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My Rejection StoryNicole Kalil: I Was Promoted And I Was Miserable. I Had to Rethink Everything.What happens when you reach the next level—and feel worse, not better?In this episode, confidence coach and podcast host Nicole Kalil shares the story of climbing the corporate ladder, earning the promotion she thought she wanted… and realizing she was completely misaligned with the life she was building.We talk about what it’s like to have external success and internal disconnection, why so many women feel like frauds in rooms they worked hard to enter, and how Nicole began untangling her identity from titles, praise, and other people’s expectations.This epi...2025-05-081h 04
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole KalilHow To Pitch Yourself (And Get A Yes) | 300We made it—300 episodes of This Is Woman’s Work! And we’re marking this milestone by giving you something that could seriously change the game in your business or career: the skill of pitching yourself effectively.
Whether you’re dreaming of being a podcast guest, landing a speaking gig, signing a client, or just asking for what you want with confidence—you’re already pitching yourself, every day. But are you doing it well?
In this milestone episode, Nicole breaks down exactly how to pitch yourself to be a podcast guest… and actually hear “yes.” With hundr...2025-04-1630 minThis Is Woman's Work with Nicole KalilHealing Relationships: The 4 Essential Pillars for Lasting Love with Dr. Rachel Glik | 283In this episode, we explore how to transform all of our relationships—romantic, platonic, and everything in between.
Our guest, Dr. Rachel Glik, is a licensed professional counselor with over 30 years of experience assisting couples and individuals in building stronger, healthier, and more fulfilling relationships. She is the author of A Soulful Marriage: Healing Your Relationship With Responsibility, Growth, Priority, and Purpose, which outlines four foundational pillars for lasting love:
Responsibility: Being personally accountable for one's own happiness and well-being.
Growth: Utilizing relationship challenges as opportunities for individual and mutual development.
Priority: Placing your partner as th...2025-02-2436 minThis Is Woman's Work with Nicole KalilRelationship Red Flags with Monica Berg | 275How good are you at telling the difference between a fling and the real thing? In this episode of This Is Woman’s Work, we’re diving deep into relationship red flags and how to spot them early to avoid future heartache.
Our guest, Monica Berg, author of Fear Is Not an Option, Rethink Love, and The Gift of Being Different, brings her unique insights to the conversation. Monica co-hosts the Spiritually Hungry Podcast and serves as Co-Director & Chief Communications Officer for Kabbalah Centre International. Known for her authenticity and fearless approach, she encourages us to recognize our...2025-01-2734 minThis Is Woman's Work with Nicole KalilHow to Become Panic Proof with Dr. Nicole Cain | 269Feeling like anxiety and panic are running the show? You’re not alone. But here’s the thing—anxiety isn’t supposed to be part of what it means to be doing woman’s work. Yet, so many of us experience it that it feels like it’s become part of the job description.
In this episode, we’re flipping the narrative from “What’s wrong with me?” to “What is my body trying to tell me?”—because it’s time to panic less and live more.
Our guest, Dr. Nicole Cain, is a trailblazer in integrative mental and em...2025-01-0834 minThis Is Woman's Work with Nicole KalilHow To Know When It’s Time to Quit with Goli Kalkhoran | 266Have you been thinking about quitting something—or someone—but can’t decide if it’s the right time? In this episode, Nicole Kalil is joined by Goli Kalkhoran, Master Certified Life Coach and host of the Lessons from a Quitter podcast, to break down the stigma around quitting and show how it can be a path to clarity and fulfillment.
Quitting isn’t about giving up; it’s about recognizing when it’s time to stop pouring energy into things that no longer serve you. Goli shares tools and inspiration to pivot toward something intentional, aligned, and meaningful...2024-12-3036 minThis Is Woman's Work with Nicole KalilThe Best of 2024: Must-Listen Episodes That Inspired Us All | 264I’m beyond excited to bring you the BEST of 2024—a roundup of our most listened-to, loved, and impactful episodes of the year! This might just be my favorite episode to record each year because it’s a chance to reflect on the amazing content, incredible guests, and powerful lessons we’ve shared.
For those of you who are new to This Is Woman’s Work, this episode is the perfect starting point, highlighting the episodes that resonated the most with our community. And for our longtime listeners, it’s a fun trip down memory lane and a great remi...2024-12-2539 minThis Is Woman's Work with Nicole KalilThe Power of Conscious Connection with Talia Fox | 263In a world of surface-level interactions and quick fixes, what does it mean to truly connect? Today, Nicole is joined by Talia Fox, CEO of KUSI Global and author of The Power of Conscious Connection, to explore how authentic relationships and intentional leadership can transform our lives and work.
