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The Powerful Man ShowRevisit: It's Not Just About Your MarriageEpisode #953 Most men don’t even realize they’re living in quiet desperation—until they finally break free. When your marriage feels off, your business is harder, your energy is lower, and you’re just grinding through the motions, it’s easy to think this is just “normal.” But what if it’s not? In this revisit episode, Doug Holt and Brad Holt dive deep into why so many high-achieving men struggle—not just in marriage, but in life. They reveal how the same tools that restore relationships also transform businesses, health, and personal fulfillment. You’ll disc...2025-03-1532 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: Triumphs from the Trenches: Men Who Made ItEpisode #952 What happens when men truly support each other—without ego, without judgment, and with real accountability? In this revisit episode, Doug Holt sits down with Chris Hartig and Matt, two men who’ve walked the path of transformation through The Powerful Man movement. They share their raw experiences of growth, blind spots, and the power of having a brotherhood that pushes you to be better. Whether it’s business, marriage, or personal leadership, this conversation will challenge you to ask: Who’s in your corner? Take a moment to reflect—are you leading, o...2025-03-1359 minThe Powerful Man ShowCuriosity in Marriage: Bridging Emotional DistancesEpisode #951 When was the last time you got truly curious about your wife? Not just about what she’s doing, but who she’s becoming? In this episode, Doug Holt and TPM advisor Chris tackle a common challenge: emotional distance in marriage. Many men unknowingly stop seeing their wives as evolving individuals, leading to stagnation in communication and intimacy. We answer real questions from TPM listeners, including: How to give your wife space without triggering her fear of abandonment Simple ways to break through emotional walls and spark meaningful conversations The importance of r...2025-03-1116 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: How To Become A Leader Without Being Considered Controlling?Episode #950 We’re revisiting one of the most important topics for married businessmen—how to lead in your marriage without slipping into controlling behavior. Many men struggle with finding the balance between taking charge and being overbearing. In this episode, Doug Holt breaks down: The key difference between leadership and control How to be the “lighthouse” in your marriage and inspire your wife to follow your lead Why controlling behavior often comes from fear—and how to shift out of it Practical ways to take charge without pushing your wife away If you want to st...2025-03-0810 minThe Powerful Man ShowConscious Parenting: Fostering Self-Worth and Resilience in ChildrenEpisode #946 How do you raise confident, self-assured kids in a world that constantly challenges their self-worth? As parents, we all want to set our children up for success—but are we doing enough to instill resilience, self-love, and a strong sense of identity? In this episode, Doug and Erin Holt share real, actionable strategies they use to parent with intention. They discuss simple but powerful habits that help children develop emotional intelligence, confidence, and inner strength. From using positive language and mirror affirmations to modeling self-care and teaching accountability, they break down ways to create a...2025-02-2722 minThe Powerful Man ShowNavigating Marriage: When to Step In and Be Your Best SelfEpisode #944 Too many couples get stuck in a cycle of waiting—waiting for their partner to change, waiting for things to get better, waiting for the right moment. But what if you made the first move? In this episode, Doug and Erin Holt dive into the real dynamics of marriage, why so many women initiate divorce, and what men can do to step up before it’s too late. They break down the patterns that push couples apart, the hidden signals men often miss, and the power of taking ownership—without waiting for permission. Whet...2025-02-2229 minThe Powerful Man ShowBreathe Deep: A Guide to Managing Anger and Strengthening RelationshipsEpisode #943 Ever found yourself reacting in the heat of the moment—only to regret it later? Whether it’s frustration with your wife, your kids, or even a stranger cutting you off in traffic, anger can quickly take control if you don’t have the right tools to manage it. In this episode, Doug Holt and TPM Advisor Christopher tackle a crucial question from a listener: How do you calm yourself when anger arises or when past issues resurface in your relationship? They break down practical techniques to help you stay grounded, process emotions, and avoid...2025-02-2023 minThe Powerful Man ShowUnlocking Intimacy: Practical Steps for A Thriving RelationshipEpisode #942 Ever feel like you and your wife are more like roommates than partners? You’re not alone. Over time, responsibilities pile up, communication fades, and connection slips away—but it doesn’t have to stay that way. In this episode, Doug sits down with his wife, Erin Holt, to tackle one of the most common questions men ask: How do I reconnect with my wife? They break down the real reasons relationships drift apart and share practical steps to bring back intimacy, trust, and playfulness in your marriage. They discuss the small, everyd...2025-02-1822 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: Woman's POV: Choosing Sides-Navigating the Parent-Child Bond in MarriageEpisode #934 We’re revisiting an episode that hit home for so many listeners: what happens when your marriage starts feeling off balance because one partner seems more focused on the kids than the relationship? Doug and Erin Holt tackle this all-too-common dynamic with fresh insights and timeless advice. They explore why this happens—unmet emotional needs, the identity shifts of parenthood, and societal pressures—and, more importantly, how to fix it. If your relationship feels strained, this episode will remind you why protecting your marriage is vital—not just for you and your partner...2025-01-3030 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: Woman's POV: Change She Can't Believe-Decoding Distrust in TransformationEpisode #930 When one partner starts to change, even for the better, it can shake the foundation of a relationship. In this revisited episode, Doug and Erin Holt dive into the common struggle of earning back trust when your growth feels like it’s not enough for her to believe in. We’ll explore why she’s skeptical, how emotional safety plays a huge role, and why consistency is your biggest ally. This is about more than just proving yourself—it’s about creating a lasting shift that both you and your partner can trust. If you’v...2025-01-2128 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: Woman's POV: Unlocking Desire-What Women Really Find Sexy in MenEpisode #920 What truly draws women to a man? Spoiler: it’s not about the car or abs—it’s all about the energy he brings to the table. In this revisited episode, Doug Holt is joined again by his wife, Erin, as they dive deeper into what makes a man irresistible from a woman’s perspective. Drawing on her experience as a coach, Erin shares how grounded confidence, emotional maturity, and genuine presence create an undeniable spark. They also unpack why neediness is a major turn-off and how small, intentional changes can completely transform your connecti...2024-12-2829 minThe Powerful Man ShowA Balanced Approach to Health: Fitness, Business, and LifestyleEpisode #913 What if fitness didn’t mean endless hours in the gym or giving up the foods you love? In this episode, Doug Holt interviews fitness expert David Sherban, who shares his practical, no-nonsense approach to achieving health and fitness without sacrificing your lifestyle. With years of experience as a coach and gym owner, David reveals how small, consistent changes can lead to sustainable results, challenging the myth of "all-or-nothing" routines. Listeners will learn: Why making health a priority now prevents future challenges. How to build a fitness plan that fits your bu...2024-12-1239 minThe Powerful Man ShowWoman's POV: What