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Tilly's Trans TuesdaysCis Spousal and Partner SupportThere's an epidemic of cis spouses and partners leaving trans people when we come out. Worse, some cis spouses and partners hold relationships, homes, even children over us, with the threat of losing them if we transition. So let's talk about why the support of our cis partners is so vital, what it looks like, and why the opposite is so entirely devastating (and wrong). Artist Andy Alves and writer Ben Crane join us to discuss what transition was like for them and their relationship (find them at HeroesCon June 14-16)! I'm Susan's pal, and shits are fine.
ANDY ALVES
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Rise From The Ashes Podcast - Conversations about matters of the family, because — Family Law Matter31 Spousal Support
There is a great deal of misinformation surrounding spousal maintenance or spousal support, sometimes known as alimony. As is so common in legal situations, many well meaning people have their 2 cents to offer based on their personal experiences or those of someone they know, but this can lead to unnecessary fear or making decisions that may not be in your best interest. This topic can become a bit complicated, so this episode explains several of the determining factors for deciding spousal support.
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Modifying Minnesota Spousal Support: Lessons from in RE: Marriage of M...2019-10-1315 minRise From The Ashes Podcast - Conversations about matters of the family, because — Family Law Matter30 Transgender Issues & Family LawTransgender folks face a lot of challenges as they come out, beyond just the reactions of their family and social circle. There are also a host of legal issues that can come up that might not be initially anticipated, including family law issues. This episode explores an overview of some of the basic dynamics of family law as it may concern the transgender community.2019-08-2017 min
Rise From The Ashes Podcast - Conversations about matters of the family, because — Family Law Matter29 Custody & Parenting Time for Unmarried CouplesWhen a couple with children break up, questions about custody, parenting time, and the welfare of their children become of primary importance. From a legal standpoint, these issues can be more complicated if the couple was never legally married. This episode of the podcast will address these concerns and look at the specific legal statutes that support each parent, whether legally married or not.
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Unmarried and Pregnant in Minnesota? 5 Things You Need to Know
What To Do When You Find Out Your Girlfriend’s Pregnant
Caretaking and Custody: What’s Changed in Minnesota
...2019-06-2613 minRise From The Ashes Podcast - Conversations about matters of the family, because — Family Law Matter28 Settling an Estate Without a WillWhen a loved one or family member passes away, life can become difficult enough, let alone not having the instructions of a will to help in settling their affairs. In this podcast episode, an experienced estate law attorney looks at in and outs of the...2019-06-1215 minRise From The Ashes Podcast - Conversations about matters of the family, because — Family Law Matter27 Dividing Property for Unmarried CouplesDepending on the length of time a couple was together, the things they’ve acquired can become an important issue when the time may come for them to split-up. This episode discusses property division for unmarried couples, a topic less well defined legally.2019-05-2711 minRise From The Ashes Podcast - Conversations about matters of the family, because — Family Law Matter26 Cost of Reassurance
For most people, the expense involved in a family law case can be difficult enough to manage without any unnecessary extras. As emotions run high, it’s easy to want to contact your attorney for clarification, updates, or simply to vent about your soon-to-be ex. However, this will quickly spike your legal bill and, in reality, some issues the attorney is simply not the most qualified person to assist you with. In this episode, attorneys share tips on how to keep your legal costs down by minimizing calls and contacts that are not strictly procedural on your case.
For mo...2019-05-0709 min
Rise From The Ashes Podcast - Conversations about matters of the family, because — Family Law Matter25 Co-Parents & AlcoholThe statistics for mothers and fathers daily use of alcohol just to cope with the stress of co-parenting is, excuse the term - sobering. This podcast explores legal implications when one parent or the other is dealing with the difficulties of alcoholism or addiction.
For more information, check out our blogs:
How Alcoholism Affects Your Divorce
Physical, Mental, and Chemical Health: How They Affect Your Minnesota Custody Case
How to Use Parenting Consultants in Your Divorce
Keeping Your Child Connected to Their Other Parent
Cooperating in Co-Parenting: How it Affects Custody2019-03-1512 minRise From The Ashes Podcast - Conversations about matters of the family, because — Family Law Matter24 Don’t Trust Your ExOf all the people in life that a person would like to trust to have their best interests in mind, during or after a divorce, it turns out, your Ex – Spouse, Partner, etc. is not usually one of them. This episode explores some of the main ways you ca...2019-02-1514 minRise From The Ashes Podcast - Conversations about matters of the family, because — Family Law Matter23 Step Parent AdoptionOne of the most joyful things that families can experience is when a step parent makes the major transition to becoming a child’s adoptive parent. In this podcast you’ll learn about the three basic steps in this legal process. It’s both informative and heartwarming to see how the adoptive procedure can help to make a family whole. It also briefly addresses how this process may apply to LGBTQA+ relationships.
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How Does Stepparent Adoption Work in Minnesota?
How Can a Grandparent or Third Party Adopt a Child?
