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Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 108: Where is Your Husband's Heart?In this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores how toxic in-law relationships impact the emotional energy and intimacy within Catholic marriages. Drawing on Scripture and her own experience, Miriam delves into the painful dynamic of husbands whose hearts are tied more to their parents than their wives, and how this affects marital connection. Whether you’re struggling with feeling like a roommate or longing for deeper intimacy, this episode offers validation, practical insights, and encouragement for navigating these challenges while protecting the sacredness of your marriage.If you li...
2026-02-0718 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 106: Why Your Husband Doesn't See What You SeeIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores why your husband doesn't see the toxic behaviors from his parents that you do—and what that means for your marriage. Drawing from her own decades-long experience, Miriam offers understanding and support to Catholic wives feeling isolated or invalidated by their spouse’s perspective. She explains the roots of your husband’s loyalty and blindness, and provides encouragement for women to trust their discernment and gently protect their peace, even when their husbands aren’t yet able to recognize unhealthy patterns. If you feel unseen a...
2026-01-2428 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 105: Why Toxic In-Law Drama Leaves Nothing for What MattersIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores why toxic in-law drama drains your energy and leaves little for what truly matters. Drawing from decades of personal experience, she relates the emotional toll these relationships take—often leaving wives and husbands in survival mode, unable to fully connect with their families or live out their vocations. With practical advice, scriptural encouragement, and heartfelt validation, Miriam Susan offers guidance on how to reclaim your peace, set healthy boundaries, and refocus on what truly deserves your attention. If you feel depleted by constant in-law dr...
2026-01-1729 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 102: Part 2 Interview with Kylie HeinIn this Part 2 episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan continues her conversation with Catholic mindset coach, Kylie Hein, to explore the impact of mental clutter on relationships with in-laws and within marriage. Together, they discuss practical ways to declutter your mind, navigate emotional triggers, and foster healthier communication, especially when dealing with unsupportive or dismissive spouses. Drawing from their own experiences and Catholic spirituality, this conversation offers hope and actionable steps for wives striving for peace amidst family turmoil. If you long to respond with charity and clarity—even in the most trying si...
2025-12-2729 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 101: Part 1 of an Interview with Kylie HeinIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan welcomes Catholic mindset coach Kylie Hein to discuss the powerful topic of mental clutter and how it affects our spiritual and emotional lives. Together, they dive into the impact of thought spiraling, especially around challenging in-law relationships, and explore practical steps for gaining peace and clarity. If you struggle with racing thoughts, guilt, or frustration as a Catholic wife, this episode offers faith-filled guidance and encouragement to help you find God's presence in the midst of mental and relational chaos.o...
2025-12-2038 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 100: Part 2 of an Interview with Adrian and Shaelyn MisiakIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan continues her heartfelt conversation with Adrian Misiak and Shaelyn Misiak, the husband-and-wife duo behind Third Way mentorship. Together, they explore practical strategies for couples to protect and strengthen their marriages amidst the chaos of toxic in-law dynamics, sharing personal stories and faith-filled insights. Whether you're just starting to set boundaries or have struggled for years, this episode will encourage you to focus on healing, self-growth, and leaning on God in your journey. https://adrianandshae.com/IG: @adrianandshae
2025-12-1349 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 99: Interview with Adrian & Shae Misiak of Third Way MentorshipIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan sits down with Shaelin Misiak and Adrian Misiak, the husband-and-wife Catholic mentorship team behind Third Way Mentorship, to discuss the challenges of enmeshment and unhealthy family loyalty in marriage. Drawing from both personal stories and professional insights, the episode explores how spouses can recognize and navigate toxic family dynamics while building healthier boundaries. Whether you're struggling with your own in-laws or supporting a spouse through difficult family relationships, this episode provides compassionate advice and practical steps for cultivating peace and freedom within Catholic families.
2025-12-0655 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 98: Why Holidays Make Toxic In-Laws' Behavior Seem AcceptableIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores why holidays can make toxic in-law behavior seem more acceptable. Drawing from her decades of personal experience, she delves into the cultural and spiritual pressures that tempt Catholic wives to overlook disrespect and boundary violations during the festive season. Through relatable examples and thoughtful reflection, she encourages listeners to seek true peace rooted in Christ, rather than settling for superficial family harmony. If you struggle with challenging in-laws around the holidays, this episode offers validation, comfort, and practical insight.
2025-11-2919 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 97: What Saying "Yes" to Toxic In-Laws Costs YouIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores the hidden costs of always saying "yes" to toxic in-laws, especially during the busy holiday season. Drawing on her decades of personal experience, she unpacks how these choices can affect your marriage, your children, and your own well-being. With practical advice and empathy, Miriam encourages listeners to recognize the impact of their decisions and nurture peace within their immediate families, even when difficult boundaries must be set. This episode is a reassuring companion for Catholic wives seeking clarity and support through challenging family dynamics.
2025-11-2225 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 96: When Toxic Grandparents Rewrite RealityIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores the unsettling topic of grandparents who rewrite reality for their grandchildren. Drawing from psychological studies and her own experiences, Miriam discusses how toxic in-laws can manipulate children's memories and perceptions, especially during unsupervised visits. With practical insights and encouragement, this episode empowers Catholic wives to trust their instincts and protect their children’s sense of truth and safety. Whether you’re struggling with boundary issues or seeking validation in your family dynamics, this conversation offers both comfort and guidance.If you...
2025-11-1517 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 95: If Toxic In-Laws Wanted to Change, They WouldIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores the reality behind the phrase "if they wanted to, they would," especially as it pertains to toxic in-laws and their unwillingness to change. Drawing on personal experience and practical wisdom, she encourages listeners to accept in-laws for who they are and to protect their own peace, particularly as the holiday season approaches. If you've ever found yourself making excuses for hurtful behavior or feeling responsible for family harmony, this episode offers the clarity and validation you need to move forward with grace and discernment.
2025-11-0819 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 94: 3 Ways to Honor Toxic In-LawsIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores three powerful ways to honor your toxic in-laws while maintaining your dignity and peace. Drawing from Catholic teaching and her own decades of experience, she sheds light on the real meaning of honor and respect, especially when boundaries must be set. This episode is a must-listen for any Catholic wife struggling with difficult in-law dynamics and wanting practical, faith-filled strategies for protecting her marriage and children. Discover how honoring your in-laws can look very different from what you’ve been taught, and why prioritizing yo...