To Do When Your Wife Doesn't Notice The Changes You're MakingEpisode #898 Are you putting in the work to improve yourself, only to feel like your wife doesn’t notice the changes? You’re not alone. Many men experience this frustration, wondering why their efforts to be better partners go unacknowledged. In this episode, Doug and Erin Holt dive into the reasons behind this disconnect. Erin shares insights from a woman’s perspective, highlighting the importance of communication, consistency, and focusing on what truly impacts your relationship. You’ll learn how to recognize if your efforts are coming across clearly—or if you’re missing the...2024-11-0725 minThe Powerful Man ShowUnlocking the Secrets to Trust and Connection in MarriageEpisode #886 Is your lack of trust pushing your wife away? Ever feel like the more you try to keep your relationship in check, the more distant things get? In this episode, we dive into how unresolved trust issues can lead to the very problems you fear most in your marriage. Doug Holt and guest, Christopher, unpack real-life scenarios where men unintentionally drive their partners away by letting fear and mistrust take over. They explore the ripple effects that mistrust has in other areas of life—business, friendships, and self-growth. In this episode, you'll le...2024-10-1028 minThe Powerful Man ShowLeadership in Marriage: The Importance of Masculine StrengthEpisode #885 Struggling to lead in your marriage? Feel like no matter what you do, your wife’s still unhappy or overspending? You’re not alone. It’s time to rethink your approach. In this episode, Doug Holt and Christopher dive into masculine leadership in relationships. Learn why setting boundaries and taking ownership is key to reigniting intimacy, restoring balance, and building a healthier, more passionate marriage. Your wife’s waiting for you to step up—here’s how you can lead with confidence and provide the emotional safety she’s craving. We cover: What’s rea...2024-10-0838 minThe Powerful Man ShowThe Power of Vulnerability: Tips for Stronger MarriagesEpisode #884 Holding back your emotions, thinking it's making you a stronger man in your marriage? What if the opposite is true? Vulnerability could be the key to the connection you're missing with your wife. In this episode, Doug and Erin Holt break down why vulnerability matters in a relationship and how it can flip the script in your marriage. They’ll give you actionable tips on how to open up without losing your strength and explain why your wife needs both your masculine energy and your emotional depth. Learn how leading with self-awareness can rebuild tr...2024-10-0534 minThe Powerful Man ShowWomen's Cycles: What Every Man Needs to KnowEpisode #883 Do you know how your wife’s or daughter’s cycle really impacts your relationship? In this episode, Doug sits down with his wife, Erin Holt, to tackle a subject every man should understand—women’s cycles. Erin breaks it down in a straightforward, easy-to-grasp way, explaining how hormonal shifts affect women week by week. Together, they discuss how men can step up and better support the women in their lives—whether it’s their wives, daughters, or even coworkers. By understanding these cycles, men can improve communication, anticipate needs, and enhance intimacy. In this ep...2024-10-0340 minThe Powerful Man ShowBecome the Man You'd Want Your Daughter To MarryEpisode #870 In this episode, we dive deep into what it truly means to embody the qualities of the man you’d want your daughter to marry. Join us as we explore how to break free from the cycle of feeling like just a paycheck, disconnected from your family, and struggling to find respect and intimacy in your marriage. Doug Holt share personal stories and actionable insights on how to regain your power, reignite the passion in your marriage, and become the leader your family needs. This episode is a must-listen for any married business owner fe...2024-09-0315 minThe Powerful Man ShowSMV 2.0: Advanced Strategies to Maximize Your Sexual Market ValueEpisode #865 Ever wondered how to elevate your Sexual Market Value (SMV) and become the best version of yourself, whether you're single or in a committed relationship? In this episode, we dive deep into advanced strategies that go beyond the basics. Doug Holt and Tim Matthews discuss how to avoid falling into the routine traps that can lower your SMV and how to leverage your appearance, confidence, and social status to become magnetic. You'll learn actionable steps to refine your grooming, enhance your physical fitness, and build a strong social network. Plus, discover how...2024-08-2243 minThe Powerful Man ShowBreaking the Cycle: Understanding and Healing the Root of Repeating PatternsEpisode #855 In this episode, titled "Breaking the Cycle - Understanding and Healing the Root of Repeating Patterns," we explore why so many men find themselves stuck in a loop of relationship challenges and how they can break free. Doug Holt and Tim Matthews will uncover the core reasons behind recurring issues in marriages, particularly for high-achieving men. They’ll share personal stories and proven strategies to help you understand the underlying patterns that keep you and your wife disconnected. Learn how to heal from past wounds, re-establish trust, and create a lasting, passionate connection with yo...2024-07-3029 minThe Powerful Man ShowWhy Don't Women Apologize? Understanding the Dynamics of Apologies in RelationshipsEpisode #854 Join us for a deep dive into the complex world of apologies in relationships in this insightful episode of The Powerful Man podcast. Hosts Doug Holt and Tim Matthews explore why women often struggle with saying "I'm sorry," and how this dynamic affects marriages and partnerships. In this episode, we uncover the psychological and emotional factors that contribute to this phenomenon, discussing real-life examples and expert insights. We also offer practical advice for men on how to navigate these challenging situations, fostering better communication and deeper connections with their partners. Whether you're...2024-07-2725 minThe Powerful Man ShowFrom Stuck to Scaling: Mastering Business SystemsEpisode #852 Are you feeling stuck in your business growth journey? Tune in to this episode of The Powerful Man Podcast as Doug Holt and Brad Holt dive into the essential strategies for scaling your business through effective systems and processes. In this episode, Doug and Brad discuss how business leaders can transition from working tirelessly in their business to working strategically on their business. They share their expertise in implementing robust systems that not only streamline operations but also free up valuable time, allowing entrepreneurs to focus on what truly matters. You'll discover:2024-07-2329 minThe Powerful Man ShowThe Success Circle: Leveraging Relationships for GrowthEpisode #851 Do the people around you influence your success? In this episode, Doug Holt and Brad Holt dive into the power of community and how the people you surround yourself with can supercharge your personal growth. You'll discover why the average of the five people you spend the most time with shapes who you are and who you can become. Brad spills the beans on building a vision for self-improvement across health, relationships, wealth, and business, and why being in a supportive yet competitive environment is a game-changer for hitting your...2024-07-2021 minThe Powerful Man ShowTransform Your Relationships: The One Simple Change That Makes All the DifferenceEpisode #844 In this episode, Doug Holt dives deep into the one simple change that can revolutionize your relationships. Whether it's with your wife, kids, friends, or co-workers, this one strategy can make a world of difference. Imagine improving your marriage, reconnecting with your children, and even boosting your business, all by shifting your mindset. Doug shares a powerful story of a client who applied this technique and saw remarkable improvements in every area of his life. Tune in to discover how assuming others have great intentions can break down barriers, foster deeper connections...2024-07-0415 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: The Need For Every Man To Have