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For the Love of GriefCelebrating Anniversaries and OccasionsHosts Odette Mould and Sophia Giblin explore ways families can remember their late loved ones in this final episode.The first year after losing a loved one is particularly difficult. Events and special dates like birthdays, wedding anniversaries, Mother’s and Father’s Day, and Christmas are often somber and emotionally charged affairs. Many families struggle when thinking about doing something to celebrate their late loved one’s memory. The following years aren’t guaranteed to be any easier, Odette reminds listeners. Don’t expect to have it all together completely by the seventh or eighth year...2022-09-0633 minFor the Love of GriefHow You Can Support a Bereaved ParentHosts Odette Mould and Sophia Giblin discuss how parents can support themselves after losing their child in the penultimate episode of Season 1.Odette shares well-intended conversations that had the opposite effect on her after losing Harry. She didn’t appreciate it when people would try to comfort her by saying they understood what she was going through, because they didn’t: only someone who has lost a child of their own would understand the unique pain of burying your child. And when people would compliment her strength, saying they wouldn’t be able to hold on like she was...2022-08-3044 minFor the Love of GriefHow To Support a Child Who’s Lost a Parent Co-Host Sophia Giblin shares her experience losing a parent as a teenager, and having to cope as the eldest sibling of four. Sophia’s mum was diagnosed with cancer in the year of her GCSEs. Their family had reason to hope she would get better with chemo, but she kept getting sicker and sicker. Seeing her health deteriorate with the treatment was already traumatic enough, but Sophia was abruptly forced to come to terms with losing her mother when her father sat her and her siblings down to explain that their mother wouldn’t survive. Not even a full...2022-08-2334 minFor the Love of GriefThe School’s Role in a Student’s Grief JourneyIn this episode, hosts Odette Mould and Sophia Giblin talk about how schools can impact a child’s grief journey.All schools should have a bereavement policy, Odette and Sophia recommend, that covers all the information the school should know, what they need to do, and how to respond to an incident within their school community. Office staff should be briefed on how to respond to a parent or guardian informing the school about the death of a student’s family member.You don’t have to be a member of staff to put things in mot...2022-08-1632 minFor the Love of GriefHow Can You Actually Help A Bereaved Family?For the Love of Grief is the podcast that talks about parenting after loss. Grief isn’t something that goes away - it will always live with us. In this episode, hosts Odette Mould and Sophia Giblin explore the role of community in the grief journey.Most communities are eager to help members who are grieving the loss of a loved one, but sometimes they don’t know how to help. Some people may even avoid the bereaved persons because they don’t know what to say, so they say nothing at all. Rather than doing this, it’s b...2022-08-0929 minFor the Love of GriefParenting A Grieving Child, and Other Tips for Bereaved Families In this episode, hosts Odette Mould and Sophia Giblin discuss how parents can meet the needs of bereaved children.Having boundaries around their physical needs - such as getting a good night’s rest - is important for your child’s development. Parents need to be brave and determined to uphold those boundaries even through grief - particularly around sleep and nutrition. As far as mental wellbeing goes, modelling healthy expressions of your feelings is a good way to support and encourage your children. If they see you repressing your emotions and not talking about them...2022-08-0238 minFor the Love of GriefThe Things You Can Use to Help Grieving ChildrenIn this episode, hosts Odette Mould and Sophia Giblin review the topic of resources and signposting. We’re usually never proactive about death and dying, so when we lose a loved one, it’s usually unanticipated and we’re not prepared to deal with it. The first things we usually think about are: What do I do? How do I make sure we’re all going to be okay? Resources and signposting are simple, but very effective and helpful tools that answer these questions. Some of these resources include memory boxes, which act as a tool for a...2022-07-2639 minFor the Love of GriefChildren Want to Feel In Control When GrievingIn this episode, hosts Odette Mould and Sophia Giblin discuss the importance of including children in decision-making throughout their grief journey, starting as early as the funeral or ritual of saying goodbye. Losing a loved one is hard enough as an adult, but it’s especially hard for children, who don’t have a solid grasp of the concepts of death and grief. They are entering a new world where they have to live without someone precious to them and all the complicated emotions it brings. Including them in the decision-making process gives them a sense of contr...2022-07-1946 minFor the Love of GriefSaying Goodbye, and Explaining to Children Where Their Loved One IsIn this episode, hosts Odette Mould and Sophia Giblin talk about funerals, or end of life ceremonies, and the complex emotions they bring up. They shed light on how to explain funerals to children, how to prepare them to attend, and whether they should even be there.Determining whether to bring your child to the funeral of a loved one is a difficult decision to make as a parent. There are many concerns to consider - they are likely going to see many grown ups in distress, which no parent wants their child to see, and parents...2022-07-1254 minFor the Love of GriefCaring For Yourself is How You Care For OthersIn this episode, hosts Odette Mould and Sophia Giblin explore ways parents can practice self-care while supporting grieving children. There is a societal stigma around doing things for yourself - it’s considered selfish. Parents especially feel the weight of this stigma, because their natural instinct is to put their children first. Another reason people often overlook themselves, especially during times of crisis and grief, is because acknowledging pain can be scary. They avoid it because it can feel overwhelming, and they fear that they won’t be able to recover from it. Self-care isn’t all ab...2022-07-0438 minFor the Love of GriefFor the Love of HarryFor the Love of Grief is the podcast that talks about parenting after loss. Grief isn’t something that goes away - it will always live with us. We must find a way to accommodate it as part of our lives, and hosts Odette Mould and Sophia Giblin are dedicated to supporting listeners on their journey. In this pilot episode, Odette shares her story, and how losing her son led to her founding Harry’s Rainbow in his honour. Odette lost her son Harry when he was just five years old. It started as a cough and some...2022-07-0431 minFor the Love of GriefFor the Love of Grief TrailerFor The Love of Grief is the podcast where we talk openly about the often taboo and hidden subject of life after the death of a loved one.Death touches all of our lives at some point, and the aim of this show is to give parents and care givers a resource to help them support their children, to help them to make sense of their world when someone close to them has died. This podcast is hosted by Odette Mould MBE. As a parent supporting a bereaved child, Odette understands the overwhelm and confusion t...2022-07-0104 min