2025-11-0124 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 93: Going No Contact with Toxic GrandparentsIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores the difficult decision of going no contact with toxic grandparents and its impact on family dynamics. Drawing from personal experiences, Miriam Susan explains how disrespect and manipulation directed at mothers inevitably affect their children. This episode offers validation and encouragement for Catholic wives facing guilt and confusion over setting boundaries, helping you protect your family's peace and integrity. If you’re considering no contact or struggling with the fallout, you’ll find supportive guidance and practical insights in this week’s discussion.
2025-10-2523 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 92: The #1 Reason Adult Children Go No Contact with Their ParentsEver wonder what pushes adult children to go no contact with their parents?It's rarely about one big dramatic event. It's more about a painful calculation that might be happening right now without anyone realizing it. 😰In this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, Miriam Susan shares the #1 reason families reach this breaking point—and why recognizing it doesn't make you a bad Catholic. ❤️You're not alone in this.#CatholicWives #ToxicInLaws #BoundaryIssues #CatholicMarriage #NoContact #HealthyBoundaries #CatholicPodcast #InLawProb...
2025-10-1822 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 91: When No Contact Doesn't Feel PeacefulIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan talks about something most people don't tell you: Cutting off contact with your in-laws isn't always peaceful. You went no contact, expecting peace, but got chaos instead. Guilt, flying monkeys, and constant second-guessing—why does protecting your family feel so wrong? This episode explains what nobody seems to talk about when it comes to the no contact journey and why the turmoil doesn't mean you made the wrong choice.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of...
2025-10-1140 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 90: Stop Saying "I'm Sorry" to Your Toxic In-LawsIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores the reasons why so many Catholic wives find themselves automatically apologizing to their toxic in-laws, even when they’ve done nothing wrong. Drawing on her own decades of experience, Miriam unpacks the difference between genuine and “toxic” apologies and offers practical advice for breaking the cycle of unnecessary guilt. If you’re tired of apologizing for your boundaries and choices, this episode will help you speak truthfully and reclaim your peace without compromising your faith.Tired of feeling like you're the only...
2025-10-0417 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 89: 9 Boundaries to Set with Toxic PeopleIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan shares nine simple boundaries to help Catholic wives navigate challenging relationships with toxic in-laws. Drawing on her decades of personal experience, Miriam explains both internal and external boundaries—from screening phone calls to limiting information sharing—to safeguard your family’s peace and well-being. If setting boundaries feels difficult or uncomfortable, this episode offers practical scripts and reassuring encouragement, all while rooting your journey in faith and Scripture. Whether you’re new to boundary-setting or seeking fresh ideas, Miriam’s advice will empower you to nurture he...
2025-09-2740 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 88: Why Your Voice MattersIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores why your voice matters when navigating difficult relationships with toxic in-laws. Drawing from scripture and her own personal journey, Miriam empowers Catholic wives to speak up for truth and healing, even when silence feels easier. She addresses the struggle of maintaining peace versus enabling harmful behavior, offering practical advice and encouragement. Whether you're afraid of rocking the boat or unsure if your experience is valid, this episode will help you find the courage to stand up for yourself and your family with compassion and...
2025-09-2027 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 87: Lesser of Two Evils with Toxic In-LawsIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan tackles the complex topic of dealing with the "lesser of two evils" when your seemingly nicer in-law still contributes to a toxic family dynamic. Drawing from her own decades-long experience, Miriam Susan unpacks the confusion and guilt that can arise when comparing in-laws and emphasizes the importance of recognizing and setting boundaries with all unhealthy behavior. If you find yourself struggling with mixed feelings about your in-laws, this episode offers validation, honest advice, and spiritual encouragement to help you seek peace in your own Catholic...
2025-09-1327 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 86: Why You Can't Fight This Battle AloneIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores why you can't fight the battle with toxic in-laws alone. Drawing from her own decades-long journey, Miriam highlights the danger of isolation, the biblical roots of seeking community, and the importance of reaching out for support. She shares practical wisdom on finding validation and clarity through faith-based connection. If you've been carrying this heavy burden by yourself, this episode offers comforting guidance and an invitation to a supportive community.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the...
2025-09-0619 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 85: Part 2 - Interview with Veronika of Catholic Narcissist RecoveryIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan continues her conversation with Veronika from Catholic Narcissist Recovery on the real meaning of forgiveness and setting boundaries with toxic in-laws. Together, they discuss common misconceptions about forgiveness, how to discern God’s will amidst family strife, and why sometimes physical distance is the most loving response. This episode offers compassionate guidance and practical advice for Catholic wives struggling with guilt, boundaries, and the pressure to “forgive and forget”—reminding you that seeking peace and healing is not only possible, but deeply faithful.Tir...
2025-08-3030 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 84: Part 1 - Interview with Veronika of Catholic Narcissist RecoveryIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan welcomes Veronika from Catholic Narcissist Recovery for part one of a powerful interview. Together, they dive deep into the challenges Catholic wives face when dealing with narcissistic or toxic in-laws, highlighting subtle red flags to watch for and the importance of healthy boundaries. Veronika shares about her own journey back to the faith and her mission to help survivors heal through Christ. If you're seeking validation, practical advice, and hope for navigating difficult family relationships with love and forgiveness, this episode is for you.
2025-08-2334 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 83: Part 2 Interview with Dr. Carron SilvaIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, Miriam Susan shares part two of an interview on Dr. Carron Silva’s podcast, Forgiveness is for YOU. Miriam opens up about pivotal moments in her marriage and offers practical advice on protecting your family while pursuing peace. Listeners will gain encouragement to assert their needs, navigate toxic dynamics with faith, and embrace forgiveness even without reconciliation.If you're struggling to heal and seek clarity amid challenging in-law relationships, this episode is for you.For more content on the topic of forgiveness, check out...
2025-08-1626 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 82: Part 1 Interview with Dr. Carron SilvaIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, Miriam Susan shares part one of an interview on Dr. Carron Silva’s podcast, Forgiveness is for YOU. Miriam speaks about navigating marriage and motherhood while dealing with controlling and boundary-crossing in-laws. Drawing on her faith and nearly 30 years of lived experience, Miriam explores the impact of enmeshment, the challenge of setting healthy boundaries, and the toll of ongoing family conflict. Whether you're struggling with toxic in-laws or seeking peace in your own family, this episode offers validation, support, and practical wisdom for honoring your marriage and mental hea...
