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Everyday LegendsCoaching Corner #14 Why men are at war with themselvesIf you are constantly fighting yourself - one way or the other, you LOSE. If you have a history of being very hard on yourself this one is for you. If you’re new here, welcome! Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this with others. Let’s get started! As usual, I trust you'll get something from this episode. If you have questions about it - ask me. Hit me on social media @mikecampbellmc on Instagram or @Mike Campbell Man Coach on Facebook. Get Involved Subscribe and REVIEW on Apple...2024-11-1009 min
Everyday LegendsCoaching Corner #13 How to Feel worthy of loveFeeling unworthy of love? You're not alone. In today’s coaching corner episode we dive deep into the roots of self-doubt and discover powerful strategies to embrace your true worth and build meaningful connections. It's time to reclaim the love you deserve. If you’re new here, welcome! Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this with others. Let’s get started! As usual, I trust you'll get something from this episode. If you have questions about it - ask me. Hit me on social media @mikecampbellmc on Instagram or @Mike Campbell Man Coach...2024-11-0313 min
Everyday LegendsCoaching Corner #12 Strategy isn’t enoughIt doesn’t matter what strategy you find, it isn’t going to be enough without this key step. Today we explore the thing so many men are missing when finding the best strategy for a task. If you’re new here, welcome! Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this with others. Let’s get started! As usual, I trust you'll get something from this episode. If you have questions about it - ask me. Hit me on social media @mikecampbellmc on Instagram or @Mike Campbell Man Coach on Facebook....2024-10-2708 min
Everyday LegendsCoaching Corner #11 How to keep your wordIf you cannot follow through on your word to to your partner and yourself, they cannot trust you and will not open up to you or depend on you. In this episode we will explore how you can build a deeper connection with your partner and be more dependable in other aspects of your life. If you’re new here, welcome! Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this with others. Let’s get started! As usual, I trust you'll get something from this episode. If you have questions about it...2024-10-2010 min
Everyday LegendsCoaching Corner #10 OVERcommitment and what you can do about itBusy is lazy. Often we attach our worth and that of others, to what they can do and achieve, but we are missing something here. If you never allow yourself to make life you simple, and focus on tasks which have meaning to you, you will continue to feel frustrated and always behind. In today’s episode we dive into how to refocus your attention and stop being busy, instead to be intentional. If you’re new here, welcome! Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this with others. Let’s get started! As u...2024-10-1310 min
Everyday LegendsCoaching Corner #9 Why men avoid relationshipsThe risk of rejection and heartbreak ARE the price of admission for real deep connected and meaningful love. As men we often deeply fear being seen. In this Coaching Corner, we dig into the real reasons and share how to embrace vulnerability for stronger, more genuine connections. If you’re new here, welcome! Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this with others. Let’s get started! As usual, I trust you'll get something from this episode. If you have questions about it - ask me. Hit me on social media @mikecampbellmc on Ins...2024-10-0208 min
Everyday LegendsCoaching Corner #8 Facing tasks with intentionSo many of us spend so much of our lives in doing and action mode, we are going to talk about today, how this applies to your life. When we are constantly in doing mode, we can often miss the point of the task. We need to slow down and aim. Directing our energy is key to feeling accomplished. Where do you want to go with what you are attempting? In this episode I dive deep into this and apply it to your life. If you’re new here, welcome! Please subscribe, leave a review, and share th...2024-09-1809 min
Everyday LegendsCoaching Corner #7 - Navigating wrong decisionsGentlemen, fear of making the wrong decision and getting it wrong is the problem. If you live with one foot in and one foot out of your decision. So let’s get into how we can get OUT of our head and make decisions you don’t regret.If you’re new here, welcome! Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this with others. Let’s get started! As usual, I trust you'll get something from this episode. If you have questions about it - ask me. Hit me on social media @mikecampbe...2024-09-0411 min
Get It Right, Texoma!Episode 71: The Clay County Chronicles, Interview with Mike CampbellEpisode Summary: The Clay County Chronicles • 🎙 Meet the Hosts: Terry McAdams, Mike Hendren, and Trey Sralla kick off another fun-filled episode of Get It Right Texoma. • 🏍 Shoutout to Sponsors: Big thanks to Eddie Hills Fun Cycles, MacTech Solutions, and Lollie and Pop’s Sweet Shop for supporting the show! • ⚖️ Special Guest: Clay County Judge Mike Campbell joins the trio to share insights into his role, responsibilities, and the unique challenges of governing a rural Texas county. • 📚 County Judge 101: Judge Campbell explains what it means to be a county judge in Texas—covering everything from...2024-09-0336 min
Everyday LegendsCoaching Corner #6 How to Commit to things for goodIf you are a man who struggles to apply yourself to a change that you WANT to do and maintain, this coaching corner episode is for you.Join me as I dive into the key steps to stick with anything and commit to things for good.If you’re new here, welcome! Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this with others. Let’s get started! As usual, I trust you'll get something from this episode. If you have questions about it - ask me. Hit me on social media @mikecampbellmc on Instagram or @Mik...2024-08-2511 min
