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Four Seasons and a FuneralFour Seasons and a FuneralFSAAF S16E10 - The are my PodfessionsIn this episode, the hosts discuss the eleventh episode of the first season of Alias, "The Confession". We talk for fifteen minutes about stuff you don't need to know about before we even started the podcast in this record, so you know the energy is gonna be good. We chat about hurting yourself while playing Frisbee, being bi when it gets cold out, and what happens when you touch a hot pan (unrelated to the bi thing). 2024-12-021h 10Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 51: My dad gave my mum Chlamydia - Ich mag es richtig dreckigImagine your father ordering sex-test-kits in your name to the house, in order to find out whether he gave your mother some health altering remnants. "Daddy is out here catching cruise and seeking happiness, while also lying in my name to my mother? Now Mummy is giving me grief, thinking that I am out here philandering while also impeding my health. DAMN!" πŸ“’ My dad gave my mother Chlamydia πŸ“’ Natural wet wipe πŸ“’ Blurry nights and misconducts πŸ“’ Experiencing cuckolding --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/podfession/message2023-12-1438 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 50: Not falling victim to generational curses - learn to give proper hugs Have you ever taken time to sit back and reflect on your life and most certainly on your family? Have you noticed certain negative and unwanted occurrences? You just beg to wonder, am I falling victim to generational curses or even generational patterns? It's high time we are aware of these things. If possible we need to try our level best to circumvent those traumatic experiences. But what if destiny can't be altered and those forces can't be...2023-12-141h 03Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 49: Arguing infront of your kids - Sassy men apocalypseHow do you tackle the aspect of arguing with your partner infront of your children? Should children witness their parents arguments or is it better to shelter them from those instances? "Seeing my parents figh caused me great emotional distress every now and then." One of our co-host mentioned. Hence the reason the would rather not subjugate their kids to those uncomfortable experiences. The aim for us as young parents or even future parents is to raise a much more healthier as well as happier generation...2023-11-231h 07Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 48: God vs. science - blind faith, no reasoningFaith versus logic: Do we have to logically understand religion or is our respective faith enough? Religion is something that guides believers, but sometimes certain passages, certain rules, certain commandments simply don't make sense and are in stark contrast to the daily doings of devout believers. How can you have free will and yet you must follows the rules? God versus science: Some scientists are of the strong "belief" that they can explain anything and everything. Yet their discoveries are oftentimes hypothesis which the...2023-11-1657 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 47 Hindering myself from exploring - Am I 100% straight?How do you as a man know that you are fully straight without ever exploring gaydom? "I have watched homosexual adult content for interest sakes. Yet I have never allowed myself to succumb to the emotions. One could say that I hinder myself from experiencing a greater pleasure. Hence why I question myself:" Am I truly straight?" πŸ“’ Venturing into homosexuality πŸ“’ Sizing each other out πŸ“’ Nothing has ever entered my ...... πŸ“’ Closet gay in the friendship group DISCLAIMER...2023-11-0954 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 46: THE DEFINITION OF LOVE CHANGES WITH EACH GENERATIONHave you noticed that the definition of love and it's requirements changes with the respective current society. Love used to simply be taking care of responsibilities. Nowadays the requirements have been broadened, the check lists are longer, even the icks have gotten out of hand. Buy me this, fly me out, pay for this, make more time for me etc.! A new trend is also to question monogamy. How nice would it be if you could have multiple individuals to basically build your perfect mate? We are currently living...2023-11-0350 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 44: Choosing poorly and desiring the friendsI thought you were the one, but upon seeing your friends I have to admit that you are the manifestation of my wrongful decision. How is it that you aren't the main character within your friendship group? How will I navigate those stormy waters now? It's not that I just want to up and leave. I would appreciate to at least sample your friends if you don't mind? What do you do once you are chilling with the crew and you realise that