collecting old gear to the powerful partnerships she’s building with fishermen and POCFs, Nicole offers real-world insight into how sustainability can support—not threaten—our working waterfronts.
Whether you're a commercial fisherman, a Partner of a Commercial Fisherma...2025-06-181h 24Partners of Commercial FishermenCaught Off Guard: When Your Fisherman Comes Home & Doesn't Text or Call FirstDo you ever get overwhelmed when your fisherman comes home without notice? SAME!
In this episode, we get real about those moments when you just need a minute before switching from solo mode to partner mode—and how hard that can be to express.
You'll hear:
A relatable story that proves you're not alone in needing a heads-up.
A few gentle scripts and mindset shifts to help you speak up for what you need, even when it feels awkward.
How to avoid guilt when you’re craving quiet but love...2025-06-1119 minPartners of Commercial FishermenPTSD, Sleep, and Safety in Commercial Fishing + What We Can Do To Help Our Fishermen with Amanda RoomeMany of us don't think about how PTSD and sleep deprivation can affect our fishermen's mental health, both short-term and long-term. But there are ways to lessen the burden, and today's guest explains how.
Amanda "Mandy" Roome is a Research Scientist at the Northeast Center for Occupational Health and Safety in Cooperstown, NY
In this episode, Mandy shares:
What PTSD really is, and how to check if you have it.
Understanding fatigue and sleep deprivation on the job
Learning more about fishermen's brain health and improvement strategies
Safety research and how organizations c...2025-06-0450 minPartners of Commercial FishermenWant Your Fisherman to Wear a PFD? Say This: Prompts to Get Your Fisherman to Wear Safety GearToday’s episode is powerful—it could literally save your fisherman’s life AND ease your stress each time they leave the dock. (Can I get an AMEN?! 🙌)
Highlights of Today’s Episode:
Why your voice matters more than you think
Messages and convo starters to gently encourage PFD use
How to tailor the conversation to your fisherman’s experience, body type, and needs
Real feedback from our Instagram community during Boat Safety Week
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Catch the full episode now using the links belo...2025-05-2824 minPartners of Commercial FishermenRedefining Safety: Choosing Life Jackets Fishermen Actually Wear with Len Nelson of Kent Safety ProductsFun Fact: #1 reason fishermen wear PFDs? Because their Partners tell them to! ⚓️ (We have more influence than we think!)
In this episode, we’re diving into the world of commercial fishing safety gear with Len Nelson of Kent Safety Products, a trusted name in personal flotation devices (PFDs).
From engineering PFDs that balance comfort and protection to collaborating with fishermen and safety organizations, Len offers a behind-the-scenes look at how innovation shapes the future of fishing safety. We also discuss common misconceptions around PFDs, advancements in technology, and how wearing one can save lives, not just ph...2025-05-211h 04Partners of Commercial FishermenLegal Insights Every Fisherman Needs with Attorney Michael Flynn*FREE consultations for POCFs and Fishermen!*
In the second part of our conversation with Attorney Michael Flynn, we dive into the specifics of handling injuries at sea and the legal steps you need to take to protect your family. Michael breaks down how the Jones Act and Seaman’s Protection Act come into play during personal injury cases and what it means for fishing families seeking compensation.
We also discuss the practicalities of hiring a lawyer, how legal fees work, and what you can expect when working with an attorney. Plus, Michael answers your questions ab...2025-05-141h 17Partners of Commercial FishermenNavigating the Legal Waters: Your Rights as a Fisherman & POCF with Attorney Michael Flynn*FREE consultations for all POCFs and fishermen!*
In this episode, we sit down with Attorney Michael Flynn to discuss the fundamental legal protections for commercial fishermen.
As part of our ongoing effort to help fishing families understand the laws that affect them, Michael unpacks essential maritime laws, discusses how proactive education can help fishermen avoid legal pitfalls, and what steps to take if an injury occurs aboard.
Key Takeaways:
Knowing your rights before an injury can make a huge difference.
The importance of understanding maritime law for both fishermen and their...2025-05-0749 minPartners of Commercial FishermenTop Bookkeeping Tips from CPA Chris Capone of Chris Capone and AssociatesToday, we’re chatting with Chris Capone, the Founder & CEO of Capone and Associates, a firm specializing in bookkeeping, financial planning, CFO services, forensic accounting, exit strategy, and more. Stay to the end to hear how Chris got into it and the best advice for investing your money!
In this Episode, we discuss:
Most common bookkeeping mistakes and how to avoid them.
Great practices for a POCF/bookkeeper, vessel owners, deckhands, and small business owners to stay organized without being overwhelmed.
How fishing businesses can avoid common payroll tax pitfalls.
The optimum time to contact your acc...2025-04-2353 minPartners of Commercial FishermenConnecting Fishing Families Across the Globe: A Conversation with UK Women in FisheriesToday, we’re heading across the pond to connect with our friends at the United Kingdom Women in Fisheries (UK WIF)! I had the honor of speaking on their webinar, representing our Partners of Commercial Fishermen (POCF) community in the U.S. and beyond.
In this episode, we explore how partners of commercial fishermen around the world share similar challenges, triumphs, and deep connections to the sea.
Whether you’re part of the fishing community or simply curious about this wild and unique lifestyle, this conversation is for you!
Let’s Dive In!
2025-04-161h 13Partners of Commercial FishermenUnited Kingdom POCF Naomi Treneer Shares Her Experience in a Small Fishing Village in EnglandToday, we’re going overseas to the UK!
As many of us have come to realize, there’s a deep sense of adventure, trust, and flexibility that comes with being in a relationship with a commercial fisherman. And the best part? No matter where we are in the world, we can relate to this extraordinary lifestyle.
This month, we’re highlighting our international community, and today, I’m thrilled to introduce you to a special guest: Naomi Treneer, a partner of a commercial fisherman from the United Kingdom. Naomi is both the daughter of a fisherma...2025-04-0931 min
Galley Stories®EP 109 Megan Waldrep Partners of Commercial Fisherman Podcast, Dual HostingListen to Megan and I Discuss both sides of the Industry, check out her Podcast below:
Megan Waldrep
Founder of the Partners of Commercial Fishermen
Writer/Speaker
Website: pocfpride.com
Instagram: @megan.waldrep
Listen to the Partners of Commercial Fishermen Podcast on Apple, Spotify, and more!2025-04-041h 16Partners of Commercial FishermenBehind-the-Scenes with Galley Stories Podcast Host Mark CaylorA very special dual interview with the host of the Galley Stories Podcast, Mark Caylor! This is a rare behind-the-scenes conversation where we get to know Mark - this could be considered his first interview as he stays loyal to the Galley Stories Podcast theme: bringing the stories of commercial fishermen to the masses for over 100 episodes!
In this episode, we discuss:
The different perspectives of a fisherman vs. their partner.
Our most memorable episodes and why.
The work that goes into connecting with fishermen and bringing each episode to life.
Why Mark hadn’t agreed to a...2025-04-021h 21Partners of Commercial FishermenGrants 101: How to Best Prepare to Receive Funding for your Fishery w Ava SchulenbergShe's back, and we're thrilled! Ava Schulenberg is based in Santa Barbara, CA, and is a female fisherman and leader in several fishing organizations. You may remember Ava from episode 96, where she goes into detail on how to advocate for your fishery and gives tips to help get your public comments heard.
