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Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast100: Our Very Last Show - The End Part 2 - Everybody Talks Jewish Matchmaking100: Our Very Last Show - The End Part 2 - Everybody Talks Jewish Matchmaking Nobody Talks Shidduchim Podcast (2019 - 2023) Thank you to our amazing listeners! IJ (Izak) and Avery (Avigdor) retire after 4 years. They discuss Netflix's Jewish Matchmaking. It’s a big one folks! Izak and Avigdor pull down the curtain, it’s not goodbye son, it’s I’ll see ya later.1) Avigdor Wolf as Avery2) Shevi Lipschitz as Rosie3) Fagie Strom as Paige4) Avromi Meyer as Rabbi AY5) Yona & Chani Laster as The Lasters 2023-06-041h 32

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast99: The End Part 1 - We Talked ShidduchimAfter 4 years of talking shidduchim, Izak and Avigdor retire. --- Our goal is to help guys and girls navigate the 2023 American Jewish dating scene aka #Shidduchim.💻Linktr.ee💻➜Linktr.ee: https://linktr.ee/shidduchim---------------------------------📷Instagram📷Nobody Talks Shidduchim➜ https://www.instagram.com/nobodytalksshidduchim---------------------------------🎵TikTok🎵➜https://tiktok.com/@shidduchim---------------------------------📺Videos📺YouTube➜ https://www.youtube.com/@shidduchimRumble➜ https://www.rumble.com/shidduchim---------------------------------👕Purchase Our Merch👕➜ https://www.bonfire.com/shidduchim---------------------------------💰Send us Ca$h for our dates ;)💰➜ https://anchor.fm/shid...2023-05-0744 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast98: Myths of Marriage After Singlehood (ft. Ahuva Shandelman LCSW aka Holy Shid) & Return of The Shid Queen & AveryEpisode #98: Myths of Marriage (ft. Ahuva Shandelman LCSW aka Holy Shid) & Return of The Shid Queen and Avery Ever think it’s all going to be solved after you tie the knot? Well the good news is that a bunch of it is but the journey doesn’t stop there. NTS co-host & Holy Shid creator Ahuva Shandelman leads us in Shidduch Conjugation. 1) Thoughts about Gedale Fenster Shabbaton 2) Myths singles have about of marriage 3) What happens when (older) singles finally tie the knot 4) The work we can do to have better relationships w self and others 5) There’s the you do you an...2023-04-021h 39

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast95: Your Mental Health GetupToday’s episode focuses on the topics of mental health and depression. We chat with David Izso who is the host of dont worry bout it podcast and a shidduch dater. 1) Mental Health 101 2) Symptoms of Mental Health 3) If you struggle with Mental Health, how do you know if you are in an okay place to date someone? 4) How do you know if you should still date them despite Mental Health, anxiety or depression? 5) What to do if your partner is depressed and you are choosing to support them? 6) How to move through depression in dating? --- Send in a voice me...2023-01-301h 24

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast94: Bachelor Party Bitachon (ft. Yosef, Eliyahu & Shua)94 - Bachelor Party Bitachon So the main man is getting married and it’s happening, the big wedding day that everyone’s excited about. But now it’s time to throw the bachelor party. What can you do as an Orthodox Jew doing a bachelor party? Are there limits to the fun you can have? What is a Jewish bachelor party like? Yosef, Eliyahu & Shua/Jared join IJ in this episode. 1) when you’re younger, everyone comes to the bachelor party, when you’re older, it’s a different story 2) Here’s why you want rich...2023-01-141h 32

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast93: Enter The Multiverse - What It Was Like To Be Married For The DayEnter The Meta-Shidduch-Verse: What It Was Like To Be Married For The Day THE SHIDDUCHVERSE aka Multiverse: IJ and Avery enter the meta-verse...After opening up a magical box of Latkes on Chanukah... In the universe of Westeros IJ and Avery have different lives. In this alternative reality IJ is a stay at home Dad (with a cool haircut home biz), married to a beautiful women he met on his 5th shidduch date experience. His wife Darla, actually joins the podcast to preach her Shidduch take. Avery is a comedic writing tycoon, married to Olga, a rich Russian Oligarch's daughter...2023-01-061h 21

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast92: Here’s How To Plan A Magical Date (ft. Malky)Izak and Malky follow up from episode 5, they discuss the full process of actually planning a date. Though, this time it's magical and it's exactly how the ladies would like it to be :). Izak also wears a wicked cool Chanukah sweater. 1) What is the best first date place? 2) Where do you go for the second? After going to a Lounge for the first date, what place is best to go to for a second date? A) Lounge (again?) B) A Lite Dairy Restaurant (too soon to be eating?) C) Activity (you don’t r...2022-12-241h 06

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast91: Tales of the Shidduch Journeywoman91: Tales of the Shidduch Journeywoman What is a Journeywoman? A woman who is an experienced and competent professional in her field but doesn't yet have that "trophy boyfriend or husband" to show off! So we have heard from the journeymen; now we are spotlighting the journeywomen, well one woman and that's Rivka who tells us what's going on with the Shidduch Journeywoman's life. 1. Figuring out the uncle and aunt life 2. What are niblings? 3. Continued discussion on long distance dating challenges 4. The time zone tobbacle! 5. Getting catfished 6. When you have to...2022-12-1747 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast90: Long Distance Dating and Reflecting On That Whole Zoom Thing90 - Long Distance Dating and Reflecting On That Whole Zoom Thing We continue the long-distance convo from episode 72. Long-distance can be quite the challenge for many couples but it could also provide a very unique and special experience. There’s a plethora of awesomeness and problems that can take place during a long distance relationship. Are you one of those who this has happened to? Izak is joined by Rivka and Rabbi AY to opine. 1) Does long-distance really work? 2) Did zooming during COVID count as long distance? 3) People are so busy today. It...2022-12-0746 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast89: How I Met Your Therapist (ft. Ahuva Shandelman a.k.a. Holy Shid)89: How I Met Your Therapist (ft. Ahuva Shandelman a.k.a. Holy Shid) Ever wonder how orthodox Jewish women become dating coaches or therapists? in this episode, we discuss with dating expert Ahuva Shandelman LCSW how she got to where she is today. The gang also discusses the continuous tales of the Shidduch journey-person. Dating specialists tales: 1) How the whole social work thing caught on 2) Going to a male therapist vs a female therapist 3) Jewish vs. nonJewish therapist 4) How you get into being a “Shidduch/dating expert” 5) How you rela...2022-11-261h 33

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast88: There’s Nothing Wrong With You Because You Are Single (ft. Jackie Glaser)88: There’s nothing wrong with you because you are single (ft. Jackie Glaser) In a world with so much stereotyping of orthodox Jewish singles, Jackie Glaser brings a fresh perspective On the fact that there really isn’t anything wrong with you. Dating is mostly a struggle for frum Singles, here are some ways you can alleviate your dating experience and break through preconceived notions when trying to affiliate yourself with the Jewish community and your dates. 1) Baruch Hashem Syndrome!! 2a) Is there really nothing wrong with someone when they are single? Clearly women or men...2022-11-191h 05

