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Flings N' ThingsFarewell FlingersOn Ep. 100 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro ends her last episode by bringing her boyfriend back on to discuss their experiences during the pregnancy so far. More importantly, they share some of the discussions they had prior and during the pregnancy that they believe others should engage in as well. Moni ends the episode solo and shares what she gained out of doing this podcast.A final message from Moni:Thank you everyone who has supported us since Day 1 and has listened to all of our nonsense. Hopefully you learned something. I want you...2025-04-0136 minFlings N' ThingsWho's the Baby Daddy?On Ep. 99 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro announces some BIG news. She is pregnant! She also brings on her boyfriend Jesse, so Flingers can get a little taste of the man she fell in love with. Listen in to hear how having a sex and dating podcast impacted their relationship.Find your favorite host on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram at @flingsnthingsofficial !2025-03-2547 minFlings N' ThingsDon't Rush Into Marriage YoungOn Ep. 98 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro brings on her cousin @m.alynarivero to speak on why she is happy she waited so long to get married. Topics discussed include the immaturity of young love, more boundary talk in relationships, trust around boys trips, and how to tell your friend you're dating someone way older.You can follow Mariah on Instagram at @m.alynarivero !Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram at @flingsnthingsofficial !2025-03-1837 minFlings N' ThingsLiars Are Basically CheatersOn Ep. 97 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro reviews a poll that was posted regarding a situation in which you find out that your man has a secret OF account. Is it as simple as just leave him? Listen in. She also discusses the importance of boundaries and what constitutes cheating. Lastly, would you let your significant other sell articles of clothing if it meant someone else was getting off to it?CAUTION: This episode was recorded on an iPhoneFind your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also...2025-03-0427 minFlings N' ThingsCodependent RelationshipsOn Ep. 96 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro discusses some signs that you may be in a codependent relationship and the negative effects it may have on your relationship. She also explains how she would go about not inviting a family member to a birthday celebration. Listen up if you are having the same problem.Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram at @flingsnthingsofficial !2025-02-1119 minFlings N' ThingsMy BF Has A Spank BankOn Ep. 95 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro brings on her friend @emilinda24 to discuss a situation that one of our Flingers has experienced in their own personal life. Would you be able to forgive your boyfriend for saving screenshots of your friends to do his business with? Is this considered emotional or physical cheating? Can we even call it cheating at all? Help our Flinger out and comment your thoughts!Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram at @flingsnthingsofficial !2025-02-0536 minFlings N' ThingsWhy Is Everyone Surprised? On Ep. 94 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro gets controversial and addresses the mass deportations going on. She speaks her mind and is honest about her true feelings. It's not about left or right. It's about what is morally right and wrong. If you're confused about what's going on, it's time to ask why. The intent is not to make you feel like a bad person, but to open your eyes to the result of a decision you made with potentially little knowledge. The intent is to also encourage you to stand up for those without a voice, even if what...2025-01-2828 minFlings N' ThingsCommunicating Your NeedsOn Ep. 93 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro talks about how it's your responsibility to look for a new job if you are miserable at your current one. She also discusses the importance of communicating your needs straight forward instead of letting your pride or ego get the best of you. Lastly, advice is given on how to address the lack of sex in the bedroom.00:00 Updates06:30 Ready for a new job?16:20 Listening to understand34:15 Lack of sex because of kidsFind your favorite hosts on Spotify...2025-01-2140 minFlings N' ThingsLosing A Family PetOn Ep. 92 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro goes into almost all the updates from the holiday break. She then talks about the difficulty of losing a childhood family pet, as she lost her dog at the end of the year. Do you dare go through your significant other's group chat with their friends? If you don't like what you find, how do you address it? Listen up!00:00 ALL the updates09:55 Losing a family pet35:20 Pets for mental health40:05 My bf supports his cheating friendsFind your...2025-01-1445 minFlings N' ThingsHoliday Season CopingOn Ep. 91 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro announces a break until 2025. She also talks about the importance of being mindful and self-aware of others who may be mourning or coping with the absence of loved ones during the holidays. Lastly, Moni answers advice on dealing with a nasty in-law and communicating with your partner.00:00 Updates04:40 Coping with the holidays17:45 My mother-in-law hates meFind your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !2024-11-2625 minFlings N' ThingsDating Other PeopleOn Ep. 90 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro discusses whether or not you owe it to someone that you're "dating" to let them know you went on another date. How serious does the "dating" need to be? Lastly, she gives advice on handling a situation in which you get pregnant after dating someone for only 4 months.00:00 Updates07:05 Telling them I went on a date15:40 How do I tell him I'm pregnantFind your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and...2024-11-1920 minFlings N' ThingsNice Guys Finish LastOn Ep. 89 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro updates you guys on her life and talks about how she finally revealed her boyfriend's face. Today's topic is do nice guys finish last? What do you guys think? Lastly, this week's advice question leaves Moni a little confused, so hopefully the Flinger writes back in.00:00 Updates08:45 Do nice guys finish last?26:45 Confusing advice segmentFind your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !2024-11-0531 minFlings N' ThingsChubby Guys Still Pull Baddies Ft. @allrawnocondom Pt. 2On Ep. 88 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro interviews @sandiegoking619 from @allrawnocondom for PART 2! This week Matthew gives his opinion on common dating topics such as cheating, faking orgasms, body count, making the first move, and having high standards when it comes to the bedroom. Listen up ladies and gentlemen, because Matthew provides some key advice that may help you navigate your current or future relationships.00:00 Intro05:50 Why do men cheat?19:20 Men fake orgasms too27:50 Does body count matter?38:50 Confidence gets you laid54:00 My bf is addicted...2024-10-291h 09Flings N' ThingsMasturbating At Work Ft. @allrawnocondom Pt. 1On Ep. 87 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro interviews @sandiegoking619 