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Murphy's NotesLife Gives You More of What You Look ForLike social media algorithms, life also has an algorithm. In this episode, we explore a simple but often overlooked truth: life responds to what you consistently focus on. Much like social media algorithms learn your preferences through your behaviour, life adjusts its feedback based on where you give your time, thoughts, and energy. This episode examines how distraction shapes outcomes, why intentions without aligned action fall flat, and how clarity begins with deliberate focus.
2025-12-1504 minMurphy's NotesBe Big on the Little ThingsDescription: In this episode, we explore the quiet but powerful truth that shapes every form of excellence: the little things always matter. From a tiny drop of bile that can ruin an entire chicken to a single overlooked detail that can invalidate hours of work, life constantly reminds us that small actions carry big consequences.But this lesson goes deeper. Many people settle for the bare minimum, doing just enough to get by—never realising that mediocrity is a choice, and when you choose mediocrity, failure chooses you. Drawing from real-life experiences and timeless wisdom, this episode br...
2025-12-0105 minMurphy's NotesExpand Your MindIn this episode, we explore one of the most powerful truths about personal growth: your life can never exceed the size of your mind. The limits you see are often the limits you’ve absorbed. We break down how your environment, your relationships, and the things you consistently expose yourself to silently shape your sense of possibility. From childhood experiences that expanded my perception of money, to conversations that shattered old ceilings, to the environments that either stunt or accelerate our growth, this episode is a reminder that mental exposure shapes destiny.
2025-11-2405 minMurphy's NotesLionel Messi or Crisitano RonaldoIn this episode, we take a fresh perspective on one of the world’s longest-running debate — Messi or Ronaldo? We uncover a powerful truth about success. Talent, hard work, and even leverage are valuable, but without results, they mean little. Whether you’re naturally gifted like Messi or relentlessly driven like Ronaldo, what truly matters is what you produce with what you have. This episode is a timely reminder to stop making excuses, use every advantage available to you, and focus on getting results that speak louder than words.
2025-11-1004 minMurphy's NotesThe Currency of TimeTime is the most valuable currency we have. And unlike money, once it’s spent, it’s gone forever. In this episode, we explore how we can spend our time more intentionally, build better systems, and create daily habits that compound into lasting success. Because when you look closely, your priorities are revealed not by what you say, but by how you spend your time.
2025-11-0305 minMurphy's NotesWhat If I Fail?In this episode, we tackle the question that stops more dreams than failure itself ever could: "What if I fail?". But here's a better question: "What if you succeed?". What if the very thing you're afraid of becomes your breakthrough? This week, we explore why failure isn't final, how every attempt sharpens your aim, and why the only true failure is the lesson you never learn.
2025-10-2604 minMurphy's NotesIce Cream or Irish CreamIn this episode, we go back to a funny but unforgettable childhood experience that carries a timeless lesson: the danger of blindly following the crowd and the importance of asking for clarity when in doubt. Just because everyone is choosing the same thing doesn’t mean it’s right for you. And sometimes, failing to seek clarity leads us to destinations that don’t truly fit us. This week’s reminder is simple: walk your own path, ask the right questions, and make choices that are authentically yours.
2025-10-1903 minMurphy's NotesWhy Self-Made Is a Myth: The Power of Collaboration and LeverageIn this episode, we explore the true power of collaboration and leverage. Going it alone may seem noble, but it often slows us down. By leaning on the strengths of others and wisely using the resources and opportunities available to us, we can achieve more faster and more efficiently. Learn why no one is truly “self-made” and how strategic collaboration and smart leverage can multiply your results.
2025-10-0505 minMurphy's NotesThe Power of CompoundingBack in primary school, we learned about simple interest and compound interest. At the time, it felt like just another math topic. But as life unfolded, I discovered that compounding isn’t just about money; it’s about everything. Our habits, our health, our choices; they all compound, silently shaping the future we’ll meet. In today’s episode, we dive into how this universal principle works for or against us, and how to make sure compounding is building the life we truly desireLast week's note:https://youtu.be/-fAm-3oj1OE?si=xfPWLxcfGGfaZ3W8
2025-09-0703 minMurphy's NotesLeave the Map and Get Wonderfully LostIn today’s episode, we explore what it means to “leave the map and get wonderfully lost”, stepping away from routines and familiar paths to embrace exploration, discovery, and the possibilities that lie outside your comfort zone.
