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The Future of Relationships#142 Relationship Magic ButtonWhat if there was a magic button in relationships — and it wasn’t what you thought?In this episode, Polina Solda reveals the one emotional skill that can shift the entire dynamic between you and your partner — instantly. It’s not manipulation. It’s not chasing. And it’s not talking more.This is the deeper work that allows you to feel safe, seen, and respected — while building a connection that lasts.You’ll learn:What the “magic button” really is — and how to use it 2025-08-1426 min

The Future of Relationships#141 Recovering RelationshipsNot all relationships are meant to end. Some are meant to heal — but only when both people grow.In this episode, Polina Solda explores what it really takes to recover a relationship that’s been broken, hurt, or disconnected. Whether you’re trying to rebuild trust, reconnect emotionally, or heal after a painful cycle — this episode gives you a path forward.You’ll learn: • How to tell when a relationship is worth recovering • Why time apart doesn’t heal — but conscious change does • The emotional patterns that need to shift on...2025-08-0726 min

The Future of Relationships#140 Overcoming Fear in RelationshipsFear hides behind many things in love — overthinking, silence, self-sabotage, or staying with someone who doesn’t choose you back.In this episode, Polina Solda helps you name the fears silently running your love life — and shows you how to move through them with clarity, confidence, and power.You’ll stop settling for safety and start creating emotional freedom and real connection in your relationships.Inside this episode, you’ll learn: • The root fears that sabotage healthy love • How fear disguises itself as logic, patienc...2025-07-3124 min

The Future of Relationships#139 Mastering RelationshipsGreat relationships aren’t found.They’re built — with intention, clarity, and emotional mastery.In this powerful episode, Polina Solda reveals the key mindset shifts, patterns, and relationship skills every woman needs to create deep, lasting, and aligned love. Whether you’re single, dating, or already in a relationship, this episode is your invitation to master how you love — and how you let yourself be loved.In this episode, you’ll discover: • The most common mindset blocks that keep women stuck in cycles of pain • How to shift from em...2025-07-2427 min

The Future of Relationships#135 7 Love PillarsWhat makes love last — and what makes it real?In this episode, Polina Solda reveals the 7 foundational Love Pillars that create deep, lasting, and emotionally secure relationships. These are the truths no one teaches you — but once you know them, you’ll never settle for anything less.Whether you’re dating, in a relationship, or ready to attract a true partner, these 7 pillars will give you clarity and confidence in love.In this episode, you’ll discover: • The core elements every healthy relationship is built on • Wh...2025-06-2626 min

The Future of Relationships#133 Dating Broken MenWhy do strong, self-aware women keep ending up with men who need saving, fixing, or emotional babysitting?In this episode, Polina Solda reveals the 3 hidden relationship patterns that keep you stuck — and how to break free and finally attract emotionally grounded love.What You’ll Learn: • The “Mother,” the “Rescuer,” and the “Repeater” patterns — and how to stop falling into them • Why your strength may be rooted in unhealed emotional wounds • How unresolved father dynamics may be silently choosing your partners • The mindset shift that instantly changes the kind of men you attrac...2025-06-1230 min

The Future of Relationships#132 — Your Attachment Style Is Why You’re Still SingleWhat if love isn’t missing from your life — it’s just miswired?In this episode, you’ll uncover how your attachment style is silently shaping your love life — and what you can do to finally break the pattern.You’ll learn: • The 4 attachment styles and how they really show up in dating • Why secure love might feel unfamiliar if you’ve only known emotional highs and lows • How to stop attracting emotionally unavailable partners • First steps to shift toward secure, emotionally safe love • How to start re...2025-06-0526 min

The Future of Relationships#131 7 Habits That Push Him AwayAre you loving him in a way that feels right to you… but actually makes him pull away?In this powerful episode, Polina Solda breaks down the 7 most common habits that silently sabotage relationships — even when you’re giving your all.If you’ve ever thought: • “Why does he pull away when I’m doing everything right?” • “I feel like I’m too much — or not enough.” • “Why does it feel like the harder I try, the worse it gets?”This episode will give you the clarit...2025-05-2929 min

The Future of Relationships#129 Speak His LanguageIs he emotionally unavailable… or are you just speaking the wrong language?You give. You open up. You try your best to connect. But he still feels distant.Here’s the truth:He’s not broken. He’s just not hearing love in the way you’re saying it.In this episode, you’ll learn how to speak your man’s emotional language based on his personality type — so your words actually land, and love finally flows both ways again.💡 What You’ll Learn: • The 4 Emoti...2025-05-1533 min

The Future of Relationships#118 Mastery of Emotions in RelationshipsDo you find yourself overanalyzing conversations, avoiding vulnerability, or struggling to express your needs? If so, this episode is for you! Join me, Polina Solda, on The Future of Relationships as I reveal the secrets to emotional mastery and how understanding your personality type can transform your connections and deepen intimacy.In this episode, you’ll discover:✅ How mastering emotions can help you reduce stress and overwhelm.✅ The four personality types and their unique emotional challenges.✅ Real-life client success stories that demonstrate the power of emotional mastery.✅ Practical exercises for single...2025-02-2713 min

The Future of Relationships#117 Take Action NowIn this powerful episode, Polina Solda dives deep into a conversation every woman ready for change needs to hear: what happens when you choose action over procrastination? And more importantly, what happens when you don't?In this episode, you’ll discover:✅ How taking action today can radically change your relationships and confidence in just three months.✅ What your life will look like if you choose to take action—or if you continue to delay.✅ Learn why procrastination keeps you stuck and how to break free.✅ Discover how Polina’s coaching progr...2025-02-2011 min