In this episode, Ava shares:
How she secured funding for a clean-up initiative for CA spiny lobster fishermen.
The critical piece she included in the grant that she believes helped her gain priority over other entrants (there were many!).
The course she took to l...2025-03-2632 minPartners of Commercial FishermenHow Maine and California Fishing Families Can Secure Loans with California FarmLink and Coastal Enterprises, Inc.California and Maine Fishermen and Partners, listen up! We know how challenging it can be to find financial support for your fishing business. Commercial fishing is expensive, and banks often don't give us a second look.
However, there is a way to find loans that can support you, and today’s guests will explain more. In today's episode:
Meet Noah Strouse, the Senior Loan Officer & Strategic Initiatives Manager at California FarmLink, and Hugh Cowperthwaite, the Senior Program Director of Fisheries and Aquaculture at Coastal Enterprises, Inc., better known as CEI, located in Maine.
Learn how to get l...2025-03-191h 09Partners of Commercial FishermenGaslighting: 8 Signs and How To RespondGaslighting is a form of manipulation that makes you doubt your perceptions, memories, or reality. It goes to say that dealing with a Gaslighter can be incredibly frustrating and emotionally draining.
In this episode, I share:
- A real example of a fisherman and a POCF in our community.
- Common gaslighting phrases and what to look out for.
- Ways to handle a conversation with a gaslighter and how to protect your mental and emotional well-being.
Let's Dive In!
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2025-03-1225 minPartners of Commercial Fishermen8 Ways to Advocate for Yourself Effectively in Relationships (Fisherman, Family, or Friends!)We’ve recently talked a lot about advocacy in fishing recently, yet advocacy also extends to your relationships. Advocating for yourself in a relationship means clearly expressing your needs, boundaries, and desires while maintaining mutual respect and understanding. You deserve this always!
Because commercial fishing can feel so overwhelming for fishermen, partners, and families, feeling like you’re not a priority is a common challenge in our community. Some topics we address in this episode are:
Real examples from our POCF private community.
How to communicate your feelings easily.
How to communicate your feelings easily if a pe...2025-03-0526 minPartners of Commercial FishermenAdvocacy 101: Clear Breakdown of How To Create Positive Change in Your Fishery with Female Fisherman Ava SchulenbergAva Schulenberg is a female fisherman and leader in many important roles in Santa Barbara, California, fisheries. She also works from Santa Barbara to San Diego for the CA Lobster Association due to the geographical span of the fishery. She, along with her colleagues, has SoCal on lock!
Here’s a quick list of the many hats she wears:
Executive Director of the California Lobster & Trap Fishermen's Association
Assistant Director of the Commercial Fishermen of Santa Barbara (CFSB)
Manager of the Saturday Fishermen's Market of Santa Barbara
Laboratory Assistant II at CA Sea Grant
Deckhand with a var...2025-02-261h 08Partners of Commercial FishermenFree PFDs for Oregon Fishermen + How You Can Do This For Your Community with Prof. Laurel Kincl of Oregon State UniversityThis month's theme is “Bringing the Feminine into Fishing,” which is also a theme of Advocacy. I feel the themes complement each other so much because, since the beginning of our economic civilization, POCFs have been instrumental in keeping the industry going and protecting our fisheries, fishermen, and fishing families. And, the people at Oregon State University understand this on a deep level, and here’s how.
Our interview today is with Laurel Kincl, a professor at the College of Health at Oregon State University in Corvallis, OR.
In this episode, you’ll hear Laurel...2025-02-1950 minPartners of Commercial FishermenPOCF and Writer Maressa Voss on Publishing Her First Novel While Balancing Motherhood, Advocacy, and Marriage to a Commercial Fisherman.Maressa Voss is a writer, the partner of a commercial fisherman, and a mother living in Santa Barbara, CA. Beyond our shared passion for writing, we have another unique connection—her husband, James, is my husband’s cousin!
Through marriage, both Maressa and I have been immersed in the culture of this unique industry—one that has been woven into our families for generations.
As a side note, Our theme this month is “Bringing the Feminine into Fishing,” which is a HUGE part of Advocacy. I feel the themes complement each other so much because, since the...2025-02-121h 01
Partners of Commercial Fishermen10 Tips for Advocacy, Public Speaking, and/or Conversations with Friends and Family About Commercial FishingSince the beginning of our economic civilization, POCFs have been instrumental in keeping the industry going and protecting our fisheries, fishermen, and fishing families. (Mic drop!)
For that reason, I’m sharing 10 tips that may help you next time you:
Speak to an audience to advocate for your fishery.
Chat with friends and family outside of the industry
Interact with customers who are purchasing from your direct-to-consumer seafood business
Share on social media.
Let’s Dive In!
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Canva.com - graphic design made easy for presentations, logos, social media, website...2025-02-0524 minPartners of Commercial FishermenPt 2: Bootstrapping a Direct-to-Consumer Fishing Business to Support Her Family and Community with Ashely Vellis of Ashley's Seafood in Humbolt Bay, California.In Part 2, we continue our conversation with Ashely Veliss, Wife of a Commercial Fisherman, mom, and owner of Ashley's Seafood out of Humboldt Bay in Eureka, California.
In this episode, we talk about:
How she finds personal support in this lifestyle and shouts out to experienced Partners in her community
The Humbolt Wives Fishermen’s Group and the specific ways they serve their members and community.
Ways she’s working on getting a cold storage facility built in her town. MAJOR accomplishments for anyone, especially a POCF who started her business to bring in more income for...2025-01-2930 minPartners of Commercial FishermenPt 1: Bootstrapping a Direct-to-Consumer Fishing Business to Support Her Family and Community with Ashely Vellis of Ashley's Seafood in Humbolt Bay, California.Ashely Veliss is the Wife of a Commercial Fisherman, mom, and Owner of Ashley's Seafood out of Humboldt Bay in Eureka, California.
I love that Ashely belongs to a Fishermen’s Wives group but joined the POCF private chat to connect with partners in other ports to see what they struggle with or don’t struggle with and hear how they overcome challenges in the industry.
In this episode, we learn:
How Ashley went from learning how to fillet fish on YouTube to starting a direct-to-consumer fishing business at the farmers market to now learn...2025-01-2246 minPartners of Commercial FishermenPt 2: Go From Disinformation Overload to Honest Data-Driven Studies to Help Your Mental Health and Fishery w/ Journalist and International Media Analyst Gabriela CapestanyPart 2 of our Juicy Chat!
Looking out for our mental wellness takes many forms, and communication and the information we receive daily are huge parts of that.
As many know, communication is a major problem for POCFs when connecting with their fishermen at sea. Yet it is also a major challenge for fishing communities, scientists, environmentalists, government officials, and academics to understand each other's goals. This is where our next guest comes in.
Gabriela Capestany is a journalist and media analyst based in Charleston, SC, with a diverse journalistic background, including acting as a...2025-01-1542 minPartners of Commercial FishermenPt 1: Go From Disinformation Overload to Honest Data Studies to Help Your Mental Health and Fishery w/ Journalist and International Media Analyst Gabriela CapestanyLooking out for our mental wellness takes many forms, and communication and the information we receive daily are huge parts of that.