LGBT Adoption in Minnesota2019-01-1812 minRise From The Ashes Podcast - Conversations about matters of the family, because — Family Law Matter22 Phases of DivorceDivorce can be confusing and once it's happening, it can feel like it's never going to end. Trying to understand the documents, hearings, mediation, back and forth between parties and attorneys... all while trying to deal with the emotions accompanying a divorce can be overwhelming. In this episode Susan explains the phases of divorce in plain terms to help you understand and feel more empowered through the process.
For more information, check out our blogs:
Divorce in Minnesota: Where Do I Start?
I've Filed For Divorce: What's Next?
What is "Discovery" in a Minnesota Divorce?
Discovery: How It's Handled In...2018-11-2018 minRise From The Ashes Podcast - Conversations about matters of the family, because — Family Law MatterPhases of Divorce
Divorce can be confusing and once it's happening, it can feel like it's never going to end. Trying to understand the documents, hearings, mediation, back and forth between parties and attorneys... all while trying to deal with the emotions accompanying a divorce can be overwhelming. In this episode Susan explains the phases of divorce in plain terms to help you understand and feel more empowered through the process.2018-11-2018 min
Rise From The Ashes Podcast - Conversations about matters of the family, because — Family Law MatterTo Divorcing Parents
When a marriage fails it can feel like losing a loved one. The emotional toll of splitting from your support system and all the stability the two of you have created is huge and often makes it hard to think clearly. All of this is amplified when you have children. Navigating the emotional turmoil of separating from your spouse while simultaneously figuring out how to continue co-parenting with them so that your children continue to receive both of your love and support is especially challenging. This episode is specifically aimed to assist parents in making better choices f...2018-05-2408 minRise From The Ashes Podcast - Conversations about matters of the family, because — Family Law Matter21 To Divorcing ParentsWhen a marriage fails it can feel like losing a loved one. The emotional toll of splitting from your support system and all the stability the two of you have created is huge and often makes it hard to think clearly.2018-05-1609 minRise From The Ashes Podcast - Conversations about matters of the family, because — Family Law Matter20 Children of DivorceDuring a divorce the focus is most often on the couple that is splitting up or any small children they may have. Older or adult children can be overlooked and often become the confidants and support systems for their divorcing parents.2018-05-0411 min
Rise From The Ashes Podcast - Conversations about matters of the family, because — Family Law MatterChildren of DivorceDuring a divorce the focus is most often on the couple that is splitting up or any small children they may have. Older or adult children can be overlooked and often become the confidants and support systems for their divorcing parents. The truth is that having family split apart is painful at any age and being expected to be a rock for your parent(s) while not having support or space to process this change in family dynamic can be traumatic. This episode of the Podcast features suggestions for acknowledging the strife, realizing it's not your fault, forgiving and m...2018-05-0411 minRise From The Ashes Podcast - Conversations about matters of the family, because — Family Law Matter19 Why Hire an Attorney for Your Divorce?It's fairly common nowadays for folks to choose to represent themselves during their divorce, at least initially, often in an attempt to save money or because they feel they can handle their ex better on their own. This episode discusses the common pitfalls of self-representation and why hiring a professional to represent you during such an emotional transition can actually save you time, money, and definitely save you unnecessary stress.
For more information, check out our blogs:
The Cost of Not Hiring An Attorney
How to Find a Divorce Lawyer
How to Select a Divorce Attorney
Your Perception is Not...2018-01-1810 min
Rise From The Ashes Podcast - Conversations about matters of the family, because — Family Law MatterWhy Hire an Attorney for Your Divorce?
It's fairly common nowadays for folks to choose to represent themselves during their divorce, at least initially, often in an attempt to save money or because they feel they can handle their ex better on their own. This episode discusses the common pitfalls of self-representation and why hiring a professional to represent you during such an emotional transition can actually save you time, money, and definitely save you unnecessary stress.2018-01-1810 minRise From The Ashes Podcast - Conversations about matters of the family, because — Family Law Matter18 Things to ask When Hiring an AttorneyIn the modern era, there is an attorney around every office corner and good marketing can go a long way. We shop for services the same way we shop for everything else, but a nice website (or a lack of one) isn’t necessarily the gauge of whether an atto...2018-01-0113 minRise From The Ashes Podcast - Conversations about matters of the family, because — Family Law MatterThings to ask When Hiring an Attorney
In the modern era, there is an attorney around every office corner and good marketing can go a long way. We shop for services the same way we shop for everything else, but a nice website (or a lack of one) isn't necessarily the gauge of whether an attorney will be (or won't be) the best advocate for you. So, how can you discern which attorney is the right fit for your case? In this episode Susan shares some important things to ask when hiring an attorney to help you decide if they are the...2018-01-0113 minRise From The Ashes Podcast - Conversations about matters of the family, because — Family Law Matter17 What’s an ICMC?When a petition for divorce gets filed with the Court, that begins the official legal process. The first step in the Court's process is for both parties and their attorneys to meet with the Court and state the basic facts of the marriage and soon-to-be divorce. This meeting is called an Initial Case Management Conference, or an ICMC. This episode of the Podcast describes how an ICMC helps to begin the process of dividing lives (and property) and can lead to effective resolution alternatives, and ultimately to a more amicable divorce.
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Divorce in M...2017-11-1320 min