The Future of Relationships#116 No Change in Your Life?Do you feel like no matter how hard you try, nothing really changes? Are you stuck in the same patterns, relationships, or situations—wondering why things aren’t improving?In this episode, Polina Solda reveals the hidden reasons why change isn’t happening in your life and what you need to do differently. You’ll learn how to break free from the cycle of stagnation, take back control, and start creating real transformation in your relationships, confidence, and success.In this episode, you’ll discover:✅ The biggest mistake keeping you stuck in the same place.2025-02-1609 min

The Future of Relationships#115 Love Starts with YouIf you’ve ever wondered why love isn’t showing up the way you want in your life, it’s time to ask yourself: How much love do I give to myself? The quality of your relationships starts with the relationship you have with yourself.In this episode, Polina Solda explores the powerful truth that self-love is the foundation of all love. You’ll learn how your beliefs about yourself shape your relationships, why attracting the right partner starts with you, and how to cultivate deep self-worth that draws in real love.In this episode, you’ll disc...2025-02-1413 min

The Future of Relationships#114 Woman with ConfidenceWhat makes a confident woman truly magnetic? How does she carry herself, make decisions, and attract the right people into her life? Confidence isn’t just about how you look or what you say—it’s about the energy you bring into every situation.In this episode, Polina Solda breaks down the traits, habits, and mindset of a woman who exudes authentic confidence. You’ll learn how to embody self-assurance in dating, relationships, and everyday life so that you naturally attract the respect, love, and success you deserve.In this episode, you’ll discover:✅ The de...2025-02-1207 min

The Future of Relationships#113 How to Quickly Change Your StateHave you ever felt stuck in a negative emotion, overwhelmed by stress, or paralyzed by self-doubt? What if you could shift your state instantly—moving from fear to confidence, from anxiety to calm, or from frustration to clarity?In this episode, Polina Solda reveals the fastest and most effective ways to change your emotional and mental state in any situation. Whether you need a confidence boost before a date, want to break free from overthinking, or simply need to reset your energy, these powerful strategies will help you take control of your emotions and show up as yo...2025-02-1108 min

The Future of Relationships#112 5 Steps to ConfidenceHave you ever wished you could walk into any room feeling unshakable confidence? Do you struggle with self-doubt, second-guessing yourself, or feeling like you’re not enough? Confidence isn’t something you’re born with—it’s something you build. And in this episode, Polina Solda will show you exactly how.Discover the five powerful steps to developing lasting confidence, no matter where you are starting from. Whether it’s in dating, relationships, career, or life in general, these steps will help you step into your power and own your worth.In this episode, you’ll learn:2025-02-1007 min

The Future of Relationships#111 The Woman Who Does Everything for a RelationshipAre you the one always giving, fixing, and fighting for your relationship—while your partner puts in little to no effort? Do you feel like you’re carrying the entire emotional load, hoping that if you just do one more thing, he’ll finally appreciate and love you the way you deserve?In this episode, Polina Solda uncovers why so many women fall into the trap of overgiving in relationships and why it never leads to the love and commitment they crave. You’ll learn how to shift from over-functioning to receiving, from chasing to attracting, and from feel...2025-02-0807 min

The Future of Relationships#110 I Don’t Feel ValuableDo you ever struggle with self-worth? Do you find yourself questioning your value in relationships, work, or life in general? If you’ve ever felt like you’re not enough, this episode is for you.In this powerful and deeply personal conversation, Polina Solda uncovers the hidden reasons behind feelings of unworthiness and how they shape your decisions, relationships, and overall happiness. You’ll learn how to break free from self-doubt, build unshakable confidence, and start seeing yourself as the valuable, worthy person you truly are.In this episode, you’ll discover:✅ Why you feel u...2025-02-0707 min

The Future of Relationships#109 Why You Choose the Wrong Man?Are you tired of attracting the wrong men and ending up in disappointing relationships? Have you ever wondered why you keep repeating the same patterns, no matter how hard you try to choose differently?In this eye-opening episode, Polina Solda dives deep into the hidden reasons why you may be choosing the wrong partners—and how to break free from this cycle once and for all. You’ll learn how your personality type influences your dating choices, the subconscious beliefs that might be sabotaging you, and the exact steps to finally attract the right man for you.2025-02-0607 min

The Future of Relationships#108 Confident Communication- The Key to Thriving Relationships💡 What if mastering communication could transform your relationships forever?In this episode, Polina Solda dives deep into the power of confident communication and how it can be the foundation of fulfilling, thriving relationships. Whether you’re struggling with setting boundaries, expressing your needs, or navigating difficult conversations, this episode will equip you with the tools and mindset shifts you need to communicate with clarity, confidence, and authenticity.🎙️In this episode, you’ll learn:✅ The biggest communication mistakes that sabotage relationships.✅ How to express your needs without fear of conflict or reje...2025-01-3011 min

The Future of Relationships#107 Confidence as the Foundation of Strong RelationshipsWhat if the key to building stronger, more fulfilling relationships isn’t about finding the “perfect” partner but about cultivating unshakable confidence within yourself? Could confidence be the secret ingredient to deeper connections, better communication, and lasting love?In this episode, Polina Solda dives into the transformative power of confidence and how it serves as the cornerstone of healthy, thriving relationships. Whether you’re navigating romantic partnerships, friendships, or family dynamics, this episode will equip you with the tools to build self-assurance and foster stronger bonds with those around you.What You’ll Learn in This Episo...2025-01-2311 min

