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Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Introducing: Start to Finish Motherhood w/ AishaAisha, former co-host of the Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs) podcast, is launching Start to Finish Motherhood, a podcast for those thinking or already Single Mothers by Choice, just looking for practical advice for navigating life's relationships. When you decide to have children on your own, it doesn't mean that you're completely alone. Aisha is partnering with you every step of your journey.
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2024-08-2401 minBlack Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Introducing: Start to Finish Motherhood w/ AishaAisha, former co-host of the Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs) podcast, is launching Start to Finish Motherhood, a podcast for those thinking or already Single Mothers by Choice, just looking for practical advice for navigating life's relationships. When you decide to have children on your own, it doesn't mean that you're completely alone. Aisha is partnering with you every step of your journey.
Start to Finish Motherhood website: Start to Finish Motherhood
Connect with me:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StarttoFinishMotherhood
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/starttofinishmotherhood
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2024-08-2401 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S4E9: Ask Me Anything I'm an Open BookIn this episode, explore the common question of whether to move closer to family and dive into the personal journey of relocating for a vibrant SMC (Single Mothers by Choice) community. Our speaker discusses the importance of assessing your reasons for moving, leveraging your support network during emergencies, and the intricacies of child care. They also shed light on the necessity of estate planning, financial readiness, and the nuances of filling out official paperwork as a single parent. Tune in to get practical advice and heartfelt insights, and don't forget to join our SMC community for ongoing support and...
2024-08-2125 minBlack Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S4E9: Ask Me Anything I'm an Open BookIn this episode, explore the common question of whether to move closer to family and dive into the personal journey of relocating for a vibrant SMC (Single Mothers by Choice) community. Our speaker discusses the importance of assessing your reasons for moving, leveraging your support network during emergencies, and the intricacies of child care. They also shed light on the necessity of estate planning, financial readiness, and the nuances of filling out official paperwork as a single parent. Tune in to get practical advice and heartfelt insights, and don't forget to join our SMC community for ongoing support and...
2024-08-2125 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S4E8: Debriefing Twin Pregnancy Challenges and Strategies for When Pregnancy Gets Complicated Join Aisha as she debrief's the challenges and experiences shared in last week's episode about SMCs (Single Mothers by Choice) and twin pregnancies. In this candid discussion, she revisits the medical complexities such as gestational diabetes and intrauterine growth restriction, personal stories of navigating these issues, and the emotional toll they take. Also covered are some practical strategies for balancing pregnancy with work, finances, and childcare. This episode offers invaluable insights and a support system for anyone going through similar experiences. Tune in, share with someone who could benefit, and be sure to join the conversation!
2024-08-2117 minBlack Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S4E8: Debriefing Twin Pregnancy Challenges and Strategies for When Pregnancy Gets Complicated Join Aisha as she debrief's the challenges and experiences shared in last week's episode about SMCs (Single Mothers by Choice) and twin pregnancies. In this candid discussion, she revisits the medical complexities such as gestational diabetes and intrauterine growth restriction, personal stories of navigating these issues, and the emotional toll they take. Also covered are some practical strategies for balancing pregnancy with work, finances, and childcare. This episode offers invaluable insights and a support system for anyone going through similar experiences. Tune in, share with someone who could benefit, and be sure to join the conversation!
2024-08-2117 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S4E5: Yes... You Can Have a Romantic Relationship After Becoming an SMCIn this enlightening episode, we explore the journey of transitioning from a Single Mother by Choice (SMC) to finding love and building a romantic relationship. Join Aisha as she chats with our special guests, Kim and Erica, who share their personal stories of love, dating history, and how they introduced their partners to their children. They discuss the dynamics of co-parenting, the significance of having open conversations, and the importance of staying true to one's path. Whether you're an SMC or considering this journey, you'll find valuable insights and inspiration. Subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and...
2024-08-1925 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S4E6: Tips for SMCs Traveling with Infants and Toddlers In this episode, Aisha delves into the world of travel with kids post-pandemic. A seasoned traveler, Aisha shares her experiences and practical tips for traveling domestically and internationally, whether you have an infant or a toddler. Get insights on packing strategies, handling in-flight challenges, leveraging local support from SMC friends, and making the most out of layovers. It's all about finding your family's travel groove and ensuring everyone, including mom, enjoys the vacation. If you found these tips useful, subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and Instagram pages, and join...
2024-08-1910 minBlack Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S4E6: Tips for SMCs Traveling with Infants and Toddlers In this episode, Aisha delves into the world of travel with kids post-pandemic. A seasoned traveler, Aisha shares her experiences and practical tips for traveling domestically and internationally, whether you have an infant or a toddler. Get insights on packing strategies, handling in-flight challenges, leveraging local support from SMC friends, and making the most out of layovers. It's all about finding your family's travel groove and ensuring everyone, including mom, enjoys the vacation. If you found these tips useful, subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and Instagram pages, and join...