As many know, communication is a major problem for POCFs when connecting with their fishermen at sea. Yet it is also a major challenge for fishing communities, scientists, environmentalists, government officials, and academics to understand each other's goals. This is where our next guest comes in.
Gabriela Capestany is a journalist and media analyst based in Charleston, SC, with a diverse journalistic background, including acting as a media advisor for the US military a...2025-01-0846 minPartners of Commercial FishermenPt. 2 POCF Lindsey Hoadley on Growing a Solo Business and a Fishery Business with her Fisherman, Embracing Motherhood, and Embodying ManifestationsPart 2 continues with our juicy conversation with POCF Lindsey Hoadley from Ventura, CA! If you missed the first episode, I highly recommend you go back and listen, especially if you’re an entrepreneur. There are so many nuggets to be had there.
In this episode, we talk about:
What it means to have a team to support when running a business and what those roles look like.
How she balances the entrepreneurial workload, motherhood, and family.
Her new manifestation course. Lindsey goes into depth about how she’s manifested her dream life and work life in deta...2024-12-2553 minPartners of Commercial FishermenPt. 1 POCF Lindsey Hoadley on Growing a Solo Business and a Fishery Business with her Fisherman, Embracing Motherhood, and Embodying ManifestationsDropping some pearls of wisdom with this one! If you're an entrepreneur or are interested in starting or scaling your business (fishery business included!), then you'll love this interview with POCF Lindsey Hoadley from Ventura, California.
In this episode, we discuss:
The relaunch of her business, Mothersun and the Captain, and the importance of taking a 1-year break to get in the mindset to restructure it the way she wants to create and scale,
How she and her husband, John, work together on a joint venture called the Good Captain Co. and how they work together c...2024-12-1853 minPartners of Commercial FishermenSobriety Story Pt 2: Answering Qs from Our Community About Quitting Alcohol and My Journey with Weed (I Didn't Think I'd Talk About, But Let's Get Into It!)In Part 2, I answer questions from our IG community by sharing intimate stories about my sobriety journey from alcohol and marijuana. We also discuss:
The transformative power of the mind in overcoming addiction. (Including weed, which I discuss in more detail than planned. Let's get into it!)
The challenges of breaking habits, the prevalence of alcohol consumption in society, and the various non-alcoholic beverage options available for those who choose to quit or reduce their alcohol intake.
Several memoirs about addiction helped me understand my journey through the experiences of others and ways to navigate a sober lifestyle.
2024-12-111h 03Partners of Commercial FishermenOysters, Advocacy, and How a Commercial Fisherman Started an Organization to Keep Fishing and Help Save Coastlines with Bonnie Mitchell of NC CoastThis organization was *founded by a commercial fisherman* who wanted to keep fishing and has since grown into an initiative that helps sustain the North Carolina coastline. This perfectly reflects our fishing families, who have a shared passion for caring for our oceans. And when you connect with others in this space, it can be a real eye-opener on what we’re all experiencing individually to maintain and make positive changes for our coastlines and coastal communities. Our goals may be the same, but our challenges differ. Yet, we can learn from one another how to overcome.
Tod...2024-12-041h 21Partners of Commercial Fishermen*Save This Episode!* 2-Minute Simple Breathing Technique To Feel Grounded and at Peace Anytime.This is a very special episode that you can save and replay anytime you need it.
In this episode, I guide you through deep breaths that will help regulate your nervous system and bring you to a place of calm so you can continue your day or night with a clearer mind, eased body, and peaceful heart. I love thinking about how when we practice this for ourselves, we practice with each other. All you need to do is:
Find a comfortable seat.
Close the door to your room or park your car.
Put aside two mi...2024-11-2703 minPartners of Commercial FishermenWhy Menopause Doesn't Have to Be Scary and the Secret Powers We Gain If We Choose to Embrace ItAt 42, I've begun to notice big changes in my body and mind, and going through a "mid-life review" has been more inspiring than society/media/Hollywood lends it to be.
Peri-menopause, Menopause, and Post-Menopause are other superpowers that women experience, and in this episode, I want to normalize the conversation by sharing personal stories about what this has looked like for me in the past 12 months and positive ways I've learned to handle physical and mental changes that are supportive in the long run.
Let's Dive In!
Hey, POCFs - Let's Connect!
2024-11-2023 minPartners of Commercial FishermenSolo Date Ideas and Why They Matter for Personal WellbeingWhether during a fishing season or in the off-season, solo date nights (or trips!) allow you to get a deeper sense of confidence, self-acceptance, and personal joy - something you can carry throughout your life that no one or nothing can take away from you. What a gift!
In this episode:
I give you a ton of ideas on different hobbies and interests and how to get started.
Personal stories of how other POCFs in our community and myself do like to spend solo time.
Making time for yourself is the...2024-11-1332 minPartners of Commercial FishermenPainter David Macomber on His Commercial Fishing Childhood and the Near Death Experience that Influences his Creative LifeThis one is so rich that I can’t wait for you to hear it.
In this episode, Artist David Macomber shares his family's history in the commercial fishing industry in Cape May, New Jersey, and his journey into fine art. We discuss:
The creative process by acknowledging the challenges of maintaining motivation and overcoming self-doubt
How spirituality plays into his daily life and creative live
and the near-death experience that set David on a firm path as a professional artist.
Let’s Dive in!
Connect with David:
www.davidmacomber.com
@d...2024-11-0635 minPartners of Commercial Fishermen#1 Superpower POCFs Have That Can Save Our FisheriesWe have many superpowers, yet this is one many of us don't realize we have access to. Our fishermen may not because they are exhausted, fishing, or all of the above.
In this episode, we discuss:
One skill POCFs may have more than their fishermen.
How to lean into this skill.
The #1 way to gain support when you utilize this power.
Let's Dive In!
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PRIVATE GROUP CHAT: Our lively group text chat is a space to connect immediately and anytime you need us. Sound fun? Click here to learn m...2024-10-3017 minPartners of Commercial FishermenHealthy Food Provisions for Fishing Trips and RoadtripsEating healthy can be challenging when you're on the go or deciding what to make for your fisherman (and their crew) for the season. A recent road trip inspired this one, and I hope this helps make food shopping and prepping a lot easier for you!
In this episode, we discuss:
- Best healthy meals to take along or send aboard.
- Foods that keep fresh for up to 3-5 days in the cooler or fridge.
- Easy meal combinations for everything you make.
*A complete list will be av...2024-10-2314 minPartners of Commercial Fishermen7 Ways to Connect w/ your Fisherman During a Long Fishing SeasonThis was inspired by a DM I received that said, “Hi! I just wanted some advice because I have been with my boyfriend for only three months (and he leaves for Alaska soon)…I just don't know how to deal with it...Do you know if there are any other apps that I can use or what else I can do?"