from @allrawnocondom about where he comes from and how he started his own podcast. Matthew tells us some crazy stories and gives us a preview of his dating history. Stay tuned because we are just getting the conversation started! Part 2 drops next Tuesday. Matthew will be discussing all things dating and controversy from the man's perspective.00:00 Who is @allrawnocondom18:00 Accidentally getting his ass ate27:45 Dating advice / Growing up in SD49:10 Partner vs. spouseFollow guest Matthew on...2024-10-221h 01Flings N' ThingsDating Someone Out of StateOn Ep. 86 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro talks how keeping her relationship more private has her mom feeling like she's moving too fast. Dating someone out of state is a different experience than dating someone where all of your friends and family live. Moni also discusses how middle-aged may actually be 38 years old and what that means for those of use approaching our 30's. If your girlfriend is picky, and you don't know what to get her, listen up!00:00 Updates/Call Her Daddy09:10 Dating someone out of state22:45 Middle-aged is actually 382024-10-1538 minFlings N' ThingsI Went Through His WalletOn Ep. 85 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro discusses how crossing boundaries is toxic, even if you feel like you have a good reason to. Is invading your partner's privacy okay if you're married and live together? Moni addresses ways in which you can approach your partner in a healthier way when you feel insecure or need reassurance. For example, if you feel the need to look at your partner's phone.00:00 Updates/Planning dates11:40 Invading privacy and boundaries37:40 Oral and cotton mouthFind your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple...2024-10-0842 minFlings N' ThingsScrew The TimelineOn Ep. 84 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro discusses how being too focused on setting a timeline for your life can cause you to settle for less. She explains how it is beneficial to set goals for yourself, but it is also important to be mindful whether those goals will compromise your relationships with others. How long is too long to wait for a marriage proposal? Moni gives some advice to fellow Flinger about this topic.00:00 Updates13:50 Don't prioritize the timeline30:10 Asking for the proposalFind your favorite hosts...2024-09-2434 minFlings N' ThingsYou're Not Invited To My WeddingOn Ep. 83 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro brings back her childhood best friend @alynn.andersen to discuss her wedding planning experience. Alynn talks about the societal pressure to get married and to have a traditional wedding. She explains why she chose to do things the unorthodox way. Stressing about who to invite to your wedding? Listen up because Alynn provides good advice on her personal experience. Lastly, the two answer questions from fellow Flingers - exclusivity without a title, dealing with someone out of your league, and trashy baby daddies.00:00 Societal pressure to get married2024-09-1050 minFlings N' ThingsFeeling Safe & SecureOn Ep. 82 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro discusses how important it is to create and maintain a safe space for you and your partner to have uncomfortable conversations. Are you able to open up about your past traumas or experiences? If you're unhappy, do you feel comfortable addressing your concerns? Can you be unapologetically yourself? If you do not feel safe enough to do these things, you may need to reevaluate the relationship you're in. Lastly, Moni gives some advice to a fellow Flinger about addressing the taste of her boyfriend's cum.00:00 Updates03:10 Safety...2024-09-0339 minFlings N' ThingsIs OF & Porn Cheating?On Ep. 81 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro answers a variety of questions regarding what constitutes cheating. Having an OnlyFans? Watching porn? Going to the strip club? She also answers whether or not a guy should ask you formally to be his girlfriend and if proposing without a ring is okay. Do you care if your significant other follows their ex? And have you had your ass ate yet? Listen up and find out.00:00 Updates09:30 OF, porn, strip clubs are cheating?25:40 Proposing, following exes, ass play40:00 I emotionally cheated, what now?2024-08-2750 minFlings N' ThingsIs Honesty The Best Policy?On Ep. 80 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro has an open discussion about whether or not you owe someone complete honesty during the talking stage of dating. Is it easy to forgive someone for lying if you guys have only been dating a couple weeks? A month? Where do you draw the line? Should you build trust prior to entering a relationship or is trust built once commitment is established? Moni ends the episode answering advice for a fellow Flinger regarding whether or not it's appropriate for their significant other to be texting a coworker of the opposite sex regarding things...2024-08-2143 minFlings N' ThingsNever Have I EverOn Ep. 79 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro welcomes back @drea.monte back, as the break without her has been too long! The two keep it light on this week’s episode by playing a little game called Never Have I Ever. Listen to some funny stories and learn a little thing or two about your favorite hosts.00:00 Never have I ever36:30 Ick if he baby talks?Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !2024-08-1344 minFlings N' ThingsMeeting The ParentsOn Ep. 78 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro discusses whether you should keep your relationship public or private. Listen up because it may not be what you're expecting to hear. She also talks about how and when you should bring up introducing your parents to your new partner. Lastly, Moni gives advice about how to go about having period sex. If you haven't tried it, you should now.00:00 Updates06:20 Public vs. private relationships15:35 Meeting the parents29:10 Try period sexFind your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts...2024-08-0635 minFlings N' ThingsI'm A Lover Boy Ft. @raul__perezoficialOn Ep. 77 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro brings guest @raul__perezoficial on to discuss the beginning of his promising music career and how his passion for singing started. Learn a little more about this up and coming artist from Phoenix, AZ and sneak a preview of one of his songs that will be on his new album, Soledad Vol. I that will be dropping soon!00:00 Intro/About Raul Perez04:00 His love for music12:30 Lover boys for the win35:10 Sneak peak of Soledad Vol. IDon't miss...2024-07-3038 minFlings N' ThingsLet's Talk Love Island USAOn Ep. 76 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro talks all things Love Island USA. If you like reality TV or even if you don't, Season 6 of Love Island USA is a must watch...now streaming on Peacock! Moni breaks down different parts of the season that relate to all things dating. She ends with the advice segment, going over some ways to bring up that awkward, nerve-racking exclusivity conversation.00:00 Updates07:30 Dissecting Love Island37:20 How to bring up exclusivityFind your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You...2024-07-2448 minFlings N' ThingsDealing With RejectionOn Ep. 75 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro addresses the shitty feeling of rejection and how to deal with it. She specifically addresses how to be a respectful