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The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingBeware your coworkers...but not for the reason you might thinkđ Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.In this highly-requested episode, weâre going to discuss the question everyoneâs asked at some point: Can you trust your coworkers?Because Iâm a Machiavellian Barbie and not just some sheep, Iâm going to go WAY deeper than anyone ever has when discussing this question. W...
2026-02-1145 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #31: Be the fantasy womanđ Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.Free preview available here.People don't want the truth, they want what's going to make them feel better. And that's exactly what the fantasy woman does.Too many women are caught up in the Righteousness Olympics, and think they have to be 100% honest all the time. LOL. Imagine playing fair in an...
2026-02-0441 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingThe biological clock myth: How patriarchy makes us âpayâ for our bodily autonomyđ Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or purchase the PDF or EPUB file. Get a free preview here.You won't believe what I'm about to tell you. Women don't have a "biological clock." That term was coined by journalist Richard Cohen in his misogynistic 1978 article "The Clock Is Ticking For The Career Woman." This article hits the two Ps (pseudoscience and patriarchy) and does what these silly Ps do best: rush women into motherhood and shame them for prioritizing their careers.
2026-01-2835 min
The Release PodcastMastering The Art Of Silence, And Other Patriarchy Hacks You Ought To Know, with Author Neeki MotabarNeeki Motabar is an influencer known as "the baddest b in the building," a powerlifter, A recovering shy girl, and the author of "How To Hack The Patriarchy."
A modern take on some of the 48 laws of power through a feminine lens, her book describes 20 ways to find what Neeki calls the blindspots in the patriarchyâŚand then exploit them in your favor. She wants women and girls to learn for example how to spot manipulation early, how to handle interruptions and credit-stealing, and how to set boundaries without guilt. She says it's time to stop performing fr...
2026-01-2731 min
The Baddest Bitch in the Building7 lessons that will save you from a toxic relationship (I spent 5 years in one)đIf you love the show, you'll love How to Hack the Patriarchy. Get your copy on Amazon or purchase the PDF or EPUB file.This episode is a listener requested topic on my origin story. I'll briefly discuss the god awful relationship I was in for 5 YEARS. Then I'll discuss 7 lessons we can all learn so we never make the same mistakes I did.People will push you as far as you let them -- even the nice guys (16:51)A relationship is a web of precedents (18:20)You cannot change anyone (20:14)Not having gen...
2026-01-2135 min
The Baddest Bitch in the Building7 ways to make your feminine rage work for youđ Don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or purchase the PDF or EPUB file.Feminine/female rage is the righteous anger we feel at a world that subjugates and violates us daily. Female rage has become a ubiquitous topic, but itâs time we discuss how to channel it productively. Unresolved anger turns into resentment, hatred, and psychosomatic symptoms like digestive issues and migraines. And guess what â weâre not contestants in the Suffering Olympics like Victimella is. So letâs put our female rage to work....
2026-01-1430 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #30: Use peopleâs big egos to your advantageâ¤ď¸â𩹠Try Stress Less by Semaine Health, a clinically formulated gummy designed to support healthier stress response and cortisol balance. Use code NEEKI20 for 20% off.đ AND don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or purchase the PDF or EPUB file.What people show you isn't their true selves, it's their defence mechanisms. And if you look just beneath the surface, you'll see exactly what they're trying to hide. In fact, if you look deep enough, you might even see yourself.In this episode, I'll discuss:...
2026-01-0736 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingThe 5 love languages: Genuine advice or Christian control in disguise?đ Get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or purchase the PDF or EPUB file.Most people think the five love languages are a pop psychology phenomenon. However, they're not rooted in psychology at all. The origins of the five love languages are closer to the Bible than to science, and they were never made as a tool to help women in their relationships.That's because they were created by Baptist preacher Gary Chapman, a man who's trained in Biblical counselling. His background involves no scientific or psychological training. The cra...
2025-12-3154 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingI turn 28 tomorrow & I'm terrified of aging đ Get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or purchase the PDF or EPUB file.Tomorrow is my 28th birthday & I want to open up about a fear I've had for most of my 20s: aging.__________đď¸ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or creat...
2025-12-2424 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingPatriarchy demonized gossip because it hates when women speakđ Get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or purchase the PDF or EPUB file.Most of us think of gossip as something malicious. However, for centuries, gossip had no negative connotation. A woman's "gossip" were her close friends, and female friendships were a form of social power that gave women's lives fulfillment and security.It all became topsy turvy in the 16th century, when the church combined forces with labour guilds (you'll see what I mean). That's when gossip became demonized into something malicious, aggressive, and bitchy. Because patriarchy and...