Talia’s expertise as a psychologist and “inspiration Jedi” has guided leaders in organizations ranging from the U.S. Department of Defense and Veterans Affairs to Harvard and Howard Universities. Her mission? To help us trade transactional interactions for meaningful, conscious connections that align our values with our action...2024-12-2335 minThis Is Woman's Work with Nicole KalilThe Power of Positive Social Media: Insights from Upworthy's Lucia Knell | 261In this episode of This Is Woman’s Work, we dive into building a healthy online environment—for yourself, your community, and the greater good. Our guest, Lucia Knell, Vice President of Upworthy and author of Good People: Stories From the Best of Humanity, shares her insights on harnessing social media for positivity and connection. Upworthy is known for uplifting and inspiring content, and Lucia has spent her career advocating for using the internet as a tool to unite rather than divide.
Lucia’s expertise has driven millions of social media engagements and inspired a movement to combat...2024-12-1630 minThis Is Woman's Work with Nicole KalilAbundance: Secrets to Prosperity and Ease with Cathy Heller | 260When you think of abundance, do you think of having more—more money, more success, more stuff? What if true abundance isn’t just about accumulation, but about appreciation? In this episode, Nicole Kalil is joined by Cathy Heller—transformational coach, spiritual guide, meditation teacher, and host of the Abundant Ever After podcast—to challenge everything we think we know about living a full and prosperous life.
Cathy’s new book, Abundant Ever After: Tools for Creating a Life of Prosperity and Ease, invites us to shift our mindset, tap into the flow of prosperity, and welcome abundance...2024-12-1143 min
Reflect ForwardBuilding Confidence w/ Nicole KalilNicole Kalil is all about building confidence and living your desired life. Nicole’s passion for eliminating gender expectations and redefining “Women’s Work” is both what keeps her up at night, and what gets her up in the morning. Well that, and an abundant amount of coffee.
An in-demand speaker, author of Validation is for Parking, leadership strategist, respected coach, and host of the “This is Woman’s Work” Podcast, her stalker-like obsession with confidence sets her apart from the constant stream of experts telling us to BE confident. She shares HOW you build it and gives actionable tools you can implem...2024-12-1035 minThis Is Woman's Work with Nicole KalilHow To Land Your TED Talk and Skyrocket Your Personal Brand with Ashley Stahl | 250For many of us, delivering a TED Talk sits firmly on our bucket lists. But how do you move from dreaming to standing on that iconic red circle? In this episode, Nicole reconnects with Ashley Stahl to break down exactly how to make that dream a reality.
You may remember Ashley from Episode 92—her career began at the Pentagon in counterterrorism, but she has since transformed into a career expert, international speaker, and author. Ashley’s book, YOU Turn, became an international bestseller, and she is now recognized as a top 100 TEDx speaker. She believes TEDx talks are...2024-11-0834 minThis Is Woman's Work with Nicole KalilThe Resilience Myth with Soraya Chemaly | 249Resilience has become a buzzword in today’s culture, thrown around by influencers, coaches, and even bootcamp instructors, all insisting we need to “push through” no matter the cost. But is resilience always the healthiest path forward? Does mental toughness, positivity, and grit serve us in the ways we think—or is there more nuance to uncover?