In this episode, I share:
- direct ways to communicate with your fisherman
- indirect ways to feel connected
- the one advantage we have as POCFs that other relationships lack...2024-10-1619 minPartners of Commercial FishermenConversation Prompts To Help Solve Challenges w Your PartnerThis lifestyle can stir up some BIG feelings that can sometimes show up in strange ways. Miscommunication can quickly lead to resentment if not addressed. If you’re feeling this or felt this, you’re not alone!
In this episode, I share 3 ways to fix it by discussing:
Three common scenarios between partners of commercial fishermen and their fishermen
Conversation prompts to help you discuss challenges with your partner in healthy, productive ways.
The one resource that will help you, no matter what phase of the season or relationship you are in.
Let’s Dive In!
...2024-10-0913 minPartners of Commercial Fishermen9 Easy Ways to Advocate for Your FisheryEnter to Win Scholarships from Guy Cotten & Partners of Commercial Fishermen!
We're giving $500 scholarships to 4 students and 1-year memberships to the Partners of Commercial Fishermen Forum to 4 POCFs. POCF winners will also receive access to private group chat, a one-year access to private podcasts (launching 2025), a one-year access to the private newsletter (launching 2025), 1 POCF Survival Guide, and 1 POCF Pride T-shirt.
Just fill out this form, and you will be automatically entered to win! Winners are to be announced on 10/10/24 through Instagram stories and emails. Thanks for your interest, and good luck!
>>> Enter to win he...2024-10-0221 minPartners of Commercial FishermenHow to Gain Public Interest in Commercial FishingEnter to Win Scholarships from Guy Cotten & Partners of Commercial Fishermen!
We're giving $500 scholarships to 4 students and 1-year memberships to the Partners of Commercial Fishermen Forum to 4 POCFs. POCF winners will also receive access to private group chat, a one-year access to private podcasts (launching 2025), a one-year access to the private newsletter (launching 2025), 1 POCF Survival Guide, and 1 POCF Pride T-shirt.
Just fill out this form, and you will be automatically entered to win! Winners will be announced on 10/10/24 through Instagram stories and emails. Thanks for your interest, and good luck!
>>> Enter to win here...2024-09-2526 minPartners of Commercial FishermenWorking Aboard with your Fisherman Might be a Great Idea & Here's WhyWhile in California recently to spend extra time with Chris and help him prep for spiny lobster season, I seriously considered fishing with him this season for about 5.5 hours.
In this episode, I share:
Advice from POCFs in our community about why working alongside their fisherman was a great decision for them (and reasons to consider doing it, too).
The POV of a female fisherman who is co-captaining with her partner and the challenges she recently experienced.
And the importance of every POCF, whether you're a co-captain, "shoreside" captain, stay-at-home parent, or in a new long-distance...2024-09-1826 minPartners of Commercial FishermenFisherman's Gone for 6 mo. + Tips On How I Make It WorkReturning to my solo POCF life after traveling with my fisherman to his fishery in California wasn’t as easy as it had been in the past, and it almost felt daunting. How did I do it before? How will I get through this long season? I felt the inklings of depression coming on, if I’m being honest.
Thankfully, I remembered the advice I’d gotten from POCFs and personal experience, and I went through each tip like a mental checklist to recalibrate myself back to life. In this episode, I share those exact tips that helped...2024-09-1132 minPartners of Commercial FishermenStory Time: When Your Fisherman is Married to the SeaDoes this title trigger you? You’re not alone! I know many Partners of Commercial Fishermen in our community can feel disconnected from their fishermen during the fishing season and even in the off-season. In this episode, I share a story about what it's like when I start to feel less like a priority during a season. I also share ways we can productively communicate our needs to our partners so that we can be heard, and the secret to feeling less alone even when we are alone (and you don’t have to connect with others to do it...2024-09-0432 minPartners of Commercial FishermenPt. 2: Maintaining Good Mental Health and Relationships For Commercial Couples with Psychiatrist Douglas Waldrep M.D.We are back with part two of a uniquely special episode to me because today we are continuing our conversation with retired Army officer Dr. Douglas Waldrep, who is a child, adolescent, and adult psychiatrist—also known as my dad! As you probably know by now, my upbringing as a military kid sparked the idea of creating Partners of Commercial Fishermen in the first place. My ultimate goal is to learn ways to best support us through fishing seasons and beyond. This begins with learning how to nurture our mental health.
In this episode, we touch on whi...2024-08-2834 minPartners of Commercial FishermenPt. 1 Maintaining Good Mental Health and Relationships For Commercial Couples with Psychiatrist Douglas Waldrep M.D.This episode is particularly special to me because today we have retired Army officer Dr. Douglas Waldrep, who is a child, adolescent, and adult psychiatrist—also known as my dad! As you probably know by now, my upbringing as a military kid sparked the idea of creating Partners of Commercial Fishermen in the first place. My ultimate goal is to learn ways to best support us through fishing seasons and beyond. This begins with learning how to nurture our mental health.
In this episode, we discuss the similarities between military and fishing families, the importance of family coh...2024-08-2128 minPartners of Commercial FishermenFishy Money Pt. 4: Private Community Members Share Financial Game Plans for Tough SeasonsAfter speaking to POCFs in our community, I’ve learned that the most helpful way to figure out the best financial plan for you is to learn what has successfully (and unsuccessfully) worked for others in our unique lifestyle, connect with financial professionals to ask questions, then create a financial plan that reflects your goals. That’s what this “Fishy Money” series is all about!
Continuing our conversation about handling financials during tough seasons, I share what two members of our private chat community have done in the past and what they do now to stay afloat. I also sh...2024-08-1415 minPartners of Commercial FishermenFishy Money Pt. 3: Deadliest Catch’s Jenny Gore Dwyer on the Decision to Buy a Third Boat and Working with the ALS Therapy Development InstituteOur chat with Jenny continues with so much heart. In this episode, we discuss her husband Pat and his diagnosis of ALS (amyotrophic lateral sclerosis), a rare degenerative disease also known as Lou Gherigs Disease. Jenny shares how ALS affected not only the family but also the fishing business, including financial management, and how the family came together to support each other during difficult times. Jenny also shares strategies for preparing for low or no seasons and the decision to expand their family's involvement in the fishing industry by adding a third boat to the fleet. She also gives...2024-08-0727 minPartners of Commercial FishermenFishy Money Pt. 2: Deadliest Catch’s Jenny Gore Dwyer on Money + Building a Legacy BusinessMaternal + POCF wisdom in a candid interview with Jenny Gore Dwyer of Deadliest Catch! Jenny has been a huge support to our community since the beginning, and this episode is a perfect example of that. We discuss the challenges and successes of running a fishing business since 1986 and how she and her husband, Pat, managed to grow from one boat to a fleet of three. Jenny shares what they had to do financially at times to make it work while raising two kids. Plus, she shares the one business decision that has kept the business profitable to this day...2024-07-3125 minPartners of Commercial FishermenFishy Money Pt. 1: Financial Game Plans for Tough SeasonsMONEY! Something every fishing household thinks about as frequently as the seasons and days come and go. Today, I’m sharing what two POCFs in our community do and have done financially to make money stretch when seasons tanked or were closed. These POCFs have been with their fishermen for over 20 and 40 years, so I'm passing along their knowledge to see if anything inspires you.