2024-08-1910 minBlack Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S4E5: Yes... You Can Have a Romantic Relationship After Becoming an SMCIn this enlightening episode, we explore the journey of transitioning from a Single Mother by Choice (SMC) to finding love and building a romantic relationship. Join Aisha as she chats with our special guests, Kim and Erica, who share their personal stories of love, dating history, and how they introduced their partners to their children. They discuss the dynamics of co-parenting, the significance of having open conversations, and the importance of staying true to one's path. Whether you're an SMC or considering this journey, you'll find valuable insights and inspiration. Subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and...
2024-08-1925 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S4E4: The SMC Motto is "Choose Your Hard" In this episode, Aisha delves into the empowering yet challenging journey of being a Solo Mother by Choice (SMC). Listen as she unpacks the complexities and everyday realities of choosing this unique parenting path. From societal perceptions to financial responsibilities and the pandemic's impact, we cover it all. This candid discussion sheds light on the joys and hurdles faced by SMCs and emphasizes the importance of community and intentionality in creating a nurturing home environment. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and IG pages, and join our...
2024-08-1916 minBlack Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S4E4: The SMC Motto is "Choose Your Hard" In this episode, Aisha delves into the empowering yet challenging journey of being a Solo Mother by Choice (SMC). Listen as she unpacks the complexities and everyday realities of choosing this unique parenting path. From societal perceptions to financial responsibilities and the pandemic's impact, we cover it all. This candid discussion sheds light on the joys and hurdles faced by SMCs and emphasizes the importance of community and intentionality in creating a nurturing home environment. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and IG pages, and join our...
2024-08-1916 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S4E2: Living Brave, the Day-to-Day Realities of Single Motherhood by Choice Join us in this heartfelt episode as we dive deep into the unique journey of being a Single Mother by Choice (SMC). We'll discuss the meticulous planning, the emotional hurdles, and the bravery it takes to walk this path daily. Whether you're contemplating becoming an SMC, or you're already in the midst of it, you'll find solidarity and insights here. Subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and IG pages, and don't forget to join our mailing list for more inspiring content and community support.
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2024-08-1812 minBlack Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S4E2: Living Brave, the Day-to-Day Realities of Single Motherhood by Choice Join us in this heartfelt episode as we dive deep into the unique journey of being a Single Mother by Choice (SMC). We'll discuss the meticulous planning, the emotional hurdles, and the bravery it takes to walk this path daily. Whether you're contemplating becoming an SMC, or you're already in the midst of it, you'll find solidarity and insights here. Subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and IG pages, and don't forget to join our mailing list for more inspiring content and community support.
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2024-08-1812 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S3E11: Trials of Pandemic Parenting #3 In this final episode of season 3, Aisha discusses the overwhelming experiences many Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs) face as their children transition into more demanding school environments. With a dive into the challenges of balancing different developmental stages with career planning, the impact of the pandemic on children's behavior, and the complexities of planning summer activities. Listen on as we share insights on making timely life decisions, from housing to career moves…, and how therapy and community support can help. Don't forget to subscribe to our YouTube channels and Instagram pages at Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to...
2024-08-1711 minBlack Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S3E11: Trials of Pandemic Parenting #3 In this final episode of season 3, Aisha discusses the overwhelming experiences many Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs) face as their children transition into more demanding school environments. With a dive into the challenges of balancing different developmental stages with career planning, the impact of the pandemic on children's behavior, and the complexities of planning summer activities. Listen on as we share insights on making timely life decisions, from housing to career moves…, and how therapy and community support can help. Don't forget to subscribe to our YouTube channels and Instagram pages at Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to...
2024-08-1711 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S3E9: Part 2: Sage Advice from SMCs Parenting Tweens This episode opens with a candid discussions on consent, dating, and communication. Join Aisha and a panel of insightful Black Single Mothers by Choice as they continue their conversation on parenting tween and delve into the intricacies of crucial topics such as teaching body autonomy, handling conversations about consent, and the evolving nature of dating as a single mother. With personal anecdotes and valuable advice shared, listeners will gain a deeper understanding of fostering open communication and building a supportive village. Don't miss this enriching discussion; subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, and follow Start to...
2024-08-1722 minBlack Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S3E9: Part 2: Sage Advice from SMCs Parenting Tweens This episode opens with a candid discussions on consent, dating, and communication. Join Aisha and a panel of insightful Black Single Mothers by Choice as they continue their conversation on parenting tween and delve into the intricacies of crucial topics such as teaching body autonomy, handling conversations about consent, and the evolving nature of dating as a single mother. With personal anecdotes and valuable advice shared, listeners will gain a deeper understanding of fostering open communication and building a supportive village. Don't miss this enriching discussion; subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, and follow Start to...
2024-08-1722 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S3E8: Part 1: Sage Advice from SMCs Parenting TweensNavigating Tweenhood and Parenthood as a Black Single Mother by Choice In this episode of the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, host Aisha welcomes Jennifer, Joy, and Yana to discuss the unique challenges and joys of parenting tweens. From school dynamics and social pressures to the evolving understanding of familial structures and puberty, this episode dives deep into the real, unfiltered experiences of being a single mother by choice. Join us for candid conversations, sage advice, and heartfelt stories. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and...