2025-08-0937 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 81: Why You Should Believe Your Toxic In-LawsIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores why it’s important to believe your toxic in-laws—specifically, by paying attention to their actions rather than their words. Drawing from her decades of experience navigating difficult in-law relationships, Miriam shares practical advice on how to recognize manipulation tactics and trust your own instincts. If you feel confused or exhausted after family visits, this episode will give you validation, clarity, and gentle encouragement to pursue peace within your immediate family.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees...
2025-08-0222 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 80: When Love and Harm Coexist- Understanding Your Husband's Toxic ChildhoodIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores the complex dynamic of when love and harm coexist in your husband's relationship with his parents. She unpacks why your husband may have deep fondness for his parents despite their current harmful behaviors, and how mixed childhood experiences shape adult relationships. With empathy and wisdom gained from 30 years of navigating her own in-law challenges, Miriam offers validation and practical advice for Catholic wives seeking to make sense of their husbands' loyalty to difficult parents. If you've ever wondered how loving memories and ongoing toxicity...
2025-08-0124 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 79: The Hidden Wound from Toxic In-LawsIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan uncovers a hidden wound that many Catholic wives experience at the hands of toxic in-laws. Drawing from her own three decades of personal experience and the insights of Dr. Caroline Fleck, Miriam explores how subtle words and dismissive phrases can deeply impact your sense of self-worth and family harmony. With empathy and practical advice, this episode will help you recognize invalidation, protect your emotional well-being, and break unhealthy cycles for the next generation.Tired of feeling like you're the only one...
2025-07-1918 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 78: Standing up for yourself with Toxic In-lawsIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores what it really means to stand up for yourself with toxic in-laws without feeling mean or ungrateful. Drawing from her own decades of experience, Miriam unpacks the misconceptions around assertiveness and keeping the peace, and offers practical examples of setting healthy boundaries rooted in both love and truth. If you've ever felt trapped between being a doormat or coming off as harsh, this episode will encourage you to communicate with your in-laws charitably while protecting your peace.Tired of feeling...
2025-07-1116 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 77: Showing Mercy with BoundariesIn this episode of the Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores what it means to show mercy with boundaries when navigating challenging in-law relationships. Drawing on her own experiences and Catholic teachings, Miriam dives into the difference between people-pleasing and true mercy, offering practical examples for creating healthy boundaries that honor your dignity and faith. If you're struggling with guilt or confusion about setting limits, this episode provides compassion, clarity, and concrete steps to help you respond with both charity and strength.Article mentioned in this episode: https://www.catholic...
2025-07-0522 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 76: When Toxic In-Laws' Opinions Become Your PrisonIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan explores what happens when toxic in-laws' opinions become a mental prison for Catholic wives. Drawing from her own experience and Scripture, she highlights the emotional cost of seeking approval from those who may never truly accept us. Miriam Susan offers both validation and practical reflection questions to help listeners reclaim their peace and refocus on God’s view of their worth. If you’re feeling trapped by your in-laws’ criticism, this episode is a gentle reminder that your value comes from God alone.Tire...
2025-06-2814 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 75: Having the Courage to Be Disliked by Your Toxic In-LawsIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan explores the topic of having the courage to be disliked by your toxic in-laws. Drawing on biblical wisdom and her own three decades of experience, Miriam explains why seeking approval at any cost is not true peace and how Christ’s example can inspire Catholic wives to set healthy boundaries. With honest reflections and practical encouragement, this episode empowers listeners to prioritize God’s will and find true freedom in their family relationships. Whether you struggle with people-pleasing or fear conflict with your in-laws, you’ll gain i...
2025-06-2117 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 74: Loving Your Toxic In-Laws Without Living PeaceablyIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan explores how to lovingly navigate relationships with toxic in-laws—even when a peaceful coexistence isn’t possible. Drawing from scripture and her own decades of in-law challenges, Miriam unpacks what it truly means to love those who repeatedly cross boundaries and reject peace. If you struggle to reconcile love with self-protection, this episode offers validation and practical wisdom rooted in faith and experience. Tune in for compassionate encouragement on setting healthy limits while still fulfilling your calling to love.Tired of feeling like...
2025-06-1418 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 73: Breaking the Comparison Trap with Toxic in-LawsIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan breaks down the comparison trap many Catholic wives face when dealing with toxic in-laws. She highlights how toxic behavior exists on a spectrum and validates every woman's unique experience, no matter where it falls. Drawing from her own decades-long journey, Miriam offers practical encouragement and a faith-based perspective for women who may feel their struggles "aren't bad enough" to matter. Tune in for compassionate advice and empowering questions that will help you honor your feelings and seek peace in difficult family dynamics....
2025-06-0722 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 72: The Biggest Mistake I Made About My Toxic In-Laws.mp3In this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan reflects on the biggest mistake she made about her toxic in-laws: believing that love would be enough to make them change. Drawing on her nearly three decades of personal experience, Miriam explores the difference between genuine, unconditional love and the manipulative patterns often seen in toxic family dynamics. This episode offers support and clarity for Catholic wives struggling with unmet expectations and lingering hope for change, reminding listeners they are not alone on this challenging journey.Tired of feeling like you're the...
2025-05-3118 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 71: Entitled Toxic in-Laws as GrandparentsIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan delves into the challenges posed by entitled, toxic in-laws who overstep boundaries as grandparents. Drawing from her own decades-long experience, Miriam explores how these dynamics impact mothers, children, and marriages while grounding her discussion in Catholic teaching and scripture. If you’ve ever struggled to set boundaries with difficult in-laws, this episode will offer you validation, practical insights, and encouragement for protecting your family's peace.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're no...
2025-05-2423 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 70: When Toxic In-Laws See You as CompetitionIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan explores the difficult dynamics that arise when toxic in-laws view you as competition. Drawing on her nearly three decades of personal experience, she sheds light on the subtle signs of unhealthy family rivalry and how it disrupts marital harmony. Miriam Susan offers a thoughtful Catholic perspective on honoring parents without enabling toxic behavior, and encourages wives to pursue peace and healthy boundaries in their homes. If you're struggling with in-law competition or confusion over family roles, this episode will equip you with practical wisdom and spiritual...