Disclaimer: I am presenting personal viewpoints of POCFS that do not directly reflect the opinions or positions of the POCF community. (I’m learning along with you and sharing advice and ways peopl...2024-07-2428 minPartners of Commercial FishermenFAQs: Common Qs About Our Community Answered!At times, requests from international organizations, students, and writers make it feel like we're the "Google" of the commercial fishing industry! People want to know exactly who we are, where we live, and how we contribute to the industry. We get into this and a whole lot more!
In this episode, we discuss:
- What exactly a POCF is, and where you'll find us.
- The invisible labor of POCFs (more than you can imagine!)
- What makes our community stand out, unique, and special.
- The reason why w...2024-07-1727 minPartners of Commercial FishermenHow to Care for Kids, Aging Adults, & Yourself with Dr. Melissa BatchelorPlenty of Partners of Commercial Fishermen solo parent for days, weeks, or up to six months at a time (maybe longer, depending on the fishery), and we have several in our community who also care for aging parents. Aging happens to us all, yet caretaking kids or elder adults can be easier than you think.
I’m honored to have Dr. Melissa Batchelor on this week. She hosts the podcast This is Getting Old: Moving Towards An Age-Friendly World and is also an experienced nurse and nurse practitioner (with many acronyms behind her name) based in W...2024-07-1052 minPartners of Commercial FishermenFisherman in Bristol Bay, AK? Same! Check out this Diary Entry of What It Was Like to Say GoodbyeThe Goodbye is Chapter One of The Diary of a Partner of a Commercial Fisherman, a limited series written in honor of POCFs preparing to send or have sent off their loved ones for the season.
Through 5 stories over 9 weeks, I shared my emotional journey of long-distance dating a fisherman in Bristol Bay, Alaska, including the uncertainty, frustration, & joys of a season apart. Inspired by Diary of a Sea Captain’s Wife, Tales of Santa Cruz Island by Margaret Holden Eaton. Hope you enjoy it!
Show Resources:
Diary of a Par...2024-07-0319 minPartners of Commercial FishermenFemale Fisherman Aboard: The REAL Reason You May Feel TriggeredIt is a controversial topic among the commercial fishing community and a popular concern among Partners of Commercial Fishermen during this time of year: how would you feel if your partner worked with a female deckhand or captain?
PSA: Our community is VERY supportive of female fishermen – some women in our community are also fishermen!
However, when it comes to a loved one sharing close quarters with a woman, the mind of a POCF can start to swirl into oblivion, questioning their relationships and even themselves. BUT there's a way out of it when we di...2024-06-2634 minPartners of Commercial FishermenSneak Peek! POCF Survival Guide, Chp 2: How To Go From WTF? to F*ck Yeah!Sneak Peek of Chapter 2 of the *brand new* eBook! Partners of Commercial Fishermen Survival Guide 101: How To Go From WTF? To F*ck Yeah! Valuable Tips and Advice for Navigating a Relationship with a Fisherman & Yourself - This is the book I wish existed when I began dating my fisherman!
In this episode, I share a letter from a POCF who is brand new to dating a commercial fisherman and is struggling. I’m sure many Partners of Commercial Fishermen will nod along to this letter and to the response because they’ve been there or stand where this P...2024-06-1909 minPartners of Commercial FishermenIt's Here! POCF Survivial Guide: How to Go from WTF? to F Yeah! Valuable Tips and Advice on how to navigate a Relationship with a Fisherman & YourselfI’m thrilled to share that our eBook is out now, and I’m reading a chapter to give you a taste of what to expect!
Partners of Commercial Fishermen Survival Guide: How to Go from What the F*ck? to F*ck Yeah! Valuable Tips and Advice on how to navigate a Relationship with a Fisherman & Yourself
I’ve wanted to write this book for a while, and I’m so happy it’s finally out in the world. It’s downloadable and it’s yours as soon as you purchase!
As I mentioned bef...2024-06-1211 minPartners of Commercial Fishermen8 Emotions You May Have When Your Fisherman is AwayHaving a loving relationship AND solo time during a fishing season is an incredible gift many relationships never experience.
Though missing your partner and worrying for their safety are inevitable feelings when your partner is at sea, there is also a freakin’ awesome side to having more time for yourself, like focusing on your wants and needs. Cultivating a strong, independent life and learning what brings you joy is a gift you’ll carry throughout your lifetime.
However, not all POCFs initially feel this way, and that’s normal. Allow yourself time to adjust and find y...2024-06-0512 minPartners of Commercial FishermenLetter: I Don't Feel Strong All The Time Ep. 55A question many POCFs ask themselves when beginning to date a fisherman - Can I Handle It?
In this episode, I reveal a heartfelt and relatable letter from a Partner of a Commercial Fisherman wondering if this lifestyle is for her. I also give advice on how I've worked through similar feelings and ways we can connect to uplift each other through the on and off-seasons. Let's Dive In!
Show Resources:
Your Sex Life & Dating a Commercial Fisherman
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Partners of Commercial FishermenChild-Free Experience: How I Came to the Decision Not to Have Kids as a POCFChild-Free Experience: How I Came to the Decision Not to Have Kids
We’re talking about the choice not to have children and what that experience has been like as a 42-year-old Partner of a Commercial Fisherman. In this episode, I touch on:
Interviews with 10 women, ranging from 19 to late sixties, on why they do or do not have kids
Deciding factors as a Partner of a Commercial Fisherman
The stigmas of child-free women
Real thoughts and concerns of those who don’t have kids
Feeling confident in y...2024-05-2229 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenHappy 1 Year Anniversary Thanks to YOU!Happy one-year anniversary of the POCF Podcast! I can’t believe a year has passed, and it’s been really special. I’ve loved being able to take the love and goodness I pour into the lifestyle blog and turn it into another way to connect with you!
Since launching the podcast in May of 2023, we’ve met other POCFs and have gotten inspired by their experiences in this lifestyle, we’ve covered important topics such as motherhood, mental health, addiction, finances, health, art, creativity, and, of course, relationships and so much more. Thank you for listening and coming...2024-05-1518 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenPt 2. How I’m Working Through Feelings of Longing for A Fast Approaching Fishing Season Ep. 52In this episode, I share the "Aha" moment I had after recording the previous episode (Part 1). After weeks of feeling kinda low about the fast-approaching fishing season in Bristol Bay, AK, I discovered the one "remedy" that helped me get out of the funk and back into enjoying day-to-day life with my fisherman again. I hope this helps if you're feeling this way, too!
Let's normalize having BIG feelings at any stage of the POCF game! In this episode, I give a real-time, first-hand account of how I'm currently working through the feelings of longing/sadness for...2024-05-0809 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenPt 1: How I’m Working Through Feelings of Longing for A Fast Approaching Fishing SeasonLet's normalize having BIG feelings at any stage of the POCF game! In this episode, I give a real-time, first-hand account of how I'm currently working through the feelings of longing/sadness for a fast-approaching season. The other morning over coffee, Chris said to himself, “I’m going back to Alaska this summer to run another boat.” As much as I love time to myself, the thought of another goodbye makes my heart drop.
