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Midlife MixtapeEp 111 The Final Midlife Mixtape Podcast Episode “Make room for something new”: Surprise! Creator and host Nancy Davis Kho on why it’s time to “sunset” the show after almost five years, plus Eight Big Life Lessons from the Midlife Mixtape Podcast. Sign up for Nancy’s email list The Thank-You Project – makes a great holiday present or 2022 project! Drew Barrymore inducts The Go-Gos into the R&RHOF Jimmie Wilson for Alameda County DA List of Voting Rights organizations to donate to, if you’ve enjoyed the Midlife Mixtape Podcast over the years! Fair Fight Arizona: Living United for Change in Arizona (LUCHA) Georgia: Asian A...2021-12-1428 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 110 “New Map of Life” Cartographers Ken Smith and Karen Breslau “Stretch the rubber band”: Stanford Center for Longevity’s researcher Ken Smith and co-author Karen Breslau, on conclusions from SCL’s new study that seeks to radically redefine how to live better, when we’re living longer. The New Map of Life from the Stanford Center on Longevity Midlife Mixtape Podcast Ep 52 with Author Mary Laura Philpott – preorder her new book Bomb Shelter now! Alexandra Rosa’s storytelling performance on The Moth, “Call Me The Rock, or Call Me Colombian” This is the OLD map. But a damn good song. Thanks as always to M. Th...2021-11-3048 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 109 Animal Policy Expert Mark Cushing “From accessory to center stage”: Mark Cushing, founder of the Animal Policy Group and author of “Pet Nation”, on the emotional, physical, and societal benefits of the human-animal bond at midlife and beyond. Pet Nation: The Inside Story of How Companion Animals Are Transforming Our Homes, Culture, and Economy Animal Policy Group From Sandy Hook to the World by Scarlett Lewis, founder of Jesse Lewis Choose Love Movement New in November from the Grown Ass Lady Squad: Are Women’s Lives Just Someone Else’s Business Model? How I quit the diet cycle and refocused on...2021-11-1644 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 108 DryTogether Founders Megan Zesati and Holly Sprague “A spirit of curiosity”: Megan Zesati and Holly Sprague, founders of the DryTogether alcohol-free living community for midlife moms, on the benefits of teaming up to cut back on booze, the media messages that boost our consumption, and living AF(AF.) DryTogether.org Harvard Health Article on Women, Alcohol, and COVID-19 Outlander #1 – your gateway read Presenting sponsor Kindra – use the code MIXTAPE20 for 20% off your first order! Unlock Your Life Podcast with Lori A. Harris Freedom to make the best choices for yourself at midlife, and to worship George Michael. Thanks as always to M. The...2021-11-0242 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 107 Listeners’ Halloween Stories“Who’s Slash?”: Listeners – and Nancy – share stories of their memorable Gen X Halloweens past, from decidedly non-sexy costume strategies, to 7th graders on the cusp, to home bat invasions. The post Ep 107 Listeners’ Halloween Stories appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2021-10-1926 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 107 Listeners’ Halloween Stories “Who’s Slash?”: Listeners – and Nancy – share stories of their memorable Gen X Halloweens past, from decidedly non-sexy costume strategies, to 7th graders on the cusp, to home bat invasions. The Perfect Cocktails for Your Perimenopause Party by Wendi Aarons, Gloria Fallon, and Marilyn Naron Portrait of a Deputy Public Defender (or how I became a punk rock lawyer) by Juanita E. Mantz, Esq Happy Halloween, you grown up goths. Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the podcast – check him out here! ***This is a rough transcription...2021-10-1926 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 106 Singer/Songwriter Bob Schneider “Something besides yourself to love”: Austin music legend Bob Schneider on his latest album, “In a Roomful of Blood With a Sleeping Tiger”, non-autobiographical songs written with autobiographical emotion, and why he shouldn’t rule the world. BobSchneider.com Bob on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook Collective Effervescence essay by Adam Grant – New York Times Contact Nancy to set up Thank-You Project Event this fall! Don’t forget to share your GenX Halloween stories! More here… Since we talked about his ’99 song “2002” so much in our convo…here it is: Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who pr...2021-10-051h 08

Midlife MixtapeEp 105 Grateful Living Guide Kristi Nelson “Stop, Look, Go”: Kristi Nelson, author of “Wake Up Grateful,” on transforming her Stage IV cancer survival into a lifetime practice of more grateful living, midlife carpe diem, and an unusual way to embrace that middle-of-the-night restiveness. About Kristi Wake Up Grateful: The Transformative Practice of Taking Nothing for Granted Nancy’s AAA Playlist on Apple Music Live from Budokan, it’s… Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the podcast – check him out here! ***This is a rough transcription of Episode 105 of the Midlife Mixtape Podcast. It originally ai...2021-09-2143 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 104 Master’s Degree Student Taya Dunn Johnson “My brain is waking up”: Taya Dunn Johnson on going back to school alongside her 7th grader this fall, and the personal passion that pulled her to a field of study she had never even heard of before the day she enrolled. Find Taya on: Website – www.TayaDunnJohnson.com Essay on Upworthy: Please Read This Before Your Post Another RIP On Social Media Listen To Your Mother Anthology Ep 96 Listeners’ “Still in Rotation” Albums – hear Taya’s contribution at around the 25:20 mark Some Baltimore sound for ya ears. The title of the song is also 100% of...2021-09-0754 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 103 “First Date Stories” Author Jodi Klein “Dating is a skill”: Jodi Klein, author and podcast host of “First Date Stories”, on the benefits and challenges of being a “seasoned” dater, her Ninja midlife dating tips, and Midlife Mixtape listeners’ own memorable First Date Stories. Find Jodi on: Facebook https://www.facebook.com/1stdates/ Instagram https://www.instagram.com/1st_DateStories/ Pinterest https://www.pinterest.com/firstdatestories Website https://firstdatestories.com/ The only Goo Goo Dolls song I knew of theirs, back in 1990 when I asked this cute guy on a first date with the free tickets I’d won. Thanks for...2021-08-2448 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 102 “Science Mom” Dr. Claudia Benitez-Nelson “Start the conversation”: Oceanographer Dr. Claudia Benitez-Nelson talks about the ScienceMoms.com initiative seeking to apply “Mom Power” in tackling climate change, how midlife made her a better scientist, and why she’s hopeful for the future. ScienceMoms.com website Dr. Benitez-Nelson’s research lab website Dr. Benitez-Nelson interviewed aboard the research vessel Sally Ride What other song could I choose, given my late mom’s affinity for all things John Denver?Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the podcast – check him out here! ***This is a rough...2021-07-2042 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 101 Womaness Founders Sally Mueller and Michelle Jacobs “It’s about time”: Menopause entrepreneurs Sally Mueller and Michelle Jacobs talk about why it’s taken so long to address the needs of women in perimenopause and menopause, and how GenX can lead the way in demystifying the big M. * Womaness web site * Womaness on Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn * NYTimes Opinion piece by Dr. Jen Gunter on how to have a feminist menopause I still wear a jean jacket! I still drink out of a Mason jar! Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the podcast – check him out here! ***This is a rough tra...2021-07-0644 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 100 Centennial Celebration“In the blink of an eye”: In this Very Special Episode that is also All In The Family, Midlife Mixtape Podcast creator and host Nancy Davis Kho answers listeners’ questions about podcasting, music, and midlife. The post Ep 100 Centennial Celebration appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2021-06-2247 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 100 Centennial Celebration “In the blink of an eye”: In this Very Special Episode that is also All In The Family, Midlife Mixtape Podcast creator and host Nancy Davis Kho answers listeners’ questions about podcasting, music, and midlife. * Nancy’s website www.DavisKho.com * We Sow We Grow – get your Dirty By Nature tshirt here, and listen to Ep 64 with We Sow We Grow founder/Urban farmer Natasha Nicholes here * Ep 90 – Reconciliation Activist J. Christopher Collins, on “moving the ball down the field” * Ep 91 – “Share Your Stuff” author Laura Tremaine, with tips for incorporating more reading into your life Book recommendations: * Caste by Isabel Wilkerson * The...2021-06-2247 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 99 RV Adventurer Michelle Fishburne“Tired of being a deputy”: Michelle Fishburne of Who We Are Now talks about turning a one-two-three punch of pandemic life changes into a 12,000 mile road trip, a book deal, and a newfound calling as an oral historian. Find Michelle on the web: * Website:Who We Are Now * Instagram: @WhoWeAreNowUSA * Instagram behind the scenes: @MichelleFishburne * Facebook: @WhoWeAreNowUSA * LinkedIn She’s on a journey, but not in a Bachelor way. Here’s to the band that plays the HELL out of air keyboards. Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the podcast – check him out here! ***T...2021-06-0843 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 98 Midlife Gap Year Advocate Lisette Smith “Time to regroup”: Lisette Smith, certified financial planner, on thinking of our work lives in chapters, the best ways to plan for a Midlife Gap Year, and why early retirement may not be as desirable as the occasional long pause. * Download the Midlife Gap Year guide here * Advisory Group SF * Pop Culture Preservation Society Podcast – Nancy riffing on The Early Days of MTV Why worry? Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the podcast – check him out here! ***This is a rough transcription of Episode 98 of the Midlife Mixtape Podcast. It originally aired on May 25...2021-05-2539 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 97 Ballet Production Director Christopher Dennis “That’s my call”: San Francisco Ballet’s Christopher Dennis on the obvious career path that nonetheless had to be pointed out to him, the patience and grace that comes with experience, and the ballet’s pandemic pirouette to digital delivery. Stream the San Francisco Ballet’s 2021 season here Ok, George Lopez, being a trendsetter! Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the podcast – check him out here! ***This is a rough transcription of Episode 97 of the Midlife Mixtape Podcast. It originally aired on May 11, 2021. Transcripts are created using a combination of speech recognition software and h...2021-05-1145 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 96 Listeners’ “Still in Rotation” Albums “It means different things all the time, but it always works”: Listeners share stories of the music of their lives, from Prince to Joni Mitchell to The Beastie Boys and everyone in between. Find the full archive of 30+ Still in Rotation guest posts here! This 2021 re-recording of “Biko” by my still-in-rotation performer Peter Gabriel is just jaw-dropping to me. Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the podcast – check him out here! ***This is a rough transcription of Episode 96 of the Midlife Mixtape Podcast. It originally aired on April 27, 2021. Transcripts are created using a combinatio...2021-04-2747 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 89 Listeners’ 2020 Grief and Gratitude “I grieve and thank Time for all of these reasons”: In this special year-end episode, a compendium of listeners’ stories of the losses they’re grieving and something they’re grateful for in 2020, and a tribute to the most wonderful mom in the world. * Midlife Mixtape End of Year Virtual Dance Party with DJ Damon – Dec 22 at 6 pm PT * Wendi Aarons’ humor writing on McSweeneys * Wendi Aarons’ humor writing on the New Yorker Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the podcast – check him out here! ***This is a rough transcription of Episode 89 of the Midlife Mixtap...2020-12-2232 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 88 “Life Is in the Transitions” Author Bruce Feiler “Find an upbeat ending”: NYT bestselling author Bruce Feiler on the power of storytelling when we go through difficult times, the universal patterns of “lifequakes”, and how we can better manage change at any age. * BruceFeiler.com * Life is in the Transitions: Mastering Change at Any Age * The Life Story Project * Bruce’s Ted Talks In honor of Bruce’s first concert, my mom’s birthday this week, and presenting Midlife Mixtape Podcast sponsor Amateur Music Network, I bring you my favorite JD song to belt out. Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the podcast –...2020-12-0849 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 87 Potentialist Joanna Bloor “Figure out your ball”: In her work as “aspiring Fairy Godmother”, tech startup veteran Joanna Bloor talks about uncovering your unique magic, why “adventure timelines” are better than resumes, and channeling her inner Bette Midler. * Joanna’s website Joanna Bloor * Joanna working with Fatima to create magic – video * Joanna’s live show every Friday talking about the Future of the Human Workplace and how you can rock your place in it. Tickets Here * FIGURE 8 VOYAGE – 4 Oceans, 2 Circumnavigations, 1 Guy, 1 Year – Alone. * Sign up for Joanna’s newsletter here. No sequins but this is a damn ‘80s delight Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who...2020-11-2447 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 86 Epidemiologist Dr. George Rutherford “The responsible thing to do”: In this special episode, UCSF public health specialist Dr. George Rutherford MD answers Midlife Mixtape listeners’ questions about COVID, vaccine development, and how to stay safe in the months ahead. Fresh Garbage but ain’t no spinach Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the podcast – check him out here! ***This is a rough transcription of Episode 86 of the Midlife Mixtape Podcast. It originally aired on November 10, 2020. Transcripts are created using a combination of speech recognition software and human transcribers, and there may be errors in this transcription, but we hope th...2020-11-1041 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 84 Therapist Mazi Robinson “This good, hard life”: Licensed counselor Mazi Robinson on the payoff from the pain that may come with midlife transitions, concrete steps for navigating COVID mental health challenges, and living through a crisis in parallel with her clients. * Cultivate Atlanta – Mazi’s practice * Cultivate on Instagram and Facebook * Ep 37 “Life Reimagined” Author Journalist Barbara Bradley Hagerty * Ep 46 “Happiness Curve” Author Jonathan Rauch * Ep 69 “Why We Can’t Sleep” Author Ada Calhoun Books recommended by Mazi: * Anything by Harriet Lerner – “She’s a psychologist who specializes in working with women and her books are excellent on women, boundaries, relationships, etc.” * Anything by Brené Brown – “For folks wh...2020-10-1349 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 83 Navy Veteran/Episcopal Priest Andrew Hybl “A bunch of big questions”: Reverend Andrew Hybl on enlisting in the military after 9/11, how doubts raised during active duty in Iraq gradually unfolded into Episcopal priesthood, and how Tupac nudged the whole process along. * Are you registered to vote? Check here to be sure and to get involved in GOTV efforts near you! * Write letters to Swing State voters and encourage them to make their voices heard! Back when I was asked to compile a mixtape to be played in the lobby for the Listen To Your Mother shows every year on Mother’s Day, this song was a slam d...2020-09-2938 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 82 TueNight.com Founder Margit Detweiler “Inquisitive, interested, exploratory”: Margit Detweiler on the motivation behind multimedia “grown-ass lady storytelling” platform TueNight.com, lessons she’s learned about patience and perseverance, and THE must-play GenX slumber-party game. * TueNight.com * Still in Rotation: Young Americans – Margit’s essay on Midlife Mixtape * This Is What the American Dream Really Looks Like – Nancy’s ode to her FIL on TueNight * How Do I Feel About a Midlife Crisis? Whatever – the TueNight essay that led to the Midlife Mixtape Podcast – hear Nancy read it in Episode 1! Some choice Rick Springfield in honor of Margit. I choose this because if you ever needed to summarize th...2020-09-1539 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 81 What Do You Wish You Could Tell Your Younger Self?"You have everything you need": In this special episode, Nancy rounds up advice from past guests in answer to the question, “What do you wish you could go back and tell your younger self?” Purpose-built for pandemic listening. The post Ep 81 What Do You Wish You Could Tell Your Younger Self? appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2020-08-1800 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 81 What Do You Wish You Could Tell Your Younger Self? “You have everything you need”: In this special episode, Nancy rounds up advice from past guests in answer to the question, “What do you wish you could go back and tell your younger self?” Purpose-built for pandemic listening. * Full list of past Midlife Mixtape episodes available here * SiblingRevelryProject on Instagram * Ep 50: Listener’s Advice to Younger People In 2019 I asked the Midlife Mixtape audience what they’d tell people younger than them…hear their good advice, like “don’t sled backwards,” right here! This song always brings me joy, and it’s full of good advice too. “Even if you’re old and grey…you’ve sti...2020-08-1837 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 80 “Home-Baked” Author Alia Volz“A family of raconteurs”: Alia Volz on her new memoir “Home-Baked: My Mom, Marijuana, and the Stoning of San Francisco”, her parents’ pioneering cannabis business, industry