Everyday LegendsCoaching Corner #5 - Overthinking, Inaction & Why Hope is UselessIn this Coaching Corner session, I'm breaking down why hope, often seen as a positive force, can actually be the silent killer of progress. I'll show you how the paralysis of inaction creeps in when hope isn't paired with action and share strategies to break free from this cycle. Join me as we unpack the truth behind hope's hidden dangers and explore practical steps to reclaim your drive and motivation If you're new here, welcome! Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this with others. Let’s get started! As usual, I trust you'll get so...2024-08-1410 min
Everyday Legends102 - The best decision I ever madeWelcome to the "Everyday Legends" podcast, where we help men transform their lives by facing their deepest challenges and becoming unfuckwithable. I'm Mike Campbell, your host. In today's episode, I share how confronting my own issues was the best decision I ever made for my life, relationships, and personal growth. Join me as we explore the journey of self-respect, integrity, and stepping into your full potential. If you're new here, welcome! Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this with others. Let’s get started! As usual, I trust you'll get something from th...2024-08-1325 min
Everyday Legends101 - How to Stop People Pleasing Welcome to the "Everyday Legends" podcast, where we help men move beyond people-pleasing and become confident, grounded, and unfuckwithable. I’m Mike Campbell, your host. In today's episode, I dive into why nice guys struggle with setting boundaries and how to embrace self-respect while being okay with others' discomfort. Join me as we explore how to move from seeking approval to living authentically. If you're new here, welcome! Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this with others. Let’s get started! As usual, I trust you'll get something from this episode. If you h...2024-08-0923 min
Everyday Legends100 - Major Lessons from 100 EpisodesWelcome to the "Everyday Legends" podcast, where we help men move beyond the "nice guy" persona to become secure, confident, and resilient. I’m Mike Campbell, your host. In this 100th episode, I reflect on my journey from seeking approval to building self-respect and solid relationships. Join me as we explore how to live a fulfilling, authentic life by embracing self-awareness, surrounding yourself with strong men, and taking real action toward personal growth. If you're new here, welcome! Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this with others. Let’s get started! As usual, I trus...2024-08-0924 min
Everyday LegendsCoaching Corner #4 - Ending Self-Doubt & building self-beliefFeeling unworthy of love? You're not alone. Join me as we dive deep into the roots of self-doubt and discover powerful strategies to embrace your true worth and build meaningful connections. It's time to reclaim the love you deserve. If you're new here, welcome! Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this with others. Let’s get started! As usual, I trust you'll get something from this episode. If you have questions about it - ask me. Hit me on social media @mikecampbellmc on Instagram or @Mike Campbell Man Coach...2024-07-2913 min
Everyday LegendsCoaching Corner #3 - Nice Guys - How to Stop Managing PerceptionFeeling unworthy of love? You're not alone. Join us as we dive deep into the roots of self-doubt and discover powerful strategies to embrace your true worth and build meaningful connections. It's time to reclaim the love you deserve. If you're new here, welcome! Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this with others. Let’s get started! As usual, I trust you'll get something from this episode. If you have questions about it - ask me. Hit me on social media @mikecampbellmc on Instagram or @Mike Campbell Man Coach on Facebook. Get...2024-07-1507 min
Everyday Legends099 - Why you won't find Work-Life Balance Welcome! I'm Mike Campbell, a men's coach dedicated to helping you transform from a nice guy into a confident, strong man. Today, we’ll explore why chasing work-life balance is futile and how it often leads to spinning your wheels without achieving true balance. Instead, I'll guide you on what to strive for. You're listening to the Everyday Legends podcast, the show dedicated to creating the anti-nice guy, championing everyday men to become unfuckwithable good men. We'll support you in dropping self-sabotage and unlocking your potential to get more from life, love, and the everyday. If...2024-07-0417 min
Everyday LegendsCoaching Corner #2 - Why you'll never catch up on your to-do list & what to do about itIn this Coaching Corner session, I’m breaking down why you’ll never catch up on your to-do list and what to do about it. I’ll explain how the endless cycle of tasks can leave you overwhelmed and stuck, and I’ll share some killer strategies to prioritise, delegate, and simplify your workload. If you're new here, welcome! Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this with others. Let’s get started! As usual, I trust you'll get something from this episode. If you have questions about it - ask me. Hit me on social med...2024-07-0108 min
Everyday Legends098 - How being Busy is Lazy & what to do about itWelcome! I'm Mike Campbell, a men's coach dedicated to helping you transform from a nice guy into a confident, strong man. Today, we’ll explore why busyness is lazy. It’s easy to stay busy, but that’s often a way to avoid real growth. Especially for nice guys, who struggle to say no and end up overwhelmed. We’ll dive into how to change this mindset and reclaim your time and energy. If you're new here, welcome! Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this with others. Let’s get started! As usual, I t...2024-06-2711 min