It's easy to get hard on ourselves for experiencing the ups and downs of emotions whether you're in the on- or off-season. However...2024-05-0115 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenHow Fishermen + POCFs Can Live Pain Free Without Surgery with Physical Therapist Dr. Colleen Rollo of Paradigm Performance TherapyWhat I want most is for Partners of Commercial Fishermen to thrive in this unique lifestyle, and living without pain is definitely a huge part of that. That's why I'm happy to introduce you to my personal Physical Therapist, Dr. Colleen Rollo of Paradigm Performance Therapy.
I started going to Dr. Colleen in 2022 when I was experiencing symptoms related to carpal tunnel from repetitive movements due to writing on a computer daily. I worried I needed surgery, but was amazed how quickly I healed thanks to her personal exercises, 1:1 sessions, and the ability to ask her questions v...2024-04-2436 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenHow Depression, Addiction, + Pregnancy Loss Turned into Motherhood & a Family Seafood Business with Adra Kusnirova Ep. 49Adra Kusnirova is a former partner of a commercial fishing processor and part owner of a direct marketing family seafood business called Alaska Fresh. In this episode, we go deeper than just talking about business. We discuss long-distance dating and the challenges of living in remote Alaska with her partner, the isolation and depression she experienced during the rainy summers, and how she used alcohol to cope with depression and pregnancy loss. Adra also the way in which she prioritized her mental health to help get her out of the downward spiral.
Of course, this story ends o...2024-04-171h 05
Partners of Commercial FishermenPOCF Science Writer Danielle Hall on Why Fishermen Need to be Heard To Help The Environment Ep. 48POCF Danielle Hall is the Digital Producer for the Ocean Portal for the Smithsonian Institution and runs the Smithsonian National Museum's ocean education website.
Danielle was featured on the POCF blog in 2021 when she first moved in with her fisherman on a small Island in Maine. At the time, she had no real background in commercial fishing, and acclimating to a very small fishing community was a big challenge. It’s interesting to hear how life has changed for Danielle, including becoming an advocate for commercial fishing communities in addition to her work as a scientist.
...2024-04-1042 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenPOCF, Singer/Songwriter, & Restauranteur Sara Bug on the Creative Process + Dating a Gulf Coast Fisherman Ep. 47On today’s episode, POCF, Singer/Songwriter, & Restauranteur Sara Bug comes to us from Nashville, Tennessee.
If you’re curious about the singer-songwriter's creative process, love live music, or want to learn a little about running a family seafood restaurant, this episode is for you.
Inside the episode, Sara shares:
how she and her family started a restaurant selling Gulf Coast seafood
How she maintains a long-distant relationship with a Gulf Coast Fisherman
And insight into her creative process while writing her new album, Into the Blue.
Here’s H...2024-04-0348 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenStory Time: What Does a Hometown Mean to You? Ep. 46Today, I read my essay on being a Military Brat, one of the main inspirations for starting the Partners of Commercial Fishermen community. I want to give partners the same recognition, empowerment, and support that military spouses receive because we deserve it.
I've been a professional writer and journalist for over 11 years, and the discipline of writing has saved me more than I can express. This is one such piece.
I share to reiterate the importance of POCFs finding a passion they can come back to, something that is completely yours, separate from your fisherman...2024-03-2719 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenPOCF Ashley Green on AMSEA’s Free Safety Trainings for Commercial Fishermen Ep. 45Did you know there are free and discounted safety programs for commercial fishermen on every coast? It's true!
POCF Ashley Green is the Training Coordinator for AMSEA, Alaska Marine Safety Education Association in Sitka, Alaska. In this episode, we discuss Ashley's background in education, her relationship with her fisherman, Tyler, her experience as a partner of a commercial fisherman, including family adjustments when Tyler is away, plus the challenges and rewards of running a direct marketing business. We get into Ashely’s work with the Alaska Marine Safety Education Association (AMSEA), the various courses they offer for fre...2024-03-2043 min
Partners of Commercial Fishermen16 Yr. Old Cody Pratt on What It Means to be a 4th Generation Commercial Fisherman Ep. 44I was super impressed by Cody even before our interview. After searching his Instagram account @easytigerfishing, I was blown away by not only his passion for this career, but also how he handles comments from those who may have a negative attitude towards fishermen. I definitely took notes!
In this episode, we learn:
Cody's beginnings in commercial fishing, how he balances school and fishing, and what his peers think of his occupation.
The lessons he's learned from his grandfather on how to be a successful fisherman.
His opinion on "Graying of the Fleeting" and his thoughts on...2024-03-1326 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenBiggest Health Insurance Questions Answered w Agent Andy Hester Ep. 43What feeling do you get when you hear the word, "Health Insurance?" For some of us, it's positive. For others, it feels like an overwhelming task. In this episode, I speak with our personal health insurance agent, Andy Hester of Insurance Solutions NC, to answer and all questions regarding plans and how to make them work for us as commercial fishing families!
Andy explains the basics of health insurance, including its role as a financial protection mechanism, the factors that determine the cost, and the role of subsidies. He also clarifies the concept of coinsurance, discusses the...2024-03-0652 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenMental Health Specialist Kate Kripke on Partnerships, Parenthood, & Making Time for Yourself When You ”Have No Time.” Ep. 42Maternal Mental Health Specialist Kate Kripke was our very first episode on the podcast, so this is a beautiful full-circle moment to have you on at the beginning of 2024! In this episode, we learn about Kate's "3 C's:"
Curiousity
Compassion
Choice
And how to apply them to our partnerships, parenting, and ourselves. You'll enjoy this one as I get vulnerable as Kate walks me through moments of what it's like to reunite with your fisherman after a long season and how to mentally overcome stresses of fluxuating seafood prices.
Kate is also offering FREE CONSULATIONS to a...2024-02-281h 25
Partners of Commercial FishermenAuthor Donna Parker on the Writing Process, Fishing in AK, & Her Advice on Managing the POCF Life Ep. 41Donna's book, DEATH IN DUTCH HARBOR, is a "whodunnit" crime mystery now available on Amazon. In this episode, we talk about the writing process, her time as a journalist turned commercial fisherman in Alaska, surviving a sinking vessel (really!), and tips for POCFs that she found helpful during her husband's career as a fisherman. She also gives insights into how they made this lifestyle work through the unique way they supported each other's careers and dreams.
Find out more about Donna and her book at dmparkerauthor.com and get your copy at Amazon.com: https://amzn.to/3v...2024-02-211h 08
Partners of Commercial FishermenHow POCFs Handle Long Separations from Their Fishermen Ep. 40A recent newsletter sent to our POCF community sparked some feelings for our readers and some from me, too. In this episode, I dive into the kinds of emotions you can have when your fisherman leaves (from sad to elation), why it's normal, and why it's imperative for our sanity.
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Partners of Commercial FishermenThousands of Crab Gear Replaced + $100K Raised in Less Than A Week! How the Newport Fishermen’s Wives Played a Role Ep. 39When all was lost - ALL WAS NOT LOST! Here's how crab fishermen and West Coast communities rallied to replace up to 8,000 pot and raise over $114K in six days caused by the fire that swept Ilwaco Landing in Washington. Today's episode is with Taunette Dixson of the Newport Fishermen's Wives, giving us the back story on how they made this dream happen, mere days before the opener. Stories like this are what make our community so incredible. Hope you enjoy it!
