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Resilient ButterflyEp. 14 - The Weight and The WingsIn this powerful episode of The Resilient Butterfly, Pam Feinberg-Rivkin sits down with Thatcher Shively for a raw and deeply human conversation about trauma, addiction, transformation, and the unexpected journey to becoming a recovery coach. From growing up with chaos and confusion to finding solace in music - and later, a destructive relationship with substances - Thatcher shares how he hit rock bottom, found hope, and ultimately reclaimed his life. This story is about more than survival. It’s about healing, purpose, and the courage to fly forward with clarity, compassion, and resilience. If you’ve ever wondered whether chan...2025-07-2955 minResilient ButterflyEp. 13 - The Painting and the PianoIn this powerful and moving conversation, host Pam Feinberg-Rivkin welcomes guests John Lipscomb and Adrienne Lugo, co-authors of The Painting and the Piano, a memoir of trauma, addiction, healing, and love.John and Adrienne share the deeply personal journeys that shaped them — from childhood abuse and addiction to recovery and ultimately, finding each other. With raw honesty and heart, they reflect on the pain of the past, the resilience it took to rise, and how their love story became a story of transformation.This episode is a testament to the power of truth, the strength of...2025-07-1555 minResilient ButterflyEp. 12 - From HBO Documentary To True Recovery: Alisa Fliss On Healing From Eating DisordersWhat happens when the media sensationalizes a struggle — but forgets to show the healing? In this unforgettable episode, Alisa Fliss shares the powerful truth behind her journey with eating disorders, recovery, and being featured in an HBO documentary that left out the most important part: her rise. From childhood experiences shaped by mixed messages about body image to a military career that masked deeper pain, Alisa’s story dismantles assumptions and brings voice to what recovery really looks like.Together, we explore the messy, unfiltered reality of healing — and the cultural silence around it. Alisa opens up about...2025-07-0243 minResilient ButterflyEp. 11 - From Grief To Grace: Dr. Louise Stanger On Loss, Resilience, And Reclaiming JoyIn this powerful and heart-stirring episode of Resilient Butterfly, Dr. Louise Stanger opens up about the defining losses in her life—from her father’s suicide at age seven to the sudden death of her infant son and first husband. Through deeply personal stories, she reveals how pain shaped her path but never defined her spirit. Louise shares how grief, when met with courage, connection, and honest reflection, can transform into a life of purpose, passion, and healing.As an interventionist, academic, and author, Louise brings a lifetime of wisdom to the mic—offering a roadmap for anyone...2025-06-1736 minResilient ButterflyEp. 10 - From Tragedy To Tracks: How A Car Crash, A Lawsuit, And A Dream Built A Music EmpireAt just 17, John Katona’s life changed forever when he fell asleep at the wheel and awoke paralyzed. But what could have ended his future became the beginning of an extraordinary journey. In this powerful episode of Resilient Butterfly, John opens up about surviving a life-altering car crash, navigating a broken insurance system, and fighting a five-year legal battle—representing himself—to fund his independence.Now a successful music producer with a state-of-the-art studio, John shares how he rebuilt not just his body and career, but his purpose. From engineering cars at GM to engineering soundscapes with his re...2025-06-0336 minResilient ButterflyEp. 9 - Healing Generations: Addiction, Faith & The Neuroscience Of RecoveryIn this deeply moving episode of Resilient Butterfly, Dr. John Dyben—Chief Clinical Officer at Hanley Foundation—shares groundbreaking insights from over two decades on the front lines of addiction recovery. From the life-changing Casa Flores program supporting pregnant women with substance use disorders, to innovative care for first responders and a one-of-a-kind therapeutic experience for children ages 7–12, this conversation unpacks how healing an individual can ripple through entire families and generations.We also explore the science behind spirituality: how prayer, meditation, and gratitude literally rewire the brain, and why peace—not happiness—is what most of us are tru...2025-05-2037 minResilient ButterflyEp. 