2025-12-1741 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingReligion groomed girls so we'd never realize Woman is godđ Don't forget to get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or purchase the PDF or EPUB file.Have you ever wondered why every Abrahamic religion treats menstruating women as dirty and spiritually contaminated? Thatâs because religion took creation â something thatâs uniquely feminine â and attributed it to a male god. And because it couldnât erase the physical evidence of female creation, it warped it into something shameful and impure.In this episode, I roll up my sleeves and answer the questions many of us are afraid to ask. Iâll dis...
2025-12-1055 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingSUNDAY SCHOOL: The real reason you keep getting ghostedHave you ever wondered why someone ghosted you? I bet you felt pretty crappy afterward, and spent days thinking of something you said or did that pushed the person away. You probably replayed your interactions over and over again to spot where it all went wrong.I have some good news for you that will settle the question of "Why do I keep getting ghosted" once and for all. After this episode, you'll never ask that question again, I guarantee it.Thanks for tuning in to my new weekly mini-series, Sunday School, where...
2025-12-0710 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #29: Stop being afraid of being aloneđ Get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or purchase the PDF or EPUB file.Society tells us the major âaccomplishmentsâ in a womanâs life are getting married and having kids. Both of which are actions that bring people into her life. Unfortunately, most of whatâs celebrated in women is about distracting us from our power and finding ourselves in other people. On top of that, thereâs so much fear instilled in us: âWhoâs going to take care of you when youâre old?â âYour biological clock is ticking!â âWhoâs going to protect you...
2025-12-0347 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingSUNDAY SCHOOL: How to fix feminism's branding problemFun fact: Feminism is a response to patriarchy.Baddies welcome to my new weekly mini-series, Sunday School, where I share a small lesson from my new book, How to Hack the Patriarchy. This one's from the introduction.Class is in session, and today we're discussing feminism's branding problem. Over the last few years, feminism's reputation has become severely damaged. If you say you're a feminist, get ready to be labelled an angry, man-hating, snowflake. What was once a widely accepted (and vital) social movement has now been reduced to a joke among men...
2025-11-3014 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingEvery time you leave something to chance, someone smarter takes your spotâźď¸ MY BOOK, HOW TO HACK THE PATRIARCHY, IS LIVE!!!! Get your physical or Kindle copy on Amazon, or purchase the EPUB file here (for Kobo, NOOK, and other e-readers).*Deep breath*Every time you tell yourself you're "hoping for the best" or you're "gonna see what happens," you're doing what the patriarchy wants you to do. You're relinquishing control and leaving your fate to what's out there.And let me remind you what's out there: sexism, racism, colourism, homophobia, and many other -isms and -phobias. So by leaving things to chan...
2025-11-2629 min
Kinda RadicalEp. 54: How to Hack the Patriarchy with Neeki MotabarFor today's surprise episode drop please welcome her authorship Neeki Motabar!Â
After joining KR back in May, Neeki has been working on turning her podcast The Baddest Bitch in the Building into a physical work of art - How to Hack the Patriarchy: The patriarchy was built to outlive us. Here are 20 ways to find its blind spots, exploit its loopholes, and beat the system at its own game. Neeki shares her book writing process, her favorite and most used hack, and why men suffer from Venus envy. The book was released TODAY, so click the links b...
2025-11-2532 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingSPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT (giveaway, free stuff, and book update)Baddies, you're now able to pre-order the Kindle/eBook edition of "How to Hack the Patriarchy" đ Pre-order on Amazon here -- Jeff Bezos is ready to fulfill your orders! Paperback/hardcover will be available to order on November 25.PRE-ORDER PROMO: Anyone who pre-orders a copy will get a FREE month of Patreon, where you can watch bonus episodes and receive early, ad-free releases of upcoming episodes. DM me on Instagram and I'll add you to the Patreon.GIVEAWAY: I'm opening a giveaway from Mon Nov 24-Mon Dec 1 for the chance to win an Ama...
2025-11-2109 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingShe who does less always gets moreI'm sure you want people to do more for you, especially your partner. Maybe even your coworkers. Unfortunately, because most women are conditioned to perform constant emotional labour, there's a specific behaviour you need to stop if you want people to step up in your life.In this episode, we'll get into the mindsets that are making your life more difficult and causing you to self-sabotage. We'll also discuss the one behaviour shift that will make your life so much easier.BTW make sure to stay up-to-date on my giveaway announcement and book...
2025-11-2039 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingDelusional thinking is a power moveYour tendency to be realistic is robbing you of the future you deserve. From girlhood, most of us have been discouraged from being "too" ambitious because it violates the traditional trajectory of a woman's life: go to school, get a job, get married, become a mother, retire, die. Rinse & repeat in the next life.Babes, true delusion is accepting a life someone else decided was ârightâ for you.You know how many people told me I'm delusional, unrealistic, and crazy for wanting to quit my corporate job to start a podcast? Plenty. If I'd...