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast87: Brachos and Segulas: Are They Hocus Pocus or Will It Get You Married?Ep 87 Brachos and Segulas: Are they hocus pocus or will it get you married? In this episode IJ & Avery discuss the concept of brachos & segulas people receive regarding be marrige. 1. What are the brachos & seuglas people refer to you need before marrige? 2. Mazal 3. Do the rabbinim really have any insight in to whom you will get married to? 4. Are kabbalists more accurate when predicting who you'll marry? 5. If their brachos don't work what next? 6. Should we stop giving money to these people who are giving us false blessings. 7. How to...2022-11-121h 28

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast86: Zodiac Signs, Names & The UnknownEp 86: Zodiac Signs, Names & The Unknown Even in Game of Thrones there was the religious, spooky and unknown factors out there in that universe. Here on NTS we believe that there are other things that could cause and effect shidduch dating. IJ, Avery & Cousin Malcolm opine… 1) Zodiac Signs Intro 2) Zodiac Signs: is it real that some zodiacs cannot be with others? 3) Also, why are gals so obsessed with this stuff? 4) Is it true that Names have to match up in order to be together? 5) What is the Torah's perspective on Zodiac Signs (Co...2022-11-011h 01

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast85: Hobbies, Social Clubs & Going Home for the Chagim85 - Hobbies, Social Clubs & Going Home for the Chagim When you are not working or with the friends/family, orthodox jewish singles have a unique opportunity, this is; to explore new things and new social groups. After that Paige & the NTS guys discuss more on the single life coterie. 1) Escaping too much family time during yuntif! 2) What kinds of social clubs are out there for singles? 3) Pickle ball, improv, hookah lounges, comedy clubs, etc... 4) How to handle going back home for the chagim and discussing it 5) Men going to shul and women...2022-10-2351 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast84: The Corporate & Jewish Life Balance (ft. Rachel Salutsky & Shlomo from Nashville)A work life balance is certainly something we all strive for. Is it truly feasible while living in Orthodox Jewish life? In this episode we bring on corporate employees who try to make best of their Jewish life and work life balance. Our grandparents had to give it up if they had to work for Shabbos, are we any different? 1) What is a corporate place? (Everyone defines) 2) tell us about the schedule for a person who wants to make it in a corporate setting 3) What kind of education do they have to have, can they...2022-10-161h 21

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast83: Serial Shidduch Daters (ft. Sarah Haskell aka @ThatRelatableJew)Ever notice that you enjoy the power of the swipe more than the dating itself? Maybe it's the rush or maybe you just haven't found Mr. or Mrs. Perfect yet. Sarah Haskell (Tiktok content creator as That Relatable Jew) joins Avery and IJ to discuss serial shidduch daters, shidduchim and the dating life as an orthodox Jewish twenties & thirties year old. 1) Can the girls define a serial shidduch dater? Can the boys? 2) Is serial shidduch dating some kind of addiction? 3) How hard it is to actually sort through the shuffle... 4) Is it easier for a guy or a girl to...2022-09-281h 13

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast82: Shabbatons and How To Throw A Singles Event (ft. Devorah & Isaac aka Jo Jo)Ever think that there should be more shidduch shabbatons out there? We agree. Izak record's this episode with Isaac and Devora from Build A Bayis Inc., a shidduch events & shabbaton organization that looks to keep singles “busy” all the time. 1) What is a Shabbaton? 2) Why is speed dating so darn popular! 3) Walk us through the planning details! 4) Age parameters 5) Vetting 6) Hashkafa 7) Why is pricing so high? Or so cheap? 8) Tell us about the shabbatons you hosted! 9) Why aren’t there more shidduch events and shabbatons!? 10) Does a shadchan have t...2022-09-181h 09

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast81: Food, Family & Guilt (ft. Chef Mendy)Episode 81: Food, Family & Guilt The Role of Food in the Jewish Community with Chef Mendy Wolf. HBO’s Sopranos was a phenomenal depiction of Italian life in America. Perhaps the most relatable aspect of the show was its depiction of all things food, eating & solid cuisine. What is the role of food in the Jewish community, does it mean more to our community than others? 1) Diffrent kosher cuisines 2) Toughest parts about keeping kosher 3) What kinds of kosher keeping is there? 4) the private chef life and what it’s all about 5) Is a heal...2022-09-111h 28

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast80: How The Extra Curriculars Didn’t Help Us Or Did It?In this episode NTS crew discusses how the "extra curriculars" helped or didn’t help daters in their shidduch journey. Growing up in the Jewish community, we are raised young to commit to duty, family and community. The propensity for young jewish people to be involved in the jewish community is ramped. There are hundreds of organizations that we get involved in. Looking back did it help? Was it worth it? We discuss. Jared and Yosef join us! 1) Let's discuss the organizations we spent time in 2) Does everyone do it to find a shidduch!!2022-08-291h 18

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast79: What Your Yeshiva Pick Says About YouEpisode 79 - What your Yeshiva pick says about you IJ is joined by Yeshiva Bucher Jeremy. He has a ton to share and help answer some questions about what goes on during this Israel yeshiva seminary gap-year experience and the yeshiva life when you get back! 1) What is the yeshiva seminary experience? 2) Describe the seminary’s for us…if you go here you’re like this etc… Group pics & experience search 3) Your response to brainwashing 4) Are there yeshiva seminaries to sell your first born to in order to get in? 5) What are the effects of certain Yeshivas on your shidduch resume? ...2022-08-2141 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast78: A Single’s Guide To SummerEpisode 78: A Single’s Guide To Summer Izak (IJ) sits down with c-host Paige for a one on one on how singles can manage their summer. Afterwards, Avery and Ahuva discuss what the Shid School of Love is!? 1) Summer is just another day that's warmer 2) Singles events and singles gatherings 3) The Shidduch Underworld 4) Community events! Bring a doggy bag 5) Assembling what's left of your friend crew 6) How to handle your Maaser money best when single :-) 7) Steps to decide to go to the summer soirée 8) How do you explain what you've been up to for all these years? --- Send...2022-08-1459 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast77: Good Things About Shidduchim (ft. Baila Sebrow)In this episode, the Mic gets turned around to the happy shidduch goer's side of the dating system. This is an episode all about Good things about shidduchim and the shadchan! We are joined by Baila Sebrow and Cousin Malcolm. 1) Benefits of using a Shadchanit 2) Baila gives us her take 3) What's holding back singles today? 4) Anxieties and what went wrong to lead to where things are now 5) Are intimate discussions better for the singles on their own? 6) The process of using a Shadchan 7) What your looking at when matching 8) Is the Shadchan ever wrong? 9) It’s so less awkward for ev...2022-08-081h 24