you chose poorly? πŸ“’ I made mistake choosing you, your friends are more fire. πŸ“’ X-Toys have desensitised me πŸ“’ ejaculati...2023-10-281h 12Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 45: Telling my dad that I want to venture into acting rather than law - Tech Boys and moneyIn the current society where there are so many career options to chose from. You sometimes feel overwhelmed in finding the adequate path or even stepping stone. How do you get into a field that is right for you? Should you listen to your parents, chase personal fulfillment or hunt for the biggest and baddest bag? Join us with our current guest by the name of Kayode Akinyemi the actor extra ordinairΓ©. As we discuss all things education to our current profession. "Don't ever forget that you can be more than what are right now! You just have to work a...2023-10-281h 10Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 43: MAKE SURE TO WASH YOUR ASS ! - Fu*k Boys all use Dior Sauvage.AND MAKE SURE TO WASH YOUR ASS!!!!! Smelling nice starts in the shower, at your hygiene to be precise. If you don't wash yourself properly there is barely any perfume, that can cover your stench. Michelle, a perfume connoisseur and well versed make-up-artist educated us on the importance of hygiene to layering your perfumes. Also make sure that your natural scent your body O"dior" is pleasant. What if a babe pulls down your pants and all of a sudden the whole vibe changes due to a pungent smell? What kind of perfumes or cologne do you have to use...2023-10-051h 02Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 42: VIENNA NIGHTLIFE - More women than men in the clubs please!In this episode we are accompanied by one of Vienna's finest event host Jacklyn. Founder of "Soundgasm - Events", which is hosted in prime Viennese clubs. She took us on a trip on why she embarked on this stressful but yet fulfilling journey. How some people in the public wrongfully think that she's the help, rather than the proprietor of the business. She made it her mission to let the naysayers and the world know that "BLACK" women run sh*t too. Sit back, relax and tune in while she spills the tea on the negotiation processes, her profit margins...2023-09-291h 10Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™BONUS EP: Mohbad TributeTalo bad? MOHBAD ni... ... Rest in peace to a young artist who was just at the very beginning of his career. His life unfortunately and unfairly concluded prematurely. Upon seeing disturbing footages starting from feuds with his former music label, him being bullied till his demise. The question arises on who is to be blamed for Imole's untimely departure? He asked for help, he screamed, he shouted, he even went to the police. But nothing happened What can we as fans do in order to protect our artists? Mohbad just know that you are loved and highly appreciated. You were...2023-09-2816 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 41: Mummy, you are too noseyHow much info and details do our parents need in order to give us advice for us to maneuver through a stumbling block? Some say, if your parents foster and create opportunities of openness, then you can always seek advice. Some are of the sentiment that parents and children aren't friends. Hence why there should always be a certain level of boundaries. What's your take on this matter? Is there a cut off mark where you shield your parents from certain aspects of your life? Or would you and can you practice openness with your parents? πŸ“’ My little siblings are gro...2023-09-221h 02Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 40: AMAPIANO IS AFROBEATSAfter a short podbreak, we are not back, but rather resuming where we left off. This episode is all about music, from dissecting music to the current hot topic, does Afrobeat lack substance? What is amapiano? Who is Ama and where's the piano? Amapiano is electronic music with African essence. So does that mean, that "Amapiano" falls under guise of Afrobeats? Think about it! Afrobeats has gone through so many different sounds, ranging from Jazz, Funk, HipHop, Reggae and now electronic music...2023-09-1452 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™vol.3: Podfessions Radio - DJ P - Summer Closing mixLast days of summer, the cold is approaching but Podfessions Radio courtesy of DJ P is here to keep you hot πŸ”₯. Another fantastic mix from an upcoming DJ, seamless transitions, well crafted, perfectly curated and executed. Bang the mix, replay it, share it and play it again. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/podfession/message2023-09-1430 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™Vol. 2: DJ ZOLA - CONGO MIX TAPE ⚠️CAUTION this scintillating mini mix is NSFW⚠️ Podfessions Radio to the world.