Everyday Legends097 - Hidden Costs of Being A Nice GuyWelcome to the podcast, where we help nice guys become confident, strong men. I'm your host, Mike Campbell, a men's coach for nice guys, here to guide you towards self-respect and fulfilling relationships. Today, we'll explore the hidden costs of being a nice guy, like never feeling at peace with yourself. You'll learn how to reclaim your sense of self and live with integrity. Whether you're new or a returning listener, welcome! Remember, the key is to put what you learn into action. If you find this podcast helpful, please subscribe, leave a...2024-06-2015 min
Everyday LegendsCoaching Corner #1 - How to attain 'Work-Life Balance'From Chaos to Clarity - Hey Legend, feeling overwhelmed by the chaos of balancing work and home life? In this episode of Coaching Corner, we're diving into why 'nice guys' especially struggle with this transition and why men must have dedicated transition time. Join me as we explore how to shift from chaos to clarity and reclaim control over your life. If you're new here, welcome! Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this with others. Let’s get started! As usual, I trust you'll get something from this episode. If yo...2024-06-1708 min
Everyday Legends096 - #1 Relationship Tip for Nice GuysWelcome to the Everyday Allegiance Podcast, the show dedicated to championing everyday men and helping you get more from life, love, and the everyday. I'm your host, Mike Campbell. As a men's coach, I support nice guys in building rock-solid foundations, legendary integrity, and kick-ass relationships. In this episode, we’ll tackle a key issue for nice guys in relationships: centering your partner's needs while neglecting your own. I’ll share insights and actionable tips on valuing and communicating your needs effectively to build healthier, more balanced relationships. Whether you’re in a relationship or single...2024-06-1318 min
Everyday Legends095 Mental Strength or Physical - Solo EpisodeHey there, welcome back to the Everyday Legends Podcast, I'm your host, Mike Campbell. Today, I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been on my mind: the age-old debate between physical strength and mental strength. Inspired by a recent conversation between Piers Morgan and Chris Williamson, we're going to explore how physical fitness lays the groundwork for mental resilience and personal growth. So, buckle up for a deep dive into the interconnectedness of strength, self-respect, and the journey of self-discovery. Let's jump right in! As usual, I trust you'll get something from...2024-05-2920 min
Everyday LegendsREWIND: Episode #09 What is IntegrityREWIND Episode #09 How to Live with Integrity In this episode, I venture into and explore something very close to my heart - and head and balls - and that is INTEGRITY. It is my highest value, because, for me, everything else is determined by this. If I don’t have that, then all my other values don’t really get a chance. Join me as I share some personal stories - including the first one in which as a younger man I fell into a common trap; lying to someone I liked and pulling myself righ...2024-05-021h 04
Everyday Legends094 How to Set Boundaries with A Reformed Nice Guy -Solo EpisodeWelcome to the Everyday Legends podcast, your go-to destination for men seeking to build legendary integrity and kick-ass relationships. I'm Mike Campbell, your host, and on this show, we're all about supporting you in getting more out of life, love, and the everyday grind. Today, we're delving into the crucial topic of setting boundaries and reclaiming self-respect. Get ready for insights, stories, and actionable advice to help you thrive as the best version of yourself. Let's jump right in! As usual, I trust you'll get something from this episode. If you have questions about it...2024-04-2313 minEveryday LegendsREWIND: How men can help women feel safeREWIND Episode #11 with Amber Hawken I've been very fortunate to be her friend for some time. And that has been both in just two humans connecting on a level that we get each other, but also because of, you know, where we're at and the work that we do. And that's one of the major reasons I wanted to bring Amber onto the show. Because of the insight, the skills, the expertise she has in helping people get the shit together. I wanted to bring her on because, as a woman, I believe...2024-04-171h 12
Everyday Legends093 Finding & Using your Voice with Alex CattoniFor today's episode, I'm thrilled to be joined by the incredible Alex Cattoni. Alex is a leading digital marketer, copywriter and founder of CopyPosse. She's on a mission to "De-Douchify the internet" and build an empathy empire. I've had the pleasure of getting to know Alex over the past year, from meeting in New York to sharing meals and engaging in random conversations. Alex has such a vibrant and joyful personality that really comes through, no matter the medium. She's also incredibly successful in her field, having been named the #1 most popular copywriter of 2023 and Digital...2024-04-161h 08