A Mission And PurposeEpisode #842 Are you feeling stuck even after achieving business success? In this episode, we dive into why many successful businessmen reach a point where financial achievements no longer bring satisfaction. You'll learn about the importance of shifting focus from money to mission and purpose, and how contributing to others can lead to deeper fulfillment. In this episode, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews discuss: The transformational Alpha Reset experience. Why mission and purpose matter more than money. How to find your mission and purpose. Real-life examples of men transitioning from business...2024-06-2919 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: A Woman’s Take – Why Neediness Is Such A Turn-offIn this episode, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews dive deep into why neediness is such a turn-off in relationships. Joined by special guests, they explore the root causes of neediness and offer practical steps to regain confidence and self-worth. Learn how to stop seeking validation from others and start filling your own cup. Discover the importance of pursuing your passions, connecting with a supportive group of men, and reclaiming your identity outside of your relationship. Whether you're struggling with feeling unappreciated or just want to strengthen your sense of self, this episode provides valuable insights to help...2024-06-1827 minThe Powerful Man ShowThe Nice Guy Evolution: Balancing Kindness and AssertivenessEpisode #834 Welcome to another episode of The TPM Show, where we dive deep into the complex world of relationships and personal growth for men. In this episode, "The Nice Guy Evolution: Balancing Kindness and Assertiveness," Doug Holt and special guest, coach Andy Torr, tackle the delicate balance between being a nice guy and maintaining assertiveness in relationships. Many men fall into the "nice guy" trap, believing that appeasing their partner will lead to a happy marriage. Doug and Andy explore why this approach often backfires, pushing partners away instead of bringing them closer. They discuss...2024-06-1125 minThe Powerful Man ShowEmotional Savvy: Unlocking Your Inner PotentialEpisode #832 Join Doug Holt and Andy Torr in this enlightening episode of "The Powerful Man Podcast" as they dive deep into the heart of emotional intelligence. Discover how understanding and managing your emotions can lead to stronger relationships, greater self-awareness, and a more fulfilling life. In this episode, Doug and Andy explore the concept of emotional intelligence, shedding light on how emotions like anger and vulnerability play pivotal roles in our lives. They discuss practical strategies for recognizing and addressing underlying emotions, enhancing your ability to connect with others genuinely. Listen as Andy...2024-06-0620 minThe Powerful Man ShowNice Guy Habits That Make Her LeaveEpisode #831 In this episode, Doug Holt is joined by Brad Holt, our CEO and trusted advisor. Together, they dive deep into a critical topic affecting many men: the habits of being a "nice guy" that can unintentionally drive your wife away. Doug and Brad discuss how many well-meaning men, often successful business leaders and dedicated husbands, fall into patterns of behavior that they believe will make their wives happy, only to find it has the opposite effect. These behaviors, rooted in the desire to please and avoid conflict, can actually lead to a loss of...2024-06-0422 minThe Powerful Man ShowWhat Is Engaged Indifference?Episode #830 In this episode, Doug Holt and Brad Holt dive into the concept of "engaged indifference." Learn how staying emotionally grounded while remaining present can transform your relationship. Doug shares personal stories and practical strategies for becoming the unwavering lighthouse in your marriage, ensuring your wife feels emotionally safe, even during conflicts. Join us as we explore how to break free from defensive reactions and create a space where genuine communication and connection can flourish. Whether you're facing frequent disagreements or simply want to deepen your bond, this episode offers valuable insights to...2024-06-0127 minThe Powerful Man ShowIt's Not Just About Your MarriageEpisode #829 In this episode, Doug Holt and Brad Holt dive deep into the multifaceted world of men's growth, exploring the essential five territories: Self, Health, Wealth, Relationships, and Business. Discover how balancing these areas is crucial for a fulfilling life, both personally and professionally. Doug and Brad discuss real-life success stories, revealing how men who thought their primary goal was to save their marriage found that the journey led to a complete life overhaul. From rekindling passion in the bedroom to landing major business deals, the episode underscores the interconnectedness of our personal and professional...2024-05-3032 minThe Powerful Man ShowWoman's POV: Unlocking Desire-What Women Really Find Sexy in MenEpisode #828 In this episode, Doug Holt dives deep into the female perspective on what truly ignites desire in women. Joined by relationship expert Tim Matthews, they explore the often-overlooked aspects of male attractiveness that go beyond physical appearance. Discover the secrets to rekindling passion, building deeper connections, and understanding the subtle cues that make a man irresistible. Listeners will gain valuable insights into: The psychological triggers of female desire. How to communicate in ways that foster intimacy and trust. Practical steps men can take to become more attractive to their partners. Real-life stories and...2024-05-2829 minThe Powerful Man ShowRedefining Legacy: Leaving a Lasting Impact Beyond WealthEpisode #827 In this episode of the TPM Show, hosts Doug Holt and Brad Holt dive deep into the concept of legacy. What does it truly mean to leave a legacy, and how can you ensure it's one of choice rather than circumstance? The Holts discuss the importance of living authentically and intentionally, demonstrating how you can provide for your family not just financially, but also through actions that speak louder than words. From the "rocking chair test" to envisioning your ultimate legacy, this episode is packed with actionable advice. Learn why it's crucial to plan...2024-05-2528 minThe Powerful Man ShowTruth or Consequences: Navigating Lies and Broken Promises in RelationshipsEpisode #826 In this episode of The TPM Show, Doug Holt and his brother Brad delve into the complexities of honesty in relationships. Join them as they explore how secrets and lies can build invisible walls, causing distance and mistrust between partners. They discuss the importance of integrity, the emotional toll of hiding the truth, and how coming clean can lead to personal freedom and deeper connections. Learn how men can navigate the fear of being honest, the potential backlash from their partners, and the path to building stronger, more authentic relationships. Through heartfelt anecdotes and...2024-05-2329 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: Swinging The Pendulum Too Far When Fixing “Nice Guy Mode”Episode #818 Have you ever felt like your efforts to be a "nice guy" in relationships aren't yielding the desired results? Do you find yourself swinging between extremes, from being overly accommodating to becoming assertive in an attempt to correct past behaviors? In this engaging discussion, Doug Holt delves into the common pitfalls many men face in relationships, shedding light on the journey of self-discovery, the struggle to find a balance, and the quest for authenticity. He explores the impact of seeking external validation and emphasizes the importance of finding a middle...2024-05-0421 minThe Powerful Man ShowCalculating Your Losses: What Inaction Really CostsEpisode #814 Are you tired of watching opportunities pass you by? Ever wondered what inaction is truly costing you, not just in business but in life? In this episode, Doug Holt dives deep into the concept of the "cost of inaction." Using compelling anecdotes and expert insights, he examines how failing to act can detrimentally impact various aspects of your life—from your relationships to your business ventures. Doug discusses how