🌍 This mix is spearheaded, created and crafted by the amazing DJ ZOLA. She's taking us on a sonic trip to the Congo. First she ushers us in with calm vibes to set the mood, all of a sudden boom - TOLEKA! You start to girate and shake your hips. That's what congolese music does to you. The drums, the unique sebene guitar chords, oh mon dieu. 2023-08-1727 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™Vol. 1: DJ TOMMY JUNIOR - AFRO MIX SUMMER TAPEPodfessions Radio to the world.🌍 This is our official release, courtesy and spearheaded by one of Austriast finest DJs , "DJ Tommy Junior" on the 1s & 2s. This is an exclusive mix, individually curated for the loyal podfessionistas. Enjoy it, bang it, replay it and then replay it again! DJ Tommy Junior @tommy.jjunior for bookings. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/podfession/message2023-08-0331 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 39: "Africans are institutionalised beggars." - You have a car, so just run those errands for me!"Africans are institutionalised beggars." What a strong statement, isn't it? Sometimes Africans exaggerate when it comes to communal aid, not only do they ask for exuberant things, but they also inject themselves into your life without permission. The infamous:"My flight is leaving in the morning you will take me to the airport right!?" Is that an ask, command or a threat? What about fundraisers for weddings? If you don't have the funds to wed, sorry my chargie, what makes you think you will have the means to facilitate a healthy marriage? In this very episode we shared our personal...2023-07-201h 12Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 38: Mummy, why can't you ever apologise?Your mum takes you to one of her friend's house, but it comes with rules & regulations which you must adhere to. _"When we are at Auntie's house you cant eat nor drink!"_ Why? Is your "faux"-friend trying to poison me? If so, why would you put me in harms ways? In this episode we discussed all things parenting, parenting styles and our own individual dealings with our care takers. We bonded on aggression that we are trying to contain due to woke-parenting/gentle parenting. Not to forget, arguing, overly explaining oneself and young people opening up their stinking mouths...2023-07-131h 26Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 37: Choose your mates wisely - Baby Mama drama"My parents didn't allow me to watch KIM POSSIBLE, because nothing is impossible with God." And don't make me start with Harry Potter or even Ben 10! Witchcraft and monsters, are you mad? Those are the tools of the devil. Superstition and fear were a big part of our upbringing. To some extent it kept us protected, but on another hand it hindered us from enjoying and having fun. Let's not lie to ourselves! We all know how much African parents hate fun. Rumour has it, that Davido has two extra marrital baby mamas. Those individuals have been pestering our timelines...2023-07-061h 17Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 36: Afrobeats to the world, yet no apparent advancementAfrobeats to the world! A sound which can't be replicated, duplicated, fabricated and immitated is currently stepping on necks on a global scale. A music genre, which is more than just sounds. Afrobeats to the world is a lifestyle, a religion a whole vibe. Since it's a commodity which homeland African artists are spearheading, you seem to wonder who is benefitting from this "good"? The biggest events are always outside of Africa. Burna boy is shutting down stadiums in Europe, which is clearly not home soil. The greater question is, who is economically elevating from afrobeats to the world? Is...2023-07-031h 07RedlektionRedlektionLet's travel to Africa on the weekends! with Mayowa from PodfessionsA weekend trip to the Seychelles from Europe? Can you imagine? At least this is what Mayowa from Podfessions envisions, to use our prolonged weekends and short holidays to travel to our homecountrsies. Therefore, we have to unlearn that Africa is so far away and become interested in African countries beyond our home countries. Carel and Mayowa have a chat about living in the diaspora, why many Africans are ignorant about the specifics of other African countries, the potential of the diaspora and much more. You can here more from Mayowa on his Podcast Podcast Podfessions. This is a diaspora...2023-06-2426 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 35: Arranged Marriage? Please, don't let my parents choose!As a virgin, how far are you willing to go? Can we tongue wrestle? Can you massage my tensioned "Corpus Christi"? Will I at least get the chance to explore your body like Dora? In this current era of bad b*tchism, were finding a mate has become highly difficult. Could you imagine yourself partaking in an arranged marriage? If so, who would you give the reigns to handle the task, your parents or your friends ? "My Father would partner me up with a gnome, a funny lad but hideous as