The Future of Relationships#105 Building Self-Confidence for Every Personality TypeIn this transformative episode, Polina Solda dives deep into the art of building unshakable self-confidence tailored to your unique personality type—North, East, South, or West. Learn how understanding your natural strengths and tendencies can empower you to overcome self-doubt, embrace your authentic self, and confidently navigate life and relationships.Through personal stories, practical strategies, and mindset shifts, Polina reveals how anyone can cultivate the confidence needed to thrive, regardless of external circumstances.In this episode, you’ll discover: • The role personality types play in shaping confidence. • Key strategies to identify and leve...2025-01-0910 min

The Future of Relationships#104 Transform Your Love Life: The Future of RelationshipsHave you ever wondered where relationships are heading in this era of self-awareness, technology, and personal growth? What if the secret to lasting love isn’t found in generic advice but in deeply personalized insights that resonate with who you are?In this episode, Polina Solda explores the fascinating and transformative future of relationships. From understanding compatibility through personality typing to how technology is reshaping the way we connect, this episode is packed with actionable insights for anyone looking to build more meaningful and intentional relationships.What You’ll Lear...2025-01-0208 min

The Future of Relationships#103 How to Set an Impossible Relationship Goal in 2025 Based on Your Personality TypeIn this empowering episode , Polina Solda takes you on an inspiring journey to set an audacious, impossible relationship goal for 2025. You’ll uncover how your unique personality type (North, East, South, or West) shapes your approach to goal-setting and how embracing failure can lead to extraordinary growth. Polina shares personal stories, actionable strategies, and the mindset shifts needed to dream big and achieve the unimaginable.In this episode, you’ll discover: • Why most goals fail and how to flip the script. • How your personality type shapes your goal-setting strategy. • The power of “strate...2024-12-2609 min

The Future of Relationships#98 How to survive infidelity and restore trust in relationshipsHave you ever felt the sharp sting of betrayal. The kind that leaves you questioning everything—your worth, your choices, your future? Infidelity shatters trust like glass, and for many, the path to healing feels impossible.But it is possible.In my new podcast episode, "How to survive infidelity and restore trust in relationships," we dive deep into what happens when trust is broken—and, more importantly, how to rebuild it.You’ll hear powerful stories of real women who faced the unthinkable and emerged stronger, braver, and more resilient. Whether you’re navigati...2024-11-2109 min

The Future of RelationshipsFind the Right Man PodcastThe Find the Right Man podcast helps you find love without drama or wasted time. Professional certified coach, dating expert and Eniostyle expert, Polina Solda, teaches you how to find your man with her simple, proven process. You can’t learn this anywhere else. It’s going to change your entire dating experience. 2024-02-1400 min

Love by DesignInvest in yourself & your future relationshipWe just got back from a 10-day family vacation to the West Coast. I feel so inspired that I started writing a book.As current members of my flagship program, “Love by Design,” share their wins and results (like start dating their dual partner types within just a couple of weeks of joining), I realize that each of them has one thing in common: they all INVEST in themselves.Being smart, professional women, many of us invest in our educational and professional growth, in real estate and in the stock market. Chances are, you'll get the...2022-09-2939 min

Love by DesignOvercoming Fear in DatingAs we’re hosting our free 3-part live video training, “Attract Your Man,” I'm aware that so many women want to find love but something gets in their way.Most likely that something is FEAR. Fear of putting yourself out there.Fear of being rejected.Fear of getting hurt (again).Am I right? And I totally get it. Your mind is trying to protect you. It seems to be logical and rational.But here’s what I want you to consider:Your fear i...2022-09-2241 min

Love by DesignThe cost of waiting and staying aloneAs I’m taking inspired action in my company (hosting a 3-part live video training starting September 22, hosting a virtual summit in January and publishing a book in March), I’m thinking how many of us smart, professional women approach our personal life differently.When you’re so busy with work and life, it’s hard to find time and energy for dating and searching for the right man. When you haven’t been putting yourself out there for a while, it’s really hard to say to yourself, “Okay, NOW is the time” and start dating again...2022-09-1627 min

Love by DesignBe Honest with YourselfIn this episode today, I want to talk about one quality that I believe is the most important when it comes to creating a healthy and powerful relationship—honesty.That’s exactly what inspired me to create this new episode, #69 🎙️ “Being honest with Yourself”.I truly believe that when you’re being completely honest about how you feel with yourself first and with other people and continue being this way, there is no way that you will not be in your dream relationship.In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:The steps to becoming tru...2022-09-0841 min

Love by DesignThe real reasons why women can’t attract quality men online“There are no quality men online.”“Online dating doesn’t work.”If you’ve been thinking these thoughts and struggling to attract high-quality men online, you’re going to get the cold, hard facts about what’s really going on—and why—in this episode.In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:✨ What I’ve seen on Tinder as both a man and a woman ✨ The most important thing I learned from my shaman (it’s my mantra)✨ Why focusing on what happened in the past doesn’t matter✨ Why women st...2022-08-1750 min

Love by DesignThe do's & don'ts of your online dating profileYou may know that I recently got on Tinder so that I could create real-life case studies for members of my Love by Design program.Going through thousands of online dating profiles of both men and women, what I know for sure is this:The quality of your profile determines the quality of men you attract.If your profile is done right, it can sort and filter men for you by attracting high-quality dual types of men and by turning off all the other types. It can help your soulmate recognize y...2022-08-0549 min

Love by DesignDo you have a manual for men and relationships?Hi [First Name],Wouldn’t it be nice if men behaved exactly the way we wanted them to? 😉After 12 years of working with women, I know for sure that most of us have these unwritten, unspoken instruction manuals for how men should communicate and act. Unfortunately, most of us don’t question and don’t communicate to others what rules, standards and guidelines are in those manuals. For some of us, these invisible manuals make it practically impossible to get into and then keep a loving and healthy relationship.That’s exac...2022-07-2247 min