Resources from Episode:
Newport Fishermen's Wives Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/NewportFishermensWives2024-02-0733 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenThe Emergency Kit You Didn’t Know You Need Aboard w/ Project Gabe Ep. 38Overall wellness comes in many forms, and being prepared for an opioid overdose can help save a life and protect everyone on board! Denise Damewood is a public health nurse in Sitka and created Project Gabe in honor of her stepson, Gabe Johnston, who passed away from an opioid overdose in January 2022. Project Gabe is a resource for harm reduction that provides opioid misuse awareness, education, and recovery tools.
In this episode, Denise provides information on the use and limitations of opioid reversal medications, the importance of fentanyl testing strips, and the implementation of Naloxone emergency boxes a...2024-01-3147 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenI Tried the Energy Protection Trick & It Worked! Here’s How It Relates to Commercial Fishing Ep. 37I share a personal story of how I used energy and breathwork tips this weekend and how it instantly worked when I faced an awkward confrontation, and how it relates to our lifestyle in commercial fishing.
Show Notes:
Learn breathwork and energy healing on last week's podcast w Breathwork Facilitator, Reiki Master, and Somatic Coach Brenda Winkle : https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/partners-of-commercial-fishermen/id1689251577?i=1000641932815
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Partners of Commercial FishermenHow-To Instantly Find Calm & Protect Your Energy with Breathwork Facilitator Brenda Winkle Ep. 36Did you know Maine Lobstermen have adapted breathwork practices to help regulate stress? This episode is filled with calm and comfort for our mental wellness and emotional stability for the new year! I’m so honored to introduce Brenda Winkle, a certified advanced trauma-informed breathwork facilitator, somatic coach, and trauma-informed Reiki Master, into our community.
Brenda shares with us the power of breathwork and the EASIEST breath pattern to calm the nervous system in seconds. It’s magic, it’s simple, and she’s sharing it all with you! We also discuss:
Her 10-breath method for inst...2024-01-1742 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenWhy I Did Therapy + Takeaways to Handle Anxiety In 2024 Ep. 35Happy 2024! I’m excited to start our year off with the theme “Independence within a Strong Partnership.” The first place to start is supporting yourself so you can support others you love most. We can all benefit from learning some tools to help through challenging times, and at Partners of Commercial Fishermen, we’re here to do it together.
Here are some helpful therapy takeaways for anxiety that we dive into in this episode:
Thought Stopping = visualize a big red stop sign in your mind to interrupt the thoughts that you were having that are escalatin...2024-01-1036 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenPart 3: How to Stay Sober w/ POCF Monique Coombs of the Maine Coast Fishermen’s AssociationIn this episode, Monique shares her journey to sobriety, her initiative "How to Stay Sober,” and the conscious choices she made that positively impacted her life. We also discuss the support available for those seeking to become sober or the sober curious. Resources from the episode:
How to Stay Sober: https://www.aragostamama.com/how-to-stay-sober
Visit Monique's blog: https://www.aragostamama.com/blog/2023/10/23/recommended-reading
@AragostaMama on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/CzU0bcnrUOi/?img_index=1
Maine Coast Fishermen’s Association: https://www.mainecoastfishermen.org/
One of my personal favorite alcohol-removed red wines: https://www.sechey.com/collections/red...2023-12-2731 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenPart 2: Unintoxicated and Uncomplicated: How to Make ”Sober Curious” A Lifestyle Choice with Jessa FrancesPart 2 of the Dry December Series, Unintoxicated and Uncomplicated: How to Make "Sober Curious" A Lifestyle Choice with Jessa Frances
Jessa is an alcohol-free beverage consultant, and in this episode, we touch on:
Her journey to sobriety
The Differences in “good for you” neurotropic, adaptogenic, and CBD drinks.
Substituting normal drinking habits with all the healthy alternatives out there.
Keep the conversation going with Jessa on Instagram @untoxicated.world, her website https://untoxicated.world/, and her sober lifestyle newsletter on Substack: https://jessafrances.substack.com/?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email.
*As A Bonus to this...2023-12-2047 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenDry December Series Part 1: My Sober Story + 6 Tips That Helped Me Quit Drinking AlcoholI decided December was a great time to introduce this series on sobriety (why wait until "dry January?"). This is the first part of the three-part series. The first episode features my sober story and six tips that helped me quit drinking, the second episode is an interview with a Non-Alcoholic beverage consultant Jessa Frances, and the third is the sober story of POCF Monique Coombs of the Maine Coast Fishermen's Association and her social media initiative, How To Stay Sober.
No matter if you’re contemplating sobriety, you are sober curious, or you are on the jou...2023-12-1329 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenRecap: Women in Commercial Fishing Panel & Pacific Marine Expo 2023Today we're discussing the Women in Commercial Fishing Panel highlighting the POCF Community hosted by Julie Kuchepatov of Seafood Gender Equality. I'm also giving a full review of the highlights from the Pacific Marine Expo 2023 that may inspire you for the new year. Episode Resources:
Project Gabe - Addressing onboard Opioid Overdose and Narcan support.
Marine Advisory Program Agent for Alaska Sea Grant
Coast Guard Tips APP (to report sexual misconduct, abuse, and more): CGIS Tips, a free download from the App Store or Google Play Store. Email Coast Guard Investigative Services at CGI...2023-12-0625 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenBest Fishing Boots Ever? A Chat with Tahma Boots Founder Bill Combs(Not Sponsored): It took Bill Combs, founder of Tama Boots, twelve years to perfect the sole for a slip-resistant boot that passes military approval. In this episode, we discuss his journey from founding Bogs Boots, to designing products for retailers and emphasizing the importance of pushing the boundaries to create groundbreaking footwear for commercial fishermen. Bill discusses the in-depth development process, which took over a decade due to constant testing and redesigning. He also discusses the unique ways he's vetted the boot factory to ensure fair wages and employee satisfaction while maintaining competitive pricing. Are these the best fishing...2023-11-2934 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenFishermen’s Wives: Coping with an Extraordinary OccupationToday is a reading from a study done in 1978 of New England POCFs called "Fishermen's Wives: Coping with an Extraordinary Occupation." I wanted to share this with you because it COMPLETELY VALIDATES our existence and the service of partners of commercial fishermen worldwide!
KEY POINTS:
How forced independence of our lifestyle benefits us in the long run.
The key to a fishermen's success in the industry.
The specific reason why POCFs are so important to the industry.
RESOURCES:
[Pre-Order] WE NOW HAVE GEAR! We recently got a new logo, and we are STOKED to...2023-11-2216 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenPerfect Gift Ideas for Commercial FishermenDon't know what to get a fisherman? You're not alone! In this episode, I share the top gift ideas voted on by the partners of the commercial fishermen community. The link below will take you to the list, including the number one gift NOT to get a fisherman and why. Happy Holidays, y'all!
meganwaldrep.com/commercial-fishermen-gifts
RESOURCES Just for POCFs
[Order] WE NOW HAVE GEAR! We recently got a new logo, and we are STOKED to represent our crew! Show your POCF pride by rockin’ our new T’s and vinyl stickers. Check out...2023-11-1514 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenFisherman Author Terry Evers & POCF D’Ann on 36 years of marriage & commercial fishing memoir Fifteen SeasonsThis is a groundbreaking episode because it is our first interview with a fishing couple! Author Terry Evers reached out to be on the podcast to talk about his memoir Fifteen Seasons, and when he mentioned he’d been married to his wife, D’Ann, for 36 years, I was even more thrilled to have him on.