2025-11-1231 min
Girl Stop TalkingHACK The Patriarchy Ft. The Baddest B*tch in the Building with Neeki MotabarIâm joined by the one and only Neeki Motabar, host of The Baddest B*** in the Building Podcast*, and weâre diving deep into the world of dating power plays â from singles who are in their soft girl but strategic era, to the girlies navigating long-term relationships and learning how to keep the balance of love and leverage.Neeki shares how she reimagined The 48 Laws of Power into her own 28 Girly Laws of Power â rules every woman should know to date smarter, lead with confidence, and challenge the patriarchy without ever breaking a sweat.Weâre talking attraction, energy shi...
2025-11-101h 10
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #28: Act spoiled to get treated betterSpoiled girls get whatever they want, while low maintenance girls get what they're given. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being spoiled â a spoiled woman is simply someone with a high sense of worth, who knows what she wants, and never settles for less.Acting spoiled is a huge patriarchy hack we tend to overlook, because we're brainwashed to think it's bad to be spoiled. However, this buttcrack morality exists to cover one of the patriarchy's most useful loopholes for women.About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code an...
2025-11-0543 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingEvery time you choose YOURSELF, you kick patriarchy in the balls [pt. 5/5]Patriarchyâs biggest fear: womenâs choice.In episode 5 of my 5-part series on patriarchy and capitalismâs toxic partnership, we uncover why choice is the real revolutionâthe one thing power canât monetize.From work to marriage to money, control only works when women stop choosing. Because at the end of the day, itâs all a fight over the worldâs most valuable resource: women. These systems exist to distract us from that simple fact.This finale connects every thread we've pulled in the last four episodes to show how real...
2025-10-3122 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingThe âempowermentâ lie women are sold [pt. 4/5]Freedom looks different when you have to buy it.In episode 4 of my 5-part series on patriarchy and capitalismâs toxic partnership, we uncover how capitalism rebranded servitude as female empowerment.From the post-Reagan era to the rise of influencer feminism, the system sold women âfreedomâ that still serves profit.While men have to make money to prove their worth, women are taught to spend money to prove theirs. Neoliberalism turned independence into consumer identity. Beauty, success, self-care, empowermentâeverything became a product.This episode breaks down how capital...
2025-10-3126 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingHow men accidentally became obsolete [pt. 3/5]Patriarchy wasnât built to serve women â but it was never built to serve most men either.In this third episode of my 5-part series on patriarchy and capitalism's toxic relationship, we break down how patriarchy accidentally made men obsolete. When capitalism tied masculinity to money and productivity, men became workers before all else. Thatâs how they received their patriarchal dividends.When second wave feminism enabled women to gain financial independence, men lost their monopoly on survival.Stay until the end for the cliffhanger on how capitalism rebranded servitude as emp...
2025-10-2227 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingWhy the nuclear family keeps patriarchy alive [pt. 2/5]The nuclear family wasnât built for love â it was built for labour.In the second episode of my 5-part series on patriarchy and capitalismâs toxic partnership, we break down how the nuclear family became an economic machine that keeps both systems alive. From the rise of private property to the post-war suburban ideal, this episode exposes how family structure was engineered to reproduce patriarchy generation after generation.If youâve ever questioned why âtraditional family valuesâ always seem to benefit men and corporations, this episode explains the architecture behind it.Stay until the...
2025-10-1525 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingHow patriarchy started [pt. 1/5]Patriarchy wasnât born â it was built.In the first episode of my 5-part series on patriarchy and capitalismâs toxic partnership, we break down how power, property, and control over womenâs labor built the worldâs oldest system of domination â one that still shapes our lives today.This is the blueprint of male power, the origin story patriarchy doesnât want you to know.If youâve ever wondered where patriarchy came from or how it keeps itself alive, this episode is for you. Stay until the end for a cliffhanger on...
2025-10-1017 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #27: Start being meanNiceness is a scam. Being "nice" describes someone who is polite and pleasant to be around, focusing on surface-level interactions and social harmony. It's a performance. It's how the patriarchy grooms us for exploitation and disrespect, because the nice girl is taught to that being liked is more important than being respected.Being mean is the opposite of that -- it's prioritizing being respected more than being liked. (& I don't mean acting like Regina George.)In this episode, we discuss:What it means to be meanWhy being mean is a form of...
2025-10-0134 min
The Release PodcastUsing The Patriarchy Against Itself, With Neeki MotabarNeeki Motabar is an outspoken feminist influencer and the host of The Baddest B--- in the building, who in her own words is teaching women how to hack the patriarchy.
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Whether she's deconstructing double standards, sharing a feminine twist on The 48 Laws Of Power, or setting records as a weightlifter...we love that message for her. And we love that she does it all in pink. Because sheâs the kind of girl she wants to be, and she just wants every other girlie in the world to also make the space to define that for...