In this episode, Nicole connects with Soraya Chemaly, activist and author of The Resilience Myth: New Thinking on Grit, Strength, and Growth after Trauma. Together, they challenge conventional ideas about resilience and explore a new way of thinking—one that shifts fro...2024-11-0637 min
Workday Playdate247: Validation vs. Confidence: What's the Real Difference? A Chat with Nicole KalilHere to get TRASHED?! 😝 Kidding, kind of. Founder & confidence sherpa, keynote speaker, author, and podcast host Nicole Kalil is here today to discuss how bringing her trash to the “transfer station” ie, dump, led her to interrogate the “trash” that was in her head or “head trash” and write her first book called Validation is for Parking. In today’s episode, Nicole explains what “head trash” is and the 3 things you need to know about it to become more confident. Nicole and Erin also talk about: Nicole’s personal story of BECOMING confident w...2024-07-1743 min
Balance Boldly for Ambitious Women in BusinessUnlocking Balance: Nicole Kalil’s Approach to Managing Work, Life, (and) Family.Delving into the power of intentional family forecasting, techniques to maintain a thriving marriage, and how to balance professional and personal lives, Naketa welcomes the dynamic Nicole Kalil, an expert in gender equity and the host of the "This is Woman's Work" podcast. Nicole shares her innovative concept of "family forecasting," a biannual ritual where she and her husband align their professional goals, finances, and family values. This practice, she explains, has been crucial in maintaining a strong marital connection and setting a positive example for their 10-year-old daughter. Nicole also discusses the importance of prioritizing tasks that truly...2024-07-1024 min
Typical Skeptic PodcastDream Intrusion, Fool-Proof Knowingness, Divine Guidance - Dr. Michael & Nicole Sebastian, TSP 1234Co-Founders of "Divine Guidance Institute and Wellness Center Inc.," a Modern-Day Mystery School, and “The Dream Team – Celebrity Life Coaching” and Creators of the “Trust Yourself System” and “Trust Yourself Therapy” Visionaries, Rev. Dr. Nicole and Michael Sebastian aka “The Dream Team” are Celebrity Therapists, Expert Decision Coaches, Authors, Celebrity Dream Experts, Celebrity Life Coaches, and Relationship Experts. Innovators of "1-Step Solution" and "1-Step Therapy." Known as Modern-Day Oracles, they deliver Wise-Counsel using Traditional Methods coupled with the Unique Tools of Dreams, Sound, Synchronicity, Intuition, and Quantum Physics for Guidance and Direction. This is what "Trust Yourself" is all about. Authors of: "TRUST...2024-05-121h 00
Bombshell Business Podcast with Amber HurdleChoose Confidence Until You Become It with Nicole KalilIn this episode, Nicole Kalil shares invaluable insights on building confidence and overcoming self-doubt. She discusses the journey of choosing confidence until it becomes innate and embracing the power of resilience and authenticity in all your endeavors. Amber reflects on her own journey of building confidence, emphasizing the value of self-compassion and learning from past challenges.
Key Takeaways
Confidence is a firm and bold trust in oneself that can be practiced and cultivated over time.
Inner knowing is essential for distinguishing between self-doubt and authentic confidence.
Embracing monotonous activities and journaling can create space for self-reflection and inner growth.
Learning...2024-04-1142 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil202 / Building Your Email Lists & Websites with Brittni SchroederI could spend HOURS every single day going down the rabbit hole of all the different resources, apps, and tools that are out there and somehow still not know what the best, right answer is. And even if I did figure it out, it would only be a matter of time before something new, shiny, or better came along.
On this episode of This Is Woman’s Work we’re going to talk about the marketing and scaling side of being in business, in hopes that together, we can get out of that rabbit hole and move towa...2024-03-2734 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil201 / How To Find The Right Words When Creating Boundaries with Amy Green SmithWe’re covering a topic that falls into the category of “we’ve covered it before but it’s worth repeating”. Because I know most, if not all, women struggle with setting and communicating boundaries as it flies in the face of our people-pleasing, helpful and perfectionist tendencies.
So we’re going to talk about Boundaries, again, but we’re going to focus more on the actual words and what to say. Amy Green Smith joins us again for her last episode in our 4-part series (if you haven’t listened to our last three episodes, I’d highly encourage...2024-03-2537 min
The Own It ShowUnlock Your Confidence with Nicole Kalil: Building Unshakeable Self-WorthSend us a textFeeling lost or unsure of yourself? This episode of the OWN IT SHOW is your guide to building unshakeable confidence! Join me and my guest Nicole Kalil as she dissects the concept of confidence and self-worth. Nicole Kalil, a keynote speaker and author, who shares her wisdom on taking ownership of your success. Learn how to:Embrace your unique qualities (you are enough!)Turn fear into action (it builds trust in yourself)Ditch the need for validation (true confidence is internal)Make and keep commitments (build trust, build confidence)Own...2024-03-1838 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil199 / Fear & Failure (Part 2) with Amy Green SmithIf you’re tuning in for the first time, or just because this topic was of interest to you, I want to point out that this is Part 2 of our conversation on Fear & Failure, so if you didn’t listen to part 1 just yet, I’d encourage you to go back to episode 197 from last week and start there.
If you’ve already listened to Part 1, then I’m going to assume you’re here because you’ve been not-so-patiently waiting for the completion of this conversation… and I can tell you it’ll be worth the wait.