2025-09-0102 minMurphy's NotesThe Making of a MiracleIn this episode, we explore the true making of a miracle, where preparation, discipline, and faith intersect. Miracles don’t cancel process; they crown it. We talk about how every breakthrough begins first in the mind, why qualities come before titles, and how divine alignment meets our diligence. If you’re praying for a miracle, this will remind you of the balance between what’s in your control and what only God can do.
2025-08-2503 minMurphy's NotesDexterityIn today’s episode, we talk about the power of practice and consistency on the journey to mastery. From childhood memories of watching my dad type effortlessly without looking at the keyboard, to lessons from Malcolm Gladwell’s Outliers and the 10,000-hour rule, this episode explores how dexterity is not talent. It’s discipline, focus, and time. Whether it’s typing, coding, flying, or any evolving skill, mastery isn’t just about the hours you put in; it’s about who you become along the way.
2025-08-1806 minMurphy's NotesThere’s More to Life than just Living!In today’s episode, we reflect on the difference between simply existing and truly making an impact. Using the lives of Methuselah, who lived 969 years, and Jesus Christ, whose 33 years changed the world, we explore why the length of our days matters far less than what we do with them. This is a call to live with purpose, to make every moment count, and to ensure that our legacy is measured not by years, but by the lives we touch.
2025-08-0303 minMurphy's NotesNever Arrive; Never Settle!In today’s episode, we explore the quiet danger of settling. It's not just about chasing success, it's about staying relevant in a world that never stops evolving. We talk about the power of lifelong learning, the importance of constantly stretching yourself, and why “arriving” is a myth that can lead to stagnation. If you want to stay sharp, valuable, and forward-moving, this episode is your wake-up call. Never arrive. Never settle. Keep growing.
2025-07-2004 minMurphy's NotesNature and NurtureIn this episode, we explore how people raised in the same environment can still turn out very differently, and why that matters. We share the powerful story of two sons raised by a drunkard father who chose completely opposite paths, reminding us that while our upbringing shapes us, it doesn't define us. The real difference lies in how we respond. Are you using your past as an excuse or as fuel to grow? This episode challenges you to examine your choices, break limiting patterns, and take full ownership of your future.
2025-07-1304 minMurphy's NotesBehind The SmileIn this episode, we explore the hidden battles people face behind the masks they wear. From the pressure to perform to the silent struggles we rarely speak of, this is a timely reminder to lead with empathy, not assumption. I challenge you to look beyond appearances, check your expectations, and pour into your relationships—because behind every smile, there’s a story.
2025-07-0603 minMurphy's NotesHang in There!This week's note serves as a reminder of a powerful truth: sometimes, the breakthrough comes just after the moment you feel like quitting. We reflect on the story of Acres of Diamonds and how many of us give up just inches from success. We explore why the pressure often peaks right before progress, and why staying the course, even when it’s hard, is essential. Whether you're pursuing personal goals, building habits, or navigating tough seasons, this episode is your nudge to keep going. Because the time to quit is never when you’re closest to the finish line.
2025-06-2903 minMurphy's NotesThe Time Will Pass AnywayIn this episode, we explore the quiet but powerful force of consistency. How small, repeated actions shape our lives far more than grand, short-lived efforts. We reflect on how habits, whether positive or negative, compound over time. Through simple illustrations and personal stories, we share why starting small and staying consistent beats waiting for the perfect moment. As we wrap up the first half of the year, this is your reminder that progress doesn't require perfection, just persistence. The time will pass anyway. So why not start now?
2025-06-2306 minMurphy's NotesWhat Would You Give for One More Day?Today, we reflect on the fragility of life through the tragic story of a family whose dreams were cut short just moments after takeoff. It's a powerful reminder that life itself is the greatest gift, one we often overlook in the pursuit of bigger things. This episode urges us to pause, breathe, and appreciate the “little” things: health, loved ones, clean air, and simply waking up. Because sometimes, the things we take for granted are the very things someone else is praying for.
