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Lead TogetherThe delegation mistake that's leaving you overwhelmed and your team stuckYou're drowning in your own success. Your team comes to you for every decision. You stay late finishing work "only you can do." Sound familiar?In this episode, Nick and Kim Bogardus break down why the best leaders aren't afraid to delegate their most important work—and why your resistance to delegation might be sabotaging your team and your family.You'll discover:The biblical foundation for delegation (Moses, the disciples, and Jesus all did this)Why perfectionism, speed, and control are killing your leadership effectivenessThe DELEGATE framework: 8 practical steps for empowering others wi...2025-07-1439 min
Lead TogetherVision: Why successful leaders still feel stuck (and the missing piece)Most Christian professionals have put significant effort into plans but lack compelling vision—and it's costing them clarity, unity, and resilience when circumstances change (and they inevitably do).Key takeaway: The quality of your life and leadership depends on the quality of your relationships—and the quality of your relationships depends on having shared vision for where you're going together.You'll discover:Why confusing goals with vision is a trap that keeps leaders stuckThe 3 characteristics every effective vision must haveWhy most leaders skip vision development (and pay the price)How to i...2025-06-2335 min
Lead TogetherFeedback: The conversation you're avoiding (and why it's costing you)Feedback doesn't have to be painful—when done right, it's one of the most powerful tools for building trust and driving growth. In this episode, Nick and Kim reveal the QBIQ method, a simple framework that makes feedback conversations productive whether you're leading a team or raising confident kids.You'll discover:Why most feedback fails (and the four fatal mistakes to avoid)The QBIQ method for giving feedback that actually worksHow to receive feedback without getting defensiveReal examples from workplace meetings to bedtime routinesStrategies for building a feedback culture at work and homePlus, Kim sh...2025-06-1652 min
Lead TogetherBeyond Micromanagement: Coaching Skills That Empower, Not DiminishDo you find yourself quickly offering solutions when team members or family members come to you with problems? While this approach may feel helpful, it often robs others of the opportunity to develop their own problem-solving abilities.In the latest episode of Lead Together, Nick and Kim Bogardus explore how coaching skills—typically associated with professional development—can transform your effectiveness in all relationships, from the boardroom to the living room.How you can support us:• Leave us a 5-star review on iTunes or Spotify• Share this episode with a friend• Send a question...2025-05-0555 min
Lead TogetherThe Anatomy of Transformation: How Jesus Changes Us Inside and OutIn this special episode, Nick and Kim Bogardus break from their usual leadership series to share insights from recent talks they delivered. Nick explores Luke 22, examining how individual responsibility, systemic issues, and spiritual warfare all contribute to organizational failure. Kim unpacks the powerful story of the demon-possessed man in Mark 5, revealing how encounters with Jesus transform us mentally, physically, and within community. Together, they demonstrate that true transformation happens from the inside out, requiring both personal responsibility and systemic change. Whether you're facing challenges at work, struggling with negative thought patterns, or feeling iso...2025-04-1526 min
Lead TogetherThe Art of Extraction: How Deep Reflection Drives GrowthIn this episode, Nick and Kim Bogardus dive into the leadership skill of "extraction" - the art of drawing out deeper insights through reflection and thoughtful questioning. Whether you're leading a team at work or guiding your family at home, the ability to move beyond surface-level conversations is crucial for growth and alignment. Learn practical ways to create rhythms of reflection, ask better questions, and build feedback loops that transform both your professional and personal life. Discover why the pause between experiences might be your most powerful leadership tool.How you can support us:• Leave us a...2025-03-3126 min
Lead TogetherSituational Awareness | Place, Phones & Partnerships: Leadership in Modern LifeIn this "Situational Awareness" episode of Lead Together, hosts Nick and Kim Bogardus tackle three timely topics that impact how we live and lead:The problem with lumping marriage and cohabitation together in research - and why the distinction matters for societal wellbeingWhy "place" matters - exploring how physical locations, communities, and shared experiences shape us through the lens of recent California firesEight essential readiness checks before giving kids phones - practical guidance for parents navigating technology boundariesThrough personal stories and current research, Nick and Kim offer insights to help listeners build stronger families and communities...2025-02-1735 min