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast76: Age Gaps Explored (ft. Ahuva Shandelman A.K.A. Holy Shid)Episode 76: Age Gaps Explored - Nobody Talks Shidduchim Podcast We’ve discussed many age facets on this show, but IJ & Avery delve into this topic when it comes to the many classes of age compatibility. Are there actual reasons of age differences? There is such a stigma here about guys just dating younger girls, so many do that; so why do we make comments about it when it happens? Also we are happy when we hear about an older girl with a younger guy…is it ok to make a big deal about that? Ahuva Shandelman A.K.A...2022-07-261h 15

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast75: Workplace Shidduch Stories75) Workplace Shidduch Stories & how to navigate working life while single. Rachel Salutsky and JoJo visit IJ and Avery. This episode is about American Jewish dating and its affects in the workplace. Have you ever been assigned to a new project at work and in comes your new partner...and wow!!! you’re taken by surprise because you think they’re cute. Well it gets even better you recognize that they are; Shidduch available, as you’ve gotten their résumé or you’ve asked a coworker or a friend to find out if they’re single and they are. For this episode A...2022-07-171h 10

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 74: Culture Shockers (ft. Hassidic Hipster)Hasidic Hipster Sarah Guigue stops by. Cousin Malcom too. Ever see my big fat Greek wedding? Culture shockers are real in Shiduchim. There are so many different kinds of minhags or customs or rituals that families have. In this episode, the NTS crew rant about the best to the worst in shidduch dating culture shockers! 1) Family Huggers 2) Bris 3) Sefardic kissing on cheeks 4) Bro Cuddling 5) Women cheek kissing 6) Men walking around the house in underwear 7) Women’s Nida (a guys house vs. a gals house) 8) Black hats 9) Sheitels 10) Men wear rings when married 11) Men wearing rings in general (Italian like) 12) Engagement br...2022-07-101h 00

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 73: A History on Jewish Dating and The Great Singles Migration to New YorkA History on Shidduch Dating and The Great Singles Migration - NTS The NTS Crew sits down with shidduch scholar Malcom. In this episode we discuss the history of Shidduch dating, the great singles migration and how certain places became the singles go to places to live. What they are like and what they have to offer This NTS episode discusses a brief history crash course on the history of shidduch dating. Where it began, how did it start, how we got to modern day dating! We end off with where singles migrate to. Where do they end up and...2022-06-281h 19

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 72: A Long Distance Fairy Tale, Meeting On Social Media & Trying To Get Back TogetherIJ sits down for a tell all to discuss his long distance fairytale. He found love but God had other plans. Long-distance can be quite the challenge for many couples but it could also provide a very unique and special experience. There’s a lot of character development and growth that takes place during long distance relationships; are you one of those who this has happened to? Many times people wave their hand at you when they say “what you’ve never met each other in person“ Well I J is here to tell you why those people are full...2022-06-2041 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 71: Dating Coach ConsultationThis episode discusses small tidbits from a consultation with a dating coach. We are joined by Rivka Janowski Rochind. Rivka offers us tips so we can brush up on our dates. Is there a way for us to be more cognizant on our dates? 1) Being tuned in on dates 2) remembering there names 3) What if you seemed tuned out, what do you do? 4) Does this mean there’s a problem with you or even the match? 5) Is there one person you’re supposed to marry? 6) How do you know someone is right for you? 7) Not looking for “perfect” looking for “perfect for me” 8...2022-06-071h 13

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 70: Toxic Relationships & Platonic Friends Part 2 with Holy Shid Ahuva ShandelmanEp 70) Toxic friends & Platonic Relationships [Holy Shid] Part 2 You grew up with them, shared the most sentimental memories with them; but once you enter the shidduch core...everything changes. Toxic friends exists and they are holding you back from your shiduch excursions. Holy Shid joins us to discuss what to do. 1) Shid breaks down what a toxic relationship is. 2) What is a frum platonic relationship? 3) Are platonic relationships also toxic? 4) Your friends say that shidduch idea isnt for you 5) The saying is "you are what you consume"; if you hang around pe...2022-05-2249 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 69: Toxic Friends & Platonic Relationships Part 1 with Holy Shid Ahuva ShandelmanEpisode 69: Toxic Friends & Platonic Relationships Part 1 with Holy Shid's Ahuva Shandelman. You grew up with them, shared the most sentimental memories with them; but once you enter the shidduch core...everything changes. Toxic friends exists and they are holding you back from your shiduch excursions. Holy Shid joins us to discuss what to do. 1) Shid breaks down what a toxic relationship is. 2) What is a frum platonic relationship? 3) Are platonic relationships also toxic? 4) Your friends say that shidduch idea isnt for you 5) The saying is "you are what you consume"; if you hang around people who are bad for you...2022-05-1658 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 68: The Family Has "Issues", What Do I Do?Ep 68 - The family has “issues”, what do I do? In this continuation of stigmatize dating we discuss more stigmatized issues that occur during your dating life cycle. Of course everyone hopes and believes and imagine that they are going to get the full package. The father-in-law is president of the young Israel the mother is coordinating three tehillim groups, his sister is a very well-balanced nurse at some hospital and her brother is happily married with kids in the five towns. As you know this does not happen all the time and in most cases stigmatized datin...2022-05-011h 02

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 67: Tales of The Shidduch JourneymenIn the NBA, Journeymen is a titular title bestowed upon those who have played the game for many many years; moving from team to team. The NTS guys reflect on recent shidduch developments in their lives. A bit not scripted, this episode delves through lessons taught from the journey men of american jewish dating. Nobody Talks Shidduchim discusses: Shidduchim, Shadchan, jewish, jewish dating, chatan, kallah, simchas, shaitels, sheitals , yeshiva , weddings , matches, fashion, tznius and more! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/support 2022-03-3142 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 66: A Father’s Fireside Chat (About Their Children Dating)Not every guy gets the privilege to have asteve martin from father of the bride esque father-in-law. But, our guest, Avi Dreyfuss may be the closest thing to it. As a father, who has successfully vetted and dealt with numerous guys attempting to steal his daughter. Avi would provide us with some keen insight on how guys should present themselves so maybe one day they too could actually get married. 1. We discuss the resume process 2. Do the fathers get together in Shul or at work by the water cooler and make fun of this shi...2022-03-061h 01

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 65: Has Your Seminary Experience Ruined Your Dating Life?Ep 65: Has your seminary experience ruined your dating life? IJ and Avery are joined by Hanna and Rosie. They have a ton to share and help answer some questions about what goes on during this israel seminary experience. 1) What is the seminary experience? 2) Describe the seminary’s for us…if you go here you’re like this etc… Group pics & experience search 3) The fomo of not going 4) Picking your seminary! 5) Are there seminaries to sell your first born to in order to get in? 6) Seminaries to avoid? 7) What are the effects of certain seminaries on your shidduch resume? 8) What’s your respo...2022-02-281h 16