2025-06-1604 minMurphy's Notes"Show Working": What Math Taught Me About LifeIn a world that glorifies quick wins and overnight success, it's easy to forget the value of process. In this episode, we explore why the journey matters more than the destination and how skipping critical steps can lead to shaky foundations, even when the results look good on the surface. From math class lessons to real-life examples, this episode is a reminder to show working, embrace the grind, and build something that truly lasts.
2025-06-0905 minMurphy's NotesWhy Do Some People Never Struggle With Discipline?In this episode, we reveal the hidden truth about why some people seem effortlessly disciplined while others constantly struggle.You've probably wondered why certain people never miss the gym, always wake up early, and seem to have their life together, while you're fighting willpower battles every single day. The answer isn't what you think.We explore how people everywhere share fundamental similarities, yet exhibit dramatically different behaviours across various societies. The secret? It's not about superior genetics, culture, or willpower - it's about systems.We uncover:Why "disciplined" people aren't actually more...
2025-06-0208 minMurphy's NotesLasting ImpressionsTwo stories, one lesson. In this short but powerful episode, I share two personal stories to unpack the quiet power of how we treat others. From a team lead’s encouraging words to a client's moment of disrespect, we see how even seemingly small interactions can leave a lasting mark. This episode is a reminder that who you are is revealed in how you treat people, especially those you think have nothing to offer you. Respect and dignity should never be optional, because long after people forget your titles, they’ll remember how you made them feel.
2025-05-1904 minMurphy's NotesLose the Safety NetIn 1519, Hernán Cortés made a radical move. He sank his own ships, leaving his men with no option but to conquer or perish. That moment became a legendary metaphor for total commitment. In today’s episode, we explore how pressure, not comfort, fuels innovation. Whether it's adversity, boredom, or passion, when the stakes are high, breakthroughs happen.From personal stories to powerful examples, this episode challenges you to stop playing it safe and raise the stakes on your goals. Maybe it’s time to make an irreversible decision that forces you to level up.🎯 To...
2025-05-1207 minMurphy's NotesPut All Your Eggs in One Basket!🎯 S04E10 – Put All Your Eggs in One Basket | The Power of FocusConventional wisdom says, “Don’t put all your eggs in one basket.” But what if the real key to growth and success, especially in the early stages of life or career, is to do the exact opposite?In this episode, we exploree the wisdom behind Andrew Carnegie’s bold advice:“Put all your eggs in one basket and watch the basket.”Discover why laser focus often beats juggling multiple goals, how depth creates value, and why spreading yourself too thin may be h...
2025-05-0506 minMurphy's NotesResponsAbilityIn today's episode, we dive into the real meaning of "ResponsAbility" — the power to respond to life's challenges, no matter what comes your way. You may not control what happens to you, but you are responsible for how you respond. Learn how to stop playing the blame game, shift your focus to what you can control, and take back your power starting today. If you’re ready to break free from “coulda, woulda, shoulda” thinking and move forward with confidence, this episode is for you!👉🏽 Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe for more inspiring content. #Responsibility...
2025-04-2704 minMurphy's Notes20 Friends Can’t Play for 20 Years… Who Says They Must?In this episode, we dive deep into the evolution of friendship — why some friendships fade, why others grow stronger, and how to navigate changes without guilt or resentment. Learn how to identify meaningful connections, set healthy boundaries, and nurture relationships that support your growth. Whether you're wondering why old friends feel distant or how to be a better friend yourself, this episode offers real talk and practical wisdom on building intentional, lasting connections.🎧 Listen now and discover:Why friendships change over timeHow to deal with one-sided relationshipsWhen it’s okay to...
2025-04-2009 minMurphy's NotesRedefining "Friendship"In this episode, we explore what true friendship means beyond titles, family ties, or social media. From inner circles to lifelines, we unpack how to identify, nurture, and value the relationships that matter most.