rejector and rejectee. Are you struggling with communication? Well, better listen up because your relationship is at risk! Lastly, would you give swinging a try if your marriage was falling apart? Moni explains her thoughts.00:00 Updates04:20 Handling rejection properly19:00 Improving communication29:40 Swinging or not?Find your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them...2024-07-1636 minFlings N' ThingsYour Parents’ Relationship Matters Ft. Tiffaney CastroOn Ep. 74 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro and guest @tally_1208 discuss the importance of your parents being the role models for a healthy relationship while growing up. Tiffaney opens up about how her mother's navigation through relationships has negatively impacted her own romantic relationships today. The two also go over examples of ways they want to be with their partners when they have kids. Are you always hesitant to open up about past trauma with new partners? Listen up, you're not alone.00:00 Relationship role model parents33:05 What do you want yours kids to see?2024-07-091h 10Flings N' ThingsLet's Talk Finances & Dating Ft. Jesus LojeOn Ep. 73 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro brings guest @jesuslojeezy on to discuss when and how the topic of finances should come up as your relationship progresses. Haven't thought about asking for that credit score yet? Listen up Flingers! Jesus also explains why he thinks men are having a hard time committing in a society where there are so many available options. Does body count matter? How often does a man expect to have sex? And if you're boyfriend isn't having sex with you, is he cheating? Jesus addresses all of these and more.00:00 Dating preferences...2024-07-021h 10Flings N' ThingsEnding The Breakup-Makeup CycleOn Ep. 71 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro is back with another solo episode. Should you be loyal when you're newly dating someone? Moni explains why you should or should not be. She then addresses how to end that toxic breakup-makeup cycle that many of us know too well. The episode ends with her discussing self-sabotaging, and how important it is to be self-aware of your triggers in order to deal with them.00:00 Updates05:50 Being loyal to someone your dating10:45 Toxic breakup-makeup cycle29:00 Self-sabotaging & identifying triggersFind...2024-06-2544 minFlings N' ThingsMy Mom Was Convicted of Murder Ft. Tiffaney CastroOn Ep. 71 of @flingsnthingsofficial, we are focusing on the "Things". @moni.montenegro interviews @tally_1208 about her childhood experiences growing up with her mother, who was convicted of the second degree murder of Sergeant Daniel Baker of Tennessee. When we hear crazy stories like these, we tend to question the life of the murderer, but do we ever take the time to think about how their family is impacted? Tiffaney is the oldest child of Erika Castro-Miles, and we all know being the oldest is very difficult. Listen in to hear all things family trauma.00:00 Intro2024-06-181h 20Flings N' ThingsDealing With Death Ft. Alynn AndersenOn Ep. 70 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro brings back guest @alynn.andersen to discuss different ways to cope with losing your loved ones. You get two different perspectives, as Moni hasn't experienced many people close to her passing like Alynn has. The two also explain ways in which you can support those who are grieving around you, specifically a significant other. They end the episode answering advice about how to tell your partner you don't want to split bills 50/50 anymore.00:00 First encounter with death13:25 Cry & feel everything23:10 Supporting those who are grieving2024-06-1158 minFlings N' ThingsJust Leave Your Hometown AlreadyOn Ep. 69 of @flingsnthingsofficial, @moni.montenegro goes solo! Drea is living her best life in Puerto Rico this week, so you get all things advice from Moni. She addresses how long couples should date before they decide to get married and the benefits of leaving your hometown, home state, or home country. She ends the episode answering advice on how to bring your cheating boyfriend back around your friends and family.00:00 Updates04:10 Ep. 68 follow-up convo09:50 How long to date before marriage20:35 Moving away from home38:40 Taking a...2024-06-0445 minFlings N' ThingsSo When's The Wedding?On Ep. 68 of @flingsnthingsofficial, changes are announced and @moni.montenegro opens up about a secret she has been keeping...she has been married! Listen in for all of the details and chisme. Moni brings on her best friend @alynn.andersen midway through the episode to help tell the story and discuss all things related to getting married young, signs you're not ready, and even moving in together beforehand. If you're wondering where @drea.monte is, don't worry Flingers, she will be back!00:00 Moni's truth / Young divorcée26:20 Getting married young49:35 There's a...2024-05-281h 13Flings N' ThingsHe Made Me Hate CorridosOn Ep. 67 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss how they have become more open-minded when it comes to music and other life experiences. They also touch on their experiences with identity crises in relation to music. Do you want to discuss threesomes with your significant other? They tell you how...or how not to.00:00 Music & identity crises24:30 Being more open-minded40:20 How to approach threesomesFind your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at...2024-05-2151 minFlings N' ThingsA Beautiful Little FoolOn Ep. 66 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss if being a nice person is the same as being a good person. They also debate whether you should trust someone right away or if someone needs to earn your trust? Does confidence and trust go hand in hand? The two also touch on unconditional love and go over which love language they could live without.00:00 Updates12:10 Good person vs. Nice person23:55 Do they need to earn trust?41:55 Unconditional love doesn't exist47:30 Giving up a love...2024-05-141h 05Flings N' ThingsTime to Give Women a ShotOn Ep. 65 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte talk about dating apps once again. Moni is thrilled with the options in Phoenix, and Drea is intrigued. The two decide to add women to their preferences to experiment and see what happens. Ever feel nervous to have sex for the first time with someone? You're not alone.00:00 Updates08:20 Having sex sober20:40 Experimenting with women39:45 What warms your soulFind your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on...2024-05-0751 minFlings N' Things420 & PeggingOn Ep. 64 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte celebrate another 420 episode by recapping their experience at Arizona's Budsapalooza event and reminiscing about their early experiences smoking weed. The two also go over their thoughts on pegging and anal play. Have you dated a true stoner? They have, and listen up because they don't recommend. Lastly, they give advice about what signs to look out for if you think your ex is seeing someone new.00:00 Lots of updates12:00 AZ Budsapalooza24:30 Smoking stories 41:35 High sex & DP52:15 Dating...2024-04-301h 10Flings N' ThingsStop People-PleasingOn Ep. 63 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss ways to deal with stress, talk about how exhausting people-pleasing is, and question whether or not it's possible to love yourself without conditions. They also discuss who their podcaster crushes