I’m j...2024-03-1831 minTypical Skeptic PodcastSecret Space Program. OBE. Shadow People. Kundalini - Nicole Aubrey - TSP 1108Nicole Aubrey is the author of the new awesome book Aubrey Ascending: on her ET Experiences, Shadow People Out of Body Experiences, Kundalini and Secret Space Program encountersBuy the book here:https://www.amazon.com/Aubrey-Ascending-Kundalini-awakening-extraterrestrial/dp/B0CTL63P4Lyoutube.com/c/typicalskepticwww.spreaker.com/show/typical-skeptic-podcast_1www.rumble.com/typicalskepticwww.rokfin.com/typicalskepticwww.patreon.com/typicalskepticsupport the podcastpaypal.me/typicalskepticmediacashapp $kalil1121 venmo @robert-kalilor buy me a coffee at buymeacoffee.com/typicalskepticOr...2024-03-0359 min
Author Archives - Kami GuildnerNicole Kalil, Mastering Confidence: Conquering Head Trash for Positive Inner Dialogue, Episode 329Our guest today, Nicole Kalil, is an in-demand speaker and the author of “Validation is For Parking.” With a stalker-like obsession with confidence, she goes beyond merely urging you to be confident. Nicole shares actionable insights on how to build confidence, providing tools you can implement right away.
In This Episode:
Nicole shares her personal journey through confidence challenges and victories, gaining insights into societal influences on confidence perceptions.
Discover the transformative power of self-appreciation and self-love in nurturing a profound and intimate relationship with yourself.
Delve into “head trash” and acquire practical...2024-01-2536 minExtraordinary Women RadioNicole Kalil, Mastering Confidence: Conquering Head Trash for Positive Inner Dialogue, Episode 329Our guest today, Nicole Kalil, is an in-demand speaker and the author of "Validation is For Parking." With a stalker-like obsession with confidence, she goes beyond merely urging you to be confident. Nicole shares actionable insights on how to build confidence, providing tools you can implement right away.
In This Episode:
Nicole shares her personal journey through confidence challenges and victories, gaining insights into societal influences on confidence perceptions.
Discover the transformative power of self-appreciation and self-love in nurturing a profound and intimate relationship with yourself.
Delve into "head trash" and acquire practical strategies to conquer negative inner dialogue for e...2024-01-2536 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil174 / Motivation to Affirmation With The Best of 2023I’m more than a little excited to bring you THE BEST, most listened-to episodes of This Is Woman’s Work in 2023!!
This might be my favorite episode of each year, as it allows me to reflect and celebrate ALL the amazing content, guests, and learnings that happened throughout the year. I also love this episode for YOU because it’s a great way to highlight the episodes that resonated the most and if you’re new to our show, serves as a really good starting point.
As we close out one year and walk into all...2023-12-2738 minTypical Skeptic PodcastQuantum Time Jumping, Manifestation, Life Coaching - Nicole Majik, Typical Skeptic Podcast 992Nicole Majik has an interesting and extensive background with a bachelor's degree in Biology/Chemistry, a Masters in Metaphysics and experience as a Financial Advisor. She is an accomplished leadership and empowerment strategist and educator, and has created a highly effective, life-transforming empowerment program: The Alchemy of Transformation®. She awakens your true potential by erasing limiting beliefs and showing you how to live a life you deserve without compromising who you are or what you love.Nicole has appeared on various radio shows, local TV, as a keynote speaker for international conferences and has even appeared on the T...2023-12-2454 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil164 / Self-Sabotage with Kamini WoodIn this episode we’re going to take a close look at the actions, inactions, distractions, decisions, indecision, negative self-talk,perfectionism, imposter syndrome, ALL the stuff – and ask, “WHY ARE WE DOING THIS TO OURSELVES”?
We’re going to get curious about all of our self-sabotaging ways.
Here to help us make sure we don’t turn into self-sabotage hoarders is Kamini Wood, who helps high-achievers heal their relationships with themselves by identifying limiting beliefs and reasons for stagnation, as well as overcoming self-doubt in order to live a fulfilling professional and personal life. She is the creat...2023-11-1533 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil163 / Do You Believe in Love? with Arielle FordWe’re going to talk about LOVE today, and I think it’s important that I tell you I might be a little jaded. Do I believe in love? YES. Do I want all of us to experience more of it? HELL YES. Do I think love is patient, two become one, it excuses and justifies everything, all decisions should be based on it, and that it needs to be romantic love that results in marriage in order to be considered real love? Absolutely not.
Given that I clearly have some energy about the topic, I’ve brough...2023-11-0835 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil162 / Compensation Myths with Kelli ThompsonWe’re going to talk about some of the big compensation myths that might be holding YOU back and share some alternative approaches.
I’ve invited Kelli Thompson back to the show, as she shares my passion for confidence, and is focused specifically on how confidence impacts your paycheck. She has coached and trained hundreds of women to trust themselves, lead, and create a career they love. She is the founder of the Clarity & Confidence Women’s Leadership Program, a Stevie Award winner for Women in Business—Coach of the Year, and the author of Closing The Confiden...2023-11-0132 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil161 / Survivorship and Breast Cancer with Virginia CarnesaleYou likely know that October is breast cancer awareness month, and I’d be shocked if you don’t have someone you love, whether it’s YOU or a sister, mother, family member, friend, or colleague that has faced it.