2024-08-1726 minBlack Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S3E8: Part 1: Sage Advice from SMCs Parenting TweensNavigating Tweenhood and Parenthood as a Black Single Mother by Choice In this episode of the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, host Aisha welcomes Jennifer, Joy, and Yana to discuss the unique challenges and joys of parenting tweens. From school dynamics and social pressures to the evolving understanding of familial structures and puberty, this episode dives deep into the real, unfiltered experiences of being a single mother by choice. Join us for candid conversations, sage advice, and heartfelt stories. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and...
2024-08-1726 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S3E3: Black SMCs Raising Boys and Embracing Gender Differences In this episode, Toja and Toni Jackson, proud mothers of twins, share their diverse experiences in raising boys—from addressing gender anxiety to handling potty training, and from experiencing the unique dynamics of barbershops to dealing with the ongoing conversations around race in a post-George Floyd era. They discuss the importance of male role models, instilling self-esteem in their children, and the joys and challenges of motherhood. Join us for this heartfelt conversation and get inspired by their advice for new moms. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube ch...
2024-08-1734 minBlack Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S3E3: Black SMCs Raising Boys and Embracing Gender Differences In this episode, Toja and Toni Jackson, proud mothers of twins, share their diverse experiences in raising boys—from addressing gender anxiety to handling potty training, and from experiencing the unique dynamics of barbershops to dealing with the ongoing conversations around race in a post-George Floyd era. They discuss the importance of male role models, instilling self-esteem in their children, and the joys and challenges of motherhood. Join us for this heartfelt conversation and get inspired by their advice for new moms. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube ch...
2024-08-1734 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S2E12: Ask Me Anything #3 Join Aisha, as she answers some additional questions sent in by listeners, She offers heartfelt advice and practical tips. She also discusses exposing children to diverse activities and the importance of counseling sessions. Stay tuned till the end for insights on handling unsolicited advice and maintaining your peace. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and follow our IG pages. Join our mailing list for more inspiring content!
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2024-08-1716 minBlack Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S2E12: Ask Me Anything #3 Join Aisha, as she answers some additional questions sent in by listeners, She offers heartfelt advice and practical tips. She also discusses exposing children to diverse activities and the importance of counseling sessions. Stay tuned till the end for insights on handling unsolicited advice and maintaining your peace. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and follow our IG pages. Join our mailing list for more inspiring content!
00:00 Introduction to Black Single Mothers by Choice
00:54 Navigating Dating as a Single Mother by Ch...
2024-08-1716 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S2E8: Aisha's Conversation with Rosanna Hertz: Outcomes, Race, and Changing Face of SMC Exploring SMC Life Through a Black Woman’s Lens: Insights from Aisha and Rosanna Hertz In this episode, Aisha, former host of MOCA Single Mothers by Choice, and Rosanna Hertz, professor of sociology and women's and gender studies at Wellesley College, discuss the unique challenges and rewards of being a Black single mother by choice. They delve into fertility, dating, parenting, and the intricacies of random families created through donor conception. Learn about the significance of race, family dynamics, and how SMCs navigate societal norms. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Fi...
2024-08-1737 minBlack Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S2E8: Aisha's Conversation with Rosanna Hertz: Outcomes, Race, and Changing Face of SMC Exploring SMC Life Through a Black Woman’s Lens: Insights from Aisha and Rosanna Hertz In this episode, Aisha, former host of MOCA Single Mothers by Choice, and Rosanna Hertz, professor of sociology and women's and gender studies at Wellesley College, discuss the unique challenges and rewards of being a Black single mother by choice. They delve into fertility, dating, parenting, and the intricacies of random families created through donor conception. Learn about the significance of race, family dynamics, and how SMCs navigate societal norms. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Fi...
2024-08-1737 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S2E7: SMC Finances - How Much Does It Really Cost to Have a BabyIn this episode of the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, Aisha shares her unique perspective and experiences as a Black Single Mother by Choice (SMC). From financial planning and navigating childcare options to the emotional and practical realities of raising children solo, Aisha offers invaluable insights for current and aspiring SMCs. Tune in to get tips on budgeting, fertility, and balancing work and motherhood. Enjoy engaging stories and practical advice that will help you feel supported in your journey. Don’t forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels an...
2024-08-1718 minBlack Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S2E7: SMC Finances - How Much Does It Really Cost to Have a BabyIn this episode of the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, Aisha shares her unique perspective and experiences as a Black Single Mother by Choice (SMC). From financial planning and navigating childcare options to the emotional and practical realities of raising children solo, Aisha offers invaluable insights for current and aspiring SMCs. Tune in to get tips on budgeting, fertility, and balancing work and motherhood. Enjoy engaging stories and practical advice that will help you feel supported in your journey. Don’t forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels an...
2024-08-1718 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S2E6: Regrouping After the Fertility Journey Hits a Roadblock
In this heartfelt episode Aisha and Kimberly share their personal journeys of becoming single mothers by choice. Kimberly recounts her path to motherhood, from dealing with fibroids and infertility treatments to the joys and challenges of raising her daughter, Meridian, solo. The episode highlights the importance of support systems, the realities of fertility struggles, and the resilience required to navigate this unique path. Tune in for an inspiring conversation filled with practical advice, emotional insights, and a celebration of non-traditional family structures. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish M...