2025-09-3032 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingCalling yourself a "high value woman" isn't empoweringYou're not a Pokemon or some kind of collectible, but the wrong type of people will see you as a commodity, something to collect. In this episode, we discuss why the term "high value woman" is not only icky, but counterproductive. Like most things in this world, we can't do what men do and expect the same result. This also goes for labels men use to try and prove their worth.About the podcast: Patriarchal power runs like software. Once you understand its code and where its bugs are, you can easily hack it. Inspired by...
2025-09-2429 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #26: Stop being so availableWe've been bamboozled into thinking that the more we're present and the more we prove ourselves, the more people will respect us. This is a load of crap. The truth is that the more people see you, the less they notice you. They'll take you for granted and respect you less. In this episode, we'll discuss:The most valuable form of giving (that you're probably doing too much of)Why we've been conditioned to think that more presence = more respect How strategic absence relates to supply & demand, and how you can use this to your...
2025-09-1729 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingI haven't been feeling like myself latelyNot gonna lie, editing this icked me out. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-09-1421 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingThe truth about online "divine femininity"Being a woman is a gift, it's the highest form of being. Everything exists because of a woman, and we should celebrate and love ourselves unconditionally.Lately, thereâs been a wave of online âdivine femininityâ content that looks empowering at first⌠but itâs really patriarchy dressed up as spirituality. It tells women that to be âin our feminineâ we need to sit back, receive, and let men lead, provide, and decide.In this episode, I discuss:Why âdivine femininityâ online is just old gender stereotypes repackagedHow it twists real spiritual and philosophical...
2025-09-1039 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #25: Treat excuses as data, not truth"People never do something just once" - Robert GreeneThere's no such thing as an isolated incident, because people's actions are always part of a pattern of behaviour. However, the patriarchy made us believe the complete opposite, because accepting excuses keeps power where it is. The patriarchy is based on repetition: people repeat the same behaviours, institutions repeat the same patterns, cultures repeat the same stories.The thing is, excuses are data, they reveal so much info!!! They're breadcrumbs people leave behind because they're not careful in covering their tracks......
2025-09-0345 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingWhy people pleasing traps you in mental povertyPeople pleasing is rooted in superstitions like "If I give everything, then I'll finally be enough" and "If someone likes me, then I'll finally like myself." This way of thinking puts us in mental poverty, which keeps us trapped in survival mode. It's perfect for people who want to exploit our lack of boundaries, and it's harmful for us in every way.â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â đ¸ IGâ â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â : @baddestbinthebldgâ â â â â â â â â â â â đ â â â â â â â â TikTokâ :â â â â â â â â â â â â â @baddest.b.in.the.bldgâ â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â đ Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.comđ Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreonđ Subscribe to â â â â â â â â The Baddie Briefâ â â â â â â â , a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridaysđ Want a discount on clean makeup from an Indigenous-owned brand? Shop Cheekbone Beauty and use code NEEKI20 for 20% off Hos
2025-08-2724 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingSURPRISE! Something to help your Sunday scaries đŤśSurprise surprise! Here's a little bonus episode, a Q&A between Barbie & Ken. Play it in the background while you meal prep or have an existential crisis over the 40-hour work week. We discuss my ex coworkers discovering my podcast, getting dea*h wishes from haters, adjusting to life after quitting my job, drama & losing friends over my podcast, and some other silly things. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-08-2458 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #24: Let go of the need to be likedWe're taught from a very young age that our social acceptance depends on being liked. However, the patriarchy assumes women will always want to be liked, so it relies on that desire to keep us compliant & constantly seeking social approval.The thing is, most people don't even like themselves. So who cares if they don't like you. Besides, you're in a much better position to get what you want from the world when you don't give two hoots what others think.In this episode, we get into:The hidden...
2025-08-2030 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingBeware of "woke" men, they're dangerousWe tend to think that the alpha, macho men are dangerous because of their superiority complex (which is rooted in an inferiority complex). BUT what if I told you there's a category of men who are even more dangerous? They have a hidden agenda, a goal in mind, and they're clever enough to know how to push a woman's buttons. In this episode (whose topic you baddies voted on!), I get into why we need to be cautious of "woke" men (let's call them the deltas), especially romantically and professionally. PS THE PATREON IS NOW LIVE...
2025-08-1331 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #23: Stop competing with other womenScarcity leads to competition which leads to dehumanization.One of the gears that keeps the patriarchy turning is zero-sum thinking -- the belief that there's only a fixed amount of success, power, attention, or value to go around. So if someone else gets more, you must get less. This brainwashes us into believing in a scarcity mindset, which keeps us in the eternal rat race. Instead of seeing other women as allies, we perceive them as threats. Jealousy and envy oil the wheels of the patriarchy, and zero-sum thinking keeps those wheels turning on autopilot.