Love by DesignAre You in a Relationship or in the ILLUSION of a Relationship?This topic was inspired by so many examples of women who’d define their relationship status as “It’s complicated.”The reality is that you might be thinking you are in a relationship, but you're actually not. Because It's just an illusion of a relationship. If you can relate, make sure to listen to this podcast now so that you can shift and break free from an ambiguous place and actually create the true relationship you want.In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:✨ What being in an illusion of a relationship means 2022-07-1437 min

Love by DesignRelationships by Design vs. Relationships by DefaultDid you know that 7 out of 10 couples break up in their 1st year of being in a committed relationship? And, if they pass that 1-year mark and get married, they eventually split up?One of the reasons is because of how you approach your relationship.I believe that there are 2 kinds of relationships. First is the relationship by design and the most common one which is the relationship by default.What does it mean?Listen to my latest podcast episode to know the difference between relationship by design vs. relationship by...2022-07-0641 min

Love by DesignCreate a Breakthrough in Your Love LifeI am very excited to talk with you about creating breakthroughs in your love life—especially now that things seem to be getting back to normal.It feels like things have changed, and everything is bubbly. Like, I feel so much energy!And this is the time to create breakthroughs in your life, make a change.I believe that a breakthrough is something you create. It's up to you to decide when you want to experience a breakthrough in a particular area of your life.And that decision will shape your de...2022-06-2641 min

Love by Design“Your Relationship with Your Father and Your Love Life”Happy Father's Day! This is a holiday that I haven’t celebrated for most of my life. Now, however, it’s one of my favorite holidays.In this new episode of the Love by Design podcast, “Your Relationship with Your Father and Your Love Life,” I am sharing:My personal story of my father leaving when I was born The impact that your relationship with your father has on your love lifeInvisible blocks that hold you back from finding your manWhat forgiving your father has to do with the quality of men you attractHow your ability to let go...2022-06-1944 min

Love by DesignHow to Believe in LoveWhat do you believe in so much that you’re willing to risk everything—rejection, failing, getting hurt?What do you believe in so much that you’re willing to do anything for it?One woman told me, “I’m not willing to invest money in this thing because I’m not willing to risk my savings.” I said, “That’s how I know you don’t believe. Because if you believed 100% that you’d win, you would risk your savings.”Most women are not willing to do that.But when you’re in a posi...2022-06-1348 min

Love by DesignYou’re the Hero on Your Love JourneyI will let you in on an enthralling and unusual topic inspired by what I would call “The Hero's Journey.”If you think about any great story, usually nothing happens until there is this moment . . . there is this big “WHY?”Time flies by so fast. Undertaking the same things like dating a man who does not want to commit, and being so overwhelmed, frustrated, and confused should not be an option. You should not wait for something to happen and hope it will happen accordingly.Make a decision. As Tony Robbins said, "Your destiny is s...2022-06-0541 min

Love by DesignYou won’t have love without being…What do you think is the most important quality when it comes to creating a loving relationship that lasts?I believe it’s the quality of being honest.First, be honest with yourself and then with everyone else. Being honest about your true feelings, your deepest desires and your biggest fears.Oftentimes, we tend to deny ourselves that honesty because we might be terrified to look within ourselves. We might be afraid or resistant to do it out of fear, doubt or insecurity about facing our own feelings and emoti...2022-05-2941 min

Love by DesignThe Big Power of Tiny ConnectionsIt's such a joy and honor to present to you a very special guest expert on today's episode. Her name is Jen Nash—a super-connector and masterful storyteller.She also recently wrote an Amazon Best Seller, The Big Power of Tiny Connections, which I highly recommend. We're going to talk about this book and what difference it can make in your life.I know so many of us coming out of these very challenging times still find it pretty challenging to connect and meet new people.Listen to my latest podcast episode and st...2022-05-2341 min

Love by DesignCan There Be TOO MUCH of a Mother’s Love?Happy Mother's Day, if you are a mother, and of course Happy Mother's Day to your mom.I want to present an interesting and different perspective—a topic that very few people might talk about—if anyone at all. It’s about too much of a mother's love.There is a specific system of values that exists. It's an unspoken system of values, that when you follow that system, it creates harmony—which then creates a natural balance in your life.But when that system of values is broken, there will be challenges. There wi...2022-05-1555 min

Love by DesignThe Impact of Friendship on Your Love LifeHow do you define friendship?At the very beginning of all friendships, it’s like dating, you don’t know the person that well yet, so you’re not landing softly every time. You show up and you consistently make that effort. And now, we’ve landed in this, like, such comfortable – I feel like I can call you any time for any reason and tell you anything. But I do think that’s earned.The beauty of dating, is instead of dating all the time to find a mate, just date to learn you; wh...2022-05-0648 min

Love by DesignThe Worst Thing You can Do in DatingIf you’ve been dating for any length of time, chances are you’ve been told things like this:Be more____Be less____Don’t say______Say_____Don’t ever do______You must do______And it goes on and on.Most single women think you have to be, do and say certain things to get a man but that might be the worst dating advice that blocks you from ever finding true love.And I get it.Everyone says that you have to be, do and say certain things in order to...2022-05-0237 min

Love by DesignThe biggest dating myth that sets you up for a failure in loveMany single women think that Mr. Perfect exists - you just have to find him. But that might be the worst dating advice that can actually keep you in a desperate pattern of searching for “Mr. Perfect” for years (even a lifetime!) without ever finding him.And I get it. Everyone says that Mr. Perfect exists. So it’s easy to believe.But if that were true then every woman who was searching for Mr. Perfect would have found him. And we all know that’s not the case. In fact...2022-04-2248 min