And like so many things in life, unless you’ve experienced it personally, at a deep and intimate level, it’s hard to know what to do, where to turn, and how to get the help – both medical, and otherwise – you need. It’s also hard for loved ones to know what to do, what to say, and how to suppo...2023-10-2531 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil160 / Motivation with Kate TracyWhat does being motivated look like and feel like FOR YOU? Do you know what your internal motivators are? Your external ones? And for those of you who are leaders, managers, business owners, or parents, do you know what motivates your people!? Are you clear about THEIR internal and external motivators?
If you’re not entirely sure, then you’re in for a real treat, because we’re going to talk MOTIVATION!
Kate Tracy is the Global Head of Client Partnerships at Varna Group LLC where she helps companies increase impact, retention, and employee engagement throug...2023-10-1833 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil158 / The Benefit Of HindsightOn this episode, we’re talking about the benefit of hindsight.
Because it’s what’s missing when you’re in a tough patch, feeling confused or in the dark, carrying something that feels too heavy for you to be carrying, unsure of your next steps, or have a heart that hurts.
You don’t YET know how this will work for good, how this will impact your life, how, when, or in what ways whatever struggle you’re in will have you grow, will shape you into someone better… but you get to trust that it will.2023-10-0422 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil157 / Values First with Dr. Laura EigelThere are many reasons I love living life from a values first approach – first, it’s something I can connect to on a daily basis. It helps me make decisions, reminds me who I want to be and how I want to show up, provides clarity if someone or something is the right fit for me or vice versa, and I see my values as the roots from which confidence grows.
So on this episode of This Is Woman’s Work, we’re going to get YOU connected to YOUR values!
Laura Eigel, founder of The Catc...2023-09-2732 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil156 / Cell Care with Dr. Monisha BhanoteOur topic today is CELL CARE which is a different but supporting approach to self-care. And sure, I know a few things about self-care, lifestyle rituals, and intentional living, but don’t have the first sweet clue about CELL care. I’m excited to learn and hope you are too!
Dr. Monisha Bhanote, combines ancient wisdom with mind-body science to naturally bio-hack the human body through her expertise as a cytopathologist, functional culinary medicine specialist, and integrative medicine doctor. Known as the Wellbeing Doctor, Dr. Bhanote has diagnosed over one million cancer cases, provides health programs at DrBh...2023-09-2032 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil155 / Executive Motherhood with Ashley Quinto PowellWhether you’re a full-time Mom where your job is inside the home, or a Mom who has an additional full or part time job outside the home, YOU HAVE A JOB. That job has REAL value. And we should start thinking about it like that.
(Side note: I also believe that being a Dad is a job and more people should treat it as such, and dad expectations should be as high as mom expectations, but we’re talking about Moms here today.)
I’ve invited Ashley Quinto Powell to join me to talk about...2023-09-1331 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil154 / Affirmation Roulette with Peloton’s Kirsten FergusonWe’re going to do something a little different on this episode, and play affirmation roulette with none other than Kirsten Ferguson.
Because, let's be real. What we say to ourselves, about ourselves MATTERS. We all spend the bulk of our time, the majority of our LIVES, inside our own mind… we really ought to make it a nice place to be.
After seven years of working with the NFL, Kirsten made the decision to shift her focus to family. Her journey to motherhood was not easy, and fitness helped Kirsten strengthen her body and soul...2023-09-0635 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil153 / Eating Your Feelings with Jessica ProciniJessica has this to say about emotional eating: “Overeating is a REJECTION of Self. It is a moment of self-betrayal. In order to truly heal your relationship with food, you must address the fundamental disloyalty towards yourself.”
UGH. I WISH I would have heard THAT earlier in my life. While I don’t fall into the emotional eating trap as often as I used to, it’s something I still need to be mindful of, especially when I’m stressed, hurt or angry. Because loyalty to myself is at the top of my priority list… I hope it’s on your...2023-08-3034 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil152 / The Necessity Of Choice with Jacqueline AyersWomen’s right to choose has been in question throughout history… getting to choose who and if you marry, what you wear, what’s appropriate and not, whether or not you can work, what you can do for a living, the right to open your own bank account, to vote, to consent, and if and when you give birth.
I am very aware I’m going to piss some people off, and this is too big, too important for me to worry about that. We’re going to talk about the necessity of women’s right to CHOOSE.