2024-08-1730 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S2E5: Aisha's Conversation with Alease the Embryologist Join Aisha, and guest Alease Daniel, a young and passionate embryologist, as they dive deep into the unique challenges and joys faced by Black single mothers by choice (SMCs). Elise explains her journey into embryology, the intricacies of egg retrieval, embryo grading, and the vital role of sperm analysis, all from a scientific and relatable perspective. Whether you're considering this non-traditional path to motherhood, dealing with infertility, or simply curious about the science behind it, this episode is filled with valuable insights! Subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and Instagram...
2024-08-1734 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S2E2: Aisha's Conversation with Jane Mattes: Starting the National SMC Organization
Join Aisha and Jane as they delve into the unique journey of being a Black Single Mother by Choice. From the challenges and joys of single motherhood to the intricacies of donor insemination and the evolution of a supportive community, this episode offers heartfelt insights and practical advice. Don't miss Jane's reflections on the legacy of SMCs and the importance of empowering women to make conscious parenting decisions. Subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and IG pages, and join the mailing list for more inspiring content.
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2024-08-1734 minBlack Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S2E2: Aisha's Conversation with Jane Mattes: Starting the National SMC Organization
Join Aisha and Jane as they delve into the unique journey of being a Black Single Mother by Choice. From the challenges and joys of single motherhood to the intricacies of donor insemination and the evolution of a supportive community, this episode offers heartfelt insights and practical advice. Don't miss Jane's reflections on the legacy of SMCs and the importance of empowering women to make conscious parenting decisions. Subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and IG pages, and join the mailing list for more inspiring content.
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2024-08-1734 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Special Episode: Tips for Surviving Father's Day as an SMC In this heartfelt episode, Aisha shares her unique perspective on navigating Father's Day as a Black Single Mother by Choice. She dives into the importance of recognizing diverse family structures, preparing children for societal norms, and celebrating the loving adults in their lives. Aisha also offers practical tips for other SMCs to handle Father's Day, emphasizing self-care and open, honest communication with children. Subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and IG pages, and join the mailing list to stay updated and engaged!
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2024-08-1710 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S1E14: A Conversation with Seattle Sperm BankJoin Aisha as she dives deep into the unique experiences of Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs). In this heartfelt episode, we hear from Elise, a passionate clinic relation manager at Seattle Sperm Bank, as she shares her powerful pregnancy and childbirth story. They discuss the complexities of fertility, the realities of dating as an SMC, and the challenges faced by Black women in medical advocacy. Learn about the importance of OpenID donors, diverse sperm donation, and the meticulous processes donors undergo. Don't miss this eye-opening conversation! Subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, the Start to...
2024-08-1740 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S1E13: Adoption for Black SMCs Part 2 In this episode of the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, Aisha is joined by guest hosts Angela and Michelle for part two of their discussion on adoption. Explore the complexities and nuances of adopting as a Black SMC, from domestic infant adoption to international and kinship adoption. Delve into real-life experiences, the importance of building a supportive village, and gain crucial insights into the home study process. Don't miss out on these invaluable tips and heartfelt stories. Subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and IG pages, and join our...
2024-08-1733 minBlack Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S1E13: Adoption for Black SMCs Part 2 In this episode of the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, Aisha is joined by guest hosts Angela and Michelle for part two of their discussion on adoption. Explore the complexities and nuances of adopting as a Black SMC, from domestic infant adoption to international and kinship adoption. Delve into real-life experiences, the importance of building a supportive village, and gain crucial insights into the home study process. Don't miss out on these invaluable tips and heartfelt stories. Subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and IG pages, and join our...
2024-08-1733 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S1E11: Adoption for Black SMCs Part 1Exploring Adoption Paths for Black Single Mothers by Choice In this enlightening episode of the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, Aisha, the former host of MOCA Single Mothers by Choice, dives into the intricate world of adoption from the perspective of a Black single mother by choice. Joined by Angela, a software sales executive who adopted via Domestic Infant Adoption, and Michelle, an experienced adoption attorney and single mom by adoption, the conversation covers the adoption process, different pathways to motherhood, and tackling common myths in the Black adoption community. Tune in to learn about the legal facets...
2024-08-1738 minBlack Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S1E11: Adoption for Black SMCs Part 1Exploring Adoption Paths for Black Single Mothers by Choice In this enlightening episode of the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, Aisha, the former host of MOCA Single Mothers by Choice, dives into the intricate world of adoption from the perspective of a Black single mother by choice. Joined by Angela, a software sales executive who adopted via Domestic Infant Adoption, and Michelle, an experienced adoption attorney and single mom by adoption, the conversation covers the adoption process, different pathways to motherhood, and tackling common myths in the Black adoption community. Tune in to learn about the legal facets...
2024-08-1738 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S1E9: Traveling with Kids as an SMC, Tips and InsightsJoin Aisha as she reminisces about her travel adventures and shares valuable tips for fellow Black SMCs. In this episode, Aisha discusses everything from planning vacations, the importance of childcare during trips, to essential packing hacks. She also provides practical advice for navigating long international flights. Subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels, follow their Instagram pages, and join the mailing list for more insights and support. Don't forget to share this podcast with your friends and email Aisha with your feedback!