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 64: Shadchanit Tell-All ft. Hindy Laster A.K.A. Queens Shadchan (with Yonah and Chani)Co-Hosts Yona & Chani focus the mic on a matchmaker to discuss her side of the story. This matchmaker is the Queens Shadchanit, Mrs. Hindy Laster. She describes to us all the inside and latest trends, the best feedback the worst feedback and lets us walk away with good hints. 1. Process and intake system for Shadchanit 2. How A Shadchanit gets started? 3. What are issues that The Shadchanit is getting wrong? 4. Has WhatsApp changed anything?? 5. When are parents wrong 6. How involved should shadchanim be? 7. Levels of shadchanim --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/message Support...2022-02-161h 02

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 63: Can Married & Single People Hang Out Together?? In Passaic NJ They Do!!Ep 63: Passaic Single Guys Actually Hang With Married Guys. Is there a world where singles and married people can actually hang out in? In Passaic New Jersey, it seems so. NTS crew discusses what the situation is by this rare; yet fun chevra does, to be able to hang out all together. 1) Can single guys hang out with married guys? 2) Married people get way more out of you then you them 3) Thinking about my old friends who have been married for a long time, we were friends for a long time but it just ain’t the same 4) Married friends ex...2022-02-061h 05

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 62: Smoking, Vices & The Real Mad Men of Shidduchim (ft. Ahuva Holy Shid)Ep 62: Smoking, Vices & The Real Mad Men of Shidduchim w. Ahuva Holy Shid IJ and Avery discuss with the gang all things smoking and other vices. The year is 2022, you can smoke pot but not a cigarette; you can eat unhealthy kugel and Chulent but not vape around granny. It’s abundantly clear that our society has taken drastic changes on vices you can indulge in. What’s the gal’s, guy’s & therapists perspective on this? topics: 1) Setting up the 2022 Vice situation (like the gym, Chesed & insta likes 🤔) 1a) Summation of what’s going on: cigarettes are equated to drugs, alcoho...2022-01-261h 07

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 61: Where to Eat on a date & The National Kosher Food Crawl w. Kosher GuruIn this episode Avery & IJ host The Kosher Guru aka Gabriel Boxer & Lea from @KosherLicks who tells us about all the hot spot kosher restaurants. Ever have a date at an amazing restaurant? Yes it’s hard to plan and expensive at times. Sit with us for dinner as we virtual restaurant Shidduch date crawl with the Guru who knows where to go. 1) What your restaurant pick says about you 2) Is there actually a date number where you have to go to a nice place??? 3) What your order says about you 4) What they order says about them 5) Parking 6) Places with an...2022-01-161h 15

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 60: Is therapy the answer to your shidduch problems? w/Sarale & Ahuva (Holy Shid)In this week's episode we bring on Sarale and Ahuva AKA Holy Shid. We wanted to share Sarale's inspirational story regarding her shidduch journey. In this episode we discuss: 1. How much people can change over time and how that change sometimes leads to you to find the person you were looking for. 2 How dating in the traditional shidduch world as young girl felt? 3. The early set familial & societal pressures to get married at a younger age and how that affects people. 4. Creating a routine that keeps you moving through the years where you feel like you have nothing going on dating wi...2022-01-061h 17

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 59: Lakewood Girls TalkIn this episode Avery and IJ bring on Michal and Tami, two daters who reside in Lakewood and have experience going through the Shidduch system. Avery and IJ take a backseat and listen to what the girls have to say in regards to their dating encounters. 1) A brief introduction to what dating is like in Lakewood 2) Do you feel you are judged more harshly by people you meet because of where you're from? 3) Lakewood is known for the BMG culture, we know what it is today. Are single Lakewood twenties sti...2021-12-201h 07