...2023-08-2335 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil151 / Ditching Your Inner “Good Girl” with Renee BauerOn this episode of TIWW, we’re going to talk about ditching your inner “good girl” as well as some other uncomfortable truths that are holding us back from truly winning in life.
Here to help us do that is Renee Bauer, Founder and Managing Attorney of “Happy Even After” Family Law, an international speaker, and author of 5 books, including her new book that’s about to be released and is already a bestseller “She Who Wins” (described as an ANTI-rule book, which you know I love). She hosts the She Who Wins podcast as well as the S...2023-08-1634 min
say YES to yourself!Saying Yes To Firm and Bold Trust in Self With Nicole KalilThis week on the say YES to yourself! podcast Wendy hosts Nicole Kalil, Founder & Confidence Sherpa of her own company helping to remove the roadblocks, biases and challenges that trailblazing, professional women face so that they can thrive as their authentic selves.Wendy and Nicole discuss what it means to be our authentic selves and build and most importantly maintain the confidence we deserve in our lives.Listen in as they share stories and actions steps you can apply today to step into your power. About Nicole:Nicole’s pa...2023-08-0953 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil149 / Your Communication Patterns with Cassandra LeClairMost of us have not only NOT been taught the skills to communicate well, we’ve been taught the opposite. We’ve probably observed more examples of INeffective communication than anything. Think about it for a second… were your parents good examples of this? Your first love? Your first boss? I’m gonna take a stab in the dark, and guess the answer for most of us is a hard NO.
I am Nicole Kalil, and you can put this episode of TIWW under the category of “shit we should have learned, but didn’t and now it’s wreakin...2023-08-0237 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil148 / Reclaim OWNERSHIP Over Your Own Health with Andrea NakayamaYou know how I feel about one-size-fits-all solutions to anything, and the health and wellness industry is no exception.
So when we cover topics like todays, I’m always careful to bring people on who will share what they’ve learned, what they know to be true, their expertise BUT ALSO say that YOU need to figure out what’s right, best, and true for you. Said another way, they offer solutions, just not the one-size fits all kind.
With that in mind, let me introduce you to our guest. Andrea Nakayama is a Functional Medici...2023-07-2633 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil147 / People-Pleasing & Being “Needy” with Mara Glatzel
When under stress, overwhelmed, or feeling burnt out, it is incredible how quickly many of us default back to perfectionism and people-pleasing and abandon ourselves.
On this episode of TIWW, we’re going to talk about how to advocate for YOUR needs… first to yourself and then to others. I’m joined by Mara Glatzel, author, intuitive coach, and host of the “Needy” podcast. Mara helps humans stop abandoning themselves and start reclaiming their humanity through embracing their needs.
Because you’re a human living a human experience, you have needs. Those needs don’t make y...2023-07-1934 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil146 / The Happiness Equation with Zenica ChatmanI know being happy every minute of every day isn’t an option, but I do wish I saw more women experiencing it regularly. I wish women allowed themselves to choose happiness FAR more frequently without feeling guilty or selfish.
So let’s talk about how we might do that.
Joining me is Zenica Chatman, who after experiencing workplace trauma, went on a path to redefine her own self-worth and what it means to be happy and successful. Now as a certified coach, she’s helped many other women do the...2023-07-1221 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil145 / How To Talk To Your Enemies with Alicia DunamsI admire SO MUCH when I see people deal with difficult personalities, big egos, or people who’ve done major harm and they somehow manage to stay cool, calm, and collected. Being able to have a productive conversation with someone who makes your blood boil is a true superpower.
Which is why I’ve invited Alicia Dunams, speaker, coach, certified mediator, peacemaker and author of the book, How to Talk to Your Enemies to the show. She shares specific words, phrases, and approaches to start dialogues off on the right foot toward mutual understanding and healing. Whether it’s...2023-07-0540 min
REDESIGNING MIDLIFE | Workout Motivation Over 50, Nutrition Facts, Health & Wellness, Fitness, Exercise Inspiration, Menopause Symptoms, Self-Care, Midlife Crisis[REPLAY] Make 2023 Your BEST YEAR EVER | BUILDING SELF-CONFIDENCE Through Trusting Yourself With Author Nicole KalilAuthor Nicole Kalil, bringing her new book “Validation is for Parking - How Women Can Beat The Confidence Con” is with me today for the very important discussion about confidence - and how the confidence that we portray outwardly doesn't necessarily match up to how we feel inside.Nicole's story is a cautionary tale and one that a lot of us have experienced and faced. We appear and "act" very confident on the outside, but inside we are hiding and afraid of being "found out". We may even be in such a dark place because of our lack...2023-06-3051 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil144 / Jay & Nicole Kalil on Partnership, With Guest Host Lynn CasalettoOn this very special episode, guest host Lynn Casaletto takes over the mic and not only interviews Nicole, but also her partner in life, Jay Kalil!