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2024-08-1709 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S1E7: The Importance of Estate Planning for SMCsIn this episode of the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, Aisha shares the importance of estate planning for SMCs and her own personal experiences with health scares. She provides practical advice on setting up wills, guardianship, life insurance, and more to ensure your children are well taken care of in case the unexpected happens. Tune in to gain vital insights on preparing for the future as a single mother by choice. If you enjoyed the episode, please subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and IG pages, and don't forget...
2024-08-1710 minBlack Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S1E7: The Importance of Estate Planning for SMCsIn this episode of the Black Single Mothers by Choice podcast, Aisha shares the importance of estate planning for SMCs and her own personal experiences with health scares. She provides practical advice on setting up wills, guardianship, life insurance, and more to ensure your children are well taken care of in case the unexpected happens. Tune in to gain vital insights on preparing for the future as a single mother by choice. If you enjoyed the episode, please subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels and IG pages, and don't forget...
2024-08-1710 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S1E2: Getting Down to Basics: IUI vs. IVFIn this episode, Aisha, a former host of MOCA Single Mothers by Choice, delves into the nuanced journey of being a Black single mother by choice. She discusses various conception methods like IUI, IVF, and ICI, the associated costs, success rates by age, and the financial realities of fertility treatments. Aisha shares her personal experiences and the surprising elements she discovered during her journey. Tune in for an informative and heartfelt exploration of the obstacles and triumphs faced by Black SMCs. Don't forget to subscribe to the Black Single Mothers by Choice and Start to Finish Motherhood YouTube channels...
2024-08-1709 min
Black Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)S4E10: Ask Us Anything (Part 2)In this episode, the Mocha SMCs answer questions such as: should I move to be closer to my family, how do I start planning for a will, and what should I put on my child's birth certificate. They also get real about whether you can work and be home full time with your child.
2024-07-0532 min
youarewithinthenorms“THE HOLY TRINITY,” FALSEHOOD, PROSECUTORIAL SMCS FABRICATIONS: RUAN vs. UNITED STATESThis episode is also available as a blog post: https://youarewithinthenorms.com/2023/02/27/the-holy-trinity-falsehood-prosecutorial-smcs-fabrications-ruan-vs-united-states/
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2023-02-2720 minyouarewithinthenormsRUAN vs. UNITED STATES: THE GOVERNMENT’S EXPERTS OR SMCS, PERFORMING ANYTHING FOR A DOLLAR * (SUBJECT MATTER COCK SUCKERS)This episode is also available as a blog post: https://youarewithinthenorms.com/2023/02/16/ruan-vs-united-states-the-governments-experts-or-smcs-performing-anything-for-a-dollar-subject-matter-cock-suckers/
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2023-02-1622 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Introducing: Start to Finish Motherhood With Aisha Aisha, former co-host of the Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs) podcast, is launching Start to Finish Motherhood, a podcast for those thinking or already Single Mothers by Choice, just looking for practical advice for navigating life's relationships. When you decide to have children on your own, it doesn't mean that you're completely alone. Aisha is partnering with you every step of your journey.
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2023-01-2801 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Parenting the Child in Front of YouAs Single Mothers by Choice we get to make many of the decisions for our children, up to a certain point. At the point when their personalities and their individual needs emerge many of us learn that the one size fits all approach that we grew up with will not work with our children. We’ve had to adjust parenting styles and even to our support village so that we can safely and consistently parent the child in front of us.
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2023-01-2851 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Ask Us Anything (Part 2)In this episode, the Mocha SMCs answer questions such as: should I move to be closer to my family, how do I start planning for a will, and what should I put on my child's birth certificate. They also get real about whether you can work and be home full time with your child.
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2023-01-2832 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Ask Us Anything (Part I)In this episode of the Mocha Single Mothers by Choice, the Mocha SMCs discuss DNA discovery, relationships with donor siblings, and how to talk about your conception story with your children and others in your life.
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2023-01-2828 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)When Pregnancy Gets Complicated...In this episode, the Mocha SMCs debrief what they heard in the twins episode - spending time discussing the realities of high risk pregnancies, childcare cost, and always making decisions thinking about how your future child might feel about the decision you are about to make.
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2023-01-2835 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)So You Say You Want Twins?!In this episode, Aisha and Hera welcome two special guests (twin Moms Toja and Carla). Toja is a Mocha SMC who is actively parenting 7 year old twins and Carla is a Mocha SMC who just welcomed twins three months ago. Carla also has a four year old son. This episode covers what its like to carry twins in pregnancy, twin births, and the things that surprised and challenged these moms. While twins are often unplanned, if you think you want twins - listen to this episode first and you might change your mind on that.
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2023-01-2841 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Mocha SMC Travel in a Post Pandemic WorldIn this Mocha SMC travel episode of season 4, the Mocha SMCs discuss more tips for traveling with babies and the differences they've seen traveling with their school aged children. They chat about summer travel and what its been like post pandemic with fewer airport staff and flight delays.