hesitation can be the biggest threat to progress and offers practical advice on how to evaluate and confront the costs associated with inaction. Wh...2024-04-2515 minThe Powerful Man ShowNo Laughing Matter: When Your Jokes Hurt More Than They HealEpisode #813 Ever wonder if your playful jabs at your partner are truly all in good fun, or if they might be causing more harm than good? In this episode, Doug Holt explores a critical aspect of relationships that many overlook—the impact of our jokes and teasing on our spouses. Whether it's a light-hearted comment about the dishes or a sarcastic remark in a social setting, the words we choose and the energy behind them can profoundly affect the emotional climate of our relationships. Doug shares personal anecdotes and insights from years of co...2024-04-2320 minThe Powerful Man ShowAnniversaries Unveiled: Transform Your Milestones into a Masterpiece of LoveEpisode #809 Are you ready to transform your anniversary from an overlooked date to a masterpiece of love and surprise? How can you ensure that this special occasion leaves both you and your partner eagerly awaiting the next? In this episode of "Anniversaries Unveiled," Doug Holt dives deep into the heart of celebrating anniversaries not just as a date on the calendar, but as a landmark event in your relationship. He shares personal anecdotes and practical tips that can turn your annual celebration into an unforgettable experience. Doug discusses the importance of planning ahead...2024-04-1311 minThe Powerful Man ShowWhen Your Libidos Don't Match: Bridging the Desire Gap in MarriageEver wonder how mismatched libidos can impact a marriage and what you can do about it? In this episode of the TPM Show, Doug Holt delves into the common but rarely discussed issue of the "desire gap" in relationships. Discover how differences in sexual desire between partners can strain a marriage and the practical, actionable strategies that can help bridge this gap. Doug shares personal anecdotes and professional insights on the dynamics of desire, revealing why connection is crucial for intimacy. He discusses the impact of schedules, stress, and biological rhythms on sexual health and...2024-04-1115 minThe Powerful Man ShowLove is a Battlefield: Turning Conflict into Compassion in Your MarriageAre you and your partner battling more than bonding? In today’s TPM Show episode, we dive into the age-old question of how to turn marital conflict into a catalyst for compassion and connection. In this episode, Doug Holt discusses the common but challenging issue of conflict in marriages. He opens up about his own experiences and shares insights on navigating disagreements to strengthen rather than strain relationships. With a focus on fighting for your marriage, not in it, Doug introduces practical techniques such as the "hidden motives technique" and the importance of validation and empathy in co...2024-04-0921 minThe Powerful Man ShowIs your phone stealing your spouse? Reconnect in the screen-saturated worldEpisode #807 Is your relationship suffering in our screen-saturated world? Are digital devices becoming a third wheel in your marriage? In an age where technology often competes with intimacy, this episode dives deep into the heart of relationships amidst the digital chaos. Discover how to reclaim the connection that screens have slowly eroded away. In this episode, Doug Holt addresses a critical issue facing couples today: the battle for attention in a world dominated by screens. He shares personal anecdotes, humor, and actionable advice on navigating digital distractions to foster deeper connections. Listeners will...2024-04-0617 minThe Powerful Man ShowBeyond the Material: Making Your Woman Feel Seen, Heard, and DesiredEpisode #805 Welcome to another episode of the TPM show, where we dive deep into the essence of truly meaningful relationships. This time, Doug Holt explores the unparalleled gift every man can give to the woman in his life: the gift of being seen, heard, and desired. Beyond material possessions and superficial accolades lies a profound understanding of a woman's intrinsic needs that, when fulfilled, can elevate a relationship to extraordinary heights. In this episode, Doug shares personal anecdotes and insights from his own life and marriage, revealing how acknowledging and acting upon these three fundamental...2024-04-0411 minThe Powerful Man ShowGrow Together by Growing Apart: Personal Development as the Key to Saving Your MarriageEpisode #804 In a world where routine and monotony can wear down the strongest of bonds, "Grow Together by Growing Apart: Personal Development as the Key to Saving Your Marriage" presents an enlightening perspective on rekindling the spark in your relationship. Doug Holt sheds light on an often-overlooked aspect of marriage—personal growth. In this episode, Doug delves into the crux of marital stagnancy and the transformative power of self-improvement. With compelling anecdotes and practical advice, he navigates the journey of self-discovery and the ripple effect it has on one’s partner and the marriage as a wh...2024-04-0216 minThe Powerful Man ShowLove's Battlefield: Navigating Disagreements Without Losing ConnectionEpisode #803 Dive into "Love's Battlefield: Navigating Disagreements Without Losing Connection," where Doug Holt delves into transforming relationship conflicts into opportunities for intimacy. This episode is a lifeline for anyone trapped in the endless cycle of arguments, offering a fresh perspective on partnership dynamics. In this episode, Doug shares his journey from enduring weeks of disconnection to resolving conflicts in seconds, spotlighting the transformative strategies that can change the course of any relationship. He emphasizes actionable steps and introduces techniques like the hidden motives technique to foster understanding and connection. Listeners will come away...2024-03-3019 minThe Powerful Man ShowPublic Put-Downs: Turning Humiliation Into HarmonyEpisode #802 Ever found yourself on the receiving end of a put-down from your partner in a public setting? It's more common than you think, and it's definitely not a reflection of your worth. In this insightful episode of the TPM Show, join Doug Holt as he delves deep into the delicate dynamics of public embarrassment and criticism within intimate relationships. With humor, empathy, and expert guidance, Doug unpacks why these painful interactions happen and how you can respond powerfully and respectfully to rebuild respect and understanding. This episode is not just about navigating the waters...2024-03-2817 minThe Powerful Man ShowWhen You Stop Caring, Results Start To ComeEpisode #794 Are you feeling disconnected from your partner, struggling to reignite the passion in your relationship? Do you find yourself constantly seeking validation and approval, only to feel like you're pushing your partner further away? In this thought-provoking episode of the TPM show, Doug Holt delves into the concept of engaged indifference, offering insights on how to cultivate a sense of self-worth and independence within your relationship dynamic. In this episode, you'll learn practical strategies for maintaining a strong sense of self while fostering deeper connection and attraction in your relationship.2024-03-0913 minThe Powerful Man Show10 Warning Signs Your Wife Might Be CheatingEpisode #793 Are you noticing changes in your wife's behavior that are causing you concern? Do you suspect infidelity in your marriage but are unsure how to address it? In this insightful episode, relationship expert Doug Holt, provides valuable guidance on how to approach suspicions of infidelity in a marriage with understanding and maturity. Doug explores warning signs of infidelity, such as changes in social behavior, secrecy, and a lack of interest in family activities. He emphasizes the importance of open communication, avoiding blame, and focusing on the health of...2024-03-0752 minThe Powerful Man ShowHow To Be ConsistentEpisode #791 Why do we struggle with maintaining consistency in their daily lives? What internal barriers hinder our progress toward achieving our goals? In this enlightening episode of the TPM show, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews, delve