hell." - Montana πŸ“’ If we all like the same guy...2023-06-221h 18Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 34: Leaving my pregnant wife - I understand deadbeat fathers nowTwo fathers narrate from their own personal view on how the birthing experience occured. From seeing the activation of life take place and the tears of joy that followed right after. Apart from those instagramable moments, how does the day-to-day look like in a young family? Is it all roses and sunshine? Where are their partners falling short and hiding under the umbrella of "I am a mother I ain't got time for you?" Daddy also needs attention to keep this engine well functionioning. Going through this experiences makes you have a better understanding for deadbeat fathers. Ratchetness and righteousness...2023-06-1557 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 33: I am on my period. - I just wanna lay in bed and cry"I told a guy that I am on my period. The first thing he did was to squint his face in disgust." Well Mr., I am not dirty, it's normal and I am feeling all sorts of emotions currently. I wann laugh, cry, be hugged and also fight. Should society make the general public more aware of a woman's cycle? What about making sanitary products free for women or even paying women more to easily afford those goods? Let's also not forget to mention menstrual leave! πŸ“’ Singing is my vocation but I am bad at it. πŸ“’ Making a man a compli...2023-05-2553 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 32: F*ck you, pay me! - You get what you negotiate not what you deserve.Negotiation is key and part of any career advancement. Awkward moments, uneasiness, nerve wrecking and somewhat highly stressful are just the emotions you have to deal with while negotiating. So it's best to get comfortable being uncomfortable. Otherwise you be licking the end of a dirt infested broomstick while your colleagues and mates are advancing. Negotiation in it's early stages should have been taught to you by your parents. In order for you to have it easier in life. But you know how it is growing up African: SHUT UP, KEEP QUIET AND TAKE WHATEVER I GIVE YOU! How does...2023-05-181h 22Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 31: Social Media is the ghetto - but we love it!"Social Media" the good, the bad, the uglier and the trenches. A big part of our lives is now on the digital sphere. We share, we converse, we like and sometimes lie to our peers. Have you ever put on a new attire and you couldn't take a decent picture to save your life, even so to terrorise your followers on the gram? All these things and more influence us consciously and also subconsciously. Social Media is here to stay, the question is how do we navigate it waters and multiple streams. Tune in as we discuss why reacting and...2023-05-121h 11Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 30: Sexual green flags & dealing with tough emotions."You have to give me sexual after care and emotionally safe sex." No kink shaming, over here! What are your sexual green flags? Have you ever thought about it? Do you communicate them and make sure they are met? One in the pinky and two in the stinky. Ooooohh yeah baby. Tune as we discuss our personal bedroom, sometimes even outdoor/backdoor activities. In the second half of the pod, we shared our views on strong emotions we felt this current month. From dealing with the fear of lost, to consistency issues to over all fear of life and much...2023-04-271h 06Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 29: B.O.A.B - Balling on a budgetTraveling as much fun as it is, is a hassle. From figuring out the destination, to travel itineraries, transportation, accomodation, budget and dead boosts airlines (i.e Air Egypt 🀒) We love to terrorise our friends on social media of the great life we are enjoying while on holiday. Little do they know, we are sleeping on a bunk bed in a hostel located in the ghetto with 6 other strangers. This lifestyle is called B.O.A.B, which means balling on a budget. What do you know about saving money on food, while indulging in rotten African food? πŸ“’ Racist encounters πŸ“’ All inclu...2023-04-201h 00Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 28: Girl on Girl action - women struggling with self love.A breath of fresh air. A nice mimosa at brunch while the warm sun rays caresses your skin. That's what best describes this week's episode, spearheaded by our amazing, delectable and crazy hosts Paula and Montana. This time around they said "no boys allowed", we the women will run this thing by ourselves. So they did. Be prepared to indulge in loudness, high energy, screeching, conspiracy theories and personal stories. You will enjoy getting to know Montego and Pauly Pocket on a more intimate setting. πŸ“’ Conspiracy theories πŸ“’ We didn't know that we were/are toxic πŸ“’ I think about death πŸ“’ It's a man's job...2023-04-1349 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 27: A day in the life of a CEO - Politrickcian and their fancy words.Today's guest is the amazing, ever striving Rilwan Mogaji. A young man who has done great for himself and his still going strong. Rilwan was once a politician campaigning for office during the 2020 Austria, Vienna election. He shared his challenges while politicking and transition to his current business as well economical power. Have you ever wondered how the day of a CEO looks like? Would you also want to be a CEO or would you rather just enjoy the safety of being employed? All that and much more in this current episode. And remember, you are the CEO and Boss...2023-04-0955 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 26: It's not the gym, it's you! - Overcoming gym anxiety and body dysmorphia."I hate exercising, I hate sweating, I hate the pain and the struggle. But I like the cute gym wear though. What can I do?" Mukassa Fozing, entrepreneur, certified personal trainer, graphic designer, electrician, radiology technologist...... what a crazy CV. Kidnapped us into the world of sports and fitness, from getting started, to nutrition and also overcoming anxiety. We debunked certain myths. He backed it up with experience and science. All we can say is, the current episode is too short. There's still so much more to delve into. Mukassa's energy, drive and his relentlessness is highly contagious. You just...2023-03-301h 03Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 25: Asking for help makes you look weak - "I am suffering from impostor syndrome."Empowerment, impostor syndrome, being deemed a failure and never asking for help are just a few phrases to describe this wholesome conversations we had with Michael Okoli. Senior member Michael Okoli who has a long CV, from being a mentor, engineer in tech sales and the co-founder of ADOE- "Afrikanische Diaspora Γ–sterreich" just to name a few of the many cloaks he is wearing. How do you find your own individual path in the professional realm? Who supports you and who stifles you from progressing or even achieving? Those are just one of many questions we answered during our conversations w...2023-03-231h 03Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 24: Afropeans are all talk no do!Growing up in the diaspora has it's positives but also negatives. One of the negative is the lack of knowledge about African history. Africa, a continent that is vast in size even more so in culture has a colossal history dating back since the beginning of mankind. Where do you start, which books do you pick up, who do you ask? Our beautiful and amazing guest Fatima is an African history content creator. Who uses social media to teach the general public about all things Africa, from past to current affairs. πŸ“’ Fatima the African history content creator πŸ“’ Kenyan history lessons vs. Au...2023-03-1652 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 23: 3somes with bae or with a fling?EP 23: 3somes with bae or with a fling? Β  We delved into the world of sexual immoralities, flings, 3some and orgies. Β Their implications, execution and how to go about them. Β Is it really that much fun as the internet and social media makes it seem to partake in this sphere of sexual liberation? Β Has sexual liberation gone too far, that we are forcing ourselves to be open to anything and everything for the sake of pleasure? Β Β  Β πŸ“’ Birthday Recap πŸ“’ Sex/ Life series and real life implications. πŸ“’ 3somes with bae or with a fling? Β  πŸ“’ P...2023-03-091h 04Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 22: Starting afresh far from homeThe challenges of starting afresh and leaving ones comfort zone are very tumultuous. Dealing with culture shocks, visa issues, the cold heartedness of Europeans, loneliness, depression and to top it up COVID. Apart from that, the longer you stay away from home, your so-called" home" is no longer your home. The new place you call home isn't also your home, since you are not indigineous to that place. So, you basically become a world citizen or homeless. πŸ“’ I gave up my dream for love. πŸ“’ First steps in a new country. πŸ“’ Nobody approaches me in this country. πŸ“’ People have become my home. --- S...2023-03-0549 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 21: Bad energy, stay far awaySomething was in the air on the day of recording. The energy was off and one incident was used as a catalyst for us to go at each other. Not every day is filled with sunshine and roses. Some days are filled with doom and gloom, which results in us feeling blue or even seeing red. Nonetheless, how real and authentic is it that we still managed to record and present our honest emotions in that very moment? πŸ“’ The energy is off. πŸ“’ Life is lifing πŸ“’ The difference between love and relationship πŸ“’ Abandonment Issues: I rather break up with you before you do. ...2023-02-2338 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 20: Adulthood is better than childhood - They manipulated me into paying black-tax."OMO", is what best describes adulthood.