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2023-01-2824 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Navigating Romantic Relationships as an SMCIn this episode, Aisha and Hera chat with two Mocha SMCs (Erica and Kimberly) who are now in committed romantic relationships. They discuss what it's like blending families after becoming SMCs and navigating things like - introducing your partner to the children, to marry or not to marry, who will he or she be to the children, and more.
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2023-01-2833 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Choosing Your HardThe Mocha SMCs explain what it means to "choose your hard" by breaking down the pros and cons of SMC life. From navigating respectability politics to coping with the topic of "baby daddy". They also discuss why this path might be more appealing to many women than the traditional two parent household.
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2023-01-2836 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Raising Biracial BabiesIn this week's episode, the Mocha SMCs discuss the topic of biracial babies. With limited Black sperm, Black women specifically are often faced with the decision of whether to choose a donor outside of their race. Aisha and Hera discuss what this decision was for them as well as what women should consider when choosing a donor outside of their race from micro-aggressions and othering to what you might tell your children when they ask why you've made the decision.
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2023-01-2839 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Realities of Living Life as an SMC and Parenting with IntegrityIn this week's episode, the Mocha SMCs discuss the realities of living life as an SMC, what that means to us, and how integrity is woven throughout the SMC narrative. Aisha and Hera chat about what it's like to grapple with what to tell your friends and family and how to explain to complete strangers that there is no baby daddy.
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2023-01-2835 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Back to SchoolIn this week's episode, the Mocha SMCs discuss the realities of living life as an SMC, what that means to us, and how integrity is woven throughout the SMC narrative. Aisha and Hera chat about what it's like to grapple with what to tell your friends and family and how to explain to complete strangers that there is no baby daddy.
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2023-01-2830 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Pandemic Parenting, Life Transitions and the Importance of TherapyIn the season 3 finale, the Mocha SMCs chat about school challenges, the impact of the pandemic on toddlers and school aged children, plans for the summer, and the importance of therapy.
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2023-01-2831 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Embryo DonationThis week on The Mocha SMC Podcast, Aisha and Hera chat with SMC Abby who donated one of her embryos to a friend of a friend. They discuss the emotional journey she went through, her current relationship with the recipient and her child, as well as the costs associated with the donation (which the recipient typically pays).
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2023-01-2829 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)SMC Parenting Tweens (Part 2)This is the second of the two part series on parenting tweens. Jennifer, Joy, and Yana join us again to discuss the topics of consent, dating, and advice for new moms.
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2023-01-2824 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)SMCs Parenting Tweens (Part 1)This week the Mocha SMCs speak with three Mocha SMCs from the Mocha community who are parenting tweens: Joy, Jennifer, and Yana. We discuss schooling, community, allowing independence, and talking about puberty and sex with your pre-teen.
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2023-01-2831 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Blaxit - The Mocha SMC Expat ExperienceThe Mocha SMCs chat with Michelle, a Mocha SMC and American foreign service officer, who is raising her seven year old son in Africa. The episode tackles how and why Michelle made the decision to raise her son abroad, the logistics of living outside of your country of origin and some tips for other SMCs looking to exit the United States in search of adventure or in the hopes of raising a global citizen.
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2023-01-2830 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Pandemic, Dating, Sperm, and "Where's the Daddy"In this episode, the Mocha SMCs provide an update on the last few weeks and discuss topics such as changing covid protocol in schools, dating, the Black sperm shortage, and handling the awkward conversations from school parents when they ask "Where's the Daddy".
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2023-01-2832 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)A Conversation with an Egg DonorThis week the Mocha SMCs speak with Mocha SMC Domonique who is both an egg donor and a new mom herself. Domonique describes what it was like to donate eggs in her 20s while she was in school, how this has impacted her feelings on being an SMC herself, and her thoughts on contact in the future from the children conceived with her donor eggs.
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2023-01-2841 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)A Mocha SMC Black History Month SpecialOn this week's episode, the Mocha SMCs discuss what Black History Month means to them and their families. Additionally, the Mocha SMCs discuss appropriation and how this played out historically, in modern day - in both the work place and in the SMC spaces.
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2023-01-2833 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Mocha SMCs Raising BoysOn today's episode of the podcast, the Mocha SMCs talk with boy moms Toja and Toni about topics such as gender anxiety, potty training, community, the barber shop, and raising Black boys in a post George Floyd era.
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2023-01-2842 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Takin' Care of Mama - Self Care Post BabyIn this episode, the Mocha SMCs break down what self care looks like after you've had a baby and how it might differ from when you didn't have children. They discuss things like - how to fit in fitness and setting healthy boundaries with friends, family, and work.
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2023-01-2833 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)We're Back - Hustling, Sperm, and Dudes with Donuts!In this episode, the Mocha SMCs discuss what happened over the holiday season and dive into the topics:
1. How to tell your friends and family you want to be an SMC.
2. When is a good time (if age isn't a factor) to TTC?
3. How to deal with Father's Day events at school.
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2023-01-2828 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)A Mocha SMC Holiday!The Mocha SMCs are bringing you a special holiday episode where we talk about what it's like for SMCs around the holidays. We give tips and tricks to holiday survival to include where and how to hide gifts, how to handle the elf on the shelf, and what to do with TTC disappointment during the holiday season. Make sure your kids aren't around when listening because we discuss Santa and the Elf!
