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The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingThe ultimate patriarchy hack: being childfree (ft. "The Girl With The List" aka @z00mie)💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays I’m sure many of y’all know Abigail Porter aka @z00mie aka “The Girl With The List.” Abigail has built a following of over 1 million people with her content on destigmatizing the childfree lifestyle and educating women on what having kids is really like. 🍒 Follow Abigail on TikTok and Instagram, and check out her upcoming merch line herePS remember to take your birth control...2025-06-0458 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #18: Refuse labels and become a shapeshifter💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays The woman no one can label is the woman no one can control, because you can't control what you can't define.In this episode, we discuss:How to avoid being like everyone else who dislikes themselves & try to conform An example of a pop star who continues to use this law with crazy success (hint: she's in the 17th year of her career)Why "I just want to...2025-05-2837 minThe Baddest Bitch in the Building💍 Something Borrowed, Something True: Debunking wedding myths and learning that “no” can be part of your wedding day (with Victoria Alario, host of For the Girls podcast)💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, a 1-minute read that will change the way you see the world, delivered twice monthly on Fridays I sit down with confidence coach Victoria Alario to discuss how she planned her wedding in under a year with no stress and burnout, and without losing herself in the process. If you’re planning a wedding or think that it will be "the best day of your life," this one's for you.We discuss:How to put your foot down and say "no"Whether wedding invites and plus ones should be re...2025-05-2153 minThe Baddest Bitch in the Buildinghi I think you're pretty 💕 [podcast trailer]Welcome to all the pretty bitches. Wack bitches stay on lookout.2025-05-1502 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #17: Act like a winner before you even won💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, a 1-minute read that will change the way you see the world, delivered twice monthly on Fridays The difference between victims and winners is that winners act on circumstances, while victims wait for circumstances to be fair. Which they never will be. As women, we need to master the art of acting like a winner, even when we feel like a big fat loser.In this episode, we discuss:Why power is not given to the most deserving personThe psychological phenomenon that makes it essential for you to act like a winner at all (m...2025-05-1433 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingWhy dating apps have ruined dating for women & where to look instead (with Princezz Talia)💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, a 1-minute read that will change the way you see the world, delivered twice monthly on Fridays Dating apps are one of the worst things to happen to humanity in the 21st century. In this episode ,Talia & I discuss:- The connection between capitalism and datings apps (Big Dating!!)- Why "non-traditional" apps are even worse than the regular ones, like Bumble (where women have to message first) or Raya (where you need to apply for the app)- How these apps take women out of their feminine ener...2025-05-0748 min
Kinda RadicalEp. 37: Pitbull and myths and girly lawsOn this episode of Kinda Radical I am joined by quite possibly THE Baddest Bitch in the Building, Neeki Motabar.
We talk all things Pitbull, podcasting, hate comments, and power lifting, and we even bust some common feminist myths such as 'Do feminists shave their body hair?' Leave a 5 star review and comment on this video if you enjoy our conversation!
Neeki hosts her own podcast The Baddest Bitch in the Building where she introduces her own feminist twist on The 48 Laws of Power. Find her podcast below and be sure to sign up he...2025-05-0151 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #16: Master the art of silence💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter (not really a newsletter, more like a 1 min burst of energy) delivered on Fridays A big flaw of the patriarchy is that it assumes power is loud. The good news for the girlies is that because there’s so much emphasis on being loud and obnoxious, the power behind silence is completely neglected. That's where law 16 comes into play.But also...WHY IS IT that when a man is quiet, he's "thoughtful." But when a woman is quiet she's "lost, confused, disengaged, a stupid idiot, blahblahblah..." Not only are...2025-04-3031 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingThe Pinkprint of Power: CEO Daniel Pillai discusses that when women lead, the fabulous rise💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter delivered on Fridays I'm joined by Daniel Pillai, the Head Bitch in Charge (or the President & CEO, if we want to use technical terms) of Langton PR - a public relations & creative agency in Toronto, Canada. Daniel came from a cultural background where he was expected to become a doctor/lawyer/engineer, marry a woman, and live a nice, traditional life. So when he came out as gay, started a career in TV, and eventually became the CEO of a PR firm, I guess we can say he brok...2025-04-2348 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #15: Let people underestimate you💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter delivered on Fridays Some guy from the 1600s is quoted saying "the truth is generally seen, rarely heard." That's the basis of this law, which is one of the sneakier girly laws of power. In this episode we're going to discuss:- How being underestimated puts you in a position of power, which I guess is good because as women we're often underestimated - The behaviours we need to unlearn so we can be more effective at controlling the narrative- Why you can...2025-04-1625 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingBeauty with a backbone: How Jenn Harper turned a 3 A.M. dream into a clean beauty empire💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter delivered on Fridays I sat down to talk with Jenn Harper, the founder & CEO of Cheekbone Beauty Cosmetics - the biggest