They talk about everything from how they make their marriage work (and some things they do to get back on track when it’s not working), pet peeves, parenting, planning, and more! Questions were collected from Nicole’s community, and Lynn dished them out… listen in to hear their responses and perspectives.
Partnership can be hard, especially when two career-focused, busy, goal-oriented people come together… and partnership can also be the t...2023-06-2847 min
The Blair Badenhop ShowHow to Become Your Most Confident Self with Nicole KalilNicole Kalil is an in-demand speaker, the author of Validation is For Parking, leadership strategist, respected coach, and host of the “This Is Woman’s Work” Podcast. Her stalker-like obsession with confidence sets her apart from the constant stream of experts telling us to BE confident. She actually shares HOW you build it and gives actionable tools you can implement immediately. A fugitive of the C-suite at a Fortune 100 company, she has coached hundreds of women in business, which has given her insight as to what – structurally, systemically and socially – is and isn’t serving both women a...2023-06-2556 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil143 / The Real Reason You Have Nothing to Wear with Ellie SteinbrinkI wonder if we added up ALL the minutes we’ve wasted standing in front of our closets thinking “I have nothing to wear” and all the time we’ve spent trying on 17 different outfits (only to walk out wearing the one we hate the least), how much time we’d have? Enough to learn a new language? An extra 2 weeks vacation every year?
So my friends, let's give you back the greatest commodities you have: your TIME and your sanity. I’ve invited Ellie Steinbrink, Expert Stylist, Personal Brand Coach, and owner of Style Decoded, to join us toda...2023-06-2135 min
The Divorced Woman's Guide PodcastThe Role of Confidence In Divorce with Nicole KalilMost of us throughout our lives have believed confidence is external. We thought that once we get that high-paying job, lose 10 pounds, or get into that romantic relationship, that’s when we become confident. But that couldn’t be farther from the truth. Top speaker and best-selling author Nicole Kalil is here to uncover the truth about confidence, what it is, and how you can source and build it sustainably. Tune in to this episode on The Role of Confidence In Divorce with Nicole Kalil Key points covered in this e...2023-06-2034 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil142 / Make Your Comeback Stronger Than Your Setback with Julia WolfendaleI’ve been knocked down more times than I care to count, and the only thing I can tell you with any kind of certainty is that I’ve gotten UP at least one more time than I’ve been knocked down.
I believe that’s true for you too. Because you’re here.
On this episode of TIWW we’re going to talk about getting BACK into action after a setback. Because I know TWO THINGS FOR SURE, from every conversation I’ve had and every woman I’ve interacted with (even the ones with all the fol...2023-06-1432 min
This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil141 / How Regular Women Take Risks with Liz DeacleOur topic is about taking risks, but I didn’t want to cover it with one of those “mer-women” (like mermaids, but with independence) who has done it all, unafraid, and made it look effortless. I wanted to talk about it with someone who I know would be REAL.
Real women taking real risks, big and small, with REAL feelings about it.
So, without further delay, let me introduce my new friend Liz Deacle. Liz, is a British expat currently living in New Zealand with her family. Liz and her husband embarked on a year-long backpack...2023-06-0732 min
This Shit WorksValidation is for Parking: How to Beat the Confidence Con with Nicole KalilWhere does confidence come from? Does it come from perfectionism and keeping up appearances or does it come from knowing who we are and maybe more importantly who we are not - and being absolutely okay with both of those things. Listen in to this week's episode as I talk with Nicole Kalil, (a repeat guest) to discuss her new book Parking is for Validation: How Women Can Beat the Confidence Con.Drink of the week….The Confident Woman If you liked what you heard today, please leave a review and subscribe to the...2023-04-1941 min
Corporate to CalmValidation is Simply Icing on the Confidence Cake - Nicole KalilNicole Kalil, author, podcaster and confidence guru has dedicated her post corporate life to empowering women. Her book Validation Is For Parking: How Women Can Beat the Confidence Con teaches women to know who they are, own what they are not and choose to embrace all of it.
Nicole has helped countless women overcome their insecurities and achieve their goals. Join us as we delve into the world of empowerment and learn about the tools and techniques that can help women become the best versions of themselves.