Everyday Legends092 Are You A Secret Nice Guy? - Solo episode In this episode, we'll uncover the truth about being a "nice guy" and explore covert contracts. I explore three common ways that nice guys secretly place conditions on their kindness through "covert contracts." Drawing on my experience coaching over 1,000 men, I identify how nice guys often expect unspoken reciprocation for favors or help without communicating their expectations. I urge listeners to reflect on whether they engage in this secret nice guy behavior and how to move past it to build genuine, fulfilling relationships. As usual, I trust you'll get something from th...2024-04-0914 minEveryday LegendsREWIND: Friend zoned – what to do when chasing unrequited loveAhhhh, the friendzone. That lonely yet connected, comforting yet terrorising, familiar yet frustrating place. Of course, the friend zone isn’t the only place we might end up chasing unrequited love - sometimes it’s in a relationship that stutters and two people seem to be misaligned. Either way, finding ourselves in the place of wanting someone and them not wanting us back, or them being unavailable to us, can be heart-aching and life-consuming. That’s the subject of this week's podcast episode in a revamped version of a listener Q&A. I have ha...2024-03-2630 minEveryday LegendsQA Session: Should I go all in?Welcome to another episode of the Everyday Legends Q&A Session. In each episode, Mike Campbell takes a question from a listener and provides thoughtful advice and insights to help support personal growth. Today's episode will address the question, "Do I keep letting myself be all in to build on my love for her?" Tune in now as Mike shares his perspective on this topic and encourages open communication to gain clarity when uncertainty exists in a relationship. If you have a question or topic you'd like Mike to address, connect w...2024-01-2207 minEveryday LegendsQA Session: Should I wait for her?Welcome to another episode of the Everyday Legends Q&A Session. In each episode, Mike Campbell takes a question from a listener and provides thoughtful advice and insights to help support personal growth. Today's episode will address the question, "Should I wait for her?" Tune in now as Mike shares his perspective on this topic and provides guidance on moving forward after a promising first date comes to an abrupt end. If you have a question or topic you'd like Mike to address, connect with him on social media HERE and d...2024-01-1704 minEveryday LegendsQA Session: Revisiting the burning down the village proverbWelcome to another episode of the Everyday Legends Q&A Session. In each episode, Mike Campbell takes a question from a listener and provides thoughtful advice and insights to help support personal growth. Today's episode will be revisiting the proverb; boys that are not adopted into the tribe will burn down the village. Tune in now as Mike shares his perspective on this topic and explores how initiating boys into manhood and inviting men to let go of boyhood insecurities can help prevent societal problems. If you have a question or t...2024-01-0804 minEveryday LegendsQA Session: Is she out of my league?Welcome to another episode of the Everyday Legends Q&A Session. In each episode, Mike Campbell takes a question from a listener and provides thoughtful advice and insights to help support personal growth. Today's episode will address the question, "Is she out of my league?" Tune in now as Mike shares his perspective on this topic and helps the listener understand that the real issue is a lack of self-worth and that hiding from potential rejection only reinforces negative beliefs about oneself. If you have a question or topic you'd like...2024-01-0307 minEveryday LegendsQA Session: How do I stop being hard on myself?Welcome to another episode of the Everyday Legends Q&A Session. In each episode, Mike Campbell takes a question from a listener and provides thoughtful advice and insights to help support personal growth. Today's episode will address the question; "How to stop being hard on myself?" Tune in now as Mike shares his perspective on stopping self-criticism and emphasizes that self-respect is an important starting point for growth. He also notes that harsh self-criticism is typically not effective for improvement. If you have a question or topic you'd like Mike to...2023-12-2502 minEveryday LegendsQA Session: How do I stick it out?Welcome to another episode of the Everyday Legends Q&A Session. In each episode, Mike Campbell takes a question from a listener and provides thoughtful advice and insights to help support personal growth. Today's episode will address the question, "How do I stick it out?" Tune in now as Mike shares his perspective on this topic and how bringing in outside support and accountability can help when growth becomes challenging, and we want to avoid discomfort. If you have a question or topic you'd like Mike to address, connect with him...2023-12-1808 minEveryday LegendsQA Session: Can men be friends with their ex?Welcome to another episode of the Everyday Legends Q&A Session. In each episode, Mike Campbell takes a question from a listener and provides thoughtful advice and insights to help support personal growth. Today's episode will address the question, "Can men be friends with their ex?". Tune in now as Mike shares his perspective on this topic and discusses how maturity is key to maintaining a friendship with an ex, as well as how new relationships may impact such a friendship. If you have a question or topic you'd like Mike...2023-12-1307 minEveryday LegendsQA Session: How can I stop trying to do everything alone?Welcome to another episode of the Everyday Legends Q&A Session. In each episode, Mike Campbell takes a question from a listener and provides thoughtful advice and insights to help support personal growth. Today's episode will address the question, "How can I stop trying to do everything alone and learn to accept help from others?" Tune in now as Mike shares his perspective on this topic and offers guidance for opening up to support from other men safely. He aims to help us all build stronger foundations and unlock our potential. I...2023-12-0404 min