Lead TogetherTwo Communication Skills Every Leader Needs at Work & HomeStruggling with miscommunications at work or home? Feeling like your team or family members don't feel heard? In this episode of Lead Together, hosts Nick and Kim Bogardus tackle two game-changing communication skills that can transform your relationships and leadership effectiveness:"Deblurring" - Learn how to eliminate costly misunderstandings by turning vague statements into clear expectationsValidation - Master the art of making others feel truly heard while maintaining progress toward goalsThrough real-world examples from both workplace and family settings, Nick and Kim demonstrate how these practical skills can reduce stress, prevent conflicts, and build deeper trust...2025-02-1139 min
Lead TogetherWhy Great Leadership Is Made of Small BehaviorsIn this kickoff to Season 3 of Lead Together, Nick and Kim explore why the most impactful leadership skills aren't grand strategies or secret formulas, but rather small, fundamental behaviors that can be learned and applied both at work and at home. Drawing from the Leader Lab book and their 17 years of marriage and leadership experience, they unpack two essential skills: curious questioning and playback. These foundational practices help leaders build trust, gain clarity faster, and develop stronger relationships in all spheres of life. Whether you're leading a team at work or guiding your family at ho...2025-01-1338 min
Lead TogetherEnd of Season 2, an election year, & help as you reflect and plan.As the year winds down, how can Christian couples leading at home and work take stock of their year and set a purposeful course for the next? In this episode, we:Discuss real-life challenges and growth moments from our own experiences this year.Share our top end-of-year reflection questions to strengthen your marriage, faith, and leadership.Give you a sneak peek of whats coming in Season 3Offer practical insights on setting goals for the future.How you can support us:• Leave us a 5-star review on iTunes or Spotify• Share this episode with...2024-11-2529 min
Lead TogetherStuck: What do you do when your usual solutions aren’t working?Are you applying the right solutions to your leadership challenges? In this episode, Nick and Kim Bogardus break down the crucial difference between technical and adaptive change. Learn how to identify which approach you need in various situations, from streamlining work processes to navigating family dynamics. Discover practical tips for implementing effective change and fostering growth in all areas of your life. Whether you're a busy professional, a parent, or both, this episode will equip you with valuable insights to lead more effectively at work and home.How you can support us:• Leave us a 5-star re...2024-09-0338 min
Lead Together[Interview] Adapting to New Places: Finding Joy and Meaning in TransitionsIn this special episode of the Lead Together Podcast, Nick and Kim Bogardus are interviewed by Joe Crabb, outreach pastor at Woodside, for a thought-provoking discussion on the importance of place and transitions in life. Drawing from their personal experiences of moving from Mongolia to Seattle to California to Michigan, they explore how geography, culture, and community shape us and our families. The conversation delves into the theology of place, the challenges of navigating change, and practical ways to engage meaningfully with our surroundings. Whether you're facing a big move or simply seeking to be more present where you...2024-08-0551 min
Lead Together7 Things People Wish Church Leaders KnewIn this episode of Lead Together, Nick and Kim discuss seven crucial aspects of effective church leadership often overlooked. From the importance of leadership development and accountability to avoiding burnout and valuing women in ministry, they offer practical wisdom for pastors and church leaders. Whether you're in ministry or simply interested in church dynamics, this episode provides valuable insights on creating healthier, more impactful churches. How you can support us:• Leave us a 5-star review on iTunes or Spotify• Share this episode with a friend• Send a question for a future Office Hours episode2024-07-2944 min
Lead TogetherGoing Beyond Goals: How to build habits & systems at work and home.Discover why setting goals isn't enough and learn how to create lasting change through powerful systems and habits. Nick and Kim Bogardus draw on James Clear's work in Atomic Habits to talk about the secrets of habit stacking, breaking bad behaviors, and leveraging accountability for growth. This episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to grow in their leadership and life.How you can support us:• Leave us a 5-star review on iTunes or Spotify• Share this episode with a friend• Send a question for a future Office Hours episodeYou can work w...2024-07-0837 min