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 58: Dating App, Other Ways To Meet & Modox Dating58) Other ways to meet / modox dating Avery and IJ have discussed many ways for daters to meet in shidduchim and at singles events. But what about those dating apps, Shabbatones or community salsa outings? In this episode The NTS crew sits down with Shlomo from Nashville and Ally from the Valley; 2 app daters, to discuss how the helk you meet on those apps and without a Shadchan. 1) We discuss Modox (modern orthodox) dating styles 2) Jswipe, Hinge, Jdate, all of them! 3) Online Dating 4) Corona crush 5) Social media 6) Parties 7) Handling it yourself 8) Actually going out 9) App dates 10) App remedy --- Send in...2021-12-1350 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 57: Stigma stigma on the wall we discuss divorce dating, broken engagements and allStigmatized Dating - Divorce, Broken Engagement, Long Term Relationships, etc… In today’s day and age, we have hopefully moved past a place where we allow stigmas about people to decide whether or not they are dateable, and should be given a chance. Emotional scars from entering and exiting these relationships and whether or not you are still carrying your baggage. Do shadchanim, daters, parents etc judge people who’ve gone through these experiences more harshly? Is it better to enter marriage having never had a serious relationship or not? Are frum people behind the 8 ball on divorce and breakups (Average divor...2021-11-2855 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 56: The things your parents & rabeim didn't tell you about marriage (Ft. Avi Singer)56) How to be prepared for marriage In this week's edition of the NobodyTalks Shidduchim Podcast, we sit down with Avi Singer. Avi is a licensed marrige and family therapist as well as small business owner. Throughout this episode, we discuss: 1) What does an ideal frum marriage look like 2) How one can prepare him/herself to be the ideal person they see in a marriage 3) Are frum marriages more difficult to maintain due to the various factors (expensive lifestyle, religious levels, lack of incorporation of modern day life needs 4) Is the separation between boys and girls from a young age leading p...2021-10-2647 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 55: Seasons Come & Go But Yom Tov Never Changes & Shabbos Is On The Way!Ep 55: Seasons Come & Go But Yom Tov Never Changes & Shabbos Is On The Way! Dreading Yom Tov, is this where we are at? The holidays are tough for singles. Avery & IJ discuss the challenges. Shabbos is discussed by the Shidduch Podcast crew. 1) The worst yom tov to be single? 2) Getting suggestions by your local shul family friend 3) Programs Programs Programs 2)Going to the park 3) What is Shabbos like for single guys 4) What is Shabbos like for single gals 5) Too much time with the fam? 6) Should Shabbos break the relationship? 7) Spending Shabbos at their house? 8) Do you tell them Yumtif was...2021-10-0340 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating Podcast54: Fantastic Hashkafas and How to Find Them [Hashkafa Part 2]In ep 54 the NTS crew with Meghan discusses hashkafa. We label it, we box it and we subject the hashkafic orientations out there. Just because We do this, doesn’t mean there’s less to a person. But in shidduchim it’s important to identify where you stand on things. What’s important to bring up, what should be brought up and what may just be ok to wait on. 1) TV in the house 2) Labels & that darn Box 3) Throw away: my way is the right way 4) Black hat: they do, they did, the don’t, they can’t 5) Zionistic 6) TV and TV in th...2021-08-2654 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEP 53: Hashkafa Matters [Part 1]Yona & Chani join Avery to have a sophisticated and nuanced discussion over the many differences and similarities those of us share when it comes to our hashkafos in Shidduchim. We tackle the concept of dating someone based on various stereotypes such as wearing a black hat, davening in Young Israel's and preferring a TV in your home. 1) Defining religious orientation 2) Black hat 3) Zionistic 4) TV and TV in the house 5) Sending your kids to white shirt or co ed yeshiva 6) What community do we want to live in 7) Is how you observe Shabbos a hashkafic dif...2021-08-1055 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEP 52: Don't Ask Me If I'm Shomer #3 [Part 3: The Rabbi Strikes Back]EP 52: Don't Ask Me If I'm Shomer #3 [Part 3: The Rabbi Strikes Back] Navigating the relationship w/shomer in mind. Halachic & Rabbinic perspectives of being shomer negiah. In part 3 of shomer we wrap it up with Rabbi AY’s encounters as a Rabbi & halachic perspective. We also discussed some new aspects of Shomer Negiah, which we did not touch up on in Part 1 and 2. Torah perspectives, community outlines and IJ’s favorite…is breaking shomer the same as kosher and Shabbos? 1. Tznius affects on Shomer Negiah 2. Why are the shidduch dating guys always blamed?? 3. Is there a way to really tell if som...2021-07-3141 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEP 51: Don't Ask Me If I'm Shomer [Part 2: The Girl Dater’s Take]In this week's episode we bring in Paige, a long time dater and resident expert on shomer negiah for the female daters perspective. Having been in her own long term relationships before, we appreciated hearing why she is complexly pro staying shomer until marriage. Some girls call in as well to weigh in on the issues. We also discussed some new aspects of Shomer Negiah, which we did not touch up on in Part 1. Such as; is it worse to be the person who initially breaks or the person who elevates? Does being with someone before you are married give...2021-07-1947 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 50: Don’t Ask Me If I’m ShomerEp 50: Don’t Ask Me If I’m Shomer The NTS Crew: IJ, Avery & Ahuva put all things Shomer Negiah on the table with this series opener. While we all follow the laws of SN, we explore the topic in more relative terms to us millennial & gen Z daters….hey we all enjoy the Shomer 5. 1) Defining Shomer Negiah 2) Tell us about how it played a role in your life, what it means to you... 3) Why is there such a majority of Shidduch daters who hold Shomer 4) What are the benefits of Shomer in Shid 5) When to have a discussion about being...2021-07-0458 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 49: The Buchrim Tell All - What happened to all the good guys Part 2The NTS Crew sits down with a group of Buchrim to discuss their dating take. These are real yeshiva guys who are still learning, have seder and only wear a blue shirt on purim! BUCHRIM TELL ALL What is the Buchor life like? Do women ever wonder? Do non learners ever wonder? IJ sits down with a group of yeshiva guys (who happen to be his former chevra from yeshiva gedola) and chat. 1) What's it like in yeshiva generally, give the audience an idea of the schedule and ambiance 2) Do you think Yeshiva has prepared you better than your friends...2021-06-2146 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEP 48: What happened to all of the “Good Guys”Ep 48: What happened to all of the “good guys” PART 1 Are we setting up our boys to fail?? Where are all the “Good Guys” at?? NTS crew discusses with Mrs. Rissel Naimark about the perplexities of girls and “the community” thinking that there are no more good guys/men/boys. IJ and Avery defend the boys!! It seems that there’s this expectancy for the men in Shidduchim to be able to have a set career, solid twice a day learning Seder as well as being a 3 x a day minyan goer. Is this just conjecture from anecdotal “sources” or is this a real thi...2021-06-0946 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 47: How to take full advantage of being singleEpisode 47: How to take full advantage of being single. Avery explains all the new things he has found from being single, with Rosie. 1. Pursue your passions (Business, travel, restaurants, career change) 2. Getting closer to G-d 3. Shabbos plans for girls and how to get invited to meals 4. Making all new friends 5. Choosing your new look/wardrobe not having your spouse do it. 6. Working on building a house, apartment, decorating? 7. Getting into shape for your future wedding (barf) 8. Connecting with more people who might have that match 9. Taking time to reflect on how you can be better 10. Not letting your single state...2021-05-2143 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 46: What are the girls looking for?This week's episode we are joined by the royals, Meghan, Kate and Diana. We discuss a wide range of topics within what girls are looking for. Do they like cologne, car door openers, tall guys, short guys, Jewish guys, etc. The royals give us some really insightful perspective into what the girls actually care about when it comes to finding a husband. Take a listen, and if you enjoy this podcast and want to get in touch with the show runners make sure to follow us on our Instagram @nobodytalksshidduchim or email us @nobodytalkspodcast@aol.com. --- Send in a voice...2021-05-0652 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 45: The Break Up1) Can you trust someone when they tell their breakup story? 