are. You guys asked!00:00 Dealing with stress28:20 People-pleasing is exhausting36:15 Loving yourself without conditions49:35 Podcaster crushesFind your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also follow them on Instagram and TikTok at @flingsnthingsofficial !2024-04-1655 minFlings N' ThingsFirst Dates SuckOn Ep. 62 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss the dos and don'ts of first dates. Let's just say they have more don'ts...Do you hate first dates? Do you get overwhelmed with anxiety? You're not alone! The two explain there own experiences and tips to deal with it. Lastly, is it weird that your spouse wants to go on a solo trip? Let's hear what Moni and Drea have to say.00:00 First date DOs & DON'Ts20:35 Overcoming anxiety while dating35:40 Solo trip while married?Find...2024-04-0946 minFlings N' ThingsSleeping Beauty & 69On Ep. 61 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss the many benefits of sleeping - aging gracefully, avoiding your problems, and staying off the streets. They also address whether or not you can successfully work on yourself while in a relationship. Stay tuned for their advice segment. A fellow flinger asks the dreaded question - when do you call it quits?00:00 Updates & 6910:10 The benefits of sleeping24:05 Self-growth in a relationship40:40 When to call it quitsFind your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts...2024-04-0254 minFlings N' ThingsThe Voodoo ClamOn Ep. 60 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss multiple topics such as what qualities in women are important to men, how good sex can keep a man sprung, and why you should stop asking your friends who is going to be at the get together.00:00 Updates06:10 Asking who's going to be there14:40 What's important to men?30:00 Voodoo clam has him sprung41:10 Stop sending us unsolicited dick picsFind your favorite hosts on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can also...2024-03-1945 minFlings N' ThingsWalked Her Like a Dog Ft. @brandigo_thegringoOn Ep. 59 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte experience one of their best interviews yet with @brandingo_thegringo ! Brandon was brought on the pod to tell his crazy story that is more scandalous than you can imagine! Throughout the episode he provides thought-provoking dating advice to men and women. Topics covered include identifying red flags, kinks in the bedroom, and knowing your self-worth while dating.00:00 THE SCANDAL.35:30 Dating tips & bedroom talk1:00:35 Mr. Perfect with a small dickFollow guest Brandon on instagram @brandigo_thegringo !2024-03-121h 14Flings N' ThingsMy Family Doesn't Like My BFOn Ep. 58 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte talk about baby mama drama. They tell women to stop expecting more from men that don't want to have a child. Does your significant other get along with your family? The two touch on the important of this.00:00 A baby doesn't mean commitment18:00 Telling him you're pregnant30:05 My family doesn't like my S.O.42:05 Concept of love differs53:20 Ex flings sliding back inFind them on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. You can...2024-03-051h 00Flings N' ThingsJust Get the Lashes GirlOn Ep. 57 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte get you up to date with the changes going on in their lives. The two talk about eliminating the stigma of moving back in with your parents and normalizing loving yourself however raw that may be. Sometimes there is a pressure to love yourself just the way you are, but is it a bad thing if lashes or lip fillers make you happy? They also go into how women tend to stress more about aging than men, especially physically. Lastly, a fellow Flinger wants to leave someone he is...2024-02-271h 03Flings N' ThingsNot Jail Again! Ft. Jean-PierreOn Ep. 56 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte interview special guest @wholesomeman3.0 to help us gain some more male perspective right in time for Valentine’s Day. Jean-Pierre aka JP, discusses opinions on common scenarios that many of you have probably experienced while dating. JP shares his experiences being featured on a huge YouTube channel and how he will forever go to jail when crossing the border. Yes, you heard that correctly.00:00 Intro / Who is Jean-Pierre?09:40 Catching a gold digger22:00 Too early to celebrate Valentine’s Day?30:35 Let’...2024-02-131h 18Flings N' ThingsLet’s Get ControversialOn Ep. 55 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss some current events going on in the media. Popular social media platforms are being sued for contributing to the teen mental health crisis. What are your thoughts? Who is responsible for? The two then talk about their thoughts on sharing political and religious views when dating. Lastly, they give advice about how to react when someone gives you a gift but you didn’t get them anything.00:00 Updates08:40 Social media lawsuits36:00 Politics and dating49:10 Sharing the same religious vi...2024-02-061h 10Flings N' ThingsUnsolicited Dick PicsOn Ep. 54 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte answer what-if scenarios back and forth because yet again, they came to record unprepared. But best believe you'll be laughing, so don't get it twisted! The two go over why unsolicited dick pics are a no and how in the hell Gypsy Rose even got a husband. Do nice guys always finish last? Up to you to decide. Lastly, if you're going to make a Finsta, do it the right way...and don't DM your ex!00:00 Random what-if scenarios21:10 Unsolicited dick pics2024-01-301h 10Flings N' ThingsTissue Balls & Gold Diggers Ft. Adrian GreenOn Ep. 53 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte have a very special guest on, Adrian Green. Tune in for a good laugh, while you gain some male insights on coparenting, dating, bedroom fun, and more. Ladies, you’ll definitely want to listen in!00:00 Intro/Who is Adrian Green?09:30 Becoming a father changes you18:55 Dating and coparenting32:10 Dating is work, marriage is fun51:50 She gives me the ICK when...01:03:20 Preferences in the bedroom01:11:15 My bf's porn category isn't meFollow guest Adrian on...2024-01-231h 29Flings N' ThingsLoving the Idea of SomeoneOn Ep. 52 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss how to avoid someone falling in love with the idea of you versus you for who you are. If you're on the other side of this and keep falling for potential, listen up for familiar patterns. Remember the 5 love languages? Well, the two review them again and how they can be problematic in the beginning stages of dating. They end the episode giving advice on where to meet men in person nowadays.00:00 Updates06:40 Falling for the idea of someone18:50 Love languages to...2024-01-161h 06Flings N' ThingsI Made HIM BleedFlingers! You've been missed! On Ep. 51 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte update you on what's been going on in their lives after a nice little break. They go into their 2024 resolutions and then answer some questions that lead to some crazy stories. Bleeding dicks, to running a man over, to their wildest fantasies. You won't want to miss it! Don't forget their advice segment at the end because a man is worried he may be too small...00:00 Updates/2024 Resolutions14:00 Crazy girls, fantasies, & orgasms25:50 Romantic gestures39:30 Sex talk, ICKS...2024-01-091h 16Flings N' ThingsLeave for the Baby Ft. Shawndra LyleOn Ep. 50 