Love by DesignWhy there are no “right’ or “wrong menHave you ever thought about men as “right” or “wrong”?Most single women think that all men can be categorized as right or wrong but that might be the worst dating myth that can actually keep you single.And I get it.Everyone says that there are “right” vs “wrong” men. So it’s easy to believe.But if that were true then every woman who searched for the right man would have found him. And we all know that’s not the case. In fact, if you keep thinking abou...2022-04-1550 min

Love by DesignThe worst dating advice that keeps you struggling in datingDo you want to know about the worst dating advice that keeps you single and struggling in dating?The biggest problem most single women have in dating is thinking that the same generic strategies for how to attract, communicate and date with men will work with ANY man.And I get it. It’s not your fault if you’ve been led to believe that.Everyone tells you that if you use these “3 secret steps” or send those “5 magic texts” then ANY man will fall in love with you, so it’s easy to fall...2022-04-0845 min

Love by DesignWhy searching for someone just like you keeps you singleHave you ever wished to find someone who is just like you? Most single women think that you have to search for someone who is just like you, but that might be the worst dating advice that can actually hurt you.And I get it. Everyone says that like attracts like . . . so it’s easy to believe.But if that were true then every woman who found a man just like her would live happily ever after. And we all know that’s not the case. In fact, if yo...2022-04-0243 min

Love by DesignWhy dating more men doesn’t mean you’ll find the right oneHave you ever been told to date more men?(As if those 20 or 50 or 100+ dates you’ve already gone on weren’t enough? 🤔)The biggest mistake most single women make is thinking that they have to meet and date a lot of men in order to find the right man.And I get it. Everyone tells you that dating is a numbers game that requires a lot of time and effort, so it’s easy to fall into that trap.But let me ask you. Has every woman who has been d...2022-03-2635 min

Love by DesignThe Tinder SwindlerHave you ever wondered if your relationship with him is real and not made up?I’m thrilled to share with you a very interesting podcast episode that is based on a documentary recently released on Netflix, and so many people are talking about it!In this episode, I’ll be uncovering some of the biggest blocks that can get in your way of becoming aware of some of the dangers out there—and being able to protect yourself and date in a very safe way.Listen to my latest podcast episode to unders...2022-03-1938 min

Love by DesignYour Lovability: How to Attract More Love and AffectionWhat comes to your mind when you hear the word “lovability”?It’s about AN INTERNAL experience of the emotion and feeling of being loving. It’s invisible on the outside. It can be felt but not necessarily seen and the other person doesn’t even have to know that you love them.You don’t have to try really hard to make someone else love you. When you choose to be in that state of love, it’s very easy to love someone who is loveable. Practicing total and unconditional l...2022-03-1245 min

Love by DesignHow to be “Visible” to Men at Any Age“I’m too old. It's too late.”Does that sound like you?Do you have any challenges attracting men the same age or younger than you—and are you visible to them?I know that some women feel invisible to men. They ask me why men are not noticing them, not attracted to them, and not approaching them.I see so much focus on media and advertising—and a whole culture of beliefs—that is so fixated on youthfulness and truly living the youth-obsessed life.Even when we see more diversi...2022-03-0536 min

Love by DesignLoving After Heartbreak with Ellen KeiterI'm very excited to share with you this special episode because I have a guest, my very good friend, and student—Ellen Keiter.Ellen will share her experience before we started working together, the results she got and her journey to discovering who she really is.Oftentimes we think we know who we're looking for and who is right for us. But then, one relationship after another doesn't work out, or the man that we're attracted to doesn't treat us the way we want to be treated and expects us to be different fr...2022-02-2746 min

Love by DesignHow to Avoid Challenging RelationshipsSpring is coming, and I feel like focusing on relationships—especially since it’s relevant and important to so many people right now. 🙏❤️But a lot of things could come up—things that could slow you down or block you from creating what you really want. Like the fear of making a mistake, choosing the wrong person, or recreating your past. These challenges could keep you paralyzed and unable to move forward. If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it on you Instagram Stories, and...2022-02-2147 min

Love by DesignThe Secret Ingredients to a Romantic RelationshipHappy Valentine's Day, everyone!The month of February is the month of love. There is that energy and vibration in the air that I feel every year—the excitement of all the holidays. It’s the month of dreaming about having a romantic relationship with your ideal man.If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it on you Instagram Stories, and tag me, @polinasolda or @ps_lovebydesignHow would you like to discover what your personality type is? Just click here to t...2022-02-1451 min

Love by DesignWhy a great relationship can fall apart, inspired by the House of Gucci true storyIt’s almost Valentine’s Day and during this special time of gratitude, I want to show my deepest appreciation for you and give you something to improve your dating and love life. 🙏❤️I want to share with you my insight on a movie. It’s based on a book, The House of Gucci: A Sensational Story of Murder, Madness, Glamour, and Greed by Sara Gay Forden.House of Gucci is Ridley Scott's controversial crime drama originating from the true story of Patrizia Reggiani and and the events leading up to her conviction for murdering her ex-husban...2022-02-0744 min

Love by DesignSeven New Beliefs About LoveHow do you know if a man really loves you?It depends. Your lovability depends on another person’s ability to love you. If a man’s capacity to love you is huge, then he gets to feel super loving all the time. You don't feel his love; you can only feel your love. You can only feel the expression of your own mind believing in love and then feeling that. That’s why the first and most important step to believing something new is to become aware of what you already believe. If this episode...2022-01-3150 min