evolution from dealing to healing, and maturing right along with our parents. The post Ep 80 “Home-Baked” Author Alia Volz appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2020-08-0400 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 79 Musician Teddy Thompson“Better command of my voice”: Singer/songwriter Teddy Thompson discusses and shares songs from his new album Heartbreaker Please, provides a suggested cocktail pairing, and recalls a life-changing concert with his grandmother. The post Ep 79 Musician Teddy Thompson appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2020-07-2100 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 78 Listeners’ Gen X Childhood Summer Stories “But anyway, I’m still alive to tell it”: Listeners share their favorite ‘70s and ‘80s childhood memories, from banana-seat bike rides to boardwalk employment to the educational television jingle that unites us all. Childcare, 1972-style – thanks for sharing it, Andrea! * Throwback book recommendation from Brett – Sting-Ray Afternoons: A Memoir * Spike Lee’s Crooklyn Don’t ever challenge a GenXer on their ability to recite the Preamble. You’ll lose.Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the Midlife Mixtape podcast – check him out here!2020-07-0741 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 77 Journalist Otis Taylor Jr.“Not interested in telling stories from the top down”: SFChronicle reporter Otis Taylor Jr on the media’s ability to open readers’ eyes by sharing diverse stories, the importance of local journalism, and his Kenny Chesney tailgate adventure. The post Ep 77 Journalist Otis Taylor Jr. appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2020-06-2300 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 76 Affordable Housing Advocate Fay Darmawi “How much do we care?” SF Urban Film Fest founder Fay Darmawi on her cross-disciplinary approach to housing justice, the power of storytelling to change the Affordable Housing Industrial Complex, and her hip new hips. * Fay Darmawi’s website * SF Urban Film Fest * The Color of Law: A Forgotten History of How Our Government Segregated America by Richard Rothstein * How Redlining’s Racist Effects Lasted for Decades – NY Times, 8/24/2017 * Redlining was banned 50 years ago. It’s still hurting minorities today. Washington Post, 3/28/2018 * Webinar on White Immunity by Dr. Nolan Carbera Sign up here for a free workshop on how to write a than...2020-06-0933 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 75 Poi Dog Pondering Frontman Frank Orrall “Hardcore reinvention”: Poi Dog Pondering founder and bandleader Frank Orrall talks about learning to trust his instincts in the music business, his musical and culinary side gigs, and the challenges facing artists due to COVID-19. Nancy’s spotlight wedding dance I dare you to stay in your chair Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the Midlife Mixtape podcast – check him out here! * PoiDogPondering.com * Host a Frank Orrall acoustic guitar party with your friends – more info here! 2020-05-2639 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 74 Educator and Author Jessica Lahey“Stick with the things that really feed you”: NY Times bestselling author of The Gift of Failure Jessica Lahey on pandemic lessons in resilience and self-efficacy, her zig zag career path, and backstage cartwheels at Billy Joel concerts. The post Ep 74 Educator and Author Jessica Lahey appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2020-05-1200 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 73 Pop Star Goddesses Author Jennifer Armstrong“Just pretend you’re Beyoncé right now”: Pop culture history writer Jennifer Keishin Armstrong talks about her new book Pop Star Goddesses and how channeling both the power and flaws of our favorite female artists can help us navigate uncertain times. The post Ep 73 Pop Star Goddesses Author Jennifer Armstrong appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2020-04-2800 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 72 Being Black at School Founder Kelly Hurst“Notice that people have been left out”: Kelly Wickham Hurst of Being Black at School talks about tackling systemic racism, the midlife freedom that comes from saying “I don’t know,” and Wham! in that minute when they were still Wham!UK. * Being Black at School website * @mochamomma on Twitter * East Oakland Collective * PrepareToLaunchU.com * MaskUpForAmerica.org I’m not sure 14-year-old Kelly would agree, but for me this song represents Peak George Michael Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the podcast – check him out here! 2020-04-1443 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 71 Listeners’ Youthful Shenanigans“I must have been insane. No, just a teenager”: Designed to distract you momentarily from your current worries, this listener-contributed episode shares youthful tales of awkwardness, getting in over our heads, and debauchery our kids and parents would NEVER believe. * Badminton phenom Rochelle’s blog, The Late Arrival * The Thank-You Project: Cultivating Happiness One Letter of Gratitude at a Time – order or download Nancy’s new book! Thank you, Matthew, for suggesting Burning Sensations’ “Belly of the Whale”! Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the podcast – check him out here! 2020-03-2434 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 70 Beauty and Style Editor Kim France“You can always make a change”: founding editor of Lucky Magazine Kim France on why we shouldn’t beat ourselves up for caring about appearance as we age, using invisibility as a superpower, and memories of SP4 on Texas summer days. The post Ep 70 Beauty and Style Editor Kim France appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2020-02-1800 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 69 “Why We Can’t Sleep” Author Ada Calhoun“Not just you”: Ada Calhoun, author of “Why We Can’t Sleep: Women’s New Midlife Crisis”, unpacks reasons for GenX’s specific midlife challenges and offers ways to cope, from joining clubs to embracing the magic power of low expectations. The post Ep 69 “Why We Can’t Sleep” Author Ada Calhoun appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2020-01-1400 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 68 Author/Podcaster Nancy Davis Kho “It gets easier to find things to be grateful for”: The tables are turned as “A Word on Words” host and author Mary Laura Philpott interviews Midlife Mixtape Podcast host and author Nancy Davis Kho about her new book, The Thank-You Project. * Buy Nancy’s book, The Thank-You Project: Cultivating Happiness One Letter of Gratitude at a Time * Nancy’s upcoming events and appearances * Mary Laura Philpott’s website and her book, I Miss You When I Blink * Episode 52 Author Mary Laura Philpott Lyrics Born uses the same audio recording studio as me, what what? If you ever have a chance to see...2019-12-0338 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 67 Listeners’ Thank-You Stories“Everything that held our family together”: In this special Thanksgiving episode, Midlife Mixtape listeners share thanks for the people who made them who they are today, from grandparents to spouses to best friends to a singing teenage TV detective. The post Ep 67 Listeners’ Thank-You Stories appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2019-11-1900 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 66 Long Term Care Expert Lisa Cini “From fear to freedom”: Leading Alzheimer’s and long-term care design expert Lisa Cini on navigating senior living decision-making, leveraging our teens for difficult conversations with our parents, and GenX’s own encouraging elder care future. * Lisa’s website * BOOM: The Baby Boomers Guide to Leveraging Technology, so that you can Preserve Your Independent Lifestyle & Thrive * The Future is Here: Senior Living Reimagined * Hive: The Simple Guide to Multigenerational Living * Organizations supporting NorCal fire relief efforts Preorder Nancy’s book, The Thank-You Project: Cultivating Happiness One Letter of Gratitude at a Time! Coming from Running Press Dec 3… Me and you and a dog name...2019-11-0534 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 66 Long Term Care Expert Lisa Cini“From fear to freedom”: Leading Alzheimer's and long-term care design expert Lisa Cini on navigating senior living decision-making, leveraging our teens for difficult conversations with our parents, and GenX’s own encouraging elder care future. The post Ep 66 Long Term Care Expert Lisa Cini appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2019-11-0500 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 65 Author Sarah Ladipo Manyika “Life is a strange journey”: Author Sarah Ladipo Manyika on writing stories she wanted to read but couldn’t find, the beauty of intergenerational friendships, and a big awkward mea culpa from Nancy to Sarah’s most recent fictional heroine. * Sarah’s website, with links to In Dependence and Like a Mule Bringing Ice Cream to the Sun * Books&Rhymes Podcast interview with Sarah: “When Writing Begins to Sing” * An Interview with Toni Morrison * On Meeting Mrs. Obama * Mondays with Mrs. Harris Preorder Nancy’s book, The Thank-You Project: Cultivating Happiness One Letter of Gratitude at a Time! Coming from Running Press De...2019-10-2235 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 64 Urban Farmer Natasha Nicholes“Life is fleeting”: Urban homesteader Natasha Nicholes on how her farm on the South Side of Chicago has created community, why loss has shaped the way she views opportunity, and that time Harry Connick surprised her with a spa day. The post Ep 64 Urban Farmer Natasha Nicholes appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2019-10-0800 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 63 Comedian Zahra Noorbakhsh“I want to perform for 10,000 people”: Feminist Muslim Iranian-American comedian and podcaster Zahra Noorbakhsh on how aging has changed the way she approaches her comedy, the insidiousness of confirmation bias, and an endorsement for mental math. The post Ep 63 Comedian Zahra Noorbakhsh appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2019-09-2400 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 62 Modern Elder Academy Founder Chip Conley“Not even at halftime”: Hospitality entrepreneur and Wisdom@Work author Chip Conley talks about the benefits of inter-generational mutual mentorship, his midlife wisdom school, and that time he brought Linda Ronstadt breakfast in bed. * Chip’s latest book, Wisdom @ Work: The Making of a Modern Elder * Modern Elder Academy * Follow Chip on LinkedIn Get out your tissues as inter-generational duo Dolly Parton and Brandi Carlile sing a little song Dolly wrote called “I Will Always Love You”. Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the podcast – check him out here! 2019-09-1037 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 61 Tucson Mayoral Candidate Randi Dorman“Not the typical politician”: Businesswoman, mom, and first-time political candidate Randi Dorman talks about her vision and plans for Tucson, the power in pursuing your passion, and the best rainy-day camp activity ever. * RandiForMayor.com * Randi’s endorsement from Arizona Daily Star * Nancy’s blog posts about Family Camp One of the shows at Irvine Auditorium where Randi and I were both in the audience…check out Steel Pulse’s Grammy-winning “Babylon The Bandit.” Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the podcast – check him out here! 2019-08-1335 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 60 WomenOnline Founder Morra Aarons-Mele “That’s not for me”: Self-proclaimed “hermit entrepreneur” Morra Aarons-Mele talks about how her award-winning social impact agency leverages the power of women’s connections, midlife boundary maintenance, and her book “Hiding in the Bathroom.” * WomenOnline * Morra’s book “Hiding in the Bathroom: An Introvert’s Guide to Getting Out There (When You’d Rather Stay Home) * Hiding in the Bathroom – the Podcast * Cyndi Lauper/Eddie Money at Madison Square Garden – who opened? Well, I did some research and the show was December 19, 1986…and this article would suggest that the opener was Eddie. And hey, here’s a ticket stub! Only $19! * Amaze.org Sex Ed vid...2019-07-3035 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 59 Listeners Say: Bring It Back! “I miss monotasking”: Listeners respond to the question “What do you wish you could bring back from your ‘70s/’80s/90’s childhood?” From Marathon Bars to mall lunches to Martha on MTV, we take a summer dive deep into GenX nostalgia. * Kraft Cheese Kisses – read all about ‘em! * Midlife Mixtape Podcast Ep 33 – Original MTV VJ Martha Quinn * Nancy’s ‘80s Alternative Dance Playlists – available @daviskho on Spotify * Dugout – new graphic novel for 7-11 year old readers, from Midlife Mixtape Podcast Ep 7 guest Pixar Storyteller Scott Morse * Grown & Flown: The Book – co-written by Midlife Mixtape Podcast Ep 51 guest Mary Dell Harrington. Pub date Sept 3 but available...2019-07-1626 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 58 Transnational Writer Xu Xi“You’re not alone”: Hong Kong-raised writer Xu Xi reflects on being betwixt and between cultures, languages, and life stages, and channels Confucian wisdom to understand the desire to make a stand at midlife. The post Ep 58 Transnational Writer Xu Xi appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2019-07-0200 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 57 Leadership Coach Karen Walrond“Follow your curiosity”: Coach, speaker, author, and host of the Make Light podcast Karen Walrond on the benefits of taking ownership of your career, why diversity and inclusion aren’t the same thing, and rest as a radical act. The post Ep 57 Leadership Coach Karen Walrond appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2019-06-1800 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 56 Midlife Mixtape LIVE at Betabrand Podcast Theater“The gift of experience”: Host Nancy Davis Kho, musician Kyle Terrizzi aka M. The Heir Apparent, and SF Chronicle Senior Political Writer Joe Garofoli at Betabrand's Podcast Theater on first concerts, generational soundtracks, and antidotes for outrage fatigue. The post Ep 56 Midlife Mixtape LIVE at Betabrand Podcast Theater appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2019-06-0400 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 55 The Hard Times Founder Matt Saincome“Try a bunch of stuff”: Matt Saincome, Editor-in-chief of the internet’s most popular music satire site, talks about pursuing the crazy ideas that don’t go away, what makes a good “Aging Punk” joke, and the unspoken punk dress-up code. The post Ep 55 The Hard Times Founder Matt Saincome appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2019-05-2100 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 54 Giving Circle Founder Jacqueline Jacobs Caster“Count me in”: Everychild Foundation founder Jacqueline Jacobs Caster on the age-old “Giving Circle” approach to collaborative giving, its value for deepening friendships and meaning at midlife, and how life is more malleable than you think. UPDATED: The Everychild Foundation has actually given away almost $18 million since its inception in 1999! * Everychild Foundation * Everychild Foundation on FB * Nancy’s Giving Circle Basics – a public Google Doc with ideas to get you started! * Midlife Mixtape LIVE from the Betabrand Podcast Theater in San Francisco on Thursday May 30th – reserve your free ticket here! * Pre-order Nancy’s new book, THE THANK-YOU PROJECT: Cultivating Happiness One Le...2019-05-0734 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 53 SavvyAuntie.com Founder Melanie Notkin“A life beyond my expectations”: Melanie Notkin talks Generation PANK (Professional Aunts, No Kids) aka women who are childless by choice, chance, or challenge, the complex feelings raised by modern fertility science, and the wonders of Aunt-hood. The post Ep 53 SavvyAuntie.com Founder Melanie Notkin appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2019-04-2300 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 52 Author Mary Laura Philpott“Permission to change”: Mary Laura Philpott, author of the new memoir-in-essays “I Miss You When I Blink,” talks about incremental reinvention, finding the courage to quit and realizing no one else cares, and making peace with not having the answers. The post Ep 52 Author Mary Laura Philpott appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2019-04-0900 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 51 Grown & Flown Co-founder Mary Dell Harrington“Letting the kite string out”: Mary Dell Harrington, co-founder of the Grown & Flown media platform for parents of kids aged 15-25, talks about the “digital dinner table,” helping first generation college kids, and the benefits of meandering. The post Ep 51 Grown & Flown Co-founder Mary Dell Harrington appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2019-03-2600 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 50 Listeners’ Advice to Younger People “You do you”: Reassuring, practical, and inspiring, Midlife Mixtape Podcast listeners share advice for people younger than them, including what they’d tell their younger selves (Don’t sled backwards!) Nancy’s advice to her younger self includes “Go to that one Prince show, dummy.” Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the podcast – check him out here! 2019-03-1218 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 50 Listeners’ Advice to Younger People"Keep stumbling in the right general direction, and it will all work out... And don't forget to hydrate!" The post Ep 50 Listeners’ Advice to Younger People appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2019-03-1200 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 49 Gutsy Girl Caroline Paul"Start embracing bravery as something that opens up your life." The post Ep 49 Gutsy Girl Caroline Paul appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2019-02-2600 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 48 Concert Photographer Aimee Giese “Redefining success”: Aimee Giese on pivoting from corporate work to creative endeavors, the importance of challenging yourself to new things at midlife, and a brilliant tip for recording shows that doesn’t annoy everyone else around you. * Aimee’s website Greeblehaus.com * Follow Aimee on Instagram Aimee’s new music rec for Midlife Mixtape listeners: Jukebox the Ghost. Super fun listen/watch. Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the Midlife Mixtape podcast – the song is “Be Free.” He’s heading out on tour, opening for Matt Nathanson (woot woot go Kyle aka M.!) – check out the tour s 2019-02-1231 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 47 Career Reentry Experts Kelley Biskupiak and Susan Rietano Davey“Workplace currency”: Susan Rietano Davey and Kelley Biskupiak, career coaches and founders of PrepareToLaunchU, on translating the opt-out years into marketable skills, letting go of perfectionism, and the importance of building your midlife tribe. The post Ep 47 Career Reentry Experts Kelley Biskupiak and Susan Rietano Davey appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2019-01-2900 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 47 Career Reentry Experts Kelley Biskupiak and Susan Rietano Davey“Workplace currency”: Susan Rietano Davey and Kelley Biskupiak, career coaches and founders of PrepareToLaunchU, on translating the opt-out years into marketable skills, letting go of perfectionism, and the importance of building your midlife tribe. * PrepareToLaunchU website Maybe the day will come when I don’t hum this song whenever a check from a freelance client arrives in my mailbox. But I hope it never does. Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the Midlife Mixtape podcast – check him out here!2019-01-2932 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 46 “Happiness Curve” author Jonathan Rauch “Transition to contentment”: Jonathan Rauch on the scientific reasons life gets better after fifty, why the midlife slump is a normal and necessary, and how it’s a “we” not a “me” problem. Plus, Nancy’s excited to make like a Grandma Orca. * Jonathan’s website * The Happiness Curve: Why Life Gets Better after 50 – find links to buy the book here! Time really is on your side, it turns out. As for the video: oh my god they were babies. BABIES I tell you. Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the Midlife Mixtape podcast – check him o 2019-01-2234 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 45 HONY Mixtape Couple Ellen and David “Endlessly curious”: Mixtape mavens Ellen and David talk about what it’s like to be a Humans of New York viral sensation, the midlife relationship that mixtapes built, and why rediscovering yourself is a cure for stagnation. The original Humans of New York post: View this post on Instagram “He was the RA in my freshman dorm. His nickname was ‘Rock.’ He was blonde and skinny and made legendary mix tapes for the dance parties. We never talked much in college, but we became good friends when we reconnected at a reunion. The event was eighties themed. There were a lot of Talking...2018-12-1838 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 45 HONY Mixtape Couple Ellen and David“Endlessly curious”: Mixtape mavens Ellen and David talk about what it’s like to be a Humans of New York viral sensation, the midlife relationship that mixtapes built, and why rediscovering yourself is a cure for stagnation. The original Humans of New York post: View this post on Instagram “He was the RA in […] The post Ep 45 HONY Mixtape Couple Ellen and David appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2018-12-1800 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 44 Moving Consultant Margaret Vandergriff“Grateful for crazy missteps”: Moving consultant Margaret Vandergriff on common mistakes in finding your midlife happy place, the importance of feeling the vibe, and how she turned her own moving missteps into a new career. Harvest Moon Coaching Nancy’s House Talk Spotify Playlist Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music […] The post Ep 44 Moving Consultant Margaret Vandergriff appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2018-12-0400 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 43 Humorist/Playwright R. Eric Thomas“Embrace the mystery”: “Eric Reads the News” columnist R. Eric Thomas on how a playwright became Elle.com’s current events humor columnist, his approach to pop culture osmosis, and drinking eggnog with Maxine Waters. The post Ep 43 Humorist/Playwright R. Eric Thomas appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2018-11-2000 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 42 Listeners’ Most Memorable Teenage Jobs“Perhaps not ideal for a teen”: From the obsolete to the funny to the downright gross, Midlife Mixtape listeners share their most memorable means of earning a paycheck during their teen years. Something to listen to after you vote! The post Ep 42 Listeners’ Most Memorable Teenage Jobs appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2018-11-0600 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 41 Parenting Author KJ Dell’Antonia“Soak up the good”: KJ Dell’Antonia, author of How to Be a Happier Parent and the former editor of the New York Times’ Motherlode blog, on Gen X’s particular parenting style, “disasters” vs. “situations,” and her #AmWriting podcast. The post Ep 41 Parenting Author KJ Dell’Antonia appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2018-10-2300 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 40 Headcount Co-Founder Andy Bernstein“Power of the collective”: Executive Director Andy Bernstein talks about how Headcount.org works with musicians to promote active citizenship, Headcount’s rock n’ roll office hours, and the unusual way he earned cash money at his first concert. The post Ep 40 Headcount Co-Founder Andy Bernstein appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2018-10-0900 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 39 Ballerina Aesha Ash“We are multidimensional”: Swan Dreams Project founder Aesha Ash talks about harnessing the power of imagery to challenge socio-economic and racial norms in ballet, being kind to yourself, and a dreamy first recital costume. The post Ep 39 Ballerina Aesha Ash appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2018-09-2500 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 38 Listeners’ First Concerts“Hooked on live shows from that moment