2025-04-1405 minMurphy's NotesWhat an Elder Sees Sitting Down…“What an elder sees sitting down, a young person cannot see even if they climbed the tallest iroko tree.”This African proverb isn’t just a poetic saying. It’s a profound truth about life, perspective, and the kind of wisdom that only comes with time.In this episode, we reflect on the quiet lessons age teaches us: the value of silence, the beauty of empathy, the shift from proving a point to preserving your peace, and the surprising clarity that comes with hindsight. Through personal stories, cultural reflections, and honest introspection, we explore how growth r...
2025-04-0607 minMurphy's NotesThe 50th Fold: The Hidden Math Behind ‘Sudden’ SuccessIn this episode, we learn about the hidden math behind overnight or sudden success stories that we often do not talk about, using two illustrations - folding a paper 50 times and the story of the Chinese bamboo tree. The central lesson from these two illustrations is that sometimes, growth is not immediately visible but that does not mean that growth is not taking place. If you’re building to scale, your journey is not the same as someone who is building small. Don’t let the craving for instant gratification, or the invisibility of your growth, rob you of what...
2025-03-2308 minMurphy's NotesHappy Ever NOWIn this episode, we challenge the notion of "happily ever after" and encourage listeners to find joy in their current circumstances. We explain how people often postpone happiness while pursuing future goals, missing the beauty of present moments. Through relatable examples from school years to career milestones, we demonstrate that true happiness comes from appreciating progress and embracing each life phase while still working toward future aspirations.
2025-03-1606 minMurphy's NotesThe Approval Trap: Looking Beyond the LikesDiscover how the constant pursuit of approval might be sabotaging your goals and potential. In this episode, we explore the hidden costs of people-pleasing, from saying yes to everything to obsessing over social media validation. Learn practical strategies to break free from approval-seeking behaviors while maintaining genuine kindness. Stop putting your dreams on hold to please others. It's time to prioritise progress over popularity
2025-03-0907 minMurphy's NotesOpportunity Cost: The Price of Every ChoiceIn this eye-opening episode, we explore how every decision comes with trade-offs. Discover why you can't excel at everything simultaneously, how to identify your true priorities, and why choosing what to be "bad at" might be your secret to success. Learn practical strategies for making intentional sacrifices that align with your goals and finally break free from the overwhelming pressure to "have it all."
2025-03-0208 minMurphy's NotesJanuary Is Over, Now What?No matter when you begin, it’s never too late to hit reset! In this episode, we dive into how you can stay on track with your goals, even if January is already behind you. Whether you're rethinking your resolutions or feeling overwhelmed, get practical tips for turning things around and making this year your best yet.
2025-02-2309 minMurphy's NotesFinding Balance: Career, Relationships & Money - Real Talk | Murphy's Notes Anniversary SpecialWhat happens when three friends get real about the struggles of balancing it all in a developing country? 🤔
In this anniversary special of Murphy's Notes, Wale, Aghogho, and I dive deep into the challenges young people face when juggling career ambitions, relationship goals, and financial pressures. From divergent opinions to common ground, we share personal perspectives and hard-earned wisdom about making these crucial life choices.
Inside this conversation:
The truth about "securing the bag" vs building meaningful relationships
Why conventional career advice might not work in developing countries
How our perspectives on success have evolved
One year of pod...
2025-02-0439 minMurphy's NotesAnniversary Podcast TrailerHappy New Month! ✨
It's been a bit of a long hiatus but we're back! Before we fully delve into the next series, let’s start the month with a special behind-the-scenes moment from our anniversary episode! Wale and AG asked a few questions about Murphy’s Notes—how it all began and the creative process behind each note.
We also looked back at one of the most streamed episodes, “Short People Matter”, and explored the question: “How do these ideas even come to life?”
If you’ve ever b...
2025-02-0102 minMurphy's NotesSeason 3 Finale: What Drives You?What drives you? As we wrap up season 3 today, I share the back story about how far we’ve come on this journey, using an analogy from an interesting TED talk by Layi Wasabi that I came across earlier in the year. The central message of today’s note is that our driving force should be internal, rather than external. That’s how you defy inertia because if internal forces drive you, only internal forces can stop you.