2025-08-0630 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingIs falling in love a patriarchal trap?As little girls, many of us fantasize about falling in love and getting married. But boys don't do the same. Men don't romanticize falling in love, getting married, and being husbands in the way women do. It's not their life's goal to fall in love. They don't see marriage as an accomplishment. In this episode, we'll get into the truth behind "love."I'll discuss what's really happening to our brains and hormones when we're "falling in love" (hint: it's a chemical reaction to push us to reproduce). Then we'll get into the social elements of falling...
2025-07-3042 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #22: Use elicitation to bypass gatekeepers & egosThis one's crazy because we'll be discussing how to use an FBI-backed technique to get past the gatekeepers and the egos controlling the patriarchy. Because when we really boil it down, the patriarchy is just a bunch of insecure dudes who've institutionalized gatekeeping.We'll discuss:Why we can't simply ask for things outrightThe mindset that keeps us stuck in limbo, asking for permission & waiting for opportunitiesThe art of elicitation and how to apply 5 of its techniques (there are 13 in total but 5 that are perfectly suited for our purposes)How to elicit the answers we need...
2025-07-2330 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #21: Stop giving the benefit of the doubtIf you're a sharp, clever woman but you find yourself being taken advantage of, this law is for you. While grace and forgiveness can be good things, giving most people the benefit of the doubt is a naive thing to do, especially as a woman. Because who benefits? Not you.On top of that, we're often told that our intuition isn't reliable and we should focus on the cold, hard facts...which is idiotic because a gut feeling is the OUTCOME of empirical INPUTS that our brain has gathered unconsciously. So yeah, it's hard to explain...
2025-07-0944 min
The Baddest Bitch in the Building8 types of anti-seducers: are you one of them?Welcome to part 2 of my two-part series on đšseductionđšIf you've ever felt frustrated that people don't seem to listen to you and take you seriously, or if you struggle with hyper-independence, self-sabotage, and masculine tendencies -- this is for you babe. This episode is all about đĽanti-seductionđĽ and how it might be interfering with your ability to navigate and hack the patriarchy.We discuss:The 8 types of anti-seducers discuss in The Art of SeductionWhat these 8 types look like for womenThe wounded feminine side of each anti-seductress typeSome questions and reflections that serve as a s...
2025-07-0236 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #20: Master the art of non-sexual seductionWE HIT LAW 2ď¸âŁ0ď¸âŁ!!! To celebrate making it to this milestone, Iâve prepared a 2-part series for you on đšseductionđš If you're listening to this today, you're one of the OG baddies and I'm sosososo grateful for you â¤ď¸Â In this episode, Iâm going to discuss how you can use the art of non-sexual seduction to grease people up (especially men), put them under your enchantment, and get what you want from them. Next week's episode will be about đĽanti-seductionđĽBecause this is a special episode, weâre going to uno reverse the patriarchy onto the boys and dive into a patria...
2025-06-2542 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingHow morality has held women back for millenniaI'm back with Talia and we're discussing one of our fave topics: mOraLitY. In this chaotic convo we dive into:What morality even isHow she's related to her evil, ugly step sisters (guilt, shame, and fear)Why morality a tool used to control women and convince us that we need to be good girlsWhat to replace morality withSabrina Carpenter and Sexyy Red (the duo no one asked for) as examples of why it makes no sense to label things as "morally wrong/right"𩷠Visit Talia's office hours on â â Instagramâ â , â â TikTokâ â , and â â YouTubeâ â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â đ¸ IG...
2025-06-1852 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #19: Treat your demons as your employeesWe've been socialized to hide half of who we are. To repress traits that would help our success, like assertiveness, ambition, and self-prioritization. To be nice, agreeable, non-confrontational girls. To be the version of the woman who keeps the patriarchy alive. I say ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!In this episode, we discuss:Why suppressing our demons actually makes us easy to manipulateHow most women are living as a version of themselves that they didn't createWhy the patriarchy is the real world embodiment of many men's demonsI know this episode is longer...
2025-06-1142 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingThe ultimate patriarchy hack: being childfree (ft. "The Girl With The List" aka @z00mie)Iâm sure many of yâall know Abigail Porter aka @z00mie aka âThe Girl With The List.â Abigail has built a following of over 1 million people with her content on destigmatizing the childfree lifestyle and educating women on what having kids is really like. đ Follow Abigail on TikTok and Instagram, and check out her upcoming merch line herePS remember to take your birth control!!â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â đ¸ IGâ â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â : @baddestbinthebldgâ â â â â â â â â â â â đ â â â â â â â â TikTokâ :â â â â â â â â â â â â â @baddest.b.in.the.bldgâ â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â â đ Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.comđ Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreonđ Subscribe to â â â â â â â â The Baddie Briefâ â â â â â â â , a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on
2025-06-0458 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #18: Refuse labels and become a shapeshifterThe woman no one can label is the woman no one can control, because you can't control what you can't define.In this episode, we discuss:How to avoid being like everyone else who dislikes themselves & try to conformAn example of a pop star who continues to use this law with crazy success (hint: she's in the 17th year of her career)Why "I just want to be myself" and "I don't want to play games" are excuses for lazy, short sighted peopleThe psychological phenomenon behind being contradictory & how it can help you
2025-05-2837 min
The Baddest Bitch in the Buildingđ Discussing patriarchal roots of wedding traditions & debunking wedding myths (with Victoria Alario, host of For the Girls podcast)I sit down with confidence coach Victoria Alario to discuss how she planned her wedding in under a year with no stress and burnout, and without losing herself in the process. If youâre planning a wedding or think that it will be "the best day of your life," this one's for you.We discuss:How to put your foot down and say "no"Whether wedding invites and plus ones should be reciprocatedHow to plan a wedding in under a yearDebunking wedding myths (did you know the history behind the groom not seeing the bride be...