on”: From Metallica to Manilow, parking lot panic attacks to pretend roadies, Cow Palace to CBGB’s, Midlife Mixtape listeners answer the question: “What was your first concert, and what were the circumstances?” The post Ep 38 Listeners’ First Concerts appeared first on Midlife Mixtape .2018-09-1100 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 35 “Listen To Your Mother” Founder Ann Imig“You, Again”: Ann Imig, founder of the “Listen To Your Mother” national staged reading series, on knowing when the time has come to move on, making friends with fear, and why lozenges and jumpsuits are so complementary. * Ann’s website * “Listen To Your Mother” website * “Listen To Your Mother: What She Said Then, What We’re Saying Now” anthology * Theatrical licensing of “Listen To Your Mother” at Miracle Or 2 * Clip from YOU AGAIN (requires Facebook) If I were to prescribe some new music to Ann, which I like to do on occasion, I’d point her to the soundtrack from “Blindspotting.” I’m obsessed...2018-07-3134 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 33 Original MTV VJ Martha Quinn “Lightning in a bottle”: MTV VJ and IHeart80s radio host Martha Quinn on her crazy audition for the job of a lifetime, why there’s so much nostalgia for the ‘80s, and learning not to overload her “plate.” * Martha Quinn at IHeart80s@103.7 * Follow Martha on Twitter and Facebook * Martha’s Mixtape – submit your ideas for a mixtape here * VJ: The Unplugged Adventures of MTV’s First Wave by Nina Blackwood, Mark Goodman, Alan Hunter and Martha Quinn with Gavin Edwards. Great long read about your favorite ‘80s channel – here’s my review (and giveaway!) of that book when it came out in 2013 This...2018-07-0336 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 7: Pixar Storyteller Scott Morse“Be open to wonder:” Pixar storyteller Scott Morse talks with with Nancy about growing older without growing up, the Beastie Boys as role models, and why Pixar’s Cars 3 might just be the perfect movie for midlifers. * Scott’s filmography courtesy of IMDB * Scott’s cool Instagram feed * TRICKSTER Gallery Berkeley * Whoops, on the podcast I said it was from McSweeney’s – it’s actually Slackjaw’s “Yankee Candle’s New Anxiety Collection,” including my signature sent, Spiced Endless Scrolling * And remember, Saturday August 12, from 9 pm – the wee hours, I’ll be guest-DJing my favorite ’80s dance hits at the Cat Club in San Francisco. We’r...2017-06-2031 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 6: Digital Pioneer Jory Des Jardins “A series of cycles:” join Nancy and digital pioneer/BlogHer co-founder Jory Des Jardins as they discuss the benefits of midlife collaboration, realizing life may not be as linear as expected, and why Nancy needs to embrace Virtual Reality and get over her FOS (Fear of Snapchat.) * Read more about Jory * Virago – a strategic advisory for Women Entrepreneurs “Oh yeah. I noticed you dancing.” Music by which to scrub your pans and/or embarrass yourself. 2017-06-0634 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 5: TV Critic Tim Goodman “Tear up the road map:” Tim Goodman, chief television critic for The Hollywood Reporter, talks with Nancy about the art of the midlife pivot, how music can be a bonding activity with the next generation, and his three-part Elvis Costello dream date. * Tim’s TV Talk Machine podcast * The Bastard Machine blog at The Hollywood Reporter Tim’s 2017 summer jam – “Gwan,” by Rostam Nancy’s eternal summer jam – “Summertime” by DJ Jazzy Jeff and The Fresh Prince (heeyyyyy, 1991) Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the podcast – check him out here!2017-05-2332 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 4: Author/Amoeba Music co-founder Yvonne Prinz“Jazz cigarettes now available in the Jazz Room”: join Nancy and her guest Yvonne Prinz, YA author and co-founder of Amoeba Music, the world’s largest independent music store. They talk personal and retail reinvention, finding time to take your foot off the gas at midlife, and what happens to you if you’re a Canadian who doesn’t like Rush. * Yvonne’s website with links to Vinyl Princess and If You’re Lucky * Amoeba Music Michael Shannon shops Amoeba Music Hollywood and shows off “What’s In My Bag?” And for good measure, here’s Teddy Thompson who I learned about courtesy...2017-05-0930 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 3: Comedian Karinda DobbinsOakland comedian Karinda Dobbins joins Nancy to talk about why humor is so vital in helping audiences step into someone else’s shoes, her comedy inspiration Moms Mabley, and why Gen Xers are so good at rolling with it when it comes to work/creative balance. * Karinda’s website * Karinda’s upcoming appearances Thanks as always to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the podcast – check him out here! 2017-05-0435 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 2: Writer/musician Michelle GonzalesJoin Nancy and her guest, author and musician Michelle Cruz Gonzales, as they discuss Michelle’s life as a drummer in ‘90s punk band Spitboy, what it’s like to reunite with a band after a thirty-year break, and what Michelle’s learned about the benefit of just getting started with your creative goals at midlife (instead of waiting for perfection to strike.) * Michelle’s website * Michelle’s memoir, The Spitboy Rule * Michelle reading “Does Your Mom Play Drums?” at Listen To Your Mother 2013 * Rob Sheffield’s new book, Dreaming the Beatles: The Love Story of One Band and the Whole World Thanks...2017-05-0433 min

Midlife MixtapeEp 1: Welcome To the Midlife Mixtape PodcastWelcome to the Midlife Mixtape podcast, where we’ll celebrate Gen X at midlife with humor, heart, and a really good beat. Join writer and host Nancy Davis Kho for an honest look at the ups and downs of midlife for the generation that came of age alongside MTV, and find out why “Whatever, nevermind” isn’t just the anthem of our youth, but a brilliant philosophy for midlife contentment. * How Do I Feel About a Midlife Crisis? Whatever TueNight.com * Thanks to M. The Heir Apparent, who provides the music behind the podcast – check him out here! 2017-05-0218 min