2024-12-1507 minMurphy's NotesSomeone Once Said: “If It’s Textable, Don’t Call”As a sequel to our last episode about listening, today’s note expounds on some unspoken communication rules.
2024-12-0906 minMurphy's Notes“We Listen, We Don’t Judge”... And Other Pressing MattersRecently, the internet has been agog with a trend "We listen, we don't judge.". In today's episode, we talk about listening. Sometimes, instead of listening to someone, we give unsolicited advice, or we reflect our fears and sometimes judgments on them. Listening is an essential communication skill and our relationships would be much better if we only knew how to listen.
2024-12-0106 minMurphy's NotesMoney Matters: 10 Timeless Truths and Smart MovesToday’s note challenges you to confront hard financial truths while offering smart, practical solutions for money management. Through relatable examples and honest insights, it reveals how our spending habits reflect our true priorities and values. From innovative budgeting techniques to preparing for the '100 days of January,' the episode offers a fresh perspective on making intentional money decisions that go beyond conventional financial advice.
2024-11-2406 minMurphy's Notes"I'm Busy!": Priorities vs. PosterioritiesThis episode challenges listeners to examine their true priorities, introducing the concept of 'posteriorities' - what we consciously choose not to prioritise. Through relatable analogies of money-spending habits and juggling rubber versus glass balls, the episode reveals how our choices, not time, determine what we achieve. It offers a fresh perspective on work-life balance, the dark side of success, and the importance of protecting what's truly irreplaceable in our lives while being honest about our priorities.
2024-11-1706 minMurphy's NotesLiving for the 'GramIn today's note, I share a valuable lesson I learned when I lost a 100-day streak. Humans are naturally obsessed with likes and streaks because these things make us look good on the outside. But addiction to appearances is often what holds us back from real growth.
2024-11-1005 minMurphy's NotesThe Road Less TravelledLearn why being 'deaf' to negativity might be your superpower. Through the inspirational story of a deaf frog, we break down 5 crucial lessons about success, personal growth, and following unconventional paths. Essential listening for entrepreneurs, dreamers, and anyone challenging the status quo.
2024-11-0306 minMurphy's NotesWhat's Life's Essence?For centuries, people have asked the question “What is the essence of life?”. Why do we have to keep struggling to make ends meet even though they never meet until we leave this world? What’s the point? In today’s note, I share some thoughts on this.
2024-10-2806 minMurphy's NotesSplit-Second Destiny: Playing the Game of InchesIf you’ve watched the movie “Back to the Future”, you’re familiar with the concept of how a tiny distortion in the space-time continuum can lead to a completely different chain of events that create a whole new universe. In today’s note, we explore the inches that define our lives. The seemingly little things that have far-reaching effects.
2024-10-2006 minMurphy's NotesClose Your Chrome Tabs!If you're seeing this, there’s a good chance you have over 20 to 50 tabs open on your browser. The question is why? You keep telling yourself that you’ll go back to those things and six months have passed. In today’s note, I share five things I do to stay sane and productive aside from closing browser tabs.
2024-10-1308 minMurphy's Notes“Friendly” Conversations with a ScammerLast week, in the middle of my workday, I had a “friendly” conversation with a scammer over the phone. It was not the first time I received such a call but I picked up a few lessons from the encounter and that’s what I share on today’s note.
2024-10-0606 minMurphy's NotesTake PicturesThis title is not a parable; I mean it literally. Take pictures no matter where you are now or what is happening in your life. You’ll need them.
2024-09-2905 minMurphy's NotesStart Unready; Level up in Bits“If you have everything you need before you start, you started too late!” Our natural instinct is to be fully ready before we begin, but there’s a thrill that comes with tackling challenges as they surface. You may never start if you wait till you have all the loopholes covered, and focusing too much on the big picture can get overwhelming. Trust your gut, start, tackle what is right in front of you, and keep going step-by-step till you reach the finish line.
2024-09-2205 minMurphy's NotesSchooled in the Streets: Lessons from Igbo Apprenticeship
The best way to learn business is to be in business. Today, we wrap up our three-part series on the utopian school system as we talk about an educational paradigm that upholds the three pillars that we talked about in the last note - The Igbo Apprenticeship system. This is a a traditional economic model originating from the Igbo ethnic group in southeastern Nigeria and is globally recognised and talked about in world-class institutions like the Harvard Business School. Are there components we can draw from here to make up the utopian school system? Find out!