Coming & Going - A Biblical Guide for your Parenting JourneyHow Can Our Kids Engage Their Community with Nick and Kim BogardusSURPRISE! We've got a special episode of Coming & Going just for you. We're taking a short break from our Parenting through the Phases series to talk about engaging our kids, at every age, in the community that God has placed them in. On this episode, Joe sits down with Nick and Kim Bogardus to talk about what this looks like and how we, as parents, can better set up our kids for success in any community and setting they find themselves in. Nick and Kim are married with three children and are passionate about raising c...2024-06-1050 min
Lead Together8 Steps for Having Crucial ConversationsWhy have crucial (hard) conversations?• Because your own growth likely involved them.• Because your own failures likely involved not having them.The bottom line is that having crucial conversations builds trust and drives growth. This episode provides a practical framework for approaching impactful conversations with empathy and solutions. Learn steps like stating issues clearly, active listening, proposing ways forward, and following up - skills for transforming challenging talks into catalysts for positive change.How you can support us:• Leave us a 5-star review on iTunes or Spotify• Share this episode wit...2024-06-0326 min
Lead TogetherSituational Awareness: (HBR) 5 Shifts to Consider with Teams, Marriage, and ParentingIn this podcast episode, we delve into the Harvard Business Review article titled "The Role of a Manager Has to Change in 5 Key Ways" . These five key shifts include going from Directive to Instructive, Restrictive to Expansive, Exclusive to Inclusive, Repetitive to Innovative, Problem Solver to Challenger, Employer to Entrepreneur. We apply these lessons to leading teams, strengthen marriages, and parenting. Check out the article here for more insights, and tune in to learn how these shifts can empower your relationships and leadership skills across all areas of life.How you can support us:• Leave us a 5...2024-05-0641 min
Lead TogetherDavid Bahnsen on the 'why' of work, building a business, and leading at home.In this "Leader's Corner" episode, we talk to David Bahnsen about his new book Full Time: work and the meaning of life. David oversees the management of over $5.3 billion in client assets, and prior to launching the Bahnsen Group, he spent eight years as a managing director at Morgan Stanley and six years as a vice president at UBS.He is consistently named one of the top financial advisors in America by Barron's, Forbes, and the Financial Times. He is a frequent guest on CNBC. Bloomberg, Fox News, and Fox Business, and as a regular c...2024-04-1546 min
Lead TogetherLessons from Q1 2024: You're not above your own principlesOn this episode of Lead Together we reflect on work and lessons from the first quarter of the year.Some of the key takeaways from the conversation:Leading by Example: Embrace a leadership style that mirrors Christian values, inspiring excellence and integrity in the workplace.Mentorship and Learning: The importance of seeking guidance and continuous improvement to navigate workplace dynamics effectively.Community Support: Leveraging the strength of community for support and encouragement in both career and family life.Reflect on Personal and Professional Goals: Encouragement to consider how...2024-04-0629 min
Lead TogetherJoshua Ryan Butler on Christian leaders going beyond Right & Left in a divided, political world.In an age where the intersection of faith and politics seems more like a battleground than a meeting ground, Joshua Ryan Butler offers a beacon of hope and clarity. As a pastor, author, and speaker based in Portland, Oregon, Butler is no stranger to the complexities of living out one's faith in a politically charged environment for leaders.His latest book, "The Party Crasher," explores the divisive nature of politics and presents a novel framework for understanding and engaging in the political landscape without compromising our Christian convictions or unity.How you can s...2024-03-1849 min
Lead TogetherWhy and how to set goals at work and homeIn this episode we talk about setting clear goals as a vital part of leadership both at home and work. Here is the roadmap:The problems of not setting goalsHow to write SMARTER goalsWhat are OKRsThank you for listening!How you can support us:• Leave us a 5-star review on iTunes or Spotify• Share this episode with a friend• Send a question for a future Office Hours episodeYou can work with us at Relational Leadership.2024-02-1948 min
Lead TogetherOffice Hours Q&A: Leading with vision or values, a boss stuck in his ways, supporting your spouse in different seasonsWelcome to Lead Together podcast’s “Office Hours”. This is the part of the show where we answer your questions about Nurturing a Strong Marriage, Faith and Leadership, Parenting in the Modern World, leading with strategic vision, and anything else on your mind. You can submit a question for a future episode at relationalleadership.co/leadtogetherQuestion 1: As you were growing your church plant, how did you go about identifying potential leaders, helping them catch your vision, and training them to lead others to accomplish that vision?Question 2: How can I lead a...2024-02-0548 min