Today, Terry is joined by his POCF D’Ann, and they discuss 36 years of marriage, his book, Fifteen Seasons, a memoir about the bond of a fisherman and son and a vibrant Oregon fishing community, and what it was like for him and...2023-11-0857 min
Partners of Commercial Fishermen55-Year-Old POCF Shares Her Relationship Fears w A FishermanToday, I’m sharing a personal email I received from a 55-year-old POCF whose sparse communication with her commercial fisherman is triggering past unhealthy relationships. I also share how I was able to overcome some of my own insecurities and my recommended tools for each transition.
If you find this relatable, be sure to check out our recommended resources to support your journey as a POCF, like the private online forum where you have access to POCFs worldwide and a growing bank of events, recordings, and helpful sources to aid you in this unique lifestyle, weekly blog po...2023-11-0116 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenWhat Helped Me Stay Present & Maximize QT When My Fisherman Surprised Me for the WeekendThis episode explores simple things that made life easier to maximize quality time when I learned my fisherman was visiting from California for a surprise three-day weekend home in Wilmington, North Carolina. Our Instagram community voted on this subject in a recent Story, and I’m passing it along in case it may help you, too!
Inside, we discuss:
How to nurture a smooth transition home.
Best foods and snacks to have on hand.
Ways for healthy communication
Resources:
How to Send a Care Package to a Fish...2023-10-2516 min
Partners of Commercial Fishermen6 Mo. Long-Distance From Fisherman While Raising 3 Kids w Sena Wheeler of Sena SeaSena Wheeler is well established as a POCF, and in this episode, she shares how yearly 6-month separations from her Fisherman while raising 3 kids is just part of their game. Sena also touches on:
What makes her life easier when you’re managing home solo.
The visualization technique she uses when anxiety rises.
Her mindset and advice for raising young kids on your own.
To learn more about Sena, visit their website: www.senasea.com
Check out the following interviews we've had on what it's like to run a fa...2023-10-1938 min
Partners of Commercial Fishermen3 Ways to Connect & Be Heard in the Commercial Fishing CommunityThis episode is all about helping YOU live your best life in the commercial fishing industry! In this episode, we discuss:
Ways I can help be a platform to get your issues heard and noticed by officials inside and outside of commercial fishing
A *Free In-Person Event* that I’d love for you to join in November at the Pacific Marine Expo! For tickets: https://www.pacificmarineexpo.com/
I'm sharing new additions and ways to connect in our *POCF Private Forum*, including private podcasts, virtual meet-ups, helpful resources for the POCF lifestyle, and more...2023-10-1018 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenBuoying the Fleet: What it Takes to Nurture an Industry Trish Whetstone of the BC Young Fishermen’s NetworkWhew, this one is FIRE! Our girl Trish Whetstone of the BC Young Fishermen's Network out of Canada, shares the backend of what they're doing to help new fishermen become successful in this industry, the challenges for new entrants and young fishers on the BC coast, and how they actively work to make things easier for everyone involved. WARNING: We get down and dirty, and *expletives* fly. Around the 49-minute mark, Trish speaks the truth most of us feel in our hearts, and it's hard not to tear up!
There's real talk, real laughs, and real heart be...2023-10-031h 18
Partners of Commercial FishermenHow to Run a Family Wholesale Fishing Business with Canadian POCF Mellissa Collier of West Coast Wild ScallopsThis is our first international episode with Canadian POCF Melissa Collier, where we learn how a husband and wife team created a wholesale fishing business without prior experience while raising two kids and how you can, too!
Connect with WC Wild Scallops through Instagram @wcwildscallops or learn more at www.wildscallops.ca
Helpful Recommendations by WC Wild Scallops:
NO FISHING ALLOWED Documentary
Local Catch Network
BC Young Fishermen’s Network
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Private Forum: If you want to connect further with others in our community, I’d love for you...2023-09-2652 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenYour Ideas Are Needed to Improve Fishermen Safety with Dr. Laurel Kincl of Oregon State UniversityWe've got a seat at the table! This is a behind-the-scenes look at a candid phone call with Dr. Laurel Kincl of Oregon State University. She called to learn from our POCF experience and ask what we would suggest to make fishing safer. I'm sharing because I want you to know that others outside the industry care and want to hear our opinions on the matter to improve commercial fishing at large! Also, your opinion is greatly welcomed! The Fishermen Led Injury Prevention Program (FLIPP) is conducting research over the next several years and would love your thoughts. After...2023-09-1935 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenHow To Get Free Money: The Grant Writing Process with POCF Bri Dwyer of Deadliest CatchWho wants free money? Sounds too good to be true, but it can happen! POCF Bri Dwyer explains the grant writing process and how you can apply to get grants and loans to help your personal fishing business and your community, too. I love this episode because, although you may know Bri from the wildly popular show Deadliest Catch, this conversation shows how a partner of a commercial fisherman works hard to give back to the industry. We also hear updates on family life and what Alaska means to Bri, which makes this episode extra sweet.
To...2023-09-1241 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenHow the Newport Fishermen’s Wives Support Community w/ Taunette DixonThis is a POCF celebrity interview! Tuanette Dixon of the Newport Fishermen's Wives out of Newport, Oregon shares what it's really like to support a local fishing community, the important role they play in keeping fishermen and families cared for, and how you can join if you're in Newport, too!
To learn more about the Newport Fishermen's Wives, check out Taunette's interview on meganwaldrep.com or visit newportfishermenswives.com.
Must read: Salt in our Blood by Michelle Longo Eder
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The Lighthouse: If you want to connect further w...2023-09-0538 min
Partners of Commercial FishermenBehind the Curtain of National Fisherman Magazine w POCF Carli StewartHow does the only national magazine for the commercial fishing industry do it? National Fisherman Content Specialist & POCF Carli Stewart shares what it's like behind the press (it takes a lot!), how her childhood as a commercial fishing kid shapes her point of view, and the ways she connects with the industry, which also includes a trip to the Pacific Marine Expo this year. We'd love for you to join us!
To learn more about National Fisherman Magazine and to sign up for the weekly newsletter, visit www.nationalfisherman.com
To get tickets to the...2023-08-2927 min
The Conch podcastThe Conch Podcast-Megan WaldrepDid you know that partners of commercial fishermen are an unseen, yet critical part of the seafood industry? They play invaluable roles in supporting their fishermen partners, and thereby the industry itself, yet are generally unrecognized and unpaid for this labor. In this episode of The Conch podcast, we learn how one woman created a community of support for Partners of Commercial Fishermen to share experiences, valuable advice, and overall information about seafood, all while uniting life partners of those engaged in one of the planet’s most dangerous professions - fishing. Julie welcomes to The Conch po...2022-08-2339 min