Everyday Legends089 Being a High Value Man - Solo episodeIn this episode, I dive into the idea of being a high value man and what that really means. So many men are confused by this term, but I break down that true value comes from living according to your core values. I discuss how our values are like a compass, guiding our character and lives. However, many men's values have been shaped by insecurity rather than self-respect. I offer a process for examining your values - what you've really valued in the past versus what your best self would value. Living your values isn't easy, but...2023-11-1631 min
Everyday Legends088 How to find more time - Solo episodeIn this episode of the Everyday Legends podcast, I discuss how we can often feel like we don't have enough time and get caught up in being "busy". I explore how this is usually a reflection of our relationship with ourselves rather than a real lack of time. I share how telling ourselves we need to "find time" is disempowering and prevents us from prioritising what's truly important. Instead, we must choose to make space and be intentional with our energy. I also discuss the fear that many men have around slowing down and the noise we...2023-11-0813 min
Everyday Legends087 Psychology for Blokes with Carl NelmI'm excited to share my interview with Carl Nelms, founder of Blokes Psychology. We dive deep into the challenges men face accessing mental health support and how services could better meet male needs. Carl shares insights from his work and the "Big Four" psychological issues impacting men. I also asked Carl for tips on how to support the men in our lives. While not all struggles require clinical help, small check-ins can make a huge difference for someone in need. Learn how to have meaningful conversations and where to direct a friend if they open up about...2023-11-011h 00
Everyday Legends086 - What kind of man are you? - Solo episode In this episode I dive into some important questions around personal growth and development. I invite listeners to reflect on the results and situations in their lives that no longer serve them, as well as what traits and characteristics they want to embody going forward. We discuss the importance of getting clear on what you want versus what you don't want and creating actionable plans for achieving your goals. I provide exercises for listeners to brainstorm these ideas and get feedback from others. The show focuses on taking tangible actions, not just mental masturbation. If...2023-10-2512 min
Everyday Legends085 Why men need to fight - Solo episode In this episode of the Everyday Legends Podcast, I discuss the importance of fighting for something meaningful in your life. As men, we have an innate need to apply ourselves and conquer challenges, so if we're not directing our energy towards things that are truly valuable to us, we'll end up fighting against life or attaching our worth to superficial things. I explore how for many men, we learn from a young age that our value comes from performing and proving ourselves. This can lead us to form an identity as perpetual fighters against the world. However...2023-10-1820 min
Everyday Legends079 How to navigate fear of failure - Solo EpisodeToday I'm excited to bring you a punchy short episode on Failure. Failure is a big topic, and we could spend a lot of time exploring it. But in this episode, I'm going to dive into something that is significant, powerful and impactful when it comes to failure. This is one I think you can listen to briefly and start taking action to shift some things in your life immediately. Failure is certainly one of the things that we end up doing in the world of my coaching program, the Everyday Le...2023-06-2013 min
Everyday Legends074 How to author your own life - Solo EpisodeToday's episode takes you through an exercise to gain clarity on your life, your past and your future. This is an exclusive exercise usually reserved for the Everyday Legends Academy guys but today - I'm sharing it with YOU! As always, if you have questions about it - ask me. Hit me on social media @mikecampbellmc on Instagram or @Mike Campbell Man Coach on Facebook. Get Involved Subscribe and REVIEW on Apple Follow and RATE on Spotify Sign up for Mike’s LEGENDAILY Emails to help you with a daily shot of loving straight talk di...2023-04-1630 min
Everyday Legends071 How to find work life balance - Solo episodeThis week, I'm talking about finding balance in life and work. It is very hard to find, difficult to maintain and easy to disturb. For so many, it feels like an unattainable pot of gold at the end of a rainbow. The harder balance is to attain, the harder it is to maintain. As always, if you have questions about it - ask me. Hit me on social media @mikecampbellmc on Instagram or @Mike Campbell Man Coach on Facebook. Get Involved Subscribe and REVIEW on Apple Follow and RATE on Spot...2023-03-1624 min
Everyday Legends068 Understanding Short Term Gratification - Solo EpisodeJoin me as I discuss why chasing the short-term hit is killing you... Where a lot of us live these days is in the continual cycle of short-term gratification of short-term pleasure. Which, in essence, is also the avoidance of short-term pain. Choosing the quick dopamine hit, the short-term gratification, that piece of pleasure. It could be drinking, quick and easy sex, alcohol, drugs, porn, tv, or social media... none of these things are necessarily good or bad, but if we're using them to avoid, distract or numb feeling something uncomfortable - We're c...2023-02-1313 min
Everyday LegendsMoment #22 with Mike CampbellLinks for full episode - Be loyal to yourself first with Mike Campbell iTunes Spotify Youtube Website Connect with Mike Instagram Facebook Website 2022-12-1211 min
Everyday LegendsMoment #21 with Mike CampbellLinks for full episode - What is an Everyday Legend with Mike Campbell iTunes Spotify Youtube Website Connect with Mike Instagram Facebook Website 2022-12-0507 min