Β  Some days you are having the best time of your life. Then reality, exitencial crisis, struggle, chores, bills, love-life and much more hit you.Β  All of a sudden you are in disarray thinking, "What the actual f*ck is going on? What about dealing with visa issues?Β  Our lovely co-hosts where making fun of the Nigerian passport. Rightfully so.Β  That thing can't do anything for you, literally a bottom barrel document.Β  (Pay atten...2023-02-1435 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™BONUS EP: Valentine is coming, where is your boyfriend?Why must valentine's day be all about couples, can't we make it about singles and self-love too? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/podfession/message2023-02-1320 minAlphaDelta PodcastAlphaDelta Podcast#10.2 - Does Success and Money Require Masculine Energy? w/ Paula NjeruThis week’s guest is Paula Njeru. Paula is an entrepreneur, social media influencer and podcaster from Kenya. She currently lives in Austria, where she studied Computer Science, and uses her social media platforms to help people how to navigate the life in their 20s, especially when it comes to their career, business and finances. Β  Β  Tune in to this week’s episode to listen to her story and learn how she got to where she is today. Β  Β  Watch the full episode: YouTube Listen to the full episode: Anchor.fm Follow AlphaDelta: Instagram | TikTok2023-02-1206 minAlphaDelta PodcastAlphaDelta Podcast#10.1 - You Have NOTHING to Lose w/ Paula NjeruThis week’s guest is Paula Njeru. Paula is an entrepreneur, social media influencer and podcaster from Kenya. She currently lives in Austria, where she studied Computer Science, and uses her social media platforms to help people how to navigate the life in their 20s, especially when it comes to their career, business and finances. Β  Tune in to this week’s episode to listen to her story and learn how she got to where she is today. Β  Watch the full episode: YouTube Listen to the full episode: Anchor.fm Follow AlphaDelta: Instag...2023-02-0810 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 19: Therapy, yes or no? - I am scared to find out how broken I am."If I open up the flood gates to my being, I will find out how broken I am."Β  In this episode we talked about the possibility of needing therapy and where certain of our individual traumas stem from.Β  The essence of self reflection and taking the much needed actions to improvement.Β  But also how lack of financial resources can affect ones mental well being.Β  "It's difficult for me to admit that I am broke."Β  How do you feel about going to th...2023-02-0747 minAlphaDelta PodcastAlphaDelta Podcast#10 - Paula Njeru, Entrepreneur, Social Media Influencer & PodcasterThis week’s guest is Paula Njeru. Paula is an entrepreneur, social media influencer and podcaster from Kenya. She currently lives in Austria, where she studied Computer Science, and uses her social media platforms to help people how to navigate the life in their 20s, especially when it comes to their career, business and finances. Β  Tune in to this week’s episode to listen to her story and learn how she got to where she is today. Β  Watch this episode on YouTube Follow AlphaDelta: Instagram | TikTok Connect with Paula: Instagram | Podfessions 2023-02-0635 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP18: Black Women & Beauty Standards"I was always beautiful for a black girl, never just beautiful.Β  Not only does that statement hurt, it also made me feel a type of way." Just google beautiful women and it will take you a while to see a black woman.Β  How's the little girl supposed to feel if the media rarely or only portrays a certain type of "black woman" look?Β  The status quo and industry doesn't celebrate black women in its wide array. All they do is market featurism. πŸ“’...2023-01-3128 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 17: Platonic friendships and it's dangers."Yes, I am your friend and I would never violate your space. But if you give me chance and loosen up the defence, I will counter attack." A statement made by a woman. πŸ˜… Being in a platonic friendship with the opposite sex can bear a few dangers.Β  How does one navigate through it and actually create a long lasting union, without crossing certain boundaries? πŸ“’ Going against my biologyΒ  πŸ“’ As my friend you shouldn't find me sexually attractiveΒ  πŸ“’ Women don't offer men...2023-01-2453 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 16: I GOT HIGH AND FORGOT HOW TO BREATHE.EP 16: I GOT HIGH AND FORGOT HOW TO BREATHE.Β  Vibes and insha'Allah, that's what best describes this episode.