2024-09-1510 minMurphy's NotesThe Utopian School System: Three PillarsWhich is more important? The school of books or the school of life? Formal or informal education? They may not be equally important but both worlds have strengths ans weaknesses. How about we take the strengths of each system and create a new one that works better for everyone? In today’s note, we talk about three key pillars of the utopian school system - individualised learning, practical projects, and apprenticeship.
2024-09-0813 minMurphy's NotesThe Utopian School System: Back to the GrassrootsToday, we begin a mini-series on the utopian school system. The first school that a child is exposed to is the home school. Unfortunately, many home schools are not effective, leading to a one-sided education for most children. In this note, I share a personal experience of how my childhood environment and family shaped my life. I also share some suggestions on decision adjustments that we can make today to improve the effectiveness of the home schools of which we would be in charge in the future.
2024-09-0113 minMurphy's NotesThe Mathematics of Old Age: Your Voice and Your ChoiceYou’re never truly independent until you’re financially independent. This note is a sequel from last week. Most people do not realise that you can “lose your voice” if you’re dependent on someone outside of yourself for your basic needs. In today’s note, we talk about some steps you can take to retain your voice for the long term whether you’re young or old.
Slight correction from the video "Passive income DOES require upfront work...". I was speaking fast 🙂🙂
2024-08-2509 minMurphy's NotesThe Mathematics of Old Age: Escaping The Rat RaceA lot of people are living their lives according to a script. The challenge is that there are some inherent flaws in the script that a lot of people do not realise until it’s too late. You won’t be working 9 to 5 your entire life. Do you have a solid retirement plan? If your pension or retirement benefits are your sole retirement plan, you might need to think again. Today’s note is food for thought. Next week, we’ll try to dig a little deeper.
2024-08-1907 minMurphy's NotesHardwork is Not the Key to SuccessWe've always been encouraged to work hard. Hardwork is good, but you may be working hard on the wrong things. Sometimes, you need to apply a few principles and optimise processes to get better results with greater efficiency, less time, and less work.
2024-08-1108 minMurphy's NotesBeyond DegreesAs a kid, I thought I’d bag all the degrees and then start life. What I did not realise was that things do not really follow a definite sequence that way; it's all a mix. In this episode, we emphasise that beyond degrees, it's important to commit to lifelong learning.
2024-08-0508 minMurphy's NotesThe Student Becomes the Master: Outgrowing Your MentorHave you ever thought deeply about the rationale behind employing people based on their years of experience? Well… Experience is not always a result of years. You can put in more years on paper but you’re less experienced in practice. In this note, we talk about the various factors that might make a student to outgrow their mentor or teacher. We also emphasise that it’s important for students and mentors to work together, complementing each other’s strengths.
2024-07-2809 minMurphy's NotesEvolution and Revolution
Evolution and Revolution are taking place and we can hardly control it. It’s usually small gradual changes over time that ultimately aggregate into a quantum leap when considered together. Many people do not notice the small gradual changes taking place and then they feel left behind when they look back and suddenly realise that things have evolved. To a large extent these changes may not be within your control so your only options may be to adjust or get left behind. I trust you to make the right pick and it all begins today!
2024-07-2108 minMurphy's NotesNew BeginningsWelcome to Season 3 of Murphy's notes. On this note, we do a recap of some of the highlights from season two. Hope you enjoy this 10-minute summary.
2024-07-1409 minMurphy's NotesSafety Belt or TrapLife is in phases and what works well in one phase may be your greatest undoing beyond a certain point. It's important to identify when a phase is over and adjust for the new phase. A safety belt today could be a trap tomorrow. Know when to unstrap!
2024-07-0704 minMurphy's NotesCtrl C, Ctrl V: Where Ugly Things BeginWhile it is good to emulate people and draw inspiration from them, we must be wary of trying to be someone else. Oscar Wilde rightly said “Be yourself, everyone else is taken!”. You can never be the best version of anyone else but yourself. Embrace your uniqueness and ensure that you do not simply copy and paste someone else’s template blindly.