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte have their first female guest on, Shawndra Lyle. You don’t want to miss the last episode of the year, as we saved the best for last! Shawndra shares her life experiences and everything she has learned by going through what no one should have to go through. She covers topics such as being adopted, having a child with a cheating partner, co-parenting with a narcissist, and many more. Shawndra provides a lot of great advice in hopes other women feel empowered to stand up for what they deserve an...2023-12-121h 16Flings N' ThingsProblematic RoommatesOn Ep. 49 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte engage in some more pillow talk after a nice little sesh. They address whether it is rude to speak in another language in front of someone who doesn't understand the language. They also talk about all of their pet peeves when it comes to having a roommate. Have you ever acted on a crush at work? You're not alone, but you're also living life on the edge. Lastly, the two express their views on how fancy a first date should be.00:00 Updates/Shenanigans03:00 Rude to...2023-12-0546 minFlings N' ThingsFriendships Pt. 2On Ep. 48 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte continue the conversation around friendships. The two discuss the importance of someone’s character, and how we tend to fight harder for romantic relationships versus our friendships. Is it fair to expect someone to be there for you if you don’t ask them to be? Are you 100% your raw, vulnerable self with your friends? And if not, is that a bad thing? Lastly, they answer advice on how to tell if someone is wasting your time?00:00 Updates12:00 Character is important27:40 Fighting for a fr...2023-11-281h 14Flings N' ThingsKeeping Friendships AliveOn Ep. 47 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte talk friendships. Why do more women use their friends' insecurities against them in comparison to men? The two address some differences between women and men in friendships. They also discuss the difficulty of keeping friendships alive and what can help. Have you ever experienced a friend distance themself when in a toxic relationship? You're not alone! Communication is not only important in romantic relationships, but in friendships as well. If you're hurt, speak up. Lastly, Moni and Drea give advice about kissing on the first date.00:00 Updates2023-11-211h 07Flings N' ThingsTherapy SeshOn Ep. 46 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte take it back to their childhoods. This is one of their most serious episodes yet, so be prepared to start looking inward at all your habits, tendencies, and past relationships. The two open up and get real about things they are currently working on that is going to better their relationships. Are you upset that you're getting older and still have no kids? Listen up and you'll realize your kids will be better off. Lastly, Moni and Drea address staying in touch with your ex's family in their advice...2023-11-141h 36Flings N' ThingsIf My Ex DiedOn Ep. 45 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte revisit situationships and other random topics regarding dating. Because they love it so much...not. Ladies, do any of you struggle to feel emotions during sex or struggle to detach yourself from people? You're not alone! Have you ever thought about how you would feel if your ex died? The two share different perspectives on the topics. Tired of running back to the same toxic dick? Listen up for their advice segment - Out With The Old, In With The New!00:00 Sex without emotions23:20 What...2023-11-0754 minFlings N' ThingsSay Goodbye to SituationshipsOn Ep. 44 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss how addicting social media can be and how difficult it can be to stay productive on your downtime. They then go back and forth between whether money is the key to happiness, or love. Are you tired of situationships? Well, Moni and Drea are going to tell you what it is and why they’re a waste of time. Do you care if your friend’s make a comment about how attractive your new bf or gf is? Maybe you’re just overthinking it. Listen up!00:00 Social...2023-10-311h 17Flings N' ThingsControversial Pregnancy TalkOn Ep. 43 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte talk pregnancy. They discuss controversial topics regarding genetic manipulation, IVF, and terminating pregnancies due to concerns and complications. Moni brings up her potential desire for using a sperm donor, and Drea provides her thoughts on the idea. The two also discuss how it would be to have to split up time for the holidays when they're married. Lastly, is it a red flag that your boyfriend won't post that he's in a relationship with you? Listen up!00:00 Updates12:00 Pregnancy decisions27:00 Getting a sperm...2023-10-2456 minFlings N' ThingsSign the Prenup!On Ep. 42 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss prenups, and why women shouldn’t be offended if they’re asked to sign one. Then they go into which professions are hot and why, so listen up men! A listener then asks for some advice regarding her bachelorette party. Her best friend says she can’t go because her husband won’t let her. Lastly, the two talk about habits in relationships and whether marriage is something they see themselves pursuing.00:00 Updates15:00 Are prenups disrespectful?25:50 Hot professions35:05 Bachelorette party problems...2023-10-171h 05Flings N' ThingsShits & GigglesOn Ep. 41 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte deal with a nasty hangover by showing up to record after a little smoke sesh. No plan, no nothing. They recap Drea’s surprise party at the strip club and reminisce on how messed up Moni gets at every birthday party. Drea takes the lead by asking random questions! Shits and giggles is the perfect description of how the rest of the episode went. This is why they don't smoke and pod. Lastly, the two revisit an advice question from last episode regarding intimacy issues in a long-term relationship in...2023-10-101h 11Flings N' ThingsFlings N' Things AnniversaryOn Ep. 40 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte celebrate the podcast’s 1 year anniversary by sharing everything they've learned from their experience, and where they want to see Flings N’ Things go in the future. Can you believe you’ve been listening to their crazy, obnoxious asses for a year?! The two give you the chisme on their dating lives and as always, they’re pretty shitty. They then speak their opinions on whether or not you should be celebrating a "monthiversary" publicly. What’s an anniversary celebration without going back to discuss a topic they touched on in thei...2023-10-041h 36Flings N' ThingsDo You Believe in Aliens?On Ep. 39 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte talk paranormal activity. They discuss conspiracies around Hollywood, aliens, and even mental illness. The two share some of their own scary experiences with the unexplainable. They end the serious episode with a lighter note by providing advice on how to tell your girlfriend her vagina smells.00:00 Updates04:40 Do you believe in aliens?07:50 Playboy & Hollywood10:45 Experiences with paranormal activity36:25 Mentally ill or a 6th sense?58:45 How to tell my gf it smellsRecommended nose piercing spray...2023-10-011h 12Flings N' ThingsGetting Caught in the ActOn Ep. 38 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte read stories from listeners about