Everyday Legends062 Uncomfortable Truths - Solo EpisodeToday I'm gonna bring you a punchy solo episode and this week, we are talking about, Uncomfortable Truths. I'm bringing your THREE uncomfortable truths that I think every man needs to accept... This will definitly speak to the 'Nice Guys' listening and the guys that struggle with other peoples opinions, judgement and rejection. As always, if you have questions about it - ask me. Hit me on social media @mikecampbellmc on Instagram or @Mike Campbell Man Coach on Facebook. Other Ways To Consume This Podcast iTunes Spotify Youtube Get Invol...2022-11-2811 min
Everyday Legends059 Dealing with Overwhlem - Solo EpisodeToday I'm gonna bring you a punchy solo episode and this week, we are talking about, OVERWHELM. How do we navigate overwhelm? What the fuck is overwhelm? Why do I feel overwhelmed? I want to talk about navigating and really understanding, why we get so fucking busy and overwhelmed because this is a pretty common experience for a lot of guys in the world. I hear questions about this all the time. For me, when I feel overwhelmed, it is a sign that I am not prioritising my energy, my tasks, my time...2022-10-2734 min
Everyday LegendsMoment #16 with Mike CampbellLinks for full episode 052 How to Build Self Worth with Mike Campbell iTunes Spotify YouTube Connect with Mike Website Instagram 2022-09-2710 min
Everyday Legends057 Tall Poppy Syndrome - Solo EpisodeThis is gonna be a punchy little solo episode where I wanna talk about a topic that has come up a lot over the years within me, within my world, within my coaching, and within my content. Tall Poppy Syndrome - This is the concept that the poppy that rises above the rest, the person that rises above the rest, puts their neck out above the others will be cut back down to size. Growing up in New Zealand, if you are not humble to the point of belittling, self-deprecation and undervaluing yourself, then you're...2022-09-2013 min
Everyday LegendsMoment #14 Coaching Men with Mike CampbellLinks for full Episode 044 - Coaching Men with Mike Campbell iTunes Spotify Mike's Site YouTube 2022-09-0509 min
Everyday Legends055 The Myth of Discipline - Solo EpisodeI'm bringing you a solo episode and I'm gonna jump straight into what we're talking about here and that is discipline. Why can't I just be more disciplined? The thing about a question like that is, we're not usually asking the question; because asking the question invites exploring the answer. Most of us just say it as a statement out of frustration, more like a wish; "I wish these people would be more disciplined" and guess where that gets you? Fucking nowhere. When I finally got deeply curious about discipline, it invited me into action. I...2022-08-2947 min
Everyday LegendsMoment #6 Zeus Energy with Mike CampbellA short moment from the episode with Mike Campbell on the idea of the ‘Lone Wolf’ as well as how he goes about coaching men in this way. He dives into his major caching program ELA - EVERYDAY LEGENDS ACADEMY and make the case for not only why everyday men can benefit immensely from being in a like-minded community of men, but why it’s so immensely enriching and fulfilling. Get the full episode 44 here: iTunes Spotify YouTube 2022-05-0409 min
Everyday Legends046 - Finding Purpose in Community with Nick Bradley-QalilawaSome voices just have weight. Some people do. I am blessed to have plenty of people in my life whose voices carry weight. Certainly to me. One of those is a friend of mine, Nick Bradley-Qalilawa. Nick is someone I’ve had on the show before, in episode 14 where we explored Race and Racism in Australia. I always enjoy chatting with Nick and get so much insight from him - because he's such as insightful dude. Lately, I’ve been watching some of his adventures in Fiji - a place...2022-04-131h 12
Everyday LegendsMoment #4 Being a Good Man with Mike CampbellA short moment from the full solo episode on how nice Guys are not Good Men with Mike Campbell. Get the full episode - episode 43 - here: iTunes: https://apple.co/3pn7KOZ Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3plvzXG Mike's site: https://bit.ly/3IqYiBR YouTube: https://youtu.be/coEAZnhzQDQ 2022-03-2808 min
Everyday Legends044 - What it's like coaching men with Mike CampbellThe challenges, the triumphs, and the deep purpose of coaching men: Here’s something that comes up a lot in my work with men - the idea that guys are and feel the need to be a ‘Lone Wolf’. We have glorified the idea of a man being entirely self-sufficient, never needing anyone or anything, no weakness, no whole in his wide and expansive capabilities. Because if you’re not a lone wolf, well, you’re weak, you’re pathetic, there’s something wrong with you, you’re less of a man. Let me put my...2022-02-2832 min
Everyday Legends042 - Leading from the heart with Ardie SaveaFor those unfamiliar with New Zealand - we are a small country in the arse end of the world, as we tend to call it. We have some sheep. Probably not as many as you might think. It’s very green. Quite beautiful, really. We can claim to Middle Earth, but that’s really a minority of the population. We currently love shutting ourselves off from the rest of the world (much to this author’s frustration - Hi Cindy). And we love the All Blacks. While...2021-12-1558 min
Everyday Legends038 - How to Not Suck at CommitmentI grew up hearing many different things that were presented to me as ‘fact’. The thing about growing up is that what we witness, by in large, is what we see as truth in the world until we somehow learn differently. I thought professional wrestling was real for a good while until I had the dream shattered. Many of these truths we take on and form part of our lens of the world, and in other ways often part of our identity. One of those ideas and stories perpetuated around me, espe...2021-09-0655 min