Love by DesignWhat your beliefs have to do with your ability to find loveOne of the biggest breakthroughs I had when I moved to NYC and started dating after my divorce is I realized that I could believe anything I want about what dating would be like, what kind of men I could attract and what kind of relationship I could have. I realized there were no standards, no rules, no restrictions to what I was “allowed” to believe. And . . the same applies to you!If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it on you Instagram Stories, and tag me...2022-01-2453 min

Love by DesignFeeling like in a relationship practiceWhen you shift internally and start putting yourself in that state, you start practicing feeling and thinking what it’s like to be in a relationship—and then everything changes. Now is the perfect time to elevate your energy vibration, your frequency, and your ability to effortlessly attract your ideal man.If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it on you Instagram Stories, and tag me, @polinasolda or @ps_lovebydesignHow would you like to discover what your personality type is? Just click here...2022-01-1732 min

Love by DesignWhat is PossibleAs a new year present, I gave myself the best gift ever (besides some gifts my husband gave me including a ski/boarding trip to a beautiful lake Mammoth). Warren Buffet, the world’s best investor said, “the best investment you can make is in yourself."So, I invested in more coaching.In just a couple of weeks, I’ve got so many insights and inspiration to create what I want this year from the place of possibilities instead of fear, doubt and lack.If this episode inspired you in some way, t...2022-01-1038 min

Love by DesignMy vision for the New YearHappy New Year and greetings from Mammoth! 🎇As we enter 2022, I want to share with you in this first episode of the year my vision for the new year. Now is the perfect time to dream, visualize and plan for the future, so I hope you’ll create some time for your vision.If this episode inspired you in some way, take a screenshot of you listening on your device and post it on you Instagram Stories, and tag me, @polinasolda or @ps_lovebydesignHow would you like to discover what your personality type...2022-01-0352 min

Love by DesignWhat This Year Was LikeWhat This Year Was LikeIn this episode, I’ve decided to share with you some of my accomplishments, failures and lessons learned. After hearing this episode, it will inspire you to do something, like processing and reflecting on what happened in your life this year. ======================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part live FREE training “Attract Your Man.”Click here to register: https://www.polinaso...2021-12-2757 min

Love by DesignWhy waiting to start dating again makes in harder to find loveWhy waiting to start dating again makes in harder to find love In this episode, I will share why waiting to feel ready to start dating again is decreasing your chances to ever find your soulmate. . I’ll also talk about how to get out of a “lonely woman” trap that blocks you from experiencing true love, happiness, and connection with your dream man.====================================================== FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wron...2021-10-1330 min

Love by DesignThe #1 question that’s preventing you from finding your soulmateThe #1 question that’s preventing you from finding your soulmate In this episode, you’d be hearing how to find your ideal partner by discovering your unique personality type and the inherent attractive traits that you already possess. Without discovering your type, it will be a guessing game. You’ll just throw stuff against the wall to see what sticks instead of following something that’s scientifically proven, simple and easy to learn and highly effective.==================================================== FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy profession...2021-09-0617 min

Love by DesignHow I Got Out of the "Box"How I Got Out of the BoxToday we're talking about the importance of taking action. Not just any kind of action, but the right action that is inspired and aligned with your vision. The kind of action that can position you as a High-Value Woman who is the most authentic, brightest and fullest expression of your Eniotype===================================================== FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part li...2021-08-2327 min

Love by DesignAttract Quality Men NowAttract Quality Men NowIn this episode, I share a proven way to actually go from zero to multiple quality men pursuing you without wasting time. And, of course, our specific examples of how to identify the right type of men for you by determining your personality type so you don’t waste any time on the wrong guys.================================================== FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-par...2021-08-1639 min

Love by DesignWhat is the power of being true to yourself?What is the power of being true to yourself?In this episode, I revealed the truth about how women can be inspired by their ability to maintain successful, healthy, and happy relationships. I talked about how to figure out your personality type so you may become the woman you were meant to be, how to realign yourself to your type, and the importance of being true to yourself. If you want to learn more about what makes people tick. The importance of being true with yourself and how to realign yourself to your own type. Listen to...2021-08-0927 min

Love by DesignWhat makes you 'the ONE'?What makes you 'the ONE'?In this episode, I shared the real answers for how women you take inspiration from being able to maintain their successful, healthy, and happy relationships. I discussed what you can do to discover your personality type to become the woman you were born to be, how to realign yourself to your own type, and the essence of being authentic with yourself. If you want to uncover the secrets of what makes you the ONE, listen to this episode!====================================================== FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most ef...2021-08-0219 min

Love by DesignWhy You’re Still SingleWhy You’re Still SingleIn this episode, I shared the answers on how you can start meeting the RIGHT man for you and date again without the struggle, overwhelm, and wasted time in dating. After hearing this episode, you’ll learn how to break free from the hidden blocks that keep you single and struggling in dating. Now is the right time to get ready to start dating in a new, different, and effective way so that you can attract the right man. If you want to uncover the best-kept secret to creating a loving, easy and...2021-07-2637 min

Love by DesignHonesty can make or break a relationshipHonesty can make or break a relationshipIn this episode, Jaki Sabourin, a love and dating coach, speaker, author, and CEO of Engaged at Any Age® that helps women like you to create the love of your dreams is my guest for today. We discussed the reason why honesty is so critical in a relationship, the benefits of being honest in relationships and dating, and honesty and the deeper meaning behind it. Tap the play button to hear more!=================================================== FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way...2021-07-1934 min

Love by DesignHow To Recognize The Right Man For YouHow To Recognize The Right Man For YouIn this episode, I shared the secrets on how to recognize the RIGHT man for you. After hearing this episode, you’d be able to identify and recognize not just any man but the right man for you. Now is the right time to stop wasting your time and energy on the wrong guys that will never work out and finally break free from repeating the same negative, ineffective, sabotaging patterns.====================================================== FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way f...2021-07-1233 min