2) Why are Jews so bad about giving closer? 3) Psychological affects 4) Chemical imbalances: dopamine & withdrawl 5) A new version of ourselves? 6) My person left, I am not whole 7) Are we hiding behind the shadchan for everything? 8) How do you say it? Meaning What are the exact words? 9) Ever get a mother who did the break up? 10) Backlash: When the shadchan fights back? 11) When you tell the Shadchan one thing and they tell something else to the guy/girl...🙄 12) How to heal after a break up? 13) Tell me why holding resentment is making you...2021-04-2552 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 44: Getting the Shadchan to give you what you want!In this episode IJ & Avery perform a mock interview with each other as if they are the shadchan and client. We review key items such as how to set the tone with the shadchan? How to ensure they give you what you are looking for? When to bring up past relationships? and so much more! Take a listen and if you enjoy this podcast and find it entertaining send it over to a friend or give us feedback on our instagram @nobodytalksshidduchim or email us nobodytalkspodcast@aol.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shid...2021-04-1446 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 43: Moving Out: The Extreme Makeover Shidduch EditionMoving out, moving on and changing up your situation. The helpful tips for moving on from dating burn out, rejection and an almost relationship. 1) Do all singles have to move out of there house? 2) Do you mention it on a resume 3) Do men move out of the house more than women? 4) When your burnt out from dating what do you do? 5) The Shadchan you just worked with for 6 months is done with you, now what? 6) Shadchan life cycle: playcate the shadchan 7) does Going on a vacation do it for ya 8) Moving on from Shidduch cliches and your current game strategy 9...2021-03-1944 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 42: How To Blow A Date, BadlyEver blow a date So bad you wanted to forget about it? The NTS Crew, now with Emma (going by Em), conjugate over how daters mess up on dates. This is how you blow a date, badly. 1) Coming late to the date 2) Expectations are destroyed (not like a DOA, cause there's still a chance). 3) Girls falling asleep on dates 4) What to do if the place is closed when you get there 5) The guy not texting back 6) You cannot connect to the date at all, she/he wont give you anything to work with 7) Asking her to pay 8) Ordering the most...2021-03-0757 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 41: Singles Gatherings and Singles EventsRosie, IJ, Avery and Freidy Goldberger discuss singles mingling at gatherings, socials and singles events. Are they antiquated? Is there something new that singles are brewing? 1) Why haven’t you gone to one? 2) What entices you to actually go to one? 3) Is this “Really cool singles event” really different from the others!!? 4) What’s the conventional program at a singles event? 5) Is it just for extroverts or can it be for introverts as well? 6) Should I go in with a plan or just wing it? 7) Should you break the conventional intro?? 8) Everyone is named Avi, from Brooklyn & is a CPA...can we s...2021-02-1447 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 40: Setting Up Friends - Honestly, Don’t Be HonestHave you ever set up your friends before? Avery & IJ have! Many times and with each other. Let's go beyond the second hand talk that you hear from your friends as we discuss with callers what its like to setup your friends and be setup by them! 1) Do your friends really know you? 2) Has a friendship been broken because are they set up? 3) How to do it without hurting relationship? 4) Why aren’t people setting there friends up? 5) Do you have to be honest with your friend or can you give the classic matchmaker responses? 6) what do you say if yo...2021-01-3147 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 39: Siblings Affects on Dating, Effects of Siblings During DatingHow much influence does your bro or sis have on your Shidduch picks? Ahuva Holy__Shid joins the crew to discuss how much involvement our siblings should have in our dating experience. We discuss: 1) Siblings negative affects in dating 2) How much should I be telling my siblings? 3) Siblings positive affects 4) Does it change anything if your sibling is SINGLE OR MARRIED 5) Siblings getting involved in the Shidduch prospect 6) Ranking Siblings spouses and siblings themselves...many girls trying to find their bro? 7) Common chats with siblings..reality vs. their illusions 8) Meeting the siblings when the match is getting serious 9) Basing what...2021-01-1937 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 38: Why So Serious? When Relationships Are Serious. PLUS Avery and IJ Rap ShidduchimAvery & IJ Rap Shidduch words, they also monologue about being in a serious relationship. Why is it so complicated, even for those ones that seem like they have it together. 1) Do daters treat dates seriously? 2) It’s all about finding out stuff about them, while knowing yourself 3) Setting the tone for who you are 4) Are women more direct in the serous dating stage? 5) Challenging times are good for a serious relationship, it makes or breaks it. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/su...2021-01-1040 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 37: The Role of Gender Roles - The Women’s PerspectivePart 2 of this Gender Roles series features Holy__Shid & Mrs. Raina Balsam. With IJ, Hanna, Yonah & Chani. 1) What is Holy__Shid and their mission? 2) The Torah’s perspective & modern day Shidduch actuality 3) Women wanting more Halachic involvement 4) Men wanting more house duties 5) Woman contributing financially 6) Men contributing in Shabbos & decorative aspects of the house 7) Focusing on what makes sense for you vs. for the world 8) Respectable jobs vs. a job for you Sponsored by Shas 4 Shidduchim: https://shas4shidduchim.org/?utm_source=nobodytalksshidduchim12.11.20&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=s4s --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/po...2020-12-2750 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 36: The Role of Gender Roles - The Men’s PerspectiveIt’s important for both parties in dating to be themselves and stick to the roles they feel most comfortable with. Whether the man is cooking or the woman is bringing home the kosher bacon. But is there more to this than the average Shidduch dater can let on? The Crew discusses certain conventional roles in the relationship that when switched may be more unconventional than you’d think. 1) Of course it’s ok, but is there more to it? 2) Women wanting more Halachic involvement 3) Men wanting more house duties 4) Woman contributing financially 5) Men contributing in Shabbos & decorative aspects of the ho...2020-12-1353 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 35: Getting Over The Older Single ThingRemember AOL, Netscape or when Netflix was on DVD? Well if you do and you’re single this podcast is calling your name! IJ & Rosie discuss what it’s like to be the “older single”. All the cliches like; soon by you, don’t give up, and why aren’t you married? Is there actually an older singles community? Should you make some game changers when you become an older single? 1) Escaping the older Shidduch talk 2) Does the wall actually get higher for the older girl? For the older guy? 3) Do you hang out with other older singles, or your friends who...2020-11-2641 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 34: Why Can't We Be Friends?Welcome to the Friend Zone *Let’s Be Friends...* • Can guys and girls be friends with each other? • Can I maintain a friendly relationship with someone I dated? What about someone I dated seriously? • Making shidduchim with people you’ve dated *Make Amends* • I mistreated someone who I dated. Should I ask mechillah? How would I even go about that? • I feel I deserve an explanation from someone I previously dated. Should I reach out to them? • The shadchan really messed things up. Should I confront them? *Friends of The Family* • I was suggested to a family friend, who would be a good match, b...2020-11-1750 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 33: The Parent TrapEp 33: The Parent Trap • Using a parent as your shadchan • A mother knows best– how much should I trust my parent’s experience/advice? • My agent will handle this– How involved should my parents be in “handling” my shidduchim? Do I have a responsibility to take part in the process? • Parental consent– what if my parents nix a good idea for reasons that don’t actually matter to me? • The Parent Trap– my parents are very controlling and won’t let me make my own dating decisions. How do I break free? • One m...2020-10-2949 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 32: How I Met Your ShadchanA Conversation With Shadchanit Rissel Namark. Discussion: Not just setting singles up but why aren’t they staying together? Is our generation lacking? If so where is that lacking coming from? Parenting issues in the entire process Is calling on the phone like texting? What’s the deal with Chemistry? Most men are not finished products and woman need to accept that Problems with the boss ladies Is it really the divorce thing? Who is too blame for the Shidduch crisis?? The last 20% before you get engaged in the Shidduchim process is a leap of faith...trust in Hashem! When in d...2020-10-1449 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 31: The Compatibility CheckOur guest hosts, Chani and Yonah, and their featured guests discuss: 1. The great compromise - How rigid should your lifestyle expectations be? Reconciling differences in areas such as upbringing, child-rearing, food preference and money-spending. 