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Let’s Gett Serious PodcastEpisode 15: #NGL New York State Admits Marriage Barely ExistsIn this #NGL episode, I discuss a recent decision by the New York State Court of Appeals where the court admitted that marriage in New York is “brittle” and in effect is rather meaningless when it comes to the traditional legal frameworks that had always existed for married couples and families. Since a marriage can be broken and ended at any time, the courts no longer have to apply special deference or status to married couples.
The case is:
J.H. v C.H. 2024 NY Slip Op 50220(U) Decided on March 4, 2024 Supreme Court, Putnam...2024-05-2019 minLet’s Gett Serious PodcastEpisode 14: #NGL Does James Sexton thinks Parental Alienation exists?In this #NGL episode, I clip a portion of popular divorce lawyer James Sexton’s conversation with popular podcaster, Lex Fridman. In the frum world we have seen an uptick in denial of the well-documented phenomenon known as “parental alienation”. It is worth listening to what James Sexton has to say about it.
I also share something pretty exciting about an upcoming episode!
Full Lex Fridman Episode:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fUEjCXpOjPY
2024-05-1712 minLet’s Gett Serious PodcastEpisode 13: “God created women to be discontent”Dovid Feldman is a well-known Twitter personality, licensed marriage therapist and the creator behind the Recreating Intimacy program.
Please take a look at the description for a link to Dovid’s website, and a link to his really fun book “52 Tweets To A Great Marriage“
https://dovidfeldman.com/
https://twitter.com/dovidfeldman
https://www.amazon.com/52-Tweets-Great-Marriage-Intimacy/dp/B0C12M78JR
2024-05-0558 minLet’s Gett Serious PodcastEpisode 12: Interview with Attorney Eliana BaerToday I bring you a really fascinating interview with the one and only Eliana Baer, a frum female divorce lawyer based in New Jersey - a notably the first female guest on this podcast.
We speak about men’s issues when it comes to divorce, including the interplay with religious considerations. We speak about what’s killing frum marriages: lack of education, in-laws, religiosity, materialism and other things. We talk about how to achieve an amicable divorce (do not go to court unless you have to!), some interesting legal cases and even legal issues to consi...2024-03-071h 04Let’s Gett Serious PodcastEpisode 11 #NGL: The Mikva Strike and Confusion of FlatbushGirl's supportersIn this episode, Nathan talks about the FlatbushGirl "Mikva Strike" and the worldview of FlatbushGirl and her supporters.
You can watch the referenced Mislaibeled episode here:
https://twitter.com/FrumTikTok/status/1765431063373918511
2024-03-0722 minLet’s Gett Serious PodcastEpisode 10: Resuming in the Wake of October 7thWe've been on hiatus as our attention was turned toward the situation in Israel and for Jews around the world. Thank God, the situation has somewhat stabilized, and we are for the most part back to our daily lives. Unfortunately this means divorces are continuing. I comment on this and the reaction - or lack thereof - to the massacre in the divorce world.
2023-11-3007 minLet’s Gett Serious PodcastEpisode 9: Professor Ben Hine Discusses Family Breakdown and AlienationIn this episode we go to the United Kingdom, to speak to Dr. Ben Hine, a professor of applied psychology, a researcher and author who has extensive experience in the areas of family breakdown, divorce, and alienation. I’m very excited to bring this to you as our first “professional” episode, as opposed to a personal story episode, hopefully the first of many.
In this episode, I ask Professor Hine to teach us precisely what PA is, how it works, if it’s real science or a possible hoax (like FlatbushGirl claims), how do we know it’s...2023-09-1353 minLet’s Gett Serious PodcastEpisode 8: #NGL FlatbushGirl Represents Some of the Frum Community’s View on Parental AlienationInauguration of a new episode type: #NGL - Nathan Gettisberg Live
On this episode, I discuss the FlatbushGirl appearance on the Mislaibeled podcast, which you can watch here: https://youtu.be/Fy_rRV6pUeU?t=6331
2023-09-1111 minLet’s Gett Serious PodcastEpisode 7: Josh’s StoryJosh shares his painful experience through extreme parental alienation. Josh is an active community member, an EMT, a mentor, a support group leader, a husband and a father - but he has not had meaningful contact with his children from his first marriage in years.