2024-06-3007 minMurphy's Notes8 Investment TruthsIn the last few years, I have dabbled into a couple of investments primarily to make money and build wealth. They didn’t all go as planned but I did learn a few good lessons from them. I’ve summarised these into eight tips I think would be useful, particularly for young adults.
2024-06-2309 minMurphy's NotesSerendipitySometimes your plans work and turn out beautiful. Other times, your plans fail… like fail completely, but your failed plans point you in a different direction and you realise that the failed plan was the best thing that ever happened to you because it just helped you to discover your true path and purpose. That’s the power of Serendipity.
2024-06-1606 minMurphy's NotesCrying in the RainInspired by Don Williams’s song “Crying in the Rain”, this note is a reminder that we all need people in our lives with whom we can be our absolute selves. If you’ve got such people, you don’t have to cry in the rain and you’re truly blessed.
2024-06-0904 minMurphy's NotesConnectionsBeyond your skills and competencies, how connected are you? And no, by connection, I do not mean gaining undue advantage through corruption, I mean the people in your network that can speak for you in the places that matter. Stay connected!
2024-06-0206 minMurphy's NotesSheldon meets Dexter in the LabIt's Children's Day in Nigeria and today's episode is inspired by two children characters from my favourite shows - Dexter from "Dexter's Laboratory", and Sheldon from "Young Sheldon". The key lesson for today is that more often than not, mastery is a by-product of obsession.
2024-05-2706 minMurphy's NotesThe Taste of Monkey MeatIn today's note, we share the story of how monkeys are captured with a special innovative trap created by some Indian hunters. We're faced with two choices: let go of the nuts or become monkey meat. What are your nuts? Let go and run free!
2024-05-1902 minMurphy's Notes"Short" People Matter"If you're taller than me, you can't also be shorter than me". This statement I came across weeks ago underpins the fact that everyone has a unique advantage. The challenge is that most people dwell on their disadvantages and complain about how they've been dealt the short end of the stick. You should rather focus on the bright side. Find your unique advantage and capitalise on it!
2024-05-1204 minMurphy's NotesDon't Mention!Today’s note underscores the importance of gratitude. Gratitude for the big things and the little things. Even when you appreciate someone for doing you a favour and they say the words “Don’t mention!”, you must understand that this is merely an expression of modesty and so you do not need to stop “mentioning”. Refined people never forget to mention!
2024-05-0505 minMurphy's NotesA Business within a BusinessIn every business organisation, there are various types of employees. Those who make things happen and rise to the top are usually entrepreneurial. While they do not directly own the business, they take ownership of whatever service they’re providing to the company and its clients. And they have the right attitude to work. Ask yourself this difficult question today and give yourself the bitter truthful answer: “Would you hire you?” With your current skillset, mindset, and attitude to work, would you hire you?
2024-04-2806 minMurphy's NotesMoney Management 101In today's note, we dwell a bit on the first lesson from last week's episode - Money Management. I share the one money management tip that has helped me over the last four years and is the bedrock of growth in lots of life endeavours - record keeping. When you keep proper records of your expenses and income, it helps you audit and manage your cashflow better.
2024-04-2109 minMurphy's NotesFatherly Conversations with Dr. Okezie OchubaIt's been two weeks since we dropped a new episode but this episode is three in one. On this special episode, we discuss with Dr. Okezie Ochuba about some of the key principles that young people need to imbibe centred on finances, early career, and family life. Dr. Ochuba is a seasoned administrator, leader, and entrepreneur. He has mentored lots of young people over the years who have gone on to achieve resounding success in their various lives. It was a very interesting time drawing from his wealth of wisdom.
2024-04-1437 minMurphy's NotesOne Day or Day One?Sometimes we overestimate the value of one year and underestimate the value of one day and one small action. It all begins with one.
Special thanks to my cousins Onyinye and Chidiamara Anosike for their support in crafting this episode.