Everyday Legends036 - The failure in personal development with Henare O’BrienOne of the things I’ve often seen in the world of personal development is men coming in to do some work on themselves and to ‘grow’, but a lot of that is being driven by a desire to become more immune to judgement. We get into the work so that we can become more approvable to others, therefore, less open to some kind of hurt, rejection, judgement, wounding. This is not and cannot be the aim - for that is just attempting to create a shinier veneer, a more presentable and approval armour that we sti...2021-08-181h 05
Everyday Legends035 - How to have difficult conversations - SoloIt was 2015 and I started to realise over many conversations with many men about their challenges and things they were facing in their lives that I was answering their pleas for advice and support with the same answer (thereabouts) - ‘Have you tried having a conversation about that?’ What became apparent to me was that something that had become pretty bloody normal and easy (easiER) for me - to connect to the conversation I needed to have despite the discomfort the idea of that conversation might bring with it - others just weren’t even contemplating. It w...2021-08-1120 min
Everyday Legends034 - Dealing with Anger - Solo episodeHere’s something we STRUGGLE with as men - anger. We shame it, we stuff it away, we shambles it and explode with it inappropriately. We just don’t know how to deal with, express and DO anger. Many men have never learnt how to manage and effectively express anger, some learnt incredibly unhealthy and shitty ways of dealing with anger - to explode, to be violent, and to essentially have other people deal with our vomiting of it onto them and into our relationships and interactions. If nothing else, it leaves a gapi...2021-08-0147 min
Everyday Legends032 - Divorce, Co-parenting, & owning your shit with Pete TansleyThere is an increasingly common theme with some men who reach out to me and that I work with. Not all, but the numbers are steady. And that is men who have either divorced or separated from their children’s mother and now living in a whole new set of experiences. Not only is there the man wanting to heal old relationships and potentially the wounds and mechanisms that played out in that relationship, but there is navigating fatherhood with a new and challenging set of parameters. Co-parenting means communicating with the person with whom yo...2021-07-131h 05Everyday Legends031 - The cure for loneliness with Phil McAuliffeThere are many things men are often terrified of being and/or terrified of being seen as. Being or being seen as - sometimes the reality doesn’t seem as daunting as other people thinking the reality is true. Being wrong, incapable, weak are a few of the big ones that I’ve mentioned on this podcast before. And then there is another, one that carries with it so much social stigma it really only gets put in the darkest of corners for the saddest of people. What is it that we fear bein...2021-07-051h 18
Everyday Legends030 - Can men & women be friends?An often asked question and butchered answer based on a set of beliefs we grow up with or learn along the way - this question is one I’ve been asked and seen play out in tremendously ignorant, immature and just plain stupid ways. All of which understandable. Can men and women actually be friends without messing it up with sex and attraction? Well, I address it in today’s punchy solo episode taken from (and expanded upon) a previously filmed Q&A video on my social media. In this...2021-07-0312 min
Everyday Legends029 - From boy psychology to man psychology with Bryan Reeves I often get asked the question “How did you get into this work with men?” - with a commonly preconceived idea that it was some kind of obvious rock-bottom or really traumatic event that led to me turning my life around and then getting into the work to help men in the same situation. While that might be a sexy story, it’s not the case. What is true is that my story like everyone’s, hold crucial events that are vitally relative to their own life experiences. So, what I did go through eventually led me to...2021-06-121h 15
Everyday Legends028 - Raising Better Men with Hunter JohnsonIn my work, I get asked many questions about men, what it means to be a man, about understanding men, and about supporting men. One that pops up now and again is something like this: “Have you ever thought about working with young men and doing this work in schools? Man, it would be so powerful!” I agree. It would be. But I’ve always said and still stick by the point that I work with grown-ass men because, fundamentally, I’m working with me from about 12 years ago. I work with the men who r...2021-06-021h 09
Everyday Legends025 - Getting your money shit sorted with Dan HarrisonGetting out of $500,000 debt & turning your life around I’ve been working with men for a long time now. Specifically in the realm of helping them mentally and emotionally to get their shit together for 9 years. Before that in the physical sense - but always essentially mental and emotional sense - for 8 years. That’s 17 years and counting in working with men to understand and overcome their shit. There are common themes, no doubt. Relationships are a huge one. Career enters a lot. Body stuff for sure. And then there is how they feel about themselves, which usua...2021-04-261h 01