Β  After going through a few rough patches Β the previous year, this episode wholeheartedly embodies the vibe we are on. Good vibes only.Β  Prepare to laugh as always! Β  πŸ“’ In this life you get, what you get πŸ“’ What are we doing this year? πŸ“’ I got high and forgot how to breathe πŸ“’ My mantra for this year..... ...2023-01-1732 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 15: LAST YEAR REALLY F*CKED ME!Last year was a tumultuous year for us. A year filled with difficult events as well as Β unfortunate deaths in our close circles. It wasn't as easy and jolly as we made it seem. Yet we launched our podcast and came together to embark on a new adventure and journey, while going through all of those life events.Β  Hence why we proclaim good fortunes all of 2023.Β  We decree and declare it for ourselves, but also for our lovely viewership.Β  You may think this is a heavy and sorr...2023-01-1053 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions 2022 RECAPIn this episode, you will see and listen to some of the interesting moments we shared on the podcast. Sit back, relax and enjoy some epic and funny moments with us --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/podfession/message2023-01-0416 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 14: Black women and sexual liberation - I am still figuring out what I like!Why is it such a taboo?Β  Why don't we openly talk about it?Β  Why did they threaten us if we have it?Β  Sexual Education is not a term that is common or even known to the older generations Africans.Β  The only thing our parents taught was not to have it.Β  If we do, they will punish us.Β  More so, we would end up in hell. Taboos are there to be broken.Β  The Podfession hosts are opening yansh, unbutto...2022-12-2047 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 13: My guardian spirit - Holy ghost FAYA!Do you have a spirit or an inner voice that governs and guides you?Β  If so, how often do you converse with it and most importantly do you obey or do you prefer when it's silent?Β  We managed to speak about spirituality without burning incense or sage.Β  A wholesome conversation on how to interact with our higher inner being.Β  Mayowa's spirit had a few messages to relay to Paula and Montana. Tune in to know what it's all about! Hopefully you too, will have some...2022-12-1336 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP 12: "I WANT YOU TO BE LOYAL IN THE TALKING STAGE." - Or at least only bang me.Modern day dating is a case study and a phenomenon on it's own. Β  "I WANT YOU TO BE LOYAL IN THE TALKING STAGE." is apparently the new norm. Does that make sense?Β  You want full blown commitment in a phase where we are just getting to know eachother?Β  This seems more like marking off one's territory.Β  Sit back, relax and sharpen your ears as we navigate through this sphere with humour as well as realness.Β  Question for the podca...2022-12-061h 03Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP11: Today's price is not today's priceImagine going shopping.Β  You put everything you need into the push cart and make your way up to the cashier.Β  The cashier checks the items one by one.Β  All of sudden the prices you saw on each tag has stupendously increased.Β  Β "Today's price is not today's price."Β  That was Zimbabwe's reality during the global financial crisis in 2008. What we know as inflation developed and progressed to hyper inflation.Β  How wild is it paying for things with a trillion, quadrillion or even sextillion cash no...2022-11-291h 01Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP10: Culture clash. Mbwa wewe = You are beautiful (Swahili)Podfession boasts of 3 different African cultures, it's only right for us to learn from one another.Β  Hence why, innocent Mayowa asked Paula to teach him some Swahili.Β  What phrases would a foreigner need in order to impress and toast Kenyan babes, Mayowa asked?Β  Paula responded, just say: "Mbwa wewe."Β  Mayowa jovially and excitedly repeated the phrase.Β  Just so you know, "Mbwa wewe." isn't a pickup line.Β  This episode was humourous and yet educational. We taught each other a few funny...2022-11-2245 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™You know you are African when.........!?You know you are African when.........!?Β  When collecting hot vibrating beatings is a love language called physical touch.Β  On today's episode we shared our experiences growing up in an African household. How that has shaped our being, in some ways good in other ways bad.Β  For instance some of us not being able to express love and coming of as cold. Which obviously made dating, entering aswell as sustaining relationships more difficult.Β  Subsequently we trauma bonded.Β  It's only fair to say, that we mi...2022-11-151h 15Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™From crypto to clito-currency....Find out how Paula was trying to milk one of her clients for money, who then turned it around and milked her for her clito.