8 - The Truth About Healing: Behind The Ranch Gates with Denise Klein Of Milestones MalibuIn this powerful and heart-centered episode of Resilient Butterfly, we sit down with the extraordinary Denise Klein—CEO, co-owner, and soul behind Milestones Ranch Malibu, one of the most respected dual-diagnosis treatment centers in the country. From her early days in in-home therapy to 35 years of pioneering compassionate care, Denise shares how her personal journey shaped her life’s work in addiction and mental health recovery.Together, we explore why real healing must include the family system, how trauma and shame ripple across generations, and why “quick fixes” in rehab are failing us. Denise also gives us an exclu...2025-05-0640 minResilient ButterflyEp. 7 - The Man Who Gave Children A Voice: Jerry Moe On Healing Generations Through RecoveryIn this heartfelt and deeply moving episode of Resilient Butterfly, we sit down with internationally recognized counselor, author, and child advocate Jerry Moe—the man who changed the way we think about addiction and children. From his personal story as a teenager navigating a home shadowed by alcoholism to becoming the visionary behind groundbreaking children’s programs at the Betty Ford Center and beyond, Jerry brings raw honesty, wisdom, and decades of experience to the mic.Together, we explore how addiction isolates but recovery rebuilds, why family systems must heal together, and how tools like the Seven C’s...2025-04-2247 minResilient ButterflyEp. 6 - Rebuilding From The Inside Out: Matthew Tomain On Sobriety, Success & Starting FreshIn this powerful episode Pam Feinberg-Rivkin sits down with Matthew Tomain—Irish-born entrepreneur, film producer, and creator of The Evolution of Success. Once a young property investor riding high, Matthew lost everything during the 2008 recession and quietly battled alcoholism while appearing “just fine” on the outside. What followed was a complete unraveling—and a remarkable rebirth.Matthew shares how embracing sobriety, redefining success, and following his intuition led him to create a new life filled with purpose, global travel, creative work, and emotional freedom. From standing in unemployment lines to interviewing Law of Attraction leaders like Jack Canfield...2025-04-0843 min
The Hanley Effect - A Podcast About Addiction and Mental HealthThe Critical Role of Case Management in Addiction RecoveryOn this episode of The Hanley Effect, hosts Dr. John Dyben & Dr. Rachel Docekal sit down with Pam Feinberg-Rivkin, RN, BSN, CCM, CRRN, the founder of Feinberg Care, to discuss the vital role of case management in supporting individuals and families through addiction, recovery, and complex medical needs.With nearly 30 years of experience, Pam shares how her nursing background and commitment to holistic care have shaped her work in interventions, case management, and long-term recovery coaching. Her team helps clients navigate the challenges of life post-treatment, ensuring they have the resources, guidance, and support needed to thrive.2025-04-0233 minResilient ButterflyEp. 5 - Prodependence: Redefining Love, Healing, And Addiction Recovery with Dr. Robert WeissFor decades, family members of addicts have been labeled codependent, often criticized for their unwavering support. But what if their dedication wasn’t dysfunction, but rather an act of love? In this compelling episode, host Pam Feinberg-Rivkin sits down with Dr. Robert Weiss, renowned therapist, author, and Chief Clinical Officer of Seeking Integrity, to challenge the long-held stigma surrounding caregivers of addicts. Dr. Weiss introduces Prodependence, a revolutionary approach that shifts the narrative from blame to validation, recognizing the resilience and devotion of those who stand by their loved ones through addiction.Together, they explore the deep em...2025-03-2532 minResilient ButterflyEp. 4 - From Rock Bottom To Redemption: A Mother’s Love, A Daughter’s Fight, And The Road To RecoveryWhat happens when a mother doesn’t know if her daughter is dead or alive? In this raw and deeply moving episode of Resilient Butterfly, host Pam Feinberg-Rivkin sits down with Nikki Tartell and her mother, Sharon Dietrich, to share an unfiltered story of addiction, survival, and second chances. Nikki’s journey from excelling in school to battling a decade-long heroin addiction—while unknowingly pregnant—led to a desperate plea from her mother to Dr. Phil. What followed was a life-changing intervention, a fight for recovery, and a powerful transformation that brought Nikki from the streets to the courtroom—not as a d...2025-03-1143 minResilient ButterflyEp. 