2025-05-1719 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 69: Interview with Relationship Expert, Dana NygaardIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan sits down with relationship expert and Catholic psychotherapist, Dana Nygaard, to explore the impact of unhealthy relationship patterns on Catholic marriages, especially when dealing with difficult in-laws. Dana shares her wisdom on setting boundaries, breaking free from generational enmeshment, and fostering a marriage rooted in faith and mutual respect. Whether you’re navigating toxic in-law dynamics or seeking healthier ways to protect your marriage, this encouraging and insightful conversation is packed with practical advice for Catholic wives striving for peace.You ca...
2025-05-1057 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 68: Why Toxic People Love To Target Faithful CatholicsIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan explores why toxic people often target faithful Catholics, especially within in-law relationships. Drawing from her own experience navigating decades of family drama, she unpacks how toxic individuals twist Catholic virtues and teachings to manipulate boundaries and exploit patience. With practical examples and scriptural wisdom, Miriam Susan offers clarity and empowers listeners to recognize unhealthy patterns while remaining rooted in their faith. If you’re struggling with challenging in-laws, this episode will equip you with insight and encouragement to reclaim your peace.Tired of...
2025-05-0317 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 67: Post Easter Emotional Hangover with Toxic In-LawsIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan explores the concept of a “post Easter emotional hangover” after navigating challenging holiday interactions with toxic in-laws. Drawing from her nearly three decades of personal experience, she unpacks the physical and emotional symptoms that often follow these family gatherings and offers compassionate, faith-based guidance for processing disappointment and setting boundaries. Whether you felt drained, unsupported, or simply overwhelmed after Easter, this episode will help you feel validated and provide practical steps to protect your peace and family.Tired of feeling like you're the...
2025-04-2623 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 66: Why You're (Probably) Not a NarcissistIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan explores the common fear of being the narcissist in a relationship, particularly when dealing with toxic in-laws. With insights based on nearly three decades of personal experience, she reassures listeners that self-doubt often signifies empathy rather than narcissism. Whether you’re questioning your own behavior or enduring gaslighting from challenging in-laws, this episode offers comforting clarity and practical advice on maintaining healthy self-awareness.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, an...
2025-04-1916 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 65: Boundaries and AuthenticityIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan delves into the essential topics of boundaries and authenticity. She shares insights on listening to your body's signals and understanding how stress from challenging in-law relationships can manifest physically. With nearly 30 years of personal experience navigating in-law dynamics, she offers practical advice to help Catholic wives remain true to themselves while fostering healthier family interactions. Whether you're struggling to maintain authenticity or discern the stress signals from your body, this episode provides the clarity and encouragement needed for your journey toward peace....
2025-04-1227 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 64: No Contact: Is It Just a Trend?In this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan delves into whether going no contact with in-laws is a modern solution, just a trend or a modern problem. Drawing from her own experiences and observations, she explores the dynamics that lead to estrangement and the impact of technology on family relationships. Miriam offers insights into the underlying factors driving the decision to cut ties, providing encouragement and understanding for those facing similar challenges. Whether you're contemplating no contact or seeking validation for your choices, this episode will guide you towards finding peace within your family...
2025-04-0531 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 63: Radical AcceptanceIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan delves into the concept of radical acceptance as a means to find peace amidst challenging relationships with in-laws. Drawing from her own experiences with in-law drama, Miriam provides insights on how accepting reality can lead to emotional freedom and strength. Whether you're struggling with difficult family dynamics or seeking healthier boundaries, this episode offers valuable guidance for Catholic wives navigating these intricate relationships.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone...
2025-03-2921 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 62: The Key to Finding Peace with Toxic In-LawsIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan delves into the key to finding peace with toxic in-laws by harnessing the transformative power of your mind. She shares invaluable insights from her personal experiences of navigating nearly three decades of in-law challenges, emphasizing the significance of changing perspectives and detaching from emotional responses. Whether you're seeking to reclaim your peace or better understand your husband’s family dynamics, this episode provides compassionate advice and practical strategies to navigate these complex relationships.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who se...
2025-03-2240 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 61: The Family Identity Crisis - Building Your Own Family Culture vs. Extending TheirsIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan explores the family identity crisis of building your own family culture versus extending the traditions of your in-laws. She delves into the Catholic faith's teachings, offering guidance to help navigate challenges with in-laws while establishing a unique family identity. Whether you're striving to maintain harmony or create new traditions, this episode provides valuable insights and encouragement for Catholic wives seeking peace and autonomy in their family dynamics.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's...
2025-03-1538 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 60 - Navigating the _T_ Word and the _A_ Word.mp3In this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan explores how to discuss sensitive issues with your husband when dealing with toxic or abusive in-laws. Drawing from her own experiences of nearly three decades, she shares practical ways to communicate effectively without triggering defensiveness. Discover strategies to navigate challenging family dynamics with compassion and insight, aiming towards more peaceful and harmonious relationships. Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws...
2025-03-0843 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 59: 5 Powerful Words That Can Change How You Use BoundariesIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan introduces a powerful five-word phrase to help you enforce boundaries with challenging in-laws. Drawing from her extensive experience, Miriam discusses the simplicity and effectiveness of the "broken record technique" to calmly assert your needs and maintain peace. If you're dealing with toxic family dynamics, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement to address these issues with respect and confidence.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy...
2025-03-0119 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 58: Food for Thought - Scrupulosity and a Lack of PeaceIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan delves into the topic of scrupulosity and its impact on a Catholic wife's peace of mind. Drawing from her experiences and insights from Father Jacques Philippe's book, she explores the distinction between true and false repentance and how it affects peace. Whether you're navigating the challenges of toxic in-laws or battling inner remorse, this episode offers valuable perspectives to help you discern true repentance and cultivate a tranquil spirit of peace.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the...
2025-02-2209 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 57: "Love is Patient; Love Is Kind": Reframing 1 Corinthians 13In this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan explores the "love" verses from 1 Corinthians 13 and reframes them from how toxic in-laws twist their meaning. She delves into the complexities of how these Scriptures are commonly used to control and guilt by toxic people and looks at the meaning these verses should have. This episode provides listeners with the encouragement needed to protect family dynamics while still embracing true love and compassion. Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone...
2025-02-1526 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 56: Why Boundaries Are NOT the SolutionIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan delves into why boundaries are not the ultimate solution to dealing with challenging in-laws. Highlighting the significance of enforcing boundaries rather than just setting them, she addresses the spiritual and relational benefits of maintaining these limits. Drawing from her nearly three decades of personal experience, she provides valuable insights on fostering healthier, more peaceful family dynamics through integrity and authentic Christian charity.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and...