Nicole’s admits we all like a li...2023-03-2240 min
Women Changing Leadership with Stacy MayerReclaim Your Confidence By Trusting Yourself with Nicole KalilEp #166: Reclaim Your Confidence By Trusting Yourself with Nicole KalilAs a corporate badass, I know you’re tapping into your confidence all the time. The confidence to go for the promotion. To manage up. To ask for the raise. To communicate your vision for your career. To book a 15-Minute Ally Meeting with someone you feel like you have no business reaching out to. And, as Nicole Kalil shares on this episode of Women Changing Leadership with Stacy Mayer: The center of all that confidence is TRUST. Nicole (also known as the Confidence Sherpa) is an in...2023-02-1435 min
Imperfect Success180: 5 Ways to Be More Confident with Confidence Expert Nicole Kalil“Be more confident” “Just be authentic” “Be bold!” We hear these phrases all… the… time… but what does it actually mean to be more confident? HOW do we gain more confidence? Nicole Kalil is the answer to these questions. In this episode she breaks down exactly what it means to be more confident and 5 specific derailers of confidence (and of course, how to overcome them). Learn more about Nicole: https://nicolekalil.com/ Get the book “Validation is for Parking”: https://nicolekalil.com/book ---more— Don't forget to rate and review the podc...2023-02-071h 01
ADHD-ishOwning Who You're Not & Fully Embracing Yourself: Unpacking Nicole Kalil's Confidence JourneyNicole Kalil shares her story of birthing her book, exposing the ironies of achieving success through a masculine lens and the personal journey of overcoming false confidence to ultimately become more trusting of herself."I can't tell you how much of the confidence builders were required and necessary to write this book and to put it out there, and how much of the confidence derailers came up on a very regular basis. When we were editing, perfectionism was all over the place. Pure head trash, like "will people even like this book." Ni...2023-02-0651 min
Superhuman Selling283 - How to Beat the Confidence Con with Nicole KalilIf you have ever struggled with feeling like no matter what you do, it’s not enough, or looking like you have it all together on the outside but on the inside feeling like you have no idea what you’re doing, today’s interview with Nicole Kalil is for you. My guest today is Nicole Kalil, author of Validation is For Parking. She transitioned from a Fortune 100 C Suite executive to become a speaker and the host of This is Woman’s Work Podcast. She’s also known as the Confidence Sherpa and has helped thousands of women reclaim their conf...2023-01-0335 minSuperhuman Selling283 - How to Beat the Confidence Con with Nicole KalilIf you have ever struggled with feeling like no matter what you do, it’s not enough, or looking like you have it all together on the outside but on the inside feeling like you have no idea what you’re doing, today’s interview with Nicole Kalil is for you. My guest today is Nicole Kalil, author of Validation is For Parking. She transitioned from a Fortune 100 C Suite executive to become a speaker and the host of This is Woman’s Work Podcast. She’s also known as the Confidence Sherpa and has helped thousands of women reclaim their conf...2023-01-0335 min
She Sells Radio283 - How to Beat the Confidence Con with Nicole KalilIf you have ever struggled with feeling like no matter what you do, it’s not enough, or looking like you have it all together on the outside but on the inside feeling like you have no idea what you’re doing, today’s interview with Nicole Kalil is for you. My guest today is Nicole Kalil, author of Validation is For Parking. She transitioned from a Fortune 100 C Suite executive to become a speaker and the host of This is Woman’s Work Podcast. She’s also known as the Confidence Sherpa and has helped thousands of women reclaim their conf...2023-01-0335 minREDESIGNING MIDLIFE | Workout Motivation Over 50, Nutrition Facts, Health & Wellness, Fitness, Exercise Inspiration, Menopause Symptoms, Self-Care, Midlife CrisisMake 2023 Your Best Year Ever | Building Self Confidence Through Trusting Yourself With Author Nicole KalilAuthor Nicole Kalil, bringing her new book “Validation is for Parking - How Women Can Beat The Confidence Con” is with me today for the very important discussion about confidence - and how the confidence that we portray outwardly doesn't necessarily match up to how we feel inside. Nicole's story is a cautionary tale and one that a lot of us have experienced and faced. We appear and "act" very confident on the outside, but inside we are hiding and afraid of being "found out". We may even be in such a dark place because of our lack...2022-11-1649 min
No More Perfect Podcast with Jill SavageHow to Build Confidence with Nicole Kalil | Episode 117Here in "No More Perfect" land, we talk a lot about the many different relationships in life—marriage, parenting, friendships, and even extended family relationships. However, we have never had an episode where we talk about our relationship with ourselves (until today!). As women, we are bombarded with messaging that tells us that we should be confident with very little information on how to actually do it. Thankfully, my guest today is changing that!Nicole Kalil is a speaker, leadership strategist, and coach who specializes in helping women build internal trust and reclaim confidence. She believes confidence is...2022-11-0153 min