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2023-01-2832 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Representation MattersIn the final episode of season two, Aisha and Hera break down by representation matters. They discuss their favorite television shows and how the conscious choice of media consumption plays into their parenting. Walk away with a solid list of shows that affirm Blackness for children as well as make you feel good watching as an adult.
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2023-01-2833 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Catch Up with the Mocha SMCsIn the second to last episode for season two, the Mocha SMCs catch you up on what's been happening in their lives. They discuss topics such as how to get past anxiety about getting a sitter during the pandemic (so you can do adult things), traveling during the pandemic, toddler pandemic anxiety, the Single Mother's by Choice Conference, and a few hot topics that have been circulating the community.
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2023-01-2831 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Ask Us Anything (Part 2)Join us for the second part of our season two ask us anything episode. I this episode we discuss things like - what to tell your friend when she's intent on setting you up with a guy while you are TTC, how to handle when your friends all seem to be popping out babies but you are not getting pregnant, and several others.
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2023-01-2830 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Fun Facts about the SMC HostsOn today's episode, Aisha and Hera share a bit about themselves - things that aren't directly related to kids and mommying. Get to know your Mocha SMCs with questions like - what are we listening to, what are we reading, and where are we going during a zombie apocalypse!
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2023-01-2824 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Pandemic Parenting (Part 2)Here we are - almost two years into a pandemic that everyone thought would only last a few months. Kids are back to school in person and the Mocha SMCs are here to tell you about how it's been going for them and some tips for parenting survival during these tough times.
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2023-01-2830 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Ask Us Anything!Since we had so many questions from the season one AMA, we decided to dedicate another episode to answering your burning questions. In this episode, we discuss topics like baby hair care, the pain of IVF, how to practice self care during IVF, choosing a donor on the brown spectrum, and finding books with brown characters for your kids.
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2023-01-2831 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Outcomes, Race, and the Changing Face of the SMCIn this episode, the Mocha SMCs have a conversation with sociologist Rosanna Hertz about her two books as well as popular SMC topics like outcomes, race, and the evolution of the SMC. Rosanna has been researching this topic for quite some time and was able to shed some light on the movement from a sociological perspective.
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2023-01-2859 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)How Much Does it Really Cost to Have a Baby?The Mocha SMCs discuss how to get your finances in order before having children and some parenting hacks to ensure you are organized and prepared financially for your baby. You don't have to be rich to have a baby, but you need to be organized with your money if you are an SMC without another income to rely on outside your own.
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2023-01-2841 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)When Things Don't Go As PlannedThis week on the podcast we chat with Mocha SMC Kim. Kim was in her late twenties when she learned she had aggressive fibroids that required invasive surgery to remove. At that time, her doctor informed her that if she wanted children she'd need to consider conceiving within five years or risk not being able to have a biological child. Kim talks to the Mocha SMCs about how she discovered fibroids, her decision to become an SMC and the harrowing journey she went to have and carry her little girl.
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2023-01-2838 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)A Conversation with Alease the EmbryologistWe found a Black Embryologist ya'll! This week we chat with Alease the embryologist on the science behind baby making. We will discuss things like - what does a quality egg look like, can you still inseminate with a mosaic embryo, and is it me or HIM (male infertility and how this should factor into sperm choice)
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2023-01-2843 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Dating as a Single Mother by Choice (Part 2)In follow up to the dating episode from season one, Aisha and Hera discuss how things are going - the trouble with app dating - and navigating the logistics of dating without a coparent.
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2023-01-281h 08
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)A Day in the Life of a Black Single Mother by ChoiceToday on the podcast, Aisha and Hera have a case of The Mondays. The Mocha SMCs chat about how to manage every day frustrations, get out of the house with two kids (one of which is a toddler always trying to toddler), and how to navigate when our past trauma and fears seep into parenting.
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2023-01-2824 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)A Conversation with Jane MattesThe Mocha SMCs sit down with the founder of the Single Mothers by Choice movement - Jane Mattes. In the early 1980s when SMCing wasn't really a thing (or at least wasn't enough of a thing for there to be a name for it), Jane was sitting around her dining room table with a few other mothers who'd chosen single motherhood prior to their children being born. They decided to name their version of single parent - Single Mothers by Choice. Janes talks to us about what it was like in the beginning, how the community has evolved, and...
2023-01-2849 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)A Girlfriends ChatWe're back!! We took a break for a couple months to plan new content for season two and in this first episode, we are catching everyone up on how things have been going for us. The topics in this episode include home buying, childcare post pandemic, dating, and what happens now that the world is opening up. We've missed ya'll and hope you tune in to hear about some of the exciting topics in store for this season of the Mocha Single Mothers by Choice podcast.
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2023-01-2827 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Special Episode: Tips for Surviving Father's Day as Single Mothers by ChoiceIn this special (in between season) episode Aisha and Hera discuss what this Hallmark holiday means for our families, how we are celebrating (or not celebrating), and tips for surviving the day. 5 Tips for surviving Father’s Day as an SMC:
1. Read books that depict diverse family structures. Books can be scaffolding for difficult conversations.
Proactively discuss with your care providers and schools how they can handle the holiday in a way that is inclusive of all family structures.