deep into the crucial aspect of consistency, shedding light on common excuses and self-sabotaging behaviors that hold individuals back from reaching their full potential. Reflecting on their own experiences and interactions with high-performing individuals, they provide practical insights and actionable advice for listeners to implement in their own lives, empowering them to break free from...2024-03-0225 minThe Powerful Man ShowHow Is Not The AnswerEpisode #789 Are you struggling to commit to your goals for the year? Do you find yourself lacking motivation or direction? Join the insightful conversation between two powerful men, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews, as they share invaluable advice on how to overcome obstacles and achieve your true potential. Dive into their practical tips and strategies that will empower you to take control of your life and become the best version of yourself. In this episode, you will learn the importance of setting clear goals and surrounding yourself with a...2024-02-2734 minThe Powerful Man ShowA Woman's Take: Getting Her To See The Man You Are TodayEpisode #787 How can individuals foster genuine change within their relationships? What role does consistency and authenticity play in personal growth and transformation? In this episode of the TPM show, host Doug welcomes his wife Erin back to the podcast to explore these questions and offer invaluable insights into navigating the complexities of romantic partnerships. As they delve into the dynamics of fostering positive change, Doug and Erin emphasize the importance of internal validation and modeling consistent behavior. Through their discussion, listeners gain practical advice on cultivating fulfilling relationships grounded in authenticity...2024-02-2223 minThe Powerful Man ShowReframing The Term "Shit Test"Episode #786 Are you tired of feeling like your partner is constantly testing you? Do you struggle to understand the underlying message behind their complaints? In this enlightening conversation from the TPM show, hosts Doug Holt and master coach Mark Hainsworth delve into the transformative power of reframing "Shit Tests" as "Safety Tests" within relationships. By shifting the perspective from perceived challenges to opportunities for connection, Mark shares valuable insights on how to recognize and respond to these emotional cues effectively. In this episode, you'll learn how to navigate moments...2024-02-2022 minThe Powerful Man ShowAn Open Conversation About Trauma, Shame And NarcissismEpisode #785 What lies at the heart of behaviors labeled as narcissistic? How do deep-seated fears and insecurities influence decision-making and relationship dynamics? In this engaging conversation, Doug Holt and Mark Hainsworth delve into various psychological and relational dynamics, raising thought-provoking questions about personal growth and behavior. They explore the concept of narcissism, dissecting its origins and manifestations, while also examining the role of fear in decision-making and relationship dynamics. With a focus on self-awareness and taking proactive steps, the speakers challenge listeners to confront their fears and embrace change in order t...2024-02-171h 10The Powerful Man ShowHow To Truly Lead Your Family By Taking The First StepEpisode #781 Are you struggling in your marriage and feeling disconnected from your partner? Do you find yourself searching for answers but unsure where to turn? Join Doug Holt and Ryan Peach as they dive deep into the challenges many men face in their relationships and the path to reclaiming leadership in their homes. Through heartfelt conversations and personal anecdotes, Doug and Ryan explore the journey of rediscovering oneself and reigniting the spark in a marriage. With insights drawn from their own experiences and the stories of countless men they've helped, they...2024-02-0839 minThe Powerful Man ShowAre You Acting Like A Teenager With Your Family?Episode #777 In this engaging podcast episode, Doug Holt tackles common challenges faced by men in their relationships with a poignant exploration guided by two fundamental questions: What do men genuinely seek in their connections with others, and how can they navigate moments of discord without succumbing to a reactive teenage mindset? The narrative unfolds as a thoughtful exploration of desires, relentless pursuit, and effective communication strategies. In this episode, you'll gain valuable insights into the dynamics of successful relationships by delving into the significance of understanding and articulating one's desires. 2024-01-3017 minThe Powerful Man ShowSwinging The Pendulum Too Far When Fixing “Nice Guy Mode”Episode #776 Have you ever felt like your efforts to be a "nice guy" in relationships aren't yielding the desired results? Do you find yourself swinging between extremes, from being overly accommodating to becoming assertive in an attempt to correct past behaviors? In this engaging discussion, Doug Holt delves into the common pitfalls many men face in relationships, shedding light on the journey of self-discovery, the struggle to find a balance, and the quest for authenticity. He explores the impact of seeking external validation and emphasizes the importance of finding a middle...2024-01-2721 minThe Powerful Man ShowA Woman's Take: How To Help Your Wife Find Her PathEpisode #757 Ever wondered how to lovingly guide your partner toward self-improvement without resorting to telling them what to do? These questions lay the groundwork for an insightful conversation about fostering positive change within a relationship. Join the latest episode of "The Powerful Man Show," where Doug and his wife, Erin, candidly explore the challenges couples face when one partner experiences significant personal growth while the other remains in a static phase. Erin shares her expertise as a coach for women and emphasizes the significance of modeling positive behavior. In...2023-12-1423 minThe Powerful Man ShowA Woman's Take: How To Handle Rejection From Your PartnerEpisode #756 Are you struggling to navigate the complexities of intimacy and connection in your relationship? Wondering how to break through barriers and create a deeper, more fulfilling connection with your partner? Embark on a unique exploration of the intricacies surrounding relationship rejection with Doug Holt and, for the very first time, a truly special guest – none other than his loving wife and fellow coach, Erin Holt. In this podcast episode, the power couple shares unparalleled insights, drawing from their personal experiences to provide a distinctive perspective on reigniting passion and connection. Jo...2023-12-1233 minThe Powerful Man ShowWhat To Do When You've Let Your Body Go Physically, And How To Get It Back On Track TodayEpisode #753 Have you ever wondered why your fitness goals seem elusive despite your efforts? Are you aware of the often underestimated impact of calories in everyday items, such as drinks and coffee creamer, on your overall health? In a dynamic conversation, Doug Holt and guest, Scott Johnson, a fitness professional, explore the intricacies of nutrition, exercise, and rehabilitation, offering valuable insights and debunking common misconceptions. In this episode, you'll learn not only about the significance of calories but also about the need to focus on the basics for sustainable fitness results.2023-12-0554 minThe Powerful Man ShowHow To Recover From An InfidelityEpisode #706 Are you struggling with the aftermath of infidelity in your relationship? Can a relationship truly endure and heal after infidelity? In this episode of The Powerful Man Show, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews offer invaluable insights into overcoming these obstacles and forging a path toward a renewed and resilient partnership. Rebuilding trust requires both parties to let go of control and embrace a new beginning in the relationship. In this episode, you'll learn about the challenges of rebuilding trust after infidelity and discover practical strategies to navigate this challenging journey. __________ Hungry for more? He...2023-08-1724 minThe Powerful Man ShowDoug's Cross-Country Road Trip To Visit The WivesEpisode #704 Ever wondered how a passionless marriage can evolve into a flourishing partnership? Can principles of transformation truly rekindle the flames of love and connection? In this episode of The Powerful Man Show, Tim Matthews welcomes back co-host Dougie Fresh (Doug Holt) as they delve into Doug's recent cross-continental road trip, a unique endeavor inspired by the stories of men whose lives and relationships have been revolutionized by The Powerful Man Movement. Doug shares insights from his interactions with these couples, their families, and the profound impact that embracing the Movement's principles have had on their marriages. From tea...2023-08-1222 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: How To Say Sorry Without Giving Away Your BallsEpisode #530 How can you say sorry without giving up your power? Apologizing to our women is one of the hardest things for us men to do. Usually, we don't apologize when we feel that we haven't done anything wrong. However, if we really think that we have done something wrong, we tend to do everything we could and lower ourselves just to make it up to her. This is not healthy. One thing you could do is explain to her why you've gotten angry in the first place. Tell...2022-07-0224 minThe Powerful Man ShowWhat Happened On Doug's Recent BirthdayEpisode #338 Happy Birthday, Doug! What realizations and reflections did he have while celebrating his birthday? He woke up next to his wife in the morning and they made love right away. She prepared all his favorite food. She made an amazing breakfast. She arranged a special day just for him. It was an amazing time. The moment she smiled and looked at him with admiration and respect, he had a moment of reflection and looked back at the way things used to be in their life. He was thinking...2021-04-1023 minThe Powerful Man ShowHow To Say Sorry Without Giving Away Your BallsEpisode #239 How can you say sorry without giving up your power? Apologizing to our women is one of the hardest things for us men to do. Usually, we don't apologize when we feel that we haven't done anything wrong. However, if we really think that we have done something wrong, we tend to do everything we could and lower ourselves just to make it up to her. This is not healthy. One thing you could do is explain to her why you've gotten angry in the first place. Tell...2020-08-2224 minThe Powerful Man Show9AM Doug VS. 5PM DougEpisode #181 What will you feel when someone says something about you being a horrible businessman or being a crappy husband? What would you be scared of people thinking about you? In this episode, we talk about the guilt and shame that many of us feel when we aren't "on track". How there is a stigma around falling "off track" because as men, we feel we should be strong and tough enough to do everything on our list and that we should be perfect. Because of this pressure we have all put...2020-04-0918 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: What Are Your StandardsEpisode #125 In this episode, Tim & Doug discuss how to shift your mindset to make progress in your business and personal life and how it starts with asking yourself about your standards. Using a real-life example, Tim & Doug share a story of a member of the Activation Method who completely shifted his mindset from one of self-limiting beliefs and fear to confidence and abundance to completely transform his life and his business. Over the course of 1 year, this individual went from being unable to sell in his specialist area to 10x-ing his sales, selling to the...2019-11-3026 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: My Business or My MarriageEpisode #124 In this episode Tim & Doug one of the most common issues they encounter in The Activation Method. Men who feel they need to choose between their marriage or their business. In another open and honest discussion, Tim & Doug share their thoughts on what they describe as one of the most common issues faced by men across the business world today. However, it’s not something anyone needs to go through, what happens if you replace the word ‘or’ with the word ‘and’ in this scenario, how does that life look to you? This is so...2019-11-2825 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: Don't Go To WarEpisode #123 Enjoy the Journey! How often do you hear that phrase, life is a journey and it needs to be enjoyed? However, being involved in a battle or war isn’t an enjoyable experience. In this episode, Tim & Doug present another deep discussion about what it truly means to become a powerful man and they put the case forward for ditching the idea of a physical, tough, war-like alpha male in favor of a calm, quietly confident, self-assured man as being the one we should aspire to. As men, we are so...2019-11-2626 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: Why Success Is Not Always SexyEpisode #119 “The most powerful force in the entire universe is compounded interest” In this week's episode, Tim & Doug share another invaluable conversation that will empower your mindset and improve your business and personal when putting to action. How often are we sold the dream of success and what does that dream look like… most likely you are visualizing the “sexy” success story; money, cars, women, big houses. This, however, is simply a dream we’ve been sold via marketing. Marketing also sells us the dream that this can be done instantly and that your success...2019-11-1624 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: Honor Your WordEpisode #118 “We’re all on the way out so we may as well enjoy it!” The quote that sums up the premise of this weeks’ episode as Tim & Doug discuss the importance of sticking to your word. Have you ever found you miss appointments, cancel meetings or don’t follow through on things you say you will do with your family or in your business? This doesn’t mean you’re a bad person, just that you are committing to too many things that you are not passionate about. In this episode, you will discover...2019-11-1422 minThe Powerful Man ShowRevisit: Face Your DemonsEpisode #117 In this episode, Tim shares a very personal topic of how his extended family is littered with suicide and broken down relationships due to demons of the past being handed down through generations. Tim explains how he overcame the demons in his immediate family and discusses the wider picture of how this generation needs to step up to our demons by having conversations and taking responsibility. Mental health among young people is at an all-time low. Tim & Doug try to trace why so many people can relate to having being passed on the demons...2019-11-1230 minThe Powerful Man ShowIt’s Not the LocationEpisode #084 In this episode, we revisit one of our most popular episodes. Tim & Doug discuss a real-life example of a man they spoke with who felt everything around him was the reason he was unfulfilled. He blamed the location in which he was based, the people and other external factors for all that was wrong in his life, avoiding the real issue, which was himself! This is a very common occurrence in men that Tim & Doug help on a regular basis. People who don’t take responsibility for themselves and always look to the nearest th...2019-08-2728 minThe Powerful Man ShowDo It Now [Revisit]Episode #080 How often do you think about things that you want to do but put them off? In this episode, Tim & Doug present another incredibly motivating 30 minutes of audio about how we fall into the trap of procrastinating and putting things off with excuses and lies that we tell ourselves. “The beggar and the billionaire have the same amount of time in the day” is a quote reference by Tim in this episode to try and explain why we need to stop using time and other things as an excuse not to do thin...2019-08-1729 minThe Powerful Man ShowHow To Win A DivorceEpisode #69 In this episode, Tim and Doug talk about Doug's conversation with a business owner about a topic on relationships. This business owner, while revisiting his Amazon Kindle account, found a purchased book entitled "How to Win a Divorce for Women". Thinking his marriage was going good, spending his time slugging along, working, getting things done, providing for his wife