Indigenous-founded beauty brand in Canada. Jenn opens up about her story of mental health, intergenerational trauma, and the way she turned her life around by refusing to let her challenges define who she is. This conversation was so special, and Jenn shared some very personal and vulnerable moments. Regardless of where you are in life, I’m sure you’ll resonate with her story and learn a thing or...2025-04-0900 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #14: Always be the centre of attention💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter delivered on Fridays We live in a world where women are judged by their appearances. Instead of complaining about it, let’s flip the script and work backwards. Let’s decide how we want to be perceived, then dress for the part. That way, we’re in control of the narrative. Let the world judge us by our appearance allllllll it wants.In this episode we’ll discuss:- Why looks hold power & how being the centre of attention puts you in a position of power- Wh...2025-04-0228 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingMessy dating Q&A: staying with a rich provider who cheats, how to get him to pay for stuff, how to say "I told you so" like a lady...💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter delivered on Fridays You asked and I answered! This episode is another unscripted one, but with a twist. I’m answering your messy dating-related questions. Be sure to follow me on IG so you can participate in my next call for questions/stories 💓2:00 - When is it ok to go 50/50 on a date?2:15 - What would you do if you were with a rich provider man and you find out he cheated?5:23 - The guy I’ve been casually seeing since January asked for...2025-03-2628 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #13: Think of everything as a business to ensure the best outcome for yourself💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter delivered on Fridays If your relationships were a business would you be bankrupt because you're giving too much? Probably....As women, we need to get better at standing on business. That's why we need to start thinking of things as a business. And take a shot every time I say "business."In this episode, we'll discuss:- Why we're conditioned to give aimlessly- The dumbest currency society as told us we have to pay with- The actual curr...2025-03-1925 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingHow to be a b*tch 💄 (with Cami Sophia)💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter delivered on Fridays Today we're joined by the lovely Cami Sophia as we discuss one of the best books of all time, Why Men Love Bitches. The fact that this author hasn't won a Nobel Prize is beyond me. The pretty girls are already familiar with what we mean by "bitch," but in case you need a refresher - a bitch is a woman who holds her own, doesn't need anyone's acceptance, and doesn't compromise on her standards. Aka she's someone who loves herself unconditionally.2025-03-1245 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #12: Receive more than you give to be treated like a princess💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter delivered on Fridays In order to take advantage of the patriarchy and be the universe's passenger princess, you need to be comfortable in the receiver role. That means you're able to receive favours, gifts, compliments, help, etc.I understand that lots of women struggle with being comfortable as a receiver (I struggled with this for a long time). That's why law #12 is all about how to RECEIVE 💕In this episode, we'll discuss:- Why you're sososo worthy of receiving- Why it's impor...2025-03-0529 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingThe science behind delulu is the solulu, manifestations & emotional fitness (with Dr Laura Beavin-Yates)💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter delivered on Fridays HELLO IT’S OUR FIRST GUEST EPISODE💓You know how I always tell you that mentally I’m in Barbieland and I’m kind of delusional? Well it turns out that having a positive worldview can actually rewire our brains. You don’t have to take my word for it, that’s why I invited a scientist onto the show.Today, the baddest bitch in the building is Dr. Laura Beavin-Yates, PhD. She’s the Chief Marketing Officer of SIX, an app which helps you measur...2025-02-2649 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #11: Use the power of suggestion to always get your way💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter delivered on Fridays People don't like being told what to do. But you need people to do things. So WHAT is a girl to do?!? A girl needs to stop telling people to outright do things, and she needs to learn how to use the power of suggestion.Using the power of suggestion is like planting a seed, and letting the other person fill in the gaps. You want your man to buy you flowers? Start admiring flowers when you go out and stopping by flower shops to sm...2025-02-1933 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingUnscripted: Is marriage a scam?💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter delivered on Fridays Hello to all the pretty girls tuning in…so hello everyone. Y’all asked for more unscripted episodes, so that’s what I’m bringing to the table today. Here’s some context for the new baddies: In between the girly laws of power, I'll be dropping these off the cuff, unscripted episodes. 24 hours before filming, I put a poll on my Instagram story for the baddies to pick a topic. The one with the most votes becomes the topic of the episode.There was actuall...2025-02-1223 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #10: Be selective with who you give your truth💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter delivered on Fridays As a woman, your truth is one of the most sacred and valuable things you have. What I mean by your truth is all your life experiences, thoughts, goals, insecurities, traumas….everything that makes you, YOU.Your truth is a garden that most people don’t deserve to access. The problem is that the patriarchy understands how valuable a woman’s truth is, and people are lying to you from every direction to try and access your truth. Telling the truth isn’t the d...2025-02-0526 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingUnscripted: Is building a career a capitalist scam?💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter delivered on Fridays The baddies asked and I have delivered. I'M DROPPING WEEKLY EPISODES!!!In between the girly laws of power, I'll be dropping these off the cuff, unscripted episodes. 24 hours before filming, I put a poll on my instagram story for the baddies to pick a topic. The one with the most votes becomes the topic of the episode.The baddies chose "is building a career a capitalist scam," so that's what we're yapping about today. I share my own experiences of getting my soul suc...2025-01-2925 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #9: Act like a queen to be treated like one💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter delivered on Fridays We keep getting told to “know our worth” but like…how much is our worth? In the same way that Hermes will charge $50,000 for a bag, we can set our own price and make it as high as we want. The only catch is that we have to actually believe we’re worth that much.In this episode, we’ll discuss:- How to set your price, believe your worth, and stand on business- Why the way you c...2025-01-2333 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #8: Know when to act dumb to get what you want💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter delivered on Fridays There’s a Japanese proverb that says, “The nail that sticks up will be hammered down.” A lot of the time, showing people how smart you are works in the opposite way you intended. People will feel envious, threatened, and jealous. So…sometimes, the smartest thing you can do is to play dumb. In this episode, we’ll discuss:- Two elements of human nature that we NEED to understand in order to effectively play dumb- Why making people feel good about thems...2025-01-0933 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #7: Remove guilt from your emotions💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter delivered on Fridays If you want something, it's because you KNOW you deserve it. And if that makes you feel uneasy, then it's time to talk about guilt - the most useless emotion to ever exist. In this episode we dive into:- How guilt is a miscommunication between the past and the present- The ways in which feeling guilty for things you did/want is holding you back from unlocking your power- Why fee...2024-12-1126 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #6: To succeed at anything, you must be emotionally detached💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter delivered on Fridays Hello to all the pretty girls (so hello everyone, because I know only pretty bitches listen to this podcast). In this episode, we're getting into law #6: to succeed at anything (and I mean ANYTHING), you must be emotionally detached.We'll be discussing:- What men are doing RIGHT and how we can learn from their behaviour (I literally never thought I would say that)- Why emotional attachment leads to expectation...2024-11-2824 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #5: Appeal to peoples' self interest when asking for anything💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter delivered on Fridays Hello to all the returning baddies and welcome to the new baddies tuning into the podcast! In this episode, we're getting into Law #5: Appeal to peoples' self interest when asking for anything. This is sososo important for getting what you want!!We'll be discussing:- Why appealing to peoples' sense of goodwill, loyalty, charity, reciprocity, or other BS is just going to make them resent you- The art of asking some...2024-11-1524 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #4: Never take anything personally💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter delivered on Fridays Let the baddies know I'm back and ready with another Law of Power for the girly pops. In this episode, we're getting into Law #4: Never take anything personally. We all know this in theory, but there's a lot more to it.We'll be discussing:- Why the way people treat you has nothing to actually do with you (hint: it's a reflection of how they feel about themselves)- An example of a situation we prob all took personally (getting gho...2024-10-1719 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #3: SO MUCH depends on your looks, use that to your advantage💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter delivered on Fridays Another Law of Power for the girls! In this episode, we're getting into Law #3: So much depends on your looks, use that to your advantage. This one is going to be controversial, but it had to be said.Here's what we'll be discussing:- EVERYONE judges people first on their appearance- The cheat code to hacking the patriarchy (hint: get ahead of most men by fitting the right feminine "stereotype")- How to come across as more femini...2024-08-1628 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #2: Stop being guided by right & wrong💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter delivered on Fridays We're back with the Laws of Power for the girls! In this episode, we're getting into Law #2: stop being guided by right & wrong. We'll be discussing:- Why we shouldn't play fair in an unfair world- How "morality" is a made up concept- Why the only moral compass you should be using is your self interest- How no one got to the pinnacle of success by worrying about what's RiGhT oR wRoNg- An exampl...2024-07-1722 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #1: Don't be humble💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter delivered on Fridays Hello to all the baddies. You may have read or heard of "The 48 Laws of Power." That book is amazing and I highly recommend it, but if you've read it, you probably noticed that it's very...masculine.Well guess what?!? I'm launching a new series: The Hidden Laws of Power (for women). This is a feminine twist on the Laws of Power, with emphasis on how we can take advantage o...2024-07-0530 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingI spent $18k on a nose job: do I regret it?HEAR YE HEAR YE. In today's episode, we're going to discuss my nose job and whether I consider it a good decision. My nose is the most expensive thing I'm wearing y'all. For anyone considering plastic surgery, or curious about the process, this one's definitely for you.