Prepare your children for the reality of this Hallmark holiday. Don't operate with the intent to erase fathers from the...
2023-01-2827 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Ask Us AnythingThis is the final episode of season one and we tackle five questions from our listeners. These questions are topics that we didn't go into too much detail on during the season to include: Is there a right age to become an SMC, How did you tell your children about their conception", "does the fertility industry discriminate against SMCs" and more.
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2023-01-2832 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Behind the Curtain: A Conversation with Seattle Sperm BankIn this episode, the hosts SMCs have a conversation with Alyse Mencias. Alyse is the Clinic Relations Manager for Seattle Sperm Bank and has a Masters Degree in Reproductive Clinical Science. In addition to sharing her own experiences as a Black mother, Alyse gives you a look behind the curtain of a sperm bank - from donor diversity to the awkward discussions about porn subscriptions. This episode is full of information and laughs.
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2023-01-2840 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Unpacking Adoption for the SMC (Part 2)This is the second part in our adoption series where we are speaking to two Black, SMCs who have adopted their children. Michelle is also an adoption attorney in the Chicago area and is able to give advice from a legal perspective in addition to her perspective as a mom.
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2023-01-2839 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Birth Plans, Breast Feeding, Weaning OH MY!In this episode we discuss how to process birth expectations and disappointments. Even if we plan out every detail of our pregnancy and birth, that doesn't mean it will go as planned. We have a very special guest on this episode - Mocha SMC Simone, who is a teacher, author, and former doula. She shares her birth journey and gives some excellent tips on what mothers can do to support breastfeeding.
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2023-01-2839 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Unpacking Adoption for the SMC (Part I)In this episode we welcome two special guests, Angela and Michelle. They are both Black, Single Mothers by Choice who adopted their children. In addition to being an SMC, Michelle Hughes is also an attorney in the Chicago area who specializes in adoption law. This episode will introduce the different types of adoption and the various ways in which Black SMCs can pursue this path.
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2023-01-2849 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)The Donor You Know (Known Donors)In this week's episode we are joined by our guest (who is both a Black SMC and a Doula) Safara Cooper to explore the topic of known donors. This could be a friend whose offered his sperm or someone you met via a known donor connection website. Safara shares with us resources she used on her journey to finding the one.
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2023-01-2833 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Travel the SMC WayIn this episode, we discuss travel from how much we miss it to single mother parenting hacks for the SMC traveler. We have taken our kids everywhere from the club med beach to a European vacation so come join us while she share tricks and tips and how to embrace the ups and downs of traveling as an SMC.
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2023-01-2835 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)One Fish, Two FishIn this episode we discuss the decision to go from one child to two, and how that transition was for us. What were the things that went into our decision - including finances, space, time, etc.
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2023-01-2833 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)"Secure the Bag": Estate Planning for the SMCIt's the day after Valentine's Day and to kick off this week's episode we do a quick recap of our first virtual event by announcing our Mocha SMC top ten things we would want to do for Valentine's Day. Thank you to the Mocha SMCs who helped us compile this list. In this episode we also discuss the importance and the process of Estate Planning. How to ensure that your children are set in the event of your untimely death.
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2023-01-2842 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Parenting in a PandemicIn this episodes we discuss what it's been like to SMC during a global pandemic to include tips and tricks to not go insane.
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2023-01-2834 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Black Bodies/Black Babies: Medical AdvocacyIn this episode we discuss the things we wished we'd known about the medical stuff - such as questions to ask your fertility doctor, reasons you might not be getting pregnant, complications during pregnancy, and how to be your own advocate (as well as find your ride or die friend/family member who can advocate on your behalf).
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2023-01-2833 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Dating as an SMCIn this episode we discuss the trials and tribulations of dating as a single mother by choice. This episode is for women who want to know what it's like, mothers who need some validation, and dudes who might be interested in dating an SMC.
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2023-01-2840 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)Sperm Donor ChoiceIn this episode of the podcast, we discuss choosing a donor. We will review the things that were important to us as well as debate the hot button topic of race as it relates to donor selection. Where are all the Black donors? And what Black and White women should consider before choosing a donor outside of their race.
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2023-01-2833 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)"Baby Making" - IUI vs. IVFSo, you decided you want to do this - make a baby on your own - and you want to go the path of a donor with the assistance of a medical professional. In this episode, we discuss the differences between IUI vs. IVF to include success rates and average costs.
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2023-01-2831 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)What is a Single Mother by Choice?What is a Single Mother by Choice
In this first episode of Mocha SMC we discuss the very definition of SMC and why we think it's high time for us to hold a Black space on this topic. In a community that has been largely dominated by the White narrative, there's a growing number of Black women choosing this path and there are things we face as Black women that make our experience as SMCs unique.
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2023-01-2830 min
*Archived* Mocha Single Mothers by Choice (SMCs)TrailerMeet Aisha and Hera, two Black Single Mothers by Choice.
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2023-01-2801 min