2025-05-2153 minThe Baddest Bitch in the Buildinghi I think you're pretty đ [podcast trailer]Welcome to all the pretty bitches. Wack bitches stay on lookout. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
2025-05-1502 min
The Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #17: Act like a winner before you even wonđ SUBSCRIBE TO â â â â â THE BADDIE BRIEF,â â â â â a 1-minute read that will change the way you see the world, delivered twice monthly on FridaysThe difference between victims and winners is that winners act on circumstances, while victims wait for circumstances to be fair. Which they never will be. As women, we need to master the art of acting like a winner, even when we feel like a big fat loser.In this episode, we discuss:Why power is not given to the most deserving personThe psychological phenomenon that makes it essential for you to act like a winner at all (m...
2025-05-1433 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingWhy dating apps have ruined dating for women & where to look instead (with Princezz Talia)Dating apps are one of the worst things to happen to humanity in the 21st century. In this episode,Talia & I discuss:The connection between capitalism and datings apps (Big Dating!!)Why "non-traditional" apps are even worse than the regular ones, like Bumble (where women have to message first) or Raya (where you need to apply for the app)How these apps take women out of their feminine energy/take men out of their masculine energyHow women end up commodifying themselves and seeking validation, even when that's not the goalAlternatives to dating apps (hint: it...
2025-05-0748 minKinda RadicalEp. 37: Pitbull and myths and girly lawsOn this episode of Kinda Radical I am joined by quite possibly THE Baddest Bitch in the Building, Neeki Motabar.
We talk all things Pitbull, podcasting, hate comments, and power lifting, and we even bust some common feminist myths such as 'Do feminists shave their body hair?' Leave a 5 star review and comment on this video if you enjoy our conversation!Â
Neeki hosts her own podcast The Baddest Bitch in the Building where she introduces her own feminist twist on The 48 Laws of Power. Find her podcast below and be sure to sign up he...
2025-05-0151 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #16: Master the art of silenceA big flaw of the patriarchy is that it assumes power is loud. The good news for the girlies is that because thereâs so much emphasis on being loud and obnoxious, the power behind silence is completely neglected. That's where law 16 comes into play.But also...WHY IS IT that when a man is quiet, he's "thoughtful." But when a woman is quiet she's "lost, confused, disengaged, a stupid idiot, blahblahblah..." Not only are we labelled a hundred things when we're quiet, but we're also expected to be people pleasers and fill the silence to ma...
2025-04-3031 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingThe Pinkprint of Power: CEO Daniel Pillai discusses that when women lead, the fabulous riseI'm joined by Daniel Pillai, the Head Bitch in Charge (or the President & CEO, if we want to use technical terms) of Langton PR - a public relations & creative agency in Toronto, Canada.Daniel came from a cultural background where he was expected to become a doctor/lawyer/engineer, marry a woman, and live a nice, traditional life. So when he came out as gay, started a career in TV, and eventually became the CEO of a PR firm, I guess we can say he broke a cultural norm or two. Daniel shares his journey of self-discovery...
2025-04-2348 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #15: Let people underestimate youSome guy from the 1600s is quoted saying "the truth is generally seen, rarely heard." That's the basis of this law, which is one of the sneakier girly laws of power. In this episode we're going to discuss:How being underestimated puts you in a position of power, which I guess is good because as women we're often underestimatedThe behaviours we need to unlearn so we can be more effective at controlling the narrativeWhy you can only prove people wrong through your actions, never your wordsThe art of proving people wrong indirectlyâ¨Hope you lo...
2025-04-1625 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingBeauty with a backbone: How Jenn Harper turned a 3âŻA.M. dream into a clean beauty empireI sat down to talk with Jenn Harper, the founder & CEO of Cheekbone Beauty Cosmetics - the biggest Indigenous-founded beauty brand in Canada. Jenn opens up about mental health, intergenerational trauma, and the way she turned her life around by refusing to let her challenges define who she is. This conversation was so special, and Jenn shared some very personal and vulnerable moments. Regardless of where you are in life, Iâm sure youâll resonate with her story and learn a thing or two about yourself 𩷠I definitely did. đFollow Cheekbone on Instagram and TikTokđ¸Follow...