Josh shares his personal story and also his expertise on the terrible phenomenon of PA and gives us an understanding of what it really is, how it works, how the layperson can understand the psychology and what we can do as a community to combat it.
2023-09-071h 34Let’s Gett Serious PodcastSeason 2 IntroYes, that's right - finally. We are back with a second season of unique interviews and content on the topics of marriage, divorce and parenting from the perspective of the frum man. The aim is to bring you 1 or 2 high quality interviews per month
2023-09-0700 min
Legal Listening: The Fox Rothschild LLP PodcastJewish Divorce Talk - Episode SixEpisode Six: “Let’s Gett Serious” Talk
In this thought-provoking episode, Nathan Gettisberg of the podcast “Let’s Gett Serious” joins host Eliana Baer to explore the multifaceted dynamics of marriage and divorce in the Orthodox Jewish world.
Nathan, whose podcast is a platform for Orthodox Jewish men to share relationship struggles and triumphs, reflects on his own marriage and divorce, including the avoidable challenges he faced in both the lead-up to and aftermath of his separation.
The episode spotlights the pressing need for more and better support networks for men as they navigate the emotional upheaval and realities of divorce. Nat...2023-06-0837 minLegal Listening: The Fox Rothschild LLP PodcastJewish Divorce Talk - Episode SixEpisode Six: “Let’s Gett Serious” Talk
In this thought-provoking episode, Nathan Gettisberg of the podcast “Let’s Gett Serious” joins host Eliana Baer to explore the multifaceted dynamics of marriage and divorce in the Orthodox Jewish world.
Nathan, whose podcast is a platform for Orthodox Jewish men to share relationship struggles and triumphs, reflects on his own marriage and divorce, including the avoidable challenges he faced in both the lead-up to and aftermath of his separation.
The episode spotlights the pressing need for more and better support networks for men as they navigate the emotional upheaval and realities of divorce. Nat...2023-06-0837 minLet’s Gett Serious PodcastEpisode 5: Ronen’s StoryA wonderful conversation with Ronen, talking about his journey as a Baal Teshuva, through a long marriage, a rocky but ultimately happy divorce, and about how he sees things in our community.
https://lgspodcast.com/
2022-09-1246 minLet’s Gett Serious PodcastEpisode 4: Aaron’s StoryAn heavy episode about parental alienation and the loss of a child
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2022-08-1044 minLet’s Gett Serious PodcastEpisode 3: Yaakov’s StoryLGSPodcast.com
In this episode I interview Yaakov.
2022-07-281h 19Let’s Gett Serious PodcastEpisode: YaakovLGSPodcast.comIn this episode I interview Yaakov.We talk about the divorce process, the uncertainty of its early days, the role of spouses involved in a divorce as former spouses and as parents, and how for many people the divorce doesn’t just end when the papers are signed.He talks about what it’s like to be on the other side of a case handled by Shalom Task Force, a an organization that provides high-conflict divorce lawyers to Jewish women, free of charge. We also disc...2022-07-271h 19Let’s Gett Serious PodcastEpisode 1: Joe’s StoryIn this episode, I speak to Joe, who shares his personal experiences dealing with life's difficult twists, marrying a divorcee with children, suffering through a horrific divorce, being alienated from his children, and remarrying and starting a new life. Joe is humble, generous and a real pleasure to talk to.
2022-07-201h 04Let’s Gett Serious PodcastEpisode 2: Betzalel Rothstein’s Story2022-07-2044 minLet’s Gett Serious PodcastLet’s Gett Serious Intro2022-07-0503 min