and his three kids, discovering this about his wife who bought a book about how to win a divorce raises a really huge red flag. Shocking as it may seem, but most men...2019-07-2322 minThe Powerful Man ShowBe Pulled By Your Dreams [Revisit]Episode #061 In this episode Tim & Doug discuss one of the most common questions asked by high achievers; If I become content in my life will I still be driven? A lot of people fear what might happen if they achieve the things they really desire, they have a fear that they will no longer have something to aim for and this is a key reason as to why a lot of people, if pushed by fear, hit the self destruct button and damage their lives and business. Understanding how fear can hold you bac...2019-07-0424 minThe Powerful Man ShowDon't Ruffle Any Feathers [Revisit]Episode #060 Tim and Doug share real-life examples of when someone in a relationship holds back on who they really are in order to keep the other person happy. This is something that they see over and over again from members of ‘The Activation Process’ and it always leads to a false or failed relationship. Like in any relationship, if you hold back on how you are really feeling for fear of upsetting your partner, it always gets bottled up and these bottled up emotions will always come out at some point in a much more expl...2019-07-0228 minThe Powerful Man ShowHave the Courage [Revisit]Episode #059 In this episode Tim & Doug examine the nature of courage and try to answer the question; What is courage in the modern society? Courage is something we hear about so often but do we really understand it. It’s something that we all have within us, but some are able to tap into it better than others and the benefits can be huge. Once you understand the true meaning of courage, you too can learn how to train yourself to be more courageous. Courage can be used in so many ways in yo...2019-06-2929 minThe Powerful Man ShowInvest In Your Relationship [Revisit]Episode #058 What is the most important relationship in your life? It’s safe to say, for most of us there is no relationship as important as the one you have with your partner. This relationship, like any business relationship, can be difficult and falls on hard times but how much do we actually invest in maintaining and improving it compared to our business relationship? In this episode, Tim and Doug are back to analyze and discuss the root cause and solutions to some of the most common problems in relationships. Both Tim & Doug ar...2019-06-2737 minThe Powerful Man ShowImprove a Sexless Relationship [Revisit]Episode #056 In this episode, we revisit one of our most downloaded episodes. Tim & Doug touch on the topic men too often are afraid to talk about.. their own sexual relationship. We were raised to see this as a very private part of our lives and not something that was to be discussed openly. The male ego can also stop us from admitting to a poor sexual relationship, but many people suffer from a sexless relationship that has lost its energy and spark. By understanding the energy that revolves around an exciting new relationship, you can...2019-06-2231 minThe Powerful Man ShowAchieve a Work-Life Balance [Revisit]Episode #44 Are you finding yourself out of balance when it comes to work and life? Are relationships suffering because you spend too long on your business or vice versa? You may be prioritizing the wrong things and damaging your chances of a balanced lifestyle. A work-life balance is such a common struggle and it can seem impossible to master. The truth is that it’s not. It all starts with understanding it better and on this episode, Tim & Doug share their thoughts on how by understanding your life and roles better you can le...2019-05-2535 minThe Powerful Man ShowRun Towards Fear [Revisit]Today we revisit our most popular episode -Run Towards Your Fear Tim and Doug discuss putting things off and holding back in your work and personal life. At the heart of this is often fear. Fear of change and fear of what other people think are completely natural and inbuilt in us all, but when you learn to push past this your life and business improves drastically. But how do you overcome fear? The answer is simple... Run towards your fear! It's sounds easy in many ways but it can actually be more difficult to conquer, on this podcast you can l...2019-05-2126 minThe Powerful Man ShowWhat Was the Epiphany That Changed Your LifeEpisode 31 In this episode, Doug and Tim share their personal epiphanies and how it changed their lives. Doug shared that by asking yourself questions about what you really want in life or how you feel and what's really going on will help you realize the things that really matter to you. Examine yourself and answer those questions honestly then take a step back, plan and start making a change in your life. Tim, on the other hand, shared that after having a serious and honest conversation with someone else made him...2019-04-2526 minThe Powerful Man ShowMake Happiness, Not MoneyEpisode #30 In this episode, Doug and Tim discuss the importance of finding and making happiness instead of money. Every day, we are pushing ourselves so hard in order to make more money and to enjoy life in the next few years. And yet, in order to truly enjoy life, you need to know what will really make you happy. More times than not, it is NOT the money but the experience that will give us sustained happiness. Happiness is doing what you want to do and finding purpose in what you do. If you are happy, you will be able to a...2019-04-2327 minThe Powerful Man ShowWhat To Do When A Key Employee Is Underperforming And Has Bad AttitudeEpisode 28 In this episode, Doug and Tim discuss ways on how to deal with employees who are underperforming and has a bad attitude. Tim and Doug pointed out the importance of ownership and providing opportunities to employees in order to rule out problems like this within a team. In cases like this, the employer or the boss should identify the root cause of why the employee underperforms and is unhappy. One way to find out is to open up a conversation, clear out misunderstandings and address the concerns right away. Take ownership. Know their morning routines, look into the availability of...2019-04-1823 minThe Powerful Man ShowEpisode #025 - What Are Your Standards?Episode #025 In this episode, Tim & Doug discuss how to shift your mindset to make progress in your business and personal life and how it starts with asking yourself about your standards. Using a real-life example, Tim & Doug share a story of a member of the Activation Method who completely shifted his mindset from one of self-limiting beliefs and fear to confidence and abundance to completely transform his life and his business. Over the course of 1 year, this individual went from being unable to sell in his specialist area to 10x-ing his sales, selling to the...2019-04-0926 minThe Powerful Man ShowEpisode #024 - My Business or My MarriageEpisode #024 In this episode, Tim & Doug discuss one of the most common issues they encounter in The Activation Method. Men who feel they need to choose between their marriage or their business. In another open and honest discussion, Tim & Doug share their thoughts on what they describe as one of the most common issues faced by men across the business world today. However, it’s not something anyone needs to go through, what happens if you replace the word ‘or’ with the word ‘and’ in this scenario, how does that life look to you? This is...2019-04-0225 minThe Powerful Man ShowEpisode #023 - Don’t Go to WarEpisode #023 Enjoy the Journey! How often do you hear that phrase, life is a journey and it needs to be enjoyed. However being involved in a battle or war, isn’t an enjoyable experience. In this episode Tim & Doug present another deep discussion what it truly means to become a powerful man and they put the case forward for ditching the idea of a physical, tough, war like alpha male in favour of a calm, quietly confident, self assured man as being the one we should aspire to. As men, we ar...2019-03-2626 minThe Powerful Man ShowEpisode #022 - Why Success is Not Always SexyEpisode #022 “The most powerful force in the entire universe is compounded interest” In this weeks