I'm going to get into my thoughts on my results so far, how I feel about spending a pretty penny on this surgery, the WORST and most unexpected side effect after surgery, and how to adopt a healthy mindset during the healing process.
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The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingIf your man doesn't do this, he prob doesn't love youHello to all the girlies who choose the bear. So...hello everyone. In this episode, I put on some sunglasses and get really unhinged.
If you're wondering what the hell the title means, it's this: if your man doesn't propose to you after 2 years of dating, he probably doesn't love you that much. I said what I said.
We're going to talk about the easiest way to figure out if you're his dream girl, how men know IMMEDIATELY if they want to wife you, and the mistake that cost...2024-06-0532 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingHow I rejected Drake's homeboy + the WORST dates I've ever been onHey baddies today's episode is a storytime of the absolute worst dates I've been on + a bonus story of how we met some of Drake's friends at a party and one of them kept.....blinging my hotline 📞 I'm putting myself on time out after this
We'll get into why going for a coffee date is always a bad idea, what it looks like when men project their insecurities onto you, how to respond when you're with a guy and he starts talking about other women, and why successful rich guys can still be insecure bab...2024-05-2227 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingThe only way to become your best unbothered selfThe only relationship in your life that's guaranteed is your relationship with YOURSELF. So you better love yourself offfffff 💌
This episode covers how to
- fix your negative self talk
- change the way you see yourself
- never take anything personally
- stop comparing yourself to others
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***All opinions are my own***2024-05-0919 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingHow to re-calibrate your purpose in life | centering yourself, finding your main character energyAs a woman, you were probably told told from the time you were a SPERM CELL that your life purpose is to care for other people. To be a wife, mother, and caregiver.
Well I'm here to tell you that's a load of shit. Let's re-calibrate our purpose in life and remind ourselves why we're here in the first place.
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***All opinions are my own***2024-04-1725 minThe Baddest Bitch in the Building50/50 is a myth, even if you're a housewife"WhAt Do YoU bRinG tO tHe TaBLe🤪" Um, yourself. You are the guest of honour.
Ladies, we need to KILL the concept of 50/50 relationships. IT'S NOT A REAL THING!!! 🤬
In this episode, we're going to talk about the ways in which women contribute disproportionately to relationships just by being present. Biologically, emotionally, physically, and in a few other ways.
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***All opinions are my own***2024-04-1128 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingWhy you might be letting people walk all over youNot everyone is ready to hear this, but the way people treat you is a direct reflection of how you carry yourself. ESPECIALLY your physical appearance.
So let's talk about how to carry yourself with confidence and use your pretty privilege.
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***All opinions are my own***2024-04-0319 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingMy 10 non-negotiables for a date (5 his/5 hers)Let's talk about the 5 things I absolutely expect from a guy taking me on a date. Listen, I'm a bad bitch but also a self-aware bitch, so I'm giving 5 non-negotiables that I expect from myself too.
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***All opinions are my own***2024-03-2732 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingNeeka Feral talks: Balding men, dad bods, wtf is a foodieThis is the first episode of my once-a-month series with my alter ego, Neeka Feral. We're going to flame balding men, dad bods, people who call themselves "foodies" + more.
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2024-03-1314 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingPlastic surgery as self love (and my surgery experience)In this episode we get into the ways in which plastic surgery can be a form of self love, the right (and wrong) reasons for choosing to change your appearance, and my own experience of getting a nose job a couple months ago.
ALSO I'm NOT referring to those ugly BBLs that look AI-generated, or surgery as a substitute for exercise!!!
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***All opinions are my own***2024-03-0722 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingWhy I'm single by choice (part 2)In part 1, we talked about my made up formula for a successful relationship, why falling in love is stupid, and how we will never EVER help build up a man. The shenanigans continue.
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***All opinions are my own***2024-03-0320 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingWhy I'm single by choice (part 1)Listen, I'm single BY CHOICE. And I'm always getting questions like "when are you going to find a man blahblahblah." I'm putting this to rest once and for all, and I'm joined by Pearl (who's in a relationship BY CHOICE...)
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***All opinions are my own***2024-03-0329 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingA little bit about me💌 SUBSCRIBE TO THE BADDIE BRIEF, our twice monthly newsletter delivered on Fridays Join me as I talk about the topic I know most about... ✨myself✨IGTikTok ***All opinions are my own***2024-03-0313 min