Β  Montana shares a story of what transpired between her and her manager, who was a married man wanting to fly her out to Madrid. Did she go on the trip? Did she let her Sugar-Daddy taste some of her "Paella"? Stay tuned and you will find out in this new episode! πŸ“’ From crypto to clito. πŸ“’ Stringing men along is a game. πŸ“’ Montana getting flown out by her boss.Β  πŸ“’ A woman's guideline to shooting ones shot. πŸ“’ Kenyan babes want...2022-11-081h 03Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™My one-sided best friendIs it important to have a best friend? These days we use the word friend very loosely. But your so-called "friend" doesn't even know your parents, nothing about your upbringing, life goals or even signs of you being mentally/emotionally unstable. Be careful who you call friends, because they are a reflection of you. At least a fraction of your being. πŸ“’ Do you have a best friend? πŸ“’ How much does your best friend know about you? πŸ“’ I need therapy! πŸ“’ Friends interfering in your relationship...2022-11-011h 11Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™EP6: Surrogacy is the new wave for modern-day-women.Whew chilΓ©! This episode was serious. From dealing with death in the family to talking about surrogacy. The somewhat shallow reason for Paula not wanting to endure the process. It's highly interesting to experience how modern-day-women are redefining pregnancy, yet also taking control of their bodies. From a man's perspective, it's taking away from unique pregnancy experience. What a strange world we live in! Be prepared for another episode full of emotions, humour and wittyness. Podfessions, the only podcast you need. πŸ“’ Dealing with death in the family πŸ“’ Surrogacy is the new norm? πŸ“’ No vagina, no opinions! πŸ“’ I will pay for your body, af...2022-10-2548 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™Episode 5 - Aaargh, I want to have sex and lot's of sexOur "Virgin Mary" aka Montana wants to break free from the shackles of her virginity. During this episode, she bursted out screaming and made it publicly known that she also wants to enjoy sex. But she has been her own personal stumbling block, which hinders her from freeing her sexual creature.Β  An episode about sexual practices, expressions and Β sexual liberation. This and much more is what you can expect from an all new episode. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/podfession/message2022-10-181h 03Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™Forcing men to pay child support isn't equality?Β In this episode, Mayowa made a wild statement that he wants his female best friend to have sex with him when needed. We also discussed more topic about child support and why men have to pay child-support for unwanted children Women having the sole decision power and the government forcing men to step up and become fathers is unfair isn't it?Β  Aren't we in the era of equality? That and much more is what you can expect from the current episode.Β  With a sprinkle of denouncing man's struggle and man...2022-10-111h 01Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™I fantasize about the men in my close circleIn this episode, Mayowa thinks independent women are not happy being alone. Going on trips and enjoying their time alone does not really make women happy Do you agree with him? Watch and listen to the episode to hear our opinion on this subject matter Share your thoughts with us and what you think in the comments, Q&A section and on the polls :) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/podfession/message2022-10-041h 04Podfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™Bob the builder! You're just being used 🀑Mayowa explains to Paula and Montana why building a man will make him forever loyal to a woman, but Paula is adamant that most men just use the women that build them. Nobody came here to be Bob the builder , watch the episode to hear our 2 cents, they're probably the same as yours. Feel free to argue and share with us what you think in the comments and on the polls :) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/podfession/message2022-09-2744 minPodfessions πŸŽ™Podfessions πŸŽ™Black men don't cheat, they seek happiness 🀑Montana and Paula tried to understand from Mayowa why black men cheat - the answer they got - "Black men don't cheat, they seek happiness 🀑"Β  Listen to the entire episode to hear more absurd thinking. I promise you'll be triggered because - It's really that serious πŸŽ™ Follow us on our socials: https://www.tiktok.com/@podfessions_podcast https://instagram.com/podfessions?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= "it's never not that serious" --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/podfession/message2022-09-2051 min