episode Tim & Doug share another invaluable conversation that will empower your mindset and improve your business and personal when put to action. How often are we sold the dream of success and what does that dream look like… most likely you are visualizing the “sexy” success story; money, cars, women, big houses. This however, is simply a dream we’ve been sold via marketing. Marketing also sells us the dream that this can be done instantly and that your success...2019-03-1924 minThe Powerful Man ShowEpisode #021 - Be Careful Who You Seek Counsel FromEpisode #021 “You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with” In this episode, Doug brings to the table a real story of a man who was getting business advice from somebody who was completely unqualified to do so and it kicks off a discussion about the importance of surrounding yourself with like-minded people who you contribute towards your goals in business and life. We've all heard the theory about how surrounding yourself with successful people who you admire will automatically rub off on you. This sounds easy enou...2019-03-1225 minThe Powerful Man ShowEpisode #020 - Honor Your WordEpisode #020 “We’re all on the way out so we may as well enjoy it!” The quote that sums up the premise of this weeks’ episode as Tim & Doug discuss the importance of sticking to your word. Have you ever found you miss appointments, cancel meetings or don’t follow through on things you say you will do with your family or in your business? This doesn’t mean you're a bad person, just that you are committing to too many things that you are not passionate about. In this episode, you will discover how...2019-03-0523 minThe Powerful Man ShowEpisode #019 - Do It NowEpisode #019 How often do you think about things that you want or feel the need to do but put them off? In this episode Tim & Doug present another incredibly motivating 30 minutes of audio about how we fall into the trap of procrastinating and putting things off with excuses and lies that we tell ourselves. “The beggar and the billionaire have the same amount of time in the day” is a quote reference by Tim in this episode to try and explain why we need to stop using time and other things as an excu...2019-02-2629 minThe Powerful Man ShowEpisode #017 - It’s not the LocationEpisode #017 In this episode Tim & Doug discuss a real life example of a man they spoke with who felt everything around him was the reason he was unfulfilled. He blamed the location in which he was based, the people and other external factors for all that was wrong in his life, avoiding the real issue, which was himself! This is a very common occurrence in men that Tim & Doug help on a regular basis. People who don’t take responsibility for themselves and always look to the nearest thing to point the finger of blame. We...2019-02-1228 minThe Powerful Man ShowEpisode 15 - Face your DemonsEpisode #015 In this episode, Tim shares a very personal of how his extended family is littered with suicide and broken down relationships due to demons of the past being handed down through generations. Tim explains how he overcame the demons in his immediate family and discusses the wider picture of how this generation needs to step up to our demons by having conversations and taking responsibility. Mental health among young people is at an all-time low. Tim & Doug try to trace why so many people can relate to having being passed on the demons of...2019-01-2930 minThe Powerful Man ShowEpisode 14 - Identify Patterns in RelationshipsEpisode #014 In this episode, Doug shares a story of someone who came to him with a troubled relationship from which Doug was able to identify a clear pattern which was occurring not just in this man’s current relationship but also in previous ones. The man was giving everything in his relationship, but in turn never felt like he was getting enough back. At the heart of this troubled relationship was fear. The man feared losing his partner and being on his own, so gave he constantly tried to fill the cup of his partner, bu...2019-01-2232 minThe Powerful Man ShowEpisode 13 - Create and Maintain BoundariesEpisode #013 In this episode Tim & Doug take more examples from people taking part in the ‘The Activation Method’ and common problems and obstacles they face. The focus here is on creating good boundaries with yourself. So many people struggle with structure and organisation in their business and personal lives because they have failed to create good boundaries. If you have no boundaries or structure your life and business is freewheeling, you will never know what to say yes or no to and you will fall into the trap of people pleasing and other peoples schedules and...2019-01-1525 minThe Powerful Man ShowEpisode 12 - Don’t Ruffle Any FeathersEpisode #012 Tim and Doug share real life examples of when someone in a relationship holds back on who they really are in order to keep the other person happy. This is something that they see over and over again from members of ‘The Activation Process’ and it always leads to a false or failed relationship. Like in any relationship, if you hold back on how you are really feeling for fear of upsetting your partner, it always gets bottled up and these bottled up emotions will always come out at some point in a much more...2019-01-0828 minThe Powerful Man ShowEpisode 11 - Be Pulled By Your DreamsEpisode #011 In this episode Tim & Doug discuss one of the most common questions asked by high achievers; If I become content in my life will I still be driven? A lot of people fear what might happen if they achieve the things they really desire, they have a fear that they will no longer have something to aim for and this is a key reason as to why a lot of people, if pushed by fear, hit the self destruct button and damage their lives and business. Understanding how fear can hold you ba...2019-01-0124 minThe Powerful Man ShowEpisode 008 - Have the CourageEpisode #008 In this episode Tim & Doug examine the nature of courage and try to answer the question; What is courage in the modern society? Courage is something we hear about so often but do we really understand it. It’s something that we all have within us, but some use tap into it better than others and the benefits can be huge. Once you understand the true meaning of courage, you too can learn how to train yourself to be more courageous. Courage can be used in so many ways in your life to...2018-12-0429 minThe Powerful Man ShowEpisode 006 - Improving a Sexless RelationshipEpisode #006 In this episode, Tim & Doug touch on the topic men too often are afraid to talk about.. their own sexual relationship. We were raised to see this as a very private part of our lives and not something that was to be discussed openly. The male ego can also stop us from admitting to a poor sexual relationship, but many people suffer from a sexless relationship that has lost its energy and spark. By understanding the energy that revolves around an exciting new relationship, you can work to recreate the energy with a wife...2018-11-2031 minThe Powerful Man ShowEpisode #005 - Achieve a Work-Life BalanceEpisode #005 Are you finding yourself out of balance when it comes to work and life? Are relationships suffering because you spend too long on your business or vice versa? You may be prioritizing the wrong things and damaging your chances of a balanced lifestyle. A work-life balance is such a common struggle and it can seem impossible to master. The truth is that it’s not. It all starts with understanding it better and on this episode Tim & Doug share their thoughts on how by understanding your life and roles better you can le...2018-11-1335 minThe Powerful Man ShowEpisode #02 - Balancing Work and RelationshipsEpisode #002 Tim and Doug present another episode of empowerment for men in business and life. We have all seen that guy who tries to put on a mask or a brave face in work while everything crumbles around him in his personal life. Do you struggle to separating business life from your personal life? Do you constantly push to do that one last thing? Are you in a cycle of create, conquer, next? Are you certain you are getting the very best out of life? Men are, by default are...2018-10-2934 min