Love by DesignHow I Lost Everything in 24 HoursHow I Lost Everything in 24 HoursIn this episode, I will share how I lost everything in 24 hours. How would you feel if the most important things that you have in life were taken away from you in the day? You’d be hearing how I found myself experiencing and losing everything in just the span of 24 hours and how this became the biggest lesson of my life.================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and...2021-07-0521 min

Love by DesignWhat to Do if a Man Doesn’t Treat You Well?What to Do if a Man Doesn’t Treat You Well?In this episode, my guest, Allana Pratt, and I will be discussing what to do if your partner doesn’t treat you well. We talked about how these challenges can help you to love and stand for yourself and how you could transform this opportunity into becoming one with yourself. If you want to know more about feminine empowerment, self-love, and healthy communication, keep on listening to learn more! ========================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastes...2021-06-2831 min

Love by DesignCan You Keep Your Independence in a Relationship? Can You Keep Your Independence in a Relationship?In this episode, I will be discussing the importance of keeping your independence in a relationship which seems to be one of the problems of confident, strong, and powerful women I’ve met. No need to worry as you won’t really need to end your relationship just to stay independent in a relationship because you can have both! If you want to know and uncover the secret of keeping your independence in a relationship, listen to this episode to learn more!========================================================== FREE GIFTS FOR YOU A...2021-06-2135 min

Love by DesignNourishing Yourself to Become the Love You Wish to AttractNourishing yourself to become the love you wish to attractIn this episode, Kristin Fraser (@innerglowgetter) and I, would be discussing the relationship of your lifestyle and love life. What you eat is what makes you, which means you have a choice in what you’re made of. To have a healthy relationship with your man, you have to love and nourish yourself the way you want your man to love and care for you.======================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional wome...2021-06-1439 min

Love by DesignThe 5 Secret Keys to Having a 12-year RelationshipThe 5 Secret Keys to Having a 12-year RelationshipIn this episode, I will share how my entire life changed after our first date which lasted for 12 hours, the reason why you should be your most authentic self, and the keys essential in a relationship.======================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part live FREE training “Attract Your Man.”Click here to register: https://www.polina...2021-06-0138 min

Love by DesignCommunicating with Men: Being Playful and Having FunCommunicating with Men: Being Playful and Having FunIn this episode, I'm going to share with you these free secrets to how to communicate with men in the way that they want to be around you.======================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part live FREE training “Attract Your Man.”Click here to register: https://www.polinasolda.com/attractyourmanregpagepodcastPersonality Typing is the Mo...2021-05-2639 min

Love by DesignDo you really know you who are?Do you really know you who are?In this episode, I want to share what it’s been like for me to discover and align with my own personality type and what impact it’s had on my relationship with my husband, our son, my team and all of my relationships.======================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part live FREE training “Attract Your Man.”Click he...2021-05-1946 min

Love by DesignEP 16: The secret behind my 9-year marriageThe secret behind my 9-year marriageIn this episode, I'm going to be talking about the secret behind my nine year marriage. I’ll be sharing my version of relationship stages from my own experience, and I'm going to go through each of them and also talk about how understanding and knowing your personality type can help you have a successful marriage.======================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys...2021-04-2837 min

Love by DesignEP 15: How to Recognize a West Type of ManHow to Recognize a West Type of ManIn this episode, I want to talk about some qualities, characteristics and signs of a West type -both men and women. A quick review of Eniostyle: each person is born with a certain dominant energy or mission that can’t be changed during their lifetime. That energy or mission is programmed on a DNA level. ======================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong...2021-04-0715 min

Love by DesignEP 14: How to Recognize a South Type of ManHow to Recognize a South Type of ManIn this episode, I want to talk about some qualities, characteristics and signs of a South type -both men and women. A quick review of Eniostyle: each person is born with a certain dominant energy or mission that can’t be changed during their lifetime. That energy or mission is programmed on a DNA level. ======================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong...2021-03-3115 min

Love by DesignEP 13: How to Recognize an East Type of ManHow to Recognize an East Type of ManIn this episode, I want to talk about some qualities, characteristics and signs of an East type -both men and women. A quick review of Eniostyle: each person is born with a certain dominant energy or mission that can’t be changed during their lifetime. That energy or mission is programmed on a DNA level. There are 4 main missions: East’s mission is responsible for creativity and the generation of ideas. The key word is Create.======================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most e...2021-03-2423 min

Love by DesignEP 12: How to Recognize the North TypeHow to Recognize the North TypeIn this episode, I want to talk about some qualities, characteristics and signs of a North type -both men and women. A quick review of Eniostyle: each person is born with a certain dominant energy or mission that can’t be changed during their lifetime. That energy or mission is programmed on a DNA level. There are 4 main missions: North’s mission is responsible for the development and preservation of systems.===================================================== FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy p...2021-03-1723 min

Love by DesignEP 11: The Science of EniostyleThe Science of EniostyleToday, we’re talking about Eniostyle—the most modern, most advanced and most effective personality-type based system. Why is it so powerful and effective and where is the system based from.======================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part live FREE training “Attract Your Man.”Click here to register: https://www.polinasolda.com/attractyourmanregpagepodcastPersonality Typing is the Most Effec...2021-03-1113 min

Love by DesignEP 10: The 5 Keys to Attracting a High-Quality ManThe 5 Keys to Attracting a High-Quality ManIn this episode, you will discover The 5 keys that you need to attract high-quality men. Every woman has her own definition of what makes a man high-quality but it usually comes down to qualities like this: strong, smart, successful, stable, masculine, financially secure.======================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part live FREE training “Attract Your Man.”Click h...2021-03-0319 min