2. Deciding you’re not compatible • Are you being too picky? • How to point out concerning behaviors to the shadchan 3. Personality tests/horoscopes- are they a good barometer? 4. Friends/Family • What do you do when your family/their family expresses clear distaste for the shidduch? (Elope? Break it off? Work it out?) • What if you like them, but can’t stand their friends/family? • What do you if a friend in...2020-09-2445 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 30: Money TalksIt’s a conversation to have, money talks in Shidduchim. Spending money on dates, paying shadchanim and of course family financial means. 1) Would you date someone who’s poor? Would you date someone who’s rich? Why? 2) When you find the one, what’s the expectation in terms of engagement/wedding gift? Do you/your family intend to stick to the “rules” of who pays for what at the wedding? 3) What kind of lifestyle do you need in a spouse? Frugality vs lavishness. 4) It’s a dog eat dog world: shadchanim who are in it for the money. Do they exist? Have yo...2020-09-1441 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 29: An American Shidduch Story: Worst Dates Ever Part 2 (w/ Callers from Audience)Do you feel like you had a "Shidduch experience from Gehenim?". In today's episode the crew and our live call in audience discuss some of their worst date experiences ever, which include: 1) The awkwardness of being set up 2) Another occupation mismatch 3) More foreign shidduch policy disaster! 4) Scary dates, just scary 5) Hikes & Yikes shidduch kind of date 6) Can worst dates turn to great dates? 7) The beltdown meltdown 8) Bayswater drinking stories 9) Unmasking the mask 10) Also Avery calls in --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim...2020-08-3142 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 28: Rules of Shidduchim w/ Ahava RadioAriel Katz from Ahava Radio joins the OG NTS crew, yes that’s Avery, Miss D & IJ. We discuss our progress with the Shidduch podcast as well as a bunch of topic reviews, add-in, and some new stuff on the way. 1) Finding good shadchanim 2) More worst date stories 3) Awkward parent situations 4) Very bad date planning 5) What’s with the HomeDepot date? 6) What are the exact time stamps...traveling, eating..? 7) Music and dating 8) Avery unfiltered :-) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/support 2020-08-2340 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 27: Does The Picture Really Matter?The Shidduch Podcast crew discusses pictures, they are some daters best asset and others worst nightmare. Many times the picture depicts exactly the kind of vibe of the person and with some...it doesn’t even do it’s just. 1) Do you like using profile pictures? 2) Those who don't do photos/ Those who require photos 3) Can you Google or Insta search their pic? 4) First impressions with the photo 5) What is the source of the actual picture 6) Professional photo shoot or screen shot of their WhatsApp 7) can we actually judge off of a picture? 8) Too provocative or overthinking it? 9) What to do i...2020-08-1138 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 26: Dating Out of the Box and All of Those Quirky CharactersIJ, Yona and Chani discuss people who totally stick out of the resume stack. They are different, loud, don’t fit the status quo and just stick out like a soar thumb. Heck they may just be you! Here are our thoughts on those characters and how to understand whether it’s a good Shidduch for you or not. 1) What exactly is someone who is out of the box? 2) Identifying if you are or aren’t 3) Are we examining the Shidduch Resume too much?? 4) What is the cookie-cuter Shidduch perspective 5) Don’t worry they’re very very normal 6) Toning things down: Do y...2020-07-3140 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 25: How To Tell The Shadchan They’re Just Not Up My AlleyIn this episode the podcast crew examines the classic responses like: she isn’t my look, he’s not up my alley, I just don’t see it and all of the politically correct responses you’ll need when talking to the shadchan. Remarks to the Shadchan: 1) She’s not up my alley / He’s not “my type” 2) Why can’t they just have a normal profile pic!! OR they don’t do profile pictures...do they want to get married? 3) Physical Aspects and Resume Info: 4) He’s too short / she’s not my figure type 5) Their just not my look 😏 // I just don’t f...2020-07-2345 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 24: Is Ashkenazi Dating Sephardi Interracial?The NTS crew (now only IJ) has Guest Hosts Lia, Page and Fefe on to discuss Sephardic and Ashkenazi dating. Also a special message from Avery. 1) Are there really barriers? 2) Identifying the cultures 3) Experiences with the interracial dating 4) What it’s like to date Sephardic 5) What it’s like to date Ashkenazi 6) is it always better to stay with the culture that you grew up with or can there be positives to dating outside your culture cubicle: I.e better pesach minhagim less wait time between meat n dairy lol 7) Does one group have it easier than the other when it c...2020-07-1059 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 23: Conversation Do’s and Don’tsConversation do’s and dont’s The NTS Bros host Blair & Serena, two young daters who have a lot to say. Are there conversations you should avoid? Things that need to be addressed? 1) Serious matters to be discussed 2) Girls are usually more submissive when it comes to expressing there opinion on something (& even guys) 3) I don’t know how to tell you this, but I listen to Goyishe music!! 🤭🙈 4) Avoid Discussing who you dated and why it ended, Especially in the begging 5) Real life preferences like Aliyah, how many kids, etc.. 6) Controversial things: Politics 7) If you want to be more frum 8) if y...2020-06-2348 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 22: Shidduch System Survivors - The Newlyweds' TakeLooking back after it all ended The podcast crew brings on a married couple, one party who dated for many years and one who dated for a little bit. Now that they are married we discuss how hard dating was and what we can do to try to make it easier. Here are some things we get to... 1) what would they change, What did they like? 2) Are we looking for reasons why the date shouldn’t or didn’t work? 3) Can we persevere when being Shidduch downtrodden? 4) Are we seeing you many Shadchanim? 5) Rabbi Vs. The Shadchanit 6) What was the bigg...2020-06-1248 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 21: Call Her Hot Chani, When She Wears the Heels and He’s Got His Groom On21 Are girls judged more harshly for how they dress or don't dress up? 1) What should you avoid wearing? 2) If you wear tights are you really frum? 3) Smartest thing to wear? 4) If you don’t like how they dress? 5) Comfort clothing...what date #? 6) The Flatbush look? 5 Towns look? Out of Towns look?!! 7) When can he wear shorts? 8) When he doesn’t let you know it’s a casual date and you show up in a PradaHow is this 9) what happens to Khakis, Jeans & Pigtails? 10) The "Torah" takes on style attraction and getting dressed up (Tznius) 11) Should fashion attire matter for the resume...2020-06-0148 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEp 20: Is Breaking Bad During Quarantine? Taking A Break Part 2 (w/ The Singles Take)2 more singles join the Shidduch Podcast Crew to respond to the taking a break now, later or never? Are you thinking about Taking a break? 1. Should I take a break? 2. Benefits of taking a break 3. How long should a break be? 4. Wrong reasons for taking a break (partying, stressing over work, stressing over family) 5. When you are on a quarantine break 6. When you're on a cold streak and don't want to call it a break 7. Reviewing resumes during a break 8. Should you tell people you are just not dating now? 9: Does exiting a serious relationship lead you to a break 10...2020-05-1752 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEpisode 19: Is Breaking Bad During Quarantine? Taking A Break Part 1 (w/ Therapists)Dr. Rachael Schindler & Therapist Eli Weinstein joins the Shidduch Podcast Crew. Are you thinking about Taking a break? 1. Should I take a break? 