2024-03-2403 minMurphy's NotesFuel for the Journey: FeedbackToday's note is about feedback. Beyond mentorship and gudance from people who have gone ahead of you, one of the things that can fuel your journey is feedback. It helps you guage whether you're on track and helps you to adjust your sails.
2024-03-1705 minMurphy's NotesGiants or Not, Stand on Shoulders!In this episode, we talk about the importance of mentorship and guidance to your journey in almost any sphere of life. I share insights from my personal experience of how valuable guidance gave me a headstart when I began this podcast.
2024-03-1004 minMurphy's NotesStory Time!It's exactly 11 weeks today since we posted our first note. The journey, though short, has taught me a couple of things and today we start a new series where I'll be sharing some of the practical lessons I have picked up.
2024-03-0305 minMurphy's NotesThe Famous Table: Negotiating from a Place of ValueIn the last episode, we talked about speaking to Alice. It was a lesson on seizing opportunities. Today, we talk about some things you can do to increase your chances on the famous "table" of negotiation. We also explain the concept of value and perceived value.
2024-02-2505 minMurphy's NotesSpeak to Alice and Speak NOW!Today's note is a lesson on opportunities inspired by the popular song by Smokie titled "Living Next Door to Alice". Sometimes we're tempted to wait for the perfect time and conditions to do the things we need to do. But most events in life are time-bound so we must learn to rise to the occasion and take action, or someday when it's too late, we just might watch Alice drive off in a limousine. Speak to Alice and speak NOW!
2024-02-1805 minMurphy's NotesThe 30-hour DayThe number of hours in a day is constant - 24 hours. The time is limited but we can adjust the way we use it. In this episode, we share two learning hacks that can help you consume information faster and get more done in less time. You may not get more than 24 hours from the clock, but you can compress 30+ hours into 24 hours if you apply some simple principles.
2024-02-1105 minMurphy's NotesMasterclasses won't help you master skillsA lot of times, we find ourselves getting stuck in the learning phase. You have so many hours of training under your belt but so few hours of practice and application. As much as it is important to learn, it is even more important to apply because you can only be said to truly know something to the extent to which you have applied it.
2024-02-0404 minMurphy's NotesThe Best Investment DecisionAs a young person who is just starting out, you want to build wealth and build it fast. An infinite list of seemingly juicy options will be flashed in your face about where to invest your money. Real Estate? Stocks? Crypto? FOREX? But what's the best investment decision you can make, and why? Find out on this episode!
2024-01-2804 minMurphy's NotesBefore you die, Live!“Some people die at 25. We just don't bury them until they're 75!” - Benjamin Franklin. In this episode, we talk about "Childlike Wonder" - one of the seven virtues from Mark Batterson's book titled Play the Man. If you want to live before you die, you must hold on to your childlike wonder.
2024-01-2106 minMurphy's NotesBecoming: Falling in Love With The JourneyThe man who loves walking will walk faster than the man who loves the destination. Sometimes we focus so much on the things we want to achieve when we should really be focusing on the processes and systems that can get us there. On this episode, we talk about why it's important to fall in love with the journey, rather than the destination.
2024-01-1405 minMurphy's NotesLessons from the life of a Sage: Special EditionOn this special episode, my siblings, nephews and I share valuable lessons we have learned from our father - Dr. Okezie Okereke Ochuba. Today, 5th January, happens to be his birthday and we just thought it would be a great opportunity to reminisce on how much he has impacted our lives so far. Lots of lessons to pick out from this episode. Happy birthday, dad. We love you very much!
Featuring:
Primrose Ochuba
Ugonma Udeh
Fortune Egbe
Victoria Ochuba
Jayden Udeh
Gerald...
2024-01-0507 minMurphy's NotesContinue Walking: Starting and SlidingSo you've hit the ground walkin'. You've taken your first step. Have you really overcome inertia or there's more to be done? Find out on this episode!
2023-12-3105 minMurphy's NotesHit The Ground Walkin': The PremiereWelcome to the first episode of Murphy's Notes. In this episode, I share the story of how and when this idea started, how we will run (or walk), and finally our first valuable lesson based on the story of Murphy's Notes. Join us as we hit the ground "walking"!
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