2025-04-0900 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #14: Always be the centre of attentionWe live in a world where women are judged by their appearances. Instead of complaining about it, letâs flip the script and work backwards. Letâs decide how we want to be perceived, then dress for the part. That way, weâre in control of the narrative. Let the world judge us by our appearance allllllll it wants.In this episode weâll discuss:Why looks hold power & how being the centre of attention puts you in a position of powerWhy visibility = value and enables you to command respect, making it easier to bring peoplesâ...
2025-04-0228 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingI answer your messy (and I mean MESSY) dating questionsYou asked and I answered! This episode is another unscripted one, but with a twist. Iâm answering your messy dating-related questions. Be sure to follow me on IG so you can participate in my next call for questions/stories đ2:00 - When is it ok to go 50/50 on a date?2:15 - What would you do if you were with a rich provider man and you find out he cheated?5:23 - The guy Iâve been casually seeing since January asked for me to share my location. I did but he never shared it back...
2025-03-2628 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #13: Think of everything as a business to ensure the best outcome for yourselfIf your relationships were a business would you be bankrupt because you're giving too much? Probably....As women, we need to get better at standing on business. That's why we need to start thinking of things as a business. And take a shot every time I say "business."In this episode, we'll discuss:Why we're conditioned to give aimlesslyThe dumbest currency society as told us we have to pay withThe actual currency we should be paying with2 easy ways to become ensure all of our "businesses" are profitable (aka we're not depleting...
2025-03-1925 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingHow to be a bitch đ (with Cami Sophia)Today we're joined by the lovely Cami Sophia as we discuss one of the best books of all time, Why Men Love Bitches. The fact that this author hasn't won a Nobel Prize is beyond me.The pretty girls are already familiar with what we mean by "bitch," but in case you need a refresher - a bitch is a woman who holds her own, doesn't need anyone's acceptance, and doesn't compromise on her standards. Aka she's someone who loves herself unconditionally.In this episode, we get into:How women are conditioned to...
2025-03-1245 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #12: Receive more than you give to be treated like a princessIn order to take advantage of the patriarchy and be the universe's passenger princess, you need to be comfortable in the receiver role. That means you're able to receive favours, gifts, compliments, help, etc.I understand that lots of women struggle with being comfortable as a receiver (I struggled with this for a long time). That's why law #12 is all about how to RECEIVE đIn this episode, we'll discuss:Why you're sososo worthy of receivingWhy it's important to stop hating men if we want to truly take advantage of the patriarchyHow to change our...
2025-03-0529 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingThe science behind delulu is the solulu, manifestations & emotional fitness (with Dr Laura Beavin-Yates)HELLO ITâS OUR FIRST GUEST EPISODEđYou know how I always tell you that mentally Iâm in Barbieland and Iâm kind of delusional? Well it turns out that having a positive worldview can actually rewire our brains. You donât have to take my word for it, thatâs why I invited a scientist onto the show.Today, the baddest bitch in the building is Dr. Laura Beavin-Yates, PhD. Sheâs the Chief Marketing Officer of SIX, an app which helps you measure and find the hidden moments in your daily life that...
2025-02-2649 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #11: Use the power of suggestion to always get your wayPeople don't like being told what to do. But you need people to do things. So WHAT is a girl to do?!? A girl needs to stop telling people to outright do things, and she needs to learn how to use the power of suggestion.Using the power of suggestion is like planting a seed, and letting the other person fill in the gaps. You want your man to buy you flowers? Start admiring flowers when you go out and stopping by flower shops to smell a bouquet.I mean, you could ask...
2025-02-1933 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingUnscripted: Is marriage a scam?Hello to all the pretty girls tuning inâŚso hello everyone. Yâall asked for more unscripted episodes, so thatâs what Iâm bringing to the table today. Hereâs some context for the new baddies: In between the girly laws of power, I'll be dropping these off the cuff, unscripted episodes. 24 hours before filming, I put a poll on my Instagram story for the baddies to pick a topic. The one with the most votes becomes the topic of the episode.There was actually a tie in the last poll, âis marriage a sc...
2025-02-1223 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #10: Be selective with who you give your truthAs a woman, your truth is one of the most sacred and valuable things you have. What I mean by your truth is all your life experiences, thoughts, goals, insecurities, traumasâŚ.everything that makes you, YOU.Your truth is a garden that most people donât deserve to access. The problem is that the patriarchy understands how valuable a womanâs truth is, and people are lying to you from every direction to try and access your truth. Telling the truth isnât the default for most people.In this episode, weâll discuss:
2025-02-0526 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingUnscripted: Is building a career a capitalist scam?The baddies asked and I have delivered. I'M DROPPING WEEKLY EPISODES!!! In between the girly laws of power, I'll be dropping these off the cuff, unscripted episodes. 24 hours before filming, I put a poll on my instagram story for the baddies to pick a topic. The one with the most votes becomes the topic of the episode.The baddies chose "is building a career a capitalist scam," so that's what we're yapping about today. I share my own experiences of getting my soul sucked by working in a corporate job. After working with CEOs, execs, and...