2025-02-0824 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 55: When Distance Brings Peace_ Understanding Boundaries with Toxic GrandparentsIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan delves into the complex subject of setting boundaries with toxic grandparents. Drawing from her experiences and nearly three decades of personal encounters with in-law drama, she discusses the importance of protecting your children's spiritual and emotional well-being from harmful relationships. She reflects on scriptural guidance and the teachings of the Catholic Church to emphasize the significance of creating a healthy family dynamic.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and...
2025-02-0137 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 54: Bearing fruit in difficult soilIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan delves into "Bearing fruit in difficult soil," focusing on maintaining your God-given identity amidst challenging in-laws with the application of the fruits of the spirit—such as love, peace, and self-control—to navigate these complex relationships. This episode offers practical guidance and spiritual insights for Catholic wives seeking to honor their authentic selves while fostering healthier family dynamics.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Cath...
2025-01-2535 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 53: When Is It Worth Reconsidering Contact?In this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan delves into the delicate decision of reconsidering contact with toxic in-laws. Drawing from her nearly 3 decades of personal experience, she explores the motivations, potential catalysts, and warning signs involved in re-establishing these complex relationships. Whether you're facing pressure to reconnect or questioning if a significant life event warrants it, this episode provides thoughtful guidance and empathetic support to help navigate these challenging dynamics with wisdom and peace.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's...
2025-01-1831 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 52: You Have PowerIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan delves into the topic of power within challenging in-law dynamics. She emphasizes the tremendous authority you hold in your family. Learn how to confidently assert your rightful place and navigate opposition with love, all while fostering a healthier family dynamic. If you're facing resistance from toxic in-laws, this episode will provide the encouragement and guidance you need to stand firm in your values.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone...
2025-01-1111 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 51: Why Toxic In-Laws Pretend Not to Understand Your BoundariesIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan explores the perplexing behavior of toxic in-laws who pretend not to understand established boundaries. Drawing from nearly 3 decades of personal experience dealing with in-law challenges, Miriam sheds light on the intentional nature behind this false confusion and offers a scriptural lens to better comprehend the issue. She provides listeners with practical insights on how to navigate these stormy waters, emphasizing the importance of standing firm in your resolve to prioritize your family's well-being. Whether you or your husband face this ongoing struggle, this episode is filled...
2025-01-0423 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 50: Hurting and Healing are 2 Sides of the Same CoinIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan delves into the interconnected journey of hurting and healing when faced with toxic in-laws. She shares heartfelt insights on recognizing familial toxicity, offering practical advice on setting healthy boundaries in marriage. With personal anecdotes and a focus on spiritual growth, Miriam reassures listeners that they are not alone in their struggles, providing the encouragement needed to stand firm against negative influences with faith and resilience.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're...
2024-12-2829 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 49: 5 Ways to Ruin Your In-Laws' ChristmasIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan humorously explores "5 Ways to Ruin Your In-Laws' Christmas," offering empowering strategies to navigate toxic holiday dynamics. With her nearly 30 years of experience dealing with in-law drama, Miriam provides practical yet light-hearted tips on prioritizing your immediate family's peace during the festive season. From choosing mass times to gift screenings and meal control, this episode encourages Catholic wives to stand firm in their family decisions while finding joy in the true meaning of Christmas.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who...
2024-12-2223 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 48: Keeping Secrets vs. Healthy PrivacyIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan delves into the differences between keeping secrets vs. maintaining healthy privacy when dealing with toxic in-laws. She provides practical guidance from a biblical and catechetical standpoint to help navigate these familial dynamics with confidence. Whether you're struggling with enmeshed relationships or finding it difficult to set boundaries, this episode will equip you with the tools to protect your marriage while fostering peace.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and...
2024-12-0742 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 47: Food for Thought - What If?In this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan explores the pervasive question of "what if" that often plagues Catholic wives dealing with toxic in-laws. She shares valuable insights drawn from nearly 3 decades of personal experience, emphasizing why these "what if" scenarios can keep you stuck and how to break free for the sake of your primary family. Whether you're contemplating cutting off contact or simply seeking peace during the holidays, this episode provides the encouragement and practical advice you need to navigate these difficult relationships with courage and compassion.Tired...
2024-11-3014 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 46: Letting Things SlideThe Catholic Wives Desiring Peace Podcast is back with another Food for Thought episode. This week's topic is about letting things slide. If you have overlooked things that bother you or hurt your family because you want to "keep the peace" with your in-laws, this episode is for you. Host, Miriam Susan, takes a quick dive into this topic about how trying to turn a blind eye to toxic behavior may be causing chaos in your life and the life of your family.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction...
2024-11-2312 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 45: Food for Thought - Thoughts on GossipThis week's episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast is something new. It's a shorter episode featuring a quick dip into various topics. Miriam Susan wanted to find a way to share some "Food for Thought" on different podcast ideas that don't necessarily need a full episode. The first one is focused on gossip. Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws - a supportive community where you can finally speak honestly about your...
2024-11-1608 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 44 The Shame of Being Low or No ContactIn this week's episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, Miriam Susan, our host, discusses a topic that many daughters-in-law deal with over being low or no contact with their in-laws: shame. Unfortunately, shame is a very common emotion to feel when a relationship isn't what you hoped it would be, but is it valid? Miriam Susan will share some encouraging points to help release this burden that shame carries and help you make peace with the difficult decisions you've had to make with how you handle your in-laws.Tired of feeling like you're...
2024-11-0928 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 43: Takeaways from a Conversation with Grandchildren of Toxic Grandparents.mp3In this week's episode, Miriam Susan shares her top 5 takeaways from the interview with her adult children and what they shared about growing up with toxic grandparents. Her insights are designed to help fellow parents understand how their actions regarding toxic grandparents may be affecting their children.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws - a supportive community where you can finally speak honestly about your in-law struggles without judgment or being told to "...
2024-11-0222 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 42: Adult Grandchildren Speak Out on Toxic GrandparentsIn today's episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace Podcast, host Miriam Susan interviews some of her adult children about their experiences growing up with toxic grandparents. These children share their own opinions of how their parents handled the situations, including what they felt and what they observed. Miriam Susan asks them listener's questions that offer insights that other parents with children and toxic grandparents will find helpful as they navigate these challenging relationships.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're...