Everyday Legends024 - Building curiosity & chasing your dreams with Sylvester McNutt IIII have worked with many men over the last decade. I have worked intimately with many and spoken with, answered questions, supported and given requested advice to many more. There are themes that arise and remain across numbers like this - certainly in the ones that seek me out (or have the courage to do so, at least). One of those themes is a desire to get more from life - knowing there is more available but not necessarily knowing how to access it. What accompanies this for so many guys is a...2021-04-181h 08
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Everyday Legends023 - Authenticity and Initiation with Rainier WyldeThere’s this saying “If you’re the smartest person in the room, you’re in the wrong room”. While that might be tentatively attributed to Confucius originally (from this author's Google search) and many people thereafter, I like it but wouldn't say I take it as gospel. Cognitive Intelligence is one thing, emotional is another. I suspect we can always learn something from other people, be it something in them that creates a reflection and learning about ourselves, or some unique piece of information that person happens to know, regardless of how they score on an IQ test.2021-04-111h 23
Everyday Legends022 No one is coming to save youHuman’s evolved to be in community with others, to be supported by and be in support of other humans, to build relationships, to problems solve, to hunt and cook and sing and dance and share stories and experiences. We are social creatures. You are a social creature. Yet, when it comes to the stuff that challenges you, the things that hold you back, that keep tripping you up, there is a universal truth that actually negates this point for a very important moment; no one is coming to save you. No one is...2021-01-2416 min
Everyday Legends021 Shadow work & masculinity's attachment to religion & patriotism with Connor BeatonIt would seem now more than perhaps ever, or certainly in recent history, we as a society, are faced with our shadow; the parts of ourselves, as individuals and a collective, that we have shamed, shunned, and hidden away into a dark corner. When we reject or shame something it goes away into the dark, and we try to convince ourselves that it’s not here, not around, simply because we’re choosing not to see it. But that is very far from the truth. In the dark those things are gaining power, they grow. When...2021-01-121h 12
Everyday Legends018 Developing Masculine Presence with Rosko BlakeThere are a few terms that make their way around the personal development world and become common vernacular. Some become tired and worn, such as ‘authenticity’ or ‘vulnerability’. Then there is men’s work in particular, which it’s own nuanced cliques and terms. To me, some of it doesn’t connect or resonate, while some of it seems tired and inaccessible. Then there are terms which I think every man would benefit from understanding and knowing how to apply to his life for the better. One of those is the idea of the masculine and feminine...2020-12-1156 min
Everyday Legends017 How men can connect to their emotions with Kristian Stephan-MartinThere is this consistent thing that happens with so many of the men I work with - a journey in understanding and processing their emotions. For some guys, it’s because they’ve shut off that side of themselves for so long - hearing terms that shame tears, emotions, or any kind of sensitivity will do that. And anything we shame and hide away will atrophy, it will die off. For these guys, it is a whole new and terrifying thing to connect to their body, to their emotions, and to their heart. For s...2020-12-0754 min
Everyday Legends013 Friend zoned - what to do when chasing unrequited loveAhhhh, the friendzone. That lonely yet connected, comforting yet terrorising, familiar yet frustrating place. Of course, the friend zone isn’t the only place we might end up chasing unrequited love - sometimes it’s in a relationship that stutters and two people seem to be misaligned. Either way, finding ourselves in the place of wanting someone and them not wanting us back, or them being unavailable to us, can be heart-aching and life-consuming. That’s the subject of this week's podcast episode in a revamped version of a listener Q&A. I have ha...2020-11-0930 min
Everyday Legends011 How men can help women feel safe with Amber HawkenUnderstanding Women's need for safety I’m very excited about today's guest, a good friend of mine in the first woman on our show. Miss Amber Hawken. I've been very fortunate to be her friend for some time. And that has been both in just two humans connecting on a level that we get each other, but also because of, you know, where we're at and the work that we do. And that's one of the major reasons why I wanted to bring Amber onto the show. Because of the insight, the skills, the expertise she...2020-10-261h 12
Everyday Legends#1 WTF is EVERYDAY LEGENDS?EVERYDAY LEGENDS with Mike Campbell Join me for the very first episode of my new podcast; EVERYDAY LEGENDS, where I’ll take you through what the show is about, who it’s for, and what I want to achieve. I’ll share what I mean by this term ‘Everyday Legends’, both who I’ll be speaking to and what we are working towards creating in you, the listener. and I’ll also go into a bit of my own story - something some of you may not have heard before. A little additiona...2020-08-1145 min
Everyday LegendsEpisode One: Mike CampbellIn Episode One of the show, our host Mike Campbell is immediately put into the position of interviewee as TV host Scott Tweedie comes in to ask Mike the hard questions.
You’ll see Mike share some of the more personal aspects of his life and around conversations he struggles with.
The purpose behind this episode is to set the tone and example for those episodes to come. Mike put himself in the hot seat, so to speak, in order to show he is also willing to have these tougher, more meaningful conversations, and not just sit int he interviewer ch...2016-07-0129 min