2. Benefits of taking a break 3. How long should a break be? 4. Wrong reasons for taking a break (partying, stressing over work, stressing over family) 5. When you are on a quarantine break 6. When you're on a cold streak and don't want to call it a break 7. Reviewing resumes during a break 8. Should you tell people you are just not dating now? 9: Does exiting a serious relationship lead you to a break 10. Jumping back in too early --- Send...2020-05-1053 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEpisode 18: Zoom Dating? We Both Went Our Separate Zooms After This Long Distance Thing3 Singles Discuss there Shidduch dating experience while under quarantine. Zoom Dating isn’t new, thousands of singles have done FaceTimes before. But now we are all long distance dating with the COVID19 pandemic. After all said and done, will you both go your Separate Zoom ways? Or is it possible to maintain or start a relationship like this?? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/support 2020-04-2746 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEpisode 17: My best friend is engaged - time to social distance? (w/ special a Coronavirus Dating)My best friend’s engaged.... now what? 1. The difference between how guys and girls react and deal with it. 2. Reasons why its hard: can friendship be the same? Being single and healing from a breakup. 3. Letting go even though you love your BFF. 4. Recognizing your own feelings that come with this. 6. Life after they get married / learning how to remain close - is it possible? 7. Feelings on your friend for leaving you alone. 8. Hating their spouse, do you tell them? 9. Handling loneliness. 11. Eating, working or drinkng your way through your feelings. 12. Incorporating your friend and their spouse in your life (3rd...2020-03-1946 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEpisode 16: The One That Got Away (w/ A Purim Special)Have you ever had someone you were ready to marry and they somehow they got away, in this week's episode the crew discusses some their own experiences with the "one that got away". What is the Disney Effect? Do you have any regrets? Who should you speak to? What would you tell them if you had 2nd chance? Also included is a bonus purim segment which we hope you enjoy. This week's episode is sponsored by Audible http://www.audibletrial.com/nobodytalksshidduchim. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/message Support this podcast: https...2020-03-0646 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEpisode 15: Are there other ways to date? - w/modern orthodox matchmakers perspectiveAre there other ways to date? - w/ The Modox Matchmakers Getting setup through friends, online dating, app dating and of course social media dating...hm 🧐😄🎧. Also the differences of growing up in a CoEd Hebrew Academy vs Yeshiva & helping us explore the benefits and challenges. This week's episode which is sponsored by Audible, http://www.audibletrial.com/nobodytalksshidduchim. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/support 2020-02-2348 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEpisode 14: Guys vs Girls - Who has it tougher in shidduchim?In today's episode we discuss who has it tougher in shidduchim the guys or the girls? We cover many different areas where the girls have it tougher including break ups, resumes, and the emotional aspect of dating. Also debated are some of the challenges for guys when it comes to the logistics of dating, which we discuss with our callers in a humorous and thoughtful way. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/support 2020-02-0946 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEpisode 13: When he's more into the bentching than the date and she didn't order the salad?! (W/BrooklynFoodSnob)For today's episode we brought on the Brooklyn Food Snob AKA Rivkie, who is known as one of the foremost experts in NYC food & date spots . We discuss a wide range of issues that can take place when going on a food date. Some of which include, bringing back leftovers, the friendly neighbor approaching you, and can you take that Instagram photo in front of your date? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/po...2020-01-2746 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEpisode 12: An American Shidduch Story: Worst Dates Ever (w/ Live Call-ins from Listeners)Do you feel like you had a "shidduch experience from Gehenim?". In today's episode the crew and our new live call in audience discuss some of their worst date experiences ever, which include: The awkwardness of being set up at a wedding, occupation mismatch, and a foreign shidduch policy disaster! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/support 2020-01-1244 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEpisode 11: Revisits: Same Face Different PlaceThe gang discusses revisiting a person you had previously went out with before. What if they wanted to revisit with you? What if you wanted to revisit with them? Here are the practical thoughts of singles who have been there...on both ends. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/support 2019-12-2927 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEpisode 10: Dating more than 1 person at a time but at least they had the same nameThe podcast crew gets heated over dating 2 people at the same time! They not only discuss some issues that can come but also the warranted reasoning behind it! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/support 2019-12-2024 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEpisode 9: I Think He Might Be The One (w/ Dating Coach Hanna Kahana)Featuring renowned Dating Coach & Shadchan Hanna Kahana. In this epsiode the crew discusses- How you know things are getting serious? The signs to know your shidduch is serious about you and how many dates until we’ve broached the daunting subject of meeting the parents? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/support 2019-12-1234 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEpisode 8: Singles Events: To Go or Not To Go?Love them or hate them singles events are marketed to singles constantly! The Nobody Talks Shidduchim Crew discusses personal experiences, best game plans and how to handle yourself at one of these things! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/support 2019-12-0328 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEpisode 7: Does Age MatterThe Nobody Talks Shidduchim Crew (now with Miss D) discuss age’s role in Shidduchim. At what age is a good time to start dating and how many years can there be between you and shidduch ideas. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/support 2019-11-2626 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEpisode 6: How To Save a DOA (Dead On Arrival) with Miss D!We welcome Miss D to the podcast as our guest Co-Host who is representing the women’s voice in Shidduchim! In this weeks episode we discuss unforeseen occurrences that can end a date a lot earlier than planned. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/support 2019-11-1523 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEpisode 5: Don’t let her plan the dateIn “Don’t let her plan the date”, our hosts discuss the controversies regarding boys planning the dates, how to plan your dates? Whether to go to a restaurant or lounge? What's an action date? And of course the controversial concept of can she pick up the check? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/support 2019-11-0429 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEpisode 4: The Resume Write UpGive your Resume some character with a write up. In this episode we delve into some other tips for references, a resume outline & what you should be writing up in the write up! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/support 2019-10-1419 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEpisode 3: I Almost Married The Reference!We start off on how to structure the resume and then get into the topic of references. Ever have a bad reference? Have you ever called a reference? Get ready for some of the best questions to ask those references listed on a Shidduch Resume. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/support 2019-09-2723 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEpisode 2: How To Deal With Your Shadchan / MatchmakerDealing with shadchanim can be a hands full! Your friends, friend’s mom, your moms friend, your boss’s cousin... Here are the complaints and tips for your best Shadchan experience. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/support 2019-09-1626 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastEpisode 1: First Date Roadmap A shidduch podcast series exclusively for talking shiduchim in the Jewish Dating world. For Jewish religious orientations: Modern Orthodox, Yeshivish, Hassidic, Lubavitch, Conservative and Machmir. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/support 2019-09-1318 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastNobody Talks Shidduchim: IntroIt’s a subject that not too many want to hear or discuss. Nobody Talks Shidduchim is a podcast for those who are facing a true challenge in American Jewish dating. Did we scare you yet? Here you are not alone. There are so many others struggling in Shidduchim and it’s time us singles had a voice for it! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/support 2019-09-0301 min

Nobody Talks Shidduchim - The Jewish Dating PodcastNobody Talks Shidduchim (Trailer)--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shidduchim/support 2019-09-0200 min