Love by DesignEP 9: What's New, Hot and Trending in Dating in 2021What's New, Hot and Trending in Dating in 2021In this episode, today we’re going to talk about what's new, hot and trending in dating in 2021. By the end of this episode, you will discover Eniostyle - the #1 personality-typebased system in the world and understand why Eniostyle is the most effective, surest and fastest way to attract your perfect match. ======================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wron...2021-02-2406 min

Love by DesignValentines Day Episode: The 5 Biggest Mistakes to Avoid on Valentine's Day Valentines Day Episode: The 5 Biggest Mistakes to Avoid on Valentine's DayIn this episode, I'm going to talk about the biggest mistakes to avoid on Valentine's day. I decided to create this episode to prevent you from making these 5 biggest mistakes most women make around this time of the year.======================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part live FREE training “Attract Your Man.”Click he...2021-02-1419 min

Love by DesignEP 8: How to Read Men Like BooksHow to Read Men Like BooksIn this episode, you will discover Eniostyle, the number one personality-based system in the world. And you will understand why Eniostyle is the most effective, surest and fastest way to attract your perfect match. You'll learn about the four different types of men and how to recognize them. Plus, amazing gifts!======================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-p...2021-02-0340 min

Love by DesignEP 7: How I Got Out of the "Box”How I Got Out of the BoxToday we're talking about the importance of taking action. Not just any kind of action, but the right action that is inspired and aligned with your vision. The kind of action that can position you as a High-Value Woman who is the most authentic, brightest and fullest expression of your Eniotype======================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my...2021-01-2729 min

Love by DesignEP 6: The Most Powerful ForceThe Most Powerful ForceToday’s episode is about creating your own identity. Identity is the most powerful force in human consciousness. It also includes 6 levels of change.======================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part live FREE training “Attract Your Man.”Click here to register: https://www.polinasolda.com/attractyourmanregpagepodcastPersonality Typing is the Most Effective, Easiest & Fastest Way to Attract the Righ...2021-01-2026 min

Love by DesignEP 5: The 4 Pillars of Your Personal RatingThe 4 Pillars of Your Personal RatingToday’s episode focuses on effortlessly attracting High-Quality Men who can be their dual partners. Because being a High-Value Woman starts with you choosing to believe that you are worthy and valuable. And, choosing to invest in yourself. Learn how to invest in yourself today by doing something for yourself and figure out how to increase your irresistible presence.======================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasti...2021-01-1329 min

Love by DesignEP 4: The 5 Blocks Preventing You from Your VisionThe 5 Blocks Preventing You from Your VisionToday we're talking about the importance of vision. As the proverb goes, “Where there is no vision, the people perish,” which simply means that those who don't have crystal clear vision are doomed to wander aimlessly. ======================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part live FREE training “Attract Your Man.”Click here to register: https://www.polinasolda.com/attract...2021-01-0623 min

Love by DesignHow to Create Your Vision Board for the New YearHow to Create Your Vision Board for the New YearIn this episode, you will learn the importance of creating your “Vision Board” --a visual guide not only for the conscious but also the subconscious mind to serve as a reminder. It's a powerful tool to focus and put your attention daily on what matters the most and start taking aligned inspired action.======================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong...2020-12-3127 min

Love by Design"Let Go to Let In" - The Magic of Christmas"Let Go to Let In" - The Magic of ChristmasThe more you let go of, the easier and faster you'll be able to reconnect to who you really are and, in Eniostyle, to your unique personal Eniotype so that you can show up authentically, powerfully, and magnetically attract your desires.======================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part live FREE training “Attract Your...2020-12-2318 min

Love by DesignEP 3: The Power of Your MindsetThe Power of Your Mindset Today’s episode is an essential part of having the right mindset along with the high-energy vibration, proven dating strategies, and relationship competencies based on Eniostyle working together in synergy so that you can create your desired results in love. Learning Eniostyle gives you the keys to understanding, communicating, flirting, and attracting High-Quality Men who are your perfect dual partners on a whole new level.======================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love wi...2020-12-1628 min

Love by DesignEP 2: My Journey to LoveMy Journey to LoveToday’s episode will be about the shift that changed everything for me—and it’s a shift that you too can make in an instant. I started challenging everything I’d previously learned about dating, relationships, and love.You are going to learn and discover new, fascinating things about yourself, and that you are going to attract your perfect match. You are going to make the world a better place to live in because the world needs you to BE the person you’re meant to be.======================================================= FREE GIF...2020-12-0925 min

Love by DesignEP 1: Welcome Home to… Yourself!Welcome, Home to… Yourself!Today's episode will be an introduction to Eniostyle—a breakthrough approach to finding your ideal partner and creating your dream relationship without having to change yourself or relying on luck. Discover how you can find your perfect match without having to change yourself. You’ll discover how you can become yourself and welcoming yourself home, learn what Eniostyle is and how it can change your love life, and finally Identify the steps on how you can start creating your dream love life using Eniostyle======================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL...2020-12-0920 min

Love by DesignTrailer Episode : Welcome to Love By Design with Polina SoldaWelcome to love by design, the first podcast on a new style of breakthrough approach to finding your ideal partner and creating your dream relationship without having to change yourself or relying on luck. In each episode, we are going to talk about the biggest dating and relationship mistakes most women make without even realizing it that prevents them from having the love life they want and deserve. And we're going to uncover the secret keys to finding your perfect match of confidence and ease.======================================================= FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! Discover the most ef...2020-12-0901 min