3 - Breaking The Cycle: Addiction, Trauma, And The Future Of Mental Health with Dr. Jason SchiffmanIn this eye-opening episode of Resilient Butterfly, Pam Feinberg-Rivkin sits down with Dr. Jason Schiffman, founder of Camden Center and a leading voice in addiction medicine, to explore the raw realities of addiction, trauma, and mental health care. Dr. Schiffman shares his own remarkable journey to sobriety after a near-fatal overdose during medical school and how it inspired him to revolutionize mental health treatment through integrated, collaborative care. From the hidden impact of developmental trauma to the alarming rise of universal addiction driven by technology and hyper-rewarding stimuli, this conversation dives deep into the complex interplay between emotional pain...2025-02-2528 minResilient ButterflyEp. 2 - No Excuse For Abuse with Dr. Elaine RotenbergWelcome to the Resilient Butterfly Podcast, powered by Feinberg Consulting, Intervention Case Management, Coaching, and Companion Services. Hosted by Pam Feinberg-Rivkin, this episode features a powerful conversation with Dr. Elaine Rotenberg, PhD, a clinical psychologist and Chief Clinical & Impact Officer at Alpert JFS and Levine JRFS. With over 32 years of experience, Dr. Rotenberg has been instrumental in shaping mental health initiatives, including introducing Mental Health First Aid to Palm Beach County, certifying over 14,000 individuals in recognizing the signs of mental illness and substance use disorders.In this episode, we discuss the upcoming No Excuse for Abuse event...2025-02-1129 minResilient ButterflyEp. 1 - Judged, Scared, & Stuck—Until Now: The Truth About Breaking FreeWhat if the biggest thing holding you back wasn’t failure—but fear of being judged? In this eye-opening episode, Pam Feinberg-Rivkin, founder of Feinberg Consulting, and Janine Stella, podcast producer and former finance professional, get real about the crippling effects of judgment, shame, and self-doubt. From childhood experiences to career changes, they reveal how fear kept them stuck, second-guessing, and scared—until they finally said, “Let them judge.”With personal stories, powerful insights, and a fresh take on Mel Robbins’ ‘Let Them Theory’, this episode is a must-listen for anyone who’s tired of playing small. If you’ve ever wor...2025-02-0414 minResilient ButterflyWelcome To Resilient ButterflyHi, I'm Pam Feinberg-Rivkin, and I'm thrilled to welcome you to Resilient Butterfly, a podcast celebrating the strength of survivors and the incredible power of transformation, healing, and growth.Life is messy: relationships, family dynamics, mental health, addiction. These struggles can feel overwhelming, but I believe in the resilience within all of us. I've seen it, I've lived it, and I want to share it with you.For nearly 50 years as a nurse and almost 30 as the founder of Feinberg Consulting, I've walked alongside individuals and families who have struggled with some of life's toughest...2025-01-2801 min
The Good Counsel PodcastPam Feinberg-Rivkin “Creating Remarkable Opportunities for Individuals and Families to Heal”Pam Feinberg-Rivkin founded her behavioral health concierge program, Feinberg Consulting, in 1996. Her organization provides services to individuals who have complex combinations of psychiatric, substance use and medical issues. Pam is widely regarded as an innovator in this model of care, having been among the first to provide services in this way. Pam is a registered nurse, health coach, and interventionist among several other health and behavioral health professional credentialed titles. The Good Counsel Podcast is an exploration into the world of helping professionals from various disciplines and walks of life. The goal of the podcast is to d...2023-06-1649 min
Families Navigating Addiction & RecoveryFamily Recovery with Pam Feinberg-Rivkin“The family is core for everything.”-Pam Feinberg-Rivkin Being a nurse by profession and having to serve in many areas of the medical field such as dialysis, homecare and case management, Pam Feinberg is an eyewitness of how addiction is gradually injected from vials of trauma and drug prescriptions to people of varying age and backgrounds. Her own experience with a family member who battled with addiction fuelled up her desire to help others through an approach that is deviant from the common rehabilitation method. In this episode, we also learn that true healing comes from...2019-01-0338 min