getting caught having sex. Of course, the two share their own crazy ones as well. Moni shares one regarding a very messy situationship that Drea helped instigate. They also go into what they would do if they caught their own kid in the act. What kind of parent would you be if you knew your teen was sexually active? Lastly, the two give advice on whether or not you should wear heels on the first date.00:00 Updates06:10 Getting caught in...2023-09-191h 07Flings N' ThingsI Like It Like ThatOn Ep. 37 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte do something a little different. They answer a variety of random questions that listeners and viewers wrote in and asked. Topics covered include preferences in the bedroom, sex toys (AGAIN), and even swinging and non-monogamy. The two also give advice about whether or not it is a good idea to hook up with one of your friends.00:00 Updates06:00 Using toys with your partner09:50 Fav position in the bedroom16:15 Personal dating life18:25 How rough do you like it?24:45...2023-09-1259 minFlings N' ThingsMasturbating for the First TimeOn Ep. 36 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte talk all about masturbation. Drea is finally going to try it for the first time! If you're also a beginner or new to masturbation, listen up for all the tips and recommendations Moni provides. The two also discuss incorporating different toys and your fingers in the bedroom with your partner. Lastly, they give women another way to spice things up in the bedroom!00:00 Updates12:50 I have never masturbated18:30 Which vibrator should I start with?28:20 Incorporating toys and fingers36:15 Tips...2023-09-051h 05Flings N' ThingsNo More 90-Day Rule!On Ep. 35 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte put an end to the 90-Day rule! They discuss how a man knows his true intention with you from the beginning. The two also talk about dating someone that has a lot of trauma and how it can be too much for men. This topic then poses the question - does the amount of traumatic experiences you have influence how mature you are? Lastly, Drea talks about bleaching her butthole and "voluntells" Moni to help her!00:00 Updates05:35 No more 90-Day rule19:30 Dating someone...2023-08-2957 minFlings N' ThingsBig Dicks Aren’t EverythingOn Ep. 34 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss how to bring up the topic of kids when you’re dating someone new. What if they are uncertain? Moni and Drea explain how important having kids is to them and debate on whether love or children is more fulfilling. They also stress the importance of discussing child-rearing views and expectations with your partner. Lastly, the two tackle the issue with big dicks. Size does matter!00:00 Intro/Updates05:35 Child-rearing and disciplining19:35 Dating and discussing children28:50 What if he is uncertain ab...2023-08-221h 07Flings N' ThingsOur Ancestors Had OrgiesOn Ep. 33 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss how powerful and emotional music can be. Have you stopped listening to a specific song because it brings you back to a specific time in your life? The two also touch on whether or not you can be a career woman and still be a "good" traditional wife. More importantly, can modern men expect to date a traditional woman or must they also be traditional themselves? Moni and Drea argue that being open with your sexuality should not be shameful, and how we need to normalize talking about...2023-08-151h 02Flings N' ThingsSaturdays Are No Longer for the BoysOn Ep. 32 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte share some tips on how to get good with your significant other's friends. Do you hate your man going out with his boys or your girl participating in girls' night out? Well, they have just the thing to help you get invited! They also discuss the different types of couples you see at social gatherings and what it means to them. Lastly, have you ever had the same type as your friend? Moni and Drea explain ways to help you if you're struggling to compete for the end prize.2023-08-0858 minFlings N' ThingsOn God She Ugly Ft. Tevin JamesOn Ep. 31 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte have @tevinnjames on to cover new topics such as being a single dad, overcoming the struggles of coparenting, and interracial dating. Recognize Tevin from Twitter or Papas&Beer? He tells us the story about how he went viral from a crazy night in Mexico. Moni and Drea spend the last half of the episode discussing Tevin’s views on dating, relationships, and more importantly, his preferences in the bedroom. You won’t want to miss the crazy stories this man has on these females!00:00 Intro / About Tevin Jame...2023-08-011h 58Flings N' ThingsRecycling ExesOn Ep. 30 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss the issues with telling your friends too many details about your dating life. How long do you wait to introduce your new significant other? Is there a right time? Moni has a problem going back to her exes, but Drea doesn’t. The two go back and forth about why people do it and if people really can change. 00:00 Updates 08:45 Keep your dating life more private 21:30 Waiting to introduce your S.O. 27:30 Going back to an ex 53:20 Does he...2023-07-251h 04Flings N' ThingsBuy You a Drank Ft. Omar SotoOn Ep. 29 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte have @osotojr_ on to provide us with yet another male's perspective. Guest Omar shares some of his views and experiences with dating and relationships. Moni and Drea ask Omar questions regarding traditional and modern dating, cheating, preferences in the bedroom, and much more. They even let him ask some of his own questions. Listen up ladies!00:00 Intro / About Omar Soto23:55 Emotional vs. physical cheating28:10 F*cking on the first date34:50 Omar’s preferences in the bedroom43:45 Men DO NOT re...2023-07-181h 18Flings N' ThingsLas Toxicas Have ReturnedOn Ep. 28 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte open up the episode by announcing their return into their toxic era. Moni fell into her old ways again, but it makes for an entertaining story. Drink your water, because Drea had to save Moni with a trip to the emergency room. The two make it clear that aside from their toxic ways, they are still taking boyfriend applications. They the end the episode by going over relationship closure and how to achieve it.00:00 Updates / Threads02:55 Casual hookups are back?14:30 Moni almost died2023-07-1151 minFlings N' ThingsFinally, a Guy's Perspective Ft. Anthony De La Cruz On Ep. 27 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte finally have their first guest on! @delacruz619 is finally giving you the guy’s perspective when it comes to dating and other topics. Guest Anthony shares his experiences with losing a parent, long distance relationships, and dating a virgin. Moni and Drea challenge some points Anthony makes regarding his views and perceptions of women in the dating world today.00:00 Intro / About guest Anthony De La Cruz12:10 Less attractive people cheat more18:55 Asking your partner to change28:30 Losing a parent / Grieving with a...2023-07-051h 54Flings N' ThingsPost Breakup LoyaltyOn Ep. 26 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte cover many topics regarding exes and social media. Have you ever had an ex follow you on social media after their new relationship didn’t work out? Does it bother you if your close friends and family still follow any