2025-01-2925 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #9: Act like a queen to be treated like oneWe keep getting told to âknow our worthâ but likeâŚhow much is our worth? In the same way that Hermes will charge $50,000 for a bag, we can set our own price and make it as high as we want. The only catch is that we have to actually believe weâre worth that much.In this episode, weâll discuss:- How to set your price, believe your worth, and stand on business- Why the way you carry yourself reflects what you think of yourself- How to set you...
2025-01-2333 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #8: Know when to act dumb to get what you wantThereâs a Japanese proverb that says, âThe nail that sticks up will be hammered down.â A lot of the time, showing people how smart you are works in the opposite way you intended. People will feel envious, threatened, and jealous. SoâŚsometimes, the smartest thing you can do is to play dumb. In this episode, weâll discuss:Two elements of human nature that we NEED to understand in order to effectively play dumbWhy making people feel good about themselves (and especially making them feel intellectually superior) will make you magnetic Why most people are impriso...
2025-01-0933 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #7: Remove guilt from your emotionsIf you want something, it's because you KNOW you deserve it. And if that makes you feel uneasy, then it's time to talk about guilt - the most useless emotion to ever exist. In this episode we dive into:How guilt is a miscommunication between the past and the presentThe ways in which feeling guilty for things you did/want is holding you back from unlocking your powerWhy feeling guilt for things that happened in the past means youâre mentally stuck in a location you physically leftHow to rewire ourselves to stop feeling guilty abo...
2024-12-1126 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #6: To succeed at anything, you must be emotionally detachedHello to all the pretty girls (so hello everyone, because I know only pretty bitches listen to this podcast). In this episode, we're getting into law #6: to succeed at anything (and I mean ANYTHING), you must be emotionally detached.We'll be discussing:What men are doing RIGHT and how we can learn from their behaviour (I literally never thought I would say that)Why emotional attachment leads to expectations, which leads to hurt and disappointmentWhy women are almost always the ones who get hurt in dating/relationshipsHow, if your emotions were money, you would probably...
2024-11-2824 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #5: Appeal to peoples' self interest when asking for anythingHello to all the returning baddies and welcome to the new baddies tuning into the podcast! In this episode, we're getting into Law #5: Appeal to peoples' self interest when asking for anything. This is sososo important for getting what you want!!We'll be discussing:Why appealing to peoples' sense of goodwill, loyalty, charity, reciprocity, or other BS is just going to make them resent youThe art of asking someone to do something for you while still making them feel like they're in control (hint: the best requests aren't questions, they're suggestions)The...
2024-11-1524 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #4: Never take anything personallyLet the baddies know I'm back and ready with another Law of Power for the girly pops. In this episode, we're getting into Law #4: Never take anything personally. We all know this in theory, but there's a lot more to it.We'll be discussing:- Why the way people treat you has nothing to actually do with you (hint: it's a reflection of how they feel about themselves)- An example of a situation we prob all took personally (getting ghosted)- How to separate your sense of self from...
2024-10-1719 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #3: SO MUCH depends on your looks, use that to your advantageđ Get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or purchase the PDF or EPUB file.Another Law of Power for the girls! In this episode, we're getting into Law #3: So much depends on your looks, use that to your advantage. This one is going to be controversial, but it had to be said.Here's what we'll be discussing:- EVERYONE judges people first on their appearance- The cheat code to hacking the patriarchy (hint: get ahead of most men by fitting the right feminine "stereotype")...
2024-08-1628 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #2: Stop being guided by right & wrongđ Get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or purchase the PDF or EPUB file.We're back with the Laws of Power for the girls! In this episode, we're getting into Law #2: stop being guided by right & wrong. We'll be discussing:- Why we shouldn't play fair in an unfair world- How "morality" is a made up concept- Why the only moral compass you should be using is your self interest- How no one got to the pinnacle of success by worrying abo...
2024-07-1722 minThe Baddest Bitch in the BuildingGirly law of power #1: Don't be humbleđ Get your copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy on Amazon or purchase the PDF or EPUB file.Hello to all the baddies. You may have read or heard of "The 48 Laws of Power." That book is amazing and I highly recommend it, but if you've read it, you probably noticed that it's very...masculine.Well guess what?!?I'm launching a new series: The Hidden Laws of Power (for women). This is a feminine twist on the Laws of Power, with emphasis on how we...
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