2024-10-261h 15Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 41: Holiday Planning with Challenging In-LawsIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, host Miriam Susan delves into holiday planning with challenging in-laws, offering invaluable guidance for creating a peaceful and joyful season. Drawing from personal experiences and faith-informed strategies, she provides practical advice on assertive communication and boundary-setting. Whether you're facing demanding in-laws or navigating family dynamics, this episode will empower you with tools to approach the holidays with grace and confidence.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic...
2024-10-1949 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 40: An Interview with My HusbandOn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace Podcast's Episode 40, "An Interview with My Husband," our host Miriam Susan delves into a deeply personal conversation with her husband, exploring the challenges they've faced with toxic in-laws, particularly through a Catholic lens. Over nearly three decades, Miriam Susan and her husband have navigated the complexities of maintaining respect for parents while prioritizing the spiritual and emotional well-being of their immediate family. They share candid insights on implementing boundaries without explicit discussions, dealing with manipulative behavior from parents, and finding the balance between honoring and limiting interactions with extended family...
2024-10-111h 19Catholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 37: Husband Series - Forsaking All OthersIn today's episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace Podcast, host Miriam Susan delves into the profound meaning of the marriage vow "forsaking all others" and its implications on relationships with parents and in-laws. This is the third episode in the Husband Series. Whether you're a Catholic wife dealing with challenging family dynamics or a husband eager to understand your spouse's perspective, this episode offers insightful guidance rooted in scripture and Catholic teaching. Miriam Susan shares her hard-earned knowledge from nearly three decades of navigating in-law drama, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing your spousal relationship while maintaining respect for...
2024-09-2126 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 34: Embracing Your Role as ScapegoatIn today's episode, "Embracing Your Role as Scapegoat," host Miriam Susan delves into the powerful and empowering stance of embracing the role of a scapegoat within challenging family dynamics. Drawing from biblical and traditional roots, she reveals the transformative potential in the face of blame and resistance, offering practical tips and encouragement for Catholic wives navigating toxic in-law relationships. Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws - a supportive community where you can finally s...
2024-08-3024 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 33: Nobody's PerfectIn today's episode, "Nobody's Perfect," our host Miriam Susan shares her insights on the unrealistic expectations placed on daughters-in-law, the impact of striving for perfection, and the importance of setting boundaries with toxic in-laws. Miriam delves into the dual nature of the phrase "nobody's perfect" in the context of toxic in-law dynamics and provides valuable advice on self-compassion, accountability, and seeking spiritual guidance. Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws - a supportive community w...
2024-08-2321 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 32: A Letter to My Younger SelfIn today's episode, "A Letter to My Younger Self," host Miriam Susan shares her personal reflections on nearly three decades of marriage and offers advice to her younger self. She discusses the importance of being authentically you, setting boundaries in marriage, and handling conflicting definitions of love with in-laws. Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws - a supportive community where you can finally speak honestly about your in-law struggles without judgment or being t...
2024-08-1625 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 31: Breaking Free and Growing in FaithIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, our host, Miriam Susan, sheds light on the importance of breaking free from toxic environments and growing in faith. We explore the impact of toxic relationships on one's spiritual journey and the vital role boundaries play in protecting our well-being. Through biblical examples and practical advice, we learn how taking responsibility for our healing journey can deepen our reliance on God's strength and lead to personal growth.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not...
2024-08-0935 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 30: Unmet ExpectationsIn today's episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, Miriam Susan opens up about her own experience with unmet expectations in her relationship with her in-laws. She shares her hopes for a close and nurturing bond, only to face disappointment when her in-laws' behavior did not align with her Christian expectations. The episode explores the grief of unmet expectations and the complexities of having rational conversations with toxic in-laws.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic...
2024-08-0235 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 29: Reclaiming your powerIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace Podcast, host Miriam Susan delves into the topic of reclaiming your power in the midst of challenging relationships with toxic in-laws. Drawing from her personal experience of enduring nearly three decades of in-law drama, Miriam shares a traumatic incident involving an unannounced visit and the subsequent feelings of loss of control. She discusses the concept of reclaiming autonomy and individuality in the face of overbearing in-laws and provides practical advice on regaining a sense of power while maintaining healthy boundaries. Listeners will gain valuable insight into identifying toxic behavior and...
2024-07-2627 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 28 - The Devil Loves Our Regrets.mp3In today's episode, "The Devil Loves Our Regrets," our host, Miriam Susan, explores the harmful impact of dwelling on past regrets and the tactics the devil uses to keep us trapped in these emotions. With a focus on finding peace and embracing healthy boundaries, she provides insight into overcoming regrets and seeking guidance from God. Join us as we uncover the power of forgiveness and the importance of letting go of past regrets to create a brighter future for our families. If you've ever struggled with navigating toxic family dynamics, this episode is a must-listen....
2024-07-1925 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 27: Untangling the Web of Enmeshed RelationshipsIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores the characteristics of enmeshed relationships and their impact on marriages and families. She provides valuable tips and strategies for addressing enmeshment in relationships with in-laws, offering practical advice on how to approach the issue with your spouse. Join us as we uncover the signs of enmeshment, understand its effects, and learn how to foster healthier family dynamics. Whether you're grappling with enmeshed relationships or seeking to support someone who is, this episode offers valuable insights and guidance for building stronger, more peaceful family relationships.
2024-07-1219 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 26: The Hidden Dangers of Conditional LoveIn today's episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace Podcast, "The Hidden Dangers of Conditional Love," our host, Miriam Susan, delves into the damaging effects of conditional love on family relationships. She discusses how conditional love shows up in parent-child and grandparent-grandchild relationships, and the impact it has on mental health. Through personal stories and insightful analysis, she explores conditional love's toll on our husbands, children, and ourselves.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic...
2024-07-0527 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 25: Why Your Husband Can't ChangeIn today's episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace podcast, "Why Your Husband Can't Change," host Miriam Susan delves into the topic of neural pathways and the impact they have on our thoughts and behaviors. Drawing from her own experiences, she explores how our upbringing shapes our automatic responses and how these deeply ingrained patterns can affect our relationships. From understanding the formation of neural pathways to embracing compassion and seeking solutions, she offers insight and encouragement for couples to navigate these challenges together. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of these complex dynamics and learn how to...