of your exes? The two discuss their opinions and experiences. Have you ever wanted to pursue your ex’s friend post breakup? Moni and Drea get a little toxic by rehashing some of their past. On a serious note, better eye contact with others may improve your relationships, so list...2023-06-271h 18Flings N' ThingsTaking Toes Up the AssOn Ep. 25 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte talk about foot fetishes and the possible theories as to why they exist. They then open up about some of their own kinks and odd turn on’s in the bedroom. Men, need help with your dating app profile? Moni and Drea discuss profile DONT’s when it comes to putting yourself on the dating market. Lastly, a viewer/listener asks them to name some immediate “icks” when it comes to dating men.00:00 Updates03:50 Foot fetishes & possible theories21:40 Kinks & weird turn on’s39:10...2023-06-201h 15Flings N' ThingsI Hate Sleeping AloneOn Ep. 24 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss how we all need to normalize doing things alone. Why is it a big deal for someone to go to the movies alone? They also cover how important it is to be able to be on your own without a significant other. Ever heard of relationship hopping? The two open up about personal experiences and what they have learned from them. 00:00 Updates / Europe trip18:15 Normalize doing things alone34:45 Being alone isn’t so bad47:30 Relationship hopping54:20 Letting them in...2023-06-131h 21Flings N' ThingsMen Ask Me To PayOn Ep. 23 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte go straight into the episode discussing whether or not a man should be paying for a woman. Should a man pay on dates or should you split the bill? How does paying for things change when you’re in an exclusive relationship? The two go over their experiences and opinions on these topics. They then address whether money matters in a relationship. Lastly, Moni and Drea provide some advice on how to tell your man you don’t like the gifts he gives you. 00:00 Updates / Last prerecorded epis...2023-06-0643 minFlings N' ThingsVampire PussyOn Ep. 22 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte give all you ladies the information you need to have a successful sleepover with a man. They take it back to the first time they slept with a guy, and the insecurities that came with it. The two give you a list of things to bring to the sleepover, along with some dos and don’ts. How do you feel about period sex? Well, Moni and Drea go into their experiences and the best way to execute. Lastly, they discuss the best way to make the first move with a...2023-05-3050 minFlings N' ThingsI Touched Her VibratorOn Ep. 21 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss whether or not it’s okay to change for your significant other. What is healthy and what is unhealthy? How important are boundaries in a relationship? The two open up about things they have changed about themselves in past relationships, and things they will not change in the future. Moni and Drea also talk about things men have said about their physical appearance that have stuck with them. Men - Don’t know what to do for a first date because you don’t know her intentions? Listen up!2023-05-231h 11Flings N' ThingsI Have a TypeOn Ep. 20 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte address whether or not looks matter. Is physical attraction just as important as personality? Both talk about their typical types on paper and what qualities they look for in a man. Do you have a checklist that you use when you’re dating? How important is money? Moni and Drea discuss these topics and more. Lastly, the two explain how many times is too many to cancel on someone.00:00 Updates04:00 I have a type07:30 Looks do matter23:25 Important qualities in a ma...2023-05-161h 06Flings N' ThingsStop Sucking DickOn Ep. 19 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte open the episode talking about the need for boob jobs. Then the two address the throat cancer epidemic going on and whether or not they require condoms for oral sex. Then you don’t want to miss the next topic - guys and butt stuff. No need to elaborate more. Lastly, a viewer writes in asking how to get over someone they never really dated.00:00 Updates & boob jobs13:55 Condoms & the throat cancer epidemic27:00 Oral sex is more intimate40:00 Guys & butt stuff...2023-05-091h 03Flings N' ThingsYou Don't F*ck Your FriendsOn Ep. 18 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte debate on whether you can stay friends with someone you have slept with once you enter a relationship. Things get a little heated, and they want to know what you think. Then this topic leads them to discuss their opinions about being friends with your ex. Have you ever went back for bad sex? Moni has. Then Drea starts to rethink all her encounters. What actually constitutes bad sex? Awkwardness or dick size? Lastly, the two end the episode responding to someone's question regarding trapping their boyfriend.00:00...2023-05-0258 minFlings N' ThingsParents & SexOn Ep. 17 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte go into the discussion around talking to your parents about having sex. They share their personal experiences and how it affected them during their teenage years. The two open up about how their parents found out they lost their virginity, and the first time they got on birth control. Moni and Drea stress how you should accept the fact that your kids will have sex, so open communication is critical. They even touch on the importance of discussing childrearing while dating. Lastly, they do not kink shame here! If...2023-04-251h 09Flings N' ThingsYou Can't Smoke With UsOn Ep. 16 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte celebrate 420 by smoking on the pod for the first time ever. The episode starts off with Moni reviewing some legislation around cannabis, while Drea rolls a blunt and shares her little secret. Moni and Drea play some smoking games that you do not want to miss, as they share random stories about their experiences getting high over the years. Aside from the ugly laughs, distracting munchies, and blonde moments, you get a little taste of what it would be like to engage in a smoking sesh with Moni and...2023-04-201h 35Flings N' ThingsForeplay or No PlayOn Ep. 15 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte go into the importance of foreplay in the bedroom and how a lot of men tend to skip that part during a hookup. Foreplay isn’t just everything else BUT sex. The two also touch on the orgasm gap yet again, with a focus on oral sex. Have you ever started dating someone who always shit talks their ex? It may be a red flag according to Moni. They both admit to questioning why they get turned on by girl on girl interactions on the screen. Lastly, Moni and Dr...2023-04-111h 14Flings N' ThingsInsecurities in the BedroomOn Ep. 14 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte go into the episode pointing out how nowadays, insecurities are more openly expressed compared to before. Why is that? They then dive right in to discussing their insecurities with body image.Drea explains how her insecurities have been dismissed because her body structure is more on the thinner side. While on the other hand, Moni struggles with her insecurities about being on the heavier side so the two elaborate on those differences. They touch on dating app profiles and how photos vs reality can cause anxiety when it's time...2023-04-041h 12Flings N' ThingsStop Stalking ExesOn Ep. 13 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte dive right into the episode’s topic of stalking. The two give their opinion on watching people’s stories who you do not follow. They discuss why people stalk their exes, and how women tend to stalk on social media more than men. Moni and Drea elaborate on some crazy social media stalking experiences and how random they were. They then make it clear that you shouldn’t show up at people’s homes unannounced, especially if you are not in a relationship with them. Grab your popcorn for these st...2023-03-281h 02Flings N' ThingsStrip Clubs & Dolla Bill$On Ep. 12 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte open the episode discussing Instagram accounts for pets and children. Drea has some regrets after a night out, which sparks the conversation around whether drunk calling your ex means anything. Do you ever feel awkward during sex? Well both of them do, so they explain under what circumstances and why. The two also discuss how women can be delusional when it comes to dating and seeing things for what they really are. Then Drea explains how not having sex on the first date has had a positive impact on...2023-03-211h 23Flings N' ThingsSocial Media Kills RelationshipsOn Ep. 11 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte start the episode by reminiscing in their early Papas & Beer Rosarito days and recapping their first podcast feature on @LaFamiliaPodcast, Ep. 99! They then express their thoughts on CA Governor Newsom wanting to stop doing business with Walgreens due to their ban of the abortion pill in 20 other states. The two spend most of their time answering many questions regarding relationships and social media. Are you okay with your significant other liking and commenting on photos of the opposite sex? What about your significant other following people they used to...2023-03-141h 06Flings N' ThingsHe Made You What?!On Ep. 10 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte announce some important updates for the pod. Moni is back in Cali, which means you all get to listen to them every Tuesday! The two recap their Super Bowl weekends involving sugar daddies in Phoenix and strippers in Tijuana. Did Valentine's Day go as planned? You will have to listen for yourself. It's been awhile since some sex tips were offered. Thankfully, recent events have provided some useful insights. Drea knows how to squirt, and Moni brings a vibrator into the bedroom with an added twist. The two even...2023-03-071h 00Flings N' ThingsLet's Talk Love LanguagesOn Ep. 9 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss the 5 love languages and how useful they can be while navigating through all types of relationships. Do you know your top love languages? If so, when was the last time you took the quiz? Your life experiences can shift your priorities and change what means most to you. What are the chances Moni and Drea will find the man of their dreams? They take a funny quiz to determine how delusional they really are. The two also address whether or not people should be dating if they are...2023-02-1450 minFlings N' ThingsHere We Grow AgainOn Ep. 8 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss their personal growth and confidence that the podcast has given them. Did you know a listener sent Moni $100 for a new vibrator? The two touch on their current dating lives and go over how important substance and banter are in their interactions with men. Don't know what to get your new partner or situationship for Valentine's Day? Listen up, tips are provided. Moni discusses becoming a better listener, as it goes hand in hand with being a good communicator. Drea addresses girl code and loyalty in friendships, and...2023-01-311h 15Flings N' ThingsNew Year, New DickOn Ep. 7 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte return after their holiday break and kick off the new year by recapping what everyone missed. Moni goes on a family vacation to Cancun and dumps a guy after the second date. Drea enters the dating world after many years and sets expectations for her future partner. They discuss major red flags, setting boundaries, date talk, and allowing yourself to be more vulnerable. They then go back and forth about the value of lube in the bedroom, and Moni makes it a goal to get Drea to start masturbating...2023-01-2458 minFlings N' ThingsWhat's the Hype About Crazy Girls?On Ep. 6 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte pose the question, why do men like crazy girls? They discuss double standards in the bedroom, and comfortability being a key indicator to crazier sex. Moni addresses why sleeping with multiple people is simply human nature, and two consenting adults should not be shamed for it. Drea addresses the fact that some men need to step it up and how women need to stop taking care of them. Should men and women be equals in a relationship, or should we go back to traditional ways?2023-01-2458 minFlings N' ThingsTrap Queen or KingOn Ep. 5 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss the toxic act of "trapping" amongst men and women and the importance of consent. They go over their experiences with pregnancy scares, the perfect friends with benefits, emergency contraceptive, weird sex noises, and swallowing. Moni addresses the proper way to finger a woman and her trick to avoid catching feelings. Drea revisits her first time performing oral sex and the porn she watched. The most intriguing question posed is whether or not the level of emotional attachment you have to someone determines how well you perform in the...2023-01-2447 minFlings N' ThingsLesbehonestOn Ep. 4 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte open up about their personal sexual experiences with women, and Drea goes into detail about her best friend being in love with her. They also discuss the importance of vaginal health and oral sex. Moni explains her potential openness to threesomes, but her unwillingness to go down on a girl.2023-01-2458 minFlings N' ThingsCreepin It RealOn Ep. 3 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte recap their Halloween Ka-Party. You'll have to listen in to find out what that is. They interview intoxicated attendees and ask for their opinions on circumstances within relationships. They ask a lot of "He's/She's a 10 BUT!" Topics addressed are oral sex, licking toes, friendships with the opposite sex, and much more.2023-01-2441 minFlings N' ThingsIt's Cuffing Season!On Ep. 2 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte discuss the best seasons to date in. They cover topics such as the different stages of dating, exclusivity, and wanting to settle down. Moni shares her experiences with dating apps and whether they work or not. Drea reveals her lack of experience with traditional dating. Negative experiences with previous partners they've dated are revealed, names not mentioned of course.2023-01-2457 minFlings N' ThingsBaby, What's Your Sign?On Ep. 1 of @flingsnthingsofficial, hosts @moni.montenegro and @drea.monte play 21 questions so viewers can get a little taste of who they are and what their personalities are like. Who exactly are you dealing with? Who is the funniest, and who is the craziest? They discuss Zodiac Signs and address the controversy around the topic. Do they matter in relationships? Who is most toxic? Should we listen to the stars or follow our hearts?2023-01-2453 min