2024-06-2819 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 24: Dealing With A Lack of TrustIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace Podcast, Miriam Susan delves into the challenging issue of trust when it comes to in-laws. She addresses the difficulty of rebuilding trust, the importance of genuine apologies, and the impact of toxic behavior on relationships. With valuable insights and personal experiences, Miriam guides us through the delicate process of handling these intricate family dynamics. Tune in as we explore how trust, as a foundation of faith and relationships, plays a pivotal role in our journey as Catholic wives with our in-laws.Tired of feeling like you're...
2024-06-2116 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 23: Parable of the Pebble, Rock & BoulderIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace Podcast, Miriam Susan, your host, delves into a parable of a pebble, rock, and boulder to shed light on navigating challenging relationships with toxic in-laws. Through a personal narrative, she traces the progression of interactions with her own in-laws, from subtle "pebbles" of discomfort to significant "rocks" of stress, culminating in the "boulder" of a defining moment. Using this parable, she draws parallels to the experiences of Catholic wives dealing with in-law drama and invites listeners to reflect on their own interactions.Tired of feeling like...
2024-06-1419 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 22: When You Don't Have the Difficult ConversationsIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace Podcast, our host Miriam Susan shares insightful and relatable experiences about navigating difficult conversations with toxic in-laws. She talks about how avoiding these conversations can lead to detrimental effects on mental and physical health, relationships, and overall well-being. She discusses the importance of reclaiming autonomy, setting boundaries, and finding the courage to have these tough conversations. She offers practical advice and encouragement, highlighting the need for self-care and addressing toxic family dynamics.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your...
2024-06-0724 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 21: When You Should Listen to Your HusbandIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace Podcast, host Miriam Susan delves into the importance of listening to your husband when it comes to concerns about your toxic in-laws. Drawing from her own experiences and insights, she shares a cautionary tale of ignoring her husband's intuition about their children being turned against them by his parents. Miriam encourages listeners to trust and honor their husbands' concerns, offering practical advice on how to address these delicate situations. Whether you're navigating challenging relationships with in-laws or seeking to validate your own experiences, this episode provides valuable guidance for Catholic...
2024-05-3124 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 20 - THIS Will Not Heal Your RelationshipIn this episode, we delve into how maintaining a social media connection with toxic in-laws may not be part of the solution to healing strained relationships. Miriam Susan, our host, shares personal experiences and insights on setting boundaries, protecting privacy, and navigating challenging dynamics with in-laws online. Join us as we explore the delicate balance of maintaining peace while facing toxic relationships in the digital age. Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws - a...
2024-05-2427 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 19: When to Turn the Other CheekIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace Podcast, host Miriam Susan delves into the often misunderstood topic of "turning the other cheek" from a Catholic perspective. She reflects on her personal struggle with this Scripture and shares an insightful interpretation she received from a local Bishop. This thought-provoking episode aims to provide listeners with a deeper understanding of this passage in Scripture and its practical application in their lives. If you're grappling with frustrating in-law dynamics, this compassionate message leaves a lasting impact.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees...
2024-05-1711 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 18: Is It Time to "Talk It Out" with Your In-Laws?Welcome to the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace Podcast, where we provide a sanctuary for Catholic wives navigating complex relationships with their in-laws. In this episode, titled "Is It Time to 'Talk It Out' with Your In-Laws?" our host, Miriam Susan, delves into the important topic of addressing challenging in-law relationships. She provides practical guidelines and thought-provoking questions to consider before deciding to have a conversation with toxic in-laws. With personal anecdotes and valuable insights, the show notes for this episode offers a printable decision tree to help listeners navigate emotionally charged discussions. It emphasizes the importance of setting clear...
2024-05-1225 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 17 - Cycles of grief.mp4In today's episode, we delve into the complex and emotional topic of cycles of grief when navigating toxic relationships with in-laws. Miriam Susan shares her own experiences and offers invaluable insights into the challenges of maintaining a relationship with toxic in-laws and the impact it can have on a marriage. We explore the concept of trauma bonds and the lasting effects of conditional love on individuals and their relationships. Join us as we address the complexities of setting boundaries, dealing with triggers, and offering support to a spouse navigating the difficult journey of managing toxic in-laws.
2024-05-0332 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 16 - Death by PapercutsIn today's episode, Miriam Susan takes us through the concept of enduring a thousand tiny hurts from toxic in-laws, much like death by a thousand paper cuts. She shares personal stories and insights, shedding light on how the accumulation of minor incidents can erode trust and affect mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being. Throughout her discussion, Miriam Susan offers encouragement, gentle advice on addressing concerns with in-laws, and the importance of seeking healing. Join us as we explore the impact of these subtle wounds and ways to find peace in the midst of challenging family dynamics....
2024-04-2617 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 15 - This is NOT About YouIn today's episode of the "Catholic Wives Desiring Peace Podcast," host Miriam Susan discusses a thought-provoking viewpoint on dealing with toxic in-laws. She explores the idea that the challenges faced by Catholic wives with difficult in-laws are not necessarily personal. Instead, she presents the notion that toxic in-laws would likely present similar issues to anyone in the daughter-in-law role who stands up for her personal boundaries and desires. Through personal anecdotes and reflections, Miriam Susan encourages listeners to consider this perspective, providing a sense of liberation and prompting forgiveness toward their in-laws.Tired of feeling...
2024-04-1914 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 14: Time Will Pass AnywayIn this episode, Miriam Susan delves deep into the concept of time and its impact on dealing with challenging in-laws. She discusses the importance of understanding that time will pass regardless of whether we take action or not, and stresses the need for proactive measures when dealing with difficult family dynamics. Drawing upon personal experiences and insights, she sheds light on the significance of setting boundaries and addressing toxic behavior in order to protect your own well-being, marriage, and children. You'll be encouraged to find the courage to confront and address problematic situations, with practical examples.
2024-04-1218 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 13: 5 Self Care Practices You Can Do AnywhereIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace Podcast, host Miriam Susan shares 5 self-care practices for navigating challenging family dynamics involving in-laws. With personal insights and practical tips, she guides Catholic wives through various techniques they can use to manage stress and find peace. From listening to calming music, taking deep breaths, and going for walks, to the importance of getting enough rest and finding solace in prayer, Miriam Susan offers valuable strategies for maintaining emotional well-being in the midst of familial tensions. Drawing from her own experiences, she provides relatable advice and encourages listeners to prioritize self-care...
2024-03-2926 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 12: Seeking HelpIn this episode of the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace Podcast, host Miriam Susan explores the topic of seeking help when dealing with challenging in-laws. Drawing from her personal experiences and struggles with toxic and demanding in-laws, Miriam Susan discusses various avenues for seeking help, from talking to friends and priests to seeking out therapists, counselors, and coaches. She addresses common roadblocks that may arise when approaching your husband about seeking help, such as financial concerns and the fear of blame. With humility and a focus on improving relationships, listeners are encouraged to consider their options and approach seeking help...
2024-03-2216 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 11: 3 Signs It's Time to Speak UpIn this episode, titled "3 Signs It's Time to Speak Up," your host Miriam Susan explores the indicators that may signal the need to address dysfunction within the dynamics of in-law relationships. Drawing from her personal experiences and observations, Miriam Susan provides valuable insight into recognizing signs of distress in your children, identifying tension in your marriage, and understanding the impact of stress on your own well-being when dealing with toxic, demanding, or controlling in-laws. Join us as we delve into these critical signs and explore how to navigate these challenging situations with grace and wisdom.
2024-03-1522 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 10: Am I the Real Problem?Welcome to the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace Podcast, where we dive deep into the challenges faced by Catholic wives dealing with difficult in-laws. In this episode, host Miriam Susan delves into the internal struggles of feeling like the problem as a daughter-in-law, and she distinguishes between healthy and unhealthy guilt. She shares personal experiences and provides insights on navigating toxic dynamics with in-laws, empowering listeners to confidently address these challenges. Join us as we explore the complexities of family dynamics, self-reflection, and finding peace in difficult relationships.Tired of feeling like you're the only one...
2024-03-0824 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 9: Real Problems and Struggles with Toxic In-LawsIn this episode, host Miriam Susan dives into the real problems and struggles that come with having toxic in-laws. She addresses the common misconception that these issues are not significant if they don't reach life-threatening levels. Miriam Susan emphasizes the importance of recognizing these struggles as significant, even if they may not be immediately threatening. She shares personal experiences and discusses the long-term effects of manipulative behaviors from toxic in-laws, as well as the emotional toll they can take. She also encourages listeners to seek support and emphasizes the importance of community in navigating these challenges.
2024-03-0128 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 8: Keeping the Peace, Part 2In today's episode, "Keeping the Peace Part 2," our host, Miriam Susan, shares personal experiences of navigating toxic family dynamics and finding healing. Drawing on her personal experiences and expert insights, Miriam Susan explores the challenges of confronting toxic behavior, the emotional toll of going no contact with toxic family members, and the importance of standing up for one's peace and well-being. With candid reflections, she invites listeners to consider whose peace is being kept when staying silent in the face of toxicity, the dangers of excusing toxic behavior, and the necessity of speaking out for genuine peace. Join us...
2024-02-2333 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 7: Are You Called to Suffer?Welcome to the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace Podcast, where we dive into the tough issues faced by Catholic wives navigating challenging family dynamics. In this episode, "Are You Called to Suffer?" host Miriam Susan shares insights on the suffering that comes with being in a toxic family dynamic and offers a different perspective on the idea of enduring that suffering. Drawing from personal experiences and insightful reflections, she delves into the dividing line between enduring challenges and toxic situations in relationships. Miriam Susan's encouraging words and practical advice offer a guiding light for Catholic wives grappling with difficult in-law...
2024-02-1623 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 6: How to Apply “Honor Your Father and Mother” with Toxic In-LawsWelcome to the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace Podcast, where we provide a sanctuary for Catholic wives navigating challenging relationships with their in-laws. In today's episode, host Miriam Susan delves into the complex dynamic of toxic in-laws and the commandment to "honor thy father and mother." She shares personal experiences and insights on how this biblical principle has been weaponized and manipulated by toxic family members, offering a different perspective on what it truly means to honor one's parents. Miriam Susan discusses the three levels of respect and how to navigate toxic family dynamics while remaining true to one's values...
2024-02-0916 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 4: One Way Toxic In-Laws Use to Control YouIn this episode, we uncover how shame is a top tool used by toxic in-laws to control and manipulate you. Host Miriam Susan shares her insights and experiences, shedding light on the covert tactics and the impact of shame on individuals and relationships. Join us as we navigate the stormy seas of in-law drama and discover strategies for reclaiming peace and empowerment.Tired of feeling like you're the only one who sees the dysfunction of your husband's family? You're not alone, and you're not crazy. Join Catholic Wives + Toxic In-Laws - a supportive community where...
2024-01-2617 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 3: The Test for Toxic In-LawsIn this episode, host Miriam Susan dives into the complex world of managing toxic in-law relationships. With nearly 3 decades of experience dealing with challenging in-laws, Miriam speaks to the hearts of Catholic wives, providing validation and guidance through her own personal stories.
She presents a simple yet powerful litmus test for identifying toxic behavior in in-laws and shares real-life examples. Listeners will gain insights into recognizing toxic dynamics and preserving their marriages while navigating difficult relationships.
Tune in to learn how to handle toxic in-law relationships and find peace...
2024-01-1915 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 2: Understanding Toxic In-Law PatternsIn this episode, our host, Miriam Susan, delves deep into the topic of toxic in-law patterns and self-awareness. She discusses the differences between normal and toxic behaviors, provides examples of toxic traits, and offers valuable insights into identifying and navigating challenging in-law relationships.Miriam Susan shares her personal experiences and offers practical advice for Catholic wives grappling with difficult in-laws.Tune in to gain a greater understanding of toxic in-law patterns and how to seek peace in challenging family dynamics.Tired of feeling like you're...
2024-01-1909 minCatholic Wives with Toxic In-Laws PodcastEpisode 1: The Catholic Wives Desiring Peace Origin StoryWelcome to the Catholic Wives Desiring Peace Podcast, where we offer support and guidance to Catholic wives navigating challenging relationships with their in-laws.
In this episode, join host, Miriam Susan, as she shares the origin story of Catholic Wives Desiring Peace Podcast, her personal journey through strained relationships with her in-laws, and the pivotal moments that shaped her marriage and family.
From emotional distress and unacceptable behavior to setting boundaries and finding